Editorial This continues to be a very strange time for everyone. Several people have said that, if we were able to avoid listening to the news or reading the papers, we could easily imagine that locally nothing was amiss! We are very fortunate that many of us have gardens to enjoy, and also some spectacular walks in our lovely countryside, and having the time to enjoy more walks and cycle rides than previously has meant that we have more time to 'stand and stare' and appreciate the wonderful springtime show. Have you noticed, for instance, that the line of trees between Clenston and Whatcombe has grown into a splendid addition to the roadside pleasures? It was a great piece of forward-thinking to plant them here, and leading into the short tree avenue at Whatcombe makes a very pleasant walk or ride - especially as there has been so little traffic on the roads.
Picture by Graham Case Realistically, we are not able to forget what is happening as it has impinged on every aspect of life. We thank all those who are helping others, in whatever capacity; the staff at our surgeries, the bin men, the posties, the delivery drivers‌ and of course all other key workers including NHS staff and care workers. Helping to keep as many things ticking over almost as usual has made a difference to what could have been a shocking lockdown and caused more hardship than ever. All we can hope is that the easing of restrictions to allow a return to a more normal life does not in turn cause a 'spike' in infection and a return to stringent measures. We can only imagine the heavy burden of the responsibility on government and hope that soon there will be a time to come that is Covid-19 'free', or at least more manageable than continuing lockdown. There was an interesting perspective offered by a scientist pscychologist or psychiatrist? Not sure! - regarding the popularity of quizzes during this period especially. The explanation put forward was that participants were appreciative of the certainty that they provide, as there is only one right answer, thereby affording comfort during uncomfortable and uncertain times. Whatever the reasons, many people have been enjoying and appreciating the online quizzes that Graeme Gale has been running, and as well as providing some fun, they continue to raise money (£475 so far) for the Dorset and Somerset Air Ambulance Service. Thanks to all participants, and of course especially to Graeme for this on-going support to such a worthwhile service. You can join in the quizzes by going to: https://youtu.be/y1rq2q0BFL4 - the next one is scheduled for May 26th. Stay safe, and remember to keep looking out for each other. The Valley News Team
Winterborne Valley and Milton Abbas Benefice I'm sitting here, at the beginning of May, wondering how to write this message for the June edition of Valley News. It's a beautiful day today with the sun shining, but the forecast for this weekend is that we will need our winter woollies. I feel a little like that about these odd
times we are living through. Boris is due to talk to the nation on Sunday about the possible lightening of the stay indoors we have all been asked to adhere to. Everyone has high hopes, but who will "be released" first I wonder? How will the NHS cope if there is a second wave and what about those folks who will be afraid to go out again? I'm so scientist or medic, but I guess this tiny virus reminds us of our human fragility. It has shown us how the unchangeable global economic structures can actually be made more humane if there is a will to do so. We have watched the Homeless be housed and Benefits increased. But we have also seen our Church buildings closed at a time when so many needed them open, especially at times of bereavement and worry. The Church has been forced to work in new, creative ways using electronics that might have been resisted before. Yet we all miss the human contact of a kind word, a smile, or a hug. Do you think this might be a game-changer, when things cannot go back to how they were before? Certainly, we are seeing and hearing the worst and the best of human nature. We are experiencing a Pandemic and seeing with fresh eyes the brilliance and the struggles around the world. We cannot remain the same. Everything certainly prompts us to value the self-giving action of our wonderful NHS Staff, key workers and volunteers, cleaners, porters, carers, and funeral staff. We not only "bang our drums" on a Thursday evening in support and gratitude but hold them in our prayers. For there cannot be many families who do not have a family member or friend at risk among them. Ordering from a food shop in Dorchester, they sent me this poem from an NHS worker, Chloe Kerwood. It highlights for us the burdens they are carrying on top of their medical work and the debt of gratitude we all owe them. I'm sorry to the husband I spoke to on the phone. Frustrated as I tell him she's critical but stable, whilst you're forced to worry at home. I'm sorry to the consultant I couldn't hug when in tears. After he said there is nothing more we could do, facing the biggest challenge of your career. I'm sorry to my fellow colleagues that all I could do is just smile. Whilst knowing you are tired, upset, and scared, knowing this will haunt you for a while. I'm sorry to the patient that stirred and opened her eyes. How frightened you must be feeling, I promise this masked stranger is trying to keep you alive. I'm sorry to all my friends and family that ask me "are you OK?" I just shrug and don't really reply, I can't find any words to say. My biggest sorry of all is to the ones who lost their fight. You were not alone I promise, this stranger held your hand and sent you love whilst you drifted to the light. I'm sorry to the relatives, you weren't allowed with your mum, dad, husband, wife, daughter or son. But your unknown friend was there, holding their hand, telling them how much they were loved by everyone. When I preside at Communion, I particularly love words from the Iona Community - "take us out to live as changed people, because we have shared the living bread and cannot remain the same." Thank you, Dear Lord, for being with us and those we love in these strangest of times. Amen. Stay safe and keep well my friends, and I will see you all again soon. Rev Sue
Milton Abbas & Milborne St Andrew Surgery Social Prescribing: Kelly is our new Social Prescribing Lead at the surgery and works Wednesday morning, Thursday morning and Friday all day. Social Prescribing is about connecting people with social, emotional or practical needs to local sources of help and support. Social Prescribing empowers people to take control of their own health and wellbeing. This would particularly help patients who are dealing with long term health conditions, struggling with their mental health or those socially isolated. We are here for everyone whatever your concern is - whether you need some ideas on how to improve your fitness, would like to know about local coffee groups, or would like to improve your literacy skills whatever your query we are here to help. If you would like any more information, please contact the surgery. EConsult: Milton Abbas Surgery are now offering econsult which enables us to offer online consultations to our patients. It allows patients to submit their symptoms or requests to their own GP surgery