StreetScape Magazine - March | April 2016 by TPH Media

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Table of Contents 4. Publisher’s Note 10. Patti York: Mom, Mayor, Motivator 12. Director of The Year: Rhonda Hamm-Niebruegge 14. Al Wiman: Meeting “An American Reporter”

22. Noah Madden - Miraculously

Beating the Odds

30. Mark Schiff - “Mark’s Comedy Minute” 32. Mother’s Day 34. Easy Potluck Brunch 36. Play Like a Kid 42. Ask the Expert

44. Real Estate 50. Fashion - Startup Style 60. A Passion to Repurpose 62. Wedding 70. Vacationing in Missouri 76. Burn Camp - Inspires Courage & Confidence

80. Rock-n-Roll Connection - St. Louis 82. The Wayward Critic 85. “Styled!” - Feeling Lucky? 86. Cottleville - St. Patrick’s Day Parade 88. Irish Cheer 92. Life Isn’t About Being Lucky... 94. Sparkle of Green

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Publisher’s Note Hello and happy Spring to our family and friends! We are proud to have served our St. Charles and St. Louis communities for 10 years now! StreetScape has experienced major growth and changes since we started in 2006. Our size, distribution, and events are all bigger and better than ever! In the area of distribution, you can now find us on all Schnucks Dierberg’s and Shop ‘n Save store newsstands in St. Charles County. Please mark your calendars for our two main signature events, “Romancing the Runway!” on September 16 and 17 and “Beyond the Best” on November 7. You can find out about sponsorship programs and participation levels in this issue. We have packed this issue with fun things to do, recipes, contests and events. We hope we leave you “Feeling Lucky” in our “Styled!” section We would also like to extend a warm welcome to Michael R. Grafman, our newest sales account manager. He has brought in two new sponsored features to StreetScape. We are excited to have a fun feature written by the opening act for Jerry Seinfeld, Mark Schiff, called “Mark’s Comedy Minute,” as well as, “The St. Louis Rock ‘n’ Roll Connection,” this month featuring The Charlie Daniels Band. Please contact Michael for amazing advertorial opportunities. As always, looking forward to seeing you at some of the events and festivals in our community this Spring!

Thomas P. Hannegan

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Story by Sarah Moeller Photos by Michael Schlueter Daughter and Mother Co-Owners Lynette York (L) and Patti York (R)

When Patti York first moved to St. Charles, she was given a piece of advice: “Get involved in the community.” This sage statement essentially served as both an omen and a blessing, for she had bought her house from then-councilman Bill Baggerman, who gave her that tip. In the basement of her new home, she found one of Bill’s political yard signs, and along with that sale came those almost prophetic words of advice. Since that time, and even before, the concept of community has been a fixture in Patti’s life, but she magnified this trait by eventually becoming mayor of the town. Without a doubt, the most important and enduring (mini) community in her life has always been her family. This was evident by her tone and her enthusiasm when talking about her husband, Lionel, and their four children – sons Adrian, Colin, and Jordan, and daughter, Lynette. All of them are happy and doing well at life, and Patti is a very content woman because of this. During her childhood, Patti moved a lot; and her main stability was reading. Through the printed page, young Patti cultivated the desire to travel and would read about places like England, which made her want to go experience these lands for herself. In order to give wings to her dreams, she became a flight attendant. “Explore the road less traveled” was her motto.

Patti York: Mom, Mayor, Motivator As a family with a pilot for a father and a former flight attendant for a mother, it was only natural

that the York children inherited the traveling gene. Patti worked for Ozark airlines until she became pregnant. But even after having children, Patti continued to travel, taking her brood to destinations such as Europe, China, Malaysia, and Brazil. At least one of her children has even lived overseas for a time.

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BusinessScape In addition to her husband and children, another community Patti has heavily invested in is the city of St. Charles, of course. As a former mayor and self-titled “Mom of the City,” Patti says she put the skills learned while raising a family to work governing a city. The list of skills encompassed management, teamwork, conflict resolution, nurturing, and – naturally – leadership. She believes that, “If you can raise four kids, you can run a city.” Evidently, this approach was quite popular with adults (voters) and kids alike; she was mayor for over 12 years, and guests of all ages were entertained in her office overlooking the river. She likes to tell of the times kids visited her office, started looking out the window, and saw the river. She explained to them how, at that location, the river runs South to North, which is backwards from how it usually runs. A lot of times, kids also asked if she had a helicopter, since she seemed like such a celebrity to them. Although she was in the public eye and turned heads in places like the grocery store and movie theater – and even once was a ringmaster at the Shriner’s circus – not everyone recognized her. At one public function, Patti was scheduled to give a speech at a designated spot at the venue, then set off fireworks at the other end of the location. A young man was driving her there and was going a little too fast, so she commented on his speed. He informed Patti that he had to hurry to drop her off, because his next task was to give the mayor a ride. Being widely recognized (or not) had its perks, of course, but being a “normal” citizen is something Patti enjoys about her current stage of life.

gym members. Overall, members are very supportive of each other. The family element at CrossFit is strong as well — three generations of Patti’s own family are represented there, since athletes as young as age three can participate. Patti teaches CrossFit Kids, with children the ages of her grandkids. If she was the mom of the city before, she has now become the “grandma of the gym” because of this. Her motivating energy has made it possible to build a successful business in a relatively short time. As a CrossFit gym owner, there is no public persona to uphold, and the pace of her day-to-day life is more laid back. She can sit and talk with people at her leisure, always being true to her authentic self, and not feeling she has to be what people expect a mayor to be. One thing Patti’s current business is doing is reaching out to the community beyond its four walls. While the CrossFit community inside is thriving, it doesn’t stop there. (continued on page 18)

After retiring from public service, she was looking for something else to do. She had always liked exercising and working out, especially lifting weights. She went to watch some CrossFit competitions, and it looked like fun. As it turned out, she “really fell in love” with it. She decided to try her hand (and her arms, legs, back, etc.) at CrossFit, with her daughter, Lynette, as her coach. Before too long, they were also business partners. For the past several months, Patti and Lynette have owned and operated UnCharted, a CrossFit gym. When she owned the Saint Charles House Elegant Bed & Breakfast, it was fun introducing people to the concept. They had many questions about the details and logistics of sharing an eating space with other guests, for example; and Patti enjoyed being on the cusp of the bed and breakfast boom. In a similar fashion, the CrossFit trend is in its infancy, and she likes explaining and championing this unique style of gym to people who are curious about how it is set up. Another perk of this job is working with her daughter and having those two communities (home and CrossFit) integrate on a daily basis. The community aspect there is obvious. Members often engage in related activities, such as planning healthy potlucks with other

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BusinessScape Being involved with the Airports Council through government affairs is another way she supports her industry, as well as being involved in the National Freight Advisory Committee for the president. Another aspect that helped her receive the award is how innovative our airport is and how we set our airport apart from other airports. Rhonda is quick to say that her award is actually a team award and that her team helps create an innovative climate. One innovative step they took was turning an unused concourse into an event venue, which hosted a wedding in December and a StreetScape fashion show in the fall of 2015, among others. When asked what Rhonda loves most about her job, she shared, “I think being able to have what I consider is such a vital part of the region and have some part of making it better. And so when I look at the airport and I think about the significance and the impact it has to our region, being given the responsibility to run that and to try to make it a better place is really exciting.”

With all the responsibility of running an airport, I wondered what Rhonda liked to do to relax and rejuvenate. Posed with that question, Rhonda replied, “This is going to sound odd, but I love to clean. My Saturday morning is a sort of de-stress. I like a very clean, organized environment, especially in my home, because it gives me a sense of great accomplishment and something I like to do. The other way is cooking. My husband and I love to cook. We love to entertain. And he’s a very good cook actually. We like to try foods at places that we’ve eaten and then try to create them.”

Lambert Airport Director Rhonda Hamm-Niebruegge in the Ticketing Level Lounge of Terminal 1.

Story by Karen Hoffman Photos by Michael Schlueter Long before Rhonda Hamm-Niebruegge was named Director of the Year by “Airport Revenue News,” Rhonda was on a path to serve — literally. Her first job was working at Nickerson Farms Restaurant as a waitress on weekends and during the summer in Oran, Missouri. This proved to be a great foundation for Rhonda after she went to work for the airlines, moving up the ranks until she became the first woman director of Lambert-St. Louis Airport. For Rhonda this is an extra sweet award because she had no idea she was being considered for it. The criteria are multi-pronged. The first is taking a look at the airport’s last 16 months. The fact that Lambert had gone through a lot of changes that were positive is a plus. Another criterion is how involved the director is in the industry as a whole. Rhonda happens to be very active in the aviation industry in St. Louis and beyond, looking to the next 10 to 30 years and how we can make it more sustainable. 12 StreetScape Magazine

I asked Rhonda what might surprise people about her, and she shared, “I’m really an outdoors person, and I don’t think a lot of people think that or know that because typically, when you come to work every day in a public environment, you are always dressed for the public. But I’m an outdoors person. I love walking and being in nature – and gardening. I love anything to do with the outdoors… I enjoy the peace of it.” Asked about her biggest dream for the airport, Rhonda said she would love to see Lambert receive respect for the asset that it is and continued with, “I think we’re on the path to getting there. This is a fantastic airport, not only from an architectural standpoint, but really from a value to the region. I want people to see it again as a great asset. I want people to realize that it’s a benefit to this region; and if we can get to where people feel that way again, that would be to me the greatest accomplishment that we could have. “I still don’t think people realize what we have at this airport. When you look around the U.S., and you look around this industry, and you compare us to most other cities that are our size, we have more to offer at our airport. We also have to understand that it is different than it was 20 years ago. One of my last questions for Rhonda was, how can we, in the St. Louis Metro community, help our airport; and one of

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Rhonda’s responses was to help grow our passenger traffic. As a reader you might think, oh, there’s no way I could help with that; but you can. What association, company, church group or organization that you are part of could host a convention or meeting here in St. Louis? Conventions almost always result in airline travel. Terminal 1 Ticketing area.

Lambert-St. Louis Airport and our region Added Rhonda, “Having people think about, when they are talking – whether it’s locally or whether it’s to their other firms or other contacts they have… that just talking about St. Louis as a place to host both a company relocation or an event… we need and we have to get more proactive as a region in bragging about ‘why come here’. And so I think everybody can play a role in that. If you want to ask an individual on the street ‘How can you play a role?’, be proud of what we have here and help sell it.” ¤

Lambert Airport Director Rhonda Hamm-Niebruegge near the “China China” statue in Terminal 1 Ticketing Level. March | April

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Meeting Story by Kelley Lamm Photos by Michael Schlueter

The door was opened to an elegant, high-rise condominium, welcoming me into the home of Al Wiman, an American reporter, and his lovely wife, Glenda. I was met with a warm smile and a gracious hello as I stepped in onto the beautiful, rosewood floors. I admired a painted mural on the wall resembling the city of St. Louis, gorgeous 12-foot palms, and a breathtaking view out the massive windows, 14 stories up, overlooking downtown St. Louis. Glenda, smiled and said, “You should see what it looks like at sunset.” Each room had its own personality and exquisite design, adorned with beautiful, framed pictures displaying the memories of a blended family celebrating over 30 years of love together. I entered Al Wiman’s study where the walls were filled with mementos of years of acquaintances, friendships, accomplishments and awards. There were pictures of diplomats, presidents, movie stars, celebrities and artists aligning the walls, each telling a story of Al Wiman throughout his years as an American reporter. Wiman had a professional career right here in St Louis, Missouri, at KSDK-TV and was highlighted as the medicine and science editor for KMOV-TV St. Louis for decades. He has a long history with radio and television, having also worked in Los Angeles and Tallahassee. His career has earned him three Emmy Awards from the National Academy of Television Arts and Sciences and two Golden Globe awards from the Radio & Television News Association of Southern California. He is best known for his reports on the Charles Manson murders in Los Angeles over four decades ago when Wiman and his television crew discovered the bloody clothes discarded by the killers on a hillside in Beverly Hills. As a result, Wiman was referenced in Helter Skelter and was portrayed in the television film based on the case. Another of Wiman’s fascinating and award-winning, great moments as a journalist is his key role in the narration of “The Beatles Story” album released in 1964 for Capital Records while he was working at radio station KFWB in Hollywood. Displayed in a frame above Wiman’s desk is the infamous, Christmas Story, Red Ryder rifle with a note reading, “You’ll 14 StreetScape Magazine

“An Ame shoot your eye out.” This is a favorite of his, which quickly led me to believe that this man of incredible, intellectual communication skills has a great since of humor. Note pad and pen in hand, I pressed record, and my interview began with Mr. Al Wiman… an interview unlike any other. This man who has spent his life researching, investigating and interviewing hundreds of individuals throughout his career doesn’t easily give up control during an interview. It began with him turning on a cassette player, pressing forward and reverse, and filling the room with the sound of a screeching tape. When play was finally pressed, it was a recording of Danny Thomas introducing Al Wiman to Elvis Presley! I listened intently as I heard Al Wiman interview the late Elvis Presley back in 1964. Each of his cassettes are filled with the voices of his past that paved a path for his incredible career of fierce journalism. Al Wiman grew up in Laurel, Mississippi, and it was in high school where he found his career in broadcasting in the early ‘50s at WLIU with “Al’s Show.” Wiman was part of a student exchange program in Wisconsin during high school where he met a young man who worked at a radio station. Wiman asked how he began working there, and the young man replied, “I just walked in and applied.” Wiman decided to do the same and applied at WLIU. The station’s program director offered him an opportunity to take a tape recorder home and record himself reading some news stories from the local newspaper. He didn’t exactly start out at the top. Actually, he started at the bottom, filing records, sweeping up the studios, and getting coffee. His career really began with one lucky moment when the evening disc jockey called in sick, which left only Al Wiman available to sign off. It was then Wiman came to the realization that he wanted more than a career as a local disc jockey. He discovered he had a deep desire to unearth the truth and report it to the people.

BusinessScape I listened on the edge of my seat as Wiman told of stories and events he covered throughout the years, from beginning to end, with complete accuracy, never missing a detail or a name, with honesty and integrity. One such story detailed how Wiman was in Memphis the morning after Martin Luther King was killed and was the first reporter at the site where James Earl Ray stood in the bathtub and shot King. Wiman was there that morning with his recorder in hand just before the FBI tore each piece of that room apart for evidence. As he finished the story, Wiman repeated to me again, “I was in that room.” Wiman talked about how he went to get breakfast the morning of the march, and every table was taken. He recognized a man sitting at a table and asked if he could sit with him as all the tables were filled. Wiman’s voice became excited as he was telling me,

Wiman said, “I just lost it.” The other little boy was named Ben, and Wiman had asked him, “What do you want people to know about having cancer, Ben?” The little boy asked him for a pen and paper. Ben wrote on the paper and handed it to Wiman. It read, “This is bad.” Al Wiman handed me that note that he’d kept for so many years and exclaimed, “Isn’t this profound!” It was my turn to ask Al Wiman a few personal questions to find out more about this wonderfully gifted reporter who is a husband, a father and a friend. Kelley: You still have that handwritten piece of paper from that little boy?

erican Reporter” “It was Roy Wilkins! I ate breakfast with Roy Wilkins, the head of the NAACP, on the morning of Martin Luther King’s march.” On a plane heading back from an assignment, Wiman happened to sit next to the famous actor Marlon Brando and talked all the way back. Actually, Wiman said with laughter, “We got drunk together; how weird is that? I can’t make this stuff up!” Wiman was once asked to be a game show host, and he turned it down. He knew he wanted to be out in the field reporting the news, reporting the truth. One of his greatest satisfactions was when he was sent to do a story about Ida Mae Edwards, a woman who was living in a pup tent. After leaving her home to attend a friend’s funeral, her house was torn down by the city with all her furniture in it. Ida never even received a notice or warning. Wiman’s diligent reporting on this story every day ended up getting the city to rebuild her home. He wrote a documentary on a nuclear submarine, made breaking news with the Charles Manson murders, reported on Martin Luther King’s shooting, blew the doors open with the tunnel disaster in Los Angeles, finding safety inspections that had been violated. He documented the worst pollution in history in LA with the auto industry and took his investigations all the way to Washington, D.C. Wiman’s most profound story that left a forever place in his heart was a multi-story documentary about two little boys who were dying of cancer. He spoke of how he wanted to give an honest narrative of what they were going through. He spent over a year with these boys getting to know them and documenting their stories. One little boy’s name was Mika who loved Star Wars. In Mika’s final days, Wiman brought a tee shirt that he had made for Mika with Mika Skywalker printed on the front and Jedi Knight printed on the back. Upon Wiman attending the funeral, he found out Mika had requested to be buried in that T-shirt. It took days for Wiman to return to work.

Al: Yes, that was the most profound story that I was involved with. I care! Do you care about the people you interview? I do! I gave back to people to give back to the community. Kelley: You remember every name, every story and every detail. You have this innate ability to see things and want to research and report about them. Al: I am curious. I’ve always been curious. There was never a day that went by that I didn’t learn something. I am happy and proud to do that. The truth does not always lie halfway between the left and right; it’s not always in the middle. I was more interested in telling the truth, finding the truth. Kelley: Who has made an impact on your career of reporting? Al: Edward Murrow (a radio and television news broadcaster who gave eyewitness reports of World War II for CBS and helped develop journalism for the masses). I live by this quote, “Try to develop the ability to say what you see, be lucky and be in the right place in the right time, write clean copy, short sentences, and take the job seriously but not yourself seriously.” Kelley: If you could give yourself another title other than a reporter, what would it be? Al: Forrest Gump of the newsroom. Kelley: Tell me why. Al: I’ve been so many places, done so many things. Kelley: This room is filled with memorabilia of people you have interviewed, lives you have changed, and awards you have won. How does it feel when you sit back and look around this room and see your life’s work? Are you very proud and in awe of your work? (continued on next page) March | April

go on. It has changed people’s lives from living on the street to professional careers. Kelley: You have the opportunity to leave three things in a time capsule that represent you and your life. What would they be? Al: Pictures of my grandkids, pictures with Glenda. Kelley: So family was first on your list. Al: Yes, because that is the most important thing. All of this is just stuff — so what! Kelley: You gave me two items for the time capsule. What would be the third item that would have people say, “This is Al Wiman?”

Al with his wife, Glenda in their St. Louis home

(continued from previous page) Al: No, I don’t see it that way. In a way I see it as sadness – sadness at the disappearance of serious journalism. Kelley: How has media changed over the years? Al: People are not interested anymore. Julius Hunter, a good friend and another anchor in St Louis, once said to me, “When are the young people of America going to look up at the sky, see the buildings, look at faces?” The world has changed. It’s so fast. We are learning about things so quickly. There are no barriers. No editorial control. Kelley: How has reporting changed and what do you mean when you say no editorial control? Al: Shortly after I came to St Louis, it was the dawn of live television; and I attended a meeting that had to do with ethics and journalism principles. We discussed… never cover a demonstration live. Never cover a riot live. You observe and report, but you do not cover it live as a participant. Why? Because you have no editorial control. People have a right to do what they want to do. But so many people today want to be the biggest star… are they really interested in reporting the story? Kelley: What was important to you as a reporter? Al: To tell the truth. I have invested my time, my money, to learn and know more. Kelley: How would you define St Louis in your life. Al: It was a perfect place, a booming city. It is still a good place; it is my home. Although it is sad, too, as we have all these tiny communities, little kingdoms. It would be great if everyone came together. If we could merge as one, we would be a stronger city. Kelley: What is something close to your heart? Al: One organization I have enjoyed being a part of is Doorways – interfaith housing for people who are HIV positive. People were scared to death of HIV positive individuals when I was reporting the news. Doorways gives HIV positive people encouragement to

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Al: (He held a little, colorful, ceramic owl approximately 2 inches by 3 inches in his hand.) We merged our families 30 plus years ago; and Glenda’s daughter, Joanna, was three at the time and thought my name was Owl, just like the bird, and has called me Daddy Owl ever since. As you can see, I have a whole owl collection. Kelley: What is the legacy Al Wiman leaves? Al: The hope that somewhere, somehow, some of this reporting might have made a difference in someone’s life. It is more important to help people than it is to help yourself. Kelley: Would you want to leave one of your stories in that time capsule… a story from a simpler time? Al: It was great to live in a simpler time. I would leave this quote Kennedy borrowed many times from George Bernard Shaw, who wrote it. This quote is my favorite, “Some people see the world as it is and ask why. I dream things that never were and ask why not.” That’s the way I lived my life. Kelley: What last words would you like me to share? Al: I’ve tried to be very careful with what I’ve done and what I know. Kelley: How did Al Wiman sign off on air at the end of a story? Al: I didn’t. I didn’t have one. I was not the story. It was never about me. The people were the story. Kelley: Do you have any regrets? Al: No, I don’t, because I wouldn’t be where I am. I wouldn’t be with Glenda. His final words were of his love for his family. Al Wiman, a man of many words, incredible stories, and passionate journalism is an outstanding reporter, St. Louisan, husband, father and friend. He has made a life of giving back to the community where he is highly admired and respected. Al Wiman, an American reporter, reported the truth and cared about the people. ¤

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BusinessScape (continued from page 11) It assists charities like Toys for Tots and does fundraisers for organizations such as the Wounded Warrior project. Some of the recipients of the Wounded Warriors program are even among the mainstream athletes that work out at her gym. Patti herself is a member of the Birthright board and is the second vice president of the Lindenwood Association Alumni Board. She has also contributed to the Humane Society and the Five Acres Animal Shelter. You would think that being “grounded” and tied down would keep a person from exploring, and to some degree it did. But one time, the travelers came to Patti. She tells of an incident in the 1990s when a group of people came down the river in canoes. She was working at her bed and breakfast then and remembers looking out and seeing people traveling on the river. Although this was well before the Lewis and Clark centennial, the people she saw were reenacting that historic journey; and seeing them floating down in canoes caught Patti’s eye. Since – and because of that event – Patti became more interested in history, and her reading horizons were expanded a bit. Just as in her childhood, Patti still likes to read; and besides traveling, it is one of her hobbies. Nowadays, many people refer to “bucket lists” or a list of things to do in life. Surprisingly, Patti doesn’t have such a list. She asserts she has a great life, is grateful for how her children are faring, and is satisfied to continue traveling. However, when asked who her inspiration has been over the years, she was quick to mention Nancy Matheny as someone she wants to be like. The women first met when Nancy was an operations officer at Lindenwood University. Patti described her friend as someone who “can do anything,” and added that “nothing stops her.” Nancy was also

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in government, serving on the county council. Patti quips, “When I grow up, I want to be [like] Nancy.” Another strong influence in Patti’s life was the family of Dr. Hank Clever, Sr. She reports that he was good with nursing mothers; and as a La Leche League leader, Patti found this was a vital trait for a doctor. His whole family (he is a father of eleven) has been an asset to the community, serving on different committees with her throughout the years. Despite working for many years on different boards and in various capacities, one thing Patti says is “bittersweet” is working

hard to complete a project yet not getting to witness its fruition. This also means not being on the A-List of people invited to celebrate its conclusion. For example, welcoming people to the convention center was a treat, and her position as mayor made her the obvious choice for heading that ceremony. On the other hand, it took a dozen years to get the post office moved; and by then, she was no longer mayor. However, it is clear that with her first and most beloved community – her family – Patti will always make the A-list. It is no wonder that every morning she wakes up and says, “Thanks, Lord, for a great life.” ¤

Confluence with Michael Shonrock

When You Plant a Tree…

If you’ve been on Lindenwood’s campus, you’ve seen our collection of massive trees. Soon their leaves will emerge and produce that great, green canopy we enjoy here. It is awe-inspiring to think that each one of those giants started as a single stalk.

This reminds me of one of our great Lindenwood stories. In 1948, a faculty member named Martha Boyer was given $600 to buy five cash registers to teach the young Lindenwood ladies the service side of the retail industry. But she had other ideas and instead bought a one-watt, AM radio transmitter. From Boyer’s one idea, KCLC was born, along with the School of Communications, as we know it today.

With donated equipment, she started Lindenwood’s first TV station in the ‘60s, as well as KCLC-FM in 1968, broadcasting at all of 10 watts. Today, KCLC broadcasts at 50,000 watts and in HD. And LUTV was one of the first HD-TV stations in St. Louis. More importantly, the communications programs launched the careers of people like Betty Cole Dukert, a pioneering woman in broadcast journalism, who produced NBC’s “Meet the Press” for four decades, and Susan Schiller, who produced “CBS This Morning.” Frank Accarino, retired vice president of operations at NBC, also came from Lindenwood. Our alumni include Bob Ramsey, Robin Smith, Earl Austin Jr., Dan McLaughlin, and MLB TV’s Greg Amsinger. They work at major networks like CNN and NBC. The list of alumni also consists of countless professionals in journalism, marketing, public relations, advertising, and interactive media and web design.

Our School of Communications now has 500 students — the professionals of tomorrow. Not bad, considering it all started with a one-watt AM transmitter. It staggers the imagination. It is stunning proof… when you plant a tree, you never know how it might grow. Michael D. Shonrock, Ph.D., is the 22nd president of Lindenwood University, an undying optimist, and a self-described futurist. He welcomes readers’ comments at streetscape@lindenwood.edu. ¤

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Noah madden Story by Amy Armour Photos by Michael Schlueter A routine ultrasound changed the lives of Casey and Alana Madden when the results provided a devastating diagnosis in 2011. A series of miracles, thousands of prayers, and an astounding amount of faith later, an absolutely miraculous child named Noah Madden was born. “It was supposed to be a wonderful day where we would finally get to share the great news with family and friends, and we would finally get to pick out the colors for our baby’s room,” said Alana Madden of that first ultrasound. At 3:30 that morning in June 2011, Alana woke with an overwhelming feeling of worry.

Miraculously Beating the Odds “I remember going home and holding each other, crying, and praying,” said Alana. The couple was sent to Washington University to get more detailed imaging of their son. At every appointment the news became more devastating. “It looked like his stomach was midline and smaller than normal, and there did not appear to be a spleen. If a baby is born without a spleen, it is a lot worse than losing your spleen as an adult. The spleen of babies helps fight off critical infections. Without it and with Noah having half a heart, a simple cold could turn deadly in a matter of hours,” explained Alana. As it got closer to her delivery date, the couple met with the medical team that would be involved in Noah’s care.

“So much so, that God woke me up to read Philippians 4:6-7; ‘Do not be anxious in anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guide your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.’ These verses calmed my spirit and prepared my heart for what was to come,” said Alana.

“The surgeon said that the latest imaging showed that, because of his heterotaxy, all the vessels going to and from his heart were different than normal,” said Alana. “Their immediate concern was that one of these vessels was blocked, which was causing blood to back up in the lungs and would essentially drown him. This diagnosis was worse than him having half a heart, and the two diagnoses together gave him no chance of survival.”

During the ultrasound later that day, the nurse stopped examining Alana and excused herself from the room.

The couple was strongly encouraged to enjoy the short time they had with Noah and let him go without any interventions.

“We immediately knew something was very wrong. We began praying as we waited for what seemed like an eternity,” said Alana. When the nurse came back in with the doctor, the couple’s worst fears were confirmed. “Our son had heterotaxy syndrome, a rare condition where some of the organs in the body are reversed, and some organs are underdeveloped or missing,” said Alana. “The doctor’s main concern was that our son had what looked to be half of a heart; and a series of three open heart surgeries were needed to help him survive – one immediately after birth, one around 6 months old, and one around 3 to 4 years old. And the chances of survival were not great.” Alana said the rest of the day was somewhat of a blur. 22 StreetScape Magazine

“And that’s when my mom felt led by the Holy Spirit to tell the group that she would like to pray and immediately bowed her head and started praying…To this day, Noah’s cardiologist still talks about that prayer,” said Alana. Noah was born on November 8, 2011, with about 20 medical personnel awaiting his arrival. “During delivery we were allowed to play worship music and pray. You could have heard a pin drop in the room,” said Casey Madden, Noah’s dad. “He was expected to be born blue, but instead was born pink, kicking and crying, which indicated that he was alive.

This was one of the many miracles we would witness.” Noah was then rushed to Children’s Hospital for his first procedure to remove the obstruction in his heart. “Things were very touch and go during that first procedure. The doctors were racing against the clock; the more time that passed without clearing the obstruction, the more Noah was drowning in his own blood,” said Casey. “Right around the five-hour mark, Dr. Lee came out and told us that the cath team was going to work on him for 15 minutes; and if they couldn’t clear it, they would be forced to put him on ECMO, which is total heart and lung life support.”

“I remember the surgeon had a mask on, and all I could see were his eyes. Our eyes met, and no words were said; but I could see the concern in his eyes.” CPR was performed on Noah for 25 minutes. He was placed on ECMO (heart and lung support) and was given a 20 percent chance to live. “He remained on ECMO for three days and,

Alana shared that today Noah is doing well – considering what he has been through. “Almost every part of his body is affected by heterotaxy. We recently found out he suffered a stroke, most likely from being on ECMO – one reason it is a last alternative; but we praise God because it was small, and we have not seen any noticeable signs,” said Alana.

“We all surrounded her bed and were on our knees praying. I will never forget this. Three minutes into our prayer, I got a text message from Dr. Lee stating that the blockage was cleared, stents were placed, and the life support team was sent home! We were jumping for joy, praising our Savior!” said Casey.

Noah does get out of breath quicker than other kids, and feeding can be a challenge; but overall Alana said he is a happy 4 year old who loves to play with other kids and loves everything Disney.

The Maddens finally got to hold Noah three days later. He was still very sick, but the doctors suggested that they take Noah home.

Noah had his first open heart surgery at 9 days old. The day after his surgery, Noah’s heart rate suddenly dropped — he was in cardiac arrest. “Noah’s surgeon was performing CPR on Noah; and because his chest was still open, he held Noah’s heart in his hand and was pumping it manually,” said Casey.

Noah had a second heart surgery at 10 months; and on September 1, 2015, Noah had the final surgery of the three-stage heart repair. “Many people joined in praying for Noah’s surgery and recovery and for comfort and strength for our family as we were facing such another major surgery. We needed another miracle, and God answered our prayer,” said Alana. “Noah did so well emotionally and recovered very quickly. He was only in the hospital for six days.”

Church members were notified to begin praying, and Casey rushed back to see Alana.

“The implication was that they felt Noah would not live long and that perhaps we would like to spend that short time with him at our home,” said Casey. “We were devastated, but immediately started praying; and the next day the surgeon changed his mind and decided he wanted to proceed with the surgery.”

When Noah was 4 months old, he was taken by helicopter to Children’s Hospital after an episode where his heart rate reached into the 300s, and he turned blue. Doctors had to shock him twice to get his heart rhythm in normal range. He spent eight days in the hospital.

by God’s grace, improved enough to be removed from life support,” said Casey. “It took him a month and a half to recover, and we were finally able to take him home the day after Christmas.” A few weeks later, Noah went back to the hospital to remove blood clots that had formed as a result of his first hospital stay. When Noah was released to go home, the couple was challenged with caring for Noah at home with numerous medications to administer and a feeding tube.

Casey said the couple cherishes every moment the family spends together. “We try and take it one day at a time because it can get overwhelming when looking at life expectancy. The heart surgeries were not a cure but life-prolonging interventions,” said Casey. “We only know of one living adult with this condition. Noah is truly a miracle baby, and whatever happens from now is in God’s plan.” ¤

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Health & Fitness

Information provided by Health Works Kids Museum St. Louis Illustrations courtesy of Art Horse After 37 successful years of educating and inspiring children and families to make positive oral and overall health choices through unique programming offered at its facility on Laclede’s Landing in downtown St. Louis, the Delta Dental Health Theatre has announced dramatic expansion plans. The theatre’s new location is on Macklind Avenue by the Saint Louis Science Center and is a part of the region’s first-ever kids’ health museum, HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis. Construction is almost complete, and the new museum will open to the public in late spring of 2016. “HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis will merge the best elements of children’s museums and health education to offer a unique form of ‘edutainment’ designed to give children the passion to lead healthy lives,” commented Shannon Woodcock, president and CEO of the Delta Dental Health Theatre. “Our mission is to educate and inspire kids and the community to make positive health choices to achieve optimum health. It is time to infectiously contaminate children of all ages to learn, have fun and make great life choices.” HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis will be located at 1100 Macklind Avenue, St. Louis, Missouri. The building is owned by the Saint Louis Science Center Foundation, which has entered into a long-term lease agreement with HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis. The $2.5 million project features 12,000 square-feet of exhibit and program space that will have the capacity to reach up to 90,000 children annually. This new museum will have the distinction of being the only freestanding children’s museum in St. Louis dedicated solely to health education. It will 24 StreetScape Magazine

be 100 percent accessible to those of all abilities and feature a completely unique model of health education highlighted by hands-on, interactive exhibits. Features are set to include: “My Mouth” 4D theatre; Health Hut and Nutritious Café; an eye play interactive floor; mock doctor and dental offices; a farmer’s market; “Face Your Future” tobacco exhibit; “All About Me” self-assessment that tracks data and trends; universally accessible, indoor playground through Unlimited Play; open floor space; and a gift shop for educational items and toys on health. The current Delta Dental Health Theatre will also be relocated here as the interactive learning center with unique, high-energy, educator-led programming. These programs are intended to increase individual knowledge about the connection between personal choices and health outcomes. The Delta Dental Health Theatre also hopes to encourage positive health practices and turn visitors into health advocates for themselves, their families and this community. In order to make the museum a reality in the St. Louis market, the Delta Dental Health Theatre launched a capital campaign in the spring of 2015 with the goal of raising $2.5 million. To date, over $1.25 million has been secured, thanks in large part to the financial contribution of long-time supporter, Delta Dental of Missouri. The state’s leading dental benefits company is deeply committed, in principle and in practice, to advancing oral and overall health for individuals, children and families

in the communities it serves. The company presented a check for $600,000 to HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis during a recent press conference. Other key financial supporters included members of the Delta Dental Health Theatre’s Board of Directors and St. Louis Office for Developmental Disability Resources. This project is also coming to fruition through partnerships with the St. Louis Science Center, The Saigh Foundation and HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum, as well as collaborations with several regional healthcare and business organizations. “We were delighted to be a part of this project, which brings to the region another fantastic amenity for children and families, as well as for area educational institutions and their students,” commented Joe Reagan, St. Louis Regional Chamber President and CEO.

HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis also announced information regarding the public phase of its fundraising campaign. Woodcock encouraged individuals and companies in the St. Louis community to participate, stating, “Imagine a generation of children who know their current health choices will impact their entire lives. Imagine you helping to make that happen. Please consider the potential impact that an informed and inspired generation of children can have on the quality and length of their own lives! Together, we can build healthier communities.” Those interested in contributing to HealthWorks! Kids’ Museum St. Louis can call the Delta Dental Health Theatre at (314) 241-7391 or visit www.ddhtstl.org. The Delta Dental Health Theatre is currently located at 727 North First Street on Laclede’s Landing in downtown St. Louis, Missouri, and will remain open and continue to offer its existing programming while the new facility is being built. The Delta Dental Health Theatre was originally organized as a program under the Foundation of the Greater St. Louis Dental Society in 1977. In 2002, it was incorporated as an independent 501(c) (3) not-for-profit organization. In 2004, Delta Dental of Missouri became a major corporate sponsor and played a key role in the theatre’s $145,000 renovations in 2011. ¤ March | April

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Story by Brenda Fraser What is all the buzz about essential oils? Did you know you can lift your spirits and your mood by using essential oils? People in Europe and South America have been using oils for much longer than Americans. Essential oils have been used for benefits that address mind, body and spirit. What are essential oils? They are the essential lifeblood of the plant that provides the plant’s immune system. According to aromatherapists and alternative health experts, when high quality essential oils are properly used, there may be an overall improvement in the user’s immune system. There are a wide variety of companies now marketing essential oils, including grocery stores and health and wellness stores. Many times the oils offered are “fragrant-grade” rather than oils that are “therapeutic grade,” which are stronger, more pure, and more effective. One company called Young Living is the largest producer of high quality oils. The entire chain of production is controlled and held to the highest standards by Young Living, which was founded in Idaho by D. Gary Young. Young Living’s oils are sourced in the U.S., France, Ecuador, Canada and other countries. People use essential oils in a variety of ways to holistically enhance health and mood. Oils are often found at the offices of massage therapists and aromatherapists, but now you can also find oils at gift shops and jewelry boutiques. 26 StreetScape Magazine

Women and men are using oils as fragrances instead of chemically laden perfumes and, more recently, wearing oils within sterling silver jewelry. Surprisingly, some oils are also being used as flavoring in cooking. In addition to the physical benefits derived from using essential oils, improvement in moods and energy have been attributed to oil blends, as well, such as Young Living’s Believe,™ Joy,™ Transformation,™ and Abundance,™ to name a few. “Believe™ makes me feel grounded and happy, like taking a walk on a mountaintop,” said Patty Caldera-Dorsey, a local aromatherapist using oils in her practice. Patty has used essential oils with her clients to ward off and minimize panic attacks and uses the oils with trauma recovery. Local business owner Brenda Fraser of Butterfly & Moon enjoys the oil blends that inspire invigorating feelings and promote abundance and transformation. Butterfly & Moon offers free monthly classes on how to benefit from essential oils. Some of the oils featured at the shop on Main Street include: — Abundance™ – created to enhance the frequency of the harmonic, magnetic energy field that surrounds us. This higher frequency creates what is called the law of attraction. “Abundance opens us to a wealth of possibilities,” said Ms. Fraser, who coaches people on attracting abundance into their lives.

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Essential Oils — Believe™ – contains Idaho balsam fir and frankincense essential oils that are said to encourage feelings of strength and faith. “The combination in this blend may help assist as you move to a higher level of awareness,” said Brenda. “As you are able to move past emotional setbacks and barriers, you will be able to reach your true, unlimited potential.” — Joy™ – is a delightful blend that includes bergamot, ylang ylang, geranium, lemon and more, which harmonizes for a sweet, joyful aroma. When diffused, Joy™ creates a warm, comforting environment and inspires a romantic, aromatic atmosphere. Women wear Joy™ as a perfume to exude an alluring and irresistible fragrance that inspires romance and togetherness.

thoughts, changing your overall attitude, emotions, and behavior. Ways to Incorporate Oils and Fashion At Butterfly & Moon, a variety of sterling silver aromatherapy jewelry can be found. They can contain essential oils that can be used throughout the day. Sterling silver or other precious metals are better for storing oils, as they are impervious to the chemical reactions of essential oils. Experts say to avoid plastic or low-grade metals when storing oils. “You can wear your oils wherever you go by having it in your jewelry or carrying a roll-on in your purse,” said Ms. Fraser. “We are happy to explore the best options for you to wear and enjoy oils every day.” ¤

— Transformation™ – includes Idaho blue spruce, palo santo, and ocotea. According to Ms. Caldera-Dorsey, these powerful essential oils empower you to replace negative beliefs with uplifting

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Helping Those with Disabilities – and Their Families – Lead a More Normal Life Story by Kate Santellano Photos courtesy of Community Living Caring for a family member with a disability can be an aroundthe-clock job. It can take tireless work to connect with the right doctors, teachers, therapists, and other resources needed to provide the best care. Families wrestle with tough issues such as bullying, adjusting medications, managing challenging behaviors, and finding the right school and/or teacher. On top of this, add work and running a household. Finding an experienced, safe place for their loved ones in their absence is daunting. It is exhausting. And it offers very little, if any, quiet time. Del Baker is a single mom who works as a substitute teacher and attends graduate school. Her son, Craig, is in high school and has autism. Unlike his classmates, he cannot go home after school by himself. Rather, he needs constant care. Community Living, Inc., offers unique and innovative services to help families, like the Bakers, cope with the added stresses that can occur when a family member has a disability. There are six dynamic programs through which services are provided to over 900 individuals with varying degrees of need from St. Charles County and its surrounding cities. From children to seniors, people with disabilities have the opportunity to learn, live and work in the community with the support given from Community Living. The Social Opportunities And Recreation (SOAR) program provides year-round enrichment and social activities for teens with developmental disabilities and challenging behaviors. Those enrolled in middle or high school are helped through after-school and summer camp programs. For Baker, this means she is able to work and attend school. “Without the SOAR program, I would not be able to work,” Baker said. Adult Recreation Services provides a wide range of recreational and leisure opportunities for people with developmental dis28 StreetScape Magazine

abilities, ages 18 and over. Emma is 21 and graduated from The Center for Autism Education last May. She loves swimming, bowling and attending dances. Having participated in the SOAR Teen Club for many years, it was an easy transition to the Adult Recreation program. It was a comfort to know that she could continue participating in the activities she enjoys in her new program. Other programs offered to individuals with developmental disabilities include: Employment Services that assist with job placement, job coaching and job retention; Support Services for Adults which provides outcome-based day services and volunteer opportunities; Respite Services provides parents and caregivers a break from the day-to-day routine and potential stresses of caring for an individual of any age with disabilities; and Residential Services, which are individualized to assist adults in living as independently as possible in the community. Community Living, Inc., is a not-for-profit organization that relies on a variety of funding sources, including federal and state funds, the Developmental Disabilities Resource Board of St. Charles County, the Community and Children’s Resource Board, United Way, grants, donations, and a variety of fundraising events. Community Living also offers a variety of volunteer opportunities, such as helping with fundraising events or working with the individuals who receive services. “Don’t be afraid to step outside your comfort zone,” volunteer Christine Hill shared. “You’ll be glad you did. You don’t have to be an expert on developmental disabilities. They’re just people, and they are a wonderful group to be around.” If interested in volunteering or learning more about Community Living, Inc., go to www.communitylivingmo.org or call 636-970-2800. ¤

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Getting a haircut for man is a lot less traumatic than it is for a woman. Men just look for that red and white barber pole spinning around outside some storefront and we get hypnotized. We walk in, sit down in what looks like an electric chair and say to a total stranger “Go for it.” Before my wife lets anyone cut her hair, she needs more information on them then the US government needs on people coming in from war torn countries. And if a hairstyle turns out to be no good, everyone in the world knows it. Just like there is a “no fly” list for terrorist, there is a “no cut” list for women. I go to a barbershop; my wife goes to a salon. My haircut cost me $25 and with the tip, is $25.25. I don’t know how much my wife pays and I don’t want to know. I once saw what was obviously some woman’s husband being carried out of the salon on a stretcher and put into an ambulance mumbling over and over “$500 dollars for that” as he gripped his chest probably never to be seen again. www.MarkSchiff.com • 323.630.6894

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y h W w o Kn on other’s Story by Linda Stroud

Every year, on the second Sunday in May, we honor mothers for their sacrifice, unselfish love and contribution to making us who we are. Though Mother’s Day may be seen by some as a “Hallmark holiday,” there’s actually a long history of various cultures honoring mothers that dates back as far as ancient Greece and Rome. Traditions and celebrations vary somewhat in theme and type of celebration across time and cultures, but the essence is basically the same – acknowledging the important role mothers play in society and in our lives.

In the U.S., a woman named Ann Jarvis attempted to establish a version of Mother’s Day as a day of remembrance, according to Biography.com. But the official celebration of Mother’s Day, as we know it today, is attributed to her daughter Anna. Anna Jarvis vowed at her mother’s grave that she would carry on her mother’s dream and dedicated her life to creating a national day of recognition to honor the sacrifices mothers make for their children. Jarvis devoted the years following her mother’s death in 1905 to lobbying and grass-roots efforts to have a day for mothers officially placed on the national calendar. After years of persistence and growing support, her efforts were rewarded when Congress passed a Joint Resolution and President Woodrow Wilson signed it into law in 1914, establishing Mother’s Day as a national holiday to recognize the role of women in the family. Despite her success in gaining recognition for mothers everywhere, Jarvis became disillusioned with the commercialization of the holiday, however. Purportedly she spent much of her life in the years after its institution trying to have Mother’s Day removed from the national calendar. It’s said Jarvis died penniless, devoting all of her energy and financial resources to undoing what she had done. Obviously, and thankfully, she wasn’t successful, since we still celebrate this holiday today. While it’s true that Mother’s Day has become big business for florists, chocolatiers, restaurants and retailers, there’s nothing 32 StreetScape Magazine

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wrong with showing mom a little extra love on her special day! Some might share Jarvis’ view that the holiday is overly commercialized, but most find it to be a prime opportunity to give the moms in their lives some much-deserved pampering and praise.

The greeting card industry has certainly made it easy to express our love for all the moms in our lives. Just visit the card aisle in any store that sells them and you’ll see. There are cards for moms, grandmas, aunts, moms-to-be, and even honorary moms. And what’s the favored go-to plan for treating mom? Well… food, flowers, cards, candy and jewelry are the well-known favorites, of course. According to the National Restaurant Association, Mother’s Day is one of the busiest days of the year for the restaurant industry, with nearly half of all Americans dining out or ordering take-out or delivery as part of their Mother’s Day celebrations. Flowers and plants are also a popular way to show mom you care. The National Retail Federation reports that two-thirds of Mother’s Day shoppers purchased flowers for mom in 2015, spending $2.3 billion on this classic gift. But the $2.3 billion is just a small fraction of the $21.2 billion that the NRF also reports as being the total amount spent in 2015 for all purchases to show mom the love.

Why all the fuss? Why is Mother’s Day so Important?

Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis is quoted as saying, “If you bungle raising your children, I don’t think whatever else you do matters very much.” Mothers throughout the ages seem to intuitively share this sentiment and learn on a daily basis the depths to which they will go in order to give their children their all. Being a mom is the most challenging, yet most rewarding job on the planet. From the moment a child enters your world, your life becomes a whirlwind of mixed emotions, complicated schedules, and thinking fast on your feet. It is a life-changing endeavor that

can make you feel equal parts confident and unsure – all at the same time. Marguerite Kelly and Elia Parsons, co-authors of “The Mother’s Almanac,” summed it up nicely when they wrote, “Motherhood brings as much joy as ever, but it still brings boredom, exhaustion, and sorrow, too. Nothing else ever will make you as happy or as sad, as proud or as tired, for nothing is quite as hard as helping a person develop his own individuality, especially while you struggle to keep your own.” Though their book was originally published in 1975, most mothers would agree that those words are still true today. I remember well the mix of emotions that gripped me as I placed my newborn daughter in her car seat for the first time to take that long drive home from the hospital. We were leaving the safety and security of the hospital setting, with its friendly nurses and their sage wisdom, and embarking on a great adventure together. My daughter had captured my heart from the moment I first saw her, but I was struck by the enormous responsibility of raising this precious human being as I gently closed the rear door and climbed in front for the beginning of our journey into unchartered territory.

the not so good – because they understand it’s all part of the job description. They give their best, often setting aside their own needs to meet the needs of their children. They worry over us, do their best to keep us clothed and fed, and serve as our greatest cheerleaders. They’re tough when tough is needed and encouraging when life gets us down. Most mothers would admit they’re far from perfect, but they love us like no other and put in the overtime to give us what we need to survive and thrive. But their daily sacrifices and the internal struggles they wrestle with to give us their best often go unnoticed. That’s why taking the time out of our busy lives to honor mothers is still so important.

Ways to Honor The Moms In Your Life

How will you honor the moms in your life this year? The possibilities are nearly endless. But what do moms really want? It’s not really about how much you spend; it’s about finding a way to let the moms in your life know how much you care and appreciate all they do. Whether it’s flowers, her favorite candy, a nice meal out, a piece of jewelry, or some keepsake that makes her think of you and smile, the most important thing is to find that treat that will let

“Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs... since the payment is pure love.” – Mildred B. Vermont I remember how tiny and vulnerable she looked nestled into that car seat. I felt the full weight and realization of the fact that her very existence and ability to thrive rested on my shoulders. Yet even with that almost overwhelming realization of responsibility, there was also a sense of joy, wonder, and hope for the infinite possibilities that lay ahead. There was no question in my mind at that moment that I would give her the best I had to give. There was also no question I felt ill equipped to know what that “best” looked like in day-to-day terms. Through the years, I often wondered if my best was enough for her or her siblings who followed. I often questioned whether I was making the right decisions and giving them what they needed and even cried silent tears at night over my seeming inadequacies as their mother. Through it all, each worry, tear, doubt and victory made me appreciate my own mother more. I came to see my own mother as a person like me… a person with faults and strengths who loved her children in spite of any failings. Every mother can relate to that journey of motherhood filled with a mix of awe and self-doubts. And every mother can relate to the realizations and heartaches that come through the struggles. Yet, ask any mother if she would do it all again if given the chance, and you’re likely to hear a resounding “Yes!” Because despite the sacrifice, the crazy rollercoaster ride of challenges and emotions, and the sense of enormous responsibility experienced in every moment of every day as a mother is a gift.

her know how much she’s loved. Something homemade, especially when young children are involved, is always a nice choice. Just Google “Mother’s Day crafts for kids” for some great ideas. Massages are always a nice choice, too. There’s nothing like a professional massage to make mom feel relaxed and refreshed – not to mention pampered! When it comes to jewelry, consider the possibility of creating something with sentimental value. Is there a family heirloom that could be made into a new piece? Maybe a ring or pendant that has stones to represent each child or grandchild would be nice. If you plan ahead, you may even be able to have a jeweler help you create a design for something that is completely unique and made especially for her. Those whose mothers live far away may find it harder to connect with mom on Mother’s Day, but there are ways to have some face-to-face time with mom. Reuben Tuck, who lives in Hong Kong, says, “I remain very close with my mom despite that we are oceans apart and have been for more than half of my life. On Mother’s Day I send her a small gift (or flowers), and we have a long chat - almost free, thanks to Skype!” Whatever you do, put some thought into it. Take some time to think about the moms you know and really try to create a day for them that is as special as they are. ¤

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easy potluck brunch Story by Sandi Caro Photos courtesy of John Harder With Mother’s Day fast approaching, how much thought have you put into doing something special for Mom – possibly with food? While you can always take her to a restaurant for brunch, lunch or dinner, there’s usually a wait (sometimes a long one); and frankly, I’m not sure how well you get to visit, given the noise level and the other distractions of eating out. Why not do something a little different this year? Why not take brunch to your mom? I’m sharing some recipes here that are very simple, yet so scrumptious, Mom will be begging you to do it again next Mother’s Day or even sooner (and your siblings will be trés jealous that they didn’t think of it). These are the perfect potluck recipes to not only take to your mom’s house, but for any special occasion that calls for food.

Breakfast Hash Brown Casserole

For this meal I decided to keep it simple with recipes I could prepare the night before. I chose breakfast-y foods – hash brown casserole, a French toast casserole for a sweet treat, and some gourmet, cheesy grits. Now I know what you’re thinking — grits?! But yes is always the answer to grits that are this melt-inyour-mouth yummy. I also decided to add some ham and pancetta (Italian bacon) instead of the traditional bacon. To complete this special meal, I decided to do an array of cheeses and a fruit tray to add some color; specifically bananas and strawberries to complement the French toast. And it’s all made a bit more special with a dollop of homemade, cinnamon whipped topping. The bread of choice is buttery croissants. All of the food items I chose are very easy to pack up and transport. For an added surprise, why not take your mom a beautiful bouquet of fresh hydrangeas, which can serve as a colorful and fragrant focal point for your table setting. And the most fun thing about this meal is that everyone will love it so much they will all want the recipes. Don’t save them for Mother’s Day, Easter or some other special occasion. Roll them out anytime you are entertaining or when you need something easy and super delicious to take along to any old potluck you’re invited to. Happy Mother’s Day and happy cooking! Visit my Facebook page at www.facebook.com/southernsavorings 34 StreetScape Magazine

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3 tablespoons butter 1 small onion (diced) 4 cups frozen, shredded hash browns 1 pound bulk pork sausage (mild or spicy) 2½ cups milk 8 large eggs 1 teaspoon salt ¼ teaspoon black pepper ¼ teaspoon nutmeg 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard 8 cups diced or torn French bread 2 cups freshly grated Parmesan cheese 2 cups grated cheddar cheese

Preheat oven to 350 degrees and grease a 13x9-inch casserole with Pam. In a frying pan on top of the stove, melt the 3 tablespoons of butter and add the diced onion. Cook until translucent, then add the frozen hash browns. Cook the hash browns until they become soft. Turn the heat down to low. In a second frying pan, sauté the sausage until it’s browned. Drain the excess grease from the sausage. In a large mixing bowl, combine the milk, salt, black pepper, nutmeg, and the Dijon mustard. Mix all of the ingredients well. To assemble the casserole, spread the onion and hash brown mixture in the bottom of the greased casserole. Place the diced or torn French bread evenly on top of the hash browns. Add your sausage on top of the French bread, and pour the milk and egg mixture over these layers. Add your 2 cups of Parmesan cheese.

Let the casserole bake for about 40 minutes and remove from the oven. Add your cheddar cheese, and let it bake for another 10 to 15 minutes or until the cheese is completely melted. Allow to cool for about 5 minutes and then serve.

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In a saucepan, pour in your chicken broth and add the 2 tablespoons of butter. Bring it to a boil and add your grits. Turn the heat down, cover, and let simmer. Once the grits start to thicken a bit, add your cream cheese and half-and-half or heavy cream. Stir until it’s mixed in. Cover and let simmer again. Continue to stir until the grits become a bit creamy. Add your cheese and stir until melted.

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For added flavor, stir in about a teaspoon of garlic. Pour into an oven-safe casserole dish and garnish with some crumbled, cooked bacon and some chopped green onion. Bake at 350 degrees until you see the grits bubbling a bit. This is my preference, but not required.

Slice your French bread into the thickness you desire. I prefer mine a bit thicker, but it’s a matter of preference. In a large bowl, mix together the eggs, half-and-half, maple syrup and brown sugar. Mix well and pour over the French bread, making sure the bread is completely covered in the mixture. You may have to use your hands to dredge the bread in the egg mixture.Sprinkle well with cinnamon and sugar.

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In a saucepan on top of the stove, melt the butter and brown sugar until the sugar dissolves. Add the syrup and pecans and bring to a boil. Pour over the bread and egg mixture. Sprinkle again with cinnamon and sugar. Bake for 45 to 55 minutes, depending on your oven. Let cool and sprinkle with powdered sugar. I like to warm some syrup in the microwave for guests to pour over their casserole if they choose to.

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a e k i l P lay Story by Angel Magasano Cool things to do in our community that will make you feel like a kid again. Remember looking forward to recess? How about the annual field trip? There were fun and exciting things to do, which included laughing and goofing around with friends and loved ones. Why is it that when we “grow up” we tend to cut playtime out of our schedules? Play is not just essential for kids; it can be an important source of relaxation and stimulation for adults as well. Playing with your romantic partner, co-workers, pets, friends, and children is a sure (and fun) way to fuel your imagination, creativity, problem-solving abilities, and emotional well-being, improving your mood and helping you feel better adjusted and less stressed.

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every skill level from beginner to expert. If skiing is not your thing, you and your friends can enjoy the Polar Plunge tubing hill where you can tube alone or link several tubes together for a shared experience. If you’d like to play with lots of people, check out the many events hosted by Hidden Valley, including Ladies Nights, College Nights, and midnight sessions.

So… what to do? Where to go? Well… your own backyard, of course! Our community has very cool things to offer that will allow you to get your “play” on. Get your adrenaline pumping Have you ever heard of Demolition Ball? It’s what you get when you put hockey, football, polo and basketball in a supercharged bumper car and try to shoot a whiffle ball through a 16-inch, circular goal using a track ball scoop. Scoop up two teams of five and make a reservation at Demolition Ball/Adrenaline Zone in St. Charles. Games with guns Next to the Demolition Ball Court is a gigantic, 6,800-squarefoot, laser tag arena with a capacity of up to three teams of ten players each. The object of laser tag is to help other members of your team win the round, or course. To do this, you must work together in this fast-paced game that is sure to be a major hit. Wacky Warriors in Wentzville has been hosting fun in the paintball industry for over 25 years. They have over 18 playing fields that are open for fun year round. You can join one of many tournaments on their air ball fields. If that is not your style, try hunting down your buddies on one of the many woods ball fields. Wacky Warriors is open to both individuals and groups. Play in the snow Hail to Hidden Valley, the winter sports facility with downhill ski trails, a dedicated tubing hill, terrain parks, and night skiing. Located in Eureka, Hidden Valley has ski slopes for skiers of 36 StreetScape Magazine

Playing in the snow not your thing? Play in the sand. The Professional Firefighters of Eastern Missouri Banquet Center in St. Peters offers adult, sand volleyball leagues playing every night, Sunday through Friday, featuring five volleyball courts with Florida white sand, a large beer garden with outdoor bars, a playground, and leagues Sunday through Friday. Leagues that are offered are co-ed 6s recreational, high recreational, intermediate, and power 4s. There are also a number of beer bash tournaments on selected weekends. If you’d like to play in the sand without the competitive pressure of being involved in a league, visit one of New Towne’s Your Activity Park’s two sand volleyball courts. They are always open for yet another recreational opportunity designed for casual neighborhood pick-up games.

Become a Ninja Warrior If you are driven by fitness and daydream about becoming America’s next ninja warrior, KōR Komplex is where you need to go play. Located off First Capitol Drive in St. Charles, KōR Komplex is St. Louis’ first ninja warrior training course. The Komplex offers what may seem like a giant playground with 15 different obstacles, including a warped wall, unstable bridge and monkey bars. Experience KōR through a group class, ninja training, team building, or open gym style.

by the Pink Lemon Studio in O’Fallon. Used by the Pink Lemon Studio to empower women, pole has become a mainstream exercise routine for thousands of women around the world. Fun nights out include Polerina Women’s Dance class, Hula Hoop Fitness, Chair Dance class and Showgirl Burlesque. If you can dodge a wrench, you can dodge a ball Chesterfield Sports Fusion has everything you need to play for days. It is the place to

get up and be active. CSP offers seven feature attractions including laser tag, mini-golf, dodgeball, a rock wall, play structure, sport court, and an obstacle course. When the weather’s not conducive to playing outside, head inside and have fun while staying physically active. Play with your dog Run around one of St. Charles County’s off-leash dog parks with your best friend. Broemmelsiek Park in Defiance is 494

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Runaway and join the circus Not really… just tone up and improve your balance and coordination using fun equipment found at a circus, like the aerial hoop, trapeze and silks. Upper Limits – West County uses strength-training drills developed by circus performers from all over the world. Its aerial fitness class combines innovative, weight-bearing exercises using one’s own body weight in combination with aerial suspension. Swing from a trapeze every Tuesday night at the open drop-in class. The Circus Harmony Flying Trapeze Center, located at St. Louis Union Station, will reopen for the season in April. It’s St. Louis’ only flying trapeze center where men, women and children can soar through the air with the greatest of ease. The Circus Harmony Flying Trapeze Center is a fun and safe activity for families, birthday parties and team-building events. For more circus mania, join one of the juggling or unicycle classes offered by Circus Harmony on the third floor of the City Museum on Washington Avenue. The art of pole fitness, vertical gymnastics, and dancing are the fun programs offered March | April

Owner Dan Badock standing where the proposed addition would be built

Story by Amy Armour Photos by Michael Schlueter

A Lot to Offer…

Whether it’s an anniversary dinner for two, an after work happy hour, a business meeting or birthday party, Lewis & Clark’s restaurant in St. Charles can make the event memorable — and delicious.

Located at 217 South Main Street in Historic St. Charles, Lewis and Clark’s offers an American menu featuring generous servings of traditional steaks, prime rib, seafood, soups, salad and sandwiches. “We are famous for our white chicken chili, house salad dressing, prime rib and salmon,” said Dan Badock, owner of Lewis and Clark’s. “The word on the street is the food is better than ever.” Prime rib is a top seller for the restaurant. The properly seasoned, USDA Choice Roast is served sliced in a French dip sandwich or in the form of a lightly-seasoned, 8 or 12 ounce prime rib. “We get the best prime rib possible and keep the prices as affordable as we can,” said Badock. Badock also serves his mom’s special house salad dressing, which is a sweet vinegar oil blended with parmesan cheese. Diners can top off a good meal with a sweet, house-made treat. “Our house-made, mud pie, coffee ice cream cake and bread pudding with whiskey sauce top the list of special desserts,” said Dan. Lewis & Clark’s restaurant first opened in 1985, and the restaurant and building were purchased by husband and wife Dan and Dianne Badock in 2012. Their children, Daniel, 24, and Emily, 21, also take part in the business, with Daniel tending bar and Emily working both in the office and waiting tables. “They have added a ton of energy to the business,” said Dan, who has worked in the restaurant business since the age of 16. 38 StreetScape Magazine

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Dan’s sister, Kay, opened a café in San Francisco; and while the business was very successful, the rent for the building was high. Kay moved back to St. Louis and, with the help of her parents, opened Soulard’s Restaurant in 1977. After graduating from Mizzou, Dan and his brother,Tim, ran the St. Louis restaurant for 20 years. “We were very successful together for years,” said Dan. When the economy changed, Dan said the brothers decided it was time to go in different directions. Tim continues to run Soulard’s, and Dan found a new home in St. Charles. “Lewis & Clark’s is an iconic restaurant,” said Dan. “All businesses need to change and tweak themselves. My focus was to improve the food and make a good restaurant a better restaurant.” Dan has changed the décor a bit, adding photos of Lewis and Clark, a map of their travels, and other historic photos of the time period. To transition from lunch to dinner, the lights go down, candles are lit, and the wine lists come out. “Simple things make a huge difference,” said Dan. Lewis & Clark’s has an extensive wine list that tiers from very affordable house wines up to moderately priced wines to “fancy” wines at a good price. Wine lovers can take advantage of halfpriced bottles every Thursday, all day. The restaurant also offers specialty drinks and prices during Happy Hour from 3 p.m. to 7 p.m., Monday through Friday. Lewis & Clark’s offers three levels of dining, with 90 seats on the first floor, several semi-private, cozy nooks throughout, and outdoor seating on the third level. With about 250 seats in the entire

restaurant, Dan is hoping to expand. He is in the proposal phase for a project that would potentially expand the restaurant out about 25 feet toward Fifth Street and back 54 feet, the length of the current building. Dan said the proposed expansion would take just a small portion of the 8,000 square-foot Berthold Square Park.

The proposed 1,350 square-foot expansion would allow the restaurant to enlarge the first floor dining area by 40 seats, as well as create a private party room for special events like small weddings and rehearsal dinners. Currently the restaurant does not have any private party space. In addition, Dan said the expansion would allow the restaurant to have a proper front door entrance on Main Street, create a holding area for those waiting to be seated, and add a couple of bathrooms. “This would be a game changer for us and for Main Street if this comes to fruition,” said Dan. “We would employ more and create more tax revenue.” “People love Lewis & Clark’s because it is a very unique threelevel restaurant,” said Dan. “Many people have great traditions and memories, and we want to keep the tradition alive.” “I think St. Charles is a fabulous area. It’s a really unique place… it’s safe, it’s friendly, and it’s a great spot to be located,” said Dan.

Architectural rendering of proposed expansion of Lewis & Clark’s Restaurant

Lewis & Clark’s is open from 11 a.m. to 9:30 p.m., Sunday through Thursday and 11 a.m. to 10:30 p.m., Friday and Saturday. For more information, visit www.lewisandclarksrestaurant.com. ¤

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(continued from page 37) acres of natural beauty, equipped with several large lakes for fishing and more than seven miles of multiuse trails for hiking, biking and equestrian use. It also features a 4.7-acre, off-leash dog area with a large pond for dogs to splash around and play in. This popular dog park was voted “Best Dog Park” in the region, and it’s the place for the annual Paws in the Park celebration.

your friends and having a great time. Whether it is a canvas, wine glass or custom item, at the end of the night you will leave with a unique experience and a masterpiece created by you.

Quail Ridge Park, a much smaller, 1.5-acre, off-leash dog area, is also a well-known site for many pet enthusiasts to take their dogs for a day of fun. There is a separate area for small dogs to enjoy their day without being run over. Climb on the rocks Local indoor facilities – like Chesterfield Sports Fusion – allow you to have the experience of a rock climber. However, many Missouri state parks are home to impressive rock formations, especially those in the Ozarks. Rappelling and rock climbing are allowed at five of those parks. The sport is allowed only during certain months, and a permit must be obtained from the park office prior to your visit. Elephant Rocks, Lake of the Ozarks, and St. Francois state parks have areas where rappelling and rock climbing are permitted. Rock climbing is allowed at Johnson’s Shut-Ins State Park from the day after Labor Day through the Wednesday before Memorial Day. Meramec State Park has a bluff where rappelling is permitted.

Ride your bike The Katy Trail is one of the most successful rail-trail projects in the United States. In 2015, the Katy Trail marked its 25th anniversary as a state park. Whether you are interested in a casual ride with the family or a five-day bicycle journey, there’s enough variety to keep you interested, with tree-shaded areas, open fields, impressive Missouri River bluffs, and quaint communities along the way. In addition to biking, the Katy Trail also offers activities such as camping, hiking, swimming, fishing and historical tours. Paint a masterpiece Express yourself creatively through painting while enjoying the company of friends. Pinot’s Palette in Lake St. Louis, Me Time Studio in Wentzville, Painting with a Twist in O’Fallon, and the Canvas & Carafe traveling studio all offer you the opportunity to paint a masterpiece or a custom piece while hanging out with 40 StreetScape Magazine

Swing from the trees Enjoy award-winning, outdoor activities and adventures in the forests of Creve Coeur Park at Go Ape Zip Line and Treetop Adventure. More than just a canopy tour, the course is made up of numerous rope ladders, 39 exciting crossings – including the Double Stirrups, Talloires Crossing, Flying Carpet, and Spider’s Web – two Tarzan swings, and five zip lines. Overall, there are five individual sections within the course, each section taking you higher into the forest canopy and finishing with a longer zip line with more expansive views! The entire course consists of over 2,624 feet of zip lines and obstacles, providing a treetop adventure that is one of a kind in Missouri! Get into bubble soccer KnockerBall™ is a large, round ball, encasing a chamber of air, into which you can immerse a good portion of your body to get ready for some really unique fun. It has inner handles and straps and is designed to let you rough it up with some friends just playing around or play a newly found contact sport while keeping you safe from all the contact types of injuries that come with this level of sport. KnockerBall™ West STL at Chesterfield Mall is your source for local KnockerBall™ play. This activity is recommended for people ages six to 60. Get locked into fun Find the hidden objects, solve riddles, figure out the clues, and unlock your freedom from this interactive group game and entertainment concept. While it may look like an apartment, the old west, or a creepy lair, it is actually a game designed for small groups of friends, families and co-workers. The Mastermind Room Escape and Can You Escape? are all located in downtown St. Louis. Play this game to see if you have what it takes to escape your fate. Whatever you decide, just do it! Enjoy playing in our wonderful backyard. ¤

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APRIL’S ON MAIN is a unique woman’s getaway. We are a complete home decor and gift store, from the one-of-a-kind centerpiece to the perfect necklace made just for your needs. We carry silk florals, artwork, furniture, candles, jewelry, lotion, table top accessories, Poo-Pouri and much more. We have in-house designers to help you with all of your decor needs. April’s On Main St. Charles, can be found on Facebook, Yelp! and Twitter.

Relocating to St. Charles is Full of Great Potential! Chances are, if you are reading this article, you either live in St. Charles or were passing through and picked up a copy of StreetScape Magazine. Have you lived here your entire life or moved here from the other side of town… maybe from another state? Americans are known to be rootless and restless. According to the PEW Social and Demographic Trend Survey, most Americans move to a new community at least once in their lives, stating reasons such as economic climate, career or family. The current trend is to “move back home.” For years people relocated halfway across the country for a variation of lifestyle; but like everything else, times have changed. Being near family is once again a valuable commodity. The saying “moving back home to be closer to family” is becoming a very familiar catchphrase. Relocating is challenging and may require some drastic adjustments. Maybe you moved from California, the wine country of the west coast, and miss the rolling vineyards and local, awardwinning beverages. Or perhaps you’ve come from Michigan with its beautiful lakes and the fragrance of fresh spruce trees from the forests there. It could be you’re relocating from Colorado… its beautiful mountains adorned with fresh snow, perfect for an afternoon ski; from New York’s busy streets and the theatres and bright lights of Broadway; or Florida, with the sand between your toes and palm trees swaying in the breeze rolling off the ocean?

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There are plenty of ways to stay in touch with your cultural leanings and cravings. St. Charles and its surrounding areas have much to offer to counteract the somewhat challenging effects of your move. Did you know that in the mid-1880s more wine was produced by volume in Missouri than any other state, and before prohibition it was the second largest wine-producing state in the nation? Visit Augusta (Missouri’s wine country) to reminisce about the rolling vineyards of California, or delight in dinner and a bottle of wine from South Main Street’s own Winery of the Little Hills – with indoor and outdoor seating and wine sampling at the bar. Missing Broadway? Catch a variety of shows or musicals at the awe-inspiring, Fabulous Fox Theatre on North Grand. Built in 1929 for $6 million and restored in 1978 for $3 million, it is a marvel of architecture. For some summer fun, visit The Muny at Forest Park, the nation’s oldest, outdoor musical theatre, boasting the largest seat capacity of 11,000… 100 more seats than the runner-up, San Manuel Amphitheater, in California. And as a special treat, The Muny has 1,500 free seats in the last nine rows available on a first-come, first-served basis. Just minutes from Main Street, on the Lindenwood University campus, is the J. Scheidegger Center for the Arts, home to the Lindenwood Family Theater, a high-tech, Broadway-style venue. Prior to your “Broadway” evening, enjoy one of the endless choices of venues for ethnic food restaurants in the St. Charles and St. Louis areas from large chains to little bistros. Try some of the foods that originated in St. Louis... Provel cheese, barbecued

pork steaks, Maull’s Barbecue Sauce, gooey butter cake, toasted ravioli, and Ted Drew’s frozen custard. You can find no less than 25 restaurants, all within walking distance, on Main Street along the riverfront in St. Charles. Now that we’ve offered up some options for satisfying your longing for the culture and cuisine you may have left behind, let’s take a look at what can be done to elevate your comfort level in your new house. It doesn’t matter if you had to downsize in the move or, more than likely, were able to increase your square footage; there are going to be challenges in the recreation of your domain, your castle, your safe place — the place you call home. Raising a family of high-spirited children will often dictate the types of decor that are within their reach – the fabric selections, the flooring, and the warm glow of candles that are a definite no-no around youngsters and pets. It’s always a good idea to include a special play space for them that will make their transition a bit easier, as well. If you are part of the statistics of those that moved back home to be closer to family, there will be children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren to consider. Frame some of their artwork to hang on the walls, use shadowboxes or clear Lucite trunks to encase earlier childhood memorabilia, and resist the urge to toss out toys that didn’t travel so well – at least until children are comfortable in their new space.

If you moved from a coastal town to the Midwest, you may want to decorate your family room with a beach theme, accessorized with a variety of nautical items readily found in many stores in St. Charles, including April’s on Main. Let the atmosphere reflect the things that you miss most about the coast. Miss the wine country? Decorate your home bar or dining area with your cork collection, enlarged photos or landscape artwork from the vineyards, and bottles from your favorite wineries. And if you think you can’t live without the trees, flora and fauna native to your previous locale, consider adorning your home with the great variety of artificial trees, flowers, succulents and wildlife statuary that are popular no matter where you live. Challenges aside, there are always ways to lessen the difficulties of relocating. St. Charles is a welcoming community with a lot to offer. Prepare to find yourself never wanting to leave here. If you have relocated to be near your family, let’s face it… home is where your heart is, and heart begins with family. ¤

Once the kids are settled… or maybe there are no kids to consider just yet… it is time to focus on the rest of the home. Of course, some of your previous furnishings will have to suffice for a while until you can pull your “new look” together.

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Be Sure Your Home Improvements are what potential buyers are Photo courtesy of Landscape Techniques Inc.

Story by Amy Armour Before tackling a home improvement project, homeowners should research the benefits and costs before investing in an update that may not be worth the time or money when it’s time to sell. Cheri Norton, who has been a real estate consultant for nearly three decades, shared her experience with StreetScape Magazine about what home improvements provide the best economic value. Born and raised in St. Charles County, Norton got her license in 1987. She has worked in St. Charles, Lincoln and Warren counties, as well as in the cities of Chesterfield and Wildwood. Looking for more bang for your buck? Norton said the top four home improvements that will bring value – and pay (most) of it back – include new flooring, upgraded kitchens, energy-efficient windows and doors, and bathroom upgrades. The top remodel that pays itself back, according to Norton, is upgrading vinyl or carpeted flooring to tile or wood flooring. Norton said the cost is between $5,000 and $9,000, and the upgrade will pay homeowners back at about 90 percent. Investing in energy-efficient windows and doors will cost a homeowner between $7,500 and $23,000, but Norton said homeowners will recoup about 70.5 percent. Norton estimates updating a kitchen can cost a homeowner between $20,000 and $58,000, depending on the extent of the upgrade and the quality of materials. However, it’s Norton’s experience that homeowners will recoup about 65 percent of the cost when selling their homes. Can’t afford all new cabinets or granite countertops? “Change out knobs on kitchen cabinets for a more updated look in the kitchen,” said Norton. Norton also suggests getting rid of all of the gold accents or lighting fixtures. 44 StreetScape Magazine

“Update light fixtures… update door hardware like door knobs and hinges,” said Norton. Bathroom upgrades round out the best home improvements for homeowners’ dollars. With average prices between $8,000 and $18,000, Norton stated homeowners generally will recoup about 59 percent. Don’t have the budget for a large home improvement right now? Norton explained there are plenty of smaller projects that can make a big difference in selling a home. A new coat of paint can make a world of difference. Norton suggests hiring a professional painter to paint the walls, ceiling, trim and doors. Jeff Brinkley, owner of Brinkley Elite Painting in Wentzville, warns homeowners to be careful when choosing the paint color. “Light beige or tan is the most popular color,” asserts Brinkley. If homeowners choose a neutral color like beige or tan, 90 percent of America will say that’s a good color, he said. Brinkley said light grey is becoming more popular, but even that color may find limited interest from homebuyers. Brinkley said he is often painting over accent walls or bold colors to a more neutral tan to appease the majority of home seekers. “That blue, red or green wall may look good with their furniture or style,” said Brinkley. But it may turn some homebuyers off, he commented. Getting a home ready to put on the market and show takes a lot of hard work — and elbow grease. “A deep clean is super important. Wash windows inside and out, power wash the exterior, repaint the front door, and freshen up the landscaping to create a great first impression,” said Norton.

The first impression for a buyer happens before even stepping through the freshly painted front door. Shabby bushes, wilted flowers, and more weeds than plants are not impressive or welcoming to a homebuyer. Norton will call in her team from the Flower Kart in Wentzville to help homeowners create fun, fresh and beautiful curb appeal. “Invest in new landscaping or updating current landscaping with new bushes, mulch or rock,” said Norton.

looking for Debbie Dunkley, owner of the Flower Kart, said she brings her team to the home to weed, clean out or trim shrubs, plant or maintain flowers, add mulch, edge the flower beds, or create beautiful hanging baskets. “We make it look perfect,” said Dunkley. “There are no leaves in the bushes or on the ground. We are very detail-oriented.” Dunkley said knockout roses are very popular, but can easily become overgrown and overwhelming to the eye. Dunkley will clean up the bushes and trim them super short so they will flush out with growth. “We spruce everything up. We make it look like it was on the first day,” said Dunkley.

And trending now is the use of succulent plants, also called fat plants. These drought tolerant plants are becoming very popular on tabletops, on back patios, or in hanging baskets, said Dunkley. Once homebuyers cross the threshold into the home, a deep clean is essential. M&A Cleaning in Wentzville will come into the home to spruce up the place. “We are a general cleaning company, but we will go into homes and provide a deeper clean,” said Mike Doyel, owner of M&A Cleaning. M&A Cleaning will wash windows and windowsills, clean those hard-to-reach ceiling fans, wipe down the six-panel doors and baseboards, sanitize bathrooms and countertops, and make the floors sparkle. “People want to see clean houses. If the bathrooms and floors look clean, and it smells clean, 99 percent of the time people are happy,” said Doyel. “If the floors look clean, it’s inviting.” M&A Cleaning uses a lemon-scented sanitizer and a lightly scented, all natural product on wood floors that leaves a fresh, clean and welcoming aroma. But even a clean home is powerless if the home is filled to the brim with clutter.

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(continued from previous page) “The more stuff you have out the smaller your home will seem, and buyers will look at all your stuff and not your house,” said Norton. “I always say, you are moving so pack up now; and then when it is time to move, you will have less to pack then.” The house needs to be ready at a moment’s notice, so Norton said to make sure the beds are made, the kitchen and bathrooms sparkle, and no dirty clothes are left on the floor. Homeowners should also leave the lights on throughout the home. “Light, bright and open spaces appeal to buyers. Have all lights working with new light bulbs, especially in the basement,” said Norton. While selling a home, it may be a good idea to go out to eat or bring in takeout — or at least avoid cooking fish. “Avoid cooking odorous foods, like fish,” said Norton. Cigarette and cigar smoke, along with pet odors, also need to be eliminated. And don’t forget to find an alternative place for pets to stay during showings. “Always secure or take pets out for showings,” said Norton. Whether it’s a full remodel or a few simple tweaks, homeowners can change the look of their home within a budget to attract the perfect buyer and get a return on their investment. ¤

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What is trending with nails? Well, that’s a hard question to answer. What we may be doing and what our clients like this week may fall out of favor by month’s end. That being said, I can say that nail art is still big-glitter, foil, stamping and free-hand painting is a large part of the finished look with manicures.

Also popular now are gel polish manicures. We can’t say that gel polish is trending because this service is here to stay. Women finally have freedom from artificial nails if they choose. Their nails stay nice with a regular manicure and gel polish. If you don’t know what gel polish is, or if you think it is the same as a gel manicure, we need to talk! Simply, a gel manicure is an artificial nail. The gel can be an overlay over your natural nail or can be used over a nail tip to extend your nail length. The ONLY way a gel nail can be removed is by filing the gel off. Never allow anyone to pry a gel nail off of your nail or use an electric file (drill) on your nail bed! The damage done to your nail can be irreversible. A gel polish manicure is exactly that. A general manicure is done and then gel polish is applied and cured under a LED or UV lamp. The only way a gel polish manicure should be removed is by wrapping with acetone-soaked pads wrapped with foil for 5 minutes. Nail wraps made for gel polish removal can also be used.

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The polish lifts off and the nail is ready for a new color!

Oh, and one more thing, Shellac is a brand made by CND, Creative Nail Design. So, when you hear that someone has a shellac manicure, it is not always a Shellac manicure, it may be a gel manicure. Often people think they have received a Shellac service when in fact they are wearing a gel artificial nail. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it is nice to know what is on your nails! Is it a gel nail or gel-polished nail? Both manicures can last up to three weeks depending on how fast your nails grow. We recommend that Shellac brand gel polish services be maintained every two weeks. “What color and what nail shape is in?” are frequently asked questions. The answer is... pick the color you like and nail shape you like. We’ve seen an increase in longer, almond shaped nail wearers but short ‘squoval’ is our most requested nail. Whatever nail look you choose, be it natural color, red or gray, with or without nail art - you need to maintain your nails. No chips, breaks or dry cuticles please! ¤ Hollywood Blonde HollywoodBlondeSalon.com 636.940.2616

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Style Express an entrepreneurial spirit in your workplace style with a creative mix of old and new.

Photography & Direction: Lance Tilford Wardrobe & Styling: James M. Harrison Hair & Makeup: Tamara Tungate Layout: Grace Pettit Models: Rachel James with West Model & Talent Management, JP Morray with Centro Models Shot on location at OPO Startups on Main Street St. Charles 50 StreetScape Magazine

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n o i h s a F e Mor Options in s e l r a h C . t S Story by Amy Armour Photo by Michael Schlueter A vacation to South Dakota turned into a new business venture for Beth Mohr. While on vacation in 2010, Mohr visited a boutique called Lillian’s. “I loved it so much that I researched it; and in 2011, my sister-in-law and I opened a Lillian’s (franchise) on Main Street,” said Mohr. Mohr left the franchise in November 2015 and became sole owner of her own shop – Abigail’s Apparel – named after her daughter. “I have never worked retail in my life. But when I updated my kitchen seven years ago, I fell in love with picking things out that went together and choosing colors; and that has played a big part in running my store,” said Mohr. Located at 124 South Main Street in Suite 1A, Abigail’s Apparel primarily carries dresses, tunics, tops, jackets and cardigans. The shop also has a very large selection of One Size Fits Most leggings, tanks, and other items, such as ponchos, that easily fit a variety of people. The shop carries a limited amount of inventory, so shoppers will be able to rock a new trendy outfit without worrying that everyone else will have it the next day. “We focus on finding fun and funky clothing with a twist,” said Mohr. “Whether it is a cutout, a bow or sequins, we don’t typically have too many plain Janes hanging on the racks.” Mohr said another fan favorite is Sanuks, which are sandals made out of recycled yoga mats. Shoppers can expect an ongoing change in apparel options. Mohr loves the opportunity to switch up the look of the shop on a regular basis, continually putting outfits together. “It is always fun when a customer sees something in the window, and they come in and ‘have’ to have it,” said Mohr. “The help and support of my family has been invaluable.” 58 StreetScape Magazine

How would you describe your personal style? I am a pretty casual dresser and stick with primarily neutrals. Not much of a “dress” person, although I love them on others. I am the one that always pitches in to help, so my style reflects that – nothing too fussy. What’s your most recent fashion obsession? I am a big-time boot person. Fall is my favorite season, partly because it is time to get the boots out. What runway trends do you love right now? I tend to like the eclectic styles that are trending, but focus more on what will sell in the Midwest. I just saw that something currently trending is freckles, whether natural, penciled in or temporarily tattooed, you are seeing it all over the runway. I guess I am on trend with that one... without even trying. What are your top six essential clothing staples?

t KUT denim t t Niki Biki (one size) t t Tanks t Leggings t t Tunics t t Piko Tops t What is the one item from your closet that you can’t live without? KUT Denim What is your go-to piece? Anything black What designers are you obsessed with? I don’t typically get attached to a designer. I tend to go with what catches my eye. ¤

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Story by Amy Armour Photos by Michael Schlueter When teaching kindergarten, Barbara Lillis always loved arts and crafts. After retiring from teaching in 2007, Lillis decided to take that love and transform it into her next career — as an artist. Lillis uses her creative juices to create artistic pieces utilizing stained glass, mixed media mosaics. She also develops creations using pieces of jewelry, feathers, copper, beads, and window frames, to name a few. When Lillis’ sister was fighting cancer, she decided to put her artistic energy into creating a piece that would honor her. Lillis took an old bowling ball, filled the holes with old wine bottle corks, and lovingly covered it in many pieces of broken glass, crafting a unique gazing ball for the garden. Lillis then sold additional pieces and donated all of the profits to the American Cancer Society in honor of her sister. Lillis contacted bowling alleys to collect the old, used balls for her project. However, when Lillis and her husband went to pick up the balls, they found that the bowling alley had already thrown them in the dumpster. “My husband backed up his truck and stepped into the dumpster to get the bowling balls out,” said Lillis. “We go to extremes to get things we need.”

Stadium artwork is more than 1,000 pieces and includes fireworks, the Arch and a homerun. Lillis has partnered with the shop Butterfly & Moon, which opened its doors at 814 South Main Street in May 2015. Lillis said she banged on the door of the shop the day before it opened and asked to sell her products there. “It has just been a blossoming relationship with Butterfly & Moon,” said Lillis. “It’s a unique shop, and I really enjoy having my (pieces) in the shop… You can find something unique for someone who has everything.” Lillis also takes her pieces on the road, traveling to art shows across the country. Locally, she has participated in the Art & Air Show and the Mosaics Festival. She has also travelled to Michigan, Arkansas and Kentucky. She has won first place and the grand prize in local art exhibitions.

Lillis also loves to create pieces – which she always names – from repurposed objects. Broken jewelry is one of Lillis’ favorite media to use for her projects. She regularly visits Goodwill and thrift shops to collect jars full of her special jewelry.

Her advice for aspiring artists?

“I love to see how you can take jewelry apart and see other ways that it can be developed,” said Lillis.

“Just follow your passion,” said Lillis. “The crazy things in your head can be visualized into art. Don’t give up art.”

Lillis has fashioned unique pieces using cut out words like “Love,” “Life,” “Breathe,” and “Relax.” Lillis covers the letters with all different types of jewelry, “making it kind of blingy.” Her piece “Soft Kitty,” named after a song in “The Big Bang Theory” TV show, is a cat-shaped cutout covered in interesting jewelry pieces.

Lillis also teaches classes at Butterfly & Moon when she isn’t vacationing in her second home – Arizona. Lillis provides a picture frame and jewelry pieces and helps students manipulate the pieces and put it all together. Her next class will be held in April.

One of Lillis’ favorite pieces is a repurposed door from a Chinese restaurant. The 9-foot tall door had an opening at the top, and Lillis added stained glass. The door is featured in her living room.

“I try not to let the grass grow under my feet,” said Lillis.

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When she’s not creating her masterpieces, Lillis enjoys vacationing in Arizona, tap dancing, and playing in a kazoo band. For more information about Butterfly & Moon or Lillis, visit www.butterflyandmoon.com. ¤

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Hair

Make-up

for Your Big Day

Sparkly eye shadow on my wedding day … is it a do or a don’t? If it’s a do, how do I make it look subtle and pretty? No sparkles! A mix of an illuminating eye shadow is okay, but you always want to blend it with matte colors to keep it subtle, soft, and bridal. Should I change my hair from wedding to reception? This is a personal opinion. There are many styles you can wear up and then take down (or vise versa.) Most brides pick a style and wear it for both the ceremony and reception. I’m having a night wedding. What makeup should I go with to make a dramatic impact? Use a smoky eye treatment and/or bold lips based on the colors of your skin tone, eyes, and the season. My dress has a high neckline; what sort of hairstyle should I go with? An up-do, with all of your hair up, will accentuate both your hair and dress. I have an outside wedding in the summer in St. Louis. My hair does not do well in the humidity. What do you recommend? Always request humidity-resistant hair products. In the summertime in St. Louis it’s always good to wear your hair up or partially up. I love the open back of my dress, and I want to make a statement with it. What should I do with my hair so it doesn’t take away from the back of my dress? Keep it simple. Don’t use any hairpieces, clips, or headbands that will draw eyes away from the back of your dress. My wedding and reception are not until later in the day, but we are doing tons of pictures before. How do I make sure my makeup will last through the whole day? Temptu airbrush makeup! Between this and waterproof mascara and eyeliner, you won’t have to touch up anything except your lip gloss! Make sure your stylist uses a lipliner. I am changing to a less formal dress for my reception. Does this mean I have to change my hair and makeup as well? A change in dress doesn’t necessarily mean makeup and hair need changing. A trial run is a good way to make sure the hair and makeup are appropriate for both. An up-do that can change to half up and half down would be the perfect fit for a less formal dress. Should I buy a hairpin or headband for my hairstyle? Accessories always add a finishing touch, as long as it’s not taking away from your dress! ¤ Belleza Bridal Hair Salon Bridal Team Lead - Taylar Federhofer 636.300.3437 bellezasalonandspa.com

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, r a l u c a t c e p S Planning a g n i d d e W n o i t Destina

Want to take the stress out of planning your destination wedding? It’s easy; work with a local travel agent to find your dream resort and destination, and they’ll take care of you and your guests from the very beginning. Follow these tips for choosing an agent who will work with you to plan the wedding of your dreams.

Tip 1: Choose a travel agent

This is probably the most important step, because it will determine the tone of your planning experience from the beginning. When interviewing agents (yes, you can test them out before committing), pay attention to the types of details they give you, how quickly they get back to you, and their knowledge of the destinations and resorts. Agents should be returning your phone calls or e-mails the same day or within 24 hours max; and if they aren’t, they probably are going to be a hassle to communicate with for you and, possibly, your guests. Talk to other friends who have planned destination weddings or honeymoons, and ask for recommendations of agents they have used. Check websites like the Better Business Bureau to make sure there aren’t complaints lodged against any agency you are considering and to get recommendations for top local agents.

Tip 2: Set a budget

You may want to get married Tahitian style near your overthe-water bungalow, sparing no cost on your special day, but keep in mind most guests can’t afford the money or the time it takes to get to those far-away destinations. Make sure your agent checks prices for not only your trip and wedding package, but your guests as well. Give her an idea of what cities your guests are flying from, how many nights they might want to stay, and if any children will be attending. Most adults-only resorts will not allow kids at the resort, even just for a wedding. Some resorts offer free weddings if you book a certain category for a minimum amount of days or if you book several rooms for your guests, so be sure to

ask about those options. The companies that travel agents work with to package your hotel, air and transportation also offer group discounts for groups as small as five rooms or 10 people. Complimentary stays for larger groups are also common, so make sure you ask for all those details up front.

Tip 3: Be open to destinations

A lot of couples tell me they don’t want to go to some of the same resort areas that their friends may have chosen for their wedding or honeymoon. However, destinations like Mexico, Jamaica and the Dominican Republic are popular for a reason. They are easy to get to from most parts of the United States; and they are the most affordable destinations with great, all-inclusive packages that save your guests money. Decide ahead of time if you plan to compromise or not. Compromising is a big part of a successful marriage, and sometimes that includes wedding planning. Choosing a destination or resort can require a compromise between what you want on your special day and what your guests can afford. It’s your special day, so you need to decide up front if you are more concerned with where and how you get married or with how many guests will be able to join you. Remember, if your guests can’t make it, you can always plan a nice, big reception with all your family and friends upon your return; and show a video of you exchanging your vows on the beach. Utilize local vendors for the catering, reception hall, flowers, cake and more to celebrate with those who couldn’t attend.

Tip 4: Know your legal requirements

Make sure your travel agent gives you details on the necessary documentation for the country where you are getting married. Sometimes there is a lot of paperwork, blood tests and other hassles involved in getting married in another country, so some couples will get married legally in the United States before their symbolic ceremony on the beach. Also, some hotels or countries will require you to be at the resort 48 to 72 hours prior to your wedding, so be sure to make your plans accordingly.

Tip 5: Bride’s dress rehearsal

Did you know that you can sometimes travel to the resort you are considering booking for a type of bride’s dress rehearsal? Some resorts have a package where you can come down for two or three nights, meet with the wedding coordinators, and choose your colors, theme, décor, etc., all for a reduced rate. This is a great way to make sure that the resort you have chosen has the look and feel of what you envisioned to celebrate your wedding

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day. Ask your agent for all the details.

Tip 6: Send save the dates

Once you have decided on your date, destination and resort, be sure to provide “Save the Date” information for your guests via snail mail, e-mail or on a website. Include all the information about your resort, the dates and pricing, as well as contact information for your travel agent. I recommend giving them a deadline to encourage early booking, making sure they understand that booking with the group will offer discounts and perks for everyone. A lot of guests wait until a month or two prior to your wedding date to contact the agent, and sometimes the airfare and hotel may be sold out. Most packages only require a $50 to $200 per person deposit, with final payment due 45 to 60 days prior to the departure date. So make sure your guests understand that they can make payments.

Tip 7: Let your agent handle questions

Planning a destination wedding takes a lot of the stress out of the traditional wedding style, so be sure and take advantage of that fact; and let your agent deal with all the questions. The last thing you want to worry about is what brand of whiskey the resort serves, what time of day you and your guests can check in, how everyone gets to the resort, whether money should be exchanged to the local currency, or if someone can take a sleep apnea machine on the plane! A good agent will send your clients all the information they need to book their trip, answer any questions they have, make changes if they run into issues or have to cancel or change their dates, and much more. They should also keep you apprised of who has booked with your group and even those who may have contacted you and not booked yet. Ask for an updated list each month to stay on top of who is coming and who has told you they are coming but haven’t made their arrangements yet. Compared to traditional wedding ceremonies, destination weddings can save couples lots of stress and money, but they can be more stressful and expensive for your guests. Keep in mind that they have to use their limited vacation time from work, arrange child or pet care, order passports, and make travel arrangements to show up for your big day. But here’s the best part: They’re glad to do it, and they want to be there for you to witness your vows! Just remember… wonderful destination wedding experiences start with an organized travel agent and organized travel plans. Finding the right agent is the best gift you can give yourselves, as well as your guests. ¤ Trish Hinds Owner | The Travel Gals 636.300.0204 | TheTravelGals.com

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~ Set your budget before you shop for your dream dress. Let your bridal consultant know when you set the appointment. This helps your bridal consultant hand select a dress within your budget. ~ Do your research on what type of dresses you like… A-line, ballgown, sheath or mermaid. ~ Have your shopping party limited to three people. This usually consists of your mom, sister, maid of honor and/or trusted best friend. Too many people in the party will get you confused offering too many opinions on what they like. Remember, it’s your day! Make it that way by having only people closest to your heart accompanying you. ~ Research your fabrics before you go shopping. Take a trip to the fabric store. Take a look at satins, lace, chiffons and taffetas. Research the cost of fabrics. This will give you an idea of what you are paying for. ~ Be aware that almost all bridal gowns are manufactured overseas. The timespan from start to finish of your order is five to eight months. Add three to four weeks for alterations. ~ Set your surroundings for the wedding ceremony before you shop for the dress – outdoor, beach, traditional, indoor. Choose your dress accordingly so you are comfortable wearing it all day in the surroundings you’ve chosen. ~ Have no more than two or three appointments in one day. Most bridal appointments will last 60 to 90 minutes. Do not overdo it. Trying on dresses can take a lot out of you. ~ Plan a nice lunch in between your appointments. This will give you special time to relax and enjoy the members of your shopping party while giving them an opportunity to share what they like in your choices. It’s all about having fun while planning for your special day! ¤ Lauree’s Bridal 636.940.1711 LaureesBridalandFormalwear.com March | April

Keelin and Andrew Russell July 26th, 2014 Service: All Saints, St. Peters, Missouri Officiant: Father Don Wester Reception: Memorial Hall in Blanchette Park Bridal Party: Julia Hodges-Stubstad (Maid of Honor), Meagan Lee, Meredith Simon, Hilary Flanagan, Jamie Miller, Heather Rabaut, Carrie Wilson, and Kristin Helmink, Dwayne Hemmer (Best Man), Thomas Miller, Neil Baine, David Baine, Alec Sheridan, Justin Mastroianni, Richard Mastroianni, Aaron Wright Bridesmaids Gifts: Keelin gave all of the girls umbrellas, their jewelry, and made soaps for them. Groomsmen Gifts: Andy loves to brew beer. He made all of the personalized growlers for the groomsmen with their names on them. Photographer: Courtney Smith Photography (St. Charles) Photo locations: Main Street St. Charles, Frontier Park, Blanchette Park Hair Stylist: Tina Weber (O’Fallon) Makeup: Holly Plont (O’Fallon) Florist: Petals and Bells (St. Paul) Caterer: Piggy’s BBQ (O’Fallon) Cake: No cake... Keelin made everyone individual pies! Music: They made their own playlists and two of Andy’s friends from college were the emcee and the DJ... they still get compliments on how amazing they were! Quote from Keelin: “Andy and I made it our mission for our wedding to be a direct reflection of us, that’s why everything was local, was done by someone we know, or done by ourselves. From the moment we woke up until we fell asleep it was the best day and most fun I have ever had. All we wanted was to be married and have a dance party with our favorite people, and that’s exactly what we did!”

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Discover priceless history

in your own backyard

Story and Photos courtesy of St. Charles Convention and Visitors Bureau As St. Charles locals, we’ve all heard the words, walked past the statues, the historic buildings, and the local attractions; but how many of us have taken the time to truly discover what’s in our own backyard? How did we go from “Les Petites Côtes” to “St. Charles”? The history of St. Charles began when Louis Blanchette, a French Canadian, designated it as a fur trading post in 1769. The settlement was then called “Les Petites Côtes,” which means the little hills. In 1791, Blanchette was named commandant of the District of San Carlos. A few years later, on March 9, 1804, the territory was formally transferred and became a territory of the United States; and the name was changed to St. Charles. St. Charles played an important role in the lives of many historical figures and helped shape the future of the state of Missouri. In 1804, on the banks of the Missouri River, Lewis and Clark met to begin their westward expedition. Meanwhile, Daniel Boone and his family built a homestead in nearby Defiance; his Boone’s Lick Road later became the eastern starting point of the Santa Fe and Oregon Trails. In 1818, St. Rose Philippine Duschesne established the first free girls school west of the Mississippi. Between 1821 and 1826, St. Charles was Missouri’s first state capitol. And in 1827, landmark Lindenwood College was founded as a private, fine arts school.

Next, take a stroll through the southern end of the park and cross the footbridge to Bishop’s Landing and the Lewis & Clark Boat House and Nature Center (1050 South Riverside Drive). Here you’ll find full-size replicas of the boats used by Lewis and Clark and the Corps of Discovery. Upstairs in the museum you’ll discover dioramas illustrating highlights of the Lewis and Clark Expedition, Native American displays, and various Missouri River habitats encountered during the journey. You can also get a feel for old St. Charles with four, half-scale buildings showing architectural styles of the 18th and 19th centuries. A short walk up the road is Main Street and Boone’s Lick where the Boone’s Lick Trail started. Daniel Boone first blazed this trail following old Indian paths to a salt spring near Booneville, Missouri. This is also the location of St. Charles’ Western Plank Road, “planking” the first 10 miles of Boone’s Lick Road in the 1850’s. Head north on South Main Street and take some time to admire its history and architecture.

These pioneers, historic sites and dates that are part of St. Charles’ timeline helped shape the city as it’s known today. Take some time to step back in history and discover more.

In the 200 block of South Main, you’ll encounter the First Missouri State Capitol. This is the location chosen (with the incentive of free rent from the Peck brothers) as Missouri’s temporary capitol while the permanent capitol was being built in Jefferson City. From June 4, 1821, to October 1, 1826, heated debates on state’s rights and slavery filled the rooms on the second floor of this federal style building. During this time, the downstairs remained the Peck Bros. Dry Goods and Hardware store while the Senate and House of Representatives met upstairs. Be sure to inquire about guided tours while you’re visiting.

Start your journey in Frontier Park along the Missouri River where you’ll discover a monumental bronze sculpture by Colorado artist Pat Kennedy that commemorates Lewis and Clark and their Newfoundland dog, Seaman.

From here, head up North Main and make the jog into Frenchtown and the Shrine of St. Rose Philippine Duschesne. Located on the grounds of the Academy of the Sacred Heart at 619 N. Second Street, the shrine is a lasting tribute to the French

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missionary who brought formalized education to the Missouri frontier in 1818. The Shrine is open daily for visitation and docents are available for guided tours on select days. Take a day to discover our history. These are just a few stops that are a part of St. Charles and our community. And while you’re strolling around Historic St. Charles, make plans for your next adventure right in your own backyard. For information on these stops and many others, visit www.historicstcharles.com and remember #DiscoverSTC. ¤

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Story by Stephen Foutes, Mo Division of Tourism Winter is giving way to spring, and summer vacation is on our minds.

Your search focuses on unique and memorable experiences. You know they’re out there, but you might be surprised at just how close they are. There’s no reason why Missouri shouldn’t be your destination of choice for a great vacation in 2016. The Show-Me State has it all… the excitement of large cities, the charm of small towns, the beautiful results of Mother Nature’s handiwork and an impressive collection of attractions and activities. In short, there are a variety of exciting destinations and attractions in Missouri – and they’re just waiting for you.

Enjoy the Outdoors

Having been named America’s Best Trails State in 2013, and the country’s Best Camping State the year prior, Missouri’s outdoor assets certainly have earned their share of national recognition. From clear rivers and streams ideal for canoe and kayak trips to expansive lakes where boating, fishing and swimming are top activities, Missouri’s waterways are among the best in the nation. In fact, Lake of the Ozarks was voted as the Best Recreational Lake in the U.S. by readers of USA Today and 10Best.com in 2015. Missouri’s lauded State Parks system – which operates 87 parks and historic sites – has more than 1,000 miles of hiking trails, including the popular Katy Trail. It’s open for pedestrian, bicycle, and in some spots, equestrian use, and continues to draw hundreds of thousands of visitors each year. Areas managed by the Missouri Department of Conservation (MDC) offer excellent recreational options, including hunting, fishing and hiking, while MDC’s nature and interpretive centers and hatcheries have interactive exhibits visitors of all ages enjoy. Golf courses offer another great way to enjoy the outdoors in the Show-Me State. Whether you’re playing a quick nine at your favorite local course, working on your short game at a pitch-andputt, making the rounds on the Lake of the Ozarks Golf Trail or following in the footsteps of legends at Top of the Rock or Buffalo Ridge near Branson, Missouri’s golf courses are fun for players of all skill levels. For an unexpected adventure, don’t pass up the chance to scuba dive at Bonne Terre Mine, home to a lighted, billion-gallon lake and optimal diving conditions year-round. 70 StreetScape Magazine

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Find Fun for the Family

There are countless options for family travel in Missouri. From one-of-a-kind activity centers and wow-worthy caves to museums designed specifically for kids, the Show-Me State truly has fun for children of all ages. Of course, you need look no further than Historic Main Street in St Charles, with its huge and varied festivals and activities throughout the year. But there are also fun family destinations throughout Missouri. At the Discovery Center of Springfield, hours of interactive fun await, thanks to exhibits such as the High Wire Bike, Bodyworks, Discovery Town and WaterWorks. Discovery Center is as educational as it is fun, with concepts focusing on physics, chemistry and health. Missouri’s caves make a great year-round getaway: they’re cool in the summer, warm in the winter. Caves are plentiful in central Missouri. Bridal Cave is about four miles west of Camdenton, Fantasy World Caverns is five miles south of Eldon, Jacob’s Cave is eight miles south of Versailles, Ozark Caverns (inside Lake of the Ozarks State Park) is nine miles east of Linn Creek and Miller Cave is at Fort Leonard Wood. For an interesting and unique Missouri experience, don’t miss the City Museum. Located in downtown St. Louis, City Museum boasts a fascinating collection of recycled materials, many of which have been fashioned into slides, tunnels and climbing towers. Kids love the experience, and there’s plenty of room for grown-ups to explore, too. Across the state in St. Joseph, there’s an opportunity to show your children what instant messaging was like in 1861. Young visitors enjoy interactive displays at the Pony Express National Museum, which brings to life the stories of brave riders who spent 10 days crossing the country to deliver mail to California. Family adventures in southeast Missouri often involve stops at Elephant Rocks State Park and Johnson’s Shut-Ins State Park, ideal destinations for families looking to connect with the outdoors. Families find more fun at the Home of the Missouri Dinosaur, otherwise known as the Bollinger County Museum of Natural History in Marble Hill, which has an impressive collection of dinosaur fossils and artifacts.

Variety for Travelers Theme and amusement parks in Missouri, such as Silver Dollar City in Branson, Worlds of Fun in Kansas City and Six Flags St. Louis offer hours of family fun, thanks to exciting thrill rides such as Outlaw Run (Silver Dollar City), Mamba (Worlds of Fun) and Boomerang (Six Flags).

Enjoy a Cultural Immersion

On your getaway, make a cultural connection with Missouri’s music, food, art and history. In doing so, know that it’s okay if you find yourself tapping your toes at a live show or using a few extra paper towels to wipe barbecue sauce off your face at lunch. It’s easy to spend hours admiring priceless works of art in worldclass museums and learning about the people and events that shaped Missouri.

In fact, that’s kind of the point. But where to begin…

Why not start with a show? Fans of the arts love Missouri’s wide range of performance venues and the performers who help bring them to life. Branson is renowned as the home of live music shows, while eye-popping concert halls – like those at Kauffman Center for Performing Arts in Kansas City – host a variety of national touring performers and performances. And the Fabulous Fox Theatre in St Louis always has a wonderful lineup of local and Broadway Series performances, as does the J. Scheidegger Center for the Arts in St Charles. Food offers another gateway to Missouri’s culture. If you’re from the Show-Me State, you probably recognize the awesome barbecue restaurants in Kansas City. Now it’s time to enjoy outof-the-way joints such as Dexter Bar-B-Que in Dexter, Randy’s Roadkill Barbecue in Rolla and Wabash Barbecue in Chillicothe. Because you can’t have food without a drink, don’t miss original flavors of Missouri when you visit any number of the state’s 130 wineries – those in Hermann, Defiance and Augusta are particularly popular, especially during the annual Oktoberfest celebrations – and the ever-expanding list of Show-Me State breweries and distilleries.

Experience the History

When it’s time for you to make a connection with Missouri’s history, start at the top. Way at the top. The Gateway Arch in

St. Louis is the country’s tallest monument at 630 feet. This iconic structure represents America’s westward expansion and the president who made it possible, Thomas Jefferson. Combined with the nearby Old Courthouse, the two properties comprise the Jefferson National Expansion Memorial. Locations such as the State Historical Society of Missouri Art Galleries in Columbia offer the chance to view works created by two of Missouri’s leading artists, Thomas Hart Benton and George Caleb Bingham, while traveling exhibits and modern works of art are highlights at stops such as the Daum Museum of Contemporary Art in Sedalia, the Springfield Art Museum, the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art in Kansas City and the Saint Louis Art Museum. Learning the stories of Missouri’s famous residents is another great way to make a connection with the Show-Me State. Mark Twain’s youth unfolds at the Mark Twain Boyhood Home and Museum in Hannibal, while the Harry S. Truman Library and Museum in Independence focuses on the only Missourian ever elected president. The Scott Joplin House State Historic Site in St. Louis tells the story of one of Missouri’s most well-known musicians, while jazz clubs in the 18th and Vine District of Kansas City shine the spotlight on the city’s musical heritage and performers, including Charlie Parker, who once called the area home. Other Missouri destinations connect you with folks such as animator Walt Disney, whose life is chronicled at the Walt Disney Hometown Museum in Marceline, and George Washington Carver, whose childhood home is a national monument near Diamond. Oh, and save the date for April 2, 2016. That’s the scheduled opening for Missouri’s newest cultural asset, the National Blues Museum in St. Louis.

Take Time for a Night Out

Let’s make this clear right away: Going to a baseball game counts as a night out, especially when you get to choose between

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(continued from previous page) seeing the defending World Series Champion Kansas City Royals and the consistently playoff-bound St. Louis Cardinals. Okay, it doesn’t have to be baseball. Football and hockey work, too. So what makes an ideal night out in Missouri? Like a lot of things, it depends on your particular taste. You might try your luck and do the stay-and-play thing at the Ameristar Casino in St. Charles, Isle of Capri in Boonville or Argosy Casino in Riverside (Kansas City), where gaming action pairs with lodging, live music and dining to give you a complete vacation experience. Missouri’s music scene comes into play again (pun intended) when you’re looking for a night on the town. Whether it’s a live show in Branson, an outdoor concert in Kansas City, a local group playing at your favorite winery or a blues club in St. Louis, it’s never difficult to find a great show in the Show-Me State. Entertainment hubs such as Kansas City’s Country Club Plaza and Columbia’s District are ideal destinations for a night out, as they combine dining with the fun of shopping, sightseeing and club-hopping. The Blue Note in downtown Columbia has a storied history as one of the state’s top live entertainment venues. Wineries in Missouri also can be part of your night out, as many include on-site restaurants with extensive menu options and fine-dining choices. Pair your winery visit with a stay at one of the state’s bed-and-breakfasts for an overnight or long weekend escape. ¤

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Information provided by Marquee Media and Marketing Photos by Michael Schlueter In January 210 performers took the stage in January in the preliminary round of the 6th Annual St Louis Teen Talent Competition, hosted by The Fox Performing Arts Charitable Foundation. Registration for the competition was free and open to all high school students in the St. Louis Metropolitan area. This event showcases the most talented teens in our region who excel in the performing arts. Contestants must be enrolled in the 9th through 12th grades in the 2015-2016 school year and must attend a high school/home school within a 50-mile radius from the Arch. “We have been elated with the ongoing response to this event from students, parents, arts organizations and the community,” said Mary Strauss, President of the FPACF Board of Directors. “The Fox Performing Arts Charitable Foundation is happy to be able to provide the opportunity for students to perform at the Fox and on other stages around St. Louis. We’re delighted that we are able to put talented young people in the spotlight.” The Fox Performing Arts Charitable Foundation reintroduced the St. Louis Teen Talent Competition in 2011 to showcase the St. Louis region’s most talented teens in the performing arts. The 2015 winner was Tiala Taylor, a contemporary dancer from Ft. Zumwalt North High School. Student acts may enter as soloists or in groups up to six people. This year’s entries represent 77 schools in the bi-state metropolitan area (63 from Missouri and 14 from Illinois) plus home-

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schoolers. They include acts showcasing a variety of talents including a comedian, ballet dancers, singers, and a banjo player. Each round and location has a panel of at least three judges who adjudicate and advance acts to the next round of competition. Judges for the preliminary and semi-final rounds are arts professionals from the St. Louis region who are asked to give each act constructive, verbal feedback immediately after they perform. Miano.tv produces videos of the competition process, which are then made available on the Foundation’s YouTube and SchoolTube channels. Stories from the past five years are currently posted and provide viewers a glimpse of what the competition is all about. Judges for the first two rounds of competition include an impressive cross section of professionals from the St. Louis performing arts community. A complete list of preliminary round judges is available on the FPACF website. The two days of preliminary competition were held at three separate locations - Ritenour High School, Nerinx Hall High School, and University of Missouri – St. Louis – and narrowed the field from 153 to 35 acts. These acts then compete in the semi-finals on Saturday, March 5th, at St. Louis Community College-Meramec where the final 12 acts will be chosen to compete on The Fabulous Fox stage as part of a professionally

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Above left: 2015 First place winner Tiala Taylor (on Right) with Mary Strauss. Main photo: Tiala Taylor performing. Photos by Kevin Lowder

A. Natalie Brielle, musical theatre B. The band, Last Plane Out C. Sound checks before the performance D. Arie, singer

produced show on Saturday, April 23, 2016. This final event at The Fabulous Fox is free and open to the public. A total of more than $30,000 in scholarships and prizes will be distributed among the top competitors. Additionally, students are eligible for scholarships from Lindenwood University, Webster University, UMSL and Southeast Missouri State University, plus gift certificates, special awards and other prizes. A full list can be found on the FPACF website. Finalists will also be provided unique performance opportunities within the St. Louis area arranged by FPACF and by request. Finalists from prior years have showcased their talents at The Muny, The Chamber Music Society of St. Louis, Winter Opera, The Sheldon Concert Hall, Shakespeare Festival Green Show in Forest Park, Six Flags–St. Louis, Taste of Maplewood, Let Them Eat Art, and Fair St. Louis. According to the Foundation, community response to this free event has been amazing and has grown over the past five years with sold out crowds at The Fox. Additionally, each year 120,000 viewers have watched the Nine Network’s hour-long program on the competition. The Nine Network will once again broadcast the 2016 competition. Complete guidelines and information about the 6th Annual 2016 St. Louis Teen Talent Competition can be found on the Foundation’s website as well as on the FPACF Facebook page. ¤

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inspires courage and confidence Story by Sarah Moeller Photos courtesy of Midwest Children’s Burn Camp For 75 campers each summer, the Midwest Children’s Burn Camp is known as a haven in which to relax, have fun, let down their guard, and just feel like a normal and accepted kid. This feeling of being included does not come easily or often for these children who have experienced the physical and emotional trauma from burn injuries. Out in general society, these children can expect to be teased, stared at, ridiculed, marginalized, and otherwise mistreated. Their life-altering scars are noticeable and attract unwanted attention, but none of this is their expectation at burn camp. This was the hope of Linda and Gary Hansen, a burn survivor himself, when they started the Missouri Children’s Burn Camp (renamed the Midwest Children’s Burn Camp in December). They had witnessed the success of other burn camps in other regions and realized how helpful and healing such a retreat would be for burn-scarred children in their area. Under the parent group, Burns Recovered Support Group, started in 1983, Midwest Children’s Burn Camp is being offered for the 20th year in a row this coming May and June. At burn camp, campers can primarily expect to have a lot of fun in an emotionally safe environment. They can swim, scuba dive, go tubing, use paddle boards, go sailing, and whoosh down a 50-foot slide with a lake at the bottom. While this type of activity would usually precipitate a lot more self-consciousness in mainstream camps, children can feel comfortable seeing others with burn scars and not feel like a target for bullying. On the drier side of things, campers can shoot arrows at an archery range, zoom on a zip line, and also participate in a talent show or laugh at clown night. Everyone is made to feel at home; and because of the common bond forged by the similarity of their injuries and experiences, campers often feel an instant connection that puts them at ease. This experience also gives them the courage to later face the rest of the world that is often cold and uncaring. 76 StreetScape Magazine

Julie Peetz, executive director of Burns Recovered Support Group, tells of a little girl who was ridiculed and called awful names by other kids at her school bus stop. Because of the strength and confidence she gained from camp (and the yearround emotional support the founding organization provides), she was able to successfully deal with her bullies. These tormentors had called her names like “crispy fried chicken,” but they were properly dealt with and started treating her better. They were moved to apologize to her in front of the whole school, in addition to calling her and her mother to personally tell them how very sorry they were. It is success stories like this that compel campers to come to camp and which propel donors to make it possible for the camp to even operate. It takes about $2,000 to cover the cost of one camper’s tuition. Many organizations (the Mader Foundation, the Sarli Foundation, Boeing ECM, Emerson Electric, the Kiwanas Club, and the Lions Club, for example) faithfully support this camp. But private individuals who want to help financially are also encouraged to donate by going to www.brsg.org and finding the donate button there. Monetary donations aren’t the only way to help kids who are burn survivors. Another great need for the camp is counselors. Each year, about 45 to 50 counselors in total are needed to help the children, ages six to 17, participate in the myriad of activities. While many counselors return year after year, some are prevented from doing so; thus, additional good counselors are welcome. If you are interested in helping and meet the age requirement (21), go to the website for an application. There will be a mandatory training weekend prior to camp, so it’s a good idea to inquire sooner, rather than later. Counselors have a vital role at burn camp. Many of them come from backgrounds such as social work, firefighting, medical, and other related professions. Besides keeping campers on schedule and guiding them to various activities, these men and women help give campers a boost of confidence that continues

throughout the year. For example, because of the humiliation and shame they are accustomed to, it’s sometimes hard for campers to believe they can truly succeed at something. Counselors will help them pick a new activity they wish to try, coaching and cheering them on as they master it. Successes like this, all through the week, really promote self-confidence and self-dignity. One young man in particular was a great example of how this is supposed to work. When he first started attending the burn camps, he didn’t want to talk. He didn’t want anyone to look at him. Now, several years later, he has a new perspective. As a high school senior, he is a leader at school and is very outgoing. He is engaging, his scars have faded into his emotional background, and he is a different person from who he used to be. It is very likely that without attending burn camp, he would still be stuck in his old mindset. Going to camp isn’t the only way kids can get support in facing their challenges. Throughout the year, campers and their families can meet at various events sponsored by Burns Recovered Support Group. For example, there are activities like Christmas parties and gift-exchanges, bowling parties, and Magic House days. These events reinforce the feeling of community and security that is fostered at the annual burn camp. As campers “graduate” out of camp, the group Changing Times is for those ages 18 to 25. This helps them transition out of the childhood community and into the adult survivor circles. Participants can also attend the Burns Recovered Support Group, a monthly meeting held at Mercy Hospital. In the same way that camp helps kids, this group helps adults. Before joining the group, one lady was so anxious about leaving her house that she wasn’t even able to raise her child. She sent her daughter to live with a relative because getting out of the house was too much to deal with, and her daughter needed a more mobile caregiver. After receiving regular support, the lady was able to integrate herself into society once more and was also able to resume care of her daughter. It is stories like these that demonstrate the value of a community outreach such as this. ¤

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Rising Above Life’ s Challenges

Therapist Terri Roche and Equine Specialist Caryn Mundell share observations of this group session. This will formulate the comments offered to the participants that lead them into discussion about the outcome of their experience in the activity.

Through Equine-Assisted Therapy Story by Dee Gerstenkorn Photos courtesy of Audrey Lee of New Melle Located in Foristell, Missouri, is a 42-acre ranch where horses help people heal. Arise Equine Therapy Foundation is a 501(c)3 non-profit specializing in equine-assisted psychotherapy, a relatively new form of counseling. The ranch is owned and directed by Fran Natoli, a Professional Association of Therapeutic Horsemanship (PATH) Certified Instructor and an Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association (EAGALA) Certified Equine Specialist. “Equine therapy takes clients out of the traditional ‘on the couch’ setting and puts them in the middle of a large arena with 1,000-lb. horses,” said Natoli. “They feel the fresh air. They hear the sounds of nature. It’s them, the horse, the counselor, and the equine specialist. This is where the discovery takes place, and it couldn’t be more different than sitting in an office.”

be the center of attention. Equine-assisted psychotherapy invites them to enter into an environment where the horses become the focus. “There’s just something about that warm, living animal that opens a gateway to a client’s emotions, more so than with a human,” said Natoli. “And what they learn from the horses, they take back and apply to their daily life.” According to Natoli, equine-assisted psychotherapy has been successful for a variety of clients and a wide range of challenges. The treatment is effective for adolescents and adults, either individu-

Arise Ranch follows the EAGALA model of equine-assisted psychotherapy, which is ground-based, so the client doesn’t actually have to ride the horse. Just as in traditional cognitive therapy, there is a treatment plan for each client. But here, treatment is far more experiential and hands-on. “Horses are herd animals, and they’re exceptional at reading body language and sensing the emotional state of those around them,” Natoli said. “In this model of equine therapy, clients use props such as cones, ground poles and other items. They’re building. They’re moving. They’re coming up with the metaphors and labels that these different items represent to them. They’re working with the horses and watching how they react. It takes the spotlight off the clients and lets them watch their particular problems play out. With this perspective, they can step back and say ‘ah-ha’ because they’re seeing with a fresh set of eyes.” Some people don’t learn as well verbally, and others don’t like to 78 StreetScape Magazine

ally or in a group/family session. Success has been achieved with PTSD, OCD, anxiety, grief, depression, addiction, self-esteem, and other behavioral needs. Another benefit of equine therapy is that the term is typically shorter than traditional psychotherapy. “With this approach, we can usually get quite a bit accomplished in as little as eight to 12 weeks,” she said. Natoli’s love of using horses to help people began in 2006 when she was a volunteer for another organization that specialized in traditional, therapeutic riding lessons. In 2011, she founded

BBQ Everyone? Spring is here and with the nice weather comes the desire to get outside, fire up the grill and eat some barbeque. You can already smell the meat cooking on the grill...the ribs, pork steaks, chicken wings, rubs, sauces... yum!

The Wentzville Downtown Business Association is proud to bring St. Charles County’s very first sanctioned barbecue competition to the Wentzville Days Fair and Music Festival scheduled for May 20 - 22 in Wentzville’s historic Village Center. The Wentzville Q and Brew presented by Sugarfire is sanctioned by the St. Louis BBQ Society and will award $5,000 in cash prizes. Each competitor will be required to compete in the categories of chicken, ribs, beef brisket, pork and people’s choice. The competition will feature 20 of the area’s most accomplished professional and amateur pitmasters. Pitmasters in the people’s choice competition taking place on Saturday, May 21 will be challenged to incorporate craft beer provided by Friendship Brewing Company into their offering. Guests at the Q and Brew will be able to purchase a tasting ballot and enjoy each competitor’s dish and vote for their favorite. Friendship Brewing Company is opening this spring in Wentzville and will host a craft beer garden on their grounds during the competition. The winning teams in each category will be awarded points which accumulate during the competitive season and increase their eligibility to attend the Jack Daniel’s World Championship Competition in October. Official judging will take place on Sunday, May 22.

The Wentzville Q and Brew presented by Sugarfire and craft beer garden at Friendship Brewing Company will offer festival guests the opportunity to watch pitmasters at work, eat the people’s choice offering, and drink hand crafted beer at this year’s Wentzville Days Festival and Music Fair. For information about becoming a competitor, visit www.WentzvilleQandBrew.com. ¤

Arise Equine Therapy; and in 2012, she and her husband, Mike, bought the Foristell ranch, moved the program, and set a course for growth. Today, in addition to Natoli, the organization’s treatment team includes Terri Roche, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and EAGALA Certified Mental Health Professional, and Caryn Mundell, a PATH Certified Instructor and EAGALA Certified Equine Specialist. “During my years of working with people and horses, I have always gravitated toward people with cognitive challenges,” she said. “Seeing the growth that comes as a result of interacting with these animals is so encouraging. It is my passion.” Arise Equine Therapy is accepting new clients. Daytime and evening appointments are available, and new clients can usually be seen within one week. For more information or to schedule an appointment, call 314-799-4294 or visit www.AriseEquineTherapy.org. ¤ Arise Equine Therapy, LLC 1611 Highway W Foristell, Missouri 63348 314.799.4294 Info@AriseEquineTherapy.org Being in the presence of horses has been proven to reduce stress. March | April

Story by Michael Grafman I met Charlie Daniels in 1974 at the K-SHE Kite Flying contest. My family had him over for our late mother’s famous meatloaf, and he invited us to Nashville for his Volunteer Jam back in the 80s. He is as humble and as down to earth a person as you will ever meet, and my family is honored to know him. Michael: Charlie, please tell St. Louis when and how you created the Charlie Daniels Band, which became one of the country’s most popular bands. Charlie Daniels: “I put the band together around 1971 when I got my first record deal. I tried to find players who fit together musically and got along personally.” Michael: What is your “connection” to St. Louis? Charlie Daniels: “Former K-SHE radio personality Shelly Grafman introduced St. Louis to the band at the K-SHE Kite Fly in 1974, and it has been a regular tour stop for us ever since.”

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Charlie Daniels: “Unfortunately, the most memorable is a bad one. We were playing Kiel Auditorium the night the Skynyrd plane crashed. We went on stage knowing that some of our friends had been killed, but we didn’t know which ones. It was a strange night.” Michael: How instrumental was St. Louis in building your career and your CDB brand? Charlie Daniels: “St. Louis was one of the first major markets to take the band to heart. K-SHE played our music, and the folks came to our shows.” Michael: How about that free “kite flyin’ contest” in the early 70s that you performed at in Forest Park? How did that impact your career?

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THE WAYWARD CRITIC Are You Ready to Cut the Cable? Story by Lance Tilford Photo Shutterstock

Yes, you’re considering cutting the cord. Nixing the cable. Killing the dish. You can get your movies on Netflix or Amazon or VUDU, your TV on Hulu Plus, and your cat videos on YouTube. And at long last you can watch HBO on any device, separate from the cable bundle. Your state-of-the-art, 60-inch, 4k, smart TV can now be used as an overpriced computer monitor. But not so fast. All this “cutting the cable” you’ve been reading about might just be a lot of hype — at least for now. It’s the trend, to be sure, but not as widespread as the ol’ Internet would have you believe. It’s been reported that approximately 83 percent of American households still subscribe to cable service. In St. Louis, the primary service providers are Charter, ATT U-verse, and, for satellite, Dish Network and DirecTV. The general complaint, outside of outages and customer service issues, is that you don’t want to pay for all those doggone channels you don’t watch – which is probably about 80 percent of what’s bundled. You want to cut the fat and are happy to pay for just what you want… or are you? So you call your provider tomorrow and cancel service. Hooray! You’re free from the tyranny of the big, bad bundle! Now what? Well, if you regularly watch network TV –ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox affiliate and PBS, for example – you’ll need to go out and get an 82 StreetScape Magazine

HD antenna (yep, just like the old reception antennas you used to scream about). A decent one will run you about $75. The good news is you don’t have to wait for the cable guy to install it. The bad news is you have to do it yourself, calculating the best angles for reception, placement and other technical considerations. Then you need to be sure you have top-tier broadband service (guess who you get that from?). You get it from Charter, AT&T... get the picture? And you need an excellent Wi-Fi router with up-to-date drivers (which you’ll need to keep up with). You might even want to test your Internet speed at different times of the day to determine when your neighborhood’s “choke time” is — probably during peak viewing and surfing hours. Remember, your watching is competing with your spouse’s Skyping, your daughter’s Facebook surfing, and your son’s Minecraft play. Just try booting them off so you can watch your must-see TV. Then, with all the right, up-to-date equipment and service in place, you will need to determine which of the vast and wonderful choices for viewing you want to have; there are as many apps and viewing portals as there are cable channels to surf. Start with the biggies: Netflix ($10 per month); Amazon Prime ($99 per year); Hulu Plus ($8 per month) – which still has commercials; or some-

thing like Sling TV ($20 per month) to get a bundled set of cable channels, like ESPN and Disney, with add-on bundles running about $5 per month. And if you need your Game of Thrones fix, you’ll pony up $15 per month for HBO Go.

Hulu Plus, and Fandor. Though – as the services evolve, consolidate and inevitably start charging more for less – I’ll be paring them back. We will see major changes in our digital options in the next couple of years.

Fill in those services with others like Google Play, Apple TV, Crackle, or Fandor (very eclectic, high-brow/low-brow and cult cinema), and pile on more subscriptions. You can get most of these services and many others through streaming portal boxes like Roku3 or Amazon’s sleek, new, Fire TV box ($99). They come with tons of apps, games and channels you’ll never watch. Is something sounding familiar?

Personally, I am holding on to my DVD and Blu-ray library; it’s carefully curated and represents an investment not just in me, but future generations who may not get to see pristine versions of my favorite movies. The Internet is not perfect — it goes DOWN. Cable’s not perfect — it goes OUT. And when the zombie apocalypse finally happens out in the real world, taking our digital smorgasbord with it, I’ll be watching my own classic, zombie apocalypse videos with nothing but a Blu-ray player and a treadmill to generate the electricity. It’ll keep me in running shape. ¤

Are you doing the math? Are you frowning, sweating — seething? Can you really sacrifice your viewing habits and TV lifestyle to become a part of a very slow revolution? Or will you wait and see what new conglomerations and Internet options are offered in the next year? One thing’s for sure: if Congress essentially kills current net neutrality protection and allows Internet service companies to charge different rates for greater speeds, you will be paying even more for that digital lifestyle. Right now, I’m a digital glutton; I pay for Charter Gold service with all premium channels and all HD options. I’m also the happy user of an Amazon Fire TV, which I’ve found provides the best streaming capabilities, with limited to no buffering issues; but then I also have the top-level, fastest, broadband package from Charter. I tend to DVR everything and watch later at night when Minecraft is asleep. I do subscribe to Amazon Prime, Netflix,

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StreetScape Book Picks Title: Rurals Rule: Molly’s Revenge Author: L. J. Launer About the Book: Blanchette High is a series of young adult novels created and written by L. J. Launer, a lifelong resident of St. Charles County. Rurals and Townies is the first novel in the series where Molly Warner, a member of the school’s varsity cheer squad, discovers that her best friend and team captain became a victim of foul play. Using her awareness of the school’s social structure, she combs through the students to find out who poisoned her best friend. The second novel, Rurals Rule: Molly’s Revenge, takes place fifteen months later. Molly writes a paper for her social studies class that criticizes proposed legislation before the Missouri House of Representatives that could close the high school. The bill is actually sponsored by her mother, a member of the House. Molly is forced to testify against her mother’s bill in order to save her high school. A third novel is scheduled to premiere in the fall of 2016. Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform - $19.95 Where to buy: Both novels are available at www.amazon.com, www.barnesandnoble.com and www.tower.com.

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Wearin’ of the Green for the Cottleville

St. Patrick's

Story by Linda Stroud

There’s nothing like St. Patrick’s Day to signal the promise of warmer weather and sunny days to come. It’s time to say goodbye to the dreary days and long, frigid nights of winter and celebrate the coming of spring. And the best way to celebrate by far will be on March 12, 2016, as the charming city of Cottleville pays homage to the luck of the Irish as thousands gather for the eighth annual St. Patrick’s Day Run and Parade. The festivities, which include the Green Tie Gala the Saturday prior, have quickly become a tradition for the city of Cottleville, as well as the surrounding area, with anticipation and participation growing every year. What started out as a simple idea to raise funds for local causes has turned into a three-part, annual event that is a labor of love for the men and women who donate their time and talent to make it all happen.

How it started and how it’s grown...

The idea for this wildly successful event started as a friendly conversation about ways to raise money for local charities and expand the Cottleville Fire Protection District’s community outreach efforts. Just six weeks out from St. Patrick’s Day 2008, Cottleville firefighter Tom Smoot, Mike Reiter (a local businessman who’d already done events in the area), and St. Louis policeman Matt McDonough (part owner of Sherlock’s in Cottleville - now Bemo’s Grill, discussed the possibility of a run and parade followed by a party at Sherlock’s. Somehow the three pulled it all together and had a remarkable 750 runners and 20,000 spectators show up for that first event. Tom Smoot said of that first year, “It was kind of a mess, but it worked… it worked. Luckily, the weather was beautiful, and people got a good taste of that; and they really enjoyed it.” As time has gone on, the event has received tremendous support from the Cottleville community – from both businesses and residents. And it has grown! By 2015, 4,000 runners signed up for the “Run for the Helmet” and over 70,000 were in attendance along the parade route later in the day. While it’s hard to gauge the number of spectators who will come out for the parade this year, as of Jan. 11, 5,000 runners had already registered for the 2016 run. Even in the early years, the growth was substantial, and it became clear that they needed to find a more efficient way of operating and having all of the entities involved fairly represented. So they organized, formed a board and executive committee, registered as a nonprofit, and the Cottleville St. Patrick’s Day Run And Parade Foundation, a 501(c)(3), was officially formed. Having a formal structure not only made managing the event easier, it created transparency for how funds were being used, which was important to everyone involved. 86 StreetScape Magazine

Everyone wanted it to be clear that all of the money that comes in goes right back out into the community. Of course, there are costs associated with putting on the event each year. The barricades, portable restroom facilities, and the police officers who oversee the safety and security of the public for the event are the primary expenses. But there are no administrative fees, as it’s an all-volunteer effort with everyone from the board on down donating their time to give back to the community.

Tim Schulte, chairman of the board for the St. Patrick’s Day Run and Parade Foundation and chairman of the Green Tie Gala committee, said the importance of creating transparency for how funds are managed couldn’t be stressed enough. Schulte commented, “A lot of people are confused… where does the money go? Who’s making the money? [They think] people are getting rich off this. There’s none of that. That’s one of the reasons we’ve got the 501(c)(3) in place. They’re very strict, and that brings higher quality and accountability to the foundation. That means a lot to sponsors, because they know it’s not just a free-for-all. You’re audited, you have a bookkeeper, and they look at your stuff, or they’ll take your status from you.” Honoring the generosity and protecting the faith of the sponsors has always been foremost in the minds of the organizers, which is part of why the decision was made in 2013 to add the Green Tie Gala. Adding the gala added another layer of complexity to the already heavy workload of the volunteers, but it was seen as a great opportunity to acknowledge the sponsors and build excitement and attention for the annual event. Held at the Old Hickory Golf Club in Cottleville the Saturday before the run and parade, the Green Tie Gala is the official kick-off that sets both the mood and momentum. That first year of the gala was also the year another tradition began as the foundation named its first Irishman of the year, Jim Hanifan, former head coach of the St. Louis (football) Cardinals. In 2015, they added to the list of honorees with Fireman of the Year and Policeman of the Year awards. And, as a clear sign of how well that simple idea back in 2008 led to the success of what we see today, the Irishman of the Year for 2016 is one of the event’s founding fathers, Mike Reiter.

Day Parade 2016 Although the organizers have experienced growing pains and a steep learning curve in handling all the details of hosting a major community event, they have persevered. They actively seek feedback from the local businesses and residents in order to make the run and parade better and more streamlined each year. The hope is that the good of the event and the mission of the Cottleville St. Patrick’s Day Run and Parade Foundation overrides any inconvenience it might create.

Without the support of the community and businesses, the St. Patrick’s Day Run and Parade Foundation’s ability to provide much-needed funding for projects wouldn’t be possible. Over the years, the foundation has contributed to causes such as BackStoppers, Legacy Park in Cottleville, and the Liberty Swing (which allows disabled individuals to experience the fun of swinging though confined to a wheelchair). St. Patrick’s Day Run and Parade Foundation also co-sponsors other events and considers lending its support to worthy causes that fit with its mission.

Changes to the festivities this year...

As the city strives to make this a positive celebration that surpasses expectations, organizers maintain an open dialogue and sensitivity to the concerns of residents. Feedback is greatly appreciated and even encouraged. Based on that feedback, some changes have been made for this year’s parade. First, the parade will follow a new, shorter route and has been scaled back with only half the number of floats they had last year participating this year. This year the parade will start at Weiss Road and Hwy. N, with Weiss Road closed to thru traffic starting at 11:30 a.m. There may be some people upset this year by the fewer number of floats allowed. Some regulars may not be able to get in this time, but a firm cutoff had to be made to improve the parade and the overall experience for everyone. The decision was made to address the concerns of residents who were inconvenienced by lengthy road closures, as well as parade goers who felt the three-hour timeframe of past parades was just too long. Also new this year… coolers containing alcohol will not be permitted. The intention has always been for this to be a fun, family-friendly event. The organizers don’t want to make

it a boring event, just one that everyone is able to enjoy. Parade goers will be happy to know that there will be more vendors along the parade route this year offering non-alcoholic beverages, beer and food to make sure a great time is had by all. Parade goers will also notice an increased police presence. While there’s never been a need for the police to do anything other than keep a watchful eye, as the crowds increase year to year, the event organizers want to give participants and attendees an added sense of security and ensure the safety of all in attendance. Finally, there will be more portable restroom facilities for spectators this year. After the run ends and all the floats are safely parked back at the staging area, the event coordinators and volunteers finally get to unwind, breathe and enjoy the rest of the successful day they created at the parties hosted by local restaurants. But there’s little time for rest, because Sunday means cleanup. And the cleanup is just as important to the St. Patrick’s Day Run and Parade Foundation as every other detail. Smoot said, “Volunteers get out here, and we clean and we clean and we clean. By 4:00 or 5:00 on Sunday, since we’ve been doing this, it doesn’t even look like anything happened. We pride ourselves on that, because we can’t leave the town destroyed.” When asked how people could help for this year’s run and parade, Schulte and Smoot both indicated that the need is always great for volunteers, especially for that daunting task of Sunday cleanup. While it may be too late to register for the run or parade at this point, you can still sign up to volunteer at: www.stpatparade.org/volunteers. Once the cleanup is complete and Cottleville’s St. Patrick’s Day Run and Parade becomes a memory, the focus will shift once again to the coming year and all that needs to be done to, again, make it even better than the year before. Aside from the changes based on feedback that make it more enjoyable for the community, the one thing that is always top priority is increasing the ability to help worthy local causes. And that requires sponsors. If you’re interested in becoming a sponsor for this great event, please go to: www.stpatparade.org/become_sponsor. ¤ March | April

Story by Kate Santellano

With spring comes lots of green – grass peeking

out from underneath the snow, leaves blooming from the trees. And, of course, St. Patrick’s Day marks the start of everything and anything green, from green rivers and painted roads, to green beer and eggs. Every year, on March 17, across the globe, the Irish and the Irish-at-heart observe St. Patrick’s Day. What began as a religious feast day for the patron saint of Ireland has become an international festival celebrating Irish culture with parades, dancing, special foods, and a whole lot of green. The best part of St. Patrick’s Day is that it is a perfect holiday for the whole family to enjoy. Kids enjoy wearing green and pinching friends who forget. Adults tint their beer green and serve up delicious cocktails made with Irish whiskey. We have some clever party ideas to get everyone as excited as a leprechaun dancing in a pot of gold. Classic Irish food is associated with hardy fare such as corned beef, cabbage, soda bread, and potatoes. While these foods are bland by nature, there are lots of Irish-inspired recipes and food ideas that are delicious and full of flavor. Stews are a one-pot meal that take the stress out of preparing complicated dishes. They are perfect to make the day before a party and are also great to take to a potluck dinner, leaving you plenty of time to enjoy your party.

Next, add the onion and carrots to the beef and let cook for 2 minutes. Then, stir in the water. Cover the pot and bring to a boil. Once the stew is boiling, turn the heat down to low. Simmer for about 1 hour or until your meat is tender. Next, stir in potatoes and let simmer for 15 to 20 minutes. After the potatoes have simmered, add in the leeks and rosemary and let simmer for an additional 15-20 minutes or until the potatoes are tender. Season with fresh cracked pepper and serve.

You don't need the luck of the Irish – to create an amazing St. Patrick’s Day cocktail. Instead, setup a bar worthy of an Irishman to create a variety of traditional spirits. Irish Coffee

Irish Beef Stew 1 tablespoon olive oil 2 pound beef shoulder, cut into 1 1/2-inch pieces ½ teaspoon salt ½ teaspoon freshly ground black pepper 1 large onion, sliced 2 carrots, peeled and cut into chunks 4 cups water (you may need more) 3 large potatoes, peeled and quartered 1 tablespoon chopped fresh rosemary 1 cup chopped leeks In a large pot or Dutch oven, start by heating the olive oil over medium heat. Once the oil is heated, add in the beef pieces and cook until evenly browned. Season with salt and pepper. 88 StreetScape Magazine

1 (1.5 oz.) jigger Irish cream liqueur 1 (1.5 oz.) jigger Irish whiskey 1 cup hot brewed coffee 1 tablespoon whipped cream 1 dash ground nutmeg

In a coffee mug, combine Irish cream and Irish whiskey. Fill mug with coffee. Top with a dab of whipped cream and a dash of nutmeg.

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SPRING ENTERTAINING as Ide

Story by Kate Santellano

Now that spring is officially here, there are so many things to look forward to that accompany the warmer weather and flowering blossoms. Hearing the birds chirp, watching the kids play outside, outdoor entertaining, and filling your house with glorious blooms are all signs spring has sprung. Yes, it is finally time to open the windows and let the light spring breeze fill your house. We have gathered our favorite spring ideas and tips to make sure your spring is fun, fresh and worry free.

Strawberry-Rose Cupcakes

1 cup butter, at room temperature 11⁄4 cups sugar 3 large eggs 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 3 ⁄4 cup buttermilk 21⁄2 cups flour 3 ⁄4 teaspoon baking powder 1 ⁄4 teaspoon baking soda 1 ⁄4 teaspoon salt 1 ⁄3 cup strawberry jam 11⁄2 to 2 teaspoons rose water*

Preheat oven to 325°. Line 16 muffin cups with liners. With a stand mixer, beat butter and sugar until creamy. Add eggs, vanilla, and buttermilk; beat until well blended. In a bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. Gradually beat into butter mixture until well blended. Outdoor entertaining is a welcome change to the months spent hunkered down inside waiting for the weather to change. When entertaining during the unpredictable spring months, your supplies, atmosphere and food can make or break the experience. By taking time to think through all of the possible contingencies and including must-have items in your event, you won’t have to stress about a rained-out party. Investing in quality, attractive dishes and acrylic wine glasses that work well indoors and out, will allow you to quickly and safely move the party inside. We like Crate and Barrel acrylic wine glasses and Williams-Sonoma rustic, melamine dinner plates. Your guests will never know they are shatterproof! Daffodils, soft lavender hydrangeas and tulips scream “Springtime!” and are among our favorites for their dainty flowers and sustainability. When properly cared for, these blooms will last more than a week. Continue the color scheme with your place settings and party favors for the perfect spring tablescape. Explore menu items that evoke the beautiful sights of the season, such as this delicious strawberry jam and rose cupcake. Strawberry jam and rose water are baked directly into the vanilla cupcakes to infuse delicate, fragrant flavor into these party-ready cakes. Garnish with fresh rose petals in the colors of your party.

In a small bowl, whisk together jam and rose water to taste. Spread 2 heaping tablespoons of batter in each liner. Top with 1 teaspoon of jam mixture, then another 2 heaping tablespoons of batter, carefully spreading it to cover jam. Bake cupcakes 25 to 27 minutes or until a toothpick inserted toward the edge comes out clean. Let cool in pans 5 minutes, then transfer to racks to cool completely. Spread with frosting and decorate with rose petals. *Find with cocktail or baking supplies.

Cream Cheese-Rose Frosting

4 ounces cream cheese, at room temperature 1 ⁄4 cup butter, at room temperature 11⁄2 to 2 teaspoons rose water 1 ⁄4 teaspoon vanilla extract 21⁄2 cups powdered sugar

In a bowl with a mixer, beat cream cheese, butter, rose water, vanilla, and powdered sugar until smooth.

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Summer Camps Story by Kate Santellano

It may be hard to believe that summer is almost here, but that is the reality. And with summer comes the daunting task of selecting camps for your kids to attend. But summer camps are not just for kids! In fact, there are an estimated 800 summer camps for adults in the U.S. offering something for all ages and activity levels. That’s right. Adult summer camps are becoming more popular, featuring everything from winemaking to wakeboarding. Listed below are some of the most popular ones.

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Hermann Wine Trail

Float the Green River

Join “National Parks Traveler” on a fully-guided float through Dinosaur National Monument. This trip will span four days floating the Green River through the Gates of Lodore and down through Monument in northwestern Colorado and northeastern Utah. For more information: Holiday River Expeditions • www.bikeraft.com June 18-21, 2016

Club Getaway

Think air conditioning, private bathrooms and daily housekeeping. Located in beautiful Kent, Connecticut, guests are surrounded by a sparkling lake that makes the perfect water playground. If dry land is more your thing, join a pickup game or take a tennis or golf lesson. For the more adventurous, rock climbing, zip lines and challenge courses are among the myriad of activities offered. All lodging, meals, wine with dinner, and nightly entertainment – as well as all sports and activities with pro instruction and sports equipment – are included in the price at this year-round club. For more information: Club Getaway • www.clubgetaway.com

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Winding through some of the prettiest scenery in the state, the Hermann Wine Trail meanders for 20 scenic miles along the Missouri River between Hermann and New Haven. Seven familyowned wineries make up the trail, each offering a different wine and food sampling to participants five times a year, with each one having a different theme. You set your own pace for this event. Several local B&Bs are available for those making it a weekend trip. Tickets are $30 (must be purchased in advance) and include a wine glass, along with wine and food sampling at each winery. Upon completion of the trail, drop your ticket in for a chance to win an overnight stay at a local B&B and a $30 gift certificate from each winery. For more information: Hermann Wine Trail • www.hermannwinetrail.com February, May, July, November, December

North House Folk School

Strap up your boots and get ready for hands-on coursework. North House Folk School features programs throughout the year ranging from blacksmithing to basket-weaving to boat building. If you want to roll up your sleeves and keep busy, this is the camp for you. This one-of-a-kind camp is located in Grand Marais, Minnesota. For more information: North House Folk School • www.northhouse.org

Camp Grounded

“Wherever you go is exactly where you are supposed to be” is the motto at Camp Grounded. Campers trade in digital devices for four days of pure, unadulterated, off-the-grid camp fun. With over 25 unique play shops to choose from, including laughter yoga,

meditation, archery, hip hop dance, swimming, nature hikes, and superfood truffle making, it’s no wonder CNN said it is one of the “best places to unplug.” Camps are offered in Northern California, North Carolina, New York and Texas. For more information: Camp Grounded • www.campgrounded.org

Camp No Counselors Chicago

Camp No Counselors is an all-inclusive, sleepaway camp for grown-ups. Located on the shores of South Twin Lake near Eagle River, Wisconsin, guests can unwind and escape from rush hour gridlock. For three nights, campers can enjoy a multitude of land and water sports, arts and crafts activities, epic nightly theme parties, an open bar, gourmet meals and, of course, classic camp activities you remember doing as a kid. For more information: Camp No Counselors www.campnocounselors.com June 9, 2016

Kitchen Conservatory

Kitchen Conservatory offers a wide variety of cooking classes, both participation and demonstration. Classes range from the basics of cooking to French cuisine. Custom cooking classes offer groups a fabulous three- or four-course dinner that is sure to be memorable. You and the Kitchen Conservatory chef create the menu especially for you and your guests, making it truly a one-of-a-kind experience. Located in Clayton, Missouri. For more information: Kitchen Conservatory www.kitchenconservatory.com

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Life isn’t about being lucky - You have to make your own luck!

Story by Jenny Beilsmith, Life Coach

Some people seem to have all the luck! They’re always at the right place at the right time. They’re blessed with a charmed life, enough money, great relationships, and fulfilling careers. We all probably know some people like this in our lives. Have you ever wondered what makes one person luckier than another? The power of luck is much more than finding four-leaf clovers, making wishes, picking up lucky pennies, or knocking on wood. Lucky people know that life’s about making their own luck.

Psychologist Richard Wiseman conducted a 10-year study on the nature of luck. He surveyed participants to find out if they considered themselves lucky or unlucky. What he found was that, “Unlucky people miss chance opportunities because they are too busy looking for something else. Lucky people see what is there rather than just what they’re looking for.” The results showed that people can make their own fortune and that it’s possible to enhance the amount of luck people encounter in their lives. Are You Ready to Be Luckier? Here are seven strategies to help you take your luck to the next level:

Trust Yourself

Lucky people have an inner strength that guides them to achieve. They have positive expectations and believe that good will happen to them. By believing they are luckier, they instantly become luckier. They also have a strong intuition or gut instinct that helps them to simply know when a decision is right. In contrast, unlucky people often ignore their intuition and view their poor decisions as another reason they always fail. Lucky people trust themselves, and these decisions pay off time after time.

Get Connected

Be active in the community, network to meet new people, and be willing to help others. Lucky people have great connections, which increases their odds of finding what they need or want. They are active givers and believe in the saying, “What goes around comes around.” They generously give of their time and talents, believing that others will help them if ever needed. Relationships are important to them, and they nurture and value these connections. Lucky people take more chances, make smart choices, and show up more often than others. They are always moving forward, even if they aren’t sure of where they are going to end up. They aren’t afraid to ask for what they want because they realize that, until they ask, no one knows what they need or have to offer. Taking continual action is how they create this luck.

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Be Courageous

Go outside of your comfort zone, and face your fears. It’s not always easy, but nothing new can come into your life if you don’t push yourself. And besides, you never know what amazing things can happen. Lucky people are open to learning and growing. They are adventurous, try new things, and seek out mentors who will help them grow. Failure to them is perceived as a growth opportunity. Everything in their life can be seen as a lesson – either learning from it or experiencing success. It’s time to get out of your own way, try something new, and create your own luck.

Reinvent How You Do Things

Lucky people mix things up and think outside of the box. If something isn’t working, they search for a different solution and do things differently. They realize that success isn’t a straight path, but a curvy path filled with lots of hills, valleys and turns. A resilient attitude helps them turn bad situations into good. They keep pushing, going down the path, and eventually they reach the end goal.

Be Open to Opportunities

Get curious, look around, and see what’s really going on in your surroundings. Sometimes we are so busy and focused on what we want that we miss what’s right in front of us. Lucky people know that opportunity is always present. If your mind is closed, you’re not going to spot an opportunity. Stay relaxed and open. Take time to notice what’s going on, and then take every opportunity that will allow you to grow yourself or your skillset.

Have a Positive Outlook

Attitude is a must if you want to become a luckier person. Our minds are a powerful tool to attract what we want. Positive thinking is much more than having an upbeat personality or being happy. It’s about having an open mind filled with possibilities, expecting good outcomes and circumstances. Our thoughts really do create our reality. Negative thoughts attract negative experiences. If we think positive thoughts, then positive experiences and people will come into our lives. It’s not enough, however, to think positive thoughts just once or twice a day. We have to engage in this thinking all day long. Positive thinking is like a muscle that we continually build over time. The key is that when negative thoughts come up, we have to replace the negative thoughts immediately with positive ones. For example, our thought might be, “It never works for me; I’m not

lucky,” which can be reframed to, “I’m so grateful and lucky.” It’s not easy, but with awareness and persistence, you will eventually teach your mind to shift to the positive and ignore the negative. Being lucky is truly a choice. Our thoughts and behaviors affect our lives and our experiences of feeling lucky or unlucky. People who are lucky work hard at it. Try these strategies to create your own good fortune. In the meantime, I guess it doesn’t hurt to look for a four-leaf clover or to make a wish on a star once in a while. Wishing you luck! Jenny Beilsmith, M.S.Ed, is a Life and Business Coach at The Prosperous Path. She empowers her clients to reach their goals and experience fulfillment in their lives. Jenny works with clients in one-on-one sessions, leads coaching groups, and speaks to audiences on motivational topics. For more information call 314-324-5366, visit http://theprosperouspath.com or email Jenny@TheProsperousPath.com. ¤

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Abigail’s Apparel – facebook.com/abigailsapparelstcharles – pg 59

Lindenwood University – lindenwood.edu – pg 19

April’s on Main – aprilsonmain.com – pg 41

Lloyd & Company – lloydcpa.com – pg 11

Beautiful Rooms – BeautifulRoomsdesign.com – pg 46

LSL Pilates & Yoga – lslpilatesandyoga.com – pg 27

Belleza Salon – bellezabridalandhairsalon.com – pg 63

Meramec Bison Company – meramecbison.com – pg 79

Butterfly & Moon – butterflyandmoon.com – pg 61

Mercy Hospital – mercy.net/StreetScape – pg 29

Carpet Creations – carpetcreationsstl.com – pg 47

Mosby Building Arts – mosbybuildingarts.com – pg 21

Carries Boutique – carriesboutique.com – pg 9

Mosby Exteriors – exteriorsbymosby.com – pg 43

CenterPointe Hospital – centerpointehospital.com – pg 25

MOss Boutique – mossboutique.com – pg 48

Classic Signs – classicsignsmo.com – pg 91

Omas Barn – facebook.com/omasbarnHG – pg 41

Coldwell Banker-Cheri Norton – cherinorton.com – pg 45

Pickleman’s Gourmet Deli – picklemans.com – pg 77

Commerce Bank – commercebank.com – pg 9

Presidential Limousines – prezlimos.com – pg 69

Karen Garcia – conquercanceronyourownterms.com – pg 21

Q and Brew at Wentzville Days – wentzvillegandbrew.com – pg 79

Cool Touch Graphics – cooltouchstl.com – pg 37

Quintessential Catering – qcater.com – pg 69

Decorating Den Interiors – swatdesignteam.com – pg 41

Riviera Too – rivtoowine.com – pg 75

Exclusive Events, Inc. – exclusiveeventsinc.com – pg 61

RLK & Associates – promo-madness.com – pg 91

Floors to Go – ofallon.floorstogo.com – pg 47

Saint Charles City County Library – stchlibraryfoundation.org – pg 97

Fox Theatre – fabulousfox.com – pg 73

Saint Charles CVB – historicstcharles.com – pg 7

Framations – framations.com – pg 5

Schlueter Photography – schlueterphoto.com – pg 39

Fratellis Restaurant – fratellisristorante.com – pg 72

Spiro’s Restaurant – spirosrestaurant.com – pg 47

Ginghams Restaurant – ginghamsrestaurant.com – pg 82

State Farm-Strickland/Swift – jeffstrickland.com, www.emilyswift.com – pg 13

Grand Opera House – ohbanquets.com – pg 69

Streets of St Charles – thestreetsofstcharles.com – pg 5

Harvestowne Auto Body – harvestowneautobody.com – pg 30

String Along With Me – stringalongwithme.net – pg 49

Hollywood Blonde Salon – hollywoodblondesalon.com – pg 49

Studio 1 Salon – studio1hd.com – pg 9

Integrity Mortgage – integritymortgagemo.com – pg 46

The Dens on Third – thedensonthird.com – pg 21

J Scheidegger – luboxoffice.com – pg 2

The Frahm Law Firm – frahmlaw.com – pg 20

Kare Chiropractor – karechiropractic.com – pg 25

The Viper – viperrocks.com – pg 93

KFAV – kfavradio.com – pg 72

Thros and Michelles – throsandmichelles.com – pg 49

L’dara – VeronicaG.ldara.com – pg 9

Walters Jewelry – waltersjewelryinc.com – pg 59

La Chata Mexican Restaurant – lachatamexicancuisine.com – pg 77

Woods Basement Systems – woodsbasementsystems.com – pg 45

Leopard Boutique – leopardboutique.com – pg 49

Zander’s Jewelry – zandersjewelry.com – pg 93

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