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November 2018 | Volume 15 | Issue 11

Do’s and Don’ts of Wearing Leggings

DIY Games for Holiday Gatherings Spiritually Speaking

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20 Reasons to Give $20 to TechGYRLS on Giving Tuesday

Savannah Bailey 12

Fall Lawn Care April Hensley 13

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On the Cover Elizabeth and Loren Gardner, baby Ava Jean, and doggies, Eli and Jackson, are featured on the cover this month. They are the new owners of Abingdon Vineyards and Winery. Front cover photo by Ryan Pavone, Videographer/Photographer.

How to Cut Back on Holiday Waste

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Nancy Binder 14

Essential Steps to Get Your House and Car Ready for Winter Sheila Wandell, State Farm

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Meet the New Owners of Abingdon Vineyards and Winery

Thanksgiving Dinner Recipes 16

Jan-Carol Publishing New Releases 18

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On the Wings of Love Pam Blair 11

Ken Heath 21

Somebody Loves Me, Inc. Joni Iley 22

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From the EDITOR

FREE Celebrating our 15th year!

We wouldn’t be here and there without all of you!

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his time of year is the perfect time to pause and reflect. But finding the time seems impossible. ’Tis the season to ‘run and get it done’ with the approaching holidays and family obligations; so, pausing this time of year just for yourself is last on your ‘to do’ list. With all the madness and sadness bombarding us from news media, it may seem impossible to feel thankful. However, according to a study, people with a grateful attitude and showing gratitude were actually healthier than those who do not. So, this holiday season, take care of you by counting your blessings, seeking out ways to pass on kindness, and enjoying the little moments of each day. Take time to smell the roses, but maybe substitute the roses with pumpkin pie!

This is the perfect time of the year to say how grateful and thankful we are for all our readers, our loyal fans, and our faithful supporters and advertisers. Each year becomes more special with your continued support because we could not here without all of you out there! Shop and buy locally.

Start your holiday shopping season by joining JCP at the first ever event presented in the region, Pages and Pairings, at the Abingdon Vineyards and Winery, located in Abingdon, Virginia. Six local authors will pair their books to six local wines. All served up with heavy hors d’oeuvres. Books and wines make perfect holiday gifts. Tickets must be pre-purchased, and they’re a real bargain at $30.00 per ticket. Visit www.abingdonvineyards.com for more information or to purchase tickets, or call 2​ 76.623.1255.

Remember to check out JCP’s websites—voicemagazineforwomen.com and jancarolpublishing.com, and with the holidays nearing, books make wonderful gifts. If you are an owner of a retail business and would like to retail our books or promote your business with a book signing, call our office, 423.926.9983, for information.

A BIG ‘Thank you’ goes to all of you for your continued support. We appreciate your loyalty to us, our advertisers, and our authors. Thank you!

From all of us to all of you, we wish you a very Happy Thanksgiving!

Verse of the month: “Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ…” Ephesians 5:20 KJV Thought of the month: “Don’t try to cross an ocean to help the person who won’t cross a mud puddle to help you.” Joel Osteen, Senior Pastor, Lakewood Church

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Do’s and Don’ts of Wearing Leggings

By Jan Howery

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s the temperatures drop and the cooler weather meets us at the door, we look for the best clothing and accessories to keep warm from our heads to our toes.

A few years ago, leggings stepped onto the scene. So, the question remains: Who should or should not wear leggings? And when are they appropriate and inappropriate?

Some say that once a woman is sixty years old, she needs to give ’em up. I say WRONG! While leggings can be a tricky article of clothing to style, it is not the age that determines how to look stylish or classy while enjoying the comfort of wearing leggings. Just keep it classy.

• DO look at yourself in a 4 way mirror and like what you see from behind.

• DON’T wear leggings as pants.

• DON’T wear too crazy patterned leggings or put a tight top with leggings unless you are going to yoga class.

• DON’T wear leggings to the office unless you dress them up with a long shirt, tunic, or dress.

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Here are some do’s and don’ts for wearing leggings: • DO wear proper-fitting leggings and proper length.

• DO stick to dark colored leggings.

• DO wear long tops or sweaters that cover your derrière.

• DO wear the right underwear with leggings.

• DO layer your tops to achieve balance.

• DO wear leggings with the right shoes.

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What is Giving Tuesday?

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hile Black Friday and Cyber Monday are some of the more widely known retail holidays, Giving Tuesday is becoming pretty popular in its own right.

Celebrated on the Tuesday following Thanksgiving, Giving Tuesday helps raise awareness that charity is an important component of the holiday season.

What makes Giving Tuesday unique is that it is largely fueled by the power of social media and collaboration. The day was actually created by the 92nd Street Y, a cultural center in New York City that has been instrumental in bringing diverse

groups of people together with the goals of giving back through service. The 92nd Street Y and the United Nations Foundation came together in 2012 to help form a day that was focused on the generosity of giving during the holiday season. Thus, Giving Tuesday was born.

Technology and social media play a large role in uniting people for Giving Tuesday. But the success of Giving Tuesday is thanks in large part to the general public, who have both spread the word and made their own contributions to charity.

In 2017, Giving Tuesday soared to new heights when technology mogul Bill Gates and his wife, Melinda, announced their foundation would match up to $2 million in donations to Giving Tuesday fundraisers started on Facebook. Facebook similarly waived its 5 percent fee for U.S.-based nonprofits all day long.

The global Giving Tuesday movement helped raise more than $300 million online across more than 150 countries in 2017 alone. This year, the Giving Tuesday organization is poised to top their numbers and continue to improve upon the more than 46,000 participating organizations involved in their charitable efforts. Learn more at www.givingtuesday.org.

20 Reasons to Give $20 to TechGYRLS on Giving Tuesday

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iving Tuesday is a global day of celebration dedicated to helping others. Coming after Black Friday and Cyber Monday each year, it encourages the charitable aspect of the holiday season. This year, Giving Tuesday falls on November 27th, and the YWCA TechGYRLS Program needs your support during this giving season. TechGYRLS provides free afterschool care, including transportation and meals, to at-risk girls in the 4th through 8th grades. It focuses on a STEM based educational curriculum to encourage girls to consider careers in science and technology. Participants in the program are exposed to new places and experiences while building relationships.

Here are 20 reasons your $20 donation matters to the YWCA Northeast Tennessee and Southwest Virginia TechGYRLS: • You are funding STEM education for girls.

• You help provide a fun prom for the TechGyrls!

• TechGyrls are exposed to health and fitness activities.

• You are funding exciting and adventurous field trips.

• You are allowing the TechGyrls to have a garden at the YWCA. • You are helping to improve their academic performance.

• TechGyrls get to explore their musical talents.

• Holiday shopping for TechGyrls is provided.

• You are helping to fund TechGyrls research projects.

• TechGyrls are able to excel at Lego League.

• You are allowing the TechGyrls to provide community service hours.

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TechGyrls are able to have a summer enrichment program.

We are able to provide TechGyrls with nutritional meals.

TechGyrls are able to realize they are budding artists.

You are funding a brighter future for these girls.

You provide the TechGyrls with books they can read together.

• You allow the TechGyrls to experience many hands on activities.

• TechGyrls get to wear costumes and celebrate events.

• We are able to give the TechGyrls their own classroom that they maintain.

• You put a smile on these faces!

To donate to YWCA Northeast Tennessee and Southwest Virginia TechGYRLS, go to our Facebook page (YWCA TNVA) or www.ywcatnva.org on November 27, 2018. Your donation will help support the TechGYRLS program.

How to Cut Back on Holiday Waste T

he holiday season is a joyful time of year. But the weeks between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day also tend to be very wasteful. The U.S. Environmental Protection Agency estimates that household waste increases by more than 25 percent during the holiday season.

Reducing waste from the holiday season does not mean celebrants have to forgo big family meals or beautifully wrapped gifts. In fact, there are several ways to reduce waste without spoiling the spirit of the season.

• Give eco-conscious gifts. The environment may not be the first thing that comes to mind when holiday shoppers are looking for gifts for their loved ones.

But giving reusable gifts can have a positive, longterm impact on the planet. Shoppers also can look for items made from recycled materials.

• Reuse holiday-specific items. Many people only use gift wrap, gift boxes, and gift bags during the holiday season. Such items are oftentimes discarded after Christmas morning. But these items can be reused to cut back on holiday waste. Reusing wrapping paper from year to year can be especially beneficial to the environment.

• Prepare less food and donate any leftovers. The Worldwatch Institute notes that during the holiday season, celebrants generate three times as much food waste as they do during other times of the

Holiday Safety Tips for Your Pets

year. Consider how much guests are likely to eat and plan meals accordingly. Donate leftovers to nearby shelters so nothing goes to waste.

• Recycle live Christmas trees. According to the National Christmas Tree Association, 25.9 million real trees were sold in the United States in 2015.

Trees put out on the curb for collection after the holiday season have typically ended up in landfills, but some communities recycle Christmas trees each year.

The holiday season is upon us, and many pet parents plan to include their furry companions in the festivities. As you gear up for the holidays, it is important to try to keep your pet’s eating and exercise habits as close to their normal routine as possible. Also, please be sure to steer pets clear of the following unhealthy treats, toxic plants, and dangerous decorations.

tletoe can cause gastrointestinal upset and cardiovascular problems.

Tinsel-Less Town: Swallowing tinsel can lead to an obstructed digestive tract, severe vomiting, dehydration, and possible surgery.

That Holiday Glow: Don’t leave lighted candles unattended. Pets may burn themselves or cause a fire.

Wired Up: Keep wires, batteries, and glass or plastic ornaments out of paws’ reach. Wires can deliver potentially lethal electrical shock, and a punctured battery can cause burns to the mouth and esophagus.

Be Careful with Seasonal Plants and Decorations Avoid Mistletoe & Holly: Holly, when ingested, can cause pets to suffer nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. Mis-

Avoid Holiday Food Dangers Skip the Sweets: Make sure to keep your pets away from the table and unattended plates of food, and be sure to secure the lids on garbage cans.

Leave the Leftovers: Fatty, spicy, and no-no human foods, as well as bones, should not be fed to your furry friends.

Careful with Cocktails: If alcoholic drinks are ingested, your pet could become weak or ill and may even go into a coma, possibly resulting in death from respiratory failure.

Plan a Pet-Safe Holiday Gathering A Room of Their Own: Give your pet his own quiet space to retreat to—complete with fresh water and a place to snuggle.

New Year’s Noise: Noisy poppers can terrify pets. And remember that pets are also scared of fireworks.

Source: www.aspca.org/pet-care/general-pet-care/holiday-safety-tips

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Essential Steps to Get Your House and Car Ready for Winter Contributed by Sheila Wandell CLU, Agent, State Farm

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hen winter approaches, make sure to prepare your home and vehicle for colder weather. You can live more safely, save money, and keep comfortable throughout winter with a few steps:

At home: Have you...

Cleaned the gutters? Clear debris from gutters and test downspouts for drainage to protect against water damage.

Trimmed trees? Cut back dead or dying limbs and any branches that can touch the roof or siding. When it’s windy, branches can rub or scratch the surfaces of your home and cause damage. They also could fall during a storm or break under heavy snow and ice.

Stopped the air leaks? Eliminating air leaks will improve your home’s comfort and efficiency. Your first stops should be the basement and the attic. Attic leaks allow warmed air to escape

and have the effect of drawing cold air in through basement leaks. Use a can of spray foam insulation to plug up the offenders in both areas.

Scheduled a heating system inspection?

Have your furnace professionally inspected and cleaned, to reduce the risk of a breakdown and to keep the system running efficiently. If you have a fireplace, have your chimney professionally cleaned and inspected and ensure that your damper opens, closes, and seals tightly.

Winterized outdoor faucets? Remove all hoses or devices attached to outdoor spigots. Have in-ground sprinkler systems blown out, and turn off water to outdoor spigots. Be sure to drain any water left behind in the pipes.

Your vehicle: Have you...

Had your vehicle serviced? Ask your mechanic to perform an inspection: test the battery and brakes, inspect the exhaust, check the cooling system, check fluids, change the oil, and make sure all components are working properly.

Check the vehicle owner’s manual for information on the correct fluid types and recommended service intervals.

Checked the wiper blades? Inspect your wiper blades to make sure they’re functional and in good condition. If you live in an area that typically sees lots of snow and ice, consider installing winter blades. Store an ice scraper in the car, and stock up on windshield washer fluid rated to withstand –30 degrees or lower temperatures.

Monitored the fuel line? Today’s ethanol fuels remove small amounts of water from your fuel system to help prevent freezing. In addition, you can help avoid freeze-ups by keeping your vehicle in a heated garage, avoiding refueling while the tanker truck is at the gas station (water and deposits from the tanker could end up in your fuel line), and by keeping your gas cap secured.

Inspected the tires? Check for uneven wear, cupping, sidewall cracking, and other damage or deterioration. Also examine tire treads to make sure the grooves are deep enough to grip slick surfaces. If your tires fail any of these tests, replace them with all-season tires, or, in extreme winter environments, with winter snow tires. Wonder if your tires have enough tread? Try the penny test: Stick a penny (Lincoln head first) into one of the grooves that goes completely around the tire. If you can see the top of Lincoln’s head, your tread is worn down below 2/32 of an inch and should be replaced.

Stocked the trunk with emergency equipment? Essentials include: Flares, jumper cables, a shovel, a first-aid kit, a flashlight, extra batteries, non-perishable snacks, and cold-weather gear.

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Follow These Thanksgiving Travel Safety Tips

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he week of Thanksgiving is a busy time of the year to travel that’s marked by a large number of people traveling to see loved ones. In 2017, AAA projected 50.9 million Americans would journey 50 miles or more from home on Thanksgiving. While many people look forward to seeing their loved ones, the sheer volume of cars on the road during Thanksgiving week makes it a dangerous time to This Thanksgiving, drivers should make it a point to follow these tips to ensure they get to their destinations safely travel. This Thanksgiving, drivers should make it a and soundly. point to follow these tips to ensure they get to their destinations safely and soundly.

• Check the forecast before you go. Weather can be unpredictable around Thanksgiving.

• Get your vehicle inspected. Have your vehicle inspected in the days before you hit the road.

• Keep your fuel tank more than half-full. FEMA Voice Magazine is growing! suggests keeping the tank full when temperatures Bring your sales experience and sell a product are extremely cold. This is because condensation that people love! We are hiring representatives for print and internet advertising sales. Established, can build up in near-empty gas tanks, potentially growing, and expanding! Must be a team player, freezing fuel lines and leaving you stranded. professional, and willing to work with limited supervision. High commission with unlimited • Opt for airline updates. Flights can be delayed potential. Email resume with references to publisher@jancarolpublishing.com or canceled when weather is poor. Many airlines will now text travelers who are subscribed to updates or frequent-flyer programs and apps.

• Plan for stops. Drowsy driving and distracted driving are extreme dangers across North America. Take breaks to avoid drowsiness, and only use a mobile device when safely pulled over at a rest stop.

• Leave plenty of time.

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Meet the New Owners of Abingdon Vineyards and Winery

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bingdon Vineyards was started in 2001 by Bob Carlson and his wife, Janet, as their retirement project. They ran it well into their 80’s and have now passed it on to the next generation of wine enthusiasts. The new owners of Abingdon Vineyards continue the traditions set by the Carlsons.

New Owners—Elizabeth & Loren Gardner Elizabeth, Loren, baby Ava Jean, and doggies, Eli and Jackson, are also known as the “Country Gingers.” They stumbled upon a winery for sale when visiting their best friends who moved from California back to Virginia. They fell in love with the beautiful land, delicious wine, and gracious community.

Loren grew up in Napa Valley and has always been fascinated with the wine industry. He studied viticulture and wine making at UC Davis and built many wineries and vineyards with his construction company. He is thrilled to learn about a new terroir and regional grape varieties.

Elizabeth is passionate about food, art, nature, and education. She is a Stanford graduate, Master Gardener, Certified Natural Chef, and has a Master’s in Education. She combined her passions with her business in Point Reyes, California—Food & Farm Tours (foodandfarmtours.com). “I’m looking forward to hosting events and bringing delicious artisan products into the winery.”

The new owners have taken on a new family with the winery. “It is a family affair with three families working

together to tend to the land, grapes, winemaking, and our loyal customers.”

Kevin Sutherland has been the Vineyard Manager and Cellar Master at Abingdon Vineyards since 2005.

His wife, Teresa, is the tasting room manager, and the winery utilizes her background in finance and sales.

Meghan Sullivan and Kevin Forrester are the best friends of Elizabeth and Loren and the PHOTO BY RYAN PAVONE reason that they moved to Abingdon, Virginia. “While visiting our friends who moved from California to back here in Virginia, we fell in love with the area with its beautiful land, delicious wine, and gracious community. And here we are!”

Join Abingdon Vineyards and Winery on Saturday, November 10 from 6:30 pm to 8:30 pm for the first in the region, Pages and Pairings event. Hear the new owners’ intriguing story of finding their way to this region and purchasing the winery. In addition, you will have the opportunity to hear local authors pair their book with the perfect wine. Food, wine tastings, and fun! Call for tickets today. Limited seating.

Purchase tickets online: www.abingdonvineyards.com 20530 Alvarado Rd Abingdon, Virginia 276) 623-1255

Pages and Pairings

Jan-Carol Publishing and Abingdon Vineyards (under new ownership) invite you to join us at this premier event!

Need a good book for winter? Come meet 6 authors as they introduce their books and pair each one with a wine tasting!

Authors include Bev Freeman, Kathleen Jacobs, Mike Grindstaff, Willie Dalton, Teresa Jewell, plus a collection of Appalachian Short Stories.

When: Saturday, November 10 • Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm Where: Abindgon Vineyards and Winery • 20530 Alvarado Road, Abingdon, VA $30 per person, includes author talks, wine tastings and heavy appetizers.

Wine and books will be available to purchase. PURCHASE YOUR TICKETS ONLINE www.abingdonvineyards.com or call Jan-Carol Publishing 423-926-9983 and purchase your tickets today!

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November is Aviation History Month

Article By Pam Blair

torytelling is a powerful tool that enables us to hand down memories through the ages. My mother-inlaw had great stories that we cherish, like the story of how she met her husband.

I’m grateful that I had the privilege of helping to write her memoir, My Earliest Memories of a Wonderful Life, and in the May 2018 issue of this magazine, I shared her tales of growing up during the Great Depression. Here’s the story of how she met my father-in-law.

I had the best childhood anyone could ever want, but those happy days came to a close when my brother, Richard, was drafted into the Army during World War II. It was heartbreaking for me because he was the best brother in the world, and I had always looked up to him. He sent me money while he was in the Army, even though he earned a pittance each month. I saved that money, and in time, I had accumulated $200. By then, I was attending Indiana State University, until one memorable day when I picked up a Coronet magazine and read an article about being a flight attendant for TWA Airlines. Reading that article was a life-changing event. I showed it to a friend, and together, we went to interview with American and United Airlines. I was accepted by United, but there was a fee to attend flight attendant school. The $200 my brother had so generously shared with me paid for my training, and I couldn’t believe my good fortune. From a little town of 100 people, I was about to travel a long way.

Mine was the first class of attendants who were not required to be nurses, and we also had to be at least 5 feet, 4 inches tall to reach the overhead bins. After completing the program, I was based in Chicago and flew on United’s DC-3 Mainliner, which was celebrated as one of the greatest airplanes of its time. I was the sole attendant with a load of 21 passengers, and later, when the DC-4 came out, I flew on it. The DC-4 was larger and required two flight attendants. Air travel was considered very glamorous in those days, with many celebrities and wealthy passengers onboard. I remember that Tommy Dorsey and his wife were my passengers on one flight. They both wore camel-hair coats, and their leather boots looked buttery-soft. On another occasion, the opera star, Lauritz Melchior, and his wife flew with me. I had an exciting job, and I loved every minute of it.

One day, a DC-4 airplane was parked at Chicago’s O’Hare Airport where I was based. The plane was brand new, and Captain Bill Blair and his co-pilot were sitting in the cockpit. I knew that Bill had dated one of my roommates, but it was the first time I had met him. We talked, and I went right home after that to wash my hair and set it in rollers. I just knew that Bill was going to call me, and he did.

At that time, pilots and flight attendants were allowed to date each other, but attendants could not be married and continue to work for the airlines. After a whirlwind courtship, Bill and I were married and went to live in Denver, but he was soon transferred back to Chicago.

My flying career had lasted just over one year, and I wasn’t ready to quit, but once again, a whole new life was waiting for me. I became the mother of four boys, and one of our sons later became an airline pilot. Our love of flying had become a family tradition.

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Pam Blair is a writer who has authored and edited numerous publications, including LIFE IS PRECIOUS: LESSONS IN HEALTHY LIVING, SURVIVING CANCER, AND RECOVERING FROM GRIEF (Chapel Hill Press). She can be reached at pblair919@aol.com. voicemagazineforwomen.com | November 2018 | 11

DIY Games for Holiday Gatherings

By Savannah Bailey

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he season to surround yourself with family and friends is upon us, and what better way to get everyone at the party involved than a good game? While classic card games and board games are always on my list, I love to add a personal touch to my gatherings with a few DIY games. Not only are these games fun conversation starters and great to play, you could even use the act of DIY-ing a game as a party event!

Two of my favorite DIY games are also some of the simplest, but their ease of play doesn’t make them any less fun! I make use of an extra-large, DIY tic-tac-toe game and a DIY guess who game at most of my parties.

Since its inception, the crossword puzzle has become one of the world’s most recognizable puzzles, attracting enthusiasts from all over the world, and now appearing in virtually all newspapers. Even though a type of word puzzle was found inscribed on the wall of an ancient Egyptian tomb, the first known crossword puzzles are credited to journalist Arthur Wynne, who designed his “word-cross” in 1913.

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To make my tic-tac-toe game, I purchased a large, wooden box and nine blocks from the craft store. When buying supplies for this project, make sure that all nine blocks fit neatly inside the box. Using painters tape, I mapped out the lines for the game board on the top of the box and painted accordingly. Then, I painted four of the blocks red and five of them green. I decided to go for a minimalist look and didn’t paint X’s or O’s on my blocks, but adding the letters with black paint would be an easy addition to this game!

For DIY guess who, I purchased two square, wooden boards from the craft store and painted them a shade of mint. Then, I searched online for headshots of characters from my favorite TV shows and movies. After aligning and resizing the photos until I could fit several per page, I printed the images out (two copies per photo), laminated them, and cut them down to size. I hammered three nails into each side of the two boards and tied a line of string between the sets. Finally, I used miniature clothespins to act as photo holders across the strings.

For guess who, I print out the rules just in case my family or friends need a refresher, and I keep the laminated photo sets in miniature storage boxes. Both guess who and tic-tac-toe provide tons of fun at my holiday parties, and my guests are always appreciative of the personal touch that comes with DIY games.

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Fall Lawn Care

By April Hensley

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ow that we’ve had the first frost and Thanksgiving is just around the corner, we know it won’t be long until there is snow flying through the air.

Those of us with flower beds and vegetable gardens feel sad to see our plants wilt away. Though, we do look forward to storing those lawnmowers and rakes for a while and letting the grass take a little nap for a few months.

Don’t put your tools away too soon though. There are a few things we can do to our yards now that will give us lush, emerald lawns in the spring. It seems weird to be talking about working on improving grass in November, but it’s actually one of the best times to do it. Lawns go into a state of hibernation in the winter. The green blades may turn brown, but the root is still very much alive and growing in the ground. A few simple chores before winter will help your lawn fight weeds and diseases when spring arrives.

• Remove the leaves or use a mulching blade on the lawnmower. Leaves can smother and kill your grass if they pile up for many months. Sucking them up into a bagger while mowing is fast, easy, and grinds the leaves up. Then, dump them into a pile for compost.

• Aerate the soil by raking or by using an aerator to plug the yard. Thatch forms on the surface of the soil that

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prevents water and nutrients from soaking through to the roots. Compacted soil acts the same way. If you are raking your leaves, just give a little more pressure to get the rake all the way to the ground to get to thatch.

Keep mowing as long as needed, but mow the grass shorter than usual so the sun will be able to get to the crowns of grass. Sunlight helps feed plants through photosynthesis.

Over seed with a grass mix suited to your shade/sun ratio to help thicken and smother out weeds.

Fertilize with a balanced organic lawn fertilizer. It will feed and strengthen the roots over winter.

Fill in any low spots with dirt, and sow grass seed to patch.

Use natural weed control on weeds you see. There are many natural weed killers and fertilizers on the market that are healthier for people, pets, and the environment.

April Hensley works as an office manager and is an avid gardener, writer, and green hobbyist. April loves the outdoors and is passionate about animal welfare and house the environment. She can be reached at aprils1105@embarqmail.com.

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Siem Reap, Cambodia

Gateway to Amazing Temples Article and Photographs by Nancy Binder

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bout a 6 hour drive from Phnom Penh is the town of Siem Reap. The name translates to “defeat of Siam,” which legend says was named in 1549 after the defeat of the Siamese army. A short drive outside the city took us to the Angkor area.

This area, with its temples, was the center of the Khmer Kingdom from the 9th into the 15th centuries. Many of the temples in the area are UNESCO World Heritage sites.

On the first day in Siem Reap, we visited Ta Prohm, which means Ancestors of Brahma, which was originally a Buddhist monastery built in 1186. It has a giant spung tree growing over a section of a building. This is where Angelina Jolie’s movie, “Raiders of the Tomb,” was filmed.

The site has been stabilized, but the trees growing over the site have been left intact. It was a good choice as the first temple to visit, as it shows how over the centuries, the jungle had covered many of these sites.

The second temple we toured was Banteay Srei, which means Citadel of Women. Local legend says women built this temple, which seems highly unlikely. It was built in the second half of the tenth century and was dedicated to the Hindu god, Shiva. It is made of beautiful pink to red sandstone. This sandstone is easily carved and has many

Monkey guards at Banteay Srei.

stories of battles and gods intricately carved into the walls.

Some of the carvings, because of their unique quality, have been stolen over the years, all the way into the late 20th century. Many of the statues and carvings have been replaced by replicas, and the originals are in the National Museum in the Cambodian capital, Phnom Penh.

As the river festival was occurring everywhere in Cambodia, Siem Reap and the temples were very crowded with tourists. Dragon boats were practicing on the river for the continued on next page

Ta Prohm—where movie “Raiders of the Tomb” was filmed.

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Apsara Dancers races, which took place two days later. Families were picnicking along the river, and the town had an air of excitement and heavy traffic.

One evening, we attended an Apsara dance performance and a puppet performance done as shadows on a screen. All of the temples we visited had celestial dancers and females who guarded entrances carved into the walls.

These were called apsaras. In the mid-20th century, the Royal Ballet of Cambodia created the Apsara Dance. It was an amazing performance. The Apsara dancers were so graceful and beautifully costumed. Afterwards, the dancers came back on stage to allow us to have a close up look at their costumes and for photo opportunities.

The puppet performance was an interesting story that was translated into English for us. The puppets were silhouettes on a stick with movable arms and legs. It took a look of coordination to operate the sticks behind the screen. It was an unusual show and enjoyable.

On the second day in Siem Reap, we were up well before dawn so that we could be at Angkor Wat, the Capital

Te m p l e , while it

was still dark. Using flashlights, we crossed a moat on a floating bridge to be at the shore of a pond facing Angkor Wat. As the sky became lighter, we could see the outline of this magnificent temple, and once sunrise occurred, the temple shimmered in the light and the reflection in the pond was breathtaking. Our guide was knowledgeable in avoiding the crowds, which numbered in the thousands.

Our group went quickly to get into the queue to climb to the top of the tower. Only 4 of 9 people in our group went up. I was not one of them, as the stairs were steep, and it was very high. I am afraid of heights. I took advantage of the time to look closely at the amazing carvings in the stone. The faces and the celestial dancer carvings were outstanding. All of the stonework on these massive buildings was erected without mortar. Angkor Wat is the largest religious monument in the world, covering 402 acres. It was built in the 12th century, originally to the Hindu god, Vishnu. In the latter part of the 12th century, it gradually became a Buddhist temple. It was also the mausoleum of the Khmer King, Suryavarman II. Angkor Wat is the prime tourist attraction in Cambodia, and it also appears on the Cambodian flag.

Later in the morning, we toured Angkor Thom, which was built between 1175 and 1240 AD. Approaching the South Gate, various gods carved in stone are lined up along the bridge over the moat. A smiling face looks down from the gate. After we entered the gate, a parade of six elephants, with mahouts atop, walked towards us and through the gate. The elephants were communicating with one another via stomach rumbles, which I could hear as they passed me. The most notable temple in the complex is Bayon Temple, where there are outstanding carvings telling the story of the Khmer Army. This temple has 54 towers, many with carved faces on them. It is a most impressive place.

Cambodia is a fascinating and exotic place to visit, especially in the Siem Reap area with all of these massive temples.

Elephants at Angkor Thom.

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Holiday Turkey Makes 15 servings 1 fresh turkey, about 15 pounds, preferably free-range 1 tablespoon olive oil 1 quart apple cider 2 teaspoons dried poultry seasoning Coarse sea salt freshly ground black pepper 1. Remove the giblets from the turkey and discard. Rinse the turkey inside and out and pat dry with paper towels. Rub it all over with salt and pepper. Refrigerate, uncovered, for at least 12 hours and up to 24 hours. During that time, the surface of the turkey will become visibly dry and the skin will tighten; this encourages a nice crisp skin on the finished bird.

2. Remove the turkey from the refrigerator 1 hour before you plan to start roasting. Preheat the oven to 450 F.

How to Make Smart Choices at the Thanksgiving Table Having so many foods at one’s fingertips may compel people to overeat. However, there are some tricks to enjoy your meal without ending up with the post-dinner bloat.

• Do a sweep of the area first. Examine the offerings before picking up a plate. If something looks irresistible, leave room for it by going sparingly on other foods.

• Snack before arriving. Fill up on high-fiber foods before the meal so you’ll be less likely to over-do it.

• Use a small plate. Pick a small plate so you can’t fill it up with more food than you need to feel satisfied.

• Indulge wisely in desserts. Pick up very small pieces of dessert if you want to sample various offerings.

• Slow down. Eat slowly and register when you are full. This will help you eat with your stomach and not your eyes.

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3. Put the turkey on a rack, set in a large, flameproof roasting pan.

Drizzle the oil over the top. Roast for 1 hour. Reduce the oven temperature to 175 F. Pour the cider into the roasting pan and sprinkle the poultry seasoning in the liquid. Continue roasting until an instant-read thermometer inserted into the thickest part of a thigh (but not touching bone) registers to 170 F. 4. Transfer the turkey to a carving board, tent loosely with aluminum foil, and let rest for about 15 minutes (see tip). Meanwhile, skim the fat from the surface of the liquid in the pan. Put the roasting pan over two burners and bring the pan drippings to a boil over high heat. Cook until the juices reduce and thicken slightly, enough to coat a spoon, about 10 minutes. Taste for seasoning.

Carve the turkey and serve with cider pan juices.

Resting tip: Slow-roasted meats need far less resting time (pretty much none) than those that are traditionally roasted.

Garlic Mashed Cauliflower 1 head cauliflower, cut into florets 1 tablespoon olive oil 1 clove garlic, smashed 1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese 1 tablespoon reduced-fat cream cheese 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt 1/8 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper 1. Place a steamer insert into a saucepan and fill with water to just below the bottom of the steamer. Bring water to a boil.

Add cauliflower, cover, and steam until tender, about 10 minutes.

2. Meanwhile, heat olive oil in a small skillet over medium heat; cook and stir garlic until softened, about 2 minutes.

Remove from heat.

3. Transfer half the cauliflower to a food processor; cover and blend on high. Add remaining cauliflower florets, one at a time, until vegetables are creamy. Blend in garlic, Parmesan cheese, cream cheese, salt, and black pepper.

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Brussels Sprout Slaw Dressing: 1/4 cup olive oil 2 tablespoons distilled white vinegar 1 tablespoon honey 1 clove garlic, minced 1 teaspoon brown mustard Salad: 1 pound Brussels sprouts, shredded 1/2 cup dried cherries 1/2 cup slivered almonds 1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese 1. Whisk olive oil, vinegar, honey, garlic, and mustard together in a bowl until dressing is smooth.

2. Combine Brussels sprouts, dried cherries, almonds, and Parmesan cheese together in a bowl; add dressing and toss to coat. For best flavor, refrigerate for several hours before serving. Source: All Recipes

Simple Roasted Butternut Squash 1 butternut squash—peeled, seeded, and cut into 1-inch cubes 2 tablespoons olive oil 2 cloves garlic, minced salt and ground black pepper to taste 1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C).

2. Toss butternut squash with olive oil and garlic in a large bowl. Season with salt and black pepper. Arrange coated squash on a baking sheet.

3. Roast in the preheated oven until squash is tender and lightly browned, 25 to 30 minutes.

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Herb-Roasted Garnet Sweet Potatoes Serves 4 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves, minced 1 teaspoon minced fresh sage 1 teaspoon minced fresh oregano 3 medium garnet sweet potatoes, peeled and cut into 1/4-inch dice Kosher salt 1. Preheat the oven to 375 F. Spray a large roasting pan with nonstick cooking spray. In a large bowl, thoroughly combine the olive oil and herbs. Add the sweet potato dice to the mixture, and use your fingers to coat them well. Season with salt to taste.

2. Transfer the mixture to the prepared roasting pan. Bake for 45 to 60 minutes, until your desired consistency is reached, whether you want them a bit firm or fork-tender.

Edible Tip: A good alternate variety to Garnets are Red Jewels, which are easy to come by at both farmers’ markets and local grocers. Look for a deep, bright color, and be sure to cook them fairly quickly after purchase. Unlike potatoes, sweet potatoes do not store very well.

Homemade Dinner Rolls for those with Gluten Allergies Men and women with gluten allergies may want to avoid traditional dinner rolls, but holiday hosts can take steps to ensure everyone gets to enjoy dinner rolls, regardless of their dietary restrictions. The following recipe for “Dinner Rolls” from Jeanne Sauvage’s “Gluten-Free Baking” (Chronicle Books) is a gluten-free version of a beloved holiday staple.

Dinner Rolls

if a little extra tapioca flour is left on top of the rolls. Preheat Makes 18 rolls the oven to 375 F. 4 tablespoons granulated sugar 6.

Let the dough stand in a warm, 2 cups warm milk (about 110 F) draft-free place to rise until 2 tablespoons active dry yeast doubled in bulk, about 40 3 cups gluten-free all-purpose flour minutes.

2 teaspoons xanthan gum 7.

Brush the top of each roll with 4 teaspoons baking powder melted butter. Bake until the 1 teaspoon salt tops are a nice golden brown, 2extra-large eggs about 20 minutes. If they start to 1/4 cup neutral-flavored oil such as brown too quickly, loosely tent rice bran or canola the rolls with aluminum foil.

2 teaspoons vinegar, preferably Remove the rolls to wire racks apple cider to cool. If you are serving them Melted unsalted butter for brushing immediately, it’s nice to put Tapioca flour for dusting them in a tea towel-lined blanket 1. Brush 18 standard muffin cups to keep warm. (one 12-cup pan and one 6-cup pan) with melted butter and dust 8. Store in an airtight container for up to 3 days. with tapioca flour.

2. In a small bowl, whisk 1 tableQuick and Easy spoon of the sugar into the warm milk. Whisk in the yeast to Pumpkin Mouse dissolve. Set aside to proof. The 1 tablespoon butter mixture will get foamy.

24 marshmallows 3. In a medium bowl, mix together 1/2 cup milk the all-purpose flour, xanthan 1/2 cup canned pumpkin gum, baking powder, salt, and 1 teaspoon vanilla extract remaining 3 tablespoons sugar.

1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice 4. In the bowl of a stand mixer 1/3 cup confectioners’ sugar fitted with the paddle attach1 cup heavy cream ment, beat the eggs on medium 1. Melt the butter in a large skillet. speed until foamy, about 3 Stir in the marshmallows, milk, minutes. Add the oil and beat and pumpkin. Stir frequently for 2 more minutes. Reduce the until melted and smooth. speed to low, add the vinegar Remove from heat; stir in vanilla and beat to combine. Add the and pumpkin pie spice. Cool yeast mixture and beat to mix. completely, about 30 minutes.

Add the flour mixture and beat 2. Combine 1/3 cup confectioners’ to combine, then increase the sugar and 1 cup heavy cream in a speed to medium-high and beat large bowl. Use an electric mixer for 3 minutes longer. to beat until stiff peaks form.

5. Distribute the dough equally Fold whipped cream into cooled among the prepared muffin cups pumpkin mixture. and fill them about three-quar3. Pour mousse into ramekins or ters full. With a sharp knife that chocolate shells. Cover and has been dipped in tapioca flour, refrigerate until firm, about 2 cut a deep slash in the top of hours. each roll. Dip the knife in flour Source: All Recipes before each cut, and don’t worry voicemagazineforwomen.com | November 2018 | 17

Today humanity faced extinction. The earth started gasping for oxygen. A horrified earthling called 911. Brian Diamond leaped through a high security lab window. The medicine for planet Earth had been stolen by an unsuspecting Chinese Agent.

Diamond’s anti-gravity vehicle cut through the air like lightning as he roared down the road in the fastest jet-propelled land rover in the US arsenal, determined to complete his mission.

Written by Mike Grindstaff Marwin Gelstone, a divorced pharmacist with a unique practice, tries to get through the daily grind of pharmacy while simultaneously trying to understand his adolescent children. His life takes a drastic turn when his partner’s wife commits suicide. Madeline Montgomery is a well-known socialite in the Knoxville community who abruptly ends the life that so many have longed for. The senseless nature of her suicide leads Marwin to search for an answer to the age-old question of why a person takes their own life. As he explores Marwin becomes entrenched in a twisted plot that could cost him everything, including his life.

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Written by Joe Tennis Wind, waves—and a broken boat oar—force four teenagers from the suburbs into a saltwater swamp. There, they struggle to survive while constantly getting sidetracked in conversation.

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Written by James Clayton Taylor Today humanity faced extinction. The earth started gasping for oxygen. A horrified earthling called 911. Brian Diamond leaped through a high security lab window.

The medicine for planet Earth had been stolen by an unsuspecting Chinese Agent.

Diamond’s anti-gravity vehicle cut through the air like lightning as he roared down the road in the fastest jet-propelled land rover in the US arsenal, determined to complete his mission.

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The Puppeteer of Objects: A Lyrical Poem

Written by Kathleen M. Jacobs THE PUPPETEER OF OBJECTS: A Lyrical Poem asks the question, “What might objects see in us as they set their gaze?” rather than what might we see in them. Through the exploration of twelve seemingly inanimate objects, the reader is invited to peel back their intricate layers to reveal the voice behind these mute, yet ever-faithful friends. And, in the process, pretensions are dropped and reality finds its way into even the most remote places.

COMING SOON

“Dale Crotts draws the reader in early in his novel, The Ruby Earring.

The clever wording of his artistic style presents the story in a way that makes readers feel partnered with Attorney, Adam Drake, as he struggles to prove his gut feelings concerning his client’s innocence are correct. Breaking from this seemingly improbable task, Crotts spices up Drake’s love life with the beautiful Callie Devine, the opposing councilor. The Ruby Earring is a must read filled with drama and unpredictability!”

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was born in High Point, North Carolina and grew up in Randolph County. After attending Randleman High School, he went on to obtain a Bachelor’s degree in business administration from High Point College. Later he obtained a MBA from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro. In the mid-nineties his career took him to the Midwest, where he traveled extensively throughout the region. Many of the characters and setting in his writing come from his travels. He currently resides in North Carolina. You may contact Dale through Facebook, or his website at www.rdcrotts.com.

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Bank Executive Josh Stephens comes home to find his murdered wife’s body alone in their bedroom, just two years after his daughter was murdered—a case that was never solved. Accused of murder, he hires ace defense attorney Adam Drake. Macy Merit, an old flame of Drake’s, and Spencer Rawlings accidentally meet Drake’s secretary, who after learning about their current profession, implores them to assist Drake with the Stephens case. Now it’s a race against time and the judicial system, as Macy, Spence, and Drake navigate their way through a maze of evidence, witnesses, and unsuspected twists and turns on a mission to free their client. The Ruby Earring provides mystery, suspense, and an ending you never saw coming.

THE RUBY EARRING

Written by Dale Crotts Bank Executive Josh Stephens comes home to find his murdered wife’s body alone in their bedroom, just two years after his daughter was murdered—a case that was never solved. Accused of murder, he hires ace defense attorney Adam Drake. Macy Merit, an old flame of Drake’s, and Spencer Rawlings accidentally meet Drake’s secretary, who after learning about their current profession, implores Dale Crotts them to assist Drake with the Stephens case. Now it’s a race against time and the judicial system, as Macy, Spence, and Drake navigate their way through a maze of evidence, witnesses, and unsuspected twists and turns on a mission to free their client. The Ruby Earring provides mystery, suspense, and an ending you never saw coming.

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ecently widowed, Lily Roberts leaves her Appalachian hometown seeking serenity in the Carolina coastal town of Eagle Hills. Instead, she stumbles into a world of intrigue, murder, and passion. Lily’s encounter on the beach with a mysterious stranger arouses an unquenchable thirst.

Will she satisfy her desires or fall victim to a secret political agenda?

“Soaring Passion in Eagle Hills is a fascinating tale of romance, murder, and mystery. Every time I thought I figured out where the story was headed, it took another surprising turn. Kristine Cabot captures the readers’ attention right from the start and holds onto it tightly through passionate love scenes, scandalous secrets, and an ending that’s sure to tug at your heartstrings.”

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“Soaring Passion in Eagle Hills is a combination of mystery and intrigue with a hefty dose of sensuality mixed in. Kristine Cabot reminds us to never give up on our dreams, and that we are never too old to discover the many joys that life has to offer through the characters of Lily and Max. You will enjoy Lily’s road to — Mike Grindstaff, Author of Moon Over Knoxville discovery!”

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ennifer Johnson left her southern roots behind after college to start over in New York City. Now just shy of turning twenty-nine, Jennifer is let go from her job as a public relations manager and returns to her hometown of Edmonds, Virginia for the summer.

Jennifer makes a deal with herself; she will continue freelancing while applying for jobs, and when the summer is up go back to New York City and start a new job there.

While flying back to her hometown, Jennifer is seated next to an old friend from high school, Aaron Scott. He doesn’t recognize her at first—or so she thinks—as she’s changed since their junior year, in more ways than just her physical appearance.

Jennifer must learn to readjust to living life under her parents’ roof with her younger sister while beginning a new summer job in the most surprising of places.

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Written by Michael Gryboski Carla al-Hassan lives in two worlds. In one, she is known as a mild-mannered young woman who dropped out of college to work full time to pay for her grandfather’s medical bills. In the other, she is a professional killer who does the will of a mysterious domestic terrorist group called the Cicero Organization. For years, Carla has maintained this delicate balance. But a jealous act of betrayal and an investigation by a determined lawyer threaten her balance...and her life.

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Perfect Reading for the Young or Young at Heart!

How the Dog Saved the Squirrel from the Hawk

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Sam, the red squirrel with the screwy tail, caused trouble for the German Shepherd and the woman who lived in the old Dutch Colonial. Trouble began with the bird food scattered on the ground, bird feeder, and suet that hung from the shepherd's hook in the fenced in backyard.

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This Month’s Featured Books

Family Saga

Children’s Inspirational

Historical Fiction

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A Father’s Love

by Jessica Beaver Samuel Ford is a wanted man who, all for the love of his children, has committed crimes and put his and his children’s lives in danger. Life takes a sudden turn when Sam experiences unexpected kindness from a stranger, and his life soon becomes an example of how powerful God’s love— like a father’s love—can be.

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The Age of the Jetsons

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ell, first of all, if you know who the Jetsons are, you’re of the right age for my ramblings this month. As a kid growing up as part of the Fairground Hill Gang, Saturday morning routine included a huge bowl of Captain Crunch in front of the floor model color TV for cartoons. Bugs Bunny, Daffy, the Roadrunner, and their gang provided entertainment until everybody else in the house stirred, and then my granddad would take control of the rotary dial, adjusting the aluminum foil as needed to tune in Professional ‘Rasslin’.

But somewhere in between, this space-age family got their time slot. George and Astro on that runaway treadmill, Mr. Spacely pushing George to do more work. But the fascination of a bespectacled, husky kid was in the gadgets of the future. A telephone with a built in TV, where you could see who you were talking to. An automatic treadmill, albeit with a few kinks to be worked out, where you could walk the dog without ever going outside. A robot to sweep the floor.

Anybody wanna Roomba? But the elusive one, so far, is the automatic flying car. Just imagine hopping inside the clear, glass, domed ride and it lifting off, sweeping you to your destination by voice command. The stuff of which boys’ dreams are made!

Yesterday, I road tested a brand new, luxury SUV. No, not in the market—unless I hit the lottery. It cost more than our first house! But what a ride! Leather and chrome, and GADGETS! Heated and COOLED seats! Double moon roof! Push button start! The thing even shut down the engine at red lights, firing up again with the tap of the gas pedal, to conserve fuel. But the magic came in the driving.

A rear camera to back up. Cameras all around to see the perimeter, just in case the expanse of windows weren’t enough. Satellite radio, voice navigation. If I wandered from my travel lane, a gentle vibration shook the steering wheel. In cruise control, if another car joined the lane in front of me, this behemoth would sense it and automatically slow my speed to give me distance—no more tailgating, I suppose, which is a good thing. My angel wears her imaginary brake out when she’s my copilot.

In short, just a step away from driving itself. And a couple steps to liftoff, to soar through the wild, blue yonder instead of feeling like my granddad’s favorite wrestler as I battled traffic on 81.

I’m hopeful it’s not too far away. So hopeful, in fact, I’m looking for online courses to train for a job at Spacely Sprockets.

But in the meantime, as new car fever rampages through my brain, I’m hoping I can channel ole George and Astro to beg my wife to “stop this crazy thing!”

At least until those lotto numbers match!

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Helping Those in Need in Northeast Tennessee Contributed by Joni Iley

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omebody Loves Me, Inc. is a 501 (c)3 organization focused on helping those less fortunate in Northeast Tennessee. We have successfully provided shoes, clothing, and gifts for underprivileged children through our Christmas for Our Children Program since 2013.

We also have a new program, Clothing Our Children, which provides underprivileged school-age children with shoes, clothing, and personal care items. When children’s essential needs are not met, this can have a direct negative impact on their school success, and our goal is to do our part in ensuring success for as many children in our region as possible. Our new program, Clothing Our Children, which began July, 2018, will provide these essential items to students in the eight county region of Northeast Tennessee through a referral process. Children in need will be referred to us by school nurses, counselors, or other staff members. Shoes, clothing, and other needed items will be delivered by our volunteers to the school, where a school staff member will distribute the items to the child in need.

Our goal is to make sure no child goes without in all eight counties of our region.

All of our members are unpaid volunteers, and we rely on fundraisers and community donations to support our programs.

Our director is Norma Tremblay, who also works for UETHDA as an assistant director. Our donations chairperson, Joni Iley, spends countless hours year round securing donations, as well as marketing Somebody Loves Me Inc. on social media and locally. All of our other members are volunteers.

Our director, Norma Tremblay, standing with Donations Committee Chairperson Joni Iley.

For more information, visit www.somebodylovesmeinc.org. SLM participated in Bluff City Middle’s back to school night. We handed out backpacks and school supplies.

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Dermatologists’ Top Tips for Relieving Dry Skin

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imple changes can soothe dry skin. Following the same skin care routine year round may not work so well when the humidity drops. Without a change in your skin care, dry air can make fine lines and wrinkles more noticeable. Dry skin can itch, flake, crack, and even bleed.

To help heal dry skin and prevent its return, dermatologists recommend the following: • Prevent baths and showers from making dry skin worse. When your skin is dry, be sure to limit your time in the bath or shower to 5 or 10 minutes.

• Apply moisturizer immediately after washing.

Ointments, creams, and lotions work by trapping existing moisture in your skin.

• Use an ointment or cream rather than lotion.

Ointments and creams are more effective and less irritating than lotions. Look for a cream or ointment that contains an oil such as olive oil or jajoba oil. Shea butter also works well.

• Wear lip balm. Choose a lip balm that feels good on your lips.

• Use only gentle, unscented skin care products.

Some skin care products are too harsh for dry, sensitive skin.

• Wear gloves. Our hands are often the first place we notice dry skin. Be sure to put gloves on before you go outdoors in winter or perform tasks that require you to get your hands wet.

• Choose non-irritating clothes and laundry detergent. Wear cotton or silk under your rough

National Healthy Skin Month, observed in November and sponsored by the American Academy of Dermatology, is a public health and awareness campaign that aims to raise awareness about the importance of having healthy skin.

clothing, and use laundry detergent labeled “hypoallergenic.”

• Stay warm without cozying up to a fire place or other heat source. Open flames and other heat sources can dry out your skin.

• Add moisture to the air. Plug in a humidifier.

Source: American Academy of Dermatology

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Explore Hospice Options for End-of-Life Care

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ospice refers to a style of care that focuses on maximizing quality of life when facing the end stages of a disease for which there is no other course of treatment or when treatment becomes counterproductive. Palliative care is provided, which helps a patient to be more comfortable and content.

Thousands of people turn to hospice when facing a life-limiting illness. According to the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization, hospice involves a team-oriented approach to medical care and pain management, as well as emotional and spiritual support. Care plans are specifically tailored to a patient’s wishes and needs.

Hospice takes on many forms but focuses on caring for, but not curing, an individual. Hospice care is often administered in a person’s home, but it also can occur in freestanding hospice centers, long-term care facilities, nursing homes, and hospitals. Indi-

viduals can opt for various services, many of which can co-mingle with the care being provided by family, medical centers, or long-term care homes.

Hospice care often begins when the individual receiving care and his or her family members feel the end of life may be near.

Hospice is usually paid through private insurance, Medicare or Medicaid, so there is no need to worry about cost. Various hospice services operate in different areas, and doctors and care centers can refer patients to hospice programs.

A hospice program may conduct its own medical examination and review health records to recommend a plan of action. It is important for a family member or health care proxy to be present for this initial meeting to express the patient’s wishes if he or she is unable to do so. Hospice care may begin shortly after this initial consultation.

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Fighting Cancer With Food Though cancer may strike even the healthiest of persons, there are ways men, women, and even children can reduce their risk. One such way is to consume certain foods that researchers feel can reduce cancer risk. Though precisely how these foods fight cancer remains a mystery, cancer researchers feel they can effectively lower an individual’s cancer risk when combined to form a healthy diet. Many foods, such as beans, colorful fruits and vegetables, foods with folate, grapes, tomatoes, and water, can help individuals in the fight against cancer.

An Attitude of Thankfulness

By Jim Burns

“In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (KJV) Interpretation: “Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

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here is always a reason to be thankful. Notice that today’s Scripture doesn’t say to be thankful for all things, but to be thankful in all things. Even in the most difficult of circumstances, you can find a reason for a thankful heart. I like the phrase that says, “I complained because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.”

No matter what your circumstances, I believe there is a reason to be thankful. Your situation may never change, but your attitude can change, and that will make all the difference in the world.

Terry Fox was a Canadian distance runner who started a run from one side of Canada to the other. He ran at least 26 miles each day to raise money for cancer research. He was a cancer victim himself. He ran every mile on one leg, since his right leg had been amputated above the knee.

Almost every day, a television announcer or radio newscaster would put a microphone in front of Terry and ask him how his run for cancer was going. Often exhausted and losing valuable strength, Terry would say, “I don’t know about tomorrow, but God gave me another day to live, and I’m thankful for each day I’m alive.”

Terry didn’t finish his run across Canada because he died of the dreaded disease. Yet, even to the end, he remained thankful for each day and considered each one God’s gift to him. With an attitude of thankfulness, he made the most of a difficult situation.

What are you thankful for today?

10 Tips for Family Caregivers 1. Seek support from other caregivers. You are not alone!

2. Take care of your own health so that you can be strong enough to take care of your loved one.

3. Accept offers of help, and suggest specific things people can do to help you.

4. Learn how to communicate effectively with doctors.

5. Be open to new technologies that can help you care for your loved one.

6. Watch out for signs of depression, and don’t delay getting professional help when you need it.

7. Caregiving is hard work, so take respite breaks often.

8. Organize medical information so it’s up to date and easy to find.

9. Make sure legal documents are in order.

10. Give yourself credit for doing the best you can in one of the toughest jobs there is!

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Keeping Holidays Joyful

By Cindy K. Sproles

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s the holidays approach and life becomes especially busy, it’s important to remember our aging parents.

Joey’s mother sat in her recliner by the fireplace. “Mom, let’s put up your Christmas tree.”

“Don’t bother. No one to enjoy it.” She slumped deep into her chair. “I get so I start dreading the holidays in the middle of summer.”

Joey’s mother isn’t unusual. Many seniors feel especially lonesome during the holidays. Memories of a spouse, long past, drift back. Their own immortality glares them in the face. The inability to make their home the bustling source of activity it once was hits hard.

Holidays can still bring joy into your aging parent’s life. It simply requires a little extra effort.

Don’t overdo decorations. For seniors still living in their private residents, don’t overdo. It’s easy to zip in, bring down all the normal decorations, and spice up the house for the holiday. But for the aging parent, it may be too much. Sometimes the best of intentions fall short.

Instead of seeing the joy of the holidays, your loved one may worry about funds for gifts they are unable to afford or hosting a dinner for the family that they are unable to prepare. Use discretion and decorate gingerly, bringing out things that are simple, yet pretty. Ease aging parents into the holiday spirit.

Change the giving process. Give parents permission to skip the purchase of family gifts by turning the tables.

“This year we are celebrating you and all you do for us.”

Find a family tradition you can expound upon. It’s a long running joke in our family about socks. Everyone gets a

special pair of socks from mom. Small bags and boxes are passed out, and as everyone opens their socks, the family cheers. It’s silly, but fun and something that Mom can continue to do, even in her 90’s, that brings laughter and joy. Find a fun family tradition and let go of the expense of gift giving for your aging parent.

Family meals. Rather than your parent being responsible for feeding the troops, make the holiday meals a carry-in. Treat parents by taking the work out of special meals and clean up.

Include parents in individual family events. Don’t forget to invite and bring aging parents to individual family events. Welcome them to Christmas morning in your home or “day after” events. Some families have “leftover days,” where their adult children gather to finish off what’s left from large holiday meals. The point is, include your parent. Sometimes the greatest loneliness occurs the day after the holiday.

Small surprises. Surprise loved ones with sudden visits, lunch dates, or little gifts. Revive the joy of the holidays with family. Family is the legacy of aging parents.

Make it a focus.

Despite what we do during the holidays, there is always a little sadness when we miss those who’ve passed.

Respect those moments. Talk about them. Share fun stories and sweet memories. Loneliness quickly passes to that warmth of sweet memories. Ring in the holidays by setting a joyful atmosphere. It’s never too late to build memories.

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oliday shopping season typically begins the day after Thanksgiving and extends all the way to Christmas Eve. While that’s a considerable amount of time for shoppers to find gifts for everyone on their shopping list, many people will still find themselves putting holiday shopping off until the last minute.

larger competitors, and that may mean they have more extensive inventories available throughout the holiday shopping season.

Last minute shoppers may benefit by sticking to certain strategies, so they can find the perfect gifts without breaking the bank.

Give something less traditional. Holiday gifts need not come from stores. Rather than spending their time shopping for gifts for loved ones who seemingly have it all, last-minute shoppers can give the gift of a donation in their loved one’s name.

Stay within your budget. Even last-minute shoppers have holiday shopping budgets. But it can be harder for last-minute shoppers to stick to their budgets because they have less time to comparison shop and hunt for deals. As the holiday shopping season winds down, resist the temptation to go over budget.

Shop during off-peak hours. Shopping during off-peak hours can help last-minute shoppers make efficient use of the limited time they have to buy gifts for their loved ones.

Shop local. National chains and big box retailers are renowned for rolling out great deals during the holiday season, but such stores may have very limited or unimpressive inventory left by the time last-minute shoppers begin shopping. Local retailers are often incapable of slashing prices as significantly as their

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