The Triangle • Fall 2010

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Award Winners In Memory

Jane Kinderman

Executive Council

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Meet Our New

CONVENTION 2010

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Our 2010 Convention, Superior Sisterhood: Finding Your True North, may be behind us but the memories will last for years to come!

If you were not one of the more than 600 attendees, you can rest assured that the delegates who represented you and your alumnae or collegiate chapters at the business sessions did a wonderful job.

KAYE SCHENDEL, Gamma Phi | National President

There was great attention paid to all of the resolutions, and the business of Tri Sigma was conducted carefully and thoughtfully. But Convention is more than just business! It is a time to reconnect with old friends, meet new friends, and learn more about this wonderful thing we call Tri Sigma.

Our Twin Cities Alumnae Chapter did a marvelous job hosting and our thanks go out to everyone who assisted, especially convention co-chairs Jan Zeipen, Gamma Phi and Christina Blenkush, Beta Pi. Our meeting planner extraordinaire, Gwen Maniscalco, Gamma Eta, did an amazing job of making certain that everything was “just right.” And of course our gratitude goes out to all of our staff for their attention to detail and efficiency.

Special thanks to our outgoing Council members Reatha Cox, Alpha Zeta; Barb Stone, Beta Tau and Mandy Chocheles, Gamma Eta. Your tireless dedication and devotion to our Sisterhood is much appreciated. And to Laura Sweet, our past National President, we thank you

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for your leadership and vision. You have taken our organization to new heights and have left quite a legacy.

To all of you who volunteer and serve our organization, I thank you. Our organization would not be where it is today without you. The countless hours spent on the phone, writing e-mails, and reviewing documents are so important and could not be accomplished quite as well without each and every volunteer.

As I assume the role of the 13th National President of Tri Sigma, I’d like to thank everyone for the support and faith put in me to lead Tri Sigma for the next three years. It is through the bonds of you, my Sisters, that I will gain the wisdom to successfully complete the challenges that await us, and with your help I promise to guide us to the best of my ability in our endeavor to make Tri Sigma an even greater, stronger sorority than it is today.

It is through the bonds of you, my Sisters, that I will gain the wisdom to successfully complete the challenges that await us…

Your Voice The following was penned during Convention 2010 and speaks to each and every Sigma Sister:

The sharing of stories past and present in informal settings was most memorable. Whether it was one-on-one with a Sister, or in groups. Most memorable was the time a young Sister asked Emily [Lewis Lee] what it was like to have known a few of our founding members. Emily described their personalities and told stories. Also memorable was the gathering of past and present council members (Emily served as Collegiate Secretary from 1950-59, and Alumnae Secretary from 1959-1971). For hours, the group laughed and told stories about their Tri Sigma experiences. In that room were four past national presidents, and numerous council members ranging in age from their 30s to 88. It was an exciting evening, as this spoke to the love of Tri Sigma and the character of our leadership over the years. It is so clear that the past members of Executive Council have inspired our younger members (personally and in their Tri Sigma service) by acting as mentors. Emily took every opportunity she could to remind us that there is no substitute for personal contact by word or deed.

That evening we went to our room well after midnight. Emily reminded Jennifer [Holtsclaw], ‘You never come to Convention to sleep!’.

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Features: 16 Special Dreams for Special Kids 18 In Memory: Jane Kinderman

Departments: 5 Empowered Women 6 Inside Sigma Sigma Sigma 19 Our Collegians 23 Sigma Connect 30 Our Alumnae 34 Our Foundation 36 Our Leadership

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Connected for a Lifetime Sisters’ Bond Stands Test of Time

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Mandy Chocheles, Gamma Eta National Treasurer; Mandy was When Barb Stoe Stone, Beta an Alumnae Director by this time.

Tau, and Mandy Meehan Stories of their children’s marriages, Chocheles, Gamma Eta, met new grandchildren, and work in June of 1977, neither could situations were now intertwined have imagined where their with national Sorority assignments friendship would take them and obligations. In April of 2006, in their Sigma journey. as the New Orleans Alumnae Both were young moms, Chapter celebrated its 60th attending their first Tri Sigma anniversary in the wake of Hurricane Convention, held in Chicago Katrina, Barb was able to attend that year. Barb lived north the chapter’s Founders Day of the city and had come to luncheon as a very special guest, attend several sessions and Barb Stoe Stone (left) and Mandy Meehan and to see firsthand how the city activities each day. Mandy Chocheles have shared a bond as Sigma Sisters and its people were recuperating. had used her family’s vacation for more than three decades. allowance to travel from New The Nashville Convention in 2007 Orleans as her Alumnae Chapter’s delegate. They met presented an occasion neither had ever imagined: outside one of the meeting rooms, started talking, and Mandy was elected Alumnae Vice President, and began not only a friendship but also an opportunity to Barb returned as National Treasurer. And they had serve Sigma as national volunteers. their picture taken with Carrie Underwood! Now the biannual Executive Council meetings were times when The next Convention was in Lafayette, LA; Barb joined they could attend to the business of the Sorority, but Mandy in New Orleans, and traveled with her local reconnect as friends, too. March of 2008 presented an alumnae Sisters to the meeting site. They were roommates in Philadelphia three years later, then again opportunity for both to spend a week “on the road” in Missouri, visiting five collegiate and five alumnae in Indianapolis. In 1989, the Convention was held in New Orleans. Mandy, the Hospitality Chair for the local chapters. It was quite a Sisterhood experience! Meeting with alumnae in Columbia, who had promised to help committee, encouraged Barb to come in early…and with the new Mizzou chapter; “Rockin’ for Robbie” immediately put her to work. They shared a room, as with the Zeta Tau Sisters; sharing Founders Day with well as stories of their growing families, and their local the Golden Violet women of the Kansas City alumnae Tri Sigma experiences. chapter: All of these were part of their trip.

Mandy was then asked to serve as a volunteer in the And at the most recent Convention in Minneapolis, Alumnae Department, and attended the Dallas and this powerful journey took a new direction. As both San Francisco Conventions. Barb was unable to join Barb and Mandy stepped down from their Executive her because of family obligations at the time. But she Council positions, they could look back at their Sisterhood was asked to be an Alumnae Department volunteer experiences…and their time of service to Sigma…and after the Centennial Convention in 1998. Now the at 33 years of memories, with smiles, and look forward two friends had the opportunity of seeing each other to continuing their bonds of Sigma that started at that at National Officer conferences, as well as at the first Convention.

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Convention 2010: FindingYour True North

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Sisterhood Minneapolis, MN, was busy with excitement as 600 women arrived for Sigma Sigma Sigma’s National Convention. The feeling of enthusiasm was present from the first moment Tri Sigma Sisters converged on the Sheraton Bloomington for the journey to find their “True North.”

The Twin Cities Alumnae Chapter and Convention Committee were amazing planners and hosts. They shared their Sisterhood and their city, and we thank them.

For some it was a first Convention experience, for others a reunion and tradition they have joined in for decades. “Convention is like a reunion every three years,” says Arlene Ball, Alpha Phi and Metro Detroit Alumnae Chapter. “You get to see your Sigma friends – you can’t wait!”

Convention is a special time – a time to remind ourselves of why we joined Tri Sigma and the impact it has had on our lives.

Attending Convention is an occasion to be part of history as decisions are made during Business Sessions, new Executive Council members are installed and ceremonies are held. We shared the amazing experience of Triangle Degree with hundreds of Sisters and left with even stronger bonds than we could have imagined.

Some of the most special and memorable moments are those which are unscripted. Sisters learned you can silence a room of hundreds of excited women by just raising your hand. We were reminded how passionate we are about our traditions and Sisterhood. We learned, laughed and even shed a few tears.

We were all blessed to spend time with a woman everyone loves and admires, Emily Lewis Lee, Alpha Upsilon. Lee was initiated in 1940, and 70 years later she attended her 22nd National Convention.

Think of those stars in your Tri Sigma life. Perhaps it was during recruitment...or your big Sister who explained by word and action the meaning of Tri Sigma friendship.

— Laura Ward Sweet, Alpha Sigma

During Alumnae Coffee Chats, women had the chance to talk about chapter involvement and share success stories. Sisters also got to see the area with shopping trips to the Mall of America and tours of the city.

After a long convention day, Sisters had fun at after-hours programming. From game night, to T-shirt swaps and “Carrie-Oke” night, ladies got to meet new friends and laugh late into the night.

Sorority Business When it came time for the General Business sessions the voting delegation of Collegiate Delegates, Alumnae Delegates and National Officers had plenty to do during the Convention. The Resolutions Committee, chaired by Brenda Ray, Alpha Psi, presented 38 resolutions.

One of the most influential resolutions approved changes to the structure of the Executive Council from an operational board to a governance board, having the Council now consist of a National President, National Treasurer and four National Vice Presidents.

This will allow Council to focus more on the long-term goals and vision of the Sorority, rather than day-to-day departmental operations. To help with departmental needs and daily operations, several new staff positions have been created and filled. The new structure will also help to lessen the demands on Tri Sigma volunteers.

“I am thrilled that Tri Sigma is moving in a direction that will continue to keep the organization moving ‘ever forward’,” says current National President Kaye Schendel, Gamma Phi. “Our Council and volunteers have a lot of work to do to implement the new structure and there may be some bumps in the road along the way, but I am confident that we are moving in the right direction.”

Some of the resolutions drew passionate discussion from the floor. A resolution to change the description of the official badge to include badges made of a non-gold

metal was one of the most discussed resolutions presented. Badges made of other metals are already available to members, and we have a history of our badge reflecting the times. During discussion, one alumna related that a Golden Violet in her alumnae chapter didn’t even have pearls on her badge since they weren’t available during the war.

“I was so pleased with the questions our delegates asked and the thought they put into all the resolutions,” says Schendel. “You could really tell that our Sisters were invested in the process. That is really such a good thing!”

The Ritual Committee presented 18 resolutions to the delegation, and all were approved. In total, all but one resolution passed. The defeated resolution resolved to change references in the Bylaws to the Executive Director from “she” to “The Executive Director.” The premise being that the Executive Director could be male.

In addition, General Business nity sessions gave the opportunity for triennial reports from nal various departments. National nes, Vice President Bethany Deines, Beta Kappa, presented the accomplishments of the er National Organization over the last triennium titled, “Triennial Triumphs.”

Achievements include the implementation of the Strategic Plan, creation of new leadership opportunities, ources and reaching providing more online resources h initiated Sister. the mark of our 100,000th

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The Journey to a Superior Sorority: State of the Sorority With grace and poise, Tri Sigma’s 12th National President, Laura Sweet, took the podium for her State of the Sorority Address. Opening with a starry sky projected above the Convention body and using the song “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” and excerpts from Disney’s “The Lion King,” Sweet spoke about the importance of the people in our lives who have led the way.

“Think of those stars in your Tri Sigma life. Perhaps it was during recruitment...or your big Sister who explained by word and action the meaning of Tri Sigma friendship,” said Sweet. “For all of us, those stars would be our Founders, 14- and 15-year-old girls who bravely went off to Longwood College and began a society 113 years ago.”

Sweet spoke about the importance of stars in finding your “True North” and how Tri Sigma values stand as the stars for our organization and act as our guide.

“If you know where True North is…you are not lost, you can always find your way.”

Sweet said she likes to divide things into threes and how our triennium journey to a Superior Sorority has been the same: True North, Challenges and Celebrations.

True North Sweet highlighted some of the strides Tri Sigma is making toward our True North. A major success of the triennium was the implementation of the Strategic Plan in 2008, which was guided by our core principles of Friendship, Character and Conduct. The Strategic Plan set goals in four main areas: Growth, Leadership, Service and Communication. A recent accomplishment is Tri Sigma now has more than 6,000 collegiate members, setting the record for highest membership since our founding.

Challenges There are three core issues Tri Sigma is facing – violations of Sorority policy, global recession and limited volunteer time.

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At the “Mea ning in Volunt eering” works pulled out th eir crafty skill hop, collegiat s to create W es and alumna pediatric faci orry Dolls to e lity, as well as be donated to The Ann Banc created addi a local roft Foundatio tional dolls w n. Many Sist hich showed ers up all around became a fu Convention an n addition to d the delegatio n.

Unfortunately, Tri Sigma leadership has had to terminate members and chapters due to policy noncompliance.

Tri Sigma continues to take the no-tolerance stance against hazing. However, many chapters continue to violate policies, including the use of paddles as gifts.

“I have to wonder what men and women outside of our circle must think. Does it reflect faith, hope, and wisdom…any of our values? But, maybe more importantly, what does it say to our public, the press and the families about our sorority?” asked Sweet.

As it has in most organizations, the recession has taken a toll on Tri Sigma. We have many leadership programs which continue to need funding and new programs which will soon be launched.

“We desperately need our alumnae to step up to the plate with donations to the Foundation,” said Sweet.

To help fund programs, the decision was made to scale back production of The Triangle magazine to twice a year and only send printed copies to those members who requested it. This will save the Sorority more than $60,000 a year.

Volunteer time has also become an increasing issue.

Women today are looking for short-term projects instead of long-term volunteer jobs. To help address the issue of volunteer time, a new structure for Executive Council was presented and approved by the Convention body. nt “The current structure with Council serving as department heads and realistically serving as an informed Board Member has become too demanding,” says Sweet.

The new structure puts the department leadership with a paid professional staff member, which frees up ng Council members’ time for consideration of over-arching sorority issues.

Celebrations “I love this sorority! It has been my pleasure to serve as your National President. I have worn the President’s badge with pride,” Sweet said.

At Convention’s end, Sweet stepped off Executive Council and passed on the Presidency. She ended her address by celebrating the Sigma women who have supported her over the years.

“I did not come upon this easily. There were many Sigma stars in my heavens even before I, and in some cases anyone else, knew that I would become a leader,” remarked Sweet. She honored her big Sister, college roommate, little Sister, chapter advisor, past National President Ann Williams and Emily Lee. “[They] always believed in me and pushed me to do and be more. And I had each and every one of you. I thank you so much.”

Sweet concluded by challenging her Sisters to take what they learn about our values, practices and Sisterhood back home to make their chapters superior.

“It is your time now. Let your journey to Superior Sisterhood begin…Remember, who you are.”

Leadership and Education One of the most essential aspects of Convention is being able to share ideas and learn from Sisters.

Leadership and education are vital to the success of our chapters and Sorority.

Attendees had the opportunity to attend workshops, educational tracks and sessions on various topics to help them and their chapters achieve “Superior Sisterhood.”

Women were able to learn more about service and civic involvement, building lasting relationships and moving chapters from good to great. Golden Violets led a session, sharing their stories about lifelong friendship and Sisterhood.

“The overall programming was TERRIFIC! This was by far the BEST convention I have attended,” said one attendee.

“From the flow of the prog programs and speakers, t beautiful décor… to the w all PERFECT.” it was Sis Sisters attended sessions o individual growth on t too.

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how to better market themselves for jobs, strengthening conversation skills and ways to find your own “True North” through self-reflection and living out your values.

There were also sessions on chapter budgeting, parliamentary procedures, recruitment strategies and how to provide values-based programming.

Attendees also learned about the dangers of binge-drinking, hazing rituals and drinking games through the feature documentary “HAZE” and discussion about these issues.

Panhellenic Luncheon: Defining Moments Tri Sigmas gathered with Panhellenic guests to celebrate the Greek spirit, and Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi, delivered a rousing address. Karnes is the first Tri Sigma to be President of the prestigious Association of Fraternity/Sorority Advisors. At the luncheon, she shared some of her life’s defining moments. For Karnes, finding your True North is finding your passion, and it takes defining moments to guide you on the journey.

Karnes’ love of music and secret desire to be a DJ served as a framework for the introduction to a few of her defining moments. For Karnes, the 10,000 Maniacs’ song “These Are the Days” will always be a reminder of her undergraduate experience. Tri Sigma introduced her to the Greek experience and started defining her True North. From undergraduate to graduate school, she remembers “One Week” by the Bare Naked Ladies.

Grad school provided her the first opportunity to really taste her life’s passion.

“My True North is ensuring that every student has a positive fraternity and sorority experience,” Karnes says.

Through defining moments, Kelly has identified her passion and pursued it relentlessly. She challenged those in attendance to think of their own defining moments and the decisions that changed their lives. Karnes ended her address by encouraging everyone, “to drink, to steal, to swear, and to lie.” Drink from every experience.

Steal every moment. Swear you’ll be a better person.

Lie down at night and be thankful.

Kelly was presented with a new badge to replace her lost one, as well as an award for being a Woman of Distinction. “It only seems fitting to present it to her here today,” said Laura Sweet.

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When Passion Meets Purpose: Ann Bancroft As Tri Sigmas came together to explore their True North, personally and as a Sisterhood, Convention attendees heard from a woman who has truly travelled North. Ann Bancroft has travelled to the top and bottom of the world and points in between. In 1986, she was the first woman to journey to the North Pole. Since then, among other accomplishments, she has led aan all-woman expedition to Antarctica.

B Bancroft described standing o on top of the world, where all llines of longitude connect you tto everyone else on the planet, yet still feeling lonely. She spent the following years trying to reconnect, or find her own true north. She realized that the foundations of her accomplishments were the dreams of a 10-year-old girl.

She calls dreams the heartbeat of our passions.

“We should never forget the importance of lifting one another up so that we can achieve our dreams,” she says. “It is up to us th a Sigma to push the envelope wi ted sen pre s wa Bancroft her on her next and move obstacles flag to take with South Pole. adventure to the so others can follow.”

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Chocheles, Gamma Eta, as well as Convention Planner Gwen Hardouin Maniscalco, Gamma Eta. Returning and new members of Council included Elizabeth Wakeman Hoffert, Beta Xi; Emily Eure Ellis, Gamma Beta; Beth Deines, Beta Kappa; Allison Swick-Duttine, Psi; Bonnie Rainey, Alpha Sigma; new National President, Kaye Schutte Schendel, Gamma Phi; and Executive Director, Marcia Cutter.

Following the dinner, Sweet recognized and honored outgoing National Treasurer Stone, Alumnae Vice President Chocheles, and National Panhellenic Conference Delegate Cox. Sweet was then honored with a standing ovation as the 12th National President of Tri Sigma.

In her final assignment as president, Sweet swore in the new Executive Council members, as well as the National Officers who will serve in the 2010-2013 Triennium.

Each incoming President is traditionally asked to give a “charge” to the sorority members. Schendel’s comments referred to yesterday, when we each took that first step into an unknown future and joined Tri Sigma; to today, when our collegiate Sisters face seemingly insurmountable challenges that couldn’t be imagined 112 years ago, and how the wisdom and guidance of strong alumnae role models are more important than ever; and tomorrow, where we have the chance to make the world a better place. She echoed the theme of this Convention, “Finding Your True North,” reminding us that it is not something we can find on a map, or in a self-help book, but all around us. It is in the faith, hope, love, wisdom, and the power of each of our Sisters.

Following Schendel’s speech, Deines and Cox led attendees in the anticipated ceremony that closes out this banquet.

As they called the name of every chapter that has been chartered in Tri Sigma, members of those respective chapters stood and lit a candle. Eventually, the banquet room was full of the light from these candles, casting a glow on the faces of each Sigma, in honor of her collegiate chapter, as well as Iota Alpha chapter, for those women who have been initiated as alumnae. After extinguishing the candles, everyone joined hands in a huge circle around the room, and sang “Stately and Royal.” Thus, another Triennial Convention came to an end, honoring Sisterhood and service, and with the promise to honor our commitment to the Sigma mission of friendship, character and conduct now and in the future.

The final gathering at any Tri Sigma Convention, the Festival of Lights, is always an emotional one. There is not the anticipation of who might win a certain award, or the intensity of a business session, or the reverence of one of our Rituals. It is a joyous coming together of Convention attendees, some old friends who know what this special banquet will include, some new friends who have been made in just the few days since the start of Convention, as well as several honored guests. Gone is casual or business attire, and every manner of Sigma apparel, and in its place are hundreds of Sigma Sisters in stylish evening wear. This year’s Festival of Lights was no exception.

Convention Coverage Contributors:

Seated on the dais were outgoing Executive Council members Reatha Cole Cox, Alpha Zeta; National President Laura Sweet; Barb Stoe Stone, Beta Tau; and Mandy Meehan

Hillary Ashton, Zeta Beta and Editor-at-Large Sherri Ballard, Alpha Nu and Collegiate Editor Mandy Chocheles, Gamma Eta and Alumnae Editor Emmy Smith, Epsilon Pi and Features Editor

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Meet the Convention Honor Initiates!

On Sunday, we initiated two women into our bonds of Sisterhood. The Honor Initiates for the 2010 Convention are Rita Olson, Epsilon Rho, as the collegiate honor initiate and Sarah Sunde, Alpha Upsilon, as the alumnae honor initiate.

Rita Olson Epsilon Rho

Sarah Sunde Alpha Upsilon

Olson is a sophomore at Minnesota State University – Mankato, majoring in elementary education. Sisterhood is a new experience for her – she has two younger brothers.

Olson, as is the tradition, was given the diamond badge that was presented to Mabel Lee Walton at the 1935 Convention and has been worn by all National Presidents since. More than a dozen Sisters from her chapter came to Convention to support her. “This whole experience has really shown me [my Sisters] are all here to support you,” says Olson.

At every Convention, both collegiate and alumnae chapters in attendance present their shields. This tradition helps attendees gain an appreciation for how far-reaching and diverse our Sisterhood is.

Sunde serves as the Associate Director of Orientation at James Madison University. She was extended a bid to join Tri Sigma through the Alpha Upsilon chapter, for which she serves as housing advisor. She says the more she learned about Tri Sigma, the more she knew it would be home.

Initiation was a powerful experience for her as she felt the strength and power of the women who came before her and the ones who are yet to come.

“I describe it to friends as a moment of true reverence, where I was humbled and honored to be part of something so much larger than myself that positively impacts individuals and their communities in profound ways,” says Sunde.

Sunde was given the badge of Emily Lewis Lee. During a General Business Session, Rita and Sarah were presented with their own badges, history books, and membership certificates.

Memorial Service “They commanded respect not because of anything they said or any dictates issued, but because they held and lived principles that made life better for all. Principles each Tri Sigma knows,” remarked Mary K. Barbee, Iota and Past National President, at the Convention Memorial Service, which honored influential Sigmas through our history and Sigma Sisters who have entered Omega Chapter during the past three years.

Look out Orlando!

Tri Sigma will soon invade!

Mark your Calendars! The 43rd National Convention will be at Buena Vista Palace Hotel & Spa in Orlando, FL. The Walt Disney World resort will host the Sorority June 21-24, 2013.

The theme – “This I Believe.”

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Distinguished Honorees Awards One of the Highlights of Convention 2010

2009/2010 Mabel Lee Walton Leadership Award Kelly Dick, Alpha Chi, Murray State University Mabel Lee Walton demonstrated lifelong interest and encouragement to collegiate members. This leadership award was named in her honor as a lasting memory of this gifted Sigma leader. The Executive Council established the award to recognize collegiate members who display outstanding leadership.

Mabel Lee was presented a silver loving cup in 1917 in appreciation of her leadership. The Mabel Lee Walton Leadership Award was first presented in 1945.

All award recipients are expected to help carry onward the increasingly challenging tasks that a progressive organization requires. The collegian should have exhibited multi-faceted leadership capabilities in her chapter, on campus and in her community. This recipient also will serve on the Alumnae/Collegiate Advisory Committee.

Kelly Dick contributes as much to her campus and community as she has to the sorority. She was “selected as one of the Top Ten Students Leaders, one of the most prestigious campus awards.” She has not only served as Chapter President, Chapter Treasurer and as chairman of several committees within the chapter, she is also a member of many honor societies and organizations.

She sets high standards for herself and her performance, and these standards carry over into the chapter as women see her dedication, productivity and effectiveness. Her ability to provide a platform for others to shine in the chapter proved to be her most important asset. She maintains high standards in her daily conduct and is dependable, honest, hard working and ethical. She exhibits a deep devotion to Tri Sigma values and demonstrates strength of character in all she does.

2009/2010 Margaret Freeman Everett Outstanding Senior Award Caitlin Dobson, Alpha Xi, University of Wisconsin – Whitewater The Margaret Freeman Everett Outstanding Senior award is named for a member of the Sigma chapter at Western State College in Gunnison, CO. Dubbed “Dixie” by Mabel Lee Walton, Margaret was small in stature but a giant in spirit. She was the 1939 Honor Initiate at the Colorado Springs National Convention.

She was known to work hard as a collegian, holding a number of chapter offices, including President.

Her experience as a collegian prepared her for her volunteer work as a Tri Sigma alumna. Margaret began her national officer service as the Exchange Editor in 1946. She was elected our fifth National President in 1956.

During her tenure, she expanded the Robbie Page Memorial and helped to secure our National Headquarters.

Caitlin Dobson was the Greek Woman of the Year, was inducted into the Greek Hall of Fame on her campus, and she is a Tri Sigma! She attributes much of her talents and her successes to all that she has learned and gained in Tri Sigma. Holding different offices within her chapter has allowed her to learn many new things about herself and has shown her what she does well and also what she can improve upon. Without Tri Sigma, she feels that she would not be the woman she has become today. Leadership in Tri Sigma also inspired her to pursue leadership opportunities on campus. This Tri Sigma served as a Panhellenic officer on her campus and also engaged as a campus community service intern through the Student Entertainment Awareness League. Having served on many campus committees and having been involved in campus leadership, she believes the experiences have been beneficial for her own personal growth and for her chapter as well.

Tri Sigma has been a part of her life throughout all of her college years, and she hopes to continue to grow as a member as her journey in Tri Sigma continues!

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2009/2010 Steadfast Alumna Award Sandra Peyton Thayer, Beta Gamma and Indianapolis Suburban Alumnae Chapter The term “steadfast” is a fitting tribute to many alumnae, however, national recognition is given annually to one individual. The winner of this award has demonstrated loyalty and has exemplified unchanging virtues in her own character. Tri Sigma’s continuing strength comes from the fine examples of these recipients through the years.

This individual must have demonstrated loyalty and devotion to Tri Sigma through 25 or more years of service as an alumna. Additionally, she must have paid annual alumnae dues since becoming an alumna or paid lifetime dues, and is and has been a Foundation contributor. The recipient is also a current member of an alumnae chapter in her area (if one exists).

Sandy’s involvement in her collegiate chapter, Beta Gamma, was just a precursor to her long-standing service to Tri Sigma as an alumna. She has served as the Epsilon Xi Housing Corporation Treasurer, a National Alumnae Chairman, the Key Alumnae Director, National Awards Chairman and has served on Tri Sigma’s Executive Council as the Alumnae Vice President from 1983-1989. Sandy has had the opportunity to attend all but one of the National meetings and Conventions since 1971.

As a long-standing member of the Indianapolis Suburban Alumnae Chapter, Sandy remains a dedicated Tri Sigma and, over the years, held several positions. She served as Panhellenic Delegate, Secretary, Treasurer and three terms as Alumnae chapter President.

Sandy is welcoming to all, stays current with Tri Sigma nationally, and keeps her Alumnae Chapter well informed.

When it comes to Tri Sigma, there is no task too large or small for her to undertake.

2009/2010 Emily Gates Alumna Achievement Award Roberta Anne Flath, Kappa Established in 1938, this highest alumnae award is presented annually to an alumna who has been an outstanding business or professional woman or contributor to her community’s welfare and progress.

Roberta Anne Flath is being recognized as an alumna who has made outstanding contributions in service and in commitment to our country. After college, Berta went on to teach at Culver Military Academy in Indiana, and it was there that she became interested in joining the Army Reserve.

For 12 years, she served in the U.S. Army Reserve in Indiana, Ohio and Connecticut. She entered active duty as an Active Guard Reserve officer in 1990. In her 20 years of active service, Roberta served in assignments in Military Personnel, Information Management, Strength Management, Retention, and as an Executive Officer/Acting Brigade Commander, and Principal Inspector General. During her 20 years of service, Roberta advanced to the rank of colonel. In 2005, she took command of the 310th Personnel Division in Fort Jackson, SC. In 2006, Col. Flath was selected as Commander of 3rd Personnel Command and was deployed to Kuwait for one year.

She returned to command at the 310th Personnel Group before her final assignment as Chief of Staff, 85th Support Command, in Arlington Heights, IL. When Berta relocated to Illinois, she was able to join the Chicago Northwest Suburban Alumnae Chapter. Reminiscent of her early Sigma years, she jumped right into service projects, which were supported by the alumnae chapter.

In 2009, Roberta retired and returned to her hometown in New York. She currently tutors and teaches a Computer and Information Literacy class at Marist College.

Col. Flath’s awards include: The Legion of Merit; the Bronze Star Medal; the Meritorious Service Medal, the Army Commendation Medal, the Army Achievement Medal; the Army Reserve Component Achievement Medal; the National Defense Service Medal with Bronze Campaign Star; the Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal; the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal and the Armed Forces Reserve Medal with the 30 year hourglass recognition and mobilization device.

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2009-2010 Award Winners ALUMNAE

Individual Awards Steadfast Alumna Citation: Sandra Peyton Thayer, Beta Gamma, Indianapolis Suburban Emily Gates Alumna Achievement: Roberta Anne Flath, Kappa, Chicago Northwest Suburban

Alumna Recognition Rebekah Ruth Ager Epsilon Theta, Denver Sandra Jean Allen Alpha Lambda, Greater St. Louis Jessica Rhea Anderson Beta Epsilon, Nashville Cristin Planchon Bankson Chi, Indianapolis Suburban Misty Bultemeir Barrows Epsilon Xi, Indianapolis Suburban Shirley Wiles Caldwell Alpha Epsilon, Nashville Donna Morgan Carr Alpha Chi Linda Yandell Dove Delta Delta, Nashville Susan Houk Dusold Beta Kappa, Phoenix Kara Elizabeth Eaton Beta Gamma, Indianapolis Suburban Nancy Morgan Freeman Alpha Chi Nancy Carlson Gavaghan Rho, Central Florida Jeanne Hausman Chamberlain Gamma Alpha, Chicago NW Suburban Bridget Bagdonas Hanson Epsilon Gamma, Western WayneWashtenaw Cynthia Heimann Harms Alpha Epsilon, Seattle Gina Lage Jones Alpha Chi, Nashville Penny Lamb Madden Alpha Gamma, Wichita Judith Sanderson Malcolm Omicron, Central Florida Andrea Cates Miller Epsilon Omicron, Greater St. Louis Heidi Marie Mills, Omicron Western Wayne-Washtenaw Amy Schneider Nelson Epsilon Xi, Fort Wayne Janet Hrubic Shay Alpha Pi, Central Florida

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Patricia Ann O’Dell Delta Pi, Northern Virginia Kellie Jo Deis Parker Alpha Beta, San Francisco-East Bay Outstanding Alumna of the Area: Area I: Virginia Raynes Lund, Alpha Delta, Nashville Area II: Angela Yang Eaton, Epsilon Alpha, San Francisco-East Bay Alumnae Panhellenic Recognition: Jo Ann Estes Coble, Iota, Inland Empire Wanda Sue Haynes Patton, Beta Beta, Dallas Alumnae Triangle Correspondent: Karen Lukas Silz, Kappa, Inland Empire Golden Violet Barbara Pitisci Thomas, Beta Sigma, Tampa Bay Area Marlene Willett Middleton, Rho, Tallahassee

Alumnae Chapter Awards Alumnae Chapter of the Year: Phoenix Member Recruitment: Phoenix Excellence in Overall Programming: Oklahoma City Metro Sisterhood Award for Alumnae Chapter in a College Town: Piedmont Triad Sisterhood Award for Alumnae not in a College Town: Tulsa Website of the Year: Greater Savannah Honor Roll Alumnae Chapters: Region 3: Grand Rapids, Madison Area, Milwaukee, Omaha-Council Bluffs, Western-Wayne Washtenaw Region 5: Eastern North Carolina, Harrisburg, Nashville Region 6: Fort Wayne, Great Cincinnati, Greater Toledo, Indianapolis Suburban Region 7: Atlanta, Central Florida, Lakeland/Winter Haven, Northeast Florida, Pinellas County, Sarasota/ Manatee, Savannah, Tallahassee, Tampa Bay Area Region 8: Chicago NW Suburban, Chicago SW Suburban Region 9: Denver, Greater St. Louis, Maryville, Mid-Missouri, Oklahoma City, SE Jackson County, Tulsa Region 10: Houston, Lafayette, New Orleans, Phoenix, Tucson-Sunshine Region 12: Emporia, Inland Empire, Long Beach, Sacramento, San Francisco – East Bay, San Jose Peninsula, Seattle All Other Regions: Northern Virginia, North Jersey

COLLEGIATE

Individual Awards Mabel Lee Walton Leadership Award: Kelly Lynn Dick, Alpha Chi Margaret Freeman Everett Outstanding Senior: Caitlin P. Dobson, Alpha Xi Outstanding Member of the Region: Region 1: Abby Sharon McGregor, Delta Psi Region 1c: Sharon Lynn Kortenhaus, Zeta Psi Region 2: Michaela Kelly Hernandez, Eta Zeta Region 3: Jennifer Irene Forbes, Zeta Pi Region 4: Sheska Ivelisse Ocasio, Zeta Epsilon Outstanding Senior of the Region: Region 1: Grace Among Odyek, Delta Psi Region 1c: Adrielle E. Slaugh, Eta Phi Region 2: Kelly Ann Charrette, Beta Tau Region 3: Michelle Anne Urban, Epsilon Nu Region 4: Chelsea Nicole Harrell, Delta Pi Outstanding Advisor of the Region: Region 1: Jody Leigh Abdon, Gamma Psi Region 1c: Aray Montalvan, Eta Phi Region 2: Rebecca Nanzer Calkins, Epsilon Omicron, Chicago S.W. Suburban Region 3: Sarah Diane Wilson, Epsilon Nu, Piedmont Triad Region 4: Kelly McDermott Freeland, Beta Beta Collegiate Triangle Correspondent: Courtney Elster Buzan, Eta Tau

Chapter Awards Chapter of the Year: Delta Pi Jane E. Kinderman Standards of Efficiency: Alpha Chi Outstanding Achievement in Standards of Efficiency: Mu, Alpha Phi, Beta Alpha, Delta Zeta, Delta Omicron, Delta Psi, Epsilon Beta, Epsilon Iota, Zeta Tau, Zeta Upsilon Outstanding Recruitment Program: Beta Tau, Epsilon Delta Improvement in Recruitment Program: Lambda Improvement in Recruitment Program Recognition: Alpha, Eta Xi Commitment to Excellence: Alpha Upsilon

Member Development & Educational Programming: Epsilon Rho Accredited: Epsilon Alpha, Epsilon Mu, Eta Zeta, Eta Pi, Eta Phi Accredited with Honors: Mu, Nu, Pi, Chi, Alpha Epsilon, Alpha Zeta, Alpha Iota, Alpha Mu, Alpha Rho, Alpha Phi, Alpha Chi, Alpha Psi, Beta Alpha, Beta Delta, Beta Theta, Beta Pi, Beta Tau, Beta Upsilon, Gamma Beta, Gamma Mu, Gamma Rho, Gamma Phi, Delta Delta, Delta Zeta, Delta Pi, Delta Chi, Delta Psi, Epsilon Delta, Epsilon Epsilon, Epsilon Eta, Epsilon Theta, Epsilon Iota, Epsilon Kappa, Epsilon Nu, Epsilon Pi, Epsilon Rho, Epsilon Upsilon, Epsilon Phi, Zeta Alpha, Zeta Theta, Zeta Lambda, Zeta Pi, Zeta Tau, Zeta Psi, Eta Beta, Eta Theta, Eta Kappa, Eta Lambda, Eta Nu, Eta Xi, Eta Omicron, Eta Rho, Eta Sigma, Eta Tau Panhellenic with 5 or fewer groups: Beta Tau, University of Detroit-Mercy Panhellenic with 6 or more groups: Delta Chi, University of Virginia Fraternity/Sorority Advisor of the Year: Shane Franzen, Zeta Upsilon, Fitchburg State College Scholastic Excellence: Eta Theta Scholastic Achievement: Omicron Ritual and Values Programming: Mu Website of the Year: Beta Pi Chapter Advisory Board of the Year: Chi Chapter Advisory Board of the Year: Alpha Psi

2007-2010 Triennial Award Winners COLLEGIATE Chapter of the Triennium: Chi Chapter Achievement: Beta Tau Excellence in Standards of Efficiency (Top 10): Beta Alpha, Beta Delta, Delta Delta, Delta Omicron, Delta Chi, Epsilon Mu, Zeta Alpha, Zeta Kappa, Eta Nu, Eta Sigma Chapter Accreditation Honors Achievement: Pi, Alpha Zeta, Alpha Chi, Alpha Psi, Beta Delta, Gamma Rho, Gamma Phi, Delta Delta, Delta Pi, Delta Chi, Delta Psi, Epsilon Delta, Epsilon Nu, Epsilon Rho, Epsilon Phi, Zeta Theta, Zeta Pi, Eta Theta, Eta Rho, Eta Sigma House Corporation of the Triennium (owned): Delta Delta House Corporation of the Triennium (leased/University owned): Epsilon Theta ALUMNAE Founders Award: Emily Machemer Gates, Zeta and Omega Jeanne Johnson, Alpha Iota, Houston J. Miller Leake, Kappa Sigma Fraternity Doris Hiles Schroeder, Alpha Epsilon, Long Beach Lucy T.C. Stubbs, Alpha and Omega Bess Bennett Brower Willis, Gamma and Omega Women of Distinction: Elizabeth Wakeman Hoffert, Beta Xi, Phoenix Jessica O’Rourke Loch, Alpha Epsilon, Maryville Elizabeth Mills Monk, Alpha Epsilon, Sacramento Kelly Jo Shannon Karnes, Pi Chapter of the Triennium: Denver Chapter Achievement: Western Wayne-Washtenaw Triennial Excellence in Overall Programming: Western Wayne-Washtenaw

Triennial Member Recruitment: Eastern NC (Wilson) Triennial Member Recruitment Recognition: Sarasota/Manatee Counties, Metro Washington National Officer Service Awards: 6 Years Kathryn Ashton Carlson, Zeta Beta, Colorado Springs Lori Travis Schaefer, Beta Pi, Twin Cities Kara Suzanne Miller, Epsilon Delta Kathleen Reagan Gillan, Alpha Zeta Amy Johnston Ward, Epsilon Nu, Atlanta Inez N. Fridley, Gamma Beta Linda Ann Henderson, Delta Psi Wendy Kirkpatrick, Alpha, Northern Virginia Katherine Eads Garard, Epsilon Xi, Triangle Area Cj Havlik Donovan, Beta Lambda, Long Beach 15 Years Bonnie Rainey, Alpha Sigma, Dallas Bethany Ann Deines, Beta Kappa, Greater Cincinnati Deborah Jeter Riggan, Alpha Upsilon Sherry Sutton Curtiss, Epsilon Nu, Eastern NC (Wilson) Natalie Moore Averette, Gamma Beta Heather Mergler Mitchell, Epsilon Xi 24 Years Janet Stroker Horner, Beta Xi, Greater St. Louis 30+ Years Carol Gregory Swango, Alpha Psi CAB/HC Service Award: 6 Years Jody Leigh Abdon, Gamma Psi Mary Nichols Baisden, Psi Suzan Rome Bosarge, Gamma Mu, New Orleans Rebecca Nanzer Calkins, Epsilon Omicron, Chicago S.W. Suburban Brenda Sue Christie-Lichtenegger, Alpha Iota, Tulsa Katherine Allison Claycomb, Pi Adriane Edwards Lang, Pi, Emporia Marcy Mattern Emmons, Beta Xi Courtney Southard Giles, Eta Beta Diana Ruff Goff, Beta Epsilon Amanda Beth Griffin, Beta Xi Heidi Lowe Kline, Alpha Epsilon Rhonda Ann Lorio, Alpha Mu, Lafayette Betsy Celia Montanez, Zeta Kappa, North Jersey Julia M. Paradine-Rice, Beta Rho, Greater Cleveland Lori Anne Pettyjohn, Epsilon Nu, Piedmont Triad Tara Bresley Purcell, Zeta Tau Gail Rothman-Marshall, Epsilon Psi Amy Kathleen Skinner, Eta Nu, North Jersey Tracy Lyle Smith, Alpha Epsilon, Maryville Heather Johnston Staffel, Alpha Zeta Alison Needham Wirth, Epsilon Omicron 15 Years Winnie Wilson Warner, Alpha Beta, Northeast Ohio Sally Field Higgins, Alpha Psi 30+ Years Jessica O’Rourke Loch, Alpha Epsilon, Maryville Outstanding National Officer Service: Natalie Moore Averette, Gamma Beta Barbara Stichler Bonapfel, Rho, Atlanta Sherry Sutton Curtiss, Epsilon Nu, Eastern NC (Wilson) Inez N. Fridley, Gamma Beta Cynthia Heimann Harms, Alpha Epsilon, Seattle

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Special Dreams for Special Kids Sigma Sister Establishes Organization Focused on Making Connections

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Mandy Chocheles, Gamma Eta When Donielle Gaubert, an Alpha Mu from the University of Southwest Louisiana in Lafayette, (now known as ULL), met Brian Watkins, a Theta Xi, little did they know what the future held. A year after their 1995 wedding, Donielle’s mother died of cancer at 49; her dad had died two years earlier. They chose to have her 5 year-old sister, Monique, come live with them in their small apartment. Two years later, Donielle gave birth to their son Logan, who was born with spina bifida. Seven years later, and somewhat unexpectedly, little brother Lucas arrived. Their fears that he may have had spina bifida as well were unfounded. He was as healthy as he could be.

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things that Brian and Donielle learned were part of their daily lives. But as Logan grew a little older, he started saying that he wanted to play sports like Monique. Donielle researched sports possibilities for children with special needs in the Lafayette area. As she researched, Brian and another parent started a Cub Scout pack for boys with special needs, one of only eight in the United States. Logan liked the scouts but still wanted more, so they found TOP soccer at Lafayette Youth Soccer Association. At the first TOP Soccer game Donielle found out that a sorority would be assisting the kids; not just any sorority but Tri Sigma.

Donielle’s baby sitter, Meagan, is a Tri Sigma, and she had reached out to her Alpha Mu Sisters to join her.

Donielle felt very proud to know that her Sorority was

Tri Sigma is helping our kids with special needs to get into the game and feel accepted in society, instead of sitting on the sidelines, which is something their parents want more than anything else.

— Donielle Gaubert, Alpha Mu taking time to help kids with special needs. Logan still wanted more so they then found out that Little League Baseball offered a program called Challenger baseball, but it was not in their area. Donielle stepped up to organize and advertise this great extracurricular activity, and a few short months later 45 children with special needs, including Logan, were playing baseball.

This led to many other activities such as SMILES basketball and DREAMS Cheerleading, DREAMS Bowling League, a Girl Scout troop for girls with special needs and even dancing.

The participants have all kinds of disabilities, such as cerebral palsy, autism and spina bifida; some are also nonverbal. With all these activities help would be needed to make these sporting events run smoothly.

In addition to the Sigmas, they also contacted the Americorps group at ULL to help out when the Sigmas had other activities. The kids love having the Sigmas and the other college students come to the games and assist in any way they can. Donielle spoke to the chapter about what to expect with the children and their various conditions. When their schedules permit, they attend soccer, baseball, basketball and bowling. Each time the Sigmas attend the kids eyes light up and they have an even better time at the activity, especially Logan.

Word spread among parents, their support groups, schools, and medical contacts about what Donielle and Brian had started. People were amazed that their children with various disabilities could still have the sports experience. Jill Listi, a local dance instructor, decided to offer her studio for dance lessons and called the class the “Dance Challenge.” There is also a cheerleading group, and they have offered sign language classes. They are hopefully planning for karate and art lessons. A website was set up (www. dreamsfoundationaca.org), with links to many different

local resources for parents and caregivers. There is a Facebook page as well, showing the smiling faces of the special athletes of all ages.

After the first season of Challenger Baseball, a nonprofit foundation was established to allow for donations to help defray costs involved with the emerging number of programs. No one is turned away because he or she might not be able to pay an activity’s fees. Nonprofit status for the D.R.E.A.M.S. Foundation of Acadiana (Disability, Resources, Education, Activity, Management, Services) was approved in 2009. Donielle and Brian have big dreams for their foundation…and for Logan and children like him. They would love to build a facility that would house a gym, a pool for therapy, classes for job training and counseling, and land for horseback riding. They would also love to see other DREAMS Foundations in different areas in Louisiana as well.

They are extremely thankful for the help and support they have received from the Tri Sigmas at ULL. Donielle has said, “It gives me great pride to know that an organization that I was involved with in college is now helping me to help my son and other children with special needs. I know that these children are impacting their lives just as they do ours. Tri Sigma is helping our kids with special needs to get into the game instead of sitting on the sidelines and feel accepted in society, which is something their parents want more than anything else.”

Thank you, Donielle and Brian, and your incredible family for showing Logan and the rest of the world what making dreams come true is all about. And thanks, also, to the Sisters of the Alpha Mu chapter for showing how truly Sigma cares about all children.

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In Memory: Kinderman a Beacon of Service Emmy Smith, Epsilon Pi, Features Editor Jane Kinderman’s life and career can be summed up in two words – service and Sigma. Beginning with her initiation in 1953, Jane served at the collegiate, alumnae, and national levels until joining Omega chapter in 2010. Service, Sigma, and “something special” – that’s Jane Kinderman. To honor the memory of that “something special,” a scholarship fund has been established through the Foundation.

Jane Kinderman, Alpha Omicron and Omega, was a role model of service to Sorority and community.

Not only did she serve Tri Sigma for 53 years through volunteer and staff positions, but she served her community through a variety of organizations including her church, the local hospital, and several boards. She often said that the course of her life was somewhat a surprise, and Tri Sigma had everything to do with it.

March 1953 at Arkansas State Teachers College in Conway.

Never a “joiner,” she simply befriended several women in the dorm who had joined Tri Sigma. “I guess it was to combat loneliness, otherwise I’d have been sitting in the dorm. We were friends, then Sisters,” she said. She served her collegiate chapter as Vice President and President, in addition to being involved in other activities on campus.

Following graduation, Kinderman began teaching third grade in Little Rock, AR. She completed her master’s degree in teaching before accepting the challenge of setting up a new library system for the school district.

During her career with the school district, Kinderman remained active in Tri Sigma. She was President of the Greater Little Rock Alumnae Chapter, and in 1961, Emily Lewis Lee, Alpha Upsilon, approached her about becoming a National Officer.

Jane accepted and served as Alumnae Dues Recorder from 1961-1971. From there she moved on to be Awards Chairman from 1971-1974. At the 1971 Convention, she was approached about taking on the duties of the Executive Secretary at the National Memorial Headquarters. Ready for a career change

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and a challenge, Kinderman moved to Woodstock, VA, in 1972.

From 1974-1989, Kinderman served as Secretary of Sigma Sigma Sigma, Inc. and Executive Council. She managed the office and a staff of eight. Her travels took her around the country to college campuses, Convention, and conferences where she was often a featured speaker. Her work as the Central Office Executive included organizing the archives, assisting with Convention and Conference planning, and managing activities at Headquarters. From 1989-1992 she was Historian, and from 1992-1995 she served on the Robbie Page Memorial Board. In 2000, she was named Director of Information Services and continued in this role until her retirement in 2003. After retiring, Jane continued to serve on the Walton House Board.

Jane’s dedication to the Woodstock community was evident.

She was active in her church and Rotary Club, and served as county chairman of the March of Dimes. Her other activities included a three-year term as Chamber of Commerce secretary, president of the Woodstock Woman’s Club, board member for the Shenandoah Valley Music Festival, and a volunteer in the Shenandoah County Memorial Hospital gift shop.

Kinderman was awarded the Steadfast Alumna Citation in 1996, the Founders Award at the 2001 Convention, the Woman of Distinction Award in 2004 and became a Golden Violet in 2007.

Jane entered Omega chapter only days before the start of the 2010 Convention. During a business session, the Foundation unveiled a scholarship fund set up in her honor and memory.

Emily Lewis Lee, the first person to approach Kinderman about serving Tri Sigma at the National level, was the first person to present a donation to the fund. Miss Emily announced her gift in front of the entire Convention body and shared fond memories of her friendship with Jane.

Jane Kinderman will always be remembered as “someone special.” Jane, thank you for your service, your friendship, and your Sisterhood.

our collegians

Scholarship Ring Recipients 2009-2010 Kacee Lynn Allison Chi, Pittsburg State University Christina Marie Arnone Nu, University of Central Missouri

Ashley Renae Flaten Epsilon Rho, Minnesota State University – Mankato

Beth Ann Axelson Alpha Pi, Clarion University of PA

Raeanna Jo Frederici Beta Alpha, Northern Illinois University

Kaylee Jo Babbs Alpha Psi, Eastern Illinois University

Alysja Soeryani Garansi Delta Pi, Winthrop University

Kathryn Elizabeth Baker Chi, Pittsburg State University

Stephanie Leigh Halberg Epsilon Phi, University of North Carolina – Wilmington

Lindsay Frances Bernstein Zeta Psi, The College of New Jersey Kaitlin Grace Bishop Alpha, Longwood University

Melissa Ann Lemon Epsilon Eta, East Stroudsburg University

Kathleen Beth Bordner Omicron, Eastern Michigan University

Kaitlyn Noelle Lewis Eta Lambda, Moravian College

Brandi Lynn Boudreaux Gamma Pi, Nicholls State University

Jill Katherine Marien Alpha Zeta, Northwestern State University

Rachel Ellen Clark Beta Xi, Southeast Missouri State University Katherine Elizabeth Dale Epsilon Theta, Oglethorpe University Heather Danea Daigle Alpha Zeta, Northwestern State University Erica Nicole Deutch Eta Iota, Defiance College Lora Michelle DeWalt Delta Delta, University of North Carolina – Chapel Hill Jenifer C. Diaz Nu, University of Central Missouri Chelsea Cecelia Dougherty Epsilon Mu, Rowan University Bridget Royer DuPre Zeta Lambda, Wingate University Anne M. Endres Alpha Alpha, Concord University Allyssa Michelle Ferriell Epsilon Delta, Gannon University

Francesca Luciana Martino Eta Tau, Embry Riddle Aeronautical University Alisha Ann Mellish Alpha Pi, Clarion University of PA Danielle Nicole Minnis Chi, Pittsburg State University Whitney Lynn Mixon Alpha Zeta, Northwestern State University Ivy Elizabeth Mizell Alpha Omicron, University of Central Arkansas Emily Rose Nix Alpha Mu, University of Louisiana at Lafayette

Samantha Lynn Ritter Eta Upsilon, Lynchburg College Erin Elizabeth Schill Zeta Lambda, Wingate University Deborah Erica Schloss Epsilon Eta, East Stroudsburg University Katie Lynn Sconyers Alpha Iota, Northeastern State University Theresa Marie Stanczewski Epsilon Epsilon, The Richard Stockton College of New Jersey Emily Clare Stimmel Alpha Pi, Clarion University of PA Amanda Rose Strobel Epsilon Chi, Northeastern University Katelyn M. Van Eperen Alpha Xi, University of Wisconsin – Whitewater Hattie Jo Vaughn Alpha Zeta, Northwestern State University Taylor Leigh Venice Zeta Psi, The College of New Jersey Anna Catherine Waguespack Gamma Pi, Nicholls State University Kelsey Ann Waibel Alpha Epsilon, NW Missouri State University Brianna Marie Watson Chi, Pittsburg State University Emily Frances Willis Delta Delta, University of North Carolina – Chapel Hill

Stephanie Lyn Olson Epsilon Rho, Minnesota State University-Mankato Christine Mary Patterson Alpha Xi, University of Wisconsin – Whitewater

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Theta Alpha Chapter Installation Weekend Laura Schramm, Theta Alpha Installation weekend was full of excitement, Sisterhood, friendship, reflection and looking forward. service events, campus events, and Sisterhood events, Theta Alpha will become a closer Sisterhood and be known for its service and character on campus and in the greater community.

New members became initiated members, and a colony became a chapter. Our bond of Sisterhood was made stronger than ever as we became official Sigma Sigma Sigmas and an official chapter.

During one weekend, the High Point Colony became the Theta Alpha Chapter.

On Friday night, the day before initiation, a candle walk was held. During the candle walk, we reflected on the journey we had taken; the fun times, the stressful times, and the times we made a difference in our community. Sisters shared their memories of our first philanthropy event (Sigma Sails for Robbie), our service event trip to the nursing home where we delivered Easter cards, Big/Little reveal week, and all of the other events we held along the way. Even though we had much to reflect on that night, we all knew there was much more to come.

The next day, initiations took place.

As the Sisters were initiated they stayed to watch as the other women went through the initiation ceremony. As founding Sisters, we will be able to shape the Theta Alpha chapter.

During our Sail Away Retreat we talked about how we wanted the Theta Alpha chapter to be a place where women are accepted for who they are. On campus we want to be known as the sorority that is accepting and unique while demonstrating Sigma Sigma Sigma’s mission of friendship character and conduct. Between philanthropy events,

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After the initiations, the Sisters were accompanied by family and friends at the installation banquet. This banquet was a celebration not only of our recent initiations but also when we received our charter which officially installed the High Point Colony as the Theta Alpha Chapter.

The evening started as the Sisters signed the guestbook and mingled with one another as well as with family, friends and guests. All of the Sisters were thrilled when our special guests arrived: Laura Sweet the National President and Emily Ellis the Collegiate Vice President. As newly initiated Sigma Sigma Sigmas all of the Sisters were honored that Sweet and Ellis were able to attend our installation banquet. It was a very special moment for everyone when Sweet presented our president Jess Schauble with our charter. As the evening went on, the Sisters listened to speeches given by our president, our fabulous Regional Consultants Morgan Fishburn and Anna Todaro, Ellis, and Sweet. The evening closed with all of the Sigma Sigma Sigmas forming a large circle and singing “Stately and Royal.”

All of the Sisters went from being new members to newly initiated members.

The High Point Colony was officially installed as the Theta Alpha Chapter.

As the upcoming school year approaches, Theta Alpha Chapter will work together to create a stronger Sisterhood, and become known by the community for its service, by the campus as an accepting group of diverse women, and by all as women who live by the Sigma Sigma Sigma mission of friendship, character, and conduct.

High Point Colony Chapter Initiates Regina Antolick Victoria Antonelli Carolyn Beale Hannah Bennett Breanna Bernard Chelsea Bernatavitz Ariel Berry Riley Boyle Natalie Brooks Mary Beth Browning Elizabeth Burris Kerri Cahill Christina Cappello Glynn Carico Bonnie Caster Anne Caverly Anna-Parsons Charles Nicole Chrysson Victoria Clarke Rachael Collins Lisa DeVince Alessandra Di Elsi Bridget Donahue Ana Elliott Dana Erickson Paige Everhart Sarah Fieldler Christine Fields Courtney Gacona Susanna Gaither Alexis George Amanda Halk Samantha Hall Alexandra Hamel Maribeth Harris Stephanie Hawley Jessica Henderson Elizabeth Higgins Marissa Hinsch Kayla Honeycutt Emma Hubbard Kristen Hunter Alex Hutcheson Amy Jones Helena Kernan Jane Kilgore

Kristen Korolyshun Sophie Kreitman Lindsay Kremer Marcie Kubacki Deanna Lanier Molli Laux LeighAnn Lavalette Sophie Lu Rebekah Mank Caitlin Margolien Hilary Marquina Marykate McCarthy Hannah McKenna Erin Minke Suzanne Molyneaux Kelly Mooney Kimberly Muller Melissa Nowell Jennifer Page Madison Perry Meghan Pignataro Lauren Pivirotto Lauren Reese Morgan Rickert Amanda Rock Alison Romaniello Jessica Ryan Breanna Sanborn Jessica Schauble Laura Schramm Christina Schultz Kayla Scouten Nicole Sebastian Amy Shelley Rebecca Simkins Erin Sinnott Sarah Smith Jenna Soltys Courtney Spencer Brittany Sullivan Emily Swafford Emma Tobin Jenna Townsend Lisa Trigueiro Tootie Urrutia Kirsten Wagner

Welcome Aboard Eta Psi! Ashley DeSimone and Samantha Fink, Eta Psi an easy process. At times it was completely overwhelming, but with each other to lean on, and with the endless encouragement from our Regional Consultant, Michele Ramirez, as well as women from the Eta Phi Chapter, our CAB members, and National Officers, our dream finally became a reality.

A wise woman once said, “Sisterhood is not a destination, but a journey.”

At the very beginning of our journey as a colony at St. John’s University in Staten Island, NY, it seemed as if our installation was a lifetime away. Growing from a group of 17 women, practically strangers in the summer of 2009, to 25 Sisters at the beginning of the Spring 2010 semester, we have created perpetual bonds of friendship that we know will never be broken.

Being a Sister, as we’ve grown to learn, is not just being there in good times, it is also being there in times of need and struggle, while helping to support one another in our endeavors to succeed.

Becoming a chapter was not

On April 10, 2010, our colony became installed as the Eta Psi Chapter. The morning was dedicated the Triangle Degree, a beautiful ritual, encompassing all of our Sigma values and tying together all of the things we have experienced and learned together since the Arc ritual. To share the accomplishment of our installation, that same evening, a banquet was held in our honor on campus. Awards were presented and speeches were made, but most importantly, we were able to celebrate our chapter’s accomplishments with family, friends, and those who mean the most to us.

The women of our chapter are natural leaders, talented, creative, and bursting with enthusiasm.

Our women collectively have a G.P.A. of 3.4, with a minimum 2.7 G.P.A. requirement, not only raising our national standard, but our University one as well. We are very diverse in majors, including Journalism, Speech Pathology, Education, Psychology, and

Accounting, just to name a few. Not only are our women well educated, but we are also well rounded. Our chapter has completed 113 hours of community service, with events ranging from the Breast Cancer Walk to Take Back the Night and many others.

Our chapter was also honored in receiving the Dean’s Choice Award this semester.

We look forward to the rewards and challenges that lie ahead in the never ending journey we have embarked on together as Sisters.

St. John’s Colony Chapter Initiates Betancourth, Caroline Boutsikakis, Carina Brown, Risha Callino, Calais Casais, Melissa Castricone, Caitlin Celifarco, Diana Colbert, Stephanie Desimone, Ashley Diperi, Melissa Ehella, Rachel Fink, Samantha Floyd, Kelly Gallo, Katherine Jaccarino, Kristin Lagana, Christina Lozano, Carmen

Lucivero, Christina Malott, Kaitie Mendez, Michelle Mozo, Gladys Muro, Samantha Paganotti, Michele Paganotti, Nicole Pedersen, Jenna Pulizzano, Jessica Purelis, Christine Rappa, Maria Roman, Lisette Russo, Maria Sansone, Lauren Santarpia, Raquel Taormiona, Serafina Vizzielli, Marianna

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Officer Academy Brings Leaders Together Chris Smithhisler, Director of Programs In January 2010, 314 collegiate officers came together for a chance to identify their strengths, learn and practice the techniques for having fierce conversations, create “I Believe, We Commit” presentations, and develop personal action plans for success. Three officers from each chapter were invited to attend one of the three locations and enjoyed a weekend packed with learning and fun.

StrengthsQuest The academy began with an overview of StrengthsQuest, a program based on 40 years of research by the Gallup organization, focused on identifying human strengths. Prior to the weekend, each participant completed the online StrengthsFinder assessment, which provides a summary of the participant’s top 5 Signature Themes.

Participants were given the opportunity to “This experience think about their is definitely going individual strengths into my ’Top 10‘ and then spent time Sigma experiences.” learning how to use those strengths to — Ryan, Delta Pi better their chapters and communities.

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Fierce Conversations Saturday focused on learning and practicing skills for having difficult but fierce conversations. We all have those difficult conversations that need to occur in order for relationships to continue, but often we neglect those conversations because we are afraid or just don’t know how to approach it. Using the book Fierce Conversations,

by Susan Scott and Difficult Conversations, by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Shelia Heen and Roger Fisher, participants were provided an understanding of why it is important for the health of the relationship and organization to have these conversations.

Action Plans Saturday afternoon allowed participants to think about what they had learned and construct a personal action plan for their year of leadership. Each collegian was given the opportunity to have a one-on-one consultation with an Academy Coach to talk through concerns, problems and ideas.

I Believe, We Commit Throughout the weekend, each Academy Group was asked to create a presentation titled “I Believe, We Commit.” Each Officer Academy ended with these inspirational group presentations

“We drove 5 hours to come to this, and it was so worth it.

I have learned so much about other chapters and myself!” focusing on — Amanda, Zeta Tau what they learned, what they believe and what they committed to their chapter and communities.

Thank you We don’t often enough say thank you. Sunday morning gave the participants an opportunity to do just that. The Officer Academy program is generously funded through a grant from the Tri Sigma Foundation. Each participant wrote a thank-you note to Foundation donors about the program, what they had learned, and what they would take back to their chapter and campus community. There was also the opportunity to learn about the Foundation and the collegiate giving program.

Fun There were also many opportunities throughout the weekend for some fun! Sigma Songfest and T-shirt Exchange were just two of the fun activities.

Acknowledgements Thank you to the many volunteer alumnae who served as Academy Coaches. We truly appreciate your dedication and hard work to make this program a success. We also thank the Tri Sigma Foundation for the generous financial support of the Officer Academy.

sigma connect

2011 Officer Academy What could be better than 3? Well, 4 of course! Four chapter officers are required to attend the 2011 Officer Academy: Chapter President, Vice President, Education Director and Membership Recruitment Director. The three locations and dates are: NORTHEAST January 7-9, 2011 Indiana University at Pennsylvania Indiana, PA With Lambda Chapter as Campus Hostesses SOUTH January 7-9, 2011 The Lodge at Simpsonwood Norcross, GA MIDWEST January 28-30, 2011 Northern Illinois University DeKalb, IL With Beta Alpha Chapter as Campus Hostesses Be sure to put these dates on your chapter calender and share them with the new slate of officers!

How much does it cost?

The cost is $110 per delegate or $440 total per chapter.

Included in this cost are: Academy materials, meals and lodging.

Travel expenses will be the chapter’s expense. Your chapter will be billed $440 on your November billing statement and it will be due December 1, 2010. There is a $25 penalty fee for any late, new or registration changes after December 1, 2010.

Registration Registration instructions will come to your chapter president

by Nov. 1. More than four officers can attend, but space is limited so register early.

Which Academy do we attend?

Your chapter will be assigned to attend one of the three locations listed based on proximity to the site. If you are unable to attend the location you are assigned you may switch to another on a first come, first served basis. The chapter breakdown is available on Sigma Connect.

Are You Connected to Tri Sigma?

Tri Sigma is moving ever forward! Connect with Tri Sigma and reconnect with your Sisters through our social media presence.

Sigma Connect Sigma Connect is the members-only section of the national website. It contains valuable resource materials, forms, and reports to communicate with National Headquarters. Keep your contact information up-todate, and use the member search to find Sisters you want to connect or reconnect with! www.trisigma.org and click “Members Login” Facebook Tri Sigma is on Facebook! Get updated news from National Headquarters, share links and photos with other Sisters, and more. Don’t be left out...with more than 10,000 fans, there’s always something new on our page! www.facebook.com/sigmasigmasigma Twitter Twitter is a micro-blogging service that allows users to share short messages with photos, links, and information. Follow @trisigma on Twitter to get the latest from National Headquarters. www.twitter.com/trisigma YouTube

For More Information Visit Sigma Connect at www.sigmasigmasigma.org Find us on Facebook at Sigma Sigma Sigma National Sorority Follow us on Twitter at http://twitter.com/essentialsigma

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Meet your 2010-2011 Regional Leadership Consultants This year we have five outstanding Tri Sigma women ready to take on the challenges of travel and life on the road as a Regional Consultant! They are coming together from 5 different chapters, 5 different hometowns, 5 different majors, and with a variety of leadership and Tri Sigma experiences.

As individuals they will work to support their assigned chapters, and as a team they will collaborate to develop collegiate resources in all areas of collegiate chapter operations. The women selected to support you are…

Corrinne Borsman – Organized, motivated, thoughtful, enthusiastic, outgoing Region 1 Consultant (MA, NJ, NY, PA, RI) Region1.sss.rc@gmail.com or 540.383.5626 • • • • •

Chapter: Eta Tau Chapter at Embry Riddle Aeronautical University in Daytona Beach, FL Major: BS in Aeronautics Leadership Roles: Chapter President, Panhellenic Delegate, Founders Day Last Book I Read: re-reading the Harry Potter books and starting on “The Help” My Favorite Tri Sigma Moment: There are so many great Sigma moments to choose from….getting a little, being elected President, meeting other Sigmas and reuniting with alumnae. I had a recent moment; however, where I was attending a chapter meeting and during a discussion on recruitment, some recently initiated Sisters said I was the greatest reason why the joined Tri Sigma. I was really honored to hear I made that kind of impact for them. It was an incredible compliment.

Nikki Cowart – Entertaining, opinionated, optimistic, outgoing and studious Colony/New Chapter Consultant ΑΟ, ΗΑ, ΗΞ, ΗΨ, ΘΑ, Flint, Penn College, Lindenwood, Minot, and McKendree Regionalconsultant@gmail.com or 540.333.7183 • Chapter: Gamma Mu chapter at Southeastern Louisiana University in Hammond, LA • Major/Minor: History • Leadership Roles: Ritual and Sisterhood chair, chapter Executive Vice President, recruitment counselor, Panhellenic Vice President of Recruitment, and Panhellenic President • My Favorite Tri Sigma Moment: I would absolutely have to say it was Bid Day of Fall 2009 when I was serving as Panhellenic President and was able to be the first person to give my biological little Sister a hug right after she signed her bid from Sigma! We even have the most adorable picture that captures the moment!

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Caitlin Dobson – Passionate, driven, funny, inventive, and imaginative Region 3 Consultant (GA, NC, OH, SC, VA, WV) Region3.sss.rc@gmail.com or 540.383.5628 • • • • •

Chapter: Alpha Xi Chapter at the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater Major: Psychology Leadership Roles: Secretary, Treasurer, President Last Book I Read: “The Time-Traveler’s Wife” My Favorite Tri Sigma Moment: Going to Convention in 2007! It was so much fun, and really made my Sigma experience come full circle. I was able to see that my actions did not only affect the women of my chapter, but of every other chapter we have as a National Organization. I was also able to meet some really great women, learn some valuable information, and have a blast! Being elected Chapter President was also a great moment. It meant so much to me to know that my Sisters trusted me in ‘modeling the way’. Lastly, I would have to say that becoming a big Sister (twice) has been a great experience! My little Sisters are two of my best friends and I couldn’t imagine my life without them!

Brittany Parrott – Outgoing, creative, dedicated, eclectic, interpretive Region 4 Consultant (AR, CO, FL, KS, LA, MO, OK, TX) Region4.sss.rc@gmail.com or 540.383.5629 • Chapter: Epsilon Phi Chapter at the University of North Carolina-Wilmington • Major: Communication • Leadership Roles: Panhellenic Delegate, Recruitment Counselor, Panhellenic VP of Recruitment, and Chapter Membership Recruitment Director • Last Book I Read: I am HUGE fan of the Twilight Saga (YAY for “Eclipse”!) I just finished Dan Brown’s “The Lost Symbol.”

• My Favorite Tri Sigma Moment: One of my favorite moments was my Senior Send-On. In our chapter it is a tradition for the graduating seniors to have a mailbox and chapter members can write seniors notes about memories or special thoughts. Sitting in my room all packed up reading them made me realize the women that I had touched without even knowing it and reflect on the wonderful moments with those I was closest to. I was also able to help as an alumna with recruitment at the High Point University colonization. It was amazing to meet so many women from different walks of life that had that common goal of true Sisterhood and service.

Anne Strawbridge – Intellectual, driven, caring, full of laughter, spontaneous Region 2 Consultant (AK, CA, ID, IL, KY, MI, MN, OH, PA, WI) Region2.sss.rc@gmail.com or 540.383.5627 • • • •

Chapter: Delta Pi Chapter at Winthrop University in Rock Hill, SC Major: Early Childhood Education Leadership Roles: Honor Council, Ritual, Chapter President, College Panhellenic Vice President Last Book I Read: the first two books in Stieg Larsson’s trilogy (“The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo” and “The Girl who Played with Fire”) • My Favorite Tri Sigma Moment: Meeting Laura Ward Sweet at Tri State Days was pretty awe-inspiring (I felt like a groupie). Another memory that sticks in my head was a road trip up to UNC Chapel Hill to see the [children’s hospital] play atrium. It was great to see how our philanthropy positively affects lives every day, and the car ride was so full of gut-busting laughter so I really didn’t want it to end.

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Collegiate News Mu Mu Chapter has been very involved in a number of philanthropic activities at Truman State University in Kirksville, MO. Our Sisters participated in the Big Event, which benefits the community by completing household projects for those in need. These range from painting churches to yard work and housecleaning.

We recently held our Sixth Annual Rock for Robbie, a band-fest featuring fraternity bands and a visiting musician from the University of Missouri. We are proud to report that almost $2,000 was raised this year to be donated toward the Robbie Page Memorial.

Chi The Chi chapter of Pittsburg State University in Pittsburg, KS, wrapped up a busy and successful spring semester. January started with the Ali Kemp Fashion Show, a fashion show named in honor of a Kansas City teen who was murdered in the summer of 2002. The show, benefits the Ali Kemp Educational Foundation and features the women of Sigma and the men of Sigma Phi Epsilon as models for spring prom fashions. The show also includes a self-defense training. This activity earned the chapter and their co-host Sigma Phi Epsilon the Pittsburg State University 2010 Program of the Year, a high honor.

Chi chapter has also been recognized for excellence in scholarship, social service, membership recruitment, campus activities, alumni relations, chapter management, and membership development. Tri Sigma also won the university’s Greek Week, and campus-wide individual honors went to Jessica Simmons, senior, for Outstanding Panhellenic Executive Council Member and Mallory Friday, junior, for Outstanding Sorority Officer. At the end of the spring semester, we welcomed eight new members into our Sisterhood.

Alpha Theta Here at Radford University in Radford, VA, we take pleasure in looking back at the Sisters who have come before us to make our chapter what it is today. Each semester our chapter hosts an alumnae weekend. During this time we present the alumnae with an update on current and future activities.

At this semester’s Alumnae Weekend, recent graduate, Bridget Fleisher lavaliered her Little Sister, Jade Marsh (who serves as Parliamentarian). It just showed all of the Sisters that even though we may be in different stages of life, Sigma Sigma Sigma is always going to be there to connect us all!

Alpha Iota One experience that brought us closer to the history surrounding Tri Sigma was when an alumna visited our floor in the dorms. We listened to her reminisce.

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Epsilon Epsilon Sisters from Epsilon Epsilon participate in the March of Dimes March for Babies.

mid-‘60s and ours today were incredible. She talked about everybody getting ready in front of the mirror in the hallway, yelling things such as “I need to borrow a shirt!” or “Will somebody fix my hair?” We knew our sorority had rituals that had passed through generations, but her stories made us realize exactly how strong the bond of Sisterhood is.

Alpha Phi The North Star provides reassuring guidance to a lost traveler on her journey home, shining light upon an undiscovered path. Convention shined a guiding light upon a new path for the Alpha Phi chapter. This fall the chapter will be traveling its new path, focusing on the values of friendship, character and conduct. Alpha Phi will have a busy fall schedule this year, including a chapter retreat, formal recruitment, annual fall Foundation barbeque, and homecoming. The chapter’s goal is to continue to strengthen its Sisterhood and alumnae relations.

Alpha Upsilon The month of February was National Eating Disorder Awareness month, a time that is near and dear to our chapter’s heart. Our local philanthropy is the Leslie George Memorial Fund, which was started in 2000 in honor of Leslie George, a former JMU Tri Sigma who passed away due to complications from an eating disorder. Each February, our chapter helps spread awareness about eating disorders around JMU and Harrisonburg. Throughout the month we passed out fliers about eating disorder awareness along with little mirrors that said “Smile, you look great!” We held a Talent Show with proceeds going towards our fund.

We also sponsored a free movie viewing of, “America the Beautiful” about the media driven representation of beauty in our country. The biggest event we hold

in honor of Leslie George is our “Speak Out,” which is attended by Leslie George’s parents. At the “Speak Out,” Kathleen MacDonald shared the story of her 16-year struggle with an eating disorder and her full recovery.

Beta Xi The past semester has been a busy one for the Beta Xi chapter at Southeast Missouri State University.

We had a semester fun of philanthropies and Sisterhood events while remaining focused on recruitment events. Recruitment Director Danice Granger worked diligently on a recruitment support plan for our chapter. We had a recruitment event or workshop every Tuesday through the semester.

We grew as a chapter by becoming closer, and welcoming 10 Sisters into our chapter.

Delta Beta The women of Delta Beta throw it all in for their annual “Rockin’ for Robbie” event.

Recently many Sisters in Delta Chi participated in a ropes course, which was a great opportunity to learn more about each other and foster trust among all years in school and groups of friends within the chapter.

Our Founders Day celebration was hosted on our patio. Along with our alumnae, we enjoyed a lunch that was prepared by our Sisters and Circle Degree was held for our graduating seniors.

Delta Beta The 2009-2010 academic year for the Delta Beta Chapter at Elon University was an incredibly successful one!

Finally, the chapter was a recipient of the Gold Level at Greek Week 2010 by competing in the soccer shooting event, as well as Greek Goddess. We also helped raise money for the Make-A-Wish Foundation, Salvation Army, and the Backstoppers, and even worked the Special Olympics event.

“Rockin’ for Robbie” was a campus-wide event that was carried out differently than past years – instead of rockin’ in rocking chairs, we hired a rock band, The Tipsy Bacchanals, to help us spread awareness about our philanthropy! The “Pie a Sigma” table raised over $300.

Gamma Xi The Gamma Xi chapter always puts a special emphasis on Sisterhood bonding. While there are several events that Gamma Xi puts on, the Sisters’ favorite is always a dinner which is held at Chapter Advisor Tracy Mitchell’s home. Prior to initiation, the Sisters go to Tracy’s house to have a special bonding night.

This year after eating everyone was given a candle representing our Sisterhood. As a Sister light another’s candle, she shared what it was that made her light.

As the room grew brighter and brighter each Sister felt the everlasting love and friendship that Sigma Sigma Sigma has to offer.

After a successful Spring Recruitment, Delta Beta welcomed 40 wonderful women into the bonds of Tri Sigma. In the spirit of true Sisterhood, the chapter sent representatives to High Point University to assist with the installing of their new chapter.

In April after training for months, 11 of our women participated in the Charlotte Half Marathon and 10K races, finishing with flying colors!

Delta Chi The University of Virginia is a large school and can seem overwhelming at times, but Tri Sigma makes it seem manageable and even comfortable. The wonderful Sisters in Tri Sigma inspire and support each other as we all strive to find our True North.

We study together, we laugh together, we play sports together, and we give advice to each other.

Delta Upsilon Alumnae relations remain at the heart of the Delta Upsilon chapter. This year we hosted several events including our alumnae. In October, we supported Kaitlyn Freiss, who organized an event for the NephCure Foundation. We went straight to work, painting faces, playing games, walking, and ultimately raising money and awareness for a great cause. For homecoming, our guests included a charter member. Founders Day was celebrated with another wonderful group of alumnae Sisters and family members. All in all, this chapter has made strides to branch the past to the present.

Epsilon Nu This semester the Epsilon Nu chapter held its first Sigma Rumble, a field day event where teams compete in a variety of events. These included a cheer off, tug of war, water balloon toss, ice cream eating contest, peanut butter bread toss, and a relay race. The event attracted a wide variety of students.

We are excited about this new tradition and hope to carry on holding the event for many years to come.

Epsilon Omicron This past fall, Epsilon Omicron hosted its 20th Anniversary Celebration. The weekend even included an ‘80s-style

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our collegians dance with poufy hair, neon leggings, shoulder pads, leg-warmers, all of the hits from the ‘80s to today, and many laughs! The weekend concluded with offering Circle Degree to our Alumnae. Twelve Alumnae came to celebrate 20 amazing years with us and we hope to have many more successful Alumnae events this year!

We were also able to bond with our alumnae during Convention. At the Laurels Banquet we talked about the future of our chapter as we grow into a stronger chapter. One of our Alumnae and previous Advisor, Rebecca Nanzer Calkins, even won an award for Outstanding Advisor of the Region! In addition to our alumnae from Epsilon Omicron, we got the chance to speak to the amazing Alumnae chapter who adopted our chapter, the Indianapolis Suburban Alumnae Chapter. We hope to strengthen our relationship with them this coming semester as well!

Epsilon Rho Our Alumnae are very important to us. We strive to keep them involved and up to date. We use Sailboat Sisters who correspond directly with alumnae to keep them personally connected to our activities. We include our alumnae in philanthropy events, such as, our annual Taco Feed. The Taco Feed raises money for the Robbie Page Memorial with all-you-can-eat tacos.

Epsilon Chi The women of Epsilon Chi at Northeastern have kept busy with community service and volunteer events this past semester. Our Sisters participated in the Relay for Life, an American Cancer Society event that raised over $1,500. We also teamed up with the men of Beta Gamma Epsilon, a local fraternity, to participate in the Boston Area Rape Crisis Center’s annual walk. Our annual Promise Auction with the Sisters of Delta Phi Epsilon supported Partners in Health Care. During Greek Week, the chapter participated in Northeastern’s Greek Service Day, by helping fix up local community arts and recreation centers. The semester finished strong with the chapter’s Founders Day brunch, which was attended by many alumnae.

Zeta Alpha As a Sigma, it is important to follow our motto “Live, Love, and Everlasting Sisterhood.” Monthly e-newsletters help keep our alumnae circle connected to the chapter and with one another. Alumnae have supported us for recruitment and philanthropy events.

At these recruitment events, the alumnae share stories about “what Sigma means to them,” networking opportunities, and how they have grown since becoming a Sigma. In the fall, we will host our second annual brunch during Parents and Family Weekend.

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Zeta Theta In October 2009, the collegiate members arranged an alumnae event befitting of the Halloween season by spending time at The Haunted Mill, a local spooky attraction in Southeastern Idaho.

Bid Day Bags. The alumnae also share how Sigma still plays a role in your life even after graduation. We could not function without their help.

Zeta Delta This has been an exciting year for the Sisters of Zeta Delta Chapter in Oneonta, NY, at Oneonta State College.

In celebration of our 10-year anniversary, we organized a large alumnae weekend including participation in Relay for Life as well as Founders Day luncheon. Several Sisters worked very hard putting together a digital slideshow, containing pictures ranging from 2000-2010 so every Sister, both collegiate and alumnae, could feel included as a part of building something so special.

We have also been working on creating a time capsule to show our history and to reflect on how we have grown in another 10 years.

Zeta Epsilon The Sisters of the Zeta Epsilon chapter organized a philanthropy project called Sigma Serves Strawberries at the Betty Chapman Plaza of FIU’s Modesto Maidique campus, to raise money for the Sigma Sigma Sigma Foundation.

The Sisters had strawberry shortcake for sale as well as chocolate-covered strawberries, strawberry cheesecake, strawberries, bagels with strawberry cream cheese and strawberry lemonade. In total, $100 was raised for the Sigma Sigma Sigma Foundation.

Zeta Upsilon At our annual Alumnae Brunch in November, the alumnae outnumbered the collegiate Sisters. The room was filled with laughter and many small children running around, as we enjoyed potluck dishes. In April we celebrated not only Founders Day but our 15th Anniversary as well.

The support of alumnae was not enclosed in just the fun reunions and gatherings. This past year was one of the toughest for the Zeta Upsilon chapter, at times it felt everything was falling apart. Alumnae Sisters Becky Peterson, Christal Moniga, Jessica Peidrafite, and Amanda Bastien stepped in to form our Collegiate Advisory Board and provided us with needed guidance and support.

Though there is still work to be done, the support and genuine love from these remarkable Sisters began to bring the chapter back together.

Eta Theta On May 6, 2010, the Sisters of Eta Theta came together for a Memorial Service to honor the life of Sister Annie O’Dell. Annie lost her battle with cancer on April 27, 2010. Though sad to be mourning the loss of such a courageous woman, the service was full of hope, prayer, and cherished stories of the positive impact that Annie had on the Chapter. Annie joined the chapter in 2003, and as the Alumnae shared at the service, she was an energetic and loving Sister who truly exemplified what it means to be a Tri Sigma. From new members to alumnae, it was an occasion for all to reflect on the gift of the bonds of Sisterhood.

Annie was an inspiration and will always be remembered as a true and faithful Tri Sigma Sister. We offer our hopes and prayers for all of our Sisters who have been touched by cancer. We hope that each of you will “Live life out loud!” as Annie did.

Eta Pi The women of Eta Pi are fortunate to have the support and guidance of a very active alumnae chapter. For example, as we gained thirteen dedicated and charismatic new members this semester, alumnae were present every step of the way from recruitment events to initiation. During our joint visits to the local children’s hospital, we were privileged to spend time with children and their families who had been affected by substantial illness. These children and their families have gone through so much to be where they are now, and it was an amazing experience for our members to be able to brighten their day even if just for a moment.

the chapter as a dynamic Greek organization on campus.

Eta Upsilon also received the New Member Education Award for the chapter’s interpretation and implementation of the Arc Sequence component of Essential Sigma.

Eta Chi Mizzou’s campus was swarmed by sea of teal T-shirts on Tuesday, May 4, as Tri Sigma’s Eta Chi Chapter united campus Greek life in support of a cause close to our hearts – cervical cancer. Our journey began when Eta Chi Sister Maria Quinn was diagnosed with cervical cancer May 10, 2009, one week before her 19th birthday. She left the university in December 2010 for more aggressive treatment. In honor of our Sister, the members sold 780 T-shirts on campus. The back of each shirt read, “A girl should be two things: classy and cancer free,” and featured a cancer ribbon displaying the nine other sorority chapters that purchased 30 or more shirts. Sigma members sold the T-shirts at events such as Relay for Life, and raised $1,560 for cervical cancer research. Although Maria is living at home in Chicago for her ongoing treatment, we still keep our Sister in our thoughts. Sigma is proud of the awareness raised and support demonstrated by the Eta Chi chapter and other sororities at the University of MissouriColumbia.

In addition, a sign was placed in the lot of 507 Rollins St. signifying the future building spot of the Eta Chi Sigma house. The land was purchased in 2008, the schematic drawings purchased in 2009, and the building corporation is in the process of developing the engineering documents.

The house is targeted for completion by fall 2012.

Eta Tau The ladies of Eta Tau have had an incredibly busy semester strengthening their bonds as Sisters. We welcomed Yolanda Nicole and Stacey Ward to our Sisterhood and have shown them what it means to be a Tri Sigma. Our Sisters shined during the charity house building competition. We spent the drafty night building our purple cardboard sailboat and proudly decorated with skull. Sisters were also victorious among the sororities during a Greek Week battle where the last competition, a basketball shoot out, determined Tri Sigma as the winner. Eta Tau had many Sisterhood retreats including a trip to the tallest lighthouse in Florida overlooking the Ponce Inlet bay. We rounded out the semester with a Senior Send On where many laughs and memories were shared before we bid our seniors goodbye.

Eta Upsilon The spring semester marked our third year at Lynchburg College and brought more to celebrate than just an anniversary. After a successful semester of recruitment, 12 new ladies joined the chapter. Seven new members were inducted into the Freshman Honorary Society, Phi Eta Sigma, more than any other Greek organization on campus. Freshman Hannah Huffstetler was also recognized for the highest sorority new member G.P.A. at the Greek Awards. We were honored to receive the Chapter of the Year award during the annual Lynchburg College Greek Awards in April. This award recognizes the hard work of all the past and present collegiate members to establish

Eta Zeta Sisters Liisia Martin, Eta Zeta and Melissa Detloff, Beta Tau pictured atop Flattop Mountain in Anchorage during a hiking trip.

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Indianapolis SuburbanAlumnae Celebrate 50th Anniversary

Janice Schafer Brill, Beta Gamma • Ilene Swank Garrett, Kappa

existence. However, these energetic young women, most of them in their 20s with young families who lived in the suburbs, thought a new group would meet their interests. The charter for the Indianapolis Suburban Alumnae Chapter was signed on May 24, 1960, by the National President, Mrs. Curtis Dixon.

Front row from left: Patricia Arthur Egler, Beta Gamma; Judith Krieg Marsh, Beta Gamma; Alice LeGros Snider, Beta Gamma Back row from left: Helen Sharrett Shull, Beta Gamma; Carolyn Suiter Jenkins, Beta Gamma; Avis Murrell Woods, Alpha Epsilon

The Indianapolis Suburban Alumnae gathered for a delightful breakfast on April 17, 2010, to celebrate Founders Day and the 50th Anniversary of the chartering of their chapter.

In early 1960, several Tri Sigmas decided there was sufficient interest to explore the possibility of organizing a second alumnae chapter in Indianapolis.

At the time, an alumnae chapter composed primarily of older alumnae from Alpha Eta (the chapter at Butler University which functioned from 1928-1933) was in

With considerable effort, and help from the staff at the National Headquarters, contact was made with all the charter members!! Six of the charter members (see photo) attended the celebration, as did many of the 23 past presidents of the chapter. During its first 50 years, the chapter has earned many awards at the national level and has given generously to the Sigma Sigma Sigma Foundation and local philanthropic efforts.

The group also claims a connection to six Golden Violets and two Steadfast Alumna Award recipients, and several members have served as National Officers and on the Executive Council.

The 50th Anniversary Celebration honored the commitment of the charter members who stepped up and established the group, and the dedication of the presidents who served the group so ably over the last fifty years. As a chapter, the Indianapolis Suburban Alumnae Chapter strives to follow our “true north” and remain authentic to our Sisterhood, and looks forward to the next fifty years.

RAISING FUNDS, FOSTERING SISTERHOOD The San Antonio alumnae have been busy raising money.

June meant Sisterhood, pampering and AVON for a chapter fundraiser, held at the Incredible Pizza Company. AVON Independent Saleswoman and Chapter President Jessica M. Rodriguez hosted the event, with 60 percent of all sales generated being given back to the new chapter to help build their bank account. The event was fun and a big success.

More opportunities like it are expected to be held in the future as the chapter grows after its reorganization.

Pictured at the event are, left to right: Georgina Benitez Schmahl, Epsilon Iota, Monica Borrego Moorer, Epsilon Iota, Jessica Rodriguez, Epsilon Iota, Angela Stockstill Deren, Alpha Mu, Claudia Cantu, Epsilon Iota

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NASHVILLE alumnae, along with residents of the city who live near the Cumberland River, received a rude awakening on May 1, 2010, when they awoke to severe flooding conditions. Chapter member Lorie Heath Adams, Alpha Chi, suffered a devastating loss. She had over 6 feet of water in her home. The unimaginable devastation was lessened by the love and compassion of her Sigma Sisters.

A posting on Sigma’s Facebook page brought donations from many alumnae and collegians, both individuals and from chapters. The donations, and the feeling that she was being helped by her Sigma Sisters, helped Lorie recover.

“I’ve been touched and humbled by the assistance and support I’ve received from my Sigma Sisters. I’ve been in touch with some whom I haven’t heard from in 20 years, as well as many I’ve never met. They all reached out to help me with my post-flood rebuilding efforts.” Local Sigma alumnae, as well as others from all over the country, came together to help a Sister in need. This outpouring of support echoes what was witnessed in 2005 in the aftermath of Hurricanes Katrina and Rita. Tri Sigma’s national organization, as well as chapters and individuals, reached out to provide assistance of every kind to the Sigma women in Louisiana and the Gulf Coast who were affected by the devastating storms that occurred just a few weeks apart.

PHOENIX alumnae participated in the Climb to Conquer Cancer at the South Mountain Park in February 2010. The five-mile hike took place through the largest city parks in the U.S., at an altitude of 1,000 feet above sea level. The walk benefited the American Cancer Society. Team Tri Sigma collected $2,070 as a result of their participation. Ann Ruiz, a member of the Phoenix chapter, extended her involvement with the fundraiser by becoming the Team Development Chair for the American Cancer Society. She managed, recruited, and mentored the 140 teams signed up for the walk.

DELAWARE alumnae gathered for the first time for a Founders Day celebration on April 17, 2010. Key Alumna DiAnne Gatts, Rho, sent postcards to Sigma alumnae in the state, inviting them to join with one another in the state capital of Dover at Wesley College. Special guest of honor was Delaware’s first Golden Violet, Louise Felgenhauer Archdeacon, Alpha Delta. Attendees were representative of many different collegiate chapters, and they are hoping to form a new alumnae chapter for the state soon.

Zeta Betas Visit Dallas Alumnae members of the Zeta Beta Chapter made a trip to Dallas in July. During the trip they toured the Dallas Children’s Hospital and learned about the many ways Tri Sigma funds help the hospital.

Back Row L to R: Missena Dixon Hayes, Leslie Cothren, Sarah Seibold Knoles, Alison Olson Wolf, Michelle Barber.

Front Row L to R: Jennifer Kuykendall Meason, Hillary Ashton and Mikki Patten

EPSILON PI REUNION Alumnae members of Epsilon Pi gathered in Charleston, SC, over the summer to reminisce, catch up, eat, shop, and enjoy the beach and sites! For many, there were new introductions, as well as seeing old friends. Sunday brunch was only one highlight of a fantastic weekend. Be on the lookout for 2011 plans – we’re headed to Atlanta! Pictured are, back row from left: Kim Frampton McManus, Beth Harvey Holt, Kerri Johnson, Virginia Flatau, Elizabeth Cunard Copeman, and Anne Sullivan Coleman. Front row from left: Madeline Fox (legacy), Erin Moore Fox, Stacey Sumerel Nuessle, and Emmy Smith.

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Golden Violets Awarded at Convention

Left to Right: Barbara Thomas, Beta Sigma, Carolyn Wallisch, Iota, National Golden Violet Coordinator presenting Barbara with her Golden Violet Certificate and Pin.

Two outstanding Golden Violet Candidates were awarded their Golden Violets Convention.

They definitely found their True North. Both Marlene Willett Middleton, Rho, and Barbara Pitisci Thomas, Beta Sigma, received their Golden Violets at the 2010 Convention. The Golden Violet Award was presented to them by Mandy Chocheles, National Alumnae Vice President and Carolyn Wallisch, National Golden Violets Coordinator at the July 12, afternoon Business Session.

Both Marlene Middleton, Tallahassee Alumnae Chapter, and Barbara Thomas, Tampa Bay Area Alumnae Chapter, were Voting Delegates to the 2010 Convention representing their chapters.

An interesting coincidence discovered over lunch just before the Golden Violets’ presentation, was that Marlene participated in Rho’s recolonization as a member of the 1959 pledge class and initiated in 1960. Interestingly, Barbara attended the official recolonization ceremony of Rho in 1960 as a new member herself with the Beta Sigma chapter attending the ceremony.

These Sigma Connections seem to be ongoing for a lifetime.

It was exciting for these Sigma Sisters to reconnect after 50 years of membership.

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Left to Right: Mandy Chocheles, Gamma Eta, National Alumnae Vice President and Marlene Middleton, Rho, Delegate from Tallahassee Alumnae Chapter, receiving her Golden Violet Certificate and Pin.

Both Middleton and Thomas will be helping the Central Florida Alumnae Chapter with the upcoming Convention planned for 2013 in Orlando. These Golden Violet Sisters will look forward to reconnecting again at the Orlando Convention in 2013.

The Golden Violet distinction is given only to those special Sigmas who have proven their vow of lifetime commitment through their friendship and steadfast love of our Sorority for 50 years, have been faithful and loyal, have worked for the advancement and perpetuation of our ideals, and have given service and financial support to Tri Sigma. She shall have paid her Annual National Alumnae Dues for 20 years or more, or have paid Lifetime Dues.

A Sigma must be nominated and meet the qualifications in order to be granted this award. It is not given automatically to every Sigma who has reached the 50-year mark. Nomination forms are found on Sigma’s website and may be made by a chapter or an individual to be sent at any time to National Headquarters at 225 N. Muhlenberg St., Woodstock, VA 22664.

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SEPTEMBER 1, 2009 - MAY 31, 2010

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Psi Alpha Alpha Alpha Beta Alpha Delta Alpha Zeta Alpha Theta Alpha Iota Alpha Kappa Alpha Nu Alpha Mu Alpha Xi

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Name Carter Munt Clopton Mary Vaughan Driscoll Nan Seward Jones Dorothy Eichorn Fox Anna Spahr Bell Marjorie Hoofring Bailey Maxine Olson Harrison Wilma Hochberg Heath Mary Fair Hoffman Catherine Wilson Loy Madlyn Tyler Kilmer Dorothy Wasson Swartz Nancy Miller Boyer Agnes Steere Green Gladys Kollin Ireland Virginia Horton Lee Mary Rhein Oldberg Mildred Burnap Hollenbeck Frances Nowels Pederson Eloise Nowles Spencer Jean Plunkett Malcolm Maureen Butler Paul Dorothy Mitchell Callen Sara Mastin Houlihan Ruth Wilson Rohde Willella Young Shanks Barbara Bartels Leckie Virginia Tabor Kendrick Frances Barksdale Little Dorothy M. Jones Doris Stroud Rothermel Gertrude Palmer Gerber Doris Reese Stagg Margaret Janie Hardwicke Winifred Morris Peebler Bess Brewster Slaughter Anne Morgan Weaver Martha Gibbs Malone Helen Berry Michael Kathryn Rush Keller Elsie Simm LeBlanc Helen Wilber Gage Marjorie Pederson McQueen Janet Hellen Torhorst Edith Cox Coleman Bonnie Johnson Flint Cecilia Hughes Smith Ruth Bengtson Buhl Amanda Allshouse Garvey Betty D. Hursh Veda Cotton McGinnis Jean Kunes Stevenson

CHAPTER NAME Psi Alpha Omicron Gamma Rho Epsilon Theta Epsilon Nu Epsilon Rho Eta Psi Iota Alpha

INITIATION DATE 4/27/10 5/5/10 4/10/10 11/8/09 11/22/09 11/14/09 3/26/10 4/10/10 11/6/09 11/6/09 10/24/09 3/27/10

NAME Leann Renee Haines Lynley Fenwick Summers Christine Ann Rutkowski-Hirth Brandi Mazesticeon Hamson Anne Marie Rosenthal Maria Nicholson Bedenbaugh Debra Ann Kerkaert Jennifer Grace Litrell Christina Brock Cook Jessica Elaine Jett Lafollette Sandra Larson Beutler Stephanie Dawn Walls

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our foundation

Meet Cindy Harms The Foundation’s new GOLD officer Cindy Heimann Harms, Alpha Epsilon, is Sigma Sigma Sigma Foundation’s new GOLD Development Officer. She’s responsible for traveling throughout the U.S., visiting alumnae, telling them about the Foundation’s work, and asking for Foundation support through a monthly gift.

GOLD (an acronym for Graduates of the Last Decade, which the Foundation has expanded to include alumnae of all ages) began at Tri Sigma, the first Greek women’s foundation to institute such a program, in 2006. Since then, Foundation GOLD development officers have visited 1,386 alumnae and raised $1,001,405 in pledges from 627 alumnae.

Cindy will continue to build the GOLD program and plans visits primarily in the western half of the U.S. during the first part of this year. Her job description also includes implementing a new program called Power of Purple (POP!) for collegiate chapters to enhance their fundraising events on campus.

During the triennium, Cindy will continue her volunteer work for Tri Sigma as one of three newly-created volunteer recruitment coordinators. “Primarily in the western U.S., I’ll recruit, interview and appoint alumnae to open national officer positions and collegiate advisory boards, or as resource personnel and for special projects/committees,“ she says.

At the same time she visits alumnae for the Foundation, Cindy will be able to talk to alumnae about volunteering for national service. “It’s a natural match,” she says, “I’ll be able to tie both positions together, which should make both our National Organization and the Foundation stronger.”

Cindy replaces Kate Gaston Walls, Alpha Chi, who resigned in May after four years at the Foundation. We applaud Kate for her superb work, beginning and growing the GOLD program. We’ll miss her and wish her well in her new job at the Pi Beta Phi Foundation.

Do you have your sigma bag yet?

The Foundation offers this cosmetic bag that’s perfect for your large purse or suitcase.

The bag is 7 ½” long, and is glossy, like patent leather. It features purple Greek letters and a purple zipper.

To receive yours, make a minimum donation of $33.33..

You can go to www.trisigma.org and click on “give” at the top of the first page (write in “cosmetic bag” in the “Special Instructions” part of the form), or email Nancy Benedict, Foundation director of philanthropic programs, at nbenedic@trisigma.org, or call her: 540.459.4212. You’ll receive your bag in two weeks.

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Will you take the Liz Challenge?

Foundation Grants and Awards The Sigma Sigma Sigma Foundation Board voted to award the following grants and scholarships at its July, 2010 annual meeting: GRANTS TO SIGMA SIGMA SIGMA FOR LEADERSHIP TRAINING/EDUCATION, 2010-11 $75,000 to help fund Officer Academies, CAB/Volunteer Summit in 2011, Dunham Women of Character Institute and five UIFI Scholarships, plus $11,147 for the July 2010 Volunteer Summit (this grant was approved by the Board in March to be paid in this fiscal year).

Elizabeth (Liz) Wakeman Hoffert, Beta Xi, has loved Tri Sigma for more than 40 years, since she was elected treasurer of her pledge class.

“Tri Sigma has been a connection for me throughout my life – I’ve been part of four alumnae chapters as I’ve moved around the U.S., and learned new skills through my volunteer work on Executive Council and the Foundation Board,” she says.

Earlier this year, Liz and her husband Fred talked with a financial manager about their estate plans. “The Foundation was always in my will,” Liz says, “but the manager suggested I might want to set up a trust or even make my bequest payable over a number of years.”

She adds, “However, I felt that the Foundation was trustworthy and would use my gift responsibly. I know how carefully Foundation Board members handle every dime! But the manager stimulated me – I began to think, why shouldn’t I contribute something to the Foundation now, so I could enjoy seeing the difference my contribution would make?”

Liz and Fred decided to give $65,000 to the Foundation to fund leadership programs and inspire others to support the Foundation.

The Elizabeth and Fred Hoffert Endowed Leadership Fund will be created with $33,333 of the money. Income from this, according to Foundation guidelines, will be used annually for programming. $15,000 will fund this year’s Dunham Women of Character Institute for emerging leaders.

“I want to challenge my Sisters with the rest,” Liz says.

She will match every new dollar contributed for leadership, up to $20,000. This money will be spent over the next three years for leadership programming.

“I’m excited,” Liz said when she announced the Challenge at Convention. “A Sister just came up to me and told me I inspired her!”

SCHOLARSHIPS, 2010-11: $12,000 All Tri Sigmas are eligible to apply for scholarships. Deadline for next year’s applications: March 30, 2011.

The Louise Replogle and Mabel Kane Stryker scholarships to Samantha J. Armstrong, Zeta Theta, graduate of Idaho State University; enrolled at Washington State University Ann Williams Scholarship to Celinda Miranda, Zeta Epsilon, graduate of Florida International University, enrolled at Louisiana State University

Undergraduate Scholarships Margaret Freeman Everett Scholarship to Allison Mitchell, Zeta Chi, Coastal Carolina University

Graduate Scholarships The Michael Welsh Scholarship and Barbara Moseley Welsh Scholarship to Stephanie Wade, Pi, graduate of Emporia State University, enrolled at University of Missouri for graduate school Lori Dahm Scholarship to Chelsey Blair Kendig, Epsilon Theta, graduate of Oglethorpe University, enrolled at Simmons College, Boston, for graduate school Epsilon Xi Scholarship to Megan Smith, Alpha Pi, graduate of Clarion University, enrolled at Clarion University for graduate school Lucile Mertz Hendrick Scholarship to Hannah Beth Salter, Alpha Zeta, graduate of Northwestern State University of Louisiana, enrolled at Louisiana State University Paul M. Hebert Law Center

Marie Santee Dunham Scholarship to Morgan Heine, Gamma Beta, East Carolina University Emily Lewis Lee Scholarship to Anna Wade, Epsilon Pi, Presbyterian College Violenda Seppala Nelson Scholarship to Kathryn Maestas, Mu, Truman State University RPM GRANTS: $49,844.99

Local Grants (Total): $21,244.99 For local programs nominated by alumnae and collegiate chapters.

Deadline to apply for next year: May 1, 2011.

National Grants (Total): $28,600 To support two national children’s hospitals with outstanding training in child life/play therapy.

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Meet Our New Executive Council Kaye Schendel, Gamma Phi NATIONAL PRESIDENT

Kaye Schendel became a Tri Sigma when she joined the Gamma Phi chapter at the University of Wisconsin-River Falls. Her service to Tri Sigma started right out of college as a Leadership Consultant (then called Field Secretary). Since then she has held many roles, including Colony Coordinator, College Panhellenic Coordinator, Chair of the Reorganization Committee and most recently as the Coordinator of Programming and Assessment. She also served as Publications Vice President for one year and has worked on educational programs.

Kaye lives in La Crosse, WI, with her husband, David.

They have two pugs, Willie and Rocket. She is employed at the University of Wisconsin – La Crosse as the Assistant Director of University Centers. Two of her favorite hobbies are golf and reading. She also enjoys escaping to Jamaica.

“We as Tri Sigmas need to be committed to encouraging all of our members to live our values and embody the purpose of our organization,” says Schendel.

Bonnie Rainey, Alpha Sigma NATIONAL TREASURER Bonnie was initiated as an Alpha Sigma at the University of Southern Mississippi in 1976.

After receiving a degree in Spanish and Political Science, she obtained a Doctor of Jurisprudence from the Mississippi College School of Law. She has served Tri Sigma as Membership Development Coordinator, Risk Management Director and Vice Chairman of the

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Foundation. Helping to further the growth of the Foundation continues to be important for her.

“Working together, The Foundation and National Organization are so powerful and can do so much for our membership through leadership programming,” says Rainey. “It is very much a passion of mine for our membership to support the Foundation to the extent that they can.”

Bonnie lives in Dallas where she is a Market Trust Director for U.S. Trust Co. and manages a fiduciary practice group. She loves to spend time with family which includes husband David, their daughter Molly, two dogs and a rescue kitty. Bonnie refers to herself as a “foodie” loving to cook and participate in a gourmet club. When she can find the time she also likes to travel, knit and read.

Bethany Deines, Beta Kappa NATIONAL VICE PRESIDENT Bethany joined the Beta Kappa Chapter at Arizona State University. She has served Tri Sigma since 1992, serving as a National Collegiate Chairman, Publications Vice President and most recently Membership Development Vice President.

“Every past National President, and for that matter, every leader I have met in the Sorority has taught me something. I have worked with tremendously talented women. The one thing we ALL share in common is a love for Tri Sigma and a desire to help the organization progress forward.”

Prior National Officer positions include service as Executive Director, a member of the Walton House Board of Trustees, National Ritual Director, National Scholarship Director, and Director of College Panhellenic

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Services. Beth has been a frequent facilitator at both Tri Sigma and interfraternal conferences. She is employed as the Director of Annual Gifts for The Children’s Medical Center in Dayton, OH and lives in Hamilton, OH, with her two cats, Francis and Spencer.

Emily Ellis, Gamma Beta NATIONAL VICE PRESIDENT

Emily Eure Ellis was a member of the Gamma Beta chapter at East Carolina University in Greenville, NC. She has served as a Chapter Advisor, Collegiate Coordinator, Area Director and on Tri Sigma’s NPC Delegation. For the 20072010 Triennium she served on Executive Council as Collegiate Vice President.

Emily lives in New Bern, NC. She is employed at Coastal Carolina Community College as Director of Student Activities and Disability Counselor.

Emily is active with the MS Society and advocates for those with disabilities.

“My favorite memory of Tri Sigma is attending our Centennial Convention and knowing 3 people and leaving with SEVERAL Sisters who are important in my life!” says Ellis. “In Alumnae life I love the opportunity to serve Tri Sigma. Tri Sigma has taught me to be a confident woman and Tri Sigma continues to align with my personal values.”

Elizabeth Wakeman Hoffert, Beta Xi NATIONAL VICE PRESIDENT Tri Sigma life started for Liz when she joined the Beta Xi Chapter at Southeast Missouri State. She previously served on Executive Council from 20042007 as Alumnae Vice President and on the Foundation board for 11 years. Liz was awarded the Emily Gates Award in 1992.

and has allowed me to become the woman I am today,“ says Hoffert.

She has worked for Insurance Services Office for 40 years. Today she is an active member of the Phoenix Alumnae Chapter, but has also belonged to the St. Louis, Chicago North Shore and Northern New Jersey Alumnae Chapters. Liz currently lives in Phoenix with her husband, Fred. She enjoys being near their daughter, Lynette, and two granddaughters. When she can find the time, Liz enjoys traveling, cooking and reading.

Allison Swick-Duttine, Psi NATIONAL VICE PRESIDENT Allison’s Tri Sigma service started at the Psi Chapter at Marshall University. She has served as Publications Resource Person for The Triangle, a Collegiate Coordinator, Director of Programs and Publications Vice President. She has worked as the Director of Fraternity/Sorority Life & Organization Development for the State University of New York College at Plattsburgh since 1998.

Allison enjoys books and movies and loves cooking and antiquing in her spare time. Allison lives in Plattsburgh, NY, with her husband, Matt. She spends time each year volunteering as a SUNY-Plattsburgh Alternative Breaks site leader on a fraternity/sorority trip to her home state of West Virginia.

“I can’t wait to see the way the relationships with alumnae blossom over the next several years as we begin to focus on a true lifetime sorority experience for our members.”

“Tri Sigma has given me leadership opportunities, presented me with personal challenges, provided me with the friendship of women with the same values,

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JOB ANNOUNCEMENT 2011-2012 Regional Leadership Consultants training expenses covered by the National organization, scheduled time off from travel (Fall break, Spring break, Thanksgiving, and extended winter holiday break), and opportunities for advancement.

The most important qualification for a career at Sigma Sigma Sigma are your own values – a commitment to excellence, enthusiasm for hard work, personal integrity, and a desire to contribute to a winning team.

Sigma Sigma Sigma is currently seeking outstanding motivated individuals to join our dedicated team as Regional Leadership Consultants for the 2011-2012 academic year. This is a full-time entry level position with the expectation to fulfill a position contract July 1, 2011 – June 1, 2012. There is the option to renew the employment contract for a second year pending a performance evaluation.

Please send a cover letter, resume with professional references, and headshot (to be used in The Triangle if selected) to Lorin Phillips (directorofchapterservices@gmail.com)

by December 1, 2010.

Duties: The Regional Consultant is a critical staff member on a Regional Support Team. The Regional Consultant serves as the primary contact for collegiate chapter leaders and members, oversees the general operations of designated chapters, collaborates with National volunteers to implement Individualized Chapter Support Plans, and must represent the National Organization positively at all times by upholding all policies and procedures regardless of personal opinions. Regional Consultants work from National Headquarters and travel to our collegiate chapters as directed by their Supervisor, the Director of Chapter Services. Consultants work to…Support our chapters, Strengthen the National Organization, Develop personal and professional skills, and make an impact in Tri Sigma!

Basic Information about the Position • Training – Approximately March 1 via webinar with in-person training July 1 – August 15.

Must be available to attend all training sessions and National programming.

• Job timeframe – July 1 – June 1 with option to renew the contract for a second year.

• Benefits – opportunities to attend professional training sessions, health insurance, travel and

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NOTE: There are no requirements on past chapter or Panhellenic leadership roles.

Please do consider applying even if you have not been a chapter officer!

The Region Consultant requires the following qualifications: • Bachelor’s Degree by July 1 start date and possess undergraduate leadership experiences.

• Must be a self-starter; highly organized and detail oriented with the ability to manage multiple projects simultaneously; and able to work well with members and volunteers at all levels in the organization as well as campus professionals.

Must possess excellent written, verbal and interpersonal skills. Must be proficient with Microsoft Office products and publications software programs.

• Must be able to quickly problem solve, develop action plans, and respond to unanticipated events in a calm and professional manner.

• Experience in facilitating retreats and leading teambuilding experiences is preferred.

What can you gain from this position?

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Professional experience Independence Ability to adapt to difficult situations Management and organizational skills Lifelong friendships

Want to know more? See the Regional Consultant section in Sigma Connect! Click on Hiring Process for more information on the position – training, a typical day on the road, professional opportunities, etc.

omega chapter

Omega Chapter

During the period from Dec.1, 2009 and May 31, 2010 the following Tri Sigmas were reported to have entered Omega Chapter. We offer our sympathy to their friends and families and honor them for their lifetime commitment to Tri Sigma.

ALPHA Elizabeth Harrell Vaughan Virginia R. Remsburg ZETA Mary Montecalvo Clemente Maxine Bolz Ehrman GOLDEN VIOLET Alice Neff Minkel Betty Bowery Wolcott IOTA Gwendolyn Henry Rosenstrater Janet Bursch Wall LAMBDA Anne Campbell St. Clair MU Ruth Dalton Ogden Eva Beard Whalen NU Donna Nelson Mejia Lorene Belt Parks Shirley Williams Wadleigh XI Esther Longhofer Rose OMICRON Ruth Barry Bourdin Elizabeth Logie Lepak Virginia Meister McPhail PI Mona Jean Hughes Pearl Baker Shank RHO Theckla Gudenrath Donsbach Harva Pfeiffer Pratt Maesther Mears Swann SIGMA Kathleen Baggott Lester Eileen McCartney Speed Florence Beer Wellington TAU Jane Donnelly Wolak PHI Grace Johnson Fassett

CHI Jane Orr Bogle Susan Baldwin Creacy Norma McMahan Pesch GOLDEN VIOLET PSI Peggy Newberry Bartels Jean Bryant Blankenship GOLDEN VIOLET Jeanne Tucker Coleman GOLDEN VIOLET Carla Ann Colbert Johe Betty Watters Smith Anita McComas St. Clair Frances Bachtel Wick Doris Hurt Yates ALPHA BETA Ruth Van Dorsten Grable Mary Hannon O’Brien ALPHA GAMMA Mary Cress Flinn Cranmer Ollie Connally Peterson ALPHA DELTA Ethel Brown Angus Elaine Clayton Schuck ALPHA EPSILON Betty Andrews Yocum ALPHA ZETA Sarah Adams Wren ALPHA THETA Elizabeth Gilbert Fraley Doris Pulley Todd Nancy West Ways ALPHA IOTA Mary Carrington Nowlin ALPHA KAPPA Twila Goldsmith Brown Natasha Rene Ice Nellie Carroll McKain ALPHA LAMBDA Bonnie Collicott Bohn Marian Schwarz Vimont ALPHA MU Mary LaCaze Allis

ALPHA NU Martha Collins Burkett Shirley Dollins Lunde June Flynn Riggs ALPHA XI Marleen Scieszinski Rogers Dorothy McKewan Stokes ALPHA OMICRON Kay Kraft Crocker ALPHA PI Evalyn Meabon Haines Violet Vukoslavich Janich Vera Gray Jones Mary Henry Urey ALPHA RHO Anna Wilson Price Margaret Barringer Battle Esther Clifton Miller Ruth Myers Olley ALPHA TAU Margaret Barringer Battle Esther Clifton Miller Ruth Myers Olley ALPHA UPSILON Evelyn Reade Delano Fern Jennings Frutchey Miriam Wilson Kealey Minnie Hart Riggan Betty Frizzell Thrasher Margaret Cissel Sundermann ALPHA CHI Anna Feltner Berthelot Donna Rudd Saxon ALPHA PSI Norma Metter Crewe Harryetta Peterka Damon Sandra Gould Glassford Peggy Biehler Lafko BETA ALPHA Virginia D. Hester Louise Paddock Kersten GOLDEN VIOLET Shirley Carlson Ritchie Jean Murrie Schaffer GOLDEN VIOLET

BETA BETA Patsy Stevens Long BETA GAMMA Kathleen Lekovich Jones Patricia Clifford Lathrop Adrien Witkowski Shelton Frances McCaughan Wysocki Anna Cathryn Yost BETA DELTA Terri Lyn Effland BETA EPSILON Virginia Johnson Litchfield BETA ZETA Winifred Kenneda Hoffman BETA THETA Lorraine Bieno BETA IOTA Betty Huber Herman Patricia Knote Kirkeide BETA LAMBDA Janet Carol Anderson BETA NU JoAnn Grubbs McCormick BETA XI Rose Coyne Watt BETA RHO Lily Steinke Lancaster BETA TAU Miriam Wheeler Moons Julie Young Rolfes BETA UPSILON Rosemary Staropoli Connor GOLDEN VIOLET GAMMA DELTA Regina LaNew Senior GAMMA IOTA Edna Barker Baldwin GAMMA MU Gay Lynne Miles ETA THETA Ann Christine O’Del

Member badges are the property of Sigma Sigma Sigma Sorority. It is the responsibility of every initiated Sigma to see that the badge she wears is protected and never worn by or in the possession of a non-member. When a Tri Sigma enters Omega Chapter her badge may be buried with her or returned to the National Headquarters. A badge should never be sold by any means. The National Treasurer is the official custodian of Sigma Sigma Sigma badges.

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Significant Sigmas: Tiffany Prater, Alpha Chi

Kiersten Luther, Delta Chi

Tiffany Prater, Alpha Chi, and a 2003 graduate of Murray State University, has lived and worked in different states with 501(c)3 non-profit organizations. She has a Bachelor’s Degree in Dietetics (Nutrition), and a Master’s Degree in Organizational Leadership from Lewis University. Since her move to Florida, she has been an advisor for the Eta Epsilon chapter, has volunteered for Sigma on a Regional Support Team, and has joined the Sarasota/Manatee Counties Alumnae Chapter.

Kiersten Luther, Delta Chi, at the University of Virginia, was recently named as a winner of the prestigious Fulbright Scholarship.

She studied in the College of Arts and Sciences/Curry School of Education, majoring in German language and literature. She has always wanted to be a middle school or high school teacher of German. The opportunity to do that will happen in Berlin as a Fulbright Scholar. Kiersten’s hometown is Pittsburgh, PA, and she is presently living in Boston, MA.

She recently decided to participate in The World Race, starting in January 2011, which will take her to 11 different countries in 11 months. This is a faith-based organization, and being involved in this adventure has become very important to Tiffany. She has an interesting and informative website/blog that chronicles her decision to participate in this amazing journey. She asks for support from her friends, family, and Tri Sigma Sisters (www.tiffanyprater.theworldrace.org) as she embarks on this experience. There is a Facebook page dedicated to her World Race experience as well.

Kiersten joined Tri Sigma in the second semester of her sophomore year at UVA. She was active in the chapter, and was nominated in April 2010 by her chapter Sisters for the “Outstanding Contribution to the University” award, given to the woman who is believed to be the most involved outside of the sorority.

It meant a great deal to Kiersten to be recognized in this way.

Kiersten had studied abroad in the Spring of 2009 in Freiburg, Germany through IES. It was at that time that she learned about the Fulbright English Teaching assistantship program, allowing her to gain teaching experience as well as to positively represent the United States abroad. She is thrilled to have been awarded the scholarship, and has made her Delta Chi sisters very proud.

Kiersten can be reached at kiersten.luther@gmail.com.