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What does Christmas mean to you?

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Contents

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6 Welcome from Time Wisely Magazine and Merry Christmas wishes. A little bit about who we are.

10 Samaritan’s Purse

Operation Christmas Child on how to pack a shoe box.

14 Our purpose We are put on this earth to do more than “just exist”.

16 Health and Beauty What is

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20 Forgiveness Why should we forgive others for hurting us?

24 Jesus A message from the church.

26 Christmas What does Christmas mean to you?

28 Men What to buy your wife or that special woman in your life?

31 Christmas Agenda Local Christmas events and things to do.

“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too, can become great. When you are seeking to bring big plans to fruition, it is important with whom you regularly associate. Hang out with friends who are likeminded and who are also designing purpose-filled lives. Similarly be that kind of a friend for your friends.”

-Mark Twain

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Remember the old fashion Peanut Butter Pinwheels your grandma used to make?

Peanut Butter Pinwheels INGREDIENTS: 2 lb powdered sugar 6 tbsp melted butter 1 tbsp vanilla 1/2 cup milk 1 cup peanut butter

Directions 1. Mix all ingredients together (except for the peanut butter).

Hot Spiced Cider

The consistency should be that of a

Original recipe makes 2 quarts.

pie dough. Separate the dough into

1/4 cup packed brown sugar

four parts.

1/2 tsp whole allspice

2. Cover your pastry board with a

1 tsp whole cloves

small amount of powdered sugar to

1 cinnamon stick

help with rolling the dough.

1/4 tsp salt

Roll the dough out like a pie crust. I

1 pinch ground nutmeg

roll mine into a rectangle. Do not

1 large orange, quartered with peel

roll out too thin.

2 quarts apple cider

3. Spread as much peanut butter out

Directions

onto the flattened dough as you want

Place filter in coffee basket, and fill

(I just use enough to cover it

with brown sugar, allspice, cloves,

thoroughly). Then roll the dough up

cinnamon stick, salt, nutmeg, and

like you would a jelly roll.

orange wedges. Pour apple cider into

Refrigerate and then cut into slices.

coffee pot where the water usually goes.

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www.locksmithwilmingttonnc.com Generosity Proverbs 11:25 A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed. Being generous could men several different things, not just giving money. Many people sadly mistaken the word generosity.

Have you helped your neighbor or just simply helped an elderly person pick something up he or she dropped? What about opened the door for someone that had their hands full? Generosity comes in many forms. Hugging someone is being generous with your love. Generosity is the habit of giving without expecting anything in return. It can involve offering time, assets or talents to aid someone in need. Often equated with charity as a virtue, generosity is widely accepted in society as a desirable trait.

In times of natural disaster, relief efforts are frequently provided, voluntarily by individuals or groups acting unilaterally in making gifts of time, resources, goods, money, etc. Generosity is a guiding principle for many registered charities, foundations and non-profit organizations. Generosity can also be spending time, money, or labor for others without being rewarded in return. Remember it is always better to give than receive.

Although the term generosity often goes hand-in-hand with charity, many people in the public's eye want recognition for their good deeds. Donations are needed to support organizations and committees. However, generosity should not be limited to times of great need such as natural disasters and extreme situations.

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My name is Christy Osborne-Clemmons. I am from Boone, NC. I currently reside in Southport, NC. I’m the Founder/Owner of Time Wisely Magazine. The reason I chose the name “Time Wisely” is because I used to work for a very wise man, who is a true believer in God named David Long. He always talked about how people use their time. We never really think about how our time is spent and analyze what we are doing...or at least most of us don’t. Most of us just exist. I didn’t really give too much thought about how I use my time until David talked about it during book club at work. He had the employees keep track of how many hours of television we were watching. I believe on an average the number was 4 hours a day. Wow! That’s a lot of hours wasted. That’s 120 hours a month. That’s 3 full work weeks! So, from that moment forward, I tried to keep a conscious mind that I have a very short time here on earth and need to use my time wisely. I want to do more than “just exist”. I want to make a difference and motivate people the way David Long motivated me and made a difference in my life with such great wisdom and his faith in God. He always had the employees thinking about what we were doing and why. That brings me to why I have Time Wisely Magazine. I want people to think about what they are doing and why. I want people to include God in all they do. Putting God first will only make things easier in life and give you a better understanding on how to use your time. Remember God first = direction in who he wants you to be. I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

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Jesus is Born - Luke 2:1-20 (King James Version) And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed. (And this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.)

And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city.

Rev. Thomas Williams, Sr. PSALM 23: THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD

And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:) To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child.

And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered. And she brought forth her

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. 5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

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Jesus is Born continued... firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn.

And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were so afraid. And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.

For unto you are born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger. And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying, Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men. And it came to pass, as the angels were gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds said one to another, Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us. And they came with haste, and found Mary, and Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger. And when they had seen it, they made known abroad the saying which was told them concerning this child. And all they that heard it wondered at those things which were told them by the shepherds.

But Mary kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart.

And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things that they had heard and seen, as it was told unto them.

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YOUR GIFTS MEAN SO MUCH! Since 1993, more than 94 million boys and girls in over 130 countries have experienced God’s love through your shoe box gifts, enabling local churches and ministry partners to share the life-changing Gospel of Jesus Christ—God’s greatest gift. I know these gifts are appreciated just buy listening to KLove the other morning. A gentleman from Camp Lejeune called into K-Love talking about the “shoe box” he received as a child. He lived in Siberia and was very poor. He was one of the very thankful children who was able to receive the shoe box. He got his shoe box and was running home to show his parents and fell and cut his hand on a sharp rock. His hand was bleeding everywhere and his items from the shoe box fell out and scattered on the ground. The little boy wasn’t worried about his cut hand and blood running down his arm; he was so excited he picked the items up that had scattered when he fell and put them back in the box and kept running He was so happy to receive such small items. Today he carries that scar on his hand. It doesn’t remind him of the pain from the cut and all the blood, but how the shoe box meant so much to him. Keep in mind that the children receiving the shoe boxes are grateful to get a pair of socks or a candy cane. This is why I pick these children to help verses the children in our country.

Our children are so blessed and don’t even realize it. Might I add, our country knows and talks about the word of God and how Jesus died for our sins. Spread the LOVE! The gentleman from Siberia said, “if you are thinking about filling a shoe box, fill as many as you can, the small inexpensive presents are like gold to those children and was to me.”

Wow!

Message from Franklin Graham Our Operation Christmas Child project is about more than coloring books, toys, and toothbrushes. Your gifts enable Samaritan’s Purse to share the Good News of God’s greatest gift—His Son, Jesus Christ— with boys and girls who need to know how much Jesus loves them. As He said, “Your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost” (Matthew 18:14b, NIV). - Franklin Graham In February 2010, the town of Constitution, Chile was destroyed by an earthquake. A man in the community died—along with his wife and two brothers—as they were trying to rescue some people that lived on an island in the middle of the river. His daughter went to live with her grandmother, who could not afford the white sport socks she needed for her school gymnastics class. The little girl attended an OCC distribution, and her shoe box gift had four pairs of white socks inside! “It was a great opportunity to tell her that God did not leave her alone,” said Rafael, an OCC volunteer in Chile.

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How to Pack a Shoe Box TOYS: small cars, balls, dolls, stuffed animals, kazoos, harmonicas, yo-yo’s, jump ropes, toys that light up or make noise (with extra batteries), ect.

SCHOOL SUPPLIES: pens, pencils, sharpener, crayons, markers, stamps and ink pad sets, writing pads or paper, solar calculator, coloring and picture books, ect.

HYGIENE ITEMS: tooth brush, tooth paste, mild soap, (put in a plastic bag), comb, washcloth, ect.

OTHER: hard candy and lollipops (please double bag), mints, gum, t-shirts, ball caps, purses, sunglasses, toy jewelry, watches, flashlights (extra batteries), ect.

PERSONAL NOTE: In a separate envelope you can enclose a photo of you or your whole family and a note to the child. If you include your name and address, the child may write back.

DO NOT INCLUDE: used or damaged items, war related items (such as toys, guns, army figures, knives), chocolate or food, out of date candy, liquids or lotions, out of date items, medications or vitamins, breakable items or glass, and aerosol cans.

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WE ARE PUT ON THIS EARTH

FREE YOURSELF

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For what it’s worth: It’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit: stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you and God are proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again. Remember, God has a plan for all of us. You have to be still and listen to God. What is your faith like? Is it strong enough for you to allow God to take control? If not, practice and be obedient to God. He will show you in his own time...not yours.

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TO DO MORE THAN “JUST EXIST”.

“The biggest Human temptation is to settle for too little.”

Until you make peace with who you are you will never be content with what you have.

FEED YOUR DREAMS AND STARVE YOUR NIGHTMARES

-Thomas Merton

“One new perception, one fresh thought, one act of surrender, one change of heart, one leap of faith, can change your life forever.”

-Robert Holden

However difficult your problem may seem, remember that you may just be a single thought away from the solution.

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Beauty:What’s important?

Fashion is all about the unexpected, and the same rule applies for makeup trends. To get started, leave your neutral palettes behind and give your eyes a pop of color with this favorite eye-shadow hue: purple. From electric violet to soft lavenders, purple shadows make for a bold statement that complements every skin tone as well as every eye color. Purple is also one of the few shades that brings out the color in hazel, green, brown, and blue eyes.

So highlight those beautiful eyes, neutral separates, and metallic ensembles with an eyeful of purple.

Proverbs 31:30 - "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting: but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised."

Unfortunately, we do live in a superficial world where people do judge on appearance. We would all love to say that we are not in the majority, and that we all look beyond what's on the outside, but virtually all of us are influenced by appearances. Yet, we need to keep appearance in perspective.

The Bible tells us that it is important to present ourselves as nicely as possible, but God does not call us to go to extremes. It is important that we remain aware of why we do the things we do to look good. Ask yourself two questions: does your focus on your appearance take your eyes off the Lord? Are you more focused on your weight, clothes, or makeup than you are on God? If you answered, "Yes," to either of the questions, then you may need to take a closer look at your priorities. The Bible tells us to look closer at our hearts and actions rather than our presentation and appearance. www.timewiselymagazine.com

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Wait a minute. What? Yes, inner beauty. Pretty is as pretty does. God wants beauty to be more than skin deep. He is more interested in what your inner beauty is about. Unfortunately, the world has made it a big deal to look beautiful in the eyes of what America says is beautiful: just skin deep. Don’t get me wrong. Outside beauty is important to help with selfesteem and self-image. Try to turn it around and put inner beauty first and outside last.

You will find yourself a happier person. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, God.

Remember to put God first in all you do and life will be easier with help from our ALMIGHTY. It is more often than not, most of us leave God out, focused on our problem or goal. Once you get into the habit of involving him in all you do, you will see. Develop a relationship with God today.

HEALTH BENEFITS OF PRUNES Prunes contain many fibers & sorbitol a stool loosening sugar.

The high potas-

sium content in Prunes helps to slow aging process prunes helps to of the brain and body. normalize blood pressure, while Helps in some cases of anemia. the soluble fiber Prunes are excellent for increasing promotes heart health. one’s vitality.

It helps in normal blood circulation.

It can help prevent cancer because of its high beta-carotene content.

Ann Wigmore says that food you eat can be the safest and most powerful form of medicine or the slowest form of poison. Make a conscious effort to think before you eat. Just because your best friend or sister can eat certain type of bad food and it doesn't affect them, doesn’t mean the same for you. We are all unique in what our bodies will tolerate when it comes to food or beverages. If you are having health problems, take a look at what you are eating and write it down to evaluate your eating habits. Eliminate and replace the bad stuff with fruits and veggies.

The Health Benefits of papaya & seeds.

Papaya is rich in Vitamin A and in potassium.

The seeds and leaves of the fruit help in curing intestinal worms in the body. The enzyme papain in the fruit acts as a digestive enzyme and helps in natural digestion process therefore relieving you from constipation problems. Papaya's skin acts as a good catalyst for treating skin wounds and places which do not heal quickly. The fruit is also low in calories. Papaya also helps in preventing dandruff and is good for the scalp. It is always best to use papaya shampoo. Raw papaya also helps in reducing menstrual irregularities for women. Papaya helps to ease the condition by promoting natural flow of menstruation. Seeds are edible and they can be eaten. Papaya seeds extract can protect the kidney from toxin-induced kidney failure. Papaya seeds can also eliminate intestinal parasites. Do a little research and see what kind of foods you can really benefit from.

Last but not least, papaya seeds are often recommended by natural doctors in the treatment of cirrhosis of the liver.

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Husbands & Wives: Never talk down to each other.

When God joined you together in holy matrimony, there are no longer two people but one. You hurt your spouse, you hurt yourself. I becomes us. Us is me.

This is for the men and women. Marriage is too often taken for granted. He or she is never yours, but always God’s. Your loved one can be taken from you in a blink of the eye. Your wife or husband is a gift from God. Do you tell your loved one I love you because it’s routine or do you say I love you because you feel that way? Do you feel closer or further apart? If you feel further apart, something is wrong. Do you actually hear your spouse when he or she is talking or do you pretend to listen? Do you give the computer or a phone call from someone else more attention than your husband or wife?

Do you go to bed at the same time or stay on the couch half the night? If you have children, ask yourself what you and your spouse will do when your children leave home. Do you base your relationship around your children because the two of you don’t have a relationship? Do you give more insults or criticism than compliments? I am sure you have heard about team building skills that some of the companies have.

They do it to build strong relationships and a stronger team. It works! What do you and your loved one do to build a stronger team?

If you are feeling a little emotional after reading this, then realize things need to change. You never know when you or the one you love will not be around anymore due to death or just sick and tired of the way things are. Make a change. In order for things to change, things have to change.

Don’t wait until it’s too late and live with that regret. Through thick and thin doesn’t mean take me for granted.

The woman was made of a rib out of the side of Adam; not made out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled on by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved by him Marriage requires involving Jesus is all you do...that includes your marriage. How would you treat your wife or husband if Jesus physically stood in front of you?

Marriage isn't supposed to make you happy & satisfied. It's your job to make your marriage happy & satisfying. Same goes for being intimate-if you are married. It isn't supposed to make you passionate & "hot". It's up to you to make it passionate & "hot" & intimate.

The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes.

People spend more time learning to drive a car than on how to be happily married and you know how bad some people drive .

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Just Listen I want to share a little, but powerful story with you. I took my son to the bus stop at the end of the road. There are normally 7 children waiting on the bus between the ages of 5 and 10.

I park off the road as much as I can for safety reasons. The children play and run around in the morning waiting on the bus. There is another parent that is down there as well. So, we see a truck coming and tell the children to move off the road and stay still. So, they move off the road waiting for the truck to pass. One of the children decides to make a run for it and switch sides. He kinda ran in front of the truck, but the truck was maybe going 2 miles per hour. So, this big man in a big truck with a big white beard and hair (he looked like Santa) stops and starts yelling at my neighbor who is standing out there.

They exchanged some unfriendly words. The “big man” threatened to call the police on my neighbor because the children were in the road.

Well, truthfully the children were not in harm’s way. So, the “big man” drove off and the neighbor kicked his truck. Wow! At this point I am in shock. So, I calmed everything down and told all the children to stay away from the “big man”. The children got on the bus and I went on my way to work. As I am driving, I thought to myself....why did this “big man” flip out over nothing. I normally will get upset when people are rude for no apparent reason. So, I made the decision not to be mad and put myself in the disturbed man’s shoes. The only thing I could come up with was he lost a child or a loved one due to a car hitting or running over the child.

I wasn’t sure if the thought was accurate but, I chose to believe this is why he acted like a crazy man. I was not going to let it spoil my day. I went on to work and did not allow the problem this morning to affect my day. Later around noon, I called

my neighbor and ask him if everything was alright. He said yes and as a matter of fact he went and talked to the man about this morning. The big man’s name is Wes and he did lose his little boy in his front yard. A car hit him and dragged him under the car. His little boy died and he watched it. There are two things I am trying to say: #1 Listen to God and forgive. You have no idea why people act the way they do or say the things they says. Forgive. #2 God works in many different ways. I am sure this was God’s way of keeping 1 of the 7 seven children at the bus stop from experiencing what his son did. Maybe not that day, but days to come. There are many times I worry about the same with a few of the children. I was glad my neighbor was there to hear him and hopefully remember his story. I know I will. Listen to God and receive his messages. But, first you have to listen. Our God is an almighty God. Please take the time and hear him. Develop a relationship with him. He saves lives in many different ways. We are not to judge. Leave that up to Jesus.

Forgiveness Sometimes when people hurt you or do you wrong, you want to hurt them back or not talk to them anymore. What if you stop talking to every person that has hurt you or did you wrong? How many people would you have in your life? It’s something to think about. I can answer that question. A big fat ZERO. Having resentment or bad feeling towards someone takes up space in your heart that could be used for loving someone. If there is that someone that you miss and really want to talk to..call or email and tell them and let go. Love again. Letting go of resentment allows forgiveness. Allow Jesus to judge. Judge not.

Mark 11:25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”

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If children live with acceptance, they learn to find love in the world. If children live with recognition, they learn to have a goal. If children live with sharing, they learn to be generous. If children live with honesty and fairness, they learn what truth and justice are. If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those around them. If children live with friendliness, they learn that the world is a nice place in which to live. If children live with serenity, they learn to have peace of mind.

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MESSAGE FROM THE CHURCH ZION UNITED METHODIST CHURCH In Bethlehem, God gave to us The source of Christmas joy; A star shown on a miracle, The virgin birth of a boy.

He was born both God and man, A Savior to us all, The way to get to our heavenly home, If we just heed his call.

So as we shop and spend and wrap And enjoy the Christmas season, Let’s keep in mind the sacred truth: JESUS IS THE REASON! We are located at: 6864 Zion Church Road NE in Leland, NC 28451.

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What Does Christmas Mean to You?

What Christmas Is All About Christmas will always be for us A time to reflect on Christ, The gift God gave to all the world Was the gift of His life We know Christmas is not about tinsel, Nor fancy Christmas wreaths, Nor is it about all the decorations That adorns our Christmas trees And it’s not about Holly or Mistletoe Hanging from our doors, Nor is it about the gifts that are left By the jolly Santa Claus Christmas is more than all of this And the only reason why We celebrate Christ’s birth together And the wonder of His life So remember as you celebrate, Just what it’s all about And invite the Lord to join with you, Instead of leaving Him out For He will always be the reason We celebrate this day, No substitute the world may offer Can take that meaning away. © By M.S.Lowndes ~ 2007

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What to Buy Your Wife or Significant Other?

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what to buy your wife or special women for Christmas can sometimes be difficult. Let’s face it women, sometimes we can be hard to please. I know we should all be grateful for anything we may receive for Christmas. The present is really not the problem. The subject matter goes far beyond the actual gift. Women want the men to put thought into us and think about what we want, not just get a present just to be getting a present. I am sure all year your loved one has said things like, “I wish I had this or that and oh, look at that, honey what do you think about this, maybe one day I will have this, or will you buy me this.” Sometimes it is spelled out for you guys. We want you to hear us especially when it comes to buying something. Even though it’s a proven fact that women talk more than men. Truly, it’s not all just talking to be talking. Please listen. Remember men what you think may look nice or be nice to you, she may not think so.

Let’s get down to business. Most women like something comfy to sleep in (check out what she wears in full detail: sleeves no sleeves, gown, shorts tank top, long sleeves and pajama pants, what kind of material cotton, silk, satin), fancy kitchen gadget (if she enjoys cooking), jewelry (does she like bold or subtle and what kind of stone or no stone and gold or silver). The best way to really get it right is to look in her jewelry box or closet and check. Women feel like the husband or significant other should already know all this stuff. Some more great ideas are maybe some boots and matching purse. Make sure it’s the right color and material. Oh yeah and the right size. Go to her closet and make sure you literally take notes. Gift cards are good too, as long as there is an actual present to open along with it.

The only way you can go wrong is if you don’t investigate and write it down. For the men who

Yes it’s the thought that counts, BUT put some thought in it.

are already good at making your significant other happy and paying attention to details, kudos to you!

A personalized Christmas present can show a lot of time, effort and thought that has gone into the gift.

Personalized Christmas gifts can range from the homemade gifts such as a compiled photo album that includes photos of family, friends and special places. Or if you have a special skill such as painting or woodwork, handcrafted items can show you have taken a lot of trouble. Commercially bought gifts such as specially named mugs, engraved jewelry, personalized cards and many more ideas, are all readily available and all of which can be researched or bought online.

Pray for her. Spend some time during your day praying for your wife, and then tell her that you did, or even better, pray with her. Ask her if she’ll spend a few moments praying with you. There is NO time in a marriage that you will feel more oneness and intimacy than when praying with your wife.

WOMEN never expect your man to read your mind or to know what’s wrong with you or what you want. Ladies, I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a million more times, you CANNOT connect the dots close enough for men to catch on to what you are thinking. Just spell it out. Dropping hints or just expecting your husband to know what you’re thinking will only lead to MORE frustration. Simply tell him what’s on your mind and what your want for Christmas. This is not a test.

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DIY CHRISTMAS COOKIES “Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love.” ¯ Hamilton Wright Mabie

“Our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred, and we are better throughout the year for having, in spirit, become a child again at Christmastime.”

Laura Ingalls Wilder

Nutter Butter Cookies Vanilla Almond Bark (half a package made 13 cookies for me) M&Ms Orange Tic Tacs Black Decorator Icing After melting the Almond Bark for 90 seconds, I used a spoon to help cover the cookies when I dipped them. The spoon helped to get them on the foil too, since I didn't want fingerprints. I didn't put the Tic Tacs or the M&Ms on until I finished dipping all of them - I wanted the Almond Bark to set a little bit.

As for the icing, I just squirted some in a ziploc bag and cut the tip just a tiny, tiny bit.

“At one time, most of my friends could hear the bell, but as years passed, it fell silent for all of them.

Even Sarah found one Christmas that she could no longer hear its sweet sound. Though I've grown old, the bell still rings for me, as it does for all who truly believe.”

Chris Van Allsburg, The Polar Express

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Christmas Agenda

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runswick County Events:

December 13 - 16, 2012 Christmas at the Amuzu 2012 Live Show. Music including old time Christmas Carols. Thursday, Friday & Saturday-7:30 pm. Sunday -3 pm. Historic Amuzu Theatre 111 N. Howe Street in Southport Admission/Fees: $15.00 per person.

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yrtle Beach Events:

Nov. 1 - Jan. 2 A holiday tradition for over 25 years, "The Holiday Show of the South” TheCarolinaOpry.com (800) 633-1508 Nov. 2 - Dec. 29 From the creators of the smash hit show, Spirit of the Dance, comes this exciting show featuring championship ice skaters & all your favorite Christmas songs. Christmas on Ice PalaceTheatreMyrtleBeach.com (888) 841-2787 Nov. 4 - Dec. 31 PiratesVoyage.com (800) 433-4401 Christmas at Pirates Voyage

11:00 am Bolivia Christmas Parade Line up begins at 10:00 am. Food and refreshments after the parade at the Bolivia Fire Department.

December 8, 2012 - 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Southport Christmas Flotilla Anywhere along the river-front from the Southport Marina/Old Yacht Basin to Kingsley Street will afford you a view as the beautifully decorated boats pass by.

Admission/Fees: Free

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ew Hanover County Events:

Holiday Lighting of the Ship Now through December 31, 2011 As part of the City of Wilmington’s annual downtown Christmas tree lighting, the ship will be illuminated from the bow, up to the masts and down to the stern. It will be nightly from dusk until 11:00 p.m. with the best view from downtown Wilmington.

Dec 2 Christmas Open House Sunday December 2, 2012 Noon - 5 pm Poplar Grove Plantation, Wilmington NC: Dressed in its holiday finest, the plantation’s annual Christmas Open House is a charming gateway to old fashioned holiday spirit. Take a self-guided tour, shop for handmade gifts & enjoy hot cocoa and cookies in the manor house. Children can visit with Santa and Mrs. Claus. There will be pony rides and hay rides for a small fee. As Poplar Grove’s way of saying thank you and Merry Christmas to the community.

Admissions to the manor house is FREE. Call 910-6869518 www.poplargrove.com

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December 2012

Happy Birthday Dear Jesus: Sorry I don’t have an actual present to give you, but thank you for all you do for everyone. My present to you is me committing to you to do better. I know I am not perfect, but I want to be as close to perfect as I can get. Happy Birthday. With your help I can be a better person. I love you Jesus!

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