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New Year’s Resolutions
STICK Remember those New Year resolutions you set on January 1? How’s that going for you? If you haven’t fully embraced those good intentions yet, don’t despair. You’re not alone. According to a report in Forbes, 80% of people admit to ditching their resolutions by February.
But it’s not too late to reset. Steve Siebold, a psychological performance coach and author of 177 Mental Toughness Secrets of The World Class, offers these ten tips to get back on track.
Expect the obstacles.
Most people run into a challenge or obstacle and seek immediate escape. Have a plan to push forward when this happens. If you’re not ready to suffer during adversity, you’re not going to be successful. You need to know going in that making a change is going to be hard work, not a walk in the park.
Don’t focus on how to do it, but rather, why you should do it.
Why do you want this goal to become a reality? The intensity of emotion with which this question is answered will determine whether the dream comes alive or dies. When you have a strong ‘why,’ you are much more likely to succeed.
Get really clear about what you want to change.
Vagueness doesn’t work with goal setting. Don’t just say “I want to lose weight,” but get really specific and say, “By May 1, I want to lose 15 pounds. I’m going to eat well, exercise each day and get really committed to doing this once and for all.”
It’s all or nothing.
It sounds harsh, but 99% compliance is failure. You either go after your goals with 100% effort, or don’t bother trying. Don’t have an ‘I’m going to try when I feel like it’ attitude. Instead, make your goal your passion every single day until you achieve it.
It’s not about winning, but wanting to win that counts.
Winners have a “whatever it takes” attitude. They’ve made the decision to pay any price and bear any burden in the name of victory.
Get an accountability buddy.
One of the biggest problems is that most people have no means of accountability or a support system in place. Go after your goals with a partner who really makes you push yourself. Even better, find someone who has already achieved what you are setting out after and have them coach you.
Focus on your self-talk.
Be careful what you say to yourself, because your thoughts dictate your behavior. In fact, 77% of what we say to ourselves is negative, so don’t give in to the negative thoughts that the goal is impossible. Keep asking yourself, “How can I make this happen?”
Set a timeline.
Setting a timeline helps avoid procrastination. The way the mind works, a timeline gives you something to strive for.
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Thrive Magazine for Better Living • February 2022
