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THE LEGACY OF

WAITE PHILLIPS Philbrook celebrates 75 years

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Features NOVEMBER 2013 ✻ VOLUME 28 / ISSUE 1

Scott Raffe

The formal gardens at the Philbrook Museum of Art. The rustic-looking pool was a swimming pool while the Phillips family lived at Villa Philbrook.

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An exercise in resolve

Gym owner Julie Courcier meets goal after goal, proving life is what you make of it. by JUDY LANGDON

The legacy of Waite Phillips

Seventy-five years after the Phillips family bequeathed Villa Philbrook to Tulsans, the Philbrook Museum of Art remains an evolving Tulsa treasure. by SCOTT WIGTON

Holiday fun checklist

No matter what type of yuletide event you’re in search of this season, Tulsa’s bound to have it. by JUDY LANGDON

COVER: Phillips at Villa Philmonte, near Cimarron, New Mexico. Courtesy of Philbrook Museum of Art.

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CityBeat 13 Shining bright A Tulsa program for children with special needs is named the top nonprofit in Oklahoma. 16 Passions Retired executive David Kyle reignites his lifelong love of art. 18 What it’s like For more than four years, a volunteer group has served meals to the homeless and at risk. 20 Storefront Fabric designer Ellen Medlock has built a hobby into a booming textile business. 22 Roots A theater producer turned cabaret singer returns to Tulsa this month for a special performance. 24 The way we were An architectural firm has restored an art deco structure on the edge of downtown. 26 Artist in residence Pianist Amy Cottingham can be heard tickling the ivories all over Tulsa. 28 Locker room ORU 6

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coach Scott Sutton is rapidly rising in the ranks of college basketball. 30 On the verge True north 32 At large True or ... purposeful malarkey?

The Good Life

63 His & hers A young couple perfectly blends masculine and feminine touches in their newly renovated and historic midtown home. 64 Home A midtown remodel blends 21st century design and function with existing character and charm. 72 My perfect weekend Winston Peraza, vice president/chief creative officer, Cubic Inc., shares his weekend hot spots. 78 Dining out Pepper’s Grill serves a varied menu of popular cuisines 35 years later. 80 Table talk New and noteworthy restaurants, plus a Thanksgiving dinner shortcut

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A painting by former ONEOK executive David Kyle

82 Wine Drink your dessert. 84 Senior living Finding the right living environment for your golden years

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113 Ready, set, glow The Neon Vibe 5K isn’t your average race. 114 Agenda This month’s standout events 116 Out & about See and be seen. 120 Benefits Fundraisers and fun happenings 122 The culturist Living Arts hosts two diverse events this month. 123 Tulsa sound All About a Bubble is recording its second pop-rock album. 124 Worth reading Two new works from OU Press are short, but absorbing. 128 The last word The learning curve

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limb function and appearance in trauma patients. There is no typical patient or solution; each requires a different approach. What are some of the newest treatments in plastic surgery? Today we are able to use biological materials in some very amazing ways. These materials are absorbed into the body and grow to regenerate skin, muscle and even bone. Development of this technology enables us to restore function and appearance for our patients in ways we could not imagine even five years ago. Why did you choose Warren Clinic? Warren Clinic offers an array of subspecialty care by a large group of excellent physicians. There is a cohesiveness between physicians and staff that I have not seen in other medical facilities. Being here means constantly challenging yourself to provide a higher level of patient care. It is precisely the right fit for me.

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From the editors by MORGAN PHILLIPS

ot just everyone installs a luminescent floor in their home. But Waite and Genevieve Phillips did. It’s not the art but that floor, located in the room formerly known as the south terrace, that I remember most from childhood field trips to Philbrook Museum of Art. When the docents would pull back the rug and light up the floor, I imagined what it would be like to dance there at a fancy party. Not just everyone can do that. Then again, not just everyone builds a 72-room mansion and later — 75 years ago this year — gives it away to the residents of Tulsa. But that’s what makes Philbrook’s story and the story of its benefactors so intriguing. In Contributing Editor Scott Wigton’s cover feature on p. 38, he delves into the legacy of Waite Phillips’ philanthropy, as well as his other properties: downtown’s Philcade and Philtower buildings, and Villa Philmonte in New Mexico, which the Phillipses donated to the Boy Scouts of America. Philbrook estimates Waite Phillips gave away more than $15 million in cash and in-kind gifts over his lifetime, a staggering amount in the first part of the 20th century. My Q&A with Phillips’ biographer Michael Wallis (p. 48) sheds some light on this generous man. Giving is celebrated elsewhere in this issue, from a group of volunteers who serve a meal to the homeless and at risk every Thursday night (p. 18) to The Little Light House, recently named the top nonprofit in Oklahoma for providing tuition-free services to children with special needs (p. 13). Also this month, Arts and Entertainment Editor Judy Langdon wraps up her “Overcoming the Odds” series with a profile on Tulsan Julie Courcier (p. 36), who has not let a birth defect stop her from becoming a successful athlete and entrepreneur. We also follow former ONEOK Chairman David Kyle to an art lesson, his newfound passion under the tutelage of Tulsa landscape artist Leonard Wren (p. 16). “Worth Reading” columnist Angie Jackson pens her final column on p. 124. After more than 16 years of writing for TulsaPeople about Tulsa’s literary scene, she has moved on to other pursuits. We wish her the best and look forward to seeing what she does next. Lastly, we’ve made it easy for you to get into the holiday spirit this month and next — whether here in Tulsa or on the road — with our holiday fun checklist (p. 50) and holiday travel feature (p. 74). Here’s wishing you a wonderful start to the 2013 holiday season, if you can believe it’s already upon us. I hope you find time to let down your hair and cut a rug, so to speak — even if your floor doesn’t light up. (Don’t let the last name fool you. Neither does mine.) tþ Senior Editor

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The story behind the story On talking hoops with Scott Sutton — DOUG EATON Scott Sutton is a basketball coach for whom I think most college players would want to play. The even demeanor and calm presence that he often exhibits on the coaching sidelines even carries over to a sitdown interview. (Full disclosure: I have been an Oral Roberts University basketball season ticket holder for 20-some years, so I have seen Sutton in action for virtually all his games in the Mabee Center.) While he may get excited and animated at the activity on the court, seldom does he display a loss of composure that many in his occupation often exhibit. In this day of constantly “moving up the coaching ladder,” Sutton is entering his 15th year at the ORU helm and says he is very happy where he is. Coaching rumors always fly in the off-season. In recent years, Sutton’s name has been linked to coaching jobs at Nebraska, Missouri, Texas Tech, Wichita State and others.

While these would be considered promotions to higher-visibility programs likely accompanied with significant increases in compensation, it is refreshing that Sutton places loyalty to ORU and family considerations above personal résumé building. A consistent message that one receives from talking to Sutton is that he values family. He talks of his fondness for and the wisdom of his father, longtime coach Eddie Sutton. He speaks highly of ORU assistant coach/older brother Sean and unconditionally supports Sean in his road back to a head coaching position. Sutton describes the ORU team environment as “family.” They say actions speak louder than words. His 14 years at ORU (the longest tenure of any Golden Eagles basketball coach) is refreshingly representative of the stability and loyalty he professes for ORU, its basketball team and his players.

On traveling our great state — STACY PETTIT As a newly married couple on a budget, my husband and I have had to think outside the box this past year to enjoy our downtime while counting our pennies. When others were packing their bags for tropical destinations, we hit the pavement in an effort to visit Oklahoma festivals or to scarf down that locally famous burger. When I was tasked to research and write about holiday celebrations and events throughout the state, I could not wait to see what Oklahoma had to offer. Of course, our great state and its charming towns did not

let me down. These cities and their businesses take the time over the holidays to focus on what brings out the character and true flavor of their communities. Whether it’s the 1,000-plus volunteers in Chickasha working to prepare for the Festival of Light display, or the growing excitement of the congregational choirs as they join together for the Thanksgiving Interfaith Service, Oklahomans seem to grow closer over the holidays to really make their communities shine.

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Shining bright A Tulsa program for children with special needs is named the top nonprofit in Oklahoma. by ANGELA EVANS

Jean Winfrey, executive director of The Little Light House, with student Maliyah Davis. The program is undergoing a capital campaign to expand its facility and double the number of children it serves.

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hen Rondalyn Abode’s daughter, Temple, didn’t walk until she was 27 months old and was having seizures every two weeks, Abode knew something was wrong. “No one could tell me why,” Abode says. “At the time, we didn’t even have a diagnosis for Temple.” Abode found out about a Tulsa program called The Little Light House that offered tuition-free educational and therapeutic services to children with special needs from birth to age 6. She immediately put Temple on its waiting list. A month later, Temple was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder called Partial Trisomy 18, characterized by having 2 1/2 extra chromosomes on chromosome 18. Now 6, Temple has been at The Little Light House since 2011. She was on the waiting list for two years, but once she began attending classes, the staff identified that she learned similarly to a child with autism. Using music as a teaching aid — a method that has long been effective when teaching autistic children — seems to resonate with Temple. “(The staff ) use songs and sign language, and now she’s picking up more words,” Abode says. “Because of that, we started to see more of Temple’s personality.” Abode isn’t the only one celebrating The Little Light House’s ability to create a vibrant, individualized learning environment. Each April, the Oklahoma Center for Nonprofits recognizes and honors the efforts of outstanding organizations across the state through its Oklahoma Nonprofit Excellence, or ONE, Awards. Not only did The Little Light House win the health services category, it also won Top Nonprofit. Out of more than 19,000 organizations statewide, it received the Charles Schusterman Award for Excellence and a grand prize of $10,000. “We were thrilled to honor The Little Light House,” says Marnie Taylor, president and CEO of the Oklahoma Center for Nonprofits. “The impact

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Rondalyn Abode says she is pleased with the progress of her children, Temple and Priest, since they began attending The Little Light House.

this nonprofit has on the community through improving the lives of Oklahoma’s children is invaluable and speaks to (the nonprofit’s) commitment to excellence.” Now in its fourth decade, The Little Light House has become a resource to parents who face the day-to-day obstacles of raising a child with conditions such as spina bifida, cerebral palsy or autism, or who have vision or hearing impairments. The program also sees children with a variety of rare diagnoses that present unique challenges. The center has eight classrooms, with no more than eight students per room. Along with a teacher, each student also has his or her own team of experts who personalize the learning experience and help tend to any of the child’s medical needs. “Over the past 41 years, we’ve

grown a lot from just having teachers in the classroom,” says Jean Winfrey, executive director of The Little Light House. “Therapists (who are all licensed, as well as teachers) include physical, occupational (and those focusing on) low vision; speech and language pathologists; (an) assistive technology specialist; and a registered nurse. Together, working with the educational staff, they make up the trans-disciplinary team.” The huge demand for these services translates to a two- to threeyear waiting period for acceptance. The program currently serves 64 children, but there are 145 on the waiting list. “The size of our center right now just can’t accommodate more students,” Winfrey says. “Having a larger facility will help shorten those wait lists, and we will be able to double

the number of children currently being served.” For this reason, The Little Light House is working on a capital campaign to expand, and building plans are “shovel ready,” Winfrey says. She says the program hopes to raise $24 million for the project and is halfway there. The expansion will include larger classrooms, an activities center, newer technologies and enlarged observation areas for those training in various fields. The Little Light House creates a customized learning environment for the children it serves, but by default it also creates an important educational and support component for their parents. No new parent is expecting the doctor to say their child has a condition, Winfrey explains. “No one prepares for that, so they are overwhelmed,” she says. Abode can attest to that. But when she and her husband began to notice some telltale developmental delays in their son, Priest, around 11 months, they already knew where to turn — The Little Light House. Priest was later diagnosed with autism. He began attending classes with his sister this fall and has surprised his mother with how quickly he is learning. “Priest started talking more almost immediately,” Abode says. “He went from 10 words ... to 25-30 words in three weeks. His teacher has a huge heart for helping kids communicate.” Next year, Temple will age out of the program. Though she has already been accepted to Carnegie Elementary, her family is still taking into consideration all of Temple’s options. Reflecting on her daughter’s progress, Abode says, “I think that The Little Light House has given Temple many things, but one of the most important is instilling a love for learning. “The staff at (The) Little Light House know that our children can not only learn, but they can continue to grow for the rest of their lives.” tþ

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PASSIONS

People, places and other things Tulsans love

Living the dream Retired executive David Kyle re-ignites his lifelong love of art. by MARNIE FERNANDEZ

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Artist Leonard Wren and pupil David Kyle at Wren’s studio in Owasso with Kyle’s painting, “Lone Pine at Pebble Beach.”

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book of matches ignited David Kyle’s interest in art at age 12. In those days, art schools advertised “talent tests” on the backs of matchbooks. A picture was on the front, with drawing directions on the inside. Kyle says his parents smoked, so he got fairly good at taking the tests. As it turned out, he had some talent. “They sent someone from the art school to visit me,” Kyle says. “I decided that I only wanted to draw when I wanted to, not when I had to, so I turned the offer down. But I have never stopped loving art and wanting to really try it someday.” Fast-forward several decades later, and the retired ONEOK chairman and CEO decided it was time to pursue his lifelong love of art. “A few years before I retired, I ran across this amazing painting of azaleas,” Kyle says. “I fell in love with it and found out it was by a local artist by the name of Leonard Wren.” Wren, a longtime Oklahoman, has painted for nearly 40 years. His work is in galleries and museums all over the world. “I actually fell into art later in life,” Wren says. “When I was a teenager, I used to pinstripe cars. I guess that’s how I got my start.” It wasn’t until his thirties that Wren decided to make a huge leap — from running a sign company to attending art school. In search of “something more exciting and meaningful,” he sold his business and researched schools all over the country. “I ended up at the Goetz Art School out of Oklahoma City,” Wren says. “It’s a small classically trained school that specializes in impressionism, and I spent one year there learning as much as I could from (artist and instructor) Richard Goetz.”

From there, Wren’s art career blossomed; his first solo gallery show at the Talisman Gallery in Bartlesville was a hit. After traveling and living on an island near Seattle for several years, Wren decided to move home to be closer to family. That’s how Kyle found him. “After I saw the azalea painting, I became a huge fan and followed Wren’s work,” Kyle says. “I have bought several of his paintings over the years. Leonard has this amazing ability to capture the energy of his surroundings. When I look at his paintings, I just feel good.”

After his retirement, Kyle sought out Wren to see if he was interested in having a student. That was more than two years ago. Kyle and Wren meet every Wednesday at Wren’s Owasso studio. In the process of learning and teaching, the two have become fast friends. “Not only am I living my dream of painting; I’m doing it with a new best friend,” Kyle says. In fact, the two are taking a 16-day trip to the Burgundy region of France just to paint. “It’s my favorite place in the world,” Wren says. “There is beauty every-

where you turn. This is David’s first time to go, and I’m excited to take him there.” Retirement seems to agree with Kyle. “I’m definitely loving it,” he says. “Now, my golf game may not be so great, but my painting is much better.” When asked about Kyle’s performance as a student, Wren answers with a sly smile. “Oh, he’s learned how to color in those numbers quite well.” The men laugh, then begin to paint. tþ

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Pass the compassion For more than four years, a volunteer group has served meals to the homeless and at risk. by LANE CLEGG

Are the dinners solely volunteer-driven? JUSTIN: Yep, it’s all volunteers. People that serve and provide the meals each week are from different churches. Over the course of the year, there are hundreds of volunteers. We have volunteers from Believer’s Church, St. Patrick’s, Christ Church, Life Church, Boiler Room and more. There are about 12-25 per week. How are the dinners served and funded? JUSTIN: Each group that provides the meal also funds the meal. ... Within their group or their church they have a committee that is based around providing for the Thursday night family barbecue. ... If there is a week that is unassigned, the (leadership) team takes over. Each week

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may not come every week, but they are there a lot. For example, there is a guy that came last Thursday and he hadn’t been there in two years. We also get some transients because we’re close to the bus station. How do you form relationships with the people you serve? JAMES: A lot of the churches that provide the meals spend their time serving and making the meals so that we (our team) can spend time talking and praying with the people.

The Thursday Night Light group, formerly known as the Owen Park Outreach Group, serves a weekly meal to those in need. Ben Wade, founding member Tim, and Lenore and Arnie Butay are volunteers with the group. Merritt’s Bakery donates doughnuts. That’s been going on for a couple of years. JAMES: We’ve had a little bit of assistance from John 3:16 at Thanksgiving, too. Speaking of John 3:16, aren’t there already several downtown ministries that provide meals to Tulsa’s homeless? JAMES: Yes, there are many, but the need is great. This ministry gets local churches involved, thereby giving “average” Christians around the city a venue to serve Christ in his poorest children. It changes all who come down and join in the group. It changed me. How has attendance grown since the meals began? TIM: The first summer we were probably in the 20-30 range at the most.

TIM: We’re set up on picnic tables so there are about six to eight people at each table. We have “circle time,” and we spend time in the circle talking and praying about what God has done for them during the week. Evan Taylor

n May 2009, a group of men in a discipleship program had a weekly tradition: dinner together every Thursday. Dining downtown on one such evening, they met one of Tulsa’s homeless. When they didn’t have what the homeless man asked them for — money — they invited him to their next meal. They decided to meet at Owen Park, and with that, an even larger tradition grew out of their small one. Since then, a group of volunteers has provided a meal for the Tulsa homeless and at risk every Thursday. The group has grown and its location has changed — to the First Baptist Caring Center at East Third Street and South Detroit Avenue — but it has the same mission: to enjoy friends and to seek Christ in their work. Tim, Justin and James Patrick* are volunteers with the Thursday Night Light group.

We’ve had as many as 180 people at the park. JUSTIN: Now that we’re downtown, the average is 140. Who attends the dinners? JAMES: It’s not just (the) homeless; it’s also (the) working poor. There aren’t a lot of people with vehicle transportation. But this isn’t just about feeding them. It’s about making friendships and relationships and helping them grow in Christ. A lot of times that happens one on one. In fact, it always happens one on one. A lot of times they’re pretty untrusting, and a lot of them are connecting with us because we are consistently there every week and have been for years now. Do the same people come each week? JAMES: There is a core group. They

What is your focus for the next few years? TIM: Just individual people. We love to see it when their lives turn around and they get into homes and they get jobs. The flip side of that, too ... it’s really good for the churches that come, as well. We’ve seen people’s lives transform coming out to volunteer. JUSTIN: There is no expectation. ... We’re not going down there to change people. Change is in the hands of Christ, not in ours. If nothing ever changes, we’ll still be there this and every Thursday loving and fellowshipping with our friends. tþ

EDITOR’S NOTE: Dinners are every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. All are welcome. Those interested in volunteering can contact tulsaokoutreach@gmail.com. In October, the group began a small service prior to each meal at 6 p.m. *Last names withheld for privacy.

Col. Powell’s Dream Becomes Reality for Military History

We salute Col. Robert Powell on the attainment of his dream. The Military History Museum is important. Our American men and women in uniform are the bearers of a proud military history that has been passed forward— generation to generation—for more than two centuries. Veteran’s Day is our annual opportunity to respectfully honor our veterans and commemorate their profound service and sacrifice in defense of our nation and America’s ideals. We proudly salute these men and women on November 11th… and every day.”

Henry presents a painting of the “Sea Poacher,” the submarine on which he served in the 1960’s, to Col. Robert Powell. Col. Powell’s dream to have a permanent home for the Military History Museum is now a reality. The “new” museum is open at 112 North Main Street in Broken Arrow. Col. Powell, USAF (Ret.), age 91, founded the non-profit MHM in 2001 in Tulsa to “promote patriotism through the preservation of military history.” The museum’s impressive collection is designed to enrich the honor and pride in serving one’s country. The museum will have a “soft” opening on November 9th from 11:00 a.m. till 4 p.m.

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Prints charming Fabric designer Ellen Medlock has built a hobby into a booming textile business. by BRITT GREENWOOD

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Ellen Medlock at her Studio Store, located at 10032 S. Sheridan Road. She began designing fabric more than a decade ago. In late October, Medlock presented the CharmVille line and products to wholesalers and retailers at the Houston show. She and her team of two employees designed their booth around the new looks. “There is no limit to what I will do to make our booth the cutest and most colorful,” Medlock says, and after a visit to the Studio Store, one would not doubt it. She describes the 19-piece CharmVille collection theme as “a charming village of quirky houses.” “I wanted something different, with graphics that told a story,” she says of the concept behind her line. Some of the CharmVille products Medlock released at market are a cut-out panel for pillow making and

“Counting 1, 2, 3,” a fabric book for babies. Tulsans can visit Medlock’s Studio Store to purchase fabric and readymade bags, notecards and jewelry, along with crafting, quilting and bag-making kits for those who need a little DIY help. The shop also has a station where customers can drop in to create projects with help from the staff, and classes in sewing, quilting and accessory making also are available. Visit www.ellenmedlockstudio.com for a class schedule. tþ

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harmVille,”Ellen Medlock’s new line of fabric designs releasing this month, appropriately describes her south Tulsa shop. Cheerful fabrics and other products appear throughout what Medlock calls her “Studio Store,” where she designs and sells her wares and prepares them for shipping. They are entirely her creations and are found in fabric and quilt shops worldwide. The Studio Store has been open for little more than a year, but the Ellen Medlock Studio brand began inside her home a decade ago. “We ran out of living space in our home,” Medlock says of the reason for her newfound storefront. “It was time to spread our wings and leave the nest.” Her interest in fabric began 11 years ago with a single tote bag she designed and created for her daughter, who was 15 at the time. That was when the soon-to-be entrepreneur “became intrigued by the whole idea of it.” Soon, other Tulsans began ordering bags from Medlock, and she recalls the moment her hobby became a business: “A local quilt shop owner asked me to write the sewing pattern for the bags I was making and selling around Tulsa — that was the tipping point. I realized that developing my own original textile designs would allow me to offer a completely unique product.” Ambition, strengthened by a degree from Oklahoma State University where she studied art and interior design, has helped her business grow beyond Tulsa into global markets. This includes exhibiting at the International Quilt and Market Festival in Houston each fall and rotating her travel to other cities in the spring.

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Checking in with former Tulsans

Harold Sanditen The theater producer turned cabaret singer returns to Tulsa for a special performance. by BRADLEY MORRIS Vital stats: Grew up in Tulsa; attended Memorial High School. Did undergraduate work at Arizona State University; earned an MBA from the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School. Worked as an investment banker in New York before moving to London. Now: Having left a successful, 20year career producing theater in London, Sanditen is a cabaret singer with a new CD. He also was recently cast in a new musical.

How does a Penn-educated Tulsa kid end up in London? I came to London for love and stayed here for love, but with a different person. I didn’t really like what I was doing investment banker-wise, so when I got the opportunity to come here, it was easy to leave it. I came over here on spec, really. I set up shop as a theater producer — something I’d never done before. I fell in with a group of North Americans — actors and singers and people who were just trying to showcase their talents — and one production led to another, and the rest is history. How did you go from producing theater to singing? I had a good friend at the Wharton School. We met through the Wharton Follies, which was kind of a variety show. When I was in New York in about 2006 producing a one-woman show I had commissioned, I went to see

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Harold Sanditen calls his new album (below) “a cool mesh of jazz-cabaret.” He released his first album, “Taking Flight,” in November 2010. (the friend’s cabaret) show. ... That sort of gave me the opportunity to see that maybe there was a way for me to fit into the world of singers. Cabaret is somewhat theatrical — there’s usually a theme or an emotional arc, so it’s kind of related to theater. Singing is something I’d always wanted to do, but I didn’t have the confidence. Are your successes as a producer and those as a singer at all comparable? It’s different sorts of success. I think I had bigger and more visible successes as a theater producer, but things are starting to happen in London with a weekly open mic gig I have at the Crazy Coqs, which is probably the hottest music room in London. It helps put me on the map, even though it’s not for my own show.

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When you left Tulsa for college, did you plan to return? I don’t think I ever really wanted to go back to Tulsa. Not that I hated it, but I don’t think I ever thought I was going to live in Tulsa. But when I left to go out into the world, I don’t think I ever thought I’d go this far afield.

When you’re doing an open mic night, you sing a song at the beginning and possibly one at the end, and maybe one in the middle, but the rest of it is emceeing the show and talking to the singers that come to the stage. It’s not all about me, but it’s giving me visibility and helps build audiences and my career. People ask me why I stopped producing theater, or if I ever want to go back to it. But everything I do when I’m doing my cabaret show is the same sort of thing you do in producing a theater show. The difference is that I’m not dealing with a commodity. I’m dealing with me. Dealing with divas can be difficult, but I know how this diva is going to act. What’s on your plate now? I’m doing CD launch performances for “Shades of Blue: Live at The Pheas-

antry, London,” which came out in August. Also, I’m doing a musical for the first time since high school — it’s called “Café Society Swing.” I’m doing that in November for one performance, and then we’re doing two at Christmastime, and there’s a chance that it might go to New York at the end of next year. And then I’m premiering a brandnew show here before I come to Tulsa. ... Because it’s called “Full Circle,” I feel like there’s a little bit of a Tulsa element to it. There’s a Leon Russell song called “Bluebird” that was made very popular by a singer called Helen Reddy. That song was a very upbeat song, and it felt very happy, but the lyrics were about something very sad. These are not really Top 40 songs. They’re songs that I feel like I can put my own spin on. Is your return to Tulsa just another gig, or are you looking forward to it? Are you kidding? I’m so excited. I’ve been wanting to play Tulsa since I started singing, but wasn’t sure of what the right venue was. When I was there this past March, I went to see Cynthia Simmons at the Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame and thought that was a perfect place for me to play. When I got back to London, I got in touch right away, and that’s how this came about. I’m so excited to play Tulsa. My God, it’s the excitement of my year. tþ

The Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame presents “Harold Sanditen: Shades of Blue” on Nov. 30. Tickets are $15; or $40 for a VIP table ticket, which includes an autographed CD; and are available at www.myticketoffice.com.

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A peek into Tulsa’s past

A gem on Boulder An architectural firm has restored an art deco structure on the edge of downtown.

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Boulder on the Park has been home to a school, a cartography business, a local broadcasting company (as in the undated photo above), an engineering firm and, now, an architectural firm.

cross the street from Veterans Park, formerly Boulder Park, the neat three-story building at 1850 S. Boulder Ave. is a perfect example of Tulsa’s art deco architecture. It’s only fitting an architectural firm has restored the early Tulsa structure and makes its home there. Father and son architects Charles A. Sanderson and Roy Wesley Sanderson constructed the building for Holland Hall School in 1922. Tulsa oilmen Waite Phillips, W.G. Skelly and George S. Bole helped fund the project, according to the Tulsa Preservation Commission. The building originally included nine classrooms, a shop, a gym, an auditorium, offices and a science lab. Holland Hall left in 1932 to build a larger campus. In 1938, Aero Exploration Co., an aerial cartography business, purchased the building and operated there until CBS affiliate KTUL Radio

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and Tulsa Broadcasting Co. took ownership in the late 1940s. KTUL broadcast on 1430 AM from its South Boulder Avenue studios from 1947-1955. It was KTUL that dubbed the structure “Boulder on the Park.” The station renovated the building in 1948, but it became vacant after 1955 and fell into disrepair. In 1957 Holway Engineering Co. purchased and occupied the building until 1974. It remained vacant until 1977 when it was converted into commercial office space. Today, Boulder on the Park houses architectural firm The McIntosh Group. “Susie Woody and I bought the building (from Pan Western Energy) in the fall of 2000 for our two companies’ offices, and we renovated the building together and collaborated on the design,” says Lanny McIntosh, the firm’s founder. Woody, an interior designer, has

since sold her half of the building to McIntosh, who now owns the building with his wife, Becki. Shortly after purchasing the building, McIntosh and Woody found a photo from its KTUL renovation in which art moderne elements had been added and the exterior painted. They used the photo and some physical clues that were discovered during the renovation process as a blueprint for their restoration. “The art moderne-ization happened in 1947-ish when the Vitrolite*, glass block, turquoise tile, metal canopy and paint were added,” McIntosh says. Some time after that, the tile was painted over, a stair tower was added, and the Vitrolite and metal canopy were broken off and covered up. “We were lucky to find a company in St. Louis who had enough of the Vitrolite to restore it (by stripping the

paint) exactly as it had been,” he says. Besides matching the façade color to its original cool blue, the firm also restored the building’s stair tower; replaced all the major mechanical, electrical and plumbing systems; and gutted the interior to make it more open and take advantage of light from the windows. The building was listed in the National Register of Historic Places on Sept. 3, 2003. “The building is a wonderful art deco gem,” says Amanda DeCort, preservation planner for the City of Tulsa. Thanks to some Tulsans who appreciated Boulder on the Park’s potential, it now shines as brightly as it once did. tþ

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Keys to success Pianist Amy Cottingham can be heard tickling the ivories all over Tulsa. by JUDY LANGDON fidence, efficiency, leadership and preparation. Composition in some ways is the most difficult and challenging thing I do because it requires the entirety of my attention, my heart and soul, my silence, honesty, surrender, discipline. It is also the most fulfilling, humbling, exciting process. Creating music asks everything of me, and gives me the whole world in return.

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What about teaching? Teaching is amazing. I love my students dearly. It is a privilege to be able to work with people one on one on a weekly basis, in my home, developing relationships with them and their families over the years, and to watch them grow. It’s fun, it’s real, it’s humbling.

Amy Cottingham performs regularly at several Tulsa venues. She plans to release an album this spring.

ention musician Amy Cottingham’s name and most people automatically think, “She’s the jazz lady.” After all, Cottingham has made a name for herself as a regular performer at the Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, the Signature Symphony and Tulsa Symphony Orchestra. But the down-to-earth, award-winning pianist also is a composer, music transcriber, arranger, orchestra conductor, teacher and recording artist. She is recording her most recent compositions and plans to release an album this spring. TulsaPeople recently visited with Cottingham to find out how she keeps up her dizzying musical balancing act.

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You began your music studies at a young age. Tell us about that. Even though my mother put me in violin and piano lessons at the age of 3, she had to stay on top of me to practice every day until I was 11 or 12 years old. At that point, she says I came to her one day and announced three things: that she would no longer have to make me practice, that I was going to be very good at the piano and that I had chosen to no longer be shy. The main thing that gave me the vision to carry this through was all the concerts and performances Mom took me to growing up. I started thinking, concert after concert, “I can do that. I want to do that. I must do that.”

How old were you when you composed your first song? I was 14 when I composed my first song, although I (had) arranged music since the age of 11. My first composition was for solo piano, entitled “The Dawning of a New Day.” I named it that because I knew I was entering the world of composing. As a musician, which talent do you consider most challenging? Transcribing is the easiest thing for me, and fun. Arranging can be fun but mostly just leaves me wanting to compose my own music instead of arranging other people’s music. Conducting came naturally in some ways, but (I) had a huge learning curve when it came to issues of con-

How and when did you meet British vocalist Chris Middlebrook, and how has that experience shaped your career? I have worked with Chris Middlebrook for five or six years now. He’s a blast; extremely creative and talented. We perform at a variety of events, mainly from the musical repertoire. I also collaborate with violinist Michelle Sherman for weddings and violinist Ronnamarie Jensen for tango dances. Where can Tulsans catch you performing jazz during the holidays and in early 2014? I perform jazz, classical, tangos, rags, popular music and original pieces mainly at private parties, corporate events, arts events, weddings, receptions and at the Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame. ... They have concerts every Sunday, featuring local musicians as well as touring artists. tþ

EDITOR’S NOTE: Interview condensed and edited.

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Getting to know Tulsa’s top athletes and coaches

Scott Sutton The ORU coach is rapidly rising in the ranks of college basketball. by DOUG EATON

Including your father, Eddie (804 victories); brother Sean (39); and you (270), you three have recorded 1,113 victories at Division-I schools — the most victories for a father/son coaching combination. Your thoughts? Yes, that’s all thanks to my dad (laughing). But I’ve been very fortunate to have the tenure that I’ve had and to coach here and be able to build our own program. It’s no secret. You still need good assistant coaches and good players. The assistant coaches are invaluable in going out and recruiting good players. That’s the key. What has been your coaching highlight so far? It would have to be the three times we won the conference tournament and advanced

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to describe the impact is it is different. It’s all new. It is not just the teams, but the cities — how you travel, hotels, where to eat, things like that. Getting to know the new surroundings and getting to know the league and the new coaches has also been a big adjustment.

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eing the son of a Hall of Fame basketball coach can definitely be an advantage, but Scott Sutton has proven over his 14 years at Oral Roberts University that he has evolved into an accomplished head coach in his own right. Entering his 15th season at ORU, Sutton is the winningest coach in school history, amassing 270 victories. Under his direction, ORU has enjoyed 12 consecutive winning seasons. Additionally, Sutton has guided the Golden Eagles to seven 20-win seasons, three Mid-Continent Conference regular season titles, two Summit League regular season titles, one Mid-Continent Conference tournament championship, two Summit League tournament championships, three NCAA tournament appearances and two trips each to the National Invitational Tournament and the College Insider Tournament. TulsaPeople spoke with Sutton prior to an early season practice.

Facing a new league with one of the youngest teams in America, Sutton guided the 2012-13 ORU basketball team to a third-place finish in the Southland Conference and a second consecutive 20-win season. to the NCAA tournament. That’s what you strive for and that’s always our No. 1 goal each year. There’s nothing like playing in the tournament and hearing your team name announced on Selection Sunday. Plus, the win against Kansas would make the top four wins for us. How would you describe your coaching philosophy? Off the floor, I think it’s important to develop a family atmosphere. We treat our players, managers and all of our staff like family. We care for all our staff; more than just players. On the floor, my philosophy is simple — play good defense, take good shots and don’t turn the ball over — and you have a chance to be in most games. That is what we always try to do. What about the dynamic of having your older brother, Sean, at your side as an assistant coach? Our

relationship is great. Some people looking from the outside may think that a younger brother being over an older brother could be an issue, but nothing could be farther from the truth. It’s been a blessing. Sean is a professional. Basketball has been a big part of his life. He always knew he wanted to be a coach, and he does a great job. I think he’ll get another opportunity to be a head coach. How have college athletes — at least basketball players — changed through the years? Players today probably feel more entitled than those in the past. Kids today are more impatient; they seem to want instant gratification. Many think they will come in and immediately become a superstar. How has the move to the Southland Conference (in July 2012) impacted you and the ORU basketball program? The best way

With your success, you have had opportunities to move to take charge of other programs. What has kept you at ORU and in Tulsa? Tulsa is just a great place to live. We have been so fortunate to be here now for 18 years. This is where my wife is from and the kids love their school. I love this job. I work for a great man in Mike Carter, our A.D. I read a long time ago that you don’t mess with happiness. And we’re really happy here. tþ

Scott Sutton’s coaching résumé 1995 — Named administrative assistant on ORU basketball staff 1999 — Named ORU head coach 2002 — Mid-Continent Conference Coach of the Year 2005 — National Association of Basketball Coaches District 12 Co-coach of the Year 2007 — Clair Bee National Coach of the Year finalist 2008 — Summit League Coach of the Year 2011 — Became winningest ORU coach with his 215th win 2012 — Summit League Coach of the Year

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ON THE VERGE

A fresh look at developments, news and issues facing Tulsa NUMBERS

Females for freedom by LAUREN RUTHERFORD

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The Oklahoma Women Veterans Organization recognizes the contributions and sacrifices Oklahoma’s female veterans have made in defense of our nation since the Civil War. Its mission is to communicate and network within the organization and with other Oklahoma veteran groups to inform members of female veterans’ affairs and VA medical services available to them. Today, nearly all military career options are open to women, says Ret. Master Sgt. Christina Smith, U.S. Army, Tulsa chapter president. Women have commanded ships, flown jets, led a 5,000-personnel wing squadron, and served in the most senior leadership positions. The Navy plans to pave the way for women to become SEALs. “What were dreams to us are today’s realities for women serving in the Armed Forces,” Smith says. “They now have all the opportunities to try, go forward and to lead.”

here’s no shortage of debate about the role of religion in education. But where it’s difficult to paint the subject with a broad brush, it’s easy to see that north Tulsa’s new EduRec (Education/Recreation) center, the brainchild of the Rev. Melvin Cooper of World Won for Christ Family Life Ministries, is a good thing, regardless of politics and personal opinions. Advertised as a “youth and family fun center,” EduRec at 5424 N. Madison Ave. offers tools for academic needs, such as a computer lab, and for physical education, such as its soon-toopen fitness center. It also offers access to a fully loaded arcade and a food court. After more than five years of conceptualizing and planning, EduRec opened this past spring in the 53,000-square-foot building formerly home to Wiley Post Elementary School and the YWCA. “We hope (EduRec) will help families, strengthen the community and teach children that if you work hard, you get to play hard,” Cooper says. Targeting an audience on the lower end of the socioeconomic spectrum, the center aims to broaden the worldview of a demographic with limited access to technology. EduRec provides five levels of computer education, ranging from Internet basics to workshops in digital video and photography. These classes are free and available to all ages. One can’t see the great work being done at EduRec and the dedicated people behind it without wondering why the need for a center such as this is so great to begin with. Some may see this as a triumph of private sector ingenui-

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EduRec Executive Director Charles Harper, Vice President Joyce Cooper and the Rev. Melvin Cooper, CEO. The north Tulsa activity center for youth and families opened mid-year. ty. I see this and think of the report released in September that announced our state’s per-pupil spending dropped $810 from 2008-2014. Oklahoma ranks No. 1 in the nation in education funding cuts since the beginning of the 2008 recession. The actions of the dedicated citizens behind EduRec should ideally complement the public school system, not act as a tourniquet. Until the city and state can be compelled to provide more financial resources, we can be grateful for the work of Cooper and the EduRec team. They saw a need and came up with a solution. But let’s be realistic. EduRec, no matter the scope of its impact, can’t provide a wholesale change to the economic and social plight facing a large swath of north Tulsa. The real changes

must come from our leaders, concerned parties in the area, and the great majority of Tulsans who don’t live there and think of north Tulsa as a foreign land. That is, if they think of it at all. We see a lot of “Progress as Promised” signs around town, usually in proximity to the latest road construction. I appreciate a pothole being fixed and a new lane every now and then, but the real progress we need can’t be fixed with asphalt. tþ

EDITOR’S NOTE: In 2014, Jeff Martin will try various Tulsans’ jobs for a day and write about the experiences in a new column,“In Their Shoes.” Send job ideas for Martin to contactus@ tulsapeople.com.

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woman has been inducted into the Oklahoma Military Hall of Fame: Ret. Maj. Gen. Rita Aragon, U.S. Air Force, in 2012. Aragon also is the first woman to hold the position of Oklahoma Secretary of Military and Veterans’ Affairs.

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Overheard While the rabbi was changing into his ceremonial robe for the evening service, a congregant asked, “Where’s the rabbi?” “Putting on his cape,” said the woman at the front desk. And we were so looking forward to another month of snarky comments about how our storm-related debris still hadn’t been picked up when ... it was picked up. Parting words from our favorite bookseller, Joanie Stephenson, whose 66-year business, Steve’s Sundry Books & Magazines, will close permanently on New Year’s Eve: “Never bring your Kindle to a book signing. Authors hate that.” Dumb Criminal of the Month A Tulsa woman tried stealing the same necklace from Walmart ... twice. I know. From Walmart, right? According to police, the alleged thief was caught attempting to steal the $30 piece. Then, while she was held by store personnel, she “stole” it again when, inexplicably, it was placed close enough for her to shove it into her pocket. Oh, just give her the damn necklace already. “Your honor, we’d like to call God to the witness stand.” Insisting the Affordable Care Act is a “government scheme,” four Oklahoma Christian universities are suing the feds, claiming, among other things, that Obamacare will force them to provide the “morning-after” pill, which university spokespeople believe induce abortions. For the record, the “morning-after pill” does not. It delays or inhibits ovulation; RU 486 induces abortion. THEY ARE NOT THE SAME DRUG! We continue.

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Ups and downs  … Tulsa Police Chief Chuck Jordan for — well, let him tell you.

“I cannot apologize for the actions, inaction and dereliction that those individual officers and their chief exhibited during that dark time,” Jordan said at John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park. “But as your chief today, I can apologize for our police department. I am sorry and distressed that the Tulsa Police Department did not protect its citizens during those tragic days in 1921.”

Good on him — very good on him. Give him another .

 … George Kaiser. Just look around. … State Insurance Commissioner John Doak for releasing a study  on Obamacare, which talked of humongous rate increases but failed to include, among other things, federal subsidies that will offset those increases. Asked why the subsidies weren’t included in the calculation, Doak’s spokesperson said, “It’s basically impossible because you’re comparing apples to oranges.” Yeah ... and truth to fiction.

Senior counsel for the plaintiffs, Gregory S. Baylor, said, “You must either comply and abandon your religious freedom and conscience. ... If religious convictions mean nothing in this context, there is no stopping what the government can ultimately do.” Oh, knock it off. Allowing a Presbyterian bookkeeper in the bursar’s office to be reimbursed for emergency contraception does not lead us to Golgotha. And this from Oklahoma Wesleyan University President Everett Piper: “We are filing suit because we believe God is God and the government is not.” That’s why you’re filing suit? Oy. I think you underestimate drunk, redneck Okies. Tulsa’s Bartlett Square will be getting its — let’s

see — 879th design change when a new low-profile decorative platform is placed at the center of the traffic circle at East Fifth and South Main streets. The previous structure was boarded up after a driver, well, drove through it. Now, unlike that design, which came with two stacked water bowls, the new fountain features nine LED-infused water jets with two 4-inch shelves 27 feet in diameter. “If, by chance, some drunk, redneck Okie decided to take their pickup over the top of it,” said Downtown Coordinating Council Manager Tom Baker, “it won’t damage the fountain.” I’ll give it a month. I’d rather gargle Clorox than stay in this marriage, but, fine, if I have to watch the tape, I’ll watch the tape. Sen. Rob Standridge, R-Norman, wants to reduce Oklahoma’s

high divorce rate by requiring mandatory counseling before a couple can actually file for one. “For Oklahoma,” he says, “I think something very simple to begin with, maybe a 30-minute piece on reconciliation.” Yeah, that’ll work. Rule 71 Satisfaction only really comes from a customer service agent’s supervisor’s supervisor. The only thing that stops a guy with a grenade is, well, often, the guy himself. A Tulsa man, trying to make a homemade explosive device, blew off his fingers when he tried — I don’t know — to “ert” an inert grenade. Cops believe the man was using black powder when a spark ignited the device, causing him to lose some fingers. “Black powder is slow burning, so if it had been the actual powder that is used for grenades, he’d be dead,” said Sgt. Steve Stoltz — you know, just in case anyone was thinking, “Dayum, if that were me in that predicament, I’d just use actual grenade powder.” You didn’t really ask this, did you? A Tulsa World subhead on Sept. 22: “Why is it important for OSU to avoid NCAA probation?” tþ

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he 1991 Freedom Bowl champion football team, baseball All-American Phil Honeycutt and soccer stars Huynh Bui and Amy Edwards are the 2013 inductees into The University of Tulsa Athletic Hall of Fame. The athletes were honored at the recent induction gala at the Lorton Performance Center and during halftime at the TU-Colorado State football game. This year’s Honor Team, the 1991 Freedom Bowl champions, posted a 10-2 record as an independent and claimed a 28-17 victory over San Diego State in the Freedom Bowl. The team, led by Head Coach Dave Rader, finished the season ranking 21st nationally in Associated Press and USA Today/CNN polls. Honeycutt (1969-71) was a baseball All-American for the Golden Hurricane and helped TU reach the College World Series twice in 1969 and 1971. He batted .331 in his college career with nine homeruns and 53 RBIs. He was the second leading hitter (.353) on TU’s 39-5 team that finished in second place at the 1969 College World Series. Bui (1980-83) is considered the first great player in TU’s storied soccer tradition. He was a member of the university’s first soccer team in 1980 and scored 86 career points on 33 goals and 19 assists. He led scoring in 1980 and 1981. Edwards (1988-91) was a four-year letter-winner and starter for the TU women’s soccer team. She later became the school’s head soccer coach. She completed her playing career with 71 points on 30 goals and 11 assists to rank in the schools Top 10 for career points, goals and assists. She coached the TU team for four years, compiling a 47-25-6 record.

ielsen’s will celebrate the 67th anniversary of the original opening of its 3515 S. Peoria Ave. store on Nov. 11. The gift shop, opened by Dorothy and Arthur Nielsen in 1946, was a pioneering enterprise that helped spark the development of Brookside. After being closed for many years, the original store was reopened by Andrea Nielsen, daughter of the founders, on the 65th anniversary of its inaugural opening on 11/11/11. “The store was established in two rooms and the enclosed porch of a small pink and lavender house,” Nielsen says, “and our family lived in an attractive apartment in the rear of the house. One can still see the original roofline of the house from the parking lot behind the store.” In addition to the Brookside store, Nielsen’s operates a second store at 8138-A S. Lewis Ave. in The Plaza Shopping Center. Nielsen’s takes pride in offering Tulsa shoppers unique and unexpected gift and décor items from acclaimed designers such as Nambe, Lladro, Waterford, Kinzig, Julia Knight, Simon Pearce and Julie Voss. The store will celebrate its anniversary by hosting its annual Waterford signing event from 10 a.m.5 p.m., Nov. 9, at the Plaza location. “When our customers walk into our stores, they expect to see items that are interesting and extraordinary — things that inspire and wow them,” Nielsen says. “If a product does not have a timeless, museum-quality design, we simply will not carry it at Nielsen’s.”

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An exercise in resolve Gym owner Julie Courcier meets goal after goal, proving life is what you make of it.

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Julie Courcier never stops.

She knits. She hikes. She goes fishing with her husband of 21 years, Mark. She trains for and runs major marathons around the world. She also is the co-owner of a popular Tulsa “boot camp” called Fitness Protection Program, where she teaches exercise to a bustling membership. And she does it all with one fully formed arm. “People with two arms ask me all the time how I do everything with only one,” says the 45-year-old businesswoman. “I don’t know how I would do it any other way, because it is the only way I know how.” A birth defect called congenital amputation left Courcier with a partial left arm that ends just below her elbow. It is a condition in which amniotic bands wrap around a limb in utero, cutting off the limb’s blood supply. As a child, Courcier remembers her pediatrician insisting she wear a prosthesis with a hook throughout grade school (“which I hated,” she says), and she was teased by some of her peers, “who just didn’t understand,” she says. But by the time she hit junior high, the determined young woman was a cheerleader and played tennis, softball, soccer and the trumpet. Courcier grew up in Kansas and Missouri and moved as a teen to Tahlequah, where she attended high school and later earned two bachelor’s degrees (in business administration and marketing) at Northeastern State University. After moving to Tulsa, where she met her husband, Courcier began her 25-year retail career as a cashier at Walmart. In a speed contest among her fellow cashiers at the store, she nailed first place. She later worked her way up to become northeastern Oklahoma district manager for Bath & Body Works.

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In her early 30s, Courcier became involved in the “I CAN” support group for parents of children with congenital amputations. She and other adult amputees answer online questions for parents.

Around that time, Courcier says she noticed herself gaining weight. She started running, but after an overuse injury, her chiropractor recommended she try cross training. She tried a boot camp program and loved it, she says. So much so, she became a certified fitness instructor. Then, “the opportunity arose for me to open a gym and studio” with co-trainer Kasey Kellough — and they did it this past January. Fitness Protection Program, located at 2605 S. Memorial Drive, just reached 110 members, doubling its space this past summer — a growth “way beyond our dreams,” Courcier says. She

and Kellough rotate to teach nine boot camp classes a day, between them. All participants fall between ages 12 and 55. Most participants — who the gym owners asked to name the business through a voting process — are women in their late 20s, though about 10 percent are men. “We strive to provide a sense of feeling and belonging and (a) place to make connections here,” Courcier says. Despite Courcier’s professional success, she has often encountered curiosity — and sometimes, insensitivity — about her birth defect. Courcier was working at the Disney store when an inquisitive child asked about her arm. “I told him, ‘Well, this is the way God made me,’” Courcier recalls. A woman standing nearby heard Courcier’s reply and said, “No, that’s not right. God doesn’t make mistakes.” Courcier says she responded calmly to the woman, “Ma’am, that is a rude thing to say. I will not be helping you today.” She asked another employee to assist the woman, then walked away. But Courcier doesn’t let such reactions get her down. “We are who we are because of our circumstances,” she says. The Courciers make their home in Broken Arrow with their two dogs. On a typical day, Julie is up at 3:10 a.m. and starts with a run “to get my day going,” then heads to her studio. Her first classes begin at 5 a.m. They are Monday through Friday and Saturday, lasting 40 minutes each. As a longtime runner, Courcier says one of her goals in her 30s was to compete in a marathon. She ran her first one, the Route 66 Marathon, in November 2009. “To qualify for some marathons ... you must run a qualifying marathon in a certain amount of time,” she says, adding that qualification typically takes eight to 12 weeks of preparation.

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The legacy of Waite Phillips

Waite Phillips, 1933

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Seventy-five years after Waite and Genevieve Phillips bequeathed Villa Philbrook to Tulsans, the Philbrook Museum of Art remains an evolving treasure. by SCOTT WIGTON

Waite, Helen Jane, Elliott and Genevieve Phillips on the east terrace, 1931

“Real philanthropy consists of helping others, outside our own family circle, from whom no thanks is expected or required.” — from “Waite Phillips Epigrams”

t was 1926 and Waite Phillips, a former Iowa farm boy, had achieved his dream. Like his older brothers before him, Frank and L.E. (of Phillips Petroleum fame), Waite had struck it big in the oil patch, filling his coffers with cash about as fast as the oil gushed out of the Oklahoma earth. A year earlier, he had sold his oil company to a New York investment firm for a cool $25 million (adjusted for inflation, that’s about $331 million today). So, what does a fabulously wealthy and relatively young man (he was in his early 40s) with a cultured and elegant wife do? He makes a massive and unequivocal statement of his success and status, of course. Thus was born in 1927 Villa Philbrook, a spectacular Italian Renaissance-style estate for which no expense was spared.

Costing about $1.2 million at the time (about $15.7 million today), Philbrook became a 72-room masterpiece of a mansion sitting atop 23 manicured acres that included formal gardens and reflecting pools. Designed by architect Edward Buehler Delk (with generous input from his patron), Philbrook’s scale and grandeur were like nothing the young oil boomtown had seen before. Yes, it was quite a statement. And yet, for all its splendor, Philbrook would be home to Phillips and his wife, Genevieve, along with their two children, Elliott and Helen Jane, for just over a decade. By 1938, the restless tycoon — who had spent his teens adventuring west across the plains and mountains with his twin brother, Wiate, never staying too long anywhere — was ready for a change, even if his wife was not. TulsaPeople.com

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Villa Philbrook entrance, 1930s

The original entrance to Villa Philbrook, present day

A place of art and atmosphere

Accustomed to having things his way, Phillips persuaded his wife to part with her beloved palazzo in a decision that would both stun the city and create a legacy that continues to this day.

Waite and Genevieve decided they would give away their mansion and its surrounding grounds to the residents of Tulsa so that the estate could be turned into a museum and art center. It would include a special emphasis on Native American art and other fine art forms. Phillips would provide the funds to help remodel the villa so it could accommodate galleries to display the art. And so, with this astounding and unexpected gift, Philbrook Museum of Art (then called the Philbrook Art Museum) began its existence 75 years ago. “The level of generosity and the leadership demonstrated by that kind of philanthropy is remarkable, and that’s what makes this a very special story,” says Rand Suffolk, Philbrook’s director. Nearly eight decades later and thanks largely to the philanthropic commitment of many other Tulsans along the way, Philbrook continues to be the gift that keeps on giving. “What a museum like Philbrook does is that it provides a mirror on society,” Suffolk says. “Artists of all times are perhaps the most engaged and critical of their historical moment. They challenge us to think about our world in different ways, and I think that’s very important. Coming into contact with great art and the way it makes people feel and what it engenders in them is what enriches us.” Suffolk came to Philbrook six years ago after serving as director for the Hyde Collection in New York, where he oversaw a museum with a story that parallels Philbrook’s, an 40

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The gift that keeps giving

A party celebrated Philbrook’s opening on Oct. 25, 1939. In attendance were Elliott Phillips, an unknown man, Mrs. Helen Jane Phillips Breckinridge, Mrs. Frank Grant McClintock, an unknown woman, Mrs. Frederick P. Walter and Mrs. George Snedden.*

Italianate-style mansion bequeathed to a city by wealthy benefactors. Philbrook, however, is about four times larger. “It was exciting to come here with all the assets that Philbrook has,” he says. “What distinguishes it from other museums is the singularity of the experience it provides, whether you’re talking about the exceptional artwork that’s within our collections or the exhibitions and traveling shows we bring here. And, of course, there’s the remarkable architecture that we have, whether we’re talking about the villa itself or now the fantastic space we have downtown.” *The late Bob McCormack captured millions of images in his nearly 70 years as a professional photographer in Tulsa. McCormack’s son, John, and The University of Tulsa McFarlin Library Department of Special Collections are in the process of digitizing McCormack’s original photographic prints and negatives in the Robert M. McCormack Photographic Archive, housed on TU’s website, www.utulsa.edu.

It’s the art displayed inside the museum, and now also at Philbrook Downtown, that is the foremost attraction for the 135,000 people who visit annually. The collection’s works include such masters as Thomas Moran, Pablo Picasso, Andrew Wyeth, Robert Rauschenberg, William-Adolphe Bouguereau and many others. On longtime loan to Philbrook are pieces by greats such as Auguste Rodin, Georgia O’Keeffe and Willem de Kooning. Holdings at both Philbrook locations also include a survey of 20th century Native American art. Philbrook is committed to adding to its permanent collection and bringing in the most intriguing exhibitions, Suffolk says. “Our mission is to present the finest examples of artistic achievement we can get our hands on and to facilitate the broadest possible public engagement with that material,” he says. Yet it’s not the art alone that attracts museumgoers. Many come to see the old villa itself. And, even though significant portions of the interior were renovated to function as galleries, the opulent atmosphere created for Phillips and his family is still apparent, says Tom Young, Philbrook’s resident librarian since 1978. “The sense of the original house, especially on the main level, remains,” Young says. “It’s such an elegant space and the grandeur is very much in evidence. So, although it has been altered to serve as a museum, it still takes you to another time and place.” Then, of course, there are the lush 23 acres surrounding the museum. Designed by landscape architect S. Herbert Hare, Philbrook’s gardens exemplify the magnificence of the Italian Renaissance style. The gardens remain true to the spirit of the

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Great hall, 1930s

Great hall, present day

South terrace, 1930s

South terrace, present day

Upper hallway, 1930s

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original design, though in 2004, Philbrook spent $7 million to renovate and upgrade them to make them more accessible for those with disabilities, as well as convenient for museum events. Chris Kallenberger, director of exhibitions and collections, finds the grounds particularly soothing. “I’m like a lot of people. If you’re having a difficult day, a walk around the grounds lifts your spirit and heals your head,” she says. “It’s just a beautiful experience.” Kallenberger, who joined Philbrook in 1977, says there is something for just about everyone who visits the museum, even those who don’t consider themselves art buffs. “You know, some people may be skeptical about coming to a museum,” she says. “They may not consider themselves to be art people. But, invariably, there ends up being something here that fascinates them, whether it’s the architecture of the villa or the magnificent grounds.” The diversity of experiences at Philbrook is one thing that few other museums can claim, Suffolk says. “You’re not going to be able to get the mix that you find there,” he says. “If you come to the museum and you don’t like the temporary exhibition, you can go up into the villa and hopefully see some of your old friends hanging in one of the galleries. “If that doesn’t make you happy, then the architecture of the villa will get you. If that doesn’t get you, you can go out to the beautiful gardens and that will make you happy. If you don’t like any of that, you can go downtown and experience a different set of galleries and experiences there. “One way or another, we’re going to find a way for you to fall in love with us.”

lation of modern and contemporary art, and two changing galleries with various works from Philbrook’s permanent collection, as well as the recently acquired Eugene B. Adkins Collection of Native American and Southwestern art on the second floor. “Philbrook Downtown marks a significant moment in our 75-year history,” Suffolk says. “Not only have we created a new arts destination for domestic and international visitors, we have also established a vibrant forum for engaging dialogue, which adds further dimension to our organization. “Philbook Downtown will cultivate and engage new audiences as well as enrich the cultural fabric of our community. Creating a space in this part of town lends to our mission by directly contributing to Tulsa revitalization efforts.”

Philbrook staff Chris Kallenberger, director of exhibitions; Tom Young, resident librarian; and Rand Suffolk, director

A museum evolving and growing

Philbrook’s inherent charm combined with its mission to engage the community are key factors to its longevity. “My hope is that we manage to take people from the ordinary to the extraordinary as soon as they come through our front gate,” Suffolk says. “I think that if we’ve developed enough credibility with people to get them to come here, give us their time and spend time looking at an object or experiencing those gardens and forming their own opinion about it, whether they love it or hate it, then we’ve done our job.” Philbrook has remained far from a static entity through the decades. From early on, studio art classes were offered and a children’s program was incorporated. New wings were added for collection storage as well as to provide space for offices, a museum shop and restaurant, auditorium and conference room. 42

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Fourth-generation Philbrook board member Holbrook Lawson with photos she took at age 10 at her first photography class at Philbrook

Earlier this year, the museum took a huge step with the opening of Philbrook Downtown. Located in the old Mathews Warehouse in the Brady Arts District, the two-story, 30,000-square-foot facility was designed by Gluckman Mayner Architects of New York and Tulsa’s Kinslow, Keith & Todd. It features galleries devoted to a semi-permanent instal-

Appealing to more diverse audiences

Like so many Tulsans, Holbrook Lawson’s first experience with the museum occurred when she was introduced to photography through a class taught at Philbrook. “I was 10 when I took the class and I still have my work,” she says with a laugh. “It was terrible! It turned out that I was better at appreciating art than producing it.” That childhood encounter, however, inspired her to carry on a family tradition of serving at Philbrook. She is, in fact, a fourth-generation board member of the museum, with a lineage going back to her great-grandparents. “It’s one of the things that is so fascinating about Philbrook,” says Lawson, the museum’s current board chairwoman. “You had this gift and a vision for it, and now generations of people have been involved and enjoyed it. “It’s evolving and changing and reaching out to broader audiences all the time. This dynamism is what makes the future of the museum so exciting, especially when you look at our new partnerships and the exhibits and the opening of Philbrook Downtown.” In particular, Lawson points to growing attendance, especially among minorities who in the past may have faced real or perceived barriers to visiting museums such as Philbrook. “Art is for all people,” she says. “It knows no color. It doesn’t matter what you look like or your background. All parties are equal through the experience of art.” Philbrook’s attendance records for this year reflect that about 42 percent of attendees identify as a minority. Meanwhile, the museum also has seen tremendous success with high attendance through its Second Saturdays program, which provides free admission for museum visitors on the second Saturday of each month.

East garden from the east terrace, 1930s

Philbrook east garden, present day

Junior docents give a tour to sixth graders from Lee School in September 1966.

Teaching artist Andrea Wamble leads a homeschool art class through a special exhibition.

Junior Studio summer classes, June 1966

Philbrook Second Saturdays offer hands-on, experimental programming, all free of admission. TulsaPeople.com

Carrying the spirit of Phillips into the future

Bill Thomas joined Philbrook’s board five years ago and is determined to see that the museum that began with Waite Phillips’ initial gift continues to grow and prosper for another 75 years at least. He and his wife, Susan, will chair the Philbrook Wine Experience, a biennial fundraiser for the museum, for the second consecutive time in 2014. One of the largest of its kind nationwide, the 2012 Wine Experience grossed $2.4 million. “It’s too easy to forget that at least 98 percent of Philbrook’s support is derived solely from private sources, meaning memberships, contributions and gift store sales,” Thomas says. “The people who have supported it for the last 75 years have quite a legacy of building an institution of such lasting value. That will move on to those in our future who will surely build on what has happened before, inspired by what

1927 — Villa Philbrook, 2727 S. Rockford Road, is completed during the summer, and the Phillipses hold a reception for hundreds of friends and business associates. Will Rogers was quoted as saying about Philbrook, “Well, I’ve been in Buckingham Palace, but it hasn’t anything on Waite Phillips’ house.” Work on the gardens continued into 1928. 1938 — Waite and Genevieve decide it’s time to move out and donate the villa to the residents of Tulsa with the intention of it becoming a museum and art center with an emphasis on Native American art. Phillips also pays for renovations to make the home into a museum. 1939 — Philbrook Art Museum opens on Oct. 25. Waite and Genevieve are

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an ever-evolving Philbrook can be in our community.” Thomas cites those such as the late Katie Westby, Bill Flint, Walter Helmerich and John Williams as among those supporters who helped make Philbrook what it is today. “Our community owes a great debt to them

EDITOR’S NOTE: We’re grateful to Michael Wallis and his book “Beyond the Hills: The Journey of Waite Phillips” as a historical resource for this article.

Philbrook timeline

out of town, but their children attend, along with Oklahoma’s governor.

1940 — Studio art classes are offered. 1942 — Philbrook’s name changes to Philbrook Art Center with the addition of an auditorium and enclosure of the south terrace. 1949 — A children’s educational program is created in collaboration with the Junior League of Tulsa and Tulsa Public Schools to teach fifthand sixth-grade students the art and culture of different countries. 1964 — Waite Phillips dies at age 81 at home in California. 1979 — Philbrook is placed on the National Register of Historic Places. 1987 — Philbrook is accredited by the American Alliance of Museums. Philbrook changes its name from Philbrook Art Center to the Philbrook Museum of Art. 1990s — The museum undergoes a 75,000-square-foot expansion. 2013 — Philbrook Downtown opens in the Mathews Warehouse in June in the Brady Arts District. The 30,000-square-foot facility features modern and Native American art.

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1926 — Waite Phillips hires Kansas City- based architect Edward Buehler Delk to build an Italianate villa based on those he and his wife, Genevieve, have seen on their recent travels. Delk designs Philbrook to last with a steel framework and reinforced concrete walls and floors. Herbert Hare is the landscape architect. The 72-room house, 23 acres of grounds and gardens and furnishings cost nearly $1.2 million (about $15.7 million today).

2014 Philbrook Wine Experience co-chairs Bill and Susan Thomas

and others whose resolve was matched by generous financial commitments,” Thomas says. Suffolk believes Philbrook’s future is a bright one as long as the museum remains dynamic and relevant within the Tulsa community. “There’s a sense of place here,” he says. “I can’t imagine that over the next 75 years we will stop placing value on this campus. It’s too valuable, too historical and too beautiful.” And what would Waite and Genevieve think of what has become of their gift to Tulsa? “I think they would feel proud,” Suffolk says. “If they could take a look at how the museum has evolved over the past 75 years, I think they would be thrilled with the role we play in the community and the impact we are having.”

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Waite Phillips in Villa Philmonte’s New Mexico room, 1920s

Villa Philmonte, west facade, 2000

Villa Philmonte, living room, 1920s

Genevieve Phillips at Villa Philmonte’s pool

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hile Waite Phillips left an indelible impression on Tulsa through Philbrook and other notable buildings, his philanthropy also extended to the foot of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains of New Mexico. It was there that Phillips constructed his home — Villa Philmonte (a combination of his name and the Spanish word for mountain) — on 300,000 acres. This Spanish Mediterranean-style home, also designed by Edward Delk and constructed concurrently with Philbrook, was the Phillips family’s mountain retreat, a place to fish, ride horses and tend to cattle. But, just as with Philbrook, Phillips’ love affair with Philmonte had an expiration date. In 1938, he made a gift of the home along with 36,000 acres to the Boy Scouts of America to use for training, education and campouts. In 1941, he donated another 91,000 acres (Phillips owned about 700,000 acres in New Mexico and Colorado).

“The impact of that gift 75 years ago can’t be underestimated,” says David Werhane, director of Philmont Museums. “It has literally affected over a million people’s lives who have been involved in scouting or whose lives have been touched by those who have been to Philmont. We’ve had boys who went on to become astronauts, artists, surgeons, a Speaker of the House — you name it — who have come here.” Annually, about 25,000 people participate in Philmont’s programs that include camping, hiking and high adventure, and a training center for adult scout leaders. Approximately 18,000 visit Villa Philmonte, which today serves as a museum. Nancy Klein, the museum’s curator, says that unlike most of Philbrook, Villa Philmonte has been maintained or restored to the condition it was in when the Phillipses lived there. “We call it a house museum, and it’s about 90 percent original,” she says. “We give visitors the bios on

Waite and Genevieve and how they put the ranch together and then donated it.” Waite Phillips loved fishing, horseback riding and cattle ranching and believed that spending time outdoors was essential for the development of young men, because it offered life lessons they could not learn doing anything else. “After 75 years, his dream still continues,” Klein says. “We accomplish a lot at Philmont with young folks, and that’s what Waite wanted — people to grapple with nature as he once did when he traveled the country with his twin brother.” Located at the foot of the mountains about 40 miles from Raton and 130 miles from Santa Fe, the 28,000-square-foot villa and surrounding scout ranch are somewhat off the beaten path, but that’s OK with just about everyone who visits. “We are out there for sure, but it’s well worth the trip,” Werhane adds.

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Phillips’ other properties

Facts about Philbrook

The staff at Philbrook Museum of Art compiled the following list of facts they’d like Tulsans to know about the museum celebrating its 75th anniversary this coming year (November 2013-October 2014).

Philbrook Museum of Art is self-supporting. In 1938, Waite and Genevieve Phillips donated their home to a private group known as the Southwest Art Association to form Philbrook, and they gifted the 23-acre gardens to the City of Tulsa Parks Department. Waite Phillips negotiated the transfer of the grounds to the Southwest Art Association in 1945 before he moved to California. Today 98 percent of Philbrook revenue comes from private donations, museum membership and gift shop revenue.

Philbrook is classified as a general art museum. Over the past 75 years, generous donations and strategic acquisitions have built a nearly encyclopedic collection, categorizing Philbrook has a “general art museum” with holdings in American, African, Asian, Native American, modern and contemporary art, as well as European classics.

The largest aspect of the Philbrook collection is Native American art. When he announced the gift of the Phillips home, Waite Phillips wrote in the press release that his wish for Philbrook Art Museum was to emphasize Native American art to “perpetuate the culture of people to whom Oklahomans are especially indebted.” Rooted in that foundation, 75 years later more than half of the Philbrook permanent collection features Native American art, including one the finest surveys of 20th century art by Native American artists.

People of minority background visit Philbrook at a rate four times the national average of minority museum participation. According to a third-party research company, over the past four years 40 percent of the more than 130,000 visitors to Philbrook each year self-identified as a member of a minority group. The national average for minority participation at museums (science, history, children’s or art) is 9 percent.

Philbrook membership costs less than $2 per week. Philbrook membership begins at $55 (or $1.06 per week) for an individual and $80 (or $1.54 per week) for a two-adult household. Museum membership helps Philbrook secure additional funds from private donors and foundations. Children 17 and younger receive free daily admission to the museum.

Philbrook offers monthly contemporary art and cultural events. On the third Thursday of each month, Philbrook features nationally recognized artists, researchers and creators to speak on topics related to contemporary art, design or culture. A social hour (light bites and a cash bar) begins at 5:30 p.m., with the main program commencing at 6:45.

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aite Phillips was an admirer of wise sayings and enjoyed penning a few epigrams himself. Although he was long gone when the phrase “go big or go home” became popular, it could have been one that he wrote himself — especially when it came to big buildings and big philanthropy. Not only did Phillips bequeath Philbrook to Tulsa, he also left behind other significant buildings in Tulsa’s downtown skyline, including the Philtower and the Philcade. “They are very much iconic structures that have stood the test of time,” says Amanda DeCort, City of Tulsa preservation planner and preservation planning administrator for the Tulsa Preservation Commission, the city board that ensures the integrity of Tulsa’s many historic buildings for future generations. “When he built them, he built them to last and these are still revered today, much like his legacy.” Flush with money from the sale of his oil company in 1925, Phillips embarked on a building binge over the next few years that would see the near simultaneous construction of his Tulsa mansion, Villa Philbrook; the Philtower; the Philcade; and, out on his sprawling New Mexico ranch, the construction of his Spanish Mediterranean villa, Philmonte (see sidebar, p. 45).

The Philtower

Opened in 1928, the 24-story Philtower, capped by colorful tiles, was at the time Tulsa’s tallest building (at least on the city’s main downtown axis of South Boston Avenue). While Tulsa would eventually become known widely as a locus of the art deco architectural style, the Philtower is more accurately described as a late Gothic Revival building, but reflects the concurrent explosion of the art deco style by incorporating art deco accents, DeCort says. “There are a few art deco details but that was pretty new at that point,” she says. “The building itself was intended to be the architectural jewel between the Union Depot station at one end of town and Boston Avenue Methodist Church at the other.” Like his Villa Philbrook mansion, Phillips spared little expense and outfitted the building with a lavish marble lobby that still dazzles visitors today. If this was going to be his business headquarters, it was going to be one befitting an oil tycoon. For decades, the Philtower housed many of Tulsa’s energy-based companies. Today, River City Development manages the building, which

houses businesses as well as 25 upscale loft apartments, says Richard Winton, director of development. The apartments are in high demand and don’t stay on the market long. “We’re at 100 percent leased right now for the lofts,” he says. “They’re high-end luxury residences for people who want to live downtown and whose commute may just be an elevator ride to an office on a different floor.” About 75 percent of the Philtower is for commercial use, and Winton says overall occupancy of the historic building has surged from less than 50 percent occupied about eight years ago to more than 80 percent occupancy today. Referencing a series of 1928 photographs of Phillips’ penthouse office, which he occupied in the Philtower from the late 1920s through the 1930s, River City and Brainerd Chemical Co. recently restored the office to its original condition. Matt Brainerd now offices in the Phillips penthouse, which is complete with replica furniture and an authentic ceiling, floors, ironwork, fireplace and light fixtures. The Philtower was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1979.

The Philcade

Though certainly not as showy or prominent in the Tulsa skyline as the Philtower, the 14-story Philcade building remains a prime example of the art deco style that had just emerged in the late 1920s and whose conspicuous extravagance was tempered by the Great Depression. Opened in 1931, the building features enough marble and mahogany, black terrazzo flooring, plaster friezes, arched ceilings covered with gold leaf and hand-painted geometric designs to keep any art deco buff happy. The ornate lobby also forms a “T” shape for Tulsa. “The Philcade was pretty much an office building, and a lot of different oil firms had their headquarters there over the years,” DeCort says. Both the Philcade and Philtower remain popular and are must-sees for those on the art deco touring circuit, she adds. After moving out of Philbrook, the Phillipses resided for a time in the Mayo Hotel before moving into a penthouse apartment on the 14th floor of the Philcade Building. They lived here until moving permanently to Bel Air, Calif., in 1945. The Philcade made the National Register list in 1986. Today the building is owned by Kanbar Properties, which leases space to commercial tenants.

The Philcade

The Philtower lobby

The lobby of Waite Phillips’ penthouse office, 1928

Phillips’ office, 1928

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Phillips’ restored office lobby*

Phillips’ restored office* *River City Development and Brainerd Chemical Co. managed the restoration of Waite Phillips’ office. TulsaPeople.com

The man behind the gift Author Michael Wallis discusses his research into the life and times of Waite Phillips. by MORGAN PHILLIPS

ew people today have more insight into the life of Waite Phillips than Tulsa’s best-selling author, speaker and historian Michael Wallis. Wallis studied the Tulsa oil baron and benefactor extensively in the early ’90s when penning his eighth book, “Beyond the Hills: The Journey of Waite Phillips.” In light of our cover feature, Wallis shared his impressions of the man and the family to whom Tulsa owes a great deal of gratitude.

What persuaded you to write a book about Waite Phillips? I didn’t need any persuading at all. The first of my now 18 published books was a biography of Frank Phillips, the founder of Phillips Petroleum and Waite’s big brother. In the course of researching and writing that book about Frank, I, of course, learned so much about Waite. I found myself drawn to him and his remarkable story. Much more than the tale of a successful oil baron, I believe the story of Waite Phillips mirrors the story of one of the most colorful periods of American history as told through the life of a very complex man. I was compelled to write the book, and when the Oklahoma Heritage Association approached me I jumped at the opportunity. How did you research Phillips’ life? My research trail took me across the country, from the wilderness of the American West to big-city corporate palaces. There is absolutely no question that the biography would not have been as successful without the assistance and input provided by Waite’s son, Elliott, and his wife, Virginia. From day one, Elliott, or Chope, as family and friends call him, never pulled a punch but provided me with his own candid and personal remembrances as well as written documentation, business and personal correspondence and internal corporate records and documents never before publicly revealed. Even more important, Chope and Virginia also shared with me a detailed private journal, or diary, fondly dubbed the “Black Book,” written by Waite himself, listing virtually all of his daily activities during his entire life.

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Most people know about Frank and Waite, but not everyone knows Waite Phillips was a twin. How was Phillips’ adult life shaped by the loss of his twin brother, Wiate? Waite and his identical twin brother, Wiate, were born on an Iowa farm in 1883. As I explain in the book, their features were exactly the same. So were their hair, eye and skin color, as well as their blood groups. Even their body scent was alike. The twins’ hearts beat as one, so in a sense, they were the same person. They were so much alike in every aspect of life, that when one got into trouble, both twins were punished just to be sure the right culprit received punishment. They were only 16 years old when they left home and family for a twoyear odyssey through the West. They started out in the autumn of 1899 — on the cusp of a new century — just a couple of wide-eyed boys. They picked fruit, panned for gold, railroaded, trapped and fished, gambled for high stakes. They roamed from Spokane to St. Louis, from British Columbia to Cheyenne. It was a wonderful adventure. And it all came to an end on July 16, 1902, when Wiate died of peritonitis (inflammation of the abdominal tissue resulting from appendicitis). Waite really never got over his twin’s death. Part of him died that afternoon. But he never forgot his brother, and he always recalled their golden time in the West.

In your research, what struck you most about Phillips? Waite’s generosity. It wasn’t that Waite Phillips wasn’t proud of all the money he made for himself and a bunch of other folks to boot. It wasn’t that he was delighted that he was able to retire and still make a lot more money. But Waite found his fun in the hunting of a dollar, not in the possession of it. He liked the quest. He enjoyed the journey. He lived for the odyssey. Every single dollar he made bothered him a little bit, and he kept looking around to see where it might do some good. If he was anything at all — like it or not — Waite Phillips was a public benefactor. The Iowa farm boy scaled financial heights seldom equaled by others, but his true interests were deeply rooted in humanity. One of Waite’s most cherished axioms best summed up the legacy he left behind: “The only things we keep permanently are those we give away.” That is why, as a writer of history and biography, I became so attracted to the Waite Phillips story. What is a lesser-known story about Waite or the Phillipses you discovered during your research? Not many people ever knew that Waite kept his very own inner sanctum at the family’s first home in Tulsa located at 1621 S. Owasso Ave. (now the parking lot for Congregation B’nai Emunah). In the rear of the property, Waite built a log cabin with a shake roof. He filled it with his own personal treasures and remembrances. It became his sanctuary, a place for him to retreat in order to escape the tension of his business life. He would spend hours there, all by himself. As I wrote in my book, “No one disturbed him. Genevieve understood that the cabin was a time machine for her husband. It was Waite’s tie to the past, to those long-ago times when he and his twin brother had roamed the West.” What was your impression of the relationship between Phillips and his children? For the most part it was good. Waite took an active role in the lives of both Chope and (daughter) Helen Jane. Beyond the obvious creature comforts, both Waite and Genevieve carefully monitored and

remained concerned about their children’s actions even when they reached adulthood. Although greatly disappointed that Chope rejected Waite’s plan for him to go into the oil business, Waite and his son remained very close. Helen Jane’s youthful propensity for fun and frolic and some of her behavior later in life caused her parents much concern. Helen Jane’s sudden death at such a young age took a toll on the Phillips family, especially her parents. (At age 51, Helen Jane was found dead in her Tulsa apartment. Her death was attributed to natural causes, probably a heart attack.) What was your impression of Genevieve Phillips? I found Genevieve a quietly strong woman who could play the gracious hostess and the loving companion for an ambitious man but also someone with a mind of her own. Even after the death of her husband, Genevieve continued the tradition of giving to a wide variety of needy causes, charities and educational institutions. She gracefully lived out her life at her home in southern California, where she died just two days after her 92nd birthday, and was laid to rest next to her beloved Waite. How did Phillips’ donation of Philbrook to the people of Tulsa reflect his personality? It was totally typical of Waite. Those people closest to him were not that surprised when in 1938 Waite announced that he was giving his Villa Philbrook to the city of Tulsa. When the Phillipses said goodbye to their palatial estate, they left what had been the family home for less than 12 years. That was plenty of time for the gypsy-footed Waite, who at about the same time donated his sprawling New Mexico ranch property to the Boy Scouts of America. As Waite once wrote, “Real philanthropy consists of helping others, outside our own family circle, from whom no thanks is expected or required.” tþ

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I’m looking for ... ... A Tulsa tradition “A Christmas Carol” The American Theatre Company presents Charles Dickens’ yuletide tale of a Victorian miser who is visited by three ghosts on Christmas Eve. The show is set to music.

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Dec. 6-7, 13-14, 7:30 p.m.; Dec. 8, 15, 2 p.m. Henthorne Performing Arts Center, 4825 S. Quaker Ave. Tickets at 918-746-5065. Handel’s “Messiah” Fans of the oratorio have three venues and four performances from which to choose. You can even catch a performance with the All Lutheran choir in biblical costume.

Dec. 7-8, 5 and 7:15 p.m. All Lutheran “Messiah.” First Evangelical Lutheran Church, 1244 S. Utica Ave. Free; donations accepted. Visit www.firstlutherantulsaok.org. Dec. 19, 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Oratorio Chorus, Lorton Performance Center, The University of Tulsa, 800 Tucker Drive. Tickets at www.tulsachorus.com. Dec. 22, 5 p.m. Chancel Choir and members of Tulsa Symphony Orchestra. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, 1301 S. Boston Ave. Free. Visit www.bostonavenue.org.

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Dec. 13, 20-22, 7 p.m.; Dec. 14-15, 21-22, 2 p.m. Presented by Tulsa Ballet with Tulsa Symphony Orchestra. Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Chapman Music Hall, 110 E. Second St. Tickets at www.tulsapac.com.

Dec. 6-8; 10 a.m.-7 p.m., Friday; 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Saturday; noon-5 p.m., Sunday. German-American Society of Tulsa, 1429 Terrace Drive. Visit www.gastulsa.org.

It’s November. And you are making your list and checking it twice ... your holiday event list, at least. As usual, Tulsa has a plethora of holiday activities this month and next. TulsaPeople has created a checklist to help you make the season full, fun, busy and bright.

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Dec. 21-22; 7:30 p.m., Saturday; 2 p.m., Sunday. Presented by Bartlesville Civic Ballet. Bartlesville Community Center, 300 S.E. Adams Blvd. Tickets at www.bartlesvillecommunitycenter.com.

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More holiday events Nov. 12-17 — Irving Berlin’s “White Christmas” Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Chapman Music Hall, 110 E. Second St. Tickets at www.tulsapac.com. Nov. 22-Dec. 15 — Festival of Trees 10 a.m.-5 p.m., TuesdaySunday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m., Thursday. Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S. Rockford Road. Tickets at the door. Visit www.philbrook.org. Nov. 23 — Jim Brickman: The Magic of Christmas 8 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Chapman Music Hall, 110 E. Second St. Tickets at www.tulsapac.com. Nov. 28-Dec. 31 — Garden of Lights Dusk-10 p.m. Honor Heights Park, 641 Park Drive, Muskogee. Free; donations accepted. Visit www.cityofmuskogee.com. Nov. 29-Dec. 24 — Santa House 10 a.m.-9 p.m., MondaySaturday; noon-6 p.m., Sunday. Utica Square garden area, East 21st Street and South Utica Avenue. Visit www.uticasquare.com.

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Nov. 29-Dec. 22 — Wonderland of Lights 5-9 p.m., Woolaroc, 1925 Woolaroc Ranch Road, Bartlesville. Tickets at the door. Visit www.woolaroc.org. Dec. 3, 6 — Council Oak Men’s Chorale, “Gabriel, Blow Your Horn!” 8 p.m. Lorton Performance Center, The University of Tulsa, 550 S. Gary Place. Tickets at www.counciloak.org. Dec. 4 — Brown Bag It: Tulsa Festival Ringers Holiday Concert 11:30 a.m., 12:45 p.m. (two performances) Tulsa Performing Arts Center, John H. Williams Theatre, 110 E. Second St. Free. Visit www.tulsapac.com. Dec. 5-8 — Junior League Holiday Market, “Tinsel in Tulsa” Exchange Center, Expo Square, 4145 E. 21st St. Tickets at www.jltulsa.org.

Donny and Marie “Christmas in Tulsa” The famous siblings present their latest version of musical cheer with a nostalgic look at their storied careers.

Dec. 5-8 — “Tulsa!: A Radio Christmas Spectacular” Dec. 5-7, 7:30 p.m.; Dec. 7-8, 2 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Liddy Doenges Theatre, 110 E. Second St. Tickets at www.tulsapac.com.

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Dec. 7 — Carols and Crumpets: An Herbal Wonderland 8 a.m.-3 p.m. Tulsa Garden Center, 2435 S. Peoria Ave. Free. Visit www.tulsaherb.com.

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Dec. 12-15, 19-22 — “The Eight: Reindeer Monologues” Dec. 12-14, 19-20, 8 p.m.; Dec. 15, 22, 2 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Charles E. Norman Theatre, 110 E. Second St. Tickets at www.tulsapac.com.

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Dec. 13-24 — “Miracle on 34th Street: The Musical” presented by Tulsa Project Theatre Various times. Cox Business Center, Assemby Hall, 100 Civic Center. Tickets at www.tulsaprojecttheatre.com.

Dec. 15 — David Phelps Christmas 7:30 p.m. Broken Arrow Performing Arts Center, 701 S. Main St., Broken Arrow. Tickets at www.thepacba.com. Dec. 22 — Christmas Gospel Celebration, with Dr. Joey Crutcher 5 p.m. Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 111 E. First St. Tickets at www.okjazz.org. Dec. 22 — Christmas music with Tulsa Symphony Brass and organist Casey Cantwell 7:30 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati Ave. Tickets at 918-582-4128. Visit www.trinitytulsa.org. tþ

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Timeless transformation A midtown remodel blends 21st century design and function with existing character and charm. by ASHLEY ANTLE

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more beautiful than a majestic older home expertly remodeled in a way that captures its original character while ushering it into the here and now with a fresh, contemporary design perfect for the modern family. Look no further than midtown Tulsa to find many of these gems. Among the mansions of early oil tycoons and the homes of other noteworthy Tulsa families, these historic neighborhoods represent a bevy of architectural beauties, including the one featured here. The young couple who own this 8,200square-foot home in a quiet neighborhood near Philbrook Museum of Art have deep Tulsa roots and understand the value of preserving something crafted before their time. Wanting a spacious home for their growing family of five, the couple purchased the property in 2011. Their vision was to transform the choppy floor plan into an open-concept space where one room flowed seamlessly into the next. “We definitely saw there was potential,” the owner says. “(The house) was well built and had been taken care of over the years, with only two former owners. With the help of Jack Arnold, our architect; general contractors Tony and Bryan Jordan; and Doug Deckard, our interior designer, we were able to envision the specific details of what the home has now become.”

A grand new entrance The living room’s creamy white furniture provides the perfect backdrop for pops of animal print.

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Continued from p. 65 The new foyer features stately double doors and original tile taken from the dining room.

The exterior of the foyer was designed to match the home’s existing style and bring a sense of entry to the home.

The oval-shaped dining room is flooded with light from a large bay window that stretches almost the entire length of one wall.

room in the foyer, the owners were able to create a beautiful floor design that helps to connect the interior style of the new addition to the rest of the home. Just off the new foyer is the original two-story entrance hall, where the couple maintained much of the home’s character by keeping the existing grand spiral staircase.

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wanted to keep the same architectural style and make any additions to the home seamless, as if (they were) created in the original design. The architectural style fit in the neighborhood, and I didn’t want to do anything that would disturb the look and feel.” By using original tile taken from the dining

Just off the entrance hall sits the home’s dining room. Other than an electrical upgrade and new finishes such as elegant striped wallpaper and dark wood floors to replace the tiles, the couple maintained the architectural character of the oval-shaped room. Light pours in through a large bay window that stretches almost entirely along the room’s south wall. Original cove lighting surrounds the room, giving it a warm, inviting ambiance. Continued on p. 68

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Floor-to-ceiling cabinetry in the kitchen conceals a coffee bar, pantry and a Sub Zero refrigerator and freezer.

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The table seats 12 comfortably, making the well-appointed dining room perfect for large dinner parties or holiday feasts with the family. “The dining room table and chairs were from my husband’s childhood home,” the owner says. “His mother just finished a renovation and was not going to be using them anymore, so she offered them to us. We refinished the table and recovered the chairs to fit our decoration.”

To achieve an open, clean feel, the kitchen was designed without upper cabinets.

Kitchen addition The biggest transformation came with the addition of a modern kitchen. “Having children, I wanted a space where I could be in the kitchen, they could hang out and play and, even if they were in the family room, I could still see them,” the owner says. The family-friendly space is anchored by a 12-by-5-foot island topped with Carrera marble. To achieve the open, clean feel the couple desired, the kitchen was designed without upper cabinets. The extra-large center island instead houses most of the kitchen’s cabinetry, where many appliances are hidden behind cabinet doors. Along one wall, floor-to-ceiling cabinetry cleverly disguises a coffee bar, pantry and a Sub Zero refrigerator and freezer. The couple kept the commercial-grade range and oven installed by the previous owners as well as the eye-catching steel vent hood. Dark hardwood floors and exposed, graywashed wood ceiling beams add rustic charm while three globe-shaped pendant lights over the island bring a modern flair to the room. Linear mosaic marble tile runs from the countertop to the ceiling for a stunning and light-reflecting backsplash. Surrounded by large windows, the eat-in space is complete with an elegant but casual banquette perfect for relaxed family dinners. Custom sconces made by Dale Gillman at Antique Warehouse flank one of the kitchen windows. Continued on p. 70 68

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The family room, which is adjacent to the kitchen, features dark paneling, rich colors and plenty of comfortable seating.

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The kitchen flows seamlessly into the family room. Dark library-style wood paneling, rich colors, layers of texture with lush fabric and upholstery, and plenty of comfortable seating define this cozy space where the family gathers to relax and play. The paneling was an existing feature, but the owners changed its original honey color to match the wood floors. They also removed a built-in entertainment center to make way for

a hidden closet, which houses the home’s electronic equipment and hides toys.

His-and-her design Touches of the couple’s individual personalities are scattered throughout the home. She, a modern young woman with an affinity for clean lines and contemporary design. He, a more traditional gentleman who loves to hunt wild game. Nontraditional elements such as high-gloss paint on the baseboards and molding, the con-

trast of dark baseboards against light-colored walls, a basketball court finish on the hardwood floors for enduring shine and maximum durability, and metallic touches throughout the home are a nod to her chic style. As for his aesthetic, perhaps there are no two spaces more telling than his private office and the adjacent formal living room. These spaces showcase the avid bow hunter’s prize trophy heads. The creamy white furniture in the living room provides the perfect neutral backdrop for the pops of animal print showcased in the room. “We both wanted to showcase his animals in a manner that fit the home but, at the same time, did not overwhelm our visitors,” the owner says. “So, it’s a delicate balance.” The only structural changes the couple made to the formal living room were adding a mantel to the original fireplace and opening the wall that connects the office to the living room. They also replaced the wall-to-wall carpet with hardwood floors. The private office was a complete renovation. It was previously a large outdoor patio enclosed by glass doors, and the couple reconfigured the room by adding a wall down the center, making one large room into a smaller office space. They also added hardwood floors. “The home had great bones to begin with,” says Deckard, the interior designer. “We just added a lot of color with fabric and energetic light fixtures. The house flows beautifully. (The décor) was a collaboration (of ) the couple’s taste and mine. The end result is a success.” tþ

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Oh, the places I will go … Friday happy hour at Cubic. The music and the conversations around the studio start getting louder around 3:45 p.m. People make their way to our downstairs kitchen/bar and take some time to celebrate colleagues’ birthdays, projects completed, design talk, etc. A short walk down Boston Avenue to Vintage 1740 for classic cocktails or a nice glass of wine gets the Cubic crew started for the weekend.

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Chimera Café. The best cortado (a Latino version of espresso macchiato) coffee in town, awesome people, great music/atmosphere and delicious, locally sourced food. Plus, it is located in the same space where I started my first company (The Loft Design Group) when I moved back to Tulsa with my wife, Abbie, more than 16 years ago. I find balance and flow at Salt Yoga. I’ve never been one to “hit the gym,” but the positive vibe and cool instructors at Salt always leave me wanting to come back for more. The Tulsa art circuit keeps getting bigger and better. I regularly visit Living Arts of Tulsa for avant-garde, groundbreaking work; both Philbrook locations (the villa and Philbrook Downtown) to see some great work from more established contemporary artists; and check out whatever may be going on at Exhibit Gallery on Brookside. If you’re working on that next invention, art project, new business idea or just want to make something cool, I’d definitely reserve some shop time at

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FabLab Tulsa on Seventh Street and Lewis Avenue. (For) anything from 3-D printing to woodworking, I find FabLab to be a great place to create and be inspired by others. The search for great food is one of my family’s favorite pastimes. Depending on the mood and occasion, we definitely would include trying some Venezuelan arepas at Casanova’s (just east of Mingo on 31st) or some barbacoa tacos at Supermercado Morelos. Both of these are so authentic that you may be taken aback by

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Santa skis across the Shannon Springs Park lake at the Chickasha Festival of Light. More than 100 creative light displays sparkle throughout the park.

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To add a little spark to your holiday season, head southwest to the glimmering 3.5 million lights of Shannon Springs Park in Chickasha. This 43-acre park dazzles visitors with its elaborate Festival of Light display that includes 75,000 lights strung around a 16-story tree, bridge and walkways. Hundreds of trees glisten as light displays dance along with a computer-animated light show. Grab some hot chocolate and a gooey cinnamon roll from the gift shop and hop into the carriage for a truly glowing experience. Chickasha’s Festival of Light display switches on every evening from 6-10 p.m., Sundays-Thursdays, and 6-11 p.m., Fridays and Saturdays, from Nov. 23 to New Year’s Eve. 74

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Downtown in December Oklahoma City

Many dress the part and join in on the Victorian-style street dancing at Dickens on the Boulevard.

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Who says Santa is the only one who gets to dress in costume for the holidays? Downtown Claremore’s Dickens on the Boulevard event transports visitors back to the Victorian era, and many come dressed for the occasion. Live mannequins dressed in hoop skirts and petticoats bring storefront windows to life. Outside, the streets are filled with action as territorial marshal re-enactors battle it out with a gunfight. After the smoke clears, families can enjoy Victorian-era foods such as stew and cob-

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time to take a road trip to discover a new side of Oklahoma. Whether you are looking to snuggle with a special someone on a carriage ride or glide across an outdoor ice rink, there is plenty to keep your holidays merry and bright.

bler. To wrap up the evening, musicians fill the streets with music. Guests can kick off the holiday season by kicking up their heels with a Victorian-style street dance. Downtown Claremore steps back in time for the event from 6-10 p.m., Nov. 22 and 23.

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Oklahoma City’s Downtown in December is a winter experience with a speed for everyone to enjoy. To kick the winter season into high gear, grab some skates and soar across the outdoor ice rink or take a ride on a snow tube down the Southwest’s largest man-made slope. If your holidays are already fast-paced and you’re ready for a break, slow things down with a A child glides down the man-made snow slope in downtown Oklahoma City during the Downtown in December celebration.

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What better way is there to get in the magical spirit of the season than to stop by Oklahoma’s own castle, the Castle of Muskogee? Take a horse-drawn carriage or hayride through Castleton Village, which boasts more than 2,000 holiday inflatables along a 2-mile drive. If Mr. Frost is too much to bear outside, warm up in the castle and grab a piece of homemade fudge and hot cider before sitting down to watch a family-friendly movie. This holiday season, the castle will have wine tasting for adults, or the entire family can snuggle up with the animals at the petting zoo. With all this Christmas cheer, that green Christmas-hating machine, the Grinch, might just have to stop by, as well. Christmas festivities are from 6-10 p.m., Nov. 28-30, as well as Dec. 1-31. Indoor events are the evenings of Dec. 12-31. 76

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Historic re-enactors fill the sky with gunsmoke to clear the air of evil spirits in preparation for Christmas.

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For the past 16 years, the Historic Fort Reno in El Reno has blasted into the Christmas season with a bang — with historic re-enactors firing guns and cannons into the sky. This tradition dates to 18th-century Germany, when guns were fired prior to Christmas to ward off evil spirits before the holiday. Early Indian Territory settlers transplanted the practice to Oklahoma. Today, the sounds mean the partying can begin with a chili cookoff, singing and visits from Mr. and Mrs. Claus following the Christmas Guns celebration. The event fires away from 2-4 p.m., Sunday, Dec. 15.

During the winter season, Pleasant Valley Farms transforms from a tree farm to a winter wonderland. Before picking the perfect tree, the kiddos can have their photo taken with Santa (2-6 p.m. every Saturday and Sunday) and dash through the snow (figuratively speaking, at least) on a hayride around the farm. The family can visit pigs, goats and donkeys in the barnyard and, on those chilly winter days, warm up with some barbecue and burgers at the concession stand. Pleasant Valley Farms is open weekends from 9 a.m.-7 p.m., Nov. 30-Dec. 24. tþ

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It was a Friday night.

My friends and I popped into a south Tulsa restaurant and spent a few hours chatting over margaritas, chips and salsa, and some of those newfangled fajitas that had recently hit the local dining scene. The atmosphere was casual, and the place was packed with many families enjoying dinner together. Although this evening occurred more than 25 years ago, Pepper’s Grill is still serving customers hearty American cooking, as well as its take on Mexican and Southwestern cuisines ... served with an Okie twist. For those unfamiliar with Pepper’s, let me digress a bit. Thirty-five years ago Rick McFeely, Don Jones, Fred Zimmer and Nick Samara came together with the idea of opening a restaurant. They had recently visited the original Chili’s restaurant in Dallas (there was only one location at the time) and loved it. Chili’s served margaritas, beer, burgers and burritos, and Pepper’s Grill featured the same selections when it opened in March 1978 at East 61st Street and South Sheridan Road. “Pepper’s in the late ’70s and early ’80s was a busy, busy place,” McFeely says. “It was back during the ‘liquor by the wink’ days. We went through the process of the laws changing.” In 1979, Samara moved on to open Hamburger Haven on South Lewis Avenue, a popular spot that featured charcoal burgers, before eventually running his father Mike’s restaurant, The Celebrity Club (now Celebrity Restaurant). The three remaining partners took on Rik Helmerich and opened Bahamas in the same center as Pepper’s. The new restaurant featured Italian cuisine with a beach theme and art deco décor — an interesting concept that didn’t fly with customers. They closed it, and Helmerich bought out Zimmer’s portion of the business. Later, they opened a couple offshoots — Mac’s BBQ and Finn’s Chop & Chowder House. At the beginning of the economic downturn, however, the trio decided to focus solely on Pepper’s. Jones left the group nine years ago to open the Savory Chef, which he ran with wife Leslie for several years, and is now the owner of Café Ole in Brookside.

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Pepper’s was one of the first Tulsa restaurants to add fajitas to its menu. The dish remains a popular menu staple.

Co-owners Rick McFeely and Rik Helmerich

At one point there were five Pepper’s locations around town (including Claremore and Broken Arrow), but the group pared them down to two. The first of the two current locations opened in 1991 in Utica Square. The second location at East 91st Street and South Delaware Avenue opened first as Finn’s but changed to Pepper’s in 1999. The original southside location closed seven years ago. “The building was beaten to death,” McFeely says of the 61st and Sheridan site. “It needed a complete remodel, but our landlord wouldn’t work with us.” The Pepper’s menu, however, is far more flexible. It packs a wide array of choices from chimichangas to hot wings to pasta. For a brief time in the mid-1980s, the restaurant was considered a sports bar and received national attention when Sport Magazine named Pepper’s the best place to watch sporting events. “As far as the cuisine goes, people think of us as a Mexican restaurant because we lay down chips and salsa on the table,” McFeely says. “Originally, we only had one burrito on the menu, but now it features a wide array of dishes. It’s hard to put a finger on what we are — what we do know is that we can satisfy the entire family when everyone has different tastes. “We have changed the menu a bit here and there over the years. Everything is still made from scratch as much as possible.” One of the favorites, which has been on the menu since opening, is the salsa. “Nick brought the recipe from his uncle, and we have never strayed from it,” McFeely says. “I’ve had former customers, now living out of state, stock up and ship it back home.” Pepper’s Dynamite Burrito ($8.49), stuffed

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When a restaurant is 35 years old, it is almost a given that memories will be made there. “I hear stories from customers and employees about them remembering eating at Pepper’s when they were young kids, or stories about married couples’ first dates at Pepper’s,” McFeely says. Pepper’s has some fiercely loyal employees, as well. Some have been with the company for more than 20 years, and many employees have children who grow up to work for the company. “We’re very proud of that,” McFeely says. “We always want to be family friendly — to keep the price of our kids’ meals down to give families a break — good portions for a good price.” tþ

Pepper’s Grill with homemade chili, queso and shredded lettuce, is another favorite from the original menu, along with the taco salad ($8.89), the halfpound burger ($7.29) and the cheese nachos ($6.29). The fajitas ($12.99) are still popular, too, especially for catering requests. “We added fajitas to the menu back when nobody had heard of them,” McFeely says. He says competition has been fierce in a market with Tex-Mex restaurants on nearly every corner. However, the success of Pepper’s can be attributed largely to its following of “regulars.” “We play a different game than the chains — it is hard to compete with their level of advertising, so we rely solely on our loyal customers,” he says.

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The buzz on Tulsa’s tastiest products, restaurants and events by JUDY ALLEN THE BEST THANKSGIVING DINNER SHORTCUT Many of us love having the Norman Rockwell moment before Thanksgiving dinner. You know the one: carrying out the beautifully bronzed bird on a platter, ready to carve at the table. I have learned over the years, however, that the moment is fleeting once the bird has been cut open to reveal a dry, overcooked breast. I switched things up a few years ago by cooking a spatchcocked turkey, and I will never go back. Spatchcocking is a fancy way of saying “cut out the backbone and flatten your bird.” There are several advantages to using this method: the bird cooks more evenly, it cooks more quickly and, since it has been flattened, it doesn’t take up the entire oven. You won’t even need a fancy roasting pan — the flattened turkey fits perfectly on an inexpensive jellyroll pan.

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beef, raised (coincidently, in the Tallgrass Prairie near Pawhuska) specifically for the restaurant. Egan has tapped chef Michelle Donaldson to head up the kitchen — Donaldson has been impressing diners for the past few years at Smoke. on Cherry Street.

Tallgrass Prairie Table: 313 E. Second St., 918-728-0168 Tavolo

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The French Hen has hatched a little one. The Hen Bistro & Wine opened recently in Brookside’s Consortium center, formerly home to Oui3, Garlic Rose and Stonehorse Café. Owner Kathy Bondy sent a few of The French Hen’s popular recipes up north (Have you tried the sweetbreads?), but the rest of the menu features dishes with a more casual feel, such as veal meatloaf sliders ($14) and buttermilk-fried chicken ($17). tþ

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Add Judy’s spatchcocked turkey and make-ahead gravy recipes to your Thanksgiving Day arsenal.

NEW AND NOTEWORTHY Burn Co. BBQ is lighting the coals in a much larger location. The continually crowded barbecue joint across from The University of Tulsa outgrew its original digs and recently set up shop in a larger space at East 18th Street and South Boston Avenue. The space (most recently the home of Treehouse BBQ, among a host of other restaurants) gives them the much-needed kitchen space to light up a row of Hasty-Bake grills under some serious ventilation. This is a plus for customers, who now have the opportunity to watch the pitmasters in action. Co-owners, co-pitmasters and

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cousins Adam Myers and Robby Corcoran have been stuffing guests (including barbecue guru and author Steven Raichlen) full of delicious barbecue since they opened on East 11th Street in 2011. Like the old location, the expanded spot will still be lunch only, but Myers and Corcoran will have more space to cook more food, so lunches should last until 3 or 4 p.m. (Burn Co. serves until they run out of food — which has typically been shortly after lunch, hence a long queue at 10:30 a.m.)

Burn Co. BBQ: 1738 S. Boston Ave., 918-574-2777 Justin Thompson has done it again. He recently opened the third of his trio of upscale, downtown restaurants. Tavolo: An Italian Bistro features classic Italian favorites and modern, innovative plates for lunch

and dinner. Thompson enjoys using local ingredients and supporting area farmers. Therefore, fresh, seasonal ingredients are always featured on the menu. Everything is made in-house from scratch, including six varieties of pasta. An extensive wine list, handcrafted limoncello and grappa, and traditional Italian desserts (tiramisu and custard, plus sorbet and ice cream) also are featured.

Tavolo: 427 S. Boston Ave., 918-949-4498, www.tavolotulsa.com

For those whose interests lie in modern American cuisine and creative, handcrafted cocktails, Hope Egan’s ode to nose-to-tail cooking, Tallgrass Prairie Table, is guaranteed to knock your socks off. Egan’s partner, Debra Zinke, owner of Z7 Bar Ranch in Osage County, is supplying the

Judy Allen is an awardwinning journalist, avid home cook and food magazine/cookbook junkie. Prior to moving back to her home state, she was the senior food editor for Martha Stewart Living magazine. She also has developed recipes, written articles and styled food stories for Real Simple, Cooking Light, Cottage Living and Food Network magazines. In her spare time, she blogs at www.homemadeoklahoma.com.

CHOCOLATE PIE Oreo cookie crust, dark chocolate mousse, chocolate ganache, chocolate streusel topping and chocolate whipped cream. Indulge this holiday season at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse. Open 4-11 p.m., Monday-Saturday; 4-9 p.m., Sunday. Visit www.prhymetulsa.com or call 918-794-7700.

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RAVIOLI Five-cheese stuffed ravioli with Italian vegetables and fresh rosemary from Philbrook Secret Garden, served with red-wine braised mushrooms with sweet marinara and shaved Parmesan. Enjoy the spectacular view of the Philbrook Gardens while dining at La Villa Restaurant. Open Sunday for brunch buffet and a la carte lunch Tuesday through Saturday.

SMOKIE MAC AND CHEESE Penne pasta smothered in homemade cheese sauce and sauteed with Little Smokies, blackened chicken and green chiles topped with fresh Parmesan. Maxxwell’s Restaurant, located at the historic Campbell Hotel along historic Route 66, features an eclectic menu of new American food. Open daily 6 a.m.-10 p.m.

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Drink your dessert When it comes to sugar and spice, sweet wines are just as nice.

by RANDA WARREN, MS, CWE, AIWS, CSS*

When it comes to holiday dining,

one category often overlooked is dessert wines. These sweet concoctions can be a terrific replacement to desserts themselves. Think of the calories you’ll save if you skip the slice of chocolate tart and opt for a glass or two of rich ruby Port. Or, a glass of chilled Moscato without the crème brûlée. Port is perhaps the most famous of dessert wines. It is a red wine in which brandy has been added halfway through the fermentation. This leaves a lot of sugar unfermented, hence a sweet taste. Port comes from the Douro region of northern Portugal and is made to last. A bottle of vintage Port can be kept for 20-30 years. Many other countries make their own version of Port, but the authentic stuff is from Portugal. The most popular styles of Port are: 1) Basic ruby Port, which is deep red and purple in color. 2) Basic tawny Port, which is kept in the barrel longer than ruby and gains a golden-brown color. Tawny Port also is marked on the bottle as 10, 20, 30 or 40 years old. 3) LBV or Late Bottled Vintage Port from a specific year — usually a year where there isn’t a true vintage Port produced. It must be aged four to six years before release. 4) Vintage Port, a ruby Port that has been aged no more than 2 1/2 years in the barrel before bottling, and then aged another 10-50 years in the bottle. 5) Colheita Port, a tawny Port from a specific vintage such as 2000. Made from the Moscato grape in many parts of the world, Moscato is another sweet wine that has gained popularity. It has generous flavors of peach, apricot, orange, pineapple and candied lemon. It is awesome with “lighter-colored desserts” such as shortbread but also works well with chocolate, oddly enough. Brachetto d’Acqui is a sparkling red dessert

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wine made from the Brachetto grape found in the Piedmont area of northwestern Italy. It has become wildly popular with berry desserts and cheesecake with berries due to its sweet rose petal and strawberry, cranberry and raspberry flavors. And, it has bubbles. Finally, chocolate-flavored wines or liqueurs (think Godiva Liqueur) are a little slice of heaven when paired with chocolate desserts or by themselves. tþ

Randa’s favorite dessert wines: • Port • Brachetto d’Acqui • Moscato • Vin Santo • Sauternes • German Trockenbeerenauslese • Sweet Champagnes • Banyuls • Eiswein • Stickies from Australia • Chocolate liqueurs • Quart de Chaume

SIPS AT HOME CHOCO-DELIGHT ChocoVine, Holland — $11.69 You can’t find one thing wrong with a chocolate dessert wine. This is a red wine blended with Dutch chocolate. Served chilled, it is creamy, rich and rather hard to put down. It really is a dessert unto itself. KNOCK YOUR LIGHTS OUT Fonseca 10-year-old tawny Port, Portugal — $29.99 Port not only exudes deliciousness, but also sophistication. This tawny has nutty flavors added to dates and prunes, caramel and burnt oranges. It is smooth and high octane, which is what you need to perk up after a long evening. BUBBLICIOUS Banfi Rosa Regale Brachetto, Italy — $19.99 What can be better than something sparkling, red and simply divine? A strawberry explosion awaits you, and the bubbles refresh your palate after every sip. The wine is balanced with moderate acidity to complement the sweet fruit flavors. GIFT FROM HEAVEN Quady Electra Moscato, California — $13.99 Here is an affordable Moscato and one I choose for many parties. It’s lush with ripe tropical and orange fruit, making it perfect on its own or with crème brûlée, pound cake and even vanilla ice cream.

SIPS AROUND TOWN THE FRENCH HEN Bartender and server Garrett Higgins is particularly fond of Port this time of year. “It’s the perfect nightcap,” he says. He loves Dow’s ruby Port for $8 a glass.

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7143 S. Yale Ave., 918-492-2596 FLEMING’S Manager Chris Hardgrave says dessert wines are one of his favorites to recommend after a big steak dinner. A popular choice at Fleming’s is the Mondavi Moscato d’Oro from California. It is made from grapes sourced in the Stag’s Leap area. The cost is $10 for a 2-ounce pour and $60 for a 375 ml bottle. Yum! 1976 Utica Square, 918-712-7500

*Wine columnist Randa Warren is a Master Sommelier; Certified Wine Educator; Associate Member of the Institute of Wines and Spirits; and is a Certified Specialist of Spirits.

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Aging in place Giving up their homes is a difficult decision for seniors, but many thrive in the right living environment. by MISSY KRUSE

My husband agreed to play the bad

guy, broaching the subject man to man, as we sat in my father’s room before he was discharged from a local rehabilitation center. Now 81, and suffering from Parkinson’s disease, he had managed his deteriorating condition for two years by relying on home health care. But that was no longer an option. It was time for the next step, a senior living facility. My sweet dad knew it, too. Within a few days we had settled him into a

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small independent living apartment decorated with things from home. However, wanting to give this once strong, steady man as much freedom as possible, we had waited until it was, in fact, too late for this alternative. He was weeks away from the end of his life and actually needed assisted living, even the intensive care of a nursing home — places that would see to his meds, dressing, meals. An independent living facility means just that — self-sufficiency with proximity to others. Continued on p. 86

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Assisted living (range) $900-$5,800

$10,800-$69,600

Nursing home, private room (average) $5,232 SOURCE: www.seniorhomes.com

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Should we have moved him somewhere sooner? Discussed it with him when he was diagnosed? What should we have done or known to make a better decision? It has been 20 years and I continue to ask myself these questions. Every day, families struggle with helping older loved ones make the thorny decision to give up their homes and move to an unfamiliar setting. Fortunately, more and more options are available to help seniors and their families. From independent living in a retirement community to cohousing, from assisted living to nursing homes, families and the elderly can find the appropriate options. “There is a movement for seniors to ‘age in place’ in their homes if possible,” says Melissa Holland, board chairwoman for the Oklahoma Assisted Living Association. “One of the goals of the assisted living industry is that whenever a senior chooses an assisted living residence or community, that (it) becomes their home. We want it to be a homelike environment so they can age in place (there).” The journey may begin with independent living at a retirement community. Residents may live in a small home, cottage or apartment. They

The typical assisted living resident: • Needs help with two to three daily living activities — bathing, dressing, toileting, transferring and/or eating. • Has two to three of the top 10 chronic conditions (high blood pressure, Alzheimer’s/dementia, heart disease, depression, arthritis, osteoporosis, diabetes, COPD and allied conditions, cancer and/ or stroke).

may come for meals or to participate in community activities, recreation or entertainment, but they come and go from the community freely. Independent communities “do not provide care, but we can be a resource for them,” says Holland, who runs independent and assisted living facilities in the Oklahoma City area. When it comes to health concerns, the staff may call 911 or help communicate to families that “something is not right” with a resident. Oklahoma has 39 independent living facilities, according to www.seniorhomes.com. They

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may provide gardening, laundry and housekeeping services, hair salons and libraries, along with dining rooms — leaving more time for enjoying life. Another intriguing option is cohousing (see sidebar), reminiscent of a small-town neighborhood, where multiple generations remain independent, but look after one another. Assisted living is the next step in care. If a senior needs help with his or her basic daily routine, an assisted living center can help. Some centers also provide memory care for those with Alzheimer’s disease or dementia. “Medication is the No. 1 reason seniors move into assisted living,” Holland says, while the National Center for Assisted Living reports that more than half of assisted living residents need help bathing and dressing. Nursing home care is for those who need intensive, long-term care for serious health problems, Holland emphasizes. About 1.3 million people live in nursing homes, according to Face the Facts, a project of The George Washington University. Some facilities, called continuum of care, run the gamut from independent living to nursing care. Continued on p. 88

Cohousing Independent-minded boomers are returning to their Age of Aquarius roots with ESCs — elder self-directed intentional communities. Participants develop their own small neighborhoods and take care of each other. With them, “residents can maintain a sense of independence through a self-designed interdependence and sense of community,” according to the website for Elder Intentional Communities, part of the University of Georgia’s Institute of Gerontology. The concept also is known as cohousing. Residents plan the communities, choose their appearance and divide duties for maintenance and chores. They may also take turns a few times a week preparing meals, which they share in a community center, notes a 2004 AARP article, “Communes for Grownups.” Additionally, most are multigenerational, so seniors can act as advisers and stand-in grandparents, while knowing there are younger people there to care for them, as well. There are more than 200 cohousing communities scattered throughout the country, according to the Cohousing Association of the United States. One such project was completed this past December in Stillwater.

To learn more, visit www.geron.uga.edu or www.cohousing.org.

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Whichever option best fits an individual, one way to ease the transition is to involve them in the decision-making process. Visit a variety of places, Holland says. “Each community has its own personality, its own culture, its own feel ... You need to visit to see if it feels like home,” she suggests. The elderly person may have something different in mind than the rest of the family. “Children want to pick these really fancy places,” she says, but “Mom and Dad walk in and they don’t feel comfortable. They want a smaller, more homelike environment.” Others may love all the bells and whistles. If possible, after reviewing several likely places, Holland encourages families to bring the senior to the facility. “Have a meal ... see if it is going to be a good fit,” she says. “I also encourage them to come to events, family nights or speakers.” An alternative is a “respite stay” of a week or so to experience the community firsthand before making a commitment. That being said, she notes, the family primarily needs to consider the home’s level of care, staff and, most importantly, whether the facility will meet the person’s needs. Talk to your loved one about their fears. Just like anyone moving to a new community, an older person may worry he or she won’t fit in, be liked or make friends. “It’s a scary thing when you are thinking that you are coming to the last place you’ll ever live,” Holland says. Her advice, echoed by other experts: begin

How to know it is time Melissa Holland, board chairwoman of the Oklahoma Assisted Living Association, offers these starter questions that may indicate your relative needs more care: • Are there signs they are not eating? • Are they covering up or downplaying bruises from falling? • Are they wearing the same clothes each time you visit? • Are they talking about strange noises in the night or someone that came in? • Is the house as clean and neat as it used to be? • Do they respond appropriately to emergencies or tell you “it was nothing”? • Do they still have that sparkle in their eye like the vibrant person they used to be? • Are they taking their medications correctly; are pills left in the bottle?

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What’s the difference? Granny pods Your elderly parent wants her privacy, but you want to keep an eye on her. One solution that has long helped many families is the so-called mother-in-law suite. It may be part of the home, perhaps a garage apartment, even the other half of a duplex. Now the Rev. Ken Dupin, of Roanoke, Va., has come up with MedCottages, an adaptation to what other countries call a granny pod, according to www.aarp.org. The 12-by-24-foot prefab structures combine the amenities of a studio apartment and a hospital room and can be installed in a caregiver’s back yard. Among the features: a low-lying camera to monitor falls while maintaining Grandma’s privacy, and an automatic medication dispenser connected by iPad so that family can assure she has taken her pills.

See more at www.aarp.org.

researching alternatives early on, before the need is critical, so you can make the choice you would most want. Even better, if you notice your family member has lost interest in his or her usual activities, it may be time to gently nudge them toward a senior living community. Along with better nutrition and supervision, a community provides socialization and an extended family, Holland says, adding to the length and quality of a senior’s life. tþ

The needs brought on by aging may differ widely depending on the individual. Some just want freedom from housekeeping; others may need help with daily living. Here is a quick look at the options: Independent living communities: Cater to seniors in generally good health. Residents live in single units such as cottages or apartments, and come and go at will. The community provides amenities such as gardening, housekeeping and laundry services, salons, libraries and dining facilities, outings and transportation to local attractions and shopping. Assisted living communities: Provide personal care services, medication management and 24-hour assistance (but not regular skilled nursing intervention), meals, housekeeping and laundry services, and social and religious activities. Care homes: Provide assisted living services in a smaller, more family-like environment. They may be located in traditional homes in residential neighborhoods. Nursing homes: Provide 24-hour nursing care for those with “severe or debilitating physical or mental illnesses who are unable to care for themselves.” Continuum of care facilities: Provide care that ranges from independent to assisted living, to skilled nursing care and Alzheimer’s care, so that residents can remain in the community if their health deteriorates. Specialty facilities: Provide care for those suffering from Alzheimer’s, dementia or other conditions. SOURCES: www.seniorhomes.com; Oklahoma Assisted Living Association, www.okala.org; National Center for Assisted Living, www.ahcancal.org/ncal

What to think about Check these resources for lists of what to observe, what to ask staff and what to ask yourself when searching for a retirement community or nursing home.

Oklahoma Association of Health Care Providers www.oahcp.org Oklahoma Assisted Living Association www.okala.org American Assisted Living Association, www.alfa.org Area Agencies on Aging, www.agingcare.com Alzheimer’s Association, www.alz.org

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yde Park at Tulsa Hills is the city’s newest community for active adults age 55+. The master planned community is located at South 81st Street and U.S. Highway 75, near the booming Tulsa Hills shopping center. Hyde Park features single-family homes specifically designed for people wanting a low maintenance life while maximizing their living space. Each thoughtfully designed home includes highly desirable features and upgrades, and are built to meet or exceed Energy Star ratings. Also, lawn maintenance is taken care of by the homeowners association. These qualities are why communities like Hyde Park in Florida and Texas have grown in popularity among the baby boomer generation. The serene neighborhood includes resort-style amenities, including a swimming pool, tennis court, lighted putting green, indoor pickleball courts, fishing pond and the “Hyde Out” clubhouse. The clubhouse includes a dining room, kitchen, library, card room, billiards room, exercise room, dance studio and coffee bar. Along with the convenience of Tulsa Hills, the community is close to golf courses, the Riverwalk Crossing, hospitals, restaurants and the Oklahoma Aquarium. The 165-lot development has lots available in all sizes. The clubhouse and model homes are open every Thursday-Sunday from 1-4 p.m. To arrange a private tour, contact Lee Ann Dixon at 918-899-6512. Minimum Age Requirement ........................................................... 55

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tone Canyon is Oklahoma’s largest master planned community, connecting families and friends to an environment of natural surroundings while offering all ages aricher quality of life based upon respect and appreciation for the native landscape. The community encompassesmore than 3,200 acres, with a variety of home site sizes and landscapes from which to choose. The community features a number of healthy living activities for residents including walkable neighborhoods, miles of nature trails and a 100-acre lake for catch-and-release fishing, kayaking and paddle boating. It is also home to nationally acclaimed golf course, The Patriot, and the Folds of Honor Foundation. As Stone Canyon continues its development, plans include a Town Center, complete with shopping, dining and entertainment venues. “Research has shown that living in a mixed-use environment within walking distance of shops and services results in increased walking and biking, which improve human cardiovascular and respiratory health, reduce the risk of hypertension and obesity,” says Sharon Baker, Stone Canyon’s general manager. “That makes Stone Canyon an excellent choice for active adults, including those retired.” Right now, approximately 200 homes are finished in the community, with 10-15 homes under construction. Future plans for neighborhoods include The Villas for those ready to enjoy a low-maintenance yard. Home Site Sizes ....................................One-half acre and 1 acre lots Number of Homes Planned for Community .............................. 2,000 Architectural Requirements .......................................................... Yes

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Saint Simeon’s 3701 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. • Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 918.425.3583 • www.saintsimeons.org

aint Simeon’s is a senior community for individuals who enjoy wideopen spaces, lush gardens and exotic wildlife. Named a Certified Wildlife Habitat, residents can see a muster of peacocks, families of deer, koi swimming in a pond and more. Often referred to as “Tulsa’s hidden gem” for senior living, Saint Simeon’s has provided the highest quality of care since 1960. Saint Simeon’s offers a full continuum of care, independent cottage living, four levels of assisted living, a uniquely designed Memory Center and a Health Care (Nursing Care) Center. The 50-acre campus features amenities that create a life-enriching resident experience. Each week, residents join in outings to museums, athletic events, restaurants and more. Live entertainment visits the community weekly. A full-time chaplain coordinates worship services and Bible studies for those interested. Several services are included, such as laundry services, meal plans, housekeeping, transportation, salon, and exercise facilities with a warm-water saline pool. Personal pets are allowed in the independent living cottages. Saint Simeon’s in-house dog, Simone, makes daily visits. Saint Simeon’s is a mission of the Episcopal Diocese of Oklahoma and welcomes people of all faiths. Saint Simeon’s accepts applications from seniors and does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, disability, gender, religion or national origin.

Age Requirement ........................................................................... 62 Number of Units in Facility .......................................................... 189 Entrance Fee and/or Security Deposit? ........................................ Yes

NOTABLE DISTINCTIONS In April 2013, Saint Simeon’s was named winner in the senior category of the Oklahoma Nonprofit Excellence (ONE) Awards as chosen by the Oklahoma Center for Nonprofits. As a not-for-profit organization, accountability in the form of excellent care has been the vanguard throughout Saint Simeon’s 53-year history.

A letter to Lindsay Hurley Fick, Saint Simeon’s President and CEO

major Moving to Saint Simeon’s was a ed to change for my mother. She was us life. nt her own home, yard, and independe in My siblings and I helped her settle in With and left with our fingers crossed! ’t days of Mom moving in, we couldn s wa reach her on the phone. Why? She the out dining, playing games, visiting t, en peacocks, enjoying special entertainm and sharing the company of her ’s life neighbors. It’s clear now – Mom grew bigger at Saint Simeon’s. Sincerely, Pat

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Saint Simeon’s Residen t Milly with daughter Pat and granddau ghter Sarah.

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University Village 8555 S. Lewis Ave • Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 918.299.2661 • www.uvrc.com

hen local businessmen Matt Gawey and Blake Fail purchased University Village retirement community in 2011, they wasted no time in making improvements to the 38-acre retirement campus. “We knew UV had a great reputation but we wanted to update things to a new standard,” says Gawey. Over the past two years, more than $3.5 million was spent on upgrades and adding new facilities. The latest addition is the new West Wing rehabilitation and health care center. This area is comprised of a dining room and common areas, as well as 20 private rooms with private baths, flat panel TVs and Wi-Fi for seniors who are recovering from a medical injury or illness. The new wing has its own entry with private access to the living quarters as well as a new state-of-the-art rehabilitation center. “The new West Wing is a beautiful and peaceful place where seniors can recuperate in a high quality setting,” Fail says. “We are very pleased with this addition.” Given the community’s success, it seems that many Tulsa seniors like what they see.

NOTABLE DISTINCTIONS Number of Residents ................................................................... 275 Entrance Fee Required ................................................................. No Cottages and Apartments............................................................. Yes Assisted Living and Nursing Care ................................................. Yes

While University Village offers everything from rental cottages to independent and assisted living to skilled nursing, it does not require any entrance fees. The UV healthcare center has received numerous awards as well.

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Funeral directors Dan Schaudt and Chris Teel recently purchased and renovated the funeral home property located at 5757 S. Memorial Drive directly south of Memorial Park Cemetery. Both Dan and Chris strongly feel that south Tulsa has been overcharged and underserved in the funeral service industry. Schaudt-Teel Funeral Service and Cremation Care at Memorial Park was founded to revolutionize the manner in which the lives of Tulsans are celebrated. The facility is full of technology and innovation that creates an atmosphere for a memorial like no other. The innovative practices enable the firm to operate efficiently, saving Tulsans thousands of dollars on high quality funeral services, cremation care and monuments. Schaudt-Teel will see that you or your loved one’s final wishes are honored. If professionalism and experience carry weight,

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Q&A From Tulsa Professionals

GENERAL DENTISTRY Q: What happens to my unused dental benefits? A: Every year you receive a maximum amount of benefits from your dental insurance company. Dental insurance companies do not let you rollover unused amounts of your maximum to the next benefit year. In addition, if you have flex spending (FSA) or health care savings account (HSA), now is the time to schedule treatment so your co-payments can be applied to this year’s deductions. As we near the end of the year, we want to remind patients to take advantage of unused dental benefits.

A: Provide advance copies of your will, and/or trust, power of attorney, and physician directive to those parties named to administer your documents. Let them know where originals are kept. Prepare a list of all active accounts including checking, credit/debit cards, investment, retirement and all insurance accounts, including car, home, health and life. Be sure to update this list when changes occur. Determine if the person/entity named in the document is still appropriate to succeed you. After a life changing event or at least every few years, review and update your estate plan as needed. J. Harvie Roe, CFP, President AmeriTrust Investment Advisors, Inc. 4506 S. Harvard Ave. • Tulsa, OK 74135 hroe@amerad.com • 918-610-8080

WILLS AND TRUSTS Q: Do I need an attorney for my trust? A: One reason for creating a revocable trust is to make the administration of your estate after you pass away easier, less expensive and faster. This does not mean, however, that your successor trustee’s job will be easy and hassle-free. There will be assets to gather, beneficiaries to deal with, and financial decisions to make. Your estate planning attorney is already familiar with your assets, famiy issues and requirements of law. The attorney can ensure your plan keeps pace with your changing needs and challenges.

Gene McCormick DDS SAFE/COMFORT 2106 S. Atlanta Pl. • Tulsa, OK 74114 918-743-7444 • www.genemccormickdds.com

Karen L. Carmichael The Law Office of Karen L. Carmichael 918-493-4939 • 2727 E. 21st St., Ste. 402 www.tulsawillsandtrusts.com

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Q: An adorable stray tomcat has picked my house and I already have two cats. What should I do? A: Seeing that he has obtained the adorable status, I can assume he is there to stay. Be cautious in handling him, because if you get a bite or scratch, you will need to contact your physician. A visit to the veterinarian for an exam and to test for contagious diseases before coming in the home is needed. Routine vaccinations, deworming, flea control and neutering surgery will be needed. A pheromone spray, Feliway, can help keep harmony in the home. Ed Wagner DVM 15th Street Veterinary Group 6231 E. 15th St. • Tulsa, OK 74112 918-835-2336 96

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Q: I’m frustrated with problem areas around my stomach and thighs. Exercise is not helping. I wonder if there is any non-surgical procedure that really works? A: Fat loss via dieting and exercise only goes so far, as our bodies hold on to fat in certain areas. CoolSculpting®, a procedure developed by Harvard scientists, is a targeted cooling process that destroys fat cells by freezing them. The frozen fat cells die and are eliminated naturally, while healthy cells remain well. The effects continue for one to three months, dissolving bumps and bulges of stubborn fat. There is no down time, unlike other traditional methods of fat removal. CoolSculpting® is safe, FDA-cleared and effective. Notable natural results as early as three weeks following treatment, with the most dramatic results after one to three months. Malissa Spacek and Dr. James Campbell BA Med Spa & Weight Loss Center 500 S. Elm Place • Broken Arrow, OK 74012 918-872-9999 • www.baweightspa.com

APTITUDE TESTING/CAREER COUNSELING Q: What are informational interviews? A: Informational interviews are simply conversations with people who are working in an area of interest. They are an essential way to get relevant, practical information on the realities of different careers and companies during your career exploration process and whenever you want to transition in your career or start a new project. While the goal of informational interviews is to obtain information and advice, not to obtain a job, they are a key component of networking and can result in job leads in the future. Jenny Larsen, M.A., GCDF 2:10 Consulting, Inc. 8988 S. Sheridan, Ste. Y • Tulsa, OK 74133 918-814-2629 • www.210consulting.org

ATTORNEY Q: I was injured in a car wreck and the auto insurance company requested that I sign their medical authorization form for the release of my medical records. Should I sign it? A: It is not unusual for the insurance company to request that you sign a medical authorization form so they may obtain your medical records; however, such authorizations are typically not limited in time or scope. Your health and medical information is privileged. You should only produce information relevant to the injuries you sustained. Before you sign a release, you should contact an attorney who can place proper restrictions on the medical records produced to the insurance company. Contact the attorneys at Stall, Stall & Thompson, P.A. to discuss your rights. Kate D. Thompson Stall Stall & Thompson, P.A. 1800 South Baltimore, Ste. 900 • Tulsa, OK 74119 918-743-6201 • stallthompsonlaw.com

EYECARE Q: I am over 40 years old and I need to wear reading glasses for seeing things up close. I have tried contact lenses but I have astigmatism so I have to do monovision (one eye for distance and one eye for up close). Are there any other options to give me near vision without glasses or monovision? A: Yes, there are numerous options. Multifocal (both eyes for distance and both eyes for upclose) contact lenses continue to improve. We even have multifocal contact lenses, called hybrid contact lenses, for patients with astigmatism. They have a hard center and a soft skirt. The hard center corrects astigmatism and provides the sharpest vision. The soft skirt provides all day comfort comparable to a soft lens. Dr. Shannon Morgans, OD and Dr. Lynsey Bigheart, OD Twenty Twenty Eyecare 8931 S. Yale Ave., Suite H • Tulsa, OK 74137 918-794-6700 • www.2020tulsa.com

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GraysTone 11414 S. 66th East Ave. Courtyard Entry opens to this gorgeous home with beams, hardwoods, arched doorways and vaulted ceilings. Kitchen offers new granite and stainless steel appliances. Two bedrooms down with granite baths. Two bedroom up + game room. 3 fireplaces. Fabulous covered outdoor living. 4 BR, 3 BA, 3 Living, 3-car garage. $425,000

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18903 S. Pickett Rd. 10 acre fenced horse property. Private gated lane. Granite kitchen. 3 BR, 3 BA, 3 Living. $455,000.

2218 E. 25th Pl. Charles Dilbeck designed home near Utica Sq. Master w/spa-like bath. 3,014 sq. ft. $495,000.

1250 E 24th St. Sunset Park. Built in 1984 ,1/3 acre, 2,970 sq ft, 3BR, 2.5BA, open floor plan. Master down. $475,000

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26501 E. 41st Street. Custom home on 5 acres w/pond. 2 BDR each w/private bath on main level. 2 BDR w/Pullman bath up. Expansion areas over garage & in attic. Vaulted GRT RM opens to KIT. Large Morton Building 42’x48’ $289,000

4538 S Gary Ave. Heart of Midtown Built 2011! 5 BR, 4.5 BA, 3CAR. Fabulous open plan. Granite KIT/Great Rm w/fplc & blt ins. 1st floor Master Suite + Guest Suite. 1st floor office. Separate Media & Game Rms. Safe Rm. Covered patio w/fplc. in expansive back yard. $749,000 4130 S. Rockford Ave. Great Brookside location. Generous rooms. Eat-in Kitchen. Hardwoods. No carpet. 3rd Bdrm used as Ofc. w/door to patio. Large bath. Thermal easy clean windows. Roof 12/2010. Inside Utility Room. $122,500.

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A-LIST SPOTLIGHT

ASIAN KEO ASIAN CUISINE 3524 S. Peoria Ave. • (918) 794-8200 / 8921 S. Yale Ave. • (918) 794-0090 www.keorestaurant.com KEO offers a wide variety of dishes from an array of countries in Southeast Asia. Only the freshest ingredients are used, all prepared in traditional manners and served in a full-service atmosphere.

BURGER, BAR FOOD, BEER SELECTION JAMES E. MCNELLIE’S SOUTH CITY 7031 S. Zurich Ave • 918-933-5250 www.mcnelliessouthcity.com James E. McNellie’s Pub South City is the newest addition to the McNellie’s group, featuring a massive selection of beers from around the world and a menu full of fresh, local favorites.

COSMETIC SURGERY PLASTIC SURGERY CENTER OF TULSA 2107 E. 15th St. • (918) 712-0888 www.pscoftulsa.com Board-certified plastic surgeon Dr. Greg Ratliff and his staff offer many services to meet individual needs, including breast enhancement procedures, tummy tucks, liposuction, facial procedures, and more.

CREDIT UNION RED CROWN CREDIT UNION Tulsa: 5001 E. 91st St. and 5321 E. 41st St. • BA: 3101 W. Kenosha Pryor: 19 N. Rowe St. • (918) 477-3200 • www.redcrown.org Red Crown Credit Union offers a wide array of deposit and loan services available to those who live, work, worship, volunteer or attend school in the greater Tulsa area.

DOGVILLE DAYCARE and Boarding gives pet owners the freedom to choose from cage-free boarding, comfort care for special-needs dogs and senior dogs, as well as a number of options for dog daycare services. The newly remodeled 4,000-square-foot facility is conveniently located near the Broken Arrow expressway for easy access and drop-off. Indoor play areas and a half-acre mini dog park behind the facility allows canine guests the freedom to run and play, bask in the sun or explore the perimeter on a walking trail accompanied by a caregiver. For boarding, owners can choose from spacious dog suites and cage-free boarding for their loved ones. Dogville staff members are on site 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Special attention is paid to dogs with special needs or senior dogs that require specific care. Interviews with the owner allow for personalized care for every four-legged friend.

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DOGVILLE DAYCARE & BOARDING 9525 E. 47th Place • (918) 949-6070 www.dogville-daycare.com

DOG DISH 6502 East 51st Street • (918) 624-2600 www.thedogdish.com Dog Dish is where pet lovers can come together, visit with staff or others, ask questions, share information or just enjoy the company of other pet lovers and their four-legged friends.

Dogville Daycare & Boarding offers all cage-free suite boarding, a large outdoor play area and staff on site 24 hours a day. Specializing in senior dogs and special needs dogs, Dogville is co-owned and managed by a retired veterinarian.

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AIRCO SERVICE 11331 E. 58th St., Tulsa OK 74146 • (918) 252-5667 www.aircoservice.com Since 1961, family-owned Airco Service, Inc. has served the Tulsa area as a full service provider for air conditioning, heating, plumbing and electric service.

LIQUOR STORE RANCH ACRES WINE & SPIRITS 3324A East 31st Street • (918) 747-1171 Great selection, a knowledgeable staff, attractive pricing, and placing a high value on community involvement have made Ranch Acres Wine & Spirits an award-winning favorite in Tulsa for over 54 years.

TANNING BAHAMA SUN 3732 South Peoria Avenue • (918) 748-9971 www.bahamasuntanandspray.com Along with four levels of tanning, Bahama Sun offers airbrushing and sunless tanning at its Brookside location. The new sunless booth, The Revolutionary, provides another option for a sun-kissed look.

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The Neon Vibe 5K is a nighttime color run. The Tulsa race is one of 18 across the country, according to the Neon Vibe website.

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here can you get neon colors, pumping music and healthy exercise in one place? Only at the Neon Vibe 5K. This colorful run is taking over the nation, and Nov. 2 it’s coming to Green Country. “Color races” like the Neon Vibe have become popular for dousing runners in brightly hued powder as they race. By the time participants cross the finish line, they are one huge rainbow. But the Neon Vibe is no ordinary color race. Just ask Event Coordinator Chase Carter. “The biggest difference is that our run is at night and our powder literally glows under our lights,” Carter says. “Everything is more fun at night.” Hundreds of runners will meet at Expo Square at 7 p.m., Nov. 2. Once the family-friendly race starts, a heat of runners will leave every 3-5 minutes until everyone has gone through the run. “Participants are blasted with a cornstarch-based color powder,” Carter explains. “The Neon Vibe’s powder is specially (designed to) glow brilliantly under UV lights, which are set up throughout the

course at each of the four glow zones. The start and finish line also have awesome lights and other visual displays.” As one can guess, this run will be messy. Runners are advised to wear clothes that can be discarded because some of the color powder may stain. Costumes are always encouraged, but for the best effect, wear neon colors and a white shirt. Since the Neon Vibe is not a timed race, anyone may participate.

“Run, walk, jog, crawl or dance — we don’t care how you get to the finish line as long as you enjoy yourself and you are considerate of other runners,” Carter says. The after-dark fun continues post-race with the AfterVibe celebration. “All of the participants get together and dance to music,” Carter says. “They participate in color throws where everyone takes their color powder and throws it in the air at the same time. Free stuff is thrown into the crowd; people come on stage and dance. It’s an epic good time.” The Neon Vibe has a partnership with the Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals. A portion of the proceeds from Tulsa’s run will go to The Children’s Hospital at Saint Francis. Each runner receives a runner’s bib, Neon Vibe T-shirt, glow tattoos and a packet of color powder. tþ

Gates open at 5:30 p.m. Race begins at 7 p.m. at Expo Square, 4145 E. 21st St. Individual tickets are $45, and teams of four or more are $40 per person. Register at www.theneonvibe.com.

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Icons: An Ihloff Creative Team Fall Show Looking to have high-fashion hair? The Ihloff Creative Team Fall Show at the Cox Business Center is the best place to see innovative new styles. A team from the Ihloff Salon & Day Spa will style models sporting the latest editorial looks. The team also will demonstrate its hair secrets on stage. VIP passes are $100 and provide special seating. Proceeds benefit the Arts and Humanities Council of Tulsa. The show begins at 7 p.m. Tickets are $15 in

advance and $20 at the door. Visit www.ihloffspa.com.

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Veterans Day Parade Tulsa’s annual Veterans Day Parade honors those who have fought for America. This year marks the 95th Tulsa parade on the federal holiday. Tulsans will line the streets of downtown for the event, which includes marching bands, floats, presentations by veterans’ groups and more. The parade route typically begins at East Third Street and South Boston Avenue and winds through downtown. It’s expected to end at South Detroit Avenue and East Sixth Street.

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Route 66 Marathon & Expo This year’s Williams Route 66 Marathon Health, Fitness and Sustainability Expo combines a weekend of workouts and shopping. The free expo is from 11 a.m.-8 p.m., Friday, and 10 a.m.-6 p.m., Saturday, at the Cox Business Center. Exhibitors will feature fitness wear from running gear and shoes to sustainable products. A holiday market premieres with gift items. The Route 66 Marathon includes six runs on Saturday and Sunday, ranging from the marathon, half-marathon and marathon relay to the 5K, fun run and mascot dash. To view the race schedule or to

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TCC Vision Dinner Tulsa Community College Foundation recently held its 14th annual Vision Dinner, which honored Don Walker as an outstanding community business leader. Pictured at the event are Sharon King Davis, TCC Foundation honorary Vision Dinner chairwoman; Tiffani Bruton, TCC Foundation Vision Dinner chairwoman; Don Walker, 2013 Vision in Education Leadership Award recipient; Mary Shaw, TCC Foundation chairwoman; and Tom McKeon, TCC president.

Circle Cinema Chuck Foxen, Circle Cinema office manager, and “Weird Al” Yankovic at a book signing Sept. 24 at Circle Cinema for Yankovic’s new children’s book, “My New Teacher and Me!” The signing coincided with the 25th anniversary of the filming of “UHF,” which was shot in Tulsa and starred Yankovic. Circle Cinema screened the film following the book signing.

Junior League of Tulsa Stephanie Eckman, Junior League financial council vice-president, and President Liz Brolick attended the Junior League’s Spring Gala at Saks Fifth Avenue. The event was Sept. 6 in conjunction with the Stephanie Kantis jewelry trunk show.

Tulsa Children’s Museum Susan and Jeff Stava, Stephanie Stump, Anne Galbraith and Travis Owens attended the preview event for Animation by Cartoon Network, the newest exhibit at the Tulsa Children’s Museum Discovery Lab. The exhibit is open through Jan. 5 and is sponsored by the George Kaiser Family Foundation and Patricia and Donald Hardin.

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Raisin’ Cain 2013 The major annual fundraiser for Clarehouse was held recently at Cain’s Ballroom. Pictured are Honorary Chairs Nancy and Hank Harbaugh, Clarehouse Executive Director Kelley Scott and Event Chairwoman Rebecca Sherwood. The event raised more than $46,000 for Clarehouse, which provides a loving home, quality end-of-life care and access to hospice services for people in need.

Riverfield Country Day School Members of the student council at Riverfield Country Day School take a break between games at the school’s powderpuff football fundraiser. The student council planned several such activities in support of the Oklahoma Secondary School Activities Association’s Win-Win Week and raised more than $2,300 for cancer research. Pictured are Zach Davenport, Adam Jafaar, Robert Beers, Emma Keely, J.P. Naifeh, Logan Mitchell, Alex Rogers, Maddie O’ Bar, Erica Kelley and Reese Goettel.

Fight Night The 22nd installment of the boxing-themed Tulsa Charity Fight Night raised $150,000 for the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Oklahoma. Organizers presented the check to the charity’s CEO, Jeff Summers. Pictured are Bailey Siegfried, Meredith Siegfried, Terrell Siegfried and Hastings Siegfried. Their late father, Ray H. Siegfried II, was the founder and director of Fight Night.

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Margaritaville Groundbreaking Jerry Floyd, general manager of River Spirit Casinos; Principal Chief George Tiger of the Muscogee (Creek) Nation; and Pat Crofts, CEO of Muscogee (Creek) Nation Casinos; at the groundbreaking celebration for the $335 million luxury resort to be built on the banks of the Arkansas River. The resort is set to open in 2015.

Champions of Health Champions of Health dinner co-chairs Gary and Sandra Trennepohl with keynote speaker Regis Philbin. The gala was Oct. 8.

MLK Bell Ringing Ceremony Orator Thadddeus Bailey, soloist Carmela Hill, former State Sen. Judy Eason McIntyre, the Rev. G. Calvin McCutchen and Rabbi Marc Boone Fitzerman at the special ceremony sponsored by the Martin Luther King Jr. Commemoration Society of Tulsa at the John Hope Franklin Center for Reconciliation Park. The event honored the 50th anniversary of King’s historic “I Have a Dream” speech on Aug. 28, 1963, which was recited by Bailey, the winner of the MLK Society’s annual oratorical contest. The event was co-sponsored by Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, the John Hope Franklin Center, Metropolitan Urban League, Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry and the YWCA Tulsa.

Total Pilates Studio Instructors from Total Pilates Studio gathered to celebrate the business’ 10th anniversary Sept. 12. Pictured are (front row) Taheerah Salim, Kent Basnett and Janice Bamford and (back row) Karen Bates, Jeanne Franks, co-owners Ros Elder and Jill Balch, Louise Cronk and Lisa Coffee-Smith.

Remodeled Tulsa Tour Home Builders Association members Ken Saltink, All American Remodel; Glenn Simms, Re-Bath of Tulsa; Barry Helms, Renovations by Helms; Ed Kaplan, The Buckingham Group; Camille Helms, Renovations by Helms; Bill Powers, Powers Design and Build; Peter Grant, Grant Homes; David Moloney, Masterpiece Renovations; and Rob Miles, Milestone Homes Inc.; gathered at the Remodeled Tulsa Tour patron party. The tour, which featured newly remodeled homes by HBA members, was Sept. 21-22.

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November compiled by JUDY LANGDON

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Dotson, patron chairwoman for the Old Bags Luncheon benefiting Crosstown Learning Center, hosted a kick-off luncheon ahead of this month’s event. Pictured are Debbi Guilfoyle, Crosstown executive director; Melissa Siemens, Old Bags Luncheon chairwoman; Elizabeth Inbody, Crosstown event coordinator; and Dotson.

Cunningham, DREAM Institute alumni scholar and trustee, and Jeremy Campbell, 2012 Power to DREAM Achiever Award recipient and 2013 ESPY Award winner, are gearing up for the 10th annual DREAM Institute Achievers Award Banquet.

Through Nov. 3 — Care Card 2013 Benefits Family & Children’s Services. Care Cards can be purchased through most participating retailers, online at www.fcsok.org/carecard or at Family & Children’s Services’ Central Office, 650 S. Peoria Ave.

230 E. First St. Cocktails and hors d’oeuvre reception, entertainment and food. $75, tickets; $500 and up, sponsorships. Benefits Planned Parenthood of the Heartland. Visit www.ppheartland.org.

Nov. 1 — Painted Pony Ball 6:30 p.m. Cox Business Center, 100 Civic Center. Dinner, live auction, and performances by Chris Young and Dwight Yoakam. $750, ticket; $1,500$200,000 sponsorships. Benefits Children’s Hospital Foundation at Saint Francis. Contact Julie Antis, 918-502-6761; or visit www.saintfrancis.com.

Nov. 7 — Stacked Deck 6-9 p.m. Living Arts of Tulsa, 306 E. Brady St. Art exhibition and sale, food and beverages, and artist demos. $80. Benefits Resonance. Visit www.resonancetulsa.org.

Nov. 7 — Collectors’ Reserve 2013 Art Sale 6 p.m., art sale opens; 7:30 p.m., fixed-price box draw. Gilcrease Museum, 1400 N. Gilcrease Museum Road. Small original works by various artists for sale. $50, Gilcrease members; $65, not-yet-members. Business attire; valet parking. Reservations required. Online sales through Nov. 14. Benefits Gilcrease Museum. Call 918-596-2758, or visit www.gilcrease.utulsa.edu. Nov. 7— Ihloff Fall Show 7 p.m. Assembly Hall, Cox Business Center, 100 Civic Center. $15, in advance; $20, at the door; $100, VIP passes. Benefits Arts & Humanities Council of Tulsa. Visit www.ihloffspa.com. Nov. 7 — “Planned Parenthood, I Am Here for You,” featuring Lizz Winstead 7 p.m. IDL Ballroom,

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Nov. 7 — “Wine for Water and Hope” 6 p.m., doors open; 6:30 p.m., wine flights. Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 111 E. First St. Live jazz, silent and live auctions, international wines, and stories and friends from Nicaragua. Karen Keith, Tulsa County commissioner, emcee. $65, in advance; $75, at the door. Benefits JustHope. Visit www.justhope.org. Nov. 8 — Signature Chefs Auction 6 p.m. Mayo Hotel, 115 W. Fifth St. Local celebrity chefs offer tastes of their signature restaurant dishes; silent and live auctions. $250. Benefits March of Dimes. Contact Roxanne Minnick, 918-877-1096 or rminnick@marchofdimes.com; or visit www.marchofdimes.com/ oklahoma. Nov. 11 — 10th annual Power to DREAM Achievers Award Banquet, “Believe in Possibilities” 6 p.m., silent auction and reception; 7 p.m., dinner and program. Tulsa Marriott

Southern Hills, 1902 E. 71st St. Honors the late Nate Waters. Benefits The DREAM Institute. Visit www.dreaminstitute.org. Nov. 14 — Unite! 2013 5:30-7 p.m. Tulsa Community College Center for Creativity, 910 S. Boston Ave. Celebration of 2013 Tulsa Area United Way campaign. Benefits Tulsa Area United Way. Visit www.tauw.org/unite. Nov. 15 — America Recycles Day Awards Banquet 2013 6:30 p.m. Hyatt Regency, 100 E. Second St. Dinner and awards honoring individuals and organizations making positive efforts in recycling in Oklahoma. $75, tickets; $500, $1,000 and $1,500, sponsorships. Benefits Friends of the M.E.T. (Metropolitan Environmental Trust) Inc. Call 918-584-0584, or visit www.metrecycle.com. Nov. 16 — 2013 Champagne & Chocolate Gala 7 p.m. Living ArtSpace, Living Arts of Tulsa, 307 E. Brady St. Works of 100 artists from Oklahoma and beyond available for sale. With Champagne and chocolate. Benefits Living Arts of Tulsa. Call Steve Liggett, 918-5851234; or visit www.livingarts.org. Nov. 18 — Old Bags Luncheon 10:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Southern Hills Country Club, 2636 E. 61st St. More than 300 handbags for sale. Benefits Crosstown Learning Center. Contact Elizabeth Inbody, 918-582-1457; or visit www.crosstowntulsa.org.

Nov. 19 — Wild at Art 4-7:30 p.m. Tulsa Garden Center, 2435 S. Peoria Ave. James Lish, featured speaker. Original art for sale, including pottery, photography and garden art; and Audubon T-shirts and wildlife/nature gifts. Hosted by Tulsa Audubon Society and Wing It (Wildlife in Need Group.) Free admission. Benefits Tulsa Audubon Society and Tulsa-area wildlife rehabilitators. Contact Kim Doner, 918-298-2980 or kimdraws@att.net; or visit www.tulsaaudubon.org. Nov. 23 — 2013 Beaujolais Nouveau 6 p.m. Sky Loft Event Center, 41st Floor, First Place Tower, 15 E. Fifth St. Food and wine. Benefits the American Lung Association. Contact Cynthia Simonds, 918-747-3441, ext. 208; or visit https://alagulf.ejoinme.org/ 2013beaujolaisnouveau. Nov. 23 — The Center Holiday Mart 9:30 a.m.-2 p.m. The Center for Individuals with Physical Challenges, 815 S. Utica Ave. Holiday décor and crafts created by members of The Center. Benefits The Center for Individuals with Physical Challenges. Visit www.tulsacenter.org. Nov. 23-24 — Williams Route 66 Marathon weekend Saturday, 8 a.m., 5K run; 9 a.m., fun run and walk; Sunday, 8 a.m.-2:30 p.m., marathon, half-marathon and marathon relay. Benefits Tulsa Area United Way through Run United. Visit www.route66marathon.com.

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programs. Some of the problem is due to lack of transportation. Funding is also a neverending issue.

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Jane Simmons

Volunteer and board member, New Hope Oklahoma Nov. 29 — Turkey Trot 8:30 a.m.10:30 p.m. Fleet Feet Sports’ Blue Dome store, 418 E. Second St. 8:30 a.m., 5K run; 9:30 a.m., 1-mile fun run and walk. $10-$30. Benefits Family and Children’s Services’ Women in Recovery. Call 918-492-3338; or visit www.fleetfeettulsa.com. Nov. 30 — Dye Hard Fan Dash Noon. Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St. Untimed 5K run in which fans can support their favorite Oklahoma collegiate teams. Tailgating, live music and food. A portion of proceeds benefits Junior Diabetes Research Foundation. Visit www.guthriegreen.com.

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Since 1992, New Hope Oklahoma has helped thousands of young people ages 5-18 deal with the challenge of having a parent in prison. This past year it served more than 400 children in its various programs. Jane Simmons has supported New Hope for nearly 10 years and has been a volunteer for the past five. She is serving her fourth year on the board. Tell us how New Hope Oklahoma began. A few Episcopalians doing prison ministry realized that a primary concern of prisoners was the children that they left behind. To meet the need for positive experiences for these children, those volunteers provided three days of camp to a handful of children that summer. Over the past 21 years, New Hope’s services have greatly expanded to also include after-school programs, community-based programs, weekend retreats and case-management services. Explain the challenges New Hope Oklahoma faces in assisting these children. One is the sheer number of children that we have in Tulsa who have a parent incarcerated due to Oklahoma’s high incarceration rates. A disappointment lies in the fact that we cannot serve more of these children. I know New Hope had a long waiting list last year for many of its

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What has been the most rewarding experience for you as a New Hope volunteer? My most rewarding experience has come from getting to know one of the young men that I picked up at school each week and took to the after-school programs, knowing that he was working so hard to graduate and go on to college. ... More New Hope children than ever before graduated from high school this year, nine of whom were the first in their families to earn a high school diploma. How is New Hope helping these children eventually be reunited with their parents? Because of Oklahoma’s high (recidivism) rates, New Hope aims to retain all of its clients until they graduate from high school — even after parents are released from prison. We know that if we remain a constant force in children of prisoners’ lives, despite stressful shifts in caregivers, siblings and schools, we will increase the likelihood of positive child development and positive long-term outcomes for the children we serve. Unfortunately, the theme of parents being released from prison, children’s excitement mounting and parents returning to prison is not uncommon. ... That is not to say that New Hope has not seen successful reunification with incarcerated parents. New Hope’s case-management program works to help in the reunification process. ... We certainly can’t meet every need, but by listening empathetically to our families and networking with other agencies, we are helping fill in many of the holes that leave our families struggling, especially (for) those who are in the reunification process.

Nov. 16 — “Music of the Night: A Black Tie Affair” 6:30 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Church, Great Hall, 501 S. Cincinnati Ave. Benefits New Hope Oklahoma. To purchase tickets, contact Lindsay Fry-Geier, lindsay@newhopeoklahoma.org.

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Living Arts hosts two diverse events this month.

Choregus Productions presents Gallim Dance In its Oklahoma debut, the New York City-based Gallim Dance Company will perform “Blush,” an emotional and physically challenging performance that investigates themes of intimacy, instability and the desire of the heart and body to feel strongly. Butoh (a Japanese dance style) and ballet inspire the dance set to music that ranges from Chopin to electro punk.

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Tickets are $5 at the door, and children 12 and under get in free. Living Arts of Tulsa is located at 307 E. Brady St. For more information, visit www.livingarts.org. CHAMPAGNE & CHOCOLATE The party continues at Living Arts with the Champagne & Chocolate Gala and Holiday Art Sale & Auction

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The murals on the Living Arts building behind Artistic Director Steve Liggett were part of a contest for the 2012 Day of the Dead Arts Festival. The competition will return this year. from 7-10 p.m., Nov. 16. Works by local artists are specially chosen and priced for the holidays. “It’s the art party of the year,” Liggett says. Co-chairs Lori Sears and Jerrid Horton say to expect a Wearable Art Fashion Show curated by Terri Higgs, live entertainment by Sarah Maud, ceramic corsets by Nicole Moon of Oklahoma City, and jewelry, turned wood, fiber art, pottery, photography, sculpture, glass vessels, mixed media and ceramics. How do you pick that one piece to hang in your home or give to a friend? Liggett suggests, “Get something that stimulates you; a work should have the energy to allow the viewer to see something new each time.” The auction and sale will include paintings by Christopher Westfall, mosaic artwork by Leigh Standingbear, sculptures by Lisa Regan and bowties by Jessica Angon. Many of the artists will be in attendance. Gala dress runs from tuxes to creative

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iving Arts of Tulsa presents two big parties this month: the Day of the Dead Arts Festival, Nov. 1, and the Champagne & Chocolate Holiday Gala, Nov. 16. The Day of the Dead, or Dia De Los Muertos, festival is Living Arts’ way of building a bridge between Tulsa’s Hispanic and non-Hispanic communities, says Artistic Director Steve Liggett. The community and Tulsa students are invited to build altars prior to the event in honor of the deceased. The altars will then be displayed in a Living Arts exhibit called “Altared Spaces.” You will see altars for famous people as well as altars with pictures and personal histories of deceased family members and friends. When I first saw “Altared Spaces,” I cried like a baby; it was touching, emotional. Bring tissues. The Rev. David Medina will bless the altars the night of the festival in a Hispanic-Catholic ritual with drumming, incense and prayers. At the street party outside, you’ll find margaritas, along with Hispanic foods, art for sale, a skeleton parade and live Hispanic music on two stages. The mural contest and a children’s activities area for sugar skull decorating and chalk altars will return. Plus, there will be a loteria area (for Mexican bingo).

styles to jeans, but Liggett says to arrive in your most extravagant attire. Of course, there will be a couple of glasses of complimentary Champagne and lots of chocolate from the Brady Arts District’s chocolatier, Glacier Confection, as well as treats from Dragon Moon Tea Co., plus complimentary food from local restaurants. If you can’t make it to the gala and holiday sale, you have a second chance to purchase art from 1-4 p.m., Sunday, Nov. 17. Proceeds from the art sale go to Living Arts and its partnership with the Any Given Child program. Spearheaded by the Kennedy Center, the initiative’s primary goal is to assist communities in developing plans for expanded arts education in schools, ensuring access and equity for students in grades K-8. tþ

Tickets are $35 in advance and are available at www.livingarts.org until 5 p.m., Nov. 15. Tickets also may be purchased at the door for $45. Group packages of six tickets are $180.

8 p.m., Nov. 16, and 3 p.m., Nov. 17, at Cascia Hall Performing Arts Center, 2520 S. Yorktown Ave. Tickets are $15-$40. Call 918-6886112. Visit www.myticketoffice. com or www.choregus.org. Nightingale Theatre Old Crow Confessions Reminiscent of an AA meeting with booze, everyone is welcome to take a shot of courage and unburden themselves during this unrehearsed evening of cheap whiskey, live music and confessions on the theme of failure, regret, humiliation, fear, guilt and secret pleasures, according to the event website.

10 p.m.-midnight, Nov. 23, at Nightingale Theatre, 1416 E. Fourth St. Free.

Kendra Blevins is a freelance writer who enjoys playwriting, community theater, traveling and reading.

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Blowing up All About A Bubble is recording its second pop-rock album.

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by JARROD GOLLIHARE Fabian Robles, Clinton Summers, Dustin Storm and Luke Chronister are All About A Bubble.

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lways remember, kids ... it pays to be prepared. Well, that’s what All About A Bubble discovered anyhow. This local combo has made quite an impression on club-goers over the past few years with its energetic live shows and fervent, catchy alterna-rock. Despite its easy-breezy moniker, though, band members — guitarists/vocalists Dustin Storm and Luke Chronister, bassist Clinton Summers and drummer Fabian Robles — aren’t afraid to turn it up to 11. And the band’s 2011 arrival to the crowded Tulsa music scene as a fully formed, tight rock act (which proceeded to quickly gain a loyal following) certainly didn’t happen on a whim. These boys had been hard at work before anyone knew who they were. The band formed after their previous groups (Chronister and Summers had been in Astellaway, Robles was in Krsna the Scarecrow, and Storm was in The Televised) broke up nearly simultaneously. Chronister called Storm and asked if he wanted to form a new band. “We had all done the ‘traveling in a band from coast to coast playing really small, meaningless shows’ thing,” Storm says. “Before we even started writing, we all got together and talked about the things we had done right or wrong (in our previous bands). One of the things we all agreed we had done wrong was going out into the scene unprepared. “So, we wrote the album in the first six months of the band, then we rehearsed it for six months before we ever booked a show. I think that really benefitted us. We were already locked in on the songs.” After debuting the band at the Woodystock Music Festival in 2011,

held at Tulsa Honors Orchestra founder Jody Naifeh’s ranch near Sapulpa, All About A Bubble began playing all the usual music hotspots such as The Shrine and The Vanguard. In the summer of 2012 — emboldened by its local shows and ready to hit the road for some interstate touring — the band purchased thousands of dollars of gear. Unfortunately, the group’s trailer was stolen soon afterward ... along with its shiny, new equipment. Bye-bye tour. Instead of moping, however, the band took this disaster as a cue to do something positive. The four musicians decided to record their debut CD as a way to make a little money while recovering from their loss. By the time the police had recovered most of the band’s gear four months later, they had already released “The Life and Times Of,” a spirited 12-track blast of self-produced pop rock. To top it off, the combo’s local following was steadily growing ... and zealous.

“We have a really solid fan base for whatever reason, something none of us have ever had playing locally before,” Storm says. “The crowd is actually an important part of our show. ” All About A Bubble is currently recording its follow-up CD, “The Sailor, The Captain,” set for release in early 2014. Storm, the sole songwriter for the band’s debut CD, says the new release will be more of a collaborative effort. In the meantime, the band is hitting the road for a tour that will include national hotspots such as The Bluebird Café in Nashville, Tenn., and The Whisky A Go-Go in Los Angeles. tþ

Jarrod Gollihare is a freelance writer and one-third of Tulsa power-pop group Admiral Twin. He’s also a music producer and a painter of odd things. He claims to be the true king of Prussia, but no one believes him.

Ballroom If you’re looking for a strange amalgamation of live electronica, experimental world fusion music and provocative performance art (and, really, who isn’t?) you’ll want to be in attendance when Beats Antique takes the stage. Smashing brass bands, string quartets, glitch, electro-coustic breakbeats and dubstep together in a weird stew with Bollywood spectacle, top hats, a sea of animal masks, wild feather headdresses and “a stage performance containing more sensory indulgences than the most lavish genie’s lair,” this California trio is sure to blow your mind.

Show starts at 8 p.m.

11/22 Matt Nathanson, Cain’s Ballroom San Francisco singer/songwriter Matt Nathanson’s ability to pair keen observations of everyday life with hooky choruses and dynamic performances has earned him a certified smashhit single, “Come On Get Higher,” as well as coveted placements for his music in a plethora of TV shows and films. Nathanson and his band are touring to support his latest release and ninth studio recording, “Last of the Great Pretenders.” Doors

open at 6:30 p.m.; concert begins at 7:30. Joshua Radin is the opening act.

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WORTH READING

News and notes on the local literary scene

You’ll dig these books Two new works from OU Press are short, but absorbing. by ANGIE JACKSON

wo books stand out among the University of Oklahoma Press’ eclectic fall catalog choices. Both are fiction, both are quick reads — about 200 pages — and share the theme of archeology. “The Dig” by Sheldon Russell focuses on two men, one from the past, one from the present, in pursuit of power. If you grew up in Oklahoma or have read about its history, you know that Coronado was the first European explorer to this part of the world. You also know he was ruthless and greedy. Russell has written about Coronado’s time here and in southern Kansas and parallels protagonist Jim Hunt’s current unauthorized archeological dig in Lyons, Kan. Both men are searching for more than gold or bones; they seek self-aggrandizement. My favorite chapter in “The Dig” describes Coronado’s first sight of a buffalo herd about which he learned from his Indian guide, Isopete. The magnificent, thundering animals in the thousands get ambushed in a dead-end canyon, and the conquistadors, after many days of near starvation, gorge themselves. Russell is a former public school English teacher and professor emeritus from the University

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of Central Oklahoma. “The Dig,” his sixth book, is a spellbinding story uniquely framed in history, his forte. His fictional rendition “Dreams to Dust: A Tale of the Oklahoma Land Rush” was selected as an official Oklahoma Centennial Project. “Boneland” by Nance Van Winckel is set mostly in Montana, where two brothers grew up on a ranch rich with dinosaur fossils. Their daughters, Jessie and Lynette, struggle with their family’s past and its ramifications on their own lives. “Boneland” is self-described as “linked essays,” a literary form that has become a popular format. “Olive Kitteridge” by Elizabeth Strout was the breakout novel of this style. Lynette is recovering from a botched Lasik surgery. All looks different now to her, even events of yesterday: “If I am unable, next week or next month, to see the glacier, am I simply to stand there in memory?” The whole family is reconstructing mysteries from the past. The 19 essays, mostly narrated by Lynette, cover the years 1958-2005, not in chronological order.

“She was one of them, I was one of them and they were the West once,” Lynette thinks. “They’d even tried to plant apple trees. These silly people. My kin ... I’d walked among those shriveled apple trees that still produced shriveled apples.” We all have shriveled apples and shriveled bones in our pasts. The last essay is Jessie’s, who survives Thailand’s tsunami but emerges with amnesia. When questioned, Jessie thinks, “I forget myself.” “Boneland” is a challenging read. Winckel lives in Spokane, Wash., and has taught writing at various graduate school programs. She is a poet foremost, although she can claim three books of short stories. Her writing is lyrical and the intent abstract. In “Boneland” the reader is coerced to think about the author’s version of the world’s chaos. tþ

A reader and freelance writer, Angie Jackson has had a lifelong career doing both. After 16 years as book columnist for TulsaPeople, she lives and breathes the words of regional and visiting writers.

2013 PEGGY V. HELMERICH DISTINGUISHED AUTHOR AWARD Kazuo Ishiguro, a Japanese-born British novelist, is the winner of the Tulsa Library Trust’s 2013 Peggy V. Helmerich Distinguished Author Award. The award’s purpose is to formally recognize, on behalf of the Tulsa County community, internationally acclaimed authors with distinguished bodies of work who have made major contributions to the field of literature. Recipients receive a $40,000 cash prize and an engraved crystal book. After his first three novels — “A Pale View of Hills,” “An Artist of the Floating World” and “The Remains of the Day” — Ishiguro emerged as one of the foremost British writers of his generation. He is one of the most celebrated contemporary fiction authors in the world, receiving four Man Booker Prize nominations and winning the 1989 award for “The Remains of the Day.” All three novels have been adapted into feature films. Ishiguro also is the author of several screenplays and a short story collection, “Nocturnes: Five Stories of Music and Nightfall.”

Dec. 6 — Black-tie dinner and award presentation 7 p.m. Southern Hills Country Club, 2636 E. 61st St. $150. To purchase tickets or for more information, call 918-549-7366. Dec. 7 — Public award presentation 10:30 a.m. Hardesty Regional Library, Connor’s Cove, 8316 E. 93rd St. Free. Visit www.helmerichaward.org.

ENTERTAINMENT TO APPLAUD

TULS A BALLET

DELIGHT in the humorous tale of four crisscrossed lovers in this enchanting reimagining of Shakespeare’s classic, complete with magical flying effects and nearly 30 local children in the roles of woodland sprites and fairies. Music by Felix Mendelssohn and choreography by Christopher Wheeldon bring the forest to life. Tulsa Ballet first performed Wheeldon’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream in 2004. At that time, James D. Watts Jr. of the Tulsa World wrote, “Shakespeare’s lightest, most genial comedy has been translated winningly into pure movement and music. … Wheeldon’s choreography delineates the characters and their relationships so clearly that one hardly needs more than a basic synopsis to follow the action.”

Julie Shelton

A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DREAM

November 1-2 at 8 p.m. November 3 at 3 p.m. CHAPMAN MUSIC HALL Tickets are $20-$99.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING EARNEST SUBTITLED A Trivial Comedy for Serious People, The Importance of Being Earnest is the funniest farce — and the most enduringly popular play — from one of the greatest wits of all time, Oscar Wilde. Two friends pretend to be “Ernest” to charm their respective loves, but when both couples holiday at a country estate at the same time, the

two men risk having their romantic hopes dashed. Directed by L.A.-based Tulsa native Clayton B. Hodges, this production is set in a neo-futuristic world. November 8-9, 14-16 at 8 p.m. November 10, 17 at 2 p.m. L I D D Y D O E N G E S T H E AT R E Tickets are $18; $14 for seniors, students and children.

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DAN RATHER TEXAS NATIVE Dan Rather is one of the most recognized and renowned reporters of our time. Best known as anchor of the CBS Evening News from 1981 to 2005, Rather was a bureau chief, White House correspondent and foreign correspondent for CBS before that, covering historic events like the Civil Rights Movement, the assassination of President Kennedy, the Vietnam War and Watergate. Rather has received virtually every honor in broadcast journalism, including numerous Emmy and Peabody Awards and the 2012 Edward R. Murrow Award for Lifetime Achievement. His latest journalistic venture is the hard-edged news program Dan Rather Reports on AXS TV, where he continues to report on major issues facing our nation today.

Josh New

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RAGTIME FOR TULS A

RON SPIGELMAN, principal pops conductor of the Fort Worth Symphony, returns to lead Tulsa Symphony in another mix of live music and film. Spigelman previously led the orchestra as it accompanied showings of The Wizard of Oz and Disney’s Pirates of the Caribbean: Curse of the Black Pearl. This time it’s Disney’s Fantasia, which will include the original Fantasia, along with some of the new segments created for Fantasia 2000. The original Fantasia, which premiered in 1940, consists of eight animated segments set to the music of Bach, Tchaikovsky, Stravinsky, Beethoven and other classical composers.

IVORY&GOLD, consisting of Jeff Barnhart on piano and vocals and Anne Barnhart on flute and vocals, will perform spirited ragtime music with a little bit of early jazz, boogie and blues sprinkled in. This husband-and-wife duo performed over 300 concerts throughout the U.S. last year. They also made numerous appearances in Europe and on top-of-the-line cruise ships. The Barnharts formed Ivory&Gold in 2001, and they continue to thrill audiences with their music, historical anecdotes and humor. The couple’s versatility and rapport create an incomparable listening experience for all ages!

DISNEY’S FANTASIA

IVORY&GOLD

November 9 at 7:30 p.m. CHAPMAN MUSIC HALL Tickets are $15-$70.

November 10 at 7 p.m. J O H N H . W I L L I A M S T H E AT R E Tickets are $25; $5 for students.

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IRVING BERLIN’S WHITE CHRISTMAS DREAMING OF a fun holiday show for the whole family? Nominated for two 2009 Tony Awards — Best Choreography and Best Orchestrations — Irving Berlin’s White Christmas is an all-ages treat for the eyes and ears. In this Broadway musical version of the classic holiday movie that starred Bing Crosby, Danny Kaye, VeraEllen and Rosemary Clooney, two showbiz buddies put on a show in a magical Vermont inn and, in the process, find their perfect mates. Brimming with Berlin hits such as “Blue Skies,” “Happy Holiday” and, of course, the unforgettable title song, this show promises to be a merry and bright theatrical experience! November 12-17 CHAPMAN MUSIC HALL Tickets are $20-$65.

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CHAMBER MUSIC TULS A

VIENNA PIANO TRIO STEEPED IN THE GRAND Central European tradition, the Vienna Piano Trio delivers electrifying performances with elegance and polish. Composed of Bogdan Bozovic (violin), Stefan Mendl (piano) and Matthias

Gredler (cello), the trio is currently the ensemblein-residence at Vienna’s Konzerthaus. On November 15, the trio will perform a onehour concert of music by composers from one of the greatest European music capitals. This “Evening in Vienna” concert will be followed by dessert and champagne in the Norman Theatre and an opportunity to mingle and greet the guest artists. On November 17, the group will perform Haydn’s Trio in E Minor Hob. XV/12; Beethoven’s Trio in D Major, Op. 70, No. 1, “Ghost”; and Saint-Saëns’ Trio in E Minor, Op. 92. November 15 at 8 p.m. J O H N H . W I L L I A M S T H E AT R E Tickets are $30; $15 for students.

November 17 at 3 p.m. J O H N H . W I L L I A M S T H E AT R E Tickets are $25; $5 for students.

MILLS ENTERTAINMENT

BUDDY VALASTRO: THE CAKE BOSS FAMILY CELEBRATIONS TOUR IN THIS LIVE, interactive event, TLC’s Cake Boss, Buddy Valastro, will share stories about his highly popular TV shows and his family bakery in Hoboken, New Jersey. He will answer audience questions and give lots of live cakedecorating demonstrations, sharing tips and techniques in a high-energy experience for the whole family. One of the centerpiece shows of the TLC network, Cake Boss is now in its sixth season. Viewers continue to celebrate the mouthwatering desserts and not-to-be-missed Valastro family moments occurring at Carlo’s Bakery, which recently celebrated its 103rd anniversary. Valastro’s other TLC TV series, Next Great Baker, launched its fourth season this month. Valastro is the author of four books, including the just-released Family Celebrations with the Cake Boss.

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JIM BRICKMAN: THE MAGIC OF CHRISTMAS WITH SPECIAL GUESTS Anne Cochran, Tracy Silverman and Luke McMaster, Jim Brickman delivers the perfect blend of music and entertainment. Emotion, intimacy, warmth and humor come together for the ideal winter’s night celebration, featuring holiday favorites and songs from Brickman’s latest CD, The Magic of Christmas, along with the hits that have made him the best-selling pianist of our time. Brickman has amassed 27 Top 40 singles on the adult contemporary charts, including 14 Top 10 smashes. “Valentine,” his collaboration with country singer Martina McBride, was a number one hit on Billboard’s Adult Contemporary Chart and a top 10 Country hit in 1998. The award-winning country pop group Lady Antebellum made their debut in 2007 as guest vocalists on Brickman’s single “Never Alone.” November 23 at 8 p.m.

November 24 at 7 p.m.

CHAPMAN MUSIC HALL Tickets are $50-$65.

CHAPMAN MUSIC HALL Tickets are $25.75-$36.75. VIP tickets ($95) include a postshow meet-and-greet and a copy of Valastro’s new book.

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The Last Word

Commentary on Tulsa life by CONNIE CRONLEY

The learning curve

The title I wanted for this

column was “How we learn what we learn if we learn it at all,” but that was too long. “Learning curve” seems too gentle. A learning curve suggests an accompaniment of encouraging comments such as, “That’s the way, but let’s try it again.” Much learning seems not to be a curve at all, but a straight line. Sometimes the line is flat. That’s what a restaurateur meant as he saw his fifth restaurant go broke. “Do I have 35 years experience in this business,” he asked, “or have I made the same mistake for 35 years?” Sometimes the learning line is a sharp incline. That’s when we learn something the hard way and say, “Wow. I won’t be doing that again.” Such as: have a couple of glasses of wine and trim your own hair. The learning line can be a steady decline. That’s when people shake their heads sadly and say, “She just doesn’t get it, does she?” Some of us never learn. Some of us don’t want to learn. We are happy the way we are, flaws and all. I knew a pretty young woman with a slight speech impediment, a “W” for “R” substitution. Not as pronounced as Elmer Fudd’s speech; more like a little girl’s cute mispronunciation. This was back when I was in charge of fixing the world, so I arranged for her to see a speech therapist. Nothing changed. She liked the way she spoke, and I kept on trying to fix people. Some of us are determined to change the answer and show the world we’re the one who is right. These are the righteously stubborn who

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keep walking into a wall determined to prove it’s a door. This is not as entertaining to watch as some might think. Learning can come in a happy eureka moment or over time, with age and experience. Harry Truman said, “The only things worth learning are the things you learn after you know it all.”

Sometimes the learning line is a sharp incline. That’s when we learn something the hard way and say, “Wow. I won’t be doing that again.” Some of the lessons we learn come too late. What you learn when you’re fired: you should have seen that coming. Take it as an opportunity to move on. What you learn when you’re dumped: you should never have chosen that person in the first place. Take it as an opportunity to move on. What you learn when your mother dies: you want to contact everybody you sent a cursory condolence note to and say, “I really, really am sorry because now I know what a loss that is.” What you learn when a friend betrays you: stunning pain.

What you learn when a friend defends you: deep gratitude. What you learn when you fall down stairs, drive over a curb, back into the garage door and lose the TV remote all in one week: you need to slow down, do less and de-stress. What you learn when your new hair color is garish: it’s only hair. It’s not like you painted your house a ghastly color. What you learn when you do paint your house a ghastly color: to say you like it that way and let some time pass before you repaint it. What you learn when you hit 40, 50, 60, 70, 80 ... : boy, I’ve wasted a lot of time. I’d better make hay while the sun shines. Which brings me to November. I used to think of November as bleak. Our long summer and short autumn are over. All that lies ahead is the frenzy of the holidays and then snowstorms and ice storms. (What you learn during an ice storm: you simply must remember to unhook the garden hose from the house before the faucet freezes.) Over the years, I have learned to like November. No guilt about gardening when I’m lolling inside, reading a book. Too late to worry about moving the big pots of plants before they freeze. No more getting up early Saturday mornings to go to the farmers’ market. No more stressing about how I look in T-shirts and shorts. No more having to see flip-flops on everyone. T.S. Eliot called the month “sombre November.” I’ve learned to see November not as dark and dull, but to welcome it with an “ahhhh” of relief. tþ

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