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Birthright Israel brings 13,500 participants to Israel
As antisemitism reaches historic levels across the world, Birthright Israel participants will strengthen their Jewish identity and build relationships with the land and people of Israel when they need it most – returning home with a renewed sense of pride and determination, ready to stand up for their beliefs on campus and in their communities.
More than 13,500 Birthright participants are filling streets of Jerusalem and Tel Aviv, immersed in Israeli culture – seeing the real Israel for themselves. This summer, Birthright is the largest educational tourism provider to Israel. An additional 2,100 Israeli young adults will participate on a Birthright trip, strengthening the bonds between Israel and the diaspora and sending a message of love and support during this time of war. This is part of a series spotlighting local and overseas partner agencies that are beneficiaries of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s annual Community Campaign.
KNOWLEDGE IS KEY SOME BASIC FACTS.
• During Israel’s 1948 War of Independence, Prime Minister David Ben-Gurion struck a deal with leaders of the Haredi community to exempt those whose full-time occupation was Torah study from mandatory military service. Arab citizens of Israel typically do not serve in the military or partake in national service. (israelpolicyforum.org)
• Since October 7, 2024, Hezbollah has launched 5,000 rockets, burned thousands of acres, displaced 60,000 Israelis living in the north, and murdered 27 people. (ajc.org)
• Israel has the highest number of Nobel Prize winners per capita, more than the U.S., France, or Germany. (usnews.com)
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If online reporting is not practical, contact local law enforcement and/or the relevant suspicious activity reporting authority. Also contact Mike Goldsmith, Tidewater’s SCN Regional Security Advisor, at MGoldsmith@ujft.org or by calling 844-SCN-DESK.
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Israel’s Labor and Meretz parties merge into new alliance called the Democrats
Israel’s Labor and Meretz parties announced Sunday, June 30 that they would unite ahead of the next election in a bid to revive the country’s left and maximize its share of parliament.
The new party, called the Democrats, is the latest attempt to stem the more than 20-year decline of the Israeli left. Labor, which governed Israel for its first three decades, is now the smallest party in Knesset, Israel’s parliament. Meretz, to Labor’s left, did not receive enough votes in the most recent election to enter Knesset at all — effectively wasting the votes it got.
The merger hopes to avoid that result in the future and win the left a larger bloc of seats. The new party will be led by Yair Golan, a former Israeli general and Meretz lawmaker who gained acclaim for rescuing several people during Hamas’ invasion of Israel on Oct. 7. He has become an outspoken critic of the right-wing government’s management of the war.
“The union of Labor and Meretz is a necessary step on the road to building a broad home for the liberal, democratic community in Israel, and a necessary condition for replacing the government,” Golan posted on X.
But the war poses a challenge for the new party, whose members have for decades been identified with dovish policies and support for a Palestinian state, an idea that has increasingly fallen out of favor with Israeli voters after decades of failed negotiations and conflict. Surveys show that Oct. 7 and the war have pushed Israeli society further to the right; a survey taken earlier this year found that just 19% of Israeli Jews feel a Palestinian state can coexist in peace with Israel.
Polls have shown that most Israelis support early elections, but by law the government is not required to call a vote until 2026.
Labor and Meretz were both members of the governing coalition that briefly unseated Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s Likud Party from mid-2021 to 2022; they previously ran together on a joint slate once, in 2020. The current Knesset is the first in some 30 years not to include Meretz.
One longtime Middle East analyst noted the significance of the party’s name, particularly in a year when Israel has been at the center of American political discourse. Aaron David Miller, a senior fellow at the Carnegie Endowment, wrote on X that the party’s stances are “likely reflecting where most US Democrats are; and with Likud and right wing holding a Vulcan mind meld with the GOP, Israeli and US politics merge with two very different images of Israel.” (JTA)
176 Jewish gravestones vandalized at two Cincinnati cemeteries
Vandals in Cincinnati damaged or knocked over 176 gravestones at two historic Jewish cemeteries last month.
A joint statement from the local Jewish federation, Jewish Community Relations Council and Jewish Cemeteries of Greater Cincinnati called it an “act of antisemitic vandalism.” Most of the graves were pushed facedown, which Jewish groups said made it difficult to identify and notify the families, as local law enforcement has advised them to leave the scene untouched while they investigate.
“We are deeply saddened and outraged to report that 176 gravestones were vandalized at the Tifereth Israel Cemetery and the Beth Hamedrash Hagadol Cemetery,” the groups said in their joint statement Monday, July 1. Both cemeteries are part of a larger complex on Cincinnati’s historic west side.
The incident was the latest in a long line of antisemitic acts targeting Jewish cemeteries.
Some of the targeted gravestones dated back to the 1800s, and many were cracked by the vandalism. Local and federal law enforcement are involved in the investigation.
Antisemitism has been a growing concern for Jews nationwide since the start of the current Israel-Hamas war, with synagogues, Holocaust museums, and Jewish day schools all becoming targets for hateful acts. But Jewish cemeteries have been a consistent target of antisemitic vandalism dating well before that.
The groups implored those interested in helping to donate to the Jewish cemetery group’s monument repair fund. (JTA)
Britain’s new PM, Keir Starmer, prioritized fighting antisemitism in Labour Party
Keir Starmer, a centrist who worked to fight antisemitism in his party, is the United Kingdom’s prime minister following Labour’s landslide victory in British elections Thursday, July 4.
Labour’s win ended 14 years of Conservative rule in the U.K. The defeat for the Conservatives is the worst in its nearly two-century history.
Several of the Conservative Party’s senior figures lost their races, including the U.K.’s Jewish defense secretary, Grant Shapps, who took the post less than a year ago, and former Prime Minister Liz Truss, who held the post briefly in 2022.
Starmer took the helm of Labour following its electoral defeat in 2019 under Jeremy Corbyn, a staunchly left-wing leader and harsh
critic of Israel. Under Corbyn’s leadership, he and the party faced repeated allegations of antisemitism, and lost Jewish supporters in droves.
Starmer, whose wife, Victoria, is Jewish, worked to pull the party more to the center, including by making a concerted effort to root out antisemitism. Labour blocked Corbyn from running with the party and implemented the recommendations of a government commission investigating antisemitism in its ranks. Corbyn ran and won as an independent in his constituency this year.
“I’ve changed the Labour Party,” Starmer wrote on X. “If you put your trust in me by voting Labour, I will change the country.”
A poll of British Jews found that they were expected to vote for Labour in slightly higher numbers than the overall electorate. A Labour candidate won in the heavily Jewish London constituency of Finchley and Golders Green.
Israel came up during the campaign, as pro-Palestinian Labourites protested Starmer’s support for Israel. And in the final days of the campaign, the Conservatives attacked Starmer for signing off work at 6 pm on Friday for dinner with his family. The attack drew backlash from Jewish commentators, as Starmer has said for years that the family welcomes Shabbat together. (JTA)
7 arrested in Greece following attacks on a synagogue and Israeli-owned hotel
Greek authorities arrested and charged seven people Thursday, July 4 for two separate attacks earlier this year on a synagogue and an Israeli-owned hotel in Athens.
The incidents represented one of the latest instances of violent antisemitism in Europe since the outbreak of the Israel-Hamas war on Oct. 7. In France, a 12-year-old girl was recently the victim of an alleged antisemitic rape, and this spring, a German synagogue was targeted with a molotov cocktail.
Other recent reported targets of attack on the continent have included the Israeli embassies in Belgium and Sweden. Last month, an attacker who wounded a Serbian police officer guarding the Israeli embassy in Belgrade was shot dead.
Four of the suspects in Greece — a Greek citizen, two Iranians, and an Afghan accomplice — were charged in connection with a May incident in which a homemade bomb targeted an Israeli-owned hotel and restaurant, Reuters reported. Another three — one Greek, one Afghan and one Iranian — were also arrested in connection with a June incident in which police said two of them threw flammable material at the entrance to an Athens synagogue.
The hotel attackers were accused of plotting a racially motivated attack on a foreign-owned property, and also charged with arson that put human lives at risk. The synagogue suspects were likewise charged with arson, as well as robbery and a number of other crimes, authorities said.
Greece saw an incident of high-profile antisemitic terror one year ago, when authorities foiled a planned attack on a Chabad-Lubavitch center in Athens. (JTA)
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Strengthening community response through partnerships and exercises
Mike Goldsmith
Preparation is one of the key functions necessary to building a safe and secure community. This activity takes many forms. Training, facility hardening, drills, and exercises are all activities that allow for the preparation of effective response to a critical incident.
With this in mind, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Ohef Sholom Temple, and the Secure Community Network are supporting a Full-Scale Exercise (FSE) being undertaken by the City of Norfolk’s public safety team. The FSE will test the city’s response to a major incident at a synagogue, as well as its ability to connect and network with non-governmental entities such as UJFT, SCN, and Tidewater’s wider Jewish community.
support SCN in Tidewater.
“Our partnership with SCN is critical to our community’s preparedness in regard to safety and security,” says Levin. “With the alarming uptick in antisemitic
response as well as how to best work with the city during a critical incident. Additionally, exercises of this type strengthen Norfolk’s ability to respond to events in other cultural environments. The skills learned in working with the Jewish community will sensitize the public safety team to its need to work with other faith communities.
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Full-Scale Exercises are complex events. Unlike a Tabletop Exercise (TTX), where the participants talk through and discuss a response to a notional incident, an FSE involves a simulated full response involving the public safety apparatus of the jurisdiction responsible for mitigating the incident. In an FSE, police, fire, and the Emergency Medical System all respond to the simulated event with the tactics and tools needed to form an effective response. All involved in this FSE will go to the facility hosting the event, encounter role players who will simulate victims and suspects, and be charged with successfully and safely developing a solution to bring a resolution to the problem set they encounter.
“We are grateful for Mike Goldmith’s leadership and expertise in coordinating this Full-Scale Exercise,” says Betty Ann Levin, executive vice president/CEO, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. UJFT provides the financial resources, with the assistance of Tidewater Jewish Foundation and community donors, to
violence seen around the country, having SCN’s expertise and communication network available is a crucial component of our security program.”
Levin also emphasizes the community’s appreciation “for the strong support of our law enforcement partners, in addition to that of our elected local, state, and federal officials” for their efforts to protect the Jewish community and speak out against hate crimes.
The FSE at Ohef Sholom Temple will take place on Sunday, August 11. The scenario will replicate the October 27, 2018 shooting at the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh, Pa. These Department of Homeland Security (DHS) Core Capabilities will be tested during this exercise:
1) Planning
“Security is a 24/7 commitment that encompasses in-house training, exercises, establishing security procedures and policies, and most critically, dialoging with local law enforcement and emergency management organizations,” says David Jarvis, chair of Ohef Sholom Temple’s security committee. “As such, the FullScale Exercise is a critical component of local security planning and execution. We are extremely pleased to host the exercise at Ohef Sholom Temple.”
Training and exercising are two critical pieces of any safety and security program. Placing this FSE before the upcoming High Holiday season is intentional. It is important to never become complacent in efforts to keep one another safe.
UJFT will soon announce a training schedule to help keep the community prepared for this important time of the year. Look for the notices and sign up. Community public safety is a team sport. Everyone’s participation is needed. –
2) Public Information and Warning
3) Operational Coordination
This FSE will not only strengthen Norfolk’s ability to respond to an event, but it will also inform how the Jewish community needs to prepare for its
Contact Mike Goldsmith, mgoldsmith@securecommunitynetwork.com with any questions.
Mike Goldsmith is United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s SCN Regional Security Advisor.
Jerry Miller receives USNA Distinguished Graduate Award
A 1977 graduate of the United States Naval Academy, Jerry Miller recently received The Distinguished Graduate Award, an honor “given to living U.S. Naval Academy graduates who have made a distinctive contribution to their field or community and have demonstrated sustained, active support for the Naval Academy, Naval Academy Alumni Association, or Naval Academy Foundation,” according to the Naval Academy’s website.
Nominees are selected by members of their graduating class. This list is then reviewed by the board, which consists of leadership at the Naval Academy and members-at-large. Four alumni received this prestigious award at the end of March.
“To be honored by your peers is super special,” says Miller’s wife, Laura Miller.
A four-minute biographical video sharing Miller’s journey from a young boy in Amsterdam, N.Y. to a successful businessman and philanthropist was shown at the event. Following the video, Miller said, “The intersection of my (Jewish) faith and my gratitude for what the Naval Academy has meant to my life’s work has resulted in me being here today. My faith was often tested and very much strengthened by Naval Academy experiences.”
Miller’s family roots date back to Ellis
Island. As a Jewish minority in both Amsterdam and at the Naval Academy, Miller shared his differences with his non-Jewish friends and enjoyed what they had in common. With no other Jews in his Naval Academy company, Miller embraced the opportunity to show how these men had more in common than they were different.
Miller served seven years as a surface warfare officer. Although he left active duty in 1985, he has served the Navy as an entrepreneur in the maritime industries and the Naval Academy as a philanthropist.
Miller co-founded a ship repair company with an Academy classmate and sold it 25 years later after it became a leading U.S. Navy ship repair organization. He then founded Fairlead Integrated, a company dedicated to the current revitalization of the Navy’s shipbuilding industrial base and a critical supplier for aircraft carrier and submarine construction programs.
In 1998, Miller was a driving force in creating the Friends of the Jewish Chapel at the Naval Academy and raised $13 million to build a Jewish chapel on the Naval Academy yard. “It was the perfect intersection of the most important aspects of my life: faith, family, and the United States Navy,” he says. The Uriah P. Levy Center and Jewish Chapel was named for the Jewish commodore from Philadelphia
who faced antisemitism 200 years ago. Within the Center is the Esther and William Miller Chapel, named in memory of Miller’s parents. The Center was built “to enhance the Naval Academy’s mission to develop midshipmen morally and mentally to become ethical leaders for our naval forces,” Miller adds.
Miller grew up supporting Israel. At the Naval Academy, that backing is demonstrated via two programs supported by Jerry and Laura Miller. The couple established and support the Miller Scholars for STEM majors, a program during summer break. For two weeks,
these students complete intensive studies in Arabic at the Naval Academy and then study for another month in Haifa where they meet people from around the world and travel with a guide to Masada, Jerusalem, Tel Aviv, and other Israeli landmarks.
The Millers also underwrite spring break trips for midshipmen to travel to Israel. “It’s highly selective to get on this trip,” says Laura Miller. She and her husband meet with all participants before and after these trips. “Cultural immersion is the purpose of these experiences,” she says.
Russian Resettlement brought JFS and entire Jewish community together for two decades
Joel Rubin
At 92, Ellie Porter is sharp as a tack with a keen memory, particularly of events 52 years ago that defined her life as a local community activist.
“I was on the board of National B’nai Brith Women and a volunteer with Jewish Family Service here in Tidewater,” Porter says. That confluence, plus her big heart, put her in the right place at an auspicious time for “Aliyah,” the mass migration of Soviet Jews after the USSR lifted its ban on “refusenik” emigration.
cards to President Nixon and Ambassador Dobrygin protesting the treatment of Soviet Jews,” says Porter.
The rally was but one of many activities that took place here over the next couple of decades as the USSR turned on and off a spigot that allowed Jews windows to leave for America or Israel.
In 1980, refugee
well as from one of the 150,000 Russians who had emigrated to the U.S. during that tumultuous time. “We collected 1,200 signatures on petitions that day to send to the UN and got the crowd to write 800 post
synagogues and agencies) for “furnishing living quarters and fully stocking them with food products and necessities, for taking us shopping, monitoring our every need, organizing
a school for Russian immigrants to learn the English language, and placing everyone in a job they might be qualified for.” Porter and her ladies made sure those who wanted to attend Sabbath services could, and on one day that year, oversaw the placement of mezzuzim on all the immigrants’ dwellings. In his letter, Fishel said his countrymen “look upon Ellie Porter as both a sister and a parent.”
Porter was all that plus a wife to Dick, a furniture salesman who found dressers
and tables for the Russians, and a mother to Janet, Michael, and Sandra, who became a stellar community volunteer in her own right. “My mom was so busy with Russian resettlement when we were teenagers, but we understood,” says Sandra Porter Leon. “She even went to ODU to take Russian language classes. That’s how committed she was. She was really our hero.”
Porter was, in her own words, “young and energetic. We did it all.” So did dentists (like Sonny Lefcoe) and doctors (like Jerome Pearlman). “I remember our local mohel Rabbi Fish circumcised two Russian boys under age one at Leigh Memorial,” she says. “That was a big deal for us.”
“The floodgates really opened in the late 80’s,” recalls Nancy Engel, who came aboard as staff at JFS to work under Debbie Steiger and Harry Graber, who
directed the agency from 1988 until 2003. “As a result of what happened with the Vietnamese boat people who had no families here, the government was very
some services through its allocation, much was donated.
involved, providing funds that we had to manage,” she says, which meant keeping “meticulous records of every dollar spent,” says Engel, “but our community really responded with every synagogue agreeing to adopt a family every year.” That also included, according to Graber, “finding them jobs, housing, ESL classes, and building trust because the Russians came from an environment where there was none.”
“The government challenged us to raise money privately, and oh did we – two and a half times more than expected,” recalls Graber. And though JFS paid for
“I remember Harry Weisberg gave us an entire warehouse at one of his furniture stores for clothing, furniture, and other donations,” says Engel. “Doris Friedman was among those who spoke Yiddish fluently, so she was invaluable as a translator, as were Virginia Opera standout Hope and her professor husband Leonid Milahap.” The Nusbaums and others provided affordable apartment units, with AC or fans because Tidewater’s summer heat was new to the Russians. Engel and Porter, still very engaged, remember so many women who stepped up, singling out Jerry Lerner, Iris Laskey, and Evelyn Eisenberg. “It was all hands-on deck,” says Porter. “There was so much to do.”
“What happened in the 70’s, 80’s, 90’s and into this century was a real credit to our community,” says Rabbi Michael Panitz of Temple Israel, which because of its location near affordable housing complexes and the JCC on Newport Avenue, was
in the middle of much of the action. “It was tough though because these immigrants could not practice their faith in Russia and had little or nothing when they arrived. But our Jewish family collectively stepped up to help because they were Jews who needed us. It was awe-inspiring.”
On the JFS staff today is a Russian emigrant, Irina Kvitko, who was not sure at first if she wanted to leave her home in Kyiv but had an eight-year-old son who “needed a better future.” Her husband, Dmitriy Kremenchugskiy, would later earn a degree in finance from Virginia Tech and find a career in construction. Today they have three adult children, including their oldest Max, a local civil engineer. His
wife, Iryna, has made culinary headlines because of her popular Virginia Beach bakery, Krem. When Russia invaded Ukraine, she decided to do something to support her country, starting with selling macaroons to raise funds. Within two months, customers had purchased more than 5,000, collecting close to $25,000. When Israel was attacked in October, Iryna baked blue and white macaroons, donating the proceeds to support the Jewish state.
Russian resettlement continues to be a source of great pride at JFS. “This was well before my time here, but I cannot imagine this agency has ever worked as hard for a cause as it did to bring some 300 families to our community,” says Kelly Burroughs, CEO, who succeeded Betty Ann Levin, now UJFT executive vice president/CEO, who followed Harry Graber. “Having stalwarts like Harry, Nancy, and Ellie around reminds us of what we’re capable of doing when a cause of that magnitude lands on our doorstep.”
Columbia removes three deans over text exchange deriding concerns of campus antisemitism
Luke Tress
(New York Jewish Week) — Three Columbia University administrators have “been permanently removed from their positions” after sending a series of derisive text messages during a panel on campus Jewish life, the university’s provost announced Monday, July 8.
In an accompanying letter, Columbia President Minouche Shafik wrote that the texts echoed antisemitism and vowed to start a “vigorous program of antisemitism and antidiscrimination training” in the fall, when classes reconvene.
“This incident revealed behavior and sentiments that were not only unprofessional, but also, disturbingly touched on ancient antisemitic tropes,” Shafik said in an email to the campus community. “These
sentiments are unacceptable and deeply upsetting, conveying a lack of seriousness about the concerns and the experiences of members of our Jewish community.”
A fourth dean who was involved in one of the text exchanges apologized and likewise acknowledged that the conversations “call to mind antisemitic tropes.”
The text messages — sent during the panel at the end of May and first reported last month — downplayed accounts of campus antisemitism and suggested
that a Hillel official was leveraging them for fundraising. They have drawn attention and condemnation from lawmakers and Jewish leaders, and renewed calls for action to combat antisemitism at the Ivy League university, which has seen raucous pro-Palestinian activism and a series of antisemitism allegations since the outbreak of the Israel-Hamas war on Oct. 7.
The three deans at the center of the group chat — Susan Chang-Kim, the university’s vice dean and chief administrative
officer; Cristen Kromm, a dean of undergraduate student life, and Matthew Patashnick, an associate vice dean for student and family support — were placed on leave shortly after the texts first came to light.
Now, Provost Angela V. Olinto said in a statement, “The three staff members involved have been permanently removed from their positions at Columbia College and remain on leave at this time.” The statement did not elaborate on whether that means the deans had been fired, and Columbia did not immediately respond to a request for clarification.
“President Shafik and I expect the College administration to deliver concrete change in combating antisemitism and discrimination and creating a fully inclusive environment,” Olinto said. “I
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am eager to work closely with Columbia College’s leaders, leaders of our Jewish community, and partners across the University as we undertake this deeply important part of our mission.”
Taking part in that effort, Olinto said, would be the dean of Columbia College, Josef Sorett — who was also involved in a separate text exchange with Chang-Kim during the same panel. In an email to Columbia College, Sorett acknowledged that “some of the text messages exchanged may call to mind antisemitic tropes.”
“I am deeply sorry that this happened in a community that I lead and that I was part of any of the exchanges,” Sorett said, adding that he had reached out to all speakers on the panel to apologize.
It wasn’t clear if Sorett will face any disciplinary action for his involvement, but more than 1,000 Columbia alumni have demanded his removal in a petition.
“Sorett’s actions give an explicit endorsement to a culture of antisemitism and demonstrate his flawed judgment, lack of character, and inability to lead at a critical time for Columbia,” the petition said. “Sorett is wholly discredited in the eyes of alumni and students. His continuing as Dean of Columbia College is untenable.”
The text message exchanges took place while the administrators were attending a May 31 panel discussion titled “Jewish Life on Campus: Past, Present, and Future.” At the panel, a Jewish student, Columbia Hillel director Brian Cohen, and two other panelists discussed antisemitism at the school following Oct. 7.
“Comes from such a place of privilege,” wrote Chang-Kim. “Hard to hear the woe is me, we need to huddle at the Kraft Center,” referring to Columbia’s Jewish student center, where Hillel is housed.
“Yup. Blind to the idea that non-Israel supporting Jews have no space to come together,” responded Kromm.
While Cohen was speaking about students’ efforts to gain attention, Kromm wrote “Amazing what $$$$ can do.” At another point while Cohen was speaking, Chang-Kim wrote, “He is such a problem!”
Patashnick wrote, “He knows exactly what he’s doing and has to take full advantage of this moment. Huge fundraising potential.”
In a separate exchange, Chang-Kim wrote “He is our hero” in an apparently
sarcastic message about Cohen. Nine minutes later, Sorett wrote, “Lmao,” an acronym denoting laughter, though whether that was a response to Kim or something else was unclear. He did not respond to a request for comment at the time.
Some of the text messages were first photographed by an audience member who was sitting behind one of the administrators during the panel and were first reported by the Washington Free Beacon, a conservative news outlet.
The House Committee on Education and the Workforce, which is investigating antisemitism at Columbia and other campuses, later obtained and released the full text message exchanges.
In addition to Cohen, the panelists were former law school Dean David Schizer, who co-chairs the university’s antisemitism task force; Rebecca Massel, a student journalist for the Columbia Spectator, the campus newspaper; and Ian Rottenberg, the director of the school’s Center for Religious Life.
New Judge in Virginia Beach: Scott Flax
Stephanie Peck
The Honorable Scott Joseph Flax was sworn in on May 1 to begin his eight-year term as a Judge of the Second Judicial Circuit Court. He is the third Jewish circuit court judge to be appointed in Virginia Beach, following the Honorable Jerry Friedman and Honorable Alan Rosenblatt. Flax’s formal investiture occurred on June 7 in a courtroom filled with 300 friends, family members, and former colleagues.
Most judgeships begin on July 1, with Judge School offered in April and June for this reason. However, a vacancy opened, and Flax was nominated and chosen for the position. In advance of his swearing-in, Flax spent time in court during March and April, sitting next to a judge and asking questions to prepare for his tenure. “I had an idea of the terms from my experience in civil and family law,” Flax says.
Since the cases in circuit court are complex, Flax says he can take time to conduct research and ask both parties to
reconvene later for his final decision. He presides over a variety of cases, including felonies, lawsuits for more than $25,000, and divorce.
Flax obtained his undergraduate degree in government and politics from University of Maryland and his law degree from American University Washington College of Law. For 19 years, the Tidewater native was an attorney with Tavss Fletcher in Norfolk.
A recent past board president of Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, Flax says it’s important to him to give back to the community. “All walks of life come through the courtroom. Some have highpowered attorneys and others represent themselves.” Sitting as a judge gives him a different perspective, he says, as he is empathetic to both the plaintiff and the defendant. As a judge, he says, “You accept the responsibility to do your best in making these choices.”
During the formal investiture, Flax’s wife, Leah, and their three children helped put on his judicial robe. Two
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As the Chief Executive Officer at the Peninsula Foodbank, she believes the Foodbank not only distributes food but is also the spokesperson for those who otherwise don’t have a voice.
“There are so many low income individuals who haven’t received any benefit from the recovering economy and those who because of their life circumstances need help every now and then. We are there to help ensure their voices are heard.”
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former law partners, John Fletcher and Besianne Maiden of Tavss Fletcher, spoke. Delegate Don Scott read the governor’s proclamation, and his friend, Aaron Kass participated in the ceremony by sharing some words to ground the event in Flax’s Jewish faith.
“This is an excellent time for this, as next week is Shavuot which commemorates God giving the Torah to Moses on Mt. Sinai,” said Kass.
“And it reminds us of the admonition from Deuteronomy – Tzedek, Tzedek Tirdof – Justice, Justice Shall You Pursue.
“Justice is found throughout the Torah.
“In the Talmud, in a tractate called Perkei Avot, it says:
“‘Do not as a judge play the part of an advocate, and when the litigants are standing before you, look upon them as if they were guilty; and when they leave your presence, look upon them as if they were innocent, when they have accepted the judgement.
“‘Focusing, of course, on the proper role of a judge on the one hand, and the need for parties to respect the Court’s rulings on the other hand.’”
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Gift demonstrates Rubin family’s commitment to Jewish education
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Joel and Sara Jo Rubin have long been dedicated to promoting Jewish education. “It began at home and participating in synagogue and Jewish events for our young family,” says Sara Jo. “We were adamant that our children (Molly and Danny) would be raised to practice and honor our Jewish faith and heritage.”
They recently solidified this commitment by dedicating money from an inheritance left by Joel’s parents to establish a fund to support Jewish education for Strelitz International Academy through its Foundation, which is held at Tidewater Jewish Foundation.
The Rubins’ motivation stems from a deep belief in the importance of young Jews being immersed in Jewish culture and
values during their formative years. “It was a way to honor my mother’s legacy. She taught Hebrew for 25 years at Temple Beth El in Richmond where I grew up,” Joel says.
Niv and Shai Rubin, children of Danny and his wife Shikma, are students at SIA where they receive both secular and Jewish education. “Seeing Niv and Shai lead the Kiddush and Motzi fills me with pride,” Joel says. “It's a beautiful continuation of our family’s commitment to our faith and community.”
Jewish education provides more than just religious knowledge, according to the Rubins; it instills crucial values and practices. “I see the importance of that education,” Joel says. “Whether you’re observant or not, it teaches you a new skill, helps you make friends, and
learn about your faith and history.”
Molly’s daughter, Lucy, also embraces the family’s commitment. Last year, in preparation for Joel’s 70th birthday celebration, Lucy, encouraged by Molly and her husband Joe Nizhnikov (who came to Virginia from Russia with his family at age five), learned to read from the Torah. “She performed beautifully,” Joel recalls proudly. “Seeing her willingness to embrace our culture makes me hopeful about the future.” Joel says Lucy’s siblings, Nora and Harris, will follow her lead.
“Naomi Sedek, TJF’s president and
CEO, is a wonderful partner, guiding us through the process and helping us make a meaningful impact,” Sara Jo says.
“We are happy that SIA, an IB-certified school, offers a comprehensive combination of secular and Jewish education.”
The Rubins say they are not finished giving to SIA and encourage others to also set aside funds. “To us, it’s an ideal way to perpetuate our faith for generations to come.”
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JEWISH TIDEWATER IN ISRAEL
Virginia Tech student leader visits Israel
Danial Watts
I was in Israel for 10 days through a structured university trip called Israel Authentic (part of the Tlalim Group). Eight students on the trip were from Boston University and seven were from Virginia Tech, where I am a rising senior. We spent time in Jerusalem, near the Gaza border, in some border communities, in the north of Israel, and in Tel Aviv.
This was my second time in Israel; I had my bar mitzvah there in 2015. It was a lot different this time, as it is a country at war. It was much quieter. Although the streets were a lot less busy, it still felt like the safest place for me as a Jew. And I truly felt that everyone else there believed that, too.
I had the chance to speak to some incredible people during my time in Israel. This trip was created for us, student leaders, to go to Israel and understand what was happening and then to return to our universities to teach others about what we saw. Since it is vital that we understand perspectives from both sides, we met with the previous head of the IDF correspondence who took the news channels BBC and CNN through Hamas tunnels, a lead Palestinian journalist in the West Bank, and other Palestinian figures.
The day we went to Gaza border communities to speak with survivors from kibbutzim in the area had the greatest impact. We saw homes covered in bullet holes and shrapnel and homes where the roofs had been destroyed. The entire time we were in the area we heard helicopters and drones flying by, artillery going off, and saw smoke rising out of Gaza. We saw graffiti on each house. As the IDF cleared each building, they left markings of how many residents of each home died on October 7.
We also went to the site of the Nova music festival. We spoke to a survivor and saw a picture of everyone who died at the festival on October 7. Other than the artillery going off every couple of minutes, it was quiet.
We met with three people: an Israeli (a Jewish man who has lived in Israel for 45 years), an orthodox Christian, and a Palestinian Arab woman. Although they may not agree with each other on much, and neither did I, they all shared a common belief that peace is necessary. If they can sit in the same room and have a form of dialogue, why can't we do the same on our college campuses and beyond?
We met with plenty of other incredible speakers, including IDF leaders, previous Israeli government officials, and more.
I am thankful to have gone to Israel during this time. Although I now feel like I know more than 90% of people in the United States about such a tough topic, in a way, I am even more confused and have so many more questions. I hope for the chance to go back soon and learn even more.
Senior Living
Dear Readers,
Senior Living
Purely based on personal experience and observation, it seems to me that today’s seniors (those who are 65 plus in years) are increasingly immature. . . they are NOT acting their age! It’s as if this generation missed the memo about slowing down. Instead, they’re living life as if they were decades younger – travelling, dancing, working, volunteering, trying new things. Is it an emphasis on exercise? Healthier diets? Improved medical care? Fortunate genes? Or is it just a bright attitude? Whatever the reason or combination of reasons, there’s no shortage of good stories to tell.
Consider, for example, three couples – Susan and Allan Donn, Nancy and Jay Lazier, and Sue Ellen and Seymour Teach – who celebrate each day with myriad activities. Read their motivating stories beginning on page 17.
The typical lifeguard is a teen or perhaps a young teacher on summer break. That’s why two of the Simon Family JCC’s new lifeguards are unexpected. . . men who are more than 60 years old. Page 20.
Speaking of the Simon Family JCC, the article on page 22 highlights the Silver Sneaker and Renew Active programs that essentially make it possible for insureds over the age of 65 to be members at virtually no cost. Now, that’s a bargain!
Jeff Chernitzer, CPA, PFS, shares some thoughts on how to use an IRA for financial security and philanthropy. His article is on page 24.
These and more articles highlight ‘people of a certain age’ whose zest for life and positive attitudes make them engaging and interesting to read about and to know.
We hope you enjoy and perhaps get inspired to either volunteer or join one of the groups highlighted in these pages if you are in the senior category, or to stay fit and healthy if you are younger so that when your time comes, you also will be travelling and dancing and. . .
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Technically, these three ‘over age 80’ couples are considered seniors. But don’t tell them as they defy any traditional mold. Susan and Allan Donn, Nancy and Jay Lazier, and Sue Ellen and Seymour Teach are all in constant motion – whether they’re working, volunteering, travelling, or dancing –these active women and men are inspirations . . . at any age!
Teaching, volunteering, exercising –all part of each week for Sue Ellen and Seymour Teach
Stephanie Peck
Married for 59 years, Sue Ellen and Seymour Teach have lived in the same Larkspur house for 53 of those years.
Sue Ellen, 82 years old, grew up in Norfolk where her family attended B’nai Israel Congregation. A graduate of Old Dominion University with a degree in education, she taught in various school systems, including in Virginia Beach for 24 years.
Originally from New York, Seymour, 85 years old, attended Brooklyn College and University of Maryland School of Law.
The couple met on a blind date when Sue Ellen was teaching in Fairfax, Va. and Seymour was clerking for a judge in Baltimore, Md.
Now, on nearly any day of the week, one or both can be found at the Sandler Family Campus.
When Sue Ellen is not attending a meeting for the Senior Club or Holocaust Commission, she is knitting for Jewish Family Service or playing canasta.
Seymour, a recently retired attorney after 59 years, who continues to work from home as he winds down his legal practice, attends exercise class three days per week.
“When I joined the Holocaust Commission after I stopped teaching, Elena Baum was in charge, and I was able to help get her into the Virginia Beach schools,” Sue Ellen says. “We taught the teachers and enlightened them about what the Holocaust Commission does.”
Sue Ellen also serves on the education committee of the Sandler Center Foundation as well as Ohef Sholom Temple’s adult education committee. “I encouraged Rabbi Roz to do Lunch and Learn again,” she says.
The Teaches have been members of Ohef Sholom Temple for 40 years.
Seymour volunteers for the Virginia Beach Democratic Committee and is a member of Brith Sholom. Besides exercising at the Simon Family JCC, he participates in UJFT activities, including the Senior Club and Coffee and Conversations, and volunteers as a BeAR mentor.
Family is spread-out across the nation. The Teaches’ children settled in Denver, Col. and Charleston, S.C. and their grandchildren live in Seattle, Atlanta, and Charleston and one grandchild – a student at University of Colorado at Boulder – is currently in Israel. Sue Ellen and Seymour plan to travel to Seattle in September to
visit their granddaughter, whom they haven’t seen in two years. Locally, they enjoy spending time with nieces and nephews, as well as their sister-in-law.
Sue Ellen and Seymour Teach reflect a ‘get up and go’ attitude as they volunteer their skills, teach, exercise, travel, and have fun. . . practically ignoring their age.
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Nancy and Jay Lazier: Two very busy and productive people
Stephanie Peck
Growing up in Pittsburgh, Pa., Nancy and Jay Lazier did not cross paths, even though their mothers knew each other through Hadassah. Not until a Hillel mixer at University of Michigan, where Nancy was a freshman and Jay, a sophomore, did they meet. “We were too young to be serious, so we hung out for seven years,” Jay laughs. The Laziers have been married for 58 years. Nancy graduated college with a degree in history and spent an extra year earning her teaching certificate. “In those days, women were teachers, nurses, or secretaries,” she says. With the birth control pill’s approval, the Vietnam War, and activism of the 1960’s, Nancy says, “It was a tremendous time to be in college,” especially for avid learners like the Laziers.
At Penn State, Nancy earned a master’s degree, and then the couple returned to Michigan where Jay started his doctorate at Michigan State and Nancy continued taking classes.
In 1970, they moved to Israel. During their time there, Jay completed his dissertation comparing social rehabilitation versus institutionalization in a population
Laziers that they move to Virginia Beach, which was when they left Israel. “Our son was four and our daughter was two. Our youngest son was born in Virginia Beach,” says Nancy.
At the time, Virginia Beach was starting mental health community services as part of a de-institutionalized movement.
“Jay had the skills and knowledge to begin the programs,” Nancy says. Jay worked for the city of Virginia Beach for 37 years.
With Nancy’s master’s degree in special education and a graduate program in linguistics behind her, she taught English as a second language. In Virginia Beach schools, Nancy taught special education for 32 years and worked with Russian immigrants through United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, teaching English to grandparents, parents, and children.
with mental illness. Plus, two of their three children were born. (Their oldest was born on the Rosh Hashanah prior to the Yom Kippur War.)
In 1975, a Michigan classmate suggested to the
made it a goal to get into a tapdancing performance before reaching 80,” a birthday she celebrated in May. Currently recovering from foot surgery, she adds, “I’m not used to being immobile!”
Frequent travelers, Nancy and Jay spent three weeks in Sicily this year and last year travelled to the North Pole. Jay notes that they like to visit mikvahs when they travel; they even had a meal in Spain where the restaurant was built around a mikvah.
During COVID, Nancy started a zoom book club with six members that has grown to 20. “People have a need to be together,” she says. “The thing I like about this book club is that everyone reads the book!”
Even though their adult children and twin grandchildren (recent high school graduates) are scattered from Portland, Ore. to San Francisco to Brunswick, Md., Nancy and Jay are in close contact with them all.
In retirement, Nancy and Jay are remarkably busy. Jay is a board member and past president of Hearts & Homes, a nonprofit providing homes for adults with developmental disabilities. At Ohef Sholom Temple, he sings in the choir, serves as chair of the worship committee and on the executive committee, and is responsible for innovating many things.
Nancy sings in three choirs, (including at Ohef Sholom), paints, and stays active through tap dancing. “I
The Lazier home is a source of pride to Nancy and Jay, especially their garden. When building their house, Nancy took a class on landscape architecture at Norfolk Botanical Garden.
“One challenge for people our age is to downsize or not,” Jay explains. “It would be hard to leave our garden.”
Reflecting on their senior status as two people in their 80’s, Jay says, “If you’re fortunate to feel good when you have the freedom. . . that’s the greatest gift.”
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Dancing through each day: Susan and Allan Donn
Stephanie Peck
Susan Donn has no plans to slow down.
“I am enormously busy, but I don’t know what I do!” she laughs, explaining how this 82-year-old occupies her days. After a long career as a commercial interior designer, and an attorney-husband who still works full-time, it’s no surprise that she stays active and creative.
Born in Mississippi, and a Goucher College graduate with a bachelor’s degree in art, Susan met her husband, Allan, through long-time friend, Patty Wainger.
During Allan’s army career in Maryland, Susan earned another bachelor’s degree from American University, this time in interior design.
In 1982, the couple moved to Allan’s hometown of Norfolk and lived in Ghent for 40 years, before moving to Harbor’s Edge in 2022. “I was quite hesitant to move from a 5,600- square-foot house that had three stories to Harbor’s Edge – into a 2,100-square-foot condo –it’s 1/3 the size!” However, she says, they live among
people whom the Donns have known for years, others they have worked with, and newcomers who moved to the area from other places in the United States.
Besides playing bridge and attending Friday night services at Ohef Sholom Temple, Susan practices ballroom and Latin dancing, hobbies that date back 40 years. At Harbor’s Edge, she is trying to start line dance classes, which feature basic ballroom steps. “Dancing keeps the mind active, it’s fun, and it keeps the body moving.”
Susan also dabbles in art. As a painter in high school and college, Susan prefers photography and drawing now more than painting. She also loves to design furniture.
Allan, still active in his tax and business law practice at Willcox Savage, works daily from 8:45 am until 6:45 pm. “He loves his work and his clients,” Susan says.
Exercising with a trainer twice each week, Allan also writes books on partnership law, takes drum lessons, and golfs. “I confess I am a bookaholic,” he notes, adding to his list of hobbies.
Fortunately for the Donns, their adult son, Adam, lives in Ghent. “We get to get together regularly and have a good time with him,” says Susan.
In addition to their home in Norfolk, the Donns spend several weeks each winter at their home in Longboat Key, Fla., where Allan enjoys walking on the beach.
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LIFE-EXPERIENCED LIFEGUARDS AT THE SIMON FAMILY JCC
Stephanie Peck
Lifeguards are integral to most swimming pools – certainly to all the Simon Family JCC’s pools. While the aquatics team has had its share of seasoned guards, most tend to be teens and/or young adults. Two new employees, however, are out of the lifeguard-ordinary: Paul Mulcahy is 62 years old and Joszef Patar is 70.
“I love hiring lifeguards that have life experience, developed leadership skills, and a pleasant disposition. It’s always an asset for the entire staff,” says Tom Edwards, athletics director of the Simon Family JCC.
Mulcahy learned about the opportunity from his 16-year-old son, Quinn, also a JCC lifeguard. A native of Medford,
Mass., Mulcahy was the captain of his high school swim team and spent many years as a Navy helicopter rescue swimmer.
“I was the guy who jumped out of helicopters,” he says.
After leaving the Navy, Mulcahy opened Children’s Orchard, a franchise of children’s consignment clothing stores with the only location in Virginia. After six years, he moved into the
insurance business before becoming a voice actor. “I need to hide my accent,” he jokes.
Mulcahy is also a competitive body builder who happens to train at the JCC.
In fact, he has won several men’s championship titles in the over .60 age category. In addition to playing the
guitar in a jazz combo, Mulcahy serves as a teaching associate at Eastern Virginia Medical School, using his own body to teach the skill of giving physical exams.
Becoming a lifeguard again required getting re-qualified. The Simon Family JCC provides a training program. “I completed that after 40 years of not being a lifeguard!” he laughs.
Originally from Budapest, Joszef Patar moved to Virginia Beach only six months ago. The son of a Jewish mother
and Hungarian military officer, Patar, his mother, and three siblings escaped the Russians and emigrated to Canada in 1956, when he was two years old.
Patar attended Simon Fraser University on a swimming scholarship and became a lifeguard to earn money. While in college, he started an underwater hockey team at the university and came to the United States to coach the U.S. World Underwater Hockey Team. “We beat Canada in the medal round,” he says with a smile. The U.S. team earned the bronze medal.
After living in Los Angeles, Patar and his wife, Lauren Joy, moved to Tidewater to be closer to a sibling. He finds the Jewish community to be more inclusive than in California, and he and Lauren Joy have become members of Ohef Sholom Temple and the Simon Family JCC.
Patar says he loves that so many opportunities are advertised at the United Federation of Tidewater. He currently participates in Moon Circle and the Senior Club. His philosophy? “The moment you sit on the couch, you’re never getting up again.”
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Simon Family JCC partners with Silver Sneakers and Renew Senior Living
Reduced pricing at the movie theater is a widely known perk of achieving ‘senior’ status, but it is far from the only one. A benefit that assists in keeping that same age group healthy, fit, and engaged is less known, but arguably more beneficial. . . free membership to the Simon Family JCC through Silver Sneakers and Renew Active.
“Eligibility is insurance based if they qualify,” says Leigh Ellard, member experience director for the Simon Family JCC. “The only real qualification I am aware of is being 65 or ‘better.’”
The popular plans that Ellard says she knows offer one or the other programs are:
• AARP • Aetna
• Anthem
• Optima Health
• Humana
• United Health Care
For the insured, the benefits of enrolling in either Silver Sneakers or Renew Active is that membership to the JCC is entirely paid with full access to the facility including the aquatic center, fitness classes, and the gym. These members may also receive two complimentary orientation sessions upon signing up to get introduced to the equipment and discuss wellness goals with a certified personal trainer.
Every time these members swipe in at security, the JCC is paid a small sum by the insurance provider at no additional cost to the member.
“So, it is win-win! We receive dollars from their insurance provider and the member does not pay out-of-pocket (after purchase of fob) and they receive membership privileges.”
To learn more about enrolling in Silver Sneakers or Renew Active, contact your insurance provider and then speak with someone at the JCC’s front desk by stopping by or calling 757-321-2338.
The only cost for SS/RA memberships is a one-time charge of $10 to pay for the key fob.
“In addition to full facility access, membership benefits include discounted pricing on offered programs as well as the feeling of inclusivity and socialization with peers in our thriving senior community,” says Ellard.
For further information about membership, contact Leigh Ellard at lellard@simonfamilyjcc.org.
The Simon Family JCC is located on the Sandler Family Campus at 5000 Corporate Woods Drive in Virginia Beach.
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102-year-old Holocaust survivor Margot Friedländer is Vogue Germany’s latest cover model
Philissa Cramer
(JTA) — For its latest cover model, Vogue Germany selected a celebrity who regularly hobnobs with visiting dignitaries and walks the red carpet at film premieres: Margot Friedländer, 102, one of the oldest and most prominent Holocaust survivors in the world.
In addition to documenting Friedländer is impeccable attire and indefatigable spirit, the Vogue article includes her public condemnation of the rise of the political far right in Germany.
About the rise of the far-right Alternative for Germany party, known as AfD, and the spike in antisemitic incidents amid the IsraelHamas War, Friedländer told the magazine, “I am appalled.”
Friedländer was born and raised in Berlin and hid there after the Nazis rose to power and began deporting and murdering Jews. She was apprehended in April 1944 and sent to the Theresienstadt concentration camp, where she remained until its liberation a year later. Her entire family had been murdered.
Friedländer and her husband, whom she met in Theresienstadt, moved to New York City, where they lived an unassuming life in Queens. But after her husband’s death in 1997, she began writing about her Holocaust experience, ultimately catching the eye of a filmmaker who brought her to Germany over the course of making a documentary about her.
The trip — which Friedländer had once sworn never to make — changed her life. She moved back permanently in 2010, at age 89, and quickly became a local celebrity, according to a Forward profile that appeared three years after her arrival. She has made hundreds if not thousands of appearances where she tells her story, and increasingly has taken center stage in a country haunted by its Holocaust history.
Last year, she met with Second Gentleman Doug Emhoff during his visit to Berlin. She also presented a prize to Guy Nattiv and Helen Mirren, the director and star of Golda, the biopic about Israeli Prime Minister Golda
Meir. Recently, according to the Vogue article, “she was invited to a member of the Bundestag’s party at Soho House and celebrated until the lights came back on.”
The Vogue reporter, Miriam Amro, met with Friedländer four times over several months, and a photographer took glamor shots of her in luxury clothing at the Botanical Garden of the Free University of Berlin.
“Margot Friedländer seems to become more energetic each time,” Amro writes about their conversations. “As if her mind were following a reversed time calculation. Every word she says is full of positive power. A woman who has experienced the worst speaks without being bitter. How is that possible?”
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IRA: A path to financial security and philanthropy Jeff Chernitzer, CPA, PFS
Individual Retirement Accounts (IRAs) can be a popular vehicle for retirement planning, offering a reliable way to save for the future while enjoying tax advantages. Effectively managing an IRA, however, requires understanding its benefits and partnering with the right professionals to maximize its potential. IRAs come in various forms, but the most common are Traditional IRAs and Roth IRAs. In general, traditional IRAs allow individuals to make tax-deductible contributions (based on income), meaning it is possible to lower taxable income now and pay taxes when the money is withdrawn in retirement. On the other hand, Roth IRAs require after-tax contributions, but withdrawals in retirement are tax-free. Choosing the correct type of IRA depends on one’s current financial situation and future expectations.
professionals. This is where Tidewater Jewish Foundation comes into play. TJF collaborates with a donor’s CPA or wealth manager to provide personalized advice that aligns with their individual financial goals and philanthropic interests. For example, currently an individual can give up to a total of $105,000 a year to charitable organizations, once hitting age 70 ½. By leveraging TJF's expertise, a donor can ensure their IRA supports their retirement and contributes to causes that are meaningful to them.
To get the most out of an IRA, it’s crucial to contribute regularly and up to the maximum the IRS allows. For 2024, the contribution limit is $7,000, with an additional $1,000 catch-up contribution allowed for those aged 50 and above. Regular contributions allow investments to grow over time, benefiting from the power of compounding.
Once retirement age is reached, knowing when and how to withdraw from the IRA can significantly impact financial security. Currently, Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs) must begin at age 73 for Traditional IRAs. Failing to take RMDs can result in hefty penalties. Roth IRAs do not have RMDs during the owner's lifetime, offering more flexibility.
Navigating the complexities of IRAs is easier with the guidance of financial
Tidewater Jewish Foundation is dedicated to helping individuals and families achieve their philanthropic objectives. By working with TJF, donors can integrate charitable giving into their financial plan, ensuring their legacy supports the Jewish community and other important causes. TJF’s partnership with the donor and their CPA or wealth manager ensures that their IRA contributions and withdrawals are strategically planned to maximize benefits and minimize taxes.
For more information on how TJF can help with an IRA and philanthropic planning, contact Naomi Limor Sedek, Tidewater Jewish Foundation president and CEO, at 757-965-6109 or nsedek@tjfva.org.
Jeff Chernitzer is a CPA and personal financial specialist at Buckingham Strategic Wealth. He has more than 35 years of experience in the financial planning industry, specializing in providing comprehensive financial and tax planning services to individuals, families, and nonprofits.
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BeAR CONNECTS GENERATIONS
In a world where technology often seems to pull people apart, the Be A Reader Literacy Project is bringing generations together. Senior adults in Norfolk and Virginia Beach are stepping up to mentor second graders in Title I schools, and in the process, they’re discovering that this act of community service benefits both the young and the young at heart.
The Be A Reader Literacy Project (BeAR) is designed to foster a love of reading among children by pairing them with mentors who can provide one-on-one support. For second graders, this is a critical time in their educational journey as they are transitioning from learning to read to reading to learn, making it crucial to develop strong literacy skills. Senior adults, with their wealth of life experience and patience, are perfectly suited to help guide these young learners.
Mentoring young students brings immense joy and satisfaction. The enthusiasm and curiosity of second graders is infectious; reminding mentors of the wonders of discovery and the simple pleasures of stories. Seniors look forward to their weekly sessions, where they read books, discuss stories, and play educational games. This interaction helps the children improve their reading skills as well as builds their confidence and love for learning.
Engaging with young minds has
significant cognitive benefits for seniors. Studies show that social interaction and mental stimulation are key to maintaining cognitive function in older adults. By mentoring students, seniors keep their minds active, challenge themselves to think creatively, and stay up to date with new educational strategies and technologies. It’s a dynamic way to exercise the brain and stay mentally fit. Participating in the Be A Reader Literacy Project also contributes to seniors’ physical and emotional wellbeing. Regularly scheduled activities provide a sense of routine and purpose, which is vital for emotional health. The physical act of getting ready, traveling to the school, and engaging in interactive sessions keeps seniors moving. Additionally, the emotional connection formed with the children adds to their sense of fulfillment and reduces feelings of loneliness or isolation.
The Be A Reader Literacy Project is a shining example of how community service can create a positive impact across generations. For children, it’s an opportunity to receive personalized attention and support that might not be possible in a crowded classroom. For seniors, it’s a chance to give back, stay active, and feel valued. For the community, it’s a way to build stronger bonds and ensure that both the young and the elderly are cared for and engaged.
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Joining the Be A Reader Literacy Project is straightforward. United Jewish Federation provides training, resources, school supplies, and books for BeAR mentors. No prior teaching experience is necessary—just a passion for reading and a willingness to share that passion with a child.
In today’s
fast-paced world, the Be A Reader Literacy Project offers a way to slow down and connect, and a reminder that learning and growth are lifelong journeys and that together, different generations can achieve remarkable things.
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UJFT and JCC’s 55+ programs connect people, expand minds, and focus on fitness
Mia Klein
A variety of activities and events designed for adults 55+ are offered by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and the Simon Family JCC. Whether participants are eager to meet new friends, dive into a great book, or engage in stimulating discussions, there’s something for everyone.
The Campus buzzes with laughter, conversation, games, and a mix of activities on the third Wednesday of each month when the Seniors Club’s lively social
takes place – always with a variety of entertainment and events. Members stay informed with the monthly Senior Scene newsletter.
Book lovers find their haven with the JCC Book Club, which meets on the third Monday of each month. The club offers a welcoming space to discuss novels, memoirs, and non-fiction. Whether attending in-person or online, members relish the opportunity to share their thoughts and discover new literary treasures.
Health and wellness are always a priority. This past May, the annual Senior Health and Fitness Day turned the Sandler Family Campus’ Cardo into a bustling wellness fair with vendors and prizes. Tom Purcell, JCC’s wellness/ fitness director, led a fitness class and Dr. Rosanne Leipzig, author of Honest Aging, inspired all with her tips on staying active and healthy.
One of the year’s highlights was the Seniors Prom, an evening filled with dancing, laughter, and new memories. Participants got to relive old times and make new connections, bringing everyone together in celebration.
Tradition and community spirit are showcased each year at the Annual Model Passover Seder. This year, led by Rabbi Ari Oliszewski and song leader Dave Flagler, Passover was celebrated with joy and song.
Stimulating exchanges take place with the Coffee and Conversation series on the first Thursday of each month when participants gather to discuss myriad topics over a warm cup of coffee, fostering connections and lively debates.
Through fun and engaging activities, Yiddish Club members explore the rich culture and language of Yiddish, keeping traditions alive and vibrant. The group meets the first Tuesday of each month.
With daily classes and spontaneous fun, there’s always something happening at the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC. Staying connected and enjoying community life has never been easier.
For more information or to sign up for any of these programs, visit www.JewishVA.org/Adults or contact Mia Klein at MKlein@UJFT.org.
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Nadiv men’s group wraps up successful year, aims for 25K in 2025
Danny Rubin
Nadiv capped off another terrific year of Jewish philanthropy, social action, and networking during a social at the Virginia Beach home of Bonnie and David Brand on Tuesday, May 14.
This past programming year (which ran from August 2023 to May 2024), Nadiv raised $8,795 through a combination of 36 member contributions and a community-wide March Madness bracket challenge. Since the group began in 2017 (and despite a two-year hiatus during COVID), Nadiv has raised more than $30,000 for local Jewish causes.
Open to Jewish men in the community between the ages of 22 and 49, Nadiv elected to spread this year’s funds across four Hillels at state colleges – UVA, Virginia Tech, William & Mary, and Old Dominion.
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“Nadiv members like that they can choose where our funds go,” says Tim Thornton, outgoing Nadiv chair. “We had a meaningful conversation in the spring about where to donate and we all felt that Jewish students at Virginia colleges need support right now in light of anti-Israel efforts on campus.”
Big changes await Nadiv for the 2024-2025 year. The group’s new chair is Sam Molofsky, a longtime member of Tidewater’s Jewish community. Plus, the minimum gift to the Federation to be in Nadiv is now $365, up from $180 in previous years.
In addition, the group has moved from a program within the Young Adult Division (YAD) of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater to now fall under the Federation’s Men’s Division. The group extends sincere thanks to Elana McGovern, YAD director – and previous YAD directors –for the financial and programmatic support as Nadiv has grown since its creation.
Finally, Nadiv hopes to stage a Jewish community-wide poker tournament in spring 2025. Combined with its popular March Madness bracket challenge, Nadiv has a goal to raise $25,000 in a single year.
Jewish men in the community between the ages of 22 and 49 who are interested in joining Nadiv should contact Amy Zelenka, UJFT chief development officer at azelenka@ujft.org.
ShinShinim host families in Tidewater reap rewards from the experience
Nofar Trem
ShinShinim are exceptional Israeli high school graduates who postpone their mandatory military service to serve as cultural ambassadors in Jewish communities around the world. These young emissaries are chosen through a rigorous selection process that evaluates their character, creativity, interpersonal skills, knowledge of Israeli
in Tidewater has been the generous host families who have warmly welcomed these emissaries into their homes and hearts. Many past host families describe the experience as transformative, of gaining a new family member, and of developing a deeper understanding of Israeli life and culture.
“Naomi instantly became a member of our
going ice skating, having Shabbat dinner at home or with friends, or watching our boys play baseball, she was always up for any family activity or event. We learned so much about her family, her city, and Israel in general, and she was always engaged and willing to answer our questions. Hosting was a great experience for our entire family.”
Another host mom, Nikki Glassman, says, “Hosting Maya was an absolute pleasure! It was a unique experience and an amazing opportunity to support the program, connect with Israeli culture, and embrace Maya as a member of our family. There is nothing more important right now than advocating for Israel, and hosting a ShinShin is just one way we can show our support. Our children loved the experience as much as we did, and we would highly recommend that other families host.”n
Now entering its third year of the ShinShinim program, Jewish Tidewater eagerly anticipates the arrival of its incoming Shinshinim, Danielle and Emily. These two 18-year-old women are ready to make Tidewater their home away from home and are excited to educate and engage the community in all things Israel and form bonds with the wonderful community.
Host families play an indispensable role in the ShinShinim program. They support these young Israelis, helping them acclimate to life and work in their new community. This unique cultural exchange fosters strong connections between Diaspora communities and Israel, strengthening the global Jewish family.
To learn more about hosting a ShinShin, visit JewishVA.org/host or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.
Be A Reader (BeAR) Literacy Project celebrates another fantastic year
After achieving plenty of recognition and success during the 2023- 2024 school year, the Be A Reader (BeAR) Literacy Project is now planning for the 2024-2025 school year.
During this school year, BeAR worked with more than 100 second-grade students in Norfolk and Virginia Beach Title I schools. Witnessing the enthusiasm and pride the students experienced as their reading skills improved was incredibly rewarding. Each child has a unique journey, filled with moments of discovery and accomplishment.
BeAR reading mentors have the opportunity to spend an hour a week of one-on-one time with their designated student. This not only fosters a love for reading but also creates a personal connection that can make the difference in a child’s life. With their students, mentors share books and ideas, read aloud together, and create entertaining stories. The special attention has the potential to help improve the student’s reading skills, comprehension, and self-confidence. Every mentoring session is a step forward in the student’s reading journey.
And it’s never too late to join and make a difference.
As BeAR looks forward to the next school year, it invites new mentors to be part of this success story. A mentor’s involvement, either through volunteering time or contributing financially, is crucial to BeAR’s mission.
To positively impact a child’s life with BeAR, contact Robin Ford, BeAR coordinator, at 757-321-2304 or rford@ujft.org to learn more.
Liz Dovrat earns PhD
Elizabeth (Liz) Dovrat successfully defended her doctoral thesis on Tuesday, July 9, 2024.
Dovrat has been a student in the Doctoral Programme in E-Research and Technology Enhanced Learning at Lancaster University, UK for the past 4 1/2 years. The title of her thesis is: A Descriptive Multiple Case Study of the Factors and Practices of Sustainability in Co-Designed Virtual Exchanges.
Dovrat is the daughter of Barbara Dudley, Jewish Community Relations Council chair, and the late Noel F. Dudley (z’l).
Dovrat occasionally writes for Jewish News on life in Israel with her family.
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Toras Chaim students visit Maimonides Health Center residents
Marcy Mostofsky
The fifth and sixth grade girls from Toras Chaim took a trip to the Maimonides Health Center in Virginia Beach on Monday, June 10.
An innovative idea of Kayla Weinreb to teach her students about the act of chessed (kindness) while bringing joy to the Center’s residents, this was the second trip of its kind this year.
Weinreb says that her goal is to make it a fun and positive experience for everyone involved: the girls feel fulfilled with their acts of giving and the seniors enjoy a fun-filled day of upbeat energy and companionship.
Rabbi Lessoff, rabbi of Maimonides Health Center, spoke to the residents and students about the holiday of Shavuos during the visit. The Toras Chaim students decorated beautiful cupcakes resembling har Sinai with the residents. Together, they also created a beautiful faux flower arrangement in honor of the holiday.
Everyone in the room felt the energy, according to Sarel Widroff, a fifth-grade student at the Portsmouth school. Sarel says that the time spent with the people of Maimonides Health Center was special to her and that the girls get so excited when they hear a trip is being planned. “Being able to make the elderly people smile is a small act of kindness that is really a big, important mitzvah. We get as much from being with them as they do from spending time with us.”
Weinreb plans for trips to Maimonides to be a regular occurrence in the coming school year, something the students and the residents both look forward to.
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SIA students pick strawberries for ForKids
Rashi Brashevitzky
At Strelitz International Academy, a love for tzedakah, kindness, and helping others is fostered at each grade level. As students learn new tefillot (prayers) they explore Hashem’s kindness, and brainstorm ways to care for others. Tzedakah, helping those in need, is a foundational Jewish value, and students take these lessons to heart, bringing coins for charity and organizing a wide variety of mitzvah and tzedakah projects throughout the school year.
On Tuesday, May 21, SIA Primary Years students went on a tzedakah field trip. Students were very excited as they headed to Greenbrier Historic Farms to pick strawberries. Arriving at the strawberry fields, the students got right to work choosing bright red, juicy strawberries. After a quick snack, students played on the playground and jumped in the inflatables.
The strawberry picking field trip was held in memory of Richard Glasser. Ahead of the field trip, students learned about Glasser’s motto in life, “to do the right thing at the right time for the right reason.” In his memory, the students not only picked strawberries for themselves, but also for children living in a family shelter run by ForKids. The students took this mitzvah very seriously and some even offered to donate their entire basket of strawberries to the ForKids families.
Once back at school, SIA students donated more than 600 strawberries to ForKids. What a beautiful and tasty mitzvah!
Rashi Brashevitzky is director of Judaic Studies at Strelitz International Academy.
JEWISH TIDEWATER’S GRADUATES
This year’s graduation season continues with plenty for Jewish Tidewater’s graduates and their families to celebrate.
The June 3 issue of JewishNews recognized 41 outstanding graduates. We knew, however, that there were more grads for Jewish Tidewater to be proud of and celebrate. And, here are some of them. Jewish News is excited to cheer all of these grads on for their next steps. Mazel Tov!
Jordan Julia Parker-Ashe
Massachusetts Institute of Technology
Bachelor of Science
Jordan plans to work as a nuclear engineer before going to medical school to specialize in women's health as an Ob-Gyn.
Next: MIT Nuclear Science and Engineering
Jordan is the daughter of Dr. Allison R. Ashe and granddaughter of Michel and Marilyn Ashe.
Ayden Cohn
Virginia
Tech
Master of Science in Nuclear Engineering and a Master of Science in Business Administration (Business Analytics).
Ayden was awarded the Virginia Tech Engineering Outstanding Master’s Student award.
Next: Ayden will work as an engineer for General Electric Nuclear in Wilmington, N.C. as a member of their Edison Engineering Development Program.
Ayden is the son of Lisa and Joel Cohn.
Jaqueline Myers
University of Arizona
Degree in Applied Humanities with emphasis in Fashion
Next: Pace University for Marketing for graduate school
Jacqueline is the daughter of Keith Myers of Florida and the granddaughter of Ruth Ellen Gans.
Gabriella Rachel Diskin
Bloomberg School of Public Health, Johns Hopkins University
Master of Science in Public Health
Next: A consultant in health care for TransformCare, Inc.
Gabriella is the daughter of Esther and Glenn Diskin.
Alec Rediger
Virginia Tech
Bachelor of Science in Civil Engineering and passed The Fundamentals of Engineering Exam
Next: Alec is working for Timmons Group in Virginia Beach
Alec is the son of Robin and David Rediger and the grandson of Myra and George Stein.
Brooke Rediger
Kempsville High School
Entrepreneurship and Business Academy
Salutatorian – Summa Cum Laude
National Honor Society, All-Region Second Team-Field Hockey, and SCA Dr. Louis Tonelson Outstanding Scholar Athlete Award, President’s Award for Educational Excellence
Next: Virginia Tech to major in Exercise and Health Science
Brooke is the daughter of Robin and David Rediger and the granddaughter of Myra and George Stein.
WHAT’S HAPPENING
Empowering Educators: 16th Biennial Educators’ Conference tackles rising antisemitism in schools and beyond
Wednesday, July 24 - Thursday, July 25
With incidents of discrimination and antisemitism increasing across the nation, local educators are invited to learn how to turn the tide with knowledge and compassion.
The Holocaust Commission and the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater are set to host the 16th Biennial Educators' Conference with the theme, “Who Will Tell Our Story?” Not just a catchy phrase, the theme is a call to action for K-12 teachers, counselors, and administrators.
This year’s conference aims to teach history, as well as to help shape the future, as it provides educators with the tools and resources to combat hatred and foster understanding and empathetic classrooms.
The two-day event promises to be anything but a typical professional development seminar. Day one at Salem Middle School in Virginia Beach will feature interactive workshops where educators can practice identifying and countering disinformation – a skill as crucial in today’s digital age as reading and writing.
On day two, participants will visit the Virginia Holocaust Museum in Richmond where they will be able to go beyond textbooks and interact with what the museum offers to all teachers in the Commonwealth.
For a $90 registration fee, participants will receive 15 Continuing Education hours, all materials, meals, transportation, and a chance to network with educators from across the region.
Conference organizers hope to see a strong turnout from local educators. After all, in the fight against antisemitism and hatred, the classroom may just be the most important battleground.
In a world where silence often equals complicity, this conference is ensuring that the stories that need to be told will have passionate, well-prepared storytellers in every classroom.
Join this crucial mission by registering at JewishVA.org/Edu-Conf. For more information, contact Elka Mednick at emednick@ujft.org.
Presented in partnership with The United Jewish Community of the Virginia Peninsula, Virginia Beach City Public Schools, and the Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities.
Local artist and JCC member to be showcased in Leon Family Gallery
Hunter Thomas
James Johnson’s art career began when he was just four years old when his 14-year-old brother Kenneth, introduced him to painting. Johnson remembers his brother sitting him down and saying, “Jimmy, I got you some paints and canvas board so you can make pictures like me.” Under Kenneth’s guidance, Johnson learned the intricacies of color mixing and composition, sparking a lifelong passion for art.
Though his passion was painting, Johnson decided to take a “safer” career path as an adult.
“The head of the art department at West Virginia State University said to me, ‘James, you are the best that we have, but please don’t become an artist; you will surely starve to death.’” Johnson recalls. He initially ventured into a career in interior decorating in Charleston, West Virginia.
Roads. His portfolio includes murals in restaurants, schools, theaters, hotels, and government buildings, showcasing his versatility and skill.
A decade ago, at 75, Johnson decided he didn’t have the energy he used to and shifted from painting walls to painting on an easel. His “mural retirement” didn’t last long, though. In 2018, he completed a mural at Luther Manor Assisted Living Facility, and recently, he’s been back to painting at bars and restaurants.
Johnson has placed first at regional and national art contests and exhibits in Virginia and West Virginia and has been featured in local newspapers, television, and Southern Living Magazine.
At 29, seeking new opportunities, Johnson relocated his family to Norfolk, where he worked during the colder months doing interior design work at Haynes Furniture, Sears, and Garner’s Interiors. In the spring and summer, he painted murals. His talent soon caught the eye of Wall Illusions, a mural company in Norfolk, where he became an artist advisor, designing murals, supervising jobs, and assisting other artists on more difficult projects. His most notable project with Wall Illusions included the extensive art restoration at the Commodore Theatre in Portsmouth, completed in 1990 after more than twoand-a-half years.
Shortly following that project, Johnson returned to self-employment, painting murals at the Virginia Beach Oceanfront. He has dedicated more than 54 years to mural painting in Hampton
At 85, Johnson contacted United Jewish Federation of Tidewater about exhibiting his work in the Leon Family Gallery. “I’ve been a Simon Family JCC member since 2016,” Johnson says, “and am thrilled to present my artwork at the Leon Family Gallery.”
The exhibit features three distinct sections: “Once Upon a Purchase,” a surrealistic interpretation of the conversation between salesman and customer; “Life,” showcasing his portraiture and realistic landscapes; and “Musion,” a visual interpretation of music inspired by his synesthetic experiences.
“Musion is the visual depiction of the music as I see it when I listen to music with my eyes closed,” Johnson says. “Feel free to step into one of my pictures and let me take you to some places you’ve never been to before. Enjoy the ride.”
The Leon Family Gallery is located on the second floor of the Sandler Family Campus. For hours and more information, visit JewishVA. org/Gallery or contact Hunter Thomas, director of Arts + Ideas, at HThomas@UJFT.org.
“LIFE & LEGACY is really is about keeping all of our stories going and ensuring new stories can be written. Almost everybody can participate in some way. If you know you are ok, and your family is well taken care of, isn’t it all of our responsibility to ensure our community is taken care of, too?”
— Jonathan & Alyssa Muhlendorf
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Holocaust Commission donates copies of To Life to 14 public library systems
Wendy Auerbach
It is now possible to checkout a copy of To Life: The Past Is Present, Holocaust Stories of Hampton Roads Survivors, Liberators, and Rescuers as far north as Charles City and as far west as Isle of Wight in Virginia.
Last month, the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, working with the Tidewater Area Library Director Consortium, donated books to every main and branch location in the 14 library systems that are part of the consortium.
Elka Mednick, director of the Holocaust Commission, says that “One of the primary goals of publishing To Life was to make this important history very accessible. There is no better way to do that than to partner with public libraries.”
survivors through video and curated replicas of memorabilia.
The book, which includes more than 90 poignant personal accounts that span the entire arc of Holocaust history, is now available in every main and branch location in these systems: Blackwater, Chesapeake, Eastern Shore, Gloucester, Hampton, Heritage, Newport News, Norfolk, Poquoson, Portsmouth, Suffolk, Virginia Beach, and York County.
Working through the consortium has laid the foundation for great opportunities to share other educational programming. In addition to To Life, the Holocaust Commission offers the podcast series, Stars Among Us, available on UJFT’s website and other streaming platforms, and What We Carry, a docent lead program that guides the audience through the journey of local Holocaust
The primary mission of the Holocaust Commission is to provide a variety of educational programs and materials at no cost to educators and the community. The commission has been recognized by the Virginia Department of Education as a state resource for Holocaust education.
To Life is also available for purchase at the Simon Family JCC, Prince Books in Norfolk, and at the MacArthur Memorial giftshop, also in Norfolk.
For more information about resources provided by the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, contact Elka Medick at emednick@ujft.org or at 757-965-6112.
TINY ART AUCTION FOR UKRAINE
Sunday, August 4, 12 – 4 pm Voodoo Brewing Co., Virginia Beach
Voodoo Brewing and local art educators are teaming up to create a benefit for the Ukranian Humanity Center.
Twenty-five Virginia Beach art teachers created tiny masterpieces responding to the theme, “Summer Walks.” These masterworks will be on display and available through a silent auction. All proceeds benefit the Ukranian Humanity Center, specifically their sponsorship for a summer camp for Ukranian Refugee children.
The kids are age 9-14; all came to Poland after the Russian attack on Ukraine.
“Our Ukrainian Humanity Center camp is in Zakopane, in the Tatras, and among the many activities we have planned for them are taking a cable car to Gubałówka Mountain, hiking in the mountains, art classes, swimming at Termy, a day trip to Krakow, the old Polish capital, and many other attractions.” Minimum bids start at $20. Bids must be raised by $2 or more than the previous bid.
For information or to donate, visit the Ukranian Humanity Center at https://ukrainianhumanitycenter.org.
CALENDAR
JULY 15, MONDAY
JCC Book Club will discuss Marriage of Opposites by Alice Hoffman. Book Club meets the third Monday of each month. Join in person or via Zoom. 1:30 pm. Simon Family JCC. Free. Information: contact Mia Klein at Mklein@ujft.org or Sherry Lieberman at joeann124@aol.com.
JULY 17, WEDNESDAY
Seniors Club is for adults ages 55+ who seek to add education, culture, and connections to others and the Jewish community. Meets the third Wednesday of each month. 12 pm. Simon Family JCC. Membership $15 per year. $6 for lunch. Information: contact Mia Klein at MKlein@UJFT.org.
JULY 24 - JULY 25, WEDNESDAY - THURSDAY
16th Biennial Educators’ Conference. The Holocaust Commission and the JCRC’s Educators’ Conference. Open to all K-12 educators. $90. Presented in partnership with United Jewish Community of the Virginia Peninsula, Virginia Beach City Public Schools, and Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities. Information and registration: visit JewishVa.org/edu-conf or contact Elka Mednick at EMednick@ujft.org. See page 33.
JULY 18, THURSDAY
Coffee and Conversation. Curious members gather to discuss timely topics. Meets the third Thursday of each month. 1 pm. Simon Family JCC. Free. Information and registration: visit www.Jewishva.org/CoffeeandConvo or contact Mia Klein at MKlein@UJFT.org.
JULY 31, WEDNESDAY
Wonderful Wednesdays Music Series. Jazz/Blues artist Stephanie Nakasian will perform selections reflecting the Jewish influence on popular music. 7:30 pm. Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. $25 in advance and $30 at the door. www.jewishmuseumportsmouth.org.
AUGUST 6, TUESDAY
Yiddish Club is a vibrant hub for preserving and promoting the Yiddish language and its rich heritage. Meets the first Tuesday of each month. 1 pm. Simon Family JCC. Free. Information: visit JewishVA.org/YiddishClub or contact Mia Klein at MKlein@ujft.org or 757-452-3184.
AUGUST 7, WEDNESDAY
Wonderful Wednesdays Music Series. The Terra Voce Trio, with Elizabeth Brightbill on flute, Andrew Gabbert on cello and Maria Yefimova on piano. 7:30 pm. Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. $25 in advance and $30 at the door. www.jewishmuseumportsmouth.org.
AUGUST 21, WEDNESDAY
Wonderful Wednesdays Music Series. Bagels and Fraylox. The Klezmer band includes the talents of Howard Bierenbaum, David Gussman, Andy Petrofsky, Lance Pedigo, Jonathan Rathsam, and Rodger Schultz. 7:30 pm. Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. $25 in advance and $30 at the door. www.jewishmuseumportsmouth.org.
WHAT’S HAPPENING
Win two passes to Beyond Monet: The Immersive Experience Through Thursday, September 5
Virginia Beach Convention Center
Beyond Monet: The Immersive Experience sheds new light on what the world thought it knew about Claude Monet. Presented by the Virginia Arts Festival and produced by Paquin Entertainment Group, the experience showcases more than 400 of Monet’s most iconic works of impressionism, including the Water Lilies series, Impression: Sunrise, and Poppies. Monet’s stunning imagery encompasses every surface of the room, transporting guests inside the paintings themselves. It is a haven for awakening the senses as the ebb and flow of the artwork is accompanied by the rhythm of an original score.
An exclusive encore presentation of Beyond Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience, will be available at select dates and times.
To win the passes, go to facebook.com/JewishNewsVA and like the Beyond Monet post. A winner will be randomly selected on August 2.
The Convention Center is located at 1000 19th St. in Virginia Beach. Tickets may be obtained a monetvirginiabeach.com.
The United Jewish Federation of Tidewater/Simon Family JCC seeks a proven experienced candidate for the position of Director of Human Resources. The Director of Human Resources serves as an integral member of the professional leadership team, under the direction of the Executive Vice President/CEO, and is responsible for the development and implementation of human resource policies for the agency covering areas such as recruitment and hiring, employee relations, compensation, performance management, and compliance with applicable employment laws and regulations.
Additionally, the Director of Human Resources is responsible for all HR functional areas for the Tidewater Jewish Foundation and the UJFT Community Campus, LLC., (aka, Sandler Family Campus).
A bachelor’s degree in human resource management, business administration or related field required from an accredited university or college with a minimum of 4 years demonstrated progressive leadership experience in all HR functional areas. Master’s degree preferred. SHRM-CP or SHRM-SCP credential strongly desired.
Proficient in Microsoft Word, Excel, Publisher, and PowerPoint. The successful candidate will possess strong interpersonal and listening skills and understand the mission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.
Position start date: April 1, 2024.
Salaries are competitive and commensurate with experience.
Complete job descriptions at www.federation.jewishva.org and www.simonfamilyjcc.org
Submit cover letter, resume and salary requirements to: resumes@ujft.org
Attention: B Betty Ann Levin – Confidential 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Virginia Beach, Virginia 23462
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Thomas Lee Barney, Esq.
NORFOLK – Thomas Lee Barney, 77, passed away peacefully in his sleep on June 19 after a long and courageous battle with cancer.
Born March 20, 1947, in Portsmouth, Va., to parents Jacob Arnold Barney and Miriam Eisenberg Barney Katz, Tom was proudly a lifelong Virginian. After graduating in 1965 from Churchland High School, Tom received his undergraduate degree from Athens College in Alabama in 1969. He then went on to earn his degree in law from the University of Memphis in 1972, passing the bar in both Tennessee and Virginia that same year. He was a
successful attorney for 52 years, 51 of those in Virginia.
In his teenage years, during the summers, Tom worked as a camp counselor. At camp, he was an instructor and lifeguard known for swimming the butterfly and inventing “The Barney Special” – a distinct diving technique leaving campers and staff in awe. Although an accomplished lawyer, where he firmly believed everyone has a story and the right to tell it, Tom was also a sweet husband, devoted stepfather and grandfather and was most proud of his relationships with his wife, stepchildren, and grandchildren – where he was affectionately
known as Papa Tom and on occasion… ThomAss.
Tom is preceded in death by his parents and is survived by his loving wife of 11 years, Marcia H. Barney, stepchildren Lauren Robinson (Russ), Lindsey Ferguson (Rob), both of Charlotte, N.C., and Bridger Hodsden (Alice) of Altadena, Calif., step-grandchildren Drew, Julia, and Jack Robinson, Lola and Ginger Ferguson, and Rachel and baby-to-be Hodsden, brother John Barney (Linda), niece Jessi Barney Hart (Jamie) and nephew Jake Barney (Laura), grandnieces Abbey Hart and Cammie Barney and grandnephew Ryan Hart, all of Washington, D.C. and surrounding areas, cousin Normie Sher (Sandy) of Virginia Beach, as well as other cousins and very dear friends.
Tom loved all music, technology trends, the stock market, a variety of cuisine, politics, traveling, fast cars, and really good coffee. He also had a special love for animals, especially dogs, particularly his last dog, Sophie.
During his illness, he never once complained “why me?” He just lived and loved life. He will always be remembered for his generosity and kindness, his laughter, clever quips, and his love for his family.
A funeral service was held at Forest Lawn East Cemetery in Weddington, N.C. Remembrances may be offered in memory of Tom to a local animal shelter or the charity of the donor’s choice. As two parting phrases of Tom’s fondness: Kumbaya and Full Tilt Boogie.
Sidney Morton Cohen
LAS VEGAS, NEVADA – Sidney Morton Cohen, also known as Lucky and Sid-theKid, passed away on July 6 at the age of 87, surrounded by family.
Sid was an Air Force veteran who loved traveling to national parks with his family, the Atlantic Ocean and being a best friend to his many Las Vegas friends.
Sid grew up in Richmond, Va., raised his children in Virginia Beach, Va., and enjoyed many later years in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Sidney was a supportive and loving father of Sandra Susan Brewer, Sean David Cohen and Stacy Paige Parker, fun and silly grandpa of Elena Samantha Brewer, Joshua Solomon Brewer, Riley Timme Parker and Lynn Molly Parker, loving father-in-law of
Krista L. Chaimson and Russell T. Parker, brother of Natalie Bisger and the late Betty Selig and Norman Cohen, and son of Esther and Abe Cohen.
The service was private. Online condolences can be made at www.dignitymemorial.com.
Peggy Hughes Dorsk
VIRGINIA BEACH – Peggy Hughes Dorsk passed away on June 14.
She was born in Comer, Ga. to the late John and Eunice Hughes on July 31, 1933. She was predeceased by her husband Bob Dorsk, five siblings, and one nephew.
Peggy had many interests: golf, cards, cooking, entertaining and traveling, but her passion was golf, which she played for about 40 years. She was Greenbrier Ladies Champion in 1989, ‘90, ‘91, and ‘92 and scored 2 holes-in-one.
Peggy is survived by her son Barry (Beth) and daughter Lisa, three grandsons, Chad (Maria), Justin (Erin), and Mitchell, and three great grands. She also leaves behind many nieces, nephews, and good friends. Per Peggy’s wishes, her body is being donated to the VA Anatomical Society. Memorial donations in her name can be made to the M.J. Fox Parkinson’s Foundation.
Janyth “Jan” Lee Garrett Fine
VIRGINIA BEACH – Janyth Lee Garrett Fine, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away on June 17. She was born on September 3, 1943, in Newport News, Va., and was the daughter of the late Roy and Lily Garrett.
Jan’s commitment to the Hampton Roads community was evident in her many roles and contributions. She was a co-owner of the Freckled Fox, a store she ran with friends. She was a great lover of animals and volunteered for the board of the Virginia Beach SPCA. She also served on the boards of the Virginia Museum of Contemporary Art and the Virginia Beach Art Center. She was a co-president of the Ohef Sholom Temple Sisterhood. Her lifelong passion for gardening was reflected in her active participation as an officer of the Princess Anne Garden Club and in her work in her own garden.
A world traveler, Jan particularly enjoyed her trips to France with Morris and Meg and Bill Campbell. Back at home,
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she was always happy to share a glass of wine or two with her close friends at her “book” club. She was known for her vibrant spirit, generosity, and love for life.
Jan is survived by her devoted husband of 48 years, Morris H. Fine, her three children, Robert Fine and his wife, Jane, Beth Fine and her husband, Ryan, and Michael Fine and his wife, Blair, her sister, Joyce Tidey, her brother-in-law, Andrew Fine, and his wife, Barbara, and her eight grandchildren, Lauren Fine, Hannah Walker, Kate, Summer, and Will Fine, and Lily, Caroline, and Zoe Albert. She is also remembered by her extended family and many dear friends. She was preceded in death by her brother-in-law, George Tidey.
A memorial service to honor Janyth's life was held at Ohef Sholom Temple. Donations may be made to the Jan and Morris Fund at the Hampton Roads Foundation. Online condolences may be made to the family at hdoliver.com.
Morton Joseph Glasser
VIRGINIA BEACH – We mourn the loss of Morton Joseph Glasser, age 96, cherished husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, and uncle, who died on June 14.
Born in Norfolk, Va. on March 21, 1928, he was the son of the late Robert B. and Anna H. Glasser. Morton was preceded in death by his sister, Sari, who passed in 2012.
Morton graduated from Maury High School in Norfolk and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. He also attended New York University Graduate School of Business. After college, he served for three years in the US Coast Guard.
Morton married his wife, Lynne, in 1978 and settled in Virginia Beach. He worked as a food broker until his retirement. He was fascinated by genealogy and, with other family members, researched the origins of the vast Glasser family over several generations, culminating in the development of a special historical video. Morton loved attending the annual Glasser family reunions, reconnecting with loved ones from near and afar.
He cherished Lynne and his faithful family, always ready to help in times of need. In addition, he valued and loved Judaism. He attended Congregation Beth El in Norfolk and became a Bar Mitzvah there.
Morton will be remembered for his honesty, integrity, reliability, and loyalty, not to
mention his love of basketball, forever cheering on his Tar Heel family. He will forever be known as a gentle giant, kind soul, a mensch and a true friend.
Besides his wife, he is survived by his children, Robert (Sara) Glasser, Jennifer (Steve) Honickman, Dee Dee (Andy) Becker, and Julie (Tom) Krupnick. He is also survived by five grandchildren: Seth (Sara) Glasser, Rena (Alex) Daum, Brenna Becker, Scott Honickman, Alexa Honickman, and three great grandchildren: Zachary Glasser, Emma Glasser, and Maya Daum.
Services were held at Altmeyer Funeral Home followed by interment at Woodlawn Memorial Gardens. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association, Congregation Beth El, the Virginia Veterans Services Foundation or the charity of your choice.
Condolences may be left online at www.altmeyerfh.com.
Edmund R. Goldsticker
VIRGINIA BEACH – Edmund R. Goldsticker, 88, passed away on July 3.
Eddie was born in 1935 in Norfolk, Va., to the late Harry and Molly Goldsticker. He was a graduate of Maury High School and the Norfolk division of the College of William & Mary and had a successful career as a certified public accountant after serving his country in the National Guard.
Eddie played the French horn in high school, in the Norfolk Symphony as a young man, and again in his retirement. When he wasn’t spending time with family and friends, he was busy volunteering in his community. Throughout the years, Eddie lent his accounting and financial skills to his synagogue, Jewish Family Service, and the Oceans condominium board. He enjoyed working as an election official each fall and volunteered for years at Sentara Virginia Beach General as the golf cart driver. He was the self-appointed librarian at his assisted living facility and spent hours cataloguing and labeling the books.
Eddie was a loving and dedicated husband to his best friend and love of his life, Marcia. They recently celebrated 65 years of marriage and were still seen holding hands every day. He was adored by his daughters, sons-in-law, and grandchildren. He had loving relationships with his sister-in-law, Jean, and brother-in-law,
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Eddie is survived by his loving wife, Marcia Goldsticker, his devoted daughters, Helen Sissel, Laurie (Gary) Siegel, and Susan (Joe) Hooks, and his cherished grandchildren, Joshua, Zachary, Molly, and Bryan. He was predeceased by his loving parents, Harry and Molly Goldsticker, his sister, Ruth Becker Levinson, his niece, Arlene Sidman, and nephew, Alexander Becker.
A service was held at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments, Norfolk Chapel. Interment followed at Forest Lawn.
Donations in Eddie’s name can be made
to the Alzheimer's Association or the charity of one’s choice.
Barbara Ann Hearst
VIRGINIA BEACH – It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Barbara Hearst on June 10.
We will always remember her beauty, elegance, grace, and impeccable sense of style. Her ability to turn heads when she walked into a room and the grace she bestowed was unmatched. Barbara loved to meet people and effortlessly brought everyone into conversation, no one was a stranger in her presence.
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Loved by many, she will be deeply missed by her family, including husband William (Bill) Hearst, brother Jerry Sebastian and children Debbie HearstGregory, Michael Baumgarten, Joe Hearst, and Evelyn Hearst. Not ever wanting to be called grandmother, she was lovingly known as “Grandie” by Keegan, Julian, Jayden, Megan, Sydney, Amber, Beau, and Corey and Nana to Sylvana and Valentina.
A celebration of Barbara’s life was held at the Princess Anne Country Club. Please consider making a donation to the American Cancer Society or a charity of your choice.
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Harvey Theodore Pizor
VIRGINIA BEACH – Harvey Theodore Pizor was born in Wilmington, Del. on September 11, 1930, and passed away on June 8.
He was preceded in death by his loving wife of 65 years, Joan Marilyn Pizor, and his brother, Jimmy Pizor.
Harvey is survived by daughter Marcie Waranch Argaman and husband Judah and his son, Barry Pizor and wife Lynne. He loved and adored his grandchildren
Rebecca Waranch, Mitchell and future daughter, Helena, Billy Pizor and wife Lauren, and Scott Pizor. Harvey was very fortunate to know he had a great granddaughter Shiloh and enjoyed all the videos
sent from Texas.
Harvey served in the Navy during the Korean War. He was a proud American and had a love for and instilled that love in others for the land of Israel. He worked into his 80’s, but his passion was playing cards and bowling.
Most of all, Harvey loved and lived for his family and was a wonderful person loved by everyone. He was well known for his fantastic humor, joke-telling abilities, and contagious laugh. He passes on so many memories and will be greatly missed.
A graveside service was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery.
Jacob Stromberg
PORTSMOUTH—Jacob Stromberg, 68, passed away peacefully on June 14.
Jack was born in Ottawa, Ontario Canada on February 8, 1956, to Hyman and Lily Stromberg, of blessed memory.
He is survived by his longtime partner, Mary Mihalczo, sister Deborah Stromberg and partner Michaeleen O’Neil, brother Burle Stromberg and wife Robin, niece Arielle Stromberg Reinitz and husband John, niece Rachael Stromberg, nephew Sam Stromberg, and great-nephew Owen Noles.
A graveside service was held at Gomley Chesed Cemetery. Condolences may be registered at BWFosterFuneralHome.com.
Celebration of Lifelong Learning: A year of growth and commitment
The Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater celebrated a remarkable year of Jewish education with a Celebration of Lifelong Learning event last month. This year, dedicated learners deepened their knowledge of Jewish history, thought, values, and heritage, showcasing an inspiring commitment to continued education.
Participants received certificates of completion and heartfelt gratitude was extended to this year’s exceptional educators—Rabbi Michael Panitz, Harman Grossman, Dr. Amy Milligan, Rabbi Shlomo Eisenberg, and Barb Gelb. Their expertise and dedication enriched the programs and left a lasting impact on all learners.
The flourishing of grassroots initiatives, such as the Rabbi Sacks Community Book Club and Parent-Child Learning Opportunities, which have fostered meaningful discussions and community engagement, were also recognized.
Reflecting on this successful year, the Konikoff Center for Learning emphasized that Jewish education is an ongoing journey. Everyone is encouraged to continue exploring and embracing the rich traditions.
To learn more about the Konikoff Center for Learning or to share ideas for future courses, visit JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, senior director of Jewish Innovation, at SLautman@UJFT.org.
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