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CONTENTS

ISSUE 60

NOVEMBER 2020 HOME 10 Mark W. Buyck, III: A Peaceful Pet 12 Oyster Stuffing, A Family Tradition 14 Doug Smith: Holiday Traditions During A Pandemic 16 Newsworthy

HEALTH + WELLNESS 18 HopeHealth: 5 Wishes 20 McLeod Health: Advanced Technology 22 The Holidays, Underage Drinking & Your Adolescent 24 Around Town: Evening Under The Oaks LIFESTYLE 26 Improving Your Credit in 2021 28 November 2020 Calendar 30 Cultural Conversations 32 Symon Gibson: An Installation Artist 34 Allie Roark: Redefine Your Suffering

BUSINESS 36 John Sweeney: An Interview with Tim Norwood 38 Hurst Farm: Woodworking 40 Lake City Hometown Holidays 42 Swoon Boutique 44 Mainstream Boutique 46 Southern Sercie 48 DeVane's Ladies and Mens Apparel 50 Leadership Hartsville: Jim Herring

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A SATISFYING HOBBY:

The Peaceful Pet story by Mark W. Buyck, III, Willcox, Buyck & William, P.A.

After dogs and cats, the most popular pet in the United States is fish. If you anticipate spending more time than usual at home over the winter and you have exhausted your Netflix options and may wish to consider a new hobby, think about getting a fish. Fish have many advantages over other animals. One notable edge is that they can be very relaxing to observe. In fact, there are thousands of hours of aquarium movies on YouTube for that simple purpose. Additionally, fish are quiet and will not destroy your home when left alone; unless you become an avid hobbyist, nearly all fish are inexpensive and many are readily available; you won’t have to take them for walks or build a fence around your back yard. If you are interested in an aquarium, there is a wealth of information online. Good websites to visit are www. aquariumcoop.com and www.myaquariumclub.com. Once you have done your research, you will realize that if you want to be a successful hobbyist, you need to spend some time, three to four weeks, in properly setting up your aquarium before introducing any fish. The advice in this article is for freshwater aquariums. While saltwater fish are beautiful and have more vivid colors, maintaining a saltwater system is much more demanding than freshwater and not recommended for beginners. This may be counterintuitive but larger tanks are more forgiving and easier for beginners. Smaller tanks need more care and attention, hold fewer fishes, and cannot house larger fish as they grow to their adult size. I would recommend a minimum 29-gallon tank and would strongly urge you to consider a 55-gallon set-up. A 55-gallon tank is 48 inches long and requires a sturdy aquarium stand because once it is filled, it will weigh 625 lbs. In locating your tank, you should try to 10

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find a location that is not heavily traveled. You want to avoid direct sunlight as this will cause algae problems in the tank. If you can locate it near a water faucet and drain, it will make maintenance easier. Make sure that the stand has doors so that you can store supplies, filters, etc., underneath outside of eye view. You will need substrate, lighting, a filter system, and heater. All of these can be purchased at local pet stores and are readily available online. Pet stores will generally offer you a complete set-up at a fixed price. I would still recommend researching each of the components individually before making the purchase. Another element of the hobby involves planting the aquarium. When choosing your lighting, make sure it can support a planted tank. If you plant, do your research and take your time. Once your aquarium is set up, you will need to “cycle” the aquarium before introducing fish. Cycling involves the introduction of nitrogen into your new ecosystem and waiting for beneficial bacteria to grow and eventually absorb the nitrogen. As part of the cycling process, you will want to test your water every day or so for ammonia and nitrates. While you are cycling and undoubtedly staring at an empty tank, you can begin researching the types of fish you want in your new eco-system. Different species of fish have different personalities. Some fish are quite peaceful while others are more aggressive. Even within the same species, males can be much more aggressive than females. Some large fish may consider some of your smaller fish as a “nice snack” and the “cute” 1-inch catfish in the fish store can grow to be a 12-inch adult. Aquariums aren’t for everyone, but it can be a satisfying hobby.

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Oyster Stuffing, A Family Tradition story and pictures by Rebecca Giese

Every family has different holiday traditions; in my family, many of them are food-focused. Dishes that we talk about year-round but only pull out the recipe card once a year. Our all-time family favorite has to be my mom's oyster stuffing. I finally convinced her to share the recipe with me and actually write it down, now we all can enjoy it at home!

Old-Fashioned Oyster Stuffing Ingredients: 1 stick of butter + 1/2 cup melted butter 2 cups fresh oysters, chopped* 1 cup onions diced 1 cup celery diced 1 cup mushrooms diced

1 bag cornbread stuffing 2 bags Pepperidge Farm sage dressing 2 beaten eggs 32 oz vegetable stock

Directions: 1. Preheat over to 350 degrees. Grease 13x9 baking dish. 2. In a large skillet, melt 1 stick of butter. Then add chopped oysters to the butter. SautĂŠ the oysters until fully cooked. 3. Remove the oysters from the skillet and set aside, leaving the liquid behind in the skillet. Add onions, celery, and mushroom to the skillet. Cook until tender, stirring occasionally. 4. In a large bowl, add together the bags of cornbread stuffing, dressing, beaten eggs, vegetable stock, and 1/2 cup of melted butter. Then add the oysters and tender vegetables. Mix and stir until fully combined. 5. Once combined, the mixture should be slightly doughy, not dry, but also not soupy. If the mixture seems dry, add more melted butter. 6. Add the stuffing mixture to the baking pan. 7. Cook for 25 minutes or until the top is starting to golden.Â *If you can not find fresh oysters or want to make this on a budget, try canned oysters. Still, warm the canned oysters in butter to create the oystery buttery sauce the vegetables are studded in, but you do not have to cook them as long as they are already cooked. Follow the rest of the recipe as usual.*

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Holiday Traditions During a Pandemic story by Doug Smith

Our family refers to Thanksgiving dinner as the “best dinner of the year” with about 25 of us scrambling around the house to find our seat. There’s always a table full of great food, laughing and enjoying each other’s company. This is always just so special to us. Everyone has an assigned dish to bring to compliment the perfect fried turkey and baked ham. Everything is homemade stuffing, giblet gravy, cranberry sauce, carrots, Brussels sprouts, turnips, collards, potato salad, green bean casserole, sweet potato soufflé, buttery biscuits, and some of the best mac and cheese you have ever had adorn the serving line. Mouthwatering decadent desserts such as cheesecake, pumpkin pie, dirt cake, pecan pie, and Black Forest cake line the counter. The dirt cake is one that our kids always made sure to have labeled and set aside in the fridge for later with a “Do Not Touch!” note attached.

in Iraq and Afghanistan. This year is all but traditional. In fact, I’m not sure how we will celebrate this year. But thanks to the COVID crisis, our family gatherings may be a little smaller in 2020. We are fortunate that this is one holiday that is best celebrated with close family. Unfortunately, some of the traditions we love will just not be the same. The Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, as we have come to know it, has been canceled for 2020, but is replaced with a virtual event. Black Friday sales will still be part of the long weekend but will be more of a cyber weekend without late night or early morning trips to your favorite stores.

Most of what we have for Thanksgiving would be considered traditional. The Black Forest cake has become a new tradition served in honor of our cousin Rodney. It was his one request after returning home from serving

“I do therefore invite my fellow-citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart

However, some traditions should never go away - like the meaning of Thanksgiving. On October 3rd, 1863 it was a cold, windy, and rainy day in the midst of the Civil War. President Lincoln was tired and ill as he delivered this Proclamation to the people of the United States.

A THANKSGIVING TREAT:

Black Forest Cake

Chocolate Cake:

Cherries and Cherry Syrup:

• 1 & 3/4 c all-purpose flour sifted

• 1 c drained, canned cherries

• 2/3 c natural unsweetened cocoa powder sifted

• 1/4 c Kirsch (cherry liqueur)

• 2 tsp baking soda • 1 tsp baking powder • 1 tsp salt • 2 c granulated sugar • 2 large eggs • 1/2 c canola oil

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• Cherry juice from canned cherries (drain cherries and reserve the juice) Whipped Cream Frosting: • 3 c heavy cream, cold • 1/2 c powdered sugar sifted

• 2 tsp pure vanilla extract

Optional Decorations:

• 1 c buttermilk

• 7 oz. chocolate shavings

• 1 c hot water

• Fresh whole cherries

and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens. And I recommend to them that while offering up the ascriptions justly due to Him for such singular deliverances and blessings, they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to His tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty Hand to heal the wounds of the nation and to restore it as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquility, and Union. Abraham Lincoln the President of the United States of America May we all remember, even during a global pandemic, that we still have so much to be thankful for. Get more from Doug Smith by following him on Facebook and Instagram at "Doug the Food Guy".

METHOD • To make the chocolate cake: Preheat oven to 350°F. Generously butter two 8-inch cake pans that are at least 2-inches high, and dust with cocoa powder, tapping the ramekins slightly to remove any excess. • In a large bowl, place flour, cocoa powder, baking powder, baking soda, salt, and sugar. Mix until combined. Set aside. • In a medium bowl, mix eggs, oil, vanilla, buttermilk, and water (pour the water slowly so it won’t cook the eggs). Whisk until smooth. Add egg mixture into the flour mixture and mix until smooth. Don’t over beat – batter will be lumpy at first, but mix gently and eventually stir with a whisk just until smooth. The batter will be thin and liquid. That's okay. • Scrape batter into prepared pans. Bake cakes for 30-35 minutes or until a skewer inserted into the center comes out clean. Allow to cool for 10 minutes in the pan before unmolding, then let cakes cool completely on a wire rack. I recommend wrapping the cakes in plastic wrap and refrigerate or freeze them for several hours before cutting them. Cut each cake layer in half horizontally.

• To make the syrup: Place drained cherries in a medium bowl, and add the Kirsch and 1/2 cup cherry juice from can to bowl. Leave to soak at room temperature for 30 minutes or more, then drain cherries in a sieve over a bowl, keeping both the cherries and syrup. Add more cherry juice to the syrup to get 3/4 cup syrup (you won't need the rest of the juice). This will be the soaking syrup for the cake layers. • To make the whipped cream: Using a stand mixer or hand mixer with a whisk attachment, beat heavy cream and powdered sugar until stiff peaks form. • Assembly: Place one cake layer on a cake stand or plate and brush with 1/3 of the cherry syrup. Cover top with a thick layer of whipped cream frosting (about 1 cup) and top with 1/3 of the cherries. Repeat twice more with the remaining layers and top with the last cake layer (there’s no need to soak the top layer with syrup). Frost the top and sides of the cake with whipped cream. Reserve 1 & 1/2 cups or whipped cream for decorating the top. Top with whole cherries. Cover the sides and top with chocolate shavings. Store cake in the fridge, covered, enjoy for up to 4 days.

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Something to Celebrate... The Mary Kay Foundation Awards $20,000 Grant to Pee Dee Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Assault TM

The Mary Kay Foundation’s 2020 Shelter Grant Program has selected Pee Dee Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Assault to receive a $20,000 grant to support local survivors of domestic violence across the Pee Dee region. The Coalition’s emergency shelter request was one of 50—out of more than 800 applications nationwide—that was selected to receive an award from the $1.1 million Mary Kay Foundation’s 2020 Shelter Grant Program. Announced in conjunction with Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the much-needed funding will provide direct assistance to shelters still reeling from the fallout of the COVID-19 pandemic. The Foundation strives to fund the life-saving work of women’s shelters, and the annual shelter grant program has helped finance critical needs including emergency shelter, transitional housing, counseling and legal aid. These resources support women and children as they seek refuge and relief on their journey to an abuse-free life. The $20,000 grant will benefit the Coalition’s Emergency Safe Shelter. In the Pee Dee Region, the Emergency Shelter is the only privately located, 24/ hour-operated shelter for women and children who have been displaced due to family violence. “Because of the support of the community and Mary Kay, we have been able to meet the needs of our women within the shelter,” says Carolyn Lynch, member of the Coalition’s Shelter Advisory Council. “As a member of the Advisory Council, I have been able to witness first-hand the valuable work our shelter has been doing in the community.” In light of the COVID-19 crisis, which is exacerbating women’s vulnerabilities and gender inequality and resulting in what has been described as a ‘shadow pandemic,’ this year’s grants are particularly important. Shelters across the country—and the world—have seen an alarming uptick in gender-based violence cases. Likewise, during the months of March and April, coinciding with our initial COVID-19 peak, calls to the Coalition’s Emergency Safe Shelter nearly doubled. Calls rose from a four-year average of 224 for the period to 427 calls during the same period this year. Fortunately, the Coalition’s shelter has been able to remain open throughout the entirety of the pandemic.

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Flow Town Yoga Recognized As Business of the 3rd Quarter of 2020 The Greater Florence Chamber and City of Florence named Flow Town Yoga, located in Downtown Florence, as Business of the Quarter for the 3rd Quarter of 2020. To recognize the award, a signed proclamation was read by City Councilman Glynn Willis during the September City Council meeting, which was held virtually. Owner Veronica Robertson accepted the award. Veronica is pictured here with Les Echols of the greater Florence Chamber of Commerce. Business of the Quarter is a unique partnership of the City of Florence and the Chamber to recognize local businesses for contributions to community development, growth and civic engagement. Flow Town Yoga, like many other businesses affected by the Covid-19 pandemic, had to close its doors for some time. She managed to pivot and create some unique outside sessions which she invited community members to attend.

McLeod Health Recognized for Excellent Patient Safety McLeod Health has been honored with 38 South Carolina “Certified Zero Harm Awards” from the South Carolina Hospital Association (SCHA) in recognition of the hospital system’s excellent work in preventing hospital-acquired infections. To earn a Certified Zero Harm Award, hospitals must experience no preventable hospital-acquired infections of a specific nature over an extended period of time.

This year, more than 399,000 women and their families will receive domestic violence support services through the agencies selected to receive grants from The Mary Kay Foundation. Please visit marykayfoundation.org for more information, and to view the complete list of 2020 shelter grant recipients. “The Coalition is honored to be a part of The Mary Kay Foundation’s efforts to reduce domestic violence, and is profoundly grateful for their support and for the good work of organizations nationwide that are serving the needs of victims in their own communities,” said Pee Dee Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Assault Executive Director Ellen Hamilton.

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McLeod for Health Florence Open Proceeds Donated to Susan G. Komen South Carolina The McLeod for Health Florence Open Tennis Tournament recently donated its 2019 profits -- a total of $9,000 -- to Susan G. Komen South Carolina to help fight breast cancer in the northeastern region of South Carolina.

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Engelhardt Named Francis Marion's Distinguished Professor for 2019-2020 Dr. Larry P. Engelhardt, professor of Physics, was named FMU’s J. Lorin Mason Distinguished Professor for the 2019-20 academic year at a special awards dinner Thursday night. The annual award, named in honor of a former chairman of the FMU Board of Trustees, is the highest honor bestowed upon an FMU faculty member. It also means that Engelhardt will be the FMU nominee for the South Carolina Governor’s Professor of the Year Award competition. The Mason Distinguished Professor award is based upon a faculty member’s ongoing contributions to teaching, professional service and scholarly activities.

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Engelhardt, the 45th recipient of the Mason award, said he was honored. He told the assembled faculty that Francis Marion University, its faculty, staff, and students, have played a familial role over his time at FMU.

Francis Marion University’s Tuttle awarded Governor’s Award in Humanities Francis Marion University professor of English Dr. Jon Tuttle was awarded the Governor’s Award in Humanities at a virtual ceremony Thursday night.

Engelhardt joined the FMU faculty in 2006. Aside from his skills as a professor and researcher, Engelhardt proved vital in the University’s response to the COVID-19 outbreak. He was crucial in providing fellow faculty members with tools and tutorials in providing top-notch remote education.

Tuttle is an exceptional playwright and a long-time member of FMU’s faculty. At FMU is the Nellie Cooke Sparrow Writerin-Residence, a J. Loren Mason Distinguished Professor, and an FMU Trustees Research Scholar. He also directs FMU’s Honors Program.

Engelhardt was also the FMU’s Faculty secretary from 2012 to 2016, and has served on various faculty governance committees. He holds a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Physics from Gustavus Adolphus College, and a Ph.D. in Condensed Matter Physics from Iowa State University. Engelhardt and his wife Susan have a son, Ethan and a daughter, Morgan.

As a playwright, Tuttle has also been recognized for his work with the Trustus Theatre in Columbia, which includes his most recent book, The Trustus Collection that includes six of his plays that premiered at the venerable theatre.

Dr. Fred Carter, FMU’s president, said Engelhardt’s dedication to the University and its mission made him an obvious choice.

Tuttle has won the South Carolina Theater Association’s Founders Award, a Porter-Fleming Award and Puschart Prize nomination for fiction, and fellowships from the South Carolina Academy of Authors and Florence Regional Arts Alliance, on whose boards he has served.

“Larry Engelhardt is a brilliant physicist who would have been as successful in the applied sector as in the academic world. But he’s a masterful teacher and a prodigious researcher, so we’re delighted he made the right choice — and so are all of those physics students who are privileged to study with him every year,” Carter said.

Established in 1991, the Governor’s Awards in the Humanities recognize outstanding achievement in humanities research, teaching, and scholarship; institutional and individual participation in helping communities in South Carolina better understand our cultural heritage or ideas and issues related to the humanities; excellence defining South Carolina’s cultural life to the nation or world; and exemplary support for public humanities programs.

The distinguished professor award is typically announced at faculty dinner with most, if not all, of the FMU faculty in attendance. This year’s award was presented at an intimate affair attended by Englehardt, his family, representatives of his academic department, and some University officials.

FMU President Dr. Fred Carter said the recognition is well deserved.

Tuttle pictured left

“Jon is one of the most gifted playwrights in the South, and one of the most prolific scholars in the state,” Carter says. “I can’t think of anyone more deserving of this highly prestigious award. We’re deeply appreciative of S.C. Humanities for recognizing the achievements of one of our finest faculty.”

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5 Cynthia B. Williams, left, and her oldest daughter Vashon Henneghan. Williams often talks with her daughters about her Advanced Directive, a document that details her decisions regarding health, medical care, and more.

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wishes “I want to die as I live.”

Those are the emphatic words of Cynthia B. Williams, a patient at HopeHealth who whole-heartedly supports being prepared and making decisions now, so her family doesn’t have to later. It’s not that Williams is wants to go. Indeed, the vibrant woman describes herself as a “happy, healthy woman.” She simply accepts that death is a part of life and wants to ease decision-making during a time of loss for her adult children. “I don’t want it to be a burden when my time comes. I want my children to know that I am accepting of my death,” she said. “I’m trying to remove the details so that, when the time comes, they can celebrate that my life has been valuable, that I have been a good person in life, and that I want to die as I live. It gives them the peace of mind that comes with knowing they are doing what I want.” To make sure her children know just what that means, Williams often has in-depth discussions with them and has an Advanced Directive in place that details her wishes. She often discusses her wishes while cleaning up during family gatherings like Thanksgiving. “We call it the ‘death-talk,’” said Vashon Henneghan, Williams’ oldest daughter, who said that knowing what her mother wants will make it easier for her when the time comes and alleviate the pressure of making decisions while emotional. “What I have come to realize is that, no matter how much preparation you have, it all goes out the window in that moment,” she said. Hennegan said she remembers how difficult it was when her paternal grandmother passed, and the funeral was delayed while family members made decisions. In contrast, it was much easier for the family when her maternal grandmother passed and they already knew her wishes. “The family could grieve the way they wanted to and didn’t have to think about what to do,” she said. “For my sister and myself, it is a relief to not have the responsibility of who has to make which decisions. We will never have to wonder about what Mom would have wanted, or what we could have done differently,” she said.

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So how do you make your wishes known? And how can you ensure what you want is carried out if you are unable to speak for yourself? Dr. Heather Leisy said she recommends having an Advance Directive in place. While each state has different regulations and processes for detailing such directives, a good place to start is with a family discussion. “Having a meaningful discussion with your family while you are healthy has many benefits,” said Leisy. • hard decisions can be made without pressure and not when emotions are high • it prevents unnecessary stress and relieves the burden of making hard choices • empowers an individual to make decisions for themselves when they may not be able to later • makes treatment decisions in health care easier • can alleviate the need for an ethics board review to determine continuation of care • can avoid legal processes that can occur when family members disagree on care An Advanced Directive can cover medical and health care matters, and Medicare patients can talk to their provider about an Advanced Directive visit to discuss their decisions. These discussions center on Five Wishes – the five most important elements to let loved ones know: • The Person I Want to Make Care Decisions for Me When I Can’t • The Kind of Medical Treatment I Want or Don’t Want • How Comfortable I Want to Be • How I Want People to Treat Me • What I Want My Loved Ones to Know

To learn more, visit fivewishes.org or ask your provider for an Advanced Directive visit today.

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ADVANCED TECHNOLOGY McLeod Opens Dedicated Bi-plane Suite for Urgent Stroke Care and Treatment of Brain Aneurysms story by Dr. Timothy Hagen, Medical Director of Stroke and Neurology Services, McLeod Regional Medical Center

The nationally recognized McLeod Stroke and Neurosciences program announces the addition of a dedicated Neurointerventional Bi-plane X-Ray Suite. Bi-plane imaging is used for such procedures as Thrombectomy, a type of minimally-invasive surgery to remove a blood clot from a brain artery. The imaging system produces highly detailed three-dimensional views of blood vessels heading to the brain and deep within the brain.

the blood pressure

This technology allows doctors to follow the blood flow path to the exact location of the issue. Designed for the emergency treatment of stroke patients, the new suite is equipped with the most advanced medical imaging technologies available, including two rotating cameras, one on each side of the patient, to take images simultaneously. By producing images at the same time, it reduces the amount of contrast material needed and the time it takes to complete procedures.

do not produce symptoms. Typically, this is true for ones

Large vessel ischemic clots causing ischemic strokes are best removed by Thrombectomy. Ischemic strokes are the most common type accounting for 87 percent of all strokes. Last year, we treated nearly 1,000 stroke patients here at McLeod and had to send approximately 50 of them to medical centers across the state to receive a Thrombectomy. Now, with our Bi-plane X-Ray Suite staffed by a highly trained team, these patients can stay close to home and loved ones for their care.

aneurysms. Smoking and high blood pressure are the

Endovascular Coiling will also be performed in this suite. This is a procedure to treat brain aneurysms from inside the blood vessel. Small metal coils are inserted into the aneurysm through the arteries that run from the groin to the brain. These coils stop the blood from flowing into the aneurysm.

hemorrhagic stroke. This bleeding can destroy or

A brain aneurysm is a bulging area within the wall of an artery that supplies blood and oxygen to the brain. As

to reduce the risk of permanent, severe neurological

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in the artery pushes on this protruding spot the danger is that it can continue to balloon out with a risk of rupturing. Brain aneurysms develop silently. In most cases they that remain small. If the brain aneurysm gradually grows larger and puts pressure on the surrounding brain tissue, it will characteristically cause symptoms. The symptoms depend on the size and location of the aneurysm, but could include headaches, neck pain, blurred vision and changes in speech. Several risk factors contribute to the formation of most significant and controllable. The others are being female, race (African Americans have a higher risk), brain trauma and family history. If a parent or sibling suffered from an aneurysm, then an individual is more likely to develop an aneurysm themselves. If a brain aneurysm ruptures it causes bleeding into the surrounding brain tissue, which is called a damage brain cells. The rupture of an aneurysm often occurs without warning and can very quickly turn into a life-threatening situation. Immediate emergency treatment is vital damage or death.

“The cutting-edge technology within the Bi-plane X-Ray Suite takes our Stroke and Neurological Care to the next level so we can better serve our patients,” -Dr. Timothy Hagen

SIGNS THAT AN ANEURYSM HAS RUPTURED WOULD INCLUDE: • Extreme headache – unlike any pain every experienced • Nausea and/or vomiting • Light sensitivity and/or vision problems • Confusion • Drooping eyelid • Stiff neck • Seizure • Loss of consciousness Not all symptoms may be present. Call 911 right away if you or a loved one experiences any of the signs of a ruptured aneurysm.

Dr. Timothy Hagen is a McLeod Neurologist who is board certified in Neurology and Sleep Medicine. He received his medical degree from Western University in Pomona, California. Dr. Hagen completed an Internal Medicine Residency at Good Samaritan Hospital in Cincinnati, Ohio, and a Neurology Residency at the University of Cincinnati in Ohio. Dr. Hagen cares for patients at McLeod Regional Medical Center. November 2020

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The Holidays,

UNDERAGE DRINKING &

Your Adolescent story by Triza Cox The pace and energy of communities often change with the approaching holidays. Cooler weather, more smiles, and more opportunities for gatherings mark the entry into the fall and winter holiday season. Young people are particularly prone to utilize the free time and opportunities to connect with peers while they have time off from school. Despite the loveliness of the holiday spirit, the season can also bring about dangerous behavior patterns that could compromise the safety of youth. Underage drinking accompanies many of the peer social interactions during the holidays. The phenomenon is so common that the Wednesday before Thanksgiving proves to be one of the highest underage drinking nights of the year. Due to this disturbing statistic, public health professionals have begun referring to that night as “Black Wednesday”. The trend continues as the holiday season progresses. According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMSHA), on an average December day, more than 11,000 young people in the United States, ages 12 to 17, will use alcohol for the first time. This number is further troubling as we become aware of SAMSHA’s data indicating that almost 400 young people under the age of 21 die from alcohol-related causes every month. Parents can help to avoid underage drinking incidents by utilizing a few of the following tips: • Be clear with your expectations; let your child know that regardless of the situation, underage drinking and/ or being at a location where it is taking place is simply illegal and unacceptable. • Teach your children it is not necessary to have alcohol to have a good time. Plan and provide a non-alcoholic kid-friendly holiday party. • Help your children serve and enjoy traditional holiday drinks without alcohol such as cider, eggnog, or punch. 22

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For parents of underage youth, it is important to monitor all temptations with the social activities that accompany the holiday season. It is also crucial to pay close attention to the age of anyone consuming alcohol. A few tips to assist with this would be: • Never serve alcohol to anyone under the age of 21. • If you maintain alcohol at home, make sure to keep track of your supply at all times. • Establish a friendly relationship with parents of your children’s friends so that you can call ahead and make sure alcohol will not be involved in the parties or activities your child may be attending and that appropriate supervision will be on hand. • Make sure your child is maintaining healthy friendships and having friends who choose not to make alcohol a part of their holiday season. Parents hold a tremendous amount of influence in aiding young people in making wise choices. Clear and direct communication often proves to be one of the most important factors in preparing youth to avoid high-risk situations. Furthermore, commitment to the consequences of set expectations allows for healthy boundaries and better functioning families which are protective factors for the prevention of underage drinking.

Triza Cox Coordinator, Community Services Circle Park Behavioral Health Services www.circlepark.com

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AROUND TOWN: EVENING UNDER THE OAKS

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An Evening Under the Oaks was held on October 9th at Oak Manor Inn in Hartsville. The annual event benefits the Darlington County Humane Society. Friends and family joined around the table for an evening of fine food and spirits. A live auction also took place to help in raising funds for Darlington County Humane Societyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Raise the Woof Campaign to build a proper animal shelter. The committee was excited to announce that $50,000 was raised. They would like to thank their vendors, all who attended, sponsored, donated and helped in any way. 5

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Improving Your Credit for 2021 story by Ashley Elvington

LaGuanda McRae-Brown holds many titles – all of which she is very proud. She is a mother, a wife, and a team member of GE Healthcare, and a credit specialist for LMB Professional Services, LLC. She shares, “I assist clients in repairing their credit and helping them with rebuilding their credit as well. I enjoy using my expertise and knowledge to help people get their credit better.” While 2020 had some highs, it seemed to have more lows for many people. If your credit has taken a dive into the deep end this year, it’s not too late to help it improve for 2021. One of the many factors that can cause a low credit score is a late payment. “One 30-day late payment, or missed payments, has a huge negative impact.” Other factors include using too much credit that is available, hard inquiries, repossessions, bankruptcies, charge-offs, collections, and erroneous information. “Since repairing credit, some of the largest faults I’ve found on someone’s credit were inaccuracies and late payments. In some cases, things are being reported inaccurately, which will cause the person to have a low credit score. Each person’s case will vary on how much the score is affected.” Credit scores are calculated and grouped into five categories: Payment History (35%), Amounts Owed (30%), Length of Credit (15%), New Credit (10%), and Credit Mix (10%). Since each person’s credit profile varies, it can be difficult to determine how long it will take to improve their credit score. “During the repairing process, I have seen it happen as fast as two weeks with getting negative items removed, while others take 60 days or more. The process varies because it depends upon what is in the person’s credit profile. Some things have to be disputed longer than others, it just depends on the items that are negatively reported. Getting the negative items removed doesn’t always mean an increase in your score…That is when the rebuilding process takes place by adding more positive 26 VIPMagSC.com 26 VIPMagSC.com November November 2020 2020

items on your credit profile.” According to LaGuanda, there are four steps to repairing your credit. #1 Verify what is negatively impacting your score #2 Decrease the usage of your credit card(s) by 30% or lower #3 Pay all of your bills on time #4 Build a more positive credit history by adding a secured card, credit card, or some type of installment account During the repair process, avoid applying for new lines of credit, don’t get behind in bill payments, and don’t close any credit card accounts. “Some people think that checking their score every day through a monitoring service will affect their score, but it does not. Also, when you receive pre-approved offers online or in the mail, it does not affect your score.” While you do not need a credit specialist to improve your credit score, they are available to assist you with this task should you not have the time to do so or simply do not wish to get involved with credit bureaus. If you choose to repair your own credit without the help of a specialist, be wary of scams. “Make sure you are not rushed into paying money for services that you are not sure about. Do your diligence and look for the right qualities. Anyone who promises 100% guaranteed results is making promises they have no control over. Make sure you are speaking to a live agent when you call them. Make sure there is a legible contract in place and you are aware of what services you are getting. Do not let anyone tell you that this is an overnight process, because it is not. It is a process and each client needs to have that one-onone consultation. When talking to a credit specialist, make sure they’re knowledgeable and they can complete a free consultation before you accept to pay any fees.”

TO CONTACT LAGUANDA BROWN, EMAIL HER AT LBCREDITREPAIR@YAHOO.COM OR BY CALL 843-439-4698.

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november sunday

monday

Fall Back Daylight Savings Time Ends

Deviled Egg Day

Marine Corps Birthday

Bath Bomb Painting City Center Market, Florence

Espresso Day

Veterans Day

Ladies Night (every Thurs) Blue Line Shooting Center, Florence

Blood Drive First Pres Church, Florence

Sardines Day

Goosie Ganders & Butler's Fine Mens Wear Holiday Premier begins, Florence

Soulfit Community Class Florence

thursday

Trivia (every Wed) Seminar Brewing, Florence

Election Day!

National Fast Food Day

Cranberry Relish Day

Bella Illume Open House & Holiday Gift Market Rainbow Dr, Florence

wednesday

Cappuccino Day (See page 52 for a cappuccino treat!)

tuesday

Yappy Hour The Dispensary, Florence

Jukebox Day

Thanksgiving Day

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Electronic Greetings Day

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Cyber Monday

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saturday

Cultural Conversations FMU PAC, Florence

Ashton's Small Engine Grand Opening, Florence

Carolina Trading Post Holiday Market Days (13th-15th)

Jingle Bell Market begins (20th-22nd) Florence Center

& National American Heritage Day

National Pickle Day

World Television Day

Small Business Saturday Holiday Market City Center Market, Florence

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CONVERSATIONS Francis Marion University hosted its inaugural “Cultural Conversations” event with its first presentation in a four-part series focused on cultural and racial issues as a way to examine the current movement to end long-standing systemic racism, how to best move forward, and continue the conversation in the community. The series, presented by the university and the FMU African American Faculty Staff Coalition, opened with Microaggressions vs. Macroaggressions Why They Are Important presented by Dr. Will Wattles, former chairman of the FMU Department of Psychology and faculty emeriti. The talk focused on understanding the problems with microaggressions, the need to change attitudes and beliefs about race, and how to move beyond bias. A microaggression – a term coined in the 1970s – is a form of racism, a “brief and common daily verbal, behavioral, and environmental communications, whether intentional, that transmit hostile, derogatory, or negative messages to a target person because they belong to a stigmatized group.” People can commit microaggressions without knowing or realizing the racist commentary of a statement. “Everybody is racist. It’s not something that we can help; when you grow up in a segregated society you see a lot of these things,” Wattles said. White privilege has made it so people who engage in microaggressions are “ordinary folks who don’t see themselves as racist.” It is through understanding and education that microaggression can be addressed. An example Wattles gave of intent versus the impact of microaggression: A Caucasian man tells an African-American man that he speaks very well for a black. He may have meant it as a compliment but was received as a putdown because of his race. He may have meant no harm, and it may be harmful – the problem is different world experiences. “One obvious solution is to be careful what you say. Think before you speak. Ask yourself, ‘Would you say this if it were a white person?’ However, an even better solution is to reduce the underlying belief in one race being inferior to another. Learn from constant vigilance of your own biases and fears. Question your own thoughts and behaviors; be open to new interpretations. Call yourself on your own stuff.” Ways to end systemic racism and microaggressions include: • Engaging in experiential reality – Interacting with people who are different from you in social identities • Focusing on behavior • If you see something suspicious say something specific • Be open to discussing your own attitude and biases

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but it is not our fault. However, we can reduce those beliefs especially through contact with people who look different than us. I submit that doing so will enrich your life and make you more successful at what matters to you.” It is important to examine the intent versus the impact of the microaggressions in order to improve race relations. Wattles said the key factors to reducing the microaggressions are to have a constant vigilance of your own bias; experiential reality; focus on behavior, not to be defensive but open to discussion; and be an ally. “Be an ally. Stand up against all forms of bias and discrimination. This is difficult but you can use your white privilege to stand up to discriminatory behavior.” The lunch-and-learn series for FMU faculty and staff and the Florence community continues in November. Lunch will be served from 11:15 a.m. to noon. Conversations are from noon to 1:30 p.m. Each conversation will be 45 minutes for the presentation and followed with a 20-minute question-and-answer period. In an effort to maintain social distancing, each event is limited to 40 in-person attendees. The virtual option is available for community members who wish to attend online by video livestream. Recordings will be available, as well. Register here: https://www.fmarion.edu/aafsc/ CONVERSATION #2 - Friday, November 6 Changes in African American race relations in Florence over time and how to create an inclusive environment for People of Color With Dr. Joe Heyward, Dr. Erica James, and Dr. Antonio Cooper CONVERSATION #3 -Thursday, February 4 Native American Racial Injustices, Issues, and SES Disparities With Mrs. Jamee Hunt Freeman and Dr. Erica James CONVERSATION #4 - Thursday, March 11 Racial issues and injustices facing the Hispanic & Asian American communities and how we can work to be inclusive With Dr. Todd Couch

William P. Wattles is a former Chair of the Psychology Department. He is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and a member of the Association for Psychological Science. Will taught undergraduate courses in Health Psychology and Quantitative and Psychometric Methods. For the graduate program he taught Group Counseling and Psychotherapy and Psychological Assessment. November 2020

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;Each piece comes from a different emotion and means something to me.â&#x20AC;? Symon Gibson resides in Lake City with his wife Tiffany Thomas and their son.

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An Installation Artist photography by Mike Baker / story by Christie Blanton

While most things can be learned, for an artist, you either have it or you don’t. It’s that right-brained characteristic of diving into your most creative self. Of course, like Symon Gibson, many choose to pursue an education to further that creative gene. Symon, a Francis Marion University graduate, concentrated his studies in ceramics and we can now celebrate his creations in art galleries across the Pee Dee. Symon’s Transformation piece is currently hanging and specifically scattered across the polished concrete floor at the Trax Visual Art Center in Lake City. Part of the Pause | Connect show which showcases several local artists, Symon focused his portion on nature. He explains, “It’s about how a tree loses its leaves in the fall and starts a new life with new leaves in the spring. For me, this piece is about leaving the past behind and moving towards the future.” Symon used tree limbs found on family property to intricately place each detailed ceramic leaf. The lighting, leaves, and branches give you a whimsical feel of merging outdoors with indoors. Over at the Kassab Gallery, Hyman Fine Arts Center at Francis Marion University, Symon has Memories - an Installation on display. Here again, he uses nature as his inspiration, pulling natural and recycled materials into the piece. Hanging feathers portray handwritten recipes from his deceased grandmothers. The women

who played a large part in his life, and continue to have a presence in his surroundings, were very talented cooks. You can also find threedimensional birds tucked away in tree branches. Including birds in this piece was explained by his fascination with the idea of birds symbolizing the connection between heaven and earth. Symon enjoys finding things in nature and integrating them along with recycled items into his art. When asked about his favorite materials, he shares, “I recently got a stack of old damaged library books and have been using them, but a moss-covered stick is probably my favorite.” Unlike materials, Symon doesn’t have a favorite personal piece of art. “Each piece comes from a different emotion and means something to me.” If you’re looking to escape the bustling week, take a walk through Symon’s installation art where a certain calmness takes over and distractions no longer exist. You can catch his piece at the locations below: TRAX Visual Arts Center (until November 14th) 122 Sauls Street, Lake City Tuesday - Saturday, 11am - 5pm Adele Kassab Art Gallery (until November 20th) Inside Hyman Fine Arts Center at FMU Monday - Friday, 8:30am - 5pm

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Redefine Your SUFFERING story by Allie Roark

GUESS WHAT! It is FINALLY the wedding month!! Oh my gosh. It seriously blows my mind how fast this past year has gone by. I have spent the last few months packing and reminiscing on the sweet memories of the last few seasons. From reading old prayer journals to finding one of my Cultivated in Grace stickers, it was very hard to stay on task. I loved looking back and seeing what was and what is now. However, if you would have asked me how I felt about that season back then, I probably would have broken down into tears. The truth is, it was hard. I constantly questioned God wondering what I had done to deserve the curse of singleness. How come all of my friends were in serious relationships, getting married, or having babies? What did I do wrong? Well sister, as it turns out, this was a part of my story, and I can see that now. I am thankful for the opportunities that I had during that time too. I don’t think of suffering as a one and done kind of thing. We will encounter many seasons of suffering during our lifetime. I don’t know what types of suffering I will endure in the future, but internally I can prepare myself and my heart for what’s ahead. Our seasons of suffering may look a bit different. I was constantly trapped in the cycle of comparing my suffering to another persons. At that time, I had friends dealing with infertility and the loss of a loved one, which are way worse than being single. The truth is, our seasons of suffering will look different, but our feelings about our suffering have some commonalities. Those seasons or chapters are all a part of the story God is writing. We all share the same sense of wonder and questioning. 34

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So girl, give yourself permission to deal with the pain so that you can move forward, heal, and redefine the purpose for your life. We may not feel like we have much left, but we can take what remains and choose to create something beautiful with it. Depending on the season, we are often left with battle marks or scars. The truth is, we will never come out of the season the same way that we went into it. There is no such thing as going back. You can only move forward. The good life is in front of you, it just looks different than you had planned. The scars that we are left with symbolizes the beautiful proof that we lived and survived when we weren’t sure if we would. It’s easy to nod our heads in agreement, but our hearts struggle to believe it. I get it. This is not a common way of viewing suffering. I was listening to a podcast that talked about how our battle wounds are also known as wisdom. Whether it’s stretch marks, physical changes to your appearance, or a different mark that your season has left on you, start referring to it as wisdom rather than a scar or damage. They are our brand of uniqueness that we have been given that we get to share with the world. I can’t go back and change my perspective during that season, but I can use the lessons I learned and my story to help the next girl who needs it. Kathryn Wolfe spoke to my heart when she said, “the life right in front of you is there for a reason so don’t miss it wishing you had something else.” By viewing suffering and battle wounds differently, I’m sure I would have avoided insecurity, disbelief, heartache by replacing those feelings with the things that are true.

God is not finished with you yet. We may have chapters that aren’t so pretty and fun, but the story as a whole will be even more beautiful because of them.

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BUSINESS: KEEPING TIME, A MONTHLY FEATURE

story by John Sweeney

Keeping Time, conversations in time management with community difference makers, is an interview series with community leaders from a variety of fields discussing their day-by-day pursuit of professional success, focusing specifically on how they manage their time. You can hear the full 30-minute interviews on the “Keeping Time Podcast,” available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts. This month's conversation was with Tim Norwood on his involvement in developing downtown Florence.

Florence wouldn’t be Florence without Tim Norwood. The serial entrepreneur, philanthropist, and man-about-town has done as much for the community that adopted the Darlington native than just about anyone else you can name. Without a doubt, Norwood has left his distinctive mark on the city he now calls home. And yet, the man known for his involvement in Victor’s Restaurant and Hotel Florence – the seeds that helped sprout the renaissance downtown – and so many other ventures is quick to divert the attention from his many successes. According to Norwood, you just can’t find success alone. “Everybody’s success is not in a silo,” Norwood said. “It’s all about partners and a supporting cast. Sometimes you’re the supporting cast, sometimes you’re the actor.”

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Success Doesn't Happen in a Silo Hear more about Tim Noorwood’s amazing entrepreneurial story, including how persevering through seven difficult years in his life helped prepare him for the success he’s become today. That, along with advice Norwood gives to young entrepreneurs and very important lessons on how to deal with failure. You don’t want to miss this episode. Our entire conversation can be found on the Keeping Time Podcast, available at www.sweeneymediaandconsulting.com, as well as on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcast fix.

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The path Norwood took to where he is today, a 65-year-old businessman, husband, father, and grandfather, has had its ups, downs, and plenty of doubters along the way. That includes when it came to his downtown ventures. “People look back at the hotel and putting Victors down here was crazy. ” Norwood recalls. “I used to have really a lot of verbal clashes with my best friends… they were saying how stupid I was... to be part of the group to do it.” But believing in what you’re doing, your mission and vision is a big part of what Norwood said has led him to his success; that, along with plenty of humility and lots of good habits and routines he’s acquired over the years. Some of that was learned through reading treasure troves of books, including “Think and Grow Rich,” by Napoleon Hill, one of the significant pieces of literature Norwood said helped him find his routines and his philosophy.

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HURST FARM story by Ashley Elvington Florence native Lawrence Russell Hurst moved to Marion, South Carolina, in 2018 with his thenwife Ansley. Hoping to start a brand new chapter in a new town, Russell and Ansley settled in on their new farm. Living the quiet country life, Ansley encouraged Russell to explore his passion for woodworking. Russell admits, “My woodworking is an escape from the daily stress. I just have a knack for looking at a piece of wood and turning it into a piece of art. Same thing with cutting boards! I love working with wood.” His love is surely seen through the detail of each piece he creates. In August 2019, Russell purchased a lathe. Eager to learn all about his new equipment, Russell watched a YouTube video on bowl turning. “My first bowl took me almost two hours to turn, but I was hooked after that. I then started making bigger and better things.” His collection of artwork was beginning to grow, so Russell was faced with a choice – either stop buying wood or start selling his bowls. Ansley did some research and looked into the Florence City Center Farmers’ Market, which is where Russell’s items can be purchased still to this day. “It gets better and better each weekend that we are there. The more I sell, the more I want to make. People are like me, they want handmade items over store-bought. I like to touch a piece of wood and feel all of its character. It makes me happy when someone picks up one of my pieces and does the same thing.” Currently, Hurst Farm offers hand-turned bowls of all types – small pill bowls, two-foot-long bowls, bread bowls, fruit bowls, etc. “We use local woods like cypress, cedar, pecan, oak, cherry, walnut, reclaimed heart pine and cypress, and wood from sunken logs from our local rivers. I also have some exotic woods from all over the world, from Africa to Australia, South America, and Hawaii.” Russell's cutting boards are made from cypress. “I’m working on one now that is 20 inches wide by 27 inches long.” You can find smaller ones too, such as cheese boards. Using the sweet gum from his property, Russell makes candle holders and uses deer antlers to make key rings. He hopes to purchase a CNC router machine in the future for monogramming and custom carvings. 38

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Sadly, Ansley passed away in early 2020. As a tribute to his late wife, Russell created a special urn for her remains - a first, as well as a heartbreakingly difficult task, for this talented woodworker. “When she passed, I had to go through the process of picking out her urn. I hated everything the funeral home had. When Ansley’s parents asked if I could make her urn, I said yes and stepped up to the challenge. I used her favorite woods to create it - Osage orange and black palm. It is the only urn I have ever made, although I might make another if someone asked me to.” When asked what he feels is his most impressive creation, Russell chose a mushroom shaped piece he did for his friend Chris. “He brought me a couple of pieces of sweet gum root balls and asked me to make them look good. I added bases to them, sealed them with sanding sealer, and put ‘shine juice’ on them. He was a very happy camper!”

Be sure to “Like” Hurst Farm on Facebook for updates, product photos, and notifications as to when Russell will be at the Florence City Center Farmers’ Market.

Lawrence Russell Hurst resides in Marion, South Carolina, and is recently engaged to Suzanne Wooten Miner. He is the proud father of one son who recently graduated from nursing school. In addition to his work on Hurst Farm, Russell is employed with WestRock Paper Mill in Florence where he has worked for over 20 years. Those interested in purchasing work can contact Russell on Facebook or by calling/ texting (843)496-7510.

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MARK YOUR CALENDAR for the highly anticipated Hometown Holidays Festival, December 4th - 6th in downtown Lake City! Plan to spend your weekend shopping and strolling the beautifully decorated downtown streets and enjoy all the festive activities that are sure to put you in the holiday spirit. Our downtown merchants invite you to drop into their holiday-themed shops to create Christmas crafts, ornaments, letters to Santa, and MORE all weekend long! Here's a gift guide to a few of downtown's shops to help you start checking off that Christmas gift list!

Main Street Mercantile 111 E Main St, Lake City • 843. 374.2333

Bold & Sassy 109 N Acline St, Lake City • 843.374.7886

Shade Tree Outfitters 124 E Main St, Lake City • 843.374.0124 40

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See Your Swoon! story by Amber Teller / photos by Jonathan Boatwright

The Pee Dee’s most recent welcome to retail goes to Swoon Boutique in downtown Marion. Owner Brittany Fincannon has always had a knack for fashion and helping her friends and family stay knowledgeable about the latest trends. Owning a shop has helped make that passion become a reality. Brittany is a lifelong resident of Marion, minus the four years she spent at The College of Charleston. As Marion’s downtown area began growing, she knew it was time to take action. “I knew that if there were places for people to go, our locals might stay in town more and we could even grow our out of town visitors.” The Historic Marion Revitalization Association (HMRA) has been very supportive of this new endeavor. Stephanie Rizzo, HMRA’s Executive Director, has helped Brittney every step of the way, from helping decide on a location to assisting with credit card processing. Additionally, Brittany mentions, “Through HMRA, I have been reimbursed for 75% of my sign costs for my building through their Sign and Paint Grant." Since her grand opening on October 22nd, Brittany has been overwhelmed by the support she has received from locals and non-locals. She has her family and friends to thank for helping her realize her dream of owning a boutique; she calls this adventure a team project. When it comes to inventory, Brittany focuses on carrying the latest trends while also sticking to classic items that will never go out of style. “I carry at least 100

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Brittany Fincannon, owner

different items ranging in sizes from small to 3X, women’s shoes, and jewelry. I also have children’s clothing from newborn to size 7.” Brittany’s eclectic style helps guide the items available in the shop. She includes, “As a curvy gal, I like to find clothes that fit my body best while not making me look frumpy or boxy. My goal is to help other ladies feel good in their clothing and want to stand out - not be hidden in their clothes.” The natural wood and gold tones mixed with blacks and sage green throughout the shop help set the stage for a nice calming shopping experience. Upbeat music plays in the background giving you a perfect opportunity to try on a dress and see exactly how it will sway while dancing the night away during upcoming holiday parties. This Christmas, Swoon Boutique is encouraging the Pee Dee to shop locally. If it’s a gift to a loved one or a gift to yourself, you’re certain to find exactly what you are looking for at Swoon.

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Staying Up-To-Date in the Fashion Inudstry story by Alicia Player

If you’ve been to downtown Florence in the past several years, you're bound to have bumped into Kate Walker, owner of Mainstream Boutique Florence. Her inviting smile and appealing storefront have a way of grabbing your attention. Kate opened Mainstream in 2013, during the early stages of downtown Florence’s revitalization process. The decision to be downtown has remained a constant in her business strategy as the area has grown to offer a warm and cozy shopping experience for her customers. Nursing school at Clemson University is what brought Kate to South Carolina from Baltimore, Maryland. Love is what planted her in Florence, her husband Chad’s hometown. In addition to owning Mainstream, Kate works at McLeod Health in Operational Effectiveness. Her passion for helping others feel great internally in her hospital career can easily correlate with her need to help women feel their very best externally. Mainstream offers something for every woman, young and old. When asked about fashion, Kate spills all the info! “This fall and winter are all about dramatic details,” she says. “You will see lots of sweaters with puff sleeves. Lots of retro denim styles with a high waist, button fly, and wideleg style. Animal print is still in style but the size of the print has been updated with tiger, zebra, and snake taking front stage.” And let’s not forget hair accessories. Large headbands and barrettes are in high demand and Kate recommends making sure they have pearl embellishments. Another trend that is front and center. Kate’s vision for Mainstream is truly what has helped her business become a success. During a time when the world’s uncertainties have closed many doors, she decided to embrace the change and do what was needed to remain in business. Part of that included hiring a Social Media Coordinator to manage all platforms on a daily basis and to keep them current on any algorithm changes. Florence Downtown Development Corp. (FDDC) and the Greater Florence Chamber of Commerce have also played tremendous roles in Mainstream’s success. FDDC has kept

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Kate Walker, owner

Kate and other downtown businesses informed of any opportunities for grants and loan requests, and citywide ordinance changes. The Chamber has helped encourage local events and marketing opportunities. They have also helped with grant opportunities. “We live in a time where our resources are the backbone to our survival and I am lucky they are my neighbors and easily accessible to my business,” Kate explains. As you attempt to venture out during this holiday season in search of the “perfect” gift, swing by Mainstream Boutique where great customer service and a big smile will welcome you. With Small Business Saturday on November 28th, it’s a great time to show your support to our local businesses. As the saying goes, “When you buy from a small business, an actual person does a little happy dance.”

Mainstream Boutique 138 W Evans St, Florence • 843. 799.4935 mainstreamboutique.com

KATEâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S GIFT SUGGESTIONS Comfortable loungewear of any kind, two-piece sets similar to pajamas are a hot item due to the amount of time we currently spend at home versus out and about. Pearl embellished jewelry. Large pearl hoops are a hot item and any type of pearl bracelet will surely make your special someone smile. Stylish masks and mask chains. With the start of cold and flu season, the nurse in me is sure that we will be wearing our new accessory for a while longer than we planned. A mask chain is stylish and keeps you from getting caught without one! Our high waisted leggings never go out of style. The quality is great and they are so comfortable with your favorite comfy sweater. Soft, fuzzy sweaters are very popular and can be so versatile. I would pair with denim or leggings on the weekend or a nice pair of trouser pants for work during the week. Neutral colors and jewel tones will be your best bet for holiday gifts.

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Abbey Baker, owner

ADULT/TEEN • GIRLS • BOYS • BABY • GIFTS story by Rebecca Giese / photography by Erin Daniel New to downtown Hartsville, Southern Sercie is open for business just in time for the holiday season! Right on College Avenue, you can find the perfect shop for monogrammed Christmas jammies and even gifts for the home. Embroidery and appliqué extraordinaire Abbey Baker has been monogramming for friends and family since 2015. Abbey tells the story best, "In April 2016, while at an Embroidery Conference, I purchased my first multi-needle embroidery machine. Little did I know what God had planned for me; my hobby turned into a business, and that's when Southern Sercie was born! In 2019, as business continued to grow, I purchased my second multineedle machine. After working out of the house for the last several years, my husband and I felt ready to open our first storefront. What better place than downtown Hartsville!" Southern Sercie specializes in children's applique clothing for seasonal, special events and everyday wear. But they live by the Reese Witherspoon quote "if it's not moving, monogram it!" and can embroider for any monogram lover no matter their age. When asked, "What makes Southern Sercie unique?" Abbey responded, "Our

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variety of items and attention to detail! Whether you are looking for a special gift for someone or a sercie for yourself. We can personalize any item or gift to make it special! We love making made to match items, sibling sets, or even fabric from the shirt of a loved one. Our vision is to help customers create meaningful gifts for everyone through customization. " Southern Sercie has a range of products ready to be customized, but they also offer the ability to bring in your own items. Making them the perfect shop for parents to be, newlyweds, and your monogrammed crazed cousin. Need a gift for a host or hostess? They also have a gift shop with an array of special gifts for the home.

You can find Southern Sercie online via Facebook, Instagram, and southernsercie.com or visit the store 104 E. College Avenue in Hartsville.

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See Your Swoon! story by Amber Teller

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story by Jim Herring

What an outstanding day to be a part of Leadership Hartsville! Our topic for this month is “History”. As the 18thcentury philosopher Edmund Burke is quoted; “Those who don’t know history are destined to repeat it”. We began the day with our ongoing series on Leadership Development/John Maxwell delivered by Jamie Kelly, Chair of the Chamber Board. Much discussion ensued and many great examples were shared. As always, the group is anxious for our next lesson in November. We followed our leadership lesson with a trip to the Hartsville Museum where we received a special guided tour from the director, Andrea Steen and her assistant Matt Winburn. Our enlightening tour was followed by an equally informative tour of Hartsville’s First Baptist Church and a rousing discussion with Dr. Gregory B Boyd. Who knew that a Pastor was also a motorcycle rider? Our next adventure took us to the Butler Heritage Center where we learned of the great work they do to both preserve our history and to move our community forward. They are an integral part of our “Hartsville Family” and that came through clearly on our tour with Dr. Gerald Wilson, Kenzie Delaine (a recent Leadership Hartsville graduate), and others. Our whirlwind day next found us at the Historic Jerusalem Baptist Church. In a time when our society accepts things that are quick and disposable, it is so encouraging to find an institution that has been serving this community for 150 years! We also had time to eat a delicious lunch and catch our breath while listening to great speakers from the church and Butler Heritage Foundation. Then we were back on the go and headed to the chamber office for a presentation on our 2016 All American City Award that Hartsville won, presented by Nancy McGee. The video was amazing and featured our on classmate Te’Quan Coe and a virtuoso violin performance. (Whew, what a day so far!) After we dried our eyes from the video, we moved straight into a presentation by Anne Marie Lopiccolo, (VP/Director of

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20-21 Leadership Class Policy, Compliance and Labor Relations for Sonoco). Anne Marie shared information on Diversity and Inclusion and the importance of keeping those concepts top of mind to move forward and grow as individuals and organizations. We shared frank discussions as a group and look forward to adding additional time for this topic during the remainder of the year. We finished our tremendous day with a visit to the Hart Cottage and a tour led by Bill Segars. Within minutes we knew that Bill was passionate about the history of our community and shared his love of Hartsville and our history with the class. We ended as we had during our retreat, with a group picture. We all agreed that this was a day of tremendous learning and that each of us were leaving with much more knowledge than we came with. The only question left unanswered… will we ever have that group dinner we keep talking about?

Jim Herring, Vice President, Sales and Community Development, SPC Credit Union

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DRINK OF THE MONTH

Indulge Cappuccino Martini Ingredients: 2 oz Chocolate vodka 2 oz Baileys with hint of coffee liqueur 1 oz Kahlua

1 oz Half and Half 1 Cholcoate bar or coco powder Ice cubes

Directions: • Use a cocktail shaker filled with ice to mix the chocolate vodka, Baileys, Kahlua, and half and half. Shake thoroughly for 25 to 30 seconds. • Strain and pour mixed drink into a chilled martini glass. • Garnish with chocolate bar or coco powder and serve.

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