The Triangle • Spring 2019

TRIANGLE spring 2019

Celebrating Sisterhood and Safety Wellbeing Series

A Golden Gathering of Sigmas

The Power of Commitment

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another triennium is almost over. As we all know, the conclusion of a triennium also brings a surge of anticipation for the next Convention.

It’s a glorious event designed to not only conduct the business of the sorority, but to celebrate another three years of Tri Sigma successes and our sensational sisterhood!

Looking back over the past three years, it has truly been an honor to serve as Tri Sigma’s

National President. Every day has been an adventure and I still awaken each morning, eager to tend to Sigma business. Along with the triumphs, the uplifting experiences, and moments of fun there are challenging times as well. And through it all, one thing I know to be true is that the spirit of sisterhood always prevails.

Tri Sigma is a gift. Although it doesn’t always offer the exact solutions to address the

complexities of life, nor does it cure all that ails society, but in tough times, the strength of sisterhood shines. Tri Sigmas rise to the occasion every day to support each other — celebrating joys and successes, and being pillars of strength and love when life throws us curveballs.

This sisterhood is far-reaching. It is the foundation of so many friendships which span across

the globe. It’s a connection — one that holds treasured memories of the past, opportunities in the present and lots to look forward to in the future. It’s a lifetime of friendships and sisterhood! That lifetime of sisterhood is precisely why so many members look forward to Convention.

It’s more than just meetings and ceremonies. Convention is late nights spent reminiscing and

laughing with friends both old and new. It’s early morning breakfasts and a memorial service that will move you to tears even if you have never met any of the sisters who entered Omega chapter. It’s fun times together. It’s watching a dark room slowly illuminate as hundreds of sisters, one by one, light a candle honoring the chapter in which they were initiated — as the room gets brighter, it is a reminder of how the sorority has grown and how Tri Sigma makes the world a brighter place. It’s upholding old traditions and renewing old friendships, while beginning new friendships and being part of the changes that keep Tri Sigma moving ever forward. It is a celebration of our bond as sisters.

Perhaps that’s why this old song keeps popping into my mind as I think about our upcoming 45th

National Convention: “Celebration” by Kool and the Gang. It was popular back in the 1980s — the era of my high school and college years — and right now, it’s repeatedly playing in my mind. It’s the perfect tune to express excitement for Convention and all the great moments we’re going to share together in June. So, as you make plans for your trip to Nevada, get ready for a celebration! Google the song, turn up the volume and enjoy this nostalgic moment with me. Get excited for fun times ahead!

Celebrate good times, come on! (Let’s celebrate) Celebrate good times, come on!

It’s a celebration Celebrate good times, come on!

See you in Las Vegas!

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Natalie Moore Averette, Gamma Beta National President

contents

16 features:

departments:

6 Wellbeing Series

4 Editor’s Corner

8 Founders Day Celebration

6 Empowered Women

9 A Golden Gathering of Sigmas

14 Leadership

12 45th National Convention

23 Member News

14 The Power of Commitment

32 Foundation

16 Prevention Institute

36 Archives

19 Recruitment Summit

39 Omega Listing

20 Strategic Plan: Enriching the member experience and shaping the future

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editor’s corner

magnolia sweet

GUEST EDITOR JESI WILCOX SHARES HER STORY. It starts with a beautiful flower.

JESI WILCOX, Guest Editor Assistant Director of Marketing and Communications

Let’s fast forward to December 6, 2016. This was the day

before my very first interview with Tri Sigma, and also the day that I got a phone call that my dad had a brain hemorrhage and was in

Magnolias have always been dear to

critical condition. We were stationed in North Dakota, and my dad

blooming beauty is around every corner

we started the 26-hour journey south to be with my dad. To make a

parts of summer; I’ve been enamored

for his life, and I had to part ways with my then employer because of

me. Growing up in south Alabama, their

was in Pensacola, Florida. I had my interview with Tri SIgma, and then

as soon as you hit the deepest, hottest

long story short, we spent three weeks with my dad while he fought

with them for as long as I can remember.

the time spent away. In those three weeks, my dad joined the party in

Right before I graduated high school, I started dating the man that

the sky, which left my husband and I planning his funeral alone during

the first time and having dinner with his family—I immediately felt at

wanted to hire me! It was an answered prayer to get back to a

would later become my husband. I remember visiting his home for

Christmas while I was six months pregnant with our first child.

home. His family’s property was littered with magnolia trees.

tunnel, a couple of weeks later I received the call that Tri Sigma

spent the next five years stationed in north Louisiana. I’ve always

career of doing what I truly loved to do while working with a group of

adolescence, but I wasn’t sure about such a big change. After

House for the first time for our annual staff retreat. She proudly

deployment, and I landed my first “big girl” job, as I call it. Louisiana

and met some incredible people along the way who became like

not always involve a flower, I believe there’s always something new

whenever we get the opportunity, and thinking about our time there

seen my share of new chapter installations, programs, events, and I

flower of Louisiana is a magnolia? Do you see where this is going?

surrounding these occasions within Tri Sigma is electric and inviting.

to show up to tell me that things are right or meant to be. They’ve

the comradery and love shown within the Tri Sigma circle gives me

inked set of them on my right arm.

a fresh, new triennium for Tri Sigma, I hope that Convention and the

Once we were married, my husband joined the service and we

As if it were a much-needed light at the end of a very dark

enjoyed Louisiana, as my family frequented New Orleans in my

very inspiring women. A few months later, I visited Mabel Lee Walton

a few years there, I graduated college, we experienced our first

welcomed me with open arms and huge, blooming magnolia trees.

became home for us—we loved indulging in the food and culture,

life by something as simple as blooming magnolias. Though it may

family to us. We haven’t lived there in some time, but we go visit

around the corner worth celebrating. Since being with Tri Sigma, I’ve

still gives me warm and cozy feelings. Did you know that the state

am coming up on my first Convention—the energy and celebration

Magnolias have impacted my life in the way that they always seem

I don’t know firsthand what it’s like to be part of a sisterhood, but

impacted me so much that I’ve chosen to permanently wear an

the same warm feelings as my beloved magnolias. As we approach

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I celebrate the times that I am reminded of the goodness in my

events to follow renew your passion and love for your sisterhood!

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empowered women

WELLBEING SERIES: FINANCIAL WELLBEING

Top Resources on Financial Wellbeing

By Amanda Marchegiani, Beta Xi

We conclude the wellbeing series highlighting the last element of financial wellbeing.

From an April 2018 Forbes magazine article titled “4 Stats

That Reveal How Badly America Is Failing At Financial Literacy:”

44 percent of Americans don’t have enough cash to cover a $400 emergency

43 percent of student loan borrowers are not making payments 38 percent of U.S. households have credit card debt 33 percent of American adults have $0 saved for retirement.

These statistics are staggering in my opinion. Let’s be the

change makers and share our wealth of knowledge and get our sisterhood on track to have pride in financial wellbeing.

Below is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to resources

or advice on financial wellbeing.

provides the extra funds that add up to meet your goal. Think of where you spend most of your money and try to cut back on that area little by little.

Budgeting

Saving and budgeting can go hand in hand. You can

set a budget for different categories such as food, entertainment,

medical, rainy day fund and loans. This can help to show you where you are overspending or where you need to spend more. I’ve heard of a lot of success using the envelope method from Dave Ramsey.

You set categories and distribute cash into each envelope to help you budget your money. Once all of the cash is gone, that’s all of the funds for that area.

Paying Off Debt

As a college student, I accrued debt to attend the school

I wanted. Years into paying them, I hadn’t realized the majority of

my payments were going towards the interest. Over the past few

years, I’ve used the debt snowball method often taught by Dave

Live beneath your means.

Before I moved into my own apartment nearly four years

ago, my biggest struggle was not being able to take care of myself financially. I returned home after college and moved back in with my mom. Eventually I landed my first job in communications.

Although a great start, I wasn’t able to pay my student loans and live on my own. I moved on from that job and three-and-a-half

years later was able to afford to live on my own. Although I could

afford my apartment, I made the decision to not get cable or Wi-Fi. It has proven to save me some money and participate in other activities rather than sit on my couch more.

Save!

For me, it’s always easier to think about financial wellbeing

Ramsey. This method encourages you to pay off your smallest

debt balance. Once you pay that off, the additional funds you put towards that loan will be applied to the next smallest bill. This method allows you to gain momentum and see your debt fade

away versus trying to pay off your largest debt. You can use this tip for any type of debt that comes your way.

Find tools to help you!

Getting in a financially sound place can take months

and years of hard work, but there are so many tools available to help move you forward and to where you want to be! There are

podcasts, apps, Excel spreadsheets, a good notebook, a calculator, filing systems, courses and more. Please note that what method

might work for your parent, sister or friend might not work for you.

when I’m working towards a goal. Using my money for something I’ve been dreaming to have or a half marathon I’ve wanted to run or even a new home. Limiting purchases to needs versus wants

Do you have tips about how to maintain your financial wellbeing?

Continue the conversation online and share your favorite tips with us!

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empowered women

Founders Day Dear Sigma Sisters,

both as Sisters and ion in my memory that, rat eb cel y Da rs de un VE more.

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Love Stories”. I loved it, Day Program, “Sigma rs’ de un Fo 19 20 r ou author of you will too!

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Empowered,

Courtney M. Stone, , IL Alpha Psi and Fox Valley t National Vice Presiden

A GOLDEN

Gathering OF SIGMAS

By Mandy Meehan Chocheles, Gamma Eta and New Orleans Alumnae

New Orleans and Gamma Eta alumnae sisters (from left to right): Gwen Hardouin Maniscalco, Anita Greco Bonura, Mandy Meehan Chocheles and Sandy Douglass Sumich.

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When most of us were initiated as Tri Sigmas in our college years, the thought of being involved with our sisterhood 50 years down the road was the last thing on our minds. We were told about the women called Golden Violets and thought, “how nice,” and then went about our lives.

But the Sigmas who proudly wear the small Golden Violet

pin are still a vital part of our sisterhood. They are members of

alumnae chapters where possible, and even national volunteers.

They are active in their communities, involved with their families, worldwide travelers and always ready to share Sigma stories.

The opportunity to bring some of these Golden Violets together

in a special way was proposed in 2011, resulting in the first Golden Violet Celebration Weekend in October of 2012. Held the year prior to Convention, there was one in 2015, as well as the most recent

event in late October 2018. Two dozen excited Sigmas attended, traveling from around the country, including National Treasurer Ann DeCecco Rutkowski and Lifetime Engagement Director Aimee Jensen Boland.

Our arrival Friday afternoon brought lots of hugs and greetings.

More than half the attendees chose to stay at Walton House, a

first time for some and a happy return for others. Friday night’s

Everyone gathered to listen to Ann Rutkowski speak.

Coordinator Toni Dinges provided a meal of homemade soups,

contributed continuously for 25 years. She also explained about

dinner for 26 Sigmas was a special treat. Alumnae Membership salad, bread and dessert. We had the bonus experience of eating

in one of the large meeting rooms in the new National Headquarters building, a short walk from Walton House. A tour of this beautiful facility followed.

Staying on the third floor in bunk beds, complete with

new mattresses and pillows, lent itself to late night laughter and

conversations. Breakfast on Saturday and Sunday mornings were sponsored by the Tri Sigma Foundation. As event coordinator, I chose to have a Mardi Gras theme on Saturday, complete

with purple beads for everyone - and king cakes! There were discussion groups and plenty of time for pictures. Rutkowski

shared a National Organization update and answered questions.

Liz Wakeman Hoffert, a “new” Golden Violet, spoke about our Foundation and recognized several attendees who have

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the archives and the efforts of the Walton House Committee to

maintain the house and property. A lunch at the Woodstock Café

and free time to visit downtown Woodstock, including Mabel Lee Walton’s grave, filled the afternoon.

Dinner at the Spring House Tavern was followed by a time for

enjoying the theme of the weekend, “Sharing Our Lifelong Sigma Memories.” Stories both amusing and poignant were shared,

complete with old photos and memorabilia. As a surprise dessert, we enjoyed delicious homemade pies and cookies baked by Ms. Martha, a local resident, who runs Aunt Muffy’s Country Bakery in her home. Marian Lewis, a 93-year-old Alpha Delta from

Connecticut, provided the funds for this tasty treat, as she said she would be unable to travel to the celebration weekend, but wanted to be part of the occasion.

Frankie Ritter Wainwright, Kappa and Linda Ritter, Kappa.

Discussion group in the sunroom.

Sunday morning dawned cold and clear as attendees gathered

around the dining table in our “Heart Home” and participated in a

favorite way to end any Sigma event: with an inspiration in the form of a reading, a prayer or just a few words. Hugs and thanks and

promises to keep in touch—and to hopefully come to the 2021

Golden Violet weekend—made leaving a little easier. During the

weekend, we were given information about the 2019 Convention in Las Vegas, with the theme “The Power of Our Stories.” As we know, Golden Violets always have stories to share!

Becoming a Golden Violet is a simple procedure. If you know

of a Sister who has been a member for 50 years, has been loyal and steadfast with her financial commitment and demonstrated

loyalty to the sorority, nominate them for this very special Award.

Many alumnae chapters like to present their new Golden Violet

sisters with this award at a special gathering, such as Founders

Day but the form can be submitted, and the pin presented, at any time of the year.

Twice a year the “Golden Glimpses” publication is sent to all

Golden Violets. It includes greetings from our National President, the Foundation Chairman and the Golden Violet Coordinator along with other national information. Several Golden Violet

recipients are chosen to be recognized in the “Spotlights” section, which honors those women who have been especially steadfast

in their involvement with, and support of, our sorority throughout their years of membership. They have gone above and beyond as shining examples of what being a lifelong Sigma means.

National Treasurer Ann Rutkowski, Epsilon Delta and Golden Violet Coordinator Mandy Chocheles, Gamma Eta enjoy the weekend at Mabel Lee Walton House.

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45th National Convention Angela David

Veronica Atkins

Andrew Jordan Fischette

CONVENTION COMMITTEE

(pictured above)

Angela David, Alpha Chi, National Meeting Planner

Veronica Atkins, Eta Omicron, Assistant Meeting Planner Andrew Jordan Fischette, Alpha Tau Omega, Decorations Chairman

Kathy Schreiber, Theta Epsilon, Hospitality Co-Chairwoman Celinda Miranda-LaBella, Zeta Epsilon, Hospitality Co-Chairwoman

Sisters of the Southern Nevada Alumnae Chapter and Theta Epsilon

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Celinda MirandaLaBella

Kathy Schreiber

Southern Nevada Alumnae Chapter

Theta Epsilon Chapter

FUN DAY ACTIVITIES

Enjoy an evening on the Las Vegas Strip! All attendees will

receive round trip transportation as part of their registration.

Shuttle busses will run from 3 p.m. until 11:30 p.m. between

the JW Marriott and the Strip. The “Entertainment Capital of the World� is famous for its bright lights and casinos but offers so

much more. Enjoy the night at one of the renowned restaurants

from world-class chefs. Check out spectacular shows featuring magicians, acrobats, comedians and divas. Attendees will be responsible for all reservations and show tickets.

WHAT TO PACK ● Casual clothes (including letters) for after hours

SSS

● Business casual for the business and educational sessions

● You favorite purple attire for Purple Day

● Semi/formal dress for the Laurels Banquet and group photo

● Semi/formal dress for the Festival of Lights Banquet

● Ritual whites for the Memorial Service

and Triangle Degree for Honor Initiates

● Don’t forget to bring your badge

WHERE WE WILL STAY

The JW Marriott Las Vegas Resort & Spa invites you to discover luxury and comfort in Nevada. Situated in the stylish Summerlin area of the city, the hotel features immaculately redesigned

rooms with high-speed Wi-Fi and walk-in closets. Additional

resort amenities include the championship TPC Las Vegas golf

course, a luxury on-site spa and a sparkling waterfall pool. Spend time at the Rampart Casino as well. In addition to being a short

SCHEDULE June 27: Volunteer Leadership Institute

2 p.m.

June 28: Volunteer Leadership Institute and Launchpad 8 a.m.

Pre-Convention Education Sessions 1:30 p.m.

Delegate Orientation and Rehearsal 3:15 p.m.

Opening Session 7 p.m.

Welcome Party: Luck Be a Sigma Tonight 10:15 p.m.

June 29: Business Session Panhellenic Luncheon: The Best Panhellenic Friendships Under the Sun Education Sessions Group Photo, Laurels Banquet

8:30 a.m.

12 p.m.

2:30 p.m.

7 p.m.

June 30: Memorial Service 8:15 a.m.

Circle Degree 9:30 a.m.

Triangle Degree 10:30 a.m.

Fun Day 3 p.m.

July 1: Education Sessions Volunteer Appreciation Luncheon Business Session Festival of Lights Farewell Dessert Reception

8:15 a.m.

11 a.m.

1:30 p.m.

7 p.m.

10:30 p.m.

*Times subject to change

distance from the excitement of the Strip, the hotel also provides close proximity to attractions including Tivoli Village, Downtown Summerlin and Red Rock Canyon National Conservation Area.

CONVENTION 2019 SIGMA SHOP Sigma Shop will be returning to the 45th National

ACTIVITIES

Convention in Las Vegas, Nevada!

The Sigma Shop supports Tri Sigma’s “Heart Home”

JW Marriott Las Vegas offers gambling, shopping, fine dining,

– Walton House. Chapters and individual members

site and in surrounding Las Vegas and Summerlin. Experience

and those that tuck easily into luggage. If you have

minutes from the property. Is luck on your side? It is here. Enjoy

expensive items, they may be included in the Silent

nightlife and many outdoor activities and adventures both on-

are invited to donate inexpensive items ($5 or less)

a day of nature, or that one-of-a-kind shopping splurge, just

some treasured Sigma keepsakes or larger or more

an authentic Vegas-style gaming experience in an unpretentious

Auction. As the donor, you may set a minimum bid.

atmosphere at Rampart Casino.

Questions or to request a contribution form may be addressed to Carol Gregory Swango, 2019 Sigma

Visit convention.trisigma.org to register and for more information!

Shop Chairman at cjswango@aol.com.

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leadership

By Jenna Lowe, Eta Beta

THE P WER OF COMMITMENT Dictionary.com defines commitment as, “the act of committing, pledging, or engaging oneself.”

As we enter Convention season, Executive Council reflects on the greatest successes of Tri Sigma this triennium, which rest on the shoulders of committed members, volunteers and staff who work together to create a meaningful sorority experience.

GOVERNMENT RELATIONS Celebrating Tri Sigma and the spirit of sisterhood will be the

essence of Convention, yet in today’s world there are threats

to the very existence of fraternities and sororities and there is

legislation at both federal and state levels which impacts Greek

life. Realizing the significance of these issues and challenges, a

Government Relations Committee was formed. Executive Council is pleased that Tri Sigma is taking an active role in educating the membership about becoming civically engaged. It is important for us to take an active part, as an organization, to defend the sorority experience which will also essentially protect our Tri Sigma experience.

ADVANCING GROWTH INITIATIVES A highlight of the past triennium is the addition of a full-time

Director of Growth Initiatives. Through Katelyn Whitty’s work, we are positioning Tri Sigma to be successful in the evolving

fraternal world. Together, we have fashioned a new extension and recruitment philosophy which will ensure our growth and stability for years to come. Focusing on each Tri Sigma’s membership experience, we will ensure greater retention and attract even more outstanding women to membership in our wonderful organization!

INITIATIVE FOR INCLUSIVE EXCELLENCE NPC LEADERSHIP Convention will be a time to celebrate Tri Sigma sisters who

lead our Fraternity/Sorority world! Kaye Schendel in December

2017 won the prestigious Jack Anson Award (highest award for

a fraternity/sorority volunteer) from the Association of Fraternity/ Sorority Advisors. Kara Miller led the Association of Fraternity/

Sorority Advisors as President for 2017-19. Linda Henderson was selected in August 2018, as NPC College Panhellenics Chairman.

Also, Natalie Averette continues to serve on the Fraternity and Sorority Political Action Committee. These women make us Sigma Proud!

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Realizing the concerns, adversities and challenges within society today and the need for greater knowledge and understanding to be a more inclusive community, as a Council, we are proud to

have enlisted the services of Timothy Fair, PhD and Ada Wilson, professional consultants specializing in the areas of diversity and inclusion. A standing committee comprised of Tri Sigma

members and volunteers has been created and the work of the committee is being directed by the professional consultants to

assist with the implementation of Tri Sigma’s inclusion strategy.

The scope of “diversity and inclusion” encompasses many focuses including but not limited to: age, disability, race,

ethnicity, nationality, gender, sexual orientation, socio-economic status, religious beliefs and political preferences. Tri Sigma

recognizes the importance of increasing awareness, cultivating a

stay in touch with our members as well as to keep everyone upto-date with information that affects the National Organization.

mindset of understanding, compassion, caring and inclusion and providing education and resources about relevant issues.

COMMITTEE STRUCTURE AND APPLICATION PROCESSES We know much of the behind-the-scenes work of Tri Sigma’s

committees have contributed to the successes of our organization.

This triennium we fostered the formation of the new Governing Documents Review, Government Relations and the Initiative

for Inclusive Excellence committees. We also restructured the

Nominating Committee and piloted the Member Advisory Panel.

RECRUITMENT SKILLS PROGRAMMING/ RECRUITMENT SUMMIT Convention is a favored aspect of personal Sigma stories,

because it’s always been both a visual and emotional experience that shows the depth, diversity and continued growth of our sisterhood. In keeping steadfast in our viability as an NPC

organization, we are extremely proud that Executive Council and staff have collaborated and created a new educational program, the Recruitment Summit, which focuses on the development of our collegians’ primary and year-round

recruitment skills. It is exciting to be a part of giving our members yet another opportunity to develop their personal skill set so that they may share THEIR empowered Sigma Story with confidence, pride and love for both themselves and our

October brought Executive Council together, along with Executive Director Marcia Cutter, ΒΓ, in Salt Lake City, UT for their Executive Council Meeting. Not pictured: Courtney Stone, AΨ

outstanding organization! #confidentcollegians COMMUNICATIONS WITH MEMBERSHIP

Executive Council has used several ways to stay in touch with

our members. This triennium we introduced Conversations with Council - this gave us the opportunity to share our thoughts

on issues and have personal conversations with members that expressed an interest in the subject matter. We also used our

social media platforms to keep members informed, as well as video messaging. An email account was created giving our members an easy way to contact Executive Council, and

the Path Forward has provided an update on the business

conducted at Executive Council meetings. We have desired to

2016-2019 EXECUTIVE COUNCIL National President - Natalie Moore Averette, Gamma Beta National Treasurer - Ann Rutkowski, Epsilon Delta National Vice Presidents - Linda Manley-Kuitu, Epsilon Rho; Kara Miller McCarty, Epsilon Delta; Joyce O’Daniel, Alpha Chi; Courtney Stone, Alpha Psi NPC Delegate and Ex-Officio Member - Laura W. Sweet, Alpha Sigma

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2019

Prevention Institute This past January, 220 student leaders and 35 volunteers, advisors

• Prevention Award: same criteria as above and additionally the

Institute. Each year, attendees to the Prevention Institute review

and progress reports communicated a commitment to the plan.

and staff members came together for the 2019 Prevention

their chapter-specific GreekLife.Edu data giving them a snapshot

plans were creative, had outstanding application of the concepts

of members’ behaviors and attitudes in the areas of alcohol use,

each chapter selected two to three high-risk areas of focus for the

Prevention Recognition award from their coach:

hazing, mental health, well being and drug misuse. Using the data, year and learned how to create an effective prevention plan.

With lights, music, and cheers, the attendees joined in

celebrating their sisters as the following chapters received their • Mu, Truman State University

• Omicron, Eastern Michigan University In 2018, 54 chapters fully completed all aspects of the prevention plans with 50 chapters focusing efforts on mental health and 45 chapters working on reducing high-risk pregaming or pre-partying.

37% 30%

Upstander

27%

Sexual Assault Fake ID

20% 14%

Well-being

14%

Drug Use/Misuse 13% Hazing

• Alpha Beta, Kent State University

• Alpha Iota, Northeastern State University

• Alpha Mu, University of Louisiana at Lafayette • Alpha Xi, University of Wisconsin-Whitewater

Impacts of Alcohol Drinker Categories

• Pi, Emporia State University

10%

• Alpha Zeta, Northwestern State University • Beta Tau, University of Detroit Mercy • Epsilon Iota, St. Mary’s University • Epsilon Upsilon, Marist College • Eta Lambda, Moravian College

• Eta Nu, Ramapo College of New Jersey

• Eta Pi, Metropolitan State University of Denver • Gamma Pi, Nicholls State University

• Zeta Delta, State University of New York-Oneonta • Zeta Eta, Winona State University

• Zeta Gamma, Southeastern Oklahoma State University • Zeta Upsilon, Fitchburg State University

To recognize the creative and collaborative work, Tri Sigma

awarded the first Prevention Awards. There were two categories: • Recognition: completed all aspects of the Prevention Plan,

demonstrated follow-through on the initiatives, mostly applied

the prevention concepts correctly. This does not mean the chapter reduced all harms but rather they were committed to taking some steps toward betterment.

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National President, Natalie Averette, then presented the

Prevention Awards to the following chapters: Alpha Chi, Alpha Phi, Beta Delta, Epsilon Delta, Eta Chi, Eta Omicron, Eta Tau, Eta Zeta and Zeta Psi.

It was a morning of celebrating both Sisterhood and Safety

as the 2019 Prevention Institute came to a close.

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leadership

Did You Know?

In addition to new member education

and officer training, the updated platform now contains lessons for all membership statuses. Periodically browse the catalog to see what learning opportunities interest you!

Recruitment Summit Over 100 Membership Recruitment Directors (MRDs) spent quality time with each other over a weekend in St. Louis, Missouri learning recruitment best practices, being inspired by each other and planning their chapter’s best recruitment yet. The Recruitment Summit’s purpose was twofold: give MRD’s the information they need to have and show them how to apply it to their chapter.

During the weekend, Membership Recruitment Directors received training on recruitment planning,

implementation and new resources. From learning how to create a clerical team or make their current team more effective to new preference ceremonies, MRDs can challenge the traditions of recruitment and make small or significant changes to increase recruitment success.

The weekend started off with instilling confidence in each other through a tremendous keynote address

by Alexa Carlin, Founder & CEO of the Women Empower Expo (WEX), and continued with Carrie Zimmerman, Founder and Facilitator of Uncommon Programs and Consulting, facilitating conversations to gain confidence in themselves and share their stories, and now they are equipped to pass these messages to their chapters to empower them to do the same. The jam-packed weekend was wrapped up with Continuous Open Recruitment (COR) plans and strategic goal setting to implement plans formulated at the summit.

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strategic plan

Looking Ahead and Moving Forward Sigma Sigma Sigma Strategic Plan 2019- 2024 Enriching the Member Experience and Shaping the Future are the strategic priorities of Tri Sigma. Focusing on Development, Engagement and Empowerment will direct the work of the Organization, driven by our mission, vision and values.

Strategic Priority I: Enriching the Member Experience Focus: Personal Development

Tri Sigma will equip our members with the skill sets needed to take individual action on the issues and causes that are most meaningful to them. They will be prepared to make a difference in their own lives, their communities and the greater world.

Focus: Engagement

Tri Sigma will provide a member experience rooted in friendship, lifelong learning, service/ philanthropic giving and fun. Our experiences will create a sense of pride.

Focus: Empowerment

Tri Sigma will inspire women to lead with character and confidence, empower others and be able to speak out on issues important to her.

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Strategic Priority II: Shaping the Future Focus: Development Tri Sigma will develop strategies for membership and chapter growth and initiatives to ensure financial stability and long-term sustainability.

Focus: Engagement Tri Sigma will engage in meaningful partnerships with host institutions, investors, constituencies and other entities that are beneficial to/for the Organization.

Focus: Empowerment Tri Sigma will use data-driven decisions and will empower Tri Sigma to identify and meet the needs of our members at various stages of their experience.

What’s Next?

Fall 2019 Inform members on the strategic priorities and focus areas of the new Strategic Plan.

• Volunteers attending VLI at Convention will receive in-depth information about the new Strategic Plan • An education module on Essential Sigma will be made available to all members.

Winter 2020 Establish ways for members to act and participate in the Strategic Plan.

• Members will be invited to apply and participate in the Strategic Plan through volunteer opportunities.

Spring and Summer 2020 Promote success of the Strategic Plan through the efforts of volunteers.

• Spotlight stories will be shared showing the impact of members on the organization.

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Volunteer Leadership Institute (VLI) As Sigma sisters, volunteerism is a key element in fulfilling our vows of membership and ensuring a vibrant experience for our

current members and those who will one day join our bonds. During this pre-Convention event, we will develop relationships with fellow leaders while learning more about the governance of the sorority and the revised strategic plan. We will dig into the state of our community, including legislation, enrollment trends and issues in higher education that impact the fraternity and sorority experience. The conversations and connections will prepare each participant to support our sisterhood as she continues to develop her Sigma story and leadership impact.

Those registered for VLI will automatically be registered for Launchpad. Tri Sigma’s Launchpad is a pre-Convention

leadership opportunity for women to come together and learn strategies for personal and professional success and is open to

all members. You are invited to join sisters from across the country for this FREE educational program thanks to 100% Tri Sigma Foundation funding.

This Institute is open to all National Volunteers.

Visit the Convention website at convention.trisigma.org to register before May 1, 2019.

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member news

Collegiate News

Left: Psi Chapter Fall ‘18 Bid Day Right: Darla Holt, left, and Miranda Skinner of Northeastern State University’s Alpha Iota Chapter.

PSI, MARSHALL UNIVERSITY Primary recruitment for Psi Chapter at Marshall University welcomed 16 new ladies to our amazing sisterhood. During the first night of recruitment, active members were proud to share their own experiences and reasons for joining Tri Sigma. On the second

night of recruitment, we were able to share our passion for our philanthropies and get a glimpse into the philanthropic efforts

that interested potential new members. It was humbling to see

so many young women passionate about and active in serving their communities. In the final round of recruitment we had the opportunity to talk to the potential new members one-on-one

and share more heartfelt stories about our own journeys in this

sisterhood and give the ladies going through recruitment the chance to see what they could become a part of by choosing Tri Sigma.

September 16, 2018 was Bid Day and the Psi Chapter was fortunate enough to welcome home 16 beautiful, intelligent, empowered

young women and begin teaching them about Tri Sigma and help them start writing their own Sigma stories.

ALPHA IOTA, NORTHEASTERN STATE UNIVERSITY The Alpha Iota chapter held their annual Fall Brawl, a fundraiser

which allows Northeastern State University’s fraternities to compete against each other. This year, the chapter decided to use the

proceeds to benefit someone who holds a special place in the

chapter’s hearts. Alpha Iota alumna Darla Holt had been battling

breast cancer, so the sisters decided to help her with the hospital bills. Miraculously, one week before the event, she was declared

cancer-free! This great news allowed the chapter to have an even greater drive for success. They tabled to raise funds, hosted

competitive events including a pie eating contest and other fall-

themed events. Alpha Iota was so gratified to support our alumna by raising a total of $1,967.57! Fundraising chairperson Miranda

Skinner worked very hard to make sure this event was a success, which went far better than the sisters could even have imagined!

ALPHA OMICRON, UNIVERSITY OF CENTRAL ARKANSAS Alumnae from the Alpha Omicron Chapter who were collegiate

members during the 1970s held a reunion at Lake Hamilton in historic Hot Springs, Arkansas. Individual sisters rented a beautiful home on

the lake. The house had room for 21 people and had a private pool, hot tub and boat ramp. Thirty alumnae attended from five different states, and it was a fun sisterhood event which lasted three days. Sisters

participated in boating, water skiing, games, browsing through old

yearbooks and just catching up on old memories. It was so successful, plans are in the works for another reunion to be held this summer. The

hostesses for the reunion were sisters Karen Keopple and Rebecca Lee McNulty, who traveled all the way from Virginia for the event.

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Collegiate News

ALPHA PI, CLARION UNIVERSITY OF PENNSYLVANIA 2018 was a year of giving for the Alpha Pi Chapter. Sisters spent

an evening putting boxes of school supplies together to send to

schools and kids that were affected by one of last year’s hurricanes.

They also put on a lip sync battle where groups performed to their favorite songs. It was such a success that the Clarion University president, Dr. Dale Elizabeth Pehrsson, took a photo with the

sisters along with the school mascot, Ernie the Eagle. Another one

of the chapter’s events was called “Soak a Sigma,” where students paid to squirt sisters with fun water toys. All of the chapter’s

philanthropy events have been hosted by Amy McMurtray and the chapter could not be more proud of their sister and what she has done for the chapter at Clarion University.

created a team of 10 from different organizations all across James Madison University. Teams purchased a shirt with a Robbie Page Memorial Fund logo and competed in a fun kickball tournament.

With the help of philanthropy chairperson Julia Lucey, and the

Robbie Page philanthropy leaders, Morgan Welch, Maddie Szoka

and Ashley Johnson, the tournament raised $5,000! The winner of the tournament won a meal and everyone bought raffle tickets for

baskets that were auctioned off. There was also a cookie and pizza table to raise money as well! The chapter did a remarkable job with

organizing, planning and creating this event and it ran very smoothly.

Everyone had a fantastic time playing kickball and were happy

knowing they were helping children have a better day than usual.

DELTA PI, WINTHROP UNIVERSITY

ALPHA UPSILON, JAMES MADISON UNIVERSITY On a sunny, fall weekend, the Alpha Upsilon chapter had their annual

Robbie Page Kickball Tournament. All proceeds from the tournament were donated to the Robbie Page Memorial Fund. Each member

For a week beginning Sept. 10, 2018, Delta Pi held their annual Gold Week to promote childhood cancer awareness. Sigmas passed

out roughly 400 gold ribbons and spoke with other students about

the startling lack of childhood cancer funding. Not only was this an

Left: Alpha Pi sisters gather together during their philanthropy event, Lip Sync Battle. Right: Katie Verry, Beta Beta, was named Homecoming Queen this year at Missouri State University.

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Left: A Delta Pi sister holds one of the many gold ribbons given out during Gold Week. Right: Sisters from Zeta Eta chapter; Emma Lux, Kendra Jensen, Abby Shanahan, Raquel Taylor, Shana Rian and Zaria Smith.

opportunity to bond within their sisterhood and to support

forum where sisters can anonymously nominate a fellow sister that

Winthrop University’s campus as a whole.

for each pillar are then spotlighted throughout the week on the

Tri Sigma’s philanthropy, it was also a chance to connect with

Following the last day of tabling, Gold Week chairperson

Danielle Altringer held an educational event with speaker Sara

Jane Gibson, a child life specialist at Levine Children’s Hospital.

Gibson spoke about the importance of medical and play therapy, emphasizing the hospital’s role in a child’s understanding of their

diagnoses, along with the need for support for the patients and their families. The effects of cancer treatment on children can last for

years, even after their final treatments, as they become long-term survivors whose lives have been forever changed by their time at

Levine. Gibson even thanked sisters for their contribution of portable DVD players which are used to keep the children entertained while they anxiously wait for surgery.

After the presentation, everyone in attendance showed off

their crafting skills by decorating over 40 posters for the children

they feel best fits a pillar of character. The women most nominated chapter’s social media platforms and recognized for how they

carry Trustworthiness, Respect, Responsibility, Fairness, Caring and Citizenship in their daily lives. The women selected were Emma Lux, Kendra Jensen, Raquel Taylor, Abby Shanahan,

Shana Rian and Zaria Smith respectively. The importance of

character to the women in Zeta Eta is abundant. Sister Raquel Taylor, who was selected for the Responsibility pillar, proudly

states that “if we didn’t have pillars of character, we wouldn’t

stand for anything. Our six pillars define us as Tri Sigmas.” By continuing this Character Counts! Week tradition, we cannot

only refresh the women of our chapter on what it means to be a woman of character, but highlight the women that have been doing an astounding job at upholding Tri Sigma’s values.

at Levine. These posters are used to celebrate the child’s birthday,

ZETA UPSILON, FITCHBURG STATE UNIVERSITY

treatments. From participating in playtime to sending craft packets,

Week at Fitchburg State University. This was a way to spread

to offer random encouragement and to lift their spirits during difficult

In October, the Zeta Upsilon Chapter had Character Counts!

the smallest efforts can make a significant difference in the lives of

what it means to have good character around school and how

these children. Gold Week holds a special place in the hearts of the sisters of Delta Pi as they continue to build awareness and raise funds for this very important cause.

ZETA ETA, WINONA STATE UNIVERSITY The Zeta Eta chapter has created a tradition of celebrating

Character Counts! Week every October by creating an online

being a Sigma Sigma Sigma holds sisters to those standards.

This includes writing thoughtful notes to someone, writing

“because I said I would” cards and creating a poster on what it means to have good character.

At the end of the week, the chapter had a sisterhood “boo bag”

swap. Each sister got assigned a person to secretly get a gift for and exchanged bags at their Halloween meeting.

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Collegiate News

Dimarzo was the legislature’s Secretary of State and during the

fall session, she wrote a bill to allow campus carry for the purpose of protecting women who are more likely to become victims of sexual assault while in college.

The chapter is so proud of Dimarzo and Wolfe and all that they

have accomplished as members of the South Carolina Student

Legislature. There are sure to continue to achieve much as strong Tri

Sigma women who are not afraid to voice their opinions about issues that matter to them.

A group from the chapter went to the 2018 Waccamaw Heart Walk

in North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. These sisters walked throughout the day in support of the fight against heart disease and stroke.

Congenital heart defects are the number one defect that occurs at

birth. By participating in the Heart Walk the sisters supported the fight Photos from Left to Right: Cammie Wolfe and Alexis Dimarzo of the Zeta Chi chapter stand in front of the South Carolina State House after participating in the Fall Session ofSouth Carolina Student Legislature. Zeta Chi Sisters Elizabeth Dickman, Angel Pham, Krista Kaczka and Kristin Fisher enjoy participating in the Waccamaw Heart Walk together.

against diseases that affect not just adults, but also children. This goes hand-in-hand with our philanthropic goal, Sigma Serves Children.

THETA ALPHA, HIGH POINT UNIVERSITY Sometimes it is easy to forget to take care of your mental and

physical health. A very health conscious sister, Madison MacDougall, has implemented a health and wellness program that will encourage ZETA CHI, COASTAL CAROLINA UNIVERSITY On Nov. 12, 2018, sister Maria Andoldi of the Zeta Chi chapter put on a

zero waste benefit event with her communication activism class to help

the victims of Hurricane Florence. This event took place at the House of Blues in North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina.

During the event, several local artists came to perform. One of

which, Ocean’s Orange, was booked by Andoldi herself and was

the event headliner. Will Ness, a current student at Coastal Carolina University also performed at the event.

A photo booth was set up at the event with many props for visitors

the women of the Theta Alpha chapter to put their well being before anything else.

The events organized by the program include meditation,

cooking classes, yoga classes, essential oil education and self-

confidence workshops. Many sisters have already benefited from

these activities and they have helped people relax during stressful

moments of the semester. The chapter is excited to see the program grow in the future.

to use in their photos. The photo booth was available for anyone to

Collegiate Chapter Anniversaries

5 YEARS Theta Zeta

participate in with family and friends at the event.

There were many items on sale as well. There were t-shirts, original

art pieces and plants that were being grown in recycled bottles. There

were even raffle tickets being sold for prizes that were being auctioned off! All proceeds from the event went towards efforts to help victims of Hurricane Florence.

The chapter is proud of Andoldi for putting on such a great event

Sisters Alexis Dimarzo and Cammie Wolfe recently participated

that raised money to help so many people!

in South Carolina Student Legislature Fall Session. The session took

place at the South Carolina State House in Columbia, South Carolina.

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10 YEARS Eta Chi Eta Psi 15 YEARS Eta Pi 30 YEARS Epsilon Nu Epsilon Omicron

30 YEARS Epsilon Alpha Epsilon Beta Epsilon Gamma

55 YEARS Gamma Mu 70 YEARS Beta Theta

35 YEARS Delta Omicron Delta Pi

75 YEARS Beta Alpha

45 YEARS Delta Theta

80 YEARS Alpha Upsilon

50 YEARS Gamma Psi

90 YEARS Alpha Theta Alpha Iota

member news

Alumnae News GREATER LOS ANGELES ALUMNAE CHAPTER The Greater Los Angeles Alumnae Chapter held a kick-off

brunch to announce its first official programming year. It was great to reconnect after the summer with chapter members and to meet new Sigma sisters. In September, the chapter had a “paint & sip” party where sisters painted a spring bouquet while sipping on wine.

The chapter held its first “brunching and bagging” event

in honor of Character Counts! Week. The event supported the

efforts of #HappyPeriod which distributes menstrual hygiene kits to anyone who is homeless, low-income and/or living in poverty in Los Angeles.

Chapter members assembled the #HappyPeriod care

packages. Each baggie included a variety of supplies: pads,

tampons, pantyliners, feminine wipes and soap. Sisters wrote

inspirational notes that were also included. The #HappyPeriod care packages were dropped off at Alexandria House, a

transitional residence and partner organization. They provide

Above: Front Row: Dee Myers McConville, Beta Gamma; Nancy Sauer Mann, Beta Gamma; Susie Fink Kuhn, Beta Gamma; Kathy Church Kolster, Beta Rho; Michelle Bayless Harrold, Beta Gamma; Jodi Matheny Brown, Alpha Psi; Amanda Schandler Armstrong, Iota Alpha; Ilene Swank Garrett, Kappa. Middle Row: Jan Schafer Brill, Beta Gamma; Lois Paullus Smock, Beta Gamma; Sherry Dinwiddie Hanlin, Beta Gamma; Kaye Schutte Schendel, Gamma Phi; Chris Myers Hammock, Beta Gamma; Sandy Peyton Thayer, Beta Gamma. Back Row: Kaki Eads Garard, Epsilon Xi; Kara Eaton Rees, Beta Gamma.

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Alumnae News

safe and supportive housing for women and children in the

stability and permanent housing. They were very thankful

her: Proof that college students could do more than just party on the

process of moving from emergency shelter to economic for the donation.

INDIANAPOLIS SUBURBAN ALUMNAE CHAPTER The Indianapolis Suburban Alumnae chapter had the chance to support one of their Sigma sisters at the Indianapolis Alumnae

Panhellenic Annual Scholarship Luncheon. Past National President

Kaye Schutte Schendel, Gamma Phi, served as the guest speaker for

the event. Schendel is the Director of Global Initiatives at Delta Upsilon International Fraternity. Her message, The Power of Volunteering: from

Egoism to Altruism, resonated with everyone. Luncheon guests included representatives from most of the National Panhellenic Conference member groups. Meghan Ward-Bopp Paden, Alpha Chi Omega,

Executive Director of the Tri Sigma Foundation, was among those in attendance.

Schendel shared the story about how Delta Upsilon’s Project

Jamaica began in response to a Jamaican hotel owner’s challenge to beach. Since joining DU’s staff in 2012, Schendel has been instrumental in developing the fraternity’s Global Service Initiative (GSI), an award-

winning program in which Delta Upsilon partners with universities, Greek organizations (including Tri Sigma) and service groups from across the

country in planning short-term service immersion programs. Schendel’s inspiring narrative prompted laughter and a few tears while challenging our notions about what service can and should be.

NASHVILLE ALUMNAE CHAPTER Nashville Alumnae Chapter members live Sigma’s motto “Sigma Serves Children.” Members gathered for lunch and fellowship in August. With school beginning, the chapter wanted to do

something for children in need. Sisters hand made cards for students in a high-poverty school. Members wrote words of

encouragement on each card. The cards were decorated with

bright and cheery pictures. A pencil was included with each card.

Students were so very thankful for their Sigma gifts.

Members also talked of their individual Convention

experience, and then worked to make purple and violet notepads.

Sisters visiting the Sigma Shop will find their labor of love very

useful. The Nashville alumnae enjoy craft activities, and especially enjoy crafts that will benefit our Sigma Heart Home.

PHOENIX ALUMNAE CHAPTER The Phoenix Alumnae chapter has been quite busy being creative, charitable, healthier, and establishing stronger bonds with one another while engaging in Sigma Sigma Sigma’s core values.

As a charitable event, 149 art supply sacks were put together

for the Phoenix Children’s Hospital in Gilbert. Children who are

hospitalized are able to get in touch with their creative side using a medium that requires no batteries, just imagination and glue.

As a way to be creative themselves, sisters gathered to

work and play with sticky hot glue guns, glass beads, sailboats and blue paint over beverages and appetizers. The adorable

items the chapter created will be donated to Sigma Shop and sold at Tri Sigma’s 2019 Convention in Las Vegas.

Above: Kansas City alumnae chapter book club - Ilene Ginardi Burns, Chi; Ethel Neimeyer Blankenship, Nu; Brenda Porter Dumler, Nu; Donna Jones Clark, Nu; Carolyn Granger Austin, Nu, and Carole Ruf Gurley, Nu.

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Left: Helen Sharrett Shull, Beta Gamma and Nashville Alumnae Golden Violet and Elaine Rashmawy Turner, Alpha Nu and Nashville Alumnae Chapter President. Right: Mary Lou Chappell Roberts, Alpha Epsilon and Nashville Alumnae Chapter Golden Violet, prepares notepads for alumnae members to decorate and send to the Sigma Shop for Convention 2019.

The chapter also hosted a “Let’s Eat Out” fundraiser at the Old

Spaghetti Factory in both Chandler and Phoenix, where 15 percent

Alumnae Chapter Anniversaries

of purchases benefited children in the burn unit of the Maricopa

5 YEARS Huntington Tri State, WV

45 YEARS Wisconsin Fox Valley

New York City, NY

55 YEARS Chicago NW Suburban, IL

Integrated Health System.

Many sisterhood events took place. Sisters and their families

attended a play at the Phoenix Herberger Theatre, an indoor performing arts venue featuring three stages, and there were several happy hour gatherings.

Hagerstown, MD Queen City, NC 10 YEARS Greater Savannah Area, GA Madison Area, WI Springfield Area, MO 20 YEARS Anchorage, AK 30 YEARS Jersey Shore, NJ

60 YEARS Tallahassee, FL Atlanta, GA Southern, WV 65 YEARS Omaha-Council Bluffs, NE

70 YEARS Long Beach, CA West Michigan, MI Greater Cincinnati, OH 75 YEARS San Diego, CA 80 YEARS Colorado Springs, CO Houston, TX Topeka, KS 85 YEARS Lafayette, LA

Northern Virginia, VA Seattle, WA

100 YEARS Greater Cleveland, OH

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New Year. New Store. New Merch.

Purple & Pearls has a brand new look and all new merch! Shop now online at purpleandpearls.com and on-site at Convention June 28 – July 1.

By Katie Bevan, Eta Chi

member news

THETA LAMBDA CHAPTER INSTALLED AT UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS SPRINGFIELD With the help of staff, volunteers and collegiate members from the Theta Gamma and Epsilon Omicron chapters, Tri Sigma officially installed the Theta Lambda Chapter at the University of Illinois Springfield last fall.

The weekend began on Friday with a pre-initiation

meeting and followed by the chapter dining together. Sharing a meal continued to strengthen the positive energy from their Inspiration Week in preparation for the exciting events of a new chapter’s installation.

On Saturday, Dec. 1, 36 collegiate members were

initiated into the Theta Lambda chapter, concluding with the

honor initiate, Darlene Stienkamp, who was initiated with her stepmother’s badge.

“Tri Sigma is a dream I’ve had since I was 10 years

old,” Stienkamp said. “I watched my stepmom and aunts

talk about their days in Tri Sigma and knew it was a group I one day wanted to be a part of.” The honor initiate was

proven time and again as they had the most signatures for the It’s On Us pledge on campus, donated the most cans per member of a student organization for a Trick or Treat

canned goods event (collected 3,000 pounds of cans from

community members and donated to the event) and hosted a holiday toy drive for a nearby town that lost many homes to a tornado.

The women are enjoying all the sisterhood events as

well, including a sisterhood retreat to bond and set goals for the future of the chapter. The new sisters created memories this year while roller skating, pumpkin picking and have so much to look forward to in the coming years.

instrumental in bringing the sorority to the UIS campus

through founding the interest group—the first step that led to this weekend.

Installation was made possible by the volunteers

present, including Installing Officer Ann Rutkowski, Epsilon Delta; Installation Coordinators Aileen Toomey, Delta Chi, and Julie Mathies, Gamma Mu; and Associate Director of New Chapter Development Morgan Kaplan, Epsilon Omicron. Epsilon Omicron, Theta Lambda and Theta Gamma CAB members were also present during the weekend to support their sisters.

That evening, the banquet was held at the Student

Union. Remarks were made by Ann Rutkowski and Dr.

Clarice Ford, Vice Chancellor of Student Affairs. Family

and friends of members and representatives from other

Greek organizations attended. Chapter members received

their charter and presented their doll to be sent to National Headquarters.

The chapter has embraced their values and worked

officially so excited to is r te ap h c The rhood!

Sigma’s siste ri T of t r pa be a

hard to become a part of the community. This has been

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foundation

Creating Lasting Impact As we plan for your impact, we imagine the

As the Foundation Board of Directors and

future of our philanthropy.

staff prepare for everything Conventionrelated, my excitement for connecting

Why is it important to build philanthropic and servant leaders?

with sisters like you and my closest Sigma

How can we engage more Sigmas in our mission?

friends grows each day. From important

Which mission areas can best maximize our impact?

guests to special recognitions at our

Pearl Celebration, I have many surprises I

cannot wait to share with you.

Before we celebrate all things Sigma this June, I am taking

time to pause for Founders Day, as we celebrate the history and future of our sisterhood. Like Convention, Founders Day brings

sisters together and reminds us all of our lifelong commitment to Tri Sigma.

My commitment to Tri Sigma includes my financial support

and service to the Foundation. I know that every Sigma shares in

the power to give back and serve others. You can give your time, talents or treasures to support our cause – all meaningful gifts that are vital to our mission.

When thousands of Sigmas give time, talents and treasures,

we create a lasting impact. We don’t fund one new scholarship or one new leadership program or one new therapeutic play

With a big mission that impacts women, children and families

each year, our Foundation leadership must tackle big questions about our future. It’s important that we begin the new 2019-22

triennium with a vision for how we can provide more opportunities for you to make a meaningful impact.

As you celebrate Founders Day, I ask you to make a

gift that is meaningful to both you and to our mission. That may mean joining our Steadfast Giving Club as a monthly

donor, or that may mean writing a check and mailing an annual contribution. It doesn’t matter how you give as long as I can count on your support!

Because of the beautiful vow that makes us sisters, I have

faith in the future of the Foundation and our Sorority. Collectively, I hope we continue to make a long-lasting difference.

room. Collectively, we have the power to fill the gaps by funding

scholarships to meet the growing need for financial aid, leadership

programs to prepare thousands of women to lead in the workforce

In Our Bonds,

and in their communities and grant funds to impact children in need through therapeutic play across the country.

On the following page, you will see a 3-year glance of key

financial figures. I am proud to say we are moving in the right

direction, but progress doesn’t mean we can rest. The need for more scholarships and access to leadership programming is

Bonnie Rainey, Alpha Sigma

Chair, Foundation Board of Directors

significant, and only sisters like you can help us meet that need.

P.S. I hope I get to see you at Tri Sigma’s 45th National Convention! You will see firsthand the impact of our work as we will be funding Launchpad, providing Destination Sigma scholarships for collegiate delegates, and giving every sister the opportunity to participate in our philanthropy. I look forward to sharing more with you when we gather in Las Vegas.

Celebrate 121 years of Tri Sigma! Make your Founders Day gift at trisigma.org/donate or mail a check to Tri Sigma Foundation, 225 N. Muhlenberg St. Woodstock, VA 22664.

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Thank You to Our Heritage Society Thank you to our sisters who have chosen to leave a legacy for the future of Tri Sigma. If you have already listed us in your will or estate plans, we want to recognize you! For more information, contact Megan at mcaldwell@trisigma.org.

Karen Adams, Beta Rho Cathy Albright, Chi Revelyn Alpaugh, Pi Jennifer Avenel, Delta Pi Su-Lin Banks, Gamma Psi Mary Barbee, Iota Marie Beck, Beta Upsilon Karrie Benjamin, Gamma Alpha Angi Bevers, Beta Gamma Suzan Bosarge, Gamma Mu Leslie Brady, Delta Pi Mary Jo Bristol, Beta Rho Mary Brown, Rho Amy Buchheit, Beta Xi Tricia Casey, Zeta Rho Rayna Coleman, Alpha Alpha Heather Cruz, Zeta Psi Monica Cusick, Epsilon Lambda Marcia Cutter, Beta Gamma Joann Davis, Beta Gamma Jessica Dowches-Wheeler, Zeta Lambda Emily Ellis, Gamma Beta SAM! Farrell, Epsilon Theta Peggy Gamble, Alpha Sigma Merri Gibson, Epsilon Theta Kat Gillan, Alpha Zeta Lois Hansen-Hjelle, Alpha Phi Lynn Harrington, Iota Michelle Hektor, Beta Delta Liz Hoffert, Beta Xi Jan Horner, Beta Xi Christi Jones-McNeill, Delta Pi Marilynn Kinsella, Alpha Xi Wendy Kirkpatrick, Alpha JeanMarie Komyathy, Gamma Kappa

Julie Lammel, Alpha Sigma Jo Ann Litton, Beta Gamma Brenna Magliulo, Gamma Xi Linda Manley-Kuitu, Epsilon Rho Deborah Maves, Beta Iota Dee McConville, Beta Gamma Nancy McCullough, Beta Beta Nancy McGowan, Kappa RoseMarie Mirabella, Alpha Upsilon Tracy Mitchell, Gamma Xi Kimberly Omelson, Alpha Nu Jane Parks, Alpha Upsilon Linda Porter, Alpha Epsilon Bonnie Rainey, Alpha Sigma Kara Rees, Beta Gamma Leslie Roods, Rho Annie Rutkowski, Epsilon Delta Sandy Sandel, Alpha Phi Tracy Sary, Gamma Beta Lori Schaefer, Beta Pi Kaye Schendel, Gamma Phi Barbara Shenk, Alpha Upsilon Ellen Sigel, Epsilon Epsilon Emmy Smith, Epsilon Pi Sandy Thayer, Beta Gamma Darlene Thibodeau, Beta Phi Erika Warneck, Delta Psi Sue Watson, Delta Kappa Jean Wiechmann, Alpha Epsilon Deb Wilcox, Iota Ann Williams, Gamma Eta Ann Marie Wilson, Alpha Beta Tara Wisdorf, Beta Pi Debbie Woodroof, Beta Gamma Phyllis Wright, Alpha Kappa

FOUNDATION AT A GLANCE Total Contributions & Revenues by fiscal year (July 1 – June 30)

2017-18 $854,474

2016-17 $778,370

2015-16 $785,176

Total Grants & Scholarships By fiscal year (July 1 – June 30) Contributions and revenue include your generous unrestricted and restricted gifts from Sigma sisters. Restricted gifts support the Robbie Page Memorial Fund, March of Dimes grants, and scholarship endowments. Additionally, 11% of the total 3-year revenue is a result of investments.

3-Year Expense Totals

Program $1,296,197 Fundraising $372,931 Management $361,245

Total 3-Year Contributions & Revenue by Fund Your generosity makes impacting women, children and families possible – in fact we’re spending more than 64% of your donations on growing that impact. Management expenses are necessary infrastructure systems, like our database. Fundraising efforts connect us with sisters through direct mail, email and online.

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foundation

Empowering Leadership

THE HEART OF AN ALUMNA “Labyrinth renewed my commitment to Tri Sigma. It also renewed me as a person.”

Alison Wirth, Epsilon Omicron alumna and National Officer, applied to attend 2018

“I had never done anything before where I was the beneficiary

of the Foundation’s funding, being supported by Sigma donors,”

she shared. “I want to make sure as many women as possible can

experience these programs. It’s important to give back because there are so many wonderful programs that Tri Sigma has, and if I can support in any way I want to.”

Labyrinth Leadership Experience to meet more sisters equally as passionate about

Tri Sigma. She discovered it didn’t just open her mind to Sigma’s

CONFIDENCE IS CRUCIAL

values, but also her own responsibility to be a woman of character.

“Presidents Academy was the first

Tri Sigma matters,” she said. “I learned how our values are not

I attended”

Tri Sigma leadership conference that

“For me, it was a soul-searching process, reminding me why

just for Tri Sigma but a part of my life. I didn’t really understand my

As the newly-elected 2018 president of the

responsibility to live those things daily. It made me more conscious

Alpha Pi Chapter at Clarion University, Haley

about evaluating my life and making decisions based on my values

Miscovich spent a weekend in January

and what is important to me.”

Having served as a national volunteer for more than 10 years,

Wirth believes the commitment and engagement of alumnae are vital to our sisterhood.

“Tri Sigma may be four years in college, but it could be another

60 years after college. We as alumnae need to realize we are the ones that are in it for the long haul. Collegians couldn’t have successful

experiences if there weren’t numerous alumnae helping guide their journeys and our chapters.”

Labyrinth provides a leadership and educational opportunity for

both alumnae and collegiate members. Wirth enjoyed being around undergraduates and seeing the impact Tri Sigma continues to have on our youngest leaders.

“Programs like this are important for collegians to experience

because it teaches them to be a woman of character and to live

their life through the values of Tri Sigma,” she said. “It gives them

experiences they may not have been able to have and places they

may not have ever visited. And I bet they will be more likely to remain involved as alumnae.”

She applied for Labyrinth looking to connect with dedicated

sisters and new friends. She found that and learned there are more passionate women behind the scenes supporting her leadership development.

investing in herself as a Tri Sigma leader.

She developed an action plan and collaborated with Sigmas as she prepared for her role as chapter president.

“Presidents Academy fully prepared me to take on my position

with confidence,” she said. “I was influenced by other presidents in my group who all were experiencing some of the same fears and hopes that I was feeling.”

Like many attendees at Tri Sigma programs, Miscovich gained a

new perspective of Tri Sigma’s national sisterhood. She gained a better understanding of all the women across the country working towards the same goals. Sharing her unique experiences of leadership, she connected with and learned from her fellow chapter presidents.

“One of my biggest takeaways from Presidents Academy is that

confidence is crucial, and I enjoyed hearing Erin Fischer speak on confidence. After putting her tips and tricks to work, I saw a huge

difference in my leadership style. Presidents Academy taught me to be confident in all that I do, and I think that will help me beyond college,” she shared.

Miscovich’s new sense of confidence gave her encouragement

along her Tri Sigma journey and in her own personal development.

With a drive to continue to use her strengths and grow as a leader, she sought out new opportunities leading her to serve as the Foundation’s Marketing & Communications Summer Intern and attend the Undergraduate Interfraternity Institute (UIFI).

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THE CIRCLE OF LEADERSHIP

“After attending Presidents Academy, I was inspired and later

applied and received a scholarship to attend UIFI that summer,” she

“My experience at the Education

said. “UIFI challenged me to think deeply about some of the most

Summit has brought topics to mind that

important issues in our Greek communities and what impact these

I might not have thought of in my role

issues can have on the longevity of Greek Life on college campuses.

as an adviser of the Beta Delta chapter.

It was an eye-opening experience into a deeper understanding of

It’s allowed me to serve our members

what it means to be a sorority or fraternity leader.”

better and give them things they can use as life skills after college.”

EMERGING LEADERSHIP “The Dunham Women of Character Institute impacted me in a way I did not expect. I expected to learn about leadership but learned that and so much more. Dunham inspired me and prepared me to be a better leader within my chapter and beyond my chapter.”

Lori Richard, Beta Delta and National Officer, believes in leadership development. Not only has she watched Beta Delta members

participate in Tri Sigma programs throughout the years, but she experienced programs such as Education Summit and Service Immersion firsthand.

“At the Education Summit, I learned how important self-care is,”

she shared. “I think sometimes our chapter members do not look at this

themselves. This is where I can go back and empower them to first take care of themselves and then look at the bigger picture to be a better Sigma sister.”

Natalia Gomez joined the Beta Tau chapter at the University of Detroit

Along with Beta Delta’s officers, Richard and the CAB supported the

August 2018, she served as a chapter leader by using the skills that

“The women are running in 50 different directions,” Richard said.

then look out for each other. Once they have that knowledge and skill set,

Mercy as a freshman in October 2017. After attending Dunham in

chapter in bringing the topic of self-care to their chapter retreat last fall.

she learned to plan her chapter’s Character Counts! Week.

“But it’s a happier chapter when they take that time for themselves. They

taught me and be able to share it with my sisters,” she said. “We all

they cannot help but pull it into their experiences, even beyond college.”

some cheer on our campus.”

programs like Education Summit at the core develop not only collegiate,

different opportunities and helped her improve her self-confidence.

recently elected as Chapter Treasurer for 2019.

collegiate process,” she said. “Alumnae are the ones we rely on to

Beta Tau Chapter President Nicole Gebara. “Her participation has

alumnae, they may not feel like they have what it takes to fill those

excited to see her continue to grow, especially now that she will be

Beta Delta chapter illustrates how she continues to pay forward her

“It was so empowering to be able to bring back what Dunham

learned a little more about our organization and were able to spread

but also alumnae members to be the best women they can be.

Being a Tri Sigma and attending Dunham allowed her to explore

While each program focuses on different educational areas,

“We have many chapters that do not have the benefit of having

She previously served as Honor Council Secretary and was most

chapter advisers to be resources for them and help them through the

support our undergraduate members. If we are not developing our

“Natalia has significantly grown since attending Dunham,” said

significantly increased, and she has stepped up as a leader. I am very

vacant roles.”

serving as treasurer.”

commitment to volunteering for Tri Sigma and being a mentor to the

attending Dunham and selected an emerging leader who would bring

leadership experiences.

only impact her chapter, but also grow personally and as a Sigma.

leaders yet, but we can encourage them to better themselves which

that I need to take to get there,” she shared. “I also learned how to be

leadership programs that Tri Sigma offers. It’s bettering one person, who

of storytelling. But beyond that, I learned that Tri Sigma truly inspires

circle of building future leaders.”

Like many chapters, Beta Tau asked for members interested in

Richard believes leadership is a continuous process. Her

ideas and skills back to benefit their chapter. However, Gomez wouldn’t

“It’s like with collegiate women, they might not see themselves as

“I learned what it is to be a woman of character and the steps

they can then use to better others,” she said. “I see that through the

a better listener to truly understand somebody and I learned the power

then can better others. It continuously brings more and more into the

me and many other women to continue to achieve more. I hope that all of the positive traits that I learned about at Dunham will stick with me wherever I go. I hope to use the skills I learned to help elevate everything I am a part of to its highest potential.”

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archives

By Liz Johns, Delta Omicron, National Archivist

Working The Golden Girls: Celebrations of Golden Violets and Anniversaries from the Beginning To commit to something for 50 years is a major achievement, and Tri Sigma recognizes 50 years of dedication for both chapters and individuals through celebrations and awards. The first celebration of 50 years occurred in 1948 with the Golden Anniversary of Tri Sigma’s founding. It was officially over three days in Farmville, Virginia, with the Alpha chapter, but the sorority marked the entire year as a “Jubilee Year” of celebration. At this milestone, the sorority celebrated the achievements of chapters, individuals and the overall organization, even gifting Longwood College an antique grandfather clock to commemorate the event. Since then, Tri Sigma has celebrated many more golden achievements, for both chapters and individuals, most notably through the Golden Violet Award.

Although the sorority reached 50 years in 1948, the first Golden

Violet Award was not presented until 1954 when it was given to

Mabel Lee Walton. As the first recipient, Walton was recognized for

her 50 years of faithful membership and dedication to the sorority.

Two years later, Mabel Lee’s sister, Emily Walton Holloway, received

her Golden Violet award from the current National President, her own daughter, Mary Hastings Holloway Page.

But just being a Tri Sigma for 50 years does not automatically earn

one this special award; it requires that the member has been loyal and

steadfast through the years. Alumnae must be nominated by a chapter

or individual member, and must have demonstrated loyalty to the sorority for 50 years or more through active participation in alumna life, serving

the sorority as a volunteer and paying lifetime dues or dues for over 20

years. The award marks a special achievement for women who have held such long-term dedication to Tri Sigma, and often becomes a goal for

many Tri Sigma women. A great example of the dedication of our Golden Violets is Joan Baker Shearer, Chi, who was initiated in 1946 and served

Collegiate and alumnae chapters celebrate golden anniversaries

as well. After Alpha, Lambda, Mu, Nu, Omicron and Pi celebrated their 50th anniversaries in the 1960s, and all recently celebrated 100 years

as well. This year, just one active collegiate chapter will celebrate their 50th Anniversary, Gamma Psi, and next year, Golden Anniversaries

will be celebrated by Delta Beta and Delta Delta. Alumnae chapters are also going strong, many of them with longevity and steadfast

dedication. The first alumnae chapter to celebrate 50 years was the

Toledo Area Alumnae Chapter in 1995, followed only a few weeks later

by Metro Detroit who also celebrated 100 years in 2005. This year, the

Greater Cleveland Alumnae Chapter will also celebrate 100 years of Tri Sigma history, adding another page to our growing history.

If you have momentos, photos or recollections from your

chapter’s Golden Anniversaries, please send them to the National

Archives to add to the growing collection. For questions regarding the

National Archives or Tri Sigma’s history, contact archives@trisigma.org.

as vice president, president and Panhellenic representative. In 1959,

Shearer started national service, and served as National Vice President

and Collegiate Vice President for three trienniums, from 1968-77. Shearer

was also a long-time member of the Wichita Alumnae Chapter, remaining dedicated to Tri Sigma throughout her life. Shearer donated her jewelry to the Archives in 2017, ensuring that her story and her impact on Tri Sigma history remains strong.

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The award itself has not changed much in the past 65 years—the pins given to women this year are almost identical to the one presented to Mabel Lee Walton in 1954: a small gold violet pin, which can be worn alone, or as a badge guard.

Above: Golden Violet pin, 50 year milestone pin, Sailboat pins.

Inset: Golden Violet pin and Tri Sigma jewelry, Joan Baker Shearer, Chi.

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omega listing

Omega Listing

The following Tri Sigmas were reported to have entered the Omega Chapter. We offer our sympathy to their friends and families and honor them for their lifelong commitment to Tri Sigma.

ZETA Marjorie Durland Dardenne Jean Marseilles Updegraff KAPPA Janet Lee Evans Donna Maranchik Salmon LAMBDA Patricia Shaw Butler Beth O’Leary Norris NU Nancy Ball Day Charlotte Smoyer Myklebust* OMICRON Virginia Horton Lee Charlotte Payne Williams* PI Sandra Hedrick Fulton Freda Bornschein Woods RHO Lillian Todd Cox SIGMA J. Dollard Garland PSI Kathleen Enterline Diehl* ALPHA ALPHA Virginia Orton Kozak ALPHA GAMMA Donna Debes Brookhart Frances Sistrunk Randle Jeanie Morrow Siler

ALPHA EPSILON Helen Richardson Arkoff

BETA DELTA Elizabeth Heltzel Walters

ALPHA THETA Carolyn Smith Hanna

BETA KAPPA Patsy Kendig Mooney* Betty Aepli Rundle

ALPHA IOTA Sally Beene Wessel ALPHA KAPPA Mary Livingston Squires* ALPHA LAMBDA Lucille Draper Recher* ALPHA PI Theresa Anne Fechek* ALPHA RHO Jean Erieg Bowes Caroline Brown Grieco ALPHA SIGMA Katie Calhoun Carr Carolyn Garner Sanford

BETA LAMBDA Marion Oswald Dopke BETA MU Mary Gallagher Jones BETA RHO Mary Kathryn Dulick-Williams BETA TAU Mary McClatchie Black BETA UPSILON Kay Scholey Imbt Susan Bond Meyer GAMMA ALPHA Louise Schultz Keating

ALPHA UPSILON Betty Royston Landis Mary Rubush Long Winifred Munson Preusser Mary Sue Murdock Snarr*

GAMMA ZETA Charlene French Loth*

ALPHA PHI Sandra Stankrauff Peter Cheryl Schultz Phillips

EPSILON DELTA Bridget Lewis Broaddrick

ALPHA PSI Cathy Line Esker Lindsey Baum Lewis BETA ALPHA Ann Wannemacher Nardulli

GAMMA XI Kathy Ann Harris

EPSILON CHI Jennifer L. Greenberg THETA DELTA Madison Taylor Scott * Indicates Golden Violet

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