Valley Christian Magazine September 2012

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Sanctus Real Kerrie Roberts & The Afters Image

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An Appetite‌.for God’s Word

Management: What do you hide behind? p.18

Power of Forgetting your Past p.14

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he trail book described the route as ‘easy.’

So when you think it’s going to be easy, what do you do? You go for it!

We’ve been blessed with the ability to go to Colorado to a family cabin. It’s out there. No phones. No Internet. Just Bears.

As my kids have gotten older we’ve ventured further and further away from our place. There’s been a trail to old silver mine we’ve heard about but have never taken the trek.

I got my hands on a book of trails and found the route and it was described as ‘Easy.’ It said it was only 3.1 miles round trip. What I failed to notice was the elevation went up to 9,600 feet in a short time!

So there we were, my wife and I along with our 3 girls, ages ranging from 7-12, packed up water bottles and some fruit and headed out about as excited as we can get! :H ZHUH Ă&#x20AC;UHG XS :H ZHUH OLNH ´<(6 Letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s go for it!â&#x20AC;?

Did I mention that the elevation quickly ramped up to 9,600 feet from 6,500?! We are talking over 3,000 feet in increased elevation!!

After hiking the 2 miles to get to the start of the trail, my youngest daughter was already tired and started to do what 7 year olds do when they are trying to keep upâ&#x20AC;Ślet us know that she is not a happy camper, err hiker.

I told my wife â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just stop and go backâ&#x20AC;Śitâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not worth it.â&#x20AC;? I wanted to quit.

I wanted to stop the crying. You know, all I really wanted was the image I had in my head of us walking up the mountain singing songs like as if we were the Von Trapps!

But when things got tough, I looked for WKH HDV\ Ă&#x20AC;[ , MXVW ZDQWHG WKLQJV WR JHW easier. Stop the crying. Fix the situation.

Little did I know that the mine was just around the corner! We couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t see it.

We didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t know.

How many times do we think that we are going to do something or go somewhere and have a mental image or expectations of what itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s going to be like?

Maybe you thought youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d start a business, get involved with a ministry, marry

the person of your dreams, have a child (how hard could that really be?), only to come to the realization that things are much tougher than youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d ever expect! (even if you were told it was â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;easyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;)

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e also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.

Romans 5:3-5 NIV

When I ask my girls what their favorite thing from the summer wasâ&#x20AC;Śyou guessed itâ&#x20AC;Śhiking up to the mine!

They said it was EASY!!

CHRISTIAN TORRES Is a graduate of Baylor University. He and his wife, Stephanie, live in McAllen with their 3 daughters: Madeleine (12), Natalie (9), and Courtney (7). They are members of Palm Valley Church of Mission.

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Faith Message Wensday: 7:00 Jose AbelardoCavazos Elizabeth Cavazos Josue Daniel Cavazos (24) Ruth Mary Cavazos (17)

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Where did you meet your wife?

We met when we were attending a youth group at Good Shepherd Church. It was in September 1982 and we were 16 years old. Even then, I knew she was going to be my companion for life. We worked together in youth ministry and at age 19 I asked her to marry me and she accepted. It was in 1986 when we join our lives ... And we will celebrate our 26th wedding anniversary this December.

Are you from the Valley?

Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m originally from Rio Bravo, Tamaulipas. I was born in May 1967 and immigrated to the United States in 1977, receiving our legal residence and subsequently our citizenship in 1998.

When did you feel the call to become a Pastor?

In 1987, my wife, my in-laws and I felt the call to start our own congregation. My father-in-law began a small church in the garage of his home, thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s where he began to pastor a small group of brothers in Christ, in 1988.

My wife and I supported him in everything he need. For many years we shared the word of Christ from that small garage.

One day my Father-in-law felt it was time to step down

from being Pastor. It was then that God called me to take the leadership of the congregation. Together we all prayed for WKDW GHFLVLRQ FRQVLGHULQJ KRZ GLIĂ&#x20AC;FXOW LW ZDV ZH ZHUH D OLWWOH afraid of calling and responsibility.

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When did you feel the call to become a Pastor?

First, I see what is important to God and one of those things is that we worship Him. For this reason, we want to strive to be some of the best church worshipers of the world!! When we worship, we are in the presence of God. His presence is with us and He loves it. So we show Him that we love Him. Just as the husband tells his wife that he loves her and wants to be with her and intentionally sets aside time to enjoy her company, we make time to love our God with all our heart, soul, and strength.

Second. We take care of people. The word VD\V LQ 0DWWKHZ ´-HVXV DQVZHUHG KLP WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW RI DOO WKH FRPPDQGPHQWV is: ... Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your VWUHQJWK 7KLV LV WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW FRPPDQGment.

And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself ¨.

There is no other commandment greater than this. So we as a church, learn to show our neighbors our witness by learning to care for our neighborsâ&#x20AC;Ś showing, teaching and caring for them.

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No words, but actions, service and care.

Third. We train people and win souls. Jesus said in Matthew ´*R WKHUHIRUH DQG PDNH GLVFLSOHV RI DOO QDWLRQV EDStizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you; And surely I am with you always, until the end of the world. Amen.

We have opened a training school, to disciple the people. The people need to be discipled in the school of life and we have 10 levels ... we are currently providing the 5th level, each level consists of 4 months of preparation.

Soul-winning is important to us, so we teach how to evangelize the world.

Could you tell us about the miracle of your child?

Sure, everything started when Joshua Daniel, my eldest, was only 4 years old. His eyes began to blink uncontrollably, his arm went limp and he would faint, We realized that my little suffered from seizures. So we made an appointment with a neurologist from San Antonio, who was visiting the Valley. He ordered several tests including an MRI. The following week we said that our son had a brain tumor, just behind his left eye and it appeared to be the size of a golf ball. He was quickly transferred to San Antonio for Emergency treatment.

It goes without saying that my wife and I were broken by the situation. They were able to perform the surgery and remove the tumor however, the doctor told us that this type of tumor tends to originate in the spine and it was vital to order another MRI. Unfortunately the doctorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s suspicions were true and he gave us more bad news, the tumor had spread to the spine.

They told us that we would be there a long time and he would have to receive a year of radiation and chemotherapy. The doctor was not optimistic and said it was more than likely that he would just continue to deteriorate and not surive but for more than a year. We cried and we asked him if he would let us return to the Valley for a while. The Doctor gave us one condition, we had to come back to San Antonio in one week so that our son could began his treatment. Once home and back in our congregation, we prayed for our young son for a week non-stop.

We fasted all week. I remember being locked in the closet of my room praying that the Lord will heal my son and make him very strong.

The following week we returned to San Antonio, and had all the necessary tests inorder to start chemotherapy. That eveQLQJ WKH GRFWRU YLVLWHG XV DQG JDYH XV DQRWKHU VWRU\ ´, MXVW came from the lab and according to the tests, there is no cancer in the

spine, the child is clean ... the MRI shows no tumor.â&#x20AC;? Yes! God performed the miracle, my son was healed. The doctor did not XQGHUVWDQG +H MXVW VDLG ´,W¡V D PLUDFOH Âľ :H ZHUH JLYHQ UDGLDtion for 6 weeks to eradicate the root and prevent the cancer from returning. Now my little boy is 24 and is a tremendous worshiper!

Why did you choose Harlingen for your church?

We have seen how most parts of the Valley has deteriorated over the years. The economy is bad all over and we felt called to establish roots here in Harlingen. We wanted to do our part to help make sure that Harlingen is a city competitive in busiQHVV Ă&#x20AC;QDQFH DQG HGXFDWLRQ :H ZDQW WKH FLW\ WR KDYH D JHQuine revival. We pray that people, through the anointing of the Holy Spirit, open their hearts and minds. This city is the heart of 5*9 ZH DUH LQ WKH FHQWHU DQG ZH DUH FRQĂ&#x20AC;GHQW WKDW ZH ZLOO win Harlingen for Christ.

How are you able to work full time AND be a pastor?

Phew, I also wonder that!! [chuckles] But God has entrusted us with His message and I can only do it by His grace. This is a gift we did not deserve, the Bible speaks of a salvation. But grace is more than a lifesaver, it takes the grace of God to be a mom, pastor, boss. Whatever you do, He gives us the grace to preach, to speak, to work. I canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t hardly believe that I became pastor of a church, with my construction business and as a Federal Agent of the United States. As you can imagine, my time is very limited and I have to plan my schedule, and use the time that He gives me, because one day we will have to give an account. You have to plan for everything. It is only by the grace of God! for He is good ... I always ask: Lord, give me grace to go ahead with the challenges that I have ... for Him.

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The Power of Forgetting Our Past

By Dr. James MacDonald

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James MacDonald is founding and Senior Pastor at Harvest Bible Chapel in northwest Chicago. Jamesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; teachings can be heard on Walk in the Word, a daily radio program reaching more than 3 million people across North America.

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An Appetite for Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Word

By GREG LAURIE

â&#x20AC;&#x153;Him we preach, warning every man and teaching every man in all wisdom, that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus.â&#x20AC;?

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The Apostle Paul said that his goal was to warn believers and teach them with all of the wisdom God had given (see Colossians 1:28).

That is why we give such a prominent place to biblical teaching at the church where I pastor. I am not there to be a cheerleader or a life coach or a motivational speaker. I am not there to be a psychologist or a political pundit. I am there for one reason: to teach the Word of God. That is my job. We want to open up the Word of God and see what it has to say.

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I think we need anointed preaching and teaching today, but I also think we need anointed listening. This means that we come to church with our Bibles, and we give our attention with intention. ,Q IDFW ZH DUH WROG LQ 3HWHU ´$V QHZERUQ EDEHV GHVLUH WKH pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby.â&#x20AC;? That is how we should hunger for the Word of God.

greg laurie is Senior Pastor of Harvest Christian Fellowship in Riverside, Calif. He began his pastoral ministry at 19 by leading a Bible study of 30 people. Since then, God has transformed the small group into a church of 15,000-plus, one of the largest churches in America. For more, visit www.greglaurie.com. Used by permission from Harvest Ministries with Greg Laurie, P.O. Box 4000, Riverside, Calif., 92514. All rights reserved. Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright Š 1996.

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When my son was about two-and-a-half he developed a particular tendency every time he would go number two in his diaper. During play or some other interaction, he would subtly wander away from the prominent place of interaction and attention â&#x20AC;&#x201C; to a corner, the other side of the room behind the couch, or even upstairs. In silence he would disappear, only WR UHDSSHDU ZLWKLQ Ă&#x20AC;YH RU VR PLQXWHV $V he entered back into the routine of play a distinct smell would begin to ascend. :H ZRXOG VRIWO\ DVN ´'LG \RX JR SRR poo?â&#x20AC;? Immediately, he would quickly reVSRQG ´1RSHÂŤÂľ DV KH WXUQHG KLV KHDG from left to right with a slight smile on his IDFH ´'R \RX QHHG PH WR FKDQJH \RXU GLDSHU Âľ , ZRXOG DVN ´ 1DDZZZZ Âľ He was old enough to know poop smelled bad and he would need a diaper change. He was also old enough to know when you got to go, let mommie or daddie know so we can go to the big potty. Yet, he wasnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t quite old enough, or at least interested enough, to go to that trouble. After all, playtime was just too much fun to be interrupted by potty-time.

So at the ripe age of two-and-a-half he developed elementary skills in this ageold human practice known as image management. Wouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t it be nice if our image-managing tendencies ceased when we became potty-trained?

Image management is simply trying to appear better to those around us than we really are. Sometimes these means are extreme, and at other times they are simple and very subtle. We acquire tactics of image management from an early age and they typically become more sophisticated as we grow older. In fact, our culture is full of examples. To mask, veil, or alter oneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s self and appearance is more common than uncommon. We watch it on television and the movies. We read about it in the magazines and newspapers. We see it on the billboards. For every alluring photo included in Sportâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Illustratedâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s yearly swimsuit edition, roughly 25,000 photographs are taken and discarded. And that is after starting with statuesque models who likely have

undergone intense dieting, rigorous exercise, and scores of cosmetic surgeries â&#x20AC;&#x201C; not to mention the lights, makeup, and exotic settings. Ever since the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve, deep within humans is a propensity to cover ourselves up â&#x20AC;&#x201C; to wear makeup.

John Eldredge sums it up well in his book Wild at Heart, comparing the way we veil our true selves to how Adam and Eve concealed themselves behind the IROLDJH LQ WKH *DUGHQ RI (GHQ ´:H DUH hiding, every last one of us. Well aware that we, too, are not what were meant to be, desperately afraid of exposure, terriĂ&#x20AC;HG RI EHLQJ VHHQ IRU ZKDW ZH DUH DQG are not, we have run off into the bushes. :H KLGH LQ RXU RIĂ&#x20AC;FH DW WKH J\P EHKLQG the newspaper and mostly behind our personality. Most of what you encounter when you meet a man is a façade, an HODERUDWH Ă&#x20AC;J OHDI D EULOOLDQW GLVJXLVH Âľ Most of us spend the bulk of our adult lives engaged in the exhausting activity of trying to get others to accept something that does not exist: the only partially-accurate image of ourselves we want them to think is real. Philosophy professor 'DOODV :LOODUG DVVHUWHG WKDW ´JURZLQJ up is largely a matter of learning to hide our spirit behind our face, eyes, and language so that we can evade and manage others to achieve what we want and avoid what we fear.â&#x20AC;?

The opposite, Willard observed, is childOLNH RSHQQHVV DQG WUDQVSDUHQF\ ´7KH childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s face is a constant epiphany because it doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t yet know how to do thisâ&#x20AC;Ś Those who have attained considerable spiritual stature are frequently noted for their â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;childlikeness.â&#x20AC;&#x2122; What this really means is that they do not use their face and body to hide their spiritual reality. In their body they are genuinely present to those around them.â&#x20AC;?

Some people hide behind small talk.

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ing, but all of this talk seems to be hiding more than it is revealing. While thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s nothing wrong talking about such topics, often these various topics merely serve to guard our hearts and the realities within.

Some people hide behind humor. They may have a great gift for making you laugh. But you notice, over time, that when the conversations get tense or sad RU EHJLQ WR JHW SHUVRQDO WKH\ Ă&#x20AC;QG VRPH way to make a joke. They hide behind a VPLOLQJ IDFH ´(DFK RI XV GRHV KLV EHVW WR hide behind a shield,â&#x20AC;? writes Paul Tournier in his book The Meaning of Persons. He FRQWLQXHV ´IRU RQH LW LV D P\VWHULRXV VLlence which constitutes an impenetrable retreat. For another it is facile chit-chatâ&#x20AC;Ś one hides behind his timidity so that we FDQQRW Ă&#x20AC;QG DQ\WKLQJ WR VD\ WR KLP DQother behind a brazen self-assurance which renders him invulnerable.â&#x20AC;?

Some people hide behind their intelligence, while others use ignorance.

Some cover up with busyness and work or status and titles. At times, we can utilize iPads, smartphones and Facebook status updates to veil the world from our true selves. Whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s your veil? If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not sure, the people closest to you can tell you.

John Ortberg, in his book Everybodyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Normal til You Get to Know them, points out that the tendency to hide is so strong that psychologists sometimes speak of WKH ´LPSRVWHU¡V SKHQRPHQRQ Âľ WKH XQLversal sense that at some level Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m faking it, that if others knew the truth about me, the jig would be up. The more skillful we are at impression management, the more we are trapped in our true aloneness. But we were not made to live this way. The writer of Acts says that in the QHZ FRPPXQLW\ SHRSOH PHW ZLWK ´JODG and sincere heartsâ&#x20AC;?; they learned to stop pretending to be other than they were.

Imagine what your life would be like if all pretense were to vanish from it. Imagine the freedom and relief of not trying to convince anyone you were smarter or better than you are. This is really Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s plan for human life.

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Take a moment and think about the following questions found in the book Everybody’s Normal til You Get to Know Them.

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Where are you these days? Where would you like to be?

2. If a Veil is something you hide behind, what is your veil?

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JERRELL JOBE is a teaching pastor at Palm Valley Church in Mission.

He is married to Charissa and has three children : Micah (9), Naylah (7),and Avi (5).

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vultures â&#x20AC;&#x153;And when the vultures came down on the carcasses, Abram drove them away.â&#x20AC;? Genesis 15:11

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You must seize the opportunity of a lifetime in the lifetime of the opportunity. Later may never come. Do what God has called you to do.

When we pick our insecurities over Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s purpose, we are telling God that our weakness is greater than His strength. Your insecurity to be used by God is an insult to Him. Here is the good news: God is willing to develop us into the role He wants us to play. He told Moses He would teach him what he would say. He told Jeremiah to not be afraid and not to ORRN DW KLV DJH *RG GRHV QRW FDOO WKH TXDOLĂ&#x20AC;HG EXW TXDOLĂ&#x20AC;HV the called. Be encouraged - it is your weakness that has qualiĂ&#x20AC;HG \RX WR EH XVHG E\ *RG Vultures of Contamination. Vultures, as they feast on dead carcasses, collect harmful bacteria on their beaks and bodies. / 22 /www.valleychristianmagazine.com /

ABRAM GOMEZ is the Executive Pastor at Valley International Christian Center in San Benito, Texas. He serves under the Leadership of Bishop Jaime Loya, and is a graduate of Southwestern Assemblies of God University. Abram has helped to develop leadership in various ministries and programs at VICC. He and his wife, Rebecca, reside in Harlingen.

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Even good marriages may be corruptible because of boredom, feelings of loneliness, desire for a simpler life, cravings for romance, or just plain old curiosity. At least every six months, couples should do something together to strengthen their marriage. Work through a good marriage book, check out our marriage seminar, spend a few hours with a mentor couple, or take a long weekend without the children, work, or any interruptions and do a lot of talking about whatever comes to mind.

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take pride in my talents. I say that with no inkling of arrogance. On the contrary, I mean this with all humility.

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For you musicians, be sterling in your performance. Writers, put your pulse on a page. Be sincere in your endeavors, and wring your talents down to the very last drop, and draw forth every ounce of energy and commitment toward your Savior.

Do Him justice, and do it with a smile. Do what you love to the fullest potential. God will always provide opportunities for you to contribute in His name - you just have to choose them wisely. I canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t tell you how to go about living with, or better yet USING your spiritual gifts, because thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not for me to decide.

But for Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sake, donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t waste them!

So in the spirit of our superheroes, here is what the 6-year-old in me has to say: Use your powers for good, not evil.

JACOB RAMON IS A 16-YEAR-OLD STUDENT AT SHARYLAND HIGH SCHOOL. HE IS MEMBER OF THE MAKING A CONNECTION GROUP AT SHARYLAND HIGH SCHOOL.

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1Cor 15:33 ……”bad company corrupts good character”

I was not liked by popular girls and I remember feeling lonely and unworthy at times. These were girls I had been friends with for a few years but during our senior year I was alienated. I was teased and victimized by pranks. I never knew why I ZDV VR GLVOLNHG :KRHYHU VDLG ´VWLFNV DQG stones may break your bones but words will never hurt you” was wrong! , GLGQ·W FRQIRUP WR WKH ´SRSXODUµ FURZG - I didn’t drink, smoke, have sex or gossip.

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…a friend fears God and doesn’t conform to worldly standards…. friends, the wicked lead them astray

Proverbs 17:7 A friend loves at all times….

God knew exactly what He was doing by DOORZLQJ PH WR JR WKURXJK WKDW GLIÀFXOW time. I needed to learn the value and characteristics of a true friend. He blesses us with friendships and encourages us to ÀQG *RG IHDULQJ IULHQGV :KRP \RX FRQsider a friend makes a statement about your own values.

I admit I wanted to be liked and accepted by them. At that age it can feel like the end of the world when you are excluded.

There are many scriptures concerning friendships - the value, quality and love of a true friend. Some of my favorites: 1Samuel 20:17 $QG -RQDWKDQ PDGH 'DYLG UHDIÀUP KLV vow of friendship again for Jonathan loved David as he loved himself Proverbs 27:9 The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense.

Proverbs 27:12 As iron sharpens iron so a friend sharpens a friend Proverbs 12:26 The godly give good advice to their

….a friend doesn’t tear you down but forgives and never reminds you of offenses ….a friend gives freely without expecting anything in return …..a friend loves you at all times. To have a friend you have to be willing to do the same. True friendship isn’t a one-way transaction.

If I could go back as an adult and talk to that teenage girl from high school this is what I would say… ”Terry, it’s going to get better. God has destined you for great things and you will be surprised by what you accomplish.

You need to be strong, forgive those who hurt you and stay true to yourself. He will bless you with incredible friends - Victoria, Debra, Cathy, Mari & Trica. These remarkable women are friends you may not feel you deserve but He puts them in your life at just the appropriate times and they are daily reminders that God loves you. In return you will cherish them and their loyalty you will never question. You are not LQVLJQLÀFDQW <RX DUH D ZRQGHUIXO FKLOG of God. He will replace those tears with laughter. Life gets really good!”

Whatever I endured during school made me the person I am today. I am proud to be a NERD! Those same characteristics of a NERD that used to make me feel excluded are the very things that have helped me succeed in life and be blessed with wonderful friends.

I am embarrassed to say it has taken me many years to get over the negative words spoken over me. It’s been harder letting my guard down to make new friends.

I don’t share this with you for pity but rather to understand that any experience – good or bad - is a trial. We should share what we learn from it to help someone else. I pray that if anyone has or is experiHQFLQJ WKHVH WKLQJV WKDW \RX ÀQG HQFRXUagement and hope in what follows.

…a friend doesn’t ask you to compromise your values to suit their needs…

Had I conformed in high school I would not have accomplished what I was destined to do. I would probably not have the precious friendships I have now. I am still guarded when making friends but I use God’s standards versus fear of being hurt.

A true friend is someone who encourages you, speaks truth into your life, makes you accountable, loves you unconditionally, doesn’t pass judgment or gossip and won’t leave you in your hour of need but instead joins you in prayer. God desires that for each one of us but he wants you to be selective!

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It’s ok to be different and not conform to the world. God expects us to use our talents and time wisely. We shouldn’t be ashamed of who HE made us to be. A NERD is someone who follows the rules, is diligent, ambitious, respectful, and yes at times quirky! Find friends that embrace the person God made you to be and whom never ask you to change.

After all, if I am made in God’s image then that means He is a NERD too!

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Perfect Lies

By Jennifer Crow As a teacher I am amazed how natural and easy it is for some teenagers to lie. Some donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t even have to think about it, the lie just comes out. For whatever reason, lies are convenient for self-preservation. The lie may keep you out of trouble for the moment, but if the truth comes out, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re in trouble.

Lying to others is one thing, but lying to yourself is tragic. If you lie to yourself long enough, that lie becomes your truth. I once heard of someone who said, ´'RQ¡W WRXFK PH , PLJKW VSLOO Âľ 6RPHRQH DVNHG ´:KDW GR \RX PHDQ"Âľ 7KH UHVSRQVH ZDV ´,¡P a glass of orange juice.â&#x20AC;? Okay, that is an extreme case of someone who was probably on something. Whatever the case, that person believed a lie.

She discovered that she was a victim of her own thoughts that developed unhealthy and harmful thought patterns. Â&#x2021; I must meet the standards others have set before me because otherwise I will be unlovable. Â&#x2021; I must gain the acceptance of others because their opinion matters most. Â&#x2021; I must pull back because I am less capable than others. Â&#x2021; , PXVW DYRLG FRQĂ LFW EHFDXVH H[SUHVVLQJ P\ DQJHU LV ZURQJ Â&#x2021; , PXVW EH SHUIHFW EHFDXVH P\ DFWLRQV GHĂ&#x20AC;QH ZKR , DP Â&#x2021; I must always be on guard because trouble is all around me. Â&#x2021; I must indulge myself in order to be happy.

Take the time to consider which of these lies you may be telling yourself. It may be oneâ&#x20AC;Ś or many. Jennifer Crow considers these lies because the Bible combats these statements with the truth of God. &URZ SUHVHQWV ´SHUIHFW OLHVÂľ DQG WKHQ FKDOOHQJHV WKH UHDGHU ZLWK D ´OLH GHWHFWRU WHVW Âľ 6KH WKHQ JLYHV WKH DQWLGRWH WR WKH OLH Crow suggests meditative prayer to combat each lie. To help the YLFWLP LQ WKH MRXUQH\ VKH VKDUHV KHU ´SLFWXUH SUD\HU H[SHULHQFH Âľ WKHQ SUHVHQWV WKUHH SKDVHV WR KHOS WKH UHDGHU )LUVW LV ´<RXU 3LFWXUH Prayer Exercise,â&#x20AC;? which allows you to examine how to refocus DZD\ IURP WKH OLH 6HFRQG ´6WDWHPHQWV WR 3RQGHUÂľ VWHHU DZD\ IURP WKH OLH )LQDOO\ &URZ VXJJHVWV VRPH ´6FULSWXUH WR 3RQGHU Âľ There is nothing more powerful than the Word of God to inject truth into the mind, heart, and soul. /LNH PDQ\ &KULVWLDQ ERRNV 3HUIHFW /LHV KDV WKH Ă DYRU RI D VHOI help book, it is clear that God is the One who took Crow through this journey and healed her.

Jennifer Crow tells her story about falling prey to the lies she told herself for many years. These falsehoods eventually led her to a We spend a lot of time meditating on things that do not heal the physically frail and unhealthy state that doctors could not diag- soul. Crow does a nice job suggesting meditative prayer to help nose. She was in the pit of despair, and she could not climb out. refocus of Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s truth and His power to heal us.

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Our culture has become painfully polarized, often hindering relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and the very people who need to discover the love of Jesus Christ. Remembering that we are foremost citizens of heaven serving a loving Father, we who call ourselves followers of Christ can once again be known by our love.

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A Grace Revealed:

How God Redeems the Story of Your Life

by Jerry Sittser Twenty years ago, Jerry Sittser lost his daughter, wife, and mother in a car accident. He chronicled that tragic experience in A Grace Disguised, a book that has become a classic on the topic of grief and loss.

Now he asks: How do we live meaningfully, even fruitfully, in this world and at the same time long for heaven?

How do we respond to the paradox of being a new creature in Christ even though we don’t always feel or act like one? How can we trust God is involved in our story when our circumstances seem to say he isn’t?

While A Grace Disguised explored how the soul grows through loss, A Grace Revealed brings the story of Sittser’s family full circle, revealing God’s redeeming work in the midst of circumstances that could easily have destroyed them. As Sittser reminds us, our lives tell a good story after all. A Grace Revealed will helps us understand and trust that God is writing a beautiful story in our own lives.

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s I looked through a CD list of 25 songs that changed the way we worship, I noticed that most of those songs are still played in churches around the world TODAY. I think the reason these songs changed the way we worship in Church is they are worship songs that donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have an expiration date on them. They were written to last a long time and to be at the core of our worship services. hese songs were the start of changing the way Tcentered we think about worship in general, from selfto God-centered. Before these songs were written Worship had a reputation of just being the music that happens on the stage before the pastor brings the Word. These songs have helped change our culture from thinking in that mindset into thinking that worshipping God is an everyday thing, not just what we do on Wednesday or Sunday. Musical worship is now becoming a lifestyle. It is no longer about a genre.

I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t think we have a full mindset change quite yet in the body of Christ, but we are getting there.

I became a worship leader six years ago. It was a shock for me as well as the people of Livingway )DPLO\ &KXUFK , KDG MXVW Ă&#x20AC;QLVKHG VFKRRO DW +LOOsong International Leadership College in Sydney, Australia and if you know Hillsong music, they are at the progressive forefront of worship all around the world. I would say they are the most contemporary style of worship out there and I was accustomed to that style for two years. , Ă&#x20AC;JXUHG D FKDQJH WR WKDW ZRXOG JR RYHU ZHOO LQ my congregation.....Well, it didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t.

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Even though some of these songs are a little before my time, they mean a lot to me and still KDYH VR PXFK VSLULWXDO VLJQLĂ&#x20AC;FDQFH WR P\ OLIH DV a worship leader. Most of these songs are still being sung in my church today and hey will still be sung probably long after I am gone. These songs have inspired me to write more God-centered songs for the Church in general and I believe they are doing the same for all of us songwriters out there. These kinds of songs will be the ones we are all singing when we get to heaven. *RG \RX DUH ´$ZHVRPH LQ 7KLV 3ODFH Âľ DQG ZH VLQJ ´+RVDQQDÂľ WR \RXU QDPH ´, DP )UHHÂľ WR OLYH IRU \RX *RG DQG ´, ([DOW 7KHHÂľ LQ KHDYHQ DV , GLG on earth. What a glorious day that will be when we have worship leaders from all over the world singing these songs together worshipping our God in heaven. I canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t wait!

Thank God for giving these songwriters these great songs that will continue to inspire worship leaders, pastors and congregations throughout the world. May we continue to make sure Jesus remains at the center of our worship services through the songs that we write and present so that he may be known to the lost souls seeking salvation that walk into our services each weekend!

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“25 Songs That Changed The Way We Worship”

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1. Open The Eyes Of My Heart - Paul Baloche 2. Give Thanks - Don Moen 3. Above All - Lenny LeBlanc 4. I Exalt Thee - Pete Sanchez, Jr. %H 0DJQLÀHG 5DQG\ 5RWKZHOO 6. Shout To The Lord - Darlene Zschech 7. God Will Make A Way - Don Moen 8. There Is None Like You - Lenny Le Blanc 9. I Worship You Almighty God - Leann Albrecht 10. Awesome In The Place - Kent Henry 11. Ancient Of Days - Ron Kenoly 12. Days Of Elijah - Robin Mark

1. Hosanna - Paul Baloche 2. Friend Of God - Lakewood Church 3. Love The Lord - Lincoln Brewster 4. Your Name - Paul Baloche 5. Lord Have Mercy - Eoghan Heaslip 6. Healer - Kari Jobe 7. Today Is The Day - Lincoln Brewster 8. I Am Free - New Life Worship 9. Trading My Sorrows - Darrell Evans 10. You Are Good - Lakewood Church 11. Revelation Song - Gateway Worship 12. My Savior Lives - New Life Worship 13. How He Loves – John Mark McMillan

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Israel and New Breed: Jesus In

the dynamic world of praise and worship, the music never stops as believers seek new songs to express their hearts to God. No one knows this better than gospel-praise powerhouse Israel & New Breed and its bandleader, Israel Houghton, who for more than a decade have been resourcing the Church with VXFK FODVVLFV DV ´)ULHQG RI *RG Âľ ´<RX $UH *RRG Âľ ´$JDLQ , 6D\ 5HMRLFHÂľ DQG ´$OSKD and Omega.â&#x20AC;?

Why, then, did the group go on hiatus, ZDLWLQJ Ă&#x20AC;YH \HDUV EHIRUH UHFRUGLQJ -HVXV at the Center, since the release of their 2007 GRAMMYÂŽ-winning album A Deeper Level?

Truth is, the band didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t go anywhere. If anything, Houghton says theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been DV EXV\ DV HYHU ´:H GLG DURXQG FRQcerts in that amount of time. And weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re still hopping.â&#x20AC;?

Hiatus? Not even close.

Houghton points out that in the interim he also recorded two solo albums, The Power of One and Love God/ Love People, Grammy-winning studio albums that allowed him to stretch creatively, trying things that perhaps would sound differently if replicated in a live setting. But whenever a ministry opportunity arose, Houghton says the New Breed gang was ready to hit the roadâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;whether it was touring with Chris Tomlin, performing at the GRAMMYsÂŽ, or leading worship around

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And it was their experiences during these SDVW Ă&#x20AC;YH \HDUV WKDW LQVSLUHG -HVXV $W 7KH Center, music for a new season with a message that has been resonating with the group for a while. ´,W IHOW OLNH WKH ULJKW WLPH DQG WKH ULJKW statement to make,â&#x20AC;? Houghton says of WKH DOEXP WLWOH ´7KH VLPSOLFLW\ RI EHLQJ DOO about Jesus, and not using â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;pronoun-edâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; gospelâ&#x20AC;Ś going back to a place where itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not about us, where weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re decreasing because Jesus is increasing and drawing all men to him.â&#x20AC;? ´7KLV UHTXLUHV Ă&#x20AC;QGLQJ WKH EDODQFH EHtween being a worship leader and being DQ DUWLVW Âľ KH FRQWLQXHV ´7KH SXUSRVH RI a worship leader is being looked through, not looked at.â&#x20AC;?

Words that Israel & New Breed put to good use on Jesus at the Center, co-produced with his friend and collaborator Aaron Lindsey and recorded before a live audience at Joel Osteenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Lakewood Church, where Houghton is a longtime worship leader. But donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t call this a homecoming. ´,W IHOW PRUH OLNH D KRPH FRXUW DGYDQWDJH than a homecoming,â&#x20AC;? says Houghton, who had recorded at Lakewood before with the likes of Michael W. Smith, Martha Munizzi and the church itself, but never for RQH RI KLV RZQ DOEXPV ´7KHUH ZHUH D ORW of these songs that were in the house so to / 44 /www.valleychristianmagazine.com /

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speak, so it made it easy for the crowd to worship along.â&#x20AC;?

And worship along they do. Houghton says that about 70 percent of Jesus at the Center had been tried and tested at Lakewood before making it onto the recording, which is palpable in the way the audience responds to the music, beginning with the albumâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s centerpiece, the ZRUVKLS EDOODG ´-HVXV DW WKH &HQWHU Âľ RULJLnally introduced in the Israel & New Breed anthology, Decade.

The title track marks a midpoint between &HQWHU¡V WZR KDOYHVÂłD Ă&#x20AC;UVW GLVF FRPprised mostly of explosive congregational songs, and a second one that takes the listener through a seamless worship experience, one reminiscent of some of the best moments from 2004â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Live from Another Level. The songs are simply gigantic, with D SROLVK WKDW¡V EHĂ&#x20AC;WWLQJ IRU WKH YHQXH RQH of Americaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s foremost multimedia churches both in the realms of sight and sound.

7KH Ă&#x20AC;UVW GLVF NLFNV WKLQJV LQWR KLJK JHDU with an avalanche of corporate praise like only Israel & New Breed can unfurlâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; which means thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s plenty of funk, horns, rhythm, vocal dynamics, and call-andresponse interplay between the band and worshippers in attendance. Opener ´-HVXV WKH 6DPHÂľ LV FODVVLF IRU WKH JURXS D funk fest replete with â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;70s synthesizers and an Earth, Wind & Fire vibe, yet congregational and Christ-centered to the core.

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Israel & New Breed know this is the part of the recording where they let loose and help the audience drop its guard, so the troupe keeps WKH SUDLVH JRLQJ ZLWK ´5H] 3RZHU Âľ ´1R 7XUQLQJ %DFN Âľ DQG ´0RUH 7KDQ Enough,â&#x20AC;? a one-two-three punch that borrows elements from contemporary gospel, choral praise, rock and even ska, a sonic fusion that Houghton has characterized as D ´.LQJGRPÂľ VRXQG 7KH ELJ VXUSULVH in this stretch of Center is the danceDEOH ´7H $PRÂľ 6SDQLVK IRU ´, ORYH youâ&#x20AC;?), a Latin-pop stunner that turns Lakewood into the biggest block party in Houston.

The pace slows down in the middle ZLWK ´, &DOO <RX -HVXVÂľ DQG ´:RUship Medley,â&#x20AC;? culminating with the DOEXP¡V FRUQHUVWRQH ´-HVXV DW WKH &HQWHU Âľ 7KH ZRUVKLS Ă RZV XQLQWHUrupted from there through such tracks as the driving, Daniel JohnsonOHG ´6SHHFKOHVV Âľ WKH 1HZ %UHHG HQFRXUDJHU ´,W¡V 1RW 2YHU :KHQ *RG ,V LQ ,W Âľ DQG ´<RXU 3UHVHQFH ,V Heaven,â&#x20AC;? another congregational piece that Houghton hopes makes its way to Sunday-morning playlists.

Always stretching musical boundaries, Houghton invites on stage ´)ULHQG RI *RGÂľ FR ZULWHU 0LFKDHO Gungor for one of Centerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s most stand-out momentsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;a medley of

*XQJRU¡V EOXHJUDVV WLQJHG ´<RX +DYH 0HÂľ DQG +RXJKWRQ¡V ´<RX Hold My World,â&#x20AC;? a combination that only makes sense on an Israel & New Breed recording. As the second disc draws to a close, Houghtonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s daughter Mariah shares a special moment with her father in a tender FRYHU RI %RE '\ODQ¡V ´7R 0DNH <RX Feel My Love.â&#x20AC;?

As a bonus for listeners, studio versions of three high points from Jesus at the Center are included at the end of the second disc: the title WUDFN ´<RXU 3UHVHQFH ,V +HDYHQ Âľ DQG ´,W¡V 1RW 2YHU :KHQ *RG ,V in It),â&#x20AC;? the latter of which features guests spots from James Fortune and Jason Nelson. And for an even more experiential enjoyment of Jesus at the Center, all of the albumâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s performances will also be included in a companion DVD to be released in conjunction with the project. ´, KRSH WKDW SHRSOH ZRXOG KHDU WKH authenticity of the whole experience and know that whether they are believers or not, they can sense a conviction around what we do,â&#x20AC;?

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By Dave Ramsey

Making the right choice Dear Dave, Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m a landlord in New York, and Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve always felt itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not a good idea to rely entirely on previous landlords for referrals on prospective tenants. Do you have any tips for selecting good renters?...Jean

)RU PRUH Ă&#x20AC;QDQFLDO KHOS SOHDVH YLVLW www.daveramsey.com Dave Ramsey is a personal money-management expert and extremely popular national radio personality.

His three New York Times best-selling booksâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; Financial Peace, More Than Enough and The Total Money Makeoverâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;have sold more than 6 million copies combined. His latest book, EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches, releases in September 2011.

Dear Jean, I think youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re on the right track. Most landlords arenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t thorough enough with the screening process. You canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t get to know someone without spending some time with them and digging into their personalities and backgrounds a little.

I have several rental properties, and here are a few tricks that work well for me. I always pull a credit bureau report on prospective renters. I also get a big deposit up front. I spend quite a bit of time talking to them one on one, as well, so with all this theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d have to be a pretty good con artist to get past me.

Another thing I do is to drive by the place theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re currently living. I like to see what condition the house is in, and if they keep the yard maintained. To me, this is a great indication of how responsible they are and how they would treat my property. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not a bad idea to get some proof of them having made previous rental payments on time, either.

In some ways itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a leap of faith any time you sign an agreement with a new tenant. But there are things you can do in order to make a more informed decision as to whom youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re doing business with.

And who knows? Lots of renters appreciate knowing they have a landlord who handles things in a professional manner. Maybe these suggestions will help you both feel a little more at ease.

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Raul â&#x20AC;&#x153;Rudyâ&#x20AC;? Rodriguez attorney at law Some historians may argue that among the greatest restoration stories of mankind are the European Renaissance or perhaps the post-World War II era. The cultural movement known as the European Renaissance took place during roughly during the 14th through 17th centuries. This moment in history saw the face of Europe evolve with respect to its arts, architecture and long held science tenets. It also saw a rediscovery of the Greco-Roman classical knowledge and a rebirth of the study of Latin and vernacular languages.

It served as a bridge between the Middle Ages and the Modern Era. Closer to home, America saw its restoration take place in the years that followed World War II. During this era, couples who could not afford families during the Great Depression made up for lost time. The mood in America suddenly became optimistic. At that time, the unemployment rate of the Great Depression dropped dramatically and the economy improved substantially. The G.I. Bill empowered many honorable VHUYLFH PHPEHUV WR ÂżQLVK KLJK VFKRRO DQG DWWHQG FROOHJH $V WKHLU VNLOOV ZHUH LPSURYHG VR ZDV WKH ÂżQDQFLDO well-being of their families.

But, without a doubt the greatest restoration that can take place is when a person does as Romans 10:9 instructs us to do. Romans 10:9 says: â&#x20AC;&#x153;If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.â&#x20AC;? The message is simple: invite Christ into your heart and make him your personal Lord and Savior. At that time, your restoration will be complete. Next He will do as Philippians 1:6 says, â&#x20AC;&#x153;And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will FRQWLQXH KLV ZRUN XQWLO LW LV ÂżQDOO\ ÂżQLVKHG RQ WKH GD\ when Christ Jesus returns.â&#x20AC;? As you seek and strive to honor God with your life, He will reward you by allowing you to take on His characteristics. Hosea 14:4 says, â&#x20AC;&#x153;I will bring my people back to me. I will love them with all my heart; No longer am I angry with them.â&#x20AC;? I pray that you will invite Christ into your heart and allow Him to restore you!

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