Home for the Holidays 2023 by Times Colonist

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– and those Sta-Lox toy bricks

t was a Christmas Eve many, many years ago, a few months after I started elementary school. My family was living in a not-quitefinished house in the East Kootenay community of Invermere. My father and my grandfather had been working on the house for months, as time and money allowed. It was far from finished when we moved in, but it was time to leave the rental, so we did. On that Christmas Eve, my sisters took me to a movie at the Toby Theatre. I don’t remember what the movie was – but I certainly remembered going home, where my beaming father had built a miniature version of our house, giving the entire family a chance to see what it would look like when it was finished. To build the model house, my father used Sta-Lox toy bricks – and they were his gift to me. Merry Christmas, son! StaLox bricks were popular for a few years in those dark days before Lego, so I loved my Christmas windfall. It has been a decade since we started this special Christmas magazine, and stories from our readers have always been part of it, and they have always been popular. These stories have been about childhood Christmases, about giving and getting, about people we love, about people we miss. There have been sad stories and inspirational ones. They have become a Christmas tradition. So once again, we have reader stories for your enjoyment. Thanks so much for your submissions; we received many more than we could use, but rest assured that we appreciate all of them. For most children, Christmas is about what we get. For most adults, it’s a season to give – to people who are close to us, but also to people we don’t know, through our donations to the organizations that help the needy, feed the hungry, and protect the vulnerable. That’s one reason why we should look back at our childhood experiences. If our Christmases were great, we should think of why we felt that way, and think of ways to make others feel the same way. If our

Christmases were not good, we should do all we can to ensure that others have better festive seasons that we did. These blasts from the past might give us ideas about what to do, or what to give. Since Christmas is a time of tradition, it can be nice to think back to the music, decorations, special treats, and Christmas cards – remember them? – from long ago. I should have followed my father’s lead when he built that model of our house before I knew I was getting the Sta-Lox. A few years later, I made the mistake of giving my own children kits that needed to be built. Rookie mistake. I spent the next couple of days working on those kits. Remember

that, before you wrap something that needs to be built, painted, assembled, or whatever. I got rid of my Sta-Lox bricks a few years after I got them. I moved on to model cars – thanks, mom and dad, for that Corvette kit one year, and that Peterbilt truck model a few years later – and Sta-Lox seemed way too childish for me. But I never forgot Sta-Lox, even as the decades passed. One day a few years ago, I noticed a tube with Sta-Lox bricks in the Beacon thrift shop in Sidney, so I bought them and tucked them away. My parents are both gone, but at least I have Sta-Lox again, and balance had been restored in some small way. HH

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DEC. 1 TO 31 LIGHTS OF WONDER AT CENTENNIAL SQUARE

Downtown Victoria is transforming the square into a holiday wonderland. This outdoor event features themed light exhibits, four interactive light tunnels and a 40-foot festive tree. With free admission and for all ages, Lights of Wonder offers live entertainment, warm nibbles, and magical light displays. DEC. 1 TO JAN. 6 THE BUTCHART GARDENS MAGIC OF CHRISTMAS OFFICIAL LIGHT UP

Join the Butchart Gardens, 5 p.m., as they officially flip the switch for Christmas, and thousands of lights come on to mark the start of the Gardens’ Magic of Christmas season. Magic of Christmas runs to Jan. 6, 2024, tickets and details at butchartgardens.com DEC. 1 TO 3 THE UKRAINIAN SHUMKA DANCERS IN NUTCRACKER, PRESENTED BY DANCE VICTORIA WITH THE VICTORIA SYMPHONY

Blending the grace and lyrical nature of classical movement with the strength and power of Ukrainian character dance. the Royal Theatre, tickets at rmts.bc.ca DEC. 1 TO 3 THE PENINSULA SINGERS SPIRIT OF CHRISTMAS

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Join the Peninsula Singers, young artists, dancers, professional show band, MC Jim Kingham and guests to kick off your Christmas 2023 celebrations. The show is a compilation of traditional and contemporary holiday music, at the Mary Winspear Centre. Tickets at marywinspear.ca

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Visit langford.ca for details and route map DEC. 2 A FESTIVE CHRISTMAS WITH THE PACIFIC BAROQUE ORCHESTRA

Alexander Weimann and the Pacific Baroque Orchestra invite you to celebrate the holiday season with a festive selection of works from the Italian Baroque at First Church of Christ Scientist, 1205 Pandora Ave. DEC. 3 SIDNEY SPARKLES CHRISTMAS PARADE

Join Peninsula Celebrations Society for the Sidney Sparkles Christmas Parade along Beacon Avenue in Downtown Sidney. Details at peninsulacelebrations.org DEC. 2 TO 23 A WONDERHEADS CHRISTMAS CAROL

Based on A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens. Praised by the CBC as “Pure magic” and the Globe and Mail as “Powerful, surprising and moving,” at the Belfry Theatre, 1291 Gladstone Ave. Details and tickets at belfry.bc.ca DEC. 4 AND 5 SALVATION ARMY TOY DRIVE NADEN BAND CHRISTMAS CONCERT

All funds raised will stay in the community to help provide toys for deserving families in the Capital Regional District this Christmas at the Royal Theatre. Tickets are $12.00 plus an unwrapped toy at the door, go to rmts.bc.ca for more details

DEC. 11 BUDDY’S HOLLY JOLLY CHRISTMAS

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Paul Beauchesne, conductor Tuba Christmas returns to Market Square in downtown Victoria for one of Victoria’s most beloved holiday traditions. Featuring more than 100 tuba and euphonium players from across the region to play your favourite holiday carols at Market Square. 560 Johnson St. Donations will be accepted for the Times Colonist Christmas Fund. DEC. 5 TO 21 HOLIDAY MOVIE NIGHTS AT THE OAK BAY BEACH HOTEL

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DEC. 28 TO 30 THE GIFT OF THE NUTCRACKER, PRESENTED BY BALLET VICTORIA

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DEC. 14 TO 23 A CHRISTMAS CAROL AT CRAIGDARROCH CASTLE

DEC. 16 TO 18 KEN LEVIGNE,

We Need a Little Christmas, presented by the Victoria Symphony. From show tunes and popular favourites to arias and Christmas classics, Ken’s lyric tenor voice spreads holiday cheer at the Royal Theatre. Tickets at rmts.bc.ca

Actor Jason Stevens channels the Dickensian spirit within the historic walls of Craigdarroch Castle and brings the world of Victorian England to life with his one man performance at 1050 Joan Cres. Tickets and performance times at thecastle.ca DEC. 15 BIG HANK’S CHRISTMAS BLUES SHOW FEATURING THE SMOKIN’ HOT TOASTERS,

a unique, variety filled program of blues-based Yuletide tunes at the Mary Winspear Centre. Tickets at marywinspear.ca

DEC. 20 AND 21 DANIEL LAPP’S HOME FOR CHRISTMAS

20th Annual Concert. Renowned fiddler and jazz trumpeter Daniel Lapp leads this special 75-minute toe-tapping and joy-filled holiday tradition at the Royal Theatre. Tickets at rmts.bc.ca

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Fun loving panto for all ages, filled with humour, music and audience participation at the Mary Winspear Centre. Visit marywinspear.ca for dates, and tickets. DEC. 28 TO 30 THE GIFT OF THE NUTCRACKER, PRESENTED BY BALLET VICTORIA

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Christmas memories that have lasted a lifetime

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Simple gifts, good food, road hockey and family

s a young girl growing up in a family of 10 children in the 1950s, Christmas was very special to me. The Eaton’s and Sears catalogues were well worn. We had simple but warm and exciting celebrations – a toy each, some homemade socks or mittens and a stocking with candy and an orange were enough to thrill us. A typical Christmas started with bundling up for a long drive to church for midnight Mass. At times, it was as cold as minus-30! By the time we arrived back home, the younger children were asleep. It was a very short night for our parents as we were usually awake before 7 a.m. and bouncing on their bed to show them what Santa had brought. Mom would put the turkey in the oven and then to be ready for our noon meal. After feasting on candy and oranges, and a little breakfast, Dad supervised the handing out of the gifts under the tree from grandparents, aunts and uncles, godparents, and our small gifts to each other. The younger children sometimes wrapped up one of their belongings for a sibling and the older ones bought small gifts for everyone with money from their afterschool jobs. The gifts were opened slowly, one at a time, so everyone could admire them before the next one was chosen. A couple stick in my mind – a red fire engine with a loud siren that nearly drove us all crazy, and a Pumpkin Head rocker that ran over more than a few toes. Wrapping paper and

ribbons were saved for the next year. The turkey, mashed potatoes, vegetables and pickles (all homegrown, of course) were ready for the noon meal. Everyone enjoyed the wonderful aromas wafting out of the kitchen as the long table was set. It made quite a sight, usually about 18 for the meal, all in a long row. We had a blessing and a small glass of wine for a toast, and then we all dug into the delicious meal so lovingly prepared by mom. Heaping bowls were passed up and down amid laughter and small talk. When someone asked for a bun, we’d all lean back and one of my brothers would throw it to them, then we’d all go back to our conversations. After dinner, the little ones would have a nap and everyone pitched in to do the dishes. Soon after we went outside to play in the snow and to form up teams for road hockey. All the neighbours, adults and children alike, joined in, either to play or to cheer us on. It was a lot of fun, both exhausting and exhilarating, sometimes even dangerous. One game I remember, I dove to the puck and received an accidental slap shot to my forehead by the older brother. I ran to the house, blood streaming down my face and parka. I still have the scar! After all the fresh air, we were hungry again and came in to enjoy the homemade goodies like pie, Christmas pudding with maple sauce, butter tarts and decorated cookies. The baking that had taken weeks to prepare disappeared in great quantities that day. We didn’t own a deep freeze, so

these things were kept in a box outside. One year a dog got into the box and, if Mom had found him, he would have been one sorry dog. Then it was time for cards games like Go Fish or Old Maid, or Spoons, my favourite. This game has one less spoon on the table than there are players. When someone goes out, everyone grabs for a spoon. The last one gets no spoon and is out. One game, we all went for the spoons (probably six or seven of us) and the table broke in half. Dad, ever the handyman, turned the table over and repaired it with some of our old hockey sticks. That table had a lot of scars – saw marks from when Dad butchered, or the round burn where my sister set a hot pot. It also had a lot of memories of good meals, good conversation, laughter and happy times. The kitchen really was the heart of our home, and mom and dad were the loving couple who made it such a happy place. Supper that night was turkey on buns, dressing with gravy, and fruit and green salads. Boxing Day we went skating and had special treats like shepherd’s pie and tourtieres. My mother is French, so these meat pies were delicious. After eating our fill, we all retired to the front room with a warm relaxed feeling. We talked, watched the little ones playing in their PJs, and listened to the radio, or TV in later years. Christmas was a special time that lasted for more than a day …. for me it’s lasted a lifetime.

~ Rosalie Knogler

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Held hostage by my Christmas tree

was debating about whether or not to bother getting a real Christmas tree in December 2020. I had a small artificial one that could suffice for the quieterthan-usual holiday season. But when I considered that I would probably be spending more time at home under the Covid restrictions, I decided I would enjoy having a real tree. I always love the lights on those dark days. So I set out to a nearby home centre to check out their selection. It was early evening so the store was not too busy. A young woman clerk was available to help me and she showed me several choices. It seemed in no time I was able to find a suitable tall specimen – perfect for my vaulted ceiling living room. Very capably she hefted the tree to a table to give it a fresh cut at the base, wrap it in netting and place it on a large cart for transport to the cashier. There I was directed to bring my car to the loading bay where a young man and his helper

would hoist the tree to the roof of my car. My job was to sit inside and operate the automatic windows and assist by passing the rope through from one side to the other so the two workers could secure the tree for safe travel home. I assured them that I had less than 10 blocks to drive and would proceed slowly. As I drove up our steep driveway and pulled into the carport I was feeling rather proud at having completed this whole transaction so efficiently all on my own. Smug feelings were shortlived, however, for when I shut off the car and tried to open my door, I found it wouldn’t budge.

I soon realized that I was actually tied in and trapped inside! I pondered what to do. Return to the store? And then what? Honk for attention? Not likely! Phone or text friends to come and rescue me? Finally I noticed one end of rope dangling from the passenger’s side of the car. Could I get over to that seat and try to reach the twine and undo the knot? It was worth a try. With great discomfort and many contortions I managed to manoeuvre over the stick shift and centre console to twist into the other seat. I could then open the window and loosen the

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rope enough to inch open the door allowing me to squeeze out. Whew! Two days later I was enjoying sitting by a crackling fire, eggnog in hand with Christmas carols playing in the background. Gazing up at the tree I had a satisfied smile on my face. I gratefully acknowledged the many blessings I could appreciate: Good health. Fine friends (one who even offers to carry a large tree indoors and set it up in a sturdy tree stand) and terrific family who from time to time enjoy a good laugh about the exploits of their mother! “Oh please, next time drive back to the store and honk,” says one daughter. “But take a video.” Like many others we had to settle for virtual visits that year via Zoom or Messenger but were happy to be safe and healthy during that preposterous pandemic year.

~ Sheila Miller

y sweet mum had a simple but effective family tradition at Christmas decorating time. She saved all her cards from the years, and her first act was to slide these over the window blinds. They were instant colourful decorations, as each card is opened, and placed over the individual window blind’s slat. It’s now how I start each Christmas season, opening the cards and reading all the greetings from loved ones over the years; my mum’s beautiful cursive notes, and after her passing my dad’s chicken scratch; cards from couples no longer together; cards from people we haven’t seen in years. It’s a heartfelt tradition that brings tears to my eyes each and every year.

~ Lori James Derry

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e moved from the Mainland to Vancouver Island early in January 1988. I still vividly recall driving down a deserted Beacon Avenue in Sydney around 9 p.m. With all the Christmas decorations aglow, I was thinking it was such a beautiful little town. In the fall of that year, my wife, Joanne, suggested that we should spend Christmas at Mount Washington. “Wouldn’t a white Christmas be fun for the kids?” she said. Our children, Reagan, 7 at the time, and Taylor, 5, did not even ski, and in fact I was the only skier in the family. I thought spending Christmas on the hill wasn’t such a great idea, and frankly also thought the cost, in addition to normal Christmas expenses, would be overwhelming. We spent a rainy Christmas in Richmond. The following year, Joanne once again suggested that we should spend Christmas at Mount Washington.This time she convinced me to try it. The porch was loaded with ski gear, food and Christmas presents. And so began the first tradition of dad grumbling about how we were never going to fit everything into the car! Arriving at the mountain, I stumbled through the dark that first Christmas pulling several loads by toboggan to the condominium. The kids were too young to help and Joanne needed to stay and watch them. I cursed Joanne under my breath and said “never again.” Little did I know then, that a tradition was started that still continues to this day. After the first two years in the condominium, the third year we found Chalet 23 . Christmas became a magical time of the year in Chalet 23. On the hills, the kids quickly took to skiing and then snowboarding. However, for all of us the best times were had in the chalet after a day on the hills, listening to Christmas music, building crackling fires, playing board games, watching Christmas movies and waiting for the carollers to come by on Christmas Eve. As a family we were truly blessed.

Sadly, in August 2002, my wife, Joanne, passed away at the young age of 49, and Reagan, 22 at the time, and Taylor, 20, gave me the biggest, warmest, tightest bear hugs standing on our house porch as we packed up the car to head up to Chalet 23, wondering if we really could still do this without her. We made it through that Christmas with the gift of each other’s support and love, and the wonderful memories of Joanne. There was laughter and tears as we watched old Christmas videos that Joanne had taken. It seems that camera was always in her hand! With the crackling fire and the Christmas music in the background, we watched old Christmas family videos.

Joanne was still very much with us the Christmas of 2002. That “never again” vow I had made that first year has turned into 34 consecutive Christmases on Mount Washington, the last thirty two in beautiful, cozy, magical Chalet 23. My kids are now 43 and 41. There are now four grandchildren, and Chalet 23 traditions that started with my kids, such as reading the Berenstain Bears Christmas Tree on Christmas Eve, and not letting the kids come down to open their stockings until Celine Dion’s O Holy Night is playing, are shared with them. New traditions have started, such as whose turn is it to be lifted up by Reagan to put the star on the tree and Granddude, as

I’m now fondly called by Harper, Hudson, Mya and Leon, making pancakes and bacon in the mornings. Crackling fires, Christmas music, red cheeks on grandchildren from the day on the hill, and board games at night are all still part of our Christmas tradition at Chalet 23. Reagan now reads The Berenstain Bears to the kids, and it makes my heart full. Joanne has now been gone 21 years, and although we all celebrate her every day of our lives, our Christmases in Chalet 23 are so very special because of her idea to spend Christmas on the mountain.

~ Ted Daly Saanichton

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‘You sing like angels’

A lifetime lesson about giving and receiving Christmas joy

t was the 1970s and I had just turned 18 and moved away from my home on the Mainland to Victoria to attend St. Joseph’s School of Nursing. I had never lived away from home before and was adjusting to living with 140 other young women in the 100-year-old nursing student residence adjacent to the old Victoria General Hospital on Humboldt Street. The nursing students had a tradition to go carolling throughout the hospital hallways. They would sing to the patients, bringing a little Christmas cheer to those incumbent in hospital beds. One evening, a few days before Christmas, about 40 of us nursing students, dressed in our white uniform

dresses, stockings and shoes set out to the hospital to sing carols. Each of us wore a long, dark, navy blue cape with the left shoulder turned back displaying the cape’s red satin lining. We were a formidable site walking enmass across to the hospital and onward inside. For several weeks before that evening I had been feeling quite sorry for myself, as being away from home meant I was missing out on traditional family holiday festivities and preparations. My despondency had lead to generally lacking of any form of Christmas spirit. We proceeded together, hallway by hallway, floor by floor and although we had no music (no iPhones back then) our young

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voices were sweet and strong. Seeing the pleasure our singing was bringing to patients started to lift the despondency I had been feeling. As we passed through one of the narrow old hallways, a frail, elderly woman sitting in a wheelchair grabbed my hand. “You sing like angels!” she exclaimed smiling, with tears in her eyes. “Thank-you for giving me this most wonderful Christmas gift!” I learned a lifetime lesson at that moment about the simple, but most precious gift, of giving (and receiving) Christmas joy.

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Santa’s boots

ack in the 1930s, Christmas was a special time, just like it is today. In rural southwest Manitoba, Christmas time on the farm meant attending the local oneroom-school Christmas concert. There were plays and recitations, but the most important thing was that Santa was sure to arrive to distribute small gifts and candies to the children. Times were tough on the farm in those days. My older brother, Lyman, had little to do in the winter months on our small farm so he “worked out” — living with and doing farm chores for larger farm operators, often for less than $10 a month. Lyman was asked to play the role of Santa at the Christmas concert one year when he was “working out” at the farm of folks named Gomph. When the concert was over someone said: “ I hear Santa!” and, sure enough, with lots of jingle bells and ho-hos, Santa appeared, bad beard and all. The youngest Gomph child, 5-year-old Garnet, said to his dad: “ Look, Dad, Santa has Lyman’s boots on!”

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Santa’s footprints My memory of Christmas in 1977

he excitement of Christmas Eve set in as my mother tucks my sisters and I to bed. We had our Christmas stockings hung on our bedposts in anticipation for Santa to arrive during the night! We had left carrots for Rudolph the reindeer and shortbread cookies made by my mother on a plate beside the fireplace where Santa would of course be dropping down during the night. Christmas morning came and my sisters and I rushed to the kitchen for breakfast. My father was always insistent that we finish our

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breakfast before entering the living room to open our presents. When we were finally allowed into the living room, what did we discover? Santa’s footprints in ash, all around the table which had my mother’s shortbread half eaten and the carrots left for Rudolph were gone. As children we were so excited. Then, presents galore. We were so very spoiled looking back, but such a beautiful memory to have with me to this day! Merry Christmas everyone.

~ John Harris

he year was 1951. My husband and I were expecting our first baby in January. On Dec. 23, I went by bus downtown to my last doctor’s appointment, since it was imperative for my husband to use the car for his work. Unfortunately, on the way home the bus was jam-packed, and I had to stand. No one knew I was pregnant and I thought I’d be fine. While standing there, bouncing along, my waters broke. I got off, phoned my husband and he whisked me off all the way back downtown to the hospital. When we got there, the doctor refused to come because he was at a Christmas party! They gave me Demerol to slow down the birth, and my son was born the next day, Christmas Eve. Three years later, we invited my son’s cousin to a small party for him. I was pregnant with my third child. During the afternoon, as I sat down heavily on a chair, my brother-in-law remarked: “That will bring the baby on!” And it did! I just had time to fill two stockings on the mantle before being whisked away again, and my second Christmas babe arrived right on the day!

~ Martaan Boucher Victoria

‘Made for a little girl’ It was the last week before Christmas 1950 and the weather had been wild, cold and snowy — but school was still in session. We were living in the basement of the new house my father was building on Hamiota Street close to Willows School where I was in Grade 1. Money was scarce, so as much as I needed some new boots to wear in this wintry weather, it wasn’t happening. “Here are some old boots that belonged to your brother, dear. You can wear them with an extra pair of socks and they will keep your feet warm,” my mother said. I looked at these old black rubber tie-up boots and tried to be thankful as I trod through the snow to school. It was difficult to get the laces untied when I got to school and retied when I had to go home later. By the time I got home from school I was miserable and crying. My mother said kindly: “Well dear, I was saving these for Christmas, but I think you need them now.” She pulled out two beautiful white rubber boots, made for a little girl. I cried with happiness as I put them on. I am 80 now, and this gift remains in my memory as my best Christmas present ever. Thanks mum.

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hirty years ago, a group of ministry of finance staff had one of the most successful and fun Christmas fundraising events anyone could recall. But at the last minute, it would not have happened had it not been for some surprising help from the Empress Hotel, where the pastry chef whipped up 200 light and fluffy servings of whip cream – a treat once known as “milk snow.” At a volunteer job with the local Institute for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing Centre, I learned that many people who were hearing impaired had difficulty getting jobs and struggled financially. My contact at the centre was happy to be the conduit to a family who might appreciate a Christmas basket. I sent an e-mail to colleagues, appealing for volunteers to be the targets of a throwa-cream-pie-at-management fundraising event. The proceeds would go to buying a large grocery order of perishables, a turkey and some gifts for the children of a hearing-impaired parent. But less than 24 hours before our event, I learned that a train derailment in a snow storm back east had caused a truckload of whipped cream cans to be held up. I was expecting more than a hundred people to arrive, prepared to buy lots of cream pies to throw at their bosses, and I was faced with a shortage of whipped cream in the province of B.C. All of this frenzied willingness to give to a worthy cause and I had no whip cream for the cream pies. I spent a couple of hours phoning every related business in Victoria and Vancouver to beg for whip cream donations, but everyone else was short of whip cream, too. It was downright weird. As a last resort, I decided to walk into the Empress Hotel and plead for a loan of some whip cream. The manager laughed at the dilemma and after hearing my desperation motioned me to follow her into the huge kitchen. She explained my story to the pastry chef and asked him what they could do to help. He said he would be happy to whip up a batch of 200 servings and I could pick it up an hour before the event – “to make sure it was fresh!” On the morning of my fundraiser, a giant plastic container, the size of a standard garbage can, was filled to the brim with incredibly delicious whip cream. Ready as promised.

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Good sports signed up to have pies thrown in their faces. Another bunch of co-workers volunteered to make posters, sell tickets, prepare the pies (a paper plate with whip cream and chocolate sauce), participate in the cleanup and all of the other little jobs a fundraiser requires. One branch offered to create a stage in the old cafeteria in the basement of the Douglas Building across from the legislature. Their effort was complete with donated floorto-ceiling see-through plastic that the targeted managers could stand behind. Three face-holes were slit in the plastic at varying heights. There would be three people at a time standing together on the “receiving line.” No one would have to stand up there alone and everyone would wear swimming goggles to avoid getting cream in their eyes. My friend and well-loved colleague, Dave (Doo-Wop) Milligan, a man who died of a heart attack way too young, rallied the huge group of cream pie-buying staff who came to participate. Dressed in a bright yellow plastic poncho, he kicked off the event by throwing the first pie in his boss’s face. Dave was not a tall man, but his boss was a tall man. Dave walked out with the pie in hand, looked way up at his boss as if he could not reach the tall man’s face. He put his thumb and index finger to his chin, as if thinking, and then slipped off to the side of the stage and came back with a ladder. He climbed the wooden ladder, looked down at his boss and gently shoved the cream pie in the tall man’s face. Visually, it was excellent slapstick. Each group of managers were pietargets for about 15 minutes while the large group of onlookers were entertained by the hilarious master-of-ceremonies. Every 10 minutes or so, Dave would ring a big brass bell and announce the amount of money that had been raised. The numbers kept going up. In minutes he called out “$100 so far” and then shortly after: “we passed our goal of $200” and finally, when he yelled $500.” The crowded place erupted in cheers. The collected cash represented a lot of $3 cream pies. And of course, there was the generous pie throwers. Some bought one pie, some bought three. Some threw them from a distance with a steady hand. Some gingerly mushed them on target from up close. Everyone laughed their heads off when a particular smart, quiet and professional young woman slowly walked

up and deliberately pushed the cream pie into her boss’s face. She had a great rapport with the well-admired man and he was a fun character. The space in the normally tidy government building and the group of tidy civil servants turned into a slippery mess of whip cream and chocolate sauce. When it was over, a dozen volunteers went into high gear and quickly cleaned the whole place. Everyone was fired up to support the family who suffered economic hardships because of their “invisible disability.” The manager at the deaf and hard of hearing centre told me the families they connected with were not a group

that was typically thought of at Christmas. Late on that Friday afternoon just before Christmas, we collected enough money to supply not one, but five families with turkeys, groceries, and specially selected gifts for the kids. Everyone agreed: suffering a cream pie-in-the-face to have that much fun and help five families was an excellent time. There was spirited generosity all around and a beautiful display of teamwork. We could not have pulled it off without the delicious whip cream gift from the Empress Hotel.

~ Thelma Fayle Victoria

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y husband and I backpacked around the world and ended up in Sydney for Christmas in 1972 with other travelling friends. We arrived three days before Christmas, having spent the previous month driving up the Gold Coast in the car we purchased when we first arrived. The first thing we did upon our return to Sydney was find a small caravan (RV) park on the edge of town. These parks always had a few permanent caravans for rent which was the best budget accommodation we could find. Next step was to connect with Penny, a physiotherapist friend from our home town of Kamloops, who was working in Sydney. A group of us had met the previous summer, before we all departed for our year of travel, and planned to meet in Sydney for Christmas. Penny had an apartment which would accommodate our band of travellers. Two days before Christmas we all met to plan our Canadian Christmas turkey dinner despite the 106-degree temperature. My husband

and I were assigned cranberry sauce. After much searching, we found some in Marks and Spencer’s. Another important stop for us was the general delivery department at the Sydney main post office to pick up our mail from the past month. To our delight there were several Christmas cards with snowy scenes which we put up around our caravan. On Christmas Day it was still 106 degrees and humid. At the appointed hour we walked up the three flights of stairs to Penny’s apartment and the delicious aroma of turkey roasting. We homesick Canadians had the best turkey dinner ever and it was accompanied by the music of Gordon Lightfoot. We were all drenched with perspiration due to the heat and humidity, but we were happy. In the following days, we asked Australians we met what they had done on Christmas Day. The reply was almost always “we ate pies and peas on the beach mate, it’s too hot to cook.”

~ Dianne Cunningham Victoria

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or this Yuletide story let’s leave Victoria and Canada. Let’s go east and across the pond to Europe and overland to the Middle East. I was living and working in Tel Aviv, Israel in the mid 1990s. I stayed at a youth hostel near the Sook Carmel. As Christmas approached there was talk of going to Bethlehem where a lot of us travellers wanted to gather on Christmas Eve. This was a troubling time in Israel as Yitzak Rabin had been assassinated, bus bombings were a regular occurrence, and suicide bombers were blowing themselves up at intersections that I had crossed. I made the trip to Bethlehem with some cash to spare. There, in Manger Square, we gathered. This was the first year that Bethlehem had been transferred to Palestinian Authority rule. The square was packed with Palestinians and travellers. Arabic blasted from a loud speaker and in the middle of the square was a military flatbed. And that was where you found all the travellers, on top of this flatbed drinking, smoking and laughing or dancing to the songs in our heads. One particular memory that stays with me is when I went to light up a half-smoked cigarette while standing in the square, a Palestinian man walked up to me, pulled the stub out of my mouth, grabbed a new cigarette, put it in my mouth and lit it before quietly walking away. Not a word said. I stayed up all night and by morning had figured out how to get to Jerusalem. I don’t know how, but when I got there there was a good inch of snow on the ground. The memories stay.

~ Emmanuel Feltaous Victoria

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o quote Dickens: “It was the best of times and the worst of times.” For me and my extended family that would be the Christmas of 2018, the year of one of the biggest windstorms. On December 20, it blew in and caught so many of us off guard. My husband’s family had planned a family reunion with relatives coming from as far away as Antigua, Winnipeg and Vancouver. They planned to stay in condos at Yellow Point. However, the power outage that lasted five and a half days in our area cancelled that arrangement. Undaunted and almost ready to meet this surprising challenge, we all rallied together. My husband brought in a car battery so we could charge our phones and keep in touch with incoming guests. We had two fire places, a generator and plenty of candles. The tree was already decorated although we couldn’t see it in the pitch dark. As family arrived, we placed them all in available beds. A brother-in-law, with Hydro in Nanaimo, cooked the turkey. We managed the rest on a Coleman stove and outdoor barbeque. The baking had been done in advance. A feast finally ensued with all the trimmings, including perogies on the barbeque. My sister-in-law called it glamping. We ate off paper plates, napkins and plastic cutlery. The generator provided power for our festive tree. It truly was a memorable and most enjoyable Christmas, one filled with love, laughter and cooperation. It was the most relaxing experience of family festivities without pressure to compete with Martha Stewart.

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BUNNY

Merry Christmas, Easter Bunny!

t was a typical Easter morning, a great many years ago when I, along with my twin brother and younger brother, were happily searching our Easter baskets for the usual jelly beans, small wrapped chocolate eggs, the large hollow egg with the pretty decorations on top and a decorated hard boiled egg. But that year there was an extra treat. We each got a small solid chocolate bunny with brown paper ears and wrapped in colourful foil. As we compared then indulged in our treats, mom made a simple comment that would affect our family for years. All she said was: “Aww, it’s too cute to eat!” Well, two of the three bunnies went the way of all Easter candy,

but somehow one survived. One of us had agreed with mom. It was too cute to eat. Months later, on Christmas morning, when we were happily opening our Christmas stockings, one of us, I don’t remember who, discovered the surviving Easter Bunny. Santa had found it and placed it in one of our stockings. We were astounded. But there it was, still bright, colourful and with two big bunny ears. None of us wanted to eat it. After all, if he had somehow survived that long he deserved to live. Then, as kids do, we forgot about him. Next Christmas he was back and hopping out of one of the stockings. Again we were thrilled! The following years he always appeared, but only at Christmas. When stockings were eventually put aside, he would be under the Christmas tree in a package

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addressed to me or to one of my brothers. Although we eventually moved into our own homes and had our own families, it somehow became a tradition that at Christmas one of the three of us would be given Bunny. Still none of us wanted to eat him. Actually none of us wanted to receive him either, as that meant keeping him safe for a whole year, then figuring a way to re-gift to a sibling the next Christmas. Ironically, although none of us wanted Bunny, we definitely didn’t want to be the one to lose him. But being so small it was easy for Bunny to get lost. So shortly before Christmas, we would all start frantic searches until Bunny was discovered in some unexpected place, re-wrapped and readied to be given to the next lucky recipient. But whoever had Bunny never admitted it, so we were always apprehensive about accepting Christmas gifts from each other. For many years Bunny lived in a small box. But when he became more fragile he moved to a spice jar. As the years passed, Bunny aged along with us. The foil skin was first to go. It got wrinkly and most of it just disappeared. Then the chocolate body started to have problems and began to disintegrate. The only body parts that aren’t aging too fast are the ears. They seem to be getting bigger. I took him out of his jar for an outing a couple of years ago. He still has the cute smile and tiny chocolate heart. I took a picture for the family album before it was too late. Now I have to decide which lucky brother I can give him to this year. That is if I actually have Bunny. We can’t remember who got him last year. We never remember who we gave him to. Maybe I don’t have Bunny. But now, just in case I do, obviously I have to search anyway. Our children are trying to get us to promise Bunny will never turn up under their Christmas trees. However, we have been passing along Bunny for about 70 years and I suspect Bunny will outlive the three of us. So it would be only natural that our children, or even grandchildren, should carry on. After all, it is a family Christmas tradition!

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COMMUNITY ACTION FUNDS

Helping the people who need it most in our community

focus at the Victoria Foundation is to enable philanthropy that makes a lasting contribution to our community. We do this by connecting people who care, with causes that matter. Some want to be part of our Gadsden Initiative, a cohort that brings together an innovative and engaged group, including GenXers and Millennials. Others leave a legacy gift in their will and some people choose to give to our Community Action Fund. Whether your passion is to support the arts, health-related programs, the environment, gender or racial equity or one of the many other cause areas that impact the well-being of our community, when a donor makes a gift to a Community Action Fund they give confidently to the cause areas that matter most to them. Donors who give to these funds rely on Victoria Foundation’s indepth community knowledge and trust-based philanthropy practice KIDSPORT GREATER VICTORIA Funding from the Health & Wellness Fund – Received $25,000 in 2022

port and activity are essential for all, but even more so for youth in our region. KidSport Greater Victoria works with about 200 local sport organizations to provide underprivileged kids the chance to get in the game, and benefit from lessons related to teamwork, work ethic, fair play and leadership. With the funding there was an average grant per child increase to $334 – which is critical in this time of rising costs. The funding supported 884 people directly and more 10,000 indirectly. Through the support of the community, including the Victoria Foundation, in 2022 KidSport Greater Victoria was able to reach 26% more children and youth than in 2021. For many young athletes, it was their first foray into playing organized sport and with a positive experience won’t be their last!

to ensure their gift will be put toward the highest and best use. The Community Action Fund primarily supports our annual Community Grants Program, which funds local charities, but also can be used for special funding like the Nature-Based Climate Action call that was released this summer. Donors choose to give to the funds through one-time gifts, monthly gifts or as part of their annual grant recommendations from a donor-advised fund held at the Foundation. The key is having a maximum impact within a shared area of interest. As is our standard practice, we are happy to help donors find the path that is right for them, and that may mean making a connection to give to an organization directly. Our focus is creating a vibrant, caring community for all! Below are two examples of organizations that have received funding through the Community Action Funds since their inception in 2021 and the impact of the grant: ABORIGINAL COALITION TO END HOMELESSNESS Funding from the Housing Fund Received $29,905 in 2022

rom its beginnings, the Aboriginal Coalition to End Homelessness (ACEH) has been guided by the voices of the Indigenous Street Family who share their thoughts, experiences and perspectives on solutions. In 2021, the ACEH developed an Indigenous Systems Improvement Map (ISIM) informed by 127 Indigenous Street Family members. Based on the ISIM feedback, ACEH has taken action to address the gaps identified, along with creating a Collaborative Response Network with local service providers. The

ACEH has opened a downtown centralized location with direct supports for the unhoused Indigenous Street Family. The 2022 grant went to supporting members of the Indigenous Street Family to receive certifications in FoodSafe, first aid and back and ladder safety. The members also received training including cooking classes and making traditional medicine from a Cowichan Elder. “We are family and this has helped [all of our] self-esteem. This has been one of the highest points in my life,” said Howard Baker.

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ased on her calm and easygoing demeanour, you wouldn’t imagine that Anastasiia faced so many obstacles this past year. Yet, despite the challenges she encountered, Anastasiia has managed to start a new life and now works with The Salvation Army helping others in need. “When I first arrived in Victoria, I asked around about places where I could go to for help and most people said The Salvation Army. They provided me with groceries and clothing vouchers when I first got here. They were so friendly and kind,” she said. The Russian occupation of her home nation of Ukraine forced Anastasiia to move abroad and start from scratch. She initially spent three months in Germany and Poland. However, she soon felt she needed to leave Europe, in fear that the war could expand across the continent. In August 2022, Anastasiia arrived in Canada. While still settling in her new home, Anastasiia found a passion for helping others thanks to The Salvation Army, who helped her get on her feet. During one of her visits, Anastasiia heard that they were hiring for a caseworker position. She applied and got the job. Anastasiia now enjoys helping individuals and families in need that come to use the services of the Next Steps Resource 24 | HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2023

Centre at the Victoria Citadel church. “I am so glad that I can now help people. I am so happy to work for The Salvation Army. I thank the staff every day for hiring me. I am so glad to have them in my life,” she said. Working at The Salvation Army has not only helped Anastasiia fulfill her passion for helping people, but it has also allowed her to meet new friends and assist fellow Ukrainians that are choosing Canada as their new home. “I can’t imagine another place where I would want to work. I would love to stay at The Salvation Army. I am so happy in this position.” Anastasiia and other people fleeing war can come to Canada through the help of The Salvation Army who can do so thanks to the support from donors and the hard work of volunteers. This includes the volunteers that help every year during the Christmas Kettle Campaign like Bill Isaac. For 66 years, Bill, 89, has been a volunteer for The Salvation Army’s Christmas Kettle Campaign in Kelowna. Since 1957, he has served as a member of the church, contributing to different programs and campaigns for The Salvation Army. Today, his focus is helping count the incoming Kettle Campaign donations. As a man of faith, the values of The

Salvation Army inspire Isaac to serve. “Helping The Salvation Army is something I always wanted to do for the Lord. And I love the way they help people. It warms my heart every time I hear them talk about the Lord, and I am happy to be part of it,” Isaac said. As a former banker, counting money comes naturally to him. Since his early days of volunteering for The Salvation Army, Isaac has held duties involving financial oversight. “When I started volunteering, they found out I was a banker, so they immediately assigned me the treasurer position, he said. According to Major Mark Wagner of the Kelowna Salvation Army, the Kettle Campaign is run by a large pool of volunteers. This dedication makes committed volunteers like Isaac crucial to the campaign’s success each year. “Our entire bell-ringing force consists of volunteers. I think, roughly speaking, we have nearly 900 volunteers so far,” Wagner said.

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he need is real! Local families have been struggling in this economic climate due to rising grocery and fuel prices, and increasing costs for housing.

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to provide a quality food hamper ensuring there is food for children while out of school on Christmas break. Gifts: Every registered family receives gifts for the children, food for the family and a grocery gift card for perishables and special dietary needs. Each child registered with CFAX Santas Anonymous receives two $50 gifts; one is a wish, the second is a gift based on the child’s interests. All teens receive two $50 gift cards to shop for something they want or… need. HOW CAN YOU HELP?

DALE SMITH, VOLUNTEER WAREHOUSE MANAGER AND CFAX SANTAS ANONYMOUS BOARD MEMBER. VOLUNTEERS WILL PACK 3,600 BAGS OF FOOD, PURCHASED LOCALLY, THIS SEASON.

Food: Many local children rely on breakfast, lunch and snacks at school. The food hampers provided at CFAX Santas Anonymous are designed

Plan a fundraising event in your organization, school or office and present your gift at Miracle on Broad Street, CFAX 1070 radio’s 13 hour radiothon supporting CFAX Santas Anonymous. Let’s Connect! cfaxsantas.com or call 778-561-1070 Mailing address is 1420 Broad Street, Victoria, BC V8W 2B1

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mid the wars, countless Canadian soldiers and nurses displayed extraordinary bravery and unwavering dedication, putting their lives on the line for our country. Many of these individuals returned home bearing the profound physical and emotional scars of war, having lost limbs in the line of duty. Their experiences as amputees not only shaped their own lives but, as members of The War Amps of Canada, they left a lasting legacy on generations of amputees to come. During the First World War, Madeleine Jaffray (1889-1972), served as a nurse in a military hospital near Bordeaux, France. The hospital where she was working was bombarded by German aviators, and she was wounded in the foot by a piece of shrapnel from one of the bombs. Her injury led to an amputation, making her Canada’s only female war amputee of the First World War. It was amputees like Jaffray who welcomed the new contingent of amputee veterans following the Second World War, sharing with them all that they had learned. One of these was Mike Krulicki (1925-2020), who was just a teenager when he volunteered for service in the Second World War. He enlisted with the Irish Regiment of Canada, and in 1944, while fighting in the Italian Campaign as part of the attack on the Gothic Line, he

stepped on a landmine and lost his right leg below the knee. Another veteran was Arthur Johnson (1929-2006), who served with the Canadian Army Special Force as a mortar man with the Royal Canadian Regiment and who joined 26,000 other Canadians in the fight for the freedom of South Korea. In August 1952, he found himself on Hill 355 near Seoul in the midst of intense enemy shelling. A mortar landed close by, wounding him and resulting in the loss of his right leg above the knee and damage to his right arm. United by the common bond of amputation, amputees from the First World War, along with those from the Second World War and Korean War, were instrumental in pushing for advancements in prosthetic technology, confronting the stigma of disability, advocating for fair pensions for veterans and providing much-needed support to each other. Rob Larman, a Senior Advisor at The War Amps and a leg amputee himself, said: “These honorable individuals contributed their time to various activities of the association and shared their experiences as amputees with others, including modern-day veterans and children. On Remembrance Day especially, but also throughout the year, we pay tribute to the sacrifice and service of all those who served and continue to serve.” To donate or learn more please visit waramps.ca or call 1-800-250-3030

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that lasts for generations. Habitat for Humanity Victoria is a local charity that brings communities together to help families build strength, stability, and independence through affordable homeownership. Since 1990, Habitat families have experienced better health, education and economic outcomes. Habitat Victoria has built 34 homes and has served 39 families. A legacy gift in your will is an impactful way to help Habitat Victoria support more families on their journey to building strength, stability, and independence through affordable homeownership. Your bequest can create a lasting memorial for you, your family or anyone you wish to honour. You can choose to contribute monthly or at other designated regular intervals, and no donation is too small. Have the peace of mind to know that your gift is arranged to occur just as planned. For more information or to donate, email giving@ habitatvictoria.com, call 250-480-7688 ext. 103, or visit habitatvictoria.com.

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ith a name like Dr. Blood, Nanaimo’s Jackie Clabon knew her husband, Bill Katerenchuk, was in good hands when he was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2003. The B.C. Cancer oncologist lived up to their high expectations when he suggested Bill participate in a clinical trial in brachytherapy, an internal radiation via implanted seeds, that saved his life — and afforded the couple another precious decade together. “We were together for 30 years. It was Bill’s third marriage and my second. We used to joke that we’d gotten all the bumps out. We were very lucky,” says Clabon. Bill unfortunately passed away in 2015, at 85 years old, from heart failure. In gratitude for the added years they enjoyed, Clabon is leaving two gifts to the B.C. Cancer Foundation in her will. “I believe in giving with a warm hand, but also in leaving a legacy,” she says of her donation to fuel research, such as the trial that afforded her husband another decade to

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devote to his beloved career as a real estate developer. “Advancements in targeted treatments have greatly improved since Bill’s diagnosis. His 30-day course of radiation can now be delivered in five.” Breakthroughs that improve quantity and quality of life, and deliver more direct treatment in less time, are due to research, she says. Clabon, a member of the B.C. Cancer Foundation’s Nanaimo Regional Advisory Council, was also inspired to include an additional gift in her estate plans after the recent announcement of a new B.C. Cancer Centre in Nanaimo. “Thirty days of driving from here to Victoria definitely took a toll on us,” she says, and welcomes an opportunity to support bringing life-saving treatment much closer to home for local residents. To learn more about planned giving with B.C. Cancer Foundation, contact Jordan McClymont at jordan. mcclymont@bccancer.bc.ca or visit bccancerfoundation.com/ legacy

The future of cancer care can be your legacy A gift in your will to the BC Cancer Foundation will fuel innovation in cancer research and care that will save more lives in the Vancouver Island community and beyond. To learn more, contact Jordan McClymont at jordan.mcclymont@bccancer.bc.ca or visit bccancerfoundation.com/legacy

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Celebrating 150 Years of Service to Greater Victoria

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After 150 years of service, we are still stepping into the needs of our community, growing our sphere of care to include people from all walks of life, cultures and needs. Our legacy of care is only possible because we have the support of people who care, just like you.

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magine being afraid and alone, not sure where to get help or who to even ask. Imagine not being sure where your next meal will come from or where you will sleep tonight? This is reality for so many people in Victoria. Now imagine that someone had stepped in to help before you reached that place of desperation – maybe they helped you apply for housing or disability status. Maybe they recognized that you have a brain injury and needed help accessing supports. Or maybe they saw that you were struggling to parent your children alone and helped you to find childcare and community supports. Suddenly your story could look very different — and end up much happier. The Cridge Centre is an organization that has been stepping into the needs of people in our community for 150 years – seeing a need and stepping in to provide support, hope and safety. While there are still so many people in need in Victoria,

there are thousands more who are safe and healthy because of the work of The Cridge Centre for the Family. That legacy of care and commitment to our community is powerful and life-giving. It’s also only possible with the support of our community. Your support can create a legacy of care that continues to give to our community for years to come. Giving a gift in your will to The Cridge Centre will ensure that your legacy will continue. Even 1% of your estate can result in a significant gift, while still leaving 99% to your loved ones. For more information about leaving a gift in your will to The Cridge Centre: https:// www.willpower.ca/charities/ the-cridge-centre-for-thefamily/ Or donate today to bring hope and safety to someone in your community: www.cridge.org/ donate Contact info: Call Sharon at 250-995-6427, or mail a cheque to The Cridge Centre for the Family, 1307 Hillside Ave, Victoria B.C., V8T 0A2

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ho we are On December 16, 1955, a group of dedicated parents founded what is now called Community Living Victoria (CLV). Today, Community Living Victoria provides a range of support services to children, youth and adults with intellectual disabilities and their families. Our work is guided by our values, experience and history and draws from strong roots in the community. Community Living Victoria recognizes the rights of everyone to have a full range of life choices, including access to education, affordable and appropriate housing, leisure options, gainful employment and participation in the community. A healthy community encourages the involvement of everyone. Make a Donation We need your support to fulfill our vision of a community where everyone’s dreams, regardless of abilities and experiences, can be fulfilled. Thank you for your continued support.

Planned Giving Community Living Victoria’s work would not be possible without the generous support of hundreds of individuals and businesses through donations, in-kind gifts and volunteerism. The Community Living Victoria Foundation, an independent, registered charitable organization with its own board of directors, provides for funding opportunities through charitable donations, special events and planned gifts. Planned gifts include a variety of choices designed to serve our donors, the Foundation and its beneficiaries. What is a Planned Gift? It is the forethought given to gifts made that could benefit the Foundation as well as your own financial picture. Planned giving can be an important part of your overall financial and estate planning, as it provides valuable tax savings today or for your estate tomorrow. What Kind of Gifts Are There? A planned gift can take the form of cash (annually or as a one-time bequest), in-kind gifts (needed equipment, art, books, artifacts, etc.), securities (stocks, bonds and mutual funds), life insurance, other insurance products and real estate.

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Hope. Help. Home. Supporting people with intellectual disabilites since 1955

Quality of Life Matters - All of CLV’s service focus on supporting people to have access to a full range of life choices, we are committed to the principles of Community Living these include: Respect: For the uniqueness dignity and worth of each individual Recognition: of each person’s need for selfdetermination, personal happiness and sasfisfation; and for A Meaningful life where their gifts and contributions are valued. Your donation will go directly to the people we support to assist individuals to access community, education, needed personal items and groceries.

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THE SILENT EPIDEMIC AFFECTING THE HEALTH OF B.C. SENIORS

A GROWING NUMBER OF BC SENIORS ARE LIVING IN LONELINESS, WITH SMALL OR NON-EXISTENT SOCIAL CIRCLES. IT’S DAMAGING THEIR HEALTH, AND CREATING CHALLENGES FOR OUR HEALTHCARE SYSTEM, BUT THERE ARE SIMPLE STEPS YOU CAN TAKE TO HELP.

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ean* is 85 now. While she was born in Vancouver, she’s spent almost her entire life on the Island. She and her husband Henry bought a house in Saanich in 1967, and she still lives there today. Over the years she’s been very active with several community groups, serving on boards and working as a volunteer. When Henry died, she took a job at Home Depot as a greeter, and loved the chance to meet new people and to interact with the younger staff. She sought out social activities in her spare time, too. She was an avid lawn bowler, played in a bridge club, and served in the women’s auxiliary at her church. In her mid-seventies, however, Jean began to experience severe arthritis in her knees. This made it much more difficult to drive, to navigate stairs and tight spaces, and to spend much time on her feet. She kept up her activities as long as she could, but when she started to experience vision problems, she sold her car and gave up driving. Jean adjusted as best she could. She took the bus, or sometimes a HandyDart, to attend classes and exercise sessions at local rec centres. A kindly neighbour offered to drive her to church. Lawn bowling was too hard with her knees though, as was her work at Home Depot. Within a couple years, bridge fell by the wayside, too. Her friends had started experiencing various health problems of their own – rheumatoid arthritis, vision problems, even dementia – and simply stopped showing up to play. Then COVID hit. The rec centre cancelled classes. Her neighbour moved in with family on the mainland. Between her knees 32 | HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2023

and virus concerns, even walking to the corner store on an errand seemed unsafe. Almost overnight, Jean became isolated and practically housebound. Not much has changed since. Jean no longer knows anyone at the rec centre, and navigating her way there with the bus is harder now after two years of sedentary living. Her days have become a constant battle with loneliness and anxiety. Some days it hardly feels worthwhile getting out of bed. Her only real interactions with other people have become her medical appointments. Stories like this are all too familiar to health-care professionals and non-profit groups that provide services to seniors on Vancouver Island. Roughly one in three B.C. seniors are at risk of social isolation. They have little contact with friends and family, and small to non-existent social networks. It’s understandable that many of these seniors feel terribly lonely, and this feeling has profound repercussions for them, and for our healthcare system. A study by the U.S. National Institute on Aging found that prolonged loneliness has equivalent health impacts to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. It increases the risk of stroke (32%), heart disease (29%), dementia (50%), and premature death (45%). In trying to cope with their situation, lonely seniors are more likely to develop substance abuse problems. They use more health and social services. They have more hospital stays, and need supportive housing and long-term care sooner than their peers. Of course no one aims to be lonely in their old age. No matter how introverted or

extraverted, we all need, want, and enjoy friends. Some may even be aware of the numerous studies, like the one recently completed at Harvard, that show that the key to a longer and happier life is having strong social and familial relationships. For Jean and many others like her, however, life doesn’t always turn out exactly as we plan. Right now, thousands of B.C. seniors have found themselves in circumstances where they are lonely and isolated and, for them, restoring social connections and quality of life is no longer an easy task. Fortunately, there are simple steps that all of us can take to help local seniors in need, steps that just might save a life. 1. Keep an eye out for elderly neighbours. Taking five or 10 minutes to check-in, or to stop and make conversation, might have a bigger impact than you know. For many seniors, as they begin to struggle with mobility, instead of continuing to move and exercise, they do less out of a fear that, if they fall, no one will find them. An occasional check-in can give seniors the confidence to stay active, and better maintain the abilities they need to continue living at home. 2. In the capital region, encourage the seniors in your life to pick a copy of the Seniors Services Directory. Several local charities have programs to help lonely seniors, with some even offering in-home visits. You can find copies at many Island Health locations, by contacting Seniors Serving Seniors (250-413-3211), or Eldercare Foundation (250-370-5664). 3. Make a gift to charity. Local organizations like Eldercare Foundation fund community programs, respite care support, and long-term care homes, providing equipment and therapy support to help seniors struggling with anxiety, depression, and loneliness. You can find out more at www.gvef.org. *No real names are used in this article. Tom Arnold is director of development for Eldercare Foundation. Eldercare is a registered charity that supports more than 1,500 local seniors each month, both in community and in long-term care, who need help maintaining their quality of life. gvef.org

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GAYLE’S STORY: HONOURING A LEGACY OF LOVE AND FAMILY BY SUPPORTING VICTORIA HOSPITALS

s an only child, Gayle grew up in Esquimalt, and has many beautiful memories of her childhood there. Her father, Bill, was a stationary engineer who worked in the nearby Dockyard and later at the Colwood Department of National Defence facility. Her mother, Grace, worked as a milliner making hats at the old Miss Frith Store on Douglas Street, and later became a homemaker when she married Bill in 1948. Her parents loved adventure and travel. At just four years old, Gayle joined her parents on annual trips, exploring the west coast of Canada and the United States. In particular, Gayle has many happy memories at Saxe Point, where she and her friends would ride their bikes, build forts and swim at Fleming Beach. “Saxe Point was also one of my parents’ favourite spots when they got older,” says Gayle. “They would walk down and sit on a certain bench, and that bench is still there today.” Gayle remained close with her parents throughout adulthood, often travelling with them on trips. Her parents never left her childhood home — until their health started to decline. When Gayle’s mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, she started to experience frequent falls. After one fall, she hit her head and was admitted to Royal Jubilee Hospital. She was 91 years old. Gayle’s father, who

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was 87, then made the difficult decision to place her mother in long-term care at Gorge Road Hospital, where he visited her every day. They were married for 67 years when she passed in October 2015. “The caregivers do a great job with all their patients, and my mother received really good care,” recalls Gayle. “I remember one fellow would always come out and say to my mother ‘Hi Grace!’ and he would do a little dance around. He made her smile and laugh.” Just five months after her mother’s passing, Gayle noticed some concerning symptoms in her father, including loss of co-ordination and forgetfulness. Soon after, he was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer. “Two weeks later, the doctor called and said he likely wouldn’t last the day,” says Gayle. “I went to Royal Jubilee Hospital and sat with him for an hour and a half. I kissed him on the forehead and told him I loved him, and then I left. When I got down to the parking lot, they called to tell me he had passed.” Gayle wanted to find a way to honour the care her parents received, and made the decision to leave a gift to the Victoria Hospitals Foundation in her will. “I really appreciated the care my parents received, and it’s a ‘giving forward’ decision — because, one day, it could be me in there,” says Gayle. “I don’t have children of my own, so I thought, why not leave a legacy?”

Today, Gayle still makes time to visit Saxe Point, taking walks down to Fleming Beach, and visiting her parents’ favourite bench, which helps her feel close to them. “It makes me feel good to know I’m helping other people, and I think my parents would be really happy to know I’m doing this,” she says. “There are so many different charities out there, but this is one of the best ones to support because it touches so many peoples’ lives. I encourage others to join me in honouring care teams and supporting our hospitals.” Like Gayle, you can make a difference through a gift in your will. By leaving a gift to the Victoria Hospitals Foundation in your will, you can make a bigger contribution than you ever thought possible to support our local caregivers and provide them with the tools they need to care for Vancouver Island patients. Donating to our hospitals in the form of a bequest is one of the greatest acts of generosity you can make. Legacy gifts fund one-third of our equipment purchases in our hospitals each year, benefiting the lives of thousands of people. Regardless of the size of your estate, you can be a part of this powerful movement for change. Learn more about the legacy you can create: victoriahf.ca/will-and-estates

Support Our Local Hospitals Leave a gift in your will to advance Royal Jubilee, Victoria General, and Gorge Road hospitals for generations to come

After the passing of both her parents, Gayle began to reﬂect on the care they received at both Royal Jubilee and Gorge Road hospitals. She wanted to honour her parents and recognize local caregivers, and made the decision to leave a gift to the Victoria Hospitals Foundation in her will.

“It makes me feel good to know I’m helping other people, and I think my parents would be really happy to know I’m doing this,” says Gayle. “There are so many diﬀerent charities out there, but this is one of the best ones to support because it touches so many peoples’ lives. I encourage others to join me in supporting our hospitals.” We are so grateful to Gayle, and those like her who continue to support local healthcare.

Learn more about giving in your will: victoriahf.ca/will In the pursuit of advancing healthcare on Vancouver Island, the Victoria Hospitals Foundation has partnered with Will Power, a national movement to educate and inspire Canadians to create positive change through a gift in their will. More resources: willpower.ca

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ed Ross had been in the hospital. He’d been very sick. And when he returned home, cooking wasn’t feasible. It was 2020 and the emergence of COVID-19 had complicated his situation. Restaurants he had ordinarily counted on were shuttered. The food program at his local activity centre, James Bay New Horizons, had been forced to shut down. Ted wasn’t the only local senior in this predicament. “There were a lot of older people out there who didn’t like cooking anymore, and who depended on these other sources. And they were all thinking: what are we going to do?” The More than Meals program, developed and funded by United Way Southern Vancouver Island (UWSVI), and run by James Bay New Horizons, was his lifeline. Through More than Meals, Ted and his wife started receiving three healthy meals each week, hand-delivered by a volunteer who also provides a social visit and wellness check, making sure they’re doing ok. The program name says it all: nutritious meals are essential, but so too is caring, human connection. Programs like More than Meals get at the heart of UWSVI’s mission: uniting to strengthen our local communities right here in Southern Vancouver Island – and

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counselling, outreach services, and peer support. Of course, there is often overlap between people in these three areas. Tensions within families around affordability can exacerbate mental health issues. Families are often intergenerational and include elders. And seniors who live alone are not immune to mental health challenges like loneliness and depression. This interconnectedness is one reason why UWSVI supports a broad, deep network of local social service agencies. Nobody deserves to be left behind. This year, UWSVI is supporting 63 agencies and 77 programs, plus five Youth in Action micro-grants in the community. With your support, UWSVI will meet its $5 million goal this year. This will allow UWSVI to provide more funding to its network of services and programs, ensuring very often by making practical, meaningful more people in our community can move from changes. poverty to possibility. It’s local donors, both individual and UWSVI has one of the most respected and corporate, who power this change. diligent granting and reporting processes in And this year, UWSVI is asking donors the province. Members of the community, to contribute to meeting its fundraising goal experts, and those with lived experience join of $5 million. UWSVI staff in reviewing grant proposals, Funds raised will address UWSVI’s three ensuring that they are distributed to local Areas of Action: seniors, families, and social service agencies that can be entrusted people with mental health and addictions with donors’ funds. challenges. Measuring the outcomes of donations is a Ted’s experience is a window into the key consideration for UWSVI. The impact of world of many other local seniors. UWSVI even a small donation to UWSVI can have a is determined to support those seniors in huge impact. A donation of only $20/month our region who are experiencing extreme ($240 / year): loneliness and isolation, malnutrition or · Means a local family, people in your food insecurity, mobility issues, and limited neighbourhood, can feed their children with income. 60 hot meals. UWSVI is also focused on supporting · Would subsidize a two-hour workshop local families. Our region is struggling with for parents and caregivers of children with a housing affordability crisis. That, combined learning and behavioural difficulties. with rising inflation, skyrocketing food and · Will reimburse volunteer drivers of local gas prices, the lingering economic and social seniors for 500 km of driving - which means effects of the pandemic, and wages that are elders, like Ted, have the chance to age with often not keeping pace with the current dignity in their homes. economic climate, means that many local families are struggling just to make ends No matter the amount, your dollar means you meet. are making a meaningful impact – helping And worsening mental health demands ensure that we are all part of safe and resilient action. One in three residents reports worse local communities where opportunity and or much worse mental health compared belonging unite us. You can donate now at to pre-pandemic, increasing the need for uwsvi.ca.

Ted needed much more than a meal. Now his plate’s full. So’s his heart. But there are more Teds in our community who need your support.

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Loving animals is who you are. With a gift in your will, it’s forever. Contact us today to learn more about leaving a compassionate gift that creates a brighter future for vulnerable animals. Clayton Norbury

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orever Guardians support a more humane, safe, and caring future for animals in British Columbia. What does it mean to be a BC SPCA Forever Guardian? It means that you have a lasting impact on the lives of animals in immediate need of care while also supporting the future of animal welfare. That includes saving animals like Cami. Cami, previously known as Buttercup, came to us with a story of neglect and abuse. Found wandering with suspicious injuries and her muzzle cruelly taped shut, she bore the scars of a harsh past. Despite the pain from an improperly healed leg, which later needed amputated, and the visible cuts on her face, her affectionate personality continued to shine. Her journey to recovery was swift, thanks to the kindness and love of Forever Guardians and other supportive animal lovers.

CAMI, PREVIOUSLY KNOWN AS BUTTERCUP

After her leg amputation, she was introduced to her new forever home, where she blossomed into a local celebrity who you might have heard about. Along her path to healing, Forever Guardians were there every step of the way — from the moment Cami entered our care, requiring immediate medical attention and love, to her rehabilitation journey, and finally to her new loving home where she receives just as much affection as she gives. Forever Guardians provide this level of care to animals today and will continue to do so long into the future. To learn more about joining this compassionate group of supporters with a kind gift in your will or your estate, visit foreverguardian.ca or contact Clayton Norbury at cnorbury@ spca.bc.ca or by phone at 1.855.622.7722, ext. 6059.

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Where there’s a Will, there’s a way… A gift in your Will is a promise today of care for tomorrow.

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CHILDREN'S HEALTH FOUNDATION: BETH'S LIFETIME OF CARE FOR THE CHILDREN

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n a retirement community nestled in the West Shore, a remarkable woman named Beth resides, embodying a life rich in gratitude and compassion. Her story is one of a deep commitment to children’s health and a legacy of unwavering support for their well being. Beth’s journey into the realm of children’s health began when she spent her high school summers working at the Mill Bay Solarium as a nurse aide. She eventually became a nurse, all the while learning the importance of compassionate care for children. “I just loved every minute of my time at the solarium,” Beth says. Beth wanted to nurture and care for others, a sentiment that extended into her nursing career and beyond. Her belief that “birthing and death have always been the most important things to me,” led her to work with children and, later in life, with hospice. “I think babies and children are the most important ones to devote money to,” she says. “If there’s any money to give, it

should go to them.” Her decision to include the Foundation in her estate plans speaks volumes about her lifelong dedication to this cause. Beth’s actions underscore her belief in supporting children’s health and ensuring that future generations receive the care, love, and advocacy they need to thrive. “You have to help them,” Beth says. “They don’t have anyone else. They’re alone in the world. Children need help.” Beth’s heart remains forever connected to those days at the solarium, a chapter of her life that shaped her path of gratitude, service, and legacy for countless children in the future. “We are so grateful for people like Beth,” says Children’s Health Foundation Vancouver Island CEO Veronica Carroll. “She’s carried a culture of compassion her whole life and knowing her roots makes her legacy that much more special.” For more information about creating your own legacy of compassionate care, email legacy@islandkidsfirst.com or call 250-940-4946.

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SHOWER & LAUNDRY FACILITIES BRING DIGNITY TO MANY PLANNED PERSONAL CARE FACILITIES

n March 27, 2023, the Mustard Seed Street Church and Foodbank – the region’s most accessible foodbank – suffered a debilitating fire. The damage meant we had to throw away almost 50 tonnes of food – fresh and canned, new clothing and untold supplies and equipment. It was a blow to staff and many in the community who consider The Seed “home” and one of the few places they feel loved and supported. Our amazing team quickly re-imagined operations and we were up and running in a modified way from our parking lot by the next day. While we worked with remediation and construction companies to get back into our foodbank on April 28, the other half of our building was completely gutted by smoke damage and would take five months before we could welcome the community back in.

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ince 1985, Dr. Ambrose Marsh and a large number of doctors and staff have helped usher babies into the world and cared for injured, sick and dying patients at Saanich Peninsula Hospital. Together they have comforted countless moms, dads, grandparents, uncles, aunts, children, friends and perhaps you or your neighbours. Now retired from his position as chief of staff, Dr. Marsh is pleased to be the honorary chair of the fundraising drive to renovate the Acute Care Unit, making it more functional and a better environment for patients and staff. There are 60 beds in the Acute Care Unit, with most rooms having four beds. A curtain can be drawn for a minuscule degree of privacy. Dr. Marsh says infection control is a driving force to reduce the number of patients in each room. “We aren’t going to be able to move to all private rooms without building another wing, but we’re going to shrink the rooms to two and three beds and put in a private

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bathroom with a door. Basics, right?” For more than 30 years, Dr. Marsh has walked into hospital rooms and seen patients become friends and advocates for each other. “A patient sees the woman beside her crying, so she calls the nurse in for help. Or I walk in and see the camaraderie between patients and ask if there’s a poker game going on here. “So, there are some advantages to sharing a room. In addition to infection control, our main goals are to improve the rooms’ functionality and energy efficiency this will help make providing care easier for staff. “And, we’ll make the rooms as private and comfortable as possible for patients and their loved ones.” Dr. Marsh says that since the one-floor hospital was built in 1974, health care has evolved to team-based care. Doctors, nurses, physiotherapists, occupational therapists social workers and pharmacists all work on the ward as a team. However, they do not have enough computers or ergonomic workspace at a time when all major health-care facilities and clinics are transitioning to electronic medical

records. “Currently, staff must wait and grab a chair when it becomes available. Fortunately, we’re all friends”, says Dr. Marsh. “So we joke with each other, but it becomes a real challenge just to get your day’s work done. Even in stressful times, though, there is humour and support for one another.” The Acute Care Unit renovation will not only enhance functionality, but also contribute to staff retention and recruitment efforts. A modern hospital, set in a beautiful community, becomes an appealing workplace, fostering a healthier work environment for all. Dr. Marsh is leading this fundraising drive because he knows all donations – big and small – will help the dedicated staff at Saanich Peninsula Hospital continue to provide exceptional care in the Acute Care Unit. Let’s get this renovation started! Please donate today at www.sphf.ca. Together, we can make it happen.

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Leave a gift that will last

Your support will ensure that the Saanich Peninsula Hospital remains at the heart of community healthcare for generations to come.

Legacy gifts come from the hearts of patients or family members who have had a meaningful experience with the Saanich Peninsula Hospital. You want to have an impact on the world that your children and grandchildren will inherit. Your legacy will ensure staff can continue to provide the same outstanding level of care to other patients right here in the community, and into the future.

Visit our website or speak with your ﬁnancial advisor to ﬁnd out how to make a gift in your will that will leave a positive and lasting difference.

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Toxic stress threatens healthy childhood development We all may feel stressed from time to time in our daily lives – but did you know that stress can become toxic? Prolonged or severe stress can have serious impacts on both our mental and physical health. This toxic stress is even more harmful to our children and youth. When young people are exposed to childhood adversities like living in poverty, chronic neglect and domestic violence, they are at

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risk for developing toxic stress. Experiencing toxic stress throughout childhood can cause developmental delays and even lifelong challenges like substance abuse, depression, heart disease and diabetes. We can take action to limit the effects of toxic stress and help our children grow into happy, healthy adults. At least one positive relationship with a trusted adult is critical.

Healthy relationships support youth through the challenges of growing up and help them to develop resilience. When these stable relationships are limited or missing from a child’s life, a mentor can be that special person they need. With the help of a trusted adult, children can build the ability to bounce back from challenges – resilience. When we foster resilience in young people, toxic stress is reduced and our children can grow up into whoever they dream of being.

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KIDSPORT GREATER VICTORIA’S ONGOING COMMITMENT TO KIDS IN FINANCIAL NEED, SO ALL KIDS CAN PLAY! sidelines and into the game. Letters like this attest to the impact KidSport – and your support – can have: “Our family grateful to you for your support and help. Thanks to your care, our son started playing soccer again. This new stage in our lives is not easy, and we really appreciate your help. We hope we can be of service to Canada. And the moment will come when we also help others.

idSport Greater Victoria is seeing a very steep rise in the number of local families requesting help to ensure their kids can access the benefits of organized sport. We are grateful to see more and more children and youth returning to the sports they love, and we are thankful for the amazing donors who make our work possible. KidSport Greater Victoria is here to help local kids who are in financial need. Over the past two decades, we have funded 15,600 local children into the sports of their choice, by providing nearly $4 million in season-ofsport registration fees to sport organizations throughout the Capital Regional District, so those children can get off the

With respect and best wishes, “M family” Need among local families is significant. We welcome your support in any amount, if you are in a position to give; donations of $20 or more are tax deductible. To donate, please scan the QR code on this page, or visit www. kidsportvictoria.ca KidSport Greater Victoria remains committed, for the long term, to ensuring all kids have the opportunity to play. Through sport, children and youth gain resilience, confidence, leadership skills, work ethic, fitness and much more. Could you, or someone you know, use financial help to get your kids back in the game? Please visit kidsportvictoria.ca for more information.

A chance for you to be twice as nice this holiday season! Starting now and through the holiday season, your donations will be matched (up to $15,000!) thanks to Peninsula Co-op. With their support, we’re on a mission to raise $30,000 this holiday season! Can you help us meet our $30,000 goal? That’s a gift of sport for 100 local children and youth living in financial need, who would otherwise be left out of the action. Give now at www.kidsportvictoria.ca and double your impact.

In the words of the parent of a recent grant recipient: “Our family grateful to you for your support and help. Thanks to your care, our son started playing soccer again. This new stage in our lives is not easy, and we really appreciate your help. We hope we can be of service to Canada. And the moment will come when we also help others. Thank you very much again. With respect and best wishes.” - M. family Please scan code with your smart phone camera to link to donation site.

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n the evening of Oct. 13th, the Lifetime Networks 18th annual Gala Auction Dinner unfolded as a true testament to the power of friendship, support and community. This remarkable event brought together individuals from all walks of life to support a cause close to our hearts. With the spirit of giving and an unwavering sense of unity, the dinner transcended expectations, showcasing the generosity and kindness that resides in our community.

THE FOYER OF DELTA HOTELS BY MARRIOTT VICTORIA OCEAN POINTE RESORT ADORNED WITH THE ARRAY OF SILENT AUCTION ITEMS.

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It highlighted the importance of providing opportunities, nurturing talents and promoting independence. From inspiring success stories to captivating testimonials, the event showcased the remarkable progress and achievements of individuals who have been touched by Lifetime Networks’ programs. It was a powerful reminder that inclusivity is not merely an ideal but a realizable vision. The Lifetime Networks Gala Auction Dinner would not have been possible without the invaluable support of our sponsors. We extend our deepest gratitude to those who have joined hands with us, recognizing the significance of building an inclusive society. Our title sponsors, Max Furniture, The Wilson’s Group, Country Grocer, and Western Design Build have exemplified their commitment to social responsibility. Their generosity and belief in our mission have been instrumental in making this event a success. With their unwavering support, we have been able to create lasting change in the lives of many. We would also like to express our sincere thanks to our sponsors, including 1550’s Pub Style Restaurant, 5th Street Bar and Woodfire Grill, H2 Accelerator, Inclusion BC, Inclusion by IBEX, Peninsula Co-op, Applied Office Solutions Ltd., Baker Tilly, Derma Spa, Gilmour Plumbing, Proline Management, Western Design Build, Wilson’s Transportation, WestJet, Times Colonist, Business Examiner, Cold Comfort Ice Cream and Maximum Express. Your belief in the potential of every individual, regardless of their abilities, is an inspiration to us all. At the heart of the Lifetime Networks

Gala Auction Dinner is the need for ongoing support. The funds raised during the event play a vital role in sustaining and expanding the organization’s programs and services. Your contribution is not just a donation; it’s an investment in building a more inclusive world. The Lifetime Networks supports programs, job placement initiatives and independent living training. Your contribution provides essential resources that empower individuals with disabilities to thrive in their communities. Lifetime Networks aims to reach even more individuals who can benefit from their services. Your donations enable them to extend their programs, workshops, and resources to a broader audience. Funds raised serves as the cornerstone for providing networks that enable individuals to overcome barriers and transform dreams into reality. The inspiring narratives of individuals who’ve surmounted challenges and realized their dreams with the support of Lifetime Networks are a testament to the profound impact of your support. Your contribution has the potential to ignite additional tales of success. Every dollar raised during the Gala Auction Dinner directly contributes to the organization’s mission. It provides support, facilitates genuine connections, creates employment opportunities, and nurtures a sense of belonging for individuals with disabilities. Your generosity is the cornerstone of these life-changing efforts. Our journey is far from over. As we look to the future, we see a world where everyone enjoy safe, happy fulfilling lives. Your support is instrumental in making this vision a reality. We invite you to join us in making a difference and contributing to the ongoing success of Lifetime Networks. Your generosity will continue to shape lives, create opportunities, and inspire a brighter future for all. Contact 250-477-4112 or email info@ LNV.ca for donation and partnership opportunities. Let’s continue to make a difference together.

Every donation is a step towards a brighter future for individuals with developmental disabilities. Your support means more dreams fulfilled, more opportunities unlocked, and more lives transformed. Join us today and be the driving force behind this life-changing movement. Together, we can make a lasting impact, one contribution at a time.

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or my grandma … For my mom … In memory of my sister … Charitable donations often come directly from the heart. If your life has been impacted by a difficult circumstance, it’s natural for you to want to help others in a similar situation. At Victoria Women’s Transition House, we hear every day that support from our organization helped change someone’s life. Sometimes it’s a survivor talking about her own escape from an abusive relationship; sometimes a parent will share that their daughter needed help. We hear from adults who spent their childhoods in violent homes and ended up at our Emergency Shelter with their moms, and we hear stories about how a call to our Crisis Line enabled a woman to safely leave a relationship after years of abuse. It’s likely that you will know someone who’s life has been affected by intimate partner violence, but you don’t need to have a direct connection to want to make a difference. 48 | HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2023

Victoria Women’s Transition House has been a safe refuge for thousands of women in the years since we opened the doors of our first shelter in 1974. It is thanks to the generosity of our community that women and children have a place to escape; but more than that, they have the chance to heal and to build new lives. In addition to our emergency shelter and 24-hour crisis and information line, Victoria Women’s Transition House offers specialized counselling programs – including for children who witness abuse – outreach and housing programs for older women, support through the legal and court systems, assistance to find housing and a range of health and wellness programs. Leaving a legacy gift, of whatever size, will ensure that there will always be a safe place, and hopes of a violence-free future, for women and children in our community. Visit transitionhouse.net/ support-us/leave-a-legacy for information and donation options.

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MEET NEWCOMER ATHLETE DANIEL MULUSHET ZEWDU Limara Yakemchuk

aniel Mulushet Zewdu began running distances of five to 10 kilometres at an early age, making the decision at age 30 to move to a longer, more competitive distance by competing in marathons. Before coming to Canada from Israel, Daniel trained with the Israeli National Team under coach Gezachw Yossef. Joining a team with two Olympic marathon runners, Daniel set out to make himself a competitor. He and Yossef collaborated on a training plan and soon Daniel became a champion in his marathon — a win he attributes to the strong coaching he received. Still, Daniel aimed higher, with his current goal to represent Team Canada at the Olympics. Competing at the highest level has always been Daniel’s goal, and he will be proud to represent Canada. He knows there is hard work ahead, and he is ready for any challenge that may come his way. Freedom to grow and the chance to become a professional athlete was not something Daniel was afforded as a refugee in Israel, but it didn’t stop him. Originally Daniel started running for fun due to an interest in basketball, but didn’t

take it seriously until a teacher and his father urged him to focus on running and, of course, his studies. Daniel credits both of them for his decision, highlighting the ongoing support from his teacher as he has moved through his athletic career. Daniel’s typical marathon prep takes between two to three months and PISE has sponsored him during this prep with a complimentary membership that allows him to take advantage of all that PISE has to offer. To prepare for the marathon Daniel is training six times a week, occasionally doing two runs a day based on the individualized training plan he and his coach Bruce Deacon create. He has been utilizing the track at PISE in addition to strength and flexibility work in the weight room. Daniel believes that any athlete who dreams to reach a highperformance or professional level should get the chance to train at a state-of-the-art facility, which is the primary reason he enjoys training at PISE! Please visit pise.ca/donate to donate to help athletes like Daniel or contact slund@pise. ca for more information. HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2023 | 49

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VICTORIA HOSPICE BEREAVEMENT SERVICES: CREATING COMMUNITY AND WALKING THROUGH GRIEF

hen kindred spirits meet in nature, healing happens. The Walking through Grief Support Group is one of the ways Victoria Hospice Bereavement Services bring people together. Counsellor and group facilitator Heidi Wigmore says: “People in bereavement often wonder, ‘Can anyone hold space for what I feel right now? Are there people comfortable enough to be around my grief, my tears and anger, guilt and confusion? Does anyone feel the way I do?’” Social connection – especially in bereavement – is essential when grief makes feelings of isolation and loneliness even heavier. As with other Victoria Hospice support groups, the walking group provides a way to connect with others who have also experienced a profound loss. “Participants tend to have an immediate sense of ‘I’m not the only one’,” Heidi says. “To be with others who feel the depth and intensity of grief and a sense of shared knowing and understanding is really crucial.” Audrey Hunt and Margaret Payne experienced more than grief support in a Victoria Hospice walking group. They found friendship to last the decades. New to Victoria and recently widowed, Audrey felt alone and a little daunted at the prospect of joining the group, she says. “When I first drove into the parking lot, I didn’t want to get out of the car. I was suddenly scared stiff! I was used to going everywhere with my husband. But the volunteers welcomed me with open arms.” Margaret’s husband had died the previous year and she was among the group on the fateful day of their first meeting. “Audrey became my walking partner and she still is,” Margaret says. 50 | HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2023

Max Bolka found support from the Victoria Hospice walking group after the death of his wife, Julia. Max is pictured here with volunteer Maureen Dixon (L), and counsellor and group facilitator Heidi Wigmore.

Friends Margaret Payne (L) and Audrey Hunt met through Victoria Hospice Bereavement Services more than 20 years ago.

More than 20 years on, Audrey and Margaret still walk together every week, sharing life’s ups and downs and fond memories of the walking group. “Being with people who knew what you were going through was wonderful. They helped you because they knew what helped them, and there was always someone to talk to,” Margaret says. “If you burst into tears, you didn’t feel embarrassed, because everyone had all gone through the same thing.” That connection with others who

understand the experience of grief – no matter their age, gender, or culture – was key to getting through hard times, they say. “It was the best thing that could have happened, because I didn’t know anyone. I got to know a group of people and we all came from different backgrounds,” Audrey says. Having something to look forward to and knowing you’re not alone helps, Margaret says. “When you’re at home, without your significant other who had always been there, it can be hard. It’s good to get together and walk with others who are going through the same thing. You can easily talk with them because they understand,” Margaret says. Gratitude for their experience led both Audrey and Margaret to become loyal Victoria Hospice donors. “I’m not a wealthy person, and I just do what I can, but I feel Victoria Hospice is a very worthwhile charity. I have been to hospice and seen that they do wonderful work, and the bereavement groups are very important. “If you can afford to give a little bit of money – which I try to do – it is helpful. And it is for me too, because it makes me feel better,” Audrey says. Victoria Hospice support groups are offered online and in person. They include the Walking through Grief Support Group, Suicide Loss Support Group, Room to Grieve-Space to Heal Group for people grieving someone who has died from toxic drugs, Journaling Groups, Exploring Grief through Creativity Groups and more. All programs are made possible by generous donors and community support. Learn more at victoriahospice.org/events.

Nothing can take away the pain of losing a loved one.

But with your support, Victoria Hospice bereavement counsellors are here to help people who are grieving adapt to life after loss. This vital service is 100 percent funded by community donations. Please donate today.

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Camp Shawnigan’s $25 million transformation will create North America’s first year-round, purpose-built retreat for children, youth, and adults with physical and intellectual disabilities.

Leave Your Legacy and Create a World-Class Destination for Islanders

any people have fond memories of summer camp—sailing on the lake, singing campfire songs, pranking counsellors, and forging lasting friendships. Now, imagine a child who is not able to attend summer camp because of a disability, missing out on life-changing experiences and friendships. At Easter Seals Camp Shawnigan, that is not the case. Camp Shawnigan is an inclusive retreat where any child or adult with a disability can attend and participate in activities. Camp opens a completely new world to those living with a disability. There are over 4,000 children and youth on Vancouver Island living with a physical or intellectual disability, a number that has increased by 14.6 percent since 2019. They experience a multitude of barriers in their daily life, so at Easter Seals we are committed to providing them an experience with no barriers, only inclusion. They get this at Camp Shawnigan every summer; however, after four decades of service, Camp Shawnigan is approaching the end of its useful life. While basic updates and maintenance have been completed every year, the facility will soon be obsolete. There are many challenges with the buildings, infrastructure and landscaping that must

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be addressed for the site to remain safe and accessible by today’s definition. The other issue is that demand for an inclusive space to serve both visible and invisible disabilities has grown exponentially. Camp Shawnigan’s programs are at capacity with growing waitlists, particularly with the steady increase of children and youth being diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. The time has come to revitalize Camp Shawnigan and build a World-Class destination for campers, families and caregivers, and the entire community. Camp Shawnigan’s $25 million transformation will create North America’s first year-round, purpose-built multipurpose retreat for children, youth, and adults with physical and intellectual disabilities, their families, and caregivers. Designed for people with both visible and invisible disabilities, Camp Shawnigan will accommodate all people no matter their abilities, mobility, or sensory sensitivities and do it in a way that is 100 percent inclusive and accessible… as we know it today. “Witnessing the impact of genuine inclusivity is powerful, and it drives all of us at Easter Seals to do more for the people and communities we serve,” says Mike Leland, VP of Engagement and Philanthropy.

More than just a camp for kids, the new facility will serve as a fully accessible destination for tourists and inclusive large gatherings; it will contribute to its own self-sustainability and the economic vitality of Victoria and Vancouver Island; and it will serve as a living laboratory for Universal Design Principles. “Kids living with disabilities hear the word ‘no’ a lot when navigating the world around them. We are going to push the boundaries of Universal and Inclusive Design to improve quality of life—at Camp Shawnigan, people will not hear the word no.” “A great way to support the Camp Shawnigan Project would be including a gift to Easter Seals BC & Yukon in your Will. No matter how big or small, you will make a lasting difference for generations to come.” For more information: campshawnigan.ca or contact Michelle at mboileau@eastersealsbcy.ca

You can give families hope for the future Ag gift made through your Will is an n easy way for you to leave a leg gacy for future generations of children and families in Victoria and across Vancouver Island. You can truly help improve he quality of life for persons th with disabilities and those with medical conditions.

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YOUR GIFT KEEPS THE MUSIC PLAYING FOR EVERYONE

YOU ARE INSTRUMENTAL! To learn more, contact Amy Hinrichs at 250.412.1985 VictoriaSymphony.ca/PlannedGiving

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here are few quiet places left in modern life. Ironically, one of the few spaces remaining where I can hear myself think is in the concert hall. Invariably, out of the “quiet” emerges powerful and often unexpected feelings of awareness, consolation and the joy of a shared human experience. Nearly every week, incredibly gifted and dedicated musicians create a magical bond with Victoria Symphony audiences. It’s a profound social connection that allows for self-discovery as well as the reassuring knowledge that, as humans, we can create and share beautiful things when we choose. Providing the opportunity for the audience to connect with themselves, our musicians, great art, and each other is what I love best about what we bring to communities across the Island. Marvie McEown felt that way, too. While Marvie enjoyed classical music, she always looked forward to — and took a special delight in — the Pops concerts. For her, they never

failed to express the unique vitality each composer brought to the music, and that connected deeply with her own experiences of the world. Marvie’s generous, enthusiastic spirit is remembered, and her support continues to shape the work of the Victoria Symphony. Gifts to the Symphony and its Foundation have helped us persevere through lean times and are building what comes next for Victoria. It’s gifts from people like Marvie — and you — that have launched our Share the Music ticket program and helped us bring music programs into local schools. Your gifts tune the pianos, underwrite extraordinary artists, nurture emerging talent and invite everyone to share in an extraordinary experience. Thank you. Music moves us together; it really does. To learn about making a gift to Victoria Symphony, please contact Amy Hinrichs at 250.412.1985 VictoriaSymphony.ca/support

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The marzipan ball

Grandma Betty’s Christmas robes

hen a grandma has 30 grandchildren and loves to sew, what better Christmas gift could she put under the tree than cosy hand-made bathrobes? Our mother, Betty, was a third-generation talented seamstress. In 1990, with a dozen of her grandchildren between the ages of 2 and 12, she undertook a most reasonable (for her) project — making each of them a cosy Christmas bathrobe full of love. The boys’ robes were plaid flannel, with contrasting flannel lapels. The girls’ robes were hooded and made of soft plush, lined with contrasting plush fabric. Here is the gang — swaddled in a grandmother’s love at Christmas. A memory we cherish.

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ne Christmas in the 1940’s when rations of food were still enforced, I scrounged from the neighbours some raisins, currants and orange peel to bake a cake. All went well and with the cake in the oven, I decided to make the marzipan ahead of time and place it on top of the cake before icing, then decorate it with holly, red berries and a Christmas Santa. As I rolled and rolled the mixture with hope to make it smooth, it became hard as a tennis ball. After several efforts to make the marzipan soft and roll out, I picked up the ball and threw it hard as I could against the outside wall, when a loud bang was heard on our neighbour’s green back door. A little old lady came out. She looked up at the sky, then with a shrug, picked up the marzipan ball and threw it on the outside path, near our garage door. When hubby came home, he drove over the marzipan ball, now flattened to the ground. On Christmas day when serving him a slice of cake, “where’s the marzipan,” he asked. “You ran over it,” I said. Wishing each other a Happy Christmas, we hugged and kissed. “Perhaps next year,” I said reassuringly, there will be marzipan on our Christmas cake.

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he security guard was very discreet. He pretended not to see us and we pretended we weren’t

there. It was Christmas Day, 2020. I had recently fled the COVID-19 epidemic by moving from an apartment in North Park to the masked confines of The Glenshiel, a retirement home in James Bay tucked in behind the Royal British Columbia Museum. No outsiders were allowed in for celebrations, so my daughter and sonin-law compromised with a Christmas picnic. We sat at a table under canvas in

the museum’s outdoor food court where, prepandemic, food carts dispensed ethnic fare to museum visitors and government workers on their lunch breaks. In Month 10 of the pandemic the trucks were still shuttered. So there we were, just we three, the pigeons and the security guard. And presents. And food. I don’t recall the details but I know we had a yule log — we always had a yule log. We had worked our way through Victoria’s bakeries finding the best one for our taste (no marzipan) and we had those Christmas crackers that contain paper hats and a riddle or bad joke. There were lots of chocolates, white wine and a Thermos of decaf coffee for me. My son-in-law wore his RBCM tuque, as a salute to our shuttered host. The thermometer hovered around zero so we wore mitts. We had a little carved wooden tree on the table and we ate off proper plates. We opened presents and we rejoiced that, pre-vaccine, we had been spared from COVID-19, so far. That didn’t last, of course. I caught it in April, 2022; my brother in Toronto perished

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from it in 2021. My cautious daughter and her husband are still COVID-free and properly vaccinated. And this Christmas, thanks to science, we will celebrate under a proper roof, far from the cautious gaze of the security guard.

~ Anne Moon Victoria

Little boats, big memories

n 1955 my family moved from St Mary’s to Allendale Ont., which is now part of Barrie. The reason for the move was to be closer to Camp Borden where my dad, a member of the Canadian army, had been posted. He had applied for a permanent married quarters, but we had to wait until one became available. We were able to rent an old farm house near the fairgrounds, which was across from rolling hills with long golden grass. It was cowboy country, just like the movies. My newfound friend and I from down the street — another army brat — would wile away the hours riding our wooden horses over the hills and shooting it out with bad guys. It was a beautiful life for a nine year old. Christmas 1955 was a lean one as money was scarce due to the cost of the move and higher than expected rent. Soldiers were not well paid back then. My parents told my sister and I not to expect much that year. Christmas morning I awoke to the faint sound of Bing Crosby singing White Christmas on the old radio. The sweet smell of oranges and an apple exuded from the sock hung near my bed. The sock also contained two small plastic boats and a few candies. In the living room, I could hear my sister laugh as she played with her new small doll. My mom was hugging her. Dad appeared and asked me if the boats would float, then showed me how to make sails from paper. He spent hours playing with me and even made tiny rope ladders for the little boat which now had become a British war galleon. I wouldn’t trade that Christmas for any other.

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f the many Christmases in my long life, I remember those of 1949 and 1950 the best. As post-war immigrants to Canada, our young family’s only possession was a single trunk crammed with hopes and dreams. With the arrival of Christmas four months later, Santa brought my sister and I a rubber Wet-Em doll. My sister named the doll “Baby Potato,” mostly because it looked like one. Santa gave our mother a 39-cent jar of Pond’s cold cream, and our father, Santa’s best wishes. My sister diapered Baby Potato in one of our father’s handkerchiefs.

The most precious time

his Christmas is one that will be my most memorable, my most precious, and my most blessed, for it is going to be the last one I will have with my dear sister. Her life is coming to a close through terminal cancer. Already she is on the farther end of the “how-long” timeline so we know every moment is especially dear. Because she lives quite far away, the timing of a visit needed to be carefully planned and thought out. Do I go so we can spend my birthday, late in the fall, together? Do I try and catch a low season air fare so the cost isn’t so high? Or, dear sister, what is in your heart for when we have a visit? Once we landed on Christmas – me arriving a few days ahead to help with whatever my sister can no longer do, and staying until her birthday on Dec. 28, we wondered how we hadn’t decided this in the first place. Both of us are very deep in our faith, and Christmas for us is all about celebrating the birth of Jesus. Yes, with my sister so far into her preparations to experience the promise of God’s eternal love, we will be together to count our many blessings and the gift of having lives that are truly a treasure of love and family. And there is the continual prayer for a miracle of healing, knowing that we can never know God’s plan, nor schedule for when we are to leave this Earth. There is a great peace and comfort in having this faith and the balm it provides for my sister and I to have joy in each other’s company at such a tough time.

~ Joanne Thibault Victoria

We shared this doll, there being no money to spare after our father bought a 50-cent Christmas tree decorated with a small spray of tinsel. It was now 1950, and all around us was a post-war housing boom of tiny houses filled with families large and small. After a year of walking distant miles to dig ditches and demolish aging structures and build new ones in downtown Vancouver, our father had managed to buy our own tiny house. Come Christmas, and a somewhat moreprosperous Santa delivered my very own Christmas doll — a hard-bodied, hardheaded sprog whose blank, joyless stare excited the curiosity that has governed my entire life. Curiosity is not always a positive trait. Ripping the doll from its box Christmas

morning, I remember wondering why my doll’s eyelashes made a CLACK-CLACK! sound as they opened and closed over the blank glass orbs that passed for eyes. My own eyelashes were silent. I had to find out why the doll’s were not! Before my parents could stop me, I raced outside, smashing open the doll’s head. To my enormous disappointment, the doll’s now-silent lashes were nothing more than a row of solid black plastic on a weighted stick. The only sound now were the wails of grief from my parents, who were not-yet prosperous enough to laugh.

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Cooking the prefect prime rib

PREPPING THE MEAT At Fireside Grill, we tie our roast before we rub it with spices, using one of our original seasoning recipes and adding Dijon mustard and dried rosemary from our restaurant gardens. Be very generous with seasoning and mustard as it adds to the flavour. A crucial step to cooking the perfect prime rib roast is to let it sit on the counter for at least four to five hours before cooking so it reaches room temperature, about an hour per pound. This assures the beef will be more tender and will cook evenly throughout.

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WHAT’S THE RIGHT COOKING TEMPERATURE? For the perfect prime rib roast, inserting a digital probe thermometer into the center or thickest part of the roast before and during cooking is the best way to ensure it’s done right. We set the roast in a pan on a rack in a preheated oven at 500° F for 15 minutes to achieve browning on the outside of the roast, then reduce heat to 325-350° F for the duration of the cooking time, about 1215 minutes per pound. We cook our prime rib on the rarer side, or until the thermometer reads about 110° F. The center should be a vibrant pink, however, for those who can’t tolerate pink, the ends are always well done, so there’s the perfect slice for everyone.

DETERMINING WHEN IT’S DONE After cooking, transfer the meat to a cutting board, loosely tent it with foil and let it sit for 20 minutes to allow the juices to seal back into the meat. If you don’t let the meat rest long enough, you could end up with a chewy prime rib roast. As the roast rests, the internal temperature will rise five to 10 degrees. After the resting period you want it to read: 115° F for a rare roast; 120° F for mediumrare; and 130° F for medium. SLICING AND SERVING Cut the meat across the grain. We cut through the centre and then work your way to the ends and then serve. Pair it with au jus or gravy, horseradish, mashed potatoes, Yorkshire Pudding and your favourite vegetables.

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Adding a tasty twist to tradition

he holiday season often means dusting off the traditional family favourite recipes you lean on this time of year. While time-treasured recipes are worthy of being cherished, it’s also nice to learn there are simple things that you can do to elevate them without changing them all together. You may also be looking for quick and easy solutions to entertaining and seasoning your holiday dishes, without adding too many other ingredients. There is a solution, and it’s found in one store in downtown Victoria. The Victoria Olive Oil tasting

room has over 80 flavours of oils/balsamic vinegars for you to choose from. The two most popular during the holiday season are Cranberry Pear and Red Apple balsamic. The Cranberry Pear balsamic vinegar can be drizzled over: Fruit French Toast Pancakes/Crepes Porridge Ice Cream Cheesecake Roasted Squash Salad Roast Pork Seasonal Cocktails

The Red Apple balsamic pairs nicely with: Pork, Chicken and Fish Apple pie and crumble Poached pears Granola Yogurt Fresh Fruit Seasonal Cocktails The variety of 80+ flavours at the store can be tasted first and the service you will get there will ensure the dish you are looking to elevate will find it’s pairing.

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LIBATIONS

For a special treat, try TUG’s After Eight Shaft LETTERS

ug Eatery is a local, family-owned restaurant in downtown Victoria that opened its doors three years ago, in the midst of the pandemic. Tug’s claim to fame is its huge waterfront patio, full of beautiful views and lush gardens. The holiday season is a special time for the Tug family. The bustling patio quiets down, tourist numbers dwindle and the team can relax a little and prepare for a cozy winter indoors. The interior of the restaurant was specifically designed to feel like an inviting home-away-from-home. In between Tug’s busy holiday party schedule, they draw a local crowd with regular live music and open mic nights. The food menu is casual, with addictive flavours and uncommonly good renditions of familiar dishes. The true shining star on Tug’s drink menu is Victoria’s very own Shaft cocktail. Invented locally, you will find a Shaft in every corner of the city. The original Shaft contains espresso, vodka, Kahlua, and Baileys. Tug puts their own spin on the original by swapping out the Baileys for fun rotating flavours that change weekly. From the legendary Chocolate Peanut Butter to the beloved Brown Butter Pecan, co-owner and general manager Sarah Parsons makes each feature flavour by hand. She is happy to share one of her most popular holiday favourites, the After Eight Shaft. Dark chocolate and cool mint make this cocktail the perfect way to spread some extra festive cheer.

SHAFT BASE

3 Cups – Chilled Espresso (Brewed extra strong) 1 Cup – Vodka ½ Cup - Kahlua

AFTER EIGHT TOPPING

1 Box After Eight Mint Chocolate Thins ¼ Cup Crème de Cacao ¼ Cup Peppermint Schnapps 2 Cups Whipping Cream

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Submerge mint chocolate thins in whipping cream and microwave until they are fully melted. Whisk in liqueurs. Let cool. Fill highball glass with ice. Add 4 oz of Shaft Base to glass and top with 2.5 oz of After Eight Topping. Serve with a straw. *Recipe makes 8 cocktails.

ERIC AKIS

Get festive with salmon mandarin entree

f you want to serve a festive fish entrée this holiday season, you might get hooked on this salmon recipe. It serves eight, features seasonal colours and has a palate-pleasing sweet-and-sour citrus sauce. To make it, salmon filets are seasoned and topped with sliced, peeled mandarin oranges, then baked. You can get the salmon oven-ready hours before needed and keep it refrigerated until ready to cook. When you want to serve dinner, simply pop the pan of fish into the oven. You can also make the sauce for the salmon in advance and reheat when needed. That sauce is made by simmering cornstarch-thickened mandarin orange juice that’s been flavoured with lime juice, brown sugar, soy sauce, ginger, garlic and a bit of cayenne pepper.

BAKED SALMON WITH MANDARIN ORANGE SAUCE, POMEGRANATES AND PISTACHIOS Preparation time: 30 minutes Cooking time: About 20 minutes Makes: eight servings FOR THE SAUCE 1 cup fresh-squeezed mandarin orange juice, plus more, if needed 2 Tbsp lime juice 2 Tbsp brown sugar 1 Tbsp soy sauce 2 tsp finely grated fresh ginger 1 large garlic clove, minced 1 Tbsp cornstarch 1/8 tsp ground cayenne pepper

FOR THE SALMON AND TO SERVE 8 (5- to 6-oz./140- to 170 g) salmon fillets, such as sockeye or steelhead 2 Tbsp melted butter or olive oil 8 (about 1/4 — to 1/2-inch thick, 2-inch round), peeled slices fresh mandarin orange • salt and fresh ground black pepper to taste 1/3 cup pomegranate seeds 1/4 cup coarsely chopped unsalted shelled pistachios (see Note 1) 8 fresh mint or Italian parsley sprigs Place the one cup mandarin orange juice, lime juice, brown sugar, soy sauce, ginger, garlic, cornstarch and cayenne pepper in a small pot and whisk to combine. Set over medium-high heat and bring to a simmer. Simmer two minutes, until sauce thickens. Remove from

the heat, cover and set sauce aside until needed. Preheat oven to 375 F. Line a large baking sheet with parchment paper. Set the salmon fillets on the sheet, leaving enough space between them so they can easily be lifted out. Brush each piece of salmon with butter or olive oil; season with salt and pepper. Top each piece of salmon with a mandarin orange slice. Bake for 15 minutes, or until cooked. Return the mandarin orange sauce to a simmer, adding a bit more juice if you find it too thick or overly reduced. Arrange the salmon in a single layer on a large serving platter. Spoon the sauce over the salmon. Sprinkle with pomegranate seeds and pistachios. Garnish with mint or parsley sprigs and serve.

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In the season of giving, remember those left behind

n this, the season of giving, we should consider the many ways we can give back to our community. Through the Times Colonist Christmas Fund, we can provide food, clothing, comfort and more to people in need. Many other organizations, all non-profits with a commitment to helping, are featured in this magazine. But again, there are different ways to help. Pause, for a moment, to consider the inspirational commitment of Gail Bones, the Brentwood Bay woman who for a quarter of a century has been cutting hair for the sort of men that many of us would rather avoid. It all started the day she was volunteering at a shelter downtown, and a man in need of a place to stay asked her for help. She had no experience, other than cutting the hair of her children, but the man needed his hair cut, and she offered to do it. As she cut it, she says, she prayed throughout that she did not make a mistake. She is better at it now. “After 30,000 haircuts, I have learned a few things,” she told me. Bones says a haircut is a justifiable touch – “it might be the most loving touch they have had in their lives,” she says. Many of her clients have told her about their lives, which gives us a sense of what it is like to be homeless. “They live in quiet, brutal desperation,” she says; “they are in constant shame.” There are many reasons why people help others. Bones, a former atheist, says she does it out of gratitude to the Lord, who has been responsible for every good thing that has happened to her. The Christmas season is, at its heart, a celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, but the spirit of giving can be seen all around us, regardless of the faith of the people involved. For almost seven decades, our readers have been able to help their 62 | HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2023

neighbours in need through the Times Colonist Christmas Fund. The fund is run by a non-profit society, with help from Times Colonist staff. Last year’s campaign received 3,730 donations for a total of $895,399.04. Once again, we are asking for your support so we can make things better for as many people as possible. We no longer give directly to individuals, but rather work with local groups who specialize in giving aid. We are once again co-ordinating our efforts with the Sovereign Order of St. John, a local non-profit that works to ensure that donations are being used as efficiently as possible. We will give money to the Salvation Army, as well as the Mustard Seed Street Church, the Victoria Women’s Transition House, Nourish Cowichan and several food banks on Vancouver Island and the Gulf Islands. Most of the money is used to provide food, although the Christmas Fund donations also help to bring comfort and security to those less fortunate as well as toys for children. You can make a difference, and that can be done in many ways – through a food voucher, or a toy, or someone to talk to – or even, as Gail Bones will attest, a hair cut. This the real meaning of the Christmas season: Give help to those in need, in any way you can. Thank you. Dave Obee, editor and publisher Donate by going to the Times Colonist Christmas Fund site, tcchristmasfund.com The site is open 24 hours a day and provides an immediate tax receipt. Or mail a cheque to the Times Colonist Christmas Fund, 201-655 Tyee Road, Victoria, B.C. V9A 6X5. You can use your credit card by phoning 250-995-4438 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Monday through Friday.

LIBATIONS

A delicious delight

he Courtney Room at the Magnolia Hotel in Victoria was born of the desire to offer genuine hospitality, creating memorable occasions and fun, spontaneous gatherings. Recognized as one of the 10 Best New Restaurants in Canada in 2018 by enRoute Magazine, the restaurant has been racking up accolades, including being named one of Canada’s 100 Best Restaurants, and receiving a Gold Wine Program Excellence Award and Tales of the Cocktails Spirited Awards. The bar program focuses on local and seasonal ingredients, showcasing coastal offerings that pair perfectly with our Pacific Northwest cuisine. We honour past traditions of great hotel bars by holding strong roots in classic cocktails while experimenting with a variety of premium spirits, many from local distilleries and in-house ferments. Explore the power and beauty of the Pacific Northwest with interesting cocktails, like the Fernwood Cocktail. Anton Wilson, bar manager at The Courtney Room, loves the Fernwood Cocktail for its simplicity, and his description is enticing: The Canadian Rye provides a bold spice, and the sweet vermouth adds a rich mouthfeel with herbal sweetness. The oloroso sherry provides acidity with notes of caramelized nuts and dried fruit. The Fernet Branca amaro adds a bold herbal bitterness, with hints of dark chocolate and eucalyptus. Before you start, Wilson recommends a frozen Nick and Nora coupe, so put a few of these stemmed cocktail glasses in the freezer.

FERNWOOD COCKTAIL RECIPE Add ingredients to stirring vessel • 1 oz (30ml) Stillhead Hungarian Oaked Rye • 1 oz (30ml) Esquimalt Rosso Vermouth • ¾ oz (22.5ml) Gonzalez Byass Oloroso Sherry • ¼ oz (7.5ml) Fernet Branca • Lemon oil Add lots of ice and stir until chilled and diluted, about 30 seconds. Strain neat into your frosty coupe. Garnish with a large swath of lemon peel and express lemon oil on top of the cocktail. Enjoy!

HOLIDAY APPETISERS

HOLIDAY PRAWN WREATH

with a Trio of Dipping Sauces

ERIC AKIS

ere’s a festive way to serve cold, cooked, tasty prawns. You can arrange the prawns on the serving plate many hours before garnishing and serving. Cover and keep refrigerated until ready to do so. POACHED AND CHILLED PRAWNS This is how a restaurant would prepare prawns for a classic prawn cocktail. Poaching them, shell on, in court bouillon — salted, flavoured water —enhances their texture and flavour and makes them also nice to use in my prawn wreath recipe. Preparation time: 30 to 40 minutes Cooking time: About 20 minutes Makes: 42 to 46 prawns 12 cups water 1 large lemon, thinly sliced 1 medium onion, halved and thinly sliced 12 whole black peppercorns 3 bay leaves 1 Tbsp coarse sea or kosher salt 42 to 46 large, raw, unpeeled prawns (about 2 lbs; see Note 1) Place the ingredients, except prawns, in a tall pot. Bring to a boil over high heat. Now lower the heat until this court bouillon gently simmers. Simmer the court bouillon five minutes. Meanwhile, fill a large bowl with ice cubes and cold water. 64 | HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2023

ERIC AKIS

When court bouillon has simmered five minutes, add the prawns. Heat and cook the prawns three to four minutes, or until just cooked through. When cooked, drain the prawns. Submerge them in the ice water to cool. When cold, peel and devein the shrimp, leaving the tip of the tails intact. Set prawns on a plate, cover and refrigerate until ready to serve. Prawns can be prepared many hours in advance of serving. Note 1: Prawns (and shrimp) are sold according to size and count per pound. The large shell-on ones used here were 21 to 25 prawns per pound. Note 2: When testing prawns for doneness, lift one out of the pot. When cooked it will turn bright pink and feel just slightly firm to the touch. If the prawn feels overly soft, it’s not cooked through. If it has become very firm, the shrimp is overcooked. Note 3: To peel a prawn, hold the end of the tail in one hand and use your other hand to grab onto its swimmerets, the little legs under the shell. Pull off the shell, leaving the very bottom portion of the tail intact. If the prawn was not sold deveined, now use a small paring knife to make a lengthwise slit along the back of the prawn. Pull out, or rinse out with cold water, the dark vein, if there is one, pat the prawn dry, and it’s ready to eat.

FOR THE PRAWNS AND TO SERVE

FOR THE CREAMY DILL AND LEMON SAUCE 1/3 cup sour cream or thick, plain yogurt 1/3 cup mayonnaise 1 tsp horseradish 2 Tbsp chopped fresh dill 1 Tbsp whole grain Dijon mustard lemon juice, salt and white pepper, to taste Combine ingredients in a bowl. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve. Makes about 1 cup. FOR THE JAPANESE-STYLE GINGER SAUCE 2/3 cup mayonnaise 1 tsp finely grated, peeled fresh ginger 2 Tbsp soy sauce 1 tsp wasabi powder or wasabi paste, or to taste 1 Tbsp sesame seeds Combine ingredients in a bowl. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve. Makes about 1 cup.

8 or so frilly lettuce leaves, such as escarole or leaf lettuce 42 to 46 large cooked, peeled, cold prawns, store-bought or prepared at home (see recipe below) • lemon slices and Italian parsley sprigs, for garnish Cover the bottom of a wide, decorative, at least 12-inch wide plate with lettuce leaves. Set three small decorative bowls for the dip in the centre of the plate. Press down on the bowls to make them sit flat. Arrange prawns in a ring around the bowls. Fill the bowls with the dips. (You can always refill the bowls if the dip does not all fit). Garnish the prawn wreath with lemon slices and parsley sprigs and it’s ready to enjoy. Eric Akis is the author of eight cookbooks. His columns appear in the Times Colonist.

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THE SAUCES The dipping sauces can also be made and kept chilled many hours before serving.

M A D E I N I T A LY

Preparation time: 30 to 60 minutes Cooking time: None Makes: 42 to 46 prawns (about 10 to 12 snack-sized servings) FOR THE COCKTAIL SAUCE 3/4 cup ketchup 1 Tbsp horseradish, or to taste 1/2 tsp Tabasco or other hot pepper sauce, or to taste 1 tsp Worcestershire sauce, or to taste 1 Tbsp lemon juice, or to taste Combine ingredients in a bowl. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve. Makes about 1 cup. Recipe could be doubled if you love cocktail sauce.

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Wrestling with real or artificial - the pros and cons of the Christmas tree

or many families, Christmas just isn’t Christmas without cutting down a living tree and putting it in a bucket of water to slowly die in the living room. Also important is the ritual desecration of the tree corpse with festive lights and nostalgic trinkets. It’s the Most. Wonderful. Time of the year! Other families – Scrooges, if you will – who have given up really living, prefer to construct a plastic and wire tree that normally lives in the crawlspace next to old golf clubs. For these families, the tree is more “artificial” than it is “fake,” and just as good as a real tree without all the plant murder. Christmas isn’t really the time for culture wars, but let’s get a few pros and cons out of the way before we settle on the right kind of Christmas tree, which in the interests of saving time, is a real evergreen. Saving time is the big pro for artificial

trees. No purchase to make; simple setup (open box); and plastic will outlive the eventual heat death of the universe. Fakeness is the big con. Also, they are not recyclable, so eventually end up in the landfill. According to the Carbon Trust, a two-metre artificial tree has a carbon footprint of around 40 kilograms, more than ten times that of a real tree that’s burned after Christmas. Before you ask, no, I have no idea what “carbon footprint” actually means. I was hoping you wouldn’t make that particular point, not at Christmas time! The big pro for real Christmas trees is they are real. They smell great – much better than people – like the Vancouver Island forest or grocery store parking lot from which they came. They are also 100% recyclable, especially if you like a really high-fibre diet. Finally, they support local tree farmers, most of whom seem to be friendly Mennonites.

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The Honourable Raj Chouhan, Speaker of the Legislative Assembly, invites you to celebrate the lighting of the provincial Christmas tree and Parliament Buildings. Featuring performances by local bands and choirs with seasonal treats. We acknowledge and respect the Lekwungen-speaking peoples, known today as the Songhees and Esquimalt Nations, on whose traditional territories the Legislative Assembly stands.

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THE PERFECT REAL CHRISTMAS TREE

efore you go shopping for a Christmas tree, it’s important to first determine B the location in your home that’s both

suitable and safe. Hahaha, I’m kidding, you’re going to put that tree exactly where your wife tells you to put it, then you’re heading straight to the rum and eggnog. She already knows to avoid placing the tree near a heat source (radiators, fireplaces, south Florida) and outside of high traffic areas (front door, refrigerator, Blanshard Street). You want your Christmas tree like your Christmas turkey: moist. While many trees on the lot look green and lively, some might already be drying out. Ask the clerk how long its been since hand lotion and lip balm were applied to the trees. If there is no clerk at hand, you can determine if the tree is fresh by lightly setting fire to a branch. The needles should look shiny and green, not dull or brown or on fire. No needles should fall off when you wrestle it into the trunk of your car. I mean in the perfect world. In the real world, there will be many, many needles in your car, hair and underwear until late June. Choose the correct tree height for the room, although if you forgot to bring a tape measure it’s okay to guess because you can always cut a hole in the ceiling, or buy a bigger place in a less-desirable province like Alberta. Once the tree is home, cut off the bottom inch or two of the trunk with a fine-toothed saw or medium-sized beaver. WARNING: do this before the rum and eggnog. Trimming the trunk allows the tree to begin soaking up water immediately and also makes you feel like a manly lumberjack. Or a womanly lumberjack, if you like Monty Python. If you have children or pets running around and are concerned about them knocking the tree over, you are correct: this will happen. Your options are to secure the tree to a wall with a lot of duct tape, or to take a Christmas vacation in New Zealand without the children and pets.

NOW WHAT?

nce the holiday season is over (Dec. 31 in our house, mid-February for my O in-laws), responsible tree owners are faced

with the tricky question of exactly how and when to dispose of the body. The when part is easy: when no one is looking. Also, you should probably pick the same weekend you get rid of that goldfish Grandma gave the kids without asking. As to the how, there are several options. The most popular, judging from the ditches near my house, is a “dump it here” approach operating under the misapprehension, “It’s fine, trees are natural.” So are uranium deposits, but we don’t want piles of radioactive rocks up and down the street. You should never burn your Christmas tree, as open flames present a severe fire danger. Some of the municipal yard waste depots accept Christmas trees as an organic material for composting, as do many community groups who set up woodchipper charities in grocery store parking lots and for a certain fee will consider goldfish. Alternatively, you can recycle your used Christmas tree into… They’re wood, right? Uh, maybe flooring? Sticks? My point is that we welcome suggestions for what used Christmas trees may be recycled into, and when I say “we” I mean other people you know, not me. Before you do whatever you’re going to do with the used tree, take a deep breath and enjoy the best smell your living room will have until next year. Finish your rum and eggnog with a final round of that favourite Christmas carol (lyrics by John Jacobson): O Christmas tree, O Christmas tree, I guess I’m superficial. O Christmas tree, O Christmas tree, I’m making it official, Don’t get me wrong, I love you so, But none the less, just so you know, O Christmas tree, O Christmas tree, I’m going artificial.

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Ch ef Onille Pitogo’s S co

1.25 kg all purpose flour 250 g granulated sug ar 75 g baking powder 1 tbsp cinnamon po wder 1 tsp fine salt 1.5 cups unsalted bu tter 200 g white chocolate chips 5 pcs whole eggs 1.5 cups milk 2 cups pumpkin pu ree

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Sift together all dry ingredients. Dice butter and lightl y mix into dry ingred ients. Transfer into a mixer and mix until resem bles large crumbs. Beat eggs lightly in a bowl then add pump kin and milk. Add egg mixture wit h the dry ingredients and mix just until dough forms. Transfer dough onto floured surface. Roll out using a rollin g pin to 1.5 inch thickn ess and cut using cookie cutter. Brush with egg wash and sprinkle with cin namon sugar powder. Bake in a preheated oven a 350°F for 15-18 minutes.

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