Healthy Living November 2023

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TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2023

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NOVEMBER 2023

Holiday Showcase discovers hidden talents

How do you define connection?

The theme of hidden talents will be on full display at the Saanich Centre on Wednesday, December 6th for the Holiday Showcase. From 1:30 to 3:00pm some of the talented program participants will bravely get on stage and perform an afternoon of music and drama that is sure to be entertaining. The Silver Threads Singers is a co-ed choir that meets every Tuesday morning for practice and performs in the community. They will be singing some old favourites and festive tunes. The Jubilee Clarinet Choir practices every Friday and will impress you with their skill. The Readers Theatre will perform “Cinderella after 60” a hilarious spin on the fairy tale that will have you laughing. All the performers will tell you the hardest thing is starting

The Holiday Showcase is sponsored by Amica Jubilee House. Special treats will be provided. Tickets are $8 for non-members and can be reserved by calling one of the Centres. Silver Threads Service has been serving seniors in Victoria for over 67 years, and prides itself on creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for those looking to try out new experiences and classes. For more information or to register, call the Saanich Centre at 250 382-3151 or the Victoria Centre at 250-388-4268. WINTER 2024 PROGRAM GUIDE Our Winter Program Guide will be available by December 1st and you can register for the January to March 2024 session. We can help with New Year resolutions to improve fitness with yoga, exercise and sports. Or maybe you are looking to connect, social programs include Monthly Socials, and Discussion groups. Or perhaps you are inspired by the Holiday Showcase and want to explore your musical talents with Ukulele, or Bollywood Dance. The Winter Program Guide will be available online at silverthreads.ca

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Over 65 years of community service to seniors! Offering great programs & two locations to serve you. Saanich Centre 286 Hampton Rd. 250 382-3151

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BRAIN POWER CHALLENGE WORD SCRAMBLE If you are ready to amp up your cognitive function and take a proactive approach to your brain health, Silver Threads Service offers a program that can support you in this health practice. Registration will be open December 1st for the Winter Brain Games Program. This program is for those 55+ who would like to enhance their memory skills in an active and social group setting.

BRAIN GAMES SAANICH CENTRE Dates: Wednesdays, February 21st to March 27th Time: 1:00pm to 2:00pm Cost: 6/$24 members, $42 non-members Leader: Lisa van Bommel Call 250 382-3151 or visit www.silverthreadsservice.ca for more information.

In the spirit of the Holiday Showcase, this month’s word scramble is some of the Silver Threads activities that may make a performer out of you! ANSWERS: 1. singing 2. acting 3. line dance 4. drama 5. improv 6. ukulele 7. bollywood 8. zumba

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Now that you’re older and wiser, do you ever wonder if there’s something else you could do that would make you happy and fulfilled? Maybe you have a knack for writing hilarious stories, or acting out dramatic scenes, or painting masterpieces that would make Picasso jealous. You never know until you try, right? You might surprise yourself and discover a new passion in life. Silver Threads Service operates two centres for individuals 55 years and better and provides over 80 weekly programs and services for you to tap into your own hidden talents.

to learn or do something new, many would say they never would have imagined actually performing in front of others and what an exhilarating experience it is. The toughest part is getting out of your comfort zone. We hope you will join us December 6th and cheer on your peers and get a little holiday cheer to boot!

CLUES: 1. ngisgin 2. tagcni 3. elni necad 4. mrada 5. irovmp 6. ueellku 7. dowoloylb 8. abuzm

It’s a word you’ll see often in my blog writing and one I use frequently when speaking to people who are interested in coaching. Connection is a hard word to define, yet when I hear a client say they’re feeling lonely, don’t have many friends or don’t socialize much and I ask, “are you missing connection to other people in your life?”, their answer is YES! These phrases describe the feeling but don’t actually define connection. Feeling connected to another person is a part of being human. To quote researcher and author Brené Brown Ph.D, LMSW, “we are hardwired for connection.” When we don’t have it in our lives we know, we feel, that something is missing. The pandemic has made this problem even more significant to many. It can be hard to put into words what connection to another human being is. It’s not tangible. It’s more of a feeling, a knowing within your gut when it’s present. Turning to Brené Brown’s latest book, Atlas of the Heart, she chooses to define connection, based on her research, as: “The energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued: when they can give and receive without judgement; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.” For many of us we may not be feeling seen, heard and valued in our lives. We may not feel that we can share without receiving judgement, so we just don’t share. As a result we don’t have connection in our lives. We spend our time alone, or with just our immediate family, wishing it was different. In looking at the definition we often look outward, to the other person. What are they not giving to me? They aren’t making me feel seen, heard or valued and they’re making judgements about me. Let’s turn the proverbial lens around on this definition for a moment. How are we showing up for them? In order to create that connection, how well are you listening? Do you value the other person’s opinions, ideas or perspectives? Are you withholding judgement and staying curious to what they have to say? In other words, are you giving out the “energy” of connection or are you more just wanting to receive it? One of the main purposes of coaching is to help clients with personal growth, to create greater awareness of how they are showing up in their own lives. How they choose to be in relationship with others, whether that’s a spouse, sibling or co-worker, will affect the level of connection they feel in their lives. If you’re missing a sense of connection, check in with yourself. • How are your listening skills? • Do you need more practice at being present? • How is your skill of curiosity versus judgement? • And are you letting others know you value what they have to say or are you judging their choice or viewpoint as wrong? If the pandemic taught us anything these past few years, it’s that having connection in our lives is more important than ever. Without it our mental health begins to suffer.

You may think you’ve reached your peak, but what if you have hidden talents waiting to be unleashed? When you were a kid, you probably tried all kinds of activities, from swimming to music to sports. Some were easy, some were hard, but you had fun anyway.

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