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Welcome! On behalf of the entire Veil family, we want to say congratulations. Being in love is an extraordinary feeling, and this is an exciting time of your life as you plan your wedding and venture into matrimony. 15 years ago I met and married the love of my life, the man of my dreams, my soul mate. As we planned our wedding—which I wish I could do every year—I felt that my passion for the weddings could culminate into something creative and valuable to other Wisconsin bridal couples. Veil Magazine exists because of the support of my husband, Weldon, our loving families, our exceptional Veil team and our incredibly talented advertisers. Each year I fall in love over and over again with my Veil family and everything we have accomplished. It is a place for us to share what we love about weddings, what inspires us and to show local Wisconsin couples like you that there is more to telling your unique love story than all the bells and whistles. Wisconsin couples have a unique sense of style. To help nurture that flair, we have produced a stunning magazine that engages with local bridal trends, sophisticated product features, beautiful weddings of local newlyweds and expert advice. Veil Magazine is also designed to connect wedding venues, businesses, retailers and planners to our readers: Wisconsin’s most discerning couples. We hope you enjoy this issue of Veil Magazine. Among the many wedding artisans featured here that are personally invested in your day. We hope this experience helps you feel close to our team and our advertisers, with an underlying understanding of your unique tastes. Cheers to the incredible journey that is marriage! Let us join you for the ride, and don’t be shy about giving us feedback along the way. You can connect with us on our website, on social media and through our blog for where people can interact with us. May your future together be filled with love, happiness and family, leaving you feeling joyfully fulfilled. I’m lucky that Veil Magazine keeps the romance of weddings alive for me every single day.
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TERRI BLAHNIK Creative Director I got an amazing opportunity to design pages for Veil Magazine three years ago. Now I get to design the whole magazine with Denise, design miscellaneous collateral, and help plan and work at photo shoots. Being part of Veil and the wedding industry, talking to brides and working with advertisers, I have learned so much and could not imagine doing anything else. Favorite Wedding Movie: Runaway Bride Favorite Wedding Song: Thinking Out Loud by Ed Sheeran Favorite Flower: White Daisy Favorite Wedding Memory: I love looking at the groom's reaction when he sees his bride for the first time.
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I began with Veil in 2011 after graduating from UW-Milwaukee with a Journalism degree. Writing has always been my passion, and combining that with the innate allure of the wedding industry has been beyond fulfilling. Being happily married myself, I love this opportunity to help couples plan their dream wedding and write about newlyweds’ Happily Ever Afters.
As a writer for Veil, I get to research and write stories on upcoming trends in floral arrangements, baked goods, fashion, and more. I love interviewing top experts in the wedding industry to provide the best information for our brides. I enjoy learning about every aspect of weddings, from the planning to the pictures, and I feel so lucky to get to work with Veil!
I’m a Chicago-native who moved to Milwaukee for college to study English. After moving around a bit, I’m back in Milwaukee and have been lucky to write and edit for Veil! Sharing love stories and advice to couples for such an important event in their lives is very gratifying work!
Favorite Wedding Movie: 27 Dresses
Favorite Wedding Song: Lucky by Jason Mraz feat. Colbie Caillat
I’ve always loved weddings — you usually can catch me watching Say Yes to the Dress or obsessing over wedding pins on Pinterest. When I saw the gold sequin bridesmaid dresses on Veil Magazine’s cover, I knew 1) I needed my bridesmaids in them for my wedding 2) I needed to work with this magazine. Getting to combine my love of social media and the wedding industry has been such a dream come true!
Favorite Wedding Movie: My Big Fat Greek Wedding Favorite Wedding Song: Crazy Love by Michael Bublé Favorite Flower: Pink Rose Favorite Wedding Memory: At the beginning of our ceremony, my husband held my hands, rubbed his thumbs over the tops of them and whispered, “So pretty” to me.
Favorite Wedding Song: Forever Like That by Ben Rector Favorite Flower: Anemones Favorite Wedding Memory: Our giddy toast with the wedding party right after the ceremony!
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Favorite Wedding Movie: The Wedding Planner
Favorite Flower: Tulip Favorite Wedding Memory: Taking trips to attend weddings! I’ve been to Portland, Oregon and Xalapa, Mexico to attend friends’ weddings.
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Favorite Wedding Movie: Father of the Bride Favorite Wedding Song: Then by Brad Paisley Favorite Flower: Tulip Favorite Wedding Memory: Getting engaged in front of the Eiffel Tower!
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Amid some of Mequon’s most immaculate land lies a sanctuary that, like most everything at The River Club, was created with romance and magic in mind. The spectacular Grand Ballroom is the very manifestation of contemporary elegance and can accommodate receptions from one hundred to over five hundred guests. The River Club features $1.5 million in programmable theme lighting that compliments an array of stunning vistas overlooking the golf course and countryside. An expansive outdoor covered veranda called The Sunset Deck further enhances a sensory experience that justifies The River Club of Mequon’s standing as a dream destination for receptions aiming to be remembered forever. Dining at The River Club features the kind of contemporary American Cuisine that becomes a buzz unto itself. Whether it’s a sumptuous entree or a lavish buffet, you can be assured that your meal will be one to savor from the start to a finish that longs to be prolonged. Brides are fast to embrace The River Club’s warm and welcoming Bridal Suite, replete with comfortable appointments, private bathroom and flattering mirrors. Should you want to dazzle-up your evening with waterfall fireworks cascading across the western wall of windows or have a helicopter deliver a bride or groom or both, simply ask. Weddings at The River Club have a reputation for converting the blur of accelerating events into an indelible memory of a storybook evening. As invaluable as anything is the peace of mind that comes
from knowing every detail has been covered by a gracious staff committed to delivering in ways that exceed your dreams. “At The River Club, it is our privilege to deliver a wedding that will surprise and delight the senses and swell the hearts of our guests. Moreover, it is our never-ending quest to uncover new ways to sincerely touch the souls of our brides.” From its inception, The River Club of Mequon has been the home of the redoubtable wedding maestro, Larry Kreiner. Mr. Kreiner grew up in Cape Town, South Africa, and graduated with a Masters degree Larry Kreiner Event Sales Director in Communication and Hotel Management from the University of Johannesburg. Now in the US and loving life on Milwaukee’s north shore, Larry has been cultivating his own brand in the banquet arts by delighting bridal parties with his enlightened and singularly exquisite special event design and execution. That reputation speaks to why Larry Kreiner has played a large part in orchestrating galas for VIPs ranging from former Presidents to Hollywood starlets. Just ask the man whose accent never sleeps; he’ll tell you stories that’ll make you glad you asked.
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HEIDEL HOUSE RESORT & SPA
WHO WOULDN’T ENJOY GETTING MARRIED at a lakeside resort on a gorgeous Wisconsin waterfront? That’s what brides experience when they choose Heidel House, a resort and spa located in Green Lake. Heidel House is known for offering a beautiful setting for every aspect of the wedding weekend, from the rehearsal dinner to the morning-after brunch. There are numerous spaces for a rehearsal dinner, including out on the Escapade Yacht. Enjoying a booze cruise with your bridal party can be a fun, low-key way to kick off the weekend. Then, return for your welcome reception and see your family and friends that have arrived. For the wedding day, brides and their bridesmaids can be pampered at the Evensong spa and salon with a round of mimosas and an expert glam team. For your ceremony and reception, the lakefront will be an all-natural stunning backdrop for your photos. The next morning, host a brunch for family and friends and reminisce over who had the craziest dance moves the night before and how breathtaking everything was. You’ll be infinitely more relaxed
knowing that every event can take place in the same location, allowing you to enjoy the most important day of your life that much more. One of the best things about getting married at Heidel House is that you’re treating your guests to a luxurious resort weekend. Instead of simply attending a wedding, they’ll feel as if they’re on vacation themselves! Friends and family can show up to the weekend and not worry about parking, cabs or other logistics. Then, they can enjoy some cocktails and mingling with you and your groom on the patio for the welcome reception. While the bridal party is getting ready, there’s plenty for guests to do that morning as well, from fishing to golf to shopping in town. It will be as a relaxing and entertaining long weekend for them, without any of the hassle that can sometimes come from an out-of-town wedding. Starita Irvin, the Wedding Events Manager for Heidel House, is one of the people that turns your vision into your dream come true. As the touch point for brides who have decided to get married at the resort, Starita is an expert on all things Heidel House. For eight years, she’s been helping Heidel House brides say, “I do!” What do you love most about coordinating weddings at the Heidel House? What I like best is the challenge that each wedding is different and unique because each
couple puts their personality into it. Weddings are not “cookie cutter events” and each has their own way of showcasing it. Providing that comfort zone to the couple and their parents is a must as well. One has to stay calm no matter what they throw at you. Also, getting the smile of satisfaction from the bride and groom is more than enough to know I’ve done my job well. Do you have a favorite wedding that’s ever taken place at the Heidel House? This is my 8th wedding season at Heidel House Resort & Spa, and I think every wedding is beautiful and spectacular. There are so many stories I could tell. A groom had lost his wedding band within 30 minutes after the ceremony. A bride had jumped in the lake with her wedding dress on. A surprise marching band had arrived for a bride and groom’s entrance to their reception. A bride raced alongside of the “Oktoberfest Sausages,” and the list goes on. Why do brides tend to choose the Heidel House? Location is the number one reason, with the lakeside outdoor spaces being a major plus. We are a one-stop location — everything can be here: rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, getting ready room, spa appointment, ceremony, reception and guest rooms which really speaks to our brides. Plus, the brides like that there are numerous amenities offered to our guests.
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Imagine saying “I do.” along the shoreline or under a canopy of majestic oaks. Celebrate in a tent near the gardens or in the ballroom with a lake view veranda. Take a private yacht cruise or be pampered at the spa. Rest assured, our goal is to create lasting memories for you and your guests.
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Though the wedding day may be “The Big Day,” a wedding is an event spread over weeks and months for many brides and grooms. Bachelor parties, wedding showers and rehearsal dinners require excellent locations, and none are better than those from Marcus Restaurant Group: Mason Street Grill, Kil@wat, Milwaukee ChopHouse, Miller Time Pub & Grill and SafeHouse®. Though helping shape a wedding is never a simple task, having great restaurants certainly makes the work of Kerry Doyne, Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ Private Dining Sales Manager, a little easier. “Our restaurants offer different experiences for brides and grooms looking for special ways to celebrate,” Doyne said. “The private dining rooms, unique in décor and size, create a personal setting for a memorable experience that is truly theirs.” For pre-wedding parties and postwedding receptions, The Pfister Hotel — Milwaukee’s premier hotel — has plenty to offer. Located adjacent to the hotel, Mason Street Grill has three private dining rooms that can fit up to 40 guests. For spectacular sights, nothing beats Blu, The Pfister’s 23rd floor lounge. “Mason Street Grill’s private dining rooms are equipped with complimentary flat screen TVs and menus everyone will enjoy,” Doyne said. “Follow dinner with cocktails in Blu to enjoy the best views of the city.” Next to Hilton Milwaukee you’ll find Milwaukee ChopHouse, which is tailormade for one last night with the guys. “The private dining room seats up to 30 guests and is perfect for a pre-bachelor party dinner,” Doyne said. “Our chef can even create a special menu for you featuring your favorite beer pairings.” Looking for a spark? Look no further than Kil@wat, located on InterContinental Milwaukee’s second floor. “The Loft [at Kil@wat] is perfect for a reception or casual brunch,” Doyne said. “Its location makes this a great venue for a wedding shower, the complimentary flatscreen TV is perfect for pictures or videos of the couple-to-be, and the sunny décor makes a great daytime setting for a giftopening brunch.” Contact Kerry Doyne, Marcus Hotels & Resorts Private Dining Sales Manager, at kerrydoyne@marcushotels.com.
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WHAT CAN YOUR VENUE DO FOR YOU? HOW TO PICK A PLACE THAT GOES BEYOND THE BALLROOM WHERE’S THE WEDDING? No doubt people started asking you this question faster than you could say fiancée. You may not have an answer yet, and that’s OK. When it comes time to lock in your location, remember that the best venues are more than just a pretty space. Consider everything the property can offer to make it unique to you.
THE INTERCONTINENTAL MILWAUKEE Maximize the mingling by hosting your cocktail hour at Gallerie M, an intimate space featuring local art. Then, take it to the next level with tasting stations featuring unique concoctions, and passed appetizers to boot. We can even develop recipe cards for each drink as a party favor.
At Marcus Hotels & Resorts, that sort of added value is second nature. Need a creative food and beverage idea? That’s our bread and butter. Want that signature hairstyle for your bridesmaids? Leave it to the ladies at the WELL Spa + Salon. Our three hotels in downtown Milwaukee pull together tremendous resources, experience and personnel to customize your celebration.
Each hotel is home to majestic ballrooms that have seen weddings come to life in the most spectacular ways. “Our hotels offer a variety of style options which suit the needs of traditional brides and modern brides alike,” says Sydney Waisanen, Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ Regional Director of Catering Sales. “We look forward to welcoming you and your guests with our gracious Marcus hospitality.”
THE PFISTER HOTEL Reserve the Orchid Room at the WELL Spa + Salon to use as a home base the day of your wedding. The bride and her ‘maids can come and go as they please, enjoying our elite mani/pedi and hair styling services, along with custom breakfast and lunch packages throughout the day. THE HILTON MILWAUKEE CITY CENTER When dinner is done, give the bar a bold makeover. In addition to the standard cocktails, consider a round of boozy ice cream floats courtesy of the historic Monarch Lounge. Couple that with a custom buffet of late-night snacks straight from our creative kitchen.
The above examples are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to customizing your big day. For more inspiration and information on each property, visit MarcusWeddings.com
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for PICTURE-PERFECT MOMENTS The perfect wedding venue also needs the perfect location for photographs. In Milwaukee, brides feel like they’ve stepped right out of a movie set with dramatic sweeping staircases at the historic Pfister Hotel or Hilton Milwaukee. Want a more modern space? The staircase at the InterContinental Milwaukee offers an ideal space for elegant moments. Creating memories. MarcusWeddings.com 414.390.3802
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sound by design Entertaining on Every Level by Sara Dahmen Photography by Front Room Photography THE NAME SOUND BY DESIGN (SBD) immediately conveys a sense award winning service that continues to be what drives couples to speak of creativity. Something that is designed specifically is, by name, customized. with Sound By Design. What many brides and grooms don’t expect is a Personalized. Suited specifically for you. That entire concept is exactly what DJ service that comes with many entertainment options rolled together in the team behind Sound By Design aims to do: one package. Torie Gamez, the Director of give you a completely customized entertainment Operations at SBD, spends a lot of one-on-one for you, your guests, and your senses. And because time with couples who come in looking for said Make sure you invest in the amazing DJ entertainment. “Even after 13 entertainment is such a gigantic part of your wedding day, you want to make sure the people years in the industry, I still love hearing about entertainment because you hire to make that happen are intensely genuine couples’ wedding days when I first meet them,” about you, your day, and your desires. Creating an he admits. “And I get to share with them that truly is the backbone exhilarating experience for you and your guests is how SBD can help with so many aspects of of the reception.. paramount to the team inside Sound By Design, entertainment.” and they each have their own specialties that have Once you’ve received an overview of - Paul Hackbarth been cultivated to perfection to make sure your day Sound By Design’s capabilities from Torie, is seamlessly perfect. you’ll establish a very full, personal and warm When Paul Hackbarth, owner and president, started Sound By Design, relationship with Josh Erickson, the Director of Client Services. “I provide he curated a group of loyal, honest, and passionate people to learn, and then couples with a carefree experience once they come on board with us,” he grow, the business with him. They began by providing stylish and present explains. “Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, and my goal is to make disc jockey music and Master of Ceremonies services for weddings - an the entertainment side as easy as possible, from helping the Lighting Division
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design the reception room or recommending vendors.” With the family oriented baseline that is SBD’s mantra, Josh strives to make couples feel like part of that family as well. “You should never feel like a number,” he says. “We’ll stay away from the gimmicks and let the music do the talking.” Paul, looking at the business from over 19 years in the industry, also advises couples to be budget conscious about your wedding at all times, “But make sure you allocate your funds to the most important areas. Make sure you invest in the entertainment because that truly is the backbone of the reception.” But sometimes entertainment for your wedding reception needs to be even more interactive, because entertaining is most definitely a myriad of dynamic pieces beyond music. “We do an open concept photobooth or standard inclosed one,” Torie says. “But we have a modern approach that uses a backdrop and allows for more movement, bigger groups, and can let guests leave video messages for the couple.” Josh agrees. “People love them and the quality is great.”
Each and every person has so much pride and passion for this company that it really shows in the end result - Josh Erickson With that evolving, unique, modern approach to entertainment, Sound By Design really does customize a wedding package to help create a day with all the elements handled. Entertaining your guests is of course important providing a killer sound and music experience is what can make a reception memorable. But there are the other parts of entertainment that all come together to make the overarching day that much better. David Hackbarth is the Director and Founder of Sound By Design’s Lighting Division. He works to create lighting design that is customized to your colors, your overall wedding vibe and be smashingly gorgeous all without breaking the bank. “I help clients put together lighting packages that will make the most impact for the budget they can afford,” he explains. “And I love problem solving and learning how to make things happen in some of the most impossible lighting situations.”
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This, once again, is how SBD’s team strives to entertain you and your guests - lighting can be a feast for the eye, and give an entirely new meaning to a space that might have usually been quite ordinary. Plus, the product is top notch and plays with the newest up and coming options. “We are very careful about selecting the lights,” David says. “By buying the newest equipment in uplighting, we’re able to provide a lot of light with very little hassle.” Some of those ideas are whole room washes, which almost ‘paint’ a room with an intense wash of color, or using creative cording to light the interior of a tent with unique chandeliers. “Lighting is a compliment and a statement to illuminate the most important aspects of a wedding and it’s design,” describes David. Lighting is essential to creating that high energy entertaining vibe, which dovetails nicely into Sound By Design’s overall prerogative for your wedding; they want the whole room to feel the music, get caught up in the party atmosphere, and feel as though they’ve been transported into a wedding fantasy exclusively yours. And what better way to make sure that entertainment vibe is exactly
what you wish for yourselves, your memories, or your guests than with an extraordinarily professional and warm group of individuals, who together make a seamless team? Sound By Design will have worked with, and followed you, through the whole wedding process - from lighting decor, planning photobooths and coordinating speeches and introductions, to the dance party itself. They have an innate understanding of who you are and what makes your love story special. How more personal and customized to your style can it get? Plus, everyone is invested in your entertaining experience from Day One, which is a huge part of why Sound By Design is so well loved in Wisconsin. “Each and every person has so much pride and passion for this company that it really shows in the end result,” reveals Josh. “We are so much more than the guys who push play.” Paul, who makes the big management decisions at Sound By Design, agrees wholeheartedly. “SBD’s backbone is our amazing staff. We continue to employ only those that are closest to us, who are willing to look forward to how to make SBD better, so that we can continue to guarantee premier quality in every avenue of entertainment we offer.”
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W E D D I N G S AT T H E K I M P T O N JOURNEYMAN HOTEL Looking for a wedding venue that is perfect for you? The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel in Milwaukee’s Third Ward has the flair that you’ve been imagining since the day you said “Yes!” From a fun-loving rooftop bar and restaurant to a beautiful chandelierbedecked lobby, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel focuses on giving Midwest brides their dream day. A big part of their recipe for success lies in Kim Casey, their Director of Catering, and Heather Terhune, their Executive Chef. Kim focuses on the couple’s story as the main ingredient for an amazing celebration. “This is the first big party they will host together as a couple. No other one will be quite like it, which can create pressure,” Kim says. “I encourage them to stay true to their personalities individually and as a couple, which can keep their vision from straying.” If delicious food is high on your list of musts for your wedding day, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel has an expertise for cuisine. The bride and groom work together with Kim and Executive Chef Heather Terhune to create a menu that will wow their guests. It can include anything from family recipes to elegant, multicourse dinners. After a conversation with the couple, Heather will give them a food and wine tasting to ensure the meal will meet their expectations and suit their tastes. No two weddings are the same, and the staff at The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel knows that your wedding–and its menu–needs to be unique to you and your guests. Heather has been with Kimpton for over 18 years. After working at The Watergate Hotel’s famed Jean Louis restaurant under three-star rated Michelin chef Jean Louis Palladin, she fell in love with French cooking and its tendency towards simple-yet-scrumptious food. “Weddings give us the opportunity to make a special day even more memorable,” Heather details. “We pride ourselves on restaurant-quality appetizers, entrees and desserts just served on a larger scale. Although this venue is not a freestanding restaurant, we can still achieve the same results. We do this by using our techniques and high quality of ingredients.”
In terms of photo-ready locations, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel boasts a fantastic collection of spaces and views. Some of their reception venues include the Assembly Hall, a stunning ballroom fit for beautiful events, or the Atelier and Heirloom Rooms, which overlook Broadway Street and can be used for cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, as well as rehearsal dinners, bridal showers and post-wedding brunches. The hotel also offers the Founders Room, a ninth floor venue with an outdoor terrace that features sweeping views of the lakefront and Third and Fifth ward landscapes. Onsite restaurant Tre Rivali is also perfect for rehearsal dinners and breakfast. Guests can also stay onsite at the hotel, making transportation as easy as their own two feet. From the rehearsal to the gift opening, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel will serve as the perfect venue for your wedding weekend festivities. “Our goal is to exceed expectations for this oncein-a-lifetime moment whether it be one event or multiple events during their wedding weekend,” Kim says. “We want you and your celebration to be the center of attention. Let the experts take good care of you and embrace all that can happen when in their hands. Our team is the catalyst for this. We may be a new hotel, but our staff is rich with an extensive history and background in hospitality.” With all of these options afforded to you, along with Kim’s background in hospitality and Chef Heather’s flair for food, The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel and their staff make this the perfect place to help your wedding sail smoothly. “What I truly enjoy is the big picture aspect of the day,” Kim said. “All of the work that goes into planning a wedding is not for the faint of heart. But when one sees everything start to unfold and all of the joy and energy starts to swirl–it really pulls at my heartstrings. I love stepping back and seeing the end results knowing that I have poured as much into a couple and their wishes as I can.”
Heather focuses on serving food that’s in season, which gives it the utmost quality flavor. “The best part of my job is having a vision on the cuisine and seeing how that translates to our guests. When someone loves what I am doing, that is when I know if have done the right thing for them. It is validation of all of our hard work.”
Guests are welcomed to their room by a friendly ceramic pup of varying breeds and names.
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While the definition of the French word for “event” may seem simple, the namesake for événement planning evokes a reputation for sensational event planning and styling. “It shows some personality, which we have tons of to go around!” Janelle Meyer-Brown, owner of événement planning explains. In the beginning, événement offered event lounge rentals, but about one month after leaving her Director of Catering and General Manager position at Pier Wisconsin, Janelle was getting many calls from industry people and past clients asking her for help with events, she decided to add planning to the mix. As business grew, Janelle began to grow her team as well, seeking out talented individuals with great spirits, personality and who truly care about the clients. And, she wanted them to be willing to get their hands dirty. Now in their 5th year of business, Janelle has two seasoned planning professionals—Amanda Bird and Anne Radtke—who dedicate every ounce of their passion into their events. The group has recently welcomed Erin Hochevar, from local restaurant group Hospitality Democracy, selling and planning corporate dinners, rehearsal dinners, weddings and more, and Elizabeth Neupauer who adds an interior design background and exciting new and young ideas and so much attention to detail. Together, the team has 40-plus years of experience to offer clients. “When we work with you, we enter into a partnership,” Janelle says. This proves true in reading through some of the many testimonials from past clients: “My first phone call solidified my desire to work with événement, as they were honest, straight forward, funny and seemed to have a clear understanding of what I envisioned for the big day.” “We never imagined having a planner when we first started our wedding journey, but now I can't imagine what it would have been like without événement.” From weddings and corporate events, to photo/TV shoots and design consulting, to customization of lounges and unique touches, to everything they do, événement’s team will work tirelessly for their clients. “We become family in the planning process, and we care about our families!” Janelle elates.
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CATERING YOUR SPECIAL DAY AT MANY LOCATIONS!
Introducing Generation II 34 years ago, Scott Shully, a European trained chef, and his wife, Beth, took their combined talents in design and dining to create Shully’s Cuisine & Events. Since then, it has grown into a full-fledged family business with the addition of their children. Although they grew up in the industry, all three Shully children took separate career paths before creating the dynamic team they are today. Hadley trained as a chef in New York, Italy, Sicily and Chicago, and is now showcasing her natural talent for showmanship and creative cuisine in Shully’s kitchen. Nina took her organizational and event management skills from her time spent as a teacher and YMCA Camp Director to help with event planning and staging and Jacob’s Major League Baseball marketing experience is being put to work managing the many facets of Shully’s. With over three decades of experience, Shully’s Cuisine & Events has mastered the artistry of the details. It’s this expertise that lends to their seamless execution of off-premise catering. An event site hosts its own unique attributes and considerations. Everything from the weather, to the electrical, to the equipment, to the décor, to the menu are accounted for and designed in a way that makes the event flow with cohesive ease. “You can’t go to school to learn the tricks of our trade,” Jacob Shully says. “It takes a seasoned professional to look at an event space and work out a plan that will work within a specific budget, and that’s where we excel.” As they continue to grow their repertoire, they’ve added to their real estate as well. Shully’s latest event space, ATS (Across the Street), is a cottage currently under renovation to hold smaller parties of up to 65 people. Additionally, it will host cooking demonstrations and parties like the “Iron Fork” and “Minced” competitions. Perfect for bachelor/bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinners or bringing families together for a night of fun leading up to the big day. This charming space on the Pigeon Creek makes for a perfect photo op and chance to bond with loved ones over food. Expansion of hosting spaces isn’t all that Shully’s is currently advancing. Upgrades to their beverage services will feature local craft brews, as well as additional bartender services. Their menu is also a constant reinvention to keep things fresh, extensive, and innovative. Vegetarian and vegan menus, kosher menus, and dietary strict menus like gluten-free are a huge emphasis so they can cater to the many needs of their clientele, with the ability to meet various budgetary levels without sacrificing quality or standards. Of particular excitement is their new, fully mobile meat smoker that will open new opportunities for their BBQ themed subdivision “Three Pigs.” When it comes to creating a tailor-made event, Shully’s Cuisine & Events is a true custom caterer. They pride themselves in creating menus that fit their clients’ desires and see each opportunity as a blank canvas that can be filled with all of your favorite foods, experiences and personality. No detail is left untouched, and the end goal is to do everything possible to create a comfort level that will ease the many decisions required when planning your wedding. “We take your investment in us seriously,” Jacob emphasizes. “This is one of the most important days in a couple’s life and we are there with you from beginning to end to make your wedding a remarkable experience to be cherished for years to come.”
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Saz's Catering offers an especially diverse selection of authorized venues for your wedding reception, rehearsal dinner, and showers. Our broad array of location choices include 1451 Renaissance Place, the Historic Pritzlaff Building, Villa Terrace, John Michael Kohler Arts Center, Schlitz Audubon Nature Center, Miller Inn & Caves, Milwaukee County Zoo Peck Pavilion, and many more. Whether your dream wedding is the most elegant celebration imaginable or a more casual gathering, we can pair the perfect setting and our creative menus to make your day absolutely sublime.
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THE STATE ROOM - CASUAL ELEGANCE THAT IS PERFECT FOR BRIDAL SHOWERS AND REHEARSAL DINNERS Saz's State House Restaurant is located in a charming historic building on State Street in Wauwatosa. The State Room is an ideal setting for bridal showers and rehearsal dinners. It is a beautifully designed private dining room with rich wood architectural accents, etched glass windows, and a custom designed bar that is reminiscent of the great pubs of Europe. There is an attached coat room and a separate entrance for your convenience.
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Saz's Catering Lake Country calls the beautiful banquet facilities at Western Lakes Golf Club home, but also caters to choice locations and private homes throughout Waukesha and Pewaukee, and west to Madison. You will find many beautiful settings for your wedding photography, and the golf course offers a stunning backdrop for your reception through the expansive floor-to-ceiling picture windows in the banquet room.
Sazama's Fine Catering at the Marcus Center for the Performing Arts will make your wedding day spectacular and stress free, with exceptional cuisine, impressive service and attention to detail. The Marcus Center for the Performing Arts offers an outstanding setting along the Milwaukee River and has a variety of spaces that can accommodate almost any size guest list. For a special touch, enjoy cocktails and appetizers al fresco on the Fitch Garden Patio, Riverfront, or Colonnade. SAZAMA'S FINE CATERING 929 NORTH WATER STREET MILWAUKEE, WI 53202 414.276.2030 | SAZAMAS.COM
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Inside or out. A few dozen or hundreds. We don’t just hold events, we host happenings. Welcome to the Historic Pritzlaff. Constructed in 1875 and recently renovated, the Pritzlaff has been transformed into a breath taking example of not only what was, but what can be. With 4 unique spaces your guest will be surrounded by Victorian era arched windows and gritty cream city brick. Above, you’ll find industrial age beamed ceilings curiously supported by elegant wood beams.
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WHAT TO DO
Before "I Do" by Michelle Drewek
It’s official—you’re engaged! No amount of chick flicks or fantasies could prepare you for that moment your beloved got down on one knee. Your new bling has hundreds of “likes” on Facebook, and you can’t help but stare at it whenever the light catches it just right. As you scroll through Pinterest and bombard your wedding board with dozens of ideas, you think you have this planning game in the bag…until you realize you have no idea where to start. Don’t hit the panic button! We’ve got you covered.
KNOW YOUR FINANCES
It’s easy to get swept up into the excitement of planning a wedding. Before you dive in, lay out your budget. Family may be helping pay for portions of the day, and if that is the case you’ll want to have a candid conversation at the onset about what they have budgeted for you and what that budget is intended for. For example, traditionally the groom’s parents pay for the rehearsal dinner, but that doesn’t mean you should expect that of them. Communicating
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your needs with their expectations will alleviate tension early on and keep you and your fiancé within your means so you can enjoy this day instead of having it financially cripple you. Once you have a budget determined, you’ll want to set aside a “safety net” for any unexpected costs that may come up, as well as a small reserve for tips for your vendors.
MANAGE EXPECTATIONS
Let’s face it, you’ve probably been envisioning your wedding day far longer than your fiancé. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t have ideas for what he would like your celebration to look like. Sit down with your budget and discuss what areas are most important to each of you. From there, consult one another before any final decisions are made. His input may be “it doesn’t matter to me” for some details, but giving him the chance to be included sends a strong message to him about how much you value him.
WHO, WHEN & WHERE
Now that you’ve communicated expectations, you can begin digging into planning. Your guest list will be important in knowing what venues you can consider based on capacity size of the space. You don’t need an exact number, but know what your maximum head count will be so each location you visit can help decide if they can accommodate your needs. Many venues book up well in advance, so you’ll want to find your location as soon as possible. You may have a specific date in
mind you’d like for your big day, but be willing to be flexible if you dream location is already booked on that date. Likewise, you may need to veto a venue if the date is a deal breaker. Know which is more important to you—the date or the place—and proceed accordingly.
MEMORY MAKERS
When it comes to making memories, the caterer and entertainment set the mood for the evening and will be talked about for years to come, and the photographer/videographer will be the ones capturing it all through their lens. Visit with at least three vendors in each of these areas so you can not only do a cost comparison, you also feel confident that whomever you hire doesn’t just fit your tastes but is someone you trust.
DÉCOR & MORE
You likely already have a theme in mind for your wedding, but now is the time to plan out the finer details of how it will all come together through things like flowers, décor, centerpieces, color palettes, etc. Finding a florist who can help you create a lot of these elements through their knack for design and talented vision will bring a sense of cohesion to everything else you incorporate. We have great tips for finding vendors that will match your style in the pages of Veil Magazine, as well as our online resources.
BRIDAL PARTY ATTIRE
The gowns and tuxes should be planned out about 9 months in advance to allow enough time for ordering and alterations. While you will likely take the lead on a lot of the planning initiation, having your groom take ownership of menswear will eliminate a lot of undue stress to you. Plan a day that you can go with him to come to an agreement on colors and styles, and then let him coordinate the men from there.
INVITATIONS & REGISTRIES
Once you have your guest list and date set, you can send out Save the Dates so your loved ones can plan ahead to celebrate with you. Actual invitations don’t need to go out until about 45-60 days prior to your date. It’s inevitable that you’ll have a handful of guests that will forget to send back their RSVP by the due date. Plan in an extra week for you and your fiancé to be able to follow up on any unknown RSVPs before your final guest count numbers are due to vendors.
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When it comes to the registry, starting early on isn’t a bad idea as some people will want to buy you a gift as early as your engagement party, but don’t feel pressured to create a more complete registry until the bridal shower invites are ready to go out. You’ll want to revisit your registry after your bridal shower to make sure wedding guests have enough of a selection of items at various price points to browse through. For ideas about what to register for, visit the Veil Magazine website.
DAY-OF CHECKLIST
Plan as you may, there will be the inevitable surprise or two that comes up during the wedding day. However, you can help alleviate a lot of that unnecessary stress by creating a list of things to remember to bring with you on your wedding day, having an agenda printed for your bridal party, and noting any final payments or other vendor-related items that may require your attention. Having a bridal attendant in charge of keeping track of this list and your wedding day needs is a great way to incorporate an important member of your family or friend who couldn’t be a part of the bridal party while allowing you to relax more knowing someone there to help you through the day.
If you feel lost or in need of some guidance, we offer page after page of valuable information and quality vendors within the pages of Veil Magazine. You can also find us online at VeilMagazine. com and follow us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest for hundreds of articles, advice and daily inspiration to carry you through from “Yes” to “I Do.” We would love to hear about your wedding day and all the wonderful details that went into it. Learn how to enter our UnVeiled Love Story contest online, and you could be featured in a future issue of Veil Magazine!
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Romantic VUE by Claire Swinarski
PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography ENTRÉES & VENUE LOCATION Hyatt Regency Milwaukee
When you’re imagining your perfect Wisconsin wedding, what comes to mind? This romantic venue overlooking the stunning Milwaukee skyline brings a beautiful wow factor to a wedding reception. Some of Milwaukee’s top wedding designers came together to bring the space to life, and the romantic, soft look will leave you longing for happily ever after. If you’re low on inspiration when it comes to table decor, consider pulling from your wedding dress! Windy City Linen provided all of the linens, and the soft white, silver and pink will remind guests of how beautiful your gown is. Lace is a major trend in gowns, and bringing some of that delicate beauty to your linens ties everything together. The sheer white overlay in organza and the silver ornamental lace chair cap in particular bring to mind the simple prettiness of a wedding gown.
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Canopies Events with Distinction provided the Saturn silver chargers and silver chiavari ballroom chairs. Kicking your table settings up a notch is a simple way to elevate a feeling of elegance for your reception. No matter how delicious the food is, eating off of an appealing tablescape will make the meal feel even more special. Another must to add elegance to your big day? Lovely florals. Every fairytale deserves a magical garden, and creating one for your wedding reception is a breeze. Melissa at Bank of Flowers suggests tulips and roses with textural greens like bay leaves, seeded eucalyptus, or gunni eucalyptus. The flowers in these snapshots are all from Holland, and the glass stamped candles and strong patterns in the hurricane lanterns are softened by the delicate greenery. Melissa described it as an elegant French garden feel, and the gorgeous arrangements add a burst of
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nature to the understated color scheme. You can also consider adding florals to your cake! Simma’s Bakery provided this stunning cake, with its marbled fondant and edible rice paper flowers. But of course, all of the stunning details need the perfect venue. At the Hyatt Hotel Milwaukee, the team will have your tables, flatware, china and glassware completely ready to go for your guests. Your friends and family can enjoy elegant meals like asiago chicken filled with bread crumbs, fresh herbs with tomato-basil cream sauce, truffle mashed potatoes and asparagus with balsamic butter. The VUE is the Hyatt’s circle rooftop ballroom—the only one of its kind in Milwaukee— offering panoramic views of downtown Brew City. The VUE towers twenty-one stories above Milwaukee and can host anything from receptions to rehearsal dinners to bridal showers to engagement parties. The 4,000 square foot room is sure to leave your guests in awe.
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BRIDAL ATTIRE The bride wore a blush fit-andflair, full lace V-neck, low-back gown with a straight floor-length veil. She complemented it with blush satin shoes, diamond drops earrings, and a baby’s breath flower crown for the reception.
At First Sight by Michelle Drewek
Jacob and Alexandria describe their love story as your classic “boy meets girl at the local watering hole, boy buys girl a shot of tequila, and the rest is history.” In reality, their love was both instantaneous and incredible. They knew very early on that this was going to be forever. “I never knew one person could bring so much happiness to my life,” Alexandria says. After a few months of dating, Jacob landed an internship in New York City. Once the position became full-time, Alexandria packed her bags and joined him on the east coast. “That’s when everything felt real,” Jacob recollects. “I knew that when we got along so well in our tiny New York apartment, we would be together for the rest of our lives. I started nesting money for an engagement ring after about a month together in N.Y.C.!” On August 2, 2014, Jacob and Alexandria took a walk along the Manhattan East River where they just so happened to stumble across a beautiful arrangement
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of roses and champagne. As he got down on one knee, Alexandria realized this was all for her and she said “YES!” without hesitation. But the surprises didn’t stop there. Jacob had arranged for both of their families to join them in New York to celebrate. As they entered their favorite brunch spot, happy tears began flowing when Alexandria laid eyes on both families. Later that year the couple returned to Milwaukee to be closer to family, and it was at that time that Jacob joined the family business, Shully’s Cuisine and Events. Their nearly 35-year reputation proved to be an incredible asset in creating Jacob
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and Alexandria’s dream wedding day, and the couple is forever grateful for their families and the staff at Shully’s that made it all happen. Jacob and Alexandria spent the next year planning their August 2015 wedding. Going into planning they knew the most important detail of their day would be the food, and designing a menu together was an absolute delight for them. What they did not anticipate was just how much time and work it really takes to pull everything together. “It takes a lot!” Jacob says. “My main goal throughout the whole process was simple, though, and that was to make sure my wife had my support and her dream wedding.” The wedding was inspired by a mix of elegance, romance and rustic glam, drawing on the garden chic atmosphere of their ceremony and reception venues. Their ceremony took place at Shully’s East Lawn — a beautiful, natural outdoor space under a canopy of black walnut trees. Bordering the beautifully landscaped Mill Pond, the lush space was complemented by petals filling the aisle between rows of white wooden chairs, with chandeliers, crystals and streams of blush flowers hung in the trees. They were wed by a family friend, and wrote the ceremony together incorporating their love story, vows and readings by close friends. Altogether, the ceremony was “personal, special and very touching.” Following their “I do’s,” guests proceeded to the Watermark, a Victorian inspired venue with a clean, neutral interior that was perfect for them to customize
with linens, centerpieces and décor. Of special importance to their vision was the food. “We may be biased, but it was honestly a five-course extravaganza!” the couple details. “Hors d’oeuvres during cocktail hour and late night food inspired by our favorite N.Y.C. spots really brought it all together. We also had an ice sculpture carved with our wedding monogram that served our raw bar and hors d’oeuvres — an incredible ‘wow’ factor!” Of the memories from that day, Jacob first recollects seeing Alexandria for the first time before the ceremony. “I’m so glad we did a first look because I wouldn’t have been able to keep it together. I couldn’t stop thinking about how lucky I was to be marrying the most beautiful bride.” They also can’t help but smile thinking about the full-on dance party the evening became; the DJ ended up staying until 2 a.m. “We played ‘New York, New York” by Frank Sinatra on repeat!” Following their night to remember, Jacob and Alexandria have a few words of advice for brides-and-grooms-to-be: “Do not throw out your cake. Despite what they tell you, it lasted quite well! Also, be sure to take one moment during the day to step out together and be alone. That moment of intimacy to soak it all in is priceless.” Their happily ever after looks bright as they continue making many more memories together, traveling, growing professionally and enjoying every moment life has in store for them. VeilMagazine.com
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PHOTOGRAPHY Top: Heather Cook Elliott Photography, Bottom Left:: Studio 29 Photography + Design, Bottom Right: The Paper Elephant When you first get engaged, the first thing people do is ask to see that gorgeous rock on your finger. The first question asked is what date you’ve selected for the nuptials. And then everyone usually wonders where you might be holding the big celebration. If you’re like most brides, selecting a venue can be a daunting process, especially if you have very little notion about all the options available in your area and are not quite sure what to consider when finding your reception space. First of all, consider the date you actually have chosen. Did you pick a date in the middle of the summer - high season - or in the traditionally chilly time that has become more popular due to the great designs now available in the cold months? You both need to discuss what you want for your day: a hotel ballroom, a warehouse loft, a vintage barn or a swanky tent. Some of your choices may be limited due to weather if you’ve chosen a time period during the year that is not conducive to an unheated - or non-air conditioned - tent or barn. Sometimes those locations can be accommodating and can bring
in either option if weather necessitates it., but you’ll have to weigh cost with practicality then. Once your date is selected, you’ll want to book a venue that matches the aesthetic you desire as well as your estimated guest list. It’s important to realize how quickly locations book in advance. Many venues start to book two years out - so be sure to make inquiries early. You may also find it easier to select a time of year and, armed with several dates that work for your particular ceremony venue or church, go to the most popular and heavily booked locations with many options open instead of just a single date to try and match together. Or, you may not care so much about an exact venue as you do a particular caterer or service level. If that is the case, you’ll want to encompass all the properties covered by that vendor to better understand your options regarding room and capacity size as well as style. Even if you are set with a single date, or you started a bit late and most of the locations you were considering are all booked up throughout the season, all is not entirely lost. There are many vendors, especially here in Veil Magazine, that
have multiple locations with the same high level of service, food design and host in a variety of settings sure to fit with your wedding hopes in some manner. So while sometimes it is important to choose an interior vibe that best describes your personal style, when food or some other element is equally important to you, it can help to open your horizons to include other venues you may not have initially added to your list. Remember, a reception is where you can get creative about your tastes and offer up dishes that can be a memorable part of the evening. This is also an important part of your guests’ experience, beyond the venue surroundings itself. If you choose a location that can provide a culinary and gastronomic memory, it will be something guests remember for a long time. Therefore, once your venue and caterer are selected, you will want to go over the type of service that you’ll be providing your guests. Here’s a brief summary of your options. Heavy Appetizers: This option for food service is best used for midday events, morning brunches or cocktail receptions. A combination
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Stay true to Milwaukee style with a wedding at The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel. The beautiful ballroom, impeccable service, and a Third Ward location that makes it convenient for guests to both get here and get around are reasons enough to put a ring on it.
Jennifer Wallner WAR MEMORIAL CENTER CHOOSING THE IDEAL CEREMONY AND RECEPTION VENUES is overwhelming. You desire beautiful, convenient and impeccable. Enter the War Memorial Center, located in the heart of Milwaukee. Boasting breathtaking views of Lake Michigan and the city’s skyline, the War Memorial Center proves it’s perfect for both your ceremony and reception. “The value of this venue is unmatched in the city,” says bride-to-be Jennifer Metz, also the Center’s events manager. “Our weddings and events are true celebrations of the lives and freedom we have in part due to the sacrifices our military and veterans have made.” The War Memorial Center houses Fitch Plaza, used typically for outdoor ceremonies and social hours, and Memorial Hall, an indoor space. Fitch Plaza offers a lake view that’s second to none. “Paired with the backdrop of our building, which is an architectural landmark, and the city skyline, you cannot find a more beautiful location for your wedding ceremony,” Jennifer says. The Plaza
can also host your outdoor reception. And due to Wisconsin’s unpredictable weather, Jennifer and the event staff monitor it the morning of your event, moving any outdoor festivities inside if necessary. The large Memorial Hall accommodates 260 guests, yet is wonderfully intimate. Its west wall features floor-to-ceiling windows, where your guests will enjoy Milwaukee’s skyline at sunset. When renting the War Memorial Center, you get the entire venue — indoors and out — and
visit the Center’s many memorials and displays. After years of working in the restaurant industry, Jennifer turned her talents to catering and weddings. Loving her job, meeting engaged couples and a knack for planning led to events and weddings and, ultimately, the War Memorial Center. “I personally work with each and every couple to make sure all details are in place for your special day,” where she is present at most weddings, handling setup and vendor coordination. Event and maintenance staffs are present throughout your event, ensuring a flawless night — your night to remember for a lifetime.
“PAIRED WITH THE BACKDROP OF OUR BUILDING… AND THE CITY SKYLINE, YOU CANNOT FIND A MORE BEAUTIFUL LOCATION FOR YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY.” your event will be the only one of the day. Rental also includes use of one area for six hours, tables, chairs, staff setup/teardown, dance floor, head table risers and sound systems. And, the Plaza has an arch you can decorate. Guests may also
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Whether you are planning an intimate wedding or a grand-scale party for 1,000 guests, Potawatomi Hotel & Casino has exquisite rooms to meet your every need. Our professional catering managers are ready to help you create an unforgettable event that perfectly suites your style. Ramhorn is like no other Farm in Wisconsin! Ramhorn is piece of Wisconsin history located just 30 minutes north of Milwaukee. It is a collection of southeast Wisconsin buildings from the early to mid 1800’s, surrounded by beautiful gardens. A spectacular 9,200 sq.ft. grand ballroom opens up to the outside with a 3,500 square foot canopied deck. Panoramic views abound and $1.5 million in LED lighting make for magic and romance on demand.
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The Seeboth is a dramatic urban special event venue located in the heart of Milwaukee's Historic Walker's Point neighborhood. With its exposed Cream City brick and beams it is sure to please the modern bride. It provides a mix of glamour and warmth in a rustic urban setting within a renovated Historic building.
New in 2013, The Watermark, our private event space is located on the beautifully landscaped Mill Pond. The room is spacious, elegant and a perfect fit for any style and of course, it's Shully's Cuisine.
A beautiful banquet hall located on the third floor of the War Memorial Center, offering sweeping views of downtown Milwaukee through floor to ceiling windows. Outdoor options available on our newly updated Fitch Plaza overlooking Lake Michigan.
Tracy Bredl YOU’VE ACCEPTED HIS PROPOSAL and see your fairytale wedding begin. A Milwaukee wedding has always been in the cards—it’s just a matter of where. Turn to Hyatt Regency Milwaukee for personalized service, high-quality food and spectacular views guaranteed to wow. Heading up all social events, including weddings, is Tracy Bredl, Senior Event Sales Manager. In 2014, Tracy brought her wedding planning experience to Hyatt, where she works with each couple from start to finish. Tracy will work with your vendors, assist with Hyatt’s wedding packages that are “easy to navigate and also completely customizable,” and be on site for the big day to ensure flawlessness. This Hyatt experience delivers a destination for all, even guests from the Milwaukee area. “We are truly a one-stop shop,” Tracy says of the 481 guest rooms and 33,000 square feet of event space. Guests can stay overnight in Hyatt’s
lavish rooms while enjoying the simplicity of one location for your ceremony and reception. Quite often, ceremonies are held in the Executive Ballroom, where 300 of those near and dear can view the vow exchange. Receptions also occur here, in which the room transforms into an intimate setting with dinner service for 150. Need a larger space? The Regency Grand Ballroom seats up to 600 guests and may be split in half for smaller weddings. But if you’re longing for breathtaking views of Milwaukee, you’ll be smitten with Hyatt’s VUE rooftop ballroom, a space consisting of a cocktail-hour ballroom and a second hosting up to 170 for dinner. VUE opened in October 2015 as a new, modern space complete with 360 degrees of windows. Formerly the rotating Polaris restaurant, the now-private event space offers views of Lake Michigan, downtown, the Allen-Bradley clock tower, Miller Park and many other skyline and
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well-known landmarks. From plated dinners to buffets, vegetarian cuisine to desserts, Hyatt’s chefs prepare farm-to-table food and beverages with expert precision. Even your rehearsal dinner or morning brunch will contain delicious morsels to delight guests. “I truly feel that couples will not only have a great event for their wedding but also will find a long-lasting relationship with us and the staff at Hyatt,” Tracy says of the highly customized experience couples receive. “We want you to feel at home every time you walk through the door.”
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of stationary food items and passed or experiential appetizers is the likely route to ensure guests have time and opportunity to get some food in their belly. Because alcohol is usually part of the event, you’ll want to emphasis having food with a bit of weight using meats and breads as well as considering vegetarian dishes as well. You can liven this up with appetizers that match your theme, colors, or even are presented in unique ways, such as on acrylic trays or in ice shooters. Buffet: While this is another more informal way to feed your guests, you need never worry about guests being hungry later, as everyone can fill their plates with however much food they think they need. You can also create a very familiar, cozy environment with guests getting served in a ‘family style’ way at each table, which is a step up from the traditional long buffet line but still allows for bulk food options. There is a myth that buffets can be less expensive than a plated meal, but that is not true. Buffets require extra amounts of food to be bought by your caterer to ensure that they don’t run out as people fill their own plates and portion sizes cannot be controlled. Carving Stations: This is truly a culinary experience for your guests - getting to select, point and watch as their food is being cut and served. Carving stations do not even need to be confined to meat. You can have potato bar stations, pasta bars, sauteed vegetable and seafood bars, or even an omelette bar if you’re hosting a brunch reception. Carving stations tend to end quicker, so while this is a buffet type of serving style, be sure that your guests are aware that there is an end time to the food being available. Small Plates: A classy step up from carving stations and ‘help yourself ’ bars, small plates are exactly what they sound like: small plates of pre-served food that guests can grab. There are
usually several small plate stations throughout a reception room, but they can be fancier items, such as lobster, scallops, certain types of beef cuts or specialized pastas. The pates are expedited by whatever chef is manning the station, so they have the finished appeal of a plated meal but in smaller portions. This is an elegant way to still create the movement in the room you’d get with a buffet or carving stations but offers a more delectable cuisine. Plated: This is the traditional way to serve a wedding meal. Whether you allow your guests to choose their entree table side, on the RSVP cards, or offer one single dish, plated meals are the most formal way to feed your guests at the reception. You will have several servers on hand to make sure tables are served relatively at the same time, allowing guests to dive into a fully created and executed meal with proper Studio 29 Photography + Design
proportions and final design. It is still possible to have unique dining experiences with a plated meal. Offer an amuse bouche, sorbet before the entree, or have a cheese and fig course before offering cake. You are the masters of the menu at your reception: have fun, even when doing something traditional. Remember your reception should be a reflection of your wedding style, but that doesn’t mean you are limited to a vintage venue if you want vintage flair or specific meal options. You can create that vibe with everything from the decor, lighting and the food service, so don’t feel completely edged in by your theme. Select what fits all pieces of your wedding and your personality the best and you won’t be left with any questions about your final decision.
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PHOTOGRAPHY Studio 29 Photography + Design Weddings are more than just a one-day event. Parties from bridal showers to bachelor/ ette parties, rehearsal dinners to receptions, a lot of venue considerations come into play. Before you jump into planning these events, you need to come prepared. We’ve compiled a Party Directory to help guide your search for the perfect venue, no matter the occasion, but first read on to learn more about what you should be considering along the way. First, consider how many people will be in attendance. You want to make sure that the space that is chosen to host the event will comfortably fit the guest list. Comfortably means making sure there is not only enough space to seat everyone, but also enough room for mingling and any activities that may take place. If you are having a bridal luncheon, for example, people will mostly be sitting at their tables or casually standing nearby to chat with other guests. At a bridal shower, however,
space for a gift table will also need to be accounted for, as well as enough space for the gift opening to take place in. Likewise, a wedding reception will need to not only accommodate for guests and a gift table, but also a bar and dance floor. Go into
at opposite ends of the spectrum. You want to have a location that no only is conducive to the atmosphere you want your party to have, but that your party is also conducive to that space. A third thing to consider is the amenities. Things like bar service, entertainment and food offerings may be what makes or breaks your decision to opt for or against a location. Venues all have their own rules when it comes to caterers and bartenders. Before hiring a catering company, find out the rules of the venue you are using. They may require you use their in-house catering/menu or a caterer they directly contract with. If you are keen on having a particular caterer, then your search for a location knowing what you you may need to look at a different location if will need to accommodate for so the venue can your first choice has specific regulations. tell you what will and will not work. Bartenders are a similar topic to discuss. Do Next, consider the atmosphere. The type of they have specific bartenders you can hire, or mood you will be setting with a bridal luncheon do you need to hire outside bartenders. What versus a bachelorette party will most likely be types of fees are associated with using the bar
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Exquisite indoor/outdoor space with sunset views for intimate ceremonies, rehearsal dinners, and post-wedding brunches — there's nothing else like it in the city.
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service? How long do you need bar service for? Have these questions answered ahead of time so when you visit the venue, you are prepared to cover all of your bases. Finally, come in with a budget. It is easy to get carried away planning an unforgettable night. The budget will keep you levelheaded so you don’t leave having spent more than you can afford. If price becomes an issue, see what types of suggestions the venue has. Depending on their years of experience, they have probably seen and heard it all by now. They are experts in the area of party planning, so voice your concerns ahead of time before they become an issue. Planning a party is something to take seriously because a lot gets invested into making sure your guests have a good time. By preparing yourself before diving in head first, you will eliminate a lot of unnecessary stress and end up with an unforgettable event. Let our Party Directory help get you get the party started!
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TIMETABLE–AT–A–GLANCE 6-12 MONTHS
-Set a budget and discuss the sharing of expenses -Decide on the type of wedding (formal, semi-formal, informal; and season). -Choose a ceremony site -Select a wedding consultant -Decide on wedding theme
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-Book officiant and discuss alternative dates -Decide size of wedding party and choose attendants (including ushers) -Shop for dress and accessories -Compile bride’s and groom’s guest lists -Decide on florist and flowers
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-Select and book photographer -Book florist -Have engagement photos taken -Mail Save-the-Date cards -Book entertainment
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-Select men’s formal wear -Make honeymoon plans -Register for gifts at one or two stores -Choose favors and order invitations, personal stationery, programs, napkins, etc -Reserve rental items: candelabra, arches, canopy, linens, etc
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-Arrange rehearsal dinner -Address wedding invitations -Discuss details of menu with caterer -Discuss service with officiant -Choose readings for ceremony -Write wedding vows, if you choose
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-Schedule appointments for hair stylist, facial, manicure, massage -Invite wedding party and guests to rehearsal dinner -Review reception seating and order place cards -Record gifts as you receive them. Write thank-you notes accordingly
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-Finalize seating plan -Pick up wedding rings, check engravings and sizes -Final consultations: caterer, florist, musicians, photographer, videographer
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-Give announcements to an attendant for mailing after the wedding -Have a manicure and a pedicure -Attend ceremony and rehearsal dinner -Distribute gifts to the wedding party, special attendants and parents, to thank them for their support
-Select music for ceremony & reception -Book caterer -Book videographer -Choose bakery -Select wedding and groom’s cake
-Purchase wedding rings; order engraving. -Reserve limousine, carriage, trolley or coach transportation. -Book a room for wedding night. -Sign up for dance lessons (if desired) -Make honeymoon plans and reservations.
-Review floral arrangements and review the final order -Buy attendants’ gifts and gifts for each other -Experiment with makeup and hairstyles -Acquire name change forms, if taking your fiancés name
-Have programs printed. -Begin seating plan and write or order place cards. -Buy marriage license and request certified copies. -Send wedding announcement to local newspapers.
-Arrange for gown cleaning and bouquet preservation after wedding -Give final guest count to reception facility and caterer -Write toasts for rehearsal dinner and wedding reception -Break in wedding shoes at home
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PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography Some of the most special moments of your wedding are the toasts given by all the people who love you both. But before your guests raise their glasses, make sure that the champagne in their stemware is as tasteful as the well wishes you receive. Over ten and a half years ago, Gary Ozuna started Bartenders On The Go when he realized there was a need for a serious enthusiastic bartending and beverage specialization service in Milwaukee. Having lived and worked on the East Coast, as well as Houston and Austin, Gary has insight to the latest hot trends, creative cocktails and newest themes. Europe is also an extensive research and informational guide for him, and Gary travels there often. In Wisconsin, Gary Ozuna’s staff of licensed and energetic professionals not only get excited about their work, but they also strive to create a memorable experience for your guests. “I believe in hiring fun,
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qualified employees who really want to be there,” Gary divulges. Bartenders on the Go is more than just a bartending service, and in fact, is practically a one-stop shop for your event, offering wedding consultations and menu design in addition to guaranteeing your
guests will be served a properly mixed martini with the same suave service you’d find at a high scale bar. Gary recommends that couples look for several key factors when vetting options for beverage services. Check if the company is
licensed and insured, and find out whether the bartenders are capable, outgoing, and professional in demeanor and appearance. Will the company you’re hiring actually provide you and your guests with great service all throughout the preparing process? Gary knows amazing service goes beyond serving a good drink. “Recently a couple ran behind the bar to give me a hug. It took me a second to realize that I had organized their daughter’s wedding years ago and they were still complimenting my company. That’s when I know that what I do is all worthwhile.” Gary also customizes drink menus for your event, and creating specialty cocktails is something of an art form; one that Gary has perfected. “It’s a custom craft,” he explains. “And it’s why we do custom beverage packages as well - no two weddings are the same.” Couples can pick their preferred types of liquor, wine and beer to be served according to their budget and personal preferences.
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Bartenders On The Go works with you to uncover the details that make your event unique. In addition, Gary’s team of servers can even dress in theme for your wedding, or simply don their standard uniform of a classy black vest, white dress shirt and a tie.
Bartenders on the Go is so well known for providing high quality service that the Historic Pritzlaff, Marquette University, the Pfister Hotel, and various others choose Gary’s experienced and talented staff to fill positions for major events. But whatever the occasion
is for a celebration, Gary declares, “A fun and professional bartending service is one important piece that can help make an event extremely memorable.”
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PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography When it comes to your wedding meal, you’re probably focused on the main course, the cake, or your signature drink. But if you want to add a kick of caffeine and be a bit more outside the box, having a custom espresso bar can up the ante and add an unexpected treat for your guests. It’s pretty common to have coffee served after your meal, but it’s typically just plain brewed joe. By having a custom espresso bar, you can serve your guests lattes, mochas, or cappuccinos in specialty flavors for a whole new after-dinner caffeine experience. When Ryan Mason opened Roast Coffee Catering 10 years ago, it started as a small retail coffee location. But Roast Coffee Catering is now the premier coffee and espresso bar catering company in Wisconsin and has taken the wedding scene by storm. In 2009, they were asked to provide espresso bar service for a corporate event, and after hearing the suggestion from a wedding
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photographer to start catering weddings, Mason took the notion and ran with it. Brides and grooms routinely want to provide a unique service at their reception that leaves guests talking, and a coffee bar serviced by professional
baristas with made-to-order drinks and specialty concoctions is always a huge hit. As everything is about the details, Roast Coffee Catering uses local ingredients whenever possible. The baristas at the Roast Coffee
Catering have been trained in the art of espresso preparation, how to properly steam milk and offer the best customer service. Roast also makes sure there are no hidden costs in the paperwork. This means every couple knows that their mocha infused-drink is included, as is delivery and set-up, all in one bill. That kind of level and attention to detail is required when handling many people while still keeping the orders straight and the quality of the product perfect. Why should brides consider having an espresso bar at their wedding? “Coffee is such an overlooked piece at any wedding. To do a specialty espresso bar is something that a lot of caterers don’t offer, and that’s where we fit in. It’s a great tie between the after-dinner dessert and dancing. It’s something that people don’t typically see and when they do, they’re really impressed by it. Having an espresso bar also helps people get up
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Ryan Mason ROAST COFFEE CATERING after the meal and start dancing. “Any bride can have coffee at their wedding, but we love doing weddings where coffee means something to the bride. Either brides who met their grooms in a coffee shop, or they both work at a coffee shop, or coffee is just part of their story. It can be a unique way to add that bit of personality to your wedding. “Brides also use the coffee bar as their wedding favor a lot. Instead of having a throwaway item on the table, your guests can have a custom beverage that they can enjoy then and there.” What kinds of drinks does Roast Coffee Catering offer at weddings? “We stay away from plain brewed coffee,
because that’s what catering companies handle. Our drinks are meant to add a culinary touch to the meal. We make a roseberry latte, which is strawberry and rosemary. We do a sweet ginger latte, which has hints of ginger and vanilla. We do harvest lattes in the fall. One of our packages offers custom latte flavors that we work with the bride to create, if they want to add in their favorite flavor or match it to their wedding cake. We really do a wide range of beverages.” What should brides know about budgeting for an espresso bar? “Most brides view having an espresso bar as a luxury item, but it’s not as expensive as you might think it is. We have two different
packages and can work with a bride to make it as affordable as possible. Also, by having a custom espresso bar, you could be driving down the cost of an open bar since some people may choose coffee over a cocktail.” What have brides said about having a custom espresso bar? “Brides absolutely rave about it. I’ve had brides tell me that having a coffee bar was a non-negotiable at their wedding. They say their guests are still talking about it months after their wedding — you don’t see it very often, so when you do, it’s something that guests remember.”
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Audio & Lighting: Majic Productions Ceremony Music: Gabriel’s Horns Flowers: Dahlia Blooms Furniture Rental: AFR Furniture Rental & CORT Events Hair & Makeup: WELL Spa® + Salon Honeymoon Location: Finland, Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Iceland Invitations & Stationery: Paperwhites Officiant: Anne Dawson, Friend of Brides Reception DJ: Double Platinum DJ Service Transportation: Blackline Limousines Wedding Band Rings: New York Jewelers Wedding Cake: Sweet Tooth Bakery Wedding Gowns: Tricia - Macy’s & Kelly - Haute & Co. Bridal Boutique
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It was almost 9 years to the day that Tricia and Kelly were wed from the day they first met. They both describe each other as the balance they needed in their life, and the one person they derive much of their inspiration from. They were each a pillar of strength during times of hardship the other was facing. And above all, they value love, family and friendship as the most important thing in life. With 62 of their nearest and dearest in attendance, Tricia and Kelly became wives in a place close to their hearts for the many memories they’ve created there — the Milwaukee Art Museum — and did so in a celebration that was all their own. THE PROPOSAL Tricia: I had semi-asked/suggested we get married for a couple years. WAY before Kelly was ready for anything like that. So I finally said, “OK, I won’t ask again. When you want to get married, you’ll have to ask me.” And a couple of years later, she did! Kelly: I knew I wanted to make the day a special day, that I wanted to surprise her, and that I wanted to profess my love and devotion to her. The plan was to profess my love at the prow Windhover Hall. I waited for the area to mostly clear out and walked her over and started my speech.
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Tricia: I was being oblivious to what was actually happening and got embarrassed as she was saying all these nice things about me that I tried to run away! Kelly finally had to grab me, she laughed and said, “Get back here, I’m trying to propose to you!” Kelly: I made a little red origami crane to hold the ring in vintage heart shaped jewelry box we bought together many years ago. INSPIRATION Winter was the inspiration. We wanted a winter ski chalet feel but a modern interpretation and sophisticated enough that it would complement the beautiful interior architecture of the Museum.
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WORTH EVERY PENNY Tricia: Dynamic Events By David Caruso. Being a planner type person myself, it was invaluable to me to be able to just focus on what we wanted and hand it off to David to handle. That was really my wedding gift to myself.
that no matter who you are you can make your wedding whatever you want it to be and have it be as traditional, contemporary or uniquely your own as you want. Don’t fall into the Hallmark trap; think about what makes you happy and not what you think would make others happy.
PERSONAL TOUCH We incorporated some universal traditions, but mostly focused on our own unique touches. We both wore dresses and waited to see each other until we were walking down the aisle and met at the platform. We also wanted to do a fun, usable giveaway and David came up with the idea of a fur pillow for their seat, which everyone and we totally loved. We also had a bird of paradise flower arrangement to honor Kelly’s grandmother and Tricia sewed a heart pendant with her dad’s thumbprint on it into her dress.
Tricia: A wedding/marriage/relationship is about the two people involved. Do what feels right for you even if others don’t quite “get it.” It’s a celebration of you and a confirmation of your commitment to each other. Don’t force it into a mold of what others have done or “tradition.”
FIRST LOOK Kelly: She looked more beautiful than I could have imagined, and I was bursting at the seams to see her and talk to her because she insisted we wait until the ceremony. She was the full package; from head to toe stunning! Tricia: She was perfect! Flowing curls, satiny dress, and the biggest smile ever. I hadn’t seen her dress or anything so was just trying to take it all in, as she did the same with me. She looked so happy and I think we were both a bit overwhelmed and a little relieved that the time had finally come. ADVICE FOR COUPLES Kelly: Less is more. The fewer things you do the better you can do them and the more developed and incorporated you can make them, allowing for an experience that has great flow as well as things that are relevant and memorable. You deserve the day you’ve always dreamed of. The point to all this is
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IF ONLY I KNEW THEN… Honestly, I was dreading the process, but doing this with my wife and David Caruso it honestly was a total blast. When you trust someone like we trusted David — and we did because of his portfolio and professionalism — it makes decision-making that much easier. He had a vision to achieve our dreams and seemingly with little effort steered the larger team and guided decision-making artfully. It really felt like everyone on the team enjoyed the process and that is a testament to David. I wanted a winter wedding but one thing I didn’t think about that was sort of a bummer when I realized it was that the sun goes down super early in January, but we chose the venue because of the architecture so the option for exterior shots that night were limited. This is something small, but something to keep in mind when planning a winter wedding. In the end the amazing Eron of Front Room Photography put my mind to ease noting that overcast days and a dark backdrop can add a level of lighting drama that you can’t get on a sunny day.
Following their heartfelt “I Do’s,” guests enjoyed the intimately designed dining area. David and his team arranged family-style table seating, in which rectangular tables formed a large square with an open space in the center — where Tricia and Kelly would later have their first dance. The area was surrounded by soft, sheer drapery, and embellished with crystals completely enclosing "the ceiling", and antler chandeliers hanging above the table arrangements. This layout brought all of their guests together at dinner, able to mingle in the warmth and comfort afforded by the design within the spacious Hall. The room was filled with enchanting harmonies of chatter and laughter!
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Dynamic Events By David Caruso Tricia and Kelly’s wedding was both elegant and intimate, combining the comfort of a winter ski chalet with the extraordinary architecture of the Milwaukee Art Museum. Windhover Hall, a 40-foot by 20-foot space within the heart of the museum, hosted their 62-person wedding, which presented a unique design challenge in wanting to display both the immaculate Hall without overpowering the intimacy of their celebration. The couple enlisted the brilliant team of Dynamic Events By David Caruso to create the setting for their beautiful day. Both Tricia and Kelly wanted to walk down the aisle at the same time, but didn’t want to see one another until they reached the ceremony platform. To accomplish this, David set up two angular aisles with guests on either side of them. Upon reaching the platform, they met in the middle, and the brides expressed being absolutely blown away in that moment by their beautiful wife-to-be.
To carry the same social engagement from the dinner arrangement throughout the remainder of the evening, David staged lounge seating areas with couches and coffee tables around the dance floor and DJ area. His genius design engaged people beyond their dinner conversations and brought the guests into every part of the expansive venue, all while keeping the intimate allure alive. In addition to the spectacular framework, David and his team put together the final touches. With winter as the inspiration, silver, champagne and navy blue were the base palette with textures of fur and birch wood incorporated throughout. Accent elements of crystals, mirrors, antlers and foxes (a nod to one of the brides) made the museum their very own chalet. “We want to thank David Caruso and his team for all they did, seen and unseen, to bring our beautiful wedding day together,” the couple expresses. “As designers, it was a new experience being the customer. We were beyond thrilled with how the evening turned out; it was everything we hoped for and so much more! The organization, the attention to detail, their ability to make our wishes come true and align it all with our budget was achieved with seaming ease even though we know they worked hard to accomplish this all for us. We are grateful for their guidance, experience, and artistry.”
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PHOTOGRAPHY By Erika Dufour for Debi Lilly/A Perfect Event and Windy City Linen Windy City Linen opened its doors in 2008 with just 2,500 square feet and three owners at the helm. They had no sales reps but themselves, and fulfilled deliveries in their cars until they hired their first full-time rep. Not long after their humble start, they moved to a new location in 2009 to meet client demands, but quickly outgrew that space and within two years had to obtain a new section bringing their total square footage to 15,000. And in 2016 they bought their first building, a much larger warehouse in Wheeling. Their larger space includes a beautiful showroom, as well as a sewing room so they can fabricate their own linens. And, they are still growing, especially in the Wisconsin market! Windy City recently added a new sales rep, Tera Stamm. Tera spent eight years in the industry as a hotel banquet manager, restaurant manager and special events coordinator at Miller Park. She also has four years in the linen rental field under her
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belt prior to joining Windy City Rentals. “I needed to be hands on, creative and in an environment of change and excitement,” Tera says of her decision to go into the industry. “I truly believe in personal relationships. It is my first goal of any relationship to
understand the client and get to know them in order to then move onto their event needs. I enjoy listening to client’s ideas, their dreams and overall look for their event. It is important for me that they feel heard with my response in linen suggestions and service. These are my events as well and I take pride in each and
every order,” Tera says. Tera joins sales rep Kathy Carlson, who worked in the hospitality industry prior to joining the team. She formed relationships and transitioned through several roles over the course of her career before coming full circle to where she is today. “Wisconsin is a large territory to cover and Tera’s non-stop smiling approach to everything is so contagious she inspires me to work harder,” Kathy says of her new co-worker. Windy City Linen has been trusted with a variety of well-known clients: Make-A-Wish foundation, Lollapalooza and Cars.com, to name a few. Their team has experience to handle any event, wedding or corporate, big or small. And although they are based in the Chicago area, Windy City Linen has moves business into Wisconsin to reach a unique market with a beautiful product at a very competitive price. Despite not being based in Wisconsin, they are no more expensive for a couple as a
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Kathy Carlson & Tera Stamm WINDY CITY LINEN, LLC result. In fact, they have local production crews that can set up and strike events, and delivery trucks are in the area twice each week. The addition of a new sales rep in Wisconsin is another boost in terms of client service. To assist out-of-town clients, they’ve set up a helpful, convenient swatch request tool on their website for brides interested in the fabulous Windy City Linen selection of colors and textures. Windy City Linen offers many beautiful and seasonal colors in their Classic, Lamour, Bengaline and Shantung Lines. They are constantly adding new items to their already sensational inventory. Their products aren’t the only boast-worthy part of what they do. Windy City Linen has been told time and again by clients that their customer service is the best amongst their competitors. Their knowledgeable staff and friendly nature lend to that stellar reputation. “A couple can expect to be assisted by a knowledgeable representative that can give them ideas on how linen will accent their event,” Kathy explains. “Sometimes the smallest things can be forgotten with so much planning to do, and we want to make that planning easier by being the expert on options, sizing, layouts, color combinations and any other assistance we can provide.” “I believe that a table cloth, napkin, runner or chair piece can become the canvas on which to build your perfect event look,” Tera says, offering advice to clients. “When choosing linens you can be
creative. Find that one element of the event that you want to highlight and use table linens to enhance that look. Napkins can give a pop of color, a table runner can add texture or color that provides a unique added element. Table linens allow the focus of the room to be on the tables and not on the room carpet or wall color. Chair covers and chair enhancements bring in that final piece that ties the complete look together. Have fun with linens, play with different color schemes, different textures or introduce 2 or 3 different looks depending on the size of the event.” As far as day-of service, you will be taken care of by their fabulous on-site staff that will assist with the setting up of the linen and chair covers for the event. They also add that when ordering chair cover, they include the chair tie at no additional cost. From start to finish, they have you covered! “We enjoy what we do and we value each of our clients,” Kathy emphasizes. “We want to provide you with options, pricing and service that will exceed your expectations for you perfect day!”
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Close your eyes and begin to imagine your wedding day. You can see how your color palette translates through each detail, hear your family and friends laughing, smell the amazing floral arrangements; every sight, sound and smell is distinctive. No one knows distinction better than Canopies Events with Distinction. With 28-plus years of industry experience, these experts in party rental equipment are more than just a tent and furniture company, they are creators, with a large assortment of offerings. They can take your venue or outside event and work with you to create an unbelievable day. Throughout the years, Canopies has worked with many planners, venues and vendors. Because of these relationships, they know what can be done and will go above and beyond their call of duty for you, working alongside your wedding day team. Their experience and respected reputation within the industry is another testament to not only how brilliant their work has been, but also how transcendent they can make your event. And, Canopies brings more than exceptional knowledge to the table. As your guests sit down to dinner, they will be wining from stemware and dining from high-end china thanks to their large, eclectic collection of glassware and china. But, an event with distinction wouldn’t be complete without a floor to dance the night away on. Canopies
will make sure that from first bite to last dance, you and your guests are taken care of. They truly are the culmination of your wedding’s foundation. Best of all, their undying passion for their work makes every event not only one of detailed execution, but beautiful splendor. What brings it all together is their unsurpassed customer service. It begins and ends with you, and they aren’t satisfied until they know they have gone above and beyond to make your once-in-a-lifetime happily ever after a complete success. They will work with you to see that each of your requests are taken care of, be it through them or with the help of one of their many industry connections. Canopies will always recommend the best fit for each event. For them, it’s not about selling. Rather, it’s about what’s best for the final results. The family-owned company was founded by the Hudak family in 1995. Margo Hudak is one of the first people you will meet when booking a rental. Her pleasant, outgoing personality makes her a natural at her job of fielding phone calls and directing customers to the appropriate person at Canopies to assist them, or working with them herself if the event is a smaller one, for example, a rehearsal dinner or baby shower. Margo is happy to assist customers in whatever method they prefer, whether it is a personal meeting, call, email or even a text. The most
rewarding part of her day is interacting with her clients to deliver them great customer service and quality rentals that go above and beyond what they could have imagined. Another friendly face you will see at Canopies belongs to Jackie Kachelmeyer. She grew up around Canopies and handles a variety of services—everything from working in the office to working in the warehouse. She might even be out for your delivery as the event is set up. “I really enjoy working with the people, meaning both my coworkers and customers. I know that planning a major event—or even just throwing a house party—can be stressful, so it's fulfilling knowing that we can help make things amazing, or just easier for the client,” Jackie says. When it comes to event planning and choosing what you want out of a venue, Jackie says it’s important for clients to decide what they truly want, and then the Canopies staff will make their event special for both them and their guests to be remembered for years to come. “I think we do a good job of getting to know the specific needs or desires of our clients. If you take the time to come in and talk with us, we do our very best to make your vision a reality,” Jackie says. To begin planning, knowing your location is key. Will you event be outside in a public space?
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customer focused and driven to give you the best results! Doug has worked on many events over the years, and no two events are alike. “What I like about my job is that because no two events are the same, no two days for me are the same,” he says. From May through October, he spends more time out of the office than in as he meets clients, inspects job sites, completes walk-throughs and supervises installations. Doug does hands-on work to reach his goal, which is for each customer to be completely satisfied with their rental experience and to help them navigate through the planning and execution of an event with as little stress as possible. When asked what advice he has for clients, Doug says DAV ID HU DAK MARGO HUDAK JACKIE KACH E LM E YE R that it’s best to get started sooner than later. “It is never too early to begin Or will you be holding your ceremony or reception on private property. the rental process or to place your rental order. The sooner you begin, You chose an outdoor wedding because of the splendor of the natural the more likely what you are looking for will be available,” Doug says. surroundings and you will want to accent that beauty with lighting and Another part of the planning process is being prepared. That early décor. With the right tent and lighting, your outdoor wedding can be planning can be key in overcoming or adapting to any last minute as elaborate as the Garden of Eden or as majestic as a grand ballroom. unexpected surprises the day of. Weather is a major factor in planning Knowing your space is key to achieving your dream look for your big an outdoor wedding, and your guests’ comfort should be a top priority. day, and the professionals at Canopies can assist you to customize the Even with the best-laid plans, Mother Nature still has a mind of her space to your desire. own. Be prepared for your guests. Once all is said and done, an outdoor During your interactions with Canopies, you’ll also likely meet Doug wedding is no more complicated than an indoor wedding. And with the Barzyk, who works in sales for Canopies, bringing with him over 20 right direction from a wonderful team, like the team at Canopies, your years of experience in the Milwaukee event rental industry. He’s also a wedding day will be filled with the magic, sunshine and roses you have graduate of UW-Milwaukee and served for two years of active duty in always dreamed of. the Army and 19 years in the Army Reserves. In sales, Doug meets a lot Canopies Events with Distinction is focused on making the best of people, measures a lot of yards, and is familiar with many venues. He’s memories for you and your family and friends.
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SKETCHES AND PHOTOS COURTESY OF Kathy Maersch - Barking Pony Studios By the time you contact us, you have made one of the most important decisions of your lifetime. In celebration of this commitment, you both will treasure the company of those people most important to you. Once that special day arrives, you will have made dozens of additional decisions about how you wish it to be, perhaps hundreds. Not surprisingly, you may be new at this. You probably have friends and family members offering assistance with the details of your wedding day. Take it, but do so cautiously. These people know you best, and may have insight into your personal style that goes unnoticed to you. They may, at times, need to be reminded that this is your day. Be patient and hear them out, gently reminding them that your wishes and vision need to remain their priority. Every venue, whether for a service, reception, or both, will offer opportunities as well
as challenges, not always in equal measure. For over 20 years, the artists of Barking Pony Studios have met these challenges and developed these opportunities in all manner of spaces. Your individual style can grace any place you choose. Among the possibilities are tents, hotel
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ballrooms, private residences, museums, country clubs, restaurants, warehouses, barns, and even open fields. We work closely with your venue staff in determining what the facility will
allow, as well as provide, in the way of flexibility to make your plans work. Once you have established the where and when, it is time to think about what it is you wish to accomplish with your decor decisions. Having a vision, as well as a budget in mind is paramount at this point. Our experience in assisting couples in focusing that vision has served to make each aspect of the experience as simple and straightforward as it must be. Over the years we have incorporated fabrics, crystals, and an array of natural materials into our work, and will offer samples of these for your consideration. We only get one chance to make this day spectacular, which does not mean that it has to be difficult. You have plenty to do, and we know that. When your guests walk in, you want them to remember what they see at that moment, forever. This is where their experience begins,
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and it should be nothing short of captivating. We urge our clients to use as much of the available space as possible. A few large signature focal points is usually more desirable than a scattering of small objects that ultimately get overlooked, and forgotten. Large rooms or tents with high ceilings offer great possibilities for stunning fabric treatments, as well as beautiful custom light fixtures, of which we have made many. There are times that a particular feature of a room should be covered, perhaps eliminating an unsightly painting or object that you’d rather not see in your photographs. Online resources, such as Pinterest, can be helpful in developing your vision, and they can at the same time cause great confusion. We urge you THE ARTIST GROUP
to use your best judgement, and narrow your focus toward those aspects of your personalities that will best translate into a stunning visual experience for you and your guests. Our experience has shown us that these websites tend to make novices into experts almost overnight, at least in the minds of some people who have never had to “make it happen”. Combining the ideas you have collected with our artistic portfolio is an efficient and cost effective way to put your priorities in order. Excellence requires preparation. With that in mind, we offer a unique set of services that will help set your wedding day apart from those that simply occupy the memories of your families and friends. Would you rather follow a trend, or set one? It’s your call. FRONT ROOM PHOTOGRAPHY
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Ceremony Location: Blackwater Falls State Park (Davis, W.V.) at Pendleton Point overlooking the canyon Engagement Ring: Kay Jewelers Chair Rentals: Masterpiece Rental Inc. Flowers: Mountain Mist Florist Hair: Planet Earth Hair Studio and Impressions Hair Salon Honeymoon Location: Iceland Jewelry: Novica (Jade bracelet) Makeup: Kim Schaefer Men’s Formalwear: Groom: Topman suit, Aldo Shoes, Bow tie from Tie Bar. Groomsmen: Express Officiant: Ren’s Godfather, Uncle Bernie Photography & Videography: MannFrau Reception DJ: Bravo Live DJ Reception Location: Bear Paw Lodge at Caanan Valley Resort Rehearsal Dinner Location: Blackwater Brewing Co. Wedding Band Rings: Etsy Wedding Cake: Harvest Moon Catering Wedding Gown: Miss Ruby Boutique (BHLDN Watters Skirt) dyed green by Aeva; Onzie Leotard from Macy’s Wedding Party Gifts: Mug printing at EmbroidMe
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Ren and Caleb’s relationship can be best described in the terms they use to describe each other: spontaneous, unpredictable and fun. “The world seems to not matter when we’re together,” Caleb says. “She occupies my mind every waking hour, and when I’m asleep we hang out in my dreams.” Following years of travel and a perfectly unplanned proposal, their adventurous spirit landed them in Blackwater Falls for a breathtaking, mountainous ceremony to set the tone for their lifetime of exploration together. Having known from the beginning that he wanted to spend all of his adventures with Ren, Caleb began looking at rings for Ren and planned on having her pick one out. He was originally going to propose on their 2-year dating anniversary, but an opportunity arose that he couldn’t pass up. “A blog that Ren loves was having a live show in Milwaukee the Thursday before our anniversary dinner,” Caleb details. “Normally I have volleyball that night, but it was cancelled due to the weather so I immediately bought us tickets and surprised her when I got home. I hadn’t planned on asking her that night,
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but they did a Q&A segment at the end of the show and I seized the opportunity to ask in grandiose fashion. I couldn’t have planned a more perfect Ren and Caleb, spur-of-the-moment way to ask. She squeaked out the cutest ‘yes’ into the microphone and all was right in the universe.” Being in the wedding industry has given Ren and Caleb a variety of inspiration, but it was Ren’s family trips to Blackwater Falls in West Virginia that laid the groundwork for their destination wedding. She incorporated a lot of her creative flair to create their minimalistic, natural wedding theme.
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Tables were adorned with iconic markers from Ren and Caleb’s relationship, typewriter written explanations incorporated on the back. Caleb’s dad cut slabs from tree trunks to make chargers for the place settings and dessert pie table, and drilled smaller tree trunks for candle holders and succulent planters. (They brought over 50 succulent plants from Wisconsin to West Virginia!) And Ren’s talent was penned onto the design and calligraphy for their save the dates, invitations and signage. Caleb says that for him it was all about making sure that Ren’s vision came true, a vision he infinitely admires about her. Knowing they’d draw a lot from their personal style for décor, they used Veil Magazine and GQ to narrow down tailored styles for their attire that would fit their figure and fancy. Ren wore a Onzie leotard underneath a BHLDN Watters skirt that was dyed green to complement the beautiful Wisconsin succulents and West Virginia greenery. With flowers adorned in her hair, Ren met Caleb in the woods to exchange their vows alone during their intimate first look. When Caleb first saw her, he says his “world stopped. Her face was glowing, and I’ve never seen her smile so big.” During their ceremony, in front of 117 loved ones, Ren and Caleb recited shortened versions of their vows to one another with the most important detail of their wedding by their side, Kenzo, their beloved dog. When the officiant, Ren’s uncle, pronounced them husband and wife and invited Caleb to kiss his bride, Kenzo
jumped, bounced and barked in excitement for his newly-wed mom and dad. The day was perfect in every way, with amazing food and delicious beverages to treat their supportive family and friends who traveled all that way to be with them, and the videography and photography were worth every penny for capturing the love and laughter encompassing their celebration. Caleb and Ren also give special thanks to their parents for all of their help creating the wedding of their dreams. “We couldn’t have done it without you!” Following their beautiful wedding day, Ren and Caleb jetset to Iceland for what Ren describes as the “best week of my life; driving aimless in the beautiful country, site seeing and taking photos with my best friend.” Caleb also remembers seeing Ren’s beautiful smile when she saw a glacier for the first time. “It was big and glowing, just like on our wedding day” While Ren and Caleb don’t know where the future will take them, they hope it will take them around the world. “Our aspirations to visit and absorb culture hopefully will continue to heighten each year,” Ren says. “We believe that experiences together have more value and importance to our lives than tangible items.” For future brides and grooms, they offer this simple and sound advice: “Details are nice, but enjoy your day and try to remember the bigger picture. This is just the beginning of your life together. Take whatever comes your way in stride and move on. Anything can and will happen.” VeilMagazine.com
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PERSONAL TOUCH The number 29 has special significance to Caleb and I. My first German Shepherd, Leo, was born on November 29th. He is how the name Studio 29 came about. 29 is always the hockey number I pick since I started playing. Caleb proposed to me at 9:29 p.m. Our wedding date was July 29, 2016, and I was 29 years old. ESPECIALLY US We met at a wedding in 2011. Caleb was the best man and I was the photographer. Fast forward to September of 2013, we both attended The National concert at Red Rocks in Denver, Colo. We exchanged cell phone numbers and then went on our first date a few weeks later. Our first date included Coconut Margaritas at Riviera Maya in Bay View before attending an art gallery show along KK. A few weeks after our first date, I moved to a studio apartment on the top floor of Riviera Maya and the rest is history. I knew he was the one on one of our long walks around the city. Caleb used to send me songs via Spotify, and one of them was “Summertime Clothes” by Animal Collective. It is about a couple wandering around together. It was just perfect timing and really meant a lot. I love that everything we do is rather sporadic and unplanned. We just are able to make the mundane things in life fun without much planning. BRIDE/GROOM GIFTS Ren: I gave Caleb a mason jar mug with our wedding
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logo engraved into the leather by Tactile Craftworks. He used the mug at our welcome dinner. We rented out a local brewery and had a food truck! Caleb: I gave Ren a frame with three postcards from the three different areas that were monumental in our relationship. 1) Our First Time Meeting at Red Rocks in Denver, Colo., 2) Our Engagement at Turner Hall in Milwaukee, Wis., 3) Our Wedding Day at Pendleton Point at Blackwater Falls State Park in Davis, W.V. BRIDAL ENSEMBLE I always knew I didn’t want a traditional dress. I rarely wear dresses and I wanted to feel comfortable and like myself on my wedding day. I wanted to hike and dance in my dress and I did not want to feel inhibited by my attire. I wore my hair in loose, wavy curls and pinned it to the side. I loved feeling like myself on my wedding day. I felt comfortable and confident, despite it being a little out of the ordinary. I chose to wear a leotard and then a skirt. Ariel from Aeva Bridal is a master at fabric dying, so a Facebook group referred me to her. My inspiration for dying it green was a green geode that Caleb got me when we visited Blackwater Falls together for the first time. I love the color green and I knew it would be a great way to really personalize my outfit. The logo I designed was also implemented in my gown via the copper belt I wore. Aeva created a metal clasp that was the exact shape of the intersecting triangles I incorporated in our logo.
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PHOTOGRAPHY Studio 29 Photography + Design Most brides have been thinking about their wedding day since they were little girls. Dreams of the perfect dress, delicious cake and ornate décor dance around in our heads for years before we meet “the one.” When the day comes that the love of our life asks us to marry them, the idea of planning a wedding seems so natural. But as easy as it was for our childhood fantasies to take flight, reality quickly grounds a bride as the list of to-dos begins to grow. Before you press the panic button, take a step back from jumping headfirst into intensive planning and look to the ultimate wedding resource available to the modern-day bride. Bridal shows are the best place to let your eyes and intuition guide you. Instead of having to spend countless hours of time and energy researching, calling and meeting with a myriad of vendors separately, a bridal show gives you the opportunity to meet with numerous experts for every facet of your wedding day under one roof in a single afternoon. Once you determine which show(s) you want to attend, take time to prepare so you can make the most out of this incredible opportunity. Start by printing off a list of vendors that will be there so you can highlight those you absolutely want to speak with. Then, come up with a general list of questions you can ask each vendor for a specific need (i.e. florists, ca-
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terers, DJs, etc.). After the show, filter through all of the information that was handed out to you, keep those you want to learn more about, and review the notes you took when speaking with vendors. You can easily compare their answers to figure out what you like and don’t like, discover new ideas you never would’ve thought up on your own and figure out whom you want to do a follow-up meeting with. By now you will most likely have a good grasp on who you “clicked” with, and can drastically narrow down the field of vendors you will take the time to have an individual meeting with post-show. Besides doing your due diligence to collect information while you are at the show, it’s equally important to let your intuition guide you. Vendors will have a display set up showcasing their unique styles and services. It can be visual overload, but if you stay focused you can begin to see what you are drawn to and better envision what you want your wedding day to look and feel like. Don’t be afraid to tell them when something doesn’t match the style you are going for. A true professional will be accommodating and have a different sample to show you, or perhaps even give you a recommendation of someone they feel is a better match for the specific need you are looking to fulfill.
If you are too intimidated to talk to vendors right off the bat, try easing your way into the process by speaking with other brides in attendance. You can gain insight from someone that is in the same boat as you, and get advice from their own time spent researching. Who knows, they may be doing something unique at their wedding that you might consider for yourself as well. Finally, make sure you stop by the Veil Magazine booth or check your gift bags for the latest issue of Veil Magazine. Wedding magazine publishers have been in the business for a while and more than likely have worked with many of the vendors in attendance (or showcased weddings that used featured vendors). They’re in this business to provide information for brides and would love to meet and speak with each and every one of you! Bridal shows truly are the time to stop around and meet various artisans under one roof, which can save you time. Best of all, you are the #1 priority of every professional in attendance. In a room full of brides-to-be, everyone will make sure you feel truly exceptional and important. It’s an unbelievably positive experience that not only takes a layer of pressure out of the planning process, but also allows you to embrace the special feeling that comes along with being a bride.
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PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography Are you obsessing over venues, menus, flowers, décor and everything wedding-related? Do you have a list of to-dos without the slightest clue about where you should begin tackling it? So many details go into planning a wedding that it can be difficult to manage event coordination along with your career and personal life. Save time and eliminate anxiety by hiring a professional to guide you through the process. The ideal wedding planner is reliable, stylish, personable, professional, organized and detailoriented. It is vital to choose the right person so you can enjoy the excitement of your wedding day without worry. Because this person will be such a vital part of successfully planning and executing your wedding day dreams—as well as avoiding potential pitfalls and costly mistakes—you’ll want to do your due diligence in finding your perfect planner that will provide you with confidence and composure during this whirlwind of excitement and anticipation. When vetting a planner, look for someone with experience. Be sure they have references and known their industry background. The caliber of wedding planners varies, and beware
of hiring a friend as a planner. Even if someone managed to successfully plan their own wedding, that doesn’t mean they have the ability to orchestrate other people’s events. Professional planners are prepared for any situation, as they have encountered many challenges throughout their years in the business. There is no substitute for experience and reputation. Experienced planners embrace opportunities to network with vendors and uncover trends. They attend educational seminars to keep upto-date on what’s hot from coast-to-coast. But just because something is trendy doesn’t mean it will automatically fit your particular event. That’s why it’s important for a planner to know how to help the bride and groom find their own style and apply it in a way that provides a timeless and beautiful event. When interviewing planners, it is important to determine their business acumen. Ask how payments to vendors are made, how the planner charges, what exactly the planner does on the wedding day, what paperwork the planner provides, and to see an updated portfolio of work. You should receive a clear, direct answer
to these questions. Finally, it's always best to hire a planner that you ‘click’ with. This is so important because you will be working closely with this person and it’s such a personal and momentous occasion in your life. You want it to be fun and enjoyable along the way. Having a planner that you can be open and honest with is important. Planners absolutely love their personal connections with the couples, and they foster that by spending a lot of time with them, even hosting dinners in their homes just to hang out. They remain in touch with most of their couples long after their big day. Great wedding planners love what they do, and this enthusiasm carries through to your event. The best thing a couple can do for themselves is to hire a qualified wedding planner that can maximize their budget, create their ultimate fantasy experience and have fun while doing it. Afterward, you will look back on the months leading up to your wedding day with true fondness, knowing you planned the wedding you always wanted with the true calm only a professional can provide.
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CHRIS ALBRECHT and Let’s Have an Affair are no longer Southeastern Wisconsin’s best kept secret after winning The Knot’s, Best of Weddings. With a tag line like, “We listen, We create, You celebrate” she is a clients dream come true for planning the perfect wedding day. All of the pressure of planning and executing the wedding is shifted from the bride and her family to Chris allowing everyone involved
to enjoy a stress free event. From the time a bride gets engaged until they are on their way to their honeymoon there is an overwhelming and cumbersome amount of details and planning involved. Chris will alleviate that making the planning experience one that is smooth, organized, relaxing and fun. Her vendor contacts locally are extensive and she will effortlessly guide you to whoever best meets your needs best through the planning process. There is nothing too small or too big for Chris as she has covered a wide range of parties over her many years of being in the special events industry. When asked about her experience with Chris, a client noted that, “Throughout the entire planning process, Chris will dazzle you with her devotion to detail. She has the uncanny knack with staying five steps ahead of everything. Her
persistent follow-through allows you to sit back and enjoy the planning process.” Chris informs all of her clients to “Be a guest at your own wedding.” Clients can be assured every detail will be attended to throughout the planning process. Behind the scenes she will be covering all the fine particulars so that everything runs seamlessly from start to finish. Let Chris be your one stop shop for all your wedding and planning needs. Save yourself time, money and stress by selecting Let’s Have an Affair to partner with you to create memories that will last a lifetime and allow you to truly cherish each moment of your memorable day. For more information, contact Chris Albrecht at 262-691-3303 or visit her website www. letshaveanaffair.com
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A Wish Come True by Laura Vietmeyer
Hanna and Kirk met in Milwaukee, began dating in Sweden and made a wish on their future in Port Washington. Two and a half years later, they were engaged in Sweden. With a love story spanning two continents, the pair was wed in Milwaukee’s Historic Pritzlaff Building before 300 guests. Their wish came true, and their journey as a family is just beginning. Hanna and Kirk met at Taylor’s, a bar in Milwaukee. Both of their good friends forced them to go out that night. “Little did we know we would meet because of that. As soon as I saw Kirk I knew I had to talk to him, but I was really shy for some reason,” Hanna says. “My friend, Bryant, walked over to Kirk, asked if he was single and said, ‘Good, she’s into you.’” The pair ended up talking for the next few hours, but Hanna thought it was bad timing, as she was going to Sweden for a month. It turned out Kirk was going to be there for a week as well, and they ended up having their first dates
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in Stockholm. They returned to Milwaukee on the same day and have been together ever since. After four months together, they went to a lantern release in Port Washington where they both made wishes. “I wished that she would be my wife and mother of my children,” Kirk says. They were on the same page. “We found out when he proposed that we wished for the same things!” Hanna says. Kirk planned to propose in Thailand when the couple was on vacation for Christmas, but fate presented an even better opportunity. Hanna planned a trip
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to Stockholm with her father the week prior to leaving for Thailand and was planning to see Lissie, her favorite musician (and Kirk’s childhood friend) in concert. “A short call with Lissie and a plane ticket sealed the deal. “I flew into Sweden days after she had left, snuck into the country and two days later popped up on stage during the concert,” Kirk says. During the concert, Lissie introduced a song about her and Kirk’s hometown, and mentioned to the crowd that Kirk’s girlfriend was in the audience. “She called out to me and asked me to come on stage. I had no idea why but she’s my favorite singer so I just went!” Hanna recalls. “Lissie said that she needed one more person to help with the song and I looked off stage and saw Kirk! I had no idea that he was in Sweden and I immediately started crying. He gave the most beautiful proposal speech and then got down on one knee, in front of 500 people at the concert and pulled out a ring.” Her answer, of course, was “Yes.” The couple then set about planning their Swedish, country-style wedding. Hanna notes that her friends in the industry, Denise Liles and Marina Mathieu-Kuhn, were very helpful in planning the big day, as well as online resources such as the The Knot and Pinterest. Fresh flowers were something the couple knew they had to have at their wedding, and they also decided they had to splurge on their photographer and videographer to capture all the important
memories. Hanna adds that having a day-of coordinator was worth every penny. Additionally, the couple’s tapped talented friends to help make the day even more special. “A good friend of ours, Ren Lenhof, custom designed the calligraphy and flower designs we used on our invitations and programs,” Hanna notes. “For my dog Maisey, I had a custom harness and leash made by our friend Rachel Luetzow.” Despite some splurges, Kirk helped keep things on track budget-wise. “I made it well aware that I wanted to make sure we didn’t go into debt for the wedding,” he says. “My top priorities were food, drinks and music. Overall, I viewed it as a time to celebrate with all of our loved ones and many other details faded into the background for me.” The couple also used lots of DIY elements to personalize the ceremony. “My bridesmaid, Hailey, helped me make all the ribbon wands used after the ceremony as well as the honey jars for the favors,” Hanna says. “My bridesmaid Jemmé helped make many adorable signs and décor, and my mom helped with homemade décor including signs, bathroom baskets and the vintage suitcase for cards.” Hanna’s maid of honor, her sister, was also indispensable in the planning process. Hanna’s talented bridesmaids helped the couple plan the first dance, as well. “My bridesmaid Anneliece is a professional ballroom dance teacher in VeilMagazine.com
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New York, and her and her dance partner created a beautiful routine for our first dance,” Hanna says. “And my other bridesmaid, May (also a professional ballroom teacher), helped teach us the routine in the months leading up to the wedding whenever she was in town.” On the big day, Hanna walked down the aisle in a unique Yaki Ravid dress, which her friend Marina helped her pick out. “Since I have modeled dozens of wedding dresses I wanted to find something that no one has seen me in before, and I found that with a dress that actually didn’t even come out until this fall,” Hanna says. “The designer is Yaki Ravid and I just fell in love with the dress as soon as I put it on. I knew it was my dress. It seemed to be made for me.” Hanna’s jewelry was custom made by her designer friend Renee Pawele, who also made a beautiful custom veil with cascading Swarovski crystals, to match the dress. She found her belt with the help of another friend in the industry, Cynthia Apfelbach, at Zita Bridal Salon. She followed the “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue” tradition with her Swedish grandmother and great grandmothers’ wedding bands, borrowed family heirlooms that were tied to her bouquet and a new lace handkerchief from her
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grandma that was purchased in Italy. Her engagement ring was her something blue. “I already knew it, but she was the most beautiful woman in the world. Hanna was positively stunning and I know I’m a lucky man,” Kirk says. Kirk and Hanna exchanged letters and gifts on their wedding day. “I gave Kirk some homemade cookies (his favorite treat), letters that I had written to him that he has to open on different dates, cuff links with Swedish coins on them, and some socks that said ‘H + K The perfect pair.,’” Hanna says. Kirk gave her diamond earrings and a tennis bracelet. He also have her an old portable cd player with a note on it that read “Play me.” “That was my favorite part because he had recorded a song that he had written and sang about our story of how we met and fell in love. I cried all my makeup off listening to it, it was so amazing!” Hanna recalls. At the beginning of the ceremony Kirk and Hanna had their guests pass around their wedding bands during the readings. Each guest was able to bless the rings and help them start their life together with love and happiness. “We wanted to write our own vows and we had one of our best friends, Vimal, marry us,” says Hanna of the other special elements added to the ceremony.
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When asked about the humorous moments from the day, Hanna recalls, “Our flower girl and niece Madison thought that since she dropped the petals coming into the ceremony she had to pick them up as she left. he was holding up the rest of the people picking up each petal one by one. It was so cute!” Hanna also adds, “I think watching everyone’s awesome dance moves was the second funniest of the night. People really had a good time! “ Looking back, Hanna would advise brides not to throw out the invite list, addresses and notes on what gifts the guests gave. “Keep lists and get a wedding binder/app that helps keep payments, due dates, and every little detail in order so nothing is forgotten about. There are so many details and it’s so easy to get overwhelmed and overlook something.” Kirk says he would hire someone to help earlier in the planning process to balance the goals, desires and personalities of the family. “In the end, this wasn’t just about me and Hanna and the process involved many people with different visions.” Regarding marriage advice, Hanna says, “Always listen to your partner, say ‘I love you’ at least once everyday, and just be a good friend. It’s not always about being ‘head over heals’ in love, it’s about having a best friend to share everything
in life with; the really romantic heart pounding times as well as the stressful, crying, tough times. I married my best friend and the love of my life — that is the key.” Another piece of advice the couple offers it to take at least a few days off before leaving on your honeymoon. “It was so nice to hang out with some friends and family the day after the wedding, since we didn’t get much time with at the wedding,” Hanna says. Taking extra time allows you to decompress, catch up on sleep, and get organized. Looking to the future, the couple has a rough idea of what they hope things will look like. “In 10 years, probably three or four kids by then, just having a normal happy life together with our family. In 20 years, sending our kids off to college and traveling the world. And 50 years, hopefully sitting on our porch with our kids and grandkids visiting and running around having a good time and just enjoying the life we built together.” As for the immediate future, Hanna and Kirk are happy to announce that they are in the process of buying their first home and are expecting their first child June 2017!
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ACING EMAIL ETIQUETTE By Claire Swinarski
Your vendors are here to help make your wedding day incredible. As you plan and prepare, it’s important to keep some email etiquette tips in mind so that your important notes don’t get lost in sea of inbox emails! Although your big day is your primary focus, most vendors are juggling multiple events each season. We spoke with some renowned Wisconsin wedding vendors to get their input on best practices for digital communication. By following these tips and making their lives easier, you’ll guarantee happy vendors and quick responses!
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If you’re in the inquiry stage, make sure to research vendors before emailing. It will save both of you time if you know you’re seriously interested in their services. Then, personalize each email with what you like about their Use proper formatting, no matter how business. informal you and your wedding are. Leave spaces between paragraphs so that emails are DON’T: Send out a huge email blast just lookeasy to scan. Consider using bullet points if ing for prices. Of course it’s important informayou have multiple questions. And, don’t forget tion, but price shopping can be frustrating to the spell check! vendors, and it may leave them not emailing you back. If you send vague questions, like “How DON’T: Send huge chunks of unformatted much do you charge for weddings?” to a DJ with text. When the vendor sees it, they may click no information about location or hours, it’s hard away to deal with it later because it looks like it for them to respond accurately. will take them awhile. You want to make things
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Give your contact information — preferably a cell phone number. Vendors like to be able to get back to you as quickly as possible, and if they need further information, calling might do the trick better than emailing. DON’T: Leave off your last name, particularly if you have a common first name. Chances are you aren’t the only “Katie” or “Sarah” the vendor is working with this year.
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Be considerate of business hours. It’s fine to send a weekend email, but don’t get upset if it isn’t responded to until Monday. DON’T: Forget that vendors have lives, too. If it’s a non-urgent matter, wait about a week before emailing to follow-up if you haven’t received a response. Remember that although you may be anxious about your florals, knowing exactly the breed of rose that will be in your bouquet probably isn’t an emergency that needs to be handled in the middle of the night. Although most wedding vendors are prompt and organized, inboxes can easily slide out of control, particularly during the height of wedding season. Overall, vendors are looking to serve you and give you the day of your dreams. By tweaking your emails just a little, you can make it much easier for them to do so. VeilMagazine.com
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You and your groom-to-be weren’t satisfied with average when you decided to build a life together. So why choose an average engagement or wedding ring? Couples are choosing to have their wedding rings custom made to reflect their personal tastes, lifestyles and experiences. Contrary to popular belief, custom jewelry costs no more than ready-made styles. We work within your budget and from there we can adjust many components such as stone types, sizes or quantities and even metals. We can achieve a similar look with many different price points with these variables. At David Liska, a custom jeweler in Milwaukee, David makes the custom design process easy and eliminates the intimidation factor. As a professional goldsmith and award-winning jewelry designer with 39+ years of experience, David finds no greater thrill
than helping customers design their special pieces. “There are literally thousands of style combinations out there,” David says. “I have a simple, systematic series of questions to help a man determine her style and design elements.”
“conforming” band to fit under or around your center stone, but we can achieve both looks. These non-matching rings often have different design elements, such as open metal patterns or different shapes. They may contain different size diamonds or be made of up of different or two-tone metal colors. The advantage to not having a matching wedding band is you can wear it alone, without the engagement ring. Any other trends you are seeing? A hot trend on a traditional ring is to pair a very delicate, thin band with a larger diamond. We show a lot of diamonds in the 1.25ct - 1.50ct. size. What are trends being seen in ladies’ Whether it’s the engagement ring or the wedding wedding bands? band, women are preferring the bands to be very For the first time ever, we are seeing a trend narrow with smaller diamonds going down the in ladies’ bands moving away from matching sides of the ring, and not much metal showing the engagement ring. You may still need a around the diamonds. David cautions against
Planning Tips What style do you want for your ring? Classic/Traditional, Contemporary/Modern, Renaissance/Antique, or something else?
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Are there any special details you want incorporated?
What kind of stone and shape do you love?
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using anything but a platinum head to hold the diamond securely in place and is always conscious of the woman’s career when designing a ring. “If a man wants to go this big and his fiancé-to-be is a nurse, I seat the diamond down further so it doesn’t catch as much on their surgical gloves,” Liska says. There seems to be a greater focus on the design-work in the pattern of the metal such as open scrolls around or below the center stone on the band. When people chose smaller center stones in the .50-.80ct range they are enhanced with double halos or other metal work such as renaissance or scrolls surrounding it. Whether the diamond is large or small, often times women opt to only wear one ring so these patterns don’t get covered up. What’s hot in Men’s bands? The good news is that men are heavily weighing in on what style wedding band they are wearing! Men are becoming far more engaged in choosing
their wedding band and surprisingly they want to wear a style that compliments yours, even if it’s rose gold. Two tone styles and alternative metals are very popular for men. We see a lot of 14K white gold with rose or yellow gold inlays. Brushed and hammer style finishes are popular to add texture to a gents’ ring, as are rings with satin and high polish contrasts as with beveled edges or raised rims. Depending on his career as well, it's not unusual for your man to buy a plain ring to wear during the day and then something with more flair for the rest of the time. What are important points to keep in mind when it comes to selecting engagement and wedding rings? No matter what style or trend you fall into, Liska always cautions against buying any jewelry online. We’ve had men come in who have purchased a diamond online and when we show them 6-8 diamonds in their budget side by side and educate them on what they are looking at,
they returned the initial diamond. No matter how much research you do when buying a diamond, you need to compare several side by side and understand what you are looking at when reading the GIA Cert. Not all G in color and SI1 in clarity diamonds will look the same. Equally important is to know how many grams of metal a wedding band is. It may be 14k white gold and a size 10 men’s wedding band, but is it the same width or thickness of what you tried on in a store? A platinum wedding band for half the price may sound good, but if the thickness is half the amount, you will feel it. Additionally, a Tungsten ring should come with a lifetime warranty. There are so many knock-offs online. If your groom’s finger-size increases over time, we exchange the ring for a larger size for under $50.00. Most importantly, be yourself. These rings should last a lifetime, so go with a design that speaks to you both. Go with one that will reflect the love you feel in your heart.
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PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography For many brides, the choice is an easy one: marry inside the church. Whether it’s the local place of worship you attend every weekend, or where your parents were wed years earlier, there’s usually a sentimental or traditional reason to share your wedding vows where you often say your prayers. However, for some couples, a house of worship doesn’t make sense. Perhaps you come from two very different faiths, and to choose one over the other would offend family or feel odd for both of you. Maybe you are outdoor adventurers, and saying “I Do” on a cliff overlooking Lake Michigan makes far more sense than under a roof. Whatever the case for the significance of your more unusual, outdoor, or unorthodox
ceremony locale, finding an officiant to oversee which means they are able and willing to properly and legal sanction your vows is both a marry brides and grooms of various faiths, personal and necessary piece to your wedding traditions and backgrounds. While he or she will come equipped with a long list of activities that can occur within the ceremony, they are always open to interpretation of traditions that may be special to you as a couple, or incorporating new ideas that would not be allowed in a more traditional setting. An officiant will also usually come with a “bare bones” script, which is the minimal that must happen and be said during a ceremony to make day. it legal and binding. However, there is also a Usually, officiants who marry couples outside huge amount of leeway and room for addition of a church environment are nondenominational, within that script, allowing couples to add one
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Walk down the aisle imagining what you will be thinking when you kiss your groom; this will help you maintain your confidence even if you are nervous.
Never drink anything colored.
Abstain from drinking alcohol until after the photographer is finished.
Don’t lock your knees at the altar; it can cause you to faint.
or multiple readings or write their own vows, for instance. Officiants can be lawyers or judges, practicing or retired. They can be nondenominational ministers, rabbis or ordained through online services such as those offered through Universal Life Church. It’s especially important to vouch your officiant. Ask for references and actually speak to past couples about their experiences with the officiant in the planning stages and during the actual wedding day. Meet with your intended officiant before booking to see if you feel comfortable with him or her and where they are open to unique additions to your wedding day. Veil Magazine also offers options for you to consider. A professional officiant will be able to offer information that will help you coordinate your wedding ceremony so that it runs smoothly and appropriately. Below are some pointers to help you get started in the planning of your own vows.
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HEIRLOOMS Matt gifted me a beautiful set of sapphire and diamond earrings to match grandma’s heirloom ring, which I wore as well as my great grandmother’s 1933 engagement ring on my right hand.
Our Forever by Michelle Drewek
Matt and Sara were high school sweethearts turned husband and wife. Unlike their pre-wedded relationship, which was 10 years in the making, their wedding day came together in just 6 week’s time. Incorporating elements of art deco into their celebration from the stunning architecture of the Milwaukee Courthouse where they said “I do” to Sara’s great grandmother’s engagement ring that she wore that day, their intimate matrimony was true to their life together. THE PROPOSAL Matt: I knew she was “the one” once I realized how effortless our relationship was. After buying a house together, I figured it was about time to make it official. However, I never made any real plans. I just kept the ring in my pocket and waited for “the right moment.” Despite having the ring burning a hole in my pocket, including for an entire vacation in San Francisco, nothing ever felt like it was the right moment to me. Finally, the perfect moment presented itself on a leisurely walk along the
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Milwaukee River Greenway. We came to a clearing at the river’s edge, the sun was beginning to set, and around the bend I spotted a doe and three fawns come to the river to drink. As I pointed out the deer to Sara, I stepped back and… realized that I didn’t have the ring with me! Oh well. I had to settle on a lovely picnic and Skyline Music Series concert at the Selig-Joseph-Folz Amphitheater in Kadish Park. The always-fabulous Five Card Studs serenaded us, and at the end of the night we climbed the hill to take
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in the city. I finally gathered enough courage to pop the question. Sara was quite surprised, which given my lack of planning I was not prepared for, so I never even made it to my knee. All in all it was pretty lackluster! TIMETABLE We were engaged on Aug. 2 and married on Oct. 14. Somewhere in there we decided a small wedding was more our style, so we committed to the small wedding and planned it all in 6 weeks! THE RINGS My engagement ring was a gift from Matt’s grandmother, who has since passed away from a long-fought cancer battle. The backstory of the ring is when Matt’s grandma had a major health problem in 1987 (the same year both Matt and I were born, only a month apart), his grandpa gave grandma “our” beautiful ring as a love token to celebrate her recovery. She said she always wanted a sapphire ring, but never thought she would have one so generous. Matt’s Grandpa was represented in our wedding bands, which were made from his ring. It’s so comforting to look at our rings and know they have “seen” so much. It’s a nice visual reminder to stay active in our relationship. KEY PLANNING RESOURCE Being a wedding photographer, I really relied on my work colleagues to do all the heavy lifting. It was so nice to just let the professionals be the professionals. The great Heather Cook Elliott and Emily Neubauer had complete artistic freedom with our wedding.
WORTH EVERY PENNY Sara: The boat! And also, I can’t say enough good things about Tayla la Macchia who did the makeup. MUST-HAVE DETAIL My priorities were to keep things consistent with “us” and to celebrate not just our relationship, but also all of the support from our friends and family. I didn’t want the wedding to be out of character from our general lifestyle. KEEPSAKE Do not throw out the wedding cards. People wrote some really lovely sentiments, and I have all of ours in a keepsake box. I can’t wait to pull them out at our anniversary. IF ONLY I KNEW THEN… Matt: Looking back at how things went, the only thing to consider is what took so long in the first place? ADVICE FOR COUPLES Matt and I were together 10 years before we tied the knot, and we really try to make an effort to appreciate each other. Sometimes life is full, but it’s still important to thank one another for the little things. So the house didn’t get cleaned, whatever, thanks for taking the garbage out. Recognize what was done and be sure to appreciate it.
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by Claire Swinarski
You’ve got your gown. You’ve dressed your bridesmaids. You found the cutest outfit for your flower girl, and everyone looks great. But there’s still one very important person who needs your input. Picking out a mother of the bride/ groom dress can be stressful for moms. They want to feel comfortable and look amazing, but they also want some direction from you. They’ll be greeting all of your guests, and a lot of eyes will be on them. However, as a bride, you may have so much on your plate that you don’t even know where to start! That’s where Bruce Paul Goodman comes in. The shop, which has been around since 1979, is a one-stop shop for mothers, aunts, or grandmothers. Carrying everything from dresses to jewelry to shoes, Bruce Paul Goodman meets women’s fashion needs from head to toe. They’re also known around town for a variety of charity work, and even won the Waukesha County NCAAP 2006 Community Service Award. Customers flock from all over the
Midwest to shop the store’s affordable-yet“We work hard to help all of the women who stylish fashions. The store’s beautiful gowns, come into our shop,” said Bruce. “We do our best twinkly shoes and elegant jewelry sets attract to understand all kinds of concerns, and we’ve a wide variety of clientele, but Bruce Paul heard them all many times. Most women who come to us leave very happy.” Bruce inherited his love of fashion from his grandfather, who was a tailor. He graduated with a Bachelor’s and Master’s Degree from University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee with degrees in education, but after graduation he followed his passions and went straight into retail. He’s spent the last few decades tackling an everso-stressful wedding attire scenario: gowns for women of all ages. When most mothers, aunts or grandmothers are beginning their dress search, they have a few common concerns. They turn to the Goodman specializes in helping mothers and bride for input, but you may not know what grandmothers of the bride and groom find their they like or would feel comfortable in. It’s perfect look. Whether it’s the wedding, the best to give your mother or mother-in-law bridal shower or the rehearsal dinner, the shop a few guidelines and then let their boutique has looks for every bridal occasion. consultants work some magic.
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What’s your wedding venue and season? Indoors or outdoors ceremony and reception? Will you be in a church?
What are their concerns, like trouble areas?
First, consider your venue and climate. This is obviously a great starting point for women to go on — if you’re having an outdoor wedding in the middle of July, heavy satin gowns may be nixed. If you’re having a church wedding, they may desire a bit more modesty. Have your mother or mother-in-law prepared with that key piece of information when they go shopping. “If you’re having an outdoor wedding in Nashville, your mother doesn’t want a heavilylined dress with thick material,” explained Margaret Wendt at Bruce Paul Goodman. “You need a dress that’s light and travels well. We’ll have mothers ask about brides getting married in Maui or Mexico. So those are the kinds of questions we’ll ask.” Another question to consider is your wedding vibe or theme. “One thing we’re hearing a lot right now is that brides are having vintage or Gatsby-inspired themes for their wedding,” said Margaret. “That’s good information for us to know, because that would be a more uniquely styled dress — which we offer.” Next, assure them that their consultants can help them find a great fit. “One thing we hear often from moms is that they don’t want to look matronly. They don’t want to look more mature than they are,” said Margaret. What they may not realize is that a lot of looking and feeling your best comes down to fit. At Bruce Paul Goodman, mothers can have dresses custom fitted so they look flattering instead of unfashionable. The store has dresses that range from size 2-18, even carrying one designer that makes dresses up to 3X. There’s something for everyone to look fabulous in. “A lot of women simply are not aware of what cuts and styles will be most complimentary for their body type, and that can make a huge difference when you’re trying to look your best,” Margaret said. Margaret added that many women also appreciate some kind of jacket or sleeve to cover the upper-arm area. Another concern is color. Mothers want to look superb in pictures, but they don’t want to look as if they’re trying to sneak their way into the bridal party! “When someone comes in looking for a mother-of-the-bride or mother-of-the-groom dress, we always ask if the bride knows the colors of the wedding. We like to know the color of the bridesmaid’s dresses as well as the colors of the
men, since it’s not just black anymore. We also like to ask about what color the flowers are, since we need to take into consideration whether or not the bride has a very vibrant palette of colors,” Margaret said. Let the important women in your life know this information so that when they go shopping, they’ll be prepared. Pictures or color swatches are very helpful. If there’s a grandmother that needs a gown, take into account her comfort level and mobility.
Many grandparents may prefer a skirt and top or pantsuit instead of an elaborate gown. Margaret said Bruce Paul Goodman is very accustomed to dressing all ages of women and has many options and styles for grandmothers of the bride or groom. It may be your big day, but you wouldn’t be there without a woman in your life raising you. Make sure the mothers of you and your groom look and feel their best!
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As VIPs at the wedding, it’s the mothers’ chance to shine as well. The mother of the bride and the mother of the groom should wear dresses that complement each other nicely and have similar textures. Color trends this season include champagne, metallic, navy, blush, red and any print. You should choose a color or print that goes well with your bridal party without being the same shade. Whether it’s your mother, stepmother, grandmother or aunt, the women in your life who have helped to raise you all deserve to look and feel great. Offer them guidance, but allow them to make a selection that they’ll truly love! That goes for her jewelry as well. These rings, bracelets and necklaces from Lyle Husar Designs and Bruce Paul Goodman are stunning accents that add a bit of glam without being overpowering.
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is a hemline that hits just above the knees, as well as tea length or mid-calf. If they’d like some embellishment, encourage them to choose a pattern and fit that accentuates their best features. Your mom, grandmother or aunt wants to find the perfect balance between being appropriate while still feeling stylish, and there are plenty of options for her to feel gorgeous in. Still on the hunt for your venue? These photos were snapped at opulent Hilton Milwaukee City Center, located in the heart of downtown. Built in 1920 — coinciding with Prohibition — Wisconsin’s tallest hotel has a vintage “Gatsby” aura that is sure to dazzle your guests as they walk through this historic hotel. Mom will love watching you say “I do” in this gorgeous venue!
As the mother of the bride, your mom wants to look lovely without looking like she tried to outshine the bride or the wedding party. Assure her that she has nothing to worry about; after all, you’re the one in a wedding gown! Mom deserves her moment in the spotlight as well without worrying about how her dress style fits in. Also, don’t forget the mother of the groom — she has an added layer of not wanting to upstage your mom! Make sure she feels included and valued by showing her a picture of your mom’s dress. She can show it to the Bruce Paul Goodman consultants and go from there; they’ll direct her to a similar color in a different hue. Tastes and styles of mothers of the bride and groom vary greatly, and a shop like Bruce Paul Goodman has many incredible choices for them. Many women will appreciate a long gown with some coverage on top. Another popular length trend right now
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PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography From the runway to the aisle, high fashion often influences bridal fashion trends, and hair and makeup trends for you and your bridal party are no exception to this inspiration. This year is all about natural beauty, highlighting the best attributes of your and your bridesmaids to create a look that is uniquely beautiful. This year’s runways showcased bold brow, pink or coral lip color that goes with your skin tone, flushed cheeks and fresh, glowing skin with makeup that does not appear heavy or cakey, but rather dewey and light. The key to healthy, radiant skin starts before the big day by keeping skin clean, exfoliated and moisturized. In addition to glossy lips in pinks and corals, nude lips are a hot trend at the moment. Natural makeup is also a great way to balance out a formal dress, veil and shoes. In hair, natural waves or braids are on trend right now. For an effortless look, hair can be worn down and free flowing, or in a less constructed updo. For a romantic updo, a braid
can be woven in to add detail and intricacy to your bridal look or to that of your bridal party’s hair. However, if the loose, bohemian style isn’t for you, more polished styles were also featured in bridal styles on the runway this year, including sleek ballerina-esque buns and classic chignons. When planning your hair and makeup for your wedding day, look at the big picture of how these elements will fit into the overall look and feel of your wedding. The bridesmaids’ hair should complement the theme of the wedding. They should let the you determine the style. Hairstylists and makeup artists who are experienced in the field will have a wealth of knowledge to share to help shape your vision. Artists who focus on working with brides and bridal parties will understand your needs better than an artist who primarily works in other areas. Artists who are good at collaboration will love you bringing in photos or other pieces of inspiration. Just keep in mind that some styles that are done for a photograph might not hold up well all day. Be
open to suggestions from the professionals. When it comes to makeup that will photograph beautifully, a good makeup artist knows all the tricks. Using airbrush makeup or HD makeup prevents a white face and tan body, which can be caused by a camera flash. Ask to see a portfolio of any makeup artists and hairstylists you are considering, as it showcases what they are capable of in terms of style and ability. If you like the portfolio, meet with the artist to get a sense of whether or not your input will be executed the way you envisioned. Ensure that the people who do your trial looks will be there on your big day. Most salons guarantee this, but it shouldn’t be assumed. Speak up and ask for peace of mind. Also, find out what will happen if the artist isn’t able to make it to your wedding day. It’s always ideal to have a plan in place to keep things running smoothly. And last, but certainly not least — embrace your natural beauty. That’s something that’s always on trend.
Planning Tips Will hairstylist or Will the artist doing makeup artist show your hair or makeup up on time and have during the trial run everything they need be the artist you will to create your style? be working with on your wedding day?
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What type of makeup is being used? Will it translate well in photos?
Can the makeup How will the hair and artist and hair stylist makeup artists work work with you to together to help bring your vision for your prep time day your big day to life? of go smoothly?
Diane & Leroy HALO SALON BEFORE OPENING HER FIRST SALON, Halo Salon’s owner Diane trained in New York and Boston. She was one of ten chosen to represent the United States in the World Hair Show at Wembley Hall, London, and she also won first place in the hair cutting competition at the Midwest Hair Show in Chicago. Diane opened her first salon on Milwaukee Street in 1982. Then, in 1994, she and Leroy Buth became partners, acquired a building on Brady Street, and created the space for Halo Salon. They chose Brady Street because of its history, vitality and unique energy. Diane, Leroy and the staff pride themselves on creating elegant hair and makeup in a beautiful workspace. With sleek, modern décor and an abundance of fresh flowers, Halo Salon provides a beautiful backdrop for photographs of wedding preparations. Halo is known for its expertise and talent. The staff keeps up with current global fashion, hair and makeup trends. A bridal trial is very important, as it can help
“OUR STAFF IS SMALL AND RECEIVES HIGHLY SPECIALIZED TRAINING. WE CHOOSE TO WORK ONLY WITH ARTISTS THAT ARE COMPLETELY COMMITTED TO THEIR CRAFT.” eliminate any uncertainty on your big day. The day of the trial, they will dress your hair and design your makeup, giving you options to find a look that will enhance your beauty. They recommend bringing any photos of inspiration that are close to your natural skin tone and hair color. They also advise brides to stay away from anything overly trendy, so photographs look classically beautiful for years to come. Lash extensions translate beautifully in wedding photos and compliment any makeup choice, while airbrush makeup gives a flawless natural finish that needs no touch up. Your photographs will look timeless for years to come. For color range and hair care lines, Halo Salon uses Davines, a privately owned company out of Parma, Italy. Sustainable beauty is at the heart of Davines’ philosophy. An ecological position is fundamental for the ethics of an attentive, pioneering company with a cosmopolitan, open attitude towards new trends and change. Jane Iredale is Halo Salon’s primary cosmetics line. Classic looks, with a touch of modern style, are a specialty of Halo Salon. Brides will find that the staff is there to accommodate their every need and can rest assured that they will give close attention to detail to create a look that is a personal signature for this most important day!
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J'ADORE BOUDOIR by Michelle Drewek PHOTOGRAPHY The Paper Elephant Are you looking for a knockout gift for your fiancé, but just don’t know what to get him? Are you stressed out from planning and looking for a moment of respite? Are you feeling less than fabulous right before the day in which you are supposed to be feeling your absolute best? If these ring all too true, then boudoir may be the answer you never thought you were looking for! Before you crawl into a hole and cover yourself with the blanket sitting next to you, hear us out. Boudoir doesn’t have to be scary or intimidating, in fact it is quite the opposite! It is an opportunity to let an artisan take what comes naturally to you and highlight it in a sensational way. Best of all, it gives your husband-to-be a keepsake he will never want to take his eyes off of. Boudoir photography is more than just scantily clad pictures; it is an experience. From the staging and lighting to the outfits and atmosphere, every session is uniquely tailored to the desires, comfort level and persona of the bride. Tegan Jae, owner of The Paper Elephant, believes in the boudoir experience so much that she includes it in her wedding photography packages. “I love that boudoir photography combines fashion and editorial with empowerment and dressing up. It allows me to play around with fun lighting techniques and poses for all different body types, and to connect with my clients on a deeper level. They leave a session looking and feeling amazing, radiating confidence that many didn’t even know they had in them before we started. I have grooms pull me aside on the wedding day and thank me not only for the gorgeous gift I helped create, but for the confidence boost it gave their bride. That, to me, is priceless!” The photo shoot itself isn’t limited in scope. It can take place at the photographer’s studio, in the client’s home, or somewhere completely unexpected. “I have had brides book a night at a hotel before the wedding
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to surprise their fiancé,” Tegan details. “The bride and I arrive early, take the photos, and then she surprises him later on with the photos we took before he arrived. Wedding planning can be stressful and time consuming, so this gives them a chance to spend more quality time together.” If doing boudoir is already well outside of your comfort zone, doing the session in the comfort of your home may be a more ideal setting. In your home, you have the benefit of having certain places that you can turn from ordinary to extraordinary for your man — his favorite chair, your bathtub and, of course, the bedroom! And of course, the photographer’s studio is ready to accommodate you and your vision: soft, romantic and playful or sexy, daring and dramatic. One of the benefits of doing a boudoir photo shoot is the shameless excuse to go shopping. It’s the perfect reason to treat yourself — and your man — to some eye-catching new wardrobe items. Before you go shopping she can help provide recommendations of what works best for body types and comfort levels, all with your needs in mind. You can also incorporate items like his favorite dress shirt or part of his work uniform to really catch him by surprise. Whatever ensembles you decide on, Tegan’s number one tip is high heels. “Even if your feet aren’t showing in a standing photo, high heels will give you better posture.” While it helps to have your own options along for your shoot, like a good friend Tegan always has extra outfits and shoes in her studio for a bride in need. In order to help you look and feel your best, there are several accommodations Tegan says are available to her clients. First and foremost, she strongly suggests using the hair and makeup team she has on set. It is an extra fee, but so worth it! “Trust me, your eyes will sparkle. I work with an amazingly talented team that will make you look and feel amazing.”
Additionally, Tegan includes retouching on all ordered images. Skin requests, scuffs on the bottoms of heels, and distracting labels are all within her editing powers. She does not reshape the body in any way during the editing process and for good reason. “I use nothing but the best in terms of flattering lighting and posing that will highlight your best features and diminish your insecurities.” Boudoir doesn’t automatically mean nude or almost nude. You can do something more playful in a tank top and pajama shorts if that is where you feel most at ease. Tegan encourages you to try to break out of that comfort zone to see just how amazing you can look and feel in your own skin but will never discourage a bride from how she feels sexiest. “I will work with all comfort levels to help you feel amazing and create imagery that we are both proud of.” And, if it helps, Tegan says to bring along a great friend to keep the mood light and bring an added level of familiarity. The biggest concern most brides have when planning for a boudoir session is the concept of privacy. Will anyone see my images? Tegan said this is always a question and she is completely adamant about not breaking that trust with her clients. “Nothing is shared online or in print without written consent, and always after any gifts are delivered. If my brides want the images kept private, then the only person who will see them is me during the editing process. And I NEVER post any nudity anywhere online. I believe those should be strictly private … always.” As can be seen, there truly is no one way to embrace the boudoir experience. Let your imagination run wild, and leave the rest to your photography artisan to help your vision take life. And, be prepared to pick your fiancé’s jaw off the floor when he sees your sexy, fabulous, fearless self encapsulated in a gift just for him. Be empowered … be daring … be you! VeilMagazine.com
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DIY MOMENT Alissa’s mother-in-law made all of the table numbers, which consisted of small mirrors with embossed gold numbers and floral centerpieces.
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Alissa and Aaron grew up in the same small, farming town. Although their paths crossed on several occasions, it wasn’t until after college that fate brought the two together. When Alissa moved to Milwaukee, she connected with Aaron, and they fell in love. On November 5, 2016, the hometown sweethearts tied the knot. ESPECIALLY US Aaron: Alissa gives the best hugs in the world. The first time she hugged me, it felt like we had known each other our whole lives. I always say that hug felt like “home.” INTIMATE PROPOSAL I walked into our living room and saw a bunch of roses and champagne set on ice. Aaron told me how much he loves me, and asked me to marry him. Later that night, we celebrated at Flannery’s — the location of our first date — at a surprise engagement party with both families.
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KEY RESOURCES Aaron’s mother, an interior decorator, created the centerpieces and several décor items. Also, Alissa’s friend and bridesmaid, Danielle, is a graphic artist and designed the programs. WEDDING STYLE Classic, elegant city wedding, accented by a champagne, gold and ivory color palette. A subtle sparkle shone through on many aspects of the wedding day. The bridesmaid dresses were an elegant champagne gold color that
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set the tone for the décor. Linens on the cake table, gift card table and guest book table were also champagne with sequin beading.
Between that and having all of the most important people in our lives there for our wedding day, it was definitely an emotional moment for me.
WORTH EVERY PENNY The Photography & Videography: “We had such great vendors, and the pictures and video are something that we will cherish for years to come. Now we can look back on our wedding day and remember every detail.”
PERSONAL TOUCH Alissa’s grandparents have won the ‘generations dance’ at every wedding for years. “It’s become a tradition now for our family on my mom’s side to do the generations dance at our weddings and watch them win every time. They won at our wedding with 66 years of marriage!”
The Venue: “The décor in the Hilton’s Empire room fit perfectly with our theme. It looked like a ballroom straight out of the White House!”
FUNNY MOMENTS Melanie, a bridesmaid, donned an old Ray Allen Bucks jersey halfway through her speech. Everyone loved it!
The DJ: “Our DJ absolutely KILLED it. He kept the party going from the first dance until midnight. Sound by Design is the best!”
ADVICE TO FUTURE BRIDES There is only so much you can do to prepare, and some things can only be done last minute. This can be stressful at times, but try your best to stay organized, and you will remember everything you need to do. Also, keep a little bit of everything after the wedding. I held onto one of almost everything, even our napkins, in our keepsake box. Otherwise, those little details could be easily forgotten over time. Years from now, you will love looking back on it all!
BRIDAL ENSEMBLE Gown: Trumpet style with a combination of lace and beading. Veil: Classic, elegant cathedral veil with a double layer. Shoes: Badgley Mischka. Headpiece: Beaded headband for the reception. Jewelry: Beautiful, subtle accessories to pair with Alissa’s glamorous dress, veil and headpiece. A pearl bracelet from Alissa’s godmother, and Stella and Dot earrings. THE CEREMONY Aaron: I have to admit, I really did not think that I would cry at the wedding, but Alissa looked absolutely beautiful walking down the aisle.
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PHOTOGRAPHY Heather Cook Elliott Photography The bride-to-be has many important decisions to make for her wedding day, especially when it comes to her wedding gown. Brides demand a lot from this special dress. She might want to feel absolutely beautiful, or comfortable, or sexy. To find the dress that fits into her wedding vision and makes a statement, the bride has to begin by finding the style that will allow her to strut her stuff. On top of finding her perfect dress, she has to keep the bridesmaids in mind, too! Showcasing everyone’s personal¬ities within the bridal party while fitting into the scope of the wedding’s overall style can easily be achieved with the perfect bridal attire. When searching for the perfect dress, there are multiple styles for the bride to consider. And the best place to get dress advice? Look no further than the pages in Veil Magazine, as well as our Facebook, Instagram and Pinterest pages. We feature reputable bridal boutiques that can help you figure out exactly what you are looking for in bridal party fashion. They are able to take unique style preferences and coordinate them with your goals and gown to
create the perfect blend of bridal party style. The fashion mavens at bridal boutiques will sit down and listen to what the bride wants in her gown, and they will also inquire about the details of the wedding. Venue features and landscape, seasonal considerations, color palette, accents and overall tone are all important pieces of the coordinating puzzle. Knowing those details about the wedding can help the dress stand out even more, and all for the venue and elements to showcase the bride. Once the backdrop has been set, it’s about the dress and accessories. Soft, whimsical looks are timeless classics for bridal style. Meanwhile more artistic styling like Art Deco designs create a vintage twist on the romantic look, with beading, sleeves and unique necklines. To see some of these ensembles in action, check out page 120 for our bridal shoot. Once the dress has been chosen, accessories are a bride’s next stop. Earrings and bracelets are more popular than necklaces at the moment, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have their place in the bride’s look. The right necklace with the right dress can make the whole ensemble really
pop. In veils, cathedral veils and blushers are definitely in! You may also choose something more modest to compliment your gown, or even skip the veil altogether and opt for flowers or charms instead. Shoes are another important accessory. You can find a comfortable shoe to wear all day without having to resort to a flat, if that’s the not direction you are looking to go. Or you can find the perfect flattering flat! Bridging style and comfort is important. And at many bridal boutiques, shoes can be dyed various shades or colors. When it comes to your bridesmaids, ombre colors are on trend. Create interest by pairing different colors and styles together. Dresses with tiered bodices, glamorous fit-and-flare skirts and whimsical gauzy overlays are just a few ways to give your bridal party a fresh take. Choose a variety of fabrics based on your other decorative touches and even different textures if you are so bold! With all of these choices to make, the staff at any of these Veil entrusted bridal boutiques can assist you in finding the perfect fit for your big day.
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...stands for purity, love, and fidelity... No bride is complete without “something blue” for the wedding day. For instant glamour this lovely Bow shoe is perfect for any wedding ensemble with silver beading embellishing the bow and heel, and is an open-back style. For that extra something, incorporate a little something blue with this handbeaded 'Envelope' purse, adorned with midnight blue and silver beading for an extra sparkle. available exclusively at Bruce Paul Goodman — Brookfield Lace yourself with this mesmerizing SWAROVSKI blue crystal necklace, earring and ring collection. available in Milwaukee at Lyle Husar Designs — Brookfield
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Kate Iggens STONE MANOR BRIDAL STONE MANOR BRIDAL has been located in Grafton since the fall of 2013, but its roots date back to the spring of 2002. Its name was inspired by the original space in Cedarburg, a stone house built in the early 1900s. Owner Kate Iggens was met with success the minute she opened the doors and Stone Manor Bridal quickly outgrew its first location. When you step into the new store, you won’t be disappointed! Stone Manor’s loft setting, with walls made of Milwaukee’s signature cream city brick and warehouse windows that let in gorgeous natural light, offers an extensive collection of unique gowns for both brides and bridesmaids. Additionally, Kate says the large space allowed her to add tuxedo and prom lines too. The Wingman Formal Wear area is dedicated to the dashing grooms and their groomsmen.
Kate, a University of Wisconsin grad with a background in buying and retail, knew she found her perfect fit as a business owner in the bridal world. She is proud of both the knowledge and customer service levels she and her staff can offer
wonderful staff are there to assist you along the way. They’ll help you navigate the wide array of beautiful dresses, many of which come from vendors that are unique to the Milwaukee area and are not offered in other stores. Once the dress has been selected, your consultant will work with you to add the perfect accessories from their collections of headpieces and veils, shoes, and jewelry. From start to finish, the bridal consultants at Stone Manor Bridal are there to help. They’ll work one-on-one with you, listening to your likes and dislikes and tailoring your dress selections to meet your needs. “When you find the dress you will know,” Kate says. “It’s a lot like finding your fiancé—you know when it’s the right one!”
“WHEN YOU FIND THE DRESS YOU WILL KNOW. IT’S A LOT LIKE YOU FINDING YOUR FIANCÉ—YOU KNOW WHEN IT’S THE RIGHT ONE!” to clients. When first visiting Stone Manor Bridal, Kate offers this simple piece of advice to brides, “Come with an open mind.” She notes that it’s okay for you to love a look online or in a magazine, but later change your mind when you see it in person. For some brides, this process can be overwhelming, which is why Kate and her
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THE ANATOMY OF A WEDDING GOWN GOWN SILHOUETTES
A-line - Narrow at the bodice, with vertical seams that flow right down to a slightly flared-out skirt. Ball Gown- A fitted bodice that comes in at the waist and then flares out to a full, floor-length skirt with lots of volume. Trumpet Silhouette - A style of gown that features a gradually-flared skirt and a close-fitting bodice that skims the lines of the body, through the hips. Sheath - A close, form-fitting dress from bodice all the way down to the skirt. May have a slit at the legs for easier walking.
NECKLINES
Bateau - Straps are at mid-shoulders with the fabric reaching in a gentle dip across the chest and back, like an eye shape if viewed from above. Halter - Ties around the back of the neck. Sweetheart - Rounded fabric over each breast, meeting in a V-neck point in the middle. Its heart shape is the basis for its name. V-neck - The fabric extends downward in an angled V-shape at the top of the chest or lower to show some cleavage.
GOWN LENGTHS
Floor length- The skirt reaches just to the floor, the hem extended for a gentle glide obscuring the view of your shoes. Knee-length - The skirt reaches to or just below the knee. Tea-length - Also called a cocktail-length dress, the skirt reaches to mid-shin.
SLEEVES
Cap - A short extension to a sleeveless look offering a ‘pouf ’ of fabric over the shoulder, gathering under or against the very top of the arm. Illusion - Sheer netting-type material that forms a see-through sleeve, yet offers ‘the illusion’ of coverage. Three-quarter - Extending from the shoulder to mid-forearm.
TRAINS
Cathedral - Attached at the waist and extends dramatically behind the gown. Chapel - Attached at the waist and extends 3 to 4 feet behind the gown. Sweep- A few inches beyond the gown.
VEILS
Ballet - Falls to a length between the knee and the ankle. Blusher - A single layer, shorter veil that is worn over the face during the ceremony and then flipped back over the head after the ceremony. It can be worn alone and then removed after the ceremony, or paired as a layer to a longer veil. Cathedral - Is usually paired with a cathedral-length train. As such, the veil extends 3 ½ yards from the headpiece, with a significant amount trailing behind you as you walk. Fingertip - Should just graze your fingertips when your fingers are extended and falls below the waist.
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Ariel Tobin BELLA BRIDESMAIDS IN THE QUEST FOR THE PERFECT DRESS, don’t forget your supporting ladies who will stand beside you on your big day! With the largest selection of dress designers available to you, as well as sashes, flower girl dresses and jewelry, Bella Bridesmaids is the premier shopping experience for bridal parties. In 2007, Erin and Kathleen Casey, mother-daughter duo and current co-franchisors, opened their first Bella Bridesmaids showrooms in Chicago and Milwaukee. When Erin got engaged, her mom, Kathleen, came across an ad for Bella Bridesmaids in a bridal magazine. They hoped to find the store near home in Chicago, but couldn’t find any place like it. Kathleen knew she wanted to open a Bella and was relentless in pursuing the idea throughout Erin’s wedding planning process. On Mother’s Day, they decided they would go into the business of bridesmaids!
Ariel Tobin, the Milwaukee showroom manager, joined Erin and Kathleen after a move from Atlanta with her husband and puppy, Snoop. “The moment I stepped into the beautiful Bella showroom, I knew Bella was the PERFECT match for me,” Ariel says. At Bella Bridesmaids you’ll have an hour-long appointment that will pair you and your bridesmaids with an expert
bridal party can expect to receive exceptional customer service and one-on-one attention while choosing their gowns.” Each year, Ariel heads to the New York City Bridal Market to search out the latest and greatest in bridesmaids’ fashion to bring back to Milwaukee. “One of the biggest trends we are seeing right now is beading and sequins galore!” Ariel offers the following advice to brides: “Wedding planning can seem like a lot, so keep it simple and start with your attire. What you wear will help guide the style and formality of your bridesmaids' dresses, so focus on yourself first! After you have the dress of your dreams, that's where we come in. Believe me--there are A LOT of choices! Choosing your general color scheme and preferred dress length before visiting will ensure you leave your appointment feeling accomplished, not confused. We can't wait to shop with you!”
“ONE OF THE BIGGEST TRENDS WE ARE SEEING RIGHT NOW IS BEADING AND SEQUINS GALORE!" stylist to ensure the best possible experience with each visit. “During this time, I am able to assist in choosing the best color for the maids’ gowns that will blend with the rest of the wedding colors, find a style and fabric that will complement her wedding dress and lead the party through our streamlined sizing and ordering process,” Ariel says. “The bride and her
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WEDDING GOWNS
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PERFECT FOR hourglass, inverted triangle, pear & rectangle shape bodies. Capped sleeves lend dimension to the upper body, while the full skirt provides a voluptuous appeal. WEDDING GOWN Stone Manor Bridal
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apple, hourglass, pear & rectangle shape bodies. This fitted bodice, fulllength gown glides gracefully over the hips giving brides the perfect blend between form and flow. WEDDING GOWN, JACKET & VEIL Stone Manor Bridal
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Sheer long sleeves trim and elongate the bride's arms, complemented by a sweeping skirt falling naturally over the lower body. WEDDING GOWN Bucci's Bridal
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hourglass, inverted triangle, pear & rectangle shape bodies. The jeweled bodice drapes over the hips to add beautiful form to the bride's figure, which is further accented by captivating chiffon. WEDDING GOWN & VEIL Bucci's Bridal
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PERFECT FOR apple, hourglass & pear shape bodies.
The depth of the skirt provides shape in the mid-section while the high neckline and single straps highlight the shoulders and elongate the neck. WEDDING GOWN, JEWELRY & VEIL White Dress Bridal Boutique LOCATION Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum
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hourglass, inverted triangle & rectangle shape bodies. Understated elegance showcases the bride's sensational shape, further lended by the long, flowing train. WEDDING GOWN & VEIL White Dress Bridal Boutique LOCATION Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum
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événement planning Flowers & Staging: Impressions by Esther Flemming Hair & Makeup: Style By R Honeymoon Location: Las Ventanas Al Paraiso Invitations & Stationery: Paper Envy Officiant: Cris’ Uncle Ed Cavil Reception Location: South Second Milwaukee Wedding Rings: Tiffany & Co.
HONORING TRADITIONS Shirley wore a Chinese wedding dress, used the symbol for “Double Happiness” in the décor, and served traditional pineapple cake for dessert, in honor of her Taiwanese heritage.
One Thousand Weeks to Forever and Always by Carolyn Fraser One fateful day, Cris noticed a beautiful lady alone at the bar. He longed to meet her, but regretfully, the moment passed him by. Later that night, Cris couldn’t believe his eyes when he happened to see her again, out celebrating her birthday. This time he didn’t miss the opportunity to speak with the woman of his dreams. Exactly one thousand weeks later, Cris surprised Shirley with a beautiful wedding ceremony at Ramhorn Farm. THE PROPOSAL Cris: “I always knew I wanted to go back to the place where we met to propose on her birthday. The restaurant wasn’t there anymore, but I took her back to the location anyways, got down on one knee, and proposed in the same spot where I first saw her. Our wedding was 1,000 weeks from the date we met. Seriously, we counted.” WEDDING STYLE Classic and romantic, with a touch of modern chic. COLOR PALETTE Red, white and black. Red and white are the two most
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prominent colors in a Chinese wedding. Red is considered a bold and lucky color that symbolizes love, prosperity and happiness. MUST-HAVE DETAIL Shirley: “I absolutely wanted my parents to be honored, so a table was reserved in their memory and their pictures were placed on the chairs.” WORTH EVERY PENNY Cris: “Front Room was incredible. They created a video and slideshow of our ceremony, which was ready to play for our guests at the reception later that night.”
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THE CEREMONY Shirley: “Cris wanted to surprise me with the ceremony, so he planned and coordinated it with everyone on his own. I had absolutely no clue what to expect. When I arrived at the ceremony location that morning, Cris made sure the photographer captured my reaction as I looked around. The site was breathtaking. It was so much better than I could ever have imagined, and every detail was perfect. I always knew I was marrying the right man but this solidified it, and I couldn’t wait to walk down the aisle!” Cris: “It was like a dream come true. Ramhorn Farm was the perfect location for our ceremony. Every vendor and wedding guest was sworn to secrecy to keep it a surprise. I planned every single part of the ceremony, with the help of Elizabeth from événement. Incredibly, no one told Shirley, and she got to have a big ‘ceremony reveal’ on the morning of our wedding. And yes, she cried the moment she saw it.” FUNNY MOMENT Cris: “Our puppy, Lambeau, was the ring bearer and ended up stealing the show. He looked so cute in his tux and was quite the ham; posing and showing his ‘good side’ in every photo. He even plopped down on Shirley’s dress train during pictures.” BRIDAL ENSEMBLE Dress: Backless gown with lace straps. Headpiece: I wanted to wear my hair half up and half down, off to one side so
it didn’t hide my back. My maid of honor made a flowery headpiece that she wove into my hair. Shoes: My shoes were absolutely the best part! I splurged on a pair of gorgeous crystal Christian Louboutin heels. They looked like the glass slippers that Cinderella wore to the ball. I loved them so much and was so excited to wear them! Jewelry: I wore my mother’s wedding set on my right hand to keep her close to me. I wanted a sophisticated, classic look, so I chose diamond jewelry. It’s always timeless! MY “SOMETHINGS” My mother’s wedding set was my “something old.” My shoes were “something new.” My Maid of Honor let me borrow her grandmother’s ring, and a hint of blue was woven into the handle of my bouquet. DIY At the ceremony, we provided our guests with honey jars from Ramhorn with our wedding logo. We used a hand-painted poster of a tree in lieu of a guestbook for the reception. Guests left their fingerprint on the tree to fill it with “leaves.” We also created a cute “Hangover Kit” in little red Chinese take-out boxes for our guests to take home at the end of the night. It included aspirin, a small bottle of water, mints, EmergenC, pineapple cakes and a wet nap. ADVICE TO FUTURE BRIDES Hire a wedding planner so you can enjoy the day without worrying about the details. Also, when something doesn’t go as planned just go with it. It will make for a much more interesting story. VeilMagazine.com
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PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography BRIDESMAID'S DRESSES Bella Bridesmaids GROOMSMAN FORMALWEAR Harleys The Store For Men HAIR & MAKEUP Halo Salon LOCATION The Kimpton Journeyman Hotel FLOWERS by Belle Fiori LTD WARDROBE STYLING Ariel Tobin STYLING Terri Blahnik MODELS Kurt from Ohlsson Model & Talent, Alexandra, Ariel and James When it’s time to get your bridesmaids and groomsmen dressed, a lot of thoughts may be flying through your head. You want them to look amazing, feel comfortable enough to rock the dance floor, be OK with the price, and complement you! But the old stereotype that brides prefer to dress their maids in something that won’t surpass them is totally outdated. You want your girls — and your groom’s guys — to look and feel great. Once the color scheme is selected, one of the first things a bride will do is explore how to infuse her chosen hues into the attire of her bridal party. Whether it is with one consistent shade or variations of a single color, she’ll search high and low for bridesmaid’s dresses and groomsmen attire that bring her vision to life while being comfortable and affordable. As for trends, Ariel Tobin, the showroom manager at Milwaukee’s Bella Bridesmaids, says she’s seeing a big beading and sequin trend in bridesmaid’s dresses, as well as the color ‘cerise’ or any metallics. Another trend you’ll see a lot in the coming months? Mixing and matching various hues to create a dreamy aesthetic. “Brides are loving that designers have created styles that allow them to mix and match different fabrics and textures, while still be able to keep everything unified,” Ariel said. However, if you’re mixing and matching, remember a few basic rules. All bridesmaid’s dresses should be within the same color scheme and also the same length to look unified in group pictures. According to Ariel, brides have been particularly drawn to longer gowns as of late for their bridesmaids. Before you go shopping, have a basic idea of what you want in mind. Spend some time in the pages of Veil Magazine or on our website looking at different colors, cuts and styles. Once you have a rudimentary idea, head to the boutique — that way, you won’t be overwhelmed by the rows and rows of choices. In terms of men’s styles, Tim Ryan, the president of Harley’s: The Store for Men, said colors continue to run the gauntlet. “Navy is becoming quite popular, black is making a resurgence, and any shade of gray is still appropriate,” Tim says. Select the attire for your bridesmaids first, so that you’re able to choose something for the men that complements them nicely. That will give your group photos a cohesive look and help your ceremony look pretty and put together. The level of formality should be complementary as well. When it comes to hair and makeup, even if your girls are low-maintenance ladies, you’ll still want them to at least apply minimal makeup. “Women that don’t wear makeup in everyday life definitely need to wear some on their wedding day, or they’ll be disappointed with the pictures,” advises Diane Mouse of Halo Salon in Milwaukee. “Using airbrush or HD makeup will prevent the white face and tan body combination that happens with a flash.” In terms of hair styling, Diane is seeing trends that are either soft and undone, or very polished, sophisticated styles. She suggests bringing in pictures for the makeup and hair artist of how the bride would look their bridesmaids to look. You can gather a lot of polished, picture-perfect looks in the many styled shoots we do. See pages 129-131 for some inspiration! No matter what you dress your wedding party in, they are there to make you and your groom look spectacular. So whether it’s a long satin gown with tuxedos or a chiffon sundress with simply styled suits, make sure your bridal party is ready to shine!
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PHOTOGRAPHY Top & Bottom Left: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Right: Front Room Photography When it comes to wedding attire, the first thing most people think of is the gown or the bridesmaids’ dresses. But what about the groom and his guys? It’s time for them to take center stage as well. The first step to making your way through the complex world of men’s attire is to consider the vibe of your wedding. Are you throwing an over-the-top, 500-person soiree in an elegant ballroom? Or, are you having a backyard affair? Will you be tying the knot in a church, a barn, or a fabulous museum? Your venue and your general feel will contribute a lot to what you wind up dressing your men in. Tuxedos are certainly the most formal selection, but it certainly isn’t your only option. Suits are perfectly acceptable attire as well, and in the case of a low-key affair or beach wedding, perhaps a simple button down top and light-fabric bottoms are the better fit. There’s really no right and wrong when it comes to which style you prefer, keeping in mind the other elements of the day. Once you determine the style for your men, you should next consider your options in fabrics and fit. Climate and comfort are your two key
details for guiding these decisions. For example, tight-knit fabrics would be uncomfortable on a beach, whereas khakis and polos or a fabric like linen wouldn’t quite match a wintery New Year’s Eve wedding! Your menswear consultant can help you narrow in on the ideal options for where and when your big day will take place. Menswear trends currently popping up include pleats; pleated shirts and pleated pants are both popular right now. Slimmer fitting styles that feel modern and sleek are also on trend; they look great on a wide variety of figures. Your body type will matter when it comes to a flattering fit and menswear experts, like the vendors in Veil Magazine, will be able to help you find a fit that flatters your shape. Small details like the number of buttons or the fitting in the waist can help you look your best. What about the wedding colors? There are plenty of accessories in menswear that can help bring your wedding colors to the guys’ side of the aisle. Consider a tie or vest in the same swatch your bridesmaids will be donning. You could also incorporate the color into their boutonnieres for a subtler touch. Accessories aren’t just for the
girls; let the guys in on the fun by gifting your groomsmen monogrammed cufflinks or socks from their favorite sports teams to wear on the big day. You can even add fun details like bowties or suspenders, or refined touches like pocket squares. Men’s accessories are a subtle way to inspire some great photos and get your men excited for the big day! Guys, when you begin the search for your attire, trust your experts. They’ve done this a million times before and if you’ve done your due diligence in terms of research, menswear consultants will be able to help your groom look his best. They’ll also know details like how to achieve an impeccable fit or the proper length of sleeves and pants. Working with trustworthy professionals will give you peace of mind and prevent you from overthinking or feeling overwhelmed. What the men in your wedding party wear will help your ceremony look even more beautiful. Make sure to take the time to pick out proper attire so that when the day comes, all eyes are where they should be — on the bride!
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Wardrobe Wisdom To help you decide on what to wear, and to make sure you know what details you can consider, we’ve compiled a list of questions to consider as you ponder your wedding day attire. What color suit / tux should the men wear? Blue, black, navy, gray, charcoal, khaki, white or striped? Accessories for the chest can be vests, cummerbunds, suspenders, or even sweaters. Which tie style would best match the wedding’s mood? Among other options, there’s the cravat, bow tie, skinny tie...and then choose a color or fabric pattern. Remember, some couples don’t rent this - they buy them as groomsmen gifts. Are there other fabric pieces we want to consider? Colored or patterned socks shoes or shirts? What about jewelry or other accessories? These can be as traditional as cuff links and watches or as unusual as bolero hats with a brim band to match the wedding design. Do you want props? Top hats, canes, belt buckles or other elements that will add to our wedding vibe? How should the groom be slightly different from the other men in the wedding party? He is, after all, the man of the hour.
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Tim Ryan HARLEYS THE STORE FOR MEN
IN 1968, a stockboy named Tim was working at Harold and Stanley Dubman’s store, Harleys: The Store for Men. After getting involved in sales and buying, he worked his way up to co-owner of the store in 1987. While the other owner, Tom Brill, retired in 2000, Tim Ryan, President/CEO of Harleys, is still hard at work. Harleys is an industry leader in menswear, and strives to make sure that every customer is priority number one the instant he walks through the door. “Our mission is to provide quality apparel, exceptional customer service and an enjoyable shopping experience,” Tim emphasizes. While many people tend to put emphasis on the wedding dress, the groom’s attire shouldn’t be a last-minute detail. Tim recognizes that finding a wedding day ensemble can be intimidating for grooms, but Harleys is fully prepared to help any groom find what he is looking for. “Being both a retail and rental store gives Harleys staff a unique perspective to give proper advice to the groom to ensure he makes the right choices for his wedding,” reassures Tim. “Tuxedo rentals are provided by Jim’s Formalwear, and we are an Elite dealer within their network, which allows Harleys to do whatever might be necessary to ensure the wedding party looks their best. We also have an in house tailoring staff to take care of any last minute adjustments.” This past July, Harleys’ quality reputation was honored by the menswear industry at MR Magazine’s annual Uptown Downtown awards ceremony for retail innovation. It was a huge honor for Tim and the Harleys team who strive every day to do what they do best. “We were honored to be recognized by our industry as one of the top retailers in the country, but what’s more important is
that our customers like the product selection we offer. They receive exceptional customer service, and they have an enjoyable shopping
“Harleys is very involved in the community supporting numerous charities, Shorewood schools and our own Teeing Up for Charity golf outing to benefit the Great Lakes Hemophilia Foundation,” Tim explains. Whether it’s business or charity, experience at Harleys,” says Tim. Harleys provides nothing short of exceptional Beyond being leaders in the industry, service and unparalleled dedication. As “The Harleys is a leader in the community. Harleys Store for Men in Shorewood,” Harleys is looking moved to its current Shorewood location in to uphold its reputation and exceed your harleys veil ad feb 2010:Layout 4 2/5/10 1:33 PM Page 1 2009, and since then has been giving back to expectations. the neighborhood and other great causes.
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FOR THE LOVE OF DOGS by Michelle Drewek PHOTOGRAPHY Studio 29 Photography + Design
As your wedding plans begin to come together and the larger details of the day fall into place, your mind will begin to swirl with ideas for other items to incorporate. If you have a dog, there has no doubt been consideration of involving them in your wedding. Your loved ones will all be included, and your pup is very much a big piece of your heart. There are a number of ways to include your dog in this monumental day. Here are some ideas that are sure to wow your paws off! One of the most significant ways to include your fur baby is to have them there for the “I Do’s.” Ren Davis of Studio 29 Photography + Design adores working with couples and their pups, and says there are a number of ways to have them physically be a part of your special day. “Some couples choose to have their dogs present in part or in whole on their wedding day. Depending on your venue and the limitations that may (or may not) be in place, you can have your dog as a member
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of your bridal party — like a groomsman or ring bearer — or be watching on as one of your loved ones in attendance. You may even have him/her walk you down the aisle!” Your wedding day will be captured in numerous ways through many different sets of eyes. From the photographer and videographer to your friends and family, all eyes will be on you. If your dog will be at your ceremony and/or reception, perhaps you should consider an option for capturing the day through their unique perspective. “Our dog, Kenzo, wore a GoPro all day for our July wedding,” Ren details. “We stayed in a cabin in the woods and got ready in the morning together. He videotaped all of it! He also joined us for a mountain hike after our first look for our bride and groom portraits, as well as he was involved in the wedding party photos following the ceremony. During the ceremony, I couldn’t wait to see him in his
handsome garland collar!” Having your beloved canine with you on your wedding day may require some additional planning assuming they are only going to be with you for part of the day, or at the very least will not be going home with you that night. You’ll need to organize how your dog can be transported to and from where necessary and to have a handler that can make sure they are well taken care of. Most of the people you would readily trust with this responsibility will be a guest, and you don’t want to impose on their enjoyment of the festivities. If a family member or friend isn’t an option, having a professional dog care specialist that can meet you at your venue to pick up your dog and take them to their care facility will ease the stress of not only making sure your pet is well taken care of, but that you can still enjoy your wedding day without the added hoops to jump through. Whatever route you choose, be sure to establish a set plan so when the wedding day comes around there is no question or confusion about your fur baby’s needs being met.
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Sadly, as much as you may want to have your pup by your side on your big day, it may not be feasible for one reason or another, and not every venue will be OK with 4-legged attendees. But that doesn’t mean you can’t include them “in spirit.” Throughout the years, Ren has seen many unique ways people have incorporated their dog into their wedding day. “Feature them in the décor, like your cake topper or on the table numbers, if they can’t be in attendance,” Ren suggests. “A few of my couples have set up a donation bucket, and if their guests want them to kiss, they had to donate money. The couple then donated all the money to an animal shelter.” Additionally, you can take time during your engagement photo session or wedding day photos to bring them in for a few Kodak moments. Ren
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says that couples can also plan a post-wedding day session where you can get dressed in your wedding attire and snap some photos with your pup at a better time. There are many picture-perfect moments to be had. Check out the Spring/Summer 2016 issue of Veil Magazine for more photo ideas to consider! This day is monumentally special and being able to share it with everyone you love, be they 2-legged or 4-legged, is beyond compare. Don’t be afraid to ask questions of your venue and photographer to see what options you have for involving your cherished canine. As excited as you will be to have them be a part of this day, they will be even more excited to share in your happiness. Besides, they are just too doggone cute!
Planning Tips Does your venue allow for dogs? Will you have your dog dressed in any attire? Do you have a plan should your dog become overly anxious or excited by the events of the day? Do you have a handler on-site for the day? Do you have a plan in place for escorting your dog to and from the location(s) they will be in attendance? Do you have overnight arrangements set up for your dog?
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FUN FACT 450 roses were a part of our day. All of the special girls in my life had flower rings to wear, and my shoes had flowers on them. Every wedding florist getting married needs flowers on her shoes! We also had 300 candles illuminate the day.
Through Thick and Thin by Laura Vietmeyer
For Kelly, it was love at first sight. For Matt, he simply knew she was the one. Despite Kelly facing the loss of her father very early in their relationship, their love grew as Matt provided strong emotional support. The couple persisted. They bought a house together, added their beloved pup, Lucy, and were wed after a 15-month engagement, joined by 150 of their closest family and friends. ESPECIALLY US We met online and learned we only lived two blocks away from each other. The night we first met in person at Bel Air Cantina in Wauwatosa, there was horrible rain that turned into ice, but that didn’t stop us. Matt’s smile as I walked into Bel Air instantly warmed my heart. I got that feeling of love at first sight. We then spent the next week seeing each other before I left for a few weeks to be with my dad as he battled the last stages of cancer. I didn’t expect Matt to endure such heaviness after just getting to know
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me but he was my lifeline by keeping my spirits as high as they could be with text messages and phone calls to check in. I was falling in love and going through the saddest time of my life, all at once. I knew he was my forever keeper! THE PROPOSAL Not to be cliche, but you kind of just know when she's “the one.” It feels natural. Kelly and I love Christmas, so I wanted to incorporate the holiday into the proposal. I wanted to put up our Christmas tree early as we were going out of town for Thanksgiving. While I was at work he set the tree up and
kelly & matthew married 01-28-2017
got the ornaments out. When I got home he said we should decorate the tree. He stashed the ring box in with the ornaments, so as we were decorating I saw the ring box and turned around to find him down on one knee.
ADVICE TO FUTURE BRIDES Plan your big day around what makes you most comfortable and happy. Don’t let the latest trends and “must do’s” pressure you.
MUST-HAVE DETAIL LOTS of floral.
IF ONLY I KNEW THEN… Make sure all your ducks are in a row and go with the flow, because things will come up on your wedding day and you just need to have faith that your family/friends and vendors will take care of any problems.
WORTH EVERY PENNY The photography, hands down. MY “SOMETHINGS” It was a gift from my sister that had a variety of family heirlooms and a blue bead my sweet niece picked out specifically for me. BRIDAL ENSEMBLE I loved my dress! It was a soft champagne color with an illusion neckline and a waterfall detail of beading and pearls. I wore vintage rhinestone and pearl earrings that picked up the detailing in my dress. My shoes were gold and so comfortable! Of course I had to put flowers on my shoes, and I had a photo of my dad in one shoe so that he could “walk me down the aisle.” FIRST LOOK Matthew: When I first saw her walking down the aisle, my immediate thought was, “I am a lucky man!” PERSONAL TOUCHES We wanted our ceremony very family oriented so Matt’s dad married us and my mom did a reading during the ceremony.
HONEYMOON LOCATION We spent a nice long week together in a Log Cabin in Eagle River, Wisconsin HAPPILY EVER AFTER We’ve done so much in the three years since we met. Matt left his job as a commodities broker to join the rapidly growing Jane Kelly Floral, Inc. full-time. My hope for the next five years is to enjoy what we have accomplished thus far. From there we’ll journey through life together as husband and wife and business partners, accomplishing so many exciting things that we often talk about. We plan to retire in northern Wisconsin, where I will lay in my hammock and Matt will fish the day away.
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BAKERIES
Delicious and
by Claire Swinarski
PHOTOGRAPHY Top: Heather Cook Elliott Photography, Bottom Left: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Right: Front Room Photography The most delicious aspect of your wedding? The dessert! Wedding cakes are a fun tradition that makes your wedding day that much sweeter. These days, wedding cakes no longer need to be tiered, white masterpieces with a bride and groom cake topper. Lots of different trends are popping up, like assortments of mini pastries with a smaller cake for the bride and groom to cut. Since guests love sampling different treats, varieties of cupcakes or other mini desserts are very popular. More homestyle desserts, like pies or chocolate chip cookies, are also seeing a sweet surge. If you’re still hoping for the hand piped, multi-tiered wedding cake, don’t fret—that’s still a very popular option. You can still offer variety within the cake as well. For instance, you can have different flavors for each layer of your wedding cake. As for texture, there are a lot of options when it comes to decorating your wedding cake. Fresh flowers (instead of frosted!) can
be a beautiful touch. You can also bring in any heirlooms, brooches, ribbons, etc. that you want incorporated into the décor for a Pinterest-perfect dessert. There are tons of cute cupcake toppers or pie forks on sites like Etsy. Bakeries aren’t like what you see on The Food Network. It’s a lot less glamour and a lot more work! The price of your baked goods will coincide with the level of elaborate details you’re aiming for. For instance, watercolor cakes are a big trend this summer, but to make a cake resemble a watercolor painting is going to be a very labor-intensive process. Consider this when selecting how important your dessert table is. One popular tradition to discuss with your partner is a groom’s cake. Groom’s cakes are special, smaller cakes that can be decorated to the groom’s taste. For instance, if he’s a huge fan of a certain sports team, you can have the cake decorated in those colors as a nod to one of his passions. Groom’s cakes are often eaten at the rehearsal dinner. Another tradition?
Saving the top layer of your wedding cake for your anniversary. However, some couples opt to just buy a smaller version of their wedding cake to save, eliminating the hassle of preserving a layer. Before you book your bakery, make sure to schedule a sampling appointment so you’re sure your wedding cake is up to your taste buds’ standards. Sampling appointments should be made 6-8 months before your wedding date, and as soon as you’ve confirmed that bakery is the one you’d like to go with, you can put down a deposit to lock in your wedding day. It depends on the bakery, but your final balance will often be required a week or two before the wedding. One reason that you might have some wiggle room in terms of booking is that unlike other vendors, like an officiant or photographer, a bakery can often do multiple weddings per day. So depending on your bakery, don’t panic if you still haven’t decided and your day is creeping closer!
Planning Tips If I have this many guests, how much dessert do you think I’ll need?
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Can you accommodate allergies (for example a gluten-free cake)?
Do you deliver on the day of our wedding, or will someone need to come and pick our dessert up?
Are you able to use an old family recipe for my cake?
Mark & Peggy Carollo SIMMA’S BAKERY
ALTHOUGH YOUR HUSBAND-TO-BE may not have been interested in the finer details of wedding planning up to this point, you mention “cake” and he’s all in! Your beloved wouldn’t miss a cake tasting, especially if it involves Simma’s whose highly specialized wedding
consultants are here to help you customize a one-of-a-kind cake. For more than 30 years, Simma’s Bakery has been creating cheesecakes, wedding cakes, pastries and so much more. These treats feature the finest-quality ingredients and are
baked by dedicated, highly trained pastry chefs, many of whom have been with Simma’s for more than 20 years. Current owners Peggy and Mark Carollo say their mission “is to continue to be that small, family run bakery on the corner with a focus on quality and customer service just as Simma demanded when she started the bakery.” At its heart are original, time-tested recipes, although many new sweets have been added to the mix. While Simma’s has changed hands over time (passed from Simma to her daughter, and now to Mark and Peggy), many of the bakery’s employees and its operations have changed little since 1979. In fact, the Carollo’s note that the bakery’s award-winning cheesecake recipe has remained unchanged
“THESE TREATS FEATURE THE FINESTQUALITY INGREDIENTS AND ARE BAKED BY DEDICATED, HIGHLY TRAINED PASTRY CHEFS.”
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over the years — and is a secret recipe known to only a select few. A trip to Simma’s, located on 68th Street in Wauwatosa, reveals the bakery’s recent expansion. Its larger retail area offers an increased product selection. And as a result of the expansion, it will be much easier to keep up with the ever-increasing orders of wedding cakes, cheesecakes, cakes and pastries. Working with hundreds of brides and grooms each year was a driving force behind the expansion. This gave the bakery necessary, dedicated space for personalized, one-on-one meetings with Simma’s experienced wedding consultants, making it easier to assist couples when planning their special day. To design your own Simma’s cake, you may bring in photos that illustrate your ideas. Plus, you can count on a consultant to guide you through many delectable choices, including award-winning cheesecake and divine yet conventional cake that may be dressed up with mousse, fresh fruit and even liquor fillings. While the traditional cake is still the go-to for brides, others request a sweets table of mini pastries, cupcakes and sheet cakes. No matter the style or flavor, your wedding guests will take delight in delicious cakes baked from heirloom recipes that promise excellence bite after heavenly bite.
Molly Sullivan MISS MOLLY’S CAFE & PASTRY SHOP Molly Sullivan, owner of Miss Molly’s Pastries, a boutique Milwaukee pastry company, will be opening her first brink & mortar location this summer, Miss Molly’s Cafe & Pastry Shop, located at 9201 W. Center Street. Molly attended culinary school for Baking & Pastry, and has built a successful career for herself in the industry. She worked all over the country before returning home to Milwaukee. She was the pastry chef at Braise Restaurant four and a half years, where her responsibilities included creating and implementing seasonal and local desserts. She was most recently the head pastry chef for Black Shoe Hospitality, which owns popular local restaurants, including Maxie’s, Blue’s Egg, and Story Hill BKC. Molly’s responsibilities were menu creation and overseeing the pastry staff at each of the locations. Molly’s passion is weddings, and this shows in her work. “I started my business about five years ago doing small orders for family and friends. I am so excited by how much the business has grown, especially in the wedding industry of Southeastern Wisconsin. I have met so many other small business owner who have been truly supportive of my business; it is a community of people who really want to see each other succeed!” Molly says. What are you known for in the industry and why? I am known for the different types of petite desserts that we do. I also take pride in the fact that we make everything from scratch and use locally sourced ingredients. I think that the variety of different desserts we do appeals to brides because it gives guests so many options to choose from. Supporting local farmers and artisan producers is important to me and carry that through to my business practices.
How many weddings do you handle a weekend? As a small yet talented company, we accept a limited number of bookings per season. Explore our menus and portfolios, or get a jump start and book a tasting today! What are some unique requests you’ve had over the years? A couple of years ago I did a cream puff wedding where I filled cream puffs to order at their reception! People loved it because it was so fun and unique! I also did a pie pop wedding last year. The bride wanted three different types of pie pops. Her fiancé made special stands where he drilled holes into logs the exact size of the pie pop sticks. It wound up looking like a little forest of pie pops! What trends are most popular among the brides you work with? Many brides work with us because they are looking for a dessert option that is fun and different. We do a lot of dessert tables that have three to five different
bite-sized desserts and a small cutting cake. We also get many requests for simple and elegant tiered cakes made with buttercream frosting and decorated with fresh flowers. What are your words of wisdom for brides? Try not to stress too much! Leave the worrying to the professionals — we got you!
scratch-made desserts and cakes using all-natural, locally-sourced ingredients missmollyscafe.com / 414.249.5665
What is your process when working with a prospective client? Typically, I will schedule a tasting with the bride-and-groom-to-be, who choose five different items from our menu to taste. The tasting costs $25. There is an additional charge if the couple wants to taste more than 5 items or bring additional people. If the client does book us for their wedding the $25 tasting fee will be deducted from their final bill. And for clients who are too busy to book a tasting, we offer a Tasting To-Go for $20. Clients can pick up a box of five samples and decide at their leisure. Craig John Photography
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Ceremony Location: Old St. Mary Catholic Parish Flowers: Alfa Flowers Guest Favors: Confectioner's Candy Hair & Makeup: Beauty Men’s Formalwear: Squire Fine Men’s Apparel Officiant: Father John Gibson
DIY MOMENT Erin and Frank embraced a myriad of DIY projects for their wedding, including writing, designing and printing thank you’s for each table setting and the personalized portions of the ceremony program cover.
Love of a Lifetime by Laura Vietmeyer
A love story decades in the making, Frank and Erin were wed before 189 guests. With memories of growing up together as friends and becoming something more, the couple can look back at how far they’ve come with gratitude. “As we look back on the amazing day, we loved that so many people could be a part of our ‘happily ever after’!” Frank loves Star Wars. Erin doesn't get it, so she teases him about that. Erin loves knitting. Frank doesn't get it, so he teases her about that. The couple is both quirky in their own ways, which connected them from the very beginning. It all started in kindergarten. Frank and Erin met in class, played on their first soccer team, attended third grade and middle school together and officially started dating in 2005, just before their senior year of high school. They stayed together through college, attending separate schools, and five years later they were both back in their hometown. On July 4, 2015, Frank proposed to Erin on the beach of Lake Erie in North
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East, Penn., where they spent time during the summers since they had started dating. At Frank’s parents’ cottage over the years, they had searched for beach glass up and down the shoreline and played late night penny poker with friends on "the lane." When it came to proposing, Frank says, “I can’t explain it. I just loved Erin right away. I trusted Erin and thought she was beautiful. We always had fun together and we were goofball buddies!” For the proposal at the lake, Frank wanted to secretly get the ring down the lane to the beach. At one point, the ring ended up in a rubber rain boot so no one
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would find it. The boot was used for a flowerpot the following summer at Erin’s bridal shower on the lane. After the proposal, they called Erin’s mom and dad first. “After our overwhelmingly happy phone call to my parents to share the news, we ran back down the beach where we were met by Frank’s parents, Frank’s sister and her now-fiancé, along with the rest of our friends from the lane!“ Erin says. When it came time to plan the wedding, the couple received help and support from their parents. Erin’s grandpa also designed, hand carved and constructed all of the table numbers. Regarding planning process, Frank notes, “There are a lot of details to work out! Be decisive and trust your first instinct.” On the big day, the couple incorporated traditions, but still celebrated each other. “It was really important to us that we didn’t see each other before the ceremony,” Erin says. “However, we wanted to exchange gifts so we enlisted the help of our bridal party and our photographers to make sure we remained ‘hidden’ from one another. We exchanged the gifts around the corner of a wall in the church so that we couldn’t see each other.” Erin did do a “first look” with her dad. “The photographs captured during this amazing moment are priceless! When I came around the corner, my dad had the biggest smile and tears in his eyes!” Erin reminisces. The couple agrees that everything in the wedding was perfect, but they were
able to narrow it down to a few favorites. They praise the Grain Exchange as their venue, stating, “The care and attention to detail we received, as well as the excellent food (which was catered by Bartolotta’s) was fantastic!” They also noted their DJ, Sound by Design, had the crowd on the dance floor until the end of the evening. “The dance floor was packed all night! Our DJ also installed our up-lighting and entryway lightning, which highlighted the amazing architecture within the Grain Exchange,” Erin says. Finally, their photographer, The Paper Elephant, was a highlight of the day. ”She thought of so many creative ideas and amazing ways to incorporate our interests and even brought along their own super cool photography ‘light sabers’ for us to use on the night of the wedding in some pictures.” To celebrate each other during the wedding, Erin surprised Frank with two R2D2 cake toppers. The couple decided to carry the Star Wars theme into the reception. “As our bridal party was being introduced during the Grand Entrance, they each had a light saber toy that they used to have their very own little Star Wars battle before meeting together on the dance floor. We had the DJ play the opening theme from the Star Wars movies as a little added humor for their battles! Our bridal party met on the dance floor, put the light sabers up in the form of a tunnel, and Frank and I ran through together!” Erin says. When it comes to the future, they imagine themselves sharing happy memories and making each other laugh, “since that’s what we feel we do best together!” VeilMagazine.com
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Personally Penned
by Michelle Drewek
PHOTO COURTESY OF Jennifer Johnson Photography It’s not uncommon to spend many waking hours planning each part of your wedding, and then spend your remaining hours dreaming of what that day will look like. With so much time dedicated to day-of details, it’s easy to overlook the first impression your guests will have of your big day. In a time when electronic communication has taken precedence over written letters, your wedding invitation is an opportunity to bring joy to ever y guest who opens their mailbox. Captivate them in that instant with an individually hand-written envelope and beautifully scripted invitation that will hang proudly in their home in anticipation of your wedding day, and cherished for a lifetime as a keepsake. Debi Zeinert, the extraordinarily talented owner of The Blooming Quill, has been in love with letters since she was a little girl. She’s always loved to paint and draw, and to use her creativity to bring joy to others.
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“When I found out that I could actually make people happy with lettering, I was beside myself!” Debi elates. “I’ve been lettering for commissions since 1984, but it was in 2001 when I was doing calligraphy as much as working my full-time job that I made
chalkboards, as well as lettering on glass and metal with an engraver. And, very soon, The Blooming Quill will be offering Letterpress! Calligraphy isn’t limited to one style, either. You can choose to embrace a traditional approach, which is reminiscent of a black-tie event with few embellishments. Another option is something more contemporary that is less about the “frills” and is more edgy. Newer to her calligraphy repertoire is a whimsical style that looks vintage and feels playful. Whatever style you chose, Debi assures all of her couples that she is fully invested in every person she works with. “I will help them all along the decision to make wedding calligraphy my the way; etiquette, style suggestions, making only job. That’s when The Blooming Quill sure everything is right! I do beautiful work, I was born.” can work quickly if I need to, and I treat each Debi puts her pen to work in a number customer like they are my best friend.” of ways from place cards and signs to menus and programs. She also does hand-lettered
Debi Zeinert Discuss the types of calligraphy. There are two categories of calligraphy. The first is broad pen, which is the kind that was first used by the monks and scribes. It is still highly practiced and is used for certificates, wall art, and some invitations. It’s commonly known by the names ‘Italic,’ ‘Uncial,’ and ‘Old English,’ to name a few. Then there is pointed pen calligraphy, which is American calligraphy and more commonly follows cursive handwriting. Common types of pointed pen are ‘Copperplate’ and ‘Spencerian.’ I do pointed pen calligraphy. What are trends you've seen in how calligraphy is used? While the traditional formal styles will always be in fashion, contemporary pointed pen styles have become all the rage. They can look very cool and fun if the lettering artist is trained in letterforms, but can be a mess if they are not!
A lot of couples are cost-conscious. Can you explain how pricing works to benefit any wedding budget? Calligraphy is not for the budget bride. If a bride is looking to save money, she may choose to have just a few special calligraphy touches like her place cards or some signage. But when a bride spends a fair amount on her invitations, she really needs to have the envelopes match the quality of what’s inside. That’s where I come in. Tell us about some of your memorable experiences over the years. I’ve done the calligraphy for the Kuwaiti Ambassador to Great Britain, for the owner of the Red Sox, for Neicy Nash (reality TV star), and for the CEO of NASCAR, just to name a few. I do some funky things too! This past fall I had to letter a party invitation on the side and bottom of 20 pink stilettos for Jamie Foxx’s sister’s birthday party.
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What are your words of wisdom for brides and grooms? Do-it-yourself is not always cheaper. Sometimes the timesavings alone to have a professional do the job are worth it. I think this holds true in all aspects of a wedding. Calligraphy is truly a timeless art form. What does that statement mean to you? Beautiful hand calligraphy cannot be dated. What I do now will still be in fashion in 20 years, as it was 20 years ago. There is nothing more exciting than when you open your mailbox and see an envelope addressed beautifully to you. It’s the first impression most of your guests will have of your wedding—make it one they will remember and get excited about!
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WHAT’S IN A NAME?
THE DETAILS OF DOCUMENTATION AND WEDDING PAPERWORK
YOU’RE GETTING MARRIED!
You’ve tasted the cake, picked the music, selected your bridal party and scheduled your dress fittings. It’s been a whirlwind of romance, gorgeous flowers and happy dreaming. But before you can walk down that aisle, and before you lift off in a jet plane for that divine honeymoon, there’s the bite of reality and paperwork that you need to tackle first. The transition from single to married affects both the bride and the groom and it can be a bit of a daunting task even for those who have already been married before. Each state and county has it’s own little idiosyncrasies, so research in your state and counties of residence will be vital to making sure you have all your documents in order before applying for any legal papers. These pieces of wedding preparation can be confusing and overwhelming, so Veil Magazine has corralled all of the information, leaving you a clear path to understanding what needs to be done, where, when and by whom.
PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT
For those who wish to have a premarital agreement in place before marriage, the good news is that the state of Wisconsin does not have any mandates for filing procedures. State law considers the agreement to be legally binding in the case of divorce if both the bride and groom enter into the wording and creation of the document without being forced into the signing. The state also does not require a lawyer to make the agreement, but the document must be signed by two witnesses. Keep in mind that a selfauthored prenup will hold less weight in a court of law if one side decides to dispute it during divorce.
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Happily, there is no waiting period between the time the prenup is signed and the wedding date. It could be signed the minutes before you walk down the aisle! It is possible to include a myriad of details in a prenuptial agreement, including both monetary and non-financial requirements, and Wisconsin does not dictate any particulars about what is allowed. For instance, number of children, pet custody and division of household chores are all elements that couples can choose to include in the agreement, beyond just the division of property, inheritances and joint savings accounts. The non-financial portion of the agreements are not usually legally binding but do give courts and judges a view into the initial intent of the couple’s frame of mind.
1. Valid photo ID, such as a valid driver’s license or passport 2. Certified copy of a birth certificate 3. S ocial Security card with your legal name 4. Proof of residency with a current address in the county: this is not applicable to out-ofstate residents 5. A filed copy of final judgement of divorce, legal annulment or certified death certificate if one of you was previously married; Studio 29 Photography + Design
MARRIAGE LICENSE
Anyone wishing to marry in the state of Wisconsin must apply for a marriage license at a county clerk’s office. Your wedding date must be set before you apply for the license, and the application must be completed at least seven days, but not more than thirty days before the actual wedding date. Once you receive the license in the mail, it’s valid for thirty days after the issue date. Most county clerk offices are open Monday through Friday, but each office has specific hours, so call to check with your specific county. Applications are taken on a first come, first serve basis. You’ll apply for a license in whichever county the bride or the groom is a resident; that license is then valid in any county in Wisconsin. For example, if one or both of you is a resident of Ozaukee County, you’d go to the county clerk’s office in Port Washington. However, the license you receive in Port Washington can be used to get married anywhere, such as halfway across the state in La Crosse. However, if both of you are not residents of Wisconsin, you must apply for the license in the county where you will be married. That particular license is only valid in that county then. So if you both live in New York, but are marrying in Milwaukee, you’d apply for a license in Milwaukee county, and can only use that license in Milwaukee county. Wisconsin does not require any blood tests to get a marriage license, but both people must be at least eighteen years old. On an interesting note, you may marry your first cousin in Wisconsin if the woman is older than 55 years of age, or one of you has documented proof of sterilization! Both of you will be required to provide specific paperwork at the time of the application, and below is a quick check list. You must apply for the license together in person, and you must both bring these items along:
Wisconsin requires six months to pass after the granting of a divorce before another marriage license can be issued, regardless of where the divorce was given 6. Name, address, and telephone number of the officiant performing your wedding ceremony The cost of a marriage license varies in each county, so again, contact the county clerk’s office ahead of time, as cash is usually the only way the fee is accepted.
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CHANGING YOUR NAME
Now that you’ve signed a prenup, gotten married and signed the marriage license, your officiant would have submitted that signed license to the state. It is then your responsibility to get that vital record for your own safe keeping, and in order to start the process to change your name, should you wish. Copies of the license are available three weeks after the wedding date. To receive copies of the marriage license, you must filled out a marriage certificate application form, available at www.dhs.wisconsin.gov/forms/ F0/F05281.pdf, and mail it with a photocopy.
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INVITATIONS & STATIONERY
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PHOTOGRAPHY Top & Bottom Left: Heather Cook Elliott Photography, Bottom Middle: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Right: Studio 29 Photography + Design The first impression guests will have of your wedding are your save the dates and invitations. Guests learn more than just where the hotel accommodations are and what time the “I Do’s” take place. Color schemes, the wedding theme and the atmosphere of the entire day can all be encapsulated on this single keepsake. Because many couples decide to frame their invitation, it’s important to take time to put serious consideration into what message you want to convey before your guests arrive on the big day. Wedding invitations help to set a tone and theme that gives guests an idea of what to expect. For a more elegant affair, you may use calligraphy and a heavier stock. A beachfront wedding may have a sandpaper texture and stamped printing. When you opt for a true paper artisan, like those scattered throughout the pages of Veil Magazine, you are getting a custom experience so that your invitations are a distinct representation of you, your partner and your wedding day. There is no right way to decide what will guide the look and feel of your invitations. A typical starting point for couples is to incorporate their color scheme from other elements of the wedding. If you go this route, try playing with a variety of color options and see how they look with other facets of the printing process like the typeface and possible
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embellishments. You may end up deciding to base other decisions about your invitations on the colors you choose, or you may choose a different color scheme altogether to highlight a different element. You’ll also need to decide the type of material you want to print on. While cardstock has been the traditional choice because of its versatility and durability, you have an opportunity to break from tradition by choosing something a bit more diverse. Wood veneer, for example, is paper-thin and eco-friendly. You could also opt for something more dimensional like Jacquard. Your invitation specialist will have first-hand knowledge and samples of what you can create with, so feel free to explore beyond a sheet of paper. Once you decide on the type of material you will print on, you need to figure out what type of printing and typeface you are going to use. The material will often help guide the print type because of texture, delicacy or quite simply that certain typefaces and printing methods work better with certain materials. There are many varieties to choose from, as your invitation designer will discuss with you (i.e. laser, letterpress, engraving, calligraphy). If you plan on printing onto any other items in the wedding like cocktail napkins or your favors, you may want to pick something similar so you have
cohesion among your various wedding elements. Of course, feel free to break the mold a bit! Probably one of the most fun considerations when designing invitations are the embellishments. Including something currently in your wedding décor or fashion can take it the next level of astonishing. Try a fabric accent like a ribbon that matches the sash from your gown, or a ruffle accent from the bridesmaids’ dresses. Add some rhinestone bling to make your invitations dazzle. Or go a step further by mixing a few types of elements together—chiffon from your gown with crystals from the chandeliers or the print from the groomsmen’s’ ties with the feathers from your centerpieces. Let your imagination run wild and see where that takes you and your paper artisan! Understandably so, your budget may end up being the guide for a lot of these decisions. Let your invitation maven know where you stand up-front so they are able to guide you where you can feasibly go right from the getgo. There are endless options available to make your invitation dreams come true, so don’t let your wallet discourage you before you consider your options. And most of all have fun! This is your chance to make a lasting impression and get your guests excited well in advance for your wedding celebration. This is one of your special keepsakes of this truly extraordinary life event.
Ellen Albertson PAPER PLEASERS, LLC ELLEN has a unique knack for executing inspiring and breathtaking designs. Her sixth sense of creativity started at a young age, as a result of dreaming up craft projects with her mother. In college, as the only girl in her dorm equipped with a glue gun, Ellen’s ingenuity was requested by many. It was her own wedding, however, that launched her into the world of wedding invitations
and all the paper accessories that can be used to set and express the mood, atmosphere, and personality desired for an individual event. From there, endeavors for friends quickly led to referrals and now include dedicated clients who trust Paper Pleasers to design never-seen-before, handmade goods for all their life events. “I love the process of working with engaged couples and their families. They usually come with an initial source of inspiration for their big day, whether it’s simply a color, a general theme, or a more specific vision. The challenge to make a vision into reality sparks my creative juices.” If you are looking for a particular style with unique touches, Paper Pleasers can customize to your liking. If you have a dream, but it is something you’ve never seen before, you’re in Ellen’s specialty. She takes your vision and ends up with an invitation
“THE CHALLENGE TO MAKE A VISION INTO REALITY SPARKS MY CREATIVE JUICES” concept that will exceed expectations and take your guests by surprise. Every outcome is 100% unique to the couple, from the carefullyselected paper features (thickness, texture, pattern, shine, color, etc.) to the ornate detail of a custom designed monogram or a hand-tied twine wrap. Ellen’s degrees in Mathematics and Business from Marquette University and experience as a small business consultant are a contrast to her creative side, but have fed her entrepreneurial spirit to the benefit of her clients. She understands the demands of managing a project, like a wedding, and the communication, coordination, budgeting and timelines required to ensure a smooth process for the bride. “I’ve had countless people say to me, ‘I can tell you really love what you do!’ I think it’s because they see that I work very hard yet enjoy every minute of it. I feel very lucky to have found what I love to do and have a talent for at such a young age.” Ellen’s easy going nature will leave you wanting to share a cup of coffee (or tea) while feeling confident that she understands exactly what you are looking for to create the perfect wedding stationery suite and paper accessories for your big day.
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My Someday by Michelle Drewek
Having become accustomed to traveling since day one of their long-distance relationship, it’s no surprise that Alyssa and Cody found a passion in seeing the world together. After falling in love with the city of love — Paris — during Alyssa’s time studying abroad, Cody knew when his own studies landed him there that he had to seize the opportunity. With the Eiffel Tower as the backdrop, Cody proposed, and the pair began their adventure of a lifetime. ESPECIALLY US Cody: I used to make a new playlist every month with some of our new favorite songs and songs that reminded us of each other, especially because we weren’t always together and couldn’t always talk when we wanted. It came to a point where I really couldn’t listen to any song without thinking about her anymore. KEY RESOURCE Veil Magazine was one of the first magazines I picked up to begin wedding planning. I absolutely loved the gold sequin dresses on the cover and ended up using them for the bridesmaids!
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MUST-HAVE DETAIL Alyssa: Upon landing from our engagement trip to Paris, I immediately contacted Jenna Kutcher to be our wedding photographer. Between the photographer and videographer, we wanted to make sure that we had a team to perfectly capture every little moment throughout the day. BIGGEST SURPRISE We both love to host, so planning a party didn’t intimidate us… to start. Planning a party for 275 guests was a lot to take on. If it weren’t for Kate & Company, we probably would’ve lost track!
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PERSONAL TOUCH My family is super Italian, so we included a traditional Italian cookie table. Also, Alyssa’s parents’ wedding invitation had a quote on the front that we incorporated into our wedding invitation as well.
piano and my sister/co-maid of honor, Gina LaBarbera, and bridesmaid, Monique Gamache, sang “For Good” from Wicked. It still gives us goose bumps to watch the video.
BRIDAL ENSEMBLE I found my dress on a whim when going to browse bridesmaid dresses in Scottsdale, Ariz. I absolutely loved the lace detail! My veil had sequins that reflected off the sequin/lace dress and a gorgeous barrette that fit on top of the veil. I later used the barrette to hold my hair off to the side during the reception.
KEEPSAKE Make sure you keep a list of all of your vendors and pricing. My mom still had her receipts from the wedding and it was fun to compare!
FIRST LOOK Cody: I don’t know if I had a thought, really, I just remember a flood of emotion. None of the stress of planning was there anymore, just happiness and excitement that at the end of the walk, she would be next to me and we would be beginning our life together. THE CEREMONY Cody’s grandpa, a deacon, performed the ceremony. His grandpa married all of his children and baptized all of the grandchildren. We are lucky enough to be the first of the grandchildren to be married by him. Additionally, Alyssa’s cousin, Annemarie Weyer, was the ceremony pianist for two special songs. I walked the aisle to “Can’t Help Falling in Love” by the Piano Guys — absolutely beautiful. During the unity candle lighting, Annemarie played the
BRIDES & GROOM GIFTS Alyssa: Going with the theme of travel, I gave Cody compass cufflinks to match a globe I pinned with all of the places we’ve been together. I had different colors represent different times in our relationship that we can continue to add to as we grow old together. Cody: Unknowingly coordinating with Alyssa, I put together a travel-themed suitcase that had an embroidered sunhat for our honeymoon with the phrase “My Someday” on it, something we’ve always talked about as a future thing to aspire to. I also gave her first monogrammed gift with her new initials, a stamped Louis Vuitton passport holder, for all of our travels and adventures to come. IF ONLY I KNEW THEN… Cody: With both of us very busy with work and often coordinating pieces from long-distance, we realized a little late in the process how important it was to set aside dedicated time at least weekly, if not nightly, to talk through all the little pieces that needed to come together. VeilMagazine.com
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PHOTOGRAPHY Top & Bottom Left: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Middle: Heather Cook Elliott Photography, Bottom Right: Front Room Photography Wedding flowers can be a major source of confusion for brides. It’s hard to know how many you need, how much things will cost, what’s in season when, and how to make photo-worthy centerpieces. Luckily, your wedding flowers don’t have to be complicated, as long as you find a great florist to work with! Your florist is an important part of not just your wedding day, but the entire weekend. You may want to incorporate centerpieces at your rehearsal dinner or a gift-opening brunch. Florists can work with you to make sure your entire wedding weekend is decorated to perfection. They are also sometimes able to provide décor items, such as vases or table runners. In terms of budgeting, a t ypical recommendation is that florals will take up about 15 to 20% of your overall budget. However, your florist knows the ins and outs of the industry better than anyone. If you go in with a concrete number, they’ll be able to offer plenty of suggestions for keeping the price
down. For instance, hydrangeas are a great “bouquet stuffer” because they’re beautiful and very full, but affordable. Also, they’ll have tips and tricks to offer, like using your bridesmaids’ bouquets as centerpieces. Think about other wedding details, like the number of guests and the look of your venue. Those will impact things like the number of centerpieces and the amount of décor you need. It’s important to think about the season when planning your flowers. Not every flower is available in every region every season, so take that into consideration when you’re surfing Pinterest. Also, avoid last-minute change requests—florists will typically get your flowers in on Monday of your wedding week, and then allow them a couple of days to open before designing your bouquets and centerpieces. Rushing a last-minute type of flower will be either impossible or very pricey. This season, bouquets that are loose and natural feeling are the most-requested look. Foliage like olive branches, bay leaves and
eucalyptus is becoming an important element. Even non-botanical items like brooches or feathers are very popular at the moment. Flower crowns are making a comeback as well, or buying roses or other florals to incorporate into braids or updos. In general, you should try to book your florist by 6 to 9 months, but the earlier the better. That gives you ample time to learn what florals will be in season and work together with your florist to create the vibe you’re going for. However, having your venue booked first is essential: that way, you’ll have a much better understanding of what you need and you can convey that to your florist. If you’re still not sure where to start, wedding shows can be a great place to meet florists. Consider grabbing a friend and hitting up a wedding expo with a camera. Lots of florists will be there with beautiful displays or photos to demonstrate their style and skillsets.
Planning Tips What flowers will be in season on my wedding day?
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LOVE IS OFTEN DESCRIBED like a flower, blossoming and flourishing. It’s no wonder flowers play such an important role in a wedding. With all of the colors, varieties, heights and arrangements for brides to choose from, why not have someone who has a long-standing relationship with flowers to create something magical for your big day? Melissa Maas, owner of Bank of Memories & Flowers, can’t remember a time when her life didn’t include flowers. From her
childhood days of arranging flowers in her mother’s and grandmother’s vases (including her favorite—the romantic, lush peony) while begging her father to build her a greenhouse, to today as the owner of two shop locations (Pewaukee and Menomonee Falls), Melissa is nothing short of a floral mastermind. “One of my first floral jobs was
soaking up everything she could about the flowers, plants and business. After graduating from UW-Oshkosh, Melissa journeyed to Seattle, Washington., to the Floral Design Institute where she received her Advanced Floral Certificate. “I wanted to experience the West Coast floral ways,” Melissa explains. “There were students from all over, and even one from Alaska. It was interesting to see how things are different from the Midwest.” After the Floral Design Institute, Melissa worked at the TV ABC affiliate in Madison with her degree in Radio-TV-Film, but that didn’t keep her from her first passion. A flower shop nearby hired her to help during Valentine’s season, and she stayed on afterward to work nights and weekends after her day job. Then, she learned that Bank of Memories & Flowers in her hometown of Menomonee Falls was going up for sale. “So at the age of 24, I followed my dream and put everything I had into the shop,” Melissa elates. “That first year I worked 10-plus hour days, 6 days per week, and I loved it! I loved it so much that a year later I started another shop in Pewaukee.” Melissa loves to continue learning and as a member of the Teleflora Board of Wisconsin and Upper Michigan, she has an unlimited pool of talent and resources to draw from. “I love learning new tips and tricks—anything I can bring back to the shop and show the girls,” she says. With a passion as deep as Melissa’s, you can be sure that your wedding day—a day she is overjoyed to share with you—will be nothing short of sensational. “I love weddings; my eyes light up,” Melissa says. “I am in the moment, excited about your wedding and wanting to hear more. The consultation is an experience of personalized attention—creating a customized design just for you.”
“THE CONSULTATION IS AN EXPERIENCE OF PERSONALIZED ATTENTION - CREATING A CUSTOMIZED DESIGN JUST FOR YOU” in a grocery store’s floral department at age 16,” Melissa says. “This is where the love grew.” From there she went on to work as a florist for four years while she was studying at the University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh,
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How did you get into floral design? I was a high school student that needed an after school job, and I have never left.
so many of the best wedding venues right in our backyard. It's like we have home field advantage every weekend.
Are there specific influences you draw upon when you are in the creative process? At Belle Fiori, we try to find inspiration in many of the same places as our brides. We love Instagram and Pinterest. Other florists inspire us, as well as the new flowers that are available with each changing season.
Where do the flowers you use come from? It is wonderful how small the world has become in terms of shipping. We source flowers by the best location for each variety. We get flowers domestically from warmer states all year through, and internationally from South America, Holland, Israel, New Zealand and Australia. Our favorite source is right here in Wisconsin! We work with a fabulous flower farm for sustainably grown local flowers from April to November.
Where did the name Belle Fiori come from? The original owner selected the name. It is Italian, loosely translated to mean “Beautiful Flowers.” I apologize to anyone who speaks Italian; I know the grammar is incorrect! What do you like most about where you are located? I love all of Milwaukee; it is the best small, big city around. Our exact location on the East Side, just north of downtown, makes
Besides flowers, what other elements can you incorporate? We love to include the unexpected: feathers or fruit, succulents and air plants. We’ve also incorporated sentimental items like family heirloom jewelry or modern elements like a GoPro!
What are some unique experiences and requests you’ve had over the years? A wedding from just a few years ago had a very detailed Harry Potter theme where we filled potion bottles with flowers. We also worked with a bride who was an artist that had a Day of the Dead theme. We included hand-made paper flowers from an Etsy vendor. What can a couple expect from you as their wedding florist? We always customize the designs for each couple. We take pride in each creative design and paying attention to even the smallest detail. What are your words of wisdom for brides and grooms? Don't expect the day to be perfect; there is always something that happens. At my wedding our cake was the wrong shape and icing pattern, but the yummy flavors were correct. None of the guests even noticed!
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JANE KELLY FLORAL NO WEDDING would be complete without beautiful florals. Choosing your flowers can seem daunting, but one tip we suggest is to find a florist who’s an expert in their field. Kelly Stueber of Jane Kelly Floral fits that bill perfectly. Kelly Stueber’s mother, Jane, turned her love of florals into a business when Kelly was in grade school. Kelly grew up working alongside her mom and familiarizing herself with the world of flowers. In 2014, Kelly took over after a 10-year background in interior design and changed the name to Jane Kelly Floral, marrying together her mother’s longstanding reputation with her knack for design. Ever since, they’ve been known for providing high-quality blooms to Wisconsin brides. Kelly’s recipe for a perfect palette? Getting the right amount of glowy candlelight, metallics,
coordinated vases and varied textures. Flowers are only one part of creating gorgeous floral arrangements. Some items Jane Kelly Floral integrates into floral arrangements have been feathers, pearls, fruit, photographs or herbs. This season, Kelly said Jane Kelly Floral has been seeing a lot of copper as the up-and-coming metallic to integrate into
When working with Jane Kelly Floral, brides schedules a private wedding consultation to go over their vision for their big day. From there, Jane Kelly Floral follows up with a quote and continues to make adjustments with brides as needed. Known for their customer service and impeccable attention to detail, Jane Kelly Floral’s goal is for brides to actually enjoy their floral planning process and have a stress-free wedding day. Jane Kelly Floral can supply brides with everything they need, like rented vases and complementary pinning of corsages and boutonnieres the day of the wedding. They’ll even deliver and install all of your floral arrangements at the ceremony and reception. Selecting beautiful flowers doesn’t have to be stressful. If you go with a florist like Jane Kelly Floral, everything will come up roses!
“JANE KELLY FLORAL’S GOAL IS FOR BRIDES TO ACTUALLY ENJOY THEIR FLORAL PLANNING PROCESS AND HAVE A STRESS-FREE WEDDING DAY.” tablescapes. She’s also meeting with quite a few brides that want to embrace a timeless floral palette of white floral and a variety of green foliage. Kelly works directly with a Milwaukee floral supplier that sources all of her flowers and greenery from different farms throughout the world.
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As a bride, there are many considerations when taking on floral design. If flowers are of high importance to you, think about the kinds you like and the colors you prefer. Build your theme and style around the ambiance suggested by your personal favorite flower.
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Cosmos Hyacinth Hydrangea Jasmine Lilac Lily of the Valley Mimosa (acacia) Muscari (Grape hyacinth) Peony Poppy Sweet Pea Tulip Viburnum Violet
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RECEPTION DIY MOMENT The centerpieces were items that I purchased from Goodwill and spray painted gold,” says Candice. “I also purchased chairs from Goodwill and had them reupholstered to be used at our ‘sweetheart table’.”
The Wright Love by Laura Vietmeyer
The #4EVERWRIGHT wedding was all about bringing family together. Candice and Ramard were wed before 275 guests with a wedding party of 34 at their side. They danced their first dance to Jay Z’s Forever Young. “The words to the song describe out way or thinking regarding life and living. We live our lives to the fullest, so when the director yells cut, we’ll be fine!” ESPECIALLY US I had a sick, 13-year-old Chihuahua named Shadow, who was my best friend. I took Shadow to the vet clinic often and started noticing a young doctor who would look at me from a distance. One day I got a call from the clinic and the person on the other end introduced himself as Dr. Wright. Dr. Wright said that he could tell from the Shadow’s chart that they may need to do a re-check. I took Shadow in that night, and afterward Ramard walked me to my car and that was that. A few weeks after Shadow passed, I went to the clinic to pick up his ashes. Ramard was talking to another client, so I took the ashes and went to my
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car and wrote my personal number and “feel free to call if you’d like” on one of my business cards. I took the card back in and asked the receptionist to give it to Dr. Wright. He called that night 18 minutes after the clinic closed. During our dating years I became pregnant with Ramard Jr., Bruce III, William, and Justice-Rain. I had 2 older children from my first marriage, Shaun Jr. and Jeremiah. We have 6 boys total. THE PROPOSAL I knew Candice was the one early on in our relationship. Her
candice & ramard married 11-26-2016
smile and Southern Bell demeanor was very sexy to me. She’s educated, driven, and the yin to my yang. When I started thinking about her more than anyone else, I knew she was the one. I planned to purchase her ring and to propose on Mother’s Day because Mother’s Day and May where both two things that held bad memories for Candice. Candice’s grandmother died in May 2010 on Mother’s Day. I wanted to make that time a more positive thing for Candice. I proposed May 2015 during Mother’s Day Brunch. KEY RESOURCES In the beginning our wedding was a thought that included frustration because I couldn’t find the vendors that fit my vision. Then I went to a wedding show at the Pfister Hotel and I left with all the vendors I planned on using for my wedding.
and our two youngest at the time where dancing and jumping in the background because they loved the song. BRIDAL ENSEMBLE My dress was a total re-do. I found out I was pregnant in July 2016 and the wedding was in November. I had purchased the perfect Mermaid dress from Amelishan Bridal. I rushed and purchased another dress but, it didn’t give me the same feeling. A family friend who happened to be a seamstress told me that she could make my original work, even with me being eight months pregnant. She re-created the dress and I got to wear it on my wedding day. The beading on the back of the dress was what I really couldn’t do without. FIRST LOOK I thought, “Wow you can’t even tell she’s pregnant.” Candice always seems to do something amazing. She didn’t want to look pregnant walking down the aisle and she somehow pulled it off.
SPLURGE WORTHY The venue. I wanted the reception to be jaw dropping and that meant the venue had to be “grand.”
THE CEREMONY She was beautiful. We lit unity candles and each of our boys had a candle that we used to light our new family unity candle.
MUST-HAVE DETAIL The food and “spirits” at the reception, officiant of the ceremony and the cake.
ADVICE TO FUTURE BRIDES When it comes to marriage, your spouse must be your best friend! I truly believe that marriage makes two become one and that’s the way I look at my marriage. We are one!
FUNNY MOMENTS When we attempted to do the “mannequin challenge”
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PHOTOGRAPHY Front Room Photography When looking at your budget and scheduling vendors, you may begin to talk yourself out of hiring what some people consider “add ons” to the wedding day. It is easy enough during planning to say that having a videographer is an unnecessary cost, after all you have a photographer, right? But looking back brides and grooms alike will echo that having a videographer was the best decision they made (or a big mistake if they decided not to). Your wedding will go by quicker than you can image, and as time goes by you will wish you could relive the day over and over again. There is no better way to capture this incredible day and make it livable long after the last dance of the evening than to have this keepsake you can cherish for the rest of your lives. Tony Lopez from Sound By Design Films gives us an eye-opening look at how a videographer can enhance your wedding. 1. What does a videographer capture?
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Every wedding has it’s own love story that deserves to be made into a film. Some of the best moments of a wedding can only be retold through the lens of a videographer’s camera. The video captures the raw emotions of the day that simply cannot be recreated
through pictures or memories. One thing that is often overlooked is how moving vows or speeches from your friends and family can be. We overlay those audio clips in our final films, which is sometimes the most powerful aspect. To hear what a father has to say about
his daughter, all while watching them dance together, is always emotional. 2. What can a couple expect from their videographer? I am there all day to capture as much as possible to re-tell the story of the wedding. Some of the best moments happen at unexpected times of the night. I also feel that our videos can complement the story photographers tell in a distinctive way. I like giving a couple something completely different from their photos that allows them to get a whole different perspective on their wedding. In addition, we try to be as unobtrusive as possible when capturing the day. 3. What does a couple that hires you get? Sound By Design Films has one all-inclusive package designed to give you everything you need for a great videography experience. We work with our couples to find exactly what they are looking for from their video, and then try to tell
their wedding story in a fun and enthusiastic fashion. Our videos really capture those moments and emotions that pictures can’t always tell. We try to limit posing so the films capture the energy that comes from the natural nerves, emotions and celebration making up the beautiful day we are lucky to share. The result is a 20-minute feature film that allows you to relive the biggest moments from the day. In addition, we create a 3to 5-minute film they can share on social media. I even take requests from bride and grooms to make a special package for them. Anything works for me; I just want to make an exciting film! 4. Talk about the videography experience. We try to get to know our couples and connect as much as we can throughout the planning. It’s important for our couples to feel comfortable with us so they are natural on the wedding day. I try and learn exactly what the couples are looking to get out of the video so I can capture and create a film that is perfect
for them. On the day of the wedding I just like to have fun with the couple. Everything is professional, but we keep things relaxed. After the wedding, couples can choose to have a “viewing” with their loved ones at our bar, Camp Bar, when the film is finished. It’s a cool way to celebrate that no other videography company can offer. 5. What happens after the filming is complete? The editing is where all of the magic happens to tell the story. We take all of the captured footage to create a film that is entertaining to watch for everyone. There are hours of footage that we comb through to find the best moments. All weddings have a natural love story, which is important to portray. Throughout the film we use different editing techniques that tie in with the various emotions of the day. During the ceremony and details, you will see scenes and shots that are longer and more dramatic. Later when we are showing the celebration, there is more energy and faster editing. The different techniques and
styles work together to create an amazing film. 6. Why is a videographer valuable to a wedding? Ask recently married couples and you will hear a common regret: “I wish I would’ve hired a videographer.” It’s a different way to experience your wedding. You have all this build up to one day, and it goes by so fast when it’s over. Photographers are a must, but a video complements what you get from those photos in such a unique way. Videos immerse you in your wedding years after it’s over. There is no better way to relive the day than live motion. When you first watch the films after your wedding, you will be excited to see how it turned out. But as your memory fades of the day and years go by, you will love being able to relive your biggest day. You’ll be amazed at the things you forgot happened, how different your friends and family look, how emotional you’ll be to see and listen to a parent’s or friend’s speech, or simply to show your kids someday. You will never regret having a video, but you may regret not having one.
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PHOTOGRAPHY Top: Front Room Photography, Bottom Left: The Paper Elephant, Bottom Middle: Studio 29 Photography + Design, Bottom Right: Heather Cook Elliott Photography Out of all of the pieces of your wedding day, only two will remain after your day has passed: your marriage, of course, and your photos. Wedding photography is often one of the biggest pieces of a bride’s budget pie. After all, it’s your photographer that you trust with the essential task of preserving your wedding memories. These aren’t just any photos. They’re the ones that will be on the mantle and in the album for years and years; long after Instagram filters have faded away. One popular trend this year is styled photoshoots after the wedding. More and more, couples are deciding to do shoots the next day, or even later, in their wedding attire instead of spending precious hours on their actual wedding day posing for portraits. Another is that brides are bringing Pinterest boards of photography ideas to meetings. This is a great way for your photographer to understand what kind of photos you’re aiming for, whether they’re traditional and sweet, a little silly, or a mix of both! Being a wedding photographer is an exhausting job, but it’s also a true passion. After
spending all day at a huge party on Saturday, they’re then editing photos, taking meetings with new clients, and snapping engagement sessions throughout the week. Since photographers have been to many weddings, they can also be helpful when it comes to planning your timeline. After all, they’ve been to a wedding almost every weekend for the past year! For instance, many photographers suggest doing a first look so there’s plenty of time for photos before the ceremony so the couple can get to cocktail hour on time. Your photographer can help you plan small details like that to help you achieve the best flow for your day. You should meet with your photographer as soon as you have your wedding date set. Photographers tend to book very early on, sometimes as early as two years! Once booked, you’ll work together with your photographer to explain the look and feel of your wedding. Most photographers now require engagement sessions as part of their packages; they’re not only great for Save the Dates and your wedding website, but they’re a time for the photographer
and you to get to know each other and the photographer to learn what you’re comfortable with in terms of angles and poses. Then, you’ll typically meet with or speak to your photographer once more as your wedding date approaches to finalize the details. Don’t discount a photographer just because they’ve never been to your venue! Most wedding photographers like checking out new venues. Just ask them if they’ll scout the location beforehand, or bring along photos to one of your meetings. They’re professionals— they’ll be able to make do in a new setting! You can also Google “Your venue name + wedding photos” to see other shots brides have had done at your venue and send them along to your photographer for inspiration. Last but not least, don’t forget about what happens with your photos after the wedding. Think about whether you want sneak peaks on Facebook, a slideshow viewing party or some simple files sent to your email, and ask what the photographer’s typical post-wedding photo reveal process is.
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Tegan Jae THE PAPER ELEPHANT TEGAN JAE IS THE ARTISTIC VISION behind The Paper Elephant, a business dedicated to creating genuine, romantic and timeless imagery for the modern couple. The namesake is a throwback to when she was a little girl creating silly knock knock jokes about elephants. Tegan’s clients attest to her aesthetic talents and ability to capture the raw emotion and heart-warming moments throughout their special day. "The pictures are breathtaking!” raves her bride, Sarah. “Tegan and her team captured the most intimate, beautiful moments of our wedding day. It’s amazing how I can look at the photos and genuinely smile and remember how I was feeling in that moment.” Tegan’s approach to weddings is a melding of documentary and lifestyle photography. She draws on her academic background in design and architecture to produce classic imagery, deliberately applying the principles of design and inspired by leading lines, depth and rich colors. She strives to remain an observer of your wedding day and only intervenes when necessary to achieve the artistic vision. Tegan believes that photographs should timelessly reflect your love, with a focus on the special moments that make your wedding
day unique. She explains her philosophy, “The settings and details of a wedding day are important in telling the story and setting the scene, but the moments are the real story.” She loves photographing the raw emotions, whether it be tears shed from the bride's father as he dances with his little girl, laughter as the maid-of-honor reminds everyone of the bride’s childhood antics, or excitement from the groom as he kisses his bride for the first time. Not only is Tegan a talented photographer
awkward (unless it's cute awkward) or like posed cake toppers smiling on command. I want them to relax, laugh and remember the experience and excitement every time they look at the images.” She will subtly guide you with prompts and posing that fits your style and makes you look glamorous while allowing your personality to shine through in your photographs. You can expect to become more than just a client to Tegan. With the hands-on, personal attention that she provides, Tegan treats her brides as friends from the first meeting until far beyond the final product delivery. She wants to get to know you as an individual and as a couple. Like any good friend, she will be available to discuss wedding ideas or find creative ways to fit photography into your wedding day, encourage you to be yourself, and make sure that you look and feel amazing on your special day. After all, the more comfortable and confident you are, the more beautiful you will look in front of the camera, and the happier you will be with your photos and overall experience.
“I LOVE CREATIVE WEDDINGS, RAW EMOTION, BEAUTIFUL LIGHT, ELEGANT STYLING, TRAVELING AND GETTING TO KNOW MY AWESOME COUPLES.”
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in demand throughout the Midwest, New York, Florida, California and Nevada, she is also a designer, educator, bacon lover, wife and cat cuddlier. Easygoing and fun, she will make sure you feel comfortable and at ease in front of the camera. Tegan encourages her clients to relax and interact with each other to create genuine moments and real reactions. “I never want my couples to look
Heather Cook Elliott HEATHER COOK ELLIOTT PHOTOGRAPHY LOVE. A four-letter word that brought you two together. It's also the foundation of the breathtaking photographs captured by Heather Cook Elliott Photography: "For those who love love." Heather Cook Elliott is the principal force behind her namesake company, which allows her to practice one of her passions. Noting her background in architecture and sociology in addition to photography, it's that combination that drives Heather's shooting style—a rather undefined style. Imagine photojournalistic meets eclectic, then hooks up with artsy and sensual. And don't forget contemporary, timeless and vintage. Heather sums it up best: The results are real. "My job is built on a skillful understanding of how families and traditions work and being able to discern who and what is important."
personal touch as table centerpieces. "Exactly the kind of detail we love to photograph." With Heather Cook Elliott Photography, every detail will be captured—none too small and no love story too big to capture as timeless snippets of art.
“MY JOB IS BUILT ON A SKILLFUL UNDERSTANDING OF HOW FAMILIES AND TRADITIONS WORK AND BEING ABLE TO DISCERN WHO AND WHAT IS IMPORTANT.” When Heather arrives to capture your magical day, you'll also meet one of her associates (Carolina, Emily or Sara) or colleagues. "We always shoot in pairs because I believe the groom is as important as the bride, the family as important as the décor details, guest portraits as important as bridal portraits." The four leading women collaborate, challenge and inspire one another. In fact, they're so simpatico it's nearly impossible to know who captured what shot, although Heather is the final editor for all photos. Heather and her associates act as discreet wedding party members, quietly leading your group to settings with the best light, the most striking backgrounds around Milwaukee—or anywhere from Door County to northern Illinois, and even to destinations such as Hawaii, Ireland and the Bahamas. If your wedding party needs to loosen up a bit, the photographers joke and become a little playful. However, couples typically say that Heather and her shooter are so happy and calm that the couples pick up the Zen mood. And speaking of personalities, make sure you really love your photographer and their artistry, as he or she will be your constant companion all day. Also make sure to personalize your big day. One of Heather's couples met at a library and love reading, so stacks of books wrapped in twine and accented by flowers made for an extremely VeilMagazine.com
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Ren + Caleb Lenhof STUDIO 29 PHOTOGRAPHY + DESIGN REN AND CALEB make up the extraordinarily talented (and newly married!) Studio 29 Photography team. Having originally met at a wedding and re-finding each other years later at The National concert at Red Rocks, this duo has been inseparable ever since. Ren has been photographing weddings since 2005 and was excited to use all of her knowledge to plan her own wedding last summer. Together they have worked throughout Wisconsin, Chicago, Pittsburgh, Atlanta, Dubuque, Minneapolis, Baltimore, Michigan, Washington D.C., Florida, and a few events out of the country in Mexico and Jamaica. The couple further indulged their love of travel by honeymooning in Iceland, and this year they’ll be shooting a wedding in the same exotic locale. They particularly love non-traditional weddings and elopements; as off-beat weddings become more and more popular, Ren and Caleb enjoy finding new ways to capture the most important day of their couples’ lives. In 2014 Ren w as selected as Editors Choice Photographer on Bp4u Photography Resources. She has had "A" rating with the BBB since 2010. Studio 29 has been rated by local brides and voted The Knot Best of Weddings 2013, 2014, 2015, and 2016 Pick. Ren also won the WeddingWire Couples’ Choice Award for 2015. Their work continues to be published nationally, and it’s no wonder why the wedding industry loves her. Beyond the public recognition, Ren’s clients have nothing but the highest regards for her role in their wedding. “Studio 29 is the best!” raves Chris and Gwen Musche. “Ren is not only the sweetest person you'll meet, but her talent and artistic eye for photography is unmatched. The second
my husband had me look at her photos, I knew she would be our photographer. Her service is impeccable! The amazing thing about Ren is that she cares so much about your special day, she listens to what you like and don't like, and she gets to know you as a couple. Ren was able to capture everything we were feeling throughout the day. Our pictures don't just say one thousand words; they captured the words that our hearts were speaking too.” Ren and Caleb’s favorite part of being your photographer is that they gain two new friends and get a front-row seat to your raw love story. To them, photography is not just taking photos; it is about building relationships and playing a special part of milestone moments in others’ lives. Together they specialize in modern and quirky coverage for creative and inspirational couples, with a style best described as soft, timeless, and genuine. Ren and Caleb thrive in unique wedding settings and are the perfect photographers to capture your non-traditional big day. Beyond photographing love stories, Ren enjoys working on paintings and calligraphy projects and Caleb is a full-time sales engineer. Together, they love spending time with their Akita, Kenzo, and their two cats, Yoshi and Lamar, taking long walks, cooking, amateur gardening, renovating their home, motorcycle rides, and traveling. If you are looking for someone who cares as much about telling your love story as you do, will go above and beyond to establish and maintain a relationship with you, and will be an integral part in your wedding day, then check out Ren and Caleb of Studio 29 Photography. It will be love at first sight!
“OUR PICTURES DON'T JUST SAY ONE THOUSAND WORDS, THEY CAPTURED THE WORDS THAT OUR HEARTS WERE SPEAKING TOO.”
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by Jessica Pairrett
Pause for a moment, close your eyes and let your mind wander. Imagine the two of you standing together on a beach, dressed in your wedding day's finest. An intimate gathering of loved ones is before you, awaiting the official "I now pronounce you husband and wife." A destination wedding on the beach, or at any other extraordinary spot in the world, can be yours. Not only does a destination wedding offer a spectacular experience but also it's a chance to leave your ceremony and start your honeymoon straight away. The memories you and those closest to you create will be cherished forever. Sure, this sounds wonderful, but a destination wedding is so expensive, right? Surprisingly not so, says Lisa Hoppe of Lisa Hoppe Travel Consulting. Choosing a destination over a traditional wedding can save quite a bit of money. "The average wedding today costs over $20,000, whereas a bride and groom could spend less than 25-50% on a destination wedding and
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have an incredible ceremony and honeymoon vacation." A travel consultant, like Lisa and her team, can create a just-for-you, upgraded package for under $5,000. Depending on your plans, some resorts might even provide a ceremony and reception for free.
As for location, you may prefer a popular locale like Jamaica, St. Lucia, Mexico or the Dominican Republic at an all-inclusive resort. Hawaii is beautiful and ideal to avoid passport hassle. Or for something a bit different, Lisa suggests New Zealand, the Maldives, Tahiti or Fiji.
Depending on preference, the experience may include hiking in a rainforest, exploring local hot spots, scuba diving or relaxing on a beach. In particular, Fiji offers an exceptionally unique ceremony. The bride, on a decorated raft, floats to a beach location. Wearing garlands of fragrant flowers around their necks, the couple exchanges vows as the sun sets. "It's absolutely magical!" Lisa says. Once the location is picked, you're almost set! Your travel consultant can assist with any extra details you need help with, such as any necessary government paperwork that needs filling out. The team can also refer the couple to tour operators for activities and wedding planners for help with amenities, regulations or customs in the destination of choice. With a variety of experts assisting with your wedding plans, you're all but guaranteed to have a beautifully fabulous wedding of a lifetime.
Lisa Hoppe LISA HOPPE TRAVEL CONSULTING FIRSTHAND KNOWLEDGE, VIP service and pure passion are at the heart of Milwaukee's Lisa Hoppe Travel Consulting, where you're sure to plan that perfect honeymoon or destination wedding. Owner Lisa Hoppe has traveled to 81 countries herself, lending her personal experience and insight to create that dream getaway for brides- and grooms-to be. Lisa's passion for travel and learning new things grew from childhood. Translating that into her business, Lisa says she works with couples, truly listening as she helps select the right destination and a resort fitting both needs and budget. Then Lisa's expert travel agent team assists the couple with anything from selecting flights, choosing activities in and around the destination, booking relaxing spa treatments and any other special adventures that'll make for a trip of a lifetime.
Lisa has "cultivated relationships with managers of resorts and destinations all over the world," and she's proud to say the same about Sandals and Beaches resort managers in the Caribbean, who welcome guests with VIP treatment. Additionally, Lisa is an exclusive Sandals Chairman's Royal Club member and for each of the past 14 years, she's earned Sandals STAR Awards. If you're looking for something other than a resort stay, you'll find plenty of suggestions here. As Lisa's done, visit Tahiti, Jean Michel Cousteau's resort in Fiji, or scuba dive Australia's Great Barrier or Mexico's Palancar reef. Or, glimpse pink dolphins in the Amazon! And if you’re leaning toward a romantic destination wedding and honeymoon all in one, Lisa's team will ensure every detail is precisely planned. Because traveling to the unknown may leave
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you wondering "What if?" Lisa's extensive travel experience will calm those nerves. "I can often say 'I've been there' or 'I've done that,' so I can offer a lot of insight to ease any fears or answer questions for a couple." Is travel insurance really needed? Or is the water safe to drink? Let Lisa guide you. You'll soon realize how fast your wedding day passes, and the day should be cherished among one another, family and friends. But after, relish your honeymoon, Lisa says, as "it's the start of many wonderful years together."
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DIY MOMENT Taylor’s sister-in-law created and designed the wedding monogram from start to finish. The couple used her creation throughout the day. “It represented our wedding perfectly,” Taylor says. “Classic and elegant.”
A Night to Remember by Laura Vietmeyer
Taylor knew Nick was the one from the day they first met at the University of Iowa. After six years building a life together, Nick surprised Taylor with a picture perfect proposal. It was time for the couple to set about planning their dream wedding. During their 17-month engagement, they worked with the best vendors in Milwaukee to plan a meaningful ceremony and a stunning reception. SHE’S “THE ONE” Nick: It was early September during our junior year of college and Taylor had just begun rush week for her sorority. I ended up getting very sick and went home for the weekend. Hours after arriving home, Taylor came walking into the room to be by my side. That is the first time I told her I loved her. THE PROPOSAL Nick wanted to celebrate the one-year anniversary of us owning our first home while I was trying to plan a surprise party for his 25th birthday. He insisted we go out to lunch to celebrate, but I tried to think of
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every excuse not to go because I had so much to do before his party. Thankfully, he convinced me to go. After eating at one of our favorite spots, we went for a walk. Nick stopped and I had no idea what he was doing. He gave a romantic speech, got down on one knee, and asked me to marry him. I was completely surprised. Immediately after, a local photographer who Nick hired to catch the entire engagement greeted us. Then we met up with our parents. I found out that Nick knew about his surprise party for weeks. We surprised our closest family and friends with our engagement news instead.
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MUST-HAVE DETAIL Delicious and fun food! We both come from Italian families and we all love to eat. The Grain Exchange did an amazing job of creating a menu that contained classic dishes, but elevated them in a way that made everyone say, “That was the best wedding food we have ever had!” SPLURGE WORTHY We had to splurge on the flowers. We also added “pin lighting” to the centerpieces. They made the room so romantic and lush! I wish I could be surrounded by those Belle Fiori flowers every day. WORTH EVERY PENNY The photographer and videographer were definitely worth every penny and then some. Our videographer from Watermark Studios created a “same day edit” video that was shown during our reception, which our guests loved. FUNNY MOMENT Nick went to get me a drink from the bar, so his brother sat in Nick’s chair next to me for a few minutes. Nick and his brother look a lot alike, so our guests started to clink their glasses for us to kiss, thinking that it was Nick!
belt. During the ceremony I wore blush Badgley Mischka heels and then rocked Kate Spade white glittered Keds for the reception. Nick gave me the most stunning diamond earrings minutes before the ceremony. FIRST LOOK Nick: When I first saw Taylor come around the corner and begin to walk down the aisle, the world went still. I just stared at her, as she was the most beautiful woman in the world. I couldn’t wait to say, “I do.” SPECIAL TOUCH Our ceremony at the Villa Terrace was extremely special from start to finish. I put the entire ceremony together and Nick’s aunts officiated everything. Two of my aunts read short readings, Nick and I wrote our own vows, and our parents stood during the ceremony to bless our rings. CHERISH FOREVER If you write your own vows, DO NOT throw those away. Since you will be so emotional during the actual ceremony, you might completely forget what the other person was saying.
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Picture this; you are getting ready to enter your wedding ceremony. Family and friends are gathered together, and your handsome groom is anxiously awaiting your entrance. As the doors open you look down to meet his gaze, only you can’t quite meet his eyes with the flashes of cameras flickering left and right, all while guests peek in and out of the aisle to take that Instagram-worthy shot of you on their phone. You may have seen the viral photograph on social media an Australian wedding photographer shared. It’s a picture of a groom as he sees his bride for the first time, only he is leaning to look around several guests with their phones up taking pictures of her. What was supposed to be an unforgettable moment between the groom and his bride on their wedding day became a tainted portrait. Bride-to-be Crystal Halliday cringes at the thought of her groom finding himself in this same scenario after experiencing technology overload first-hand.
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“I was sitting at a friend’s wedding and couldn't even see the couple because of all the phones raised up taking photos,” Crystal says. “The only sounds I could hear were the constant shutter snaps of the cell phones and cameras instead of the amazing, hand-written vows my friends were saying to each other. In that moment I knew, without a doubt, I wanted an unplugged ceremony.” An unplugged ceremony is when a couple asks their guests to leave all phones and cameras tucked away during the ceremony, giving them the opportunity to be present in the moment and allow for your photographer to do their job to the best of their ability. From a practical standpoint, an unplugged ceremony helps to ensure that the pretty penny you put towards finding and hiring the best photographer to capture this special day is well spent. The last thing any bride or groom wants in their wedding photographs are cell phones and camera lenses distracting from what could have been a beautifully capture moment.
“I WAS SITTING AT A FRIEND’S WEDDING AND COULDN'T EVEN SEE THE COUPLE BECAUSE OF ALL THE PHONES RAISED UP TAKING PHOTOS,”
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“WHEN I LOOK OUT TO MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I WANT TO SEE THEIR SMILES, NOT THEIR PHONES.”
While the concept itself is an understandable request to make, you may wonder how to politely execute the unplugged ceremony in a tactful, tasteful manner. Thanks to apps like Pinterest, plenty of ideas already exist online for classy ways to publicize your unplugged ceremony to guests. Create a cute sign that can be posted at the entrance of your ceremony asking guests to please turn off their devices and enjoy this special moment with you. You can also add it to your wedding website and include a note on the wedding invitations as a way to make sure guests have advanced notice of your expectations. Finally, the officiant can make an announcement prior to the ceremony starting as a final reminder before you make your entrance. A photograph is worth a thousand words, and creating a plan to ensure that quality shines through with every snap of your photographer’s camera is well worth your attention. It’s an often overlooked detail that could save you and your photographer a lot of headaches while bringing the focus back to what is most important—the intimate union of you and your love. In the words of Crystal, “When I look out to my friends and family, I want to see their smiles, not their phones.”
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ADVERTISERS INDEX BAKERIES
ENTERTAINMENT - DJ’S
PHOTOGRAPHY
Simma’s Bakery 414-257-0998 simmasbakery.com
146
Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org
Miss Molly's Cafe & Pastry Shop 414.249.5665 missmollyscafe.com
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EVENT DÉCOR AND DESIGN Barking Pony Studios 414-302-0778 BarkingPonyBrides.com
BARTENDING SERVICE Bartenders On The Go 414-899-6151 bartendonthego.com
16-19, 175 Back Cover
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EVENT LIGHTING Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org
BRIDAL BOUTIQUES
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Bella Bridesmaids 414-270-0344 bellabridesmaids.com
119
FLOWERS 164
Bucci's Bridal 262-691-9963 buccisbridal.com
118
Bank of Flowers 262-253-9111 262-695-9911 bankofflowers.net
Stone Manor Bridal 262-377-5334 StoneManorBridal.com
117
Belle Fiori LTD 414-272-2234 bellefioriflorist.com
165
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Jane Kelly Floral 414-640-0204 janekellyfloral.com
166
White Dress Bridal Boutique 414-897-7208 whitedressmilwaukee.com
BRIDAL DRESSES FOR MOTHERS Bruce Paul Goodman 262-781-6083 brucegoodman.com
99
BRIDAL SHOWS Bridal Show at Overture, The overturebridalshow.com
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Milwaukee’s Magnificent Bride mmbshow.com
79
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CATERERS Sazama’s Fine Catering 414-276-2030 sazs.com
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Saz’s Hospitality Group 414-256-8765 sazs.com
28-29
Saz's Catering & Special Events 414-256-8765 sazs.com
28-29
Saz's Catering Lake Country 262-691-9796 sazs.com
28-29
Shully’s Cuisine & Events 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com
24-25, 44, 54
COFFEE CATERING Roast Coffee Catering 414-828-2030 roastcoffeecatering.com
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Lisa Hoppe Travel Consulting 414-258-8715 800-966-8715 hoppetravel.com
INVITATIONS & STATIONERY Paper Pleasers LLC 414-301-1751 paper-pleasers.com
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JEWELERS
CALLIGRAPHY Blooming Quill, The 262-268-0525 bloomingquill.com
HONEYMOON & TRAVEL
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91, David Liska Inside Back Cover Custom Jeweler 414-278-6000 Custombridaljewelry.net DavidLiskaCustomJeweler.com 8 Lyle Husar Designs 262-789-8585 lylehusardesigns.com
MEN’S FORMALWEAR Harleys The Store For Men 414-332-3404 888-797-SUIT harleys4men.com
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Wingman Formalwear 262-377-5334 StoneManorBridal.com
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OFFICIANTS Two-Gether We Wed 414-813-7498 TwogetherWeWed.com
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PHOTO BOOTH RENTALS Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org
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Front Room Photography 414-294-0080 frphoto.com
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Heather Cook Elliott Photography 414-944-1475 HeatherCookElliott.com
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Studio 29 Photography + Design 414-335-4031 foto-29.com
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The Paper Elephant 262-923-8343 thepaperelephant.com
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PRE & POST NUPTIAL PARTY LOCATIONS Bacchus – A Bartolotta Restaurant 414-765-1166 bacchusmke.com Bartolotta’s Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 LakeParkBistro.com
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Camp Bar Milwaukee 414-930-9282 Shorewood 414-962-5182 Wauwatosa 414-763-3793 campbarmke.com
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Harbor House 414-395-4900 harborhousemke.com
48-49, 50
Heidel House Resort & Spa 800-444-2812 heidelhouse.com
10, 42, 50
Hyatt Regency Milwaukee 414-276-1234 milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com
45, 42, 52
Kil@Wat 414-291-4793 kilawatcuisine.com
14-15, 52
Kimpton Journeyman Hotel, The 20-21, 42,52 414-291-3970 journeymanhotel.com Mason Street Grill 414-298-3131 masonstreetgrill.com
14-15, 52
Milwaukee ChopHouse 414-390-4562 chophouse411.com
14-15, 52
Mr. B’s – A Bartolotta Steakhouse 48-49, 54 262-790-7005 mrbssteakhouse.com Saz’s State House Restaurant – The State Room 414-453-2410 sazs.com
28-29, 54
Seeboth, The 414-841-9374 theseeboth.com
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Shully’s Cuisine & Events Thien Room 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com
24-25, 44, 54
Turner Hall Restaurant 414-227-0457 414-763-1490 turnerhallrestaurant.com
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RECEPTION LOCATIONS Bacchus - A Bartolotta Restaurant 414-765-1166 bacchusmke.com
48-49, 50
Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at Pier Wisconsin 42, 48-49 414-765-8610 bartolottacatering.com Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at The Grain Exchange 42, 48-49 414-727-6980 bartolottacatering.com Bartolotta's Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 LakeParkBistro.com
42, 48-49, 50
InterContinental Milwaukee 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com
14-15, 42
War Memorial Center 414-273-5533 warmemorialcenter.org
Kimpton Journeyman Hotel, The 20-21, 42,52 414-291-3970 journeymanhotel.com
RENTALS-LINENS
Milwaukee Art Museum 414-224-3287 mam.org
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Pfister , The 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com
14-15, 44
Potawatomi Hotel & Casino 414-PAYSBIG (729-7244) paysbig.com/meetings
5, 44
Ramhorn Farm 262-617-8826 evenementplanning.com
22-23, 44
River Club of Mequon 262-242-1400 riverclubofmequon.com
6-7, 44
Sazama's Fine Catering at the Marcus Center for the Performing Arts 28-29, 44 414-276-2030 sazamas.com
Grand Geneva Resort & Spa 800-558-3417 GrandGeneva.com
42, 47
Heidel House Resort & Spa 800-444-2812 heidelhouse.com
10, 42, 50
Saz’s Catering & Special Events 414-256-8765 sazs.com
Hilton Milwaukee City Center 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com
14-15, 42
Historic Pritzlaff 143 Historic Pritzlaff 325 Historic Pritzlaff 333 Historic Pritzlaff 414-433-6088 pritzlaffevents.com
30-31, 42
Saz's Catering at the Country Inn & Suites - Port Washington 414-256-8765 sazs.com
Hyatt Regency Milwaukee 414-276-1234 milwaukee.regency.hyatt.com
42, 45, 52
28-29, 36
28-29
Saz's Catering Lake Country Western Lakes Golf Club 262-691-9796 sazs.com
28-29, 44
Seeboth, The 414-841-9374 theseeboth.com
44, 53, 54
Shully’s Cuisine & Events The Watermark 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com
Windy City Linen 224-279-1500 x7 windycitylinen.com
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RENTALS-PARTY/RECEPTION EQUIPMENT 69 Canopies Events with Distinction 414-760-0770 canopiesevents.com 22-23, 44 événement planning 262-617-8826 evenementplanning.com
SALONS & SPAS Beauty 414-276-5054 beautymilwaukee.com
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Halo Salon 414-272-4256 halomilwaukee.com
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VIDEOGRAPHY Sound By Design Films 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org
16-19, 175 Back Cover
WEDDING & EVENT PLANNERS Dynamic Events by David Caruso 12-13 414-283-0050 dynamiceventsinc.com 22-23, 44 événement planning 262-617-8826 evenementplanning.com 82 Let’s Have An Affair 262-893-1808 LetsHaveAnAffair.com
24-25, 44, 54
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