Issue 30 2019 In Review
Featuring Denise Polote Kelly
Editor’s Note This has been a phenomenal year! This month’s magazine is the highlights of this fabulous year! Spotlights of the amazing authors, women and men we have featured! So flip through the pages and enjoy! Take inspiration from the spotlights featured in this month’s issue! Make 2020 the year you take action and follow your dreams!
Teresa Hawley-Howard CEO of WOM Enterprises Publisher, Author and Writing Coach
Teresa Hawley Howard is a best-selling author, blogger, empowerment coach, and radio host. She lives in Murchison Texas with her husband Rickey. She is a mom and a Mimi. www.WOMEnterprises.com
Coming 2020
Denise Polote-Kelly Cover Story “After traumatic experiences we must choose to live and not just exist…there are some tools to assist in your moving forward with living. It is important to understand that there is still hope after setbacks and your life matters.”
Denise Polote-Kelly is an Author/Life Transformation Coach/Grief/Loss Recovery Specialist! She is CEO of Recovery Matters (912) 417-6377, denisepolotekelly.com, recoverymattersllc@gmail.com, info@denisepolotekelly.com FB Denise Polote Kelly When Asked about Recovery Matters Our mission is to serve the people we encounter with care and compassion. We are dedicated to teaching the broken they can heal, survive and thrive after trauma. At Recovery Matters we work hard to make sure that our clients are heard and understand they are in a No Judgement zone. Therefore, they can free themselves. Unresolved grief can lead to so many negative things that impact a person’s life and it will hinder the progression. When they come to our office, they learn to uncover hurts and losses current and past. We don’t put a band aid on the wounds we that require cleansing and care to heal. This allows them to prepare for the healing of their heart and they know they are safe with us because we care that they recover from whatever trauma they have and are experiencing. Denise is compassionate, engaging and committed to helping the people she encounters to transform their lives after setbacks and loss(es). Denise is passionate about Helping people move forward after loss from death, ended relationship, divorce, career change, family estrangement, financial changes, health diagnosis, etc.
After the death of my husband I was in a very dark place and the grief seemed unbearable. It was recommended I seek professional help with a counselor and I did but I found they did not specialize in grief recovery. I had to make a conscience effort to heal and live. We experience many different situations as we move through this life and the trials and test are what can make us or break us. We must choose to move forward and not stay stuck in whatever you are facing. I write transparent truth because I have decided to live and not die in the hard times. I help other to discover the unresolved issues and face the truth so they can be all they desire to be. My new books is a guide and tool that gives the reader an opportunity to face themselves and move through hurt, disappointment, setbacks, setups failures and ultimately live a victorious life. Existing in defeat is Not an option… My Pain Has Purpose “After This” her book coming in 2020. ~Describe something our readers today can look forward to discovering in your book: After traumatic experiences we must choose to live and not just exist…there are some tools to assist in your moving forward with living. It is important to understand that there is still hope after setbacks and your life matters.
Kathy Pullin “Bad days are not allowed, Some are just better than others” Kathleen A Pullin “Kathy” is an amazing woman. She is an avid BBQ cook and competitor! She is also a cater. She is a phenomenal woman and mother. She has chosen to share her story of surviving domestic violence. She is hoping that sharing her story and life will be an inspiration and light for others! Kathy’s book, From Dark to Light, is her personal journey! She hopes it will be one of healing and hope to others facing horrible times. A light for women who are now in the darkness of Domestic Violence. Every person deserves to be safe, healthy and loved. Kathy hopes her book will help others know their worth and to get out of a relationship if it is violent or dysfunctional. No Matter the situation, emotional, physical or mental abuse is not Ok! That is the reason Kathy chose to share her story!
Her Achievements She has overcome so much in her life. Starting over and rebuilding and reshaping her life after abuse. It is amazing that she had the strength to be vulnerable and share her story. To be open and transparent with such a personal and pain journey takes a special kind of strength. She has been able to rise above, and tell my story. She has many other achievements in her life. She has been on Food Network twice! She is an amazing BBQ cook. She has been chosen to share my talents on National TV! Twice! And she is on Local TV as Kathy Pullin “Grillin Gal”.
Her Goals for 2020 Continued success, growth and learning. She would like to continue my brand ambassador roles with other companies, and expand my “Grillin with Kathy” brand. She would also like to see her book change lives! She plans to continue to be an advocate for Domestic Violence Survivors and to be a voice for the voiceless! Connect with Kathy! www.facebook.com/kathy.pullin insta and Twitter @pullinbbqTell www.pullinpremiumbbq.com 210.363.1264
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Spotlight
Carolyn CJ Jones Forgiveness Mentor, Motivational Speaker, Workshop Presenter
I enjoy finding the gratitude and positivity in situations, such that I live in peace, free from resentment. This is in stark contrast with how I used to be until the age of 48 years old. At that age, I became sober after 30 years of heavy drinking and drugging, all over childhood issues. During my drinking days, I grew to become an angry, bitter, blaming victim. This followed me into sobriety. After four years sober, I discovered a way to forgive my past. The realization I’d forgiven affected me with immediate and immense peace and freedom. I never knew this level of joy existed! It has drastically changed who I am as a person. I no longer pray to God to let me die because I’m so miserable inside. I no longer am bitter, or blaming everyone and everything for my woes; rather, I look within and take responsibility for what I what I find, for what I feel. Doing this empowers me! I enjoy celebrating every aspect of daily life, even the difficult things because it is within these that the miracles of change reside. There are many fun and unusual things I’ve done in my life. While married, I learned with my husband to renovate 2 each of homes, boats, and classic cars. My husband and I owned a timeshare on a houseboat in Lake Powell. It was awesome there! Years later, in Sausalito, California, we owned and lived on a 45-foot classic sailboat while we fixed her up. After the divorce and after a year of sobriety, I gutted and rebuilt in cherry wood the interior of a camper van, then traveled for 3 years around the Western States and Baja, Mexico with my then-kitty, Maynard. The journey of healing has been difficult; I have experienced many hardships, including trauma and abusive behaviors and actions. If there’s one thing I can recall from the process I went through to gain positivity, it is that gratitude for the small things, as well as compassion for those who have offended me, result in forgiveness for the offender… and for myself. The kaleidoscope of life has led me to become grateful for past abuses committed against me. This is because I now realize their purpose – to provide me with a way to relate to others suffering the same abuses, and to use tales of my experiences and my healing so others may heal. From this, my current profession evolved. I currently live 30 miles north of the Golden Gate Bridge with my feral kitty, Izzy. Fourteen years have passed and she finally is able to exchange affection with me. During my free time, I enjoy writing, working
on my business, designing brochures and marketing materials, tending to my houseplants, and light wood finishing projects. Perhaps my most favorite thing in the world to do is varnish teak wood trim on classic boats. Since leaving my 27-year career as a registered nurse, I have become a multi-award-winning author for my first book and currently now a #1 bestselling author for my second. I began my current business when I became a forgiveness mentor in 2014. I guide others to find their way beyond anger and resentment to that place of peace and freedom that exists when they forgive. My services and products are varied and comprehensive. Books are the products I offer – Opening the Gates of the Heart: A Journey of Healing was my first. This book of images of wrought iron gates I photographed and prose I wrote parallels my own journey in recovery. It is a healing journey for anyone, though. My second and recently released book, The Art of Forgiveness: A Promise of Peace is a guide for you to get beyond anger, resentment, and negativity to a place of positivity, gratitude, and forgiveness. These, along with three - #1 International best-selling anthologies, and the e-book, In Search of Forgiveness: Getting Past Your Anger to Find the Life You Want, comprise my books. I offer two services. First, I provide private, one-on-one coaching for you if your life is really chaotic and miserable because of resentment, and you want to change that around. There are three programs I offer, each successively longer and in more depth than the previous. I also offer speaking services and workshops. I focus my workshops on those prone to resentment, and have spoken at San Quentin State Prison in California, senior retirement homes, and churches. In the fall, I am teaching one of my signature courses, Freedom from Resentment: The Art of Forgiveness, at the College of Marin, a local college. I am open to speak anywhere my message may be of service to others. It would be negligent of me to ignore the YIPPEE Method – a program of healing I created and designed. YIPPEE is a series of six stages you go through to reach forgiveness, peace, and freedom. It stands for: Yearn, Investigate, Process, Practice, Evolve, and Empower. It was created based on my own journey, so it is useful for those of you who would like to get beyond your chaotic and overwhelming life to a place of peace. These inspire me - kindness that I witness, expressions of gratitude, experiencing a great speaker in the front of the room, and Izzy becoming able to exchange affections. Yet, the thing that inspires me the most to continue with my forgiveness work is the knowledge of the feelings another can have when he/she forgives, and my desire to spread the word about how to get to that place. The next several months are going to be spent marketing my new book, as well as developing my college class. My efforts to gain speaking gigs will continue, as will attempts to gain new private coaching clients. In the future, if my book really takes off and I can gain some speaking gigs outside of the Bay Area and California, I would consider selling my home here, buying a small RV and traveling to book signings. As far as work, I see myself doing forgiveness work in one form or another until my days end…
Carolyn CJ Jones is the ‘Forgiveness Mentor, Motivational Speaker, and a Workshop Presenter. She is a #1 Best Selling Author in ‘The Art of Forgiveness’ A Promise of Peace. ~ Multi-award-winning Author, ‘Opening the Gates of the Heart.’ She was employed as a Nurse Resource Consultant at a State’s Medicaid Department when I took the lead to create a groundbreaking program. It was available to medically fragile, technology dependent children who were living in the hospital to receive nursing care 24/7. What I designed and managed allowed these fragile children to be released from the hospital and cared for in their home with private duty, hourly nursing care in addition to care provided by the parent(s). The program is in existence today. I’d love to be remembered for starting it in the late 80s… SOCIAL MEDIA AND CONTACT INFORMATION www.twitter.com/carolyncjjones www.facebook.com/carolyncjjones www.linkedin.com/in/carolyncjjones You tube? Under Carolyn CJ Jones carolyncjjones@yahoo.comCarolyn CJ Jones ~ Forgiveness Mentor, Motivational Speaker, Workshop Presenter ~ #1 Best Selling Author, The Art of Forgiveness: A Promise of Peace. ~ Multi-award-winning Author, Opening the Gates of the Heart 415-686-0888 cell 415-883-8325 (office) 415-686-0888 (mobile) http://www.carolyncjjones.com www.carolyncjjones.com
Spotlight Beth Thater “My readers are those who want to live life full out. They are full of joy, passion, and stand in their truth and realize their full potential. They are curious, unlimited in their thinking, they know they are the Masters of their Destiny and refrain from playing small. I assist many in the service area. They are often an energy healing practitioner, coach, spiritual teacher, or those who want to make a difference in our world.” “I call them the Pave Wavers!” “My audiences are those who boldly step out, make no excuses, operate in the mindset of unconditional love, and have a deep desire to make a difference on our planet.” ~ Beth Thater Beth Thater has a strong belief system that we are unlimited Source energy. I AM the expression of God in Action. I am an energy medicine practitioner, Shamanic healer, Minister, and Spiritual Coach. My gifts and abilities opened up the moment Jesus came to me in April of 2007 and laid His hands upon me. There was such a deep activation and powerful inner transformation that took place through me from His presence. My natural perceptions are wide open, and I now assist others in revealing their greatest God qualities through activations of their divine Blueprints. I have the ability to energetically shift dense patterns held at the physical, emotional, and spiritual level. When asked what inspired her to write her book, she said, “I answered a divine calling that opened me up to the higher realms, heavens, and divinity held within my soul. I went through a series of direct experiences that open up my natural senses to the Powers to Be.” “I was shown that nothing is impossible with God. I was guided to write my book so that I could instill the fact that each of us holds unlimited source energy within the core of our souls. When you Unlock your potential, you will activate God’s power. I teach people how to Claim their Birthright and align them to their Soul’s Destiny.” “My intention is to plant seeds within their hearts and remind them that they are unlimited potential. I want people to view themselves with unconditional love as our Creator views them and to know that they are worthy. The past does not equal the future and so much more is waiting for you on the other side of your next chapter. Through my direct experiences, I was shown the unlimited possibilities of how God will show up in our lives when we get out of our way.”
Beth’s next book will reveal even more of my direct experiences with the higher realms and those who reside there. What this is like and how this has supported me in my spiritual journey and awareness. Beth’s Book can be found at Amazon.com You can follow or get in touch with Beth Thater at: www.UnlockYourSoulsPurpose.com, beththater@me.com When we asked Beth, “What is one thing you would tell others if they want to write?” She said, quote ~ “Just do it! What is the nugget of inspiration held within your story or experience and expand on this concept? You have a unique story to share and you never know whose life you could change and touch. Your story wants to be told. You will influence the world and open up minds. Get out of your way and allow the natural essence of your unique message to flow through. I was a bit apprehensive about writing the personal details within my book. It is the messages held within these experiences that will shift the reader’s perspective and their hearts.”
Spotlight Dr. Jhanel A. Davis CEO of The Kantshes Academy
“I want to be remembered for my love and passion to help others heal. ~ Jhanel A. Davis
Dr. Jhanel A. Davis is a Best-Selling Author, Entrepreneur, Edu’cator, Keynote Speaker, Counselor, and Growth Specialist. Dr. Davis is the founder and CEO of Kuhltuhveyting Kantshes Kors’ (pronounced Cultivating Conscious Cores). She is also the founder of a nonprofit organization called, ‘The Kantshes Academy.’ Dr. Davis’ has over 10 years’ experience in the education field with a Bachelor’s Degree in Education, a Master’s Degree in Counseling and a Doctoral Degree in Organizational Leadership. Dr. Davis has supported children and families with social-emotional services, academic/educational support, building leadership skills, mentoring programs, and community outreach initiatives such as food drives, toy drives, small/large group events, back-to-school giveaways, etc. Throughout her many years of service Dr. Davis taught overseas in Kingdom of Saudi Arabia where she developed a love for traveling. As she traveled to over 16 countries learning about different cultures, beliefs, religions, and even traditions Dr. Davis realized that there was so much about this world that she didn’t know. She dreamed of the opportunity that lied ahead for the future generation. It was at that very moment she knew her life-long goal was to do just that; provide children and families with an opportunity, an opportunity to learn, heal, and grow.
Kuhltuhveyting Kantshes Kors focuses on opening and exploring the minds of African- American/AfroCaribbean children, families, and community members struggling to deal with present & past traumatic events through: • • • •
Healthy conversations Connecting with individuals struggling with the effects of trauma/ and individuals who have survived similar traumatic events Establishing healthy coping techniques for dealing with trauma And providing individuals with the tools and resources needed to heal.
When we asked Jhanel A. Davis what Inspired her, she said,” Quote “I believe that what happens to us externally; will affect us internally if not addressed consciously.” You can see more about Jhanel A. Davis’s story at https://keepitkantshes.com/dr-jhanel-a-davis/
Her plans for the future include book writing, speaking engagements, and embracing her purpose in which she said would in return; will lead her to her destiny.
SOCIAL MEDIA AND CONTACT INFORMATION IG: Kuhltuhveyting_Kantshes_Kors or theCalledDr_D Facebook: Jhanel TheCalledDr Davis Email: connect@keepitkantshes.com Website: www.keepitkantshes.com
Spotlight Author Kristin Stewart Kaufman “I believe we are here for three primary reasons: to teach, to learn, and to serve….all held together by that glue called Love.” ~ Kristin Stewart Kaufman Kristin is the founder of Alignment, Inc. ® a unique consultancy formed in 2007 to help individuals, corporations, board of directors and other similar groups find alignment within themselves and their organizations. She’s brought this expertise to hundreds of people since establishing Alignment, Inc®. Some of her clients include Baylor Healthcare System, Accenture, Hewlett-Packard, Smith & Nephew, Frito-Lay, IDEA Public Schools, Boys and Girls Clubs of America, Mercy Health, and many others. Kristin brings over 25 years of corporate experience to bear, including executive positions at HewlettPackard, Vignette Corporation, and United Health Group. At HP, Kristin was the General Manager of the channels and partner program that supported Hewlett-Packard's largest corporate accounts. This business represented a $3 billion revenue stream for Hewlett-Packard. Serving as Worldwide Channels Vice-President on the Executive Committee of Vignette Corporation, a $250 million publicly traded, software – company; her team built the global infrastructure for multi-channels of distribution for their software solution. In her first departure from traditional ‘corporate America’, Kristin was asked to join the NYC Leadership Academy effort, which was the centerpiece of the New York City Children First reform agenda. New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg and Chancellor Joel Klein sponsored this agenda; lead by CEO ‘Robert E. Knowling Jr.’ The goal of this reform was to create a system of outstanding schools where every child and teacher has access to effective teaching and learning. Kristin was chosen as one of two private sector business executives, to teach, train, and coach the 1,200 principals of the NYC public school system and the top 100 executives on the Chancellor's staff. This three-year experience was the initial catalyst for Kristin forming Alignment, Inc. ®
Her last executive position in corporate America was as Group Vice President of United Health Group. This appointment leveraged her strong knowledge of the technology business and how to leverage multiple channels to market in the increasingly complicated world of healthcare and healthcare insurance. Kristin provided expertise for its go-to-market strategies, defined and created alternative channels to improve organic growth, and implemented sales effectiveness methodologies across all segments within United Health Group. Kirstin is a prolific writer. Kristin’s first book was ‘Is This Seat Taken?’ ‘Random Encounters That Change Your Life,’ was released on 11/1/11 to national acclaim, and endorsed by Stephen Covey and John Maxwell, among others. Her second book in the series of ‘Is This Seat Taken?’ is entitled ‘It’s Never Too Late to Find the Right Seat’ was released in January, 2015. It has been endorsed by notables such as Marshall Goldsmith, Sean Covey, and Doug Parker, CEO of American Airlines. This book shines the light on late in life reinvention and encore ‘second half’s’ of diverse individuals. The individuals are in some cases widely known and others are somewhat anonymous to the mass public. The common thread is their ‘post-50’ resurgence in life and in some cases their ‘fork in the road’ is quite serendipitous. Kristin’s third book, in the ‘Is This Seat Taken?’ trilogy Released October 8, 2019. Author “I have written three books in the “Is This Seat Taken®” book trilogy. I speak around the world on these books along with other topics relative to my company: Alignment, Inc. Kristin Kaufman’s Books include: Book #1 - Is This Seat Taken? ® Random Encounters That Change Your Life If you think incidental meetings are incidental – think again. No matter how much we plan as executives, leaders and individuals, the random encounter opens up unforeseen opportunities. Lessons and perspectives on leadership, alignment and the power found in the present moment are discussed and made real through actual stories from Kristin’s widely acclaimed book. Kristin’s book, endorsed by notable leadership gurus such as Stephen Covey, Ken Blanchard, and Noel Tichy, will come alive on stage and have your audience thinking about their everyday moments from a different perspective. Whether the audience is a group of power house executives, type A sales professional, or individuals needing a bit of inspiration, Kristin’s content will ring true to the soul in each of us. Book #2 - Is This Seat Taken? ® It’s Never Too Late to Find the Right Seat This book and keynote is designed for those individuals who have come to a fork in the road, chosen a path, and found themselves twenty to thirty (or more) years later in a destination they didn't quite recognize. The stories are relevant for anyone; at any age, at any station in life that has awakened and wondered what they are going to do next or how will they move forward. The examples offer hope, inspiration, and applicable lessons as derived from the lives of well-known and not-so-famous men and women who found new and unexpected success - by many definitions - late in life. The message will light a spark - whether you are twenty-five or sixty-five - to take back the reins of your life and become clear on exactly what you are going to do now and how you wish to contribute to the world. The music has not stopped, and there is still time to find your seat.
Book #3 - Is This Seat Taken? ® No, I Saved It for You. This book is the last in the trilogy in the Is This Seat Taken? ® Series. This book and associated, keynotes shares a collection of stories which focus on diverse individuals and their experiences who have served as Kristin’s teachers; these experiences vary from the beautiful and the empowering, of the side-splitting humorous, to the crushing and difficult; Yet, the common aspect is that they ‘Providentially’ have taught Kristin lessons, which she vulnerably and authentically shares with her audience. This talk is a compilation of the entire book series focusing on being present in the moment, being awake to learn from all experiences in our lives, and how all these stories factor into our individual quest toward alignment – professionally and personally. The book, and her keynote, wrap up with a few suggestions – which are highlighted in the thought and activity guide at the end of the book – for each person to take the reins of their lives. When we asked Kristin what she would you like to achieve in 2020, she said – quote “I want to continue to stretch, grow, and serve. If I do this well and with purity of intention – the rest will come.”
You can Find- Kristin Stewart Kaufman at one of her Social Media sites listed below: Learn about our BOOKS: www.kristinkaufman.com Read our widely followed BLOG: http://www.alignmentinc.com/blog/ Learn what about our SERVICES: www.alignmentinc.com Learn about my OTHER BUSINESS: http://partnerwithkristin.com Check me out on YouTube: http://www.kristinkaufman.com/Kristinyoutube Follow us on PINTEREST: http://pinterest.com/kristinkaufman/ Follow us on TWITTER: http://twitter.com/kristinkaufman Follow us on FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/partnerwithkristin Join my network on LINKED IN: http://www.linkedin.com/in/kristinskaufman Website and contact info: Kristin Kaufman, PCC, CLC Founder and President of Alignment, Inc. Dallas, Texas 75204, 1- (214)-526-4944 kristinkaufman@alignmentinc.com or www.kristinkaufman.com
Spotlight LaSandra Collins “Every day is an opportunity to make a difference in the lives of others.”
~LaSandra Collins
LaSandra Collins is passionate about encouraging and inspiring others to see themselves as Christ sees them. Her mission is to build up and help others realized that they are everything our Heavenly Father says they are so that they can walk into their divine destiny. LaSandra’s motto is: “Every day is an opportunity to make a difference”. She believes this can be done through deeds and encouraging words. LaSandra resides in Spring, Texas with her husband and son. She enjoys spending time with her family, traveling and writing inspirational pieces. Some of her work has been featured in a play, “Faces in the Mirror” LaSandra has also written a book, “From A Christian Perspective Encouragement for Daily Living” which was published in February 2018. On June 22, 2019, LaSandra hosted her very first conference, “Free to Be Me”. On March 28, 2020, LaSandra will have The Power of Hope conference. At some point in our lives, each and everyone one of us will be faced with adversities and if we are not careful, we these challenges can cause us to question our faith and cause us to lose sight of God’s promises to us as believers. This conference is designed to encourage others to keep hope and faith in Lord regardless of what their life circumstances look like. It will illustrate how I myself was faced with adversity and how I maintain my faith, hope and trust in God and overcame that challenge. This conference will be at the Hilton Gardens 7979 Willow Chase, Houston, TX 77070. Come join us.
When we asked her to share with us something she overcome or all the success she had achieved; she shared this. “Back in 2006, I left my husband and my life as I knew it was in total chaos and turmoil. Little did I know that God had a plan for my husband and I. The first year of that separation, the Lord dealt with me individually, reveling to me where I went wrong in my relationship with Him and my husband. One day, while in church service, the Holy Spirit came upon me, while I was in communion with God, he told me my marriage would be okay. In 2008, my husband and I reconciled our and united back under one roof.
This past June, we celebrated our 23rd wedding
Anniversary. What I learned from that experience has been invaluable and I minister to married couples now encouraging them to put God in the mist or their relationship because they cannot maintain their marriage on their own strength.” In 2018 my goal was to publish my devotional book and I did. “From A Christian Perspective: Encouragement for Daily Living” can be downloaded for free by gong to Smashwords.com. In 2019, my goal was to host my first Conference and I accomplished that in June. It was a huge success to say I have no idea where to begin with even planning a conference.
God truly amazed me because I asked him to put the resources, I need in my path to help me with this conference and he did just that. I would have never imagined have a radio station air my conference live. I could have never imagined have 50 people in attendance, some who did not even know me or ever heard of me before me advertising this conference. All I can say is but God…
You can Find LaSandra Collins at the social media links listed below: Facebook – Sandy Wells (soon to be LaSandra Collins; From a Christian Perspective; JIL Designs) Instagram – From A Christian Perspective; JIL Designs Website – www.FromAChristianperspective.org Blog site - https://wordpress.com/view/fromachristianperspective.wordpress.com Shopify - https://j-i-l-designs-llc.myshopify.com website and contact info Contact email – fromachristianperspective.com
Spotlight Dorian Bostic
“There is going to come a time whereas a society all we can do is fight” ~Dorian Bostic Dorian is “The Educated Boxer,” He goes by ‘Bostic’ because he is currently a professional boxer who is working on his PhD. I am also a pursuing an aspiring author. My first book will debut October of 2019. Bostic’s business is being a professional boxer and now an author all while working on his PhD. I He is also pursuing his doctorate degree. Bostic’s second professional boxing match will be on November 9th, 2019 and his book debuts October 2019. The title of his book is “The Reasons Why I Fight” “I hope to have some of the books available at my next fight. I feel like the sky is the limit, I also feel like now is the best time in society to be multifaceted.” ~ Dorian Bostic When asked about his challenges, Bostic said; “I have overcome many things. I am originally from South Carolina, but my family moved to Baltimore, Maryland when I was young. My initial stay in Baltimore was short lived. I then had to move to Charlotte, North Carolina for a while to live with my father. I then moved back to Baltimore permanently. My family dynamics were not ideal. After moving back to Baltimore my family dynamics changed forever. I was taken from my mother and placed in the foster care system of Maryland and remained there between the ages of 7 to 21 years old. Those years were the most challenging. There were nights I did not have food to eat and I suffered from homelessness. I am truly a walking blessing because now I stand independently figuring out my place in this world.”
We asked Bostic what more would like he like to achieve in 2019/ or 2020; “As we are already in 2019, I would like to finish the semester strong. I would like to pass one of the hardest classes I have ever taken in my life, Quantitative Analysis. Also, I will like to win my second professional fight. Furthermore, I would like to build my boxing portfolio, stay employed, and grow as a human being. My overall goal is to be an inspiration to the world.� Tribute Magazine wishes Dorian Bostic continued success.
You can find Dorian Bostic at all the social media links listed below: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheEducatedBoxer Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Educatedboxer
Spotlight Author Phyllis Wilson “I want to be remembered for helping people reach their best quality of life, that they desire. I have to change the people that I come in contact with for the better and if I have not changed you for the better; then I have failed you and part of my purpose.” ~ Phyllis Wilson
Phyllis Wilson is a single mother, grandmother, ordained pastor, author, inventor an independent consultant, speaker, author, NLP Master Coaching Practitioner and personal development strategist. She develops seminars, workshops and conferences that focus on leadership development, personal growth and organizational development as well as other individual focuses. She is the author of four books No, Not You! Why Not Me? - Silent Tears and Josephine’s Coat of Many Colors and one workbook, but currently working on two other books. She has a Bachelor’s of Arts in Law, Master's Degree in Applies professional studies with a focus in life coaching (both from DePaul University) and a Doctorate degree in I/O Psychology from Capella University and an honorary Doctorate degree in Theological studies (from Gospelway Ministries – Flint, MI). “My purpose in life is to empower, motivate, inspire and uplift the lives of people to achieve all that God has for them.” ~ Phyllis Wilson
As the Founder and Owner of two organizations (PH Balance & Yarning to Help), she is striving to make a positive change and difference in the lives of people that she encounters. Phyllis Wilson’s Business ‘PH Balance’ is a company that embraces helping others to reach their personal and professional goals that allows them to move forward on their journey in life and make their vision become a reality. This included Life coaching, workshops, seminars, conferences and one-on-one. They design a session based on the needs of the client (individual and organizations). We can assist in building relationships, helping you find the real you, overcome procrastination, goal setting, leadership development and other areas. When asked what inspired her, she said. “My father (the late Earnest Wilson Jr.) and my family, they help to shape me into the person I am today.” Phyllis Wilson future plans are to continue to help others reach personal and career goals in their lives and to raise the bar on my own personal goals and passions. One day retiring to a quiet place to reflect on all that I have achieved and created (businesses, scents, books, etc.)
SOCIAL MEDIA AND CONTACT INFORMATION
Facebook: www.facebook.com/PHBalanceLife Twitter: https://twitter.com/PHBalanceLife Email: phyllis@josephinescoat.com Website: www.josephinescoat.com Podcast: soundcloud.com/michael-smith-268676974/sets/the-new-u-podcast-with-phyllis-wilson, a playlist on #SoundCloud. Phone: 312-600-5561
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Spotlight Rebecca Hall Gruyter “Step Into Your Brilliance”
Compiled by Rebecca Hall Gruyter Rebecca is a Leadership Coach and Empowerment Leader committed to helping experts, influencers and messengers reach more people, so they can share their positive vision and expertise with the world in a powerful, heart-centered and transformational way. She is the founder of Your Purpose Driven Practice, creator of the Women’s Empowerment Series events/TV shows, and CEO of RHG Media Productions™ What inspired Rebecca to write her book was her vision to support people on their journey to shine in their brilliance, no matter what they are called to do in their work or personal life. “My work brings me into contact with thousands of brilliant people who have shared with me their personal challenges with life’s setbacks, perhaps in their childhood, losing a loved one, faced with a debilitating illness or injury, or even escaping a war-torn country.” “I hear stories of how people not only met but triumphed over these challenges, and were lifted up to even greater things than they ever could have imagined!” Rebecca realized that these stories needed to be shared with the world to help others find their brilliance. This is the first into her “Step Into” series of motivational anthologies. “I see this book as a ‘living conversation,’ she said; between regular people (writer and reader) where wisdom, encouragement, and open hearts are shared. I want this book to walk beside you to help you run and not grow weary, to complete all that you are called to complete, and to live on purpose with great purpose because you are stepping fully into your calling and YOUR BRILLIANCE!”
Any woman or man who may feel that ‘something inside’ that calls to them to expand, explore, and seek better happier lives; will love this book. Perhaps there are areas where they feel stuck or held back, or need just a little more courage and guidance to take those next steps forward toward what they are called to do in the world. ‘Step Into Your Brilliance’ has not only stories that will motivate and inspire, but also includes practical tips and actions to take, which the authors have successfully used themselves on their journey.” Rebecca will be releasing a special anthology called ‘Animal Legacies’ in December of 2019. As an animal lover, this book is very close to her heart! It includes an amazing group of authors who share unique engaging stories on how animals have made a powerful imprint on their lives. The Kindle and print versions are available on Amazon. You can also visit her website to find this and our other exciting books: http://yourpurposedrivenpractice.com/books/ When asked, “What is one thing you would tell others if they want to write?” “I believe that together, as we lift each other up, we are all able to grow, reach more people, and have a greater impact than we do trying to do everything on our own. If you feel a pull on your heart to reach out with your message, do listen to it and take action. Take advantage of the many resources and supports available to help you along the process of writing - you don’t have to go it alone. Writing is a wonderful way to reach out to others. The reach of our books is often in the millions – think about being seen and heard by that many people! As you write, just be willing to SHINE in your particular expression of BRILLIANCE!” ~ Rebecca Hall Gruyter. We at Tribute Magazine wish Rebecca continued Success. You can Follow or Reach Rebecca Hall Gruyter at: ‘Your Purpose Driven Practice’ www.YourPurposeDrivenPractice.com Owner of www.RHGTVNetwork.com Leadership Coach, Empowerment Leader, Business Coach (925) 787-1572.
Be Careful How You Speak to yourself!
You will speak the most to yourself! I know you are shocked by that statement. You are saying no I don’t! but yes you do! It may not be out loud but in your head, you are speaking volumes to yourself! Every thought and word you are speaking life and death to yourself! It sets the tone for your day, your week, your business, your family and your life. So, you need to pay more attention to those thoughts and prayers!!
Ask yourself do I build myself up? Am I my own cheerleader? Do I believe in me? In my dreams? In my abilities? Do I say I can do it? Or do I tear myself down? Am I always doubting myself? Am I always reliving my mistakes? Do I continuously tell myself I cannot do it? Take time to think about this. It is really important! If you are not uplifting yourself, it’s time to start! It’s time to stop all of that negative speak! It’s time to start building yourself up! You need to realize your words have power! They can elevate your life or they can take you to the depths of misery. It’s totally your choice! What you say to yourself is more important than what others say about you! You must learn to love you and your flaws and mistakes. You must learn to speak to yourself with grace and love and not with disdain. The words you speak to yourself today will determine your tomorrow! So, start today and change your tomorrow! Lift yourself up, be your own champion, be your own cheerleader and speak love to you! Here are some tips to get you started! 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6.
Each morning before you do anything! Look in the mirror and say I love you and I’m going to start acting like it! List three things that you do well! Celebrate them! Everyday list one thing you are grateful for! Take time to Celebrate small victories! Begin each day with praise and uplifting! (listen to great music or spend time in the word) Forgive yourself and begin again!
Each day is a new chance to make changes and live a happy, positive, and loving life. So, take it and make it yours!
Spotlight Marlene Elizabeth Marlene Elizabeth is an International Best-Selling author, Certified Money Coach®, Speaker and Mamapreneur. Marlene believes every woman needs a safe harbor for her journey into financial freedom. Her weekly podcast Let’s Get Tender™: Money Conversations That Matter reaches 7+ million listeners worldwide on the RHG-TV Network to provide safe harbor for women to talk, learn and grow in their relationship to money so their financial dreams can take flight. Deeply inspired by her financial dream to raise a money-smart girl as a single stay-at-home Mom, Marlene went on to become an International Bestselling author with her first book MONEYWINGS™: Unfolding Your Financial Potential One Brave Feather At A Time. For years, she questioned “why did financial dreams seem so easy to come true for others, but not for me?” As a financial-role model for her daughter, it became her mission to find the answer by living the question. Today, Marlene helps women discover their untapped financial potential and strengths to intentionally thrive with clarity and confidence. Her book MONEYWINGS™ has been featured in RHG Magazine & TV-Guide; Empowering Women, Transforming Lives Radio; WorldWideWomen; and MOMpreneur.buzz. Marlene is honored as a member of “The Spirited Woman Top 12 Pick List” (June 2018). Her next book Embrace Your Wealth: Living A Financially Spiritual Life is due for release April 2019. She is a featured contributing author in Bloom Where You Are Planted and Shine; Step Forward and Shine (November 2018); Empowering YOU, Transforming Lives 365 Daily Reflections (December 2018); and Step Into Your Brilliance (Fall 2019).
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Marlene earned her Master’s degree in Religious Education from Boston College School of Theology and Ministry and B.A. in International Relations from U.C. Davis. She is a Certified Brain Personality Specialist. “Marlene Elizabeth is a revolutionary thought leader on breaking the code for those of us who languish in our money fears. She has created thought-provoking and practical methods of re-shaping negative and limiting beliefs about money. She teaches how, through this re-shaping of thinking, one can completely turn limiting beliefs on their head. Her inspirational methods allow us to transform limiting beliefs into healthy, positive, and motivational relationships with money. If you have ever struggled with trying to work through the myriad of standard money explanatory literature and are still not on your way to financial empowerment, then the inspiration that is embodied in Marlene’s Moneywings™ is “a must read!” — John Hall, MBA, LCDR USN (Ret) Best Selling Author, Financial Expert Connect With Marlene Email: Marlene@MarleneElizabeth.com Phone: 909.562.2159 Visit: http://www.MarleneElizabeth.com FB: @growmoneywings
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Spotlight Arlene Major “Weeping may endure for a night but JOY comes in the morning!” Psalm 30: 5 Arlene R Major is originally from Albuquerque, NM the Land of Enchantment. She is the oldest of three children; she has one brother and one sister. Arlene’s Dad passed in 2010 and her mother is living somewhere in the United States; they have not been able to speak in over 5 years. She is a happily married mom with four children and soon to be first time Grand momma. Arlene started writing in high school but always kept it to herself because she never really thought anyone would take it seriously. She dabbled in poetry as well as magazine articles. In 2014 after much encouragement from her aunt and her cousin; she started her first blog site called ‘Joy Does Come in the Morning.’ She has been writing ever since. Arlene penned the name ‘Lady Blue’ after her first ‘open mic’ session and a piece she wrote called, ‘Forgiveness.’ Arlene started doing radio in 2015 and she has been with wmskonlineradio.com since 2015. Things seemed to have blossomed since then with events, meeting and speaking with celebrities and artists and mostly inviting the community to see that there is still some good in the world. She also writes for World Prayer, a Christian website and Urban Image. She has penned articles for ‘Compulsive magazine’ and for the upcoming ‘State vs. Us, magazine’ due out in 2018. Writing her personal story has allowed her to not only reflect, but too share what her life was like, in the hopes that it would help someone else. We are Spotlighting Arlene for her, 50 Shades of Blue which came about when she turned 50 and was reflecting on her life and how she could give back at this stage in her life. “Being that I have survived domestic violence, it only seemed fitting to have an event that would give survivors and victims’ alike a place to gather, share and uplift each other.” Domestic Violence, now called Intimate Partner Violence or IPV, is a stigma in our society. It is something that when it happens, the situation is swept under the rug and ignored until someone dies as a result of the violence. It is not an easy subject to talk about or to live through or live with. She wanted to use her voice to let others know that together if we combine our efforts, we can raise enough awareness that we are not ignored. Arlene spoke with us and said, “Our current administration wants to treat this violent act as a preexisting condition or something that we asked for. That is not true and the victim is not the problem. We need to wipe the societal view that it only happens to women. Men and children are also affected. It is not just in heterosexual relationships that it happens. The LGBTQ community deals with high rates of violence and homicide. Children are affected in many ways as well as social, economic and other areas. Pets even suffer the consequences of this act. We have too many lazy laws and too many people that don't see that all suffer when it comes to this type of violence.”
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When speaking on the topic of overcoming, Arlene said; “I have won awards over the past few years for my writing and involvement in the community. I would have to say that my biggest success is when I learned to forgive.” “It takes a lot for someone to understand and to do that without looking back. It was not something that I needed validation for. It was something that I needed for me and for those in my life currently. Learning to accept my part in what happens in my life and to look at the entire picture not only allows me to have a view of the world that is no longer tainted but allows me to look at the entire picture and see a situation for what it actually is and not what I wish it to be.” You can contact Arlene R. Majors by visiting her website or email; Ladyblue1.com https://50shadesofbluebalt.wixsite.com/50shadesofblue Arlene’s Lady Blue Book is now available on Amazon.com and you can find Arlene at these Social Media sites. Instgram: @ladybluu1 (radio and blog) @50shadesofbluebmore (domestic violence advocacy) and @lbfabulous (follow my weightloss journey) Twitter: @ladybluu1, @Alwayzmotivate and @50shadesofblue3 Tumblr: @ladybluu1 Facebook: Inspirational group: Joy Does Come in the Morning: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php? fbid=10210816199582033&set=gm.1735932433084269&type=3 CovenantConnection: https://www.facebook.com/wmskcovenantconnection/ Lady Blue: https://www.facebook.com/TheRealLadyBluu1/ LadyBlueTalkRadioGroup: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1345471592136930/? ref=group_header Lady Blue Radio Show: https://www.facebook.com/Ladybluuone/ 50 Shades of Blue Baltimore: https://www.facebook.com/50shadesbmore/
Spotlight – Keenya Kelly "You can do the most remarkable things, no matter what happens." ~ Keenya Kelly I'm Keenya Kelly of www.keenyakelly.com . I’m a Business and Brand Consultant helping entrepreneurs to define their creative gifts and strategically turn the gifts into businesses that are sustainable and profitable online. I am a speaker and entrepreneur Over the years I have gone through the highest highs and then the lowest lows, but I lived to see another day. I truly thrive off of sharing my life experiences with others, helping them to not make some of the same mistakes I’ve made while encouraging them to live their best lives vs the one that is currently being presented before them. The hardest thing I’ve ever had to endure was going through an unexpected divorce while only have $22,500 as a yearly salary. I thought I had forever, when I married my ex-husband and that we would build powerful businesses together, but I was forced to start over alone. During the process, although I was broken, I was also being remade into something that was brand new and would someday revolutionize the world around me. Within 18 months of leaving my marriage, I was able to get control over my life and earn over $250,000 and relocate to Houston, Texas without publicly shaming my spouse. In 2018, I would like to finish two books that are on my heart, launch my first Marketplace Ministry Conference teaching individuals how to strategically create wealth without compromising your Christian values. www.facebook.com/keenyakelly www.instagram.com/keenya_kelly Www.twitter.com/keenyakelly https://www.linkedin.com/in/keenyakelly/
www.keenyakelly.com www.ifyoubrandit.com
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Spotlight Jess Alan Tiffany Jess Alan Tiffany Is an entrepreneur, husband and father of four. He giggles while getting kicked by his kids in Karate class, enjoys paint night dates with his wife and is passionate about marketing and mentorship. Has been featured in the Huffington Post, eContent Magazine, Docurated, Monster.com, CEOBlogNation, Hong Kong Design Institute, Philadelphia Daily News and many, many others. Former writer with the Huffington Post, currently writing for Six Figure Coach Magazine and Authority Magazine. My Book is Growth Hacking Strategically Grow Your Business Connections from Zero to 10K in 365 Days Your LinkedIn account can be leveraged for so much more than people have considered. It is not a question of quality vs. quantity. It is about both. You can use my book to grow your business and your connections! A big challenge is overcoming the mindset that having a large number of connections somehow means you have to give up quality. The person looks at me and says well I would never connect with someone I have not looked into their eyes. Then the same person will pull out the company’s wallet and spend thousands of dollars marketing to people they don’t know and have never shook hands with. My argument is why not keep your tight knit circle of people you have met and had a coffee with, just like I do. Next reach out to your ideal client, your dream clients, people or companies that may have the potential for a joint venture, plus up and coming people that may be your star employee in a few years. Then you will be in their feed and every time you have a personal success, client testimonial, encouraging quote etc. your perfect referrals are seeing you occasionally every time they login to LinkedIn. Start liking stuff from your dream clients, do a shout out saying you like something they said, or share it to your inner circle. Send a helpful article you found to them. You still have your inner circle, plus thousands of people passively being “advertised” to for free. Then still do your same budget for paid messaging etc. Imagine 6 months after doing this just 1 dream client reaches out to you? Perhaps you get a few small jobs from a referral from someone you never met because they knew what your business did? I am looking forward to expanding my speaking platform, becoming an International Best-Selling Author and expanding our student base.
Connect with me: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jesstiffany/ https://www.facebook.com/jesstiffanyceo/ Twitter: @tiffanyintl, @mnuglobal, @digitalmnu, @mnumarketing https://www.alignable.com/lakeville-mn/marketing-and-networkinguniversity https://www.xing.com/profile/Jess_Tiffany https://www.bebee.com/us/bee/jess-tiffany https://angel.co/jess-tiffany You can click follow on my LinkedIn profile at https://www.linkedin.com/in/jesstiffany/ Twitter @tiffanyintl and facebook at https://www.facebook.com/jesstiffanyceo/ or go to my contact us page at https://mnudigital.com/contact or (612) 440-8286 MarketingandNetworkingUniversity.com and MNUDigital.com
Spotlight Adrian Jefferson Chofor
My name is Adrian Jefferson Chofor, I am a global mobility lifestyle expert helping people that want to live abroad and currently living abroad do so strategically and successfully. I am also a personal transformational strategist and speaker, helping those in my community to live their best lives. I had the privilege of co-authoring Step Forward and Shine! the third and final book in the Shine series and when I was presented the opportunity to write my story, I was inspired to do so because I thought about how when I was younger I wish I could have met a woman like myself that would have told me things were going to be alright. After prayerful consideration, I knew writing this book was something that I was called to do. I want the readers to know they can overcome obstacles, made stronger by the struggle, and love themselves for who they truly are, not what others may think of them. My book touches so many areas of my life, I would say this has broadened the range considerably. I delve into challenges I experienced as a teen that made poor choices, a twenty- something year old early in my career, a thirty something year old moving abroad and later having a difficult pregnancy. I share experiences that are universal and not age or gender specific, such as making major life changes in moving overseas or the power of forgiveness and its profound impact on my life and those of others. I would have to say, because of the subjects covered in my book, it’s difficult to narrow the audience down to only one demographic.