Colours of Intimacy

Sex Magick & Pussy Sparkles

BY JENNIFER LOVE SACRED ART OF TANTRA

How to Use Your Sexual Energy to Create Your Dream Life

Before we dive into the details of this juicy practice, I invite you to take a moment and reflect on what the name Sex Magick stirs up within you. What do you think it means? Does it activate curiosity or fear? How do you feel when you read the words Pussy Sparkles? Do you feel empowered within your sexuality and sexual expression, or do you notice blocks inside you?

Everything is perfect as it is, there is no need to change anything at this moment, simply reflect and notice what comes up for you. Your sexual energy is the most potent and powerful force available to you to manifest your dream life. When it is combined with the Law of Attraction in a Sex Magick ritual, you are consciously channeling this sexual energy toward what you want to bring into your life.

Everything in this Universe is energy. It is in a constant state of movement and flow. When this movement of energy is constricted, we can feel it in our lives. We may feel stuck or at a standstill. We may feel distracted or lost, or unable to focus. This is an indication that your energy is blocked. You have the power within you to create the life of your dreams, whatever that looks like to you. The key is to keep this energy in flow.

I will share with you how to do this practice in a moment, but before we do, I want to give you a quick introduction to the chakra system. The word “Chakra” is Sanskrit and means WHEEL, so you can imagine or visualize each of your chakras as a spinning wheel of energy. There are 7 major chakras in the body, and they align themselves along your spine from the very base all the way to the top of your head. Your chakras are one part of your energy body and a key piece of how energy moves within your physical body and out into the world.

When you practice Sex Magick, you will be moving your sexual energy up from your base chakra and genitals all the way up to the crown of your head as you reach an orgasmic state. This may seem like a foreign language to you at the moment, and that is okay. This is an energy PRACTICE and you will not get it on your first or second try, and that is okay too. Be gentle with yourself and have fun with it. It is well worth the investment of time to learn how to do this ancient practice of using your orgasmic energy combined with your creative intentions.

I love the term Pussy Sparkles. I just imagine golden glitter being sent out into the Universe to return to me all my desires. Feel free to use the term yourself or choose a word that resonates with you. The idea is to have a visual of your creative, sexual energy being activated. And at the very least, this is a fun practice to do solo or with your partner to create more intimacy in the moment.

*Note, before beginning this practice - if you are not familiar with the chakra system, I recommend having a picture of them with you when you do the practice for reference of where they are located and the colour of each one. (You can find one on Google to print off or look at)

How to Practice Sex Magick

1. Set an Intention for your Ritual - You will want to begin your Sex Magick Practice by setting an intention. What is it that you are wanting to create in your life? You can have an intention for your career or business, your relationship, your health, and fitness. It can be for more abundance, more happiness, more freedom, etc. Whatever your heart desires. Allow this to come easily and naturally for you. You can write it down on a piece of paper or a sticky note, add it to your altar, or create an image in your mind. This will be what you focus on as your pleasure and turn on expands and finally what you will release out to the Universe at the moment of the Big-O.

2. Set Your Sacred Space/Gather Your Materials - Once you have set your intention, you will next create a sacred space. Take some time to clear out all the clutter from your space. If you are in your bedroom, make sure all the laundry is put away and that your bed is made. You may want to add some crystals, essential oils, fresh flowers, or candles. Make your space clear and beautiful. Take as much time as you need to set the space. If you are doing a solo session, you may also want to gather your favorite toys.

3. Cleanse Your Energy - Before beginning your ritual you will want to cleanse your energy. I always enjoy a hot bubble bath with rose essential oils and Epsom salts. You may want to do the same, or a hot steamy shower may be more appealing for you. If you are doing the Sex Magick ritual with a partner, you may even want to invite that person to join you. Once you have cleansed your physical body, consider cleansing your energy body as well. You can use sage or Palo Santo, smoke from incense, or even just visualize yourself surrounded by a ball of white light.

4. Ground Yourself/Connect to Your Partner - Your next step will be to move into your sacred space and ground yourself. If you are with a partner, you will want to take a few extra moments to connect with them heart-toheart. To ground yourself, sit on your bed and take a few deep breaths with the intention to bring yourself to the present moment. Release the day and allow all your thoughts to move as they wish. Take as much time as you need. Once you feel that you are present, connect with your partner by facing them and breathing a few deep breaths together. You may also want to hold hands or put one hand on each other’s hearts.

5. Focus on Pleasure & Turn On - Then you will slowly begin to turn yourself, or each other, on. Take your time and really enjoy the feelings and sensations. This can be whatever feels good to you. There are no rules here. When you start to sense the turn on energy, bring your attention to your root chakra, located at the base of your spine. Imagine a glowing red wheel or ball of energy. Mix your sexual energy with this energy and notice how the energy shifts or changes. Stay with these sensations for a few moments and then move the energy up to your sacral chakra, located just above the root chakra. Imagine a glowing orange wheel or ball of energy. Mix your sexual energy with the energy of this chakra and see how it shifts or changes. Continue to do this all the way up to the crown chakra. Take as much time as you need. If you feel yourself getting close to the big-O, take a few deep breaths and go slow. You want to save that energy until you get to the crown chakra!

6. Release Your Pussy Sparkles - Once you have moved your sexual energy all the way up through your chakras to your crown, you can then release your intention out into the Universe as you climax. Again, you want a visual representation of your sexual energy moving out into the world and I invite you to see golden Pu$$y Sparkles move out your crown chakra toward your dreams. Visualize yourself having achieved your dreams, living your desires. Continue to visualize for as long as feels good for you. Then you can sit or lay for a few moments in stillness or in the arms of your partner. You may feel inclined to journal after your experience or however you would like to close off the ritual.

Again, Sex Magick takes practice. Do not put pressure on yourself to get it right the first time or even to reach orgasm. The important thing is to relax, have fun and enjoy the moment, either with yourself or with your partner!