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y friend, Her Excellency, Ms. Uduak Umondak, and I were guests of Professor Dapo Ashiru and his lovely wife, Idowu, at their modern Mayr Medical Spa at Shonibare Estate, Ikeja. It is an experience I intend to repeat again and again. The concept of medical spa is novel in Nigeria; even more novel is the modern Mayr method. There are only three of such in the world, one in Austria home of the creator of the technique, the second in the United States, while the third is located under our nose, at Shonibare Estate. What is so unique about the Mayr method is the way it incorporates total body wellness with orthodox medical therapy. From the minute you walk through the door, you enter into a surreal world, where you are pampered and fussed over till you forget the world outside and become subsumed in the pleasures that unfold. All these await you the minute you surrender your bag to be taken up to a luxurious room that is your abode for the next ten days. Time did not permit us to spend more than four days; days when my intestines were gently massaged in, making my tummy flatter than I had ever known it to be, sit-ups, crunches irrespective. Four memorable days of detox, and learning again to chew food the way God originally intended. They were days we learnt cooking the Mayr way, which is much healthier; got an Assyria medical analysis to detect if there is or are any onset of disease. The idea of the Assyria is that, before diseases manifest, they start from somewhere. With the Assyria, it can be detected and treated before it manifests. In the end, I came out 5 kilos lighter, feeling spruced and squeaky clean. You can imagine my excitement. I had to get this out. In this interview, the couple explain the Mayr method and why they brought it to Nigeria. The spa opens formally today. Enjoy!
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woman of substance would be a woman who has strong character, is consistent, has more to her than meets the eye. Besides virtue and other character qualities, a woman of substance has knowledge; she has educated herself fully and can hold her own anywhere. However, when it comes to fashion, most career women who are excelling in their chosen field have often been relegated to the background. We do not think or see professional women as stylish women. You’re considered superficial if you’re interested in fashion, but I think you can be substantial and still be interested
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urrently Consultant, Communications & Corporate Relations at the Central Bank of Nigeria. Ms Loader has held several executive and demanding positions; Past Chief Marketing Officer at First Bank of Nigeria Plc. Director of Marketing & Corporate Relations at United Bank for Africa Plc. She is also CEO and Publisher at Aspire Media Ltd She’s done all of these in an eclectic mix of great outfits from established and emerging designers, establishing herself as a style icon.
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Senator Florence Tokunbo Durosaro Genevieve Nnaji Ita-Giwa igeria’s finest actress, senior manager at one of the
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eferred to as the grand Dame of politics in Nigeria, Senator ItaGiwa essentially runs the fashion industry. And while her outfits may follow a formula, one can never accuse her of being a fashion victim or not dressing her age. She pretty much always gets it right.
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prominent oil companies, Tokunbo Durosaro is just as popular in the social community as she is in the corporate circles.. Not just another pretty face, her brilliance has earned her top positions; her intimidating silhouette is such that attracts attention wherever she goes. Tall and shapely, she has an eye for clothes that sit well on her frame.
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Genevieve’s acting talent has won her lots of awards and international recognition. And most recently, the brand ambassador of Range Rovers SUV brands in Nigeria. Genevieve has been on countless best-dressed lists and her fashion is considered smart and never one to be over the top with her looks. Her confidence in her often unconventional red carpet choices is what sets her style apart from other actresses.
Substance: in ‘frivolity.’ It is possible to use your brain and want to wear Louboutin shoes, have well manicured nails and great eyelashes. There is this believe that women can’t do both, because like some career women would say, they do not have time for such frivolities. However this has been proven otherwise by 8 of our favourite ladies from ages 20 to 60, who exemplify that women indeed can do both. Our list obviously isn’t comprehensive of all the people who are smart and stylish (for example: we did not include ourselves), but these are just some of the ones we like the most.
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graduate of the New York Film Academy, Nigerian-raised Eku Edewor is a presenter, model, actress and producer. Eku's career kicked off in 2010, when she landed a job as co-host of '53 Extra', capturing the hearts of audiences with her amiable presentation. Eku is one of the busiest personalities in the Nigerian entertainment industry, shuffling through presenting, modelling and producing. She loves fashion; she loves to play around with cuts, textures, prints and designers too. She always brings something fresh as she hits the red carpet in style, oozing confidence and charming observers with the ease of her style.
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sually known as Mo Abudu, is a talk show host, TV producer, media personality, human resources management consultant and entrepreneur. Abudu is the founder of The Inspire Africa Foundation, a human investment arm of Inspire Africa Ltd. It is registered as a nonprofit organization focused on raising funds to implement societytransforming initiatives. She is very much into the simple, elegant look.. She once revealed that she could wear black all day, but I has gotten over that now and is beginning to experiment with other colours.
x FADAN President Folorunsho Alakija CEO of Digital Reality and Rose of Sharon, bagged the 1986/87 Designer of the Year award, and the Beauty International Empire Award in 1989. She represented Nigeria in International Fashion exhibition at Osaka, Japan in 1990, and Atlanta, Georgia, USA. Folorunso Alakija is a fashion icon. She places premium on being trendy. Her style is confident, and she never shies away from colour. ‘Bright colours make me happy.’ she once said. Eku Edewor A graduate from the New York Film Academy, Nigerian raised Eku Edewor is a presenter, model, actress and producer. Eku’s career kicked off in 2010, when she landed the job as the co-host for 53 Extra capturing the hearts of audiences with her amiable character. Eku is one of the busiest personalities in the Nigerian entertainment industry; shuffling through presenting, modelling and producing. She loves fashion, loves to play around with cuts, textures, prints and designers too. She always brings something fresh as she hits the red carpet in style oozing confidence and charming observers with the ease of her style.
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n inspiring young Entrepreneur, with a BA in Economics from the University of Nottingham and an MBA from American Intercontinental University, Atlanta. Her recognition came when she launched “Leila Fowler”; a self- named upscale boutique in Lagos in April 2008. Her style is feminine glamour epitomized, a feature which makes it impossible for to stop clicking anytime she appars on the red carpet. She is always on point from her hair to all way down.
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PROF. OLADAPO & MRS. IDOWU ASHIRU
Restoring youth with modern Mayr medicine By REMMY DIAGBARE
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rofessor Oladapo Ashiru and his beautiful wife, Idowu, are ahead of their time. The professor's medical practice which incorporates modern Mayr therapy is light years ahead of others in Nigeria. Rather than wait for patients to fall sick and be rushed in for treatment, Prof. Ashiru offers proactive medicine, which eliminates the trigger factors that precipitate disease. Having experienced the spa services the couple offer, I can vouch for their ability to de-stress, detox and relax clients while also inducing weight loss in a body-friendly manner. With incidence of stress high in Nigeria, the spa opening today couldn't have come at a better time. Is there a better get away nadir? I think not. Rather than travel abroad, Prof and Mrs. Ashiru believe their therapeutic programme is a far better way to enjoy better life; not only will you come out healthier, you will look a lot younger. What can be more exciting than taking years off? You need to see how young both look! On youthfulness, madam did look like she had succumbed to the surgeon's scalpel. Her size 12, figure eight frame hugs a fitted LBD with black leggings tucked into what looked like ankle boots. She looked very hot and nothing near her biological age. The secret to their youthfulness is not rocket science, she says. It's following the modern Mayr way of cooking, chewing food and detox. On the secret of a marriage that doesn't seem to wane, she puts it down to communication and lots more. You will have to read this interview which starts here, but concludes on our blog: vanguard allure.blogspot.com. JUNE 17, 2012 ALLURE
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Professor Oladapo and Mrs. Idowu Ashiru
WHAT IS THE MART -LIFEDETOX CLINIC ALL ABOUT? Mart- Life Detox Clinic is a medical spa established as an arm of the fertility centre we established many years ago. Its main focus is the use of modern Mayr medicine therapy. Modern Mayr medicine therapy was established over a hundred years ago by Dr. F. S. Mayr, who practiced in Austria. During the First World War, he discovered that there are ways to address illness apart from the typical orthodox medicine that he was trained to use. He added this as a welcome addition to his therapy. Basically, modern Mayr medicine looks at the individual from the skin, to the eyes and abdomen especially the abdomen. It is able to recognise illnesses that an individual may have. This, of course, is based on the fact that you are what you eat essentially. You are also a product of what you take from the environment. These two components can have negative or positive effect on the way you feel. Having seen this method in Austria, we decided to have a collaborative arrangement with them. This medical centre essentially ensures well being and reproductive health; we deal with endocrine problems, diabetes and so many other ailments which are addressed through this holistic approach to medicine in addition to normal orthodox medicine. THIS HOLISTIC APPROACH IS NOT ALONG THE LINES OF NORMAL TREATMENT? It is out of my sphere of normal treatment. First of all, my field of specialty is Reproductive Endocrinology, which is what I have been doing over the last thirty years. I look at the endocrine organ as they affect reproduction in men and women. When we started invitro-fertilisation, some people experienced unexplained fertility. As we advanced technologically, we were able to help such people through the use of retrovitisation. Now, this technique has come to stay. Now you find that when some people go through invitro- fertilisation, they go through it 3 or 4 times and don't get pregnant. A few fertility centres now recognise the fact that there is more to fertility than just doing IVF. Even when you put the embryo back into the womb, if there are problems in the woman, either through diet or through some toxin in her, she will not be able to carry that baby. We realised that there is need to remove toxins or detoxify people before they go t h ro u g h i nv i t ro -
fertilisation. When people go through this process of detoxification, it enhances the efficiency of all their organs: the heart, the kidney and, in particular, the reproductive organs of both males and females. Recognising this made me to establish this centre in order to help patients who are obese and want fertility treatment so that when they lose weight, it will enhance their chances or, in the same vein, make ordinary people who just want to be healthy live a healthy life. Modern Mayr medicine means a completely new type of living, a new way of eating and a new approach to adding good rhythm to your health. AN IMPORTANT ASPECT OF YOUR THERAPY IS THE WAY WE EAT. LET'S TALK ABOUT THAT. With Mayr modern medicine, one of our priorities is the way we eat. Man was created to eat in order to grow. The first thing we learnt to eat was the milk from the mother's breast; we sucked it and drank it. As we grew older, we were made to chew. We were given teeth so that we can chew food and ground it properly, mix it with saliva so that by the time it gets into the stomach, it's almost in liquid form ready to be digested. But as we advanced with technology, we all (even those who went to medical school) chewed what we can and swallowed thinking that the stomach will do the rest of the chewing and the grinding. The stomach does not do that and there is no other organ in the body aside from the oral cavity that can chew food so, when it goes down into the stomach and the intestine, it goes in that solid or a bit solid form. It is unusable by the body and ends up congesting the intestine. It is like getting solid things into the drain instead of putting them into the waste bin; empty them into the gutter and they end up blocking the gutter and causing the drainage to be blocked. Therefore, the first thing we teach people here is to re-learn the gift of chewing to chew our food properly, that is, chewing food many times (up to fifty or sixty times, depending on the type of food you are eating). Obviously, if you have ogi (pap) in your mouth, you will just chew a little bit so that saliva can mix with it and begin to digest it, to break it down into small bits; whereas, if it's chicken or meat, you have to chew it many times before you can get the same thing to almost liquid form before you swallow.
We realised that there is need to remove toxins or detoxify people before they go through invitro-fertilisation.
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ONE OF THE CARDINAL PLANKS OF THIS THERAPY IS REGENERATION AND YOUTH RESTORATION. HOW DO YOU ACHIEVE THIS? When you take a break from over-eating and reduce your calorie intake and
you start eating food that are non- toxic, automatically, your whole system will be rejuvenated. The Mayr system of cooking is such that most toxins are eliminated from the cooking process. But it is not just about removing toxins, we also believe that in the same process, you should not put in more toxins into your system. We talk about different levels of diet; that is why each person's treatment is customised and obviously, it is not one treatment for all. When anybody comes in, we have initial consultation with the doctor and based on what they find out, a particular diet will be prescribed for him or her. A lot of women may want to lose weight. We put them on very strict diet. Whatever the case, we do detox and that will definitely lead to cell rejuvenation so patients will look much younger and very much refreshed by the time they finish the programme. GIVE ME A LOW-DOWN ON THE SYSTEM HERE. They are actually called cleansing diet, so there is a cleansing diet; there is a mild cleansing diet and then there is a moderate cleansing diet. We call it 01 and 02. Beyond that, there is also diet for specific problems; people who have maybe lactose intolerance, or people who have Candida of the intestine, for instance, go on a special diet. In terms of what the operations here, first is the simplification which is the way of eating and rest; that is number one. Number two is that we examine you and we have different things to check. First is the physical examination that measures changes in the abdomen, the weight and blood pressure. Next is the Assyria text which is a new field in medical diagnosis that uses magnetic resonance to recognise changes in the body, therefore, highlighting areas with a problem. We can also reinforce that in what we call applied kinesiology, which is based on the fact that muscles will react to different regions based on what they are and if a particular region is effective; you test the muscles that are in relation to those regions. If you don't like a particular food and I put it on your stomach and I test your muscle, you will be weak because you don't like the food. That is the physical bearing of applied kinesiology. The next one we do is having recognised all these problems, we place you on a customised diet. The next important aspect of modern Mayr is abdominal treatment, where we are able to manipulate the abdomen and anatomically try to move them back to the anatomical position. Because having eaten wrongly for a long time, the abdomen becomes bloated and congested; it is big and full so we have to manipulate it.
But you cannot manipulate the abdomen until you have been able to clean the abdomen itself by drinking oral salt and powder which are custom-made for Mart light detox. When you drink this solution, you will go to the toilet and eliminate the bowel and also urinate. You will also drink mineral stone water and herbal teas to replace the toxic water and fluid. In that situation, your stomach is now ready to be manipulated into its anatomical position. Next, we have what we call therapeutic measures. One of them is the massage by the physiotherapist, when we do lymphatic massage to drain the lymphatic vessels and improve lymphatic circulation. Once this is done, the toxins will be encouraged to move into the dustbin so that they can be eliminated. We have a whole range of services, but time will not permit me to say them all. MADAM, YOU WENT TO THE MAYA SPA IN AUSTRIA BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO LOSE WEIGHT. WERE YOU THAT BIG? When you get there, they will actually tell you that their whole focus is not really to lose weight. Their whole focus is detox. When I got there, I will say I didn't lose much weight because I discovered that I had a thyroid problem, which was why I didn't lose weight. I was gaining more weight, even when I was only eating salad. I don't eat bread. I don't eat any of these carbohydrates. So, why was I putting on weight? When they discovered this, they started treating that. That was why I didn't lose weight. When I got back and stayed with the programme, both in terms of cooking and their way of eating, the weight started coming off gradually. HOW DO YOU THINK NIGERIANS WILL
Most people rush abroad to India RESPOND and TO YOUR SERVICES? Well, many Nigerians are getting healthGermany for medical check up. The whole conscious and many Nigerians are getting thing can be done here. You don't need toweight go conscious too. People want to for medical check up abroad. You canremain be slim; they want to remain beautiful. So, I believe that many of them here and have a health vacation. will want to get the result that we can offer, whether they are prepared to go through what it takes to get the results is
another matter. (PROFESSOR TAKES IT UP FROM HERE...) Before going to Austria, she had tried a number of weight-loss therapies. Weight gains come with menopause and a lot of women will have that. Unfortunately, conservative medicine has not been able to address menopause properly. It was only in 1992, during the women initiative, that they recognised the fact that what they were
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completely eliminate the Candida. So basically, we cook in a way that is non-toxic and you will not see fried food or carbohydrates here or sugar, caffeine, white bread or rice. AN IMPORTANT FACTOR IN DIET IS ALLERGY. A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE ALLERGIC TO DIFFERENT THINGS. THERE IS IGNORANCE ABOUT THIS. WHAT ARE SOME OF THE VARIABLES? There are variables. People are allergic to different things. There are people who are allergic to nuts, either peanut, or different things like aged product like wine, champagne, cheese. (MRS ASHIRU CONTINUES...) I am allergic to champagne but didn't realise it. I had a cough for five months; I didn't know what it was. I kept coughing. He gave me some very powerful vitamins but when I went to Austria, they did a test and diagnosed that I was allergic to champagne. I knew that champagne didn't really agree with me but I liked champagne but champagne didn't like me. WHAT THIS MEANS IS THAT YOU ARE ABLE TO IDENTIFY PEOPLE'S FOOD ALLERGIES ONCE THEY COME IN HERE. There are two ways in which we can do that: applied kinesiology and the Assyrian test. KNOWING THE WAY NIGERIANS ARE, HOW DO YOU THINK THEY WILL BE ATTRACTED TO THIS KIND OF PLACE? You have a new life if you go through here. For ten to fourteen days, your life will change. Your way of doing things will change, particularly your manner of eating. And why? Doctor Mayr, the originator of this technique wanted it for two weeks minimum because when you practise something for two weeks, it is recognised psychologically that it has become part of you. But when you do it for two or three days, you can easily go back. In terms of how Nigerians will receive it, in my own practise, I know that a number of my patients need it. Why? Because they have infertility problems. While some are very fat, for the men, sperm count is low or not there. How will it be there when fat is blocking the blood vessel that leads into the testes. Apart from that, it is what they eat that created Professor Oladapo and Mrs. Idowu Ashiru the fat that led to load of toxins that have damaged most of these organs. So, if you put them through a process like this, they will know using to treat menopause all the hormone replacement like pre-marine, testogine and so on were making women to put on weight whereas the use of that they need it and they will get better. One of my patients who had infertility biodelical products helped women to handle menopause without putting on problems even before we had this residential programme, after taking her through detoxification process before treating her for IVS, she ended up with weight. But weight will be added on in Nigeria because of our various social activities. And twins that was celebrated by her pastors. then, Nigerians don't like people who loss weight; they say there is a problem. So, Most people rush abroad to India and Germany for medical check up. The whole thing can be done here. You don't need to go for medical check up abroad. You people just add on weight and this affects organs in the system. can be here and have a health vacation. The earlier we recognise in Nigeria that A LOT IS DEPENDENT ON THE METHOD OF COOKING WITH THIS THERAPY. CAN the human body can't work without vacation, the better it will be for us. Even the Almighty said that on the seventh day, you must rest. He, in his infinite mercy and YOU EXPOUND ON THIS? knowledge and wisdom, recognises that this human body that he gave you must What we do is to cook in a way that is not toxic. We use organic oil not all oil is rest for one day after working for six days and some of us put this to work for suitable for cooking. Only two types of oil should be used for cooking: coconut oil months. and palm kernel oil because, they can withstand the heat. Any other oil becomes toxic. What actually is in most oils we use? Ground nut oil? Many people are So, if you can create a week to rest, you are going to be better off. The other part allergic to groundnut. You don't even know what is inside the vegetable oil. Soya of this philosophy is that there is no human being, no matter the state of your oil? I don't like soya personally, because it promotes goiter. We also take into health or well being that will not get better, feel happier and more refreshed. It is like fasting which has been recognised over the ages as a way of rejuvenating cognisance people's allergies and food intolerances. yourself; when you now do it under a medical umbrella, you will get better result, Once they are aware of the intolerances, there are certain foods that we tell them because, it is not just fasting. This is now cleansing. We take the opportunity of they need to keep away from for a while. You may have a cardinal over-growth, fasting to cleanse your body and put new substance into your body and you have which is like a yeast over-growth in your stomach. In that case, you must a new life. eliminate anything that will allow cardinal to feed and grow - which is all sugar for The whole process took me through losing a lot of weight but at the end, instance. So, we will put you on a cardinal-free diet. physically, I am more energised in terms of my work. I am able to do more work We also send you home with another two or three months' programme to now than I used to do before.
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By Teri Mendes
Quote of the week:
My own prescription for health is less paperwork and more running barefoot through the grass. — Leslie Grimutter
20 ways to lose weight without dieting! (Part 2) Continues from last week
Get food portions right According to one survey, the top habit of slim people is to stick with m o d e s t f o o d portions at every meal, five days a week or more. “Always slim people do it and successful slimmers do it, too”. Once you measure portions a few times, it can become automatic. Make it easier with small “snack” packs and by keeping serving dishes off the table at meal times.
Go meatless more often E a t i n g vegetarian meals more often is a slimming habit, according to some experts. Vegetarians weigh up to 20% less than meat eaters. While there are several reasons for this, beans and pulses play an important role. Bean burgers, lentil soup and other tasty legume-based foods such as moi-moi, akara are simply packed with fibre. Many of us only get half of this important nutrient, which fills you up with fewer calories. One of my future topics will be on how to adapt vegetarian lifestyle for Nigeria stay tuned to that!
Try the 80-20 rule on healthy moderation W e ’ r e conditioned to keep eating until we’re stuffed, but in parts of Japan people eat until they’re 80% full. They even have a name for this naturally slimming habit: hara hachi bu. We can adopt this healthy habit by dishing out 20% less food.
Burn 100 calories more
Reach for the red sauce Choose tomato sauce for pasta instead of creamy sauce. The tomatobased sauces tend to have fewer calories and much less fat than creambased sauces. Remember, portion size still counts, so one serving of pasta is one cup or roughly the size of a tennis ball.
Chew strong mint gum
Lose 4.5 kilos (10 pounds) in a year without dieting by burning an extra 100 calories every day. By trying one of these activities: -Walk one mile, about 20 minutes. -Dig up weeds or plant flowers for 20 minutes. -Mow the lawn for 20 minutes. -Clean house for 30 minutes. -Jog for 10 minutes. -Cut out bacon or plantain often
Watching TV or surfing the internet a r e a f e w d a n g e r o u s scenarios for mindless snacking. Chewing sugar free gum with a strong flavour when you’re at risk of a snack attack, helps overpower other foods so they don’t taste as nice. Now that’s what I call smart chewing!
Drink wisely: Use a tall, thin glass
Sip smart: Limit alcohol
Serve more, eat more veg
Use a tall, thin glass instead of a short, wide tumbler to cut liquid calories and your weight - without dieting. You’ll drink 2530% less juice, fizzy drinks, wine or any other beverage. How can this work? Experts say visual cues can trick us into consuming more or less. Tests found all kinds of people poured more into a short, wide glass - even experienced bar staff testify to this.
When an occasion includes alcohol, its always wise to follow the first drink with a nonalcoholic, low-calorie beverage like sparkling water instead of moving on to another cocktail, beer or glass of wine. Alcohol has more calories per gram (seven) than carbohydrates (four) or protein (four). It can also loosen your resolve, leading you to mindlessly ingest crisps, nuts and other foods you’d
Serve three vegetables with dinner tonight, instead of just one, and you’ll eat more without really trying. More variety is a standard trick for making people eat more food – and eating more fruit and vegetables is a great way to lose weight so why not tweak it to you’re advantage. The high fibre and water content fills you up with fewer calories. Cook them without added fat. I always season with lemon juice and herbs rather than drowning their goodness in high-fat sauces or dressings.
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Choose a 10" lunch plate instead of a 12" dinner plate to automatically eat less. Researchers found in a test that people serve more and eat more food with larger dishes. Shrink your plate or bowl to cut out 100200 calories a day – and 4.5 - 9 kilos (10-20 pounds) in a year. In the tests, no one felt hungry or even noticed when tricks of the eye shaved 200 calories off their daily intake.
Dear Teri, Thanks for your advice on the danger of leaving plastic bottle water in parked cars. However, going by your counsel, how about the big plastic bottle water: C Water & others that are left in the open by retailers, exposed to very intense sun shine daily. Are there no toxins leakage? Thanks Dan
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Dear Dan, Thank you for your mail and comment. According to research, the big plastic bottles i.e. C Way etc are made from a different and tougher kind of material that is not as vulnerable when placed under hot temperatures like the normal PET plastic water bottles. So they do not hold the risk of toxins leakage like the normal PET. Have a great week and keep writing in! Teri! (terimendes@gmail.com).
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his was the most embarrassing thing Zinna had heard in a long time. We were both by the baggage carousel at the Atlanta airport, waiting for our baggage to come through. Zinna my cute looking travelling companion, emitted a low fart, and the stench... ugh. We heard a deep chuckle from behind us, and a voice in a black American twang say, ‘baby don’t be like that’. When we turned, to our horror, we saw a cool looking black guy staring directly at her. He then gave her a funny look and took off...fast. I too moved away for a bit. It was that embarrassing. As soon as we retrieved our luggage and left the building, my dear friend spat on the ground. In other words, in the space of fifteen minutes,, she had twice displaced a serous lapse of manners. Oh dear! And then, when our cab driver loaded her luggage into the cab, she didn’t even thank him. When I reminded her to do so, her response - it’s his job after all I’m paying him. In public, she would speak so loudly and sound very aggressive. That was so not right. Needless to say, I was appalled and thoroughly ashamed of her. The thing about manners is that they are an intrinsic part of you. You take them along with you wherever you go-China, UK, or your very own village. If you’re used to acting ‘funny’ at home, you will surely display those funny habits wherever you go. Manners are all about consideration for
others, about obeying the golden rule-do unto others what you want done to you. Say ‘please’, ‘thank you’, and ‘sorry’ at any opportunity you’ve got. Each time you display great manners you make deposits into your social account. Be kind and caring to people. That cab driver that takes you from one end of town to the other deserves a thank you. When you patronise that fast food joint or restaurant, the server or waiter deserves your thanks. That office assistant that you regularly send out for food, snacks and recharge cards deserves a thank you. And what about your laundry man, house help, vendor and that gateman or meguard that opens the gate for you? A thank you will not go amiss. And it’s not enough to just say thank you. Say it with a warm smile. A few weeks ago, I was at a client’s reception, waiting for him. Another young guy was also waiting for this same client. While waiting, he was happily picking his nose, and when my client saw him, he gave him a hearty handshake. Oh dear! If only Mr. Client knew where those fingers had been...nasty. Only yesterday, I saw a ‘together’ looking guy alight from his posh vehicle to pee by the roadside. There was a fast food joint close by where he could have gone to do his ‘business’. Your manners speak for you. With beautiful manners people enjoy being around you. With appalling manners, somebody someday ‘s bound to say ‘baby, don’t be like that ‘
Ngozi Chantal Caulcrick is a business image coach, trained and certified by the Protocol School Of Washington. She offers seminars in Business Etiquette and Protocol Intelligence, as well as Fine Dining Skills. You can reach her on 08033023790, 08082365506, or courtneyinglis1@gmail.com
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Ms Pearl Of Wisdom. Is she an agony aunt? Very often. Is this an etiquette column? Sometimes. Could it improve your sexual technique? Possibly. Does she have useful tips and hints? Yes. Let Ms Pearl of Wisdom handle all and any of your social and emotional dilemmas!!
Dear Miss Pearl, I’ve been dating a guy for a few weeks now. The other night we were getting intimate and he told me he doesn’t like to wear a condom and that I am the only one he is sleeping with so it is ok. I really like this guy and don’t want to lose him, should I just give in? Please tell your boyfriend that you are already plagued by the incurable disease of stupidity, and that you don’t want to catch anymore from him. Dear Miss Pearl, Is it socially acceptable to recycle Christmas presents and pass them on? Only to the rubbish bin! Dear Miss Pearl, For two years I‘ve been dating a married man who is really great. He takes care of everything for me. However, he has clearly stated he will never leave his wife to marry me. Should I stay with him anyway? How exactly is the situation different from when it started…? Dear Miss Pearl, The past few months have been tough. I lost my job, my boyfriend dumped me and my car broke down. I looked to my best friend for support, but all she wants to do is talk about herself and all her boyfriends. I feel so hurt that she doesn’t sympathize with what I am going through. Should I confront her about it? Clearly you have mistaken this girl for someone who gives a damn. Time to find a new friend!! Send problems to: Ms Pearl of Wisdom, pearlofwisdom.allure@gmail.com The best problem wins a prize (Editors choice).
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ear Jerome,
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I wish I had written to you when it first crossed my mind to do so. I am in a dilemma which has turned my life upside down. I got married 5 years ago and now, I wonder why I did. After my traditional marriage, my husband used his contacts to get me a good job. I remember he told me to lie during the interview that I was single so I could get the job, which I did. When I got pregnant, he asked me to abort the pregnancy, our first, so that I won't lose my job, which I also did. When I first met him, he said he was into business with a group of friends. I remember that he was able to pay for certain things. He even had an apartment that we moved into and live in till now. But, no sooner were we married that I realised he had to travel a lot, especially to a certain part of the country, telling me he and his friends were bidding for contracts. He would go for three months and come home for a few days and off he went again. Later, I realised that when he comes home, he wasn't really interested in sex anymore; saying that he was tired and hardly ever had erections. I found out later that this was due to the fact that he no longer found me attractive so, he wasn't stimulated by my presence. I also observed that I was the one who was now paying the rent and giving him money, sometimes, to travel back. Things kept getting worse between us and I kept hoping that something will happen; like hitting a good contract that will make him happy enough for him to see me fully in his life again, but I was wrong. When I realised that I didn't know what was happening in his life, I resorted to look at his phone. To my greatest surprise, I discovered that this man had been having affairs behind my back. When I confronted him, he showed no remorse. Instead, he felt relieved that since I have found out, he no longer needed to talk secretly to anyone. He began to pick calls from strange women right in front of me. As time passed by, I found out that he had a particular lady, who is older than him, with whom he lives with when he travels. I confronted him about her and threatened to leave if he continued with her but he only made it clear that she is helping him with so many things and it will be difficult to pull out. At this time, I was going through hell at work with my boss and some colleagues who have been chasing me because they sincerely believe I am single. As I write this to you, I want you to know that I have never defiled myself with any of these men because I am disgusted by the fact that they are all married and yet keep coming at other women, the very same thing my husband is doing. Recently, my husband took ill during one of his visits. We had to go to the hospital together where tests were carried out on him. He was found to be HIV-positive. Immediately, same tests were carried out on me and the results were negative. It's been nine months now and I have run the same tests over and over in different places, yet still negative. I am very grateful for this. Now, I know that all the while I was agonising that my husband wasn't having sexual relations with me, God was turning it around for my good. He has begged me not to tell any member of both families but never apologised for the situation. Now, my problem is the man who was not interested in sleeping with me before now has suddenly developed interest in us having sex and when I refuse, he boasts that the elderly lady he lives with on those 'contract' trips knows that he is HIVpositive yet has sex with him using condoms; how much more me his wife. Jerome, I am so confused and believe I have wasted my life in a marriage that never was. Do you know that my husband and I can't have a conversation without it degenerating into arguments? So, I have learnt to have him do all the talking while I do the listening and discovered that he likes it that way. I am afraid for my life now as he is becoming more aggressive about sex. Please what do you suggest I do? Nkiruka.
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You have really been phlegmatic in your relationship with your husband and, like so many women who are like you, kept so much in the dark for too long. The first thing I am going to advise you to do is move out of that house now because one of these days, your husband is going to rape you! He will do so and infect you and get away with it, well that is in Nigeria. If he did so abroad, he will be jailed. Husbands here believe that sex is their right, even when they are not taking care of their wives. So many wives have been raped by their husbands and have no one to talk to about it. These women are raped when they try to convince their husbands that they don't feel like having sex, especially when they are in that part of the month when you touch a woman's body and the same part that should be stimulating, becomes irritating to touch. Such men don't just want to know so, they rape their wives. Others rape their wives to punish them and some others do so because their wives are doing better financially and want to prove that they are still their lords. They do not care if the woman has come back from work very tired with sex being the last thing on her mind. It's a pity that women who have been under attack for several decades still choose to remain under attack till now. Anyway, Nkiruka, leave before this man rapes you. Pick up your phone right now and tell your people all about it. Find a place to stay for now. There is no reason to empathise with your husband now. He is yet to show remorse. I hope he gets to that point but for now, he certainly is not there yet. If you call me, I could link you with one or two NGOs that may assist you and also go after your husband; not to embarrass him but to stop him from infecting more ladies. Remember that this is not about being HIV-positive. It is about being irresponsible and self centered. For those interested in attending “Let's Get Married in June” which is coming up on June 30th in Lagos, registration is on. For counselling on marriage, relationship, match making and career, call Jerome on 08037194335 or 08099118377. To register for “LET'S GET MARRIED IN JUNE”, call 08053537663 or 08020977877. BB 2219041E. You may also follow Jerome on Twitter as jeromeistalking or Jerome Onipede on Facebook.
For counselling on marriage, relationship, match making and career, call Jerome on 08037194335 or 08099118377. To book for our monthly programme, call 08053537663 or 08020977877. BB 2219041E. You may also follow Jerome on twitter as jeromeistalking.
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ALLURE JUNE 17, 2012
A. CAYENNE: A thermogenic and energizer, cayenne has been used as both food and medicine in the tropical areas of South and Central America and Africa for more than 7,000 years. Cayenne does more than create a tongue-tingling meal. It is loaded with vitamins C, B and A. It also contains calcium, phosphorus and iron. One of the richest sources of vitamin E, cayenne helps to keep the heart healthy and strong. And, as its bright red colour suggests, it provides immune-boosting beta-carotene, one of the most important anti-oxidants in the body. Cayenne offers additional value as a pain killer (especially against the discomfort of arthritis), an antiseptic and a digestive aid. Cayenne is a diaphoretic, a sweat-inducing spice. Its hotness comes from high concentration of capsicum, a substance that has been firing up the circulation for centuries. It is capsicum that gives cayenne the power to get the blood pumping efficiently, stimulate the body's metabolic rate, and help clean fat out of the arteries. A study at Oxford Polytechnic Institute proved that cayenne paper stimulates metabolism by about 20 percent and results in increased distribution of oxygen throughout the body. (It is a major ingredient in the “Body Perfect Healing and Cleansing Cocktail”). B. CINNAMON: It is a thermogenic and blood sugar stabilizer. Cinnamon boasts a long history as both spice and medicine. Medieval physicians treated coughs, sore throats and diarrhea with cinnamon. Europeans used cinnamon to preserve foods and to mask the stench and flavour of spoiling meats. Recent studies have confirmed cinnamon's ability to rid foods of dangerous bacteria. A recent study also found out that cinnamon destroyed E. Coli bacteria in apple juice. Cinnamon has been well researched for its ability to prevent unwanted clumping of blood platelets. Cinnamon consumption can boost metabolism and derail the microorganism that causes yeast over growth in the body. The calcium and fibre content of cinnamon seems to improve intestine health and protects against heart disease. Cinnamon makes cells more responsive to insulin. It can help the body to metabolize glucose, keeping blood-sugar levels in check. C. GARLIC: Energizer and detoxifier; a substance that can fight cancer, AIDS and heart disease. It can lower both cholesterol and blood pressure by 10%, serve as a natural anti-biotic and anti-fungal medication. Garlic does all these and much more it is used as both food and medicine. It serves as a diuretic, a stimulant, and a sweat promoter. It stimulates metabolism, stabilizes bloodsugar levels and eliminates toxins from the body. Garlic contains a wide range of trace minerals including copper, iron, zinc, magnesium, germanium, and especially selenium. In addition, garlic contains sulfur compounds, vitamins A and C, fibre and various amino acids. In all, garlic provides more than 100 biologically useful chemicals. The “active” compound of garlic is a sulfur compound known as allicin. This compound is generated only when a garlic dove is broken, and it is what gives raw, cut garlic its distinctive odour and pungent taste. Allicin also gives garlic its powerful fat flushing punch. At least, 12 studies have confirmed that allicin clears cholesterol from the blood.
Ask Princess Kathy (Princess Kathy is a Certified Nutrition and Fitness Consultant. E-mail: bodyperfectng@aol.com or call +234-8101840449, 8034545819. BB: 28356028.)
Dear Kathy, I've lost a lot of weight, thanks to your write-ups and regular intake of Oolong tea but the problem now is the “stomach”. It has refused to go down. I do lots of sit ups, yet the stomach keeps looking at me. Please, what can I do? Fatima, Ibadan
Dear Fatima, Congratulations on your weight loss journey. Stomach fat is very stubborn to melt if you do not apply the right formula. Sit ups does not melt abdominal fat; sit ups firms up flabby stomach. If your stomach fat is to disappear, you might need a detox and then go on a “flat stomach diet”. Please keep me informed about the outcome of putting this to practice. Princess Kathy
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Home made mane management By AYODELE DAVINA Use these simple potions to solve hair issues at home without a salon bill.
FOR DANDRUFF
n Get a jar of coconut oil and massage scalp with it from time to time. n Mix coconut oil with lemon juice and olive oil, part your hair into sections and apply the mixture directly to the scalp. Use a steam cap or just wrap your hair with a towel. Wash off with a mild shampoo after 15 minutes. Biona Coconut Oil
FOR WEAK HAIR
Rinse out your hair with vinegar in water n once in a while. This will give your hair body and shine. Mix up 1 egg white n 2 tbsp of castor oil 1tbsp of glycerin Apply this nourishing mix to your hair and scalp and wrap it up in a towel for a while and rinse off with tepid water. DO NOT rub your hair vigorously with a n towel when drying. This causes breakage. Always pat it dry gently. Never comb your hair with a fine toothed n comb when wet. Hair is at its weakest when wet.
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