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CONTENTS
EDITOR’S NOTE
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CURATED CHAOS
Communication is vital in relationships; Linda and Ibrahim seem to have that figured out. Before they married, they discussed several things, including spirituality, finances, ambition, and many more. And even in their marriage, they talk about many things, even when they have disagreements. You will agree that they seem to have it figured out early in marriage. Read more about their love story on pages 8 through 10.
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Love in Every Shade
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Creating Magic at Home
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A Romantic Odyssey
BEAUTY
LIVING
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hile Valentine’s Day has passed, we can’t help but bring you a Valentine’s issue, seeing as we brought you our anniversary issue last weekend. And this week, we have Nollywood couple Linda Ejiofor and Ibrahim Suleiman to commemorate Valentine’s Day. Though theirs is a young love, having married in 2018, they have proven their love is real. In this interview, they mention a few things that stick, such as looking at each other every morning and saying, “I choose you.” That, in my opinion, is very intense. And although almost through their marriage, one or both of them work on Valentine’s Day, they send each other gifts on set and then talk when they get home at night.
to Choosing 04-05 ATheGuide Perfect Valentine’s
FASHION
Day Jewellery
The Embrace of Singledom
Makeup Tips For Different Valentine’s Day Plans
A Guide to Setting A Romantic Home Dinner Date
TRAVEL
Exquisite Nigerian Spots for a Valentine’s Getaway
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Argylle
REVIEW
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An Unexpected DOWNTOWN Valentine (Part 1)
CONFIDENTIAL
COVER
Linda And Ibrahim Suleiman Talk Marriage, Podcast, And Everything In Between
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There’s More to Love
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#SWEETGIRL Than Romantic DOINGS Thirlls
Our fashion pages discuss the right jewellery for any outfit; you’ll find that on pages 4 to 5.
WHAT YOU SAID
We also give you a guide to setting up a romantic home dinner on page 14, while page 15 suggests destinations you and your loved one can visit on a romantic trip.
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Our movie review page spotlights Argylle, and even though the review is terrible, I’m still looking forward to watching it. Don’t forget to click on the instructions below the QR codes to download the playlist. Until next week, enjoy your read.
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FASHION
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A Guide to Choosing
THE PERFECT VALENTINE’S DAY JEWELLERY BY DORCAS AKINTOYE
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alentine’s Day is the perfect occasion to honour love and affection, and there’s no better way to express your sentiments than with a thoughtfully designed piece of jewellery. Examining how the jewellery will complement your outfit and your style preferences is crucial when looking for the ideal Valentine’s Day accessories. This extensive guide will help you make informed decisions and make an impression that will last.
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. MATCH THE METAL WITH YOUR OUTFIT
The metal in your jewellery should match the colour of your outfit. For warm colours like red or pink, gold jewellery helps in enhancing the colours. On the other hand, coldtoned ensembles might work better with silver or white gold. This focus on the little things guarantees that your jewellery complements your entire ensemble.
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. CONSIDER THE OCASSION
Consider your unique plans while selecting your Valentine’s Day jewellery. Elegant and timeless pieces, like a delicate necklace or a pair of stud earrings, are the most excellent choices for a romantic dinner date. Elegant bracelets can add sophistication to an informal event without being unduly formal.
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FASHION
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. CONSIDER NECKLINE AND NECKPIECE
The neckline of your outfit greatly influences the type of necklace that suits you the most. A necklace with a pendant-style pairs well with a V-neck top, and a choker can add a sophisticated touch to a strapless garment. Make sure the jewellery draws attention to the neckline rather than drawing attention away from it.
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. CONSIDER PERSONAL STYLE
Selecting jewellery for Valentine’s Day should be a reflection of your style. Consider pearls or elaborate designs if you have a fondness for retro attire. Slick, straightforward jewellery can be worn with modern, minimalist looks. Choose pieces that suit your taste by following your instincts and individuality.
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. BALANCE STATEMENT PIECES
Keep the rest of your jewellery simple if you choose a statement piece, such as an oversized bracelet or a pair of dramatic earrings. This guarantees a refined and wellbalanced appearance. Select one main item to highlight because an ensemble with too many statement pieces may seem overwhelming.
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. GEMSTONE SIGNIFICANCE
In addition to adding a splash of colour, gemstones have symbolic significance. Select a gemstone with significant meaning for you and your significant other or speaks to your feelings. For instance, amethysts are connected to serenity and clarity, while garnets represent love and loyalty.
CONCLUSION Not only should Valentine’s Day jewellery be beautiful, but it should also be well-chosen to express your sentiments and personal style. You can ensure that your chosen pieces will capture hearts and create lasting memories on this big day by considering the occasion, dress, neckline, balance, personal style, and the significance of gemstones.
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DOWNTOWN CONFIDENTIAL
AN UNEXPECTED VALENTINE I
t was Wednesday, and the weather was so perfect that I overslept and forgot about work. It was already 9am when I checked the time, and a strange laziness accompanied by a slight headache kept me glued to the bed. I decided to call in sick, grateful I didn’t have much work piled up at the office. “I don’t trust you. Are you sure you are sick?” that was the first question, Cassy, my best friend at work, who also happened to be HR, asked after I called to tell her that I was sick and wouldn’t be coming to work. “Hmmm, okay o, enjoy yourself, play safe, and don’t forget to bring some goodies for me tomorrow”, she continued, laughing as she spoke. Even though I was a little bit confused, I didn’t bother to ask her why she felt I was lying about being sick or what she even meant by saying “play safe”. Since I was already used to her sarcastic attitude, I didn’t try to read too much meaning into her words. Countless times, we’ve made jest of each other’s problems, no matter how serious they may be; it was one of our little ways of getting over them quickly. We shared a few laughs and gossip before ending the call. With the day stretching ahead and boredom setting in, I scrolled through my phone gallery. A picture of Johnson and I caught my eye, sparking a flood of thoughts about our unique friendship. After a few swipes, I stumbled on another photo of me and Johnson. I couldn’t help but admire how we looked so good together. Talk about someone who comes into one’s life and changes everything; he was that person for me. There is something so unique about our friendship that I can’t seem to describe. Staring at the picture, many houghts came to my mind. I thought about how he makes me laugh whenever I’m sad, pays attention to every detail about me, and is always ready to do anything for my sake. I couldn’t help but ponder how he instilled in me a belief in true love and friendship and how his love and gestures toward me caused me to fall for him. I recollected how I would turn down other suitors, convinced that he harboured similar feelings and was biding his time to express them.
BY DORCAS AKINTOYE
I remembered how I wished for years that he wanted me to be his as much as I wanted him to be mine, how sad and heartbroken I was when he told me that his family had arranged a marriage for him, and he couldn’t defy their wishes. I thought about how I had to pretend to support his relationship even though, deep down, I wished he could see that I was the one for him. I had to avoid his fiancée even though she saw me as someone she could trust. I thought about how she would have hated me if she knew how badly I wanted her man. As I pondered, my phone beeped, bringing me back to the present, and I was glad it did because I had promised myself countless times not to think about him and move on with my life. Since there was nothing else to do, I decided to go back to sleep. I was about to go to bed when I heard a knock on my door. I was in the midst of hastily putting on some clothes to cover myself, as I was essentially half-naked. However, I stopped when I heard Johnson’s voice. I was not wearing a bra and had on a crop top, paired with shorts that were short enough to reveal my buttocks, but I didn’t bother changing into something else since it was Johnson, and it was not the first time he saw me dressed like that. I opened the door only to see Johnson smiling with a bouquet of flowers in his hand. Before I could think of what to say, he shouted, “Happy Valentine’s Day, sweetheart,” as he handed me the flowers. I smiled as I suddenly understood why Cassy doubted if I was sick and what she meant by “play safe”. “Aww, thanks, sweetheart. Funny enough, I had no idea today was Valentine’s Day. I didn’t even know you were coming, and I never thought you would think of bringing me flowers. I should have gotten something for you, too. Not to worry, I owe you a gift. By the way, how did you know I would be home? I don’t remember telling you”, I asked, grinning from ear to ear. “You deserve more than flowers, Matilda. You are sweet, beautiful, and the best thing that can ever happen to anyone. So, you don’t have to be surprised by my little way of telling you that I love and appreciate you. Yes, I was going to drop this flower in your office, but I felt I should
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check you at home first. Luckily for me, you were around”, he replied. I saw how his eyes were focused on my body as we spoke. I could tell he was trying hard to get his eyes off my body; perhaps my dressing distracted him, but I didn’t mind. After all, he needed to see what he was missing. We decided to play some games as usual to while away time. After so many rounds, I won the game, and I was so happy that I was jumping around when I tripped and fell on him. The warmth of his body was so comforting that I wished I could remain like that for a while. Looking up, my eyes caught his lips, oh how I longed to kiss them. I muttered “sorry” as I managed to get off him. Before I knew what was happening, he pulled me back and kissed me passionately, like he had been waiting for that moment all his life. A gentle kiss at first, lips pressed to lips, then our tongues were touching, and I felt utterly relaxed against him. Then, I pulled away. “We shouldn’t be doing this. You are engaged to be married soon, Johnson. What are you doing here today of all days? You should be with Grace”, I asked, brazen. “I love you, Matilda, and you know this. I’m sorry I made you wait this long before telling you how I feel. I apologise for confessing my love to you in this manner. I wasn’t sure if you felt the same way about me, so I remained silent all these years. I was scared of jeopardising what we shared as friends. I need you in my life, and I want us to be together not as friends but as soulmates”, he replied. “About Grace, I never truly loved her. My family forced me into a relationship with her, and the pressure was too much, so I had to give in. You know everything about my relationship with Grace, don’t you? I understand this would hurt her, but she will be fine. I will surely end things with her and settle everything with my family.” Millions of uncertainties invaded my body. There was no other word for how the sincerity in his eyes had inflamed me until I was ready to give in to his request, not caring about the consequences. Finally, I gave in. …To be continued.
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Linda And Ibrahim
Suleiman
Talk Marriage, Podcast, And Everything In Between
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he Nigerian Entertainment industry has seen many marriages burn and fizzle out quickly. However, some celebrity couples have worked hard against all odds to make their marriage work, whether they’ve been married for decades or just a few years. These couples managed to prove to the world that true love exists when you are with the right person. Linda Ejiofor and Ibrahim Suleiman are one of the power couples in the Nigerian entertainment industry. Their union is likened to the prayers of many about getting married to their playmates. Linda and Ibrahim’s love story is unique and always leaves people in awe. They got married in 2018, and in 2020, they welcomed their first child, Keon. In 2022, they started their podcast, “Due Parenting”, to share the little they’ve learned from their parenting journey as well as learning from the experiences of their friends and guests. In this interview with THEWILL DOWNTOWN’s Dorcas Akintoye, Linda Ejiofor and her heartthrob Ibrahim Suleiman gave us insight into their marriage, from starting as friends to becoming lovers. They also shared with us what Valentine means to them, their perspective on parenting, and rituals or traditions that have helped liven the spark in their marriage.
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COVER How did you two first meet, and what was the moment you realised you were meant for each other? Ibrahim: We met a number of times over a span of about five years before we actually became friends. Once that happened, we spent almost every available day together, and it wasn’t difficult to transition from being best friends to seeing each other as life partners.
How have your perspectives on parenting evolved since becoming parents, and how do you incorporate those insights into your podcast discussions? Ibrahim: We always knew that parenting is tough. But we have also learned that it is fun too. So we try to find the positives and mostly focus on those. Importantly, parenting has to be intentional and consistent. Children are sensitive to tone, moods, etc. They easily pick up on your emotions and are very observant. They have unique personalities, so every discussion has to start off based on the premise that the child(ren) in question is an autonomous human being, too.
“We are both indoor people who value peace and quiet. I love to sleep. Ibrahim doesn’t sleep much. We both enjoy reading and watching TV. We watch many shows tog”
Linda: It was simple, comfortable, and safe. Friendship is always the best foundation. Plus, we are really attracted to each other, so it’s a win-win. In your journey as a married couple, how do you navigate the balance between your professional careers and personal lives? Ibrahim: We talk about everything. Communication is vital to us. We make our home a safe haven where the pressures of work can’t get to us, and we try to schedule our work around our personal lives, not the other way around.
What inspired you to start the “Due Parenting” podcast, and how has it impacted your approach to parenting? Linda: Pregnancy was pretty much a smooth ride, and so was the process of having the baby. Between the two of us, we read everything and planned to the last detail. But you see when the third person joined the equation, all bets were off! We were taken off guard by how little nonmedical information there was available to new parents about how to navigate the parenting journey. So, we decided we would do our bit to improve the accessible information on the topic. The impact it has had on our approach to parenting is that we are more intentional about learning on the job and extending grace to each other and to Keon as well. It’s tough for him, too, seeing as he is also experiencing all this for the first time. How do you keep the romance alive in your marriage, especially with the demands of a busy schedule and parenting responsibilities? Ibrahim: We communicate our feelings in as much detail as possible. If either one of us feels like they are not getting enough oneon-one care or attention, we talk about it and remedy it as quickly as possible.
Can you share a specific instance where a lesson learned in your marriage became valuable parenting advice, or vice versa? Ibrahim: Oh, there are lots of those instances shared on the podcast. (laughs) But one of the most valuable lessons marriage and parenting will teach anyone who is willing to learn is the ability to extend grace. Grace to yourself and your family. What rituals or traditions do you have as a couple that contribute to a sense of unity and continuity in your relationship? Ibrahim: Alone time together. Sometimes, we just cuddle and talk for hours until we are hungry. (laughs) We also enjoy eating together.
Balancing individual goals and shared aspirations can be challenging. How do you support each other’s personal and professional growth within the marriage? Ibrahim: We cannot over-emphasise the importance of true friendship and intentional communication. We are very honest with each other about what we (do not) want. That way, we can find ways to get involved in each other’s personal journeys without being intrusive. We push each other a lot, and it is pretty obvious we are self-appointed chairpersons of each other’s fan base.
Linda: We take turns to make the bed before prayers. It sounds strange, but I miss it when we are apart.
Parenthood often brings new dynamics. How do you handle disagreements or differences in parenting styles, and how has it strengthened your relationship? Linda: We talked about a lot of things before we got married, including spirituality, family, finances, ambitions, beliefs, etc. Name it, we talked about it. Thankfully, our belief systems are very similar, especially regarding parenting. But whenever we do disagree, we talk. Sometimes with research to back up our points of view. (laughs)
Linda: People will always have an opinion. And they have rights. The important thing is to focus on the truth that you know. It can be painful, but life is like that.
How do you handle public scrutiny and opinions about your relationship, and what advice do you have for other couples in the public eye? Ibrahim: Share only what you want to. Keep some of it for private enjoyment. Not every trip, milestone, win or loss is for everyone.
“She is my favourite celebrity, and I get to hear all the gist firsthand! She buys me cute presents whenever I achieve anything. No matter how mundane. So I’ve adopted that habit too. It is fun, and the way her eyes light up every time makes it worth it.”
“Every morning, we look at each other and say, “I choose you”. It was his idea, but I loved it so much that I recommend it to all my friends. So yes, every day is Valentine’s Day. ”
Linda: And because we really enjoy being around each other, sometimes all it takes is making sure our work schedules allow for days off that intersect just so we can spend it together. And we do regular weekend getaways even within the city and country.
Linda: We are both indoor people who value peace and quiet. I love to sleep. Ibrahim doesn’t sleep much. We both enjoy reading and watching TV. We watch many shows together, but we have our individual preferences. So if I am watching my K-drama downstairs, he watches his sci-fi upstairs. I drag him to the Spa, and he drags me to the beach. He plays FIFA on his console, and I play Coin Master on my phone. Thankfully, we both enjoy showers and smelling nice.
How do you prioritise self-care and maintain your individual identities within the context of a committed relationship and parenthood?
How do you celebrate milestones and achievements in your marriage, both personally and professionally? Linda: This man makes a huge deal of every small win I get. He will make noise all over the house for days! Ibrahim: She is my favourite celebrity, and I get to hear all the gist firsthand! She buys me cute presents whenever I achieve anything. No matter how mundane. So I’ve adopted that habit too. It is fun, and the way her eyes light up every time makes it worth it. What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned about love and partnership through your journey as a couple? Ibrahim: Put your partner first. If both of you do that, you’ll both be fine. Linda: Be consistent. Being able to rely on your partner because you know they will come through for you is a blessing. What does Valentine’s Day mean to both of you and do you have any special traditions or rituals for celebrating it? Linda: Almost all through our marriage, one or
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COVER both of us has had to work on Valentine’s Day, so we send each other food, gifts, etc., on set throughout the day. Ibrahim: And then we “talk” when we get home at night. As a couple, do you believe in the idea of celebrating love beyond just Valentine’s Day, and if so, how do you integrate it into your lives? Linda: Every morning, we look at each other and say, “I choose you”. It was his idea, but I loved it so much that I recommend it to all my friends. So yes, every day is Valentine’s Day. Ibrahim: It sounds like a simple statement, but if you think about it, it is very profound. You are basically reaffirming your commitment to using all your resources to show that person that you love them.
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#SWEETGIRLDOINGS
There’s More to Love Than
ROMANTIC THIRLLS me and showing them how to love me — without forgetting to do the same for them. After all, it is a friendship we’re trying to build, and it must be mutually beneficial, but it must start with me loving myself. You’ve got to love yourself first if you want to love others and you want others to love you. I don’t make the rules; it’s just how it has to be. Don’t be afraid to build and start small. You have to start small and do the smaller things that lead to big results, and the same goes for love. I could write a novel on self-love, but today, I don’t want us to be selfish. I want to talk about platonic love because I feel it’s often overlooked due to the thrills of romantic love. “Marry your friend.” There’s a reason why marriage advice usually includes being told to nurture the friendship between you and your partner. In many people’s hierarchy of relationships, friendship is put at the lowest level, and marriage is considered the highest level, mostly because it is expected to be long-term — till death. However, a good marriage cannot truly manifest if there is no friendship. So doesn’t that make friendship the most important relationship you have with others?
appy Valentine’s Day, Sweetie! H Yes, I know it was a few days ago, but it’s our
Valentine’s issue this weekend, so I just had to let you know I was thinking of you on the 14th when I wrote this. For those in a relationship, I hope you had a good day on Wednesday. And for the singles, I hope you also celebrated love in other forms with the important people in your lives, appreciating the love of God and family and cherishing the love of friendship. I wasn’t always lucky with friendships growing up, but I’ve gotten better at making friends as an adult after years of getting to know myself more. I’m a genuine friend to myself than anyone could ever be to me. And because I’ve taken time to understand and love myself, I can easily find my tribe and gravitate towards people who love me, helping them understand
Some might say the love that exists between romantic partners exceeds that of platonic friends, but I disagree. I think that a good friendship can restore a bad marriage, but a bad friendship automatically turns a good marriage sour. One could live life without having experienced romantic love or die without getting married, but you never live without experiencing friendship. It is an essential facet of human connection. Platonic love is a unique and valuable form of affection that defies the boundaries of romance and sexual
desire. It is a bond rooted in deep emotional intimacy, mutual trust, and unwavering support. Unlike romantic love, which may be fleeting or vulnerable to the challenges of passion and possessiveness, platonic love thrives on authenticity and loyalty. It is a love that finds joy in the other person’s success, celebrates their achievements, and provides comfort during their trials. One of the most remarkable aspects of platonic love is its unconditional nature. In romantic relationships, love is often qualified by physical attraction, compatibility, and romantic gestures. Platonic love, on the other hand, transcends these superficial markers. It doesn’t depend on physical appearances or the promise of romantic activities. Instead, it is built on shared experiences, mutual understanding, and emotional resonance. It’s sometimes easier to give grace to your friend when you have a misunderstanding than it is to give your partner, and I think this is because we drain the sweetness of friendship in our romantic relationships with the weight of the expectations that come with the titles; boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband or partner. Could this be the media’s fault? Hollywood “romcoms” and Disney fairytales? Maybe. However, we still have the responsibility to correct some of these social constructs that we’ve been force-fed on arrival. These social contrasts are a topic for another day, so we’re starting small. Lol. In conclusion, while we live in a world often preoccupied with romantic love, we should never underestimate the depth and significance of the love that exists within our platonic relationships.
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CURATED CHAOS
@ntianu
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THE EMBRACE OF SINGLEDOM
or many, being single often feels like a waiting room, a purgatory until “the real thing,” romance, sweeps us away. Yet singlehood, at any stage in our lives, holds a different truth; it’s an extraordinary chance for growth, self-discovery, and, ultimately, a deeper connection with ourselves. It’s not a reflection of inherent unlovability or a failing on our part but rather a season with its own unique magic brimming with freedom, joy, and an outpouring of self-love. I only recently stumbled upon this secret myself, a revelation concealed behind years of restless searching for a romantic connection. It was a constant effort to patch up those nagging feelings of insecurity and discontent with external validation. But a hidden superpower waited patiently, the exhilaration of solitude and the ability to thrive within it.
Resilience And Independence
Alone, we learn to solve problems, soothe our wounds, and find strength in overcoming hardships. This creates a foundation of personal strength we can always rely on.
This power allows us to relinquish the frantic search for love outside ourselves, a search that often stems from the myth that another person will somehow complete us. Being alone transforms from mere survival into a liberating state. It’s more than just tolerating a solitary night; it’s the joyful permission to claim all the empty space in a king-sized bed and relish the limitless space for personal expansion.
Perhaps the greatest irony is that by learning to thrive and find contentment in our own company, we naturally become more radiant, whole, and open to truly nourishing partnerships should they present themselves. Our definition of love broadens far beyond romantic attraction; we find and nurture it all around us and, most importantly, within ourselves. Singledom isn’t about an absence of love. It’s an abundance of it, redirected to where it flourishes most richly, within the realm of our own, beautiful selves.
Embracing singlehood unveils lessons we can carry with us long after we choose to share our lives with another.
Unconditional Self-Love
A radical sense of self-acceptance flourishes when we stop searching for someone to validate our worth. We stop seeing ourselves as “lacking” and recognise our wholeness.
Intentional Connection
Singlehood offers a chance to nurture rich friendships and forge deep connections with people who genuinely uplift and understand us.
Exploration And Growth
With time and focus directed inwards, we can rediscover hidden talents, pursue dormant passions, and create the lives we truly desire, uninhibited by compromise.
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BEAUTY
Love in Every Shade
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. OUTDOOR ADVENTURE
Makeup Tips For Different Valentine’s Day Plans
Wear makeup that can endure the weather if you’re going on an adventurous date. Start with a mattifying primer and use a waterproof foundation for a freshlooking complexion. Select a long-lasting and transfer-resistant lipstick, and go for a neutral eyeshadow palette. Set the look using a setting spray to ensure that your makeup lasts through any outdoor adventure and lets you enjoy the pleasure without worrying about touch-ups.
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Valentine’s Day-inspired beauty look is essential, whether planning a special evening for one, an outing with your gal pals, or a romantic date night. We assure you that there is a style for every individual, ranging from sophisticated yet understated appearances to vivid and vibrant ensembles. Of course, Valentine’s Day wouldn’t be the same without at least one (or two) red lip choices, right? Additionally, remember to accessorise your nails with festive designs. We will show you personalised beauty advice and tips in this article for the particular Valentine’s Day activities you have in mind.
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.GALENTINE’S DAY BRUNCH
Are you celebrating with friends? A vivid and fresh makeup look is appropriate for a Galentine’s Day brunch. To get a glowing complexion, use a brightening primer. Then, concentrate on using a fun eyeshadow palette with colourful pops. To accentuate your features, add a hint of sparkle, and use a vibrant, lively lip colour to show off your individuality. This style is ideal for conveying the happiness and companionship of a brunch gettogether.
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. VIRTUAL DATE NIGHT
In the age of online dating, virtual dates are not uncommon. Use a light foundation and delicate contouring to accentuate your features for the camera. Make your eyes stand out by applying volumising mascara and a welldefined eyeliner. Select a gentle, attractive lip colour that warms up your face without drawing too much attention to itself on screen. During your virtual meeting, this appearance guarantees that you look put together and gorgeous.
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Make a perfect base with a foundation that lasts a long time. Use a light, neutral eyeshadow to accentuate your eyes and a sharp eyeliner to define them. Your refined and beautiful look is completed with a light red lip that provides a romantic touch. This style guarantees you will sparkle in the candlelight while still withstanding the romantic atmosphere.
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.SURPRISE ADVENTURE
Be adaptable with your makeup if your Valentine has an exciting surprise planned. Start with an eyeshadow palette that is versatile enough to work from day to night and a foundation that lasts all day. Apply a waterproof liner to your eyelids and select a lip colour that works for both an elegant evening ensemble and carefree daytime attire. Your preparedness for any surprises the day may bring is guaranteed with this adaptable approach.
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Choose a natural and relaxed makeup look if you plan to spend Valentine’s Day relaxing at home. For a dewy complexion, use a tinted moisturiser; for a healthy glow, dab on some blush. For a sophisticated yet carefree look, use a sheer lip balm and keep your eyes simple with a dab of mascara. This understated style guarantees you will look stunning while spending a restful evening indoors.
CONCLUSION
There are a lot of plans for Valentine’s Day, and each one deserves a unique makeup look. You may accentuate your best qualities and heighten the happiness of the moment by wearing the right makeup for the occasion. With these tailored beauty tips, accept the diversity of love and celebrate it in all its shades.
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LIVING
CREATING MAGIC AT HOME
A GUIDE TO SETTING A ROMANTIC HOME DINNER DATE BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE
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hen it comes to celebrating the day of love, it’s always about doing something thoughtful and showing your partner just how much they mean to you. The appeal of a romantic dinner at home calls for couples to indulge in a personal but highly romantic celebration. Dining out has its delights, but there’s just something magical about setting up a special night within the comforts of your home. So, let’s help you set up the right atmosphere to sweep your loved one off their feet and get you both to enjoy one of the best nights ever.
Music
Choosing The Perfect Setting
Of course, how do you set that romantic mood without music? Make sure to create a playlist of the best romantic songs you can find out, and to please your partner more, add all their favourite tracks.
The first step to establishing that romantic atmosphere for the evening is finding the right spot in the house to set up a romantic ambience. Choose a spot that makes you most comfortable; after all, it’s your home; it doesn’t have to be anything over the top, just something you two can feel at ease with.
Lighting Setting the mood right for a romantic atmosphere is the top thing on the list, and one of the key ways to do that is the lighting of the room. The classic choice of candles will never be out of trend, no matter the era, as they help to add a touch of intimacy. Elegant candle sticks, possibly different shades of red, would be ideal, and to take it a step further, make your choice of the candles to be scented, preferably your partner’s favourite scent. String lights, fairy lights, or even remote-controlled strip lights are also good alternatives.
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Table Decor When setting out a special dinner, every detail needs to be checked to make sure it’s adding to the intended aura you are trying to make the surroundings give off. This includes the decorations of the dinner table. The table itself is the centrepiece for your romantic dinner. Nothing excessive; keeping it elegant and simple will always be the most appealing. A clean, crisp, white tablecloth with napkins and a vase of fresh flowers will set the stage for a sophisticated feasting experience.
Personal Touches One thing that would always appeal to your loved one is when they know you pay attention to details about them, no matter how little. Acts such as getting their favourite flower, wearing that fragrance they got for you, or making a frame of your best memories while having your dinner, such acts are bound to make them feel even more special.
A romantic dinner at home is a celebration of love and intimacy. Although it’s for Valentine’s Day, it’s advisable to make such romantic gestures a usual occurrence to keep the flames of love burning in your relationship.
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A ROMANTIC ODYSSEY
TRAVEL
EXQUISITE NIGERIAN SPOTS FOR A VALENTINE’S
BY JOHNSON CHUKWUEKE
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alentine’s Day is upon us, that special day dedicated to celebrating love in various forms, whether as friends or as a family. It continues to be a day when people around the world celebrate love in its numerous forms, whether through romantic gestures or simple expressions of affection. As that time was on a weekday, it is a perfect occasion to whisk away your beloved on a romantic getaway over the weekend. Our beautiful country, Nigeria, has enchanting spots to create lasting memories. This piece would point out a few places from the host of places Nigeria offers.
Obudu Mountain Resort, Cross River State
One of Africa’s finest and most exciting tourist destinations is Obudu Mountain Resort, in Cross River’s highlands and deep tropical forest. Also known as Obudu Cattle Ranch, this is a romantic haven surrounded by mist-covered mountains. If you are looking for a mixture of adventure and tranquillity, then Obudu Mountain is the right place for you to be. Couples get to indulge in cable car rides, cosy nights by the fireplace, and scenic walks that will take your breath away, sending you into intimate moments with their views.
Agodi Gardens, Ibadan, Oyo State
Agodi Gardens provides a charming escape in the heart of Ibadan. This beautiful green oasis of peace draws tourists and residents to its various charms. Couples can explore the flourishing botanical gardens,
enjoy paddle boating on the lake, and unwind in the peaceful surroundings for a delightful Valentine’s weekend.
time shopping. Its variety of activities makes it an ideal spot for you and your partner to make lasting memories with each other.
Abraka Turf and Country Club, Delta State
Epe Resort and Spa, Lagos State
A countryside with a serene environment is the type of romantic escape that Abraka Turf and Country Club offers you and your beloved. This luxurious resort sits over 100 acres of lush green land surrounded by exotic birds, horses, and beautiful gardens. Couples can engage in outdoor activities, relax by the pool, and savour the peaceful ambience of the countryside.
Tinapa Business Resort, Calabar, Cross River State
Next on our list is the ever-exciting Tinapa Business Resort located in Calabar. This home of leisure presents couples with an array of exciting activities to indulge themselves in, such as time at the Tinapa water park, a games arcade, and a splendid
2022’s recipient of the Atton Hospitality Award of Excellence, Epe Resort and Spa is a luxurious retreat on Lagos’s outskirts that offers you splendid solitude. Spa treatments, boat rides on the lagoon, and exquisite gourmet dining are just a few things it has to offer. Treat yourselves to a peaceful and luxurious getaway at the Epe Resort.
The beautiful country of Nigeria, with its rich cultural heritage, offers an array of romantic getaways for couples seeking to celebrate love. Hopefully, we have been able to help you choose your desired location, so do well to make it a truly memorable time.
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MOVIE REVIEW:
Argylle
WATCH OF THE WEEK mentioned gaping plot holes appear (one related to a convoluted identity issue and one involving the inexplicable decision not to kill two characters) as the plot goes into a corkscrew nosedive from which it never recovers. Not even a multi-coloured smoky massacre set to a pop tune can save this movie from a complete implosion.
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tylish, smartly edited, and bursting with energy, the trailer for Argylle is fantastic. That’s about the only thing related to this movie the superlative could be used to describe. The actual production is the polar opposite: Overlong, tedious, and bursting with idiot plot contrivances. There are obvious plot holes so big that a 747 flown by a chimpanzee could make it through. All the pleasure hinted at by the trailer is illusory. The movie’s two-tier structure is less convoluted than it initially seems (or than the trailer makes it appear to be). Essentially, there’s a “real world” setup, focusing on best-selling author Elly Conway (Bryce Dallas Howard), her cat, and her fussy mother, Ruth (Catherine O’Hara). Then there are enactments of sections of Elly’s books (or figments of her imagination) featuring her hero, the suave super-agent Argylle (Henry Cavill) with a hilariously outrageous flat-top haircut, and his dour sidekick, Wyatt (John Cena). Elly’s life takes a turn for the stranger when, while riding a train, she meets Aidan (Sam Rockwell), a fan who claims to be a spy. Moments later, she’s dodging knives and bullets in a fight for her life – all while carrying her feline, Alfie, in her backpack. Soon, she and Aidan are jetting across the Atlantic to keep one step ahead of the shady agents from a shadowy organisation run by Director Ritter (Bryan Cranston), who thinks she has insider knowledge because her books seem to predict the future. Argylle gets worse the longer it’s on screen. It opens with a degree of promise but quickly abandons the quirkier aspects of the narrative to proceed in a more straightforward fashion. There are some early warning signs: The action is pedestrian, there’s a lack of energy, and the tone is inconsistent. By the 90-minute mark, Argylle tongue has become dislodged from its cheek as it devolves into a Jason Bourne/ Mission: Impossible rip-off with a lot of pointless action and lackluster stunts. But none of this adequately prepares the viewer for the mind-numbing final act wherein those previously
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There’s less Henry Cavill than one might expect (or hope for). He occasionally appears in recreations of scenes from Elly’s books and occasionally “appears” to her during fight scenes when he and Rockwell are spliced together. As the lead, Bryce Dallas Howard is fine in the first half and miscast during the second. Despite getting a lot of screen time in the trailer, Dua Lipa has virtually none in the movie (pretty much all of her material is used in the trailer), qualifying her appearance as a cameo. Ditto for Richard E. Grant and Ariana DeBose. John Cena and Samuel L. Jackson get more on-screen time but have little to do beyond collecting paychecks. As for Bryan Cranston as the villain – his frothing at the mouth seems oddly half-hearted. He’s not necessarily more grounded than a generic Bond megalomaniac, but isn’t any more interesting. And I’m still not entirely sure what his motives are. Director Matthew Vaughn has an uneven resume but, until he became mired in the Kingsman universe (the first film was good; the other two, not so much), he was a solid bet for a good time. His earlier films – X-Men: First Class, Kick-Ass, and Kingsman: The Secret Service – were enjoyable, bouncy romps. Argylle represents his first out-and-out failure. Indications are that Vaughn isn’t done with the Kingsman movies – a post-credits scene offers a tangible connection between Argylle and that series. Vaughn is apparently going for something that’s one part cartoonish action and one part tonguein-cheek parody. It misfires on all cylinders. Even if one takes nothing seriously (which is really the only way to approach Argylle), the action fails to excite and the comedy is flaccid. I didn’t laugh once, and the movie’s stylised and satirical tone defused any connection I might have felt for the characters. Perhaps if the proceedings hadn’t dragged on well past the two-hour mark, it wouldn’t have seemed like such a chore to sit through. The film’s failure stands as a stark reminder that, no matter how seductive a trailer might be, February releases should always be approached with caution. This is the month when Hollywood jettisons its refuse and this particular sampling belongs buried deep in a landfill.
Rating:4/10
ECHO From a purely Marvel entertainment perspective, Echo is an OK crime series with a glum vibe and almost no superheroics. In other ways, though, this further adventure of Maya Lopez/Echo — the formidable bad-gal Alaqua Cox introduced in the 2021 Hawkeye series — is an appealing creation. It’s Marvel’s first production to focus on and star Native Americans. Additionally, Cox is the first amputee to play one of the studio’s protagonists and the second deaf actor to do so (Lauren Ridloff beat Cox to screens by a few weeks in 2021’s The Eternals). Simultaneously dropping on the more adult Hulu streaming service, Echo is Marvel’s first Disney+ TV-MA show and has enough language and grotesque violence to earn the mature rating. It also kicks off the studio’s new Spotlight imprint, which is supposedly going to produce grittier, more character-based and self-contained stories than the interconnectiondrunk Marvel Cinematic Universe otherwise offers. Not so sure about that last bit, though. Echo borrows incidents and characters from Hawkeye and Marvel Netflix series Daredevil, and the main villain here is once again Vincent D’Onofrio’s New York crime boss Kingpin/ Wilson Fisk. But the newer aspects of Echo register in rich, specific ways. Directed by Indigenous
filmmakers, Sydney Freeland (Navajo) and Catriona McKenzie (Australian Gunaikurnai), each episode begins with a cleverly conceived vignette involving Maya’s Choctaw forebears. There are persuasive portraits of contemporary life in Tomaha, Okla., the hometown she flees to after shooting mentor Fisk in the face. Choctaw Nation advisers and Native staff writers made sure the series foregrounds Indigenous characters with an easy naturalism and designs that feel authentic. (This is one Marvel product Killers of the Flower Moon director Martin Scorsese ought not criticize.) Stunt coordinator Marc Scizak and American Sign Language consultant Douglas Ridloff are Echo’s not-so-secret
creative weapons. The former taught Cox bone-crunching mixed martial arts moves and how to work her prosthetic leg into fights; as a result, Maya’s many action scenes aren’t just the same old choreography. Although Echo’s comic book superpower, the ability to perfectly re-create any physical action she observes in others, is not overtly evident in the early episodes, she’s quick to figure out how to take down any opponent she can see coming at her. Ridloff’s training of the supporting actors lends its own visual poetry. Maya’s estranged family — regretful, criminally involved Uncle Henry; resentful childhood playmate Bonnie good-natured cousin Biscuits, whom Maya ropes into her dangerous plot against Fisk’s cartel; Maya’s unforgiving grandmother Chula and sweet, inventive Skully, communicate with her via ASL, but each in their own distinct manner. It’s rare to praise a program for the beauty and expressiveness of actors’ handwork, but this is one of the show’s most enchanting elements.
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