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DEC 2021 EDITION

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It is December and the holidays are here, and it is time to open up gifts and spend time with our friends and family. As we prepare for the festive times we will have, let’s take time to reflect on 2021 as we prepare to enter 2022. This was another tough year, we made it through, but we still faced our challenges. Let’s hope and pray that conditions will continue to get better in 2022. My friends and readers, please make sure to get your vaccinations, if you have not had a vaccination, please wear a mask. Even if you have had a vaccination, please wear a mask. We can beat this virus, but we need the whole village to help win the battle. This month we are featuring Meli’sa Morgan who is an R&B/Soul singer-songwriter. Ms. Morgan had a string of urban contemporary hits starting the mid-1980s. Ms. Morgan’s most notable songs includes her cover version of Prince’s “Do Me Baby”, “Do You Still Love Me” and “Still in Love With You”. Ms. Morgan continues to be a favorite within the R&B/Soul music community. Please read and enjoy her article. This issue also features a plethora of great stories that are filled with heart- warming sentiments and words of encouragement. We are excited for you to turn each page and enjoy the articles from front to back.

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SUMMARY

Parent’s Just Don’t Understand

The Kimico Atkins Story

Editorial Makeup

Michael Floissac

Self-Transformation

The Key Makeup Artist

Parent’s Just Don’t Understand

The Life and Times of Maggie Lena Walker

Meli’sa Morgan: Music, Money, and Mainstream Success

Storytelling

The Kimico Atkins Story

Monique Denton-Davis: Unapologetically Winning

The Courage To Win

Dr. Evelyn Hill: A Hard Working Leader

The Perfect Gift

Editorial Makeup

Developing Customer Service In The Black-Owned Business

Meli’sa Morgan’s Holiday Recipe

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MICHAEL FLOISSAC

INSPIRATIONAL AUTHOR OF:

THANK YOU! WITH DEEPEST GRATITUDE. by Keisha Esprit for urban sentinel Michael Floissac is the Author of one of the newest released self-help books on the market titled: Thank You! With Deepest Gratitude.

The book is divided into three categories. These are: Universe, Community and Individual, with standalone chapters addressing a universal topic under each segment.

Floissac is a book enthusiasts, with an impeccable resume and intellect. The avid reader is also a US Navy Veteran and Federal Attorney who resides in the Washington, D.C. metro area.

Floissac hopes readers will find enjoyment in his book and that the theme of gratitude will continue to flow.

The Commonwealth of Dominica native has a strong connection and fascination with nature. This is expected, as his birth place is known as the nature island of the Caribbean. It's also quite evident in his masterpiece of literature, located on the pages of his publication. Floissac's self- help book is destined to be a best seller. The topics are inspiring and motivating. Every line is therapeutic and medicinal to one's soul. It's organic healthy food for the mind, body and soul. The book was sincerely and meticulously written with each readers' mental health in mind. Readers have the luxury of selecting a particular topic for the day. They can then absorb, meditate and reflect on the Author's words. There's also a bonus, as the book consists of artistic illustrations by: Viviana I. Rouco.

The inspirational young lad has gifted our readers with several golden nuggets. These are: 1. Always be kind to everyone you meet. Each person faces tremendous challenges. A simple smile or thank you, may lighten the burden of a human being. 2. Always be confident while speaking existence.

positivity into

3. Slow down and appreciate your blessings. We maybe moving too quickly at times to appreciate our blessings. To obtain more information about Floissac, an intriguing writer and to purchase copies of his book you can visit his personal website or email him at: MichaelFloissac.com or MichaelFloissac@gmail.com. The other website options are: Outskirtspress.com, Amazon.com and Barnesandnoble.com.

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Self-Transformation:

WHAT IS IT AND WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT TO YOU IN LIFE AND WORK? by Ambassador Dr. Anita Davis DeFoe for urban sentinel positivist happy talk. But I will say there are two types of people in life: There are those who believe that change is possible, and those who think that everything is fixed; that the game is rigged; the dice rolled and we are what we are, forever. Only the first type is capable of starting down the path of self-transformation. “At this very moment, you can choose to put yourself in either a growth mindset or a fixed mindset. One leads to a life of pain and stagnation. The other to endless journey of discovery, learning, resilient growth and fulfillment.” What’s the one personality trait that you have that gets in the way of you doing what you want to do in life? If you think it is impossible to change that trait, I’m sorry to tell you that your self-transformation journey to realize your dreams will never start. You might as well forget about your own dreams and go join the herd of people living life according to someone else’s dream. Sorry. “But!” I can hear some of you say, “I can’t just change who I am. I can’t become more intelligent, more intentional, more creative, or more outgoing like some people!” I wouldn’t be very convincing if I just told you, “yes, you can!” because I know your type wouldn’t buy that kind of

As an Executive Director John Maxwell Team (JMT) Member, I had the honor and privilege to travel with global leadership guru Dr. John C. Maxwell, and 200 other JMT members to the Dominican Repulbic to teach people from all sectors of society how to facilitate a Change Your World transformation table. It was amazing to see people pack rooms, even on an early Saturday morning, in quest of life and work transformation skills and strategies. What does self-transformation mean? We often hear about self-awareness but what does selftransformation actually mean? The word transformation feels deeper, more empowering than simply being aware of

who we are as unique human beings.

to fail.

Self-transformation implies what we seek to reshape ourselves, to shift into a new person entirely. This takes us way beyond self-awareness. In the transformation process, we actively and consciously refine ourselves to our liking, we smoothen the edges, we mold ourselves through hard work and discipline so we can achieve a result that reflects our strongest beliefs and values.

You let loose that ray of hope, and when you walk in that glow, you will continue to experience new things or you’ll run for cover again, but, the thing is, you stood up to your fears and you sought to grow! In the process, you learned new skills, you got in some practice! Every time you take a risk and do something contrary to what you believe yourself to be capable of, you build hope.

How do you completely change yourself? Self-transformation starts with a tiny spec of hope, let loose. Your unwanted personality trait is your enemy, and hope is a difference maker. With enough hope, you can rid yourself of this enemy over tine with practice and focus. Here are a few steps you can take to embark on your selftransformation journey: Step 1: Start Believing So, the first step to start believing change is possible is to conceive of hope, one thought at a time.

You build resiliency and expand your confidence. And ultimately, you build up your personal power! In the Dominican Republic, there were so many people trying to do things for the first time; first time serving as an interpreter, in the room but spoke little English, was not sure what was meant by the word transformation, shy about speaking in front of others, and feeling apprehensive about sharing thoughts and feelings with others, but in the end, they ALL did it. Step 2: Question Everything and Push Yourself Wage war on yourself again, and again, and again if you want

But hope doesn’t just appear and form a rainbow slide leading to your dreams. Hope is birthed when it is allowed out, when we stop telling ourselves that ‘we are what we are’ and proceed to act on those limitations. It means to stop repeating to yourself, “I’m not creative” and then avoid ever doing anything creative. Or when we think we are too shy or anxious to go to a party, so we don’t go. This is action or inaction based on fear and an untruth that we convince ourselves is true because we are constantly proving to ourselves it is true. It’s cyclical thinking and cyclical living. The way out is to take risks. To stop caring for once what other people think and to take a chance, to allow yourself

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to live your dream. Identify not just the big enemy within yourself that stops you from doing what you want in life, but all the other diminishers and supporters expressing discouragement and suggesting that you should fully embrace a limited and fixed mindset. Choose to work on yourself daily and refust to listen to naysayers. In chasing my dreams, I learned that along the way I had no clue what kind of person I would have to become to realize those dreams. All I could see was the mindset and the face of fearn that was blocking my way to the next step. Ten steps later, I could no longer recognize who I use to be. It makes me laugh now to think how I allowed stereotypical thinking, the feedback of others, and seeking to fit in order my steps for far too long. So, think about the kind of person you’ll need to become to live the life of your dreams. Write down all the personality traits, habits, and fears that you’ll need to overcome to get there, and start making little challenges each day to face them. Your self-transformation is in your own hands

Life is full of choices and every choice is your responsibility, nobody else’s. As you become self-aware of your strengths and opportunities for improvement, think about how you’re going to use them to achieve your vision, dreams, goals and divine purpose. What strength can you hone in on? And what opportunities for improvement do you need to fully embrace? Whatever you choose to do, remember this: we can modify our thoughts and beliefs resulting in actions that create change. Live in a growth mindset! And don’t accept your opportunities for improvement as a permanent part of yourself when you know it’s standing in the way of what you want out of life!

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Key

The

Makeup Artist

by Olympia Kent for urban sentinel

What is a key makeup artist? You may have been on a

you are the better your chances are becoming a key makeup

production, fashion show or somewhere and herd someone

artist. Because this takes a particular skill set you must be

refer to a makeup artist as the key. Is this person a key holder

discipline dedicated and determined to be the best in all

or gate keeper? just keep reading and you will soon find out

genres of makeup. This is the foundation for a key artist on a

the answer to this question. In the makeup world there are so

production, the key makeup artist applies the daily makeup

many types of makeup genres you can take on as an profession,

to the principal actors and assigns tasks to their team and

As a professional mua you have 4 categories to choose from

keeps track of continuity. They’re also on set for touch-ups

the first is bridal for those who love weddings, then you have

between takes. As you will learn the difference between the

Editorial this is all your print, ads, billboards and magazines

Department Head and the Key Makeup Artist.

just to sum it up your Fashion and commercial world If you decide that models are more your cup of tea, you can work on

The Department Head Makeup Artist is in charge of the

fashion photo shoots or shows. In the fashion world, the Key

whole makeup department and the supervision of all

Makeup Artist is the lead, so there in charge of everything

assistant makeup artists, the head mua will attend production

makeup in the fashion world. The Key Artist work with the

meeting, be able to read and break down scenes and call

Fashion Designer to come up with a look that highlights the

sheets, delegation of their work; when required the purchase

clothing or draws attention to specific features of the Models.,

of makeup supplies The Department Head Makeup shall

but if you love blood and horror then you would love SFX

also be responsible for any and all out-of-kit effects, such as

(special effects and prosthetics) if you’re not into the horror

cuts, wounds, blisters, scratches, bullet holes, scars, tattoos,

and blood you have the basic Film and T.V. Makeup or Glam

bald head, bites, birthmarks, bruises, blood application,

and this makeup is also for special occasions for the public.

disfigurements, etc. on character descriptions and shooting conditions, Ensure makeup style is consistent during the

Because there are so many areas you can work in the makeup

entire shooting of the film Experience with various makeup

world you have to be open and very diverse. The more divers

styles, like period, contemporary, natural and horror

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types of looks, like scars or cadaver makeup. Hands-on experience is also critical, whether it’s through assistant work or an apprenticeship. A basic understanding

As the Key or Head MUA it’s their job to oversee and lead

of chemistry and color theory is also useful as it allows a

the makeup department. They are responsible for planning

makeup artist to adapt and innovate on how different

makeup designs for the leading and supporting cast,

products are used, as well as how makeup will react to

including special effects makeup or prosthetic work, and

different conditions. The key makeup artist delegates and

hiring assistants to recreate these looks on the rest of the

oversees the makeup artists and makeup assistants, always

cast. The key makeup artist is the head of the makeup team

checking to ensure the continuity of makeup throughout

within the Hair + Makeup department. (Technically, hair and

the film shoot. Key Makeup Artists, often collaborate closely

makeup are two different departments, but are often referred

with the Makeup Department Head. Together, the two come

to as one.) They lead a team of makeup artists, special effects

up with specific looks, and then split up the necessary tasks.

makeup artists, and makeup assistants, and report directly to

This means that throughout shooting, as a Key Makeup

the production designer.

Artist, you might be responsible for certain characters or

Parent’s Just Don’t Understand

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Parent’s Just Don’t Understand by Arlette Thomas-Fletcher for urban sentinel

Will Smith did a rap song called “Parent’s Just Don’t Understand” that was exceedingly popular in 1988. He won a Grammy award, and the album was triple platinum. This song was popular because of the divide between children and parents understanding a kid’s way of life. Several of us can relate to this because we grew up just wanting to do our own thing. Has it changed much even today? For each generation, there is a belief that parents are out of touch and unclear about the way the world around us really works. The kids feel as though they know more than their parents who have lived longer and have more experience in life. As children, we wanted to enjoy our lives, living for the moment, and doing anything that made us happy. Playing, running, and just letting the wind blow in our hair without a worry or a care. Riding our bikes, partaking in sports, playing video games and plain old good times were all we wanted. Studying and reading were not necessarily the exciting parts of life. However, our parents made sure to instill discipline in us so that we received the structure we needed. When we were children, we did not understand what discipline and structure were to a fruitful life.

Me & The Bee’s Lemonade company with the support of her parents. Another childhood success is Alina Morse, who was invited to the White House twice to supply her Zollipops for the Easter egg hunts. Isabella Rose Taylor at age twelve had her own design collection selling at Nordstrom. More opportunities are available these days for children to become a success while they are kids. If you just look at shows like Shark Tank, Americas Got Talent, and Master Chef Junior you will see that the youngsters of today are under more pressure than we were. Children have ideas for businesses and are prepared to present their ideas with the support of their parents. So, I guess the adage that “Parents Just Don’t Understand” is fading away. Parents are becoming increasingly aware of the passion and vision of their kids. They are working hard to give support and guidance that will help the kids fine tune their passion and succeed in their pursuit. Nowadays, children are appreciating the mature inputs and guidance that parents make to their success.

We had to review spelling words and go over math problems to ensure that we were ready for our class lessons the next day. My Mom made us sit and read stories after school for an hour instead of watching television or going outside. Our parents knew that we needed guidance for the venture to come. They wanted us to be prepared for someday graduating from school and going out on our own. Their forethought allowed them to see that we were prepared for great job opportunities to support ourselves along the way.

Just remember that in present times, parents have so much more pressure on them to raise children in the right way. They have the greatest hope of assuring that they give them the space to become the person they need to be - confident, self-assured, and successful in life. No one has gotten the process of parenting down to a science because it is an onthe-job training position for a lifetime. We pray and work through all the challenges as we go. All we can do as parents is give love, kindness, and care to assure that we are giving all we can to raise our children. This will help youth be prepared for the innovation of our times and the challenging roads ahead.

Parents today need to be able to support childhood sensations as there are so many kid entrepreneurs with business successes. At eleven years’ old, Mikaila Ulmer is running the

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Maggie The Life and Times of

LENA WALKER by Brandee Johnson for urban sentinel

Some people believe that entrepreneurship is a current trend within the Black community; however, that could be further from the truth. The entrepreneurial spirit has always shined bright within our community. Whether our ancestors were forced to create their own businesses out of necessity or possessed a specific talent, it is no secret that our people dominated the world of business the minute they began. We don’t need to travel far to see examples of successful entrepreneurs; we can point to either of the three locations in the DMV area and have several examples of stellar entrepreneurs to look up to. One entrepreneur in particular who deserves all of her flowers for becoming a trendsetter is Maggie Lena Walker, an African-American businesswoman who not only chartered a bank but served as its president. Maggie Lena Walker was born Maggie Lena Draper in Richmond, Virginia on July 15, 1864. She was born to a mother who was a former slave and an assistant cook for the former spy Elizabeth Van Lew, and a father who was a Confederate soldier and a postwar writer for the New York Herald. When Maggie was four years old, her mother married her stepfather William Mitchell and moved the family to their home off of Broad Street nearby Miss Van Lew’s home. One of the benefits of the Mitchells’ home was that it was closer to the First African Baptist Church, which served as a base for economic, political, and social change for the Black community. Sadly, Maggie’s first steps into entrepreneurship

began at a young age, shortly after the untimely death of her stepfather. Her mother supported her family by taking work as a laundress, and Maggie assisted her mother by helping to deliver clean clothes. At 14 years old, Maggie became a member of the local chapter of the Independent Order of St. Luke. This burial society, which was founded in Baltimore, Maryland in 1867, encouraged humanitarian purposes such as ministering for the sick and elderly and promoted individual leadership skills and integrity. Just like many entrepreneurs, Walker allowed her work ethic to speak for itself and served in multiple positions with additional responsibilities within the Order.

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In addition to serving as an insurance executive, financier, and civic leader, one of Walker’s most influential contributions to the organization was the addition of the Juvenile Branch in 1895. This branch promoted the importance of community, education, and thrift to young members. Even after marrying her husband and retiring from teaching, Walker continued to serve as a rising leader in the organization. Walker’s contributions to the organization did not stop at the creation of the Juvenile Branch. The year 1902 was a prominent year for Walker. This was the year where she published a newspaper for the Order known as The St. Luke Herald, and chartered the St. Luke Penny Savings Bank. In addition to chartering the St. Luke Penny Savings Bank, she served as the bank’s first president, making her the first African-American woman to do so. Walker was not the only female leader at the bank; the St. Luke Penny Savings Bank contained several female board members. The St. Luke Penny Savings Bank benefitted many African-American families in Richmond and other areas of Virginia. At a time where Black families were struggling to receive home loans and purchase land of their own, the St. Luke Penny Savings Bank issued thousands of home loans to Black homeowners. Walker was also adamant about teaching positive financial habits to children, and participated in activities such as passing out banks that encouraged children to save their money. While serving as the president,

Walker continued to hold leadership positions in several prominent organizations like the National Association of Colored Women (NACW) and the Richmond chapter of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP). Walker’s journey as an entrepreneur is a testament to what is possible when a person sets their mind to achieving their highest potential. From Walker’s early beginnings to her death in 1934, she saw herself as a leader and a visionary for her community. Even during the Great Depression when many banks collapsed, the St. Luke Penny Savings Bank continued to thrive; so much so that Walker made the decision to consolidate with two other banks and move to downtown Richmond. Sure, Walker endured tragedy; in addition to losing her stepfather, she lost her husband in an accident where her son mistook her husband for a burglar. Still, Walker did not allow her early beginnings, her skin color, or the fact that she’s a woman stop her from serving and benefitting her community. At a time where Black entrepreneurs were putting themselves and their families’ lives on the line to become successful in the business world, Walker used her financial expertise and leadership skills to charter a bank that is still in operation today. It's amazing to know that just like Maggie Lena Walker, there are thousands of Black entrepreneurs that are overcoming insurmountable odds to benefit our communities and establish our legacies.

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Music Money and Mainstream Success by Alesha Brown with Corretta L. Doctor for the urban sentinel While she might be remembered for hits like Do Me Baby and Love Changes with Kashif, this R&B legend started her music career at the tender age of nine. There are not many musical artists who can have the longterm success Meli’sa Morgan has and still have a bank account that proves it. The R&B songstress was rather transparent during our interview regarding the keys to her success and lessons learned from her decades in the music industry. In the 80s as the new kid on the block, Meli’sa Morgan

was blessed to have female musical legends like Nancy Wilson and Debbie Allen take her under their wing, as she shares: “The 80s were special. The artists coming up at that time were really special. You were coming in the mix as the new girl on the block with the artists from the 70s still doing their thing. Radio was different and was playing real music. You didn’t have to force them to play good music. They wanted to play “real music” and the audience wanted to hear it.” Some might call her somewhat of a “brainiac,” graduating high school at age sixteen and embarking on a one-year tour with the group Business Before Pleasure who was signed to The Sugar Hill Gang Record label through Sylvia Robinson. When she returned from Canada, she still wanted the educational experience and went to The Juilliard School to study music theory. She continued to work her craft, performing at local establishments. She received a call from singer Vesta Williams, who was leaving her role singing background for Chaka Khan to sing with The Commodores. Meli’sa says that Vesta told Chaka to call Meli’sa because she “sounds just like you.” At the time, Meli’sa was singing in a band with the thenunknown Johnny Kemp. One of her success habits was the relationships she developed which led to her becoming the “It Singer to call.” While she attended Juilliard, Meli’sa worked on the weekends at the popular club called “The Cellar” in New York where stars like Patti Labelle and the Isley Brothers saw her and sang with her there. But when Chaka Khan had her audition and offered her the gig, Meli’sa asked her father should she stay at Juilliard or take the gig with Chaka. He told her to take the gig. And a musical legend was born.

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The beginning of her career would include working with Chaka Khan, KASHIF, and Debbie Allen who wanted to embrace new artists. This made for an easier transition into “solo artistship.” Being signed to Capitol Records, Soul Train and local mainstream radio stations were the fuel that connected artists of her time with their audience. So, what advice would she give to today’s artists and what were the best lessons that she learned? Meli’sa shares insight below. 1. Be true to your craft. Don’t abuse it. That is your Godgiven gift. 2. Singing is the easy part. Getting to sing is the hardest part. Getting to the gigs, getting to be heard, getting the record company to pick you up, getting the tour, etc. 3. Know the business. 4. Try to stay as relevant as you can. Try to stay in the industry so you can be a part of the industry. Be a part of making change and making things happen. And indeed, she has done just that. Meli’sa Morgan uses her Julliard training and Lee Strasberg skills as she stars in her first role in the 2022 release of Footprints of an Angel which includes a new song release. Footprints of an Angel is a wonderful story about a family and a daughter who goes down the wrong path in life and how she comes back. Choices have consequences and the consequences of her daughter’s actions call for Meli’sa’s character to have to go through the footprints of her angel who is no longer there. A screening was held in August in Southampton, New York. Meli’sa also had her song Fool’s Paradise played in an entire scene of Netflix #1 movie, Charm City Kings starring Meek Mill. As someone who has always written most of her music, Meli’sa Morgan can enjoy the number of royalties that Fool’s Paradise will earn from that movie appearance. And this is where Melisa shares another music industry lesson with us. “People can sample your voice from a track and use it legally because it belongs to the record company until

they have been paid. But if you wrote the song, you can be paid more money. That is the trap of many talented, wonderful people who didn’t write but sung all those songs and sold all those records. They ran up the bill so much, there was nothing to recoup. All the trips, promotional stuff, stylists, makeup, requests to be on this or that national show, etc., increases the bill owed and you may still be millions of dollars in debt. So, in a pandemic or other situation where you can’t tour, you're really hurting unless you can make your money as a songwriter. Many get in the trap of living beyond their means and the industry changes. Your success may not always be like it was. For example, urban gospel makes more money in the music industry now than R&B.” Meli’sa Morgan is thankful that she never had to go bankrupt, and she still receives monthly royalties from her writing while a lot of artists from her time do not. She reminded us that even when something is not #1 on the charts anymore, it is still streaming, and royalties are being paid. Her musical accolades include platinum awards for her songwriting on artist’s CDs like Mary J Blige, Jay Z, LL Cool J, and her Diamond Platinum Award for singing background on Whitney Houston’s debut CD. She now has her own management company and will be producing her record for the first time. The hip-hop industry taught her that. So, what words of wisdom does Meli’sa Morgan have for us? “Find a way to smile. Life is worthwhile and worth living. Stay diligent. Cherish every moment, count your blessings, and live your life.” Meli’sa’s pandemic prep and routine includes taking vitamins, washing her hands, and Lysol everything (she has thirty cans). She crochets, cooks, and does virtual interviews.

caused in the world? Meli’sa: This Christmas means holding on to your happiness and more love. Also, forgiveness. Let me tell you… before the scary time we had last year and even now with the pandemic shutting everything in the world down, I thought I was kinda invincible: a strong, black woman in the music business still building my legacy, recording and traveling all over the world! I had done Japan, England, U.K. and traveled ALL around the world. I thought the things I did would always be like that. What a wake-up call we got in the last year….. to reorganize your life and thoughts. I want to connect more with my friends and be forever thankful for my blessings and survival. Tell your loved ones that you love them!!! Corretta: What do you want Santa to bring you this year?

As we approach the holidays we wanted to take a look into Meli’sa’s holiday traditions.

Meli’sa: Oh my…. Lol! Santa has always been good to me throughout the years. I will tell you why: because my birthday is also in December. So, I get double, and sometimes triple, what I ask for. I want God, which really

Corretta: Is there a Christmas Tradition from your childhood that you still carry out today? Meli’sa: Yes….Cooking and setting a pretty table. Also dressing up and finding nice outfits in the holiday colors, too. Making sure you had a nice tablescape with lots of wonderful soul food cooked to perfection by the ladies of the family. My mother was a good cook, but my aunts were great cooks. I have mastered my favorite dishes over the years as to what I like, and like to prepare for my guests to enjoy, like my infamous Shrimp-Layered Macaroni & Cheese. It is like a meal by itself. I am getting excited about cooking for the holidays already. I love decorating the table for the holidays. I go all out and buy fabrics for the tablecloth and layer it with the Christmas colors. It brings out my creative side. Every year I look more forward to it than year before. Corretta: What does this Christmas mean for you, given all of the loss and turmoil that the Global Pandemic has URBAN SENTINEL MAGAZINE | DECEMBER

Daddy…. Love You!! Corretta: Do you have a favorite Holiday song? Meli’sa: The whole Toni Braxton Snowflakes Christmas album. Love it! I also have a “MELI’SA MORGAN CHRISTMAS HITS EP” out on all streaming retail stores with two Christmas songs on it as well, “SANTA BABY” and “RUDOLF THE RED NOSE REINDEER”. It comes out every year and I am so proud of this EP. A small, but huge, accomplishment to have a Christmas EP with holiday songs that comes out again and again every Year. Corretta: What message of inspiration can you give our readers as we head into 2022?

is my Santa year-round, to continue to let me enjoy my life. I am celebrating my birthday again this year at my place in Aruba. I will be there most of December. I was not able to go to Aruba last year because of the travel restrictions due to the pandemic. I am looking forward to going and spending time on the beach. Then, coming back to The United States and spending a wonderful and happy Christmas with my Fiancé. Now listen… if Santa wants to throw in a Beautiful Diamond Tennis Bracelet….. Who am I to refuse? Lol!!! Corretta: What is your most memorable holiday ever? Meli’sa: Oh, that’s easy. When I was a little girl and my Father bought me a Suzy Homemaker Oven and Refrigerator that he put together for me. I woke up on that Christmas morning with the full Suzy Homemaker Kitchen. I wanted to cook but it was a ‘make-believe’ kitchen. No real cooking, but I was so happy pretending. I was the first little girl to have the full kitchen in my Queens, New York neighborhood. Thanks to my real Santa, my Father. Happy Heavenly Holidays to my

Meli’sa: Be good to yourself and others. We have to live this life now! It’s important to the souls of mankind right now after this Covid-19 Pandemic. We all were taken by complete surprise and loss so many. Be thankful for your life and blessings and act like it. Send out positivity and you will get it back in so many ways . Connect and track her success at the contact points below: Facebook @melisa.morgan2 @Melisamorganfanpage1 @MissMelisaMorganM3 Twitter: @melisamorgan22 Instagram: @melisamorgan1 Management: ASILEM PRODUCTIONS, INC. (917) 523-5888 EPK: www.melisamorgan1.com Blog Website: www.lifestylewithmelisamorgan.com

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Storytelling by Claudia Newby-Tynes for urban sentinel

Storytelling is a shared past-times favorite for families during special occasions and especially during the holidays. Families travel from near and far from all over the world to visit their families and friends during the Thanksgiving, Christmas, and upcoming New Year’s holidays. They gather around their kitchen tables eating and listening to someone telling a story. Or they sit on their sectional sofas or on the floor listening to stories as they break spiritual and natural bread together. During family gatherings, we tell “in-times-past” stories and “futuristic” stories. We tell war stories and stories on celebrations of life (births and deaths). We tell stories about the latest wins and losses of our favorite teams in the sports arena. And somewhere through it all, stories about religion, politics and race (who’s in and who’s out), make a grand entrance into our storytelling. With Christmas and the New Year rapidly approaching on the horizon, many stories are etched on the memory cards in our hearts and on our minds as story tellers. These stories are waiting to be told through our authentic voices, either orally or written, as parents to share with their children, grandchildren and so many others in our spheres of influences.

Storytelling occurs at any time. There is no specific or special time to share your story with others. There is no better time than now to tell your story. Go ahead. Shout your story from the roof top to anyone who will listen. Shout your story from the hills and mountain tops. Someone is watching and waiting on you. They are listening to hear the trumpet sound emanating from your voice. It does not matter who or where you are, know that your story really matters. It matters because it is your own original story. And no one, and I mean absolutely no one can tell your story like you can tell it. The main objective is that when you tell your story, tell it well. Know that when you tell your story, it is not for you. You tell your story so others can see, hear, and understand the situations and circumstances of their own lives. Telling your story gives life to others. You are a life giver for others. Do not allow others to tell your story for you. They don't know you like you know you; therefore, they can’t tell your story like you can tell it. Never allow the fear of others or the shame of your past to silence your voice. This is a distraction tactic from the enemy.

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Let’s look at storytelling from another vantage point. You were once walking in the darkness of the world, but God has transformed you into His marvelous light. Now your light is dispelling all the darkness around you. Your story is now His story. Scripture teaches that the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy. When you share of the goodness of Jesus and all He has done for you, you prophesy to others His goodness towards you. You are partnering in His biggest Kingdom cheering squads on the earth. Telling His story is good news to the ears and hearts of your hearers because His story gives them insight and understanding. God is not a respecter of person. People are waiting on you (on us) as God’s light bearers and life givers to share our stories of hope, encouragement, challenges, victories, and triumphs. Here are three components that you may find helpful in telling your stories. 1. Your mess is your message (expound). This component is your past state before Christ. This is the state when you were an unbeliever, a dead man walking around doing your own thing. In this state, you followed your flesh and soul. 2. Your test is your testimony (expound). You are now a citizen born in the Kingdom of God. This component is the state where you have a new created spirit (2 Cor. 5:17), and you are serving God. His mercy and grace has kicked in. He is leading and guiding you by His Holy Spirit. 3. Your misery is your ministry (expound). This component is your present and continual state for service. Ministry, simply defined, is serving others.

This is the state where God has called you into His ministry of reconciliation. This is the state of where He calls you to reconcile mankind back to Him. Do you see why it is important to tell your story? Never be ashamed to tell your story because you have a remarkable story to tell. You are an overcomer; you are becoming who God has created you to become. No battles...no victories. You are a winner. You have already won because Jesus always causes us to triumph in Him. I am reminded of this statement I heard while listening to a broadcast recently, "You may live in a small (quaint) town, but the anointing is global.” I added the word "quaint" for emphasis because this a rhema word for me. You see, while my story is about me; it has everything to do with God and the purpose He has predestined for my life (Jeremiah 29:11). Be thankful and celebrate every achievement or milestone no matter how big or small they are for the remainder of 2021. God is not through blessing you, and He has so much more in store for you in 2022. The Christmas story is all about Jesus. His story is the ultimate gift of life to share and give away during Christmas, the New Year, and every day. So go and tell His story so others can look upon Him and live too. Oh what a gift to behold! Kingdom blessings!

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Kimico Atkins

The Visionary and Founder of Kolored on Purpose Brand by Keisha Esprit for urban sentinel

Kimico Atkins, is the Owner and Founder of Kolored on Purpose. It is a Christian lifestyle brand created with an objective to encourage people to “wear their faith.” Atkins is a true visionary and pioneer. Her Company’s Christian apparel line, along with its faith-based products are making powerful statements. The entrepreneur has introduced a fresh and modern method to expressing one’s faith in the Most High outside of the church. Kolored on Purpose has become an influential brand and force in the Industry, spreading the great news of Jesus Christ. This force has opened up doors for powerhouses and peers to wear the brand. A few of these household names include Nikki Rich who is a Global TV, Radio Host and The Oprah Winfrey Network Ambassador. The other is Tamara Batsell, who is the 40 Plus Fashion Stylist. The brand extends beyond apparel with an inclusion of her beautiful designed ceramics collection. Her collection of clothing are stylish and edgy. They cater to all children, men and women. The amazing brand has connected a foundation to these modern times and fashion. Kolored on Purpose products and Kimico have been featured in Entertainment Monthly News, All Black Monthly Magazine, SHOUT OUT ATLANTA and The Esprit Radio Show. She has also won a Spectrum TV pitch competition which opened doors of blessings for a Spectrum TV Commercial. Kimico is a true role model for the youth; whom she hopes to bring closer to Jesus' light. The trailblazer is making major waves. She wears many hats besides being a brand name apparel Owner. The successful woman holds a degree in Communications and Organizational Leadership with a Healthcare background. She is also a Notary Public. Kimico emphasizes on the fact that faith disrupts your complacency. The God- fearing woman also quotes the powerful scripture, “Trust the process. For I know the plans I have for you"- Jeremiah 29:11. Www.getkoloredonpurpose.com Koloredonpurpose@gmail.com Instagram: @koloredpurpose Facebook: @koloredonpurpose Twitter: @koloredpurpose TikTok: @koloredonpurpose 513-652-0069

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MONIQUE Denton-Davis UNAPOLOGETICALLY WINNING by C. NaTasha Richburg for urban sentinel

Monique Denton-Davis, Founder and CEO of Embrace Your CAKE (Confidence, Attitude, Kindness, and Excellence), LLC, spoke at the September 2021 FEARLESS Washington, DC/Arlington, Virginia Summit. She graced the stage cloaked in a message of empowerment and stunning beauty, exposing positive ways to overcome life’s challenges. Monique’s confidence, fortified with a bright smile, put forth the striking declaration that we in the audience of women are the “Boss” of everything that concerns us. Her nurtured storytelling style can pull the novice listener into the sphere of the academic learner. Monique is capable of assembling her life lessons into a complete nourishing meal full of cross-generational experiences. Rockin’ her sun-kissed melanin skin reminiscent of the glorious presence of Viola Davis styled in front-row-ready New York’s Fashion Week attire, Monique strolled the stage in pace with her message, embracing complete confidence in the likeness of former First Lady Michelle Obama. Monique is an orator of her own making with a story to tell, a passion for divulging uplifting messages, and pride that invites us all to move forward to achieve the best version of ourselves. Monique’s purpose-driven life started at 14 when she worked for Planned Parenthood as a teen advocate and participated in several youth groups, along with student government. She also had a membership with the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), National Action Network, and Black and

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Puerto Rican Caucus. Monique’s youthful view represented her community in these organizations and laid the foundation for her 30 years’ work experience, which consists of 25 years in Human Resources. Now, Monique is a Human Resources Director for a large non-profit and a member of the Executive Leadership team. Monique has expertise in Human Capital Management. As part of this interview, Monique reflected on her mother's professional executive leadership roles that helped her learn how to balance the particularities of an organization’s mission while also focusing on the leadership team’s strategic objectives. Monique now uses what she learned from her mother’s leadership abilities, never afraid to speak out. That stance forged her path to leadership success and resulted in developing a forum for Black Women to learn her strategies for success. What motivated you to establish a platform for Black Women? I want to genuinely help people, especially marginalized women of color, to be better, to reach their full potential, and to live out their life’s purpose. I am responsible for supporting their growth and success by sharing resources, information strategies, and stories of accomplishment. I feel it is my responsibility to create and provide opportunities for Black women. Monique also has a strategy to help Black women with her third book, an anthology series called “Sisters inspire Sisters.” This series is the Black Women’s equivalent to Chicken Soup for the Soul. The anthology touches on many areas of our lives, with the first focusing on Faith, Leadership, and Finance. According to Goldman Sachs research dated March 9, 2021, entitled Black Womenomics Investing in the underinvested, “….Black women are actively engaged in formulating the strategies

and framing the outcomes." Monique seeks to offer

I take full advantage of technology to research the

strategies to engage Black women by sharing personal,

potential for new possibilities. I eat, sleep, and breathe,

inspiring life experiences, such as in her first book,

feeding my mind with positive motivation, sermons,

Unapologetically

Adversity,

inspirational speeches, and talks on my cell phone with

Taking Action. The book was inspired by the desire to

passionate people. I journal about how my future will

help women learn how to overcome many obstacles in

be; I write down my goals, and I plan. The other piece of

life. Monique’s struggles started with being a college

advice I would give is that some valleys require healing,

dropout and completing her education over 20 years later,

so you don’t continuously find yourself in the same

experiencing racism at work, and having low confidence

valleys. Healing may need therapy, so find a therapist if

because of her size, wide hips, and dark skin. The book

necessary, and that’s ok!

Winning

Overcoming

describes how Monique overcame each challenge and obstacle in her life to reach a level of high personal

Positioned to advocate for the less fortunate, Monique

success, validating her fortitude and faith. Monique

has an insatiable desire to help others. Her aptitude in

professes: “I am worthy;” “I deserve the best;” “I’m going

that regard has grown as her absolute determination

to do the work to get better and be better;” and “I am

never wavers from pursuing community service

going to be me and win unapologetically regardless of

opportunities. Monique feels that “confidence and ability

how the world sees me and what the world thinks of me.”

to be the boss” takes place in our own lives when we can show up for ourselves to be the bosses we are. With that

What is the greatest lesson you learned along the way?

in mind, she authored a second book, Get Your BOSS

The greatest lesson that I’ve learned is: obstacles are

on Workbook. The book’s premise is to carefully take the

opportunities. The value you will experience in life is only

reader through becoming the boss by exposing them to

God’s way of saying, hold on through the process; I have

personal development strategies, leading them to new

something better in store for you. Failures are not for you

heights of professionalism.

to give up; failures are opportunities for improvement. When life’s highs and lows and peaks and valleys change How can a person help themselves when they think all is

one’s forward momentum, Monique stands firm in

well? People can help themselves when they feel all is well

her philosophy that “trouble doesn’t last always.” With

by remembering there is constant room for improvement.

trouble, “I can be better and get better,” Monique says.

Yesterday's win, victory, and success happened yesterday.

The essence of her philosophy continues to benefit

Ask yourself the questions: What will you do today? How

audiences far and wide because Monique brings a

will you consistently show up for yourself? How do you

repertoire of professional knowledge to the stage. Those

maintain your state of well-being? What are you feeding

in the audience will feed off her all-inspiring presentation

yourself daily? Are you practicing humility and gratitude?

to leave the room complete with motivations that enable new possibilities.

What advice can you give someone who wants to rise from their valley experience? I would tell them, first,

Website: embraceyourcake.com

remember that trouble doesn’t always last. Understand

Social media: @embraceyourcake

that this valley experience will end—prayer, faith, and imagining the other side of that valley will take you through the dark times. When going through valleys,

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THE COURAGE TO WIN A GREAT MAN’S JOURNEY TO THE TOP by Arlette Thomas-Fletcher. for urban sentinel

Life has a journey that we all must take to achieve what God has given us to seek out in our hearts. Our dream is to be a winner in life and achieve success in the path we have chosen for our career. One of the heroes that I have always admired is Muhammad Ali and the journey he took to become the greatest of all time (GOAT). No one knows what he went through in life for him to see success happen in his career. He is not the only GOAT in sports, Serena Williams, Usain Bolt, Kobe Bryant to name a few are also the greatest of all time in their sports. There are so many people in sports that have succeeded at winning and becoming very famous. Some have lost their lives while becoming the greatest of all time. People such as Martin Luther King gave his life for a cause that lives on today for the civil rights of his people. While he was not a sports person, he was a winner and had an achievement that turned the world around allowing African American people to have the civil rights we deserve. Other winners who gave their lives for achievement of their career were presidents like Robert Kennedy and Abraham Lincoln. The stories behind these winners are the hard work, challenges and the discouragement that they faced as they failed at times while trying to get to the top. Obstacles that were like brick walls sometimes hit them hard and knocked them off their feet. If you take the time to look at some of the greatest sports personalities of all time, you would find that much pain has gone into the preparation of winning. A part of winning is facing failure and missing the mark at times while you are trying to achieve your dream. It can be very heartbreaking to work hard and not win an award, a tennis match, a boxing match, a basketball game or even write the best script to be optioned for a movie. Muhammad Ali is the one that has been a true influence for 34

me as I journey on my career path. My journey is not in sports but his commitment to his career can be used in anyone’s career as a guide for tremendous achievement. While God is my fuel for all that I do, it is this human hero Muhammad Ali that makes me pause and look at what hard work and faith can do to accomplish your goals. He always talked about how he hated training and how much work he had to put in everyday to accomplish the fitness level he needed to be “the greatest” which is what he called himself and he was the greatest. However, to become the greatest he had to punish himself with pain staking workouts, drills, runs, and boxing training. He put time in everyday, working hard to get his body in shape and to achieve the fast ability of punching and dancing in the ring. Moreover, while he was preparing, he had religious beliefs that some did not agree with, racial pressures, and political battles that he faced which were further obstacles on top of his training to achieve success. At one point because he decided not to accept the military draft, he was stripped of his boxing license and was not allowed to fight and lost his heavy weight championship belt. He stood for what he believed in the midst of all the turmoil that he faced. He never gave up on his dream to be the greatest of all time. In his later years he developed an illness of Parkinson disease. Nevertheless, he was chosen to light the torch at the Olympics because the world respected him and his accomplishments and tenacity of life. He had the courage to be a winner. We are all on the path to be winners if we don’t allow failures to stop us. It is persistence that gets us to that “sweet spot” in life where we can look back at our faith, prayer, and hard work and see that we have reached our mountain top of success for whatever it is we have chosen to become. For More Information about Arlette Thomas-Fletcher go to https://www.arlettethomasfletcher.com/

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Dr. Evelyn Hill

A Hard Working Leader by Keisha Esprit for urban sentinel Dr. Evelyn Hill is a Humanitarian, Author, Podcast Host, Activist, Minister and Visionary. She speaks for the voiceless and those in society who meet unfortunate situations. The poor, the widow, those unfairly incarcerated, the fatherless and the abused are just a few of the many to whom she extends her care. Dr. Hill has an impeccable resume. The trailblazer has served on the Kansas City, Kansas Board of Education from July, 2009 through January 2018. During her tenure on the Board of Education, she was the President from July 2014 through July 2017. She is currently Director of Equity and Justice at Avenue of Life. This is a community development organization whose focus is on empowering poor families to become financially self- sufficient with an emphasis of advocating for families who have been challenged with judicial system issues and beyond. Dr. Hill believes we need to prepare this generation of of students for the global workforce of technology, which differs from the workforce of yesterday. She is adamant and also very passionate about the education and civil rights of all humans. Dr. Dr. Hill has worked strategically with Avenue of Life, KCK School District, and other agencies in the Kansas Community Leadership Enterprise (KCLE) collaborative to decrease the number of homeless kids from 1400 to 50% less. George Floyd's death, other African American civilians in along with the COVID-19 pandemic, have all motivated her her to speak up for the under-served communities in

our metropolitan areas around the country. The Activist has been spiritually moved to work toward solution based ideas with other local citizens in the Justice and Equity Coalition. She enjoys public speaking, group training and facilitation. She has spoken to crowds that exceed 2,500 listeners at high school graduations and KCK public school employee convocations. She has also spoken at churches, corporations, non-profit organizations, universities both locally and beyond. She has pastored two churches. She is often called upon to serve families who are un-churched and have no money for funerals, counseling, etc. This beacon of light, Dr. Hill, has served in many volunteer positions over the years including but not limited to: the Mayor’s Diversity Council, Heartland 180, Caring For Kids, MAAC board of directors, KCK Chamber of Commerce board of directors, consultant to the Mayor of Richmond Virginia for Youth Involvement in City Administration, Leadership 2000, Keeler’s Women’s Center, Joyce Williams Center (Domestic Violence Shelter), Wyandotte County United Way, The Unified Government of Wyandotte County, The Greater Kansas City Interfaith Council, the Mayor’s Clergy Roundtable and The Greater Kansas City Coalition to End Youth Homeless. Drevelynhill.net Drevelynhill@gmail.com YouTube: Dr. Evelyn Hill Podcast: Shades of Injustice 913-208-5897 URBAN SENTINEL MAGAZINE | DECEMBER

The Perfect Gift

S P I RI T UA L NO U RI S H M E N T B RO U GH T TO YO U B Y URBAN SENTINEL AND UPSHIFT GLOBAL by Ambassador Dr. Anita Davis DeFoe for urban sentinel The holiday season is here, and people both young and old

systems, low self-esteem, and internalized oppression

are busy, in some cases frantically are shopping in search of

make people think that gifts, trinkets or designer labels

the perfect gift. After all, this is December, the gift-buying

can soothe the emptiness that lingers in the depths of their

season, 31 days that serve as a magic carpet ride into the

souls.

New Year. The supply chain has been severely disrupted by COVID-19, and it is predicted that everything from foodstuffs to personal items may not be on retail shelves.

For most of us, it takes a long and sometimes-difficult journey before we realize that spiritual contentment brings inner peace. Personal tramsformation comes not from the

Bombarded by advertisements, sale papers, and

depth of one’s bank account, but from the condition of one’s

commercials designed to lure us into stores, and in some

spirit. Contrary to the feelings of some people, I believe

cases online because the “Great Resignation” has made it

that the caring and nurturing of one’s spirit does indeed

challenging to recruit and retain talent, so instead of being

matter, and in fact “the state of one’s spirit” contributes

a joyful season, for some of us, the month of December

tremendously to one’s ability to find joy, achieve their

becomes a time of despair, not to mention debilitating debt.

desired level of personal success and most importantly to live soulfully.

Sadly, for far too many of us, the holiday season is now defined by the number of video games we purchase; the

I was moved as I sat in a recent media conference in

numbers of gifts we receive; and do not forget about all of

Barbados, listening to former CNN news anchor Andria

the money spent for the exquisite dishes we prepare.

Hall tearfully share that all of the thousands of dollars she was being paid at the time were not enough to quench the

Before you call me Ms. Scrooge, give me an opportunity; allow me to write a few lines to explain.

spiritual thirst that she felt deep within. Hall explained that peace came into her spirit the moment she began to honor a higher power, once she redefined her life, and only after

Please do not misunderstand my statements for I enjoy

she filled her spirit with positive thoughts and authentic

the holiday season, and I relish spending time with friends

people. Ms. Hall glowed as she shared that her tears were

and loved ones during the holidays. My statements come

not coming from pain and despair, but represented a level

from a caring and concerned heart; my feelings come from

of spiritual awakening that she wished everyone could

deep within my spirit as I painfully watch misguided value

enjoy.

So, as you think about the perfect gift for your friends and family, or as you look for the perfect stocking stuffer, give some thought to giving gifts that inspire, encourage transform, and give voice to the achievement of personal aspirations and dreams. Yes a diamond may be forever, but a gift that enables someone to carve out a path that meshes his or her personal passions with his or her talents will forever outshine the sparkle of that diamond. Helping someone to feel valued, championing someone’s dream, words that inspire and other acts of thoughtfulness can help people treasure one of the greatest gifts there is, and that is the unique gift of self.

to expand your thinking. Decide to challenge yourself, creatively use your talents and begin to live a fuller life that includes dusting off your innermost dreams, and persisting forward to the achievement of your true-life goals. Using your gifts and talents in service to others brings personal success always, but most of us give up when we meet the first bump in the road. Change your mindset this holiday season, because in the end A times A equals A (Attributes X Attitude equals Altitude), and we control the direction of our lives with the choices we make. Give the perfect gift this holiday season; the gifts of self-awareness, selfacceptance, self-guidance, self-growth and lasting spiritual transformation.

Look deep within and make a personal vow that during this holiday season and in the New Year you will strive

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EDITORIAL MAKEUP by Olympia Kent for urban sentinel

What is Editorial makeup? Editorial makeup is makeup that is not usually worn every day and is usually mainly in the fashion industry and also includes setting up a genuine trend when it comes to makeup and hair styles. By definition the word editorial refers to anything relating to print magazines posters ads billboards etc. its simply makeup looks you have seen in print. Editorial makeup has four categories starting with Beauty Editorial, Hair/Accessories Editorials, Fashion Editorials, Creative Editorial all categories are normally what you will see in or on magazine covers, articles, billboards and entertainment arenas. When working in editorial you are usually creating a story to be published in a print or online. Choose your Photographer and Model wisely. Keep in mind it's okay to be fussy but also stay professional. Create a mood or conceptboard and makeup designs before approaching your team to make sure everyone is on the same page in creating the editorial vision. One editorial can contain anywhere between 6-8 Images that share a cohesive thread. Many magazines take submissions monthly for photographers, Makeup artists, stylist or hair stylist to publish editorials. The makeup begins with understanding the model’s skin tone and then accordingly applying the makeup and other cosmetics. The skin of the model must look shiny and fresh; therefore, carrying out editorial makeup requires a lot of practical skill and knowledge to bring out flawless clear skin. The two main key aspects in editorial makeup are — hair styling and face contouring. In many editorial photo shoots, hair styling of the model is the main focal point of the shoot and hence here a hair stylist will have a bigger role to play. You will notice a shiny glowing face of every other model when you go through fashion editorials, all these models even have even cosmetics and colored hair styles. Although many hairstyles featured in the magazines are far from reality and can’t be carried by a URBAN SENTINEL MAGAZINE | DECEMBER

fashion industry needs. There are few key aspects that every editorial makeup artist should know to meet the success in the industry are · Knowledge of understand the type of theme and photo shoot · All the required element of makeup regarding hair, beauty, and styling of cloth · Knowledge and understanding of all sorts of skin type — matte skin or glossy skin · Complete understanding of models or the beauty products to be used. Editorial photography involves finding the right balance between the model and their makeup hence the makeup artist and the stylist needs to have in-depth knowledge and understanding of the running trends in the fashion industry to get rave reviews and feedback from the general public and the designers. It's important for you to know that editorial work is usually TFP (Trade for Print). This is when a group of creatives normal individual, they are pursued in editorial makeup for fashion themed magazines.

comes together and every one trades their time for published photos. The photographer gives input on how he wants the model to look to compliment the

To contour a face of the model means to apply perfect

idea of the shoot and will count on the experience and the

makeup on the model so that the makeup compliments the

knowledge of the editorial makeup artist to give the model

setting of the shoot and the end results are evident. Face

perfect cheekbones, eyelids, and forehead.

contouring consists of defining the model's cheekbones, making the skin glow and shine and make the forehead

In closing of the gems, you have just stumbled across,

look thin with facial cosmetics. An editorial makeup artist

always remember to keep your eyes on the goal. Always

should be skilled enough to make the model look desirable

strive to evolve and improve your skills and abilities. Make

on digital media and print by just using mascara on her

new friends along the way, and build connections to last a

eyelids. Apparently, face contouring and editorial makeup

lifetime. Also, be friendly and professional to the people

involves designing the overall model’s look to bring out the

you work with or for. Who knows? A small act of kindness

perfect look that those photographers and editorials in the

might help you land your big break one day.

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DEVELOPING CUSTOMER SERVICE IN THE BLACK-OWNED BUSINESS by Yvonne Witter for urban sentinel “Developing Customer Service in the Black Owned Business” started out with an academic paper for an international conference on entrepreneurship in 2013. I posed the question “Is the black business confusing service with servitude” I wanted to do something about the poor service in some Black owned businesses but I was not sure what to do. I was watching comedy shows about poor service on the BBC TV comedy sketch from the 1980s, The Real McCoy ‘Misery West Indian Restaurant’ now available on YouTube. Today we have tic tok videos, and skits about customer service within black establishments. People find it funny, and to be honest, I sometimes laugh too. But the seriousness of the negative impact on business revenue and reputation from a poor customer is experience is not lost on me. It is so ridiculous it becomes quite hilarious that somebody should go into a cafe or shop to buy something and get a poor customer buying experience of the server being distracted and unwelcoming, and items listed as being on sale are unavailable. I wonder if it is an uncomfortable way of dealing what we know to be wrong but seem unwilling or unable to change it, and call it out for what it is. Would we rather see our businesses fail than call them out and demand better as consumers? This question has perplexed me for quite some time. I have been advising and supporting businesses for 20 years. I have worked with lots of different businesses and so I am interested in their growth their development. My work is all about enabling people to turn an idea into a profitable business and to support those businesses struggling to get a better outcome. So naturally I'm concerned and interested in how people grow their business, how they start and how they communicate with their customers is crucial, because without the customer they do not have a business. If nobody is buying from you there is no business, no matter how

good your product or service is, if nobody wants to buy it, it will not sell, and if it does not sell, you don't make money and if you don't make money, you don't have a sustainable businesses and that is how simple it really is. Once you've developed a product or service no matter how good it is the challenge is to take it to market, and get people interested in buying it. Hopefully you would have done some market research very early on in the planning and development of your business, so at least you have a clear idea of who is interested in it and whether they would buy from you. If you are a very small business, you don't have big budgets or sometimes any budget at all for advertising and promotions. The invention of online media and social media has been quite an enabler in getting the message out about your product or service, using the many tools out there, and you can teach yourself. Getting your message out there and keeping it there, getting the customer and then keeping the customer, may well be the bigger challenge today because there are so many ways now to pull people towards you, to get people to notice you, but when they have noticed you, then what happens what's their experience of you and will they actually buy from you? After I wrote the academic paper and got interest from academics, I was not satisfied. I realised that I wanted to really connect with the people who needed this information. Leaving it in the academic domain is all well and good for academics to ponder over and discuss, but what about the small business owner who has a little shop, and who's bubbling along thinking that they are doing alright, but they’re not. Business owners really need to understand that customers are crucial to the life of a business, and referrals are like gold. There really is nothing more powerful than someone speaking good of your business. Someone else referring someone to you because they heard that you are good or that they have had a good experience of you and URBAN SENTINEL MAGAZINE | DECEMBER

your goods and services themselves. I don't know about you, but I nearly always purchase based on a referral, after I have done my own due diligence. These days as soon as I need something I tend to ask for a referral. I ask for recommendations from friends and family. I always want to work with people who are passionate about what they do too, even my hairdresser. I like to have a hairdresser who didn’t just fall into hairdressing or just does hairdressing to make ends meet. I really want to go to a hairdresser who wants to be a hairdresser because that's their ambition, that is what they are passionate about. That person will study hair and give me the best advice on hair care and take more pride in their work. It can make a huge difference to their attitude if they are enjoying their work. I want to have a plumber coming to my house who wanted to be a plumber, they want to work with pipes and heating, and you know, fixing things. Yes I want that kind of person I don't want somebody who's doing it because their dad told them to do it but they would much rather be doing something else. You just might not get the best work out of them, because their heart is not in it. You just know when you meet people who are passionate about what they do, as often they provide the best service in my experience. My book “Developing Customer Service in the Black Owned Business” published in August 2021, follows the journey of Paul who has an ambition to start his own business. He is planning to open a small café. The book takes you on his journey from talking about his idea to his cousin at first, and is taken in various directions receiving advice and support whilst learning by observation and experience, and using his own compassion to identify with good practice and negative experiences. Eventually he decides for himself how he would want his customers to feel in his new establishment, and so he goes ahead to create that environment for his customers to feel good while they buy from him. As you follow Paul on his journey you experience the humour and learning experiences with him. It is a business book but it's told in a storytelling format which makes it easy 46

to understand and fun to read. It's a small book packed full of goodness. The customer is not always right but we gain nothing from making the customer feel wrong even if they are wrong, so sometimes we just have to be patient, be gracious, kind and honest whilst behaving with integrity always. When you purchase your copy I would appreciate it if you could tell me your experience of it. What did you learn, and how did the story impact you. What was your biggest lesson? Thank you, I look forward to hearing from you Yvonne Witter MA FRSA is an International Business Consultant, Writer and Speaker on Entrepreneurship. Developing Customer Service in the Black Owned Business is available from www.amazon.com or www.amazon.co.uk or www.crackinganut.com ypw@yvonnepwitter.com hello@crackinganut.com Instagram @yvonnewitteruk @cracking_a_nut www.yvonnewitter.com TWITTER @yvonne_witter

Meli'sa morgan Holiday Recipe

Cook one box (1 Lb) of ZITI Pasta according to instructions but take out and drain when Pasta is Al Dente….ALMOST DONE 3 -4 blocks of Cheeses (1 mild, 1 sharp, 1 extra sharp, and 1 Monterey Jack/Colby) (Cut in small cubes!!) 1-Green, 1-Yellow & 1-Red peppers chopped up in tiny cubes 2 eggs with one 12 oz can of Carnation Evaporated Milk beaten and mixed together 1 15 Oz container of Unsalted butter (re: Breakstone of Land of Lake Butter) 1 31-40 count 2 Pound bag of thawed uncooked large Shrimp (You probably won[t use all the shrimp but it is better to have more than less)

Preferably in a Big Corning Ware Glass baking bowl: Start with a layer of the Ziti Noodles A layer of The mixed peppers A layer of the mixed cheese A layer of the shrimp A large tablespoon spoon of butter broken up and disturbed over the layer Repeat until close to the top Make your Cheese the Top Layer and place a Few shrimp on the top as well Take the two beaten eggs and milk mixed together and pour over the top of Mac & Cheese in the bowl Cover with Aluminum Foil Put in the oven at 350 Degrees and bake for an hour or until the top starts to bubble. Take aluminum foil off the top and turn off the oven. Let top of Shrimp Mac & Cheese get baked. Let it cool slightly and serve Hot!!!! URBAN SENTINEL MAGAZINE | DECEMBER

The Life and Time of Magggie Lena Walker: Page 15 Photo taken from www.nps.gov. Link: Maggie L. Walker Photo taken from https://mpt.pbslearningmedia.org. Page 16 Photo taken from https://www.pocampo.com Photo taken from https://encyclopediavirginia.org Editorial Makeup: Pages: 3, 40, 41, 42, 50 Photographer: Brian L. Christian @bchristianphotography The Key Makeup Artist: Pages: 10,12 Photographer: Timothy Brentley

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Celebrating the 2021 Holiday Season: Pages: Cover, 18, 19, 21, 47, 49 Photographer: Sabastin Commas for Asilem Productions, Inc.

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