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LOVE AND ROMANCE
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10 WAYS THAT PROVES YOUR
MAN LOVES YOU
1)HE IS INTERESTED IN YOUR FUTURE.
A guy who has real feelings for you will also be interested in your future.
He will want to know what your goals are and your plans are.
He will be interested in things like whether or not you plan on moving away or getting a job that requires strange hours. This shows defi- nitely that he cares about you and is genuinely interested in all aspects of your life.
2)HE IS PROTECTIVE
If he cares about you more than he says he does,it’s going to be obvious in how protective he is.He will want to make sure you are phys- ically safe,so might become concerned if you make risky decisions or put yourself in what he perceives to be a danger.
Depending on his personality,he might voice his concern (which could totally rub you the wrong way) or he may just be silent type who says nothing but still keeps an eye on you.
There is a difference between protective and oppressive though and nobody has time for boyfriends who tell you how to dress and where to go.None of that, thanks!
But he will look out for you and will always support you if someone is getting in your face.
3)HE SPEAKS TO YOU EARLY AND LATE
In addition to texting you when there isn’t even anything to say,it’s a good sign when a guy texts you early in the morning and late at night because that suggests that you are the first and last thing on his mind.
However don’t confuse sweet,late night messages with booty calls,but generally,if he is reserving thought space for you at those prime times when his brain is still reviving up for the day or winding down,it means you have a pretty strong hold on his feelings!It doesn’t have to just be texts,but any form of communication means the same thing.
By the way early morning and good night calls are super romantic and every lady likes those.
4)HE CAN’T STAY MAD AT YOU.
A guy who really cares about you will hate fighting with you,so when the argument isn’t too intense,he will want to finish it quickly so you can get back to being
lovey- dovey.
If something is kind of annoys him but isn’t a huge deal,he might not even bring it up, just because he hates when a relationship is strained.
He will also have a much harder time seeing your your flaws because he is so into you. That doesn’t mean you won’t fight or he will let you get away with everything. If he never brings up anything at all,it could actually mean that he doesn’t care enough about you to work through your problems.
5)YOU CAN READ HIS BODY LANGUAGE
Body language (and eye contact,too)are super important. Unless you are unusually selfaware and being extremely careful,your body language and eye contact is usually involuntary.And is one of the things you should be paying attention to when you need more than just a verbal hint. Therefore it’s perfect opportunity to get a better look into someone’s feelings! Guys who really care about you especially if they ‘re only supposed to be nothing more than friends,are totally touchy.
They usually stand really close and lean in and stare you in the eyes more than average person.
You will also probably catch them looking at you when you are occupied. Guys who you are already dating will also generally have much stronger eye contact if they truly care about you.
6)HE MAKES EXCUSES TO SPEND TIME ALONE WITH YOU
We have already mentioned that a guy will fit you into his schedule if he really cares about you,but goes one step further,and here’s how:he will want to spend time alone with you and will make any sort of excuse to achieve that goal. This applies much more to those ladies who are wondering about the feelings of male friend!If you’re already dating him, you’re probably spending time alone anyway,but if you’re currently just friends,most of the time you spend time together could be in the company of the rest of the squad.
In this case, he might offer to pick you up before you join everyone else or subtly gravitate if he sees you sitting by yourself. Usually he will jump at any opportunity to have you all to himself.
7)HE REMEMBERS THE SMALL DETAILS.
When you really like someone,you are normally ultra-aware and switched on when they are around. Even if you are usually a blase’ person,you will find yourself paying attention to what he says and how he says it. So a guy who cares more about you than everyone else will really listen to the things you say, whether he wants to or not,and will remember the finer details. You can pick up bits and pieces from him about what he’s learned about you gradually. He’ll le things slip in conversation or he’ll text you after you go for the job interview you were stressing about to ask you how it went,and you will know that he was definitely listening.
8)HE FITS YOU IN
space so you can be yourself and live your own life,he’ll also make the effort to fit you into his life and his schedule. If he has it his way, he’ll want to see you and spend time with you as much as possible. No matter how much he’s working nor how many other commitments he has, a guy who cares will fit you in Simple. a ticket to see Sam Smith so you don’t have to go alone, even if he’s not interested in that sort of music at all. When he starts going out of his way to do things that he doesn’t really enjoy,it’s pretty clear that he cares more about you than you thought he did.
If there is no time in his schedule,he will shift things around until there is time. It’s an incredibly promising sign if he asks you to meet him for breakfast or lunch, because even tbhough he may not have the capacity for a dinner date,he wants you in his day. Though they may tell you otherwise,guys who can never see you because they are too busy just doesn’t care enough.
9)HE DOES THINGS HE HATES.
A guy who makes sacrifice for you is a guy who cares. They don’t have to be dramatic, storybook-type sacrifices,like giving up his job or leaving his home or anything that intense. They’re usually not even obvious. It’s things like agreeing to go to a restaurant he hates because you love the menu there,or buying
10)HE RESPECTS YOUR SPACE.
Though it may make you freak out,a guy who gives you enough space may just subconsciously letting you know how much important you are to him. We usually think of dudes who smother us with attention than as the ones with the strongest feelings than the ones who remain distant as not interested. We have all seen He’s just Not Into You,after all! But there is a difference between never wanting to spend time with you and allowing you the space you want. A guy who really cares can sense that you are really under the pump at work or having a few family issues,or just simply need a bit of time to yourself. Because he cares about your needs he will grant you this time.
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