September 2014 by Tote Media

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Issue No. 8 September 2014

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FEAT URES

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B E AU T Y BAR SLEEPING BEAUTY BACK-TO - COO L FAL L ESSE N T IALS

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T H E MAG I C O F ART T H I S G I RL'S GOT SAS CAPT U RE D BY KAI T L I N SU GAR & SP I CE ( AN D E VE RY T H I N G N I CE ) T H E I N T E RN D IAR I ES RECE N T G RAD BACK-TO-SCHOOL

CONTENTS LIFE & ENT ERTAINMENT 52 54 60 62

F RO M A T I G E R TO A T E RRAP I N SE E T H E WORL D, ST U DY AB ROAD F RESH MAN F I L ES CUTTING THE (UMBILICAL) CORDS ADVI CE ASK PAI G E

LOVE & RE L AT I ONSH I P S L E ARN I N G F RO M M I STAKES

E N T E RTAI N M E N T COMING UP

D IY PAINT CHIP WALL

EDITOR’S NOTE

HAPPY SCHOOL YEAR! Ah, the smell of sharpened pencils, the stacks of new notebooks sans smudgy words and torn edges, and the optimism floating throughout campus from fresh-faced freshmen to swift seniors. It can only mean one thing: the start of a new school year. And as we welcome this new school year, we also get to celebrate our first birthday! I cannot believe that a little over a year ago I was able to transform my magazine concept for my senior thesis class into a full-fledged online publication. I was even more ecstatic when I was able to snag Lauren Friedman (fashion illustrator and author of “50 Ways to Wear a Scarf”) as the first cover girl (for the September 2013 issue). Lauren believed in Tote when all we had was a pilot issue and a quasi-website. When I interviewed her, she told me that she was excited to be the cover girl because she had a lot to say to college women. That excitement of having the opportunity to talk to YOU has grown with each new cover girl and contributor. And it will continue to grow as we gear up for year two. To those of you who have been reading Tote since the first issue, thank you for your support. For those of you who have just joined us, we cannot wait to start this crazy adventure with you. As you continue to support us, we hope to provide you with invaluable tools, resources, and inspiration for becoming your best possible self. And this issue is no exception. Take a note from out cover girl Kaitlin (page 34) and be persistent, shave some time from your morning routine with our easy beauty fix (page 8), and decide to be daring and adventurous like Caity and Shelby were on their study abroad adventures (page 54).

Shelby Newsome

Founder & Editor-in-Chief

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This year, may you study like Rory Gilmore, have fun like Haley Dunphy, and be passionate like Sue Heck. Here’s to another year!

Would you like to contribute to Tote? Contact Shelby at shelby@totemag.com

OUR TEAM CONTRIBUTORS Caro Romero Graphic Designer Colleen Kochesfahani Managing Editor

INTERNS Chanda Kumar Graphic Design Intern Sydney Adamson Editorial Intern Alanna Coogan Editorial Intern Gabrielle O'Neal Editorial Intern

Rachel Parker Photographer Brigid Ayer Photographer Haley Newe Photographer Kayla Anderson Writer Emily Kong Writer Stacey Axler Writer Amy Yoelin Writer Katie Lemon Writer Paige Rowley Writer

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THE LOOKS Sleeping Beauty Back-to-Cool Fall Essentials

SLEEPING

BEAUTY Between homework, clubs, and friends, sleeping in late happens more often than it should. When time is not on your side, follow these quick tips to help your day get moving.

Text: KAYLA ANDERSON Let’s get real; we tend to get less and less sleep as the semester goes on. Lack of sleep leads to sleeping in late, and sleeping in late could ruin your whole day! What are you supposed to do when you’ve only got twenty minutes to get to class and don’t want that guy, who could easily pass as Dave Franco’s twin, thinking you’ve totally lost it? Have no fear! We’ve got five easy steps you won’t want to miss when you wake up late.

First Thing’s First Before you do anything, you’re going to want to create a clean canvas. If you don’t have enough time to apply your full foundation routine, grab your favorite concealer to hide those dark circles or any blemishes. This product is basically an all-in-one. The packaging allows for super simple application, just swipe the product onto your face, blend, and you’re ready for step number two.

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All About Eyes

Gettin’ Lippy With It

It takes way too much time to master the perfect eye look even when you’re not running late. Ditch the pallet and your fancy brushes and grab your favorite cream shadow. Apply the product to your crease while blending it towards your inner corners. This one-step application gives a smokey effect, all while adding definition to your eyes. No one will ever know you only slept for three hours! (Or not at all.)

Nothing is worse than sitting through a two-hour lecture with chapped lips and no chap stick. Prevent this unfortunate event by applying a tinted lip balm. The balm helps keep your lips moisturized while the tint adds another pop of color. If you’re running really late, you can even take care of this step while you’re walking to class!

Make Me Blush Even though we all are guilty of skipping this step once in a while, the perfect shade of blush can really pull a look together. To avoid any extra oiliness on your skin, opt for a powder blush that comes with an applicator. To apply, start by smiling as wide as possible. Using the applicator, dust the blush on the apples of your cheeks. Adding some color to your face will give you a well-rested and put together look.

The Finishing Touch Last, but not least, it’s time for mascara. We don’t know about you, but leaving the house without mascara is pretty similar to leaving the house naked! Using a volumizing mascara, apply two coats to your lashes for a chic look that will last all day. If you focus the product at the root of your lashes, you can even fake the look of eyeliner! With the fall semester kicking into gear, these simple makeup tips are a great way to save some extra time. Avoid turning a bad morning into a bad day and find some time for yourself. By the time you’re finished with this look, you’ll be glad you got a few extra zzz’s.

BEAUTY BAR

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1. Maybelline Instant Age Rewind Eraser Dark Circle Treatment Concealer, $9, Ulta 2. L’Oreal Infallible Eyeshadow in Smoldering Plum, $8, Ulta 3. Physicians Formula Powder Palette Multi-Colored Blush in Blushing Berry, $12, Ulta 4. Burt’s Bees Tinted Lip Balm in Red Dahlia, $7, Ulta 5. L’Oreal Voluminous Carbon Black Volume Building Mascara, $8, Ulta

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Photogra phs: Bri gi d Ay er As the new school year stands in front of us, so do new opportunities. These looks from Hagerstown Premium Outlets, located in Hagerstown, Maryland, will take you all the way from class to a girlsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; night out. tote

GIRLS' NIGHT OUT DIVA MODEL : Amy Ingram WEARING : Dress, Rue

21, $21.99; Snakeskin wrislet, Calvin Klein, $39.50; Ladle Heels, Aldo, $80; Bracelets, Aldo, $15; Triangle Earrings, Aldo, $8

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INTERN QUEEN MODEL : Katelyn Millison WEARING : Blazer, Ann Taylor,

$139.99; Top, Ann Taylor, $54.99; Skirt, Ann Taylor, $89.99; Wedges, Aldo, $89.99 tote

Classy Girl MODEL : Sara Farmer WEARING : Blazer,

Banana Republic, $109.99; Top, Banana Republic, $54.99; Skinny Fit Jeans, Banana Republic, $69.99; Saddle Shoes, Aldo, $50; Minturno Brown Satchel Bag, Aldo, $50; Gold Hoop Earrings, Banana Republic, $19.99; Long Gold Necklace, Banana Republic, $24.99

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WEEKEND WARRIOR

MODEL : Paige Dutrow WEARING : Cardigan, Calvin Klein,

$69.50; Graphic Tee, Calvin Klein, $39.50; Essential Skinny Pants, Calvin Klein, $69.50; Scarf, Aldo, $10; Brown Boots, Aldo, $150; Bag, Calvin Klein, $89.50; Earrings, Banana Republic, $16.99

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WANT TO SCORE THE

Try these three tips before you stop by Hagerstown Premium Outlets. 1. Download exclusive discounts by going onto their website www.premiumoutlets.com/hagerstown and joining the VIP Shopper Club. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s free to sign-up! 2. Everyday their stores offer 25-65% off retail prices! Check the sales and events page on their website to preview the sales before you shop. 3. Before you start shopping, go to the information center, located in the food court, and show your student ID to receive a free VIP Coupon Book and a discount sheet.

Happy shopping!

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Basic pieces will always be timeless. Try incorporating one of these staples into your lifestyle this semester for a touch of sophistication. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Shelby Newsome, Founder and Editor-in- Chief

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FALL ESSENTIALS

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1. Weekend Max Mara Uovo Trousers, $240, MatchesFashion.com 2. Navigating the Neighborhood Flat in Black, $29.99, ModCloth 3. Wood Wood Adrian Contrast Stripe Longsleeve, $70, La Garรงonne 4. Tory Burch Shiny Delora Charm Bracelet, $195, Neiman Marcus 5. Cushion Gem Studs, $26, BaubleBar 6. Set the Stage 17-Month Medium Agenda, $30, Kate Spade 7. The Gospel According to Coco Chanel, $10, Amazon 8. Classic Backpack, $39.99, Herschel Supply 9. Creamy Nail Polish in Pinkerton, $12, 100% Pure 10. Fujifilm Instax Mini 90 Neo Classic Instant Camera, $149.45, B&H Photo 11. Humphrey Bogart Quote Art Print, $12, Etsy

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Pair cool navy pieces with warmer shades of pink this fall. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Caro Romero, Graphic Designer

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1. Tube Scarf in Woven Fabric, $4.95, H&M 2. Cable-knit Sweater, $29.95, H&M 3. Celestial Chateau Makeup Bag, $27.99, ModCloth 4. Chickadee Block Print Accent Pillow, $38.00, AllModern 5. Back to School Backpack, $77.90, Etsy 6. The Matley Wash Bag, $40.00, Jack Wills 7. Lyocell Shirt, $29.95, H&M 8. 2015 Kate Desk Calendar, $56.00, Sugar Paper 9. 2014-2015 Small Weekly Planner, $32.46, Etsy 10. Mon Cahier Planner, $34.00, Poketo 11. Glazed Mug, $10.00, Kate Spade Saturday 12. Reversible Fox Earthenware Ceramic Totem Necklace, $60.00, Etsy

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Sometimes, it's okay to be a little blue. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Gabrielle O'Neal, Editorial Intern

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1. Cup The Ante, $21.99, ModCloth 2. Monogram Mug, $8, Anthropologie 3. Slipped In Suede Journal, $28.00 – $48.00, Anthropologie 4. Deena & Ozzy Minimalist Backpack, $59, Urban Outfitters 5. Chiffon Dress, $29.95, H&M 6. Dance Instead of Walking Heel in Grey, $39.99, ModCloth 7. Beyond Cozy, $8.50, Ulta Beauty 8. Kingsland Floral Statement Necklace, $32.00, Francesca’s 9. Della Sunglasses, $145.00, Kate Spade 10. Champagne and Blue Iris candle, $28, Nasty Gal 11. Plum & Bow Cat Face Mug, $12, Urban Outfitters 12. My Favorite Dings Mug, $12.99, ModCloth

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TEAM

TOTE Looking to expand your resume and gain invaluable experiences to help propel your career? Join Team Tote!

INTERN Interested in learning about the inner workings of an online publication? Join Tote’s team and have the oppor tunity to work on various aspects of the magazine. We currently have internships available for editorial, graphic design, web design, and social media. Related majors are preferred. Contact Shelby at shelby@totemag.com with a resume.

CONTRIBUTE Do you love to write? Submit a sample writing along with feature ideas to Shelby at shelby@totemag.com to be considered. You’ll gain oppor tunities to write for upcoming issues and posts on the website.

BECOME A BRA ND A MBASSA DOR We’re kicking off our Brand Ambassador program! If you’re a marketing major or super outgoing and social, we want you! Gain experience in promotions and networking and become a vital role within our team. Interested in applying? Submit a resume to Shelby at shelby@totemag.com to learn more about the program.

FEATURES The Magic of Art This Girl's Got SAS Captured by Kaitlin Sugar & Spice The Intern Diaries Back-to-School

THE MAGIC OF ART Towson University sophomore Libby Rice, 18, possesses a passion for creating art that shines through every aspect of her life.

Text: EMILY KONG PHOTOS: Haley Newe

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An artist is a person who can take nothing and turn it into something. Art is magical and artists possess the sparkle to make it come to life. Art can be a canvas painting that hangs in a museum or the article of clothing you wear with a design on it. Libby Rice found the magic of art and explored its different cultures. Art makes its way into life in all different kinds of ways. Libby found her way to art through her grandmother, who is also an artist. “She had all of her own art all over her house and when I was little, I would look at all of it,” Libby says. “She signed me up for classes when I was in seventh grade and I just kept doing it outside of school and then I took classes in high school…” While some artists’ passion fades after high school, Libby turned hers into a passion, and family affair, continuing her craft outside of school. “People love getting art,” Libby says. “My grandma loves getting art from me. My boyfriend has one and my mom loves hanging stuff up.” In addition to gifting paintings, Libby began drawing on shirts, bleach dying leggings, creating jewelry, and even painting on shoes. “I started making shirts a couple years ago when I was volunteering at a thrift store and I saw a drawing of the blue deity in the Hindu religion and I wanted to do the Ganesh, the elephant deity, so I bought the shirt I saw and copied that,” Libby says. “That was senior year [of high school], so I haven’t done it for a long time.” Also during her senior year, Libby was able to take a trip to India with her grandmother. On the trip, she found inspiration in her surroundings.

“India was so fun,” Libby says. “That really inspired me in terms of what I could draw. I drew a picture of one of the servants at one of the places we were in. He dropped something and people were giving him looks and being really mean. I asked him if I could take a picture of his face and I drew it and I sent it to him. He just inspired me to paint things that could make you feel a certain way. I wanted to draw a lot of the poverty and the real India. I tried to do that. It’s really hard to portray stuff like that and hard to show the anguish.”

While inspiration can be fleeting for many artists, Libby’s concern is more with her replication process, of capturing what she photographed in her artwork.

Libby carried her sketchpad throughout her trip, filling it with detailed sketches of the different people she saw. One of her favorite experiences was visiting the statue of Gandhi.

However, Libby does not allow her mistakes to define her as an artist or as a person. The mistakes allow her to grow, encouraging the magic of art that has given her more than a talent, but a new outlook on life.

“We saw the place where he died and they had his footsteps, cement footprints, they were all down this sidewalk and it’s like his final steps,” Libby says. “And where he died there’s this big pillar and it says 'Oh God' in Hindi and those were his last words when someone shot him. I wanted to draw him.”

“It’s made me more creative, not like with art, but with fashion,” Libby says. “When I go shopping now, I don’t look for the norm, I look for interesting things I could emulate in my work and inspire me to make interesting things. It’s incorporated in so many ways that I don’t even know. Even when I pick out classes, I don’t want to take a boring writing class, but a class that has to do with pop culture or things that will inspire me to make better choices and better art.”

As an artist, Libby wishes she could carry a sketchbook everywhere, instead opting for the convenience of her camera. When she isn’t taking snapshots, she is on Pinterest searching for inspiration. “My sister started doing photography and she does darkroom stuff,” Libby says. “I asked my grandma for a vintage black and white camera for my birthday and she gave me her old one and I can’t wait to start using it. I think I’m going to start taking black and white photos, but I want to focus on people, I don’t want to take pictures of the sunset or anything. I’ve been looking at Pinterest a lot for inspiration on what to take pictures of. “

“When I don’t like it, I don’t want to finish it,” Libby says. “I think the biggest struggle I have is working through my problems. I don’t like to fix it, I just want to do it and be done …I need to work on making it not perfect, but perfecting my mistakes. Cause having mistakes is annoying and scary.”

There will always be a place in Libby’s life for art. Whether it’s the outfit she wears, the paintings her Grandma hangs on her walls, the endless sketchbooks she fills with drawings, or the boards on Pinterest she pins to the max with inspiring photos, Libby will be an artist sharing her love with the world.

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THIS GIRL'S GOT

SAS Text: STACEY AXLER Photogra phs: Brigid Ay er Networking opportunities, developing leadership skills, and connecting the female student population are three main goals of SAS, a new organization at Hood College in Frederick, Maryland. SAS, or Sisters Aspiring to Success, was created in the spring of 2013 by Hood senior Caity Battey, who wanted to combine leadership development and community and campus activism into a single platform for female students at the college. “Hood had an outstanding reputation as a women’s institution and I didn’t want the school to lose that aspect of its history,” Caity says. “So, we made SAS and are working towards developing and continuing to develop strong

female leaders who have an excellent network and the opportunity and skill set to thrive after Hood.” Hood functioned for many years as an all-female college, but went coeducational in 1971 for male commuter students and transitioned to full coeducation in 2003. Even so, there is no shortage of female leaders on campus.

Weaver acted as the staff advisor, while Caity and a team of 10 other students built the organization from the ground up: they wrote the constitution, established membership criteria, and interviewed potential members. Still a young organization on the Hood campus, SAS made quite a big impression during its first year. The club participated in several campus events, such as Hood’s Psychology Club’s Autism Walk and Hood’s celebration of the 50th Anniversary of the Civil Rights Movement.

“We are building a community with SAS and that takes time,” Caity says. “I have found some of my favorite people within the organization and have met some people responsible for shaping me In the future, SAS wants to pick into the person I am now.” a different cause each year to Caity came up with the idea support as a group. This year, SAS members plan to continue for SAS with former Hood Area Coordinator Daniel Weaver.

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the program started last year that combats bullying on campus. “The future of SAS looks bright,” Caity says. “We have a bunch of young members who totally understand the mission of the organization and seem to be super interested in developing [the club].” Besides SAS, Caity has many other irons in the fire. The Middle Eastern Studies major is an admissions representative, orientation assistant, contributor to the newspaper, and holds many other positions and memberships both on and off campus. Above all, she is excited to watch SAS continue to grow and become a beacon for the female students at Hood.

keep you on track throughout the process of creating the organization as well as in the time to come. 2. Surround yourself with good people and a good advisor. As you are ready to expand your organization it is important to make sure that you have people that are willing to buy into your organization and your vision. The people you surround yourself with will become the organization members, your friends, executive board members, alumni, and your confidants. These people should both support and challenge you to ensure that all the actions taken are being done for the right reason and with the interests of the organization in mind.

3. Stay passionate. Passion is a key ingredient to a majority of life and is not excluded for this pursuit. “SAS is creating a community with- If you are passionate about your vision, seeing your vision come to in Hood that will lead to student success and strong relationships fruition, and the people you are between current students, faculty doing it all with the organization members, and alumnae; that was will be successful. something that I wanted to be a 4. Keep it in perspective and part of,” Caity says. enjoy. Make sure that you never let one thing: yourself, a friendship, a disagreement, anything become bigger than the organization and its mission. Enjoy the leadership, the work, the people, and the experience. When you find yourself frustrated—believe me, it will happen—ask yourself where 1. Have a vision. With this adventhe problem fits into the “big ture you should try to have an idea picture” and how your reaction of what you and your members will impact the creation of a are going to gain from the process. solution. You will always remember Try to have a problem that your your journey, as these will be organization will be tackling or a some of the most unforgettable specific takeaway in mind for all memories from your undergraduparties involved. This vision will ate experience.

Caity’s Guide for Starting a Campus Organization

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From left to right: Catherine Traini, 2016, Co-Chair; Adelae Tomlinson, Fall 2014, General Member; Tatyanna Hunter, 2016, General Member; Caity Battey, 2013, Founder

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KAITLIN Text: Shelby Newsome

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When 24-year-old Kaitlin Newman sought out to determine whether you could use Fugi film in a Polaroid 300 Instant Camera, she didn’t expect the reaction she would get when she posted the results to her film and antique camera blog. Kaitlin says that it’s her most read blog post with 6,000 views. The reason for all the curiosity was simple. Doing a quick Google search wouldn’t yield answers. “I looked all over the Internet,” Kaitlin says. “There was nothing that could tell me that the films are interchangeable.” If you have the Polaroid camera, knowing that the Polaroid film and Fugi film are interchangeable will save you money, as the Fugi film is cheaper. By testing the Fugi film out in her Polaroid camera, Kaitlin got the results she wanted and answered a question that curious camera buffs wanted to know. The test is much like her film blog that she started for her Digital Publishing class: something so obvious to do, yielding results that were sweetly unexpected. In 2012, only a few months after she started the blog, Kaitlin won a Mobbie award for Maryland’s Best New Blog. Before her blog’s recognition, Kaitlin, who graduated from Towson University this past May with a mass communications degree in journalism and new media, was searching for a way to connect with The Baltimore Sun to pursue photojournalism. “I was trying to get in with The Sun and I had emailed them, and 36

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they’re very exclusive, and [a] very tight-knit newsroom, so it’s very very hard to get in contact with anybody where your email’s going to get read if you’re a student trying to get in,” Kaitlin says. “You have to know somebody. So I was sending them emails after email like, ‘Please, I want to be your photo intern.’ … And no one ever answered me. I knew I was sending the email to the right people.” When her voice wasn’t being heard, Kaitlin decided to be realistic and instead found an internship with The Baltimore City Paper. However, she didn’t realize that the competition would be none other than her boyfriend, who is also a photojournalist. “They told me I had it,” Kaitlin says about the internship with The City Paper. “My boyfriend knew somebody that worked there that got him an internship. They didn’t know we were dating but they took my internship and gave it to my boyfriend.” After she lost the internship, Kaitlin’s competitiveness definitely gave her a spark to continue her pursuit of The Baltimore Sun. “It’s really good to have that type of competitiveness, especially in the field of journalism,” Kaitlin says. Then, everything fell into place. Kaitlin won the Mobbie award soon after her internship was taken away from her. The awards are put together by The Baltimore Sun. One of the writers caught sight of Kaitlin’s blog and asked if she could interview her for a local artist feature in the Sunday paper. Kaitlin finally had her foot in the door. “She was like, ‘If you ever want anything let me know,’” Kaitlin says. “I was like, ‘Okay. Can

you please tell them [The Sun] that I want to intern with them in their photo department.’” The writer was able to get Kaitlin in touch with the photo director. However, connections can only go so far. The photo director told Kaitlin that they did not have room for her to intern but that didn’t stop her. “He told me ‘no’ like five times and I was like ‘Okay, well when should I come in for a meeting?’” Kaitlin says. Her persistence paid off as the photo director acquiesced. After a meeting, including a three-hour website and portfolio review, Kaitlin secured an internship with The Sun. While Kaitlin knew what she wanted and went for it, that wasn’t always the case. “I did painting for 15 years of my life—like acrylic painting,” Kaitlin says. “That’s what I was going to do. That’s what I wanted to do. And then one day, I don’t know, I just got really uninspired and bored with it.” As Kaitlin entered college, she decided to try political science but soon realized that it wasn’t for her. Enter journalism. Kaitlin switched majors, after remembering a photography class she had in high school along with her contributions to the high school newspaper, and fell in love with journalism. When she took a photojournalism class for her major, she knew she was in the right spot. “As the years went on I was like, ‘Wow, I really like taking photos to tell my story,’” Kaitlin says. “I would much rather visually tell it than anything.”

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AS THE YEARS WENT ON I WAS LIKE, 'WOW, I REALLY LIKE TAKING PHOTOS TO TELL MY STORY'. .. I WOULD MUCH RATHER VISUALLY TELL IT THAN ANYTHING.

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Kaitlin took a valuable first internship with Maryland photographer Edwin Remsburg during the spring semester of 2012. “He really taught me how to be self-sufficient in the industry,” Kaitlin says. “Because if you’re a freelancer you’re self-employed. So he taught me how to find clients, he taught me, along with shooting techniques, he also taught me more so the business side.” Now, Kaitlin is contracted by The Baltimore Sun. She covers a range of stories from features, entertainment, and social life. Kaitlin has covered an ugly sweater party, a zombie walk, and music festivals, to name a few. “I really like learning about other people,” Kaitlin says. “Especially people whose cultures are not similar to mine at all.” And while Kaitlin is hired for her photography, her journalistic skills don’t stop there. “A lot of the reporters are now being geared up to be multi-media journalists,” Kaitlin says. “It’s funny, because a lot of times, I have a camera attachment for my iPhone, I’ll tweet and I’ll Instagram and stuff while I’m on assignment because people want that immediacy. I would love to just do everything. I would love to do the photos, do the video, do the audio, do the writing for all my assignments.” Kaitlin’s dream is to become staff at one of the big newspapers, listing The Sun, The Washington Post, and The New York Times as a few. One of the most important lessons The Sun has taught Kaitlin is time management. Kaitlin’s assignments

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are often on tight deadlines. She says that one day she had an assignment start time of 1 p.m. and the deadline was 3 p.m. the same day. “There’s so much stuff I’ve learned that my teachers were kind of more old school, and they’re trying to keep up and they’re trying to learn with the way this industry is evolving,” Kaitlin says. “By the time I [was] ready to go out into the field I taught myself a lot of things that my teachers didn’t even think of. I want to try and be really on top of things so I can use it to further give advice to people and to help people.” Kaitlin is back at Towson University this fall to get her masters in professional writing with a journalism track. One day she would like to teach journalism to college students. “If you are persistent at anything you want to do, you will get it,” Kaitlin says, sharing that’s the best advice she’s received. Her persistence has surely paid off. And the advice she has for you will have you following her lead in no time. “You have to do internships,” Kaitlin says. “It really makes me sad because, at Towson anyways, for my major, journalism, internships weren’t required. They were strongly recommended but they weren’t required. I know so many people who graduated and then they got to the real world and they did it and they were like, ‘I hate this.’” When it comes down to it, you’ve got to love what you do. “As far as what I do that’s not this, its sleeping and eating.”

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SUGAR & SPICE (AND EVERY THING NICE)

What’s made up of sugar, spice, and savvy style? The darling duo behind the fashion blog Sugar & Spice. These girls have more than a dash of everything nice in ‘em, too.

Text: SYDNEY ADAMSON Photographs Courtesy Of: KayKay Blaisdell and Madeline Becker The beginning of a new semester calls for new inspiration. For that, look no further than KayKay Blaisdell and Madeline Becker: two fashion bloggers with hard work, determination, and two very distinct styles. Fashion blogs are highly popular as of lately but KayKay and Madeline add a pinch of something special into their posts: individuality. That individuality begins with the title of their blog, Sugar & Spice, which stems from their personal style aesthetics. Madeline sparkles and shines as Sugar, posting sweet and sultry looks on their website. Meanwhile, KayKay holds down the fashion fort as Spice and posts edgier, darker looks.

How did they come up with this idea? Well, the gals used to run their own respective fashion blogs but they realized it would be much better to join forces. “We figured we have the same passions, so why wouldn't we join together and take over the world as besties?” KayKay says. Combining fashion forces has proved to be so good so far for KayKay and Madeline. Last year, Madeline and KayKay launched their own website, sugarandspiceofficial.com. Making the website was a team effort and according to Madeline, she and KayKay were on the same page when it came to most elements.

“The creating of the website was a blast and extremely natural,” Madeline says. “We originally hosted through Tumblr, but realized we had dreams of features that didn’t exist yet.” One of their favorite features they’ve been able to create with the new website is My Room. The feature allows users to curate their own room with products that KayKay and Madeline have showcased on the website. “It’s basically a giant organized wishlist of a room that you don’t have to keep clean!” KayKay says. Besides catching the bloggers on their website, most recently you’ve also probably seen KayKay and Madeline hangin’ out at your tote

local mall. Well, not in person exactly. But they can be seen in the pages of a Delia’s catalog and in Garage’s storefront. These impressive accomplishments are all thanks to that hard work and determination they possess. Their intense work ethic doesn’t stop in their professional lives, though. Both fashionistas decided to attend college, too. In fact, Madeline graduated from The Art Institute of Dallas with a photography degree.

bound to get a little sweeter and a bit spicier. Madeline and KayKay agree that they want Sugar & Spice to be a hub of connection and inspiration. “We want Sugar & Spice to be our place to encourage and inspire others,” KayKay says. “We want to tell our stories through what we create.”

Madeline shares these words of wisdom with young women pursuing anything (not just those who are interested in fashion “It was a lot of work but the and art) who are trying to gain success and achieve their dreams: lessons I learned and people I met there have done nothing but “Don't try to become what you think the world wants to see. You add to my life,” Madeline says. as you is what the world needs.” As for KayKay, she is currently attending college and studying We couldn’t have said it any digital media. better ourselves. “It basically is film, photography, digital art, and animation. I just want to strengthen my skills as an artist, as well as, be surrounded by creative people,” KayKay says. The two creative minds cultivate their unique and individualized styles through their emotions. “I think I speak for the both of us when I say we dress how we feel rather than what we think is trendy,” Madeline says. “As artists we experience a lot of emotions and because of that we have a lot of different styles we take on. It’s honest and it’s fun.” Looking to the future, the world is their oyster. And the world is

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INTERN DIARIES What they say is true: you never know until you try. What most students aren’t aware of is how many well-known companies offer internships. Rising college senior, Alana Colucci, did her research and is now interning for Nickelodeon. She explored different opportunities online and found out that Viacom has amazing internships. Viacom is the vast entertainment corporation that owns media networks such as Nickelodeon, MTV, CMT, and SPIKE.

Alana says contributes to the “fresh and upbeat atmosphere” of her job. The inside of the offices are just as noteworthy.

Alana is studying digital media, photography, and graphic design at Marist College, but chose to focus on photography while working for Nickelodeon. She assists the Photo Editor and Manager of Photography in the press department and occasionally gets to contribute on photo shoots.

I f t he re is on e t hi ng I hav e l e a rn ed fro m m y e x p eri e nc e as a n i nt e rn, i t is t hat yo u wi l l be ne fi t fro m a n y i nt erns hi p, no mat t e r how bi g or s ma l l t he c o mpa n y may be.

“I work with a lot of photographs that the press needs for teen magazines like Tiger Beat or J14,” Alana explains. “The other photos I work with are more for archiving purposes and to have a record of episodes.” Alana’s ability to successfully complete her assignments is due to the strong background in photography she gained from interning at small companies and attending the Fashion Institute of Technology for two years. Not only is Alana currently interning for an amazing corporation, but she gets to work in a prime location as well. Nickelodeon offices are set right in the heart of Times Square in New York City, which

“I’m really impressed by the interior decoration,” Alana says. “Each floor has its own feel. Some are very colorful with pictures of Spongebob and the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles while others are more professional with the classic Nickelodeon logo.”

On the floor where Alana has her own cubicle, there are big televisions set up to constantly play Nickelodeon reruns. Working in the hustle and bustle of a big city can be intimidating for students who have just started their careers, but Alana enjoys the excitement and responsibilities that come with urban life.

“My previous internships were for companies on a much smaller level,” Alana says. “Though I’ve learned a lot from those experiences, I have discovered that I also enjoy working at a larger company.” She also notes that for a big corporation like Nickelodeon, organization and distribution of tasks is a necessity. “At Nickelodeon, employees are hired to only retouch or design photo sets. It’s very specific to your skill set!” Interning at Nickelodeon looks great on Alana’s resume and it also has opened her eyes to so many new possibilities. She used to dream of working as an Art Director at an up-scale magazine in New York City, but now she’s not so sure. “I have learned about many different career paths that I did not even know existed!” Alana exclaims. It is important to put yourself out there and experience the real world in any way you can. There is always something you have yet to learn! Don’t be afraid to apply to a huge corporation, like Nickelodeon; it never hurts to try. What advice does Alana have for you, readers? “If there is one thing I have learned from my experience as an intern, it is that you will benefit from any internship, no matter how big or small the company may be. And don’t give up! The more experience you gain, the stronger your resume will become.”

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SCHOOL When 22-year-old Raleigh Kennedy heads back to school this fall her role will change as she transitions from student to teacher.

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RECENT GRAD As a newly graduated Integrated Elementary Education and Special Education major at Towson University, Raleigh knew that she wanted to teach. It was her proaction that pushed her over the top to land a job shortly before she graduated this past May. Raleigh, who applied to six different Maryland counties, started sending out applications in January, had screening interviews for all counties, and was hired in early May by Montgomery County Public Schools to be a special education teacher, co-teaching in a classroom with a general educator. From there, she had interviews with different schools to determine which Montgomery County school she would be placed at. “Early June I started doing school interviews,” Raleigh says. “Half an hour after I did my school interview they called me back and offered me the job.” Raleigh will work alongside the general educator to ensure that the students are thriving and their needs are being taken care of. She will be learning the model and how to adapt to it just like the other teachers. “Instead of me being the new teacher and just being nervous, I think everybody is willing to work together and that collaboration is really great to see in a school because not a lot of teachers are open to the new teacher, the fresh meat, and listening to my ideas,” Raleigh says. “But I think that we’re all going to be learning together.” Rather than being the new girl in a sea of veteran teachers, Raleigh was hired at a unique time for educators. Currently, schools nationwide follow a Common Core curriculum, which

sets the same course materials for any school in the state (excluding Texas and Alaska). So if a student were to move from one state to another, he or she would still be learning the same curriculum. However, Raleigh’s school is going further to cultivate the ultimate learning experience for students. Her school is focusing on the students’ needs by developing co-teachers. Co-teachers are trained to work together to facilitate small group learning, instead of the traditional whole group lessons. “When we were in school, elementary school, I’m sure you saw all of the kids with special ed. [services], they were pulled out of a classroom and they were pulled with just other kids with special ed.,” Raleigh says. “But now the goal is to keep them in the classroom in their least restrictive environment and keep them socializing with other peers their age, which is really important for students with special needs.” Not only will Raleigh work to help the students on her caseload, she will also get to interact with and teach every student in the classroom. “So I kind of get the best of both worlds with my major,” Raleigh says. “I get the second grade general ed. but I also get the special ed., which I love.” To get ready for the school year Raleigh has been preparing her classroom, that she shares with the general educator, setting up centers and stations, and looking over the Individualized Education Programs for each student in her caseload to make sure she is covering their needs so they can meet their academic goals.

While Raleigh is preparing herself for the school year, she’s still nervous. “It’s the unknown, I think,” Raleigh says. “And the change is definitely hard. You go from school, where it’s predictable. Every year you move back in, you go to your classes, you go to internship. But now I really don’t know what to expect and that’s the part that I don’t like because I like to plan ahead. So it’s the unknown that’s scary.” On top of teaching students with learning disabilities, Raleigh will also have a language barrier that she’ll have to cross. “The school is [roughly] 80 percent Hispanic so a lot of them don’t speak English,” Raleigh says, referring to the English as a Second Language students. “So that’s going to be hard on top of having a learning disability.” Raleigh says she downloaded a Spanish app to brush up on her Spanish so she’ll be ready. Unlike other peers who are still looking for jobs, Raleigh was able to secure a job right before graduation. Raleigh advises to be proactive and put yourself out there, even if you are unsure of whether the position is right for you. “I took an interview with a county that I didn’t want at all but it was a great learning experience,” Raleigh says. “They asked me a lot of good questions so I learned from that interview what to change and fix and alter for the next interview.” Raleigh definitely stands as proof that preparation pays off.

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LIFE & ENTERTAINMENT From A Tiger To A Ter rapi n See The World, St udy Abroad Cut t i ng The (Umbi l ica l) Cords A sk Pa ige Lea r n i ng From Mist a kes Com i ng Up Pa i nt Ch ip Wa l l

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The decision of choosing which college to attend is one of the most important decisions of your life. It marks the start of adulthood where you make real life decisions regarding your career and future. I thought I would only have to make this decision once. College is deemed to be one of the greatest chapters in your life, where you discover your true self and meet lifelong friends. I spent my first two years in college at Towson University, and I think I’ve done pretty well. I didn’t change my major, I stayed friends with most of the people I met freshman year (shout out to my orientation group and everyone else I’m still friends with), my GPA has been relatively high, and I’ve learned more about myself than I could have ever imagined. So now you’re thinking, why is she changing colleges if she’s accomplished so much at Towson? While being a Towson tiger has been fulfilling, I came to the realization (thanks to the help of a few mentors and my family) that there were more opportunities for me elsewhere. After a sophomore year full of ‘what ifs,’ I was admitted to the University of Maryland, College Park (UMD) to finish my last two years of undergrad as a journalism student. I haven’t started yet, but I already know that it will do me right. My decision to become a terrapin was not easy, it did not take seconds to make, and it included much more pain than I thought it would. While it seems like a simple decision to jump up and change schools, much like my childhood where I changed two elementary schools

before staying with the final third one, it was far from simple. Towson, as a college, was great. I knew what classes I had to take for my major; I had a minor planned out. All of my core requirements were on track. I even made my mark in a few clubs. But I realized that a degree in mass communications was not enough for me. UMD offers a stellar journalism college, the Philip Merrill College of Journalism, that pushes and challenges their students each step of the way. At Towson, you can choose a concentration within mass communications of journalism, advertising, or public relations. The Philip Merrill College of Journalism has concentrations in either broadcast or multiplatform journalism, giving its students the opportunity to specialize even further. Towson’s mass communications department taught broadly in all three concentrations, even in the journalism classes I attended. I felt the specialization from the Philip Merrill College of Journalism would be what I needed. I’m not saying that your choice in college could make or break your success in your chosen career field. My decision to transfer to UMD does not guarantee my success in journalism, but it does help me get closer to that dream. If I stayed at Towson, I could have earned a solid degree and gotten a job I would be happy with. But UMD has the specialization that I want to launch me into the journalism world. The decision whether or not to transfer colleges is never an easy one. It’s been hard to say goodbye to some of the best friends I’ve ever

made. It was also hard to not dwell on the past and call every party, meal, and off-campus excursion my last with them, because that is not the case. I am lucky to live in Maryland so I can travel back and forth to both schools because I know that even though my education as a tiger is over, my tiger friends will always be there and accept me for the terp I now am. No matter what mascot I take on, I’ll always have those experiences from Towson in my past, which doesn’t take away from the fact that they have helped shape me as the person and adult that I am today. Now that I’ve said goodbye to my time as a tiger, I’ve embraced my role as a terrapin, ready to take on all that it has in store for me.

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SEE THE WORLD,

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Studying abroad is a strange mixture of feelings and factors: it’s exciting and terrifying, freeing but costly, tiresome yet exhilarating. Two young women know this strange mix pretty well: meet Caity O’Beirne and Shelby Pukach. Caity is a 20-year-old junior at Emerson College in Boston, Massachusetts studying Writing, Literature and Publishing (yes, folks, that’s all one major). Jump down the east coast a few states to Maryland and you’ll find Shelby, a 21-year-old Health Science major at Towson University. Their fields of study might be on opposite ends of the spectrum, but both girls share a love of travel that recently led them to study abroad. Shelby spent the spring semester of her junior year studying at the University of Otago located in Dunedin, New Zealand. Shelby resided in a house—called a “flat” —with 4 housemates. Meanwhile, Caity lived in Well, The Netherlands, about two hours southeast of Amsterdam. Instead of a house or dorm, Caity lived in a 14th century European castle (akin to something you would see in Harry Potter) that had not just one but two moats. Not quite the average college living arrangement. Caity was abroad for three months while Shelby spent five months abroad, so it’s safe to say the girls learned a thing or two about what it actually takes to study in a foreign country. Here’s what they have to say about how they prepared for their study abroad trip, how they spent their time away, and the valuable lessons they learned while abroad.

Choosing a location: When it came to selecting their destinations, neither Caity nor Shelby had their hearts set on a specific country. “I knew nothing about the Netherlands,” Caity says. “It’s just [that] Emerson’s main study abroad campus is there.” As for Shelby, she was originally interested in studying abroad in Australia. But after conducting some research on New Zealand, she firmly decided that it was where she wanted to go.

Saving, budgeting, & spending: Once the girls knew where they were going, they needed a way to finance the trip. Both Caity and Shelby decided to go into their trips without a budget. When they returned home, their pockets were pretty much empty. “Money-wise, I just kind of winged it. I’m in a lot of debt right now,” Caity says. “I wish that I set a budget ahead of time. I know my roommate did that and that helped her a lot.” The study abroad program Shelby went on suggested she set herself a spending budget, but she decided not to. She did, however, have a specific way of saving money beforehand. “I’m a waitress and I would literally put away 75 percent of what I made to save. I should’ve started saving a little earlier,” Shelby says. “I definitely had enough money to get me through the five months, but there were some things that I didn’t do because I didn’t have enough money.”

To future study abroad students, Shelby advises to start saving a year before their travels. She also says it can be tempting to want to “buy buy buy” right after you arrive at your study abroad country, but it’s important to make sensible purchases.

Packing your bags: Deciding what to pack for months of living and travel is no simple task, so to make matters easier both travelers were given a packing list from their study abroad programs. They had some additional assistance from their mothers, too. “You’re supposed to pack really light and I’m horrible at that so I just followed the packing list they gave us and just threw everything in a pile, and then asked my mom if she could fit it in the suitcase for me,” Caity admits. Even though Shelby’s mom helped her weed out the items she didn’t need to bring with her, Shelby found that there were certain items that she definitely should have put in their place. “I didn’t pack very smart,” Shelby admits. “I packed more for summer and I didn’t really realize it was going to be so cold.” After arriving in New Zealand, Shelby realized that she would have to purchase more weather appropriate clothes like thermals in order to keep cozy during cold New Zealand nights.

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you don’t know, but Caity and Shelby easily navigated any hesitation or travel trouble they came across. “I’m very personable. I’ll talk to anyone,” Shelby admits. “When you’re still getting to know people, you kind of get together a group and just go.” For both of them, there were certain friends that they found themselves traveling with again and again. Caity says that about three weeks into her time abroad she was able to distinguish the good traveler companions from the bad ones. “Some people want to go somewhere [to] drink, which is fine, but other people want to go and do touristy stuff. You find out you can be friends with people and not want to travel with them,” Caity says.

Weekend travels: Caity and Shelby made the most of their semester abroad by taking weekend trips to unfamiliar places. For Caity this meant traveling to new cities and countries. As for Shelby, this meant camping and conquering mountains all over New Zealand. “I knew I wanted to do a lot of hiking. I pretty much covered all the major national parks. I went on a lot of three-day camping trips. I basically turned into a mountain woman out there,” Shelby says with a laugh. Included in Shelby’s hiking and camping (aka “tramping”) adventures were destinations like Milford Sound and the Catlins on New Zealand’s south island. 56

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Shelby says she had no idea she was going to hike as much as she did or that the hikes she completed would be so intensive. As for her favorite tramp, Shelby says it was her six-hour journey up and down Cascade Saddle in Mount Aspiring National Park. “The group of people I went with were really great,” Shelby says. “It just feels great to be out in nature and be so isolated and so away from society. I would say that definitely changed me.” Caity on the other hand traveled to a new city or country almost every weekend. Her travels included: London, Bologna, Paris, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Galway, Istanbul, and Dresden, among others. She even found herself in Dublin, Ireland on St. Patrick’s Day. “It was kind of exhausting because you’re just like going every single weekend but it’s worth it,” Caity says.

Study s es sions : After choosing a study abroad location, saving up enough money and planning weekend excursions, attending actual classes might be one of the last things on your mind. But it is called study abroad for a reason. Both Caity and Shelby decided to take different approaches when it came to selecting and scheduling their courses. Caity selected four classes to take overseas: three classes that went toward her major, as well as French 1. When it was actually time to hit the books, she brought her work on the go by reading on airplanes and buses. Shelby’s light schedule made it easier for her to accomplish her work during the week.

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"I could’ve stayed there for another three more months to be honest. Five months... it’s just not long enough. Not for me. Not for how much I wanted to get accomplished.”

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She decided to take only three classes during the semester: two 100 level general education classes and one 200 level class for her major. “I only took three cause I wanted to make it a little easy so I [could] have more fun,” Shelby says.

Safety is key: Both Caity and Shelby say that safety is important to consider when it comes to adventuring somewhere new. Caity recommends using the buddy system when traveling. But if you really want to travel alone (like Caity did on a trip to Germany) there are a few things you should do. “Research the place you want to go to and make sure it’s safe. Like don’t travel alone to Istanbul or some crazy club city,” Caity advises. “Traveling alone was awesome and very scary at first but really worth it. You’re just like, ‘Wow I’m an independent person! Look at me in this foreign country; I don’t know anyone!’” Thanks to New Zealand’s low crime rate, safety wasn’t something Shelby had to worry about often. “When my mom came [to New Zealand], the headlining news story was that a son threw a head of lettuce at his mother,” Shelby says. “I felt safe at all times.”

Saying goodbye:

“The Netherlands is such a weird, little, amazing country. It just holds a little place in my heart now,” Caity says. Shelby says that she would 100 percent suggest traveling to New Zealand and admitted that even after five months of taking in the beauty of the country, she wasn’t ready to leave. “I could’ve stayed there for another three more months to be honest. Five months… it’s just not long enough. Not for me. Not for how much I wanted to get accomplished,” Shelby says.

Your t urn: To college girls who are planning to study abroad, Shelby and Caity share these words of wisdom: “Don’t be so worried about graduating on time. Clearly school is very important but there [are] also other things that can shape and round you as an individual, and traveling the world can definitely do that,” Shelby says. Caity advises college girls to study abroad even if it frightens them. “If people are scared to do it, they should just do it anyway,” Caity says. “It was definitely the best experience I’ve had, hands down. I’m so happy that I studied abroad.”

Despite the time, energy, and money spent, both young women stand by the fact that their experiences were all completely worth the trouble.

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(UMBILICAL) CORDS Text: AMY YOELIN For the past 18 years, I’ve lived with the same two people, my sisters (okay, and my parents, too). Last August was the first time I was completely separated from them. We have done things alone over the years, i.e. gone to different camps, classes, and activities. But college—that’s a whole other level. When people ask me what the best part of being a triplet is, I always answer back with: I have two permanent friends. Throughout my childhood, I knew I could rely on the fact that my sisters were almost always right by my side, or at least present for major events. Another part I love about being a triplet is our varied personalities. Almost every time Amanda, the middle child, opens her mouth, I burst out with laughter, and usually, end up with tears in my eyes. Allison, the youngest of the three of us, can update anyone on the latest movie and music news. Not to mention, she’s probably taken every Buzzfeed quiz created. I, the eldest, define myself as being overly maternal. My sisters have bestowed upon me the nickname of Mom #2. My trait made it particularly hard

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for me to divorce myself from my sisters when college started.

would have been nice to have my sisters there with me, but I can’t depend on them every time I My sisters’ college orientation was embark on a new experience in my in early June (they are both going life. In turn, my sisters both agreed to Metropolitan State University), as that it was healthy for us to be opposed to mine, which was in July. separated. If we were constantly in I found myself almost envious of each other’s business, we wouldn’t them, because they had each other. look forward to communicating They didn’t have to worry about with one another. As the 48-hour being friendless, or at least appearexperience came to a close, I realing to be alone. At my orientation, I ized that the only direction I need was a party of one—no parents or to look is forward, not back. siblings present. At first, it was hard to adjust without family around. After I came home from the pilThe downside to having my sisters grimage to my future college, my as constant companions is that I sisters and I geared up to leave often shielded off the task of talking home and progress into our futures. to other people. Without them, I felt Since my sisters moved into their naked—completely exposed and dorms about two weeks before I bare. After practicing the ritual of did, we all decided it would be best taking numerous deep breaths and if we commemorate our Last Day reading inspirational messages by together. Since December, Amanda, various people of influence, things Allison, and I had been babysitting started to look up for me at oriena family of three girls. For a few tation. Over the two-day period, I hours, we practically relived our thought to myself: This isn’t so bad childhood by playing dress-up after all. I came in with the notion and creating a fashion show. And that my orientation would be a for those few hours, it felt like we disaster, leaving me with the im- weren’t going away to college, but pression that freshman year would that we were only hanging out. be a two-semester concoction When I came home, the boxes and of loneliness and sadness. Yes, it suitcases reminded me: this wasn’t

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going to happen again. Part of me wanted to be happy about going back to the place I had just come from, but the other part urged me to really understand my situation. No longer would I be able to walk to either of my sisters' room whenever I pleased. No longer would I be able to watch TV with them. No longer would I be able to see them on a daily basis. But I know I’m not alone in this journey. Amanda and Allison are going through this too, even though they are attending the same college.

For the first couple of days of college, I had to keep pinching myself. Was I really here, in the place that I had been waiting to go to since I was admitted last year? Was I really living with a stranger? Was I really two hours away from home? My worries about being separated from my sisters slowly dissolved. The ongoing question of: “What if?” was silenced. I knew in the back of my mind that they are going to be okay without me. And I’m going to be okay without them.

There will be moments that I will love and hate being away from my sisters (I won't miss being around them when they're on their periods). A phrase, c'est la vie, French for “that’s life,” perfectly depicts my situation. Life progresses, even if we choose not to accept it. In the end, wherever my sisters end up during and after college, we’ll always have each other, even if we are miles or minutes apart from each other.

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ASK PAIGE Sometimes college can be stressful— balancing school, a job, and a social life can be tough. Slippery situations are bound to rise. Whether you’re dealing with needy parents or worried about making new friends, Paige Rowley has advice to simmer down your stress. My friends and I all became juniors and are living in separate apartment areas. We’re still close but we just chose to live with other people. How do we maintain that friendship and closeness while living off campus and apart?

–A Far Away Friend

Far Away Friend, The fact that you and your friends are still close is a good start! Sometimes choosing to live with other people can cause tension among friends, but if you care about each other then living separately shouldn’t affect your relationship—you may even become closer. You most likely won’t see these friends as often, but that

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will give you an opportunity to meet new people. Maintaining your close friendship will take effort on your part, as well as theirs, but keeping in touch regularly (a phone call here and there, a text asking how classes are going, etc.) will let them know that you’re still interested in being friends. Also, be sure to invite them to your new apartment whenever you have a party, and if they are as good of friends as you think they are, then the rest will naturally fall into place. This year I’m living with my roommates from freshman year. Everything’s alright but it could be better. I’ve started looking for a different place to stay next year

with another group of friends who would be a far better fit as living buddies. My question is: how do I break up with my current roommates? I still like them and want to be friends with them, I just can’t imagine living with them again. How can I spare their feelings? Is that even possible?

–Future Ex-Roomie

Future Ex-Roomie, At the start of college, my roommate was a high school friend. Eventually I moved into a new apartment, hoping that I would have a chance to meet new people. I was worried about how this would affect my relationship with my roommate, but it turns out

that it was the best decision for both of us—we are now closer than ever, and she is one of my dearest friends. The time spent apart makes each time I see her very special. If living with your current roommates again doesn’t make you excited, then consider making a change. It’s possible that they feel the same way too, so try talking to them about it. Ask how they would feel if you lived separately for a while, and if they are truly your friends they will be understanding and supportive. It’s okay to do what is best for you, in this case. Remember that college is hard enough without any added stress, so make every effort to follow what you think will make you happy. My parents keep asking me to come home for the weekend. But I have a lot of extra curriculars and plans on campus that I don’t want to miss. How can I explain that it just isn’t practical, even if they’re willing to pay for my transportation?

–Practical Pam

Practical Pam, Your parents miss you, and that is a good thing! You moving away to college has most likely been a difficult adjustment for them, too. Of course, they shouldn’t be tearing you away from your life on campus. It’s great that you’ve established a schedule at school that you like, and you shouldn’t feel guilty for that. Going home on the weekends can also make it hard to complete all of your schoolwork, so you are right in saying that it isn’t always practical. It is important to keep close contact with your parents though. Give them a call whenever you can, and if it doesn’t interfere too much with other responsibilities, make an effort to come home once a month or so, even if just for a little while.

Your mom and dad will appreciate spending time with you, and being at home may rejuvenate you! College will be over before you know it, so be sure to make time for the people that will always be there for you, well after you graduate. My friends are always so eager to go out to dinner, go shopping, and see movies on the weekends. It’s great to feel included, but I can’t afford to spend so much money when I go out with them. How can I turn down the invitations without making them feel like I don’t want to hang out with them?

–Budgeting Blues

Budgeting Blues, This happens to me all the time, so I know how it feels to be conflicted about spending money. It seems that once you live on your own (especially after you turn 21), there are so many opportunities to go out and spend time with friends. It is important to find a balance between having a social life and being smart with your savings. What I try to do is be selective—if you went out for dinner with a friend early in the week, then perhaps pass on drinks with her the next time. All of those outings can add up, especially during a time when college expenses are neverending. If your group is going out for an expensive meal, explain that you’d love to meet up when they get back. That way, you get to hang out with them without spending a dime. When you do go out, try to be smart with what you buy. Suggest places to eat that are reasonably priced, and avoid stores at the mall that you know will empty your wallet. Once you start making an effort to save, you will feel much more in control. That way, you’ll have enough to splurge for your friends’ birthdays or

that end of semester celebration! I’ll be a freshman this year and I’m so nervous about starting college. In high school I was really shy and had two close friends and we did everything together. But now we’re going to different schools and I’m afraid I won’t make any friends. How can I break out of my shell and meet new people?

–Worried and Alone

Worried and Alone, College can feel overwhelming, but it is also the perfect time to start completely fresh. Everything will feel new, and you’ll be meeting people every day—which is so exciting! I understand how you feel, because my best friends in high school and I went our separate ways, but we are still just as close today, almost four years later. I have also met new friends in college that I consider to be like sisters. Be open-minded about the idea that you may just meet a lifelong friend in one of your classes. Also, I know it sounds cliché, but try to get involved if you can. Even if you join one club, or go to one floor event in your building, it is likely that you’ll meet someone nice who shares the same interests as you. The most important thing, of course, is to be yourself and the right people will eventually come along. Be patient, too. I didn’t meet my close group of college friends until junior year, when I started to become more involved in my major; now, we’re inseparable. I know it is easy to feel lonely and homesick, but remember that your hometown friends are only a phone call away! Don’t feel discouraged if they start to make new friends; that doesn’t mean that they are forgetting about you. Be confident and fun opportunities will come your way.

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LEARNING FROM

MISTAKES Text: RESIDENT GUY ALEX in the dorm watching movies and browsing social media. Get out and put yourself out there. Believe in yourself and don’t worry about rejection. After all, guys get rejected and fear rejection just as much as girls. It’s all about having a short term memory.

Hey ladies, welcome back to school! I hope you all had wonderful summers and are excited and ready for a new year. In this article I’ll touch on how to deal with relationships for those of you who are currently dating someone coming into the fall semester. I will also focus on giving advice to those starting or seeking to find new relationships. What’s great about the beginning of a new school year is that everyone gets a fresh start. Let’s face it, some of us need that clean slate to forget about the past and move on to something new and hopefully better. The time of year which blends the end of August into September is an awesome couple of weeks. Everyone is happy to see their friends again, classes are just in syllabus mode, and the weather is warm so everyone is dressing their best to impress and to soak up some sun.

All the Single Ladies If you’re interested in someone, or are looking to simply find that special person, surrounding yourself with people and opportunity is essential. Go out to those kick-off barbeques and cookouts on campus, the club

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and recreation events where organizations are trying to recruit new members, and any social event where your friends and new people will be. Also, make some effort to show your interest in that special someone. Because nine times out of ten that person may not even know you’re interested until you talk to them. The key is really to be open, outgoing and free spirited. Don’t dwell on your past or bring any baggage along because no one wants to hear about it at the start of a relationship and you surely don’t need it on your mind. Treat this upcoming semester like the first day you arrived at college. Guys want to see fun and energetic girls who are themselves and just trying to have a good time. I wouldn't suggest spending your nights alone

If you’re 21 and over, get out to the bars and clubs. Be safe, but go out with groups of people and have some fun. If you’re not of age yet, house parties can still be a great way to meet guys, but again just be safe. Within the first week, if you meet a guy you like, make an effort to hang out with him. Do what you feel is right and don’t feel pressured to rush things. Overall, remember these five simple rules for looking for a relationship when you first get back to school: 1. Be open. 2. Surround yourself with large groups of people. 3. Have the same personality both inside and outside the classroom (don’t forget class is a good place to meet guys too!) 4. Pursue the guy that interests you and don’t be shy. 5. Enjoy the start of school for what it is; this time of year doesn’t last long .

LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

Stat us : In a Rel ations hip Now for those girls out there who are already dating someone, as you know, dealing with relationships is no easy task. Take it from me—as the king of spring flings—I’ve never dated a girl for more than 3 months. For some reason, I seem to always meet a girl every spring that’s worth dating but I continually mess it up time and time again. However, I do currently have a girlfriend. Like usual, I met her in the spring and, for some reason, am lucky enough to have her stick around. We’ve only been dating for a month, but this one seems to be different than the other girls of my past. If you’ve read my past articles about failed relationships and last summer’s flop, you’ll know I’m experienced when it comes to learning from mistakes. Failed relationships can cause both sides to blame the other, but it all comes down to both parties not working out their problems. First and foremost, communication is the most important aspect to making a relationship work and last. Last summer, I thought I was doing my girlfriend a favor by not texting and calling her all the time because I thought I was giving her space. However, she wanted me to call and text her because that shows I care. Now, my new girlfriend and I text all the time and talk on the phone at least once a day. And I’m much happier because although I miss her while we’re away for days at a time, I am reassured that we’re both still very into each other. You cannot worry about overcommunicating with your boyfriend. Talk to him whenever you want

because that shows him you care and he'll want to talk with you as well. If you're texting him too much, he'll let you know. There's no need to over think this. The next thing to be aware of is showing your affection. As a guy, I like to get my girlfriend flowers whenever I can. In fact I’ll be sure to do that this weekend when I see her. Even though it’s only been about a week since I last saw her, it's my way of expressing how I feel about her. For you ladies, I wouldn’t suggest gifts all the time but simple gestures like hugs, kisses, and holding hands mean much more than you might realize. He also probably wants to spend time with you. Try hiking at a reservoir, spending an afternoon at a public garden or park, or even going to lunch. Lastly, keep your relationship spontaneous and full of surprises. As a guy, I know my girlfriend really likes it when I act goofy, pick her up and swing her around, and have tons of energy wherever we are. Girls have their own ways of being spontaneous and every relationship is different. Whatever you know works in your particular relationship, do it and make sure you keep the flame burning. Most relationships fail either because someone cheats, or one person gets bored and moves on to someone else. Treat the guy you’re with like the first time you met him. Keep that in mind and you’ll be okay. I sincerely hope this advice helps. I’ve gone through plenty of failures so I know that some advice is hard to take, but try it out and see if it works. Plain and simple, do what you feel is right and never take your significant other for granted. You’ve been blessed to have found someone.

It’s like the movie "It’s a Wonderful Life"; don’t forget what you have because one day it could be gone and you’ll be sorry you overlooked it. So once again here’s a brief recap of five ways to deal with your relationship effectively: 1. Communicate often. 2. Work problems out face to face. 3. Keep things spontaneous. 4. Show your affection. 5. Always be grateful. Good luck this fall and stay tuned for the next issue of Tote Magazine for more dating advice from yours truly.

WANT GUY

Advice? Our Resident Guy Alex is available for questions. Whether you need help deciphering if your crush likes you or if you don’t know how to turn down the guy in your English class, Alex has an answer. He’ll reply with a post on our website. All names remain anonymous, so no need to be embarrassed. Click here to submit a question. tote

LISTEN The Kooks Sept 1st This quirky British rock group has always supplied the perfect background music for anything from hanging out with friends to late night studying, which is why we couldn’t be more excited for this upcoming album. Just from listening to the first two singles, “Around Town” and “Down”, we’re already visualizing playing the new Kooks songs at our next dance party.

This is all Yours Alt-J Sept 22 While Alt-J are also from the land of the Brits, their sound is very different from the raw guitar and vocal riffs of The Kooks. With a far more electronic and eclectic sound, our favorite from their last album is the slow burning “Taro.” Alt-J has never been afraid to experiment with their sound, which is what makes This Is All Yours much anticipated in the music world.

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COMING UP

TEXT: KATIE LEMON

ENTERTAINMENT

HUNGRY GHOSTS OK Go Oct 14th

MOVIES

You may know them best for their cutting edge music videos, but get ready, because their first album in four years is finally dropping this October. OK Go has a classic rock vibe with laidback lyrics and heavy guitar making them the perfect album to listen to, well, anywhere. If you’re still not sold, be sure to check out their trippy and iconic video they did this summer for the single “The Writing’s On The Wall.”

THE DISAPPEARANCE OF ELEANOR RIGBY Sept 26th This love story puts a new twist on things by cataloging love from both sides of the relationship. The first installment, “Him”, releases at the end of the month and is from the perspective of the lovely James McAvoy. Set in New York City, two young lovers try to reclaim what they once had after a life-altering experience. Intrigued? Be sure to catch not just this one, but also the “Her” installment set to release later in the year!

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THE INTERVIEW Oct 10th See the stars of Pineapple Express reunited in this comedy out early October. James Franco plays the handsome talk show host with Seth Rogen playing his producer. Through a strange but hilarious series of accidents and miscommunication, the two find themselves involved in a plot to assassinate the prime minister of Nor th Korea. They must extract themselves from the situation, but will doing so get them killed instead? You’ll have to check it out in theaters to laugh along yourself!

THE JUDGE Oct 10th Rober t Downey Jr. and a murder mystery? Check yes, we’re absolutely in. This film follows the son of a small-town judge who is suddenly suspected of murder. Downey’s character has to return to his hometown to help clear his father’s name, but first he has to find out what the truth really is, all while trying to reconnect with the family he left behind years before.

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BOOKS

I'll give you the sun Jandy Nelson Sept 16th Did you cry your eyes while reading (or watching) The Fault In Our Stars? Then this is the next book you’ll want to add to your list! This story follows two twins through early adulthood. With shy Noah and daredevil Jude, the brother and sister get along fantastically at first. But as they grow up they begin to lose each other. It’s an unexpected story of life and love and loss, and Nelson’s writing is beautiful enough to make you cry, not to mention the heartbreaking way things turn out.

Salt & Storm Kendall Kulper Sept 23rd This tale of fantasy follows Avery Roe, a young woman living on a small whaling island in the Pacific. For centuries, the women in her family have secretly kept the whaling boats on their island safe using a mysterious source of magic. But when it’s time for Avery to take over the witching role, someone very close to her kidnaps her. She soon discovers deep secrets about her family’s past, and has a vision of her own murder. Will she be able to escape and return to the island in time to save not just her island, but herself?

ROOMS Lauren Oliver Sept 23rd This is Oliver’s debut into adult fiction, and the story she tells of the living and dead is absolutely stunning. When the wealthy Mr. Walker dies, his estranged family comes back together to collect what they can for their inheritance. But they are not alone: two ghosts bound to the house also attend the affair. When a new ghost arrives and begins communicating with Mr. Walker’s daughter, the two sorrowful and confused worlds collide to create a breathtaking story of life and death.

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PAINT CHIP

Wall Text & PHOTOGRAPHS: EMILY KONG 70

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DIY

Get ready for your wall to be the burst of color in your room! Your dorm or apartment walls are empty when you move in, but they don’t have to stay that way permanently. Instead of buying posters or printing out pictures to cover your wall, this alternative is low-cost and easy to do. So don’t bother painting your apartment wall only to worry about repainting it at the end of your lease, these paint chips are an easier alternative!

WHAT YOU NEED: • About 180 paint chips of various sizes and colors depending on the size of your wall • Duct Tape • An empty wall

WHAT TO DO: 1. Find an empty wall to decorate. 2. Figure out your color scheme. You can do one resembling a picturesque outdoors scene (yellow, orange, red for the sun, blue for the sky, green for the grass, and other colors for flowers). 3. Get paint swatches from your neighborhood hardware store. 4. Begin with the outside edges to create your pattern or gradient. 5. Use duct tape to stick swatches to the wall. 6. Step back and enjoy your new colored wall!

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Bor rowed from Pinterest via Denise Gonzalez