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up! It is in the air! The calendar shows that the first day of autumn falls on September 22, 2017, and cooler night temperatures and low humidity mean there is a change in the landscape. I find this time of the year to be my favorite season. It is a season of change and excitement!

One exciting annual event is the Women in Business Conference. This event is set at the Southwest Higher Education Center in Abingdon, Virginia, September 13, 2017.

Business professionals and women of all ages join together to network and support each other and leave the event feeling very inspired. Reservations to attend and for booth spaces are requested, so call today. See their ad on page 10.

Another exciting event is the Bristol Rhythm & Roots Reunion Festival in downtown Bristol. This is the biggest party of the year and we hope to see you there! Be sure to read our feature story on page 12. It is such a privilege for Voice Magazine for Women to be a part of this event!

We are excited to feature our first Fall Wedding Section. The TriCities Bridal Show is at the Holiday Inn in Bristol, Virginia. Don’t miss this event!

Another event that Voice Magazine is happy to be a part of this year, is the Walk to End Alzheimer’s in Johnson City, TN. See page 18 for all the details! Many special activities are planned in this kickoff event, including a special book signing by author Mary Edwards-Olson. Her beautifully illustrated children’s book is perfect for a child trying to understand the changes in a loved one with Alzheimer’s. Barnes & Noble will donate a percentage of the book purchases and/or other items in the store to the Alzheimer’s Association.

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Journeys of Women Art Show V

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Women in Business Conference 10

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BRISTOL RHYTHM & ROOTS REUNION ARTIST SPOTLIGHT

When George Met Sally

A Bristol Rhythm & Roots Reunion

Love Story

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The Edge of Fall

By Jan Howery

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ashion style of the 2017 season takes the edge of the ’70s and creates variations for today’s woman.

Many of yesterday’s classic styles have been reconstructed into fresh designs. Continuing into the fall season are the peek-a-boo sleeves, but into reconstructed jackets, high neck tailored blouses and shirts. This season you will see a mix of materials and classics reshaped.

Pants will have flowing edges, jackets with broad shoulders, and skirts with dimensional angles.

Do you love vintage? It is a hot item in fur coats! And fur hats! Get to your favorite consignment and thrift stores to find a classic fur coat and retro hat. It is the ‘style’ of coats for this season.

Red and chocolate brown! Theses colors will put a kick in the old-timely trend of Western style this season. The modern take on the Western wear front are steel-toed boots, leather vests and cow prints.

Where were you when the must wear was the ‘leisure suit?’ Brought back, this is not your grandma’s leisure suit. It is elevated with suede, sequins and paired with stilettos. It is about a cozy style with sophistication. It is the best blend of the ‘years ago’ leisure suit and athletic wear.

With sparkle and shine in the boots, they will highlight the mid-length skirts that have resurrected this year. The shirts are in flattering hemlines at the calf with full and flouncy movements. Comfort with style.

Look way back in your clothes closet, and you might just find ‘a must wear’ this season!

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The Turquoise Chair

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By Martha McGlothlin

’ve wanted this turquoise chair for years (if you’ve been reading my blog you’ve probably spotted a color pattern here). I love its Mad Men feel and swanky shape. I love mid-century modern furniture. But mainly, I love the chair’s history.

Now, in a bittersweet turn of events, it’s sitting at my desk.

It belonged to my best friend’s dad, who is a retired dentist.

He had it in his office in Grundy, Virginia, and no doubt checked many X-rays for cavities while sitting in it (perhaps even mine). It squeaks a little now when it rolls, and its seat is just a little sunken in and worn. That’s what makes it so special.

As is the way life goes, he’s downsizing now, his wife, my mom’s best friend and a second mom to me, having passed away a couple years ago. Decades’ worth of treasured belongings are now finding new homes, and more than a few things came home with me.

Those belongings will take with them laughter, tears, memories, and love.

I’ve helped my friends/second family go through some of these items and it’s not an easy task—nor a short one. We’d find ourselves pausing to try on a hat, look at a photo album, remember a beach trip or laugh at a silly t-shirt. We ended up filling our cars with things we thought would go in the yard sale pile but in the end, no one could part with. I knew I would rather have this chair than anything custom-made I could ever dream up. Imagine my surprise when their dad told me I could have it…and that no one else wanted to keep it!

The chair will always occupy a prominent place in my home. I often wonder where many of the other items ended up. I just hope their new homes know how extraordinary the things they will now house are. They’re not just yard sale finds. They’re a life-size scrapbook of a beautiful family.

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ou’re Invited! It’s House Dressing’s first-ever in-store event, celebrating our new space. We’re hosting Sherry & John Petersik of Young House Love and you simply won’t want to miss it! We’ve been following this dynamic twosome for years and can’t wait to introduce you to their witty, DIY’ing ways! Purchase your tickets now!

What: An evening with Sherry & John Petersik of Young House Love Where: House Dressing...50 Euclid Avenue; Bristol, Virginia When: Thursday, November 9, 2017. 5:30 pm – 8:00 pm Price of ticket: $125 (only 100 will be sold!)

Includes: Meet & greet, cocktails & hors d’oeuvres, photo op with Sherry & John (photo will be emailed to you), presentation with q & a, swag bag including their latest best-selling book {Lovable Livable Home} & book signing! OR...5 lucky early bird tickets will be sold for $225 each! You will receive all of the above PLUS 45 minutes extra with Sherry & John at the store {4:45 pm – 5:30 pm} To purchase tickets, go to: www.MarthaJane.net and click on “Events”. Email housedressing@marthajane.net for more information.

Sherry and John Petersik are the married duo who chronicle their home improvement adventures on the hit DIY blog Young House Love, which spawned two New York Times Best Selling books, Young House Love and Lovable Livable Home, as well as product lines sold by Target, Home Depot, and more. They also have a podcast creatively named Young House Love Has A Podcast. They live in Richmond, Virginia, with their two young children and a feisty Chihuahua named Burger.

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A TIME FOR ART Journeys of Women Art Show V

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ake time to enjoy the Journeys of Women Art Show V from September 8–16 at the McKinney Center in Jonesborough. This event, presented by the Women’s Fund of East Tennessee, is open to the public at no cost. The Journeys show is a juried exhibit that celebrates the work of women artisans and features a variety of art mediums. A portion of the proceeds of each sale supports the work of the Women’s Fund. As in previous years, artists were invited to reflect upon their work.

With her art, Glenna Elsea strives “to develop thoughts and contribute to the whole social fabric.” Renee Pitts, a former teacher, shared that she “hopes to inspire those who view her art to appreciate the ‘extraordinarily ordinary’ moments of everyday life.” Sheryl Daniels explains, “A wish to paint beautiful things was born in me. As a woman over seventy years, I continue to enjoy painting and sharing my joy of painting with others.”

An art exhibit of this caliber would not be possible without the support of its sponsors.

For the 5th consecutive year, the Trust Company of Knoxville is the Gold sponsor, and Silver sponsors include BCS Wealth Management, Cynthia Burnley and Bob Riser, Fidelity Investments of Johnson City, Judy Ingala, Le and Mike Alread, Linda Spence, and Pat Green.

For more information and show times for the exhibit, contact the McKinney Center at 423.753.1012.

Additional information can be obtained by calling the Women’s Fund of East Tennessee’s Executive Director, “Fall Reverie” Terry Morgan at 865.394.9701 or tmorgan@wfet.org.

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atalyzing women’s professional advancement is the name of the game for YWCA Bristol’s Emerge series. Conceived in 2015, the female focused, expert led series is geared to empower women at all levels of their career. Workshops are held quarterly with the fall session scheduled for September 29 at the Kingsport Center for Higher Education. This September session will feature four diverse, motivating presenters.

Bethany Flora, Assistant Professor of Educational Leadership and Policy Analysis in the Clemmer College of Education at East Tennessee State University, will encourage women to take educated risks and enjoy adventure within their professional lives in her presentation entitled Lean In. Step Back. Stand Firm.

Author, international speaker, and founder and CEO of Happiness 1st Institute, Dr. Jeanine Joy will present Burnout:

“Out of Chaos” Glenna Elsea, artist

“Chocolate Covered Cherries Coleus” Sheryl Daniels, artist

Prevention & Recovery, Resilience & Retention. Joy will offer practical information to help participants better understand how the brain processes information and how to make sure it is working for, not against, one’s highest good.

Sarah Stewart Holland and Beth Silvers, co-hosts of acclaimed podcast Pantsuit Politics will present Finding Your Voice: Collective Collaboration. Sarah Stewart Holland, professional blogger and social media consultant and City Commissioner of Paducah, KY teams up with Beth Silvers, attorney, human resources executive, and yoga instructor to make a dynamic duo with a shared passion for effective communication.

The half-day workshop will be held from 8:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. and will include a light breakfast and lunch. Early registration is encouraged, as seating is limited. Attendees of Emerge will also be awarded 4 Continuing Education Unit credits by Northeast State Community College. For pricing and registration information,

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Pam Weston

Pam Weston was born into a musical family in Knoxville, TN. Her dad played guitar, her grandfather played the fiddle, and her sister was their church organist.

Pam began playing the piano at Wednesday, September 13, 2017 age 7 and wrote her first gospel 9:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.

Higher Education Center at song, “I Owe It All To You” at age Virginia Highlands Community College inda tewart 14. At just 17 years old, Pam got a job with the group Abingdon, VA Linda Stewart is a 24-year “The Sound Masters” playing piano and singing for member of the Association the Tennessee Valley Barn Dance, a radio show We areofexcited to welcome: Sewing and Design Profes- broadcast every Saturday night from the WNOX Linda Stewart sionals, currently serving as Studios in Knoxville, TN. She formed her first band, Owner of Linda Stewart Couture Designs their President.

Pam Weston Linda is an Country Gold, when she was only 21. They toured award-winning bridal/formalthe Southern States and she recorded her first single Nashville Musician and Professional Organizer wear designer, Bernina Fashion “Making Memories Tonight.” Pam is a born-again Grayson Goldsmith HostDesigner, of Black Dog Salvage author and educator. Christian, and has God’s calling on her life to share Her business, Linda Stewart Couture Designs is His gospel message with her voice and piano talents. based in Bristol, VA. She sang and played in church all her life. Pam was Cost: $15.00 per person.

Cost includesto catered lunch served noon.

Linda helped create the atASDP Master a regular music worship leader at Christ CommuPlease call 276-739-2474 to register or email swagner@vhcc.edu. ould reach us by September 8, 2017. Mail Check to:Professionals Virginia Highlands SBDC, Attn: Sue Wagner, PO Boxnity 828, Abingdon, VA 24212 Sewing and Design Certification Church in Franklin, TN. She also played piano Program and Master Alterations Specialist Certi- on the worship team for Abundant Life Fellowship fication. She is the only person to have achieved in Mount Juliet, TN and she was a frequent guest both certifications. artist at the Nashville Cowboy Church.

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Since 2012, Black Dog Salvage and their day-to-day operations have been featured on the reality show “Salvage Dawgs” on the DIY Network. Breaking ground as the first female on the Salvage Dawgs team, Grayson holds her own with the boys– adding her own brand of humor to the group.

After adventurous travels to Scotland, France, Spain, and a brief stint as the lighting and camera stand-in for Brooke Shields for her movie “The Hot Flashes” filmed in New Orleans—Roanoke Virginia native, Grayson Goldsmith joined the Black Dog Salvage team. Her studies in Sustainable Development and Geology at Appalachian State University make her a valuable resource in the quest to decipher genuine salvage gems from fool’s gold. When she is not climbing ladders and swinging hammers, she enjoys time on her mat practicing yoga, being outdoors hiking, biking, paddle boarding, and spending time relaxing with her huge hound-dog mutt, Joey.

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Grayson Goldsmith

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’m such a fan of the movie Animal House. It’s a timeless piece, and I suppose because of that, many of us see ourselves reflected in the characters. To me, my time at East Tennessee State University was remarkable. It was in the early 1980s, and I was a little older than the traditional students after taking a two-year detour to my education after high school. I knew I would attend ETSU. I was actually born in Johnson City by a series of events, so it was fate I suppose to return for some of the best years of my life. I loved the campus, and couldn’t wait to get there. The fall of 1984 brought me to the second floor of Taylor Hall, my new home. A group of football players enjoyed the brisk autumn air and would leave the double doors open on either end of the long hallway, creating a natural wind tunnel that made the morning bathroom shuffle a quick trip on those tile floors as the cooler weather set in. I quickly made friends—lifelong friends. And before we knew it, it was over. But for those fleeting moments, our gang of broadcasting students had our own adventures that would rival most anything Belushi and company did on the silver screen. The theme for Homecoming ’85 was “Tradition: Looking Back at 75 Years”.

The previous fall, our merry band had followed the Halloween theme and decorated our giant banner that flew at DP Culp University Center with goblins and the phrase “Hauntingly Different”. Now, short on time but full of moxie, we whitewashed the old banner. With the ghost letters of the previous year still visible, we inscribed our now-famous tagline “Last Year’s Banner—a Real ETSU Tradition”, and hung it up. It wasn’t long before it “gracefully disappeared” under the hands of university maintenance workers—before visiting alum saw it. Our homecoming skit was equally memorable.

A salute to television shows of the decades had the audience roaring with laughter as I donned a faux skirt and warbled the theme from “All In the Family” in Edith’s falsetto. But perhaps our biggest “Bluto”

moment was our homecoming float. We proposed a pirate ship facing forward in a friend’s pickup, but not being engineers or carpenters, we couldn’t figure out how to make it work facing forward.

So Bucky’s flagship had to be built backward, bow on the tailgate. Our creativity kicked in. “Looking Back” became the name of our boat, and with the help of the local Long John Silver’s, our buccaneer crew had official pirate hats that we wore as we tossed candy to the kids along the parade route.

Those fond memories of friendships, endless hours building and practicing and having the time of our lives, accented by the harvest gold and burnt orange and scarlet red foliage that enveloped our campus, lined our paths like a magic carpet, stopped time for a moment.

No other cares. No jobs, no careers, no family. Just our group, not knowing what lay in front of us along that leaf-covered path, wrapped in the hues of fall and the ambiance of a college so far removed from the pressures of today. Oh to be there again. In the shadows of the mountains, under skies of blue . . .

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BRISTOL RHYTHM & ROOTS REUNION ARTIST SPOTLIGHT

When George Met Sally A Bristol Rhythm & Roots Reunion Love Story

Article by Guest Contributor Charlene Tipton Baker Photograph by Scott Simontacchi

Bristol Rhythm has seen its share of couplings, proposals, weddings, and reunions. After performing there, Jason Isbell wrote the song “Super 8” about a rather harrowing experience in a Bristol motel. But we’ve never heard a festival love story like this one—and there’s a song about it, too. Now we’ve fallen in love with Sally & George.

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he pitch to a Hollywood director would go something like this: “George is in a band.

George meets Sally at a music festival and can’t stop thinking about her. Sally’s in a band, too, but she has a boyfriend. George writes Sally a song. They

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keep in touch. Sally dumps boyfriend, falls in love with George and they start their own band. Sally and George get married and live happily ever after.”

It’s just the kind of “meet cute” we go nuts for in rom-coms, only this one is better; the story is true— and it all began at Bristol Rhythm & Roots Reunion in 2012. The main characters are the rootsy-retro, actual husband and wife duo of Joel Timmons and Shelby Means: a.k.a. Sally & George. Complete with movie star good looks and talent for days, the couple is starring in their own real-life blockbuster—and Tip My Heart is a pretty sweet soundtrack. continued on next page

“Pipedream,” the song Joel wrote and emailed to backgrounds vary from old country songs or rock and Shelby after they first met on the Tennessee side of State roll songs,” said Joel. “The musical chemistry was pretty Street, is the second track on the album. One lyric recalls effortless. I wanted to be a better co-writer when I Joel wearing a disguise to Shelby’s set at the festival. moved to Nashville. I started from scratch and have been “I wore a fake beard to the show,” admits Joel. “I was developing that skill. Now I’m living with a talented bass just trying to blend in. In overalls and a beard.” player and songwriter. We co-write by appointment.”

“I got the email and was shocked,” Shelby recalls. “I “Joel is good at writing story songs,” added Shelby. actually thought he had a crush on one of my “We call them library songs, where you can other band mates! And at the time I had a do a research project and turn it into boyfriend, so I was in a dilemma. The a song. I tend to have more stream song was such a brilliant pick up line, There’s a of consciousness stuff. With that but it took me a while to respond.” combination, it’s nice to work sweetness to their “It was a really easy letdown,” together. He can give my story some musical love story as laughs Joel. “Two weeks later she grounding and I can give his stories genuine and salable as said ‘wow it takes balls to send an a little more fanciful wording.” email like that. But I’m in California Joel will continue to perform Johnny and June or with my boyfriend. Maybe we can be with Sol Driven Train at choice events John and Yoko. pen pals or something.’” (like Bristol Rhythm). A grueling The band’s name comes from tour schedule and Shelby’s desire to Shelby’s grandparents; when her bloom into her true, wild, tiger spirit led grandfather passed she and Joel inherited a to an abrupt parting for her from Della Mae. She treasure trove of the couple’s vintage clothes. The outfits resigned in 2014 as the group began working on their you see Joel and Shelby wearing on the cover of Tip My latest album.

Heart belonged to them.

“The pace was really hard on me physically and I had to There’s a sweetness to their musical love story as dig deep. ” Shelby explains. “I wanted to study yoga and sing genuine and salable as Johnny and June or John and Yoko. my own songs which weren’t quite fitting into the realm of The timing may have been off when they met, but the Della Mae.” relationship was destined; I phoned in to interview them The Tip My Heart title track is a song Shelby wrote for this story as they were driving to their wedding. They while still touring with Della Mae. It’s the perfect first track got hitched a week later on August 7, 2017 in Laramie, for Sally & George.

Wyoming and enjoyed a 20-day honeymoon out west.

“We’ve already got a handful of songs for another “We love Johnny and June,” Shelby gleams. “They are album,” adds Shelby. “Some didn’t fit the first record and major idols of ours. We’re going to Jackson (Wyoming) some we’re still working on. We’ll write some more in for our honeymoon!”

Wyoming.”

Bristol Rhythm-goers will recognize Joel from the On their honeymoon (sigh!). funky and insanely fun Charleston quintet Sol Driven Joel and Shelby will perform for the first time as Train. Shelby has rocked her stand-up bass many times Sally & George at this year’s Bristol Rhythm & Roots at the festival, first with the David Mayfield Parade and Reunion. Friday they’ll perform at 8:30 p.m. on the Near more recently as part of the Grammy nominated, all-girl Moore Stage; Saturday you can see them at 4:15 p.m. at bluegrass ensemble Della Mae. The music they create is an Theatre Bristol. ode to the couple’s love story, yet Tip My Heart melds their “Bristol changed our lives,” said Shelby. “We’re both combined influences of country-bluegrass and pop-rock really excited to come back to where this all started.” for a stripped-down, vintage-y sound reminiscent of She “Thanks for spreading our love story,” adds Joel before & Him, but not as quirky or overly produced. The happy the interview comes to a close. couple served up a deliciously “punny” PledgeMusic Thing is, we’re grateful to them for spreading ours. campaign video for Tip My Heart on Sally & George’s Congratulations, Shelby and Joel. Here’s wishing you all the website. Mnemonic of Debbie Hunt’s dating video in love and longevity of Johnny and June and Sally and George!

Singles, it depicts the two in various scenes of domestic Check out Sally & George and purchase music at bliss, jamming in the living room and baking pie.

SallyandGeorge.com. For festival info and to purchase “The creative process was a natural fit for us, we were tickets go to BristolRhythm.com. Bristol Rhythm takes able to find common ground even though our musical place on State Street September 15–17, 2017.

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Power Struggle

By Kelly McFadden

“And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”

2 Corinthians 12:8 KJV Interpretation: But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weakness so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

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anging in the Louvre Museum in France is an enormous painting called, “Coronation of Josephine.” This painting represents the royal celebration of the crowning of both Josephine and Napoleon. Adorned in velvet red robes, the ceremony called for Pope Pius VII to crown Napoleon as the

emperor of France. However, rumors say that as the Pope held the crown to place it on the head of the new emperor, Napoleon grabbed the crown from the Pope’s hands and crowned himself.

It is believed Napoleon did this to show he would not be subservient to the church.

Often in our Christian lives, we take the authority from God and crown ourselves as rulers of our own lives. Instead of putting God on the throne, we enthrone ourselves. Perhaps you report to church once a week, pray before meals, and sometimes sneak in a bedtime prayer before you fall asleep. But is Jesus really the Lord of your life? Do you seek his strength in all you do, or is that an afterthought? Do you make a decision hoping the Lord is taking notes, or do you look to Him first, asking for His guidance?

When you lose your focus on Christ and consider yourself the center of your universe, you are out of order. The stronger you think you are, the weaker you become. Don’t be like Napoleon who pretended he was working with the Pope and then at the last minute, snatched the authority and crowned himself. It is imperative to be a servant of Christ, the greatest servant who ever lived!

As the Apostle Paul wrote to the Corinthians: we have greater strength when we realize our weakness and rely on Christ. Source: homeword.com

Bristol Christian Women’s Club The Euclid Center at Food City • 1320 Euclid Avenue, Bristol, VA 3rd Wednesday of each month • 11:30 am, $15 each

Open to all Women Special Speakers, Entertainment and Luncheon For reservations call Nancy Young at (423) 968-7976.

Bristol Christian Women’s Club is affiliated with Stonecroft Ministries

Ladies! Like to Sing?

If you like to sing, you’re invited to visit Hills Are Alive! Chorus.

Sitting in on one of our rehearsals is the perfect way to find out more about us, and what we can do for you! We are an acapella, 4-part harmony, barbershop-style women’s chorus.

We rehearse in Bristol every Tuesday from 7–9 PM. Call one of the contact numbers below to find the location.

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Yellowstone National Park The World’s First National Park

Article and Photographs by Nancy Binder

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wonder if President Ulysses S. Grant imagined the positive impact his signing the Yellowstone National Park Protection Act in 1872, making Yellowstone the world’s first national park, would have on the world’s environment. Almost every country now has areas that are protected as national parks.

Our family decided to take a three generation family vacation to Yellowstone. The age range was from 7 to 91 and we could not have had a better time.

When planning a trip to Yellowstone, advance reservations are a MUST. We made our reservations in mid-January for an August week. Because we wanted to maximize our time there, we planned our stay at the lodge in Canyon Village in the park. Yellowstone covers more than 3,400 square miles and a considerable amount of time can be spent driving into and out of the park. Staying near the center of the park, cuts down on driving time, allows the visitor to visit the most popular spots in the early morning or late afternoon when the crowds are fewer and it allowed us to go to ranger led programs in the evening and still get to bed at a reasonable hour. Another advantage of staying in the park versus in one of the surrounding towns was that we weren’t distracted by

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“tourist” type shops, attractions, and amusements. We could concentrate on the marvels of Yellowstone, primarily its geothermal attractions, animals, and landscape. Yellowstone has the largest concentration of geysers, fumaroles (steam vents), and mudpots (boiling mud) in the world with over 10,000 thermal features.

Within a mile of entering the park from the east we encountered our first buffalo sighting. The American Bison, more commonly called buffalo, were almost extinct by the late 1800s due to commercial hunting and bovine diseases spread by domestic cattle. At one time they roamed in huge herds that grazed over a great deal of the United States. It is no wonder that they were chosen as America’s national mammal and were on some of our coins, the buffalo nickel and the commemorative state quarters of Kansas and North Dakota.

When once there were millions of bison, they are now mostly found in national parks and wildlife preserves. These huge animals can weigh up to 2,200 pounds for the males and 1,200 pounds for the females. They can be between 5 and 6 feet tall at the shoulder. In August, they had almost completed shedding their winter coats, but some still looked straggly with fur dangling from their hides. They are quite the continued on next page

sight to behold. We had plenty of time to observe them throughout our Yellowstone stay. We were in several buffalo traffic jams and many times they could be viewed close to the road from the safety of our vehicles. Buffalo are not docile like cattle and can be dangerous. You are strongly advised by the park service to not approach buffalo on foot, and if they are on your hiking trail, stay a safe distance and wait until they move off or find an alternate route.

We visited the Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone and the Upper Falls both in the early evening and the early morning.

We were almost alone at these times of the day allowing us the magnificent views at all of the look-out points without crowd distractions. Some younger members of the family hiked down the path and stairs into the canyon while the older members enjoyed the solitude.

Every morning we stopped at the general store in the village and got the makings for sandwiches. One day we made our lunch on the veranda of Old Faithful Lodge and watched Old Faithful Geyser erupt to the delight of all. We also watched Old Faithful Geyser erupt several times in one evening when we had dinner at the lodge.

During mid-day when the crowds were greatest, we hiked some of the trails, had a picnic alongside Yellowstone Lake where the kids made a caldera replica of the Yellowstone Caldera, or went wading in the streams. Later in the day, we visited Norris Geyser Basin and walked the boardwalk reading the informative signs along the way. On another day, we drove to the Mammoth Hot Springs area and walked the boardwalk above the springs. We were able to visit all of the major geothermal areas and each one provided amazing sights and sounds. At mudpots, we laughed at the popping sound as the mud bubbles spit out boiling mud.

One evening we had made reservations for the Old West Cookout Dinner. We rode in one of the covered wagons to Pleasant Valley. There is an option to go by horseback. The wagon drivers are informative and humorous. When we arrived, there was a cowboy band entertaining and a steak dinner com-

Old Faithful Geyser from the veranda of Old Faithful Lodge

Upper Falls of the Yellowstone River

Grand Canyon of Yellowstone plete with baked beans, potato salad, coleslaw, cornbread muffin and an apple crisp served in a tin pan. After dinner, we strolled to where the horses were tied and spent time chatting with the cowboys and petting the horses. The entire family enjoyed the evening.

Another evening was spent listening to a ranger talk on the night sky. After the talk, they had telescopes set up for viewing some of the stars and planets. Much to our delight, we were there during the Perseid meteor showers and saw many “shooting stars.”

When visiting Yellowstone, be prepared for chilly nights and warm days. Allow plenty of time to arrive at any timed activity; bison traffic jams can last up to an hour. Plan your days to maximize your limited time in this vast park. The visitors’ centers have lots of information on how best to spend your time.

Be sure to watch the orientation film at the centers. And plan to be amazed at the wonders of Yellowstone National Park.

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Nancy Binder is a retired application software developer turned freelance writer combining her love of travel with her desire to share her experiences. She is passionate about exploring the outdoors and has been “bitten by the African safari bug,” now her favorite travel destination. Contact her with comments or travel questions at nancybinder@msn.com. voicemagazineforwomen.com | September 2017 | 17

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When the Sun Shines Through Written by Mary Edwards-Olson

“Within the chapters, the reader is launched into feelings of joy, sadness, and even anger, yet desiring to continue the experiences of humble, yet challenging mountain life.”

—Craig M. Ashbrook, Author of Wait For Me, Boys! Wait For Me!

“It is always wonderful to work with other writers, especially other women who have looked deeply into their own souls. We find that we are not alone in the problems we face. And their words give us hope…as yours will give hope to many.”

—Helen S. Owens, Author of a historical novel, Stand and Face the Morning

“An enjoyably, painfully, well-written story of a girl who had to grow up in the mountains of Southwest Virginia with antiquated adults governing over her. It is a real honest reflection of the ideologies of the fifties and sixties and the gender inequalities that existed during that era. The tone, dialect and mannerisms, in part, have endured with the people of the Appalachian Mountains into the twenty-first century.”

—J. Michael O’Connor, Author of Ghosts of my Mind,

His Wars, His Honor: A Simple Teacher, and There is no Time Limit

Born into a world beyond her understanding, Mercy is confused by her childhood experiences of abandonment, neglect, and abuse. She stubbornly questions the cultural expectations and gender inequality for women during the 1960s.

Although she struggles with insecurities, she learns to bravely navigate her own destiny and persists in overcoming insurmountable odds. Despite her rigid upbringing, Mercy dreams of a life beyond her beloved Appalachian Mountains, as well as a life-long commitment to locate her birth mother.

B.G. Musick obtained her B.A. degree from Emory & Henry College and began her teaching career at Honaker High School in Russell County Public Schools. She was a JTPA instructor at Southwest Virginia Community College, then relocated to South Carolina and continued her teaching career in Aiken County Public Schools. Her M.Ed. degree in community counseling was obtained from Augusta University in Augusta, Georgia. She taught counseling and psychology courses at Aiken Technical College. After relocating to Orlando, Florida, she continued her teaching career in Orange County Public Schools. She lives in South Carolina with her husband, Steve, and their cat, Sweetie Pie.

In Search of Nell

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RAISING AWARENESS

B.G. Musick

Born into a world beyond her understanding, Mercy is confused by her child-hood experiences of abandonment, neglect, and abuse. She stubbornly questions the cultural expectations and gender inequality for women during the 1960s. Although she struggles with insecurities, she learns to bravely navigate her own destiny and persists in overcoming insurmountable odds. Despite her rigid upbringing, Mercy dreams of a life beyond her beloved Appalachian Mountains, as well as a life-long commitment to locate her birth mother.

In Search of Nell

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B.G. Musick

Where Have All the Mountains Gone? And Other Short Stories Written by Billy W. Harp

Looking back to living in Florida in the mid-20th century, times were hard. However the people that lived through this time hardly knew it. Where Have All the Mountains Gone?, is a collection of short stories of the many methods of survival that are now obsolete. Most people today have no idea of how people survived during that era. These stories are an attempt to record and preserve, in an entertaining way, many of life-shaping events that still march through my memory.

A special book launching by author Mary Edwards-Olson with her debut book, When the Sun Shines Through will be held the week of September 29–October 5 at Barnes & Noble of Johnson City. See the ad below for more information.

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Alzheimer’s Association Champions Club members will be sharing stories with attendees!

WEEK-LONG: A special book signing by Author Mary Edwards-Olson with her debut book, When the Sun Shines Through. A beautifully illustrated children’s book to teach children about Alzheimer’s Disease. Purchase this book and other Barnes & Noble purchases and a portion of the sales will be donated to the Alzheimer's Association.

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SUNDAY: Special activities on Kid’s Day on Sunday, October 1, 2017.

Fun events through the entire week! Educational programs promoting Alzheimer’s Awareness through the week!

Giveaways, gifts, scavenger hunts through the store and much more! Show your support! Activities every day! Join the fun!

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Patty, I understand your pain. Writing is a job that requires concentration. Always write when your energy level is decent. For example, sit down at 11 a.m. for 30 minutes every morning. Silence all phones and bring at-home kids into the room where you write. Turn on soft music and declare it’s “quiet time.” If your kids are safe, block out the world and write! –Judi Light Hopson Friday, September 16, 9 am – 6 pm Book signing, Cedar Bluff Heritage Festival Cedar Bluff, VA Tuesday, September 19, 11 am – 1 pm Reading, Reminiscent Writers SWCC, King Community Center Richlands, VA

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AUTHORS on the ROAD

Tuesday, September 19, 3 pm – 6 pm Book signing, Abingdon Farmers Market Remsburg Drive, Booth 22A

Victoria Fletcher

Fletcher’s Fables and Fletcher’s Fables Too Saturday, September 2, 9 am – 12 pm Damascus Farmer’s Market, Damascus, Virginia

Wednesday, September 20, 2 pm – 4 pm Teaching Creative Writing Class SWCC, King Community Center Richlands, VA

Wednesday, September 13, 9 am – 1:30 pm Women in Business Conference, Higher Education Center, Abingdon, Virginia

Saturday, September 23, 8 am – 1 pm Book signing, Abingdon Farmers Market Remsburg Drive, Booth 22A

Janie Dempsey Watts

Moon Over Taylor’s Ridge Saturday, September 9, 10 am – 12 pm Catoosa County Library, Ringgold, GA

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Each month Jan-Carol Publishing will provide a ‘free’ book to one lucky winner. Each month the age range will be different so be sure to enter each month!

Jan-Carol Publishing author of the month: Kristin Hale— Grandma, Tell Me About When You Were a Little Girl

Tuesday, September 26, 2017, 3 pm – 6 pm Book signing, Abingdon Farmers Market Remsburg Drive, Booth 22A

Amber D. Tran

Wednesday, September 27, 2 pm – 4 pm Teaching Creative Writing Class SWCC, King Community Center, Richlands, VA

Moon River Saturday, September 23, 11 am – 3 pm Book Festival, Sparkman Arts Festival Sparkman High School, Harvest, AL

Saturday, September 30, 9 am – 4 pm Book signing, Burkes Garden Fall Festival Tazewell, VA

Saturday, September 23, 3 pm – 5 pm Teen Book Festival, Teen Panel, Barnes & Nobel, Bridge Street Town Centre Huntsville, AL

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Hiding Ezra Thursday, September 7, 11:30 am, Lost State Writers Meeting, Shoney’s Restaurant, Bristol, TN

Saturday, September 23, 9 am – 4 pm Annual Florida Heritage Book Festival St. Augustine Florida, www.fhbookfest.com

Saturday, September 9, 2 pm – 4 pm Poetry Society of Tennessee – Northeast Chapter Sullivan County Library, Blountville, TN

Trouble Inside the Magical Oak Tree: The Grand Stories of the All Too Adventurous Alex

Linda Hudson Hoagland

Tuesday, September 12, 11:30 am – 1:30 pm Appalachian Authors Guild, Bonanza Restaurant Lebanon, VA

Snooping Can Be Helpful– Sometimes; Onward & Upward; Missing Sammy; Snooping Can Be Doggone Deadly; Snooping Can Be Devious; Snooping Can Be Contagious; Snooping Can Be Dangerous; The Best Darn Secret; and anthologies Easter Lilies and Broken Petals Saturday, September 1, 11 am – 3 pm Book signing, Big Walker Lookout Wytheville, VA

John J. Burton, EdD

The Sacred Sequence: Remembering the One Truth Friday, September 15, 6 pm – 7 pm Workshop, Hearts and Sol Wellness Oak Island, NC

Tuesday, September 5, 11 am – 1 pm Book reading, Reminiscent Writers SWCC King Community Center, Richlands, VA

Saturday, September 16, 9 am – 5 pm Workshop, Hearts and Sol Wellness Oak Island, NC

Tuesday, September 5, 3 pm – 6 pm Book signing, Abingdon Farmers Market Remsburg Drive, Booth 22A, Abingdon, VA

The Unlucky Donkey Saturday, September 16, 9 am – 5 pm Book signing, Cedar Bluff Heritage Festival Main Street, Cedar Bluff, VA

Amanda Ellis-O’Quinn

Wednesday, September 6, 2 pm – 4 pm Teaching Creative Writing Class, SWCC King Community Center, Richlands, VA

Wayne and Ralphine Major Piddle Diddle’s Lost Hat; Piddle Diddle, the Widdle Penguin, Goes to Hawaii; plus Moondance of the Fireflies by Tamela Marie Wheeler and Little Teddy’s Big Adventures by Teresa Wilkerson

Thursday, September 7 Meeting, Lost State Writers Guild, Shoney’s at Exit 5, Bristol, VA

Saturday, September 9, 2017, 9 am – 1 pm Book Signing, Thunder Road Author Rally Maynardville Public Library 296 Main Street, Maynardville, TN

Saturday, September 9, 8 am – 1 pm, Book signing, Abingdon Farmers Market, Remsburg Drive, Booth 22A Monday, September 11, 7 pm, Tazewell County Habitat for Humanity Board Meeting, Chamber Building, Tazewell, VA

This book is to help those, both young and old, understand and cope with the changes a loved one may suffer due to Alzheimer’s Disease.

Tuesday, September 12, 11:30 am – 1:30 pm Meeting, Appalachia Authors Guild, Bonanza Steak House, Lebanon, VA Tuesday, September 12, 3 pm – 6 pm Book signing, Abingdon Farmers Market Remsburg Drive, Booth 22A

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Wednesday, September 13, 9 am – 1:30 pm Women in Business Conference Higher Ed Center, VHCC Campus Abingdon, VA Wednesday, September 13, 2 pm – 4 pm Teaching Creative Writing Class SWCC, King Community Center Richlands, VA

When the Sun Shines Through

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Watch JCP Author Mary Edwards-Olson on Daytime Tri-Cities and hear more about her book, When the Sun Shines Through on Tuesday, September 12 at 10 am on WJHL-TV.

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Treat them with Dignity Ward C. Zeno, DO has joined Gastroenterology Associates at 135 W. Ravine Road in Kingsport, TN. Dr. Zeno is originally from Escanaba, Michigan in the Upper Peninsula. He graduated from the University of Michigan with a B.A. in Spanish. He earned his DO from Lake Erie College of Osteopathic Medicine in Erie, Pennsylvania. After returning to Michigan, Dr. Zeno completed his internal medicine residency at Michigan State University College of Osteopathic Medicine – Botsford Hospital in Farmington Hills. He went on to complete his gastroenterology fellowship there, during which time the program underwent a name change to MSUCOM – Beaumont Hospital. In addition to general gastroenterology, Dr. Zeno has a special interest in esophageal disorders, Celiac disease, and liver disease. Aside from medicine, he enjoys a variety of sports, traveling, and outdoor activities with his wife and dog.

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By Cindy Sproles • Comfort Keepers – Kingsport, TN

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oday’s society has lost a huge part of its compassion. The world of media brings loss, pain and tragedy into our lives at an overwhelming rate. As a people, we’ve become desensitized to the core values we were taught as children.

Baby Boomers were raised by parents or loved ones who believed in the validity of a handshake and the importance of treating others as they themselves expected to be treated. They held tight to work ethic, honesty, integrity, faith, and dignity.

As our parents age, they are faced with the realization and loss of these basic staples of life. It’s a painful process when they must accept the inability to stand alone—lose their independence.

When your patience runs low or you feel the deep frustration that accompanies an aging parent, keep in mind what is hard for us as children is tenfold for our parents.

Remember as parents age and begin to repeat questions, that when we were children we constantly asked “Why?” When they can’t seem to recall your name, remember there was a time when the only name we could repeat, was theirs. When their movements are slow and tedious, keep in mind, it was their loving hands which steadied us as we toddled. If a meal ends up on their clothes instead of in their mouths, don’t forget who patiently taught us to feed ourselves and then gently swiped the goo from our fingers.

Remember as our parents continue to grow older and personal cleanliness becomes a problem, it was they who walked us through potty training and who bathed the mud from our childhood antics, then re-cleaned the tub for the ump-teenth time. And when they lose their confidence after a fall, remember the numerous times they held us close after a tumble, then encouraged us to forge ahead. It was our parents who cheered us through the rough times as a child and who allowed us to lean against them as adults.

When you are frustrated with the added “stuff”—walkers, canes, or wheelchairs which have to be lugged out the door and to the car just to take them to the post office, keep in mind the diaper bags, the bottles, the extra clothes, snacks, and “stuff” they toted off their shoulder, while you rested on their hip, legs dangling and arms squeezing their necks. It was a chore then and it’s still a chore, but worth the effort—worth the love.

And most of all, when they meet with the fears of forgetfulness and the anxieties of being in unfamiliar surroundings, remember how they stood in the background, just in view, encouraging you to step forward, “You can do it.”

Finally, when the reality that they cannot be left alone digs deep into their hearts, remember they never left us alone, afraid, or ignored us as small children, but they kept us close at hand, always watching, always present…always there.

When the roles reverse, remember to love and treat the aging seniors with dignity and honor—for without them, we would be nothing. Everything we learned…we learned from our parents. If for nothing else, they have earned the right.

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Take Care of Your Teeth and Gums The Basics: Overview Healthy habits, including brushing and flossing, can prevent tooth decay (cavities) and gum disease. Tooth decay and gum disease can lead to pain and tooth loss.

You can prevent most problems with teeth and gums by taking these steps: • Brush your teeth 2 times a day with fluoride toothpaste.

• Floss between your teeth every day.

• Visit a dentist regularly for a checkup and cleaning.

• Cut down on sugary foods and drinks.

• Don’t smoke or chew tobacco.

• If you drink alcohol, drink only in moderation.

What causes tooth decay and gum disease?

Plaque is a sticky substance that forms on your teeth. When plaque stays on your teeth too long, it can lead to tooth decay and gum disease. Brushing and flossing help get plaque off your teeth so your mouth can stay healthy.

Taking care of your teeth and gums is especially important if you: • • • •

Have diabetes Have cancer Are an older adult Are pregnant

Take Action: Brushing Tips Follow these tips for a healthy, beautiful smile.

• Brush your teeth 2 times every day. Use a toothbrush with soft bristles and toothpaste with fluoride. Fluoride is a mineral that helps protect teeth from decay.

• Brush in circles and use short, back-and-forth strokes.

• Take time to brush gently along the gum line.

• Brush your teeth for about 2 minutes each time.

• Don’t forget to brush your tongue.

• Get a new toothbrush every 3 to 4 months. Replace your toothbrush sooner if it’s wearing out.

Take Action: Flossing Tips Floss every day to remove plaque and food between your teeth that your toothbrush missed. Rinse your mouth with water after you floss. If you aren’t sure how to floss, ask the dentist or dental assistant to show you at your next visit. Source: healthfinder.gov

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How Baby Boomers are Changing Health Care

Ashley Lee, executive director at Life Care Center of Gray, Tennessee, has seen the shift during her six years working at the skilled nursing and rehabilitation center.

“We are seeing sicker patients, often with multiple diagnoses,” Lee shared, adding that Boomers make up much of the facilBy Heidi Pino ity’s clientele.

Provided by Life Care Center of Gray On a positive note, the Baby Boomer generation is more technology-savvy and is more likely to seek multiple sources of s the Baby Boomer generation (those born from 1946–1964) information. ages, it is changing health care.

“People know more what to expect, and they do their The U.S. Census Bureau shows more than 70 million research,” Lee shared.

Boomers in the U.S., and more than 1 million in Tennessee. And Throughout the country, Boomers have been more willing to as the U.S. life expectancy has gone up over the last decades, these participate in clinical trials and to use mobile health care.

Boomers are expected to live longer than previous generations.

“The Boomer generation is more informed, health-conBecause seniors are the age group that requires the most scious, and assertive,” added Holly Harmon, senior director of medical care, as the population of seniors grows, so do the clinical services for the American Health Care Association. “It demands of health care. changes the dynamic to where the patient asks the questions.

Baby Boomers tend to have more health problems than There’s an expectation to be a partner in care and an expectation their predecessors. Changes in diet and lifestyle activity level that I as a patient am seen as an individual.” have increased health conditions like heart disease and diabeBoomers tend to have higher expectations in health care, tes, obesity and high cholesterol, according to JAMA Internal too, from customer service to access to the internet. Lee’s team at Medicine.

Life Care, for example, offers Wi-Fi and laptops to patients, and has added some private rooms over the last few years to cater to Boomers’ desire for privacy.

Life Care Center of Gray These are only a few ways Baby We are a perfect choice for: Boomers have changed health care and FALL • Short-Term Rehabilitation will continue to do so. Harmon offers FESTIVAL • Long-Term Care Sat., Sept. 23rd some parting advice to Boomers as they 11–2 pm • Post-Operative Recovery consider their health.

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ardeners have waited months for peppers to grow and ripen. Suddenly, in late summer, we have more peppers than we can use! One jalapeño plant growing in a pot can produce several dozen peppers. In the past I’ve had loads of peppers go bad because I didn’t know what to do with them besides eating them fresh.

There are several quick, easy methods to preserve enough peppers to last through the next months before we grow and harvest again. Something very important—make sure when handling any peppers to always wear gloves. Even some sweet peppers can have hot seeds if a spicy pepper has been planted nearby. Always wash your peppers before preserving My favorite method for preserving is drying. I’ve dried every pepper I’ve grown from thick walled bell peppers to thin skinned cayenne peppers. Dehydrated bell peppers can be added to a crock pot full of chili, slowly re-hydrating as it cooks.

Thin-skinned chili peppers are great crumbled or put in a Bullet blender to turn into powder. Dried jalapeños can be sprinkled on baked potatoes and as a substitute for black pepper. A food dehydrator works well especially for thick walled peppers. Air drying is perfect for chili peppers.

The next method is freezing. The peppers keep some of their crispness after they have thawed but the texture does change. For thick walled peppers, remove the cap and seeds and cut the pepper into chunks. Put on a cookie sheet and place in the freezer until frozen solid. Remove from the pan and place in a freezer bag. For

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Another method is canning. This is more labor intensive and supplies are needed. There are several great video tutorials on the internet if you are interested in learning to can peppers.

So many things can be canned, from whole peppers to pepper jelly. A simple refrigerator method for peppers uses a recipe of one cup of vinegar, one cup of water, and one tablespoon of salt. Add additional spices to create the flavor you love. Chop up your peppers and place in a glass jar. Pour in the vinegar mixture and cover. These will keep up to one month in the refrigerator without water bathing or pressure canning.

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Weddings do not have to be expensive. The average cost of a wedding is $30,000. Yours is not average. It’s reasonable, affordable, and spectacular. How? Bridal Gown: Shop clearance racks and thrift stores; check Facebook and nearby small town publications; search the web for discount dresses.

Tuxes/Bridesmaids’ Gowns: Both can be rented. For easier accommodating and less expense, allow bridesmaids to select a (black) dress, which then becomes a backdrop to a colorful bouquet. Want to have fun? Allow the guys to wear tennis shoes, white shirt with color-coordinated ties and matching slacks (gray, khaki, black).

Venue: You don’t have to have stained glass, mahogany, and crystal.

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backyards, barns, even friends’ accommodating homes. Both the ceremony and reception can be held at the same venue, making guests less frustrated with travel and hard-to-read directions.

Food Fare: Casual eats can be so comfortable. Fried chicken and sides, served in fancy bowls and on sturdy platters; BBQ chicken, shredded pork, hamburgers, and brats can be prepared on-site.

Cake: Some grocery stores make simple wedding cakes. Purchase a small one and complement with sheet cakes or other sweets such as cookies, brownies, cheesecake bites, cupcakes, etc. Serve the dessert on different heights of pedestal plates or tiered serving pieces.

Decorations: Artificial or wild flowers in a variety of vases with glitter, twine, spray paint, or other accent pieces can brighten the reception area. Bouquets can be handcrafted; however, if you desire a florist’s expertise, simply state the amount you want to spend, give the number of bouquets, boutonnières, and arrangements you’ll need, and the choice of colors for the dominant and complementary hues.

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3. Work with What You Have An all-white theme won’t do in a hotel ballroom papered in red and gold, nor does it make sense to try to transform a rustic lodge into the crystal palace.

4. Build in Flexibility Look for ways that allow you to change things easily at the last minute. The seating cards at left keep names and table numbers separate, so you can shift guests’ assignments without having to rewrite the cards.

5. Arrange for a Backup—Plan B Planning an outdoor reception? You can’t count on sunshine, so either reserve a tent or opt for a location with an indoor alternative in the event of inclement weather.

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The Right Theme

By Tresa Erickson When planning their wedding, some couples elect to have a theme. Themes can run the gamut from colors to characters, and many couples look for one that will make their wedding unique.

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Art, like film or literature Cultures, like the Irish or Japanese Decades, like the 1920s or 1960s Famous characters, like Romeo and Juliet or Bonnie and Clyde Food, like chocolate or cheese Holidays Places, like Hollywood or the beach Seasons Special events, like Mardi Gras or Super Sunday Time periods, like the Renaissance or the Victorian Age You might even look to the venue you have selected for your wedding for inspiration. An old dance hall might be the perfect place to have a 1940s–themed wedding.

• Wedding themes can come from anywhere. As you are looking for one, keep the details of your wedding in mind. You both might like wintry colors and sports, but neither of these would make a good theme for a spring wedding. The theme you select should suit the time and tone of your wedding.

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A band may have some of the best singers on the planet, but Etta James’ “At Last” just doesn’t sound right being sung by anyone else. Having the original versions of songs is especially important if you are considering using more current music like hip-hop at your wedding.

3. Breaks Every band needs to take breaks over the course of the night, something that DJs don’t need to do.

4. International Music If you have a desire to incorporate international music into your wedding, a DJ is always your best option.

5. Space and Power Some reception sites have a limit on the size of bands and on how many separate circuits are available. Bands are larger and typically require more electricity than a DJ.

6. Volume Another huge concern with bands is volume. In a confined space, a band can easily overpower a room and make it impossible for people to speak with each other during the band’s sets.

7. Requests Most bands may take a request from a guest, but often their playlist is determined before the wedding even begins. A DJ gives you the flexibility of allowing your guests to make requests.

8. Budget Most wedding bands start in the $2,500 range for a five hour wedding, with some going for close to $10,000! The very best wedding DJs still charge less than a low-end band.

9. Experienced Emcees Being a bandleader and having emcee skills, especially those that do not directly pertain to the music, are two different talents. A good DJ is a confident, articulate, and impeccable emcee.

10. Subtlety Many couples prefer a more low-key reception where the music is subtle and the focus is on having a good time with family and friends. Others want a party where they, the bride and groom, are the center of attention at all times. A good DJ is key to both of these types of weddings.

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