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hen my life was off track and spiraling downward, they believed in me and never stopped loving me. Since the birth of T2T Magazine, they have been my biggest fans. Recently my mother had a mild stroke. When I got the call, the first thing that went through my mind was that she has got to be here to see my vision come to fruition. I understand that she won’t be around forever. If you read this message in this awesome publication, Una Mae Smith is the drive behind me and the reason that I rise in the morning to make sure that I complete what I set out to do. I would like to wish mothers around the world a Happy

FROM THE EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

PUBLISHER’S AND EDITOR-IN-CHIEF’S NOTES

Thank God for my mother, Una Mae Smith and for my Grandmother, Alma Walker Mother’s Day and if you are without yours, I would unselfishly share my mother with you; she has a huge heart. I would also like to give a special thanks to Ms. Jo Ann Davis for being the spiritual angel behind me; words are not enough and I thank you so much. To my Editor-in-Chief, you have come through and made my passion your passion; thank you with all of my heart. Happy Mother’s Day and God Bless

Willie Stewart

God’s Timing and His Universe

n the past year, I have met and interviewed people that I never dreamed of talking with. It began with my accidental meeting with President Obama the day before he was elected. Several months later I wrote about my meeting with him and it was the very first story that I submitted to Trendsetters to Trendsetters Magazine (May/June 2009) as a contributing writer, entitled The Day I Met History. I thought it was a chance meeting, but it wasn’t. I realize now that God’s universe was preparing me for my season and purpose. Mo’Nique speaks about the universe in my interview with her in this issue. She also realizes that it’s about obedience and purpose. God had actually been preparing me for many years for just such a time as now. My background is in social work and during my 25 year career, I interviewed hundreds and hundreds of clients. Overall, it was very fulfilling work. However, there were many times that I was tired, burnt out and

frustrated. I was there to provide a service and fill a need for the person sitting in front of me, however, I believe that God was also honing my skills, building patience, endurance and creating a vessel that would later be filled with a spirit of obedience and compassion. He had some work do in me because I wasn’t always so cooperative! Let’s be honest, being obedient doesn’t always feel good and being patient is very hard. I began to stop praying to God for patience because I realized that in order to make me more patient, I would have to be tested and I didn’t want anymore tests. My tests didn’t stop, however, and I continue, even now, to learn about patience and His timing. It still doesn’t always feel comfortable, but I’m learning to truly trust in God’s timing in my life and the lives of my family. It was God’s plan all along to bring me to this place, my season. I simply wasn’t ready before. My vision for my life was never as big or as glorious as God’s vision for me. Whatever good, bad and ugly that I’ve been through up to now has all been to mold and shape me into who God wants me to be. When He says it’s time, it really will be. Be wonderfully blessed! Ava Simone Collier TRENDSETTERS TO TRENDSETTERS | MAY/JUNE 2010

TRENDSETTERS TO TRENDSETTERS STAFF Willie Stewart / Canton, OH CEO / PUBLISHER Ava Simone Collier / Orlando, FL EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Stan Brown / Tampa, FL OPERATIONS MANAGER Jeff Tharp / Atlanta. GA SALES MANAGER Derek Payne / Columbus, OH DPI Graphic Design CREATIVE ART DIRECTOR & WEB DESIGNER Erica Parks / Columbus, OH DIR. INTERNET MARKETING / PROMOTIONS (FACEBOOK, TWITTER, MYSPACE) Leslie Dowd / Columbus, OH Benita January / Lake Charles, LA Carla Daniels / Columbus, OH EDITORS Mark Hampton /Columbus, OH Mechelle Bowser / Atlanta, GA Theresa Johnson / Columbus, OH Dr. Leslie Ashlock / Atlanta, GA John E. Johnson / Canton, OH Gigi McCrary /Columbus, OH Camela Douglass / Dayton, OH Stacy Lattisaw / Washington, DC Chiquandra C. Cross / Houston, TX Richard Thompson / Akron, OH Jacques Miles / Ecuador, S. America Teri Miller Barker / Dayton, OH Tracy Washington / Akron, OH Corbin Cook / Atlanta, GA Lionel Locke / Augusta, GA Angela Thomas / Miami, FL Dr. Linda Amerson / Arlington, TX Barbara Campbell / San Antonio, TX Dr. Dorothy Flake / Houston, TX Tracy Hill-Ashley / Ft. Worth, TX CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

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Publishers Notes Up and Coming Trendsetters Educational Trends Health and Fitness Trends Commentary Business Trends Financial Trends Global Trends Inspirational Trends Beauty and Fashion Trends Event Trends Arts and Entertainment Trends Real Estate Trends Auto Trends Chef Gason

Who’s Who in Black Atlanta

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Female Powerhouse in America Activating Your Life Mixing Love and Business The Startini Report

on the cover

Mo’Nique and Debra Lee, females in the spotlight and this month’s T2T’s featured trendsetters.

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In Rhythm with Ava Collier…

ormerly headed by Founder and CEO, Robert L. Johnson, Black Entertainment Television (BET), is an instantly recognizable icon in urban communities. In 2005, Debra Lee was appointed as the new CEO and Chairman of BET. Ms. Lee is a Greensboro, NC native and a Harvard educated attorney. She began her illustrious career at BET as Executive Vice President and General Counsel of BET’s Legal Affairs Department and eventually became President and Chief Operating Officer. Since taking the reign as CEO, Ms. Lee has made significant changes in the format direction for the network. I recently had the distinct pleasure of speaking with Ms. Lee. Ava: Did you ever imagine that you would be the CEO of BET? Ms. Lee: When I was a college student, I was more focused on becoming an attorney. Cable didn’t exist at that time and I also was passionate about working in Washington in the political

grow the audience . In TV it’s all about ratings, it’s not an exact science and you take a chance when you spend a lot of money on programming and you have to pray that it works and the audience is excited about it and comes back to watch the shows week after week. Our ratings are terrific, double digit growth. In 2009 we had our best year in our 29 year history. That is very rewarding. We’ve just launched the Centric Network, which targets at a little older audience demographic. Centric is doing really well. We have the Soul Train Awards with over four million viewers. We’re able to do a lot more for the more mature African American audience on Centric. We have BET.com, which has a lot of bandwidth and the ability to get more news and information. With those platforms, and with our international BET service launched in the U.K., Africa and Middle East, we are able to provide programming to different cultures and we’re very excited about that. Our audience does set the trends.

Debra Lee on BET arena. That’s where I thought I’d end up. After moving to Washington, Ronald Regan won as president and I didn’t want to go into a Republican administration. I went to a law firm and hid out until the democrats came back. In the meantime, BET was a client. About 24 years ago, Bob Johnson asked me to come over and become the first in-house general counsel. Even at that time, I didn’t think about being CEO…it was Bob’s company and he was the founder. We had a good group of young executives and working really hard to build the company and focus on our independent departments. As general counsel, I was involved with most of the deals with the company. At a certain point, Bob asked me to take over as COO. That was the first time that I knew it was a possibility. Many people assumed that I would be his successor even before it was clear when he’d leave. I realized that I enjoyed doing the business side of things and managing people, which is the major component of my business now. Ava: What types of challenges have you had to face since becoming CEO and what are some of your goals and visions for BET’s future? Ms. Lee: I guess the first challenge was making the transition from general council to COO and focusing more on management skills and learning the different areas that I had not been involved in, such as programming and advertising. There are a lot of areas of the company that I hadn’t focused on and there was a learning curve. After Bob left, my goal and challenge was to change BET into a company known for great content. BET had always been known as a great company and business. I was fortunate to take over a very successful business. But as I looked at the future of media and saw new platforms and international markets and internet growth, I knew BET would have to create more original content to be a success. We were doing mostly syndicated programming and music videos. The cost of programming increased and the challenge has been how to invest more in programming and, at the same time, keep and 6

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Ava: BET is a source of entertainment and news for many African Americans and urbanites. Are our needs and interests different from other communities? Ms. Lee: I think as African Americans our needs are very important and I think that’s a lot of the reason BET has been successful over the years because we bring a different prospective to news, programming and information. I’m not saying that the African American prospective is the same in every community. We surveyed over 80,000 African Americans and consumers. This study shows that it is really important for BET to do research and understand our community fully. This will allow us to program to our audience. BET is lucky to have the platform and resources to understand the cultural nuances and characteristics of the African American community. We are a leader in educating advertisers on how to reach our audiences. We do focus groups and research before we put programming on the air. We try to stay in touch with our audience. It’s really satisfying to me when things like Katrina or Haiti happen and we can bring that information to our audience in a special way, whether it’s 9/11 or President Obama’s campaign and victory, our audience turns to BET first and we’re proud to serve that role for our audience. It is a community that the mass media doesn’t always focus on. Ava: How do you recharge your energy with such a demanding job and what would you recommend to young people who aspire to be successful? Ms. Lee: I spend time with my children. My daughter is about to start college and we’ll be going on a college tour. I love spas and reading. I play a little bit of tennis, but probably not enough to mention. I like bike riding and I love to collect glass art. You have to find something that you’re passionate about. Get a great education. I think our President and First Lady are such great examples of that. Once you find it, work hard and do your best. It’s important to find something that you really love. I was lucky because I felt that way about BET from day one. ■ www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

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IN MEMORY

Civil Rights TRENDSETTERS By Ava Simone Collier

Dr. Benjamin Hooks Dr. Dorothy Height

January 31, 1925 – April 15, 2010

TRENDSETTER SALUTE

r. Benjamin Hooks served as the Executive Director of the NAACP from 1977-1992. Dr. Hooks, born in Memphis, Tennessee, was a Baptist minister and practicing attorney. During his college years he became more aware that he was one of a large number of Americans who were required to use segregated lunch counters, water fountains, and restrooms. He later told U.S. News & World Report, “I wish I could tell you every time I was on the highway and couldn’t use a restroom. My bladder is messed up because of that. My stomach is messed up from eating cold sandwiches.” By 1949 Dr. Hooks had earned a local reputation as one of the few black lawyers in Memphis. Along with Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., he joined the Southern Christian Leadership Conference. At that time it was known as Southern Negro Leaders Conference on Transportation and Nonviolent Integration. He was also involved in restaurant sit-ins and various boycotts in a movement for integration. Dr. Hooks did not believe in the use of violence in obtaining civil rights. He felt that violence was self-defeating and believed that education and studying were more productive. He and his wife, Frances, were married for more than 50 years. Dr. Hooks was 85 years old when he died. ■

March 24, 1912 – April 20, 2010

ducator and Activist, Dr. Dorothy Height was the president of the National Council of Negro Women for forty years. Born in Richmond, Virginia, she and her family later moved to Pennsylvania. After being admitted to Barnard College in 1929, she was denied entrance because the school had an unwritten policy of allowing only two black students per year. The school had met its quota. She attended New York University where she earned her master’s degree in educational psychology. A caseworker for the New York City Welfare Department, she started her civil rights career at age 45. She was named president of the National Council of Negro Women in 1957 until 1997. Dr. Height first joined the civil rights movement as a teenager, marching in New York's Times Square against lynching. In 1963, she was the only woman on the speaker's platform when Dr. King delivered his "I Have a Dream" speech at the Lincoln Memorial. She once said, “ I want to be remembered as someone who used herself and anything she could touch to work for justice and freedom.... I want to be remembered as one who tried.” Dr. Height was 98 years old at the time of her death. ■

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Mia & Megan A Talented Twin Duo

Lake Charles, LA

UP AND COMING TRENDSETTERS

ia and Megan are 15 years old twins and they have been training and performing for approximately nine years. Their training started in their hometown of Houston, Texas at a local magnet music school. They chose to play the violin at a very young age. The twins both won the award for most Outstanding Student in their first semester of playing in the orchestra. This was the first time this award had been presented to two siblings. They pursued an avenue for more education in music/strings training. They found a great tutor and mentor at Texas Southern University, under the direction of Anne Lundy. The twins continue their training with Prof. Lundy at TSU each summer. Due to circumstances beyond their control, the twins relocated to Louisiana. Now attending high school, the girls would love to finish school at home at the HSPVA in Houston, Texas to pursue a music scholarship. The twins’ musical range is classical, gospel, R&B and Jazz; this includes music theory, composition, improvisation and reading and writing of music. They aspire to continue their education to further develop their musical talents. Mia and Megan are also involved in local community service with homeless and women shelters as well as at nursing homes. Since moving to Louisiana, they have received tutoring from and performed for some jazz and gospel greats such as Mr. Chester Daigle and Mr. Gervis Guidry, to mention a few. They have also had the opportunity to audition and were accepted into the Youth Orchestra at McNeese State University under the direction of Dr. Michael Buckles. The twins have won awards for honorable mention from the McNeese State University Youth Orchestra. Since that time, the twins have decided to pursue another avenue of tutoring/

training and they now attend the LCB Academy under the direction of Mrs. J. English and Dr. Buckles. Mia and Megan have also had the pleasure of performing on stage with Mr. Michael Ward (famous jazz violinist) and Mr. Kyle Turner. The twins have also performed at the Strand in Shreveport, Louisiana with the School of Music in the Yazzy (Youth Celebrating Jazz) 2009 Concert - Showtime at the Apollo. Mia and Megan have been on stage with such greats as Mr. Dorsey Summerfield and Mr. Devin Phillips. They have performed in the production of the musical Oklahoma. They have also had the opportunity to be featured in a Christmas production with their high school choir under the direction of Mr. C. Miller. The twins had their first CD produced at age 14. They recorded under the name of Harmony and the CD was entitled Just a Groove. To find out more about these talented teens please email: Sashakey@aol.com

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Atlanta, GA

Solid Foundation Scholastic Program, Inc.

EDUCATIONAL TRENDS

hildren and all others born into this world are from God and are here to earn and help others to earn exaltation. This is our common task—to help each other follow the example of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and to become more like him. When parents catch the vision that the soul was given to them by the Lord so that they can lead and guide him/her to achieve the very best that they possibly can, then parents will understand that they have not been cheated. If someone has a child that learns differently or has a mild, moderate, or severe learning disability, then parents have a special opportunity to grow through love and service and to help their child help others grow in the same way. Sometimes when parents first learn that their child has a learning difference or learning disability, they feel betrayed or cheated. This perspective, though understandable, is not God’s perspective. The scriptures teach, “For the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.” (I Samuel 16:7) Research indicates that parental reaction to the diagnosis of a learning difference/disability is more pronounced than in any other area of exceptionality. The pre-school development of the learning differenced/ disabilities child is often uneventful and the parent may not suspect that a problem exists. When informed of the problem by school personnel, the parent’s first reaction is generally to deny the existence of a learning difference or disability. This denial is, of course, unproductive. Research also indicates that parents go through a series of emotions before truly accepting the child and his/her problem. These “stages” are totally unpredictable. A parent may move from stage-to-stage in random. Some parents skip over stages while others remain in one stage for an extended period. These stages are as follows:

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By Dr. Leslie Ashlock

DENIAL: “There is nothing wrong with my child. He’ll grow out of it!” BLAME: “It’s not from my side of the family.” FEAR: “I wonder if they are telling me the real problem or is it worse.” ENVY: “None of my other children are like this.” MOURNING: “She could’ve been such a success if not for her learning proble m.” BARGAINING: “It’s probably the teacher. need to change schools.”

ANGER: “The teachers don’t know anything! I hate this school.” GUILT: “I shouldn’t have used cloth diapers like my mother said.” ISOLATION: “Nobody else knows or cares about my child.” FLIGHT: “Let’s try this new therapy—I heard Dr. Phil say it would work. “We are going from clinic to clinic until somebody tells me what I want to hear!” The pattern of these reactions is totally unpredictable. It is important for families to recognize differences and make sure their child is in the best suitable environment. For more information or to find out if Solid Foundation is a suitable environment for your c hi l d , please vi s i t o ur w ebs i te at www.solidfoundationinc.net or call 770-469-3211.

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African American

Leadership Crisis By Mark S. Hampton

D EDUCATIONAL TRENDS

o African Americans have a leadership crisis? Some would say no. We have America’s first African American president so how could we have a leadership crisis? Mr. Incredible said, “We’re super heroes, what could go wrong?” just before the Feds ended his career. I know this is real life and not a Pixar film, but I believe we have a significant leadership problem. I believe it will get worse if we don’t take immediate strategic action to develop new African American leaders who are properly calibrated against the context of history. One of the challenges we face with

extreme disconnect many young African Americans have with the people and journey that produced them. They have much content but little context. If these future leaders are not thoroughly engaged, we will have a new generation of African American leaders who will not know the importance and responsibility of being an African American leader. Why? Because they will not be properly calibrated against the context of history. This will make it extremely difficult for them to connect the dots for the purpose, position, and power of their leadership. Okay, so the question is how did we get here?

“This crisis was created by the inability of historic leaders to migrate in thinking with this new generation.” our new president is our ability to accept that although he is African American, he is first America’s president. We must be patient with our president and allow him to tackle campaign promises in his first term as most presidents do. In President Obama’s second term he will look more like the African American President we’ve all been anticipating; he simply needs time. As we continue our focus on the African Leadership crisis, it’s important we realize that many of our great leaders are COLUMBUS, OH now senior citizens. This means sooner than later their voices will need to be replaced with leaders who possess the historical content with present day context and tomorrow’s concepts. As I train African Leaders nationally, I see the

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This crisis was created by the inability of historic leaders to migrate in thinking with this new generation. Not migrate for the purpose of assimilation into their thinking, but for the purpose of calibrating their thinking. Am I saying our leaders failed to pass the torch? No, they simply and understandably were consumed in the work. So what do we do about this crisis? We must first realize the crisis is real and urgent! I believe we have approximately five to ten years to develop these leaders. In future articles, I’ll provide strategies to get these new leaders ready. I’ll keep writing, you keep reading and together we’ll be trendsetters. ■ Mark S. Hampton President FTL Leadership Group

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The Pain Is Because of My Abuse;

By Theresa Johnson

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EDUCATIONAL TRENDS

Now I’m an Abuser Because of the Pain

ll my life I have been called a loser, dumb, stupid and told I would be no good, like my father. I never knew my father, but I hated him for making me in his image. My mother, while drinking, would look at me with hate in her eyes and wish I was never born or that my father had taken me with him. She would call me a bastard followed by a slap or a kick. I learned not to cry and take it like a man. I would hear her talk about how abusive my father was and how he was in and out of jail. My grandmother would say, “Your bad tail son is going to be just like him.” Their thoughts, words, and actions gave me deep pain and a lot of anger. It didn't take much for their trigger words to send me into rages at school as the most feared bully. Once I beat up a boy just because he talked about his father. He said, “I'm going to be just like my dad,” so I hit him and kept hitting him. My mother married a man who disliked and beat me as much as she did, so I ran away. I joined a gang, became the leader and terrorized the neighborhood. I sold drugs and had a few prostitutes. I would beat them badly if they didn't have my money. My life of crime became my only reason for living so my actions could ease my pain. We would stake out houses with a mother and father so we could steal and I could beat the fathers within an inch of their lives. During one of the invasions, the father said to me, “Son, why are you doing this? If you get caught, it could ruin your life and take away your freedom.” I killed him just because he called me “son.” I met a woman I wanted and beat her into submission and she stayed out of fear, but I could see the same anger that was in my mother’s eyes was now in her eyes. I received 25 years to life at the age of 26 and went to jail like my father had predicted. My lady came to visit me just once to tell me she was carrying my son. Her words were “The bastard will probably be just like you.” Abusers create abusers. You can stop the cycle of abuse! You may not be able to pick your family, but you can control how you treat them. If you tell your child they will be a loser, they may just become one. Tell your child you love them and believe they will be a success and the chances are they will. Maybe even the president. ■

I Can’t Weight to Box By Camela L. Douglass, M.S. ED .

HEALTH AND FITNESS TRENDS

hat do you do w he n yo ur exercise regiDayton, OH men plateaus and meets you in the last place you left it? You’ve done everything right. You’ve exercised fervently and consistently, you’ve cut back and cut out all of the donuts and Pepsi yet you still have not reached your desired results. I want to challenge you to try something new. It is known that “if you continue doing what you’ve always done, you will continue getting what you’ve always gotten.” After my six-week post partum checkup, I was determined that my baby weight would not defeat me this time around. Yet, I knew I had to try something different—but what? As a fitness instructor and personal trainer, I was already teaching seven classes a week and personal training ten clients. However, what was I going to do to take my personal exercise regimen to another level? Having flirted with it before, I decided that boxing was sure to knock the weight off this time.

Boxing: The Ultimate Workout There are many benefits to boxing. It improves your endurance, power, discipline, aerobic and anaerobic fitness, and coordination. My trainer, Tomas Jose “Fist of Legend” Grigley, of Prime Performance Gym in Trotwood, OH, guaranteed me that boxing would get me into the best shape of my life. He was right! Boxing stimulates all of my muscle groups. When I’m boxing, I am literally working every muscle of my body, including my mind. In the beginning, I must admit, I thought training was a little elementary. After sessions of stretching, calisthenics and sprints, I thought I was ready for the ring. I kept asking T.J. “When are we going in the ring?” He gently responded, “In due time.” I still had to experience “the tire”—yes, a BF Goodrich tire. Stamina wins bouts. As I mentioned before, I am a fitness instructor. I can teach two hours straight without missing a beat. However, experiencing three-minutes on “the tire” put me under the truck. Consequently, the buck didn’t stop there. Add sprints, the heavy bag, and intense calisthenics to the workout and you might be ready for the ring. Strangely, there Continued on PAGE 17

A Microscopic View of Sulfate Free Hair Products By Dr. Linda Amerson

ince 1998, many consumers may have received emails and been misinformed about the “Sodium Lauryl, Laureth, & Laurate Sulfates” lathering ingredients, which are commonly used in shampoos, bath and shower gels, bubble bath, and toothpaste. According to the Consumer’s Dictionary of Cosmetic Ingredients, the sulfates are a detergent, wetting agent and emulsifier. It is nontoxic to the skin, scalp, and mouth, when rinsed off the skin, scalp, and out of the oral cavity. In addition, it has a degreasing ability. This degreasing lathering agent is required to remove heavy buildup of scalp oils, scalp odor, scalp treatments, and most importantly to assist with thorough scalp, skin and oral cleansing. In fact, many consumers eat many foods that they should not, particularly greasy and junk foods. These foods need to be brushed from the oral cavity with this lathering, degreasing ingredient for optimum cleansing of your teeth and gums. Everyone’s definition of scalp, hair and body hygiene is not the same. In some cases, environmental factors contribute to a person having limited access to personal hygiene 14

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matters. On the other hand, there are people who are lazy and negligent in their hygiene Arlington, TX when it is easily obtainable. I have many consumers who have come to my clinic for a consultation that inform me they use sulfate free shampoos and conditioners. I ask them what they know about the sulfate (SLS) ingredient. They would inform me that they “heard” from someone that the sulfates were harmful, however, had not done research for themselves about SLS. I would then show them how clean their scalp and hair was under my Tricholoscope. In all cases, when I showed a consumer their scalp, they said, “OMG! I had no idea my scalp and hair was not getting thoroughly cleansed.” Many maintenance products are used on the hair and scalp: leave in conditioners, setting lotions, mousse, gels, Continued on PAGE 17 www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

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New York, NY

Literally we’re dying.

errie Williams is a woman who speaks with candor about her struggle with depression. She is a successful publicist to some of today’s biggest and brightest talents. She is also the author of several books; her latest entitled Black Pain: It Just Looks Like We’re Not Hurting. Terrie recently took time out of her busy schedule to talk with me about her journey.

Ava: What inspired you to write this book?

HEALTH AND FITNESS TRENDS

Ava: Terrie, what is your newest book, Black Pain: It Just Looks Like We’re Not Hurting about? Terrie: Depression can be very isolating and we don’t really speak about it. I knew something was wrong with me when I was in college. I grew up in a family like many where we don’t talk about our feelings. I found a way to numb my pain; For me it was studying, working and becoming involved in student activities...running from my pain. It was not so long ago when I had a breakdown and friends took me to a psychiatrist and was diagnosed with clinical depression. I cried because I felt

Terrie: I had a break down about five years ago. I was asked to share my story in Essence Magazine. I knew that it was necessary to write a book that was written for us. All the stories in the book are human universal stories. Our parent’s pain shapes us and we don’t talk about things and so we’re hurting. There are about 250,000 books on depression in the marketplace. But there is nothing that really speaks to the African American experience. We have not really named our pain or know what it looks, feels or sounds like because people move through their lives with their “game” faces on. We don’t really know how people are doing. Ava: Terrie, you’ve launched the Stay Strong: Healing Starts With Us campaign, which is a national mental health movement focused on the black community. Many celebrities, mental health professionals, civic and religious leaders

Removing Our Game Faces In Rhythm with Ava Collier… like such a weight had been lifted. My background is in social work and I’m supposed to know the signs. But burn out and depression hit me and I didn’t know. It has a name and is treatable. Ava: Why do you think we as black people do not seek mental health counseling as easily or readily as other races? Terrie: There is such a stigma surrounding mental illness. If we say that something is wrong or that we’re dealing with depression, you may think it’s a sign of weakness or a character flaw. We are a faith-based people and we think that it’s just the ‘devil in us’ and can pray it away. When we were enslaved, our people witnessed unspeakable horrors and couldn’t say anything for fear of retribution from the slave master. We held it in to survive. This learned silence passed on from generation to generation is literally killing us. Anything other than praying to God is considered blasphemy and we don’t get the help that we need. However, when I speak about my battle with depression, I often say that I know it was my God who led me to the right psychiatrist! There is dysfunction in our homes, with our friends, in the workplace and the streets. Many of the diseases that plague our communities are a result of holding our pain in. Heart disease, strokes, cancer and diabetes…unresolved pains, wounds and scars that we have not sought help for. 16

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have joined you in this endeavor. Please tell us about this. Terrie: My Stay Strong Foundation launched a campaign with the Ad Council/ SAMSA, the governmental agency. Susan L. Taylor from Essence Magazine spoke about her depression and John Amos, Ruby Dee and Terrie McMillan also participated. Mo’Nique spoke for the first time about her depression and abuse. Each person read a testimonial from my recent book. The concept of the campaign is to share ourselves and our stories because healing starts with us. We later opened the floor and many others shared their stories. Literally, it was gut wrenching, but everyone felt like a weight had been lifted. It’s finally being let out. Everything goes back to our childhood. When we see people doing bad things, it’s not that they’re a horrible person or something is wrong with them, it’s what happened to them. As adults we set our kids up for a lifetime of emotional failure. We don’t want to be vulnerable to our kids. When they ask if we’re sad when they see a tear and we lie and say no, at that moment, we’re setting them up. We teach them to lie and to not trust their instincts. Kids are smart and miss nothing. We’re teaching them how to wear the mask and not deal with their emotions. We need to give them our coping mechanisms. ■ Visit www.terriewilliams.com to learn more

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I Was Just Thinking… By Carla Daniels

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your eyes to see nothing but losers. How do your overcome this madness? Retune your RAS to search for something different. Stop thinking negative thoughts. If you write down some positive attributes about yourself, say them aloud daily and believe them. Soon you will no longer be the Mayor of “Loserville.” It sounds easy but it is not. Years of negative conditioning can’t be changed in a day; because this is the era of instant gratification, you may become discouraged and want to stop. Don’t stop; keep doing it. Keep telling yourself that you are awesome, you are blessed and highly favored, you are the next best selling author, and your screen play will be the next big thing. Whatever your thought, desire or goal is, you have to put it in your mind. You can think yourself into a new life. There are many books that tell us to think it and become it. If you put it in your brain, your brain will put it into you and then broadcast it out to the world.

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ho do you think you are Mr. Big Stuff?” That was a song by Jean Knight back in 1971. We danced and shook a tail feather to it. Okay, some of us heard it about 15-20 years later but, hey, it was new to us. That song made me think of the T in A.C.T.I.V.A.T.E.: negative thoughts/thinking. Our thoughts are killing us; some people actually, others literally. If you grew up hearing that you are a failure yet you have achieved great strides, you sent that desire to your Reticular Activating System. Your RAS is the automatic mechanism inside your brain that brings relevant information to your attention. Your reticular activating system is like an obediently trained dog. You tell Butch to go get the ball and he goes and gets the ball and brings it back. He will do that until you get tired of telling him to get the ball. What if you threw the ball in a basket of balls, what would Butch do? He would just keep bringing you ball after ball. That is what your RAS does. Once you set a goal or go in search of something you deem important, you send it to your RAS and it goes looking for it. Actually, you start seeing it more because now your RAS has been A.C.T.I.V.A.T.E.D. This also works in reverse. If you think negative thoughts, you attract negative thoughts and people into your life. You think about it and then you start seeing it. If you keep telling yourself you are a loser, guess what your RAS does? It finds other losers to hang with you. Or better yet, it opens

Carla is a certified NCTI Real Colors Facilitator and Gallup Strengths Quest Certified. Contact her at Carla@hmgconsultants.com or visit her website at www.hmgconsultants.com

A Microscopic View Weight to Box Continued from PAGE 14 was a method to his madness. After conquering the aforementioned, I had learned enough basic boxing skills and built up enough stamina to handle the ring. On a good day, I can burn at least 800-900 calories from the beginning to the end of a session. Not to mention that the confidence I’ve gained and the stress I’ve relieved is PRICELESS. Believe me, at the end of the day I’m not looking for confrontation, just RESULTS. ■ Camela L.Douglass,M.S.ED. Mo2v8U Enterprises, LLC. www.mobetterme.com

Continued from PAGE 14 very effective line for thorough scalp, hair, and body cleansing and it addresses common scalp conditions while strengthening the hair. Hair restoration has been visible in many clients. Lastly, three different agencies, the Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA), the National Toxicology Program (NTP), and the International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC) have all rated SLS and SLES as being nontoxic and non-carcinogenic. It has been theorized that perhaps someone in the natural products business deliberately created this message as a way to increase their product sales. Something to think about? Dr. Linda Amerson (817) 265-8854 www.hairandscalpessentials.com

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We Have the Power By Georgeann (Gigi) McCrary Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world. I John 4:4.

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Columbus, OH

“Greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world.”

uring my childhood, I attended a small African Methodist Episcopal (A.M.E.) Church. Most of the members were related in some way so I was loved, encouraged, and sometimes even corrected by my extended family. Each year the church members would attend the annual A.M.E. conference to find out if the current pastor would be returning for another term, or if the pastoral baton would be passed to someone new. One particular year our church received the news that a female pastor was appointed to our congregation. Female pastors were rare then. This was the first one that I had met. I was in my teens at the time, so I had not yet experienced much. When the new pastor arrived, she was delightfully different. She was nurturing, encouraging and sowed positive seeds of the Word into the lives of the youth. The pastor even presented bibles to us when we graduated from high school. Interestingly, I still have and use that bible today, although it is quite worn and tattered. What I remember most about this woman of God is that she would have the youth of the church recite, “Greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world.” At the time, I do not think any of us realized that she was planting the seeds of the Word in our hearts. Initially we would stand and say the words begrudgingly and lacking enthusiasm, not understanding what we were saying and definitely not comprehending the power that we professed to have inside of us. Those teenage years got rough at times. When opposition reared its ugly head, I found myself saying, “Greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world.” When I was having difficulty on an exam, I found myself mumbling that scripture. Frankly, I was saying those potent words often. At present, I still speak those words that were planted in my heart long ago. The word of God had not only been planted, it had taken root. Read the Word. Confess the Word. Plant it deep within your heart for it will spring forth at the precise moment that you need it. Utilize that God Power within to deal with those worldly things without. Remember: I have the Power and you have the Power. For greater is He that is in you and me than he that is in the world. ■

Gigi

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Happy Mother’s Day By Teri Miller Barker

Dayton, OH

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n May 9, 2010, people all over America will honor the special women in their lives. We celebrate the contributions of mothers and grandmothers who have nurtured and raised us. We honor the women who have given us instruction or advice, and we appreciate the great-grandmothers who have loved us and made us feel as though we’re the most important person in the world. Mothers are the pillars of their families. If it weren’t for them, where would we be today? Mothers hold the most influential positions in our lives. Author, poet, and activist, Dr. Maya Angelou, is quoted as having said, "To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power." Our first United States President, George Washington, once said, “My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual, and physical education I received from her.” A mother’s job is one of great importance because her guidance influences the character, ethics, principles, and morals of children who will later carry those values into adulthood. Proverbs 22:6 tells us if we train up a child in the way he should go, when he is old he will not depart from it. A mother’s guidance creates a foundation that lasts a lifetime. But, as children, we also have a responsibility to her. The Fifth Commandment (Exodus 20:12) tells us to honor our fathers and our mothers, that our days may be long upon the land. The respect and honor that we show our mothers have an impact on the amount of time we spend on this earth. God created mothers to play a significant role in our lives. Mothers are special 365 days a year, but the second Sunday of May is our special day set aside to celebrate them and let them know that they are truly honored and appreciated. On this Mother’s Day, I would like to express my deepest, heartfelt gratitude to my mother, Nina Still, and my grandmother, Estelle Brown. I love you both for your unconditional love and for molding me to be the woman, wife, and mother I am today. ■ Teri Miller Barker is a freelance writer from Dayton, Ohio. She is currently a grad student and English instructor at Wright State University. To view past columns, visit www.thewriteawaycafe.com

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“The flame is still burning...after all these years”

Orlando, FL

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remember when I first saw Tanya. I said, ‘Wow! She looks good!’ ” Corey Lucas is smiling from ear to ear as he recalls the first time he laid eyes on Tanya. As I sit across from Tanya, I can easily understand Corey’s reaction. Tanya is beautiful and reminds me so much of Halle Berry when she played a flight attendant in the film, Executive Decision. How amazing is it that Tanya Lucas is also a flight attendant. Corey and Tanya Lucas currently live in Orlando, Florida and both work for Southwest Airlines. They’ve been married for 12 years and have three children, Jazmyne, 19, Elijah, 10 and Cortany, 5. Tanya has worked for Southwest Airlines as a flight attendant for eight years and Corey has been with Southwest for 15 years and currently works there as a Provisioning Supervisor. Tanya is laughing now at Corey’s reaction and adds, “I remember thinking that he looked really good to me, too!” Yes, love was definitely in the air between these two. Tanya says that their love began because she saw Corey’s heart and not what he had. “I was a single mother at the time. He didn’t have a lot in his apartment and that didn’t matter. I saw his heart. He was my prince charming. I didn’t have a lot of good male role models in my life. When Corey came along, he was different. He was from the south and he was a real man. Until this day, I know that I am safe. We don’t need the best cars or houses; I’d rather feel safe and he makes me feel that way. I feel that my heart is safe with Corey. I still get butterflies!” Corey says it always feels like a date. “The flame is still burning for her after all these years.” Tanya says that even with their jobs, they still try to arrange their schedules so that they can spend time together even without the kids. “Most couples don’t have enough quality time together. We don’t go to the 20

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movies; instead we may stay in and watch a movie together at home.” Corey says that romance is important to women. “When I want to keep Tanya for myself, I plan a trip. When I need time alone with her, I take her away from everyone and do the one-on-one. We leave the kids with my mom or their Godmother and get away.” Both Tanya and Corey agree that it takes a village to raise a child and they credit their dear friend, Diann Smith, for being there for them. “She’s like a second mom to the kids and takes them to church and keeps them when we need time for ourselves,” says Corey. “One of the reasons we love working for Southwest is because it allows us to have flexibility in our schedules and spend time with each other and our families,” Tanya says. “Home comes first and Southwest supports that.” “Tanya understands that as a supervisor I’m required to go in on a moment’s notice,” says Corey. He continued, “I like spending time with my family but she understands when I have to go. She’s a flight attendant and can change her schedule more than I can.” Tanya agrees that it’s great to work for the same company because she knows the demands of Corey’s job. She’s now speaking about their individual roles in their marriage. “There are certain things that Corey brings to the marriage that he’s better at than I am and there are certain things that I’m better at. We support each other. It’s important to know your role in the marriage,” Tanya states. Corey comments on reconciling differences between them. “If we have a conflict, I walk away. It’s like working on a car and you can’t figure it out; you walk away from it and come back. I do this in my marriage. We disagree, but we always come back and resolve our issues. Women remember everything and will bring it up later. Don’t let the issues go unattended.” Tanya adds, “I’m home for ten days sometimes and two or three days away is a good thing. A little absence sometimes makes the heart grow fonder. A little time away is a good thing sometimes.” Corey adds that finances can be a major cause of problems. “Educate yourselves in finances. I try to keep out of debt. Be truthful about your finances at the beginning of a relationship. Honesty is so important.” ■ www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

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That’s when the blessings came in. We got an offer from a major real estate company and have been cleaning for them ever since.” “We’ve been blessed by our business and now we can bless others by employing them,” says Baron. Thomaseen says that in order to even see her husband, she had to go and work with him. “We’d laugh and talk while we worked. I didn’t have a problem with that because we’d spend quality time together. After a while I said that we were now in a position to bring others on board. Faith without works is dead,” states Thomaseen. The Greenwade’s janitorial service has now expanded into a courier service. “One of the companies that we work for was looking for someone to provide courier service for them. The manager at that time asked me if I knew anyone who provided this service. I started thinking that this was something that we could do, “says Baron. This loving couple says it was automatic for them to mix love with their business. “If we are married, we should be able to work together. You do what you have to do to make it work,” says Thomaseen. Baron continued, “We just enjoy being around each other. I love being around her. She is my helpmate. She doesn’t mind helping me with everything, even car repairs!” he laughs. Thomaseen says, “When you love somebody and foresee a potential obstacle or a wedge, you need to do what you can to avoid that. Open doors allow dirt in. We had to keep the door closed. I’ve learned so much about my husband. He is so intelligent and I’m still learning things about him all the time.” The Greenwades have a blended family consisting of six children and two grandchildren. “Wait on God to send you who you’re supposed to be with. Choose someone who knows Jesus Christ. If he/she loves Jesus, they will know how to love you,” offers Thomaseen. Baron says “Put God first in your life. Do things together. Don’t give the enemy a chance to interfere with what you have. With God in your lives, you will make good decisions and He will direct your path if you’re willing to receive.” ■

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e have been happily married for ten years,” Says Baron Greenwade of Jacksonville, Florida. He and his beautiful wife, Thomaseen, recently renewed their wedding vows last December. “What really made us go ahead and renew is because we became ministers together last year and we wanted to dedicate our marriage back to God. We want to continue to keep God in our lives. We’ve just been so blessed,” said Thomaseen. Baron says that they had talked about renewing their vows and it was definitely a mutual agreement. He says it was the thing to do. “It was like a new life since both of us became ordained. We want to give Him our all,” says Baron. Thomaseen continues, “We initially married in the church so it was already blessed. I knew Baron in the spirit first but I had to wait until God sent him to me. When we met, I knew he was my soul mate.” Baron and Thomaseen Greenwade are members of One Accord Ministries International Church in Jacksonville, Florida under the leadership of Bishop Jan B. Goodman. Baron is a thirty year employee of the City of Jacksonville Beach as a Purchasing Administrator. He and his wife also are the owners and operators of two businesses, a janitorial and courier service. All About Cleaning was born out of a need to do what so many of us desire, to earn extra money. Baron explained, “When I first decided to go into this thing, my wife laughed at me. I wanted to earn about two hundred extra dollars a month. We were struggling. I sat at my computer one day and made some flyers. She and I went out in the neighborhood of local businesses and stuck flyers in their doors. Shortly afterwards, we started getting phone calls. The business has grown so much since then.” Thomaseen agrees, “I did laugh because I didn’t know how we’d get supplies to do this. We used the household supplies that we had, a bucket, mop, broom, window cleaner and started to clean that one office everyday and only made $75.00 for the entire month. This was our first job.” Thomaseen says that word of mouth helped to build their business. “Someone saw how nice the office looked and wanted to know who cleaned it.

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eleste Payne states that she and her husband, Ivory, merged their companies together and became one. This husband and wife team were both freelance graphic designers when they met. “Before we got married, we formed our company together. Basically what we did was merge his company with mine.” Ivory Payne was the owner of DPI Graphics and Celeste owned CMB Graphics. Today, they are the owners and operators of Dynamic Creative Solutions, a graphic design business. The Paynes reside in Columbus, OH and are the proud parents of four year old Devon. Ivory speaks about their business together, “The main nucleus of our business is that we’re a full graphics design firm. Anything that can be printed, we can design,” says Ivory, “We design for small and medium size companies, non-profit organizations and churches. We’ve been in business for six years.” Celeste says they each bring different strengths to their business. She states logo designs are her specialty and Ivory’s main focus is on newspaper layouts. Ivory and his lovely wife, Celeste, are also the owners and operators of the Praise Reporter, a monthly on line and hard copy publication; a faith-based publication celebrating the gospel. Ivory is also the graphic designer for two additional newspapers out of Louisiana. “My father’s

“We were friends and colleagues before we got married.”

Columbus, OH friendship and brother/sister relationship is God. That has been something that I’ve always looked for in a relationship. I’d previously dated women who weren’t interested

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newspaper, The Baton Rouge Weekly Press, is one of the newspapers I layout weekly. The second newspaper is the Alexandria News Weekly in Alexandria, Louisiana. I’m also involved in a quarterly news magazine out of Long Island, NY called Manna News.” Ivory says, “The Praise Reporter came about after I was laid off from another job. I used to work for Who’s Who Publishing in Columbus. I became discouraged about what was being circulated about African American faith-based publications. It was being said that corporate does not support these publications. I decided that I would try it anyway. About a month after I was laid off, I launched the Praise Reporter. I came up with the name because I figured there were enough publications talking about gloom and doom and all the bad and negative things that happen in the world. We report positive things about people and communities.” When asked about them working together, Celeste responds, “We were friends and colleagues before we got married. We’re also brother and sister in Christ. So we’re friends, brother and sister in Christ and husband and wife. We have three relational layers. When any one of the three break down, we have two other layers that hold us together. To me, it’s like a blanket and they all have their strengths. We have a three- fold cord. That’s hard to break.” She states when they get annoyed with each other as either husband and wife, or friends, they still have enough layers to hold things together. Ivory adds, “I think one of the things that adds strength to our marriage and 22

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in God at all and others that were so into God that they were no earthly good. This balance now is really refreshing. As married people, it’s important to have a mixture of it all. I have chosen a wonderful mate.” He laughs now as he continues, “Some people say I lucked into this, but I think it was God ordained.” The Paynes are members of United Ministries Church and Apostle Rod and Prophetess Taketa Williams are their church leaders. The Paynes are expanding their business to Jacksonville, Florida this summer. “I try to stay in my lane as a wife and focus on that role. I’m his helpmate, to support and submit to my husband. I don’t want to be his boss or pastor. It only causes problems and I focus on what a wife is supposed to do.” Ivory adds, “Trust your wife. In all that we do and have accomplished, those things do not define us. If our magazine was to fold today or tomorrow, I would still be Ivory Payne, the father and husband and I would be content in being just those things. The most important thing to me is my family. I believe that if I take care of my family, God be well pleased with me. If something was printed about me, I’d rather it said that I was a good husband and father and a good servant of God.” Visit the Praise Reporter at www.praisereporter.com . To contact Ivory and Celeste for your graphic design needs, please go to www.dynamiccreativesolutions.com

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Daryl and Connie Ferguson: Celebrating 25 Years of Marriage

“FROM HIGH SCHOOL TO HEAVEN” By Lisa M. Flint (Best Friend)

arried on July 3, 1985, Daryl and Connie Ferguson will be celebrating their Silver anniversary. It has been 25 years of nothing but total happiness. Daryl and Connie are both Columbus, Ohio natives. Daryl, the son of Claude and Regina Ferguson and Connie, the daughter of William and Vickie Bowie, have two children, Darryl and Ashe. Daryl and Connie were high school sweethearts and married young. Darryl joined the Armed Services while Connie was a devoted mother and wife and remained in Columbus, Ohio raising the children. Building their careers and dreams as one, Darryl obtained a “Class A” CDL license and has a long career as a truck driver. Connie realized her dream as a caterer and started her own company, Red Carpet Party & Event Planners. They have devoted their lives to their children and families. Everyone who meets them have nothing but kind words. Connie enjoys planning dinners and parties at their home at least once a month. She loves to see everyone together, happy and enjoying themselves with smiles on their faces. Her true passion is cooking and her idol is Patti Labelle. Connie is a true diva with a kind and loving husband. They truly compliment each other. We wish them continued happiness as they celebrate their life together after twenty five years of marriage.

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VOLUME 5

Canton, OH

By John E. Johnson

which has made the transition to enter the market for new products possible for young b us i ne s s me n a nd women. John Cichello is a key me mber of the Altimus team.

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n our last issue, we discussed the need for a Patent Attorney. Next we will explore the importance of packaging and the product engineers who design them. The product engineer has various responsibilities, all require a creative mind. I compare them to a doctor or a lawyer who specialize in certain areas within their field. They have extensive knowledge about the following processes: mold making, product development, manufacturing, packaging, distribution, marketing/advertisement, basically the same practical overall knowledge of product development, but specializes in making your product look good on the shelf. To state it broadly, the role of the product (packaging) engineer is to handle the following: design 3d cad drawings of packaging, prototype packaging, marketing/ advertisement, (writing slogans and product directions.) Even though the packaging of your product comes last in the steps taken in development, the importance of your product’s package is number one when it’s time to enter your market. The product (packaging) engineer understands that your product is at the make or break stage. Example, you have a great product, but like most products yours is probably similar to most products. You need something to make your product catch the eye of your customers. This process stays the same, but trends and styles change and this is where these specialists thrive. Like a good old bloodhound that has an extraordinarily sensitive nose, the noses of these guys are sensitive to the changing trends and how they are affecting sales, to what colors are best with which products. The greatest role they play is understanding you, your product and your product’s primary target market. Once this is established, the game is on. The importance of understanding your product is critical to your success. The bond with your packaging team must be strong. When your product becomes a success, you’ll need different packaging as you venture into your secondary target markets. Some packaging is packaged to be shelf items as others may be packaged for mail order purchases. Knowing the differences and applying that into the marketing of your product will let you know which type of packaging is needed. Finding a good engineer isn’t that hard, their reputation follows them. That’s how I met John P Cichello, heavy weight champ at Rubbermaid until he started his own business, Parallel Design, Inc. in Wooster, Ohio ten years ago. As a development and product sourcing company specializing in packaging development, John Cichello has a team of high rank and credibility,

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irst and foremost, baby, I am a stand up comic!” declares Mo’Nique. It was like talking with a girlfriend over a cup of coffee or lunch. Mo’Nique just has a way of making you feel comfortable and relaxed. There were no signs of a diva, although she’s has certainly earned the right to be one if she chose. Instead, this is a woman who, despite her many successes and accomplishments, remains uniquely REAL. We talked about her Academy Award winning performance in Precious. Mo’Nique portrayed the highly dysfunctional, abusive mother of Clarice “Precious” Jones, played by newcomer Gabourey Sidibe. This role was a dramatic departure from Mo’Nique’s more familiar comedic roles. When I asked her what went into preparation as Mary Jones, she explained. “In reading the book and then the script, I was very excited about that role and the message. The moment we knew what it was, we knew that it was going to change lives. When director Lee Daniels would say ‘Action’, we knew we couldn’t sugar coat Mary Jones. She’s very real.” Mo’Nique spoke about her personal painful experience of being molested by her brother. “Coming from being molested by my oldest brother, I knew who that ‘monster’ was. It was that ‘monster’ coming to life. We knew people would look on that screen and see themselves.” This Academy Award, Golden Globe and NAACP Image Award winning actress is a no-nonsense, keep-it-real sista’. She doesn’t seek the approval or accolades that often come with such accomplishments. She is also the host of The Mo’Nique Show, a nightly talk show on BET. Although Mo’Nique’s physical appearance has changed by her successful weight loss, her vivacious, confident and effervescent personality has not. “I don’t know who else to be. It would be too much energy to be someone different. When I look in the mirror I don’t want to 26

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be confused at who’s looking back at me. I don’t want to say ‘Who are you?’ ” We talked about the universal message in Precious and how it relates to everyone. Mo’Nique feels that this was only a story about one woman and her family. However, she states that abuse is pervasive and has no color or gender. “You can go to any point on the face of this earth where human beings are and this goes on. It almost makes you say ‘wow are we still caught up in that?’ We get caught up in two black women who live in the projects that are on food stamps. Well you know what? There ARE black women who live in the projects on food stamps who treat their children poorly. There are also white women with millions of dollars living in the midst of Beverly Hills who treat their children poorly.” She continued, “Watching this movie, you could relate to either Mary or Precious. If not yourself, then you know someone who was. We aren’t that far removed from that.” At the Academy Awards, Mo’Nique wore a beautiful blue gown with a gardenia in her hair. She stated that it was in honor of Hattie McDaniel, who played “Mammy” in Gone with the Wind in 1939. She was the first African American to ever win an Academy Award. At the awards that year, Ms. McDaniel wore a blue dress with a gardenia in her hair. I asked Mo’Nique what she thought about the controversy that African Americans have won awards for portraying negative, stereotypical roles, such as Denzel Washington in Training Day, Halle Berry in Monster’s Ball and even Hattie McDaniel for playing a slave. Mo’Nique stated, “For people who say ‘Oh my goodness! You won this award for playing a project mother,’ I say do your research. Most times when we win those awards it’s because you’ve played the “grit” - the opposite of whom you really are. I wish the day would come when we don’t get so caught up in those things. At what point do we just say, ‘Wow! We got the trophy!’ ” Mo’Nique is speaking about how she remains remarkably humble by her notoriety. “If we become selfish and think that www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

them (black press) had been called on to ask any questions. I said wait a minute, baby! How could I not talk to them when they’ve been talking to me all along! Now all of a sudden I’m gonna ignore them? No, I don’t play like that. They’ve been good to me my entire career. Now I come here and now they can’t ask me any questions? No way. I think the universe would slap me in the mouth if I acted as though I didn’t see that!” Mo’Nique says that she has often been asked about now being “mainstream.” She says, “I ask them what does that mean? Which stream am I in right now? The stream I’m in right now is my mainstream because it’s the stream I visit frequently. If you want to come over and play in my stream, baby, you’re welcome to come.” When I asked her about the energy that she brings to The Mo’Nique Show, she stated, “When that elevator door opens up, y’all are looking at a little girl because I always dreamed of being what I am right now. We can actually play and love up on each other and do this every night? I am surprised every night by the sheer beauty of what the universe has given me. In the beginning they said I was too loud and I tried to calm it down. Then me and God had a conversation. He said I made you who you are. I get to scream and holla and it’s okay. This is the way that you get rewarded if you stay obedient. The Mo’Nique Show hasn’t been on a year and we’ve already won an award. This show is nothing but love and we won’t waiver. People say you gotta throw some dirt in there, but listen, baby, we ain’t showing nothin’ but love! When you’re obedient, the universe has a way of saying ‘We got you covered, baby!’ ” When asked what’s next, she simply said “If I just get tomorrow, baby, because I ain’t greedy. I don’t know what’s up next year because tomorrow might be gone for me. If I enjoy it today, then I won’t be mad at God if He brings me home tomorrow. I can’t say, ‘God, I told you in five years I wanted to do something with Don Cheadle. God, you trippin’!” ■ TRENDSETTERS TO TRENDSETTERS | MAY/JUNE 2010

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it’s just about you in the moment, I feel sad for you. It’s so not about me. I think the universe says I’m glad you got it.” Mo’Nique credits her husband, Sidney Hicks, with helping her to stay grounded. “I have an amazing husband who is my best friend. He will tell me what I really need to hear, not what I want to hear. I don’t want to disappoint my family, my husband, my children or grandchildren that I have not met yet. When they write the story a hundred years from now, I think about that. I don’t want anyone to say that she was a diva, rude or inconsiderate. I don’t want those words being used behind my name. I do have my moments, baby! I have those moments in that closet by myself! God has to take me to my knees sometimes! God will say ‘Let me introduce you to me again!’ I don’t know why I’m funny or why I was able to pull that role off. It’s not a special formula. There’s nothing about me that’s special. I’m appreciative that the universe says that we’re going to use her to do this. I’m going to do all I can to make sure that I am in good graces.” In case there has been any doubt about Mo’Nique’s authenticity in her desire to never forget where she came from and who was there on her way up, it was evident during the post Academy Awards press conference. Mo’Nique, looking radiant while holding her well deserved Oscar, stood in front of the camera while hundreds of reporters asked questions. The viewing audience could not see the reporters, only Mo’Nique’s smiling face. The television audience could hear a voice calling out numbers indicating the order in which the reporters had the chance to ask Mo’Nique a question. Shortly into the question and answer session, Mo’Nique’s happy expression changed and was replaced by a look of dissatisfaction. She then boldly, and without hesitation, interjected and redirected the order of the reporters and their questions. I asked her what was going on that the viewing audience couldn’t see. “In that press room there were about 300 reporters. Only five of them were black that I could see. None of

Too Much Debt! “It feels like an episode of 24, one near miss after another!” By Corbin Cook

FINANCIAL TRENDS

ately a lot of attention has been given to the stories about Greece and the Atlanta, GA developing fina ncial crisis over in Europe. Greece along with Portugal, Ireland, Spain and Italy has a big debt problem and may not make their minimum payments coming due soon. Greece has one coming due April 20th. By the time this goes to print these nations will have made some serious decisions as to how to reduce their spending and pay their debt liabilities. They must do this without raising taxes or cutting the pay checks of government employees and pensioners to such a degree as to worsen the recession. The Greek people are reacting with riots and protests expressing that the benefit cuts and tax increases are too much for them to bear. At some points tear gas has been used by the Greek law enforcement to deal with escalation.

The European Union is made up of 27 member nations and since its formation has not had a need for a system for what to do when multiple member nations face financial default. They have been working and debating to find a viable solution and have yet to find the delicate balance. Without a viable and sustainable solution or bailout, the problems we have seen over the last two years will get worse. What may concern you is that the problem of debt is not isolated to Dubai and a few European nations. It is obvious that here in our own nation our federal government face a current debt balance and future debt liabilities that are unsustainable without drastic reform and intervention (i.e. some combination of spending cuts, benefit reductions, and tax increases). Most of the individual states of America are also running unsustainable debt and deficit levels and will need direct and or indirect assistance if conditions do not improve soon. Sometimes it feels like an episode of 24, but instead of 24 hours it is over months and now years; one near miss after another. Warren Buffet recently comforted the viewers of CNBC. He stated, “We are very creative people and will find a way through this mess; our government has always been messy and will continue to be messy, but it’ll work in the end.” When we finally get through this financial fragility and purge the bad economic and financial choices, we will see a time of great growth and renewal. Although a great time is coming, we will have more considerable discomfort before we see our awaiting renewal. Be creative, move yourself to help others and focus on being a good friend, husband, wife, son or daughter. If you do this, it will not matter if bad times worsen or good times come roaring around the corner, you will be surrounded by and focused on what matters most. ■ Corbin Cook Managing Partner Lighthouse Wealth Manage ment LLC. (404)783-3305

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"Welcome to Ecuador" By Jaques Miles

EQUADOR, SOUTH AMERICA

Ecuador, South America

GLOBAL TRENDS

don't remember the first time I heard the name Ecuador, but I do remember the first time I set foot on soil. It was April 2002 and it was hot! This was a new adventure for me. I did not know what to expect .On T.V. I always saw people sitting in the jungle rowing up and down the Amazon river, but that was not what I saw when I stepped off the plane. My friend Robby and I were going to South America to help build an Assembly for Jehovah's Witnesses gatherings. People did not agree of two young men traveling to a third world country to do work with people we did not know or speak their language and work without pay. But for us it was an adventure. We were only going to be gone for three months (mind you that was eight years ago, and I’m still here). Friends gave us a going away party in which we received working boots, toilet paper and tooth paste. Everyone thought we were going to some jungle safari. Our Ecuadorian brothers and sisters donated mostly sound equipment. When we stepped of the plane in Guayaquil, Ecuador, there was no Amazon River and no trees, but there was a bustling city before us and a heat I had never felt before. While we were going through customs, the officer went through everything we had. I never will forget the look on his face when he saw several twelve packs of toilet paper. I'm pretty sure he had never seen someone so well prepared for their vacation. But then he saw the donated items we were carrying and he started asking us many questions in Spanish. So I said, “Sorry no Espanola." Finally another young agent came up and said, "Why are you in Ecuador? Who is this stuff for?" So I explained using the bravest voice I could muster, "We are missionaries here to build a place of worship and these things are donated items for the project." He was not buying it. There were about four policemen behind him with M-16s and automatic weapons in hand. He said the words I will never forget, “You and all your things have been detained for investigation." Welcome to Ecuador... After some going around they allowed only me to leave the airport. They sent me to talk to a high ranking officer to plead our case. On the outside of the airport, I came face to face with a major metropolitan city with thousands of cars zipping past me. And I thought to myself, you packed toilet paper? So here I was walking down the streets of some strange city lost, looking for the office of an Officer who does not speak English, in order to try to convince him I was not trying to smuggle goods into his country to sell for a profit. I was not happy. After a lot of sweat and prayers, the representatives from my religion came by swooping in to save my neck. We got through with all of our stuff and the Ecuadorian Brothers got their items for the project. I did not have to buy any toilet paper for a very long time. This is Jacques Miles Living life in the Middle of the World. ■ JACQUES MILES jacqandraq@att.net

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…A Ruler Over Much In Rhythm with Ava Collier…

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Atlanta, GA

“I just Trusted God.”

he Antidote is the word of God. It was birthed out the things I had gone through,” says Mershele Brown, the creator, producer and host of The Antidote Show. Mershele says that during a battle with ovarian cancer in 2007, God started reassuring her that He is the answer and The Healer. “I started feeding into my spirit that by His stripes I am healed. As it turned out I didn’t have to have radiation or chemo. I’d had two surgeries and they’d gotten all of the cancer. I was cancer free. God put in my spirit that He is the Antidote and to go forth to tell my story.” Mershele says that while God didn’t condone all the choices she’d made, she feels He did allow her to go through them for His glory. “I’ve been drug addicted and even homeless with my children at one time. It’s not a pretty thing. At one time I was living in my beauty salon with my children making grill cheese sandwiches on my stove that I put Marcels in. Whatever I had to do to take care of my children I did. I just trusted God. For me, success is to help someone else to succeed. It doesn’t hurt me to help someone else.” Mershele says God gave her dreams of feeding the people. She explained that she used to listen to Creflo Dollar throughout the time she had cancer. “God began to talk to me and I started researching on how to spread His word. Most Evangelists go forth in the pulpit. God said I don’t want you in the pulpit, instead go in a nationwide global direction. I asked God what I should name my show. Creflo said ‘God is the antidote to everything’ and I knew right there and then what I would name my show.” Mershele has been shooting The Antidote Show for over two years. She says that people are set free from different testimonies. She says people constantly call, email or write to her to say how much the show has changed their lives. “I think it’s needed right now. People need to know that there’s a way out. God loves them in the middle of stress and depression. Don’t give up. He will give you the desires of your heart.” Mershele is also the owner and operator of Divine Serenity, a hair salon in Smyrna, Ga. “I’ve always had a love of people, even with doing hair. It’s nurturing to me to see people with a smile on their face.” On July 10, 2010, Mershele will host an awareness event at her salon. Various organizations such as HIV/ AIDs Awareness, Diabetes and Sickle Cell, along with a fashion show presentation, praise dancers and singers will be represented. “I invite everyone to come out and join us. It will be a day of celebration for the whole family. It’s going to be an awesome event!” Mershele says that she believes it’s important to give back, even if you don’t have much to give. “If you don’t have enough to pay your bills, God wants you to sow a seed. You don’t have enough to pay it anyway so why not just sow this seed. God says he will make you a ruler over a little before a ruler over much. It’s about giving even if you don’t have much. Our arms are too short to box with God. Whatever little thing you give, watch what God will give back to you.” ■ Divine Serenity Hair Salon 3471 South Cobb Drive Smyrna, Ga

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Full of Flavor with Chef Gason! In Rhythm with Ava Collier…

hef Gason Nelson is a New Orleans native whose love of cooking has literally become his ‘bread and butter.’ Chef Gason is the owner of Full of Flavor, a personalized chef catering service which can either come to your home and prepare gourmet meals for you and your guests or deliver them to you. In addition to preparing delicious meals for such notables as Kenny and Chante (Moore) Lattimore and 50 cents, Chef Gason is the personal chef of NFL Super Bowl star, Reggie Bush. I talked with Chef Gason and here is what he shared with me.

Ava: Tell me about Full of Flavor and how it came about Chef: It’s not a restaurant. It’s a personal chef service. I concentrate on the fine dining experience. For example, if you are having guests at your home and wanted to do something different, I would come in and sit with you to discuss the menu. Nothing is off limits and I can have foods flown in overnight for you. I would come to your home with a server and you worry about nothing. Everything is done from scratch, from the bread, the soup, the entrée and dessert. We serve the courses to you and your guests

New Orleans, LA

“...there wasn’t anything else in life I wanted to do.” and try to give my clients an awesome experience. People always ask me how I do it all. It’s so easy to me because I love it. I feel as though I’m retired already because I don’t feel like this is a job. Ava: How did you become the private chef for Reggie Bush? Chef: I take care of him during the football season. After Hurricane Katrina, I’d lost all of my clients and didn’t know what to do. Then the New Orleans Saints drafted Reggie Bush and I was excited. I was living in Texas and one day I was in the gym and I get a phone call from my wife. I thought something was wrong at home. Instead she said Reggie Bush’s agent just called and said they wanted to meet me. At first I thought it was a joke. I returned the call and they wanted to meet me. I drove in for a demo dinner for them. There was a line of chefs waiting to cook for him. I just wanted to meet him. Working for him was the furthest thing from my mind. I came in, met him, we talked, I cooked for him and afterwards he hired me on the spot without even seeing another chef! I was still living in Houston. I packed up and came back to New Orleans and here I am today. I’ve been with him for four years now. I get up every day and get to play. I wake up and pinch myself…Is this for real? I get paid to go to someone’s house to cook. I’d do it for free! ■ To find out more about Chef Gason and Full of Flavor, visit www.chefgason.com

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Ava: Chef Gason, where does your love of cooking come from? Chef: Cooking is my passion. I realized it’s my purpose in life. I was 18 years old and joined the military after my father got his military orders to go to Alaska. I didn’t want to go to Alaska. I went to the military recruiter’s office and said I needed a job. The first thing that popped up was a cook. I thought, how hard could it be to cook? After I got in the military and began cooking, I realized it was a challenge to feed that many people at one time. But I also realized that there wasn’t anything else in life I wanted to do. I definitely fell in love with food.

The Effects of Unforgiveness

Thank You,

By Stacy Lattisaw Jackson

By Richard M. Thompson

INSPIRATIONAL TRENDS

e all have a past and for some, our pasts have been difficult. Many times we look back at our lives and wish we could change them. I met a woman who had been molested many years ago by a close family member. She said it was difficult for her to not only see this person, but to forgive him. We all know that saying “Let go and let God.” However, in a situation like this, forgiveness can seem impossible; but it is possible with God’s help. We were all born with a sinful nature. It takes the grace of God to not only change our hearts, but our minds as well. We must pray diligently for God to take away the pain and give us the grace to enable us to forgive. Forgiveness is important not so much for the person who caused you pain, but for yourself and your well being. Doctors have said that unforgiveness can cause sickness and disease. I heard a story about Washington, DC a man who held un-forgiveness in his heart for years towards someone who hurt him. He told his pastor that he had become sick because he held on to it for so long and wished he hadn’t. When we’re unable to forgive, it steals our joy and hardens our heart. Unforgiveness affects our relationships because we are not free to love the way God intended us to love. God wants us to live a life free from bondage, but if you never acknowledge the unforgiveness then you will be defeated. The Bible says in John 10:10 that the thief cometh but for to steal and to kill and to destroy. If we learn to pray and give our hurts, disappointments, and unforgiveness to God, He’ll not only release the pain, but he’ll also give us compassion for others who have also been hurt. People who have suffered the most are some of the most compassionate people. There are three very important things we must do in order to be free from unforgiveness. First we must acknowledge the unforgiveness, then we must ask God to help us to forgive those who have hurt us. Forgiveness is a process but as you continue to pray, God will enable you to forgive. Finally, we must release it to God. John 8:36 says, “He whom the son sets free is free indeed.” Don’t let unforgiveness steal your joy because if you have no joy, you have no strength. If you have no strength, then you will not be effective for God’s use. So if there is unforgiveness in your heart, release it to God today and begin to walk in liberty. You will no longer be the victim, but the victor! ■ 32

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Mr. President

here are times in the course of our lives when we realize that a historical event has taken place that will alter the lives of a nation for generations to come. When the Social Security Act was passed in the 1930’s, laws were established to provide a safety net for the elderly so that in their golden years they would not Akron, OH have to live out their lives in abject poverty. In 1964 and 1965, landmark legislation was passed entitled the Voting Rights Act and the Civil Rights Act. These legislative achievements reversed decades of Jim Crow laws that kept African-Americans from being discriminated and murdered just for wanting to live out their lives as any other American was guaranteed under the Constitution of the United States. In 1965, Medicare was passed so that seniors in this nation would know that, regardless of their income, they would be able to receive affordable health care. Recently President Obama signed into law health care reform, something that most presidents since Teddy Roosevelt wanted to enact. It was a travesty that every developed country in the world has universal health care for their citizens except the United States. These nations realize that the healthier your citizenry is, the more productive your society is, and the more economically successful your nation will become. The new law will stop insurance companies from denying coverage for people with pre-existing conditions. It will allow parents to keep their children on their policies until they turn 26 years old. It will also stop insurance companies from denying children with pre-existing conditions from obtaining coverage and give small businesses a tax credit up of 35% to defray the cost of buying health insurance for their employees. It will also stop the deaths of 45,000 people who die every year because they lack health insurance. Now the bill is not the end of reform, but the beginning. As time goes on, changes will be made to strengthen the legislation to make it better. For more information about the health care reform bill go to www.whitehouse.gov. The legislation cannot be repealed because they do not have the votes in congress to overturn a presidential veto. The irony is that the same people who opposed the bill may one day benefit from the passage of this legislation. ■ Richard Thompson is a freelance writer and may be contacted at thmpsnmic@gmail.com. www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

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A Season of Deliverance AVAILABLE NOW

In Rhythm with Ava Collier…

Ft Meyers, FL

INSPIRATIONAL TRENDS

ara Moore is more than just a gospel recording artist, she’s a survivor. This native Floridian says she had just about given up on her vision to sing. Her life had been filled with two marriages that both involved domestic violence. Although she always loved singing, there wasn’t much to sing about at the time. “My first husband was physically abusive. I met my second husband-to-be while still married and trying to get away from my first. At first, this new man in my life seemed like a protector. I found out soon enough that he wasn’t. He also became my abuser,” admits Tara. Tara has now found true love with her third husband, James Moore, affectionately known as “Mo.” “I’m now happily married to Mo for the past eight years. He is also my producer and engineer on my current CD, Destiny.” She stated that after attempting to revive her singing career earlier, she’d given up again. It was only after attending a funeral of a family member that she received confirmation about her gift. “I was attending a funeral of one of my husband’s family members. I met Evangelist Sharon Scott. She prophesied to me that God still wanted me to use my gift of song to help others everywhere to heal and be delivered.” Tara says it hadn’t been the first time that she’d been told this. However, it was this last time that she decided to be obedient and follow God’s purpose for her. “I grew up in the church and have been singing in the choir since I was 13. Others had prophesied to me

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about my singing, but now it’s time. It’s my season of deliverance. My music has made me believe that when God has something for you, no matter how late in life, it will come to pass. I do believe in God’s timing.” Inspired by some of gospel’s most dynamic recording artists such as, Fred Hammonds, Helen Baylor, Yolanda Adams, Donnie McClurkin and the entire Winans family, Tara shares that she’d one day like to be in their presence and even record music with them, if God so desires. “If traveling to record is in God’s plans for me, then I will do it. I am a gospel recording artist and if it is His plan for me to be in the presence of those other gospel artists, then I will go where He leads me.” Her CD is entitled Destiny and she credits her loving husband, Mo, and her friend, Evangelist Scott, for helping to make this dream possible. “My husband is my manager and producer and I love working together with him. Evangelist Scott wrote the lyrics to the title track, Destiny. This CD is about deliverance and healing from domestic violence,” says Tara. “I truly thank God for this opportunity and now my desire is to please Him in everyway.” You can buy Tara’s CD, Destiny, online at www.cdbaby.com/cd/taramoore or you can visit her website at www.myspace.com/taramoorerightnow. To order by phone, please call toll free at 1-800-289-6923

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THOSE SHAMEFUL DIRTY LITTLE SECRETS By Angela M. Thomas

INSPIRATIONAL TRENDS

s long as we continue to secretly switch the labels on sin to make it seem less serious, we are being dishonest with ourselves and with God and we remain unforgiven. Let’s call sin by its name without exaggerating and free ourselves of shame. Call it out by its name. If we say, “God it’s lying that I continue to do or its jealousy lingering in my heart. It’s lust lurking deep within my soul or revenge I am still seeking. It’s hate I continue to hold for others or I have committed adultery or unforgiveness that I still struggle with in my everyday life.” God promises, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9) Confess means to call sin by the same names that God does and to be in agreement with Him about recognizing, confessing and seeking forgiveness of your sins. I have learned that sin is sin and it doesn’t really matter the size, whether big or small, the duration of the sins being committed or how recently they were committed. It doesn’t matter the reasons behind our acts of sin, whether they were committed out of revenge, spontaneity or malice. God will forgive us if we just seek His forgiveness in our hearts and confess our sins! However, we know that the enemy tries to keep us chained to the circumstances of the past and present to keep us from reaching our full potential. In order for us to move forward, we must be willing to confess our sins and give up yesterday and go on toward tomorrow with forgiveness. All you need to do is allow God’s power and anointing to touch the hurting places that need healing. He will take care of all of those dirty little secrets. God is in the healing business and He will restore you as you continue to call out to Him. If you have been wondering how God will make things come to pass in your life, remember that He will accomplish the task. No man will get the credit for your deliverance. He will restore your faith; He will give life to your spirit. He will put purpose back into you. He will renew your heart, mind and spirit. Most importantly, He will restore you. ■

Miami, FL

He who covers his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy. Proverbs 28:13 NKJV

Angela M. Thomas is Founder and President of Reach 2 Teach and Sheerpurrfection Publishing. Angela has written and published eight Inspirational books. She is a certified speaker who speaks from the heart and soul. To book Angela, please call (305) 793-1347 or visit www.AngelaMThomas.com

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MY DATE WITH CANCER Volume 5 By Barbara Campbell

any thoughts ran through my mind sitting there waiting, watching as the professionals began to do their work. A peace came over me that I can’t explain and I knew then that GOD was in control. I remembered the journey the Lord had taken me on. One of peace and tranquility, learning to lean on Him and not on my own understanding and acknowledging Him in all my ways and letting Him direct my paths. When the doctor came out of the operating room after 6 1/2 hours, he had a look on his face that was unnerving and he said, “Mrs. Campbell, can we step into this room?” Not wanting to hear what he had to say alone, I assured him that it was alright to speak in front of the people waiting with me. They were Chantal’s bosses, but I call them her “Godfathers” and her roommate, Angie, who is like a daughter to me. He informed us that Chantal was still on the operating table and they had removed some of her nodes and they were being sent to the pathologist to be diagnosed and then he returned to the operating room. Once again, the doctor came out and said four of the nodes they removed were cancerous and in my mind I wondered what did this mean? Had the cancer spread? Was it advanced further than we thought? The doctors began to explain exactly what it meant and they had removed the nodes.

INSPIRATIONAL TRENDS

San Antonio, TX

As I took a walk down memory lane remembering the joy that my daughter brought into my life, I realized that I was not ready to lose her to cancer. She is my Joy Keeper! I gained strength from her because she was in high spirits and seeing that, I knew that I could deal with anything. While Chantal was in the recovery room and I sat at her bedside watching her, I kept telling myself that you can get through this! You can handle this because you have the strength of the Lord on your side. But the words wouldn’t go away, Joy Keeper, and once again, I realized my purpose of helping others and my journey of building the Joy Keeper Foundation began. You see, God did just as He promised. He walked with me in my darkest hour, the thought of losing my child. He let her survive and live! He gave me the strength I needed to be strong for her and to help keep her spirits uplifted. My God didn’t let me down! He reassured my FAITH in Him. You are going to have doubts when being tested by Satan, but God has a way of placing people and circumstances in your path to show you just who He is. ■ Barbara Campbell, Founder Executive Director 2930 E. Bitters Rd, Bldg#2 San Antonio, TX 78217 Cell: (210) 584-9512

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‘Chic SkiNotationsVolume 7 “Let’s Go Kick It…How Do Our Feet Stand It?”

BEAUTY AND FASHION TRENDS

By Tracy Ashley

Ft. Worth, TX

reetings Trendsetters! Well here we are right in the middle of spring 2010 and what a blessing it is. Flowers are blooming, the air is fresh and it’s time for us to bring out those slinky dresses and sexy sandals. This is indeed my favorite time of year because like many other women, I am a shoe fanatic! It’s just natural for women to want to show off their assets whenever the weather permits and sandals are the perfect “show-off” accessory. Now of course that sexy sandal has to be wrapped around a beautiful, well manicured foot, agree? Believe it or not this is not always the case and all of us have seen it and been disgraced by it. Yes, seeing an awesome sandal on a “jacked up,” ashy foot can ruin a woman’s entire outfit. And just how do our feet stand it? Moreover, why do we allow it? Do you know that our feet mirror our general health? Conditions like arthritis, diabetes, nerve and circulatory disorders can show their initial symptoms in the feet? So foot ailments can be the first sign of more serious medical problems. Since none of us want serious foot problems, why don’t we follow a few general guidelines to maintaining, healthy, well hydrated pods…

 Always clean feet with warm, soapy water and mild soap and dry them thoroughly. This will minimize fungus growth also known as athlete’s foot.  Apply a thin layer of powder to the bottom of the feet to help with perspiration. (Besides, there are about 250,000

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“Do you know that our feet mirror our general health?”

sweat glands in a pair of feet and they excrete as much as half of a pint of moisture each day!)  Always attend to dry feet and cracked heels. This can be done by exfoliating twice weekly with a pumice stone or exfoliating scrub (sugar or salt). TrāChic Bodywear has a great line of raw sugar scrubs for men and women that are excellent in the removal of dead skin cells. Apply these products during your showering and your feet will feel extremely soft and supple afterwards.  Moisturize feet at least twice daily. A moisturizing balm rich with lanolin or jojoba oil can be used to do the trick— especially at night covered with socks. TrāChic Bodywear has an excellent foot conditioner called “Pedi-CURE” because it really is the CURE for those dry, cracked heels, as the key ingredients are Shea butter, jojoba oil, lavender, eucalyptus and peppermint essentials oils, which aid in preventing foot fungus. Try it…you’ll love it. By following these simple guidelines to keeping her feet healthy and pampering ourselves regularly during the spring and summer months, a woman can achieve smooth, sexy feet worthy of the most expensive sandals… And yes, we can go kick it with no problems! Enjoy! Best Regards and Beautiful Skin, Tracy, TrāChic Bodywear- President/Chemist www.trachicbodywear.com 817.235.4085

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Houston, TX

“SCALP AND HAIR CHALLENGES” By DOROTHY S. FLAKE, PhD.

“Stress management is a positive technique for controlling and preventing stress, which in turn will reduce hair loss.”

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lopecia is the general term for hair loss. One of the most common forms of alopecia seen by hairstylists is alopecia areata. It may appear as a dime, nickel, or quarter- sized areas on the scalp where the skin is smooth and shiny and no other hair is present. The condition is usually spotted by your stylist, who may suggest you see a dermatologist. It may develop rather suddenly and is caused by a minor defect in the immune system. Medical treatment by your dermatologist often involves use of corticosteroids. This type of alopecia can be associated with thyroid disease and diabetes, but is most often due to severe stress. Alopecia seborrheic is hair loss caused by severe cases of seborrhea dermatitis. Once the yeast is under control, your hair will begin to grow back normally. Traction alopecia occurs when there is trauma to the hair follicle, causing thinning along the sides of the temples. This is the most common form of alopecia seen by the hairstylists. However, I have found that if traction alopecia is caught early and the follicle has not yet been destroyed (as diagnosed by a dermatologist), applying and massaging shea butter to the area three to four times a week for one month will result in some hair growth. I firmly recommend that you ask your stylist not to braid your hair very tightly. If the stylist does not comply, then STOP going to that stylist. Yes, I said STOP!! It's not worth it and is unacceptable. Stress management is a positive technique for controlling and preventing stress, which in turn will reduce hair loss. I SUGGEST combining a three-part

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stress management technique that is physically, mentally and spiritually based. PHYSICALLY Fifteen minutes of aerobics in the morning prompts the heart to generate a blood flow that circulates to the brain and scalp, which feeds the follicles and promotes hair growth. MENTALLY Try this meditating and breathing technique: Breathe in, hold your breath and count 10 to 15 seconds, and then release while envisioning a beautiful and peaceful environment. This promotes a calm and tranquil disposition. SPIRITUALLY Praising the Father, giving thanks, and counting all your blessings, acknowledging that all is right with the world. Believing that the Creator has you in the palm of His hands reduces worry and internal stress, which in turn can control nervousness, including hair loss from pulling and tugging out your hair. Knowing and living by Faith promotes peace and order. I personally combine all three stress management techniques every morning, along with drinking an herbal protein drink, having green tea, taking my vitamins and supplements. For my spiritual reinforcement through the day, I read my bible, create and adhere to positive thinking, stay away from petty gossip and surround myself with positive people! Be Blessed, DOROTHY S. FLAKE, PhD. WOMEN'S HAIR RESTORATION Salon in the Park/Willowbrook 17776 Tomball Parkway, Suite 106 Houston, TX 77064 Bus 281-517-6145 TRENDSETTERS TRENDSETTERS TO TO TRENDSETTERS TRENDSETTERS | | MAY/JUNE MAY/JUNE 2010 2010

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Trendsetters to Trendsetters Magazine Attends the New York International Auto Show

EVENT TRENDS

By Corey Brewer

he New York Auto Show was very different from any of the auto shows I have attended. The Auto show had different events for the public to participate. Upon entering the Jacob Javits Center, you can see in plain sight an obstacle course made by Jeep. All patrons could take advantage of the jeep experience. They allowed you to test drive a jeep around an obstacle course, which simulated traveling through a mountainous off-road terrain. Another obstacle course was test driving the Saturn Soloris. It definitely had a trendsetting affect. I felt like I was racing my friends around the track. They even had arcade simulated games of the cars being introduced at the event. Also, trend setting DJ Red Alert from 98.7 Kiss FM, was there. He was spinning some of the hottest R&B music to date. I saw the most fascinating car at the Auto Show, the Mercedes Benz 2003 SL 500, converted into a 2010 SL 65 Black

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series convertible. It was built by Sarona, a company specializing in converting vehicles into the cars of your dreams for a fraction of the price. If you do your homework, you will find out a brand new 2010 SL 65 black series convertible approximately costs between $300,000 to $350,000. You can get this same car converted by Sarona for $69,000, which is much cheaper than the brand new model. Sarona has many advantages. First, the car is converted into carbon fiber. If you didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t know, carbon fiber is one of the lightest materials you can use for the body of a car. As a result it helps the car save money on gas. Secondly, the carbon fiber creates an extra wide wheel base for the car, helping the car handle better. This unique factor will allow you to put 26 inch rims on the car. This is not possible with any Mercedes Benz sold. Sarona has very good trendsetting concepts and I feel in these hard economical times, they had the best looking economical vehicle. â&#x2013;

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Ava’s View on Who’s Who In Black Atlanta By Ava Simone Collier

he Who’s Who in Black Atlanta event was held at the Georgia International Convention Center on March 31, 2010. It was my first big networking event in Atlanta and Will Stewart and I attended the event together. If anyone looked at us, they would easily recognize which of us was the newcomer to this event; clearly it was me. How would they know, you ask? Because I was the one who wasn’t eating. From the time we entered into the conference reception hall, Will was relaxed and confidently mingled and

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chatted with some of Atlanta’s elite. I, on the other hand, juggled my oversized, but very chic, tote bag which contained about a dozen copies of our magazine, in addition to all of my necessities, i.e. makeup case, cell phone, an extra pair of panty hose in case I got a run, hair brush, camera…well, you get the point. I looked around at the hundreds of faces and honestly, I had no idea who was who! I’d almost wished we’d all had name tags stuck to us like they used to do when we were kids at school on a field trip. The evening rolled on and Will graciously introduced me to everyone that he talked with. While we stood talking with some people, I decided to excuse myself and venture off alone. I was there to network and mingle, right? I smiled and went up to several people and introduced myself. We chatted, I gave out copies of our magazine and my business card. I was enjoying myself until I realized that I’d been standing for about two hours and my high heels were beginning to hurt my feet. Several times while I was chatting with people, I’d look around and spotted Will casually surveying the array of fruits, chocolates and other hors’doeuvres all while he talked, laughed and networked. There was no doubt that I was watching a seasoned networker in action. “Hmmm…I need to take notes,” I thought to myself. I also remember thinking, “I’m starving and I’ve got to get over there!” But no! I couldn’t eat and network at the same time! Suppose some food got stuck between my teeth and I didn’t know it as I chatted with the Mayor. How embarrassing! But who could eat anyway with all the excitement going on. Then I saw Will pop another hors’doeuvre into his mouth.

Oh, did I mention that Will’s camera stopped working after a few pictures and we used mine. The only problem with that was that it was a new camera and I hadn’t yet figured out how to work it and I couldn’t see all the tiny little buttons because my reading glasses were at the bottom of my tote bag. Not to worry. Will figured it out and he took pictures of me with the Mayor of Atl a nta , Ka si m Reed, the President of Clark Atlanta University, Carlton E.

Brown and Who’s Who’s CEO, Hiram Jackson and Trumpet Awards’ President/CEO, Xernona Clayton. I also had the pleasure of meeting Randy Fling, COO of Rolling Out Magazine, who took a great picture of Will and I. The doors to the main room where the unveiling was to take place opened. Yes! There were chairs and I’d be able to sit down. Once again, I looked around for Will and, yes, you’ve guessed, he was on the other side of the room smiling and talking and…eating. As we walked into the seating area, he wiped his mouth with a napkin and said “Mmmm, that chocolate that I just ate was good. I want another one.” I was hoping no one could hear my stomach growl. The ceremony began with its opening performance, invocation, sponsor recognition and finally, the unveiling of the Who’s Who 2010 book cover. Congratulations to Hiram Jackson, Cassandra Bozeman and Yolanda Reynolds for hosting this great celebration. Congratulations also to all of the 2010 Who’s Who Honorees, including our own CEO, Willie L. Stewart. By the way, Will was very much a gentleman and did offer to get me a plate during the evening, but I declined. As hungry as I was, I just couldn’t eat; but I made up for it later! He did buy me some bottled water because my mouth was so dry from all the talking and networking I’d been doing. Mind you, I’m a mature woman of …well…let’s just say I’m between 49 and 51, but that night, I felt like a debutante and Atlanta welcomed me warmly! Thanks Atlanta and thanks, Will! All in all, it was a great evening. Next time, though, I’m wearing more comfortable shoes and yes, you’ve guessed it, I’m eating! ■

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In Rhythm with Ava Simone Collier

“T ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT

he ‘Z’ on the end of my name is for Zen because I’m a Zen master at what I’m doing. It’s powerful and I have a strong faith in God, a strong spiritual sense of being. I combine the two philosophies and they work for me in my life.” Saint Jaimz is talking about the unusual spelling of his name. “I don’t have to do gospel music to lead people into the light of where they need to be in their lives. That’s why I’m called Saint Jaimz because I’m called to lead people back to the realness about music and things that will change their lives and bring healing through my music,” Saint Jaimz continues. This handsome and talented independent artist doesn’t sing gospel. Instead he is a balladeer, almost a lost genre in today’s world of hip hop, rap and music with lyrics that talk about anything but love. But don’t misunderstand. Saint Jaimz says he does not sing love songs. “I just loved Luther Vandross, Peabo Bryson and Jeffrey Osborne. When you get down to the soul crooners like these cats, they’re the unsung heroes of the R&B world and were phenomenal. People still need that stuff. I sing Life songs, not love songs.” He says it doesn’t mean singing about the fantasy of love, but the reality of love. “The fantasy is that ‘I’m gonna cook your food and run your bath water every night.’ No dude is gonna do that every night after work, let’s be honest. But he can love you and be honest with you. He can be real instead of lying and cheating on you. There’s so much pain and betrayal and lack of loyalty out there.” Saint Jaimz says he’s serious about this message and the key to love is loving yourself. “I think the global society has

lost the real essence of what love is all about. It’s not sex, money or how you look. It’s you loving yourself to the point that people have to respect and admire you when you love yourself. People will know that they can’t get over on you when you love yourself. When we don’t love ourselves enough, how can we love other people?” He adds, “Whether someone stays in your life or leaves, you’re okay.” Saint Jaimz’s newest project is entitled Luv is a Pzy-cho. The first release, No Body But U, can be heard by visiting his website at SJmuzic.com. You can also purchase this single from his website. “I’m an anointed R&B singer…anointed by God to do this. I’m not just some singer singing empty lyrics and melodies. I just want the music to open the door and speak and touch those people who need it.” ■

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Sacremento, CA

“...I sing Life songs, not love songs.”

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WKM Records Signs Major Label Distribution Deal and Launches Several New Projects

ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT

ouston based independent record label WKM Records inked an exclusive national distribution deal today through an undisclosed major label. “We are not quite ready to release the details of the deal just yet.” explained label CEO Jimmy Baber. Under the new deal WKM Records will develop and release products in the genres of Gospel and Jazz. The first of three projects slated for release is a new album from label owner and Contemporary Jazz Guitarist Jimmy B. Just the Way I Feel. Baber is an artist of superior talent and amazing versatility. Not only does he play a strong, "funky" guitar, but he is also an accomplished composer, which becomes obvious when you hear the unique style of his music. I’ve Been Saved is a project born of Johnny Barber- twin brother of Jimmy. This is a brand new Gospel compilation which features Eddie Levert, Najee, Zacardi Cortez, Mary Griffith (Touring artist with Pattie Labelle), Oliver Scott (Formerly of the Gap Band), Hope Lester (Featured on the Bobby Jones Gospel Hour), percussionist Charles Brown and many more. The Jazz All-Stars CD is the third installation to be released from the WKM camp. The compilation will reflect the eloquence and smooth persona of jazz. This project will feature works performed by Najee, Bobby Lyle, Paul Jackson Jr., Glen Piper, Kyle Turner, Kerry Wilkins, Chuck Johnson

and Jordan Donald. The project closest to the hearts of the WKM family is a reunion concert to be held in Canton Ohio. “The event will have special meaning to us all as we return to our roots. We’ll bring together the entire WKM family of artists to perform. Highlights will include appearances by a bevy of national artists that are natives of the area for a unique musical celebration.” said Baber. For additional media information or to inquire about artists bookings, please call 832.722.1383. ■ About WKM RECORDS We Know Music (WKM) is a state-of-the art, full service recording studio and label located in the great city of Houston, TX. We have been in business for 10 years and our staff is comprised of talented and amazing composers, producers, and engineers ready to facilitate the needs of all of our clients. WKM is positioned to assist in making dreams become a reality.

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ward winning talent Karen Vaughn is a multi-media maven who is making an innovative impact in the broadcast industry. Karen is the Assistant Program Director and Midday Talent on Cleveland’s 93.1 WZAK-FM; in-conjunction with daily radio in Charleston, SC, and Florence, SC, and voiceover actress whose voice is heard on numerous radio and television stations throughout the country. Karen's creative versatility, cutting-edge style and radio broadcasting expertise have earned her numerous honors and awards throughout her career. She has been honored as Assistant Program Director and Music Director of the Year from Billboard Magazine, Radio and Records Magazine and Gavin Magazine. Karen’s Radio show has also been nominated for Urban Radio Personality/Show of the year. Karen, a graduate of Temple University, is deeply committed to using her

RADIO PERSONALITY

Cleveland, OH

Cleveland’s 93.1 WZAK-FM’S

Tyler Perry says, “I love being on Karen’s show. She does the best interviews.”

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platform to inform, entertain and inspire. Her passion for radio, love of people and willingness to freely share her thoughts about life, work and motherhood allow her to connect with her female listeners in a special way and has taken that connection to the internet with her lifestyle blog for working women, www.workingdivas.com. Karen is celebrated for her engaging personality and her indepth interviews. Lionel Richie boasted, “Karen has the magic.” Tyler Perry says, “I love being on Karen’s show. She does the best interviews.” She has welcomed into the studio Tyler Perry, Sherrie Shepherd, Lionel Richie, Jay Z, John Legend, Simon Cowell, Jamie Foxx and Suze Orman, to name a few. Karen has worked in major markets across the country, most recently for Hot 105’s Midday Show “Karen in the Midday” and Entertainment reporter for the Jim and Jade Morning Show on MY33 in Miami. Karen has also graced the airwaves in Philadelphia, PA, Washington, DC, and Baltimore, MD. Her distinct personal approach and vibrant personality makes her one of the most recognized talents in the nation. She was named on R&R Magazine’s “Women on the Rise” Top Ten list. Karen is currently writing her first book, Working Divas: From an 80’s Fly Girl to a Millennium Woman. Tune in to Karen to experience a fresh approach to radio and the web. Karen Vaughn -Working Mom…Working Media! ■

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Atlanta, GA

REAL ESTATE TRENDS

n my decade of selling real estate I have never seen so many families lose their homes. Our economy has taught all of us one important thing, save your money for a rainy day! This economy has affected all status levels and income families. More than one million homes in America are now in foreclosure, according to the Mortgage Bankers Association and the rich and famous are not immune. Around our nation we have seen single family, multifamily and commercial property go back to the banks. Some of the tallest trees fell hard…real hard. In most recent news, Dr. Julius Irving (Dr. J) invested in a golf course in Tucker, GA. He invested in the golf course four years ago, and his total investment was three million dollars. The golf course was sold on April 6th in a foreclosure sale. As we know, Evander Holyfield’s mansion in Fayette County in Georgia finally went in foreclosure. The home was saved at least three times from the courthouse steps. That was a home that was one of a kind and worth more than $10 million. Our Queen of Soul, Aretha Franklin, almost lost her home to foreclosure with $19,000.00 in back taxes. Michael Vick’s home in Duluth, GA., stayed on the market for more than two years; it was finally sold in an auction. Mr. Vick paid more than four million dollars for the home. One of the biggest trees that fell was Trump Condominium future lot in Atlanta, GA. Trump International Hotel & Tower in Fort Lauderdale, FL, defaulted on both multi-million dollar loans. Celebrities that have flirted with foreclosure but were saved by the bell have been Damon Dash, TBoz Watkins (member of TLC), Fantasia and the Octomom, who just had the eight babies in California.

Rich and Famous Not Immune to Foreclosure So this economy is not prejudice. We have to remember that this is a time that we have to really keep our spending in line and set our priorities for what may come next. If you feel that you are about to lose your home, call your bank and schedule a short sale for your home. This will still affect your credit, but it will not be a foreclosure. A short sale will save you and the bank any hardship. Let us be proactive in this economy! Let us try to save our credit and our homes. If you have any foreclosure questions, please feel free to email me at bowsergroup@yahoo.com ■

By Mechelle Bowser, Foreclosure Realtor

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AUTO TRENDS

t’s human nature to picture yourself in the driver’s seat of the Benz that just passed you on the interstate, the Range Rover that pulled next to you at the traffic light, or the Jaguar that has just been retrieved from the valet. Often times, consumers consider a luxury vehicle without considering the luxury tax associated with them. For example, let’s say you just purchased a brand new BMW 535i off the show room floor. Sure you will get recognition from your peers and friends, but did you calculate the cost of ownership for that vehicle? Did you consider the $150 oil change? When you buy luxury, you can’t take your car to a local repair shop for inexpensive service. You must take it to the dealership so that their certified technicians can service your vehicle appropriately. Maybe you just purchased a used Range Rover. Sure it’s a couple years old, but the body style is still current and you negotiated a real good price! However, when the air bag suspension goes out, do

you have $1,400 per tire to repair it? Can you afford a $250 oil change or the cost for a new fan belt along with the labor associated with the repair? I know an individual who purchased a used 2004 Mercedes two years ago. After he realized how much routine maintenance costs were, he decided to park it. He quickly realized that as long as it is parked, he wouldn’t have to worry about the expensive maintenance costs. It’s simple; if you can afford luxury, by all means enjoy it. However, if you are just trying to keep up with the Jones’, you might want to check your wallet first. FYI – When purchasing any vehicle with a manufacturer or extended warranty, make sure you read and understand it thoroughly. When it comes time for a warranty repair, you will be well equipped to handle it with more confidence. ■

Small Business Owners: Four Steps To Save

epending on the type of small business you own, what you pay to insure your vehicles could be as much as 40 percent of your total operating budget. The following steps can help you take control of this expense and save money. 1. Request a policy review. Take time to understand the coverages that are legally required by the state and your customers, then review your policy with your insurance company or independent agent to understand your coverages, limits and deductibles. A policy review will also help you update information on your policy, which could save you money. 2. When you review your policy, take a look at your deductibles. A deductible is the amount you'll pay out of pocket in the event of a claim. If your business can 48

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afford to pay more out of pocket, you can raise your deductible amounts and save money on your premium. Check out your payment plan. Insurance companies offer a lot of options. If your budget can allow paying in full, you could get a discount. If you can't pay in full, a monthly payment plan can help you line up payments with cash flow. Your insurance provider should offer payment plans to fit all types of vehicles and businesses. Ask about available discounts. Some insurance providers may offer discounts to experienced business owners and to drivers with CDLs.

For more information contact your insurance provider. ■ www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

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Augusta, GA

By Lionel Locke

cultural holidays also bring out public festivities throughout the year. Nature lovers and introspective travelers can enjoy the serene aspects of Trinidad and Tobago’s nature centers and sanctuar-

he nation of Trinidad and Tobago is a cultural crayon box of different peoples. Even the names of its cities – Guayaguayare, PointePierre, Charlotteville and San Fernando, for

The Colors of Trinidad and Tobago example – reflect a mix of languages and historical influences. Trinidad and Tobago are the two primary islands of the nation, with most of the population living on Trinidad. Trinidadians may trace their heritage from Africa, Asia, Europe, the Middle East and the Carib Indians. English is the official language, though some Trinidadians also speak other languages. Trinidad and Tobago is renowned for its pre-Lenten Carnival celebration. An observance with roots in medieval Europe has become an elaborate street festival marked by lively music, dancing, costumes and exotic entertainment. Other religious and

he San Francisco Bay - commonly known as the Bay Area – is one of California’s most renowned regions. In reality, the Bay Area is a thriving, diverse metropolis that extends far beyond the city limits of San Francisco. The inland city of Richmond is right in the heart of this community, offering scenic views of the water. There are many attractions for visitors of varied interests just within the city alone. History buffs should visit the Rosie the Riveter WWII Home Front National Historical Park, which documents the efforts of ordinary civilian Americans who did their part to help the war effort. The museum also docu-

ments how the war sparked societal changes towards women’s roles, racial integration, and America’s transformation from an agricultural to an urban society. The Richmond Museum of History tells the story of the region, starting with the native Ohlone people through the 20th century. Also crucial to the development of Richmond and the entire state of California is the railroad system. Train enthusiasts will enjoy the Golden State Model Railroad Museum, which features models of modern and historical trains and railway lines. For more history, you can take a walking tour through Point Richmond, a designated historic district. Richmond has a number of parks throughout its shoreline which feature sculptural exhibits. Take a drive around the city, and you can catch murals and

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Richmond, California: The Way of the Bay

ies, as well as its mountains, forests, waterfalls and beaches. You’ll never get bored between hiking, sunbathing, snorkeling, surfing, flora and fauna watching, fishing, sporting, boating, cave exploring or any other recreational options. There are also many museums of the islands’ artworks, historical artifacts and buildings. Is your stomach growling by now? Trinidad and Tobago’s cuisine comes from all over the world. One of the nation’s popular foods is “doubles,” a chickpea sandwich. Indian, African, Creole and Chinese food, seafood, spices and condiments all dot the landscape of the Trinidadian menu. With so many opportunities, you must give ample time to both islands to get the full experience of your trip. ■

other artworks in the public view. For more art viewing, visit the Richmond Art Center. Richmond has plenty for the environmental traveler. The Bay Area estuary attracts thousands of migratory birds each year, and it also attracts people interested in birding, hiking, biking and exploring nature trails. For shopping, there is the Hilltop Mall, which carries major department stores, restaurants and national retailers. The Pacific East Shopping Mall is the place for Asian products and cuisine. If you desire to venture out further after seeing all Richmond has to offer, San Francisco, the Napa Valley and other Bay Area attractions are within driving distance. So look up Richmond for your next visit to the Golden State. ■

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By Mechelle Bowser If you have any celebrity news, please drop me a line at thestartinireport@yahoo.com. I would love to hear from you.

Welcome back to our wonderful celebrity news page! I want my Startini Report to be a cocktail when you read it. I want you to feel informed and “in the know” with the celebrity life. If you have not climbed a tree in a while, you might want to know what the upper branches of our society are doing. So let’s begin the climb. This spring brought about quite a few courthouse visits. It seems as if Allen Iverson’s wife and Barry Bonds’ wife were giving smoke signals - reports that both wives filed for divorce on the same day in February of this year. I was wondering, isn’t this Barry Bonds’ eighth divorce? Just kidding! Well hubby Nick Cannon made Mariah Carey very happy on her 40th birthday this past March. Nick gave his wife a custom pink Porsche Cayenne SUV. The pink paint was designed by a paint specialist and the new name of the paint, Mariah Carey Pink. You go boy!! Congrats go out to Keysha Cole and NBA baller, Daniel Gibson, for welcoming a new baby boy in March who was named after his father. Rapper Nas may be seeing his ex wife out on a date. Looks like Kelis has made the first move to start dating since she and Nas divorced. Reports are saying that Kelis has been seen quite a few times with Chicago Bears defensive end Adewale Ogunleye. Gabrielle Union made it officially known on the Jimmy Kimmel show that she and Dwayne Wade 50 50

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have become an official couple. She also stated that her dad has courtside seats at the games for Mr. Wade. Real Housewives of Atlanta star, Kim Zolciak, is admitting to Life and Style Magazine that she experienced dating a female after her break up with Big Poppa. And reports are already saying that the girlfriend broke up with Kim already…ummm…Kim wasn’t ready! Lisa Raye may have a new man in her life since her divorce. It is none other than sexy NFL player Ocho Cinco. I guess we will have to wait and see. Good luck to Lisa! Well another Hollywood break up. Eva Marcille, former winner of America’s Next Top Model and Lance Gross (House of Payne) have split. The two were planning a summer wedding for this year. Good luck to both of them. Did I say split??? Well Kim Kardashian and Reggie Bush have departed ways once again. Supposedly due to Reggie’s cheating ways. Shaq’s soon to be ex wife is busy these days. Her divorce is almost final from Shaq. She has a super cute new boyfriend that is 22 years much younger, and her new reality show, Basketball Wives, is set to premier April 11th. Well that is all for now and remember if you have any celebrity gossip you would like to share, email me at thestartinireport@yahoo.com. Cheers!!! www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

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