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Creating a culture of fundraising – part two

How to integrate and align fundraising with your mission.

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TanyaFree.com/ Urban Views Weekly Poll The year has come and is almost gone. Much has transpired over the past eleven months. As we gather with family and friends for Thanksgiving, what are you most thankful for this holiday season?

With this column, we focus on integration and alignment with mission. Gibson Fundraising is writes, “In the process of organizations attracting people with a culture and resources. Yes, of philanthropy, it’s about raising fund development money. But it’s is a valued also about “how” and mission you raise money. We component “We believe that ofaligned believe that fundraising the organization’s should be infused into all fundraising should overall work, rather than aspects of an organization’s a standalone function. be infused into culture. It needs to be a Organizations with a culture shared responsibility that all aspects of an of philanthropy see fund is as important as what is development as more than organization’s defined as the “work” of an just raising money or a organization. In a nonprofit, management function; culture.” it is unsustainable to they see it as baked separate the two. into everything they do, including their overall missions.” We encourage you to read Beyond Fundraising: What does it mean to build a culture of philanthropy? This report was written by Cynthia M. Gibson and produced by the Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund. The report shares four main topics: shared responsibility for development; integration and alignment with mission; a focus on fundraising as engagement; and strong donor relationships.

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We often work with organizations that have valuable missions and visions, achievable goals, working strategies, and not enough funding to bring these to life. In these cases, the board and executive leadership are left to implement a partial vision with limited programming and resources. Over time, an under-funded organization can develop a culture that is far continues to page 8

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By Dr. T

HOPE Needs a Little Help!

“Hope is the power of being cheerful in circumstances we KNOW to be desperate.” -G.K. Chesterton Among those who are alternately devastated, disgusted, disillusioned and disenfranchised by the election of 2016, the struggle to embrace the “ideal” of democracy remains difficult at best and like swallowing hemlock at worst. After an unprecedented campaign like none other we’ve witnessed in modern political history, where one of the most unpopular, resoundingly unqualified, and non-transparent candidates won the majority of the electoral college (a throwback to appeasing slave holding states) while losing the majority of the popular vote by an historically high number, America finds itself at a precipice of division and descent. The campaign rhetoric reached a level of vile, inappropriate language and content that caused Americans to mute their televisions when children were in the room. The man elected President of the United States fed upon a climate of discontentment and created an atmosphere where a specific constituency, who embrace hatred, bigotry and racism found a place where they could feel comfortable outwardly exhibiting their beliefs. The sexism and misogyny previously under cover, was elevated to a level never before seen in a presidential campaign (some might say) because the opponent of the President-elect was a woman. But many others recognize it as inherent within the culture in which we live and without question, the man who was elected President on November 8th clearly and undeniably demonstrated it. This man denigrated women by his words and actions on a daily basis throughout the presidential campaign and, currently, has over a dozen lawsuits pending and sexual harassment and assault claims outstanding. All of

“...I still HOPE in the promise of what America claims she wants to be.”

these things are extremely troubling and without precedent in U.S. Presidential history. The most troubling of all is that (in this nation) we have grown accustomed to watching ourselves evolve, grow and transform over the decades. We have now witnessed a betrayal of what America once held as fundamental to our exceptionalism. A free nation forged in blood and dedicated

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to principle and the struggle for equality, equity and inclusion; a country where we have fought through fear, adversity and misguided outrage, ignorance and bigotry together, in order to come closer and closer to the platitudes upon which the United States of America touts her promise as a great nation. We now find ourselves in serious trouble of falling backwards, to a time we thought we had moved beyond; a time when the deep contradictions of what we “claimed” we were clashed with the injustice, segregation, racial hatred and violence exhibited throughout our nation and showed the world who we really were instead. Hypocrites. We betrayed our Declaration of Independence and ourselves. “We hold these truths to be self evident…that all men (people) are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”

The election of 2016 has challenged this nation and its people to stand up for the America we claimed we wanted to be when we elected President Barack Hussein Obama eight years ago. Do we NOW want to bow down to the type of country we once were in the most horrid days of our history? The brutal institution of chattel slavery, the Trail of Tears, the Japanese Internment Camps, the State sponsored terrorism of lynching, brutal reign of the Ku Klux Klan and bombing of Black churches, Segregation and Jim Crow, these are what America once was…and the signs we see all around us are eerie reminders that we have not become the nation or the people we have the power to be. These are desperate times and yet I still HOPE in the promise of what America claims she wants to be. We Will NOT GO BACK! Spiritual Music is our Specialty

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Turkey Sandwich with Cranberry and Hummus

Put a fresh take on post-holiday sandwiches For most people, the day after a big holiday gathering means two things: a refrigerator filled with opportunity and a marked lack of energy. Fortunately, there are easy ways to make the most of the remnants of your holiday meal so you can take it easy and enjoy a day filled with good food and good rest. Sandwiches are a natural solution for postholiday noshing, but all those exceptional entrees practically beg for one last chance to

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shine. Put a fresh, wholesome twist on this year’s sandwiches by ditching the traditional condiments and dressing up your bread with a new kind of spread. New hummus based spreads available in garlic herb, honey mustard, and sea salt cracked pepper have 75 percent less fat than the leading spread, mayonnaise, and pair perfectly with sandwiches and wraps of all kinds. Make an upgrade with these stepped-up takes on the traditional turkey sandwich and more.

Chicken and Waffles Sandwich Recipe courtesy of Chelsea LeBlanc of Chelsea’s Choices

Servings: 4

tablespoon egg whites

2 teaspoons garlic & herb hummus spread 1/2 cup panko bread crumbs 1

teaspoon chopped fresh rosemary, plus additional for garnish

1/2 teaspoon garlic powder 1/4 teaspoon paprika 1/8 teaspoon salt 1/8 teaspoon pepper 4

boneless, skinless chicken tenders

frozen waffles

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slices sourdough bread

Heat oven to 425°F and line baking sheet with aluminum foil.

sea salt & cracked pepper hummus spread

In medium bowl, whisk together egg whites and garlic and herb spread.

On plate, gently mix together panko bread crumbs, 1 teaspoon rosemary, garlic powder, paprika, salt and pepper. 1

Dip chicken into egg white mixture then into bread crumb mixture. Place on baking sheet and bake 15-20 minutes, or until internal temperature is 165°F, flipping chicken at halfway mark. In toaster oven, toast waffles until warm and crisp. Cut into fourths and top with spinach and 1/2 tablespoon honey mustard spread.

leftover turkey, sliced about 1/4-inch thick

cranberry sauce

bibb or boston lettuce

salt, to taste

purple onion, thinly sliced

pepper, to taste

Cover one slice of bread with spread then layer lettuce, purple onion, turkey, cranberry sauce, another layer of lettuce,

salt and pepper. Add another squeeze of spread and second piece of bread.

Turkey, Prosciutto and Hummus Sandwich Servings: 1 2 slices whole-wheat bread, toasted

garlic herb hummus spread

tender arugula

leftover turkey, sliced about 1/4-inch thick

Cut chicken tenders in half and place atop waffles. Top with another waffle quarter.

1 ounce thinly sliced prosciutto

Garnish with rosemary and serve with maple syrup.

Cover bottom slice of bread with spread then layer arugula, turkey and prosciutto to build club-style sandwich. Add another squeeze of spread and top piece of bread. Urban Views Weekly | November 23, 2016

What Are You

The Importance of Showing Tru The holidays are officially here! Dinner plans are being made, relatives are flying in, and our Black Friday shopping lists are growing longer with each commercial we catch on TV. More often than not, Thanksgiving is characterized by what we’ll get—a full belly or a new laptop—and less about what we already have. Health, happiness, family, and friends are those blessings that often go unappreciated; we’ve grown so accustomed to having them that we don’t realize that in an instant, they could be taken away from us. This year, Urban Views Weekly and local residents from all walks of life take the time to reflect upon the many reasons we already have to be thankful. Nothing is promised, and we’re fortunate to live to spend another holiday with those we cherish. This Thanksgiving, let’s focus less on the food we’ll be enjoying and the Black Friday discounts we’ll take advantage of, and stop for a moment to truly give thanks.

Levar Stoney

Richmond City Mayor-Elect

“I am thankful for the opportunity to serve. I am thankful for all of those who invested in our campaign and message for the future. I am also thankful for the ability to begin an administration that will focus our efforts on improving the quality of life of all Richmonders.”

Dr. Renee Hill “What I’m thankful for right now is that in the wake of the Presidential election, people are making an effort to express kindness, compassion, and concern for others. That really makes me feel good.”

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Rose Coley

Department of Mass Communications Office Manager

“I’m thankful for the knowledge of our Creator & His undeserved kindness. I’m thankful for my family, and I’m thankful for my many blessings, blessings such as having a home, a job, and my health.”

family and friends; for being blessed with a sound body and mind; for having a life-mate and jointly successfully rearing four children and witnessing the next generation of our family via two grandchildren; and for being successful in a chosen career.”

Juliette Davis, Robert L. Satcher, Sr.

President Emeritus St. Paul’s College/Adjunct Professor of Chemistry, Southside Virginia Community College

“First and foremost, I am thankful to acknowledge Jesus as being the head of my life and Savior. Further, I am thankful for having “The Courage of Conviction” and to objectively make decisions according to my faith. I am thankful for

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“Unlike any other time in my life, I have decided to be very intentional about being thankful. In the past 90 days, I’ve lost three dear friends to

Thankful For?

ue Gratitude this Thanksgiving

tragic illnesses. In a strange way, the bitterness of their loss has made everything much sweeter. Today, I am most thankful for the simple things in life including: sunrises and sunsets, creating memories with loved ones, and fulfilling His purpose for my life. Being thankful has taught me a valuable lesson, an attitude of gratitude doesn’t make your problems go away, but it gives you strength and hope to finish the course.”

Alexus Davis “This year, I am most thankful for God turning every negative into a positive. I asked God for love, family, good friendships, and a better lifestyle. Though it didn’t happen as I thought it would, it has all happened in God’s perfect timing. For that, I am thankful.”

Dwight Johnson “I’m thankful for my family, my kids, and my wife; they motivate me every day, and I’m grateful that with their motivation and support, I’m able to have a job I can depend on to provide for my family, and benefits that help keep me healthy. I’m grateful for the ability to stay active enough to live a healthy lifestyle for my kids, and I’m thankful that I have friends who hold me accountable, share in my success, and keep me grounded every step of the way.”

Vanessa Perry “I’m thankful for the time to stop and focus on the good in our lives. All year long we spend our time and energy focusing on goals and work, but Thanksgiving is a time

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to focus on the good. It’s a time to not only give thanks, but show appreciation for the people in our lives who bring us joy and love, so I’m thankful for the coming together of family. My brothers, sisters, and I all have careers and small businesses that keep us very busy during the week, so Thanksgiving is our time to put all our work to the side and focus on family, and have fun while carrying out the traditions my mother started years ago. We cook together, and really show our mom that we’re happy to step up to the plate and do the cooking. Family means a lot to my mother, so we put ourselves to the side to show her how thankful we are for her and all that she has sacrificed for us. Also, as a mother and grandmother, Thanksgiving is a time when all of my children and grandchildren are together all in one place. It doesn’t happen too often, so when it does, we use it as a time to reflect on the goodness of God and the favor He has bestowed upon us all. I love the holidays.”

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Founder/CEO, InnoCent Beauty Collections

“I’m thankful for peace of mind. I remember a time in the recent past that life’s circumstances and people who’ve hurt me caused me to live a life full of depression, anxiety, selfpity, and hurt. But I’ve been strong enough to forgive others, overcome those obstacles, and focus on living life freely. So I’m thankful for that strength, and thankful that I’m given another chance to enjoy this life that God has given me.”

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FUNdraising from page 2

different from the founding mission and vision. It is also over time that a culture of fundraising (or philanthropy) can be built. The culture change starts when all parties within an organization focus on both program development and fund development. Integrating fund development (fundraising) into the program development process could yield different programs, partners, strategies or timelines that are most beneficial. It could also force difficult discussions about priorities and resources before a crisis arises. A frequently used method for setting program priorities results in a mandate for the development office or fundraising team to raise specific amounts for specific priorities. Bringing development professionals and fundraising volunteers into the program development process – and the budget setting process – can influence how decisions are made. For example, those individuals

who know your organization’s donors and funders can provide a perspective on which gifts and grants may not renew in the coming year, and who might be interested – or not interested – in funding specific programs. It is better to know this information earlier than later. This can build a bridge between organizations and donors that values donors as partners rather than a revenue source. Gibson makes it clear, “building a culture of philanthropy means viewing fundraising as a tactic for achieving larger programmatic goals and mission, rather than an end unto itself.” You can read Beyond Fundraising: What does it mean to build a culture of philanthropy? online at http://bit.ly/FundCulture. Copyright 2016 – Mel and Pearl Shaw Mel and Pearl Shaw are authors of the new book FUNdraising Good Times Classics Vol. 1 now available on Amazon.com. For help growing your fundraising visit www. saadandshaw.com, or call (901) 522-8727.

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Visionaries Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’ -- Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Help us pick our Visionaries Urban Views Weekly invites you to nominate a person whom you believe best embodies the courage, compassion, integrity, inspiration and vision displayed by the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The nominee should live in the Greater Richmond and Petersburg communities. Two individuals will be selected and featured in our January 2017 Martin Luther King edition.

Letters of nomination should be 400 words or less, and must include the nominee’s full name, address and telephone number. Nominators should include his or her name, address, telephone number and email address. Help us showcase the good work being done in our community by dedicated heroes and heroines.

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The Deal

By Nathaniel Sillin

Changes to the FAFSA Make It Easier to Apply for Student Aid Do you have a high school senior who is knee deep in the college admissions process? Writing essays and filling out forms can be a stressful process for students, just as covering the cost of college can be for parents. This year, the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) submission period opened on October 1 — three months earlier than in previous years. That extra time to get financial information in order could be a big benefit to many families. Don’t put off completing the application; sending the FAFSA in early could increase your financial aid package and give you more time to compare aid offers from different schools. Understanding this form of student aid. The FAFSA determines your family’s expected contribution to the cost of higher education and serves as an application for federal financial aid, such as student loans, work study and the Pell Grant. It’s also used by some state agencies and schools to determine aid, including merit-based awards, and some scholarships require applicants fill out the FAFSA. Current and prospective college students must complete a new

income based on the student’s and parents’ tax return from two years before the school term begins. Your 2015 tax return for the 2017-2018 FAFSA, for example. You might be able to electronically transfer your tax return information to your FAFSA using the Internal Revenue Service’s Data Retrieval Tool. If you’re unable or don’t want to use the tool and don’t have a copy of your 2015 tax return, you can order a free tax transcript of your return online, by mail or by calling 1-800-908-9946. FAFSA each year. Dependent children will need their parents’ financial information to complete the form, and parents may want to work on the application alongside their child. Most students complete the FAFSA online at fafsa.ed.gov. While it can be complicated, once you have all the paperwork in order, the application could take less than 30 minutes. New changes in tax requirements make filling out the FAFSA easier. The earlier submission period isn’t the only difference for the FAFSA this year; there’s also a change in the tax information you need to submit. You’ll now report your

The 2017-2018 FAFSA requires that applicants use their 2015 tax return information even if there have been significant changes in your financial situation since then. After submitting, applicants can contact schools’ financial aid offices to make adjustments. Pay close attention when filling out the FAFSA because some of the questions, such as those pertaining to current assets, are based on when you fill out the form, not your tax return. Submitting your application early offers several advantages. The federal

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How to Guide

How to Manage Holiday Stress Many people look forward to the holidays because of the festivities – food, entertainment and coordinating schedules to attend events. Many people dread the holidays for the same reason. Yes, Christmas shopping and family gatherings can be incredibly stressful.

Budgeting can be a big part of the planning process. You should decide on a dollar amount for every holiday category — food, shopping, entertainment and charity — and stick to it. Giving at Christmastime should be a source of joy, not a source of stress, and budgeting for it ahead of time can help reduce your anxiety over money.

But with a few simple steps, you can make your holidays less stressful and more enjoyable.

Focus on You The holiday spirit is all about helping other people, and that can be a good thing. But if you give so much that it’s detrimental to your own health, that can mean trouble.

Acknowledge the Stress One of the most important steps is simply recognizing that stress is a problem. It’s a normal, natural thing for many adults to experience around Thanksgiving and Christmas, and being aware of the stress and where it stems from will help you take steps to avoid it. It’s important to keep your expectations realistic for the holidays, too. Not every holiday event has to look like a Hallmark card or Norman Rockwell painting, and not every year has to be exactly the same. Or uniquely different. If you find yourself with too many things on your holiday to-do list, consider paring back. It’s better to attend or host a few small events that you actually enjoy rather than spending your holidays stressing out over too much work.

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Make sure you don’t stop paying attention to your own healthy habits. You should continue eating healthily, exercising and getting plenty of rest.

Plan Ahead Christmas comes on the same day every year. If you find yourself rushing around too much at the last minute, get out a pen and mark your calendar with specific dates to do your baking, shopping, visiting friends and family, and so on. Be sure you set aside time for preparation and cleanup of holiday events, too.

If you occasionally overindulge on food during the holidays, that’s OK, but making it a regular thing can add considerably to your stress levels. Consuming healthy foods will keep you feeling better about yourself. It’s also a good idea to schedule some “me” time. Block off some mornings or nights to do something that you find relaxing — watching the sunrise, reading a book, going to a movie — whatever helps you stay calm and sane at the busiest time of year. Continues to Page 11

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Classifieds

Model Railroad Show returns to SMV The Science Museum of Virginia hosts the 39th Annual Model Railroad Show featuring trackless train rides, exclusive tours of vintage train cars and gigantic model train displays this Thanksgiving weekend. The Museum invites families and friends to join this holiday tradition beginning Friday, November 25 through Sunday, November 27. Guests are encouraged to explore the historic Broad Street Station turned museum as they celebrate a history of innovation through interactive experiences.

A diverse collection of model train layouts will adorn the Museum, with scaled locomotives riding through intricate landscapes and miniature cities. Trackless train rides on the Teddy Bear Express will depart daily, taking junior conductors and their families for a ride in front of the Museum. Guests are invited to join guided tours of the luxurious Car ONE and step inside historic train cars, which open exclusively during the holiday weekend. The Model Railroad Show showcases blacksmiths forging custom metal pieces and Clydesdale horses – the original iron horse. Hands-on activities include building the

The Deal from page 9

deadline for the 2017-2018 FAFSA is June 30, 2018, but don’t wait that long to complete your application. States and colleges have deadlines of their own, and your eligibility for aid can depend on meeting these deadlines. Some states and schools also distribute aid on a first come, first served basis. Submitting your application early can help ensure you’ll receive the aid you’re eligible for before the funds run out.

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world’s simplest electric train, unique model train workshops, demonstrations uncovering the science of trains and special performances by the Carpenter Science Theatre Company. The Dome theater will show National Parks Adventure and live Cosmic Expeditions, Planet Nine and We Are Stars.

Office Hours: Mon-Fri 9AM-5PM

The Model Railroad Show is included with exhibit admission. Tickets are $14 with $1 discounts for ages 4-12 and 60+. Show times can be found, along with a detailed schedule for the weekend, at smv.org or by calling 804.864.1400.

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can send to additional schools. Many states require you send your FAFSA to at least one in-state school to be eligible for state grants, and some states require you list a state school in the first or second position to be eligible. The Department of Education has a list of each state’s requirements.

Prospective students who submit the FAFSA early might receive estimated financial aid offers from schools earlier as a result. This gives families more time to compare the offers before making the big decision on which school to attend.

Bottom line. The FAFSA’s submission period opened up three months earlier than in previous years. Sending your FAFSA in early could increase your eligibility for financial aid and give you more time to compare aid offers from schools.

You can list up to 10 schools on the FAFSA, including schools you’re considering but haven’t applied to yet. Submitting your info holds your place in line for aid, and you can switch out schools later if you want. You’ll also receive a Student Aid Report (SAR) after submitting the FAFSA that you

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Manage Family Spending time with your family is a big part of the holiday season, but you need to work on managing expectations if you find family is becoming a source of your holiday stress. Don’t overcommit. There’s nothing wrong with simplifying or reducing your annual traditions. Talk with your family about what’s most important to you all

and focus on those few things. There’s a good chance other family members will appreciate the chance to de-stress, too. Communication is an important part of that. Make sure other family members know your holiday commitments so they have realistic expectations for your time and energy. And make sure you schedule some time to relax and recover from family gatherings.

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