Instead of being a funeral agency, “Be-with” is a professional guide who stands by the bereaved and accompanies them throughout the funeral process. We believe that through handling their loved one’s funeral in person, the bereaved would be given a chance to express their grief and thoughts. This helps them to soothe the negative emotions such as distress, fear, anxiety, regret, despair and anger that always come with bereavement. It also enables them to accept their loss and equips themselves with knowledge about funeral matters. From helplessness to helping others, many service users are empowered to become volunteers to help other bereaved people. Everyone reacts differently to loss, but there are always the needs to be cared for, be heard and be accompanied which are common to all. We encourage the public to break the taboo of death and be more proactive in caring for the bereaved - be more aware of their mental condition and needs, and provide timely assistance and companionship to relieve their feelings of loneliness and grief. We also encourage the bereaved to reach out for help. With bereavement support, they will be able to find hope in the midst of struggles. We would like to give our heartfelt thanks to Chun Tei Kok Buddhist Association Limited and Ms. Ko Lai-chi who have funded this meaningful service for the past 10 years. Our gratitude also goes to our Board of Directors for the financial support on the research. We would also like to express our appreciation to Dr. Chan Chi-ho, Wallace and his team from the Chinese University of Hong Kong for their unrivalled research efforts. Lastly, thanks are extended to all interviewees for their keen participation in this study. Elderly Services Section Community Services Division Tung Wah Group of Hospitals
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