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ABOUT THE COVER
Brown Memorials, Page 16
CAROLINA FLIGHT SCHOOL: ELEVATE YOUR FLIGHT EXPERIENCE Robby Peed and Benji Filyaw know how to mix work with pleasure. They discovered how to take their passion of flying and turn it into a successful career. Through Carolina Flight School, Robby and Benji are sharing their love of flying with others who also seek to have a career or fulfill a personal pleasure by obtaining a pilot's certificate. See page 14 for the full story.
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CONTENT: JUNE 2022
BUSINESS 10 Mark W. Buyck, III: Gilbert du Motier, Marquis de LAFAYETTE
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12 Lee's Auto & Tire: Honest, Dependable Service You Can Count On
GIFT GUIDE
14 Carolina Flight School
38 Summer Essentials
16 Brown Memorial: Five Generations of Excellence
LIFEST YLE
18 Southern Celebrations at Collins Grove 20 Bay Branch Farm
40 A Taste of the Deer Stand: Dr. Darryl Evans 42 A State of Happiness: Cynthia Ford 44 Future Entrepreneurs Foundation: Nurturing Our Future Leaders AROUND TOWN 46 Jam Fest: City Center Farmers Market 47 Cape For Kids: The CARE House
HOME Page 16 48 VIP Summer Recipes TIME TO TOAST 24 Local Business Achievements
50 Doug The Food Guy: Good Ole' Sweet Tea
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52 La'Quantia Goodman: Smoked Pineapple Bourbon Sour
HEALTH 32 HopeHealth: Tackling the Roadblocks to Health Care for Men 34 McLeod Health: Get the Right Care at the Right Place 36 Circle Park: Alcohol Use During Pregnancy
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TURNING THE TIDE OF THE WAR... Gilbert du Motier,
Marquis de
LAFAYETTE story by Mark W. Buyck, III
It is almost an immutable fact that without the help of France, America would not have defeated the British in the American Revolution. Imagine what our history would be if Washington, Adams, Franklin, and Jefferson were disgraced war criminals instead of the founding fathers of the United States of America. The Frenchman given the most credit for turning the tide of the war in the Patriot’s direction was a young Marquis de Lafayette.
to America. He purchased his own ship, the Victoire, which eventually left for America on April 26, 1777. Fifty days later, on June 13, 1777 Lafayette arrived in North Inlet in Georgetown county, South Carolina and spent his first night in America at the summer home of Benjamin Huger. There is a historical marker commemorating Lafayette’s landing in America on Highway 17 South about 1/2 mile north of the Winyah Bay bridge.
Lafayette was born on September 6, 1757, into one of the wealthiest families in France. He began his military training at the age of 11, was orphaned by the age of 12 and was commissioned an officer in the Musketeers at the age of 13. At the age of 16 he was married to his 14-year-old bride and by all accounts, they had a loving relationship until her death in 1807.
Lafayette and his party made their overland way to Philadelphia. The Continental Congress commissioned him a Major General on July 31, 1777 and he would meet George Washington for the first time on August 5, 1777. Washington took a liking to the impetuous teenager who became a member of Washington’s staff. Lafayette was wounded at the Battle of Brandywine on September 11, 1777. He spent the winter of 1777-78 with Washington’s army at Valley Forge. Lafayette spent 1778 fighting with Washington’s army in the Northeast. He returned to France for approximately one year in 1779 where he worked with Benjamin Franklin and others to secure supplies and soldiers for the Patriot’s cause. He returned to America in 1780 and was instrumental during the Yorktown campaign and in the siege of Yorktown. He was with General Washington when Cornwallis surrendered at Yorktown on October 19, 1781, effectively ending the war.
Lafayette was familiar with the American agents in Paris who in 1776 were lobbying the French government for assistance in their war against the British. One patriot, Silas Deane was responsible for recruiting Lafayette, Barron Johann de Kalb, Casimir Pulaski, and Barron von Steuben. On December 7, 1776 Deane enlisted Lafayette as a major general in the Continental Army, agreeing to serve without pay. Lafayette spent the next several months in defiance of his family and the French crown preparing for a trip 10
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"I gave my heart to the Americans and thought of nothing else but raising my banner and adding my colors to theirs." - Marquis de Lafayette
Lafayette returned to France by January 1782 where he was welcomed as a hero. He continued to lobby for the American cause and was a participant in the negotiations which led to Britain’s ultimate surrender in the Treaty of Paris. He returned to America in 1784-85 and was greeted as a hero throughout the states. He visited New York City for the first time as it had been occupied by the British while he served in the Continental Army. He attended banquets and receptions in New York, Philadelphia, Baltimore, Albany and Boston. He was regaled everywhere he went and never refused delivering an after-dinner speech. Four states granted him citizenship. He spent 11 days visiting George Washington at Mount Vernon. Washington wrote to Lafayette, “I have felt all the love, respect and attachment for you with which length of years, close connection, and your merits have inspired me. I often ask myself, as our carriages separated, whether that was the last sight I ever should have of you?” Lafayette replied, “Adieu, my dear General, it is with inexpressible pain that I feel I am going to be separated from you by the Atlantic… I find in your friendship a felicity that words cannot express.” While he was considered a hero of the American Revolution after he returned to France in 1785 it would be nearly 40 years before he returned to America. Next time we will recount the 1824-25 return of Lafayette as “America’s Guest.”
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Lee's Tire
4316 S. Irby St, Forence 843.702.0105 John Lee, owner
Honest, Dependable Service You Can Count On story by Linda Lewis Amazing customer service plus superior work is the reputation Lee’s Tire and Auto has earned during its first year of business. This father-son duo offers domestic and foreign car repair and maintenance, including tires, rims, bed liners, lifts, AC service, and so much more. Familyowned and operated, John and his son Colby are building relationships and trust with customers throughout the Pee Dee, one automobile at a time. John’s curiosity about automotive mechanics began as a child. “I use to take my toys apart just to see what made them tick,” he said. In high school, John took an automotive class encouraging his appreciation of automobiles. As his interest grew, so did his need to become more educated in the car industry. John later took an auto tech class at the career center which helped him land his first job at a Buick dealership where he did entry-level maintenance on vehicles. In 1989, John accepted a job with Tire & Muffler in Florence, South Carolina, as a technician. During his automotive career, John has worked for and learned from several well-known and finely operated mechanic shops that helped guide him to opening his own shop. As John was toying with the idea of opening a mechanic shop, he mentioned the idea to his son, Colby. Colby, without hesitation, told his dad that if he were to do that, he would quit his job to join the family business. On June 1st, 2021, John and Colby opened up Lee’s Tire & Auto at 12
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4316 South Irby Street in Florence, just two miles south of South Florence High School. John and Colby have many achievements to celebrate for their first anniversary. The duo is also looking forward to celebrating the addition of another family member joining the team. John’s eldest son, Austin, will be moving home from Austin, Texas, to join them this month! While John, Colby, and Austin are capable of servicing almost any automobile that’s brought into their shop, they have a passion for four-wheel-drive vehicles, especially Jeeps. “That goes back to my first vehicle,” explains John. “A jeep, that of course, I had to work on all of the time.” “It’s been surreal to think that within a year, we’ve come as far as we have,” says John. “We had a tremendous first year and can only hope to grow from there in 2022. Working with Colby has been one of the best experiences any father could ask for. He is a delight and makes me proud every day to call him my son. I am ecstatic to think I get to double my pleasure when Austin joins us this month.” If you require car services, stop by Lee’s Tire & Auto for exceptional service and a pleasant conversation. John and Colby would like to thank the community for all of the support and love shown by friends and customers over the last year. “If it wasn’t for y’all, we couldn’t have made it this far!” John has been married to his wife, Amy, for 30 years. They have two sons, Austin, 29, and Colby, 28. Colby and his wife, Emily, have been married for two years and have the most wonderful addition to the family, grandson Asher.
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ELEVATE YOUR FLIGHT EXPERIENCE We’re all born with it…a fascination with airplanes and flight. As children, our parents would point out objects that soared through the air, whether it be birds, planes, or balloons. Now we find ourselves doing the same as parents and grandparents. While the excitement may dwindle a smidgen as we grow into adults, a select few never lose the anticipation of climbing into the cockpit and leaving the runway to fly freely into the clouds. Robby Peed and Benji Filyaw have found a way to not only satisfy their personal thrill of flying but to also help others fulfill their dreams of getting behind the yoke of a plane. Robby has spent most of his life around planes. “As a kid, my dad would take me flying,” he said. “He and a friend of his had an old plane that they kept on a grass strip down in Salem, South Carolina. There is no doubt that my love of flying started with my dad. We would go to Salem nearly every Sunday after church and hang out with the other guys, sitting around a little old building drinking Coca-Cola out of small glass bottles. Every hour or so someone would go fly and we would hop in and take off.” Robby took flying lessons while attending Clemson University. Until he ran out of money that is.
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After returning to his hometown of Florence, Robby took a part-time job at the Florence Airport as a lineman to pay for lessons. “I continued learning from some amazing flight instructors right here in Florence,” he said. Benji and Robby have been friends for years. Their wives worked together so they intertwined socially. The two would exchange pleasantries and go straight into the latest news in flight activity. Living nearby the airport, Benji would watch the planes taking off and landing as they came into Florence. “I would always tell my wife that I wish I had learned to fly,” Benji said. His wife, Lache, took note and purchased him a Discovery Flight with Robby in 2013. “Robby became my instructor and taught me to fly.” At the time, Robby owned Carolina Flight with a physician in Florence who later moved out of town. When the need arose to find a new partner, the option seemed obvious. “I knew that Benji wanted to be more involved and it was a very easy decision to have him as a partner in the school,” said Robby. Together the team works with individuals on gaining their pilot certificate with personal and career goals in mind. While the idea of becoming a pilot may
seem unobtainable, Robby and Benji make the task achievable. “We have definitely grown over the years,” says Robby. “We are very excited about the partnership we have with Florence 1 Schools. We are currently instructing six fantastic high school kids who should obtain their private pilot certificates by the end of the school year.” Students can begin lessons as early as 16 to solo fly and 17 to get their actual license. The FAA mandates a minimum of 40 hours of learning time but Robby says it typically takes a little longer. Robby and Benji work around their students’ schedules. “We hold classes all of the time. There is no set schedule, we will meet whenever you can,” says Benji. Each class is individually tailored to each student. While Robby and Benji each have young children, they look forward to the day they’re able to teach them how to fly a plane. For now, they agree that the best part of this career is being able to take their families on trips. “My daughter loves it,” says Robby. Benji included, “So does mine. The first time she got on the plane she loved it and cried when it was time to get out.” A favorite trip of Benji’s is when he flew his son to Tampa, Florida, where they watched the Tampa Bay Rays play the Los Angeles Angels. If you are interested in taking flying lessons to earn your pilot's license or if you simply want an exhilarating birds-eye view of the Pee Dee, Carolina Flight School is the place for you! “With extensive experience ranging from professional flight instructors to corporate pilots, we have developed programs that allow students to learn difficult material in no time and with ease.” Also, a Discovery Flight makes a great Father’s Day gift and is only $150!
Benji Robby
Robby has been married to his wife Kim for 26 years and they have a nine year old daughter Livi. When not training others to fly, Robby’s primary job is being a corporate pilot for Pilatus PC-12. Benji is also a co-owner of Kingstree Forest Products. He is married to Lache and has two children, Briggs (10) and Luiza (5).
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(l to r): Will Brown, Terry Brown, Pat Brown, Claudia Brown-Grossman, Bran Oswalt
FIVE GENERATIONS OF EXCELLENCE story by Kim Brauss
“I began learning about Brown Memorials as long ago as I can remember,” Will Brown said. “Brown Memorials was founded in 1908 by my great-great-grandfather John Francis Brown.” After over a century of creating and designing memorials, most any Florentine has seen the fine craftmanship of Brown Memorials. And as the company solidified its presence throughout the years, the fifth generation -- Will Brown and Bran Oswalt -- is now running the business. Early on, the company established a reputation for crafting a grade of memorial that few others could match, Bran Oswalt said, making them one of the most desirable monument builders in the Southeast. “Our studio on David McLeod Boulevard has a modern architectural staircase,” Bran Oswalt said. “When I was young, the staircase was a jungle gym to me. I would hang upside down, and climb below them like monkey bars. I also remember being hoisted into the air by our shop crane. A stone shop can be a pretty fun place as a child.” “The office was really like a second home especially when I was in elementary school,” Will Brown said. “I would come here many days after school and assist or watch everyone working while doing my homework. 16
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In the early 20th century, most memorials were made of marble and had hand-chiseled letters. John Francis Brown’s son, Claude Brown, moved the business to Florence in the 1920s to make use of the railroad and began purchasing whole blocks of granite to produce into monuments. This is when sandblast was first starting to be used widely in memorial making and they would keep a fire going with liquid rubber to pour over the monuments and hand cut the letters and carving for sandblast, Brown said. Each generation has left their mark – not only on the family business but also in the North American monument industry. Claude Brown was a founding member of the industry’s most prestigious group, The American Institute of Commemorative Art (AICA). “Claude’s son Bill Brown, my grandfather, was a leader in the industry when it came to design and innovation and was a founding member of many organizations that promoted fine memorial work and design,” Will Brown said. Bill Brown served as president of the AICA and the industry’s largest group, The Monument Builders of North America (MBNA). “My father, Pat Brown,” Will Brown said, “And his sister, Claudia Brown, both introduced computers to the
mix to allow the drafting department to create more unique designs more quickly.” Claudia and Pat Brown, contributed equally to the company. Claudia was the first female president of the AICA. Pat was an innovator of contemporary product lines and one of the first to import directly from quarries overseas. “I started working in the business at about 12 years old. I was able to assist in the fabrication studio by helping apply stencil (a special rubber used in carving monuments) as well as working the automatic sandblaster,” Will Brown said. “I was also able to go with our install crew to help assist with foundations and loading and unloading our delivery trucks. In high school I assisted with the bookkeeping as well as art department that cuts the stencil that is then sandblasted. I was very fortunate while growing up to see how the entire business operates.” Brown started working at the family business full time after graduating from University of South Carolina in 2016. He began then as assistant to his father, Pat Brown. Oswalt spent time at the business and attended industry conferences growing up. “I briefly apprenticed under my grandfather in my early 20s,” Oswalt said. “He was a great designer, and I wish I would have taken advantage of that time with him more. When I got serious and joined the company full time, he was in no condition to be able to mentor or teach. My primary focus since joining the company has been design. Thankfully, before he passed, he was able to see some of my creative designs, which I know brought him joy.” One project those in the Florence area may recognize involves the Florence Veterans Park. There are 16 monuments within the park Brown Memorials created and installed. “The Florence Veterans Park is a special place,” Oswalt said. “Our company has had a hand in most aspects and additions to the park. The US Army monument, The US Air Force monument, and The Vietnam Veterans monument are three projects that I designed, built and mean a lot. The Army monument in the Florence Veterans Park was done the first few years of Will Brown working full time: “(It was) the first larger project that I helped assist with. It took many hours to complete and was a more difficult install than most and I was able to be a part of the whole process.” The fifth generation knows its roots and continues to grow the business.
“We made no major changes until 2018 when we moved our order system partially online and then when Bran and myself took over the business in 2020 we moved it fully online,” Brown said. “The biggest change that can be seen from a customer point of view is that we produce a scale full color rendering of every monument we produce and allow them to review and approve it before moving it into production. This allows the family to see what it will look like and adjust so it will be perfect when it is carved in stone permanently.” The focus for the company remains in the Carolinas. Their work, however, can be found on the West Coast, as well. “We have recently begun traveling further distances and in the past six months have done work in both Asheville, North Carolina, and Richmond, Virginia, and have others that are currently in production going to Georgia and Pennsylvania. “Bran and I are both extremely blessed to grow up around a business such as Brown Memorials and the willingness of our parents to teach us has been invaluable,” Brown said. “However, our team of office staff, artists, stone carvers, and installation crew is really what makes Brown Memorials the best at what we do. They work tirelessly and meticulously to ensure that every customer is satisfied and that they did everything in their power to produce a memorial that exceeds industry standards. Brown Memorials has been blessed over the past 114 years to serve the greater Pee Dee area and we look forward to another 100 years to continue serving.”
BROWN MEMORIALS 2423 David McLeod Blvd - Florence info@brownmemorials.com (843) 662 - 6378 June 2022
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Erin Daniel Photography
SOUTHERN CELEBRATIONS AT COLLINS GROVE story by Erin Daniel
Set on 18 acres, tucked behind a canopy of pecan and oak trees, lays Florence’s newest event venue, Southern Celebrations at Collins Grove! This property boasts charm and elegance from every angle! Whether you’re looking for the perfect place to host an intimate tea party, a baby shower, corporate event or a fairytale wedding, this venue is perfect for your special day and sure to be an unforgettable experience for you and your guests!
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As you drive up to the house, a lush green grove landscaped with beautiful, shaded trees greets you. Once you turn the bend that leads up to this southern-style home, the colossal columns covering the front porch welcome you, giving off all the Charlestonesque vibes! Inside the home, you’ll find ornate molding, wainscoting, fireplaces, and chandeliers - all of the enchanting details that will add elegance to your upscale event! Erin Daniel Photography 18
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To see more of what this gorgeous venue has to offer, you can visit their website at: www.southerncelebrations.com. To contact and book your next event at Collins Grove, call 843.773.6267 or send a message via Facebook! Jeremy, Kendra, Dylan, Hannah and Caroline
Kendra and Jeremy Collins, owners of Collins Grove, are designing this space with you, your guests, and your event vendors in mind. In the past, Kendra helped brides find their dream gown at the bridal shop she worked in throughout college, which eventually segued into wedding planning and coordinating. After years of firsthand insight and learning from all perspectives, the experience that she has gained over the past 16 years from event planning has served as the perfect foundation to successfully run a venue! Jeremy currently owns, Party In A Tent, a rental company for wedding tents and supplies based here in Florence. With over ten years of experience in this industry, he is also well versed in weddings, perfectly complementing Kendra’s expertise! Together, they are ready to bring life to any bride and groom’s vision for their special day! If you’re planning on having your wedding here, take note that there is plenty of space for a bride and her bridal party to get ready for her big day! A huge westernfacing window on the back of the bridal suite is perfect for photographers seeking natural light for their photos! The bathroom for this space will also be equipped with vanity counters and lighting, which will be the perfect prep area for hair and makeup. On the back of the property, you’ll find a pretty pool nestled in the brick courtyard, which leads over to the groom’s quarters! The Gentleman's Quarters is equipped with an outdoor fireplace, bar, poker table, seating areas, and games to keep all the guys occupied on the wedding day until it’s time for the ceremony to begin!
Collins Grove will feature a prep kitchen with space for your caterers to work out of the day of your event. There is also kitchen access for the bride and her guest if they choose to stay on the property the night before the wedding. That space can also be used for light meal prep, such as warming or assembling. Bar areas throughout the space are convenient for guests to refresh their drinks and make hosting a breeze. This property offers different ceremony and reception locations, making various layouts for events possible! It’s conveniently located off of I-95 and just down the road from newly built hotels, making it the perfect location for any event where family might be traveling in from out of town and needing a place to stay nearby!
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Bay Branch Farm
Vip recently had the pleasure of roaming Richie and Janet Porter’s family farm, Bay Branch Farm,
right outside of Florence. As we combed through the strawberry plants discovering the deep red and mouthwatering fruit, Richie shared how they became strawberry farmers and what all it entails.
Q&A How did Bay Branch come about?
Where do you sell your produce?
“My wife and I moved our family to Florence in 1999 when I was hired by Carolina Power and Light Company, now known as Duke Energy. We purchased the farm in 2008. In 2010, our home in Florence sold so we bought a used mobile home and moved to the farm. A few years later, we started building a house on the farm and moved into it in 2017.
“Customers can come to the farm and purchase pre-picked berries. Because we are a relatively small strawberry grower, we are not in a position to open our patch for folks to pick their own. We have an Instagram and Facebook page where we post the availability of strawberries during the season. Customers can preorder berries and get them at the farm or arrange to meet us at a central location in Florence. We also sell at the City Center Farmers Market in Florence.
“My wife enjoys growing things as much as I do – flowers and vegetables. She and I visited a strawberry farm and while picking, we thought about how fun it would be to add this to our farm. After much guidance and encouragement from fellow strawberry farmers, we worked on our soil and began planting. Today, our primary products are strawberries in the spring and pumpkins in the fall. We also make and sell some other items such as baked goods, turkey pokes, carpenter bee traps, and miscellaneous Bay Branch Farm logo merchandise.”
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“Our fall pumpkin patch is primarily pick-your-own and is a wonderful family experience. Last year was our first year growing pumpkins. It was so much more fun than we expected. Hearing children laughing and talking with their parents, watching families choose the perfect pumpkin, and just being a part of their excitement was a real joy for us. Visitors can stroll through the patch, choose their pumpkins, and haul them to their vehicles using wagons we provide. We also have a fall photo station where visitors can take pictures with their families. This fall, we hope to add a few activities for children to enjoy. Additionally, we will have picnic tables for those who want to have a picnic and have also purchased a commercial popcorn maker!”
What types of pumpkins do you grow?
What’s the process of growing good strawberries and pumpkins? “It all starts with good soil. The soil has to have all the right nutrients and that requires fertilizer. I pull soil samples before planting and send them to Clemson University for assessment. The local Clemson Extension agent will review the sample results with me and I then add lime and/or fertilizer to the soil based on their recommendations. The Extension Service has been an integral partner from our beginning. Tony Melton, who recently passed away, was the first agent with whom we worked. He was a great guy and will surely be missed. Next, you have to have healthy, diseasefree plants (strawberries) and seeds (pumpkins). Once they are planted, I monitor them almost daily for growth, insects, disease, and water needs. While I can control the amount of water given through the irrigation system, I cannot control the amount of rain we get. If we don’t get rain, I can irrigate as needed; but there is nothing I can do when we get excessive rain. Too much rain can bring disease problems to plants and can cause fruit to rot. Strawberries are delicate and temperamental. When they are ripe, they have to be picked fairly quickly. If left in the field more than a couple of days once they ripen, they will begin to rot…and that brings disease and insects. Pumpkins, on the other hand, are much more flexible. They do not demand immediate attention once they ripen and can stay in the field for quite some time. In fact, we have a few pumpkins from last October that still look pretty good! We get a lot of compliments on how our strawberries taste, so it is very important to us that people enjoy them. To get a good idea of how they are tasting, I eat them the entire time I am picking. However, I can’t taste the ones we sell, so I just tell people to let me know if they are not pleased and I will replace the berries or give them back their money.”
“We grow about 12 varieties. Those particular varieties were chosen based on recommendations from an experienced grower in the upstate who has been key to our success with pumpkins. He has been growing them for over 20 years and has a large-scale family-owned and operated farm. Some of the varieties we grow include Speckled Hound, Warty Goblin, Aladdin, and Long Island Cheese. One of the largest pumpkins we have grown to date is a 60-pounder. That was plenty big for us!”
Janet and Richie have been married for 28 years. When not working on the farm, Janet teaches at The King’s Academy in Florence and Richie is still working at Duke Energy. They have two sons, Cameron and Chase. Cameron and his wife live in Spartanburg and just had a child, allowing Richie and Janet to have the title of grandparents. Chase has an Agri-Business degree from Clemson and works for Carolina Eastern in Scranton and also helps on the farm.
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FRESH
Strawberry Pie INGREDIENTS: • 1 deep dish pie crust • 8 oz. Cream cheese • 2 Tbsp. Powdered sugar • 1/2 tsp. Vanilla • 2 quarts fresh strawberries - washed, hulled, and halved • 3/4 cup sugar • 2 tbsp. Cornstarch recipe provided by
Bay Branch Farm 959 E. St. Paul Road, Timmonsville, SC (843) 621-8654 Facebook: BayBranchFarmSC Instagram: @baybranchfarms
DIRECTIONS: 1. Prepare pie crust according to package directions for empty baked crust; cool. 2. Mix cream cheese, powdered sugar, and vanilla. Beat until smooth; spread into bottom of baked pie crust. 3. Puree half of the strawberries. 4. In a 2 quart saucepan, combine pureed strawberries, sugar and cornstarch. Cook and stir over medium-low heat until mixture thickens and becomes clear (about 7 to 10 minutes); remove from heat. 5. Stir in remaining strawberries. Let cool for 10 minutes; pour into crust. Refrigerate at least 3 hours. Makes 8 servings.
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Something to Celebrate... Teresa McDuffie Retires After 32 Years With FMU Francis Marion University faculty and staff gathered Tuesday to celebrate the career of Teresa McDuffie, who will retire this week after nearly 33 years with the university. At a reception held at The Cottage on FMU’s main campus, McDuffie was presented with a special resolution by university president Dr. Fred Carter and lauded for her years of dedicated service. “Teresa has been an amazing part of this university, and we all wish her well in her retirement,” Carter said. “From her work in campus technology, to her contributions with the African American Faculty and Staff Coalition, Teresa has done an outstanding job and has left an indelible mark on Francis Marion." McDuffie joined FMU’s campus technology department as a computer technician in 1989. She later advanced to systems support technologist and network specialist, before becoming network systems administrator. McDuffie said she looks back fondly on her many years at FMU, and plans to remain in Florence with her husband, Bernard. “I just thank God for allowing me to be a part of the Francis Marion family,” McDuffie told her friends and colleagues. “I cherish all of the memories and I love you all.” McDuffie’s contributions to FMU were numerous. In addition to updating the network infrastructure on campus, McDuffie served as a founding member of the African American Faculty and Staff Coalition. McDuffie was also presented with the John J. Kispert Leadership Award in 2016.
Brand receives FMU’s AAFSC Diversity Award LaTasha Brand, dean of students at Francis Marion University, received the FMU African-American Faculty and Staff Coalition’s Diversity Award at the organization’s annual scholarship banquet Thursday night. Brand, a native of North Charleston, has deep ties to Francis Marion University. Before graduating in 2002 with a bachelor’s degree in English, she served as president of the Student Government Association. In 2004, Brand was hired to FMU as assistant dean of students, and in 2018 was elevated to her current position as dean.
Hulon Named 2022 Bobby Gerald Main Street Hero Congratulations, Jason Hulon, for being named the 2022 Bobby Gerald Main Street Hero award winner! Thank you to the entire Hulon family for fifty-four years of service to Marion’s Historic District!
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The AAFSC Diversity Award is given annually by the coalition to highlight the work of individuals who are dedicated to celebrating diversity and inclusiveness at FMU and beyond. Thursday’s banquet was held at the FMU Freshwater Ecology Center. The Diversity Award presentation was just one highlight of the evening. Recipients of AAFSC-sponsored scholarships were also recognized, Florence City Councilman and FMU alum Chaquez McCall was the keynote speaker. FMU President Dr. Fred Carter announced the creation of a new scholarship named for Bishop Donald Jackson to benefit members of the Young Gifted and Blessed Choir. Jackson is the longtime advisor for the group and an FMU accountant. Carter also announced he would ask the FMU Board of Trustees to name the university’s Academic Computing Laboratory in honor of recently retired network administrator Teresa McDuffie. Both Jackson and McDuffie are founding members of the AAFSC. The AAFSC’s scholarships are funded jointly through the AAFSC and the Francis Marion University Education Foundation These include six endowed and four flow-through scholarships. Two FMU students benefiting from those endowments were recognized Thursday: Ma’kya Fitts, recipient of the Dr. Joseph E. Heyward Scholarship, and Jalen Miles, recipient of the Dr. LeRoy “Pete” Peterson Scholarship, were recognized during the ceremony.
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Marion County Earns National Achievement Award For Amazing Grace Park Amazing Grace Park has been recognized with an Achievement Award from the National Association of Counties (NACo). The awards honor innovative, effective county government programs that strengthen services for residents. NACo recognized Amazing Grace Park in the Parks & Recreation Department. Amazing Grace Park, The Clementa Pinckney Memorial was established to memorialize the life of the late Reverend Senator Clementa Pinckney and the other victims of the Emanuel 9 slaying in Charleston, 2015. The park celebrates the legacy of Clementa Pinckney, promotes healthy lifestyles and communities, respects stewardship of resources, and creates sustainable economic benefits. The park features accessible seating areas and facilities, native flowers and foliage, exercise opportunities, and educational playground and musical equipment suitable for neurodivergent learners. The grounds provide a venue for gatherings, festivals, concerts, weddings, and local activities. The park lends an educational arm to the community and surrounding areas. Students, tourists, and learners of all ages can learn about the foliage at the park with upcoming QR coded signage throughout. Visitor groups are welcome to visit the grounds to enjoy a quiet moment of reflection, a picnic under the pavilion, or exercise around the quarter mile walking trail. Park manager, Stephanie Gamoneda said “Amazing Grace Park is really a shining star in Marion County. We are fortunate to have an amenity such as this to add to the quality of life in Marion. Every single day, visitors are enjoying this park that memorializes the life of the late Senator Clementa Pinckney and I think he would be proud of how it has brought our community together.” NACo President Larry Johnson said, “All across the country, counties are working tirelessly to support residents and drive recovery from the COVID-19 pandemic. This year's Achievement Award-winning programs showcase how counties work every day to build healthy, safe and thriving communities.” Nationally, awards are given in 18 different categories that reflect the vast, comprehensive services counties provide. The categories include children and youth, criminal justice and public safety, county administration, information technology, health, civic engagement and many more.
Carolina Pines Regional Medical Center Nationally Recognized with an ‘A’ Leapfrog Hospital Safety Grade Carolina Pines Regional Medical Center received an “A” Leapfrog Hospital Safety Grade for spring 2022. This national distinction recognizes Carolina Pines’ achievements in protecting patients from preventable harm and error in the hospital. “Obtaining an “A” letter grade from the Leapfrog Group illustrates the dedication our facility has to delivering quality care to our patients,” said Bill Little, CEO at Carolina Pines. “We are pleased that our commitment to excellent patient care and safety has been recognized by Leapfrog, and our patients can rest assured knowing that they will receive high-quality healthcare at our facility.” The Leapfrog Group, an independent national watchdog organization, assigns an “A,” “B,” “C,” “D,” or “F” grade to general hospitals across the country based on over thirty national performance measures reflecting errors, accidents, injuries and infections, as well as systems hospitals have in place to prevent harm. The Leapfrog Hospital Safety Grade is the only hospital ratings program based exclusively on hospital prevention of medical errors and harms to patients. The grading system is peer-reviewed, fully transparent and free to the public. Grades are updated twice annually, in the fall and spring.
GlamMama's Boutique Holds Ribbon Cutting in Downtown Marion
Another HMRA Sign Grant is in the books! Thank you to Marion County Healthcare Foundation for their continued support of our grant program, Steve Pool of Accent Signs for working his magic, and GlamMama’s Boutique for investing in Marion!
“As our health care system continues to feel the strain of the pandemic, I thank the workforce and leadership of Carolina Pines for sustained commitment to patient safety, day in and day out,” said Leah Binder, president and CEO of The Leapfrog Group. “An ‘A’ Safety Grade is an outstanding achievement, and one that is not possible without a 24/7 effort by the entire health care workforce to protect patients from harm. This community should be proud.” To see Carolina Pines’ full grade details and to access patient tips for staying safe in the hospital, visit HospitalSafetyGrade.org and follow The Leapfrog Group on Twitter, Facebook, and via its newsletter. June 2022
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Growing Hobby: Succulent Terrarium PD Farmers Market, Florence June 14 & 15 PAW Patrol Live, Florence Center
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South Carolina Dance Theatre Princess Ballerina Camp bgins Florence Florence Flamingos game Carolina Bank Field
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Coconut Day
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Social Media Day
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June 11-12 Tours of Homes Florence Wild Meadow Sip & Shop Glenview Farm, Florence “Boggin Down” Festival Florence Center
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Reformers Unanimous Program Every Friday pm & Sunday am Florence Baptist Temple Hartsville Downtown Block Party w/ Consumed Downtown Hartsville
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TACKLING THE ROADBLOCKS TO
Health Care for Men story by Alan Barrett, MSPAS, HopeHealth
Many men don’t like to go to the doctor. However, once they retire, they typically visit a provider as often as women, who tend to be more diligent with health care needs. The big gap in men’s health care is during working age, when men may prioritize work over health, and also when men are students or young people and think they don’t need a provider. A 2021 Aflac Men’s Health Issues Survey reported 45% of men did not have an annual checkup in the last year. Common reasons include not being aware of health risks, not having a provider, a lack of trust in the medical system, and not wanting to hear bad news or be told what to do. There is also reluctance to spend the time to see a provider, belief that nothing is wrong, or that it’s better to “tough it out.” Additionally, 46% have postponed or avoided medical treatment in some form due to costs. Not having medical insurance can also make it more difficult to find proper medical care at a reasonable cost. Those with low incomes, including African Americans and Hispanic Americans, remain at an increased risk of being uninsured in the United States. A 2019 Census Bureau Health Insurance Coverage Report states that coverage differs across race and ethnic groups. The report states that 55.9% of nonHispanic Black men used private health insurance, compared to 74.7% of non-Hispanic white men. Also in 2019, 10.1% of non-Hispanic Black men were uninsured, compared to 6.3% of non-Hispanic white 32
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men. Hispanics had the highest uninsured rates among all race and ethnic groups. In addition, distrust of the medical system to provide good care reveals the health disparities among men of color which further increases the barriers to seek medical care. Steps to encourage all men to seek out health care start with education on the health risks for men, including hypertension, high cholesterol, and diabetes. One in eight men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer, and screenings are recommended after age 40. Finding help from a trusted health care professional can help decrease worry and stress about any potential medical issues. Taking the time to see a provider also has a financial benefit, as early detection can lead to less expensive medical treatment. And, there is help for those that are uninsured. HopeHealth is a community health center that provides quality care to insured and non-insured individuals. As a federally qualified health center, we can accept patients regardless of their ability to pay. HopeHealth can offer reduced fees through a sliding fee scale and encourages men, as well as all adults and children, with or without insurance coverage, to consider becoming a patient with us. As an African American, I am aware of the health disparities many Americans experience. It’s important to see each patient as an individual with their own unique set of needs. Taking the time to talk to patients, provide quality medical care, and find the resources to
help them thrive is a vital part of the process for me as a health care provider. Mr. David Deloe, a patient of mine at HopeHealth, is a retired welder and teacher. We talk about many things at medical visits, and he shared the experience of being homeless without medical insurance for a time when he was a young man. “When you don’t have a provider and have no financial resources, emergency care is the fall back. But it’s a risk because if you can’t pay the bill, your credit reference is shot, making it harder to get out of the financial hole,” Deloe explains. “It’s not easy, but exploring resources such as financial education and monetary tools to stay on track, along with family and community support, can help men make their way out of poverty over time. Keeping up with your health is another important step, even when you’re young. My health care provider and I have a good relationship and this helps motivate me not to put off any symptoms I might be having and go see him.” HopeHealth’s mission is to go the extra mile and address any barriers in care to treat the whole person. Instead of focusing on a specific symptom, providers and staff assist patients with determining the underlying causes of poor health. Sometimes, this is as simple as coordinating transportation or making referrals to other social service providers. Other times, it’s a quick referral to a HopeHealth specialty provider. This integrated approach to health care truly places the patient at the center of care – men included! If you don’t have a provider, find one today and take charge of your health. For more information on becoming a patient at HopeHealth, call 843-667-9414 or visit us online: www.hope-health.org/
360 N. IRBY STREET, FLORENCE 843.667.9414 | HOPE-HEALTH.ORG
Alan Barrett, MSPAS
Alan Barrett is a physician assistant specializing in family medicine. Barrett obtained his bachelor’s degree in psychology and philosophy at Rhodes College, completed his masters degree in psychology at the Citadel College of Graduate Studies and became a PA-C at the Medical University of South Carolina College of Health Professions. In 2018, Dr. Barrett was promoted to the rank of Major and also earned his credentials as an Aerospace Medicine Physician Assistant.
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Primary Care Provider, Urgent Care Clinic and Emergency Department
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE? Sooner or later, we all find ourselves in this spot: your child wakes up with a fever, your spouse slips walking down the stairs, or that cough just keeps coming back. You or someone you care for needs medical attention, but you are not sure of the best place to go. Is it an emergency, or is it late at night or on weekends? As we have learned during the pandemic, sometimes we need both traditional and nontraditional ways access to care. In some situations, the clearest path is calling 911 or going to the emergency room, but what about options that are quicker and more tailored to a specific need or injury? Primary care providers, urgent care, and hospital emergency departments are all part of those solutions. Let’s examine the details available for each choice: 34
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Primary Care Provider The best place to receive care and to establish a regular relationship for you and your family is with a primary care provider. Appointments are usually open during normal business hours, and some providers have extended hours and weekend appointments. See your primary care provider for the following conditions: • Common colds, flu, fever, rash, earaches, infections, sore throats and migraines
Angela Saxon, DNP of McLeod Primary Care & Chronic Care Specialists
• Sprains, minor broken bones, back strains or pain, minor cuts, burns or eye injuries • Health screenings and vaccinations or when you need to talk to someone about a medical concern • Management of chronic conditions such as diabetes, heart disease, high cholesterol, asthma, and COPD (just to list a few)
McLeod Urgent Care Centers For a medical issue that is non-life threatening at a time when your primary care provider is unavailable, for patients one year and older, your next best option is your nearest urgent care. McLeod Urgent Care Centers are open seven days a week and most holidays with extended hours. McLeod Urgent Care Centers are there for you when you or a family member has a condition that you feel needs to be addressed before you can get in to see your doctor or primary care provider.
McLeod OrthoNOW Have an accident that results in minor orthopedic injuries like bumps, bruises, sprains or fractures? A new, orthopedic-specific option is available with McLeod OrthoNOW. Same-day appointments and walk-ins (if you are able, if not wheelchairs are onsite) are available with orthopedic providers. McLeod OrthoNOW is open seven days a week with extended hours. With on-site imaging, splinting and casting, your path to recovery begins at McLeod OrthoNOW. Dr. Art Jordan of McLeod Orthopaedics Florence
Emergency Department Serious and life-threatening situations warrant a visit to the emergency department. If you feel you are in an emergency situation, call 911 or go to the nearest ED. If you or a family member experiences any of the following symptoms, seek emergency care: • Chest pain or pressure, numbness in face, arm or leg, severe pain anywhere on the body, coughing or vomiting blood, any severe allergic reaction, severe abdominal pain, or head injury. • Heavy bleeding or deep cut, any broken bones breaking through the skin • High fever with stiff neck, severe burns and any other condition you believe is life-threatening Dr. Anthony Bostick of McLeod Regional Medical Center Emergency Department
Knowing the options and scope of health care services available can help you make the right choice for your needs, but above all, seek care when you need it. For more information about services available in your region, visit McLeodHealth.org. June 2022
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ALCOHOL USE DURING PREGNANCY
story by Erica Buffkin, Community Prevention Specialist, Circle Park Behavioral Health Services
AND THE EFFECTS OF FETAL ALCOHOL SPECTRUM DISORDERS According to the CDC, nearly twenty percent of women of child bearing age participate in binge drinking in South Carolina. It can take anywhere from four to six weeks for a woman to know that she is pregnant and drinking during pregnancy can cause a group of conditions called Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD’s). These disorders can cause both physical problems and problems with behavior and learning. If you are pregnant or think you may be, stop drinking alcohol to reduce or remove the risk of these conditions. FASDs can occur in any child that is exposed to alcohol through the umbilical cord prior to birth. There is no safe amount of alcohol to drink during pregnancy. There’s not a safe time to drink. Also, there’s no alcoholic drink that’s better or healthier than others while you’re pregnant. Because the brain continues to grow throughout pregnancy, it is never too late to stop drinking. The sooner alcohol use is removed from a pregnancy, the more the baby’s health will improve. There are several different diagnoses that are part of the FASD spectrum. Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) is the most complicated diagnosis and affects the central nervous system, facial features and growth. Children with FAS can also have problems with memory, 36
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attention span, communication, vision or hearing. Drinking during pregnancy can also increase the risk of miscarriage, premature delivery and Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. A range of effects caused by FASDs can appear in a child that was exposed to alcohol before birth including: low body weight, poor coordination, difficulty with attention, poor memory, difficulty in school, learning disabilities, speech and language delays, intellectual disabilities, low IQ, vision and hearing difficulties, smaller head size, abnormal facial features and many more symptoms. While there is no cure for FASDs, early prevention can improve a child's development. The Chrysalis Center in Florence, SC provides a safe, stable environment for pregnant mothers and mothers with children under the age of 10 who are dependent on alcohol or other substances. The Chrysalis Center is a unique extended-term residential treatment program. Managed by Circle Park Behavioral Health Services, the Chrysalis Center was established in 1994 and is located at 1430 South Cashua in Florence. It provides living quarters for 16 women and up to two of their children under the age of 10. Each of the women and their children have a private bedroom and bathroom.
The program provides treatment for up to 120 days for women and their children and offers a safe, structured and stable environment. This allows the women to focus on and receive an array of life skills as well as extensive individual and group addiction therapy. The Chrysalis Center provides onsite medical services and scheduled physician visits to ensure that medical screenings and services are available for the women and their children. Appointments and transportation to other medical services in Florence are readily available as needed.
The Chrysalis Center offers a holistic approach that focuses on providing stabilization, life management, relapse prevention, parenting skills and personal growth. The longer the women stay in services, the more it strengthens their skills and confidence in establishing a successful recovery and becoming a productive individual and parent. The Chrysalis Center works closely with other local and statewide behavioral health agencies to receive referrals regardless of what county a woman and her children may reside. Anyone interested in utilizing the services at the Chrysalis Center or desiring more information can call 843-673-0660 or visit chrysaliscenter.com.
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A TASTE OF THE DEER STAND “You are my hiding place; you will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.” – Psalm 32:7 written by Dr. Darryl Evans
After living almost three years in Florence, I can whole-heartedly say I am thrilled to be here. In the past, I enjoyed working in DC, and am grateful for my seminary studies in Los Angeles, but I love Florence. Several things impress me: The people here are industrious and show initiative. There are many intelligent and successful people in our community. South Carolinians are never pushed around. And even after commuting into DC and living in LA, people here are so, well, busy. Granted, May has graduation and the approaching summer – yet it is more than just today. We are always on the move. And, amidst “everything,” there is a yearning inside us for something more than just success. We cannot always put our finger on it. But we have a taste of it when we quietly sit in the deer stand. Or paddle down the creek. Or piddle in the garden. That’s why we keep going back to those things. Maybe even zealously so. What we seek is more than just a nice change from the hustle of the week. We escape. We can escape in different ways. We check-out in front of the screen; we drink; we gamble; we plunge ourselves deeper into our work; we tighten our grip of control. Escaping never quite fills the void. We know this, so we tell ourselves we simply need more of it. But it never works; it is like an artificial sweetener for the soul. What the human heart yearns for is not escape, but sanctuary. In this sense, DC is no different than Florence.
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Escape tries to deny, stuff down, or cut ourselves off from our stresses and problems. Sanctuary is the place where we find the God who protects us from our troubles. Escape severs relationships; sanctuary provides space for them. Escape is fantasy; sanctuary is real. Escape is human-centered; sanctuary, Divine. Escapism is a shallow imitation of Sanctuary. It is only in the presence of God that we feel whole. In Psalm 32, the author tried to “refuse” the reality of the problems of his life. It felt like he was “wasting away” as in the “intense heat of summer.” It was only when he stopped playing the charade and admitted the truth to himself of his limits and brokenness that he found sanctuary. He called it, “my hiding place.” This is not escape because it is going to the very Source of Life; this is the place of praising God with others. “You surround me with shouts of joy from those celebrating deliverance.” The psalmist stopped checking out of life because he found Life. It is the place of being still; of being centered; of being grounded in Jesus. It is a place of healing and joy and praise. …Does that appeal to you?
That is the message on my heart today: “not escape, but sanctuary.” Covid has given us the opportunity to “get out of the habit” or worshipping face-to-face with other believers, but today you are invited to be refreshed, to worship, to come into the presence of God. You are invited to worship in person this Sunday in any one of the many expressions of the Body of Christ in town. To find rest, to enjoy peace, to sense the presence of God. We know where the other road leads; we’ve tried it. Instead, may we join with Saint Augustine and affirm the truth: “Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.”
FIRST PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH 700 Park Ave, Florence, SC 843.662.2583 | FlorenceFirst.org Service times: 9:00am Contemporary; 10:00am Sunday School; 11:00am Traditional
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a State of
HAPPINESS story by Cynthia Ford
What is behind your smile? We have heard it takes more to frown than it does to smile. A lot happens in our bodies when we acquire a sense of being content or happy. Happiness is often viewed as a temporary sensation, whereas joy is considered more permanent. We cannot control many things that happen around us, but we do have a level of control over our own emotions and happiness. We can trace our smiles and levels of happiness to the lowest existence of who we are – cells. We have learned about cells as far back as grade school. However, to look at the dynamics of a cell through the lens of an adult provides such an incredible view of how our bodies are magnificently complex. We owe credence to those who have studied the body at its lowest level of existence to explain its purposes and intended function. There are millions of cells throughout our bodies. Cells that impact our state of being are inside of our brain. Our brains operate as electrical currents and are always active, whether we are awake or sleeping. Our brains constantly communicate throughout the brain and across various sections of our bodies. The brain acts as a master circuit in the center of our body. The brain communicates by sending electrical signals and through chemicals that flow throughout the body. This happens with the help of neurons. Neurons are nerve cells found throughout the body and serve the purpose of transmitting information.
The state of being happy happens through a process of transformation. This process occurs so fast that we do not even realize it is happening.
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The state of being happy happens through a process of transformation. This process occurs so fast that we do not even realize it is happening. Often, our focus is on the result instead of what initiated this state of being. We activate the state of happiness during the transformation of pleasure, assurance, comfort, and satisfaction. Our bodies naturally respond during the conversion and produce what we need in response to acts that create a state of happiness. Four chemicals contribute to our state of happiness: Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin, and Endorphins (DOSE). Acquiring a 'DOSE' of happiness takes some action from the brain. Dopamine is often called the happy hormone. This hormone is triggered when we experience something that pleases us or that we enjoy. This experience usually leads to a feeling of happiness. Serotonin is often called the feel-good hormone. Endorphins are associated with reducing pain and giving comfort. Oxytocin is known as the love hormone that is usually associated with bonding and has a more extended effect when compared to the others. Studies have shown that reducing these chemicals contributes to moments of unhappiness and depression. For this reason, medical providers often prescribe medication that will boost the production of chemicals that contribute to comfort and happiness. Have you ever heard anyone say, “I have to take my happy pill?” Sometimes that statement is overused or improperly used. Medication is not the automatic go-to for happiness; however, it has been used as a needed resource. There are multiple methods of creating and maintaining happiness. Remember, happiness starts within. Happiness always connects with something or someone. Happiness is a personal journey. What makes one person happy may be a nuisance to others. We inadvertently tell ourselves to be happy. How is this so? We do so through our spoken and unspoken words. We affirm pleasure and joy through our thoughts and respond outwardly with a smile, spiked emotional state, or physical response. Our responses outwardly are often things such as embraces or verbal expressions of excitement. Choose to be happy. Shift the direction of your thoughts during times when
your emotional state seeks to do otherwise. Speak words of affirmation; your change is sure to come after you speak it. There is power in your spoken word. Your spoken word, intent, and thoughts collide to create action. Take a moment to smile. Try it now, even if it is a fake smile. Just that quick, something naturally happens in your body. Your brain responded to your smile. From one cell to another, the hormone of happiness shoots through your body like lightning and pairs with your smile.
What makes you happy? What puts that smile on your face? Who puts that smile on your face? Smiling offers positive benefits to your health. These benefits may include relieving pain, boosting the immune system, relieving stress, and stabilizing the mood. Be healthy and KEEP SMILING. This month, several national days point back to the essence of being happy. A few examples are National Nature Photography Day (15th), National Smile Power Day (15th), National Loving Day (12th), National Make Life Beautiful Day (11th), National Best Friend Day (8th), National Selfie Day (21st), and National Say Something Nice Day (1st). As you celebrate these days, be intentional with your happiness. Not only will you reign in joy, but your light of happiness will overflow on those around you. May your flow of happiness be contagious and yield moments of happiness for someone else.
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story by Nanaefua Eshun, Srija Konduru, and Ayushi C.
a message from the
Future Entrepreneurs Foundation Future Entrepreneurs Foundation is a South Carolina based foundation focused on nurturing our future leaders. Summer is upon us. The days are growing longer, the sun is higher in the sky, and the academic school year has ended. Children’s thoughts now turn to swimming, skateboards, baseball, and summer vacations. Unfortunately, for far too many kids, summer vacation is a time for forgetting. This phenomena, the “Summer Slide” in academia, has been long researched. In fact, a recent study from 2020 by the Northwest Evaluation Association[1], a non-profit research organization rooted in delivering educators with data about students’ progress, showed a 20% decline from their school year gains in third through fifth grade students' reading ability over the summer. The familiar saying, “If you don’t use it, you’ll lose it” still reigns true, and especially true with reading in adolescents. Kids who don’t read over the summer regress. Their hard-earned reading skills decline. Youth who manage to keep the rust off their reading, don’t suffer this “Summer Slide.” By reading and writing throughout the summer, they may even manage to improve in reading. Summer reading is easy to build into a family schedule, and most kids come to really enjoy it.
Our tutors shared insight about their summers: Ayushi, a high school senior, wrote: The summer before my senior year, I was still unsure about what I would major in college. I signed up for a community college class on organismal biology. The class genuinely just made me excited to learn and it was worth it to take it over the summer because it helped me find my major in biochemistry. By taking classes over the summer, you are exposed to a variety of subjects and have the time to be more focused on the learning instead of the grade. By studying over the summer, you are also prepared for the upcoming academic year. If you are passionate about something, then try making it a research project over the summer. It is a fun way to be productive with your friends to accomplish something in what you are passionate about. My friend was very interested in environmental sustainability and climate change. She wanted us to raise awareness about the issue. We used the internet to research different aspects of climate change and put it all together in a slideshow in hopes to present it someday. We were invited to a mini TED talk hosted by the city, where the slideshow was presented and it informed the audience. My friend has gone on to publish more of her own research at the age of 17. By studying over the summer, you have the freedom to work on whatever you like, which allows you to be productive while working on something you like. 44
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Srija, an undergraduate at the University of Pittsburgh, wrote: Summer is such a fun time. I remember spending all hours of the day outside with my friends growing up, climbing trees, hosting shows, and skipping rocks. I think I most benefited from this relaxed atmosphere of being able to choose what I was interested in. My family encouraged my passions in baking, reading, and the sciences by allowing me this freedom. Kids benefit the most when given a choice. This is what I saw as I got older that my genuine interest in the processes of science class were not just for the grade, but for the true interest I had, the curiosity I maintained from the child-like awe I saw in the world. So truthfully, many kids will be averse to any kind of forced reading. Being open to their interests, maybe video games or superheroes, will get them excited to read. Allowing children to be children is a virtue we should respect. There’s only so much time that they can enjoy that.
Contact Future Entrepreneurs to enroll in our summer school program. You can register online at www.scfufureentrepreneurs.com or office phone (800) 913-8261.
Dr. Richard O'Malley, Florence 1 Schools Superintendent
5 Ways To Make Literacy an enjoyable part of your kids' summer: 1. Go to the library and borrow some books.
3. Schedule a daily reading time.
Take your children to the library once a week. Borrow as many books as the library will allow. Visiting the library regularly gives opportunity for fun reading.
The summer can get boring for kids. Having regularly scheduled activities, like reading, helps with that boredom. Parents are often good at loading up kids’ schedules with things like soccer or swimming, which are great, but schedule in some quiet reading time too, they'll come to appreciate it!
2. Work with your child to pick out a good chapter book. Find a good book to read with your children. This may be a book that you want to read to them, or for them to read to you. It can be hard to find time to work all the way through a chapter book during the school year, but it can be easier during the summer months. Also, ask your librarian for recommendations, or check out these great choices:
4. Encourage book clubbing. Some kids find reading to be lonely. There are things that parents can do to make it more social and fun for them. For instance, get your child and his/her friends to agree to read a particular book each month.
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5. Set up a family reading time.
What Does It Mean To Be Kind? by Rana DiOrio
One night a week, try turning off all of the television screens, and encourage everyone to pick up a good book or magazine; 15 to 30 minutes. Not only does that create some good reading practice time for your kids, but it shows them that parents are into reading too, which benefits everyone. Modeling will always be more powerful than telling.
There's Only One You by Deborah Hembrook, Kathryn Butcher
Grades 4-6 The Doctor With An Eye For Eyes by Julia Mosca Amazing Scientists: The Girl With A Mind For Math by Julia Mosca
Grades 6-8 Hidden Figures by Margot Shetterly, Winifred Conkling, Laura Freeman A Good Kind of Trouble by Lisa Moore
Grades 9-12 Lies We Tell Ourselves by Robin Talley Same But Different by RJ Peete, Ryan Peete, Holly Peete
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The City Center Farmers Market held its annual Jam Fest on May 21st. There was jam tastings, a jam competition scored by local judges, local musicians playing tunes, storytelling from the stage with Jess Willis, and Indigo dying with the Florence Museum. Lucinda Hobbs took first place in 5 Tango Jam. the competition with her Mango
The 11th Annual Capes For Kids Run was held on May 7th. The event strives to honor a 3-year-old Carver Elementary School student who lost her life due to physical abuse and neglect in 2011.
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Nothing says summertime here in the South like a tall, ice-cold glass of sweet tea! This beloved beverage is a symbol of pure Southern culture, but do you know its history? To tell the tale of our favorite iced drink, let’s first rewind the clock to 1795. French explorer and botanist Andre Michaux introduced beautiful camellias, gardenias, and azaleas to Charleston. He also planted tea plants near Charleston at Middleton Place Gardens and South Carolina become the only colony in America to produce tea plants. It didn’t take long for the popularity of this “new” plant to spread across the New World. Recipes for tea known as “tea punches” began popping up in high-society cookbooks throughout the country. These recipes varied slightly from today’s teas, as they were typically spiked with alcohol and used green tea leaves. During the roaring twenties, especially around the American Prohibition, iced tea gained traction as people throughout the country turned to this refreshing drink as a suitable swap for alcohol. It wasn’t until 1928 that sweet tea became the southern thirst-quencher that it is today. This was after the Atlanta-based southern cookbook, Southern Cooking, gives the recipe that remains standard in the South to this day. This same recipe has been reprinted over and over in many “church” or “ladies society” cookbooks. “TEA – freshly brewed tea, after three to five minutes’ infusion, is essential if a good quality is desired. The water should be freshly boiled and poured over the tea for this short time. The tea leaves may be removed when the desired strength is obtained. A good blend and grade of black tea is most popular for iced tea, while green tea is best used for hot. To sweeten tea, put in sugar while tea is hot. Iced tea should be served with or without lemon, with a sprig of mint, a strawberry, a
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cherry, a slice of orange, or pineapple. Milk is not used in iced tea.” As described in Southern Cooking. Over the years, sweet tea has transformed from a high-society drink to an everyday refreshment that’s so cherished and loved by all that it even found its way into the South Carolina statehouse and was adopted as the state’s official hospitality beverage in 1995. Georgia then followed in 2003 by introducing a bill that required all restaurants in the state to serve sweet tea. Unsweet was considered optional. Most southerners swear by traditional sweet tea and drink it by the gallons. Here in the South, ice tea is not just a summertime drink, it is served year-round with most meals. When someone orders tea in a restaurant it is assumed you are asking for sweet tea unless you request unsweet. In my case, I only drink unsweet tea and have come to accept the fact that very often my first glass will come sweet.
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