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Affair Proof Your Mind By Lysa TerKeurst Lysa TerKeurst is a New York Times best selling author and speaker who helps everyday women live an adventure of faith through following Jesus Christ. As president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, Lysa has lead thousands over the past 15 years to help make their walk with God an invigorating journey. In the midst of her ministry, though, Lysa is a real, everyday woman who simply seeks to glorify God through her life and family.

a woman thinks… eventually acts.

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Our thoughts are so powerful. If we want to affair proof our marriages, we must make our thoughts work for us instead of against us. A few years ago I watched a friend get tangled up in an emotional affair. She was a strong Christian woman who loved her family but the attraction to this other man seemed unavoidable. She tried to talk herself out of it but her heart played tricks on her mind and the justifications for letting things go just a little further soon led her to a very dangerous place. She was becoming emotionally attached to this other man.

realization of how subtly this had happened. She hadn’t planned on being emotionally attracted to this other man. As a matter of fact, she’d always prided herself on being a woman of strong conviction and had scoffed at the idea of ever being tempted to have an affair. It starts off simple enough- a comment made that you mull over one too many times, a conversation in which you find a surprising connection, a glance that lingers just a second too long, or one of a thousand other interactions that seem innocent yet aren’t. These are the dangerous seeds that can easily sprout into an emotional affair.

“If you are busy rowing the boat, you won’t have time to rock it.”

In a moment of desperation and fear, she confided in me what was going on. As she described how she got pulled into this place, I found myself being challenged by the

Some think it is a safe way to enjoy the lure of being attracted to someone other than your spouse without crossing any lines. But God boldly and plainly says in 1 Corinthians 6:18, “Flee from sexual immorality.” God doesn’t say walk away from sexual immorality. No, He says to flee as if your very life is at stake! The time to prevent an emotional affair is before

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it ever starts. I must never rest on my spiritual laurels and say that it could never happen to me. We are all just a few poor choices away from doing things we never thought we would. The minute I think it could never happen to me is the moment I become a prime target for Satan. Jesus warned his disciples in Matthew 26: 41,”Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak.” The Life Application NIV Bible commentary says, “Jesus used Peter’s drowsiness to warn him about the kinds of temptation he would soon face. The way to overcome temptation is to keep watch and pray. Watching means being aware of the possibilities of temptation, sensitive to the subtleties, and spiritually equipped to fight it.” Watching: I now realize that I need to be aware that I am just as prone to this temptation as anyone. One of the best was to be watchful is to be praying with and for my husband. We need to be open

“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Phillipians 4:8

and honest about meeting each other’s needs and investing wisely in our marriage. If we get into a rough place, we need to be willing to get help. I love the quote, “If you are busy rowing the boat, you won’t have time to rock it.” The more my husband and I are taking care of each other, the less attractive temptations will seem. Sensitive to the Subtleties: I will have to be honest with myself that temptations do exist. When another man says or does something I wish my husband would say or do and doesn’t, it can make me lessen my husband in my heart and build up this other man. This is a seed of poison. If watered and fed, this seed will sprout and spread and devastate. Seeds seem so small until you realize that within them they contain the potential to become huge. So, I will be steadfast to keep the fertile ground of my heart pure. Spiritually Equipped: Philippians 4:8 reminds us, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” I must park my mind with the truth and the truth is I am married to an amazing man. He is not perfect and sometimes our marriage can be hard but I made a commitment to Him in a covenant before God and there are no Biblical reasons in our marriage why we should ever part. Therefore, I’ve made the decision not to part in big ways or small. My friend did the hardest but wisest thing she could have done in telling me about her emotional affair. It helped her to see she needed to flee and have someone else hold her accountable. But it also helped me. Her admission made me aware and alert to the dangers lurking in any kind of unhealthy emotional connection with another man. Dear Lord, may I forever treasure my marriage and see it worthy to be protected. Help me to be a courageous woman who absolutely flees from any and every situation where there is even a hint of danger. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

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Sow a Thought

. . . Reap a Destiny By Greg Laurie

By the word of Your lips, I have kept away from the paths of the destroyer. Psalm 17:4

Greg Laurie is Senior Pastor of Harvest Christian Fellowship in Riverside, Calif. He began his pastoral ministry at 19 by leading a Bible study of 30 people. Since then, God has transformed the small group into a church of 15,000 plus, one of the largest churches in America. For more, visit www.greglaurie.com. Used by permission from Harvest Ministries with Greg Laurie, PO Box 4000 Riverside, CA 92514

hen the Devil wanted to lead the first man and woman into sin, he started by attacking their minds. And he still uses that tactic to this day.

these are command central. With the mind you can reach into the past through memories, and you can reach into the future through imagination. The Devil knows that if he can get us to think about “With the mind you something, to contemplate it, to consider it, then he is halfway can reach into the there.

Paul warned of this when he said, “But I fear, lest past through memories, somehow, as the serpent deceived Eve by his and you can reach into The Bible tells us, “For the craftiness, so your minds weapons of our warfare are the future through may be corrupted from the not carnal but mighty in God imagination.” simplicity that is in Christ” for pulling down strongholds, (2 Corinthians 11:3). The Devil casting down arguments and attacks our minds because our every high thing that exalts brain, our thoughts, our imagination— itself against the knowledge of God,

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bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:4-5). It has been said, “Sow a thought; reap an act. Sow an act; reap a character. Sow a character; reap a destiny.” It starts with a thought, but it can lead to a destiny. The Devil knows that if he can get us to think about something, to consider something, then he almost has us. Eve’s mind certainly wasn’t filled with the things of God when the Devil approached her. Had it been, she could have effectively resisted his temptations. When we have the Word of God hidden in our hearts, it will give us an important resource that we can call upon to effectively resist temptation.

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efore I begin, let me just say that I believe God has amazing plans for you. I believe that one of His desires is to see you become everything He has destined for you to be.

next level in their lives. From education to business to health, many want to do better for themselves. Personally, I don’t see a problem with wanting to improve the quality of your life. I love to see people succeed. I feel that the prob Ok, now let me also add this statement: I am a lem does not lie with the desire of going to the big believer in personal growth. next level, but with I became an investor “I see people all the time who desire to what the next level in my own growth sev- go to the next level in their lives. From requires. As you go higher in your field, eral years ago when I education to business to health, many ministry, or career, was promoted to the want to do better for themselves” demand increases. Executive Pastor in Luke 12:48 states, my church. Previously, I had already achieved some personal goals “…to whom much is given, from him much will in my twenties such as obtaining my Bache- be required.” lor’s Degree and being in the ministry full-time. Let me share a few things I have learned in my However, promotion definitely exposes your preown personal experience about the paredness or lack thereof. When I was promotNEXT LEVEL: ed, I quickly realized I was in a different arena of demands over my life. The expectations had 1. Every new level has a PRICE. Lebron James changed and I would need to keep up if I wanted is the best basketball player on the planet right to maximize the opportunity the Lord had en- now. Yet, he is also the most scrutinized player. trusted me with. So, I began to put together He is criticized when he has a bad night and is growth goals that would further develop the gift responsible if they lose. Greatness has a price inside of me. I have learned that no one grows tag. As God takes you higher and gives you by accident. We grow because we are intention- more, understand that there will be new chalal about becoming better. God may determine lenges and you will need to make sacrifices to our capacity, but it is our duty to develop the continually reach your potential. potential He has deposited within our lives. 2. Every new level has a PAIN. Every promoI see people all the time who desire to go to the tion has its pain. Paul, who wrote half of the

Are you ready for the NEXT LEVEL?

New Testament, stated in 1 Corinthians 16:9, “For a great and effective door has opened to me, and there are many adversaries.” New levels bring new devils. Noah was promoted by being selected to build the ark, but then he had to deal with the pain of riding out the storm. Joseph was promoted in his spirit and in his dreams, and immediately became rejected by his brothers. David received a promotion by the prophet Samuel as the next king, and then had to run from Saul to avoid his spears. A famous preacher once said, “God will promote you to your level of tolerance for pain.” The pain and tension could simply be the evidence that you have arrived at a new level. 3. Every new level has a PRIZE. Always remember that the greater the investment, the greater the return. You may have to sacrifice time for your education but in the end, it will be worth it. Maybe you are being asked to go from employee to manager. The task may seem daunting, but remember that God is with you. It could be that God has asked more of you in this season, but remember that the seeds you sow today will be the harvest you reap tomorrow. Keep your eye on the prize. God wants to take you to the next level. The question is: Are you ready for the NEXT LEVEL?

Abram Gomez

is the Executive Pastor at Valley International Christian Center in San Benito, Texas. He serves under the Leadership of Bishop Jaime Loya, and is a graduate of Southwestern Assemblies of God University. Abram has helped to develop leadership in various ministries and programs at VICC. He and his wife, Rebecca, currently reside in Harlingen, TX and are parents to Isabella Claire.

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Millennials: Big Career Goals, Limited Job Prospects

June 10, 2014— As graduation season wraps up, newly minted college and high school grads are entering the job market, diplomas in hand, to make their way in the world. Barna Group’s FRAMES research reveals Millennials’ perspectives on the challenges they face as they join America’s workforce. 20 and Something, written by David H. Kim, execu-

tive director of the Center for Faith and Work in New York City, unpacks Barna’s vast data on Millennials and work, calling, marriage, family, faith and more. Kim offers insight for institutions like churches and businesses on how to understand and relate to twentysomethings as they emerge into adulthood. The traditional commencement speech platitudes that welcome students into the opportunities of adulthood—”the whole world is before you”; you just have to “follow your dreams” to “make a difference”—often ring hollow in this depressed economy. Hundreds of thousands of graduating Millennials are discovering the

as many as Gen-Xers (15%) and four times as many as Boomers (8%). Considering most Millennials remain optimistic about someday achieving that “dream job”—52% believe it’s within reach in the next five years—they seem to believe the degree will pay off at some point. Job Prospecting The current economic climate poses great challenges for job-hunting twentysomethings. The unemployment rate of 18- to 31-year-olds in 2012 was 13%.¹ Even those young adults who are college educated are struggling to find employment; the rate of unemployment of twentysomethings who hold a BA degree or higher jumped from 7.7% in 2007 to 13.3% in just five years. Given these statistics, it would be easy in this depressed job market for Millennials to become extremely nervous about their financial situations and cynical about work.

world is not their oyster, and jobs are much harder to find than anyone had expected. As such, it’s easy to question the value of higher education. Only four in 10 twentysomethings would say they need their college degree for their current job (42%) or that it’s related to the work they’re doing (40%), and the same number wish they’d chosen a different major altogether. In the end, just under half of Millennials (47%) would strongly agree their degree was worth the cost and time. The degree-to-job disparity seems to bother parents most of all. While only about onethird of Millennials believe universities “have my best interests at heart,” that’s nearly twice

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Yet in spite of the bleak economic landscape, Millennials remain optimistic about their future prospects. In addition to the majority who believe they’ll get their dream job, nine in 10 Millennials (88%) believe they currently have enough money or will eventually meet their long-term financial goals.² Even among the unemployed and financially strapped, 75% believe they will someday have enough money. They are more optimistic about their economic future than older generations. While 55% of Americans over fifty-five believe young people will have a worse life than their parents, fewer than half of Millennials agree. One of the reasons Millennials are so resilient

in the face of a tough job environment is that many of them refuse to be defined and confined by their job choices or lack thereof. In fact, only 31% would say career is central to their identity—listing it lower than any other factor except technology.

Millennials see their twenties as a time to explore their career options so they can find a job that will provide that sense of meaning and fulfillment. This may be a little confounding to their parents. Two-thirds of Boomers say “starting your career” is crucial in your twenties, while only half of Millennials agree. When it comes to work and career, more than anything this generation wants to be inspired. Finding a job they are passionate about is the career priority Millennials ranked highest (42%). They don’t want a job merely for the sake of a paycheck, and they are willing to wait to find the right job. Some may interpret this willingness to wait as a sign of courage, while others may view it as colossal irresponsibility. Having grown up in an era where parents and teachers were constantly telling them they could “be whatever you want to be,” many Millennials see this decision as their prerogative, even if it means having to live off unemployment benefits or parental assistance. Because job satisfaction and fulfillment are so important to this generation, Millennials refuse to compromise on what they want out of work, which is a lot: They cite working for themselves, a job adaptable to their strengths, having a lot of variety, and the freedom to take risks as essential career priorities, in addition to being able to fund their personal interests. Working in a positive work environment where their input is valued is extremely important to them, suggesting Millennials prefer to work in organizations where the structure is “flatter” and less hierarchical.³Millennials want regular feedback and expect to be praised when they do a good job. They also want to work in a stimulating atmosphere, where they can release their creative passions. For many who are older, these characteristics and expectations make the Millennials a challenge to work with.

In terms of social impact, twentysomethings have demonstrated a strong desire to work at a job that has a positive impact on causes and issues that are important to them. They feel corporate employers should be socially conscious and have a “triple bottom line”— conscious of their profits, their impact on the environment and their treatment of workers. This elevation of job fulfillment over security has led to an increase in job-hopping among young adults. Statistics show Millennials just assume they will have multiple career changes. Gone are the days when an entry-level employee could expect to remain with one employer throughout his or her career. While the average worker today remains at his or her job for 4.4 years, Millennials generally expect to remain at a job for less than three.

About the Research This research is part of Barna Group’s FRAMES project. The project included four separate nationwide studies conducted between May and August 2013. These public opinion studies were conducted using a mix of telephone (including cell phones) and online interviewing among 4,495 adults. The maximum sampling error for any of the four studies is plus or minus 3.1 percentage points at the 95% confidence level. Additional details about the research effort are available here: www.barna.org/frames/methodology.   Generations: Millennials are the generation born between 1984 through 2002; Busters (or Gen-Xers), between 1965 and 1983; Boomers, between 1946 and 1964; and Elders, in 1945 or earlier. About Barna Group Barna Group (which includes its research division, Barna Research Group) is a private, non-partisan, for-profit organization under the umbrella of the Issachar Companies. Located in Ventura, California, Barna Group has been conducting and analyzing primary research to understand cultural trends related to values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors since 1984.  If you would like to receive free e-mail notification of the release of each update on the latest research findings from Barna Group, you may subscribe to this free service at the Barna website (www.barna.org). Additional research-based resources are also available through this website.

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Let It Go, Let It Go… By Milton Gonzalez

s the school year was coming to an end excitement filled our campus as children quickly signed up to be a part of this year’s “Talent Show”. Submissions poured in as the “talent show board” reviewed the numbers and approved the songs. The most popular song without a doubt was “Let it go” from the movie “Frozen”. It almost seemed as though everywhere I went I could hear the song playing in the background. The tune is so catchy that I oftentimes found myself humming the chorus uninterruptedly…Let it Go, Let it Go.

on the things above and not on the things of earth” (Col 3:2). In doing this you will reach your “promise land”. God wants to do a new thing in your life.

Joseph was sold into slavery by his own brothers yet didn’t hold on to a grudge. David was born in a place of rejection and was frowned upon by his own father. Ruth was a widow following a widowed mother-in-law into unknown territory with nothing to call their own. Esther was an orphan being raised by an uncle during uncertain times. And because of their faithfulness and their ability The Lord says “Forget what happened before, to look ahead and not look back through the and do not think about, consider or dwell on rear view mirror of life God blessed them. the past. Look at the new thing I am going to Joseph became one of the greatest leaders in do”. (Is 43:18,19) the Old Testament. David was given kingship over Israel and was called by God “a man This is one of my favorite verses. In a nutshell after His own heart”. Ruth married a wealthy God is saying “Let it Go”, let go of the past man by the name of Boaz and she bore a child and fix your eyes on the things that I am named Obed. They became part of the lineage doing. The verse goes on to say; “I will make of Jesus Christ. And Esther became a queen a road in the wilderness; and rivers in the and helped free the Jewish nation. None of dry desert”. Letting go and letting God take this would have over is perhaps one happened had they of the most difficult of all things in life. “The Lord says “Forget what happened focused on their It puts our faith and before, and do not think about, consider past. or dwell on the past. Look at the new trust in the Lord to What’s keeping thing I am going to do”. (Is 43:18,19) the test. It shows our you from moving true colors. Letting forward? go brings blessing by I once read a story about a man who had tied allowing God to operate in our lives. a puppy to a tree. The chain measured 6 feet You see, gazing into the past obsessing over in length and was bound to its neck. Fastened the things of yesterday will send you into a to the tree it sat there everyday. At 3 o’clock, catatonic state that numbs your perception without skipping a beat, the neighbor’s cat of today and keeps you from seeing God’s would cross right in front of it tantalizing the greatness. You become like a pillar of salt, as poor pup. The dog would bolt towards the cat Lot’s wife did (Gen. 19:26), suspended in time; and 6 feet later it would come to a complete, lifeless and bound up by life’s afflictions and abrupt and painful stop! The cat was 6 inches sorrows. too far out of reach. The dog did this everyday for 5 years. Holding on to the vicissitudes and tragedies of yesterday cause you to negate the promises One day the owner decided it was time to free that God has placed before you. And just as the dog from its imprisonment. He untied the Israelites wandered in the wilderness for the dog liberating it from the chain that had 40 years towards a destination they should controlled it for most of its life. So as you have reached in a couple of weeks you too are would expect at 3 o’clock the following day going in circles wasting your time. God has as the dog sat in the shade of the tree the called you to “set your mind and thoughts

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cat appeared. The dog’s ears perked up, it got into sprinting position and raced towards the cat…6 feet later it came to a complete, abrupt and painful stop! What happened??? The dog had been physically liberated from its captivity however it was still mentally bound to the shackles and the chain of its past. Oftentimes, we as believers, know that we have been freed through Christ and that in Him we are made brand new. God says “Now I will break his yoke from you and tear away your shackles” (Nahum 1:13). However it’s almost like we are mentally programmed and as we submit to those mental playbacks we fail to test and approve God’s good, perfect and pleasing will for our lives. We realize that Ask yourself these questions: What’s holding me back? What’s keeping me bound up in shackles? What keeping me from reaching God’s perfect will for my life? Perhaps it’s sin, fear, words that were spoken over you, failure or addictions. Whatever the situation may be bring them before the Lord and He will bring restoration to your heart and mind. Realize that no matter what your past was like God can still use you. God still desires to bless you. God still loves you… Max Lucado penned the following statement “ God accepts you right where you are at but He doesn’t want to see you stay there the rest of your life” God wants to see you well, prospering and living out the plan he has set before you. It’s time that you realize that. Stop nursing your wounds from the past - Get up and move forward! Shalom, Milton

Milton Gonzalez Milton is the Principal of Covenant Christian Academy in McAllen and has a son David. He is married to Elena and they have a son Daniel.

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Our Heart’s Desire by James MacDonald

Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, the flocks be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, 18yet I will rejoice in the LORD; I will take joy in the God of my salvation. — Habakkuk 3:17-18 17

How often have you clung to this tart complaint, hoping to draw from it enough strength to protect your heart from further danger and damage?

“You tell me to be thankful, Nancy. But you’ve never been in my shoes. If you had any idea what I’ve been through, you wouldn’t be so quick to say that.”

“Why is life so hard?”

True, Christ-centered, grace-motivated gratitude fits everywhere, even in life’s most desperate moments and difficult situations. Even when there are “no answers,” it gives hope. It transforms overwhelmed strugglers into triumphant conquerors.

Why Me?

“Why can’t other people just be normal?” “Why did this have to happen to me?” “Why won’t anybody love me for who I am?” “Why isn’t God answering my prayers?” “Why do I have to live alone like this?” “Why doesn’t the Bible work for me like it does them?” “Why does this problem never seem to end?” “Why am I just supposed to accept this?” “Why me?”

The concept of gratitude is not entirely missing from our world. Just walk through a Hallmark store in the mall. You’ll see lots of products on the shelves, decorated with daisies and pastel colors, encouraging us to think thankful thoughts. Their messages are inspiring, and I can appreciate the lightness and refreshment they offer in the midst of life’s many challenges. But somehow, most of these expressions of gratitude seem more at home at a tea party than in the tumble and turmoil of a life that you and I know all too well.

“Gratitude is a lifestyle. A hard-fought, grace-infused, biblical lifestyle.”

Feeling betrayed. Feeling left out. Feeling inferior… mistreated… underappreciated. Like a whirlpool spinning around in never-ending circles, tugging and draining and pulling us down with every sweep of self-pity, we sink lower and lower into ourselves, into our problems. Away from God. Ungrateful. “People tell me to keep my head up. They tell me this ill only last for a season. But this ‘season’ of life has gone on for so long. And I still don’t see any end in sight.”

Journal Have I experienced the difference between Christian gratitude and just good manners? How does gratitude help me experience God’s best in all situations? Where is gratitude ranked on my list of “necessary Christian values?”

Pray Lord God, there is such a difference between real Christian gratitude and “greeting-card-store” gratitude. Help me to truly experience the blessings from being grateful in all circumstances. Forgive me for not being thankful so frequently. I couldn’t even begin to list all the ways You have blessed me! Thank You Lord! Amen.

You see, gratitude is a lot more than jonquils and journaling pages. Gratitude is a lifestyle. A hard-fought, graceinfused, biblical lifestyle. And though there’s a sense in which anyone can be thankful—for God has extended His common grace to all— the true glory and the transforming power of gratitude are reserved for those who know and acknowledge the Giver of every good gift and who are recipients of His redeeming grace.

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Better Than Jesus?

by Jerrell Jobe

Jesus is there, speaking to you, directing you, guiding you, giving you insight and wisdom as to how to skillfully live your life. Imagine. How awesome would that be? What could be better than that? To be able to live the Christian life - with Christ by your side! The Gospel of John, actually says that there’s something better. Something better than Jesus? What could possibly be better than having Jesus walk around with us everywhere we go?

magine tomorrow morning when you wake up, standing next to your bed, is Jesus. You get up. You get ready. He’s still there. You make your way to the kitchen. You pour a cup of coffee. He’s there. You leave the house, get in your car and begin your commute to work. He’s sitting right next to you.

These words actually came from Jesus Himself. In John’s Gospel, Jesus is about to go to the cross and be crucified. He gathers His disciples together in a special room. During the meal, Jesus began to share His heart with these close friends. He tells them of the events that will soon transpire. The betrayal, denial, suffering, death and ultimately His resurrection and return. In short, Jesus says, “I’m leaving.”

The disciples experience a panorama of emotions. Dismissal, shock, anger, but mostly fear It’s the normal morning rush. Everyone seems and confusion. Jesus, to be running behind, es“I will ask the Father, and he will sensing their uncertainpecially the guy who just ty, simply says, “Do not cut in front of you. As you give you another advocate to help let your hearts be trouare on the verge of letting you and be with you forever— the bled” (Jn. 14:1). Jesus out an audible grunt to Spirit of truth. The world cannot ac- assures them that He’s express your displeasure cept him, because it neither sees going to the Father in in his driving tactics, it heaven, where He will dawns on you; Jesus is sit- him nor knows him. But you know “prepare a place for him, for he lives with you ting next to you. Normalthem,” and in God’s perly, such grunts or added and will be in you. fect timing return. hand gestures would be (John 14:16-17) the common course of acWhile these words were tion, but today it’s different. Jesus is with you. meant to ease the disciple’s distress, all they As you glance over at Jesus, he simply smiles. could think was, “You’re leaving! What are we As your eyes meet, you are instantly infused going to do without you?” with a sense of patience toward the other driver. Rather than rant, you whisper a prayer, It is at this point that Jesus began to give them “God help him get to his destination safely. Re- a bigger picture of reality. Jesus says, veal Your love to him today.” “I will ask the Father, and he will give you As you enter into work, Jesus is still with you. another advocate to help you and be with you No one can see or hear Him, but everything He forever— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot does - you see. Everything He says, you hear. accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with You stand up in front of your colleagues to give you and will be in you. (John 14:16-17) that presentation. At the moment when fear would normally cause you to break out in a cold Jesus continues, sweat, you look at Jesus, and suddenly you are filled with confidence, courage and strength. But very truly I tell you, it is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Moreover, when you’re faced with a difficult Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I decision and you don’t know which way to go, will send him to you (John 16:7).

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Jesus essentially communicates, “I’m leaving. But don’t worry, God is going to send another one, just like me. Only, he won’t be walking “with” you, he will “live with you and be in you.” Jesus says, this “is for your good that I’m going away.” This phrase, “for your good” is sometimes translated, “it’s to your advantage.” The word itself can mean, “better.” Jesus says, “It’s good. It’s to your advantage. There’s something better than having Me with you physically…..” What could be better than Jesus walking with us? Actually, having the Holy Spirit live inside of us guiding, teaching, directing, helping and empowering us to live in the here and now. The Apostle Paul said something quite striking in the Book of Romans. He declared to a group of Christ-followers, “the same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you (Romans 8:11). Can you fathom that? Imagine. Jesus is crucified. His lifeless body is laid in a grave. Three days later, the Spirit of God breaths life into his nostrils. His heart begins to beat. Miraculously, he’s alive! And, now the Apostle Paul says that the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead is living in you. Now, tomorrow morning when you wake up, Jesus may not be standing by your bed. But, rest assured, the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead will be there. If you’re a Christ-follower, the Holy Spirit is inside of you. He is with you everywhere that you go and in everything that you do. He is there, ready to lead, guide, direct and empower you. He’s present to give you insight and wisdom for skillful living. May you grow in awareness of His present-nearness, learn to lean on Him with all your might and experience the Spirit-filled life. This Week, spend some time prayerfully reflecting on Romans 8:9-11. Write Romans 8:11 on an index card and memorize it. Perhaps, put the card in your car and meditate on the verse while you’re driving. In the morning and throughout the day, remind yourself that God the Holy Spirit is “with you” and “in you.” Ask Him to increase your awareness of His present-nearness. JERRELL JOBE

Jerrell is a teaching pastor at Palm Valley Church in Mission. He is married to Charissa and has three children : Micah (11), Naylah (8),and Avi (7).

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Danny Anderson

Executive Director of Pregnancy Resource Centers

of unwed mothers who did not have a place to live. From there PTC grew to provide services to Weslaco, Mission and then Brownsville. PTC recognized the need for emphasizing education and information on abortion and adoption after abortion was legalized in 1973 and the numbers of abortions began to rise. Since 1989 PTC has seen close to 2,500 babies rescued from being aborted due to the compassionate care, support and educational facts provided to the client. PTC is a faith based organization and along with these services each client is offered prayer and the opportunity to accept Christ into their hearts. Since 1989 5,575 clients have made the decision to accept Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior thru the ministry of PTC. How do you give these services for free? We are a faith base organization that depend on the generosity of churches, business and individuals. Do you receive any government funding? No. How does PRC prevent crisis pregnancies?

Valley Christian Magazine met up with Pregnancy Resource Center’s Director, Danny Anderson, to find out more about this important ministry. What is PRC’s purpose? We are a not-for-profit organization committed to helping ladies and families in unplanned pregnancy situations. Our Free, confidential services include: 1) FREE pregnancy testing and medicaid verification form completion; 2) information concerning positive options available for mother and her unborn child; 3) family mediation; 4) prenatal care resources, training and information; 5) post-delivery eduction, information and training; 6) post-abortion grief recovery classes & retreats. What is the history of PRC and where did it start? Pregnancy Testing Centers was founded by Frank and Tere Painter in 1989. The organization began in Harlingen by meeting the need

The effects of an abortion also impact the ability to conceive after an abortion procedure. This causes stress on a woman later on in life when she is at a place where she is wanting to have to have a child and can not. We encourage people who have had an abortion to stop by one of our four centers to speak to our center director. Community involvement? As we transition from PTC to PRC our goal is to expand our community involvement. We have become involved with Health and Human Services, Child Protective Services, March of Dimes and many other state, county and local organizations in providing training, literature, insight and cooperation with in order to be a front line provider of all necessary resources for those who find themselves in an unplanned pregnancy crisis. We can be found at health fairs, community festivals, church festivals providing resources and attempting to make ourselves known and available to the public. Our future plan is to take our services to those people who can’t travel to one of our four centers through a free fully functional mobile clinic.

We do not give out contraceptives. We teach Where are you centers located? abstinence before marriage. We are available Our centers are strategically placed across the to teach in schools and church youth groups. Valley for easy access. Our abstinence training includes the reality of Brownsville, Harlingen, Weslaco, Mission. spreading STD’s especially with our proximity to the Mexico border. “Speak out for the one who cannot How would a client get in PRC works with the speak, for the rights of those who touch with PRC? Amor De Madre Proare doomed.” The easiest way is through gram offered through our 24 hour help line. 800-Prov. 31:8 Migrant Health Pro303-4355 motions in the Cameron County Area. This organization offers Free How can the rest of the community get inDoulas services to mothers who are of special volved with PRC? need. A doulas is a birthing assistant that pro- We are always looking for volunteers, prayer vides 5 sessions of prenatal educational class- warriors, and through hosting baby shower for es, hands on support including 24 hours a day Jesus, baby bottle campaigns, special offerings. availability to clients, going with the clients to Volunteers can assist in areas they are comall their doctors appointments including being fortable with from answering phone to acting present for the labor and birth. This program as a peer counselor to clients. They also helps will also help with breastfeeding encourage- with community events and planning and orment and support up to 2 months after birth. ganizing our yearly fundraising banquets. The Post-abortion impact?

We offer Freedom Weekend which is a 3 and a half day retreat that is facilitated by people who have been through the program. Contrary to popular teaching, there is a great deal of guilt and shame associated with those who have had abortions. Statistics show that approximately 85% of women reported negative reactions to their abortions including sorrows, sadness, quilt, regret, grief and disappointment. This impacts reaches beyond this one individual as family members begin to realize one of their own family members was a victim of abortion.

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baby bottle campaign is a fun way for churches and organizations to get involved that is also suitable to children and families to get involved and be informed. The campaign consists of providing empty baby bottles to the participants to fill with cash, coins and checks for a week or two. These bottles will be returned filled and all monies will be donated to PRC. What are some of the ways someone would volunteer with PRC? Volunteers can assist with mailings, literature distribution, answering phones, client interactions, and assisting with community events.

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1-800-303-4355 PTC and PRC what’s the difference? PTC was the original name for 25 years. Our desire to expand our service offering necessitated a name change with a new logo. By changing our name from Pregnancy Testings Centers to Pregnancy Resource Centers we offer the community a better understanding of what our services entail. PRC offers more than simple pregnancy test or a pregnancy verification form. Thru the various programs we provide and organizations we are involved with, we meet the whole needs of a women facing a pregnancy from the choice she will make, the choices she has made in the past and the care and support of a welcomed pregnancy. services to mothers who are of special need. A doulas is a birthing assistant that provides 5 sessions of prenatal educational classes, hands on support including 24 hours a day availability to clients, going with the clients to all their doctors appointments including being present for the labor and birth. This program will also help with breastfeeding encouragement and support up to 2 months after birth. Does PRC offer Post-abortion support? We offer Freedom Weekend which is a 3 and a half day retreat that is facilitated by people who have been through the program. Contrary to popular teaching, there is a great deal of guilt and shame associated with those who have had abortions. Statistics show that approximately 85% of women reported negative reactions to their abortions including sorrows, sadness, guilt, regret, grief and disappointment. This impacts reaches beyond this one individual as family members begin to realize one of their own family members was a victim of abortion. The effects of an abortion also impact the ability to conceive after an abortion procedure. This causes stress on a woman later on in life when she is at a place where she is wanting to have a child and can not. We encourage people who have had an abortion to stop by one of our four centers to speak to our center director. Community involvement? As we transition from PTC to PRC our goal is to expand our community involvement. We have become involved with Health and Human Services, Child Protective Services, March of Dimes and many other state, county and local organizations in providing training, literature, insight and cooperation with in order to be a front line provider of all necessary resources for those who find themselves in an unplanned pregnancy. We can be found at health fairs, community festivals, church festivals providing resources and attempting to make ourselves known and available to the public. Our future plan is to take our services to those people who can’t travel to one of our four centers through a free fully functional mobile clinic. How can the rest of the community get involved with PRC? We are always looking for volunteers, prayer warriors, and through hosting baby shower for Jesus, baby bottle campaigns, special offerings. Volunteers can assist in areas they are comfortable with from answering phone to acting as a peer counselor to clients. They also helps with community events and planning and organizing our yearly fundraising banquets. The baby bottle campaign is a fun way for churches and organizations to get involved that is also suitable to children and families to get involved and be informed. The campaign consists of providing empty baby bottles to the participants to fill with cash, coins and checks for a week or two. These bottles will be returned filled and all monies will be donated to PRC. Please stop by one of our four centers or call our 24 hour help line. 1-800-303-4355.

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“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:34 (NIV)

When Worry is Part of Your Personality By Tracie Miles

is comment wasn’t meant to be critical, but it immediately pierced my heart.

I was explaining to my husband how worried I’d been about several situations and reciting the reasons why my worry was justified. He gently reminded me that worrying wouldn’t help anything, and I quickly replied, “But I can’t help it!” Then he said with a smile, “I know you can’t. Worrying is just part of your personality.” Deep down I knew I worried too much, especially when it came to my children’s safety, their happiness and situations I couldn’t control. But I didn’t want to be labeled a “worrier,” and I certainly didn’t want to admit worrying was “part of my personality.” Yet, if I were honest with myself, I knew it was true. Although I trust God and know He is in control, the human side of me often tends to worry. I’m thankful God isn’t surprised by my worry, and wants to help me overcome it. Jesus even addressed this very issue when He taught His followers in what we now call the Sermon on the Mount. In this teaching, Jesus shared detailed instructions for how Christians should live their daily lives and how faith should shape behavior — including how to deal with worry. In Matthew 6:25-34, Jesus specifically told His

followers not to worry about food or clothes because God would provide for their needs, just as He does for the birds of the air. This promise of provision and protection applies to all areas of our lives, including help with our problems and easing our inner-most anxieties. Jesus knew the people of that time struggled with worry, just as we do. At times it is hard to trust God with the concerns that weigh heaviest on our hearts. Instead of trusting Him to handle what we cannot, we waste the opportunities of today worrying about the possibilities of tomorrow. God wants us to leave our problems in His hands, rather than let them become a stumbling block in our faith. Sometimes it takes a gentle reminder, such as my husband’s innocent words, to remind me of this promise. I needed to stop holding onto my worries and quit continually reminding Jesus to be as concerned as I was. Instead, I should daily turn those worries into prayers. I have since committed to worrying less and trusting Jesus more and have experienced the freedom that comes with truly entrusting my needs to Him. Although we all have things in our lives that lead to worry and reasons to be concerned, what peace we can enjoy if we consciously choose to lay down each day’s worries at God’s feet and leave tomorrow’s worries up to Him, too.

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Lord, forgive me for not trusting You with my problems and for letting my worry become a wedge in my faith. Give me the strength to put them in Your hands and avoid trying to take them back. Help me learn to trust You more and believe You are always in control of my life and the things that worry me most. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. TRUTH FOR TODAY: 1 Peter 5:7, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.” (NLT) Luke 12:29-32, “What I’m trying to do here is get you to relax, not be so preoccupied with getting so you can respond to God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep yourself in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met. Don’t be afraid of missing out. You’re my dearest friends! The Father wants to give you the very kingdom itself.” (MSG) REFLECT AND RESPOND: What worries are most heavily weighing on your heart today that you need to turn over to God? Have you been trying to handle everything on your own, without God’s help? Read Matthew 6:25-34 and ask God to speak to your heart through these verses.

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El Perdon de Dios

Luis Palau

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la Segunda Guerra Mundial Hans Rookmaaker fue un integrante activo de la resistencia holandesa. Pero fue capturado por los alemanes y enviado a un campo de concentración nazi, donde comenzó a leer la Biblia. Al estudiar la Palabra de Dios, descubrió que el íntimo deseo de Dios es perdonar nuestros pecados. De modo que entregó su vida a Cristo y se maravilló por el gozo y la libertad que había hallado. Cuando Rookmaaker fue liberado de prisión al final de la guerra, inmediatamente se unió a una iglesia. Pero en lugar de tener comunión con personas libres, se sorprendió de encontrar tantos cristianos que aún vivían en la esclavitud del pecado y no experimentaban el perdón de Dios. Por otra parte, un personaje en una obra de Voltaire murió murmurando: “Dios perdonará--ése es su trabajo.” Aunque el perdón no puede darse por sentado de esa manera, Dios nunca quiso que vivamos en esclavitud. La Biblia enseña que la confesión es el prerrequisito para el perdón de Dios--ya sea para la salvación inicial como para la comunión diaria. Esta confesión implica arrepentimiento y, cuando sea necesario, restitución. La confesión sin arrepentimiento es un fraude. En Proverbios leemos: “El que encubre sus pecados no prosperará; mas el que los confiesa y se aparta, alcanzará misericordia” (28:13). A veces la confesión también implica restitución (Exodo 22:1-15). Por lo general, éste es un aspecto olvidado de la confesión. Si nuestro pecado privó a alguien de algo que le pertenecía o correspondía (algo material, dinero o trabajo), no sólo debemos disculparnos con la persona ofendida sino que también debemos pagar tan pronto como sea posible. La maravilla de la Escritura es la buena nueva de que Dios perdona de balde a quien con corazón sincero confiesa su pecado. Manasés fue uno de los reyes más malvados de Judá. El echó por tierra las reformas de Ezequías y sirvió a dioses falsos con más celo de lo que lo habían hecho las naciones paganas que Dios había destruido ante los israelitas (2 Crónicas 33:1-9). Sin embargo, al ser capturado por los asirios, Manasés se humilló ante el Señor--y Dios lo perdonó. Si Dios pudo perdonar a un rey pagano y malvado cuando éste se humilló, con seguridad que también nos perdonará si confesamos nuestros pecados y nos arrepentimos. La confesión es humillante, pero “si confesamos a Dios nuestros pecados, podemos seguros de que ha de perdonarnos y limpiarnos de toda maldad” (1 Juan 1:9 BD). Aprenda de memoria este pasaje y a menudo pida a Dios que lo haga realidad en su vida. Hay otro precioso versículo para agregar a su lista de memorización: “Y nunca más me acordaré de sus pecados y transgresiones” (Hebreos 10:17). Cuán notable que el Dios omnisciente promete no sólo perdonar nuestros pecados sino también olvidarlos para siempre. En su obra EL PARAISO PERDIDO, Juan Milton pregunta: “¿Qué otra cosa podemos hacer sino postrarnos ante El reverentes; y allí confesar con humildad nuestras faltas e implorar perdón; con lágrimas que rieguen el piso y con suspiros de corazones contritos, como señal de pena no fingida y mansa humillación?”

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Why Did John The Baptist Call Jesus The Lamb Of God? By Carey Kinsolving & Friends

“John the Baptist called Jesus the Lamb of God because Jesus is too holy and wonderful for him to even untie his shoes,” says Mitchell, 8. Before John the Baptist proclaimed Jesus as the Lamb of God, he talked about his sandals. By saying he was not worthy to untie Jesus’ sandals, John put himself in the position of the lowest slave. Anything to do with feet was usually reserved for the lowest slave in a household. That’s why Jesus shocked his disciples when he cleaned their feet before they ate the Passover meal on the night before his crucifixion.

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The majority of Old Testament passages that mention “lamb” refer to a sacrifice (85 out of 96). As a nation, Israel began its history by putting lamb’s blood on the doorposts and lintels of each house. The death angel took the lives of all Egypt’s firstborn, but passed over the houses that had lamb’s blood on the door. To this day, Jews all over the world celebrate Passover.

The entire Old Testament can be summed up with one question, “Where is the lamb?” A Jesus wasn’t joking when he said the way up pivotal point in Jewish in his kingdom is the “Jesus wasn’t joking when history came when father way down. After his Abraham took Isaac up he said the way up in his the mountain to offer a disciples debated among themselves about who kingdom is the way down. sacrifice. Abraham knew would be the greatest God had promised to in God’s kingdom, Jesus After his disciples debated make him the father of said, “If anyone desires among themselves about many nations, yet God to be first, he shall be had commanded him to last of all and servant of who would be the greatest” sacrifice his only son by all” (Mark 9:35). Sarah. When Isaac asked about the lamb, Abraham assured him that God’s ways are usually contrary to the way God would provide the lamb (Genesis 22:6-8). we’re trained to think. Leaders usually come from prominent families and go to the best The priests in the temple at Jerusalem schools. Who would think that the Messiah sacrificed a lamb in the morning and evening would be born into a poor family supported by every day (Exodus 29:38). For hundreds of a father who did manual labor in a backwater years, Jews brought lambs to the temple as place like Nazareth? The whole scenario is so sacrifices for their sins. They kept coming back year after year because no lamb could take contrary to the way we think about power. away all their sin. “In Bible times when a person sinned, they would take a lamb to the temple to sacrifice,” says Sandra, 9. “To be called a Lamb of God means that God gave Jesus to be killed like a lamb for our sins so we could live forever.”

For Christians, the Passover points to a greater reality. In the person of the Lord Jesus Christ, God brought the perfect sacrifice that John proclaimed: “Behold! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!” (John 1:29).

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The prophet Isaiah foresaw the Messiah’s sacrifice when he wrote: “He was oppressed and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth; He was led as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before its shearers is silent, so he opened not his mouth” (Isaiah 53:7). Think about this: All the sacrificial lambs offered in the Old Testament point to Jesus Christ. Memorize this truth: John 1:29 quoted above. Ask this question: Have you beheld and believed in the Lamb of God as the one who took away your sin?

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ometimes the most accomplished artistry is birthed out of the most trying adversity, which coupled with the chemistry that comes from the bond of brotherhood, puts Word Records newcomers About A Mile well beyond their years. The trio of early twenty-somethings hail from the working class town of Butler, Pennsylvania (just outside of Pittsburgh), and can remember embracing their musical instincts as early as they did a devout Christian faith, first modeled by their extremely hard working father, a steel mill staffer who always managed to make ends meet for his family of eight thanks to a firm reliance on the Lord.

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“We always loved playing music together for as long as we can remember, from banging on pots and pans at 6 and 7, to hearing our dad write songs when we were kids, to writing songs and having jam sessions with our friends as we got older,” remembers front man Adam Klutinoty. “My dad always told us, ‘I don’t care what you do, just honor the Lord and don’t work in the steel mill.’ That was engrained in our minds at such a young age that we started About A Mile right out of high school, took the first tour that was available, literally slept in the dirt and on the concrete because we couldn’t afford hotel rooms and played to whoever would feed us.”

that story, just the incredibly hard time I went through, not being able to eat or sleep for days on end because anything I would eat was like poison to my stomach. I lost 60 pounds, which coming off playing football in high school and working a lot of heavy lifting jobs, really threw me off and I can think of six specific times when I actually thought I was going to die. God knew what he was doing though.” “We don’t sugarcoat anything,” says Adam. “Some of our songs might have some darkness in them, but we always make sure to bring out hope by the end of them and make sure people

Though that initial west coast journey introduced the guys to the rigors of the road, it also earned them an opening slot for Grammy Award nominees DecembeRadio, who besides befriending the upstarts, suggested they get connected with veteran Ian Eskelin (long time All Star United leader turned superstar producer/ songwriter). So with that suggestion, the brothers sent the multiple Dove Award winner a message and hoped they’d at least get a response, but wound up with so much more than they could’ve ever imagine. “We wanted to make the best music possible as long as it glorified the Lord, which is why we reached out to Ian given his high standards and commitment to faith,” shares Adam. “We simply said we made a little money from the tour and wanted to hire him to record a song. A couple of days later, he said ‘save your money. I’m coming to your next show.’ We’d never gotten any type of response like that and weren’t even looking for our big break, but sure enough, he flew from Nashville to Pittsburgh, said we were just the kind of band he was looking for- rough edges and all- and he set up a showcase for Word Records that eventually got us signed. I learned most of what I know from Ian.” “Right after we signed with Word, I got sick and went through a lot of pain and weakness,” Adam reveals. “A lot of the songs ended up being about

know about our Savior. Even so, it’s equally important that the music sounds just as good as anything else out there, which is why we sought to work with the best producers, mixers and mastering guys to make sure the songs could stand on their own.” In addition to shaping those scalding sounds with producer Ian Eskelin (Hawk Nelson, Sidewalk Prophets, Francesca Battistelli) and mixer Neal Avron (Weezer, Linkin Park, Switchfoot, Anberlin) there’s also production and mixing contributions from Howard Benson (Skillet, Flyleaf, Daughtry) Chris Lord-Alge (Muse, Creed, Daughtry) respectively. While there’s certainly ample possibility the

group can tear up both the Christian rock and general market charts, tangible success has never been the group’s goal, but rather, to impact listeners and simply find contentment in their faith, as the lead single “Satisfied” so aptly summarizes. “It actually came after I hadn’t eaten in seven days,” Adam explains of the track’s incarnation. “I was fasting from food and just drinking water during my illness, slowly realizing that as long as we have Jesus, we will always be satisfied. It also was inspired by moments growing up, like when my dad lost his job but never once wavered from his belief that God would provide for our family. Instead of saying ‘woe is me’ during those situations, he said to me ‘Son, I am not the provider for this family, God is the provider for this family and we are going to be satisfied in Christ.’” As the guys get ready to release the new record to the world at large, they’re hoping to impart that very message upon listeners on all sides of the faith line, enhanced all the more by the brothers’ unabashed authenticity, vulnerability and sincerity. With its unwavering commitment to faith no matter how severe the trial, it’s no surprise the group named itself About A Mile, boldly referencing the suffering then triumph of a crucified and risen Christ. “We learned from a study that Jesus carried His cross About A Mile, and that’s where our band name comes from,” sums up Adam. “When we felt called to play music for the rest of our life, there was never any doubt that we would do it for His glory and treat our ministry like He did when carrying the cross. He carried a cross that we deserved to be nailed to About A Mile so he could die for us. We just want to serve others as best as we can and use all our strength and ability to honor God, carrying our cross as far as we possibly can.”

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Bible doctrine Wayne Grudem

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s the Bible just another book among the great literature of the world?

I believe the Bible is the Word of God; it is God’s way of making Himself known to humanity. The Bible is a book written and compiled by humans who were mysteriously led by the Spirit of the Living God. “All Scripture is inspired by God . . .” (2 Timothy 3:16) “For no prophecy was ever made by an act of human will, but men moved by the Holy Spirit spoke from God.” (2 Peter 1:21) My faith is informed by my understanding of God’s Word, but my thoughts need to be tested by centuries of Christian teaching. Yes! The Holy Spirit teaches us, but we can use some help from pastors, scholars, teachers, and perhaps a good book that covers topics you may have questions to regarding the Christian Faith.

Bible Doctrine is a great book for knowing about the “Essential Teachings of the Christian Faith.” Wayne Grudem is a great scholar who has taken the time to write a book that is not for the scholar only. This book is written in everyday language for anyone. Grudem divides his book into seven sections; the doctrines of:

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Grudem does not just tell you what to believe on every teaching, he gives different points of view on certain topics. For example, on the teaching about the future, he presents the views of pre-millenialism, amillenialism, and post-millenialism (which will not be discussed now). The benefit of the book is that it is a resource to help you walk you through questions you may have about any of the topics listed above. Whether you are new to the faith, young, or old in the faith; this book is a great tool to sharpen your understanding about God and His Word. It is only a tool, because nothing can replace the God’s word.

Book Review by

Miguel Paredes Is a teacher at Edinburg North and earned his Masters in Theology from Dallas Theological Seminary. He is married to Brenda and has four children: Diego (12), Karla and Andrea (9), and Charis (5).

HOPE RISING

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HOW CHRISTIANS CAN END EXTREME POVERTY IN THIS GENERATION By Scott C. Todd, Ph.D. Thomas Nelson

xtreme poverty does not have to exist. When Christians accept that fact and start living accordingly, we will find the solution is already within our reach. Worldwide, 19,000 children die from preventable deaths every day. If that statistic leaves you feeling powerless, you are not alone—but you are wrong. If a false sense of powerlessness has lulled you into apathy, it’s time to shake off the grogginess of low expectations and get to work. We can make this world a place where kids do not die from easily preventable diseases. In Hope Rising, Scott Todd of Compassion International pens a galvanizing, comprehensive vision of the movement that will eradicate extreme global poverty through transformative Christian generosity—and do it within our lifetime. Todd provides riveting evidence to show that we are much closer to that goal than you might think. According to Todd, we live in an historic moment, and chances are you are already part of it. The gospel is already reshaping lives from thoughtless consumption to informed concern. Twenty-first-century Christians are generating multi-continent grassroots movements through communications and travel. Public and private sectors are working together. It’s a whole new era of philanthropy, compassion, and justice aimed at eradicating the pandemic of extreme global poverty. This is a future we have the God-given power to create. This is the history we hope to write. As Todd envisions, “The twenty-first-century Christians embraced the entirety of their gospel—the truths it proclaims and the muscles it demands—with a new integrity. They did not deteriorate into humanist liberalism, as some had feared. Nor did they pile works on top of Grace… They simply determined that their world did not need to have children dying of preventable causes such as dirty water.”

THE EXTRAVAGANT FOOL A FAITH JOURNEY THAT BEGINS WHERE COMMON SENSE ENDS By Kevin Adams Zondervan

he Extravagant Fool is an underdog narrative. Readers will have a front row seat to Kevin Adams’s breathtaking story---one that builds chronologically through a very difficult four-year period. At the height of financial success, Kevin Adams had it all. A thriving business with more work than he could get to, investments spread out between luxury homes, commercial real estate, and new business ventures. However, by January 2009, over the course of the last 100 days of 2008, Kevin watched in silent amazement as he lost it all. His house of cards came tumbling down. Kevin had a choice: Do what he had always done---work harder. Or, let go of conventional thinking and learn to live by absolute faith in God. With foreclosures, lawsuits, potential homelessness, and his family looking to him for immediate answers, Kevin took the radical position of stopping every effort to survive and resting instead at the feet of Jesus. The process of living literally by faith is a gamble and one that only The Extravagant Fool for God is willing to take. The Extravagant Fool is about encountering God with an uncommon intimacy. Intimacy increases our ability to discern His voice, which leads to the revelation of who we are, what we are to do for Him on earth, and finally, the provision to carry it out. Yet none of this really takes hold without first hearing the kind of living, breathing, testimony offered by The Extravagant Fool, a man who staked his welfare---and future---entirely on the goodness of God.

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It All Evens Out Dear Dave, We have three children, ages 15, 10 and nine. With our oldest starting high school and just being a teenager, we’re spending lots more money on her than the others. It’s almost like she’s the favorite child. Should we spend more on the other kids to make things seem a little more fair? Julie Dear Julie, I don’t think so. In five or six years, it’ll be their turn and you guys will be spending that kind of money on them, too. That’s the way it is with teens. Here’s a question for you. When the 15-year-old is 23, and you’re buying prom dresses and all the other teenage stuff for the younger kids, are you going to turn around and give the older child extra money just to “even things up”? Of course not—that would be silly. She had her moment in the sun, and now it’s their turn. Just make sure you hug on all of them equally, and let them know you love them! —Dave

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Is Less Than 20 Percent Okay? Dear Dave, I’m 24-years old, and just got married two months ago. We make $80,000 a year, and have our emergency fund in place with no debt. Plus, we’ve saved up for a 15 percent down payment on a house. I know you suggest 20 percent, but is 15 percent okay? Tony Dear Tony, I don’t have a big problem with 15 percent instead of 20 percent. Chances are you’ll end up having to pay private mortgage insurance, but it sounds like you guys are in good enough shape financially to handle things.

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I generally recommend, however, that couples wait until they’ve been married at least a year before buying a home. Buying a house is huge decision. That’s why I think it’s smart to wait and get to know each other even better, and on a day-to-day basis, before moving in this direction. Take your time and don’t rush things, Tony. There will still be good deals on the market in a year or so. Plus, you’ll be able to save more money! —Dave

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