Rtn. Vatsal Shah
Architect & Interior Designer
1) Smile Sometimes turning on the charm is as simple as forcing a smile.
Research shows that smiling can not only make you more attractive to others, but it can lift your mood as well as others around you.
2) Be Mindful "Mindfulness allows a person to feel at peace and stay in the moment,
not obsessing about the past or the future," says Pachler. "Being in the moment can help you connect to others, take responsibility for self, and not blame others for struggles."
3) Make People Feel Good People won't remember what you said or did, they'll remember how
you made them feel. They give genuine compliments and find ways to make each person in the room feel special.
4) Pursue Hobbies That Give You Pleasure Seeking joy in the form of feeding one’s soul, again, can give a person a
sense of peace and contentment, giving a charming air about one's self
5) Talk With Your Hands A good conversation involves more than just using your words.
Research shows that people who talk with their hands are viewed as more warm, agreeable, and energetic.
6) Show Interest In Others Not many people are drawn to others who only care about themselves.
Others usually appreciate when someone shows interest. This need can be met by showing genuine curiosity in them.
7) Be Affectionate They will give a handshake, a hug, a touch, something to connect
physically with other people. This physical connection makes people feel special, which perpetuates the charm.
8) Make Eye Contact It's not enjoyable to have a conversation with someone who is
constantly darting their eyes and looking elsewhere around the room. Eye contact communicates care and concern and makes the person they are interacting with feel significant.
9) Be Authentic Trying too hard to be someone you're not isn't an appealing trait. If you
know someone is being honest and genuine, you are more likely to trust them and want to be with them.
10) Be a Good Story Teller Charming people are great story tellers. They have a handful of crowd-
pleasers that they can pull out that are sure to entertain. They've practiced them, so their delivery is impeccable. Having a set of talking points can help encourage interesting conversation instead of talking about the weather.
11) Be Encouraging Thank others sincerely and give compliments. Make everyone feel like
they are real people and not just a number or a wheel in a cog, and they have the ability to make others feel appreciated.
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Rtn. Vatsal Shah
Architect & Interior Designer Mobile: 9879391496 Website: www.vatsalshaharchitects.com