Ultimate Gifts Guides Magazine: Women's Edition

ULTIMATE Volume 2

GIFT GUIDES GIFTS FIT FOR A QUEEN

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UNHIDDEN STORY OF SHATAVA LINDSEY HOT GIRL SUMMER IS BACK!

STILL SPEAKING!”

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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

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started the Ultimate Gifts Guides Magazine because I am tired of not seeing accurate representation for Black owned businesses. The same 25 brands being circulated between the majors blogs makes it appear as though entrepreneurship is a rarity in our community. False. We as a community and culture have always been industrious and entrepreneurial however, that is not publicized. Not any more. We are dedicating our platform as a place for the black dollar to be utilized in an informed way with high quality brands at the forefront.

heard, we are taking up space in higher places with powerful titles. We are creating the change that our ancestors desired, and we will continue to do so.

We are a young magazine but one of a kind. Growing exponentially since our initial launch in 2020 and have provided recognition for many black owned business owners. The next coming editions will be showcasing the unsung stories and heroes of our culture, so buckle up, and enjoy the ride.

This edition comes from a personal place, black women are indescribable and this issue is my attempt in celebrating the undecrible and majesty of what the black woman brings to the table.

Dr. Sylvia Gonsahn-Bollie, M.D.

Times are changing and we are being

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Destanee A graduate of The University of Louisiana at Lafayette that resides in the Northwest Suburbs of Chicago, IL where she enjoys working with children daily and finding ways to give back to her community. In her free time she enjoys writing short stories and planning the next virtual hangout with family and friends.

Book matchmaker extraordinaire. My love of books and reading knows no boundaries.

My Passion? Getting you a good read to broaden the world around you or distractyou from the foolishness of the world. Books are my Besties, and I don’t mind letting you in on our friendship.

Is a dual board-certified obesity medicine expert who learned to compassionately listen to women struggling with weight loss after she lost 60lbs, not once but twice. Dr. Bollie has maintained her weight loss for over 7 years through embracing self-love and personalized science. As CEO and lead physician of Embrace YOU Weight and Wellness, Dr. Bollie is passionate about empowering other women who have more than 25lbs to lose, stop obsessing over the scale and get to their happy, healthy weight for good through a customized wellness based strategy that can be used for your lifetime.

You can connect with Dr. Bollie through the Embrace You Weight & Wellness website, www.embraceyouweightloss.com.

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TABLE OF CONTENT Black Women Recognition Awards Meet The Author Know Your Purpose, Not Just Your Environment Have a Healthy Relationship with your body Representation In the Industry: Entertainment It Started With Drinks Unhidden story of Shatava Lindsey Hot Girl Summer Essentials Gifts Fit For A Queen Meadows Review March Must Reads Powerful Women on Clubhouse 4

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lack women literally are superheroes. We want to highlight two amazing women who have been killing it in the STEM Industry. We wear many hats and do a million things. However, let’s take a moment to give credit and put respect on these black women’s names.

Femi Oke

Martine Cadet

International broadcaster Femi Oke has been revealed as the new host of Al Jazeera English’s hit social media show The Stream. The former BBC, Sky and CNN journalist will take over presenting duties from Monday 6th May. Femi has been based in the US since 1999 and spent nine years anchoring and reporting for CNN in Atlanta.

She is a mom of 2, a wife and a sister that decided to go for her dream and design an online business that excites her every single day. Martine is the Founder and owner of Kaderique Media, LLC a Boutique Digital Media Agency supporting small business owners brand themselves online and expand their visibility on her TV Network Visualize and Create Network

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Rachel Johns

Lena Adebowale

A native of Memphis, TN now living in NYC. Rachel Johns is a data analyst in the surgical devices industry.

She is also the Tech Co-Founder of HoneytoCocoa, a minority owned business that seeks to disrupt and dismantle color bias in the cosmetics industry. In her spare time, Rachel likes to read John Grisham and James Patterson books and daydream about vacationing in the setting where each novel takes place.

Lena has more than 10 years of sales and marketing experience. She is an active member of the Greater Los Angeles Realtors Association, and one of the newest sales agents at Rodeo Realty Sunset Strip. Lena is an expert in the Pasadena-Foothills and Los Angeles real estate markets.

QUOTE: “I envision a world where any person of color can walk into a drug store and find their perfect shade of foundation just as they would in a department store or big box store. The issue I want to tackle is two-fold. The inherent colorism and the classism. Both of these are the root cause of inaccessibility or the lack of inclusion.”

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A proud resident of Pasadena, California, Lena and her family have a robust history in the city; one that spans more than 70 years.

With a passion for service and a commitment to integrity, Lena strives to add value to all her relationships.

When Lena isn't closing deals for her clients, she enjoys cooking, traveling and spending quality time with her family and friends.

QUOTE: “You only live once, but if your do it right, once is enough.” - Mae West

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fe Fruci is the founder of Odihi. The term 'Odihi' is a Nigerian name in Edo Dialect which means

"essence of greatness". Odihi is created to give Black girls and women the opportunity to gain hands-on career experiences, grow their network, and build their confidence through coaching, workshops, and mentorships. By providing the resources and support they require, Odihi aims to ensure that ALL Black girls and women are able to succeed in life - from their studies to their careers, profession, and businesses - so they can unleash their greatness and thrive forward, confidently.

Efe is also a scientist and senior analyst at Accenture, an author, inspirational speaker, and a self-driven confidence coach working with young girls and women to help them become confident, self-motivated, fearless, and empowered. Efe is passionate about helping women change the narrative by smashing limiting beliefs (self-doubt, insecurities, fear of failure, and imposter syndrome). An advocate for mental health and self-love for women.

She holds a degree in Nursing/Midwifery, in Biomedical Science and Health Science from Oxford.

Coupled with a certification in confidence coaching, motivational speaker, birth, and postpartum Doula.

Efe is passionate about traveling, photography, reading, music both singing and listening. She is a lover of fine cuisines with a culinary diploma after training and working as a sous-chef in Belgium in her early twenties.

She enjoys sports such as basketball, tennis, hiking, and volleyball and currently lives in Vancouver after years of rotating around the world, now enjoying the glory and beautiful nature that is British Columbia.

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Know Your Purpose, Not Just Your Environment Meet Aisha Bowe

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isha bowe is the epitome of the question what do we look like?

When we as black women walk into a room what is it that you actually see of us? Do you see a scientist?

Do you see an engineer? Do you see an entrepreneur? Do you see a mother? Do you see a VP of the United states of America?

What is actually seen when a black woman walks into the room.

or not they grew up in the United States, South Africa or even in Paris everyone seems to be battling with their sense of self and that something that I live to to show people why they need to free themselves from that.You do not have to have a 4.0 to become a rocket scientist you just have to work hard because we all know that hard work beats Talent especially when Talent doesn’t work at all.”

Meet Aish Bowe, who is more than just a former engineer and rocket scientist at NASA and more than founder and business owner. Originally being told she would be better suited in the cosmetology field, Aisha showed up and showed out by graduating with an aerospace engineering degree from the university of michigan and becoming an award winning rocket scientist with NASA.

“American dream is for everybody and not just for a few people”

“Its not about who you think you can be, it about who you know you are not” - Aisha Bowe Some would say being at NASA is the “momma we made it’’ destination, but for Aisha, its just the beginning. Looking back on your upbringing and environment, a lot of the times you are not given all the options of who you can actually become. As a community we are slowly coming out of the “ you can be an entertainer or a baller” mentality, but you have to stop and think, if you are only given two options to become and you do not want either, what do you do? For Aisha, she leaned on what she is not, and that’s a quitter. Even after having trouble all throughout high school and not making the grades. Aisha continued on to showcase and represent what a rocket scientist looks like, inspiring so many other youth behind her. “You can be a scientist and still have a beat face!”

Its the representation for me! Aisha Bowe founded her start up STEMboard, which is an engineering solutions company with a mission to help youth break stereotypes, and the internalization of negative narratives that can potentially hinder them from pursuing careers in STEM. “Whether

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This is a big take away from Aisha Bowe’s story and accomplishments. The american dream, that you can be whoever you want to be and be as successful as you possibly can. That is exactly what has happened. As a community we have to know and believe that we can achieve whatever we set out for. Even if we don’t know what that looks like 100%.

Aisha Bowe left NASA, a prestigious job, position and I am sure, a great dental plan, because she wanted something for her own. She wanted to create a sustainable business that is ranked and respected in the entrepreneurial circle a well as impactful for the future generations.

That’s exactly what she did. “There is no shortage of power, so there no shortage of access of opportunity” Although having to face discrimination along the way, something that so many of us can unfortunately relate to, Aisha shared that although she had to eal with it, she realize that her actual job is to motivate and inspire others with potential to join her. As she continues to open pathways and doors for every color to be represented in the field and industry she is using her influence and organization to support and assist STEM camps all over the nation.

Know that you have met Aisha Bowe, you know who she is, and more importantly, who she is not, a stereotype.

You can find more information on supporting and joining Aisha Bowe and her STEM Movement.

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10 ways to have a healthy relationship with your body

By Sylvia Gonsahn-Bollie, M.D., Diplomate American Board of Obesity Medicine

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It’s not your fault. Body weight regulation is more complicated that “calories in” vs “calories” out. Weight regulation is based on “energy intake” vs “energy expenditure.” A wide range of factors-genetic, hormonal, mental, social, and environmental- impact your energy balance and help determine your weight beyond just food and exercise.

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Be aware of cultural bias when being screened for obesity. Your target “healthy weight” may be incorrect if your doctor or healthcare clinician didn’t adjust your non-obesity cut off level based on your age, race/ ethnicity, and sex.

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Black women, in general, have more lean muscle mass compared to Caucasian women which can lead to an incorrect diagnosis of obesity prematurely in Black women. Therefore, the BMI, Body Mass Index, standard which is used to determine when you classify as having obesity (excess body fat), needs to be adjusted based on race & ethnicity.

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Your body favors its highest weight and tries to stay at that weight.

Each time you lose weight and regain it makes it harder to lose it the next time.

Rapid weight loss, i.e. more than 8lbs/ month, slows your metabolism and can lead to rebound weight loss.

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The best “diet” is a well-balanced eating plan filled with nutrient rich foods that you can stick to long term.

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Sleeping less than 7hrs or more than 9hrs is associated with developing obesity.

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High stress levels for more than a week are associated with weight gain and obesity.

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People who lose weight with support tend to keep their weight off longer than 1 year. Seek help on your weight loss journey.

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ammy B creations is a one of a kind, handmade crochet doll maker. Each doll is cretaed to your specifics, unique, and are made to last. Growing up, black dolls were rarely seen and lacked true representation. Today Tammy B Creations creates dolls, one stitch at a time, that promotes self love and acceptance of who we are.

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“Representation In The Industry: Entertainment”

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ave you noticed we are being represented a bit more on screen? Us too.

That of course is not a mistake or a coincidence. It's because of us who are voicing our opinion and those who are sitting at the table creating opportunities for the ones behind them. Highlighting these women in the entertainment industry who make it possible for everyone else. Protect Them.

Ashanti Strange “I found that every time I asked permission, the answer tended to be no. So, I had to make my own yeses”.

- Issa Ray

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ith an instinctive eye for talent and love for uncovering the stories of people, Ashanti has focused her skills on bringing an essence to projects where the artists and interviewees are highlighted in an authentic and intriguing way! Ashanti holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Radio/Television & Film with a minor in Advertising as well as a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Management. Originally from Los Angeles California, Ashanti now resides in the Atlanta Georgia where she started her career in casting with Between Women TV Network.

Her latest projects include casting for iOne Digital, a dominant media platform for urban lifestyle enthusiasts. Ashanti’s dynamic portfolio also includesBossip,Madamnoire, Cassius and Infecting Change Television Inc. Ashanti loves her job and has a sincere passion for castingand her dedication shows within each project. She is always looking for personalities that are going to stand out and shine. Her goal is to bring memorable moments to life whether on screen or in person.

"The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance – and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning”.

-Oprah Winfrey

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im is a Costume Supervisor overseeing the formation of costumes for monumental films and tv from script & concept to design to creation to set to on-camera, finally to your screen for your viewing pleasure.

With nearly 20 years in the entertainment business, she has diversified her vast talents with a start as a freelance fashion stylist, dressing infamous characters for stage theater, live performance for world famous artists, to magazine fashion and lifestyle editor, costuming some of your favorite characters on tv and film, designing costumes for major national commercials to styling and producing special events from your most intimate setting to the grounds of the White House. A few highly acclaimed projects and events include critically acclaimed The Wire, The Color Purple, Nickelodeon, Emmy winning House of Cards - all six seasons - , Bud Light for Super Bowl, Charm City Kings, The Handmaids Tale, Phantom of the Opera, IBM, Facebook, Turn, and the award winning film Jackie.

QUOTE/INSPIRATION “And the day came when the risk to remain tight inside a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom” Anais Nin

Thea Washington

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hea Washington is a Casting Director based in the DMV area (DC, MD, VA) specializing in television, commercials, print, digital media and film. Her mission is being committed to adding more color, diversity and representation to a screen near you.

As a casting director, Thea, alongside her team, have provided services for a wide range of talent for diverse content over the past decade. From television network series to commercial branding, Thea Washington Casting continues to make its mark.

Commercials, campaigns and advertorials for the national Census 2020 campaign, National Geographic Aflac Campaigns, T.Rowe Price, Care First’s 2021 Super Bowl Commercial, BBC World News, Human Rights Campaign, Wahl’s clippers, Cake Bites and more!

Thea Washington has also cast over 500 episodes of crime television for networks like Investigation Discovery, Oxygen, TV One and more!

Thea Washington Casting finds top notch talent in niche markets for the most exclusive gigs.

Thea, and her team at Thea Washington Casting are always ready to bring a fresh approach to new projects, new clients, and developing new industry relationships. As industry veterans, they are determined to provide high quality products and strive for consistency of work.

“We lead with kindness and cast with integrity. We truly believe that love and dedication is in the details. And embracing diversity is not just a belief, it’s our commitment.”

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It Starts With Drinks

ess sends a text to her best friend Dawn from inside Elements restaurant and bar: I’m here. Wish me luck.

it. I’m a complete mess right now,” Jess takes the clutch from Terry’s hand.

“First date jitters happen all the time.

Remember to breathe,” says Terry.

She checks her silk pressed hair with her phone’s camera then slips her phone into the crimson red clutch she always pairs with her little black dress. An unexpected baritone voice startles her,

Jess takes in a huge inhale.

“What are you having?”

“Yes, that’s Paul, thank you so much.”

She looks up to see the bartender in front of her.

“You’re welcome. Enjoy your night.”

“I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to scare you,” the bartender apologizes.

“It’s ok, I’m a little on edge, tonight. I’m here to meet someone and it’s my first time on a date with someone from a dating app so it’s a lot for me,” explains Jess.

“Well, let me make you something to take the edge off. Are you a martini fan?”

“I am. I’ll take it with extra olives please.”

“You got it. Oh, and in case you were wondering, you look amazing.”

“Thank you,” Jess takes a moment to read his name tag, “Terry.”

“No problem.” Terry turns around to make her drink and Jess notices his dreads.

She daydreams about trying locs as she looks out the floor to ceiling windows that frame the city sky-line. Jess gets lost in her thoughts when her phone buzzes.

She pulls the phone out of her clutch and spins into the martini glass Terry placed on the counter while her back was turned.

The drink splashes on her phone. Jess panics, reaches for a napkin, and almost places her clutch in the small puddle of alcohol, but Terry places his hand underneath the bag before it contacts the sur-face.

“Don’t worry about it,” Terry assures her while tossing the glass aside, wiping the counter with his left hand, and holding the clutch with his right.

Jess wipes off her phone.

“Here’s your clutch,” says Terry.

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“The guy looking around at the hostess counter, is that him,” asks Terry as he gestures over her shoulder.

Jess’s eyes linger on Terry’s smile until he walks away to take another guest’s order. She turns around and looks at her date Paul tower over the petite hostess in a tailored navy suit, em-phasizing his muscular frame.

“I think I am going to enjoy this,” she thinks as she waves to him. Paul sees her, gives a slight nod, and makes his way to her side. He hugs her and she takes in the woodsy scent of his cologne. His left hand rests on the small of her back, and Jess melts into his firm yet gentle touch.

The spell cast by his physique, style, and aroma breaks when Paul snaps his fingers at Terry, “Drinks!”

Terry looks over his shoulder in disgust, but remembers he’s on the clock and fixes his face. Jess maintains her look of disgust as Paul turns back to her.

“Yeah, I’m finding people don’t want to work hard anymore,” says Paul, assuming Jess’s face was for the bartender. He snaps again and Jess places her hand on his forearm.

“You just snapped your fingers at another human.”

“He’s our servant tonight, he should be serving us,” states Paul.

“You mean server,” says Jess.

The two look at each other confused as the waiter comes over and lets them know their table is ready. Jess looks back at Terry to mouth an apology, but his back is turned. She trails Paul to the table and stands next to her chair as Paul sits, adjusts, and places his napkin on his lap.

He looks at Jess and points his hand out toward her chair.

“You can sit,” advises Paul Jess takes her seat in disbelief.

Paul opens the menu and begins talking as he reads, “Your profile said you’re an engi-neer, so you’re smart. And I like that you’re tall. I want my kids to be tall. Do you workout or are you naturally thin?”

“I’m sorry, what,” says Jess, still processing the finger snap.

Paul puts the menu down and looks directly into her eyes, “I’ll be honest with you; based on your looks and your background you’re in my top four. Depending on how the date goes you could be in my top two.”

Jess’s mouth opens, but her brain has so many curse words rushing to get out first she’s unable to speak. She gets up and walks away. Paul shrugs and whistles for the waiter.

Two weeks later, Jess walks back into the restaurant wearing a teal dress and yellow pumps. Terry sees her approach the bar and recognizes her immediately.

“Good to see you again.”

“If I didn’t like this place so much, I would have never shown my face again,” explains Jess, “Well I’m glad you came back. And I must say you handled the situation well,” says Ter-ry.

Terry begins to mix a martini for her while she talks.

“I don’t get it. I mean I understand why women go for that sort of guy. I fell for it.

He was gorgeous and tall and he smelled amazing, but if he’s out here acting reckless in public, I can’t imagine how he’d treat me in private.”

“Exactly,” Terry places the glass in front of her, “here you go miss. With extra olives.”

“Wow, you remembered. And I’m Jess by the way.”

“It’s good to see you again Jess. So is this another date night?”

“Yeah. I decided I’m going to get out more, try to not be so obsessed with

work, and I thought the best way to evaluate the different dates is to meet them at the same place. It’s my engineer brain trying to make everything more efficient.”

“Let me guess, you’re an electrical engineer.”

“Mechanical actually.”

“I studied electrical engineering for three years, but had to drop out because of family is-sues. I started bartending to make money, I fell in love with it and decided, why not keep doing the thing I love.”

“It’s sad you had to drop out, but it’s great you get to do what you love.”

“Everything happens for a reason. Anyways, who’s the lucky guy tonight?”

“Ja’shawn,” says Jess.

“I’m sorry, could you say that again,” asks Terry.

“Ja’shawn. He was named after his mom’s grandfather Jay and his uncle Shawn.”

Terry bites his lip trying not to laugh.

“I’m gonna need you to stop judging people’s names. He was super sweet when we chat-ted so I figured why not give it try. What’s the worst that can happen,” explains Jess.

“You’ll find out soon enough,” says Terry.

Ja’shawn approaches Jess, leans in, and wraps his arms around her. Her nose is filled with the scent of a Black & Mild.

“I knew it was you soon as I walked in.

Some of these chicks be lyin’ on their profile pic-tures, but you-” he takes a step back and scans Jess from head to toe.

“Ja’shawn I take it,” interjects Terry, “Jess was telling me how excited she was about her date with you tonight. What can I get you to drink?”

Ja’shawn holds his oversized, faded black jeans up with his left hand as he extends his right hand to Terry.

“You can call me Shawn.”

Shawn looks at Terry’s name tag and his eyes linger for a few seconds while the two of them shake hands, “T-er, Terry?

Yeah, let me get a Jack and coke.”

“It’s so nice to finally meet you Shawn,” says Jess with a forced smile, “I’ve really en-joyed our chats.”

“The pleasure is all mine,” he grabs Jess’s hand, kisses it, and leaves a bit of saliva on her knuckle. Jess discreetly rubs her hand against the side of the stool.

“This place is dope! You gotta brother expanding his horizons. I ain’t gonna lie I’m feeling a little underdressed.”

“No, you’re fine, but I need to run to the restroom real quick, I’ll be back.”

Jess rushes away and pulls her phone out as soon as she’s out of Shawn’s sight. She sends Dawn a text: 911!

Call me in five minutes.

Oh no!

I got you, but I gotta hear about this as soon as you leave. Lol Jess drops her phone back into her purse.

She makes her way back to the bar. Shawn is in deep conversation with Terry.

“So those plateaus are actually the stumps of ancient trees the Nephilim cut down,” ex-plains Shawn, “How’s lava or rain gonna make a flat top like that?”

Shawn downs half the glass as Jess walks up. He puts the glass down and explains to her, “I was telling Terry about the book of Enoch and how that led me to the mountain tree theo-ry.”

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“I’m curious, how did we get on the topic of the book of Enoch,” asks Jess.

“Terry was asking what I was reading these days,” says Shawn.

He continues to ramble on as Jess gives a side eye to Terry. Terry shrugs and walks away. Shawn explains how ancient giants used to harvest giant trees while Jess counts the sec-onds until Dawn’s call. Her phone rings and she scrambles to answer.

“Sorry, I have to take this,” she turns away from Shawn and answers the call, “hello?”

“Get out of there,” Dawn whispers into the phone.

“Oh my god! I’ll be right there,” Jess hangs up, tosses a twenty on the counter, and turns back to Shawn.

“I am so sorry. I need to go. There’s an emergency.”

“No worries. I’ll hit you up later.”

Jess gives Shawn a pat on the back before jogging to the exit. Jess makes it to the street, requests a ride, and calls Dawn.

Dawn answers on the first ring, “it was that bad?”

“It was that bad,” Jess looks back over her shoulder to make sure Shawn didn’t follow her out, “I was over it when he came in smelling like an ashtray, but when he started talking about mountain trees I was completely done.”

“Mountain trees? Like trees on mountains?”

“No, like mountains used to be trees.”

Dawn laughs as Jess continues to vent, “I’m trying this dating thing, but I don’t have the energy to deal with this mess.

My life is fine the way it is.”

Jess’s ride arrives and she gets in, “My ride's here. I’ll text you when I get home.”

Jess hangs up, gets in the car, and reflects on Dawn’s words. After staring out the window motionless for two blocks, she jerks forward.

“Did you forget something?” the driver asks.

“No, I actually figured something out,” says Jess.

Jess walks into Elements the next Saturday with coffee brown boots, mustard jeans and a navy blazer over a white blouse. Her faux locs rest on her shoulders. She walks to the bar and sits. Terry finishes serving another customer, looks up, and his eyes widen when he sees her. Jess takes in his dark chocolate skin, bright white smile, and his midnight black dreads and con-firms her idea that Dawn was right: what she was looking for was right in front of her.

“Good to see you again Jess. Another date night?”

“Sort of. I’m actually setting a guy up on a date, but he doesn’t know he’s being set up. He’s actually at work, but I really want to be around him and talk whenever he has time and see if he’d be willing to go on a real date someday.”

Terry’s smile broadens, then switches to a serious stare, “What if this guy isn’t into dating a gorgeous, smart woman with questionable judgement in men?”

Jess does a poor job of covering up a grin and responds, “Then he’s an idiot who can get me a martini.”

“Lucky for you there aren’t any idiots around here,” says Terry as he mixes her drink.

Jess smiles.

Dawn’s laughter fades and she responds to her friend, “I hear you. Yes, your life is fine, but it’s not a life you love. You’d love to have a guy with a sense of humor, who’s kind and smart, who you can grow with. You’ve wanted that since we were in high school. Right now the desire feels small compared to the disappointment, but the desire is still there.”

“Please tell me where I can find this man so I can bypass this foolishness.”

“He could be somewhere waiting in the future or he could be staring you in the face and you haven’t noticed. Please don’t give up hope.”

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Unhidden Story of Shatava Lindsey

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just the middle and went all the way

e are taught to be virtuous women but shamed for also being

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We have been conditioned from an early childhood to have a definition of what beauty actually is. What beauty looks like, what it sounds like, how it walks, how it should talk, and how the hair should look. Beauty has continuously been defined to us from a perspective that is not us. growing up without the accessibility to have customly designed clothes, some of us had to grow up with what was simply in the department store. Which meant that what the department store determined as the average size and the average waist and the average bust left a lot of us out. Having to choose between ill fitting clothes that doesn’t flatter one area of our body or ill fitting clothes that doesn’t accentuate another area of our body. However for a young Shatava Lindsey, conforming to what society says is beautiful means that she herself could not be considered beautiful, gorgeous, stunning or revolutionary and that was not about to happen.

Some say that when you only have two choices you have to pick one; however there are some of us of a different breed that will choose to

create our own way. At a young age Shatava began designing her own cloth­ es.

Taking ‘hand me downs’ clothes and even clothes from goodwill and redesigning them into outfits that were fashion forward and represented who she was in her most authentic form. Designing clothes that fit her at the waist, and hips, because lets face it, most clothes cannot keep up with all our curves. Shatava even designed pants to cover all of her torso and not

down to her ankles and not stop at her calf.

Because women come in all sizes and heights.

Miss Lindsey has been in the fashion industry for years, she has taken it upon herself to Showcase and represent the body types from 0 to 5x in all of her fashion designs.

From selling her creations out of her trunk to showcasing her fashion design on the runways during fashion week in New York. Shatava has continued to be a representative not only for women of diverse shapes but for women of color.

Shatava’s story is one of inspiration and adoration. Its not about the obstacles or environment she came from but how she has leveraged her

voice, talent and opportunities to create a space of representation. Its more than the fashion industry she is trailblazing, it is the movement.

The movement that we all get to witness and support. She is what a young person of color sees and says, “I can too.”

Maybe what is not being noticed or recognized is that ‘we’ are being represented on major stages such as New york fashion week. Our beauty, our bodies, our talent is being showcased and we are receiving the credit we deserve.

Black women specifically have not received their fair share of credit and respect for their contributions to society. Take for instance, Ann Lowe, who was the first African-American to become a fairly renowned fashion designer. She designed clothes for high society women in the 1920s. She even designed the bridal gown of John F Kennedy’s wife and received zero credit because of her race. So when we see Shatava Lindsey designs gracing the stages and platforms, support her.

As she graces the TV screens of various talk shows such as Ready To Love and Sister’s Circle, support her. Her dream is something that has been shared by millions of people, but only a few have reached it and even less have been recognized by it. Shatava Lindsey deserves all the flowers, let’s be sure to give them to her.

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Ojima Nails offers luxury gel nail polish made with environmental awareness.

Organic, 10-Free, HEMA Free, Gluten-Free, and Cruelty-Free. Born from a love of beautiful nail designs, Ojima Nails celebrates vibrant colors and artful design. Inspired by the uniqueness of each individual we challenge you to push past boundaries and discover your authenticity… then add a splash of color!

Ojima Nails Luxury Gel Polish You… with a Splash of Color!

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Hot Girl Summer Essentials

by Destanee Lee

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ast summer was a bust but this summer, we outside! “It’s a hot girl summer so you know she got it lit”...or do you?

Meg The Stallion had us all prepared to enjoy our Hot Girl Summer and then boom...COVID. Are you prepared for Hot Girl Summer or did you give up on that idea after being quarantined for almost a year? Well I’m here to help you out, let's talk about all of the essentials that you will need to make your Hot Girl Summer a success.

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We all know that Hot Girl Summer is all about turning up, driving the boat, dodging negative vibes and living your best life as taught by our own, Meg The Stallion. Meg has made it a point to encourage black women everywhere to embrace themselves for who they are, chase their bags and be in charge of their own happiness all while keeping our foot on the necks of those that try to shame or silence us. So, this summer we will mask up and follow suit.

2. FASHIONABLE MASK 3. SUNGLASSES

1. MAXI DRESS

4. SANDALS

5. JEAN SHORTS

7. SWIMSUIT

6. BLACK GIRL SUNSCREEN

8. CROSSBODY

9. HOOP EARRINGS

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The Blossom Passion Palette is part of our Paradise Collection. It features 12 colors that can be used to create bold sexy look. Each color has been carefully milled and pressed to provide the easiest/smoothest application and the most excellent color payoff.

AUCTOBERLOVE Be beadiful Jewelry

CARIBREOSO

unique blend of Caribbean, Creole and Southern inspired organic and all natural, seasonings, sauces, marinades and coffee.

MATTE ROSE QUARTZ BRASS EARRINGS

Rose Quartz a gemstone that aids in promoting love, self-love, friendship, deep inner healing, and feelings of peace.

CHAKRAFYING

Quality should never be a compromise which is why we use small and micro batch methodology. Items such as Chak Therapy's Signature Scrubs and Balance Butters are handcrafted made to order, using all natural organic ingredients

BECKICOAKLEY ANYALUST

Italian embroidered lace looks stunning with sheer elements and sophisticated details.

Luca is a beautiful combination of silk pleats and leather. This bootie has a cut out on top of the arch which adds to its silhouette.

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JESSICA RICH

COCO AND BREEZY Golden Goddess

When you’re looking for the perfect pair of designer high heels for your next outfit, turn to Jessica Rich. From stiletto sandals to boots and pumps, you’re sure to find something you love from our collections.

This 2 year monthly planner is perfect for you and your business essentials! equipped with 2021-2022 dated monthly pages and a full notebook in the back, you can now have all of your items in one place!

LUCID VOYAGE BOUTIQUE

Vintage 1970's Ruffle Satin Stripe Victorian Western Style Blouse. Featuring snap button closure, balloon sleeve with button cuff.

HANAHANA BEAUTY

For the ultimate indulgence (or aphrodisiac), our Amber Vanilla body butter imparts the rich scent of Amber and the soothing properties of Vanilla. This indulgent blend is known to help reduce skin inflammation, while our mixture of butters and oils help moisturize, tone, and rejuvenate the skin.

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The Sofia Convertible One Piece is a flattering one-piece, featuring cutouts on the side and a Tibeb inspired trim.

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Our Classic Lemonade is all the goodness in a lemonade with an old-fashion classic taste. It's like summer in a bottle.

Perfectly sweet and not too sour. Break out the sunglasses and flip flops to enjoy this classic lemonade.

MELANIN HAIR CARE

Melanin Haircare African Black Soap Reviving Shampoo This Shampoo is a great start to clean, healthy, and shiny hair.

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Mud masks are the ultimate way to treat yourself. Just apply it, slap some cucumbers on those eyes, and watch the magic happen. Your face will be detoxified, radiant, and ready to be shown off.

WALK BY FAITH

Relax, Unwind & Drink a glass of wine.

PEOPLE OF COLOR NAIL POLISH The only nudes you ever need

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Multicolor African inspired clutch. Perfect for evenings and special events

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Get this Unique, Stylish, Fabulous, Colorful One sided Cotton African Print Headwrap also known as head tie, or head scarf.It is easy to wrap and you can wrap them in different styles.

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Meadows Review March Must Reads

By Jina Meadows DIAMOND DORIS

by Doris Payne (Memoir)

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id you see the story of the elderly Black woman who was arrested for stealing from a Wal-Mart in Atlanta a couple of years ago? It created a small stir because she was an eighty-six-year-old Black woman. Many wrote

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it off as her being older and probably not having money to get the things she needed.

There was an outcry of sympathy for the feeble-looking Black woman who just needed a few things to survive. Little did the public know that she was international jewel thief, Doris Payne. Diamond Doris is her story narrated in her distinctly humorous voice.

This book follows her humble

beginnings in West Virginia to her jet-setting across Europe and gaining access to the most exclusive jewelry stores.

Reading, mouth agape, about how she so effortlessly finessed even the most punctilious jewelers made me feel like I was a part of the con!

Her life was lived like a movie (and will soon be one). Hey Doris, if you are reading this, teach me.

SLAY

by Brittney Morris (Young Adult)

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rittney Morris wrote the book I didn’t know I wanted to read. I don’t game and I’m not a teenager with Ivy League aspirations, yet here I am enthralled with this read. Kiera Johnson is a high school senior living a double life as a game developer of her own multiplayer online role-playing card game. Now did I know what that was before reading? No. Kiera creates this game as a safe place for Black gamers to play in a universe where their differences are not ostracized or belittled but celebrated with hundreds of battle cards, some titled: Jimi Hendrix, Swerve, Twist Out, and Purple Rain where a haze of purple clouds surrounds the opponent and blocks their view. Morris had me on the edge of my seat with the twist and turns of the battles. A kid is murdered IRL (in real life) because of the game and it turns Kiera’s world upside down. The purpose for the exclusiveness of the game evolves to be the reason people try to take it down.

I loved every moment of it!

The young adult genre has been booming with hits and this is one.

A PIECE OF CAKE

by Cupcake Brown (Memoir)

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his memoir is one of determination, resilience, and perseverance. Cupcake Brown (her real name) writes from the perspective of each defining moment in her life: the funny eleven-year-old, the teen trying to find herself, and the functional drug addict. Anything damaging that can happen to a person happens to Cupcake. From being a foster care system casualty to gang-banging to selling the drugs she gets hooked on. Her determination to overcome the many obstacles placed in her way makes this book a profile in courage. Think I have given most of the book away? You have no idea what you are in store for. You wonder how you can read this story of a traumatic upbringing and laugh, but Cupcake can weave any event into a comedy set. Her wit makes it an easy read. With all she endured, you have to laugh to keep from crying, and Cupcake will definitely keep you laughing. Buckle up!

THE SECRET LIVES OF CHURCH LADIES

by Deeshaw Philyaw (short stories)

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am in no way a fan of short stories. They always leave me wanting more, so I shy away from anything remotely close to it. Deeshaw got me. She roped me in with the title. Who would not want to know about the secret lives of church ladies?

She shattered all of my expectations of these stories because they literally are the lives of women who are the backbone of an organization that sometimes pushes them into the shadows. There is a mélange of stories ranging from a creeping pastor to adult children of side relationships. Philyaw addresses it all and ends every story perfectly. Of course, I have a favorite story, but what’s yours?

BLACK GIRLS MUST DIE EXHAUSTED

by Jayne Allen (fiction)

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lot of times it does feel exhausting.

Because everything bad in society is about you, but when it comes to good, nothing is for you. I feel like I’m not enough and too much, all at the same time. And then, other times, being Black feels exhilarating—because every good thing that happens feels like a victory.” Whew! I believe I stood and did a slow clap when I read this line. Jayne Allen was killing me softly with her words in this book.

I loved and hated her all at the same time because how could she look into my life and write my story? How did she so succinctly dissect the single, 30+, Black woman experience? After the first chapter I wondered, what sorcery was this? I was moved to tears. Finally, a book with experiences felt by a myriad of Black women. Tabitha is a thirty-three-year-old Black woman living her best life with a dream job in Los Angeles, sans someone to share it with. And, of course, her clock is ticking. The reader follows her journey to find her special someone and have a baby with him (ASAP), navigating her friendships, and her relationship with her spry grandmother and estranged father. This is a MUST read.

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KINDRED

by Octavia Butler (Graphic Novel)

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lost an arm on my last trip home.

My left arm.” It is the summer of 1976, twenty-six-year-old Dana is happily arranging books on a shelf in a new home she and her husband, Kevin, share when she starts to disappear.

Literally, she disappears into thin air.

Where does she reappear? The bank of a river, somewhere in the early 1800s. Dana

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disappears to the antebellum South every time Rufus, a mischievous red-haired boy, is in danger. There is an imperative reason for Dana being “called” back to slavery days whenever Rufus is in danger of losing his life. You won’t believe it when you discover the reason. Octavia Butler’s science-fiction blockbuster debuted in 1979, but this graphic novel adaptation is timely. If you have yet to discover the joy of graphic novels, this is absolutely the one to cut your teeth on. Get into it.

Powerful Black Women on Clubhouse Denise Hamilton

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enise Hamilton is a nationally recognized Diversity & Inclusion leader, specializing in Ally training. Denise is Founder and CEO of WatchHerWork, a digital learning platform for professional women. She is a highly requested speaker and trainer as well as media personality whose platform has reached and served people all over the world. Denise leverages her 25 years of executive experience with Fortune 500 organizations like AOL and CBRE to provide solutions that support the employees and the bottom line.

Clients have said Denise’s superpower is the ability to have the most challenging discussions and come out the other side with solutions and a positive direction. She uses this gift to lead workshops, design education programs, and coach senior leaders. The goal is to empower individuals and teams to mine and close the gender gap, understand differences, resolve conflict, and become better allies. Her clients include household names, like Apple, ExxonMobil, Hines, Shell, the United Nations, and the WNBA. Denise has been featured on NPR, Forbes, FOX, Huffington Post, CBS, NBC and on many other outlets. She was named one of Houston's 50 Most Influential Women by Houston Woman Magazine, one of the 41 Most Fascinating People in Houston by the Houston Chronicle and a 2018 Woman Who Means Business by the Houston Business Journal Denise currently serves on the board of EMERGE and is the Chair of the Business Subcommittee for the 2020 Census for the City of Houston. She has served on the board for the Greater Houston Women’s Chamber of Commerce, the RISE School and Avenue Community Development Corp. She received her Master’s in Communication and her BSW in Social Work from Abilene Christian University. She currently resides in Houston, Texas.

QUOTE: “The only people that change the world are the ones who believe they can.” - Denise Hamiltion Follow on CH @officialdham

Taylor Baker

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nternational Publicist and Founder of Resilient Innovation PR agency, Taylor is utilizing her platform and voice to help hundreds of small business owners take advantage of PR and set themselves apart in their Industry. Coaching entrepreneurs through their passion to foundation, organization and automation in their business, Taylor is one to definitely keep an eye on.

Hosting PR Tuesdays Every week 12pm PST in the Amplify Club.

QUOTE: “I’m tired of us always being the unsung hero, it’s time for us to get the recognition we deserve. “

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Nimi Bello “ The Path from dreams to success does exist. May you have the vision to find it, the courage to get on to it, and the perseverance to follow it.”

-Kalpana Chawla Nimi Bello, “Agile Bae” is an Agility Mindset Champion, Consultant and CEO & Founder of Link Empower. As a woman of color in Tech and a certified Scaled Agilist and Scrum Master, Nimi’s goal is to empower women of different backgrounds to live out their purpose by promoting the Agility Mindset.

With over 5+ years of Agility transformation experience supporting Start Ups, mid level and enterprise organizations she believes in building, adapting and enhancing individuals, small businesses, start ups and etc.

Nimi Bello CEO, Link Empower

JayJay Ghatt

Yassin Hall

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am a firm believer in not reinventing the wheel and in adopting success models and making them your own, adding your own spin, inputting answered based on your research and awareness of your market and recreating them

Once you do that, and solve people’s problems and answer their pain points, then study the data, you cannot go wrong!

Also, just start. Be methodical, be intentional, be purposeful and plan, of course, but don’t let the pursuit of perfection slow you down.

Start now and build as you go and grow.

CH: @jayjayghatt

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EO of B.O.S.S. Class LLC & Journey Untold LLC, Award Winning Best-Selling author, self-made multi-millionaire and influencer has been successfully selling on Amazon for sixteen years. She educates others on how to build a profitable Amazon business online that creates unlimited freedom. Allowing them to relax and enjoy many diverse, wonderful life experiences.

Quote: “To truly find joy is to be completely free. When you are free, no one can ever take your power.” ~ Yassin Hall CH @bossclassllc

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