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the perfect location Your commitment of loveâ&#x20AC;&#x201C; framed in a work of art. With breathtaking views, a grand hall of unrivaled elegance, and inspired menus, the Milwaukee Art Museum creates priceless memories for your wedding day. Book your event today, contact 414-224-3287 or rentals@mam.org.

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Past Basket Milwaukee (Fox Point, WI) has earned its reputation as Wisconsin’s premier retailer for heirloom tableware, dinnerware, and fine linens. Founder Linda McFadden started Past Basket over 30 years ago as a small retail outlet offering unique, artisan made products for the home. Today, Linda and her team are as passionate as ever about their craft as they acquire pieces for the store as if they are decorating their own homes. Watching, as the retail world has become more homogenized, Past Basket is still committed to the celebration of the creative spirit. There is always something new and always a fresh look to be found at Past Basket. Handpicked, functional, artisan – made... While Past Basket has stayed true to its roots; they have also become Milwaukee’s largest displaying retailer of many of the

“why not visit us and gather from the basket?” finest tableware, dinnerware and bedding linen lines. Brands such as Simon Pearce Glass, Match Pewter, Juliska Tableware, Le Jacquard Francais linens and MacKenzie - Childs are all featured in the distinct Past Basket way. The items displayed on the Past Basket shelves, tables and vignettes are chosen for quality, design and functionality. “What we hear from brides is that they want something that can be used every day, is dishwasher, oven and microwave safe, but that also looks good and can be dressed up for a lovely dinner at night. A simple white plate can be found anywhere,” explains Kris Fagan, Past Basket's Milwaukee manager. “We pride ourselves on our ability to help create a polished registry for any couple with a personal one-on-one registry experience.” The Past Basket Bridal Registry team is knowledgeable, helpful and approachable. Brides and Grooms can register online or in store. Purchases can be made online as well. Traditional service meets the convenience of online; The Past Basket Bridal Registry is the best of both worlds. As Linda states, “Why not visit us and gather from the basket?”

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& denise & weldon Liles Over 12 years have past since I met and married the love of my life, the man of my dreams, my soul mate. But even after 12 years I can still remember all of the excitement and the stress of planning our wedding. Veil Magazine exists because of the support of my husband Weldon, our families, Our Veil Team, and our incredible and talented advertisers. We all love what we do and it shows through the pages of the Veil Magazine. Indeed, this issue is full of amazing content that was a labor of love from our Veil team and the entire Wisconsin wedding industry whose creativity never ceases to amaze me. The wedding artisans featured within these pages invest their lives wholeheartedly in helping couples commemorate their love stories in style. The next 192 pages provide only a small taste of their work and talents through styled photo shoots and images from real weddings that have occurred over the past year. I hope Veil Magazine has helped you feel close to us and our advertisers, and that you find our magazine to be useful, with an underlying understanding of your unique taste. Remember, even though itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s overwhelming at times, you have a magazine filled with devoted wedding artisans at your fingers tips, ready to help you. Finally, Congratulations! May your future together be filled with love, happiness, and family, leaving you feeling joyfully fulfilled! Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m lucky that Veil Magazine keeps the romance of weddings alive for me every single day.

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Larry Kreiner

Event Sales Director River Club of Mequon’s renowned wedding planner, Larry Kreiner, grew up in Cape Town, South Africa, and graduated with a degree in Hotel Management and a Masters degree in Communication from the University of Johannesburg. Now in the US, Larry has become a tour de force in the banquet and high culinary arts by delighting his bridal parties with his enlightened and singularly exquisite special event design and execution. Larry personally sees to his client’s every need and his meticulous attention to detail is legendary. That reputation is why he’s been chosen to orchestrate successful galas for US Presidents, Hollywood

elite and Nobel prize winner Mikhail Gorbachev. Mr. Kreiner’s resume includes prestigious positions at the Peabody Hotel Group, Ritz Carlton Hotels and Au Berge Resorts. But Larry had long dreamed of returning to the Midwest. “Here, strangers treat you as family,” he says. Nestled in the heart of Mequon lies a sparkling new facility in a picturesque natural setting, the newly imagined River Club. Everything about this spacious clubhouse is the very definition of contemporary elegance. The spectacular Grand Ballroom offers the latest in programmable theme lighting with state of the art audio-visual support. A huge outdoor

“I adore creating occasions so special, so filled with magic and wonder they can live in your mind as gilded memories forever”

balcony called the Sunset Deck further enhances a sensory experience that justifies the River Club of Mequon’s standing as a dream destination for any important reception. From innovative chef-directed menus to the spacious grand ballroom to the Sunset Deck and luxurious Bridal Suite, you and your guests will never forget the romance and magic of life’s most cherished moments at the River Club of Mequon.

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“I had a great experience at Brandi’s! Love the new salon…like stepping onto a TV show, really!” by

Laura Vietmeyer

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Where can you strut your stuff on the runway to get a 3-D view of your wedding dress? The savvy bride knows that the answer is Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. in New Glarus. With a new 12,000 square foot showroom and 10 years in the business, Brandi’s is the bridal salon to go to for exceptional prices, exceptional service and an exceptional experience. Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. offers a wide selection of bridal fashions brought to you from around the world. With over 500 handpicked bridal gowns and 1,000 bridesmaids’ dresses, Brandi’s offers you and your bridal party the opportunity to explore your options in a space that helps you relax and have fun. The state-of-the-art space has edgy, metallic, silver, black, and mirrored decor. “I wanted to create

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a salon where the bride felt relaxed so she could enjoy herself and her bridal party could have fun!” said Brandi. She continued, “Combining technology and intimacy was a challenge, but we are thrilled with the results.” As a bride at Brandi’s, you have the opportunity to use technology in the form of touch screens and runway videos to help you choose the perfect gown. The runway experience allows you to see yourself as your groom & guests will see it on you on your wedding day. That day, you’ll be focused on your groom, but at Brandi’s you can focus on finding your dream gown. Brandi herself travels the world to bring the best bridal fashions to the Midwest, traveling as far as Barcelona, Spain to bring the Pronovias brand to the salon. The new salon was even honored with a visit

from the Director of US Operations for Pronovias, Lluis Sole, who was impressed by the new store. He stated, “Brandi’s Galleria represents perfectly the values of bridal and Pronovias: love, passion, beauty and joy. It is an honor to have Brandi’s Galleria to represent our brands.” Brandi’s also offers exclusive fashions from Martina Liana and Anaiss Bridal, and more traditional lines from LaSposa, Allure, Maggie Sottero, Stella York and many more. Once you select your perfect gown, you and your bridal party can celebrate with a champagne toast and photo op on the red carpet runway. Brandi’s is “The Home of the Original” Champagne Toast and they know how to properly pamper you and your party. Visit Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. website at www.brandisbridal.com.

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Maria Bartolotta

The Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at The Grain Exchange

Born and raised in Wauwatosa, Maria Bartolotta has always been an entertainer at heart. Her love of entertaining comes from more than 20 years in the restaurant industry. She started her career in New York City, where she worked at the world-renowned Rainbow Room and Rainbow Grill on top of the RCA building. When the Rainbow Room went through a year-long renovation, Maria moved to The Hard Rock Café, where she worked for six years creating special catering events and concert fundraisers such as Live-Aid. She also worked with other famous entertaining gurus in New York, including Martha Stewart. Through her contacts in the restaurant industry, Maria was able to pursue her own musical aspirations and began traveling around the country as a back

up singer. She then signed on with New York society big band leader, Peter Duchin; singing for Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver’s wedding, George Bush’s Inauguration, the Kentucky Derby, and opening for Barry Manilow. After having a family, Maria returned to Milwaukee and began working with her brother, Joe and The Bartolotta Restaurant Group, where she has been a valued member of the Bartolotta team for over 14 years. Her involvement with the Bartolotta Catering Company has enabled the company to expand to a number of incredible event spaces throughout Milwaukee, including Lake Park Bistro, Boerner Botanical Gardens, and Bacchus – A Bartolotta Restaurant. Maria is currently planning magnificent events at The Grain Exchange in downtown Milwaukee. Maria’s greatest passion is working with clients on spectacular catering functions. She has worked with many local businesses, planning and catering corporate events and meetings, as well as weddings, fundraisers, holiday parties, and grand openings. Maria’s experience and flair for party planning will help make your wedding reception a glamorous, starry-eyed event all its own.

The Grain Exchange bartolotta catering company & events at the grain exchange room The grandeur of this historic ballroom offers amenities for both the traditional and modern bride and groom. The room has undergone a complete renovation including the addition of a full service, state of the art kitchen. This three story “Cathedral of Commerce” was closely linked with the early commercial history of Milwaukee and showcases beautiful, simple Italian architecture with soaring ceilings, hand painted frescoes, gold leaf, and over 10,000 square feet of usable event space. Planning a wedding of your dreams does not have to be stressful for you and your family. With life’s hectic schedule, today’s couple needs a venue and staff that they can have confidence in. We start by building relationships with our clients, so that when the planning process begins, even the smallest detail mimics the unique personalities of the wedding couple. We really care about your “big day” and are passionate about creating weddings that are elegant and sophisticated. Our goal is to create an unforgettable memory for you and your guests. As a company, we have worked very hard to gain respect from the great people in our community. Once you have contracted with us, you will be able to draw on our 15 years of outstanding and very diverse experience that can support your every need. We are able to help with the actual event planning, event theme and décor; create custom menus; and provide assistance with entertainment, linens, florists, and technical needs. The gorgeous room will accommodate groups of 50, without feeling lost, up to groups of 500 comfortably. Please call The Grain Exchange Room at 414-727-6980 or visit us at 225 E. Michigan Street for the wedding of your dreams, without all the complications.

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48 Real Weddings Come Alive 90 What's In A Name 100 Loving Your Curves 112 Decades of Decadence 122 His Decisions 138 Business as Newlyweds 176 In Depth Exposure

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2 Past Basket 5 River Club of Mequon 6 Brandi's Bridal Galleria, Etc. 8 The Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at The Grain Exchange 10 Milwaukee Art Museum 12 Sound By Design 16 Marcus Hotels & Resorts 18 Saz's Hospitality Group 20 The Bartolotta Catering Company & Events 22 Historic Pritzlaff 24 Dynamic Events By David Caruso 26 Two-Gether We Wed

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The Art of Creativity: The Milwaukee Art Museum Continues to Wow

Micah Kaufman & Katie Shorts milwaukee art museum

Whether it’s the exquisite beauty of the architecture, the exciting blank canvas of white and glass, or the amazing and massive amount of art housed within its walls, the Milwaukee Art Museum continues to be an extraordinary wedding venue for Wisconsin brides. In the words of the on-location chef Micah Kaufman: “Simply put, the Milwaukee

explains. Plus, with the special exhibitions changing three times a year, the pair works on introducing new and innovative experiences and menu items, and using the feedback given by previous brides and grooms to make updates. “Our goal is to give each couple their perfect day, in the perfect setting,” Katie says. “As an art museum, encouraging creativity and expressing oneself is a given. It’s almost like the setting of the Museum inspires couples to be more creative!” That creativity is also captured often by Chef Micah and his staff within the Museum’s catering department. He often looks to local vendors and farms for his delectable suggestions on the menu, and because of that, his favorites to serve wedding guests moves with the season. “The art in the Museum and the menu are constantly changing, so the beauty of it never gets old,” he offers. “The architecture cannot be out done; it’s bright, fresh and clean, a perfect marriage of landscape and industry. A Chef can’t ask for a better stage than this.” Micah and his team meet with every couple for tastings, spending many hours planning and preparing dishes that are as remarkable as the venue itself. Katie also invests herself in each bride and groom that walk in the door, so their entire experience of the Museum, as well as their guests, is fresh, professional and yet still creative. “I work with each and every couple that walks through the door to see to every last detail,” she reveals. “With some basic restrictions to protect the art, couples have a lot of freedom to use the indoor and outdoor spaces to make their ceremony and reception personal and intimate.” She points to Windhover Hall as an example. The light-filled, column-free space is breathtaking in and of itself, but allows for an enormous amount of leverage in creating a completely customized look for a wedding. Whether you want a simple, cozy affair or a huge extravaganza, an outdoor cocktail party or indoor formal meal, the Milwaukee Art Museum is the perfect place to get creative, focus on what style you want for your wedding, and execute it against a stunning backdrop. You can’t go wrong here.

“The art in the Museum and the menu are constantly changing, so the beauty of it never gets old”

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Art Museum is an icon. We are a symbol of Milwaukee, exemplifying the majesty of the landscape and representing the city and its people.” 2013 marked the 125th anniversary for the Museum, and with the ability to seat upwards of 400 guests, with stunning views of the lake and city, and with both indoor and outdoor locations to hold events, the Milwaukee Art Museum is capable of making anyone’s wedding dreams come true. So many brides and grooms want the “wow” factor of holding their most special day within the walls of the Museum that Veil Magazine decided to sit down with Katie Shorts, Wedding Coordinator, and Micah Kaufman, Chef de Cuisine. Both Katie and Chef Micah recently joined the staff at the Museum, but already they’ve refined the catering menu, elevated the personal service offered, and refocused the entire planning process inward toward the Museum’s best features: art and architecture. The Quadracci Pavilion and Burke Brise Soleil (the Museum’s “wings”) have been adopted as an icon for the city. “The Quadracci Pavilion has put Milwaukee on the map,” Chef Micah

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from Left to right: Josh, Torie, Paul, & David

Sound by Design: Entertaining on Every Level The name Sound by Design (SBD) immediately conveys a sense of creativity. Something that is designed specifically is, by name, customized. Personalized. Suited specifically for you. That entire concept is exactly what the team behind Sound by Design aims to do: give you a completely customized entertainment for you, your guests, and your senses. And because entertainment is such a gigantic part of your wedding day, you want to make sure the people you hire to make that happen are intensely genuine about you, your day, and your desires. Creating an exhilarating experience for you and your guests is paramount to the team inside Sound by Design, and they each have their own specialties that have been cultivated to perfection to make sure your day is seamlessly perfect. When Paul Hackbarth, owner and president, started Sound by Design, he curated a group of loyal, honest, and passionate people to learn, and then grow, the business with him. They began by providing

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stylish and present disc jockey music and Master of Ceremonies services for weddings - an award winning service that continues to be what drives couples to speak with Sound by Design. What many brides and grooms don’t expect is a DJ service that comes with many entertainment options rolled together in one package. Torie Gamez, the Director of Operations at SBD, spends a lot of one-on-one time with couples who come in looking for said amazing DJ entertainment. “Even after 13 years in the industry, I still love hearing about couples’ wedding days when I first meet them,” he admits. “And I get to share with them how SBD can help with so many aspects of entertainment.” Once you’ve received an overview of Sound by Design’s capabilities from Torie, you’ll establish a very full, personal and warm relationship with Josh Erickson, the Director of Client Services. “I provide couples with a carefree experience once they come on board with us,” he explains. “Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, and my goal is to make

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the entertainment side as easy as possible, from helping the Lighting Division design the reception room or recommending vendors.” With the family oriented baseline that is SBD’s mantra, Josh strives to make couples feel like part of that family as well. “You should never feel like a number,” he says. “We’ll stay away from the gimmicks and let the music do the talking.” Paul, looking at the business from over 17 years in the industry, also advises couples to be budget conscious about your wedding at all times, “But make sure you allocate your funds to the most important areas. Make sure you invest in the entertainment because that truly is the backbone of the reception.” But sometimes entertainment for your wedding reception needs to be even more interactive, because entertaining is most definitely a myriad of dynamic pieces beyond music. “We do an open concept photobooth or standard inclosed one,” Torie says. “But we have a modern approach that uses a backdrop and allows for more movement, bigger groups, and

Make sure you invest in the entertainment because that truly is the backbone of the reception.. - Paul Hackbarth

We do an open concept photobooth or standard inclosed one - Torie Gamez

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Lighting is a compliment and a statement to illuminate the most important aspects of a wedding and it's design - David Hackbarth

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can let guests leave video messages for the couple.” Josh agrees. “People love them and the quality is great.” With that evolving, unique, modern approach to entertainment, Sound by Design really does customize a wedding package to help create a day with all the elements handled. Entertaining your guests is of course important - providing a killer sound and music experience is what can make a reception memorable. But there are the other parts of entertainment that all come together to make the overarching day that much better. David Hackbarth is the Director and Founder of Sound by Design’s Lighting Division. He works to create lighting design that is customized to your colors, your overall wedding vibe and be smashingly gorgeous all without breaking the bank. “I help clients put together lighting packages that will make the most impact for the budget they can afford,” he explains. “And I love problem solving and learning how to make things happen in some of the most impossible lighting situations.” This, once again, is how SBD’s team strives to entertain you and your guests - lighting can be a feast for the eye, and give an entirely new meaning to a space that might have usually been quite ordinary. Plus, the product is top notch and plays with the newest up and coming options. “We are very careful about selecting the lights,” David says. “By buying the newest equipment in uplighting, we’re able to provide a lot of light with very little hassle.” Some of those ideas are whole room washes, which almost ‘paint’ a room with an intense wash of color, or using creative cording to light the interior of a tent with unique

chandeliers. “Lighting is a compliment and a statement to illuminate the most important aspects of a wedding and it’s design,” describes David. Lighting is essential to creating that high energy entertaining vibe, which dovetails nicely into Sound by Design’s overall prerogative for your wedding; they want the whole room to feel the music, get caught up in the party atmosphere, and feel as though they’ve been transported into a wedding fantasy exclusively yours. And what better way to make sure that entertainment vibe is exactly what you wish for yourselves, your memories, or your guests than with an extraordinarily professional and warm group of individuals, who together make a seamless team? Sound by Design will have worked with, and followed you, through the whole wedding process - from lighting decor, planning photobooths and coordinating speeches and introductions, to

the dance party itself. They have an innate understanding of who you are and what makes your love story special. How more personal and customized to your style can it get? Plus, everyone is invested in your entertaining experience from Day One, which is a huge part of why Sound by Design is so well loved in Wisconsin. “Each and every person has so much pride and passion for this company that it really shows in the end result,” reveals Josh. “We are so much more than the guys who push play.” Paul, who makes the big management decisions at Sound by Design, agrees wholeheartedly. “SBD’s backbone is our amazing staff. We continue to employ only those that are closest to us, who are willing to look forward to how to make SBD better, so that we can continue to guarantee premier quality in every avenue of entertainment we offer.”

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Do You Believe in love at first sight? You will soon! For a wedding you’ll cherish, look Empire Ballroom, a tiered space boasting to Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ Milwaukee rich woods, gold-leafed adornments, properties. From the historic Pfister gorgeous carpets and textured window Hotel, stylish InterContinental Milwaukee treatments in deep russets. Your wedding can be part of the rich For a sophisticated affair, look to Pfister history, a timeless celebration and classic Hilton Milwaukee, each goes the extra mile to ensure a flawless InterContinental Milwaukee, which brings at Hilton Milwaukee or a chic affair at contemporary style to the downtown InterContinental Milwaukee," says Sydney wedding. For more than 115 years, The Pfister Hotel business and theatre districts. Its Grand Waisanen, Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ has established a tradition of elegance. Salon is spectacular with the warmth of Market Director of Catering Sales. "Your Spectacular architecture, luxurious the chocolate brown suede walls and event will be created with the utmost accommodations, unrivaled venues and contemporary lighting. For an intimate care as we work with you to transform a sense of grandeur position this historic setting, choose The Lobby Salon, which your dream wedding into a reality. Let us hotel for an unforgettable event. A storybook is located across from InterContinental worry about the details while you enjoy backdrop highlights its Imperial celebrating with family and Ballroom while The Grand Ballroom “Our hotels offer a variety of style options friends. We look forward combines old-world sophistication to welcoming you and your which suit the needs of the traditional and contemporary appointments. guests with our gracious Charming weddings are the Marcus hospitality.” bride to the modern bride” specialty of Hilton Milwaukee, You’ve been dreaming a city landmark located in the heart Milwaukee’s art gallery—guests can about your wedding your whole life. Start of downtown. In its Crystal Ballroom, browse art and enjoy cocktails before planning it today with Marcus Hotels & your wedding will be as timeless as the entering. Resorts. For package information and “Our hotels offer a variety of style more on each property, visit MarcusWedroom itself, which defines grace through art-deco details, high ceilings and brilliant options which suit the needs of the dings.com. mirrors. Every bit as impressive is the traditional bride to the modern bride. photo courtesy of john grant photography

Kerry Doyne Marcus Hotels & Resorts Private Dining Sales Manager Though the wedding day may be “The Big Day,” a wedding is an event spread over weeks and months for many brides and grooms. Bachelor parties, wedding showers and rehearsal dinners require excellent locations, and none are better than Marcus Restaurants: Mason Street Grill, Kil@wat, Milwaukee ChopHouse, and Miller Time Pub & Grill. Though helping shape a wedding is never a simple task, having great restaurants certainly makes the work of Kerry Doyne, Marcus Hotels & Resorts’ Private Dining Sales Manager, a little easier. “Our restaurants offer different experiences for brides and grooms looking for special ways to celebrate,” Doyne said.

“Their private dining rooms, unique in décor and size, create a personal setting for a memorable experience that is truly ‘theirs.’” For pre-wedding parties and post-wedding receptions, The Pfister Hotel—Milwaukee’s premier hotel—has plenty to offer. Located adjacent to the hotel, Mason Street Grill has three private dining rooms that can fit up to 40 guests. For spectacular sights, nothing beats Blu, The Pfister’s 23rd floor lounge. “Mason Street Grill’s private dining rooms are equipped with complimentary flat screen TVs and menus everyone will enjoy,” Doyne said. “Follow dinner with cocktails in Blu to enjoy the best views of the city.” Next to Hilton Milwaukee you’ll find Milwaukee ChopHouse, which is tailor-made

for one last night with the guys. “The private dining room seats up to 30 guests and is perfect for a pre-bachelor party dinner,” Doyne said. “Our chef can even create a special menu for you featuring your favorite beer pairings.” Looking for a spark? Look no further than Kil@wat, located on InterContinental Milwaukee’s second floor. “’The Loft’ [at Kil@wat] is perfect for a reception or casual brunch,” Doyne said. “Its location makes this a great venue for a wedding shower, the complimentary flat-screen TV is perfect for pictures or videos of the couple-to-be and the sunny décor makes a great daytime setting for a gift-opening brunch.” VeilMagazine.com

Catering to Saz’s Catering

Creating World Class Cuisine at Stunning Wisconsin Locations Saz’s Catering offers an especially diverse selection of authorized venues for your wedding reception, rehearsal dinner, and showers. Our broad array of location choices includes Renaissance Place, the Pritzlaff Building, Villa Terrace, John Michael Kohler Arts Center, the Pabst Mansion, Miller Inn & Caves, and Milwaukee County Zoo Peck Pavilion. Whether your dream wedding is the most elegant celebration imaginable or a more casual gathering, we can pair the perfect setting and our creative menus to make your day absolutely sublime.

Saz’s Catering • 5420 West State Street • Milwaukee, WI 53208 • 414.256.8765 • sazs.com

Saz’s Catering Lake Country Exclusive Caterer for Western Lakes Country Club

Saz’s Catering Lake Country calls the beautiful banquet facilities at Western Lakes Golf Club home, but also caters to choice locations and private homes throughout Waukesha and Pewaukee, and west to Madison. You will find many beautiful settings for your wedding photography, and the golf course offers a stunning backdrop for your reception through the picture windows in our banquet room.

Saz’s Catering Lake Country • W287 N1963 Oakton Road • Pewaukee, WI 53072 • 262.691.9796 • sazs.com

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Sazama’s Fine Catering at the Marcus Center for the Performing Arts will make your wedding day spectacular and stress free, with exceptional cuisine, impressive service and attention to detail. The Marcus Center for the Performing Arts offers an outstanding setting along the Milwaukee River and has a variety of spaces that can accommodate almost any size guest list. For a special touch, enjoy cocktails and appetizers al fresco on the Fitch Garden Patio, Riverfront or Colonnade.

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Saz’s State House restaurant

The State Room — Casual Elegance that is Perfect for Bridal Showers and Rehearsal Dinners Saz’s State House Restaurant is located in a charming historic building on State Street in Wauwatosa. The State Room is an ideal setting for bridal showers and rehearsal dinners. It is a beautifully designed private dining room with rich wood architectural accents, etched glass windows, and a custom designed bar that is reminiscent of the great pubs of Europe. There is an attached coat room and a separate entrance for your convenience.

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Inside or out. A few dozen or hundreds. We don’t just hold events, we host happenings. Welcome to the Historic Pritzlaff. Constructed in 1875 and recently renovated, the Pritzlaff has been transformed into a breath taking example of not only what was, but what can be. With 4 unique spaces your guest will be surrounded by Victorian era arched windows and gritty cream city brick. Above, you’ll find industrial age beamed ceilings curiously supported by elegant wood beams.

Versatility Flow Energy Allure In the end it’s all about creating a memorable experience. And your Pritzlaff event will be one they won’t soon forget.

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A Wedding Anywhere: Finding an Officiant by

Sara Dahmen

photo courtesy of Paul owen photography

Ceremony Tips elax! Everything has been R set and it’s time to enjoy. Attendants are a great help. Ask them to run errands like buying an extra pair of pantyhose – this way, you don’t look stressed or worn out. Walk down the aisle imagining what you will be thinking when you kiss your groom; this will help you maintain your confidence even if you are nervous. Never drink anything colored. Abstain from drinking alcohol until after the photographer is finished to keep from filling your album with intoxicated expressions or bloodshot eyes. Don’t lock your knees at the altar; it can cause you to faint.

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“We received so many compliments on having Weldon as our Reverend. All of our guests just adored him. There are a lot of decisions that go into planning a wedding, but the one decision my husband and I have no regrets on is having Weldon marry us! He truly made our day so special, and we could never thank him enough.” -Josh & Katie wed 2012. Read their love story on page 184. photo courtesy of Paul owen photography

For many brides, the choice is an easy one: marry inside the church. Whether it’s the local place of worship you attend every weekend, or where your parents were wed years earlier, there’s usually a sentimental or traditional reason to share your wedding vows where you often say your prayers. However, for some couples, a house of worship doesn’t make sense. Perhaps you come from two very different faiths, and to choose one over the other would offend family or feel odd for both of you. Maybe you are outdoor adventurers, and saying “I Do” on a cliff overlooking Lake Michigan makes far more sense than under a roof. Whatever the case for the significance of your more unusual, outdoor, or unorthodox ceremony locale, finding an officiant to oversee properly and legal sanction your vows is both a personal and necessary piece to your wedding day. Usually, officiants who marry couples outside of a church environment are nondenominational, which means they are able and willing to marry brides and grooms of various faiths, traditions and backgrounds. While he or she will come equipped with a long list of activities that can occur within the ceremony, they are always open to interpretation of traditions that may be special to you as a couple, or incorporating new ideas that would not be allowed in a more traditional setting. An officiant will

also usually come with a “bare bones” script, which is the minimal that must happen and be said during a ceremony to make it legal and binding. However, there is also a huge amount of leeway and room for addition within that script, allowing couples to add one or multiple readings or write their own vows, for instance. Officiants can be lawyers or judges, practicing or retired. They can be nondenominational ministers, rabbis or ordained through online services such as those offered through Universal Life Church. It’s especially important to vouch your officiant. Ask for references and actually speak to past couples about their experiences with the officiant in the planning stages and during the actual wedding day. Meet with your intended officiant before booking to see if you feel comfortable with him or her and where they are open to unique additions to your wedding day. Veil Magazine also offers options for you to consider. A professional officiant will be able to offer information that will help you coordinate your wedding ceremony so that it runs smoothly and appropriately. Below are some pointers to help you get started in the planning of your own vows.

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50 Years Under One Canopy joan&ken

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Even though Canopies officially started in 1995, it all began back when 19-year-old Ken and 18-year-old Joan met while working at Shorty’s Restaurant in Milwaukee. Their courtship quickly led to a proposal in the summer of 1963, with a wedding that December. Today, Canopies is flourishing thanks to the talent and dedication of Ken, Joan and their loyal family who has at one point worked or helped with Canopies. Currently all of Ken and Joan’s children work there in some capacity. This past December marked a momentous date in Canopies’ history—Ken and Joan’s 50th wedding anniversary. The Hudak’s children worked diligently to plan a truly special evening for their beloved parents. What were some of the details that went into planning the anniversary party? Red was the color of the wedding in 1963, so we used red just like their wedding day and incorporated gold for their 50th golden anniversary! We also asked Dina Russo to replicate the original cake as best as she could from a picture we had from the wedding. For invitations, we (Margo and Jackie) used our favorite invitation website to pick out invitations and used a super cute picture from their original wedding. Did you include any special traditions or customs? Faith is such an important part of Ken and Joan’s lives. Since we wanted a private mass later in the evening, we asked Bishop Hying (who also did their 40th anniversary renewal) to help us to reserve a church. Since Ken and Joan are members of Old St. Mary’s, it was a perfect fit! Also, Ken and Joan’s anniversary was the Feast of the Holy Family. The readings and message were great for two people who have six children and nine grandchildren. Did you do anything special during the ceremony? Ken and Joan’s grandchildren mean the world to them, so they had to play a special role in the mass and dinner. All of the grandchildren led the “processional” and had some type of job at the mass (readers, gift bearers, etc.). I also asked some grandkids (Martha and Charlie) to give speeches about why they love their grandparents so much.

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What do you think Ken and or Joan’s favorite moment was? I think having all of their family in one place was probably their favorite moment. Even though we all live in the area, it is rare that we are ALL at the same place at the SAME time. I also think hearing their grandchildren speak about them was amazing. Seeing old friends and how happy they were to be included was very special to them too. What were other favorite moments? Everyone was very happy to have a party to celebrate such a special, once-in-a-lifetime occasion. Even though we are in the party business, we rarely have parties of our own or attend any either! It was special for us to enjoy the moment together in honor of Ken and Joan. We all enjoyed seeing Ken and Joan take the time to relax and enjoy the night. Any other comments or special things you would like to mention? We just were so appreciative of how much people thanked us for being included. People were truly happy to be there and seemed to enjoy themselves. We just realized that in today’s world many couples don’t make it to 50 for a variety of reasons. We feel so blessed to have been able to witness, celebrate and enjoy being a part of Ken and Joan’s 50th! “A VERY SPECIAL THANKS TO” Bishop Hying, ACA Entertainment, Kathy & Jon-Barking Pony Studios, Dale -Dahlia Blooms, Dina Russo, Liz and Rob-Historic Turner Hall, Neil-Front Room Photography, Mike & Monica-Majic Productions, Tabeltoppers. - Hudak Family VeilMagazine.com

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Food & Flair How to Find the Perfect Reception for You by

Sara Dahmen

When you first get engaged, the first thing people do is ask to see that gorgeous rock on your finger. The first question

asked is what date you’ve selected for the nuptials. And then everyone usually wonders where you might be holding the big celebration. If you’re like most brides, selecting a venue can be a daunting process, especially if you have very little notion about all the options available in your area and are not quite sure what to consider when finding your reception space. First of all, consider the date you actually have chosen. Did you pick a date in the middle of the summer - high season - or in the traditionally chilly time that has become more popular due to the great designs now available in the cold months? You both need to discuss what you want for your day: a hotel ballroom, a warehouse loft, a vintage barn or a swanky tent. Some of your choices may be limited due to weather if you’ve chosen a time period during the year that is not conducive to an unheated - or non-air conditioned - tent or barn. Sometimes those locations can be accommodating and can bring in either option if weather necessitates it., but you’ll have to weigh cost with practicality then. Once your date is selected, you’ll want to book a venue that matches the aesthetic you desire as well as your estimated guest list. It’s important to realize how quickly locations book in advance. Many venues start to book two years out - so be sure to make inquiries early. You may also find it easier to select a time of year and, armed with several dates that work for your particular ceremony venue or church, go to the most popular and heavily booked locations with many options open instead of just a single date to try and match together. Or, you may not care so much about an exact venue as you do a particular caterer or service level. If that is the case, you’ll want to encompass all the properties covered by that vendor to better understand your options regarding room and capacity size as well as style. Even if you are set with a single date, or you started a bit late and most of the locations you were considering are all booked up throughout the season, all is not entirely lost. There are many vendors, especially here in Veil Magazine, that have multiple locations with the same high level of service, food design and host in a variety of settings sure to fit with your wedding hopes in some manner. So while sometimes it is important to choose an interior vibe that best describes your personal style, when food or some other element is equally important to you, it can help to open your horizons to include other venues you may not have initially added to your list. Remember, a reception is where you can get creative about your tastes and offer up dishes that can be a memorable part of the evening. This is also an important part of your guests’ experience, beyond the venue surroundings itself. If you choose a location that can provide a culinary and gastronomic memory, it will be something guests remember for a long time. Therefore, once your venue and caterer are selected, you will want to go over the type of service that you’ll be providing your guests. Here’s a brief summary of your options. continued on pages 36 & 37

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The home of beer baron Frederick Pabst, today the Poabst Mansion stands as a symbol of a time of elegance and sophistication. Experience the grandeur as you entertain guests in one of Milwaukee's finest residences.

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Exceptional food. Great Beer. Legendary fish fry. We celebrate the spirited heritage of Wisconsin with our fresh, locally-sourced and masterfully prepared food. Our fish fry is an honored Milwaukee tradition.

A beautiful banquet hall located on the third floor of the War Memorial Center, offers sweeping views of downtown Milwaukee through five floor-to-ceiling windows. Unique lakefront location.

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Corporate events, weddings and all social events welcome. Your guests will find our accommodations ideal. We offer overnight accommodations for all your family and 18,19 friends. When hosting your event with us, the romantic honeymoon suite is complimentary on your wedding night. Photo courtesy of Spottswood Photography

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Anne Radtke Harley-Davidson museum

The Harley-Davidson Museum in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, is a reflection of American history and pop culture like you’ve never seen it before – through the lens of a true American icon and brand. The 130,000 square-foot Museum complex, located on 20 acres of green space, opened to the public in July 2008 and is available for a multitude of events and, of course, wedding ceremonies and receptions, rehearsal dinners, bridal showers and bachelor parties. The private event spaces are completely unique to Milwaukee, entirely customizable and can offer services to parties of 5 to 500 guests. Anne Radtke, the social event and wedding sales manager at the Harley-Davidson Museum, works with each couple who chooses the fabulous Museum for their wedding day. “It’s

my responsibility to walk the couple through how their vision can be created, and then to accurately transfer the vision to the great team who will be on site making that vision a reality,” Anne explains. She goes on to describe the unique spaces offered within the Museum property. “Rumble feels like an elegant banquet dining space with a slight edge. The wall of windows offers a hint of elegance and a beautiful view of the city and river. The Archives Building can be turned into any kind of atmosphere you’d like! The interior has an urban loft feel with exposed duct work, and the three garage doors

menus and food. Their mantra is: “It’s the food, the food, the food, and the thousand details that surround it,” so brides and grooms can be sure their menu will be delectable and unique. Anne is perfectly poised, with over five years in the catering and events industry, to make sure the entire food experience for the couple is perfect from start to finish. “By shadowing catering managers I gained an understanding of serving a room of 300 guests,” Anne says. “Shadowing chefs in the kitchen gave me the insight into the menu and made it easier for me to customize a creative menu within a budget.” “Our spaces offer an amazing opportunity for couples to bring in their own styles and tastes,” Anne reveals. “We want our couples to fulfill the vision that they have of their special day from start to finish.” Plus, the HarleyDavidson Museum offers great packages, from complimentary on-site parking to table linens and a myriad of other fantastic perks. Explore outside their packages and create something completely yours – which is in keeping with what the Museum and Levy Restaurants is all about – being completely unique!

“our spaces offer an amazing opportunity for couples to bring in their own styles” along the east side open to the outdoor space, allowing guests to mingle inside or outside without leaving your party.” Levy Restaurants is the on-site caterer for the Harley-Davidson Museum; with a history that started in 1978, the cornerstone for Levy’s Restaurants is amazing food, delivery of great guest experiences, and innovative approaches to

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For Amanda Leyrer, her job combines the best of t wo worlds. As the event manager for the War Memorial Center, Amanda takes her passion for party planning and combines it with a spectacular backdrop. “The War Memorial has this incredible view of Lake Michigan but then you turn around and Milwaukee’s skyline is beautifully showcased too,” she says. Along with the view, the stunning landmark building provides couples with unique indoor or outdoor options as well as a gracious, flowing layout. Memorial Hall, is a beautiful banquet hall located on the third floor of the War Memorial Center, which offers sweeping views of downtown Milwaukee through five floor-toceiling windows. The room can accommodate up to 260 guests. Fitch Plaza is located on the second level of the War Memorial Center. From

late spring to early fall, this unique outdoor patio offers a spectacular lakefront location for a variety of events and holds up to 300 guests. With eight years in the event planning business, Amanda is drawn to the customer service aspect of her work, saying “I enjoy seeing things from start to finish, and I want to make the planning as easy as possible for couples.” Amanda’s attention to detail includes understanding the couple’s vision, coordinating vendor details, offering photography tips to maximize the War Memorial C e n t e r ’s b e a u t y, a n d k e e p i n g abreast of industr y trends. “I believe in frequent communication to help ensure a smooth event,” she explains. By only doing one wedding per day, Amanda and her staff ensure that the complete focus is on the couple and their celebration. Satisfaction comes at the end of the event, Amanda says, “I love seeing people have a good time and knowing we helped create that.”

“the war memorial has this incredible view of Lake Michigan”

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Heavy Appetizers: This option for food service is best used for midday events, morning brunches or cocktail receptions. A combination of stationary food items and passed or experiential appetizers is the likely route to ensure guests have time and opportunity to get some food in their belly. Because alcohol is usually part of the event, you’ll want to emphasis having food with a bit of weight using meats and breads as well as considering vegetarian dishes as well. You can liven this up with appetizers that match your theme, colors, or even are presented in unique ways, such as on acrylic trays or in ice shooters. Buffet: While this is another more informal way to feed your guests, you need never worry about guests being hungry later, as everyone can fill their plates with however much food they think they need. You can also create a very familiar, cozy environment with guests getting served in a ‘family style’ way at each table, which is a step up from the traditional long buffet line but still allows for bulk food options. There is a myth that buffets can be less expensive than a plated meal, but that is not true. Buffets require extra amounts of food to be bought by your caterer to ensure that they don’t run out as people fill their own plates and portion sizes cannot be controlled. Carving Stations: This is truly a culinary experience for your guests - getting to select, point and watch as their food is being cut and served. Carving stations do not even need to be confined to meat. You can have potato bar stations, pasta bars, sauteed vegetable and seafood bars, or even an omelette bar if you’re hosting a brunch reception. Carving stations tend to end quicker, so while this is a buffet type of serving style, be sure that your guests are aware that there is an end time to the food being available.

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Small Plates: A classy step up from carving stations and ‘help yourself ’ bars, small plates are exactly what they sound like: small plates of pre-served food that guests can grab. There are usually several small plate stations throughout a reception room, but they can be fancier items, such as lobster, scallops, certain types of beef cuts or specialized pastas. The pates are expedited by whatever chef is manning the station, so they have the finished appeal of a plated meal but in smaller portions. This is an elegant way to still create the movement in the room you’d get with a buffet or carving stations but offers a more delectable cuisine. Plated: This is the traditional way to serve a wedding meal. Whether you allow your guests to choose their entree table side, on the RSVP cards, or offer one single dish, plated meals are the most formal way to feed your guests at the reception. You will have several servers

on hand to make sure tables are served relatively at the same time, allowing guests to dive into a fully created and executed meal with proper proportions and final design. It is still possible to have unique dining experiences with a plated meal. Offer an amuse bouche, sorbet before the entree, or have a cheese and fig course before offering cake. You are the masters of the menu at your reception: have fun, even when doing something traditional. Remember your reception should be a reflection of your wedding style, but that doesn’t mean you are limited to a vintage venue if you want vintage flair or specific meal options. You can create that vibe with everything from the decor, lighting and the food service, so don’t feel completely edged in by your theme. Select what fits all pieces of your wedding and your personality the best and you won’t be left with any questions about your final decision.

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Prepare, Plan and Party A Guide to Planning the Perfect Event, No Matter How Big or Small by

Michelle Drewek

Weddings are more than just a one-day event. Parties from bridal

showers to bachelor/ette parties, rehearsal dinners to receptions, a lot of venue considerations come into play. Before you jump into planning these events, you need to come prepared. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve compiled a Party Directory to help guide your search for the perfect venue, no matter the occasion, but first read on to learn more about what you should be considering along the way. First, consider how many people will be in attendance. You want to make sure that the space that is chosen to host the event will comfortably fit the guest list. Comfortably means making sure there is not only enough space to seat everyone, but also enough room for mingling and any activities that may take place. If you are having a bridal luncheon, for example, people will mostly be sitting at their tables or casually standing nearby to chat with other

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guests. At a bridal shower, however, space for a gift table will also need to be accounted for, as well as enough space for the gift opening to take place in. Likewise, a wedding reception will need to not only accommodate for guests and a gift table, but also a bar and dance floor. Go into your search for a location knowing what you will need to accommodate for so the venue can tell you what will and will not work. Next, consider the atmosphere. The type of mood you will be setting with a bridal luncheon versus a bachelorette party will most likely be at opposite ends of the spectrum. You want to have a location that no only is conducive to the atmosphere you want your party to have, but that your party is also conducive to that space. A third thing to consider is the amenities. Things like bar service, entertainment and food offerings may be what makes or breaks your continued on page 41

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5601 Broad St. Greendale WI 414.858.1900 • www.joeygerards.com

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11120 N. Cedarburg Rd. Mequon WI 262.518.5500 • www.joeygerards.com

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139 E. Kilbourn Ave. Milwaukee WI 414.291.4793 • www.kilawatcuisine.com

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Kil@wat combines an inventive interpretation of contemporary American cuisine, a vibrant yet comfortable setting, and inspiring views of downtown Milwaukee to create a thoroughly enjoyable dining experience.

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Mason Street Grill, in downtown Milwaukee, is a classic American Grill, serving high-quality wood grilled steaks, amazing sandwiches and house made desserts. Comfortable booths, a welcoming staff and warm atmosphere.

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A traditional steak house with contemporary flair, specializing in tender steaks and fresh seafood, and an extensive wine list.

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decision to opt for or against a location. Venues all have their own rules when it comes to caterers and bartenders. Before hiring a catering company, find out the rules of the venue you are using. They may require you use their in-house catering/menu or a caterer they directly contract with. If you are keen on having a particular caterer, then you may need to look at a different location if your first choice has specific regulations. Bartenders are a similar topic to discuss. Do they have specific bartenders you can hire, or do you need to hire outside bartenders. What types of fees are associated with using the bar service? How long do you need bar service for? Have these questions answered ahead of time so when you visit the venue, you are prepared to cover all of your bases. Finally, come in with a budget. It is easy to get carried away planning an unforgettable night. The budget will keep you levelheaded so you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t leave having spent more than you can afford. If price becomes an issue, see what types of suggestions the venue has. Depending on their years of experience, they have probably seen and heard it all by now. They are experts in the area of party planning, so voice your concerns ahead of time before they become an issue. Planning a party is something to take seriously because a lot gets invested into making sure your guests have a good time. By preparing yourself before diving in head first, you will eliminate a lot of unnecessary stress and end up with an unforgettable event. Let our Party Directory help get you get the party started!

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18280 W. Capital Dr. Brookfield WI 262.790.7005 • www.mrbssteakhouse.com

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Brookfield

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A classic italian steakhouse, Mr. B's offers wood fired prime steaks & chops in a warm, spacious setting. Enjoy a private room or outdoor patio.

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saz ' s catering lake country western lakes golf club

W287 N1963 Oakton Rd. Pewaukee WI 262.691.0900 • www.westernlakes.com/weddings_And_Banquets.aspx

Pewaukee

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saz ' s state house restaurant the state room

5539 W State St. Milwaukee WI 414.453.2410 • www.sazs.com

Milwaukee

American Cuisine

Saz's Catering Lake Country at Western Lakes Golf Club is perfect for banquets, weddings, and rehearsals. Whether buffet or sit-down, formal or casual, hot or cold hors d'oeuvres with complete bar service.

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The State Room provides a special blend of casual elegance, privacy and amenities; rich wood accents, etched glass a private entry and a custom designed wooden bar.

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shully ' s cuisine

146 Green Bay Rd. Thiensvill WI 262.242.6633 • www.shullyscuisine.com

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Thiensville

Continental Cuisine

$$$

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1038 North Fourth St. Milwaukee WI 414.763.1490 • www.turnerhallrestaurant.com

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Gastropub Fish Fry

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Our charming Thien Room is perfect for smaller groups up to 65 guests to enjoy sit-down dinners, buffets and luncheon receptions, or up to 80 guests for cocktail/hors d'oeuvres receptions.

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Exceptional Food. Great Beer. Legendary Fish Fry. We celebrate the spirited heritage of Wisconsin with our fresh, locally sourced and masterfully prepared food. Our fish fry is an honored Milwaukee tradition.

Milwaukee hosts your night on the town

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Located on the beautiful shores of Lake Michigan, Milwaukee offers a fantastic selection of arts, entertainment, and architecture. You have numerous options for an unforgettable celebration here, including brewery tours, riverboat cruises, and ethnic festivals. Whether you want a simple, low-key night on the town with a few girlfriends, or a high=energy, fist-pumping extravaganza, there's something here for everyone. What better place to host your bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, or wedding after party than the city featured in the recent movie Bridesmaids?

The rehearsal dinner is meant to be an intimate gathering for your wedding party and closest family members. Just like your reception locale, the place you choose for this event can help spark conversations and make a huge impact on the tone of the evening and later events to come. Looking for a casual outdoor setting where you guests can feel comfortable and at ease? Consider renting a tent from Canopies and hosting a fun, catered barbecue, right in your own backyard. Prefer a more formal outdoor rehersal dinner? Try the tent at Pier Wisconsin, or the Fitch Plaza at the

Milwaukee War Memorial for a breathtaking view of Lake Michigan. Looking for something unique and different? The historic Miller Caves at MillerCoors are an excellent choice. Leaning towards a modern, trendy locale? Milwaukee Art Museum, Cuvee, or Bacchus may be perfect for you. See Veil's Reception and Party Locator on starting on page 32 for many other great local options for your rehearsal dinner.

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BARTENDERS ON THE GO Perfect Custom Cocktails Shaking Up the Wedding Industry, One Cocktail at a Time by

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ome of the most special moments of your wedding are the toasts given by all the people who love you both. But before your guests raise their glasses, make sure that the champagne in their stemware is as tasteful as the well wishes you receive. Over nine and a half years ago, Gary Ozuna started Bartenders On The Go when he realized there was a need for a serious enthusiastic bartending and beverage specialization service in Milwaukee. Having lived and worked on the East Coast, as well as Houston and Austin, Gary has insight to the latest hot trends, creative cocktails and newest

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themes. Europe is also an extensive research and informational guide for him, and Gary travels there often. In Wisconsin, Gary Ozuna’s staff of licensed and energetic professionals not only get excited about their work, but they also strive to create a memorable experience for your guests. “I believe in hiring fun, qualified employees who really want to be there,” Gary divulges. Bartenders on the Go is more than just a bartending service, and in fact, is practically a one-stop shop for your event, offering wedding consultations and menu design in addition to guaranteeing your guests will be served a properly mixed

ago and they were still complimenting my Bartenders On The Go works with you to martini with the same suave service you’d find company. That’s when I know that what I do uncover the details that make your event at a high scale bar. unique. In addition, Gary’s team of servers is all worthwhile.” Gary recommends that couples look for can even dress in theme for your wedding, or Gary also customizes drink menus for several key factors when vetting options for simply don their standard uniform beverage services. Check if the company is licensed and “And it’s why we do custom beverage of a classy black vest, white dress insured, and find out whether packages as well - no two weddings shirt and a tie. Bartenders on the Go is so well the bartenders are capable, are the same” known for providing high quality outgoing, and professional in service that the Historic Pritzlaff , Marquette demeanor and appearance. Will the company your event, and creating specialty cocktails is you’re hiring actually provide you and your something of an art form; one that Gary has University, the Pfister Hotel, and various others perfected. “It’s a custom craft,” he explains. choose Gary’s experienced and talented staff guests with great service all throughout the to fill positions for major events. But whatever “And it’s why we do custom beverage packages preparing process? Gary knows goes amazing the occasion is for a celebration, Gary declares, service goes beyond serving a good drink. as well - no two weddings are the same.” Couples can pick their preferred types of “A fun and professional bartending service is “Recently a couple ran behind the bar to give me a hug. It took me a second to realize that I liquor, wine and beer to be served according one important piece that can help make an had organized their daughter’s wedding years to their budget and personal preferences. event extremely memorable.”

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real weddings come alive Wedding Table Décor Designed to Your Vision by

Laura Vietmeyer

magine the moment that your guests enter your reception space with their place cards in hand. What will they see when they take their seats? What is the overall feel of your space and how does your wedding décor speak to that atmosphere? Your choice in wedding décor can bring unexpected touches to make your reception memorable for you and your guests by exhibiting your personal style or by tying together a theme or feel for your entire day. This comes from a collaboration of wedding planning and design along with the bride and groom and their families. We’ve pulled together four looks from four wedding planners for real-life weddings that were inspired by the unique requests of the brides, grooms and their families. The décor speaks to each venue, from tent, to home, to barn, to hotel, creating a look and experience to fit the theme and space. From opulent, over the top designs to a rustic, antique feel, or from a romantic, elegant feel to a vintage meets modern look, each design is unique and befitting the couple. There is no limit to how detailed elements such as flowers, candles, menus, and linens can be implemented and tailored to create a seamless look and feel. A professional can help you reach your ultimate design goals. Wedding planners and event designers can work directly with you and your family using their skills to create a design to meet, and often exceed, your expectations. The four very different but equally fabulous looks on the following pages can be used to help inspire your own ideas to pull unique details into your design. Consider your overall style as a couple to help guide you as you peruse the designs on the following wedding décor pages from Dynamic Events by David Caruso, Golden Chic Events & Consulting, Let’s Have An Affair, and Cherry Blossom Events. Which elements really speak to you? Use those elements as a starting point to begin brainstorming your own ideas to make your wedding decor speak to your overall vision.

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* Veil Magazine Advertiser

Calligraphy* The Blooming Quill

Fabric Treatments & draping* Barking Pony Studios

Lighting* Majic Productions

Vintage rentals Á La Crate Vintage Rentals

Caterer Brocach Catering

Floral décor* Dahlia Blooms

Linens* BBJ – Table Fashions

Wedding Cake Cakes by Erin Salerno

coffee bar Roast Coffee Catering

Invitations & Stationery Paperwhites

Photography* Front Room Photography

Wedding Planning and Design* Dynamic Events by David Caruso

Equipment Rentals* Canopies Events with Distinction

Large Format Décor Printing Sign-A-Rama Downtown

Venue* Historic Pritzlaff

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d y na m i c e v en t s b y d av i d ca r u s o Décor Inspiration This completely custom wedding experience was inspired by the bride and groom’s personal style, her love for “glitzy and glamorous” décor, the family's rich Italian heritage and the request to transform the industrial environment into a reception space that was unexpected and unique.

golden ch ic e v en t s & c o n s u lt i n g Décor Inspiration Dramatic and glamorous with rich floral, a veritable tent city, and elegantly warm lighting, this wedding was hosted on family property with a Gatsby-like vista of candles, flowers and pumpkins.

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Caterer* Shully’s Cuisine Events

draping* Barking Pony

Invitations & Stationery Fabick’s Design

Photography Artist Group Photography

Ceremony Location Private Family Property

Favors Burke’s Candy

Lighting* Sound by Design

tents & rentals Arena Americas

Event Planner* Golden Chic Events & Consulting

Floral décor Sendik’s of Mequon

Linen Rentals* BBJ – Table Fashions

VENUE Location Private Family Property

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le t ' s h av e a n a f fa i r Décor Inspiration Soft Pinks and Ivories enhance the Imperial Ballroom at The Pfister setting the stage for romance, elegance and sophistication.

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Event Planner* Let’s Have An Affair

Linen & chargers Rentals* BBJ – Table Fashions

Reception Location* The Pfister, Imperial Ballroom

Floral décor* Belle Fiori,LTD

Photography Apple Tree Studios

Wedding Cake* The Cake Lady

Invitations & Stationery Fitzgerald's Fine Stationery

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c h er r y b l o s s o m e v en t s Décor Inspiration We wanted the table décor and accent pieces to have a masculine style - keeping things simple yet layered in leather and metal and glass accents.

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Event Design and Styling* Cherry Blossom Events

Linens Event Essentials

Vintage Rentals a la crate vintage rentals

Floral décor Flora by Jamae

Invitations & Stationery Sugar River Stationers

Venue Quivey’s Grove

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Accessorize Your Venue: Patterns, Textures & Opulence! by Maria Garces

very single guest at your wedding will sit or stand at a table. They’ll get up close and personal with your candles, your flowers, and most importantly, your linens. The choice you make for your table décor will be based around the gorgeous cloths draped over every surface. Vase colors, floral design, and even charger rentals will all be based on the solid foundation of your linen decision. The linens that you choose are the starting point for the rest of your wedding décor. To hear more about what linen trends are up and coming, Veil Magazine spoke with Heidi Hunter, Senior Sales Manager and Delma Zia, Designer of BBJ Linen, the premier linen vendor in Milwaukee. BBJ is dedicated to giving each bride and groom impeccable service. From the initial consultation to the myriad of changes after booking, the staff is there to make sure you’re both treated like a prince and princess in a fairytale from day one. Diving into the topic of linens, when asked about what patterns are showing up in bridal palettes, Heidi explained that traditional patterns, interior inspired fabrics, the “new” neutrals, and sequins are becoming more popular. New neutrals are tints and shades of bolder colors without that pastel, Easter egg look. Other trends include rose gold tints, mixed metals, lace, and monochromatic tablescape designs. You might also have sweetheart tables or unique tables at your venue, which can hold the likes of sweets, escort cards, and favors. Delma added, “More people are decorating these tables and using custom or different cloths than the linen for the seated tables.” She also explained that photo courtesy of Boutique Photographer Linda gumieny

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sweetheart tables are making a comeback, bedecked in gorgeous, one-ofa-kind table draping. Brides are also using these tables as an opportunity to bring more colors and patterns to the room. When it comes to textures, Heidi is adamant that different textures are be added to every possible location in wedding design. “Textures are being added to the mix of fabrics, like shantungs, bengalines, laces, jacquards, damasks, sequins, and sheers.” Texture is something your guests will appreciate as they dine and chat during the cocktail hour or reception. The weight, style, and feel of your linens will be something every guest becomes rather intimate with throughout the night, so you’ll want to choose something that screams of uniqueness! For that extra punch, various styles of glass plate chargers could add an extra special touch that the table design needs to go from nice to opulent. If chargers are not your thing, an over-the-top vibe is easy to achieve with many layers of fabrics, beyond just finding beautiful linens. Heidi explains that with the help of two to three layers of solids or sheers and artful draping, a beautiful romantic fairytale feel emerges. This look is especially satisfying on those specialty tables. Linens will allow you to create the ambience you desire from the ground up. They are the backbone of your wedding décor design, the base for your color palette, and will add the extra pop of elegance you crave. Give your guests something lovely to touch and gorgeous to gaze upon throughout the entire night. Having stylish and rich linens will tie everything together.

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under one canopy Equipment Rental to Make Your Wedding Day One-of-a-Kind by Michelle

Drewek

Close your eyes and begin to imagine your wedding day. You can see how your color palette translates through

each detail, hear your family and friends laughing, smell the amazing floral arrangements; every sight, sound and smell is so distinctive. No one knows distinction better than Canopies Events with Distinction. With 20-plus years of industry experience, these experts in party rental equipment are more than just a tent and furniture company, they are creators, with a large assortment of offerings. They can take your venue or outside event and work with you to create an unbelievable day. The family-owned company was founded by the Hudak family in 1995. Since its inception, Ken’s charming wife, Joan, has been managing the tabletop side of things, making sure everything is in pristine condition, properly stored and ready for your big day. Joan’s talents extend beyond the business into her role as mother and grandmother. Joan raised her six children to treat others as they would like to be treated, a philosophy that shines through in her successful family business. The Canopies women include Joan and her daughters, david hudak Margo, Shelly, Danielle, Jackie and granddaughter Martha, all of whom greet customers with a contagious enthusiasm. Ken and Joan’s sons, David, who has perfected the technical side of event planning, and Steve, who handles the production schedule, delivery teams and truck fleet, and Doug, Ken and Joan's nephew, who is responsible for sales and numerous front office duties, round out this brilliantly successful team. Together, Joan, Margo, Dave, Steve, Ken and the rest the Canopies team can turn any outdoor area into a grand affair. Throughout the years, Canopies has worked with many planners, venues and vendors. Because of these relationships, they know what can be done and will go above and beyond their call of duty for you, working alongside your wedding day team. Their experience and respected reputation within the industry is another testament to not only how brilliant their work has been, but how transcendent they can make your event. And, Canopies brings more than exceptional knowledge to the table. As your guests sit down to dinner they will be wining from stemware and dining from high-end china thanks to their large, eclectic collection of glassware and china. continued on page 64

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elegance gold dinnerware havana weave white china Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Manhattan Flatware, Black Marbella Baroque Gold Flatware, Glass w/ Gold Beads 13" Glitter Charger

But, an event with distinction wouldn’t be complete without a floor to dance the night away on. Canopies will make sure that from first bite to last dance, you and your guests are taken care of. They truly are the culmination of your wedding’s foundation. Best of all, their undying passion for their work makes every event not only one of detailed execution, but beautiful splendor. What brings it all together is their unsurpassed customer service. It begins and ends with you, and they aren’t satisfied until they know they have gone above and beyond to make your once-in-a-lifetime, happily ever after a complete sensation. They will work with you to see that each of your requests is taken care of, be it through them or with the help of one of their many industry connections. Canopies will always recommend the best for each event, whether or not they actually have it. For them, it’s not about selling; its’ about what’s best for the final results. Margo Hudak is one of the first people you will meet when booking a rental. Her pleasant, outgoing personality makes her a natural at her job of fielding phone calls, and directing customers to the appropriate person at Canopies to assist them, or working with them herself if the event is a smaller one, for example, a rehearsal dinner or baby shower. Margo is happy to assist customers in whatever method they prefer, margo h udak whether it is a personal meeting, call, email, or even a text. The most rewarding part of her day is interacting with her clients to deliver them great customer service and quality rentals that go above and beyond what they could have imagined. Eric Follett joined the Canopies team in 2008 doing deliveries and working on the set up crew. It didn’t take long for his potential to shine through, and he was promoted to crew chief the next summer in 2009. Having his own truck with a crew and doing all of the set up gave him an even greater look into not only how important this business was to making a couple’s wedding day exceptional, but the amount of creativity that can be employed while doing it.

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delano glassware

white china Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Spencer Flatware, Vegas Charger Plate 13"

square white China Cup & Saucer, Bread & Butter Plate, Baquette Flatware, Square Dinner Plates 10"

Now in his current role as Sales Coordinator/Project Manager, Eric is fully immersed in the planning and creating side of things. When a bride and groom come to canopies, they have the privilege of meeting with Eric to determine what their needs are. From first meeting to the big day, he is the liaison between the couple and the venue location, ensuring no detail goes overlooked. eric follett For most clients, knowing what is possible and how things can be done is educational. This is where Eric’s expertise comes in. “Every job is different, and one of my favorite things is to implement items and things that make the venue and location better than the clients’ expectations, and exceeding what the families are looking for,” Eric explains. When it comes to conceptualizing your setup, Eric will find out what your wants and needs are and make suggestions while keeping it on budget. He provides drawings so you, as the client, can get a better idea of what is possible. Because he has had the benefit of being with Canopies since 2008, Eric is very familiar with most of the venues in southeastern Wisconsin, and knows want can and can’t be done. “I love taking an idea and turning it into an actual event,” Eric says. “No job is too small or too big, and the gratitude in the end is always with the challenges that we have gone through.” Canopies’ and Eric’s successes all boil down to thorough preparation. You can rest assured that no scenario is overlooked. He has learned to prepare for 20 different scenarios, even though only one is ever used. Because you are dealing with the weather and so many other variables, it is so important to have everything thought out and planned for. “We are ready for anything at Canopies and it is all about making the client happy,” Eric says. “Everything is possible, but it all depends on how much effort you put into it. Here at Canopies, we have top-notch people who put the extra effort in and go the extra mile.”

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Majic Productions specializes in creative solutions for sound, video, and lighting production. Majic believes that a beautifully lit wedding reception with crisp, clean sound support is a necessity, rather than an option, for any successful event. Boasting only the highest-end equipment and a professionally trained staff, Majic is the clear choice for any special event. Brookfield native, Mike Jurken, had dreams of becoming an entrepreneur at a very early age. His passion for music and perfection was sparked at age 11 when he volunteered to DJ at his school’s dance. Starting with just a boom box and a few cassettes, Mike transformed his entrepreneurial dreams into his first business, DJ Majic. As a result of DJ Majic’s success, Mike was able to create Majic Productions, one of Milwaukee’s largest entertainment corporations – which encompasses a professional sound, video, and lighting production company. Majic Productions specializes in creative special event solutions. The company’s vast portfolio encompasses weddings, parties, concerts, charity galas, corporate events and many other functions. Majic Productions uses only the highest-end lighting and sound equipment and has a staff of professionals ranging from lighting designers to sound technicians who are always available and willing to answer questions, give suggestions, or act as a comprehensive resource to clients.

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One of Majic’s greatest accomplishments in the Wisconsin wedding industry is the company’s reputation for sincere customer service as well as its ability to transform a bride and groom’s vision for their wedding day into a reality. “I always feel so honored knowing that my staff and I helped make someone’s wedding day even more special. We really love to work with our clients and listen to their ideas. I truly believe that we take the time to understand each couple’s wedding desires and by doing so, we are able to create the perfect atmosphere and ambiance while also creating a stunning visual impact,” Mike Jurken says. Majic Productions offers a vast array of bridal services including sound support, uplighting, custom monogram lighting, or even a screen and projector rental for a reception slideshow. There is always someone available at Majic Productions to answer any questions either by phone, email, text message, or in person.

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when just a room won’t do! A Unique Approach to Décor & Design by

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- barking pony studios

sketches and photos courtesy of kathy maersch - barking pony studios

No bride has ever come to us and said "I need help planning an incred-

ibly average wedding". Experience tells us that this will probably never happen. Whether your tastes are traditional, romantic, whimsical, or cutting-edge glamorous, we will take your vision from concept drawing to reality, flawlessly. We set that standard for our clients 18 years ago, to the benefit of countless couples on their very special day. Today, brides enjoy a great variety of venues from which to choose when planning both their ceremony and reception. Among these are tents, hotel ballrooms, private residences, museums, country clubs, restaurants, warehouse spaces, and all manner of outdoor sites. No matter the choice you make, Barking Pony Studios is uniquely qualified to provide design and decor services that will meet your every need and exceed your expectations.

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The creative journey begins with a conversation about what you wish to accomplish. We offer suggestions, based on past experience, about what may or may not work, and why. Typically, we will measure and photograph the space and discuss any particular do's and don'ts regarding installation with the facility staff. Founding artist Kathy Maersch will then provide you with one or more proposal drawings, as well as material samples for your consideration. At this time it is necessary to discuss your budget in order to provide you with the best value possible. We communicate with all participating vendors and planners to offer a seamless, no-hassle installation of your unique design. One must realize that even though this day is all your own, you will be sharing it with the people who are the closest and most important to you both. With that in mind, we will create, for you, something truly

unforgettable. Our signature designs incorporate the use of fine fabrics, crystals, and natural materials in any combination you can imagine. We also design and build specialty props, unique lighting fixtures, and offer backdrop painting for that one of a kind photo-op. Our portfolio is quite extensive in all these areas, and more. Just ask, and we would be very happy to share it with you! Many venues contain features that just don't fit in the photographs that will grace your wedding album. We make these undesirable nuisances go away, and there are often many of them. Imagine the beautiful fabric treatment that you have selected, seamlessly softening the atmosphere of your chosen space. We don't stop at the walls, as ceilings often need attention too. Your guests will be taking it all in, and a well

designed ceiling treatment can bring the room to life, while offering a measure of intimacy and individuality that so many spaces simply lack. We have designed, built, and installed custom tailored Chuppas, Mandaps, and wedding canopies that serve as spectacular focal points, in a wide variety of sizes and in numerous venues. These structures are incredibly versatile, and can feature fabric treatments as well as floral arrangements and special lighting. This is your day, and when a room just won't do, contacting the artistic team at Barking Pony Studios should be the first step in creating memories that last a lifetime. Call us at 414-302-0778, or visit us online at Barking Pony Brides.com. And if you were wondering, we will even tell you what inspired our name...

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From the engagement ring to the bridal gown, to the favors and bridal party accessories, Kate and Keelan’s wedding was vintage-inspired and one-of-a-kind. Kate always knew she wanted to make her own wedding dress, and the sketch she drew even became the background for their invitations. It comes as no surprise to those that know the bride, a designer and vintage clothing store owner with a knack for DIY craftiness. Speaking from their experience and enthusiasm for ingenuity, the couple has one piece of advice for future brides and grooms: to make their wedding day “their own.”

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How did he/she propose? He did a very low-key proposal, which was very fitting for us. He came over, took the computer off of my lap, and was holding two rings: one his great grandmother’s and one his grandmother’s. He knows I’m very into vintage, recycling, and DIY, so he told me we could use the gold and the stones from both rings from in his family to combine and design our own perfect ring. I was so incredibly surprised and excited, and the ring idea was so perfect for me. Did you use social media to announce your engagement? For the social media announcement, I put on some nail art that was gold and black lettering in elvish from Lord of the Rings. My nails read “One Ring to Rule Them All” and a friend of mine posted my manicure to Instagram. What resource did you find most helpful in planning your wedding? My mom is an incredible planner, and my bridesmaids were very helpful planning my shower and bachelorette party and assisting with all the DIY aspects of it. What style was your wedding? Even though we were having a big wedding (about 200 guests), we still wanted it to feel comfortable and unique. With my last name being Goldwater, we kind of had a gold theme: my dress was gold, my bridesmaids shoes were gold, his tie and socks were gold, our groomsmen’s ties were gold, our chuppah was gold, the aisle was gold, our flower girl dropped gold petals, and we gave out gold flasks. We also had a groom’s cake in the shape of a foosball table because Keelan loves foosball, and it was actually playable! Did you include any special traditions or customs? I grew up Jewish and Keelan grew up Catholic, so we wanted to honor both of those backgrounds without having a religious ceremony. We had one of our good friends officiate the wedding non-denominationally, but we stood under a chuppah that we

made for our ceremony and had a traditional Irish Catholic blessing as a reading. He broke the glass and we did the hora! Were there any aspects of DIY that you incorporated and if so why and how? So much! To name a few, as a designer and vintage clothing store owner I knew I wanted to make my own dress as well as incorporate vintage as much as possible. I made my dress out of a 1980s Gunne Sax white lace dress, my gold high school prom dress, and gold lame, satin and lace. I also made a shorter version of my dress so I could have something to dance in for the reception. I made the flower girl’s dress to match mine, using the extra material. I also stitched the ring bearer pillows out of the leftover gold and white lace. Because Keelan and I met playing soccer, I designed my wedding shoes out of a pair of soccer cleats; painted them gold, removed the studs and added a 3-inch white heel. How many people did you have in your wedding party? We didn’t have a maid of honor or best man, rather we had “siblings of honor” and bridesmaids/ groomsmen. We had 5 siblings of honor and 6 bridesmaids and 7 groomsmen. We also considered our officiant as a member of our wedding party.

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As brides, we often describe the desire to feel like a princess on our wedding day. Milwaukee’s Magnificent Bride Wedding Show spares no measure to ensure every bride that walks through The Pfister Hotel’s historical doors is treated like royalty. Even with hundreds of brides and an impressive lineup of vendors, you never feel the loud and crowded atmosphere expos often portray. With champagne in hand, a gift bag that is sure to make your entourage jealous, and many of Milwaukee’s finest artisans and wedding professionals at your fingertips, this event is truly the pinnacle of what a wedding show should be. As you move through the Pfister’s immaculate ballrooms and ornate hallways, all the experts you need to meet each of your wedding day details are there to serve you. One such wedding extraordinaire, Wisconsin’s premiere wedding planner David Caruso of Dynamic Events, put on two sensational workshops in the afternoon full of ideas and knowledge that everyone involved in your wedding planning can put to use. One of my favorite parts of the day was sampling the various specialties each vendor had to offer. From caterers and cakes to flowers and photography, beauty and beverages to dresses and decor, you experience each product first-hand and all under one roof. And, don’t leave your groom at home if he is staying involved in the planning process. This event is designed to get both parties involved and included—a true novelty in my wedding show attendance experience. As a bride-to-be, Milwaukee’s Magnificent Bride Wedding Show is a mustattend. You will leave feeling more empowered, more informed, and better prepared for the planning that lies ahead. Best of all, it will re-ignite that special bridal spark that truly defines the experience that only planning your own wedding can provide.

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Having finished their first half marathon that Mother’s Day weekend in 2012, they decided that evening to enjoy a bonfire at sunset while at her family’s lake house in northern Wisconsin. As the sky turned pink, with Grandma slyly watching through the window, Jim began to get down on one knee. He didn’t need to stay down there long, because Carolyn exuberantly chanted, “Yes, yes, yes!” while pulling him up into her arms. It truly set the stage for their wedding day. With loved ones watching over them while in each other’s arms, Carolyn and Jim danced the night away by the Milwaukee lakefront, celebrating the beginning of their next chapter in the ultimate marathon.Did he/she ask permission from parent/s before the proposal? Yes, Jim asked Carolyn’s dad. What style was your wedding? Classic, garden formal, simple chic, European chic Did you have a “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue? Carolyn had a vintage sterling silver lingerie pin she wore underneath her dress. Her shoes were a new wedding gift from Jim. She borrowed the cathedral veil from here sister’s best friend Dana, and had a hand-embroidered blue label that said, “Carolyn and James June 8th, 2013.” Also, the unmentionables and garter were blue! Were there any aspects of DIY that you incorporated and if so why and how? Carolyn’s sisters made bride and groom signs for the chairs, special signs for the wedding favors and Thank You cards. Did you do anything special during the ceremony (unity candle, sand pouring, etc.)? We had cousins and uncles do readings at the ceremony. It was so special to have the whole family involved! What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? The Vintage car; a Brooks Stevens Excalibur built in Wisconsin. Owner

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Ron Kuchenreuther from Cedarburg, Wis., drove it. The colors matched our theme perfectly and Jim works in the auto industry, so it was especially important to him. Immediately after we were married in the church, Ron drove us down the lakefront and it was misty and breezy — perfect to cool off and be together! What was the most important item for your wedding that you knew you just had to splurge on? The flowers, they were so beautiful, fresh smelling and so fun! What was your biggest surprise when planning your wedding? We never knew what band we were going to have, Carolyn’s Parents kept it a surprise the whole time Until we showed up! We had three bands at our wedding, a cocktail hour trio, a Mark Davis jazz band for dancing and toasts and a mixture of Milwaukee musicians that Carolyn’s dad put together including Robin Pluer. Were there any funny things or moments that happened at your wedding? After dessert was served, when Grandpa thought we weren’t looking, I saw him swipe his finger on the anniversary top of our beautiful wedding cake and smack his lips. He must not have not known that we would be eating the top one year from now on our anniversary. What part of your wedding day was worth every penny? The venue for the reception; it made our wedding pictures. It was on the lakefront, and there were tons of rooms to tour and the gardens with the statues. We didn’t have to decorate much because the backdrop was so amazing! What would be one piece of advice that you would offer to future brides? Enjoy the process, and make it fun! Research all your options and get advice from people who have recently gotten married, but ultimately, do what you and your fiancé want so you will be happy! The groom suggests getting plenty of sleep the night before, and having good friends with you the day of. VeilMagazine.com

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trust the experts By Hiring a Qualified Wedding Planner by

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re you obsessing over venues, menus, flowers, décor and everything wedding-related? So many details go into planning a wedding that it can be difficult to manage event coordination along with your career and personal life. Save time and eliminate anxiety by hiring a professional to guide you through the process. A planner works closely with you to help bring your dream wedding to life. The ideal wedding planner is reliable, stylish, personable, professional, organized and detail-oriented. It is vital to choose the right person so you can enjoy the excitement of your wedding day without worry. Several of Milwaukee’s best; David Caruso of Dynamic Events, Sara Dahmen of Golden Chic Events & Consulting, Chris Albrecht of Let’s Have an Affair, and Andrea VandeBerg and Sarah Sarbacker of Cherry Blossom Events, offer insider tips on how to select the right planner. When vetting a planner, look for someone with experience. Be sure they have references and find out how long they have been in the business. The caliber of wedding planners varies. Beware of hiring a friend as a planner. Chris Albrecht cautions, “Remember that even if someone managed to successfully plan their own wedding, that doesn’t mean they have the ability to orchestrate other people’s events.” Professional planners are prepared for any situation, as they have encountered many challenges throughout their years in the business. According to David Caruso, "There is no substitute for experience and reputation. A well-respected wedding planner will have much more success working with vendors than a ‘new customer’ without much focus or knowledge." Experienced planners embrace opportunities to network with vendors and uncover trends to figure out what will work best for your event. Chris Albrecht says, “We attend educational seminars to keep up-to-date on what’s hot on the East and West coasts. But just because something is trendy doesn’t mean it fits your particular event. That’s why it’s important for a planner to know how to help the bride and groom find their own style and apply it in a way that works for their wedding, for a timeless and beautiful event. ” When interviewing planners, it is important to determine their business acumen. Sara Dahmen recommends to, “Ask how payments to vendors are made, how the planner charges, what exactly the planner does on the wedding day, what paperwork the planner provides, and to see an updated portfolio of work. ” You should receive a clear, direct answer to these questions. In addition to discussing the technical points, determine if you are comfortable with the planner. Andrea VandeBerg and Sarah Sarbacker agree, “It's always best to hire a planner that you ‘click’ with. This is so important because you will be working closely with this person and it’s such a personal and momentous occasion in your life. You want it to be fun and enjoyable along the way. Having a planner that you can be open and honest with is important.” You will likely build a bond with your wedding planner that extends beyond a professional relationship. Sara Dahmen says, “We absolutely love our personal connections with the couples, and we foster that by spending a lot of time with them, even hosting dinners in our homes just to hang out. We remain in touch with most of our couples forever, even after their big day.” Great wedding planners love what they do, and this enthusiasm carries through to your event. David Caruso truly enjoys “Bringing your vision to a whole new level that exceeds your wildest dreams.” He continues, “The best thing a couple can do for themselves is to hire a qualified wedding planner that can maximize their budget, create their ultimate fantasy experience and have fun while doing it.” Be sure to say “I Do” to hiring a qualified wedding planner. Photography bY ambiance studios-scott & cathy erickson

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This is what you get - and then some - when you work with Golden Chic Events. We love to take on your paperwork, coorinate your tastings and be your unbiased voice of reason all while keeping you focused, stress-free and relaxed. Sara Dahmen, owner, and Golden Chic’s executive planners are well versed, well connected and nationally award winning with a Silver Anvil from the PRSA for Best Charity Event in the United States. “We’ll have you over for dinner, talk linens over drinks and will help you plan your day so it’s the gorgeous special wedding you’ve always thought it would be,” Sara explains. With her face and work on national television and blogs, her position as the Event Professional for the Wisconsin chapter of NACE, and Golden Chic’s state-wide reputation for unique and unexpected design, you’ll have a warm, wonderful journey to your wedding.

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Chris Albrecht let's have an affair

Chris Albrecht and Let’s Have an Affair are no longer Southeastern Wisconsin’s best kept secret after winning The Knot’s, Best of Weddings. With a tag line like, “We listen, We create, You celebrate” she is a clients dream come true for planning the perfect wedding day. All of the pressure of planning and executing the wedding is shifted from the bride and her family to Chris allowing everyone involved

to enjoy a stress free event. From the time a bride gets engaged until they are on their way to their honeymoon there is an overwhelming and cumbersome amount of details and planning involved. Chris will alleviate that making the planning experience one that is smooth, organized, relaxing and fun. Her vendor contacts locally are extensive and she will effortlessly guide you to whoever best meets your needs best through the planning process. There is nothing too small or too big for Chris as she has covered a wide range of parties over her many years of being in the special events industry. When asked about her experience with Chris, a client noted that, “Throughout the entire planning process, Chris will dazzle you with her devotion to detail. She has the uncanny knack with staying five steps ahead of everything. Her

persistent follow-through allows you to sit back and enjoy the planning process.” Chris informs all of her clients to “Be a guest at your own wedding.” Clients can be assured every detail will be attended to throughout the planning process. Behind the scenes she will be covering all the fine particulars so that everything runs seamlessly from start to finish. Let Chris be your one stop shop for all your wedding and planning needs. Save yourself time, money and stress by selecting Let’s Have an Affair to partner with you to create memories that will last a lifetime and allow you to truly cherish each moment of your memorable day. For more information, contact Chris Albrecht at 262-691-3303 or visit her website www. letshaveanaffair.com

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Andrea VandeBerg & Sarah Sarbacker cherry blossom events

Andrea VandeBerg and Sarah Sarbacker of Cherry Blossom Events are passionate about creating beautiful and cohesive weddings that truly express each couple’s unique personality. They take great pride in planning elegant events filled with rich meaning for both newlyweds and their guests. Your wedding day is an incredibly special occasion, and you deserve only the best as you celebrate your love and commitment to one another. Their goal is to make you the priority on that unforgettable day by providing you with the expert guidance you need. All you have to do is enjoy the wedding of your dreams. “From the very beginning I felt extremely at ease and comfortable with Cherry Blossom Events. You can immediately tell how passionate they are about what they do. As a bride, I was so pleased that they were as concerned as I was about pulling together the entire wedding. The amount of passion and hard work they put into events is truly impressive. If you want to work with individuals who are experienced, organized,

detail oriented, creative, passionate, hardworking, and FUN, I HIGHLY recommend the Cherry Blossom Events team.” — Amanda Kastner (Bride) At Cherry Blossom Events, our designers treat each wedding as if it is our own. We pay meticulous attention to every detail, because we are completely devoted to making sure your event is absolutely perfect. We believe that understanding and identifying the needs of every client is the key to creating beautiful experiences. We vow to take the time to get to know you, because your wedding should reflect YOUR tastes. Every couple is different, and therefore, each one of our celebrations is one-of-a-kind. We love melding our experience in design with our sense of style and attention to detail, in order to turn your dreams into a reality. “We had vendors who have been in the wedding industry for 20 years tell us that they had never seen more hard-working or organized coordinators – quite a compliment, and very well-deserved.

“every couple is different, and therefore, each one of our celebrations is one-of-a-kind”

On top of it all, they are genuine, caring women and really just wanted to make sure that we were happy with everything.” — Christine Khosropour (Bride)

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Family, Faith & Falling in Love Wedding Planning and design

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From the start, family was an integral part of Paul and Natalie’s relationship. After transferring colleges, Natalie’s sister was quick to tell her about the perfect guy for her—Paul. Once they met, Natalie couldn’t agree more and called her sister to say, “I met the man I’m going to marry.” And, marry him she did. After a proposal in front of Natalie’s immediate family (and a re-enactment for her other sister that couldn’t be there), the ecstatic couple planned their elegant July wedding. Surrounded by 326 loved ones, Natalie and Paul celebrated their marriage with hours of dancing, loads of laughter and delectable food. For these newlyweds, family and faith brought them together, and family and faith will keep them together “until death do us part.” What was the length of your engagement? We were engaged for a year and seven months. During our wedding planning process, I joked with Paul that our wedding day was forever away! He always responded with the same answer, “Well, I could have waited to propose,” to which I immediately would say, “NO!” What style was your wedding? Our wedding style was comfortable formal. Paul and I enjoy eating fancy food and drinking fabulous wine, but it’s even better for us if we can enjoy it in our pajamas. We really wanted a beautiful wedding, but we

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also didn’t want guests to feel like they couldn’t relax, let loose and have a great time. Paul and I would not have been able to have the fabulous wedding that we did without the help of David Caruso and the entire Dynamic Events staff. Did you include any special traditions or customs? Paul and I were both raised in the Christian faith. One thing that was so important to us was to pray with our families right before the ceremony. We were each surrounded be our bridal party and close family. Were there any aspects of DIY that you incorporated and if so why and how? I’m not naturally a crafty person, but for our wedding day I created a small gift for Paul—a wedding day survival kit. Inside the bag, I put a ring pop (incase he forgot the real thing), breath mints (for a fresh first kiss), lifesaver (in case he drowned in emotion), and purple argyle socks (in case he got cold feet). It was a real surprise for Paul when he saw my purple wedding shoes that perfectly matched his purple argyle socks. Did you do anything special during the ceremony (unity candle, sand pouring, etc.)? Paul and I lit a unity candle during our ceremony. We also asked a family friend to sing a song that Paul and I picked during the lighting of our

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unity candle. Our college campus pastor read our scripture verses, and we were married by our close friend and pastor. What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? One detail I knew I personally had to have was a killer father/ daughter dance. My dad and I began our dance with “Daddy’s Little Girl” by Michael Bublé. Just when I began to cry, we had the DJ switch to “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree,” a song that has been important to my dad and me since I was little. What was the most important item for your wedding that you knew you just had to splurge on? Paul and I love eating, and we are so good at it. It was so important to us to have amazing food for our guests. I was surprised at our reception when the servers brought out the intermezzo course of passion fruit sorbet. My dad surprised us by adding it to our wedding meal. (I think it was mostly because he LOVED it during our meal tasting and really wanted it for himself.)

guest list was making the seating arrangement. This took my mom and me weeks! Were there any funny things or moments that happened at your wedding? To kick off our amazing reception, my dad read something to our guests entitled “Ode to Paul.” It was basically a poem of all of the wonderful/ridiculous traits that Paul possesses. Paul and I both had tears in our eyes because we were laughing so hard. What part of your wedding day was worth every penny? You don’t realize how much value there is in a great photographer until your wedding day is over in the blink of an eye. It was at our photography reveal session that we realized how much of our special day he caught. What would be one piece of advice that you would offer to future brides? Make this day about you and your husband. Don’t worry if things don’t go according to plan because you won’t remember what went wrong, you will only remember that you had the best day of your life.

What was your biggest surprise when planning your wedding? I think it was definitely making the guest list. It’s easy to make a list of loved ones to invite to your special day, but it’s so hard to make the list fit into the budget. Following the VeilMagazine.com

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Flawless inside and out Looking the Best You Can on Your Wedding Day by

Katie Carlson

As a bride-to-be, you want to put your best foot forward, or in this

case, your best body and face. And why shouldn’t you want that? After all, let’s face it- you are going to be the primary focus of everyone’s attention on your big day, including those photographers! While a good diet and exercise plan are always important before the big day, most brides overlook the wonderful services that med-spas can provide for those irksome issues, like acne, dry skin, wrinkles or a little trouble fitting into that dress. One such spa in the area helping brides look their best is Lumiere Laser & Vein Center, and we spoke with Mary Steffan, the lead esthetician there, to get

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the scoop on their must-do services, and to get answers to common misconceptions about medi-spa treatments. Mary has been licensed in the field of esthetics for over seventeen years, and has extensive experience in acne management, skin rejuvenation, and facial/skin care and anti-aging treatments. She says that the best part about her job is seeing that her clients are surprised, relieved and excited that Lumiere’s procedures are non-invasive and fairly easy to do. As Mary puts it, “Everyone wants to look and feel their best, and I believe at our clinic we help everyone do that!”

Mary Steffan Medical Aesthetician We asked Mary what the top services are at Lumiere for brides to try out: 1. The Lumiere Signature Facial, 2. Laser Hair Removal 3. Botox, Dysport and Dermal Fillers 4. i-Lipo Ultra is a non-invasive alternative toliposuction that results in slimming, contouring, cellulite reduction, and skin tightening for your body. And the best part- there is no pain, no needles and no down-time! Brides should consider this before a wedding if a little extra help is needed fitting into that gown. i-Lipo Ultra is the intelligent, non-invasive alternative to liposuction WINNER of "Best Slimming Treatment" at Les Victoire De La Beaute in France Now, Mary addresses some common misconceptions about the services that Lumiere offers: “Medical spas are too expensive, and I won’t have any extra money in the budget to get anything done.” Actually services are very affordable…for instance, the Lumiere Signature Facial is only $175 for a personalized treatment to your specific needs. Lumiere also offers financing through Care Credit. “Now that I got the i-Lipo Ultra treatment, I’ll never have to diet or exercise again!” Even though the treatment is great for fat reduction and slimming, you do need to continue a well-balanced diet and exercise to maximize the results.

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“I have acne, and I don’t want to use moisturizer on my face before my wedding because it makes me break out.” The truth is, if you want your face to be acne-free and beautiful, choosing the right products (yes, including moisturizer!) with a professional consultant will help achieve the skin you will love. The folks at Lumiere provide the tools that you need to get the skin you want! “I’m afraid to get Botox- what if it paralyzes my face?” Botox Cosmetic is an FDA approved prescription medicine and gradually takes effect (usually about 7-14 days from treatment). Lumiere consultants go over each patient’s medical history to make sure that they are good candidates for all procedures. And, as with all procedures, resident physician, Dr. Michael J. Phillips, supervises all services to ensure the safest results. Laser Hair Removal if a bride was considering laser hair removal treatments before her wedding how many or when should she start the treatments? If a bride is considering laser hair removal the treatments usually take about six to nine treatments per area. Appointments are scheduled one month Apart After all this great information, what's a bride to do? Call Lumiere to schedule a free bridal consultation, and begin your journey to flawless beauty.

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What’s In a Name? The Details of Documentation and Wedding Paperwork by

Sarah Dahmen

You’re getting married! You’ve tasted the cake, picked the music, selected your bridal party and scheduled your dress fittings. It’s been a whirlwind of romance, gorgeous flowers and happy dreaming. But before you can walk down that aisle, and before you lift off in a jet plane for that divine honeymoon, there’s the bite of reality and paperwork that you need to tackle first. The transition from single to married affects both the bride and the groom and it can be a bit of a daunting task even for those who have already been married before. Each state and county has it’s own little idiosyncrasies, so research in your state and counties of residence will be vital to making sure you have all your documents in order before applying for any legal papers. These pieces of wedding preparation can be confusing and overwhelming, so Veil Magazine has corralled all of the information, leaving you a clear path to understanding what needs to be done, where, when and by whom. PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT For those who wish to have a premarital agreement in place before marriage, the good news is that the state of Wisconsin does not have any mandates for filing procedures. State law considers the agreement to be legally binding in the case of divorce if both the bride and groom enter into the wording and creation of the document without being forced into the signing. The state also does not require a lawyer to make the agreement, but the document must be signed by two witnesses. Keep in mind that a self-authored prenup will hold less weight in a court of law if one side decides to dispute it during divorce. Happily, there is no waiting period between the time the prenup is signed and the wedding date. It could be signed the minutes before you walk down the aisle! It is possible to include a myriad of details in a prenuptial agreement, including both monetary and non-financial requirements, and Wisconsin does not dictate any front room photography

particulars about what is allowed. For instance, number of children, pet custody and division of household chores are all elements that couples can choose to include in the agreement, beyond just the division of property, inheritances and joint savings accounts. The non-financial portion of the agreements are not usually legally binding but do give courts and judges a view into the initial intent of the couple’s frame of mind.

2. Certified copy of a birth certificate 3. S ocial Security card with your legal name 4. Proof of residency with a current address in the county: this is not applicable to out-ofstate residents 5. A filed copy of final judgement of divorce,

MARRIAGE LICENSE Anyone wishing to marry in the state of Wisconsin must apply for a marriage license at a county clerk’s office. Your wedding date must be set before you apply for the license, and the application must be completed at least seven days, but not more than thirty days before the actual wedding date. Once you receive the license in the mail, it’s valid for thirty days after the issue date. Most county clerk offices are open Monday through Friday, but each office has specific hours, so call to check with your specific county. Applications are taken on a first come, first serve basis. You’ll apply for a license in whichever county the bride or the groom is a resident; that license is then valid in any county in Wisconsin. For example, if one or both of you is a resident of Ozaukee County, you’d go to the county clerk’s office in Port Washington. However, the license you receive in Port Washington can be used to get married anywhere, such as halfway across the state in La Crosse. However, if both of you are not residents of Wisconsin, you must apply for the license in the county where you will be married. That particular license is only valid in that county then. So if you both live in New York, but are marrying in Milwaukee, you’d apply for a license in Milwaukee county, and can only use that license in Milwaukee county. Wisconsin does not require any blood tests to get a marriage license, but both the bride and groom must be at least eighteen years old. On an interesting note, you may marry your first cousin in Wisconsin if the woman is older than 55 years of age, or one of you has documented proof of sterilization! Both of you will be required to provide specific paperwork at the time of the application, and below is a quick check list. You must apply for the license together in person, and you must both bring these items along: 1. Valid photo ID, such as a valid driver’s license or passport

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legal annulment or certified death certificate if one of you was previously married; Wisconsin requires six months to pass after the granting of a divorce before another marriage license can be issued, regardless of where the divorce was given 6. Name, address, and telephone number of the officiant performing your wedding ceremony The cost of a marriage license varies in each county, so again, contact the county clerk’s office ahead of time, as cash is usually the only way the fee is accepted. CHANGING YOUR NAME Now that you’ve signed a prenup, gotten married and signed the marriage license, your officiant would have submitted that signed license to the state. It is then your responsibility to get that vital record for your own safe keeping, and in order to start the process to change your name, should you wish. Copies of the license are available three weeks after the wedding date. To receive copies of the marriage license, you must filled out a marriage certificate application form, available at www.dhs.wisconsin.gov/forms/ F0/F05281.pdf, and mail it with a photocopy.

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A Radiant Regime Guiding you to a Fresh and Flawless Wedding Day Look by

Michelle Drewek

Being in love instantly adds a radiant glow to those struck by cupid’s arrow. When your wedding day arrives,

you want that glow to shine brighter than ever, but how? To keep that refreshed and flawless from dawn till dusk, the answer is preparation. Truly capturing a picture-perfect appearance depends on your skin care, makeup application and hairstyle. Be sure to give yourself time to prepare; the perfect glow just doesn’t happen overnight. It begins with a great skin care regimen using a quality product line. First, find a cleanser geared toward your skin type. Next, exfoliate, exfoliate, exfoliate, again paying attention to skin type. Most importantly, use a great moisturizer. There are different moisturizers created for all skin types, from dry to oily or combination, but radiance relies in replenishment—don’t skimp or skip! Talk with a skin-care professional to help point you in the right direction and get you started on a plan toward a beautiful complexion. Once you properly care for your skin and begin enjoying the magnificent results, you can move on to truly capturing a picture-perfect appearance. This flawless face also relies on your makeup application and the products used. Makeup artists don their title for a reason; they’re pros at prepping your makeup, so choosing a local professional is a must. A professional makeup artist has the knowledge and experience, the tips and tricks, and personalized products right for you. Now that you have prepped your face and chosen your makeup pallet, your headpiece and hairstyle go hand-in-hand. Together they become the cherry on the sundae. With your headpiece decided on, you should start thinking about what hairstyle will most flatter both your face and your overall ensemble. Keep in mind your makeup pallet and the color of your dress. You want your hair to complement your look, not overpower it. Pick out a few different looks and share them with your stylist. Schedule your trial hairstyle a few months in advance, and bring your veil as well as any photos you like. Remain open to new ideas. You may hate up-dos, or only be open to up-dos, but be willing to take chances—at least during your trial run. Preparation and practice make perfect.

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Spargo Salon and Spa is the perfect place to retreat, relax and renew

before taking the first step into the rest of your life. As you enter Spargo, warm welcoming smiles will greet you while the sound of the flowing water eases you into relaxation. Designed to look and feel like the ancient Roman Bath houses, Spargo Salon and Spa will captivate you by showcasing several authentic ancient Roman artifacts, frescos, waterfalls and water features. More than just wedding day hair and makeup, Spargo provides a full array of services to prepare and pamper before the big day. The talent of the staff is unsurpassed; from the healing hands of the massage therapists, the magic of the makeup artists, to the in-vogue hair design. Spargo knows how important it is for every bride to look and feel like the most beautiful woman in the world.

Planning a wedding can be a stressful time. Relax and unwind before the big day with a recommended Queen for a Day or Bridal Escape Spa Package. Or, share the time away with one of Spargo’s Couples services. Designed for two, Spargo’s Signature Room features a double massage area, a fireplace and two Kohler Infinity Sok Tubs. Recognizing the importance to detail and accuracy, Spargo’s Bridal Coordinator will work with you to ensure all the days and hours leading up to your big day are flawless. The first step is securing your day and requested appointment times. To assist in this process, Spargo will provide you with a simple bridal worksheet. Let Spargo Salon and Spa whisk away all your wedding worries, leaving you relaxed, renewed and ready to walk down the aisle.

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Love Found In Serendipity JT and Theresa met during their college days at Marquette University, and they kept seeing each other in all of the same places while out and about. After numerous accidental run-ins, Theresa was the first to muster up the courage to ask him out. They went out for coffee, started going on bike rides, and JT invited Theresa over for dinner (with stinky cheese plates for dessert). The couple tied the knot on a pristine June day at St. Mary’s Visitation Parish, followed by a reception at the Grain Exchange.

Did he/she ask permission from parent/s before the proposal? JT asked for my parents’ blessing on a trip back to Wisconsin. I wasn’t supposed to know about it, but I found out eventually. What style was your wedding? The style was vintage-romantic, and also very community-oriented. What were the colors of the wedding? Slate gray, coral and pinks, gold and green. How many people did you have in your wedding party? Eight bridesmaids and groomsmen, two ring bearers, a flower girl, and four ushers. What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? In celebration of the Grain Exchange’s history, we knew that we wanted to make home brew for our wedding favor. And, we really wanted to have some gypsy jazz music. What was the most important item for your wedding? The number of people who were invited! We both come from strong communities, so it was bound to be a big wedding.

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What was it like planning at the same time as your sister? It was a special time for us together as a family, as sisters, and in our own individual ways. Coming from a big family, there is typically a lot going on at any given moment. It was a little chaotic at times, but we tried to keep the stress to a minimum and to enjoy the process. Being able to share in the experience together was a beautiful thing. Would you do something so close together again? Wish you had had a dual wedding instead? We’re not sure if we could have found a venue that would have been big enough to accommodate a dual wedding! Were there any funny things or moments that happened at your wedding? When it was time for JT and me to do vows and place wedding rings on each other’s ring fingers, JT almost put his wedding band on my finger. Also, one of the guests who didn’t really know JT really well came up to him at the reception and said, “Don’t I know you from somewhere? Man, you look familiar.” His wife yelled, “Sweetie, that’s the groom!” How many guests did you invite to the wedding? 325?!?!?! Continued on page 98

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Love Found In Language Service and community have always been important to Annie and Chris, and it ultimately led them to one another. The two first met each other while in language training for a 2 ½ year volunteer stint in Honduras at an orphanage called the Farm of the Child. Over the time that they spent volunteering, their friendship blossomed into romance. In August 2012, while back working at the orphanage, Annie and Chris took a run together and after jumping in a river to cool off, Chris proposed, kneeling in the river, ring in hand. A little over a year after that, the couple tied the knot in a heartfelt Catholic ceremony, followed by outdoor cocktails with lawn games, dinner and much revelry at Boerner Botanical Gardens.

When did you know that he was the one? And she was the one? A: I think it started when I saw him working with the kids in Honduras. C: I just slowly realized that I didn’t want to have a time in my life without Annie in it. What were the colors of the wedding? We had a classic/traditional wedding with a modern twist. We went with classic all white flowers. The bridal party was the only pop of color as far as the flowers go. In the all white Pavilion we went with deep purple/fuchsia linens to brighten up the Pavilion venue. Did he/she ask permission from parent/s before the proposal? Yes- Chris got up extra early to go on a “walk” with my parents one morning on a trip up north and asked for their blessing. Who was the first person or group of people you told you were engaged? The first people that we told were our travel companions and some of the volunteers and kids at the orphanage. Once we got to a phone, we called our families – and there was a lot of yelling…in a good way! What were the colors of the wedding? Dark blue with fall accents of gold, yellow, and orange.

What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? Flowers – I was so happy to find Laurel with Bloom Floral & Event Design, because she had a great vision for our flowers and was more than happy to try to source everything as locally as possible. Were there any symbolic or traditional aspects of your wedding? When my grandmother was married, she was given a little gold four-leaf clover pin to wear in her shoe during the ceremony as a good luck charm. My sister Theresa and I both continued the family tradition this year. What was it like planning at the same time as your sister? We were each other’s maids of honor, and so from the start, we were trying to be supportive of each other. Sometimes it was hard to balance everything, with the two weddings and both of us being in graduate school – but our parents (and grooms) were amazing, and it all came together. Would you do something so close together again? Wish you had had a dual wedding instead? There are lots of things that I would love to do at the same time as Theresa: be in grad school, have a baby…I wouldn’t go through the Continued on page 99 VeilMagazine.com

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If you had one thing to splurge on what would it have been? A live band, but we ended up loving our DJ. What would be one piece of advice that you would offer to future brides? Seriously, don’t stress too much about the little details and know your limits. The wedding day is a beautiful event, but it is just the day. The wedding is really just a day to celebrate the lifetime commitment that you’ve made to each other. That is the important part! Any other comments? Thank you to Katie and the Golden Chic Events crew! We couldn’t have done it without you!

Resources * Veil Magazine Advertiser Bridesmaid's dresses: JCrew caterer*: Bartolotta’s Catering Ceremony Location: St. Mary’s Visitation Parish cocktail music: 4th Street Elevator DJ & Lighting*: Sound by Design Event Planner*: Katie Carlson of Golden Chic Events and Consulting Favors: Homemade beer and rootbeer Floral décor: Urban Sense Hair: Studio 890 Honeymoon Location: Puerta Vallarta, Mexico Invitations & STATIONERY*: Paper Envy Linen Rentals*: BBJ - Table Fashion and The Grain Exchange Makeup: Bride & the mothers, Studio 890 Men's Formalwear: Squire Fine Men’s Apparel Photography: Woodnote Photography Reception Location*: The Grain Exchange Wedding cake: Delicately Delicious wedding gown: Bliss Bridal

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wedding planning again, though. It was a lot of work! I’m not nostalgic about missing out on a double wedding, either. There would have been some fun things about it, but given how big our family and both of our grooms’ families are, it would have been crazy. What did you learn about planning your wedding? We learned a lot about ourselves and each other, both in what we like and enjoy, as well as how we manage stress. As we tried to respect our families’ needs and communicate about things that aren’t always the most fun to communicate about (for example, budgets) – but that are really important-, it became good practice for navigating daily life together. Was there a vendor that was most helpful to you? Katie Carlson from Golden Chic Events was great at providing perspective, ideas, and in general being a great help. Ren from Studio 29 Photography, and Laurel from Bloom were also great helps to us. What was a favorite or special moment of your wedding? When we headed outside to our getaway car, and with everyone swarming outside to wave goodbye with sparklers (despite the rain!), we just felt overwhelming gratitude to be surrounded by all of these people. That was amazing! Knowing what you know now is there anything you would change about your wedding now or redo and why? There were more people that I wish we would have invited. We already were about 60 people over on our target guest list, and so at the time we had to make tough decisions…but in retrospect, I wish that we could have just included everyone. Did you stay within your budget? Yes!

Resources * Veil Magazine Advertiser Bridesmaid'S dresses: J. Crew caterer*: Bartolotta’s Catering Ceremony Location: St. Mary’s Visitation Parish Event Planner*: Katie Carlson Golden Chic Events and Consulting Favors: Graham’s Fine Chocolates floral décor: Bloom Floral and Event Design Hair & makeup: Studio 890 Honeymoon Location: Costa Rica Invitations & STATIONERY*: Paper Envy Lighting: A Personal Touch Makeup: Studio 890, Elm Grove, WI Men's Formalwear: Squire Fine Men’s Apparel Photography: Ren Davis, Studio 29 Photography Reception DJ: A Personal Touch Reception Location: Boerner Botanical Gardens Wedding cake: Delicately Delicious Wedding Gown: Bliss Bridal

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loving your curves Every Bride Deserves the Right to Feel Beautiful by

Michelle Drewek

Let’s be completely honest, we all have our own insecurities. While our individual concerns will differ, none of us is

without reservations. But these worries shouldn’t take away from the excitement of finding our wedding dress. This is a chance to show off who we are, and feel fabulous while doing it. From personality to body type, every bride is unique. And while it’s easy to say, “I want to look gorgeous and feel confident on my wedding day,” finding the gown that not only represents your personality, but highlights your beautiful figure all while keeping you comfortable in your own skin can be a challenge, especially since not all bridal salons cater to every size bride. Many times the ones that do are hours away or only offer a limited selection, leaving a bride without the option to truly find her wedding gown soul mate. We made it our mission to find you a solution, and indeed we did! During a recent photo shoot at the Milwaukee Art Museum, we had a handful of brides and brides-to-be find out first hand that beauty doesn’t only come in a size 6. With the help of the fantastic teams at Stone Manor Bridal (Grafton, Wis.) and Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. (New Glarus, Wis.), our featured brides were put in gowns that made each of them glow. “We believe that when you are bridal gown shopping you are not just shopping for a dress but an experience that will last a lifetime, and that applies to every bride no matter what shape or size you are,” Kate Iggens of Stone Manor Bridal underscores. “We work diligently to find plus size dresses that are not only figure flattering but also stylish and fashionable, so when a bride comes in she doesn’t feel anxious or self-conscious. We carry a wide variety of sizes—up to size 26—and are here to help you look and feel fabulous.” Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc is also an industry advocate for making every bride of every size a priority when they walk through their doors. “A more curvy bride looking for a gown is treated the exact same way we treat any bride who comes into our salon,” emphasizes Brandi Nehmer of Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. “We have a wonderful, diverse selection of gowns in sizes 1624W in all price ranges and fits! “Curvy brides are wearing every style of fit today, so there are no limits! Almost every gown we have comes up to size 24W, so she is welcome to try on anything we have. We want every bride to feel her absolute best and show off her curvy figure on her wedding day!” Don’t let your own fears about finding the perfect dress overtake your excitement. Team up with a group of experts that truly understands you and your fabulous figure, like those at Stone Manor Bridal and Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. Because of their dedication to serving each and every unique bride that walks through their door, you can rest assured you’ll find a dress that loves your curves as much as you do.

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Make a Statement Looking for something that’s sure to impress? by

Michelle Drewek

Couples are told to keep their personalities in mind as they plan their wedding. Their celebration should reflect

them. Even though we see traditionally white wedding dressings, contemporary wedding trends are breaking the norm for something more vibrant. “On the runway we are seeing dresses in brighter, more vivid colors,” observes Kate Iggens of Stone Manor Bridal. “But in the mainstream bridal world, we see that interpreted into paler colors such as blush, caramel, and steel. This gives the bride some uniqueness in her gown with out going completely contemporary.” Color can be exciting and really resembling of your personality, but it can also be something subtle and blush. “Wearing white on your wedding day might be tradition, but it’s not a rule,” Marina Kuhn from Zita Bridal tells us. “Brides are interested in gowns in non-white shades from pale blush, slate grey, pale blue, to deep reds and elaborate rich shades of gold; classic elegance with a twist.” Whether you decide to go bright and beautiful or light and lavish, there are a few factors you should keep in mind as you weigh your color options. There is no one right way to incorporate color, so have fun as you contemplate everything you can do. First, consider the colors already being used in your wedding décor and venue(s). A color that looks great on you, but doesn’t mesh with anything currently being used in your color palette, will become a distraction. The color of the flowers, linens, lighting and everything else surrounding you will immediately overpower any other colors in the room, and as the bride, you do not want to be outdone by your own décor. Also, be mindful of your skin tone and how color will either clash with or compliment it. There is no doubt that you will be glowing on your wedding day, but your natural skin tone will make your choice of color that much more important. If you have fairer skin, going with a deep, darker color can overwhelm you. Additionally, lighter shades can wash you out. Finding that perfect balance of conservative and radiant can make for a show-stopping combination. If, however, you have medium to dark skin, having a color that is too bright or too dull can clash with or detract from your natural skin tone. Allow the bridal salon to help guide you in your mission to find the color that is right for you. Additionally, think about your many available options in accessories. If you are looking to add subtle color to your gown, perhaps adding colorful accessories is the route you may choose. “Our brides are most drawn to adding color with their accessories,” Marina says. Brides take this as a chance to add a spark to the traditional elegance of a white gown. Other brides use accessories as the opportunity to add their “something blue.” “Rhinestones or cubic zirconium’s with a touch of blue integrated into the design adds a touch of elegance and tradition,” Marina adds. Finally, weigh all of your options. There are many ways for you to add color to your ensemble, going beyond the options accessories afford. “Subtle ways to add color to a bridal gown include the use of colorful sashes or belts, shoes, or crinolines that just peak out when the bride walks,” describes Kate. “Brides want to set themselves apart and really have that ‘wow’ moment when the groom and guests see them for the first time. They want something more memorable.” Mix and match these various options into your gown to see what looks best and create that “wow” moment the instant everyone first sets their eyes on you. Color isn’t something to be intimidated by or to pass over simply because of traditional norms. Your wedding is not limited to what was done, but what can be done. Be you. Be bright, bold and beautiful! Photography by patrick manning from manning photography

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Kate Iggens Stone Manor Bridal

located in a unique loft space in downtown Grafton is an exquisite bridal shop – Stone Manor Bridal. Owner Kate Iggens is dedicated to providing exceptional products and service to each customer. With 12 years of retail management and buying experience, Kate takes a hands-on role in her store, working one-on-one with her customers to ensure the highest level of quality. Stone Manor Bridal’s outstanding team of sales associates enjoys guiding customers through the entire process of choosing wedding attire. Here, high-pressure sales techniques are unheard of – your style and budget are the key elements used to help you find the perfect wedding attire. Stone Manor Bridal boasts an extensive selection of wedding gowns and accessories ranging from moderate to designer, carefully selected for their unique style and beauty. In

“our staff does everything in their power to make your wedding day unforgettable” addition, Stone Manor Bridal offers dresses for bridesmaids, mothers, and flower girls. Additional services include pre-wedding dress storage at no extra cost. The in-house alterations staff at Stone Manor Bridal features three highly qualified seamstresses with more than 40 years of combined experience in bridal alterations. “Our staff does everything in their power to make your wedding day unforgettable,” says Kate. VeilMagazine.com

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a bridal boutique, Gigi has been outfitting brides in the Milwaukee area for over 55 years. Today, Gigi of Mequon is run and operated as Milwaukee’s only high-end women’s department store. Bev Berson owns and operates the business while her daughter, Jessie Freschl based in NYC, runs the marketing department. Together, mother and daughter do all of the buying for the business. “It has been wonderful to have three different generations contributing new ideas and greater visions for the future,” states Berson. Gigi of Mequon’s bridal department hosts the largest selection of couture gowns in the state of Wisconsin. From classic to contemporary, each gown is hand selected to offer the most exquisite pieces for their brides. Gigi’s sales associates and couturiers are highly trained to assist each client in selecting their attire and customizing the fit of their gown.

“established in 1959, as a bridal boutique, Gigi has been outfitting brides in the Milwaukee area for over 55 years” Over the past decade, Gigi has offered Milwaukee a destination to shop for designer and diffusion lines. Today Gigi is proud to be carrying renowned labels such as, 10 Crosby (Derek Lam), Cut 25 (Yigal Azrouel), Robert Rodriguez, Notte (Marchesa), Herve Leger, along with classic designer labels like that of Carolina Herrera, Escada, and St John. In 2011 Gigi’s newest department, devoted to ready to wear and leisure, opened and has been receiving rave reviews. Gigi takes pride in the loyal client base they have and that continues to grow with new clients. Whether a Gigi bride first experiences luxury goods when she finds her wedding gown, or already knows it before walking in the door, once she shops at Gigi and experiences the service and friendliness that goes along with it, she often comes back and shops GIGi for other important pieces throughout her life. Gigi of Mequon invites you to come in and experience the store for whatever your shopping needs may be.

Kayla Ehlen Bella Bridesmaid

When you walk into most bridal shops, the focus is naturally (and rightfully so) on the bride. “However,” as Kayla Ehlen, the current owner of the Milwaukee Bella Bridesmaid franchise says, “the bridesmaids you choose are all there because they are special women in a bride’s life. They totally set the tone of your wedding, and you want them to look just as fabulous as you do.” Kayla not only has a personal passion for fashion, she has been in retail for more than 10 years. She began working at Victoria’s Secret while attending UW-Madison, and quickly moved up into a management role. She thoroughly enjoyed interacting one-on-one with people and being able to earn their trust. After also working at Pier 1 Imports as a co-manager for a little over a year, Kayla left retail to be home with her two children. But, her desire to be in retail was still in the back of her mind. Then, her husband’s childhood friend mentioned that friends of hers were selling their bridesmaid dress boutique.

“The minute I heard it, I knew it had to be mine,” Kayla says. “A few weeks later, I chatted with Bridget Brown, the founder of Bella Bridesmaid, and shortly thereafter I met with the Caseys.” With an extensive background in retail and passion for the industry, Kayla provides quality customer service and truly values her relationship with the bride and bridesmaids. “In the boutique, I operate on the highest level of one-on-one customer service,” Kayla

Bridesmaid carries designers you won’t find anywhere else in Wisconsin—including Donna Morgan, LulaKate, Ivy & Aster, Swoon, Saja and Amsale,” Kayla says. “We have the best selection of chic, modern and wearable bridesmaid dresses.” Erin and Kathleen Casey were the former owners of the Milwaukee Bella Bridesmaid franchise, and since selling to Kayla while still retaining the Chicago location, purchased the entire Bella Bridesmaid franchise. “I feel so lucky to have them so close!” Kayla elates. “I am very excited to see what the future holds for Bella Bridesmaid with the Casey’s at the head.” And, the future looks very bright for Kayla, as each day is just as wonderful as the last. “In the few months that I’ve owned the shop, I cannot believe how happy I am,” Kayla joyfully remarks. “It is such a pleasure to come to work everyday and do what I do. It is so rewarding for me. I have such a passion for dressing brides and their maids.”

“we have the best selection of chic, modern and wearable bridesmaid dresses” explains. “We operate by appointment, and that is so important to the experience! It allows me to get to know the bride and her maids, and truly listen and understand what they’re looking for.” Other than quality experience, Bella Bridesmaid offers an unparalleled selection of gowns for Wisconsin brides. “Bella

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Feature Story

Decades of Decadence Timeless Style Speaks to Past Decades While Maintaining Relevance in the Modern Era by

Laura Vietmeyer

We at the Veil Magazine asked local bridal salons what is now trending for Bridal Fashion and they all

said that bridal fashion is all over the place. So we decided to have some fun. We’ve assembled modern looks for both brides and bridesmaids inspired by 20s, 50s and 70s bridal looks. While the styles of each decade differ dramatically, with a look at the following pages it is easy to see how elements from each decade can be pulled into your modern day wedding for both your dress and your bridesmaids dresses. The elegance and decadence of the 1920s translates into a gilded look for brides and a formal look for bridesmaids’ dresses. Lace, beading, ruffles, and ornate headpieces—all of these elements translate into a rich, Gastby-esque, Old-Hollywood glamorous feel. Bridal couture of the 1950s oozed sophistication with sweetheart necklines and full skirts, which is still a popular silhouette today. Bridesmaids can wear ballerina or cocktail length dresses, giving off a fun, feminine and flirty vibe. The bridal style of the 1970s speaks to a bride looking for an individualistic and unique look. Wedding dresses of the 70s had a romantic flair with flowery lace and ruffles that can easily take you from the altar to the reception where you and your bridesmaids, in their shorter, fashion forward dresses, can boogie. The looks on the following pages offer modern dresses from Bella Bridesmaid, Milwaukee, Brandi's Bridal Galleria, ETC. in New Glarus, Gigi of Mequon in Mequon and Stone Manor Bridal in Gratin. The dresses, with throwback elements to the different decades, were shot in locations that echo the feel of the 20s, 50s and 70s. Your venue might be an inspiration for a throwback to an earlier decade. For the 20s we shot at The Pabst Mansion in Milwaukee. For the 50s, we shot at The Kiltie in Oconomowoc, and for the 70s we shot on the beach of Milwaukee's Lakefront. If you are aiming for a throwback look, think about the elements that speak to you and your style. Drawing inspiration from details and pieces of these eras can create a new and exciting modern look for a vintage feel. Remember, good style never goes out of fashion.

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A Match Made in Med School Wedding Planning Written byLaura

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Chris and Joanne met on the very first day of medical school. Despite the academic demands of classes their classes, their relationship quickly grew from a friendship into something more. Planning a wedding during their residencies was no easy feat, but they were able to bring family and friends in from around the globe for a black tie affair. From special welcome bags to a delicious meal at the reception, Chris and Joanne focused on giving their guests a memorable experience to better help them celebrate their wedding day. How did you meet? We first met in medical school in class of 140 students. The two of us were assigned to a small group of 10 for one of our courses. The friendship was instant. At first we spent our time with our academic colleagues studying together, but it quickly grew into a more personal and meaningful friendship. How did he propose? The proposal was a complete surprise to Joanne. Chris picked out an engagement ring on his own and popped the question outside of the medical school, the place where we first met. Did he ask for permission from parents before the proposal? Yes, Chris had spoken to both parents ( Joanne's mom and dad). Chris made sure to ask only one week before proposing, knowing that Joanne's parents would not be able to keep the secret much longer! How long was the engagement? 1 year, 3 months. What resource did you find most helpful in planning your wedding? Planning was difficult with our schedules during residency. We were so lucky to have the help of Chris Albrecht from Let's Have An Affair. She made a somewhat overwhelming process much more manageable and took the stress out of planning and allowing us to focus on the fun of planning our wedding. Chris has great contacts and ideas. She is in touch with the needs of her clients and we felt she understand our vision and helped make those tough decisions without losing our original inspiration. We also worked with Nicole Frederickson at the Pfister Hotel and she was amazing! Her patience throughout the process made everything run smoothlyâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;she was always available to answer questions and went above and beyond, working with us to honor special requests. It was a great team!

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married 11-23-2013 Resources * Veil Magazine Advertiser Ceremony Location: Church of the Gesu Cocktail Hour Music & DJ: ACA Entertainment Event Planner*: Let's Have An Affair floral décor*: Belle Fiori, LTD Get-a-way car: Cosmopolitan Limousine Hair: Neroli Salon and Spa Honeymoon Location: Napa Valley Linen Rentals*: BBJ – Table Fashions Men's Formalwear: Roger Stevens Photography & Video: Apple Tree Studios Reception Location*: Imperial Ballroom, The Pfister Stationery: Fitzgerald's Fine Stationery Transportation: Adonis Limousine Wedding gown & Bridesmaid's dresses: Elizabeth John's Wedding Cake*: The Cake Lady

What style was your wedding? We had a classic wedding with modern twist. The ceremony was held at the Church of the Gesu and the reception was at the Imperial Ballroom at the Pfister Hotel. It was a black tie event.

What were the colors of the wedding? We stuck to neutral tones with metallic accents. The colors of the wedding were whites and creams with metallic gold and silver accents.

Did you include any special traditions or customs? Joanne's family is Iraqi and one tradition that Joanne wanted to incorporate was a ladies’ luncheon the day of the wedding. It’s tradition that women in the community are the first to see the bride. They celebrate at the luncheon and help the bride with last minute preparations. The women then take the bride to the church for the ceremony. It's meant to celebrate the community's involvement in that special day. The luncheon itself is open to all women at the wedding. The only men in attendance are the bride's immediate family.

How many people did you have in your wedding party? There were 6 total in our wedding party. Chris had his three brothers and Joanne had her two sisters and cousin.

Did you have a “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue?” Yes, I did. My something borrowed was very special—I wore my mother's diamond necklace that she wore on her wedding day. It was a gift given to her on her wedding day from my paternal grandparents. Were there any aspects of DIY that you incorporated and if so why and how? We put together welcome bags for our guests. It was a way of making them feel at home as many travelled a great distance to celebrate with us. In our welcome bags, we included a welcome letter as well as a schedule of events. We also included information about the Milwaukee area with our favorite local restaurants and attractions. We made sure to add some of our favorite snacks including a mini bottle of champagne and two mini champagne flutes with a bag of assorted jellybeans from the Jelly Belly Factory (Prairie Pleasant, WI) and a bag of pistachios, to cover our guest's savory and sweet cravings.

What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? When we started to plan our wedding, the first thing to come to mind was the meal. We both agreed that regardless of the venue, we wanted to be sure that we were able to serve our guests a delicious meal. We were very satisfied with The Pfister's catering and quality of food. It was a success. Everyone was raving about their meals! How many guests did you invite? We had 130 guests attend the wedding. Most travelled to celebrate with us, guests from all over the country as well as from overseas, cities including London, Geneva, and even Baghdad! What would be one piece of advice that you would offer to future brides? This process might stir up some differences in opinions, but in the end, these are only details. Get past the details and enjoy the process. Don’t lose sight of the big picture. You are planning a day with your family and friends to join in the celebration of your marriage.

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His Decisions What Makes Men Stylish by

Sara Dahmen

Brides, no one is fooled. You’re the star of the show, the belle of the ball, and the princess of the day. You’ll wear

a gorgeous white dress that fits your style, body and personality, and is likely one of the most expensive gowns you’ll ever don. The experience of finding your attire for your wedding day is a search of many days, several fittings and lots of intricately detailed choices. But here’s the new news in the wedding business: the trend for such luxe, personalized and custom services when it comes to wedding day attire is no longer reserved strictly for you, girls! Men’s formalwear is now not only diversified when it comes to color of vests or cummerbunds - it stretches into colors, patterns, and unique twists of fashion. First, and foremost, you’ll want to discuss having the men’s clothing match the vibe and style of your wedding. While some weddings call for the traditional black suit or tux - all of which can be rented at local Veil Magazine vendor locations such as Harley’s or Stone Manor Bridal - many couples simply ask their groomsmen to wear a suit in a certain color, letting the freeform styles mix and match with the variety of the bridesmaid gowns. This is especially true when grooms decide to go with a look that isn’t the usual black. More and more couples are opting for navy blue suits, dark or light grey tuxes or even sandy khaki ensembles for the men. When it’s hot outside, the guys in your wedding party will be glad to be clad in lighter colors or even linen. Yes, different fabrics are coming into play, well beyond colors. Many men are choosing to have their formalwear custom fitted or measured and tailored exactly to their measurements. Some grooms offer this as their gift to their groomsmen. According to Tim Ryan, the owner of Harley’s, the ‘made to measure’ process is “quite easy and available in a variety of price points.” This certainly ensures the men will feel comfortable in what they’re wearing on the big day. And if you rent, rest assured that a premier, private boutique will make sure the pieces are all fitting properly. “I set high standards for customer service and hand select products to maintain the newest inventory,” reveals Katherine Iggens of Stone Manor. Even if you opt for a more formal suit, tie and vest combination, so many stylistic options are now available that it truly is a multiple day process for the men to select all the accessories. Suspenders in interesting hues or patterns are showing up in more casual weddings, as well as colored or patterned ties. While cuff links are still an often discussed wedding staple, men are using flashier ways to display their personality. From bright pocket handkerchiefs to bow ties - both of which are making a comeback - to shoes in an array of color, the sky is continuing to be the limit. Personality and personal style matters just as much to the men, and they’re really allowed to show it.

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Ask Yourself This To help you decide on what to wear, and to make sure you know what details you can consider, we’ve compiled a list of questions to consider as you ponder your wedding day attire. 1. What color suit / tux should the men wear? Blue, black, navy, grey, charcoal, khaki, white or striped? 2. Accessories for the chest can be vests, cummerbunds, suspenders, or even sweaters. Which to use? 3. Which tie style would best match the wedding’s mood? Among other options, there’s the cravat, bow tie, skinny tie...and then choose a color or fabric pattern. Remember, some couples don’t rent this - they buy them as groomsmen gifts. 4. Are there other fabric pieces we want to consider? Colored or patterned socks shoes or shirts? 5. What about jewelry or other accessories? These can be as traditional as cuff links and watches or as unusual as bolero hats with a brim band to match the wedding design. 6. Do we want props? Top hats, canes, belt buckles or other elements that will add to our wedding vibe? 7. How should the groom be slightly different from the other men in the wedding party? He is, after all, the man of the hour.

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(Pictured left to right) John Carbonell, Robert Norris, Tim Ryan, and Jeff Brand

Tim Ryan harleys store for men

IN 1968, a stockboy named Tim was working at Harold and Stanley Dubman’s store, Harleys: The Store for Men. After getting involved in sales and buying, he worked his way up to co-owner of the store in 1987. While the other owner, Tom Brill, retired in 2000, Tim Ryan, President/CEO of Harleys, is still hard at work. Harleys is an industry leader in menswear, and strives to make sure that every customer is priority number one the instant he walks through the door. “Our mission is to provide quality apparel, exceptional customer service and an enjoyable shopping experience,” Tim emphasizes. While many people tend to put emphasis on the wedding dress, the groom’s attire shouldn’t be a last-minute detail. Tim recognizes that finding a wedding day ensemble can be intimidating for grooms, but Harleys is fully prepared to help any groom find what he is looking for. “Being both a retail and rental store gives Harleys staff a unique perspective to give proper advice to the groom to ensure he makes the right choices for his wedding,” reassures Tim. “Tuxedo rentals are provided by Jim’s Formalwear, and we are an Elite dealer within their network, which allows Harleys to do whatever might be necessary to ensure the wedding party looks their best. We also have an in house tailoring staff to take care of any last minute adjustments.” This past July, Harleys’ quality reputation was honored by the menswear industry at MR Magazine’s annual Uptown Downtown awards ceremony for retail innovation. It was a huge honor for Tim and the Harleys team who strive every day to do what they do best.

“We were honored to be recognized by our industry as one of the top retailers in the country, but what’s more important is that

2009, and since then has been giving back to the neighborhood and other great causes. “Harleys is very involved in the community supporting numerous charities, Shorewood schools and our own Teeing Up for Charity golf outing to benefit the Great Lakes Hemophilia Foundation,” Tim explains. Whether it’s business or charity, Harleys provides nothing short of exceptional service and unparalleled dedication. As “The Store for Men in Shorewood,” Harleys is looking to uphold its reputation and exceed your expectations.

“nothing short of Exceptional” our customers like the product selection we offer. They receive exceptional customer service, and they have an enjoyable shopping experience at Harleys,” says Tim. Beyond being leaders in the industry, Harleys is a leader in the community. Harleys moved to its current Shorewood location in

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Teasing With A Twinkle: How Little Laughs Make It All Sweeter photography

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katie&jeff

married 10-12-2013

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Ceremony Location: St. Jude the Apostle DJ & Lighting: Midwest Sound and DJ Flowers: Waukesha Floral and Greenhouse Honeymoon Location: Negril, Jamaica Invitations: Invitations by Dawn Men's Formalwear: Men’s Warehouse Photobooth Rentals: Click Photography Photography*: Front Room Photography Reception Location: The Legend at Brandybrook Wedding Gown & Bridesmaid's Dresses*: Stone Manor Bridal

Love filled with laughter is truly a really good thing. On the day Katie graduated from Nursing School, she wanted to look her best. When her boyfriend Jeff mentioned she was missing something on her hand to go with her outfit, such as a bracelet, she ran back to grab one. When she came out, Jeff insisted she was missing something else before getting down on a knee with a box. When he opened it, the box held not a ring, but a pin that said ‘Love A Nurse.’ As Katie laughed and teased that she wouldn’t know what to do if it was the real thing, Jeff ’s eyes welled with tears as he asked her to marry him. For real. Who were the first people you told? My mother, grandmother, and stepfather when they picked us up for my Graduation. And then all of Katie’s nursing girlfriends! What was the length of your engagement? Two and a half years. Did you include any special traditions or customs? Our best man gave an Irish Blessing and I had a penny in my shoe as part of our Irish customs. Also, Jeff ’s sister had passed away when he was 15 and she was 16. At holiday gatherings his family has a crystal angel figurine that holds a candle lit at the head of the dinner table in her honor. For our wedding we placed it at our head table. Any special wardrobe pieces or colors? I had 2 pairs of shoes one pair was

sophisticated soft white with a flower on the side. The second pair was my 6 ½ inch rhinestone stilettos by Betsey Johnson that I danced in the ENTIRE night! Were there any aspects of DIY that you incorporated and if so why and how? I created the whole candy bar. I had small gift boxes at every table setting for the candy bar. When you opened the box there was a little note in the bottom that said “Gotcha! Thought there was candy in here didn’t you. After dinner please go to our candy bar and treat yourself.” What were the colors of the wedding? Eggplant, Burnt Orange and Champagne What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? Burlap and lace accents What was your biggest surprise when planning your wedding? How difficult it was to get dresses ordered, people to get fitted, coordination, and those deadlines. If you had one thing to splurge on what would it have been? The photographer and the venue were higher then my original budget, but was well worth it. But if I had the means I would have expanded guest list. What would be one piece of advice that you would offer to future brides? Dance Dance Dance!! VeilMagazine.com

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creating a seamless Union Between Two Rings Matching & Conforming

f the two of you could be satisfied with average, you wouldn’t be with each other. For this reason, brides and grooms who view themselves and their relationship as special and unique are choosing to have their wedding rings custom made to reflect their personal tastes, lifestyles and experiences. The first time Mary saw John, they were in St. Robert Church in Shorewood, which has a beautiful, round window above its confessionals. This light-filled, enchanting window became a symbol of their love. When planning their wedding, which was held in that same church, they asked us to create custom wedding bands carved with the window design. The artwork created for the rings was also used in their wedding program and Mary (a writer) wrote a poem. The resulting church window-inspired rings are perfect rings for Mary and John.

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Contrary to popular belief, custom made jewelry costs no more than common, ready-made styles. Similar to a special order at a fast-food restaurant, getting exactly what you want doesn’t mean spending more. It just means your wedding rings are one of a kind with style that you won’t see on someone else’s finger. At David Liska – Custom Jeweler in Milwaukee, David makes the custom design process easy and non-intimidating. As a professional goldsmith and award-winning jewelry designer with 25 years of experience, David feels there is no greater thrill than helping customers to design their special piece. By setting a private appointment and discussing some basic parameters up front regarding diamond selections, you can view diamonds in the right quality and size to fit your budget. Most diamonds are brilliant by

Carbide. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the worldâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s hardest metal, so itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s permanently polished with zero maintenance and a very masculine gunmetal color white metal. They can be inlaid with precious metal or diamond accents. Contrasting finishes maintain their look long after your wedding day.

themselves, but comparing them side-by-side, with differences pointed out, can help you to arrive at a confident decision. David can teach you where to compromise to get the most for your money. Most people are very visual and styles can be categorized into traditional, contemporary, or antique. Using these basic design elements, some great visuals and lots of experience David can create a 3D wax model incorporating anything. For really complex designs and convenience, David uses highly advanced computer technology and can actually e-mail computer photos of what the piece will look like prior to carving the mode. If you already have your engagement ring, a matching wedding band can be made incorporating the

design elements and even conforming exactly to it. When you work directly with the designer that is also personally making your ring, the process is fun, easy, and thorough because all of the design, as well as technical options, can be immediately presented right on the spot to create the wax model you can actually put on your finger. If you visit a jeweler that has a full service custom shop on the premise to complete all phases of this operation, you can be assured of the best value. Forming a relationship with a jeweler that is passionate about what he or she does will also assure you that your piece will be maintained and they will be there for you throughout all of lives other special occasions. For men, the hottest new material is Tungsten

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dressing your living space Midwest's Finest Gift Registry

he place to start dressing your table and your living space with personality begins at George Watts. Esteemed as one of the world's finest specialty stores, we've helped design the tables and embellish the homes of newlyweds for 145 years! Visit the renowned store where our approachable pricing policy is only trumped by an awe-inspiring selection of goods for the table, the bar, and entertaining accents sure to last a lifetime. Affordability: George Watts offers the most competitive pricing on all the brands you love...on your registry, everyday, for all of your guests. Visit us online at www.georgewatts.com, but be sure to come into our landmark store, with Milwaukee's most historic Tea Room on its second floor, to experience an emporium like no other. Be inspired by the easy elegance of tables set in every style imaginable. Salespeople and displays help you envision how to translate these looks into choices for your everyday dining, as well as for special occasion entertaining. When you select the wish list of items that comprise your registry, know that your choices of china, crystal and silver will be marked at or below department store prices. If you find a lower price, we'll cheerfully match it! Difference: Celebrating diversity in the shopping experience is what we're all about at Watts. We're importing from global markets and bringing inspired trends right to your front door. A first time shopping trip to Watts is an adventure to a marketplace with styles of china and accessories that range from French Formal, to Eurostyle Funky, Asian Modern, American Country, Afro-Caribbean, and so many more. You owe yourself the eye-opening experience of seeing the trends as they break here at Watts. Shop the independent merchant with a commitment to the community. We'll be here for you if customer service issues arise, something needs to be exchanged or returned, and you'll have an answer with a smile from our team of experts. Where else so you find the CEO of the company, greeting you every time you enter the store? Chic: A style that represents not only the latest trends, but the taste and dĂŠcor of todays home. Our buyer travels the world, bringing you the finest offerings from the entire globe. Simon Pearce, Baccarat, and Waterford headline our assortments with accent brands like Nambe, Mariposa, Juliska and more. We truly have the finest assortment and collection of brands in the entire world. We show you how to mix, match, dress up, dress down, and change your tables and interior accents with the seasons and your moods. Just as Americans have become expert at blending fashion: vintage with modern, artist-made with couture, we will show you how to energize and inspire your home and table with simplicity and elegant ease. continued on page 136

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Romance: Keep your love alive with the allure of candles and scented room aromas by Lampe Berger of France, once used by Coco Chanel in her Paris apartment as an evocative accent to home ambiance. Select a room fragrance to match a mood from baked goods and florals to natural scents or neutralizers. Adapt the atmosphere of any room or party to a mood, a memory, a garden, a sea breeze, a spa...the possibilities are endless! Aside from scent, there's nothing quite like sitting down with your partner, to a meal served on lovely earthenware or china...it adds a special serenity that keeps the romance alive in day to day living. Pamper yourselves everyday simply because you're worth it! Indulgence: If any word captures the concept of the Wedding or Commitment Registry, it's Indulgence. Now is the time! A significant life passage, when your friends and family will gather around to toast

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your future and many years of happiness. They'll want to help feather your nest with gifts that send warm wishes of congratulations. Make an appointment with one of our consultants to help put the picture together. George Watts once likened the table to a painting, with the china as the focal art, and the crystal and silver around the plate as a beautiful frame... When you consider building this wish list, know that your choices are prized for their durability and investment value. Many of the companies we present have stood the test of time, and the products they make are here to last as heirlooms for your children, and into the future. Ecologically, there's a true sensibility of buying goods you don’t need to replace or throw away and you ultimately minimize your footprint on the environment. Innovations: This year, 2014, is a special one for Watts. We're expanding our online presence and creating an internet platform that is second to none – focused entirely on our commitment to enhancing The Registry. Our Jefferson Street store, will always remain open for the “hands on” customer and of course – The Bridal Table, a unique feature to Watts that masterfully displays your entire table setting for all to see, will continue to dazzle your family members and guests. At Watts, we look forward to treating you with an unrivaled level of customer service so your experience with us lasts a lifetime. Contact us at 414-290-5700 for information on our Fall Bridal Fair with luxury prizes and tips galore. Invitations are readily available.

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newlyweds The business of being a newlywed by

Monica Jurken

It’s been over a year since Michael and I exchanged rings and walked down the aisle at St. Hedwig’s Catholic Church as the new “Mr. & Mrs. Jurken”. We had the tremendous honor of being featured on the cover of last summer’s Veil Magazine after a wedding that was nothing short of a fairytale. When I think of our wedding day, I’m immediately reminded of the smell of my sweet grandmother’s freesias in my bouquet, the surreal feeling of seeing all of our loved ones who literally traveled from all corners of the world in one place, the gasp of our guests as they watched a surprise firework display after a performance by Michael’s college a’capella group, and most importantly I remember the feeling of overwhelming love in the air. We continue to feel so blessed by our love, our marriage and our everyday lives. Our first year of marriage was nothing short of a TV sitcom; we purchased and renovated our first home all within two week’s time (complete with a hilarious video of my attempt at using a sledgehammer to knock out a tile shelf ), we welcomed two beautiful Godchildren – Chloe and Drew – into the world, and we even opened a second location to our growing business; Majic Productions, a creative sound, video, and lighting company. As a married couple in our mid-twenties, we have a lot of friends getting married and sharing similar life experiences. One of the biggest differences for Michael and I is that not only are we dealing with the issues most newlyweds deal with it (such as who’s responsible for cleaning the dishes or running the laundry) but we are also running a company responsible for the livelihood of over 30 employees (not including our dog, Winston, who is

the company’s Vice President of Morale). As business owners, our daily responsibilities and stressors can sometimes feel very different from those of our peers. Michael and I are both involved in all aspects of our business and are working towards a common goal. We make many crucial decisions on a daily basis such as those involving our strategies of business development, our hiring objectives and major capital equipment purchases. While sometimes it seems like our stressors are way out of the ordinary, many newly married couples also deal with similar issues in a slightly different scenario; newlyweds are also developing the “business” of their new lives and making the best decisions for their futures. Newlyweds are also making major capital purchases such as a new home. Additionally, as silly as it may sound, newlyweds are also making “hiring” decisions such as to whether or not they’d like to add new members to their family (such as a pet or a baby)! While many people may not recommend working with a spouse, nothing makes me happier than understanding Michael as a leader and business owner. We are so lucky to be able to spend our days together working as a team. There is no better feeling than accomplishing our goals together. We have had a wonderful first year of marriage and the greatest advice we can offer to other newlyweds is to enjoy the newness of life as a spouse. Whether it’s the first time you attend a friend’s wedding as a married couple, or your first mutual bank account, there is something so magical about being a part of the “married club” that words simply cannot express. At the end of the day, life is all about the people you share it with and I could not be happier than to spend my days with my loving husband.

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TURN THE KEY WITH GMB First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Then Comes… by

…Buying your first home: one of the most exciting and trying times in a newlywed’s life. You may find, like many newlyweds, it is with whom you go through the process that matters most (and I’m not talking about your spouse)! I’m talking about your mortgage lender. Meet Alex and Danielle Barr: two newlyweds who recently closed on a mortgage with the help of Jon Reetz, a loan officer at Great Midwest Bank. As first time homebuyers, Alex and Danielle considered multiple mort-

Allison Jacobsmeier gage lenders. Ultimately, it was their realtor Doug Sprague of Firefly Real Estate who introduced the couple to Jon. Upon meeting, they were immediately impressed with the bank’s great customer service. “After a year full of planning for a wedding, we appreciated how easy and effortless Jon and his team made the home buying process,” says Alex. From Pre-approval to Loan Commitment, Great Midwest Bank makes the entire mortgage application process turnkey. While their

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extensive online Resource Center answers dozens of home buying FAQs, it is the face-to-face meetings with loan officers that really make Great Midwest Bank customers feel at home. Alex recalls, “Jon made all of the necessary information gathering a breeze. He was upfront, friendly, and respectful. The ease with which we were able to communicate with Jon during the process made us feel very comfortable.” Jon is one of many loan officers who have helped hesitant house hunters become happy homebuyers. He says, “First time homebuyers, and newlyweds in particular, choose Great Midwest Bank because we’ve been lending to Wisconsin homeowners for nearly 80 years. We offer a personalized approach often missing in today’s banking environment.” Despite ever-changing mortgage rules, little has changed at Great Midwest Bank, which services loans locally from offices in Metro Milwaukee, Madison, and the Fox Valley. “I get a ton of satisfaction in helping first time buyers like Alex and Danielle choose the best product and work through the process. It’s such an exciting time for them. We appreciate the loyalty of our customers that come back to buy or build another home. At the end of the day, our customers love the fact that they’re banking with a local, family-run financial institution.” When asked if he plans to refer friends and family to Great Midwest Bank for their mortgage needs, Alex replied, “I do!”

Great Midwest Bank has 9 area locations with over 600 free ATMs. For more information on Great Midwest Bank, or to get started on a mortgage pre-approval, visit www.greatmidwestbank.com. Member FDIC. Equal Housing Lender.

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delectable decisions Choosing the First Dessert Shared as Husband and Wife by

Michelle Drewek

raditionally, the multi-tiered cake was the go-to option for brides and grooms planning their wedding day dessert. Nowadays, hardly anything is off limits. Bakeries are receiving an array of requests and are constantly striving to expand their offerings to meet the individual needs and personalities of their clients. “Brides are adding a touch of sparkles with either rhinestones or stunning crystal broaches,” Peggy Carollo, owner of Simma’s Bakery, says. “Also, brides are gravitating toward the look of fondant straps, bows, and/or elaborate scroll works to appear as lace on their wedding cake.” Karen Smith, owner of The Cake Lady & Petite Pastries agrees, adding that she sees a lot of brides who “like to incorporate a ‘piece of them’ or their family on the wedding cake. From a family tartan to a monogram that matches their invitations.” While some couples choose to personalize their cake, others are ditching the concept of the multi-tiered cake and going for some of the newer options, such as cupcakes towers, dessert bars and cake pops. “A big trend now is having a smaller tiered cake for display and a sweets table with assorted mini pastries,” Peggy says. “This year we are adding cake pops to our long list of mini pastries…offering cheesecake pops, red velvet pops and brownie pops covered in either white chocolate or dark chocolate.” If that doesn’t make your mouth water, Karen talked to us about flavors, describing The Cake Lady’s most popular combination currently being the vanilla chiffon cake, filled a layer of raspberry preserve, a layer of vanilla buttercream, and a layer of lemon curd. “It’s amazing,” she describes. “The tartness of the lemon helps balance out the sweetness of the raspberry…so good!” Both bakeries have their staple cakes, which never go out of style. For Simma’s Bakery, Peggy points to the Classic Award-Winning Cheesecake. At The Cake Lady, Karen says it is their subtle and unique lavender cake. Remaining traditionally untraditional is the groom’s cake. It still remains the most personalized and unique offering in the sweets department. Because it is so specific to the groom’s personality and/or hobbies, you’ll rarely see the same groom’s cake twice. Another commonality among desserts is that vendors often prefer to work in unison when it comes to weddings, so the end product is the best it can be for everyone involved. And, of course, working with the bride and groom in perfect harmony. “A relationship with all the vendors is a key in making the whole wedding planning experience go as smooth as possible for the couple,” Peggy says. “Our mission is to provide all of our couples with unparalleled product, service and excellence.” Karen agrees, adding, “You’re not just a face or name here. We find the better we know you, the better your whole cake experience will be.” With this many options, the prospect of beginning to decide on your dessert offerings can be overwhelming. Let the experts like those working at Simma’s and The Cake Lady help guide you. They are there to create a one-of-a-kind experience for your eyes and taste buds.

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Mark & Peggy Carollo simma’s Bakery

Simma’s Bakery has been a Milwaukee staple of excellence for 30 years. For owners Mark & Peggy Carollo, it's about carrying on the tradition of providing the highest quality products by using only the finest ingredients where everything is made from scratch. Customers know they

are receiving the finest, creamiest cheesecake, pastries or cakes when they order their wedding cake from Simma’s, a tradition that has spanned decades of excellence. The Carollo's have been in the baking industry for over 15 years and are passionate about what

they do. “We try to be the best, not the biggest,” explains Peggy. The couple feels blessed that Simma's continues to be recognized for its products and accomplishments. An award-winning bakery for over three decades, Simma's has been repeatedly recognized as one of America's Top 25 Bakeries by the International Restaurant and Hospitalities Ratings Bureau. Simma’s prides itself on custom designed cakes and personalized service. It is their intention to make sure that your “special day” is nothing short of perfect. Mark & Peggy Carollo credit their staff of 35 with the continued success of Simma's. “We have longstanding employees that actually started working with Simma over 25 years ago. They are the ones who create the

“to provide all of our customers with an unparalleled product and experience” delicious Simma's signature cheesecakes, extraordinary wedding cakes and delectable pastries,”. It’s a testament to the wonderful way Simma’s runs its business. They recognize the true talents behind the excellent tastes, flavors and confections that find their way onto the Simma’s shelves and on the plates of thousands of wedding guests. One of the foundations of Simma's Bakery mission statement is “to provide all of our customers with an unparalleled product and experience where customer satisfaction is our ultimate goal.” This mantra has gone a long way to making Simma’s one of the most recognized bakeries in the area. Julia Child is one of many to testify of Simma’s excellence. Each testimony praises the superior taste and pure elegance of the desserts the bakery produces. With this type of success and admiration, decades of tradition, award-winning recipes and passion driven staff, Simma's Bakery is not only Milwaukee's premier bakery and pastry shop, but is also recognized nationally as one of the top retail bakeries in the country. Once you visit and see the Simma’s Experience firsthand, we know it will be the beginning of a long lasting relationship with you.

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Karen Smith The Cake Lady and Petite Pastries

Owner of The Cake Lady since January 2008, Karen Smith works with brides and grooms to create individually designed wedding cakes reflecting the couple’s special style, a signature component for this most important milestone occasion. Karen recommends that brides arrive for their tastings with photos of the cakes they like, color swatches, photos of the dress and flowers – all elements important to the creation of that perfect cake. Tastings include sampling several delicious flavors of cake, fillings, and buttercreams, again assisting the couple to decide which flavors suit them best. Everything at The Cake Lady is baked fresh from scratch, the fillings are made from the freshest products available, and nothing is EVER frozen! Understandably, each cake takes many hours to complete, from shopping for the best ingredients available, to baking, assembling,

stacking, decorating – and finally, delivery. While there are employees to assist, Karen is personally involved in the decoration of every cake and her artistry and design skill are evident. Karen’s professional background includes attendance at the New England Culinary Institute, an internship with Sanford D’Amato, local James Beard award winning chef, and a certificate from the acclaimed Wilton School of Cake Decorating for a class she attended taught

original owner of The Cake Lady, and when the opportunity presented itself, Karen purchased the business. The best part of owning a business is subsequent ‘special’ orders from clients, from birthday cakes to anniversary cakes, baby shower cakes to cupcakes. “I love when a wedding cake is just the start… I find it very touching when people love my cake so much, they order one for every occasion!”

“I FIND IT VERY TOUCHING WHEN PEOPLE LOVE MY CAKE SO MUCH, THEY ORDER ONE FOR EVERY OCCASION!” by New York City’s renowned, Colette Peters. While she studied all cooking techniques, it was sweets and pastries that became Karen’s passion. She worked as an assistant to the

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Home is Where the Heart Is

Wedding Planning

by Cherry blossom Events

Written by

Michelle Drewek

Jonathan and Ali’s serendipitous romance has spanned the globe since they first met online in 2008 while living in Washington D.C. Head over heels for each other years later while traveling in Spain, Jonathan swept Ali into a side street in Madrid after dinner and asked her to marry him. She already had the ring on her finger before saying “yes.” The couple said “I Do” in front of 180 and their beloved family and friends on an idyllic Wisconsin summer day. After a very fitting first dance to the song “Maps,” the newlywed jetsetters honeymooned across the world in Hong Kong and Bali, before settling into their Michigan home.

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married 08-03-2013 What style was your wedding? We referred to it as the “Hipster Barn Wedding” with a vintage flair. Ali loves anything and everything vintage, so finding Á La Crate Rentals was awesome. We were able to rent sewing boxes for the flower arrangements and mini chalkboard table numbers. All of these vintage details made the tablescapes perfect. We also had a birdcage to house the cards, and custom made signs on chalkboards. Did you include any special traditions or customs? We had a Jewish ceremony under a chuppah that was made out of Jonathan’s mother’s wedding dress. We also danced the hora! How many people did you have in your wedding party? We didn't have a wedding party—just four flower girls (Ali’s sister and 3 nieces). What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? Great music ( Jonathan) and gluten-free desserts (Ali). What was the most important item for your wedding that you knew you just had to splurge on? Going into the wedding, we knew we wanted to splurge on the photographer and videographer. And, we are glad we did because the photos and video turned out perfectly. Also, hiring a musician for the ceremony and cocktail hour that would play music that we liked was great. And, we can’t forget about the whiskey bar! We had a selection of three bourbons that were chosen by Jonathan that were available to the guests all night. Guests also loved the milk and cookies that were served during the dance party. What was your biggest surprise when planning your wedding? Even with Andrea, our wedding planner, co-owner of Cherry Blossom Events, we had no idea how much time went into planning a wedding. If we didn’t have Andrea, we would have gone crazy with all of the details. Because Ali is working on her Ph.D., she had very little time to dedicate to the wedding planning. She had a two-hour gap between classes so she dropped into a dress shop in Lansing. After trying on three dresses, she knew she had found the one! She felt that by trying dresses on alone, she was able to choose a dress she really loved without pressure from others. Thankfully, her family understood! What part of your wedding day was worth every penny? The location was awesome. The tree in the background of our ceremony was breathtaking. And, the barn setting was perfect. What would be one piece of advice that you would offer to future brides/ grooms? Don’t try to please everyone because it’s not going to happen. Also, include your partner in the planning process. This should be about the couple! Any other comments or special things you would like to mention? Ali’s mom did the flowers and recently opened a flower shop in downtown Prairie du Sac, Wis. Being a daughter of a florist, I was very picky about the flowers at our wedding. When I told my mom I wanted vintage inspired flowers, she quickly pointed me to various flowers that have that look. For our wedding, we also took dance lessons and learned the Rumba. For our first dance, we danced to “Maps.” Though some might be apprehensive to dance lessons, we both found it to be fun and not as intimidating as we thought. VeilMagazine.com

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The Write Touch Branching Out From the Ordinary, Calligraphy Provides Beauty by

Heather Hoffman

Choosing to address your invitations in calligraphy is a warm and

personalized way to announce your upcoming wedding and welcome intended guests. For anyone who has ever received a wedding invitation addressed in calligraphy, the experience is the polar opposite of the daily flow of junk mail and bills that often overtakes the mailbox. Calligraphy, from the Greek “Kallos Graphe” meaning “ beautiful writing,” evokes a sense of elegance and royalty. Its timely attention to detail adds a personal touch because it is done by hand. The hand-scribed document creates both a sense of formality and personal style. Calligraphy creates a certain feeling and mood for your wedding, an ornamentation that can accent any wedding décor. Every day, Debi Zeinert, calligrapher and owner of The Blooming Quill, creates this personal touch for her customers. “Calligraphy can be used on anything you may want written for your wedding.” She emphasizes that most couples usually have their invitation envelopes and place cards written in this fashion. But as her business has grown, she has also applied calligraphy in other ways. “Some couples have me write out their entire invitations and then have them reprinted.”The same techniques can be applied to menus, programs and signs. The possibilities are endless. “It really helps in creating that special theme

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suggestive of a beautiful wedding with a lot of attention paid to detail.” Debi also notes that wedding calligraphy seems to be very regional in taste. “Brides on the East Coast wouldn’t have a wedding without it,” Debi explains. In the Midwest, where the demand is less, a couple can expect to pay less, while adding a unique touch to their wedding documents. In Wisconsin, to have both inner and outer envelopes addressed, calligraphers generally charge $4 per set. In New York, the set will probably cost $5-8. Taking into account the process and cost of having your wedding invitations addressed in calligraphy, many might wonder, “why do it at all?” After all, people generally throw such things away. “I hear that all the time,” Debi says. “But I’ve also heard of many guests who keep their envelopes. If you send your guests something that shows this kind of care and elegance, addressed personally to them, you are giving them a reason to hang on to it as a keepsake from your wedding.” Zeinert advises that, “Above all, people should remember that this is their wedding. And if you want your event to stand out from the rest, using calligraphy from start to finish can really give you that special touch you’re looking for.”

Debi Zeinert The Blooming Quill

For over 30 years Debi Zeinert has been using her love for Copperplate and Spencerian Calligraphy to make the weddings of countless brides beautiful. Every January she travels to New York City to participate in a Martha Stewart sponsored wedding show as one of Martha’s featured vendors. Debi’s work has been seen in countless magazines all over the country and she is a designer for Bella Figura, a letterpress company in Syracuse, New York. Debi is the current Past President of IAMPETH (International Association of Master Penmen, Engrossers and Teachers of Handwriting). As well as a co-producer of Milwaukee's Magnificent Bride Wedding Show at The Pfister and the Indie WED Milwaukee Show at the H a r le y - D a v i d s o n Museum. Handwritten calligraphy adds an old-fashioned romanticism—an extra touch of elegance—to wedding stationery,

whether it’s an envelope or a place card. And while each design is individualized, Debi’s most popular design remains a single, hand-painted rose, set in the background of stunning black lettering. “I work with about 200 brides a year, and each one is unique. I specialize in invitation design, envelope addressing and place cards,” she explains. Every bride dreams of doing something just a bit different, and Debi helps to ensure everything from the first Save-the-Date card to the last ThankYou is a reflection of that personality and perfect day. Working independently on each order,

originate from her website, Debi makes sure the couples are always involved: “Everything I do is done with their input. It is very one-on-one.” Beauty, elegance, style. Debi Zeinert’s calligraphy adds that personalized touch, creating keepsakes that will last a lifetime.

“handwritten calligraphy adds an old-fashioned romanticism – an extra touch of elegance – to wedding stationery” Debi is meticulous in her detail and works closely with each couple to help realize their vision. While most of her orders

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Paper artistry Choosing the Wow Factor That Will Say It All by

Michelle Drewek

nless you are an extremely creative person by nature, it is unlikely you have ever felt a passion for paper the way you will when you are planning your wedding. Think of it this way: it is the “first look” at your wedding day for your guests, and it is one of the few keepsakes you can cherish for decades to come. At the same time, deciding what your invitations will be like is also some of the most fun you will have because of just how personalized and unique a blank piece of paper can become. It can be as simple or as extravagant as your mind can imagine. So, where do you start? First, pick a designer. A good designer can make all the difference in creating a “wow” factor. With a designer in tow, they can lead you in the right direction and help you with the following considerations. Color: Arguably, one of the easiest decisions to make when it comes to your invitations is the color scheme. This is something you have been incorporating since the earliest stages of planning. The question is how do you want to incorporate those colors? Will you have color paper? White paper with color font? Color embellishments? When you are with your designer, ask to see some examples of these various ways to make use of your color palette, and once you have an idea of what you like best, you can move on to the style of your invitations. Style: Style can range from traditional to modern, elegant to simplistic, embellished to rustic, and everything in-between. It really all depends on who you and your fiancé are, and the type of wedding you are going to have. We each have a style that reflects us the most, and this style is what will define a lot of your decision making throughout the wedding planning process. Paper & Print: Next, you will decide on the paper and print. Many couples opt for cardstock because of its durability. But you can add textures or sheer layers for an added affect. There are also eco-friendly options for the “green” couple. As far as your printing options, there are so many different fonts, calligraphy, stamping, etc., that it will all boil down to what you and your groom visually like most. It should also match the tone of your wedding. If you want to have a traditional, elegant atmosphere, whimsical fonts are probably not your best option. Once again, ask to see samples of your choices and let your eyes do the heavy lifting. Finally, consider if you want any “special touches.” Embellishments are a way to add that extra flair, and bring a taste of the wedding straight to your guests’ mailboxes. Rhinestones, feathers, ribbons, wood block imprints, logos—whatever you choose should be a direct reflection of your style and be used to incorporate details of your wedding. When it comes to invitations, it is best to let your eyes do all the talking, trust your instincts, and— as always—have some fun! It’s your chance, as a couple, to create a relic from your wedding that will last a lifetime.

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Ellen Albertson Paper pleasers, llc ELLEN has a unique knack for executing inspiring and breathtaking designs. Her sixth sense of creativity started at a young age, as a result of dreaming up craft projects with her mother. In college, as the only girl in her dorm equipped with a glue gun, Ellen’s ingenuity was requested by many. It was her own wedding, however, that launched her into the world of wedding invitations

and all the paper accessories that can be used to set and express the mood, atmosphere, and personality desired for an individual event. From there, endeavors for friends quickly led to referrals and now include dedicated clients who trust Paper Pleasers to design never-seen-before, handmade goods for all their life events. “I love the process of working with engaged couples and their families. They usually come with an initial source of inspiration for their big day, whether it’s simply a color, a general theme, or a more specific vision. The challenge to make a vision into reality sparks my creative juices.” If you are looking for a particular style with unique touches, Paper Pleasers can customize to your liking. If you have a dream, but it is something you’ve never seen before, you’re in Ellen’s specialty. She takes your vision and ends up with an invitation

“the challenge to make a vision into reality sparks my creative juices” concept that will exceed expectations and take your guests by surprise. Every outcome is 100% unique to the couple, from the carefullyselected paper features (thickness, texture, pattern, shine, color, etc.) to the ornate detail of a custom designed monogram or a hand-tied twine wrap. Ellen’s degrees in Mathematics and Business from Marquette University and experience as a small business consultant are a contrast to her creative side, but have fed her entrepreneurial spirit to the benefit of her clients. She understands the demands of managing a project, like a wedding, and the communication, coordination, budgeting and timelines required to ensure a smooth process for the bride. “I’ve had countless people say to me, ‘I can tell you really love what you do!’ I think it’s because they see that I work very hard yet enjoy every minute of it. I feel very lucky to have found what I love to do and have a talent for at such a young age.” Ellen’s easy going nature will leave you wanting to share a cup of coffee (or tea) while feeling confident that she understands exactly what you are looking for to create the perfect wedding stationery suite and paper accessories for your big day.

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Debbie Pape Paper Envy

Like many, Debbie Pape dreamed of turning her artistic hobby into a career. She loved creating holiday cards for friends and fun. Ten years ago she was asked to design a wedding invitation, and soon she found herself filling multiple orders. “One thing led to another,” Debbie recalls, and Paper Envy was born. “I started out of my home,” she explains, “and eventually moved into the Elm Grove studio and have been here ever since.” All of Debbie’s wedding creations, including

save-the-dates, invitations, programs, and menus (to name a few), are uniquely designed to fit each couple’s vision. “I meet each client and get to know them,” Debbie explains. “We go through different samples and determine their likes and dislikes and overall style.” Paper Envy is a full-service firm. They not

are not all-or-nothing; she encourages client participation and stresses that “if someone wants to be part of the process, they are more than welcome. They can be as involved as they want.” With a staff of five, Debbie’s clientele spans as far as New York to California, and her art has expanded to include letterpressing and engraving. But her mission to provide personalized service and one-of-a-kind design remains. Looking back, Debbie couldn’t be more thrilled with what her hobby has become, and she enjoys it every day. “I am fortunate enough to work with happy events,” she says, “and I get to take part in customizing everything a client desires.”

“i meet each client to get to know them. We go through different samples and determine their likes and dislikes and overall style” only design and create wedding materials, but will also stuff, address, and stamp invitations, etc. This is often a much-needed service for the modern, busy bride. However, Debbie’s services

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During the hustle and bustle of graduate work, I was participating in a very popular technological way of meeting women to date via match.com. One would think there would not be any time to set apart to find Mrs. Right in the midst of becoming a health care professional; however, it brought me a sense of tranquility by believing in a special way of finding a woman through seeking, screening, and selecting, especially Ashley. I enjoyed this romantic pursuit by taking the careful time to send out a request, diverging my attention towards her, learning more about her, her hopes, her dreams, and what her perfect match resembles, and dreaming one day, that I could potentially fulfill it and be her match. Throughout the processes of match.com, I knew that I would find â&#x20AC;&#x153;the oneâ&#x20AC;? for me; someone to be a perfect counterpart and compatible partner that I can walk through this life, having the enjoyment of her company, and sharing everything along the way. I found myself coming across a match unlike any other that personified that ideal, a match where no matter the stresses of the day that I faced, I always fixated my eyes on her profile, anticipating the next wink, email, or instant message, and being intrigued all of the time. I shortly began longing for the chance to meet Ashley and explain to her my feelings of excitement and joy along with showing my affection towards her in person. I was done with the sweet e-mails and phone messages; I wanted to capitalize on the opportunity to meet my future match in the most endearing way possible. Continued on page 162 VeilMagazine.com

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Ashley and I were matched on June 1, 2010 and we started our loved filled journey together. From that day, multiple dates were established filled with joyous memories and hilarious tear-filled stories. And who would have thought that the first date of my perfect match was during our first tennis match. With all of the opportunities that tennis has brought me that I am most thankful and prideful that tennis provided me with an opportunity to capture my future spouse. I will never forget the first time I saw Ashley across the tennis court. I knew I found someone special. I would do anything in my power to not only serve a tennis ball to her over and over again to make her a better future player, but to find a way to serve her throughout the days of my life to make me a better future husband. On September 1, 2010, Ashley and I made it official to our families that we were dating one another and became boyfriend and girlfriend. We solidified these precious titles by both of us striving to impress, surprise, and show sacrifices for one another to win over each other’s hearts. Whether it was from Ashley’s impressive athletic ability on the tennis court or my romantic and surprising gestures that usually ended with Ashley in tears of joy, we both surpassed anything we ever expected and what it meant to give true gifts of love and affection to each other. On June 13, 2012, I proposed to Ashley in a special and surprising way that was not an easy feat. I required the assistance of our family and close friends to pull it off. Ashley thought it was going away party, but it was actually a surprise engagement party. A little side note, I was blessed to have a job waiting for me as an Occupational Therapist in Kansas which meant I would have to leave my home state of Wisconsin to accomplish my dream job, but I knew I wanted to bring Ashley with me. I wanted to give her the best gift and a sincere commitment that she would never forget and would wear for a lifetime: an engagement ring and the promise of marriage, as we were about to embark on this new adventure together, and for her to be my fiancé every step of the way. In front of our family and friends, I got down on one knee with a breathtaking and tear-jerking speech while holding a sparkling and enchanting engagement ring for her. I remember Ashley being filled with tears of excitement and overwhelming joyous shock, and shortly after her reaction, a proclaimed “yes” was shouted from her and soon she began sharing her happy tears with everyone there. As Ashley was hugging me tight, it was a surreal moment for me, time slowed for an instant, it was perfect, and even though I knew we were Kansas bound the next morning, there was a different and everlasting relationship formed between her and I, and a comforting feeling was cast over me knowing that we could accomplish anything as long as we were together. As we settled into our new jobs and started to plan the wedding in Kansas, 2012 quickly became 2013. We decided to return to Milwaukee, Wisconsin to be wed in my home church. On September 1, 2013, was the day that Ashley and I became husband and wife. On that day, the bells of the church resonated throughout the halls as a

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signal for the greatest moment was about to begin for Ashley and I, and for every loved one to witness. As Ashley and her father walked down the aisle to Pachelbel’s Canon in D towards me, my smile was clinched from ear to ear, I could not move or adjust my smile if I wanted to, and it was displayed as permanent happiness for all to see. Ashley demonstrated such grace and beauty with every step, her elegance and exquisiteness radiated throughout the church while showcasing her princess style dress. Classic scripture readings of 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, and Matthew 19: 4-6 were read from both family members making our faith and devout love for our Creator known. Ashley’s sister graced us with her magnificent voice singing two solos entitled A Gift of Love and Walk with Them Lord bringing the importance of togetherness and entwinement between God, Ashley and myself. At that moment when Ashley stepped up to the altar facing me in preparation of saying our vows to each other, my heart was pounding but my mind was calm. My eyes were fixated on her eyes, my hands wrapped in her hands, and my heart piercing out of my tux because my love was overflowing. At that next instant, an utter jubilation rang out of my lips as I pronounced “I will,” to Ashley, and we both shared in a magical kiss ending the wedding ceremony and becoming one. As I now reflect on my wedding day, I know the smile will never leave my face. When the wedding message was given, the vows and rings were exchanged, the kiss received, it will ever be a utopia moment that Ashley is my perfect match for a lifetime of happiness.

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petals in Bloom Gorgeous Ideas Inspired by Every Blooming Thing by

Michelle Drewek

During the planning process, there are a number of visual details to consider. Depending on the color palette

and theme of your wedding, décor and design can evolve into any number of (masterpieces). Arguably one of the most versatile design pieces is the flowers. Color, arrangement, variety, eco-friendly options; the possibilities are truly endless. With this much versatility comes confusion. Don’t panic. Deciding on your floral options should be done step by step. Before you begin deciding on flowers, take time to visit several florists. Get recommendations from family and friends, ask your venue who they have worked with in the past, and look through the portfolios of at least three florists before committing. As with every other wedding decision, you don’t want to over think it, but you also want to know your options. During this “interview” phase of picking a florist, ask them what trends they are noticing, as well as unique concepts they have worked with. Every florist has their own story to tell, you can take these answers to heart during your own planning. Once you decide on the florist, then you can dive into planning your arrangements. First, think about what colors you’d like to incorporate. Do you want to strictly stick to your color palette, or would you like to bring in some accent colors as well? Or, do you want your entire floral concept to be accents to your main color palette? If you have a simple color scheme, try incorporating accent flowers with your main color arrangements. If you have a bolder palette, use the flowers as a visual balance and opt for subtleness. Once you decide on colors, next you’ll want to consider the species of flowers you’d like to use. You may only want one or two types of flowers, embracing the power of less is more. Within this concept, you can keep everything cohesive through uniformity, or allow the overall design and decorative elements of your arrangements to embrace some diversity. This could include various centerpiece sizes, for example, or added adornments. If you want a wide variety of flower species, consider one unifying concept to keep cohesion among your arrangements. Fall or winter weddings could incorporate twigs. Spring or summer weddings could mix in extra greenery. If you have a distinct theme—say a vintage-themed wedding—curvy vases or elements of the décor can add that cohesive flair to your floral design. Finally, you have a number of arrangement options to choose from, be it bouquets, boutonnieres, centerpieces, vines, aisle décor, landscape, etc. Your first consideration should be where the ceremony and reception are being held. If it is outdoors, consider what type of landscaping already exists and how that will work with your theme and color palette. If it is indoors, the space you are working with can help dictate your options. Work with the venue to see what has been done, and what is possible. Although your florist is the expert in flower design, your venue planners are an invaluable planning resource and may have some notable ideas you had never considered before. As with all your wedding plans, this is a chance to represent you and your fiancé. Flowers, like relationships, flourish from tender love and care. What better way to bring this ultimate celebration of lifelong commitment together than surrounded by hundreds of blooming symbols of love.

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Dale Servais Dahlia Blooms “Being stylish has never been so simple when working with Dahlia Blooms.” This is the motto behind the brand and personal service provided by the privately and locally owned flower boutique. Dale Servais, the owner of Dahlia Blooms, has been serving the Milwaukee and North Shore area for over 25 years. It is safe to say that Dahlia Blooms is held in experienced and talented hands. Dahlia Blooms is considered to be a florist with “artistry in the know of style, trends and design.” Accordingly, Dale passionately expresses his valued knowledge of wedding style and Dahlia Blooms’ favorite new floral trends for this year’s weddings. “The trend now is grouping of different size vases on each table. Diverse clusters of one flower together

in different shapes and sizes produce a clean, sleek design.” Dale explains, “And mostly clear glass cylinders are the new trend.” So how does a bride choose the right florist? “She needs to individually talk to the florist and together they have to be on an even comfort

to reflect the individual’s taste.” Dahlia Blooms uses premium fresh blooms for the table décor as well as personal flowers. “Imports of fresh Dutch blooms come from around the world including even Chile and Thailand.” The blooms are brought directly to the wedding and the special event floral studio. Dale discloses that the best part of a wedding for him is “to present my floral blooms, bride fully delighted, and seeing the vision of the whole total concept coming together and being pleased. Blooms give that feeling and touch of life, freshness, new beginnings, color, happiness and fulfillment. Blooms are the finishing touch.”

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zone.” Dale explains that this rapport will help planning and designing go smoothly for both the bride and the florist. Dahlia Blooms emphasis is on “freshness and top quality of the blooms and personal touch of unique and creative design

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of your staff,” writes S.M. “The flowers were absolutely perfect!” All these happy couples can’t be wrong and you can join them. Make the beautiful choice, Belle Fiori, Ltd. for your wedding flowers.

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Located in the heart of Milwaukee, Belle Fiori is as diverse and unique as the city itself. Whether a bridal couple is looking for something timelessly traditional, modern chic, vintage elegance or infused with Midwest charm, the team at Belle Fiori can build that vision. From the east side to the suburbs, or the festival grounds to lake country, Belle Fiori brings passion for floral design and exceptional customer service to every bride and groom. At Belle Fiori, Ltd., the name says it all—loosely translated, it means “beautiful flowers” in Italian. The team at Belle Fiori delivers beautiful flowers to every occasion, providing the freshest, most unique and creative flowers possible. Each week, flowers are flown in from as far as Australia and Thailand or picked up from a local Wisconsin grower. At Belle Fiori, freshness is key and they know just where to go. “I wanted to own my own business in a creative field, so I found a niche in floral

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design and I love it!” Emily Neubauer, says of her thriving boutique and widely respected wedding design. Her talent was cultivated in several local flower shops and she has the honor of being one of Milwaukee’s few members of the American Institute of Floral Design. Belle Fiori works closely with every bride to ensure the details are beautiful. “We are here to help make this the day every bride has dreamed of,” Emily says with a smile. Belle Fiori does a lot of work to make that happen. Whether it’s elegant altar flowers for a historic Milwaukee church or a trendy rehearsal dinner centerpiece for a new Eastside restaurant, ideas come easily to Emily and her team, and Belle Fiori becomes that extra set of hands to put the finishing touch on each wedding day. Details like pinning every boutonniere, sprinkling petals and lighting candles are never overlooked. Belle Fiori’s passion for beautiful flowers has not gone unnoticed, rave reviews are flying in. “They were even better than I’d hoped, and I still receive compliments,” says J.L., a recent client. Further positive responses pour in. “I appreciated everything so much! You were able to figure out exactly what I wanted,” exclaims J.M. “Everything looked absolutely beautiful and we were very impressed by the professional nature

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Daniel Yerke, AIFD & The Flower Garden Design Team the flower garden

When brides need creative, artistic wedding flowers, they turn to The Flower Garden, the full-service florist of choice for Waukesha County and the entire Lake Country area. Located in beautiful downtown Hartland, The Flower Garden was established in 1987 by Daniel Yerke, a member of the prestigious American Institute of Floral Designers, and includes a talented staff of designers with over 100 years of combined floral experience, many with additional backgrounds in interior, costume and fashion design. This wealth of experience allows The Flower Garden to successfully

enhance any wedding style, customizing florals to compliment the bride’s color scheme, style, taste and budget. Providing service to brides throughout the entire Milwaukee metro area and points beyond,

takes ownership of a wedding from the initial bridal consultation through creative execution and delivery on the special day. This ensures 100% customer satisfaction, and is a key reason why The Flower Garden has garnered such an excellent reputation for creativity and customer service. Treating every wedding as unique, the staff custom crafts each design from top-quality flowers that are flown in daily from around the world. This philosophy applies to The Flower Garden’s designs for every occasion, something their individual and corporate customers truly appreciate. Known for beautiful hand-tied bouquets, lovely European garden baskets and delightful giftware, brides will enjoy looking at the colorful displays in this charming shop when they come for their private, no-obligation wedding consultation. “During our consultations we ask many questions, and encourage brides to bring in swatches, photos, pictures and color combinations that have caught their eye,“ says Dan. “ This enables us to recommend the perfect designs to make their dreams come true. When brides come to us, they know their flowers will be taken care of by a skilled, talented professional who genuinely cares about their needs and has the imagination to create a beautiful vision for their wedding day.” The Flower Garden has successfully produced wedding florals for simple, backyard ceremonies up to extravagant gala events at the Milwaukee Art Museum and everything in between. A talented staff with a passion for floral artistry, an unrelenting attention to detail, and exceptional customer service – all these elements combine to make The Flower Garden a worry-free choice for today’s discriminating bride.

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The Flower Garden staff believes personalized attention to detail is crucial. Each designer

Melissa Maas bank of memories & flowers

LOVE IS OFTEN DESCRIBED like a flower, blossoming and flourishing. It’s no wonder flowers play such an important role in a wedding. With all of the colors, varieties, heights and arrangements for brides to choose from, why not have someone who has a long-standing relationship with flowers to create something magical for your big day? Melissa Maas, owner of Bank of Memories & Flowers, can’t remember a time when her life didn’t include flowers. From her childhood days of arranging flowers in her mother’s and grandmother’s vases (including her favorite—the romantic, lush peony) while begging her father to build her a greenhouse, to today as the owner of two shop locations (Pewaukee and Menomonee Falls), Melissa is nothing short of a floral mastermind. “One of my first floral jobs was in a grocery store’s floral department at age 16,” Melissa says. “This is where the love grew.” From there she went on to work as a florist for four years while she was studying at the University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh, soaking up everything she could about the flowers, plants and business. After graduating from UW-Oshkosh, Melissa journeyed to Seattle, Washington., to the Floral Design Institute where she received her Advanced Floral Certificate. “I wanted to experience the West Coast floral ways,” Melissa explains. “There were students from all over, and even one from Alaska. It was interesting to see how things are different from the Midwest.” After the Floral Design Institute, Melissa

worked at the TV ABC affiliate in Madison with her degree in Radio-TV-Film, but that didn’t keep her from her first passion. A flower shop nearby hired her to help during Valentine’s season, and she stayed on afterward to work nights and weekends after her day job. Then, she learned that Bank of Memories & Flowers in her hometown of Menomonee Falls was going up for sale. “So at the age of 24, I followed my dream and put everything I had

Melissa loves to continue learning and as a member of the Teleflora Board of Wisconsin and Upper Michigan, she has an unlimited pool of talent and resources to draw from. “I love learning new tips and tricks—anything I can bring back to the shop and show the girls,” she says. With a passion as deep as Melissa’s, you can be sure that your wedding day—a day she is overjoyed to share with you—will be nothing short of sensational. “I love weddings; my eyes light up,” Melissa says. “I am in the moment, excited about your wedding and wanting to hear more. The consultation is an experience of personalized attention—creating a customized design just for you.”

“the consultation is an experience of personalized attention - creating a customized design just for you” into the shop,” Melissa elates. “That first year I worked 10-plus hour days, 6 days per week, and I loved it! I loved it so much that a year later I started another shop in Pewaukee.”

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Tracy was about to cancel her eHarmony membership. It was her last day on the dating site when she was matched with Dan. Tracy had a feeling that she should extend her membership and as they got to know each other, they came to realize that “this was it,” that this relationship was the real thing. “We believe that it was fate!” they stated. With Dan living in Chicago, IL and Tracy living in Franklin, WI, they let fate take over to bridge the distance. That same trust was reflected in their winter wedding as they let tradition guide them while making personalized touches to stay true to themselves. How did he/she propose? Dan proposed at McKinley Marina in Milwaukee on a Tracy’s birthday. After dinner, we took a walk by the marina. Dan stopped at the exact same spot on the pier where we had our first conversation about marriage. It had become “our spot”. As we looked out over the water, Tracy commented that the lights on the water looked like diamonds. Dan got down on his knee and proposed. When Tracy stopped crying, she said, “Yes, yes, yes!” Who was the first person/people you told? We told Tracy’s parents that evening. We drove directly to their house to show them the ring. Tracy’s mom started to cry and Tracy’s dad went for the champagne. Prior to this evening Dan’s son, Kevin, knew that Dan had bought the ring. How did you announce your engagement to everyone else? Did you use social media? We told close friends and family. We sent a “save the date” announcement as our Christmas card that year. What style was your wedding? "Simply Elegant”. It was a winter theme with “ice” crystals and snow. We had a candlelight ceremony at night. Our color theme was Glacier Blue (the color of a Tiffany box). Did you include any special traditions or customs? We wanted a traditional, Christian ceremony with personal touches to make it “ours”. We followed the traditional Catholic ceremony, but added vows that we wrote together. Did you have a “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue?” Absolutely! Old—Mom’s crown made into Tracy’s headband, Mom’s train made into Tracy’s purse. New—Dress and shoes.

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Borrowed—Mom’s garter. Blue—Tracy’s Grandma’s anniversary ring and blue ribbon on Mom’s garter. Were there any aspects of DIY that you incorporated and if so why and how? Our maid of honor, Beth, made our program and table place cards. Other than that, we expressed our own ideas and let the professionals do their jobs. They know best – they do it for a living! We really trusted everyone we hired and were overwhelmed by their talents! Did you do anything special during the ceremony? We had our friends Jean and Steve read love letters that we had written to each other. It was the most personal part of the ceremony. Our guests loved it and said that they could feel our love for one another. How many people did you have in your wedding party? We purposely kept our wedding party small to keep it more meaningful. Dan’s son, Kevin, was his best man. Tracy’s best friend, Beth, was her maid-of-honor. Tracy’s god daughter, Emma, was a junior bridesmaid. Todd, Tracy’s brother, was an attendant. What was the first detail that you knew you absolutely had to have at your wedding? To feel Dan’s parents’ presence by honoring them with a memory table. We wanted everything to be meaningful. What was the most important item for your wedding that you knew you just had to splurge on? The photographers. We wanted photographers who would capture emotion and feeling, not just pictures of what happened that day. When we saw Ambiance Studios work displayed at a bridal show, we got every wish! If you had one thing to splurge on what would it have been? We loved the simple elegance of the day and were happy with the results. The only thing we can think of is adding more flowers to the tables and perhaps an all-day limo at our disposal. What would be one piece of advice that you would offer to future brides? Have your wedding reflect you as a couple. Open yourselves up to lots of choices and “have that feeling” for each part before making final decisions. Listen to advice from others, but make final decisions based on “that feeling”. You will have no regrets if you stay true to yourself. VeilMagazine.com

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In Depth Exposure The Truth Behind Wedding Photography by

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Wedding photography is the ultimate gift you give yourselves. It is the key to memories, the moment of glamour

captured, a snapshot of love. There are a hundred adjectives to describe how beautiful the pictures are from your wedding day, and you look long and hard through the many photographers available to you to find the perfect fit. Finding a wedding photographer is not unlike the courtship you danced before becoming engaged. It is a relationship built on trust, understanding, connection and style. You peer back through the lens at the artist behind the machinery and know your day is being photographed and preserved the way you’ve always dreamed, and will create photographs you continue to cherish for decades to come. A tried and true wedding photographer is so much more than a body behind a camera. They are an artisan, a particular artist, who has ideas in their head long before you finally look at them and wink. And these artists bring so much more to the table than simply showing up for a consultation and your wedding day. It’s important for the truly educated bride to understand the technical aspects of a photographer’s role and duties, in order to better grasp and understand what happens behind the scenes, before and after the wedding day. By exposing these elements of their daily work, the photographers in Veil Magazine - Ambiance Studios by Scott and Cathy Erickson, Craig John Photography, Front Room Photography, and Patrick Manning Photography - hope to help brides realize the amount of care and caressing each photograph receives before finally arriving in your wedding album and the amount of structure that goes into becoming a viable wedding photographer. Once you decide on a photographer and the wedding day approaches, your photographer is already busy working on the preparations that are necessary to ensure you have the best of the best that they can offer you. “We are making sure everything is in working order before we set out. Charging camera and flash batteries, which can take a few days, going over the timeline with the couple,” lists Craig John. Patrick Manning agrees. “Getting the camera gear ready takes the better part of the an afternoon. Formatting memory cards, time synching cameras, cleaning the lenses and camera sensor.” Put simply, your wedding is a serious business for your professional photographer, and it’s the type of business that comes with some very particular trimmings. The photographers of Veil Magazine all carry incredibly involved and expensive equipment to provide you with the ultimate in photography quality based on the style you’ve selected them to give you. Some newer photographers may rent equipment as the cost is quite heavy to have the appropriate cameras and lenses, but a professional will buy everything that’s needed and then some. “You get what you pay for, so it’s better to do it right,” says Cathy Erickson of Ambiance Studios. Having the right equipment is a gigantic part of properly running a full wedding photography business, and what sets the professionals apart from those people who just do a bit of dabbling on the side with a single camera. “It’s a huge investment because you need to upgrade almost every year as lenses get out of whack with use and new technology comes out,” explains Eron Laber of Front Room Photography. “Every year, the sensors get bigger, which leads to continued on page 180

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bigger memory cards, which leads to bigger files, which leads to bigger computers.” Patrick Manning concurs. “A camera bag can easily have ten to twenty thousand dollars worth of gear in it, and we need gear that can keep up with a heavy shooting schedule.” The need for productive and strong equipment is essential to professionals who want to keep the chances for break-downs on the wedding day to a minimum. If gear is rented, there’s always the chance it wasn’t properly maintained, or is prone to malfunctioning. Plus, when the gear is owned, your photographer has better control over the images he or she can create. “I’m always hunting for new gear,” Craig John says. “Not only do all photographers want the best gear available, but we want the gear that gives us the best ‘character’ available.” Couples often wonder what exactly they are getting when they pay for a photographer. After all, there are many newer, up and coming photographers out there. With the internet and digital photography, anyone with a camera is starting to call themselves a wedding photographer after only capturing a small handful of events. However, many of those small-time photographers don’t have even the most basic paperwork, such as property insurance on their gear, in place to protect you and your expectations of having a photographer on hand with the high-tech equipment you’ve paid for. They also have to watch their income and taxes. Craig John emphasizes that “You’re not legal if you’re not paying your taxes, and there are plenty of weekend part-timers not paying their taxes on wedding photography income. Even a small one-person photography business is a ‘viable tax paying business’ and they can be absolutely swamped.” Cathy Erickson discusses how the job never ends, with your wedding photographer usually logging hours every day of the week. “We all have to be willing to give up evenings and weekends and wear many hats all the time.” You’ll see that kind of information on most photography contracts, along with the biggie these days: what your ability to handle your wedding photos is, after the big day. All the professionals in Veil Magazine will encourage you to read the contract, even the fine print. Photographers will always retain the ownership of their images, even though they are of you, because it is their artistic property. “It’s standard these days that you get rights to reproduce your images,” Eron Laber reveals. “You can usually do anything personal with your photos - print them, make albums, show

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them on social media, but you just can’t sell or enter them in contests.” Craig John goes a step further to explain that “Retaining ownership allows us to continue to market our businesses with fresh up-to-date work.” That freshness is important, because it shows that your photographer is keeping up with trends in the wedding industry, and their long lineage of experience. Experience is the largest factor for why you should look to hire a true professional. Weddings are unpredictable. The more apt photographer is going to catch the spontaneous moment and react quickly to demands placed on them. If your photographer lacks that experience, they won’t be vocal enough or too overbearing. Patrick Manning warns that you also want to be sure you’re getting the photographer you expect, “not just one that is assigned to your wedding the week before.” Again, that comes down to the level of professionalism and personal service you’re offered. Craig John lists off a checklist of things you should get from a professional photographer - both tangible and intangible. “You’re paying for a reservation of time - your wedding date - as well as our gear, back-ups, memory cards, the ridiculous amounts of computer technology, our artistic abilities, back office and legal work, and of course all the time to photograph you, sort, process and finish your photography.” All of that time is indeed spent on the intricacies of processing your special images. Days - sometimes entire weeks - are spent in front of a computer. “Back office work is actually the bulk of the overall time spent on a wedding,” Patrick Manning puts. “There is time spent backing up, doing first and second round edits of the work, correcting the images in a RAW converter, preparing the images for clients, and all the other mundane paperwork that goes along with everything.” Plus, there’s the time finessing even those initial edits. “This is not like shopping for a car,” Eron Laber says. “It’s not the same product, different dealer. Every photographer is creating a specific image and style unique to them and only them.” So many brides take the time to seek out a specific style, thanks to the online sources available for wedding dreaming. It’s also important to spend just as much time finding the right photographer locally to match your style and expectations, combined with professionalism and experience and you’ll have a wedding photography experience that will, like your photos themselves, last a lifetime.

Scott and Cathy Erickson ambiance studios-Scott & Cathy erickson

Wedding photographers Scott and Cathy Erickson love what they do. Who wouldn’t enjoy the opportunity to live your passion every day alongside your spouse, as you join newlyweds in celebrating love everlasting? This dynamic husband and wife team has been in business for 20 years, offering an artistic, contemporary style best described as “photojournalist with a high end fashion attitude.” Both studied photography in college, and constantly perfecting their craft by continuing their education and being mentored by the best photographers in the world. The talented duo goes out of their way to be there for you; traveling around the globe to photograph every moment , from the proposal, to your engagement, rehearsal, wedding, after sessions and more. Are you camera shy or nervous about being in the spotlight? This won’t be an issue at all when working with Scott and Cathy. Their goal is to connect with you on a personal level so you can feel comfortable and at ease. Most collections

include an engagement session, called a “getting to know you session.” It’s the perfect way for everyone to get to know each other and gives you a chance to see the Erickson’s in action. You’ll more than likely develop an emotional connection and lifelong friendship. Not only will Scott and Cathy document your love story as it unfolds, but they will preserve your romance forever in a beautiful,

different from any other. Call for an appointment to visit Ambiance Studios for a consultation. Scott and Cathy are happy to sit down with you to discuss your ideas and show you examples of the fine art books in person. You won’t be disappointed! Visit the online store to view engagement and wedding images, sample book designs, and check out the blog for inspiration. If you decide to book with Ambiance, you’ll be able to share your images with family and friends, select photos, place orders, and make payments online at any time. The beauty of an online store is, of course, that it is always open! Whether you are planning a wedding in Wisconsin, or a destination wedding at an exotic locale, Scott and Cathy from Ambiance Studios would love to spend time with you to capture the moments that take your breath away.

“the talented duo goes out of their way to be there for you” custom-designed Italian fine art book. These high-quality, “GraphiStudio” books with crystal and polished stainless steel laser-etched covers, are truly one-of-a-kind, and a favorite of celebrity photographers. You select the style and layout that best fits your taste and reflects who you are. Scott hand-designs every book from scratch, without templates. Your album will be completely

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The photographers at Manning Photography use a fashion-oriented and photojournalistic approach to photographing weddings. Instead of forcing fictitious and un-natural poses, they look to capture he real emotions, expressions and surprises that happen throughout a wedding day. The result is a portfolio of memorable images that shows the natural, relaxed and spontaneous nature of couples and their guests. They take the time to get to know each couple they photograph, establishing trust that creates a strong yet relaxing rapport which helps remove the nervousness and anxiety that people naturally experience when having their picture taken. Their mission is to secure the memory of the anxious preparations, the intricate details, the inexpressible beauty, the complete range of emotions and the treasured unspoken sentiments that can only be captured in photographs.

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“they take the time to get to know each couple they photograph, establishing trust”

Patrick Manning

Julie Zahn

Patrick owns Manning Photography and has been photographing weddings since 1998. His fashion-oriented style of photojournalism yields unforgettable results. “Weddings, by nature, are beautiful events. You don’t have to look hard to find things to photograph because it’s all around you. The challenge is to capture the right moments at the right time to make it a lasting memory.” When he’s not photographing weddings, Patrick works on commercial and magazine photography assignments, and loves to take his cameras while traveling.

Julie photographed weddings in Texas before settling down in Wisconsin. She takes her fashion oriented approach to photographing weddings seriously. “Weddings are the perfect time and place for fashion. Couples look their best and with a little coaching they can come away with some spectacular photos in a short, but fun, amount of time.” When she’s not photographing weddings, she’s out photographing portraits, equestrian events, and personal projects. She also enjoys spending time with her husband and two children.

Craig John Craig John Photography

Craig John has always been driven by creativity, from handing in grade school homework filled with doodles, to a 14 year graphic design career that’s taken him from Madison to New York City, and back to Wisconsin. Never, in his wildest dreams, did he think he’d be a wedding photographer. But as Craig says, “our path has to find us”, and he wouldn’t change a thing about how he became connected to wedding photography. Shooting his first wedding as a second photographer was the most amazing, liberating and uplifting professional experience of his life, and moved him into an exciting chapter of his life. Though Craig had never thought he’d be a photographer, he has always had a love for vintage and nostalgic journalistic photography. Ever since Craig was a child, he would pillage through old LIFE magazines and marvel at the grainy photos of the Kennedy’s, Nixon, Martin Luther King Jr, the Beetles, Grace Kelly, Frank Sinatra, and Jackie Robinson. They were all caught in a special moment that conveyed a

story full of emotion, depth and texture. Craig was completely mesmerized. So when he fell into the wedding photography profession, it wasn’t difficult to find his inspiration. “Life!” he exclaims. “What wedding isn’t about ‘Life’? Weddings are full of love, laughter, tears and everything in between.” In order to capture “life” as it happens, Craig travels light, getting in the middle of the wedding day and submersing himself amongst your family and friends. Essentially, he becomes

Craig also knows your family and friends want to get to cocktail hour and on with the celebration, so his family portraits have been tailored to be casual, natural and quick. According to Craig’s style, bridal party portraits are inspired by editorial, lifestyle and high fashion photography. Craig jokes he “may be the only guy in Wisconsin with subscriptions to Vogue, Town & Country, and Harper’s Bazaar, as well as Communication Arts. What can I say? I love art.” Craig’s understanding of artistic elements gives a very eloquent wedding testament. The rest of his wedding day inspiration comes from spontaneity and the environment; light, shadows, color, textures, and depth. He explains with enthusiasm; “When you weave all this together, you get a very deep, real, intimate, heartfelt wedding day story.”

“weddings are full of love, laughter, tears, and everything in between” a guest with “special privileges.” Because Craig doesn’t carry a lot of gear, and he’s not pounding everyone with a flash, most guests don’t realize he is the wedding photographer. This allows Craig to capture the day and your guests as naturally as possible. Does this mean Craig doesn’t shoot portraits? Absolutely not. He understands portraits are an essential aspect of wedding photography. But

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“I know that I really like you, and I think you like me. If this is true will you go out with me?" Katie had two options and she didn’t think that she could circle “yes” fast enough. As a 12-year-old, it was the happiest moment of her life at the time. They had just buried a time capsule with their fellow students at Bay Lane Middle School. Fourteen years later, Katie and Josh are married, which is what Josh was aiming for all along.

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married 10-13-2012 Katie and Josh’s middle school romance started out typically enough. They would pass notes back and forth during class, they went to dances together, and their parents were even kind enough to take them on movie dates. Of course at that age, their parents stayed at the movies with them as chaperones. But then Josh gave Katie a promise ring and said he was going to marry her one day. “I thought he was nuts. I mean, what 12-year-old boy says those kinds of things at that age?” Katie recalls, adding, “I knew I was pretty lucky to find someone like that. Most people say they don't believe in fairy tales, mostly because they all seem so unrealistic in the real world.” But Katie knew that she found her fairy tale. She says that he is her happily ever after. How did he propose? Josh proposed on December 11, 2011. We had gone out the night before and I slept in a bit the next day. He wasn’t home when I woke up, which didn't concern me at first because I thought he was going to pick up some breakfast for us. I made coffee and waited. I walked back into the kitchen and saw beautiful roses sitting on our kitchen table along with a handwritten note. I couldn't believe that I’d completely missed them earlier. I read the note and it was a beautiful written letter telling me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and to come meet him where he had fallen in love with me. I was still in my pajamas when I ran to the car to go meet him at Bay Lane Middle School, near the time capsule that was buried years ago where he first asked me out. He was standing there, freezing his butt off, smiling and shaking his head at me. I walk over to him he got down on one knee and said, "I had a lot of nice things to say, but I’ve been here for like three hours and I’m freezing. Katie, I love you so much. Will you marry me?" I had to laugh because I knew then just how late I was and how cold he must be at that point, and followed that with my answer, which was “yes”. I was so surprised because I did not see it coming at all. He did a really good job of keeping it from me. How long was your engagement? Our engagement was about 11 months long. As much as I couldn't wait to marry him, I liked that we had enough time to just enjoy being engaged and plan the wedding at a slower pace. What style was your wedding? I would have to say it was modern style being that it was at a very modern place (the Harley-Davidson Museum) but it had some country/ vintage touches to it. Our wedding colors were black, blush pink, and ivory.

were so lucky to have our dear friend and fellow Dallas Cowboys fan agree to get ordained for our wedding. It was one of the best decisions we made during our wedding planning. It made it that much more amazing to have Reverend Weldon of Two-gether We Wed, who knows us personally and loves us, there while we were making the most important promise of our lives to each other. It made us both so comfortable. After our first kiss as husband and wife, Rev Weldon pulled out this huge Dallas Cowboys hat, put it on, and made us repeat the kiss again as married Dallas Cowboys fans. What was the first detail you knew you had to have in your wedding? We knew that we wanted everyone at the wedding to have a good time, so we had to have a location that appealed to most of our guests while still representing us. We knew that the Harley-Davidson Museum wouldn't disappoint. What was the biggest surprise when planning your wedding? I think most couples say this, but the price of everything. My second biggest shock was how my husband really wanted to be involved with the planning. He was my own little Groomzilla, taking charge and making sure everything was perfect. Were there any funny things or moments that happened during your wedding? It was during the ceremony. If anyone knows my husband, they know that getting up and speaking in front of that many people is probably his worst nightmare. As we were planning the wedding, I thought for sure he would pass out on me up there. I even warned Rev. Weldon and the best man to catch him if he fell. Luckily he didn't pass out, but he was shaking so bad that my body was actually shaking from just for holding his hands. I would mouth to him, "Its okay. Breathe," and he would just smile and continue to shake. I couldn't help but laugh a few times because of how bad it actually was. What would be one piece of advice that you would give to future brides? My advice would be to not rush an engagement and to really try and slow down and enjoy every bit of the process from fiancé to bride to honeymooner. When it comes to the wedding, make sure you and your spouse make time to go to a corner of the reception location and take few minutes to take it all in, because no bride is lying when they say it all goes by so fast. And lastly, if at all possible take a honeymoon. I feel it is so important to go and reward yourselves for all the wedding planning and to get some days to relax and enjoy the first few days as husband and wife.

Did you do anything special during the ceremony? Our ceremony was really special to us, the whole thing. We

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Relive Your Wedding Day How a Cinematographer Can Help You Preserve Your Happily Ever After Forever

he "I do's" have been said, the cake has been cut, and the guests have gone home. But, your wedding day doesn’t have to end there. In fact—it never has to end thanks to the quality product a cinematographer provides. A professional wedding film enables you to relive your dream day, remembering every moment exactly as it happened. Choosing the right cinematographer means finding someone who understands what is important to you and exceeding those expectations. Filming a wedding is a complex "live shoot" with only one take and multiple obstacles, so it is imperative that you choose someone with plenty of professional experience and creative know-how. Begin by meeting with several cinematographers, interviewing them about their experience, technology and vision. Be sure to ask them about their prior work—including samples of other weddings they have captured, how they adapt and overcome various challenges a wedding day can produce, what type of equipment they use and why it is beneficial to the end product, and who is a part of their crew. Next, you’ll want to ask about specifics details you have in mind. Are there certain moments you want captured, and if so is there a certain vision you have in mind for how they are captured? If you are lacking a clear vision, ask them what they have in mind. A true artist will be able to dazzle you before they ever have a camera in hand. After the details and vision, you will want to talk about their packages. Discuss both the type(s) of film you want to create, as well as the quality of the filming. In terms of quality, to truly see your footage in high definition a Blu-Ray disc is a highly suggested purchase. Investing in this type of disc will show your wedding film in true HD while the DVD version will not give that genuine high definition look. Types of film refer to the various shoots you can choose to do. Films cinematographers may provide include: Love Story, Save the Date, Rehearsal, Photo Montage, Same-Day Edit, Short Highlight, Feature Film, and Honeymoon. Cinematographers each offer unique packages, but if you have any of these ideas in mind, discuss them ahead of time to see if a unique package can be created for you. Also, to ensure the preservation of all your memories from your wedding day, ask if you can purchase all of your raw footage, including original audio, on a hard drive from your cinematographer. You will be able to watch the hours worth of footage captured, as well as have the ultimate back-up system from your cinematographer for all of the files related to your wedding day. It is important to note that the time your cinematographer spends with you on your wedding day represents only a small portion of what it takes to produce your film. If you need it by a certain date, discuss that when you sign your contract. You should expect to receive your film anywhere from three to six months after the wedding date. Finally, pricing is a big factor in many of your wedding day decisions, and this should be no different. However, this may be one thing you have opted to spend more of your budget on, and if that is the case you will want to ensure you are spending the bigger part of your budget in a smart way. Make sure that whichever package you choose meets you and your fiancé’s needs, as well as provides a peace of mind. A professional wedding film is a priceless keepsake from your day, to be enjoyed by everyone—you, your family, and your friends—for years to come. You’ve lived the dream; now live it again.

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Amy Johnson One Fine Day Productions

Imagine being the inspiration for a wedding documentary, having cameras discretely capture every moment both big and small, preserving precious memories that so easily fade away. Amy Johnson and the crew of One Fine Day Productions create artistic, cinematic films that allows couples to relive each moment years down the road. For almost 10 years, Amy has combined her knowledge of film with an expertise in art and graphic design, to create cinematic style wedding films that quickly become a treasured piece of their family history. Their strongest films feature every moment and detail from the bride getting dressed to

the final farewell. Everything is filmed in a true documentary style - the bride and groom never pose or "act" for the camera. “Many couples tell me after the wedding that hiring OFDP was the best investment from their wedding,” Amy says. As much

DSLR technology, OFDP also offers vintage Super 8mm film services. This format adds a nostalgic artistry to truly make it unique. A wedding film on this format will never go out of style. Additionally, you can combine the two mediums to create an amazing multi-media experience. OFDP embraces each story with passion and dedication. Each film is unique to the couple and created to be re-lived again and again. Their artistic approach and attention to detail has led them to many destinations beyond Wisconsin. Having a wedding film is one of the few things you can take with you after the big day.

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value as it holds right now, it becomes priceless as time goes by. It captures the emotion and details of the day in a way that photography cannot. Along with HD packages shot on the latest

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ADVERTISERS index Bakeries

Event Décor and Design

Officiants

Cake Lady, The 414-294-4220 cakeladydesigns.com

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Barking Pony Studios 414-302-0778 BarkingPonyBrides.com

Simma’s Bakery 414-257-0998 simmasbakery.com

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Event Lighting, Production, Sound, Staging

Beverage Services Bartenders On The Go & On The Go Events 414-899-6151 bartendonthego.com

Bridal Boutiques Bella Bridesmaid 414-270-0344 bellabridesmaid.com

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Brandi’s Bridal Galleria, Etc. 608-527-4436 brandisbridal.com

Two-Gether We Wed 414-813-7498 TwogetherWeWed.com

Photobooth Rentals

Majic Productions 414-839-1760 majicpro.com

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Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org

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Flowers

Sound By Design 262-968-9586 SoundByDesign.org

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Photography Ambiance Studios by Scott & Cathy Erickson 262-338-0922 AmbianceStudios.com Craig John Photography 414-213-6206 craigjohn.com

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Bank of Memories & Flowers 262-253-9111 262-695-9911 bankofflowers.net

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Gigi of Mequon 262-241-1123 gigiofmequon.com

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Belle Fiori LTD 414-272-2234 bellefioriflorist.com

Front Room Photography 414-294-0080 frphoto.com

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Stone Manor Bridal 262-377-5334 stonemanorbridal.com

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Dahlia Blooms 414-943-3356 dahliabloomsmilwaukee.com

Patrick Manning from Manning Photography 414-962-8180 manningphotography.com

Flower Garden, The 262-367-8205 theflowergardenhartland.com

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Bridal Shows Bridal Show at Overture, The overturebridalshow.com

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Gift Registry

Milwaukee’s Magnificent Bride mmbshow.com

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George Watts & Son 800-747-9288 georgewatts.com

Calligraphy The Blooming Quill 262-268-0525 bloomingquill.com

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Past Basket 414-247-9976 pastbasketmilwaukee.com

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Health & Beauty

Caterers Bartenders On The Go & On The Go Events 414-899-6151 bartendonthego.com

Lumiere Vein Center 262-569-VEIN (8346) LumiereVeinCenter.com

Home ownership/mortgage Great Midwest Bank greatmidwestbank.com

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Sazama’s Fine Catering 414-276-2030 Sazs.com

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Saz’s Hospitality Group 414-256-8765 sazs.com

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Paper Envy 262-780-0850 paperenvy.com

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Saz's Catering & Special Events 414-256-8765 sazs.com

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Paper Pleasers 414-301-1751 paper-pleasers.com

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Saz's Catering Lake Country 262-691-9796 sazs.com

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Jewelers

Invitations

Shully’s Cuisine & Events The Watermark 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com

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Men’s Formalwear

Entertainment - DJ’s Sound By Design 262-968-9586 soundbydesign.org

David Liska 133, Custom Jeweler Inside Back Cover 414-278-6000 DavidLiskaCustomJeweler.com

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Harley’s: The Store for Men 414-332-3404 harleys4men.com

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Wingman Formalwear 262-377-5334 stonemanorbridal.com

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Pre & Post Nuptial Party Locations Bacchus – A Bartolotta Restaurant 20-21, 32, 38, 414-765-1166 44-45 bacchusmke.com Bartolotta’s Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 LakeParkBistro.com

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Camp Bar 414-962-5182 campbarmke.com

Galleria, The 414-433-6088 pritzlaffevents.com

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Harbor House 414-395-4900 harborhousemke.com

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Joey Gerard’s – Greendale 414-858-1900 joeygerards.com

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Joey Gerard’s – Mequon 262-518-5500 joeygerards.com

20-21, 40, 44-45

Kil@Wat 414-291-4793 kilawatcuisine.com

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Mason Street Grill 414-298-3131 masonstreetgrill.com

16-17, 40

Milwaukee ChopHouse 414-390-4562 chophouse411.com

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Mr. B’s – A Bartolotta Steakhouse 20-21, 42, 262-790-7005 44-45 mrbssteakhouse.com Continued --->

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ADVERTISERS index Saz’s Catering Lake Country Western Lakes Golf Club 18-19, 34, 42 262-691-0900 westernlakes.com/weddings_and_banquets.aspx Saz’s State House Restaurant – The State Room 414-453-2410 sazs.com

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Shully’s Cuisine & Events Thien Room 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com

34, 37, 42

Turner Hall Restaurant 414-763-1490 turnerhallrestaurant.com

34, 41, 42

Reception Locations Bacchus - A Bartolotta Restaurant 20-21, 32, 38, 414.765.1166 44-45 bacchusmke.com Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at Pier Wisconsin 20-21, 32, 414-765-8610 44-45 bartolottacatering.com

Saz’s Catering & Special Events 414-256-8765 sazs.com

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Sazama's Fine Catering at the Marcus Center for the Performing Arts 18-19, 34 414-276-2030 sazamas.com Saz's Catering at the Country Inn & Suites Port Washington 18-19, 34 414-256-8765 sazs.com Saz's Catering Lake Country Western Lakes Golf Club 262-691-9796 sazs.com Shully’s Cuisine & Events The Watermark 262-242-6633 shullyscuisine.com

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War Memorial Center 414-273-5533 warmemorialcenter.org BBJ – Table Fashions 414-355-9010 800-592-2414 bbjlinen.com

Bartolotta's Lake Park Bistro 414-962-6300 LakeParkBistro.com

Rentals-Party/Reception Equipment

Grand Geneva Resort & Spa 800-558-3417 GrandGeneva.com

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Canopies Event with Distinction 414-760-0770 canopiesevents.com

Harley-Davidson Museum 414-287-2894 h-dmuseum.com

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Salons & Spas

Hilton Milwaukee City Center 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com

16-17, 32

Beauty 414-276-5054 beautymilwaukee.com

Historic Pritzlaff 143 Historic Pritzlaff 325 Historic Pritzlaff 333 Historic Pritzlaff 414-433-6088 pritzlaffevents.com

22-23, 32

Spargo Salon Spa 262-695-7400 spargospa.com

InterContinental Milwaukee 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com

16-17, 32

Milwaukee Art Museum 414-224-3200 mam.org

One Fine Day Productions 608-358-1815 onefinedayproductions.com

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River Club of Mequon 262-242-1400 riverclubofmequon.com

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Pabst Mansion, The 414-931-0808 x110 pabstmansion.com Pfister , The 414-390-3802 MarcusWeddings.com

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Rentals-Linens

Bartolotta Catering Company & Events at The Grain Exchange 8, 20-21, 32, 414-727-6980 44-45 bartolottacatering.com 20-21, 32, 38, 44-45

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ambiance studios-scott & cathy erickson

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Wedding & Event Planners Cherry Blossom Events 608-497-0133 cherrybevents.com

Dynamic Events by David Caruso 414-283-0050 dynamiceventsinc.com

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Golden Chic Events & Consulting 414-534-6943 goldenchicevents.com

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Let’s Have An Affair 262-691-3303 LetsHaveAnAffair.com

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