Millburn & Short Hills February 2025 by Wainscot Media

Millburn & Short Hills

TRAVEL REIMAGINED FINDING WONDER ABROAD

INK AND INSPIRATION

JON MICHAUD

Rising Stars At Millburn High School

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The Heart of Millburn and Short Hills

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As February 2025 begins, we’re feeling energized with love and local pride over exciting news! Steve Grillo, Executive Director of Explore, opens this issue with a piece celebrating the valuable accreditation earned by Millburn-Short Hills as part of the Main Street New Jersey program—a prestigious state and national recognition granted to towns that meet specific benchmarks. We’re proud to be one of only four towns to achieve this! This milestone is an incredible boost for the health and vibrancy of our downtown, highlighting the progress made through Explore in strengthening our retail landscape. With this new support, we’re poised to enhance our community even

further. Our beautiful downtown— and towns like Millburn and Short Hills—are undeniably delicate, and it’s vital that we find ways to ensure their survival and growth for generations to come. We all cherish the experience of strolling through our vibrant streets, and it is a vision we want to preserve for our children. We encourage everyone to shop local, support local and stay local. The opening of new eateries is always a thrill, and we’re excited to introduce newcomer, The Simple Fare, in this issue. With its charming outdoor dining area and modern interior, we hope their story inspires you to check them out soon!

We also loved featuring the Millburn High School Theater department on our cover. Editor Eve Golden and photographer Melissa Spector brought us inspiring visuals and engaging stories showcasing the incredible talents in our community. The MHS theater program has a remarkable track record of igniting lifelong passions for the arts, and we’re proud to celebrate that. Additionally, don’t miss our second travel installment, perfect for those seeking unexpected, off-the-beaten path locales.

Millburn and Short Hills is a treasure trove of local resources and services, and we’re excited to highlight them for our readers.

With love and gratitude,

Mary Lima Publisher

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Around Town

BY STEVE GRILLO, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, EXPLORE MILLBURN-SHORT HILLS

Normally this section is dedicated to local events and programs, but this month we are celebrating a unique designation that Downtown Millburn recently received from the State of New Jersey.

In late 2024, the New Jersey Department of Community Affairs (DCA) announced the designation of four new communities to the Main Street New Jersey (MSNJ) Program, an initiative aimed at encouraging and supporting downtown business districts throughout the state. With the designation, Downtown Millburn as well as new designees in Princeton, Plainfield and Haddonfield, can receive assistance to strengthen their downtown areas as centers of community and economic activity. The addition of these communities brings the total number of communities in the program to 29.

Assisting communities

“We are incredibly excited to announce four new MSNJ Districts and look forward to assisting these communities as part of the MSNJ program,” said DCA Commissioner Jacquelyn A. Suárez. “The MSNJ designation focuses on developing partnerships between local small business owners, entrepreneurs and communities to foster public and private reinvestment in their historic New Jersey downtowns.”

The prestigious MSNJ designation allows communities to receive technical assistance and training as well as apply for grant opportunities to assist with physical improvement projects, operational support and transformation strategies in their districts. Main Street New Jersey is a coordinating program (or state level program) of the national Main Street America organization, which was founded

in 1980. Over the past 40 years, the Main Street America network has helped generate over $101 billion in local reinvestment, rehab 335,000 buildings, create 782,000 new jobs and start 175,000 new businesses in over 2,000 communities across the nation.

Here at home in the Garden State, the MSNJ program assists with preservation-based revitalization initiatives including strengthening the existing tax base, increasing sales, creating a positive community image, enhancing building appearance, attracting new businesses, creating new jobs, increasing investment and preserving historic architectural resources. In addition to significant economic gains, between 1997 and 2022, residents, merchants and property owners donated nearly $10 million in volunteer wage time to support their local Main Street program.

“Main Street Approach”

Explore Millburn-Short Hills (Explore) was the applicant on behalf of the Township as the program requires that a community have a non-profit organization dedicated to economic development and vitality in order to be considered. Mayor Annette Romano and the Township Committee authorized Explore to draft the application. Upon the announcement, she said “I am ecstatic about receiving the 2024 Main Street New Jersey Award. We are so fortunate to have the team at our Special Improvement District (Explore) who drafted our application. As I always say, Millburn’s Downtown is beautiful, and I am lucky to live in and lead such an amazing community as mayor.”

The MSNJ program is centered around four core principles called the “Main Street Approach” which are Economic Vitality, Design, Promotion and Organization. The approach advocates a return to community self-reliance, empowerment and the

rebuilding of commercial districts based on traditional assets of unique architecture, personal service, local ownership and a sense of community.

Former mayor and current Explore chairwoman Jackie Benjamin Lieberberg said, “Millburn is thrilled to be in the select few communities that have been admitted to the program, and I look forward to all of the benefits it brings. I am grateful to serve on a dynamic, proactive and engaged board with committed residents, government officials and business and property owners who worked collaboratively to put forth a winning application.” She added, “The Special Improvement District was created in 2020, and in just four short years, we have been able to assemble a service portfolio in our downtown that has been recognized by such a prestigious program as Main Street New Jersey. There are big things ahead for Millburn!”

Want to Get Involved with Explore? Explore is a volunteer driven organization. We have a nine member board appointed by the Township Committee, a 15 member Advisory Committee and numerous volunteer positions for events. For more information, contact Steve Grillo at steve@exploremillburnshorthills.org.

ABOUT EXPLORE MILLBURN-SHORT HILLS

Explore Millburn-Short Hills is the 501(c)3 nonprofit organization established to support and promote the businesses throughout the five areas of the Special Improvement District that was established in 2020. Explore organizes numerous events, musical performances, educational programs and networking events. The organization is also responsible for various public art and streetscaping projects in the town including the Millburn Art Alley and Town Hall Plaza.

Opposite page: Friends and family gathered for Girls’ Night Out in June 2024. The night had a mermaid theme, and the selfie wall reflected the under the sea vibe.

This page: “Mother Earth” by Ivan Petrovsky, aka “Mustart,” is one of the many murals in the Millburn Art Alley created by Explore in Downtown.

Clean and Simple

Established by local Millburn couple Ashima and Saurabh Mehra, The Simple Fare celebrates heritage and authentic Indian flavors with a fresh perspective.

BY EVE GOLDEN

A Return to Roots

A culinary shift is gaining momentum—a return to pure flavors and the artistry of handcrafted cuisine. At The Simple Fare, each artisanal dish and dessert is created with natural ingredients, capturing the richness of India’s culinary legacy while embracing a fresh, innovative approach. Ashima, an architect by trade with a master’s in urban design from Columbia University, found herself drawn to baking during the challenging period

of the pandemic. “COVID was a tough time for everyone worldwide, but it also provided an opportunity for many to pursue their passions,” she explains.

Spice and Simplicity

What began with baking sourdough bread for her family blossomed into a partnership with her husband, a trained pastry chef by the French Culinary Institute. Together, Ashima and Saurabh began creating cakes and pastries that incorporated clean, natural

ingredients and sensibilities deeply rooted in Indian culture. “When we think of desserts in India, we gravitate toward saffron, rose, cardamom and pistachio, and we started baking with these ingredients,” Ashima says. “The feedback from customers is what kept me going. They always come back for more, saying they love the flavors and can feel the clean ingredients in my creations—I always believe that your dish is as good as your ingredients, so starting with the best results in something amazing.”

Crafting Authenticity

Another significant motivator to offer clean desserts was observing their children attend birthday parties where cakes were frosted with artificial food dyes. This concern led to the decision to create baked goods using only clean ingredients, completely avoiding harmful preservatives and dyes. “I decided that I could create these bakes using all-natural ingredients, with no artificial preservatives or dyes ever,” Ashima says. “All the colors in our bakes come from nature.”

This desire to share the authentic flavors of their culture is at the heart of The Simple Fare. “India has such a rich culinary heritage that no single dish can be described as a signature dish,” Ashima says.

Their menu is a curated, ever-evolving tapestry of regional specialties with fresh, seasonal ingredients. And while the thoughtfully edited menu features many standout dishes, their signature drink is undoubtedly chai. “It’s our recipe, just like

how our parents made it at home and in homes all across India,” Ashima says. “Although chai varies by household, we always bring that warmth to everyone who stops in for one. We’ve also introduced what we believe is a premier specialty coffee roaster to town, Brooklyn-based Partners Coffee; we promise this will be one of the best coffees you’ve ever had.”

Farm to Table

The couple’s dedication to quality extends beyond their flavorful dishes, prioritizing the importance of sourcing local and organic ingredients, which they approach with the same commitment they invest in their menu. Ashima and Saurabh’s choice to open in Millburn speaks volumes about their dedication to the community. Having called the town home since 2014, opening their dream space was a natural decision.

“This town has been an amazing place to live and raise a family,” Ashima shares.

“Until now, there wasn’t a place to showcase the culinary art rooted in Indian culture, and we are proud to bring some nostalgia on a plate to this town. The clean eating movement is gaining strength, and people are willing to invest in food that spells quality ingredients,” Ashima says. “I always go back to how food was made in the past, how our parents and grandparents ate—fresh food made every day from locally sourced ingredients.” Through their passion for authenticity and high standards, The Simple Fare has successfully created a space where community and conscious dining blend effortlessly.

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Wanderlust Reimagined

In our January issue, we were whisked away to spectacular familyinspired getaways. Now, get to know Sheri Parker, our featured travel expert and founder of Your Fine Trip, who specializes in exotic and refined getaways that blend the excitement of exploration with the anticipation of discovering the world’s most unconventional and unexpected destinations.

BY EVE GOLDEN

In the realm of travel, few experiences are as exhilarating as designing a unique excursion tailored to savor life’s milestones. Whether it’s a couple celebrating an anniversary or friends marking a significant birthday, the satisfaction of creating lasting memories is incomparable.

“I love adventure travel and any exotic destination that takes you outdoors,” Sheri says. “I’m excited when I receive a call for a milestone trip and get a great deal of satisfaction knowing that my clients trust me. One of my favorite bucket list itineraries was a 50th birthday trip to Bali, complete with a private yacht charter to the Komodo Islands. And by the way, Komodo dragons are real, and they are spectacular!”

The Allure of the Undiscovered

The travel landscape is evolving, and with outdoor adventure and exotic locations gaining traction, Sheri remains at the forefront, guiding her clients towards exclusive escapes. Sheri says, “Clients have been looking for destinations that cannot be easily replicated on a beach chair with a pina colada in hand.” This is evident in her recent travels, where she met her son in Copenhagen before taking off for the breathtaking Faroe Islands in the North Atlantic

between Iceland and Scotland. “It’s a place most do not know exists; it is filled with green mountains, rugged landscapes, towering cliffs and remote Nordic culture,” she continues. While you’ll feel at home, the absence of overwhelming tourist crowds and low key atmosphere creates the perfect backdrop for a personal and authentic experience.

“People are moving away from the usual European destinations,” Sheri notes. There’s an increasing fascination with places like Japan, Vietnam and lesser-explored European regions such as Slovenia and Scandinavia. For those seeking respite from cliched locales, crowded beaches and the uncomfortable heatwaves of Southern Europe, Sheri’s idea of a summer escape takes her far north to the breathtaking Lofoten Islands in Norway, nestled just above the Arctic Circle. Not your “book it and go” vacation, reaching this remote paradise is worth going the extra mile for.

“It required three flights to get there, but once we arrived, we were treated to the most amazing hiking, incredible fresh seafood and the surreal Midnight Sun,” Sheri says. “I guide my clients to discover these hidden gems, helping them venture beyond the typical tourist traps.”

Opposite and this page: Sheri in the Faroe Islands, July 2024.

Letting Go of the Guidebook

Sheri’s expertise isn’t confined to exotic locales. “I caution my clients against becoming too comfortable in their lounge chairs,” she says. If there’s a UNESCO World Heritage site nearby, you’re definitely going! Sheri’s innovative itineraries linger long after the suitcases are unpacked offering fresh perspectives on new landscapes. For those seeking a unique experience, Sheri suggests city tours by side-car. “It’s a fun, unconventional way to see the sights and cover greater distances.”

And for popular destinations, Sheri shares insider tips: “If a museum offers ‘after hours,’ take advantage of it,” she says. “I recently went on a tour of the Louvre by night—It’s an incredible feeling to be standing at the heart of French culture at an unconventional hour; there were fewer crowds, and it freed up my day to squeeze in other sites on my to-do list.”

A Global Palette

From climbing Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania to hot air ballooning over the Serengeti, Sheri’s personal adventures inform and inspire the journeys she creates for her clients.

“My goal is to provide not just options

but insights into the best,” Sheri says. It’s her forward-thinking mindset that drives her success and keeps clients returning. Despite the rise of online booking platforms, Sheri believes the role of the travel agent is more crucial than ever. “The travel industry has not stopped growing,” she notes. “In fact, I have observed more people looking to agents for their more complex plans, especially if they involve a destination overseas or a multigenerational group.” Sheri’s approach to travel planning is anything but ordinary. Drawing from her own experiences, Sheri weaves personal touches into each itinerary, ensuring that every trip is as unique as the travelers themselves. “You will never find an excursion I would not personally do,” she says. Her dedication to creating unforgettable excursions is obvious in her current project, a surprise summer trip for a family client. “I am curating the trip based on each of their interests, and I will hand them their surprise itinerary the day before they depart!”

Home and Away

“Adventure travel creates unforgettable experiences and the opportunity to

challenge yourself,” Sheri says. “Climbing Mount Kilimanjaro was a transformative experience for me. Standing at the summit, I felt a sense of accomplishment that was irreplaceable. I’m currently working on a private charter cruise through Raja Ampat in Indonesia, a bucket list trip with my son,” she reveals. “It’s outside of my comfort zone, and I cannot wait!”

This remote archipelago in West Papua is a diver’s paradise, boasting some of the bluest waters and most biodiverse marine ecosystems on the planet. “Of course, I could not resist and added visits to Singapore and Hong Kong for the front and back end of this trip,” she adds.

Sheri balances her career with a vibrant family life and has called Short Hills home since 2011, drawn in by its strong sense of community. In between planning travel excursions for clients or her own family, Sheri keeps busy with her three kids: 13-year-old Tess and 16-year-old twins, Jake and Arden. “We love eating and shopping downtown, and our two dogs love the Reservation,” she says. With college tours on the horizon for her twins, Sheri says, “Good thing I know someone who can plan these trips!”

THE JETSET DIARIES

Every stamp in Sheri’s passport is a reminder that life thrives in the unexpected. By diving headfirst into unexplored territories, she continually discovers that the magic often lies just beyond the edges of our comfort zones.

Vast plains, diverse wildlife and the beautiful colors of the African sunrise: Floating in a hot air balloon over the Serengeti offers an incredible vantage point of this unique landscape and rich ecosystem. “My most memorable experiences are the ones I hesitated doing at first.”

Embarking on a private charter cruise through Raja Ampat, Indonesia, presents an exclusive glimpse into one of the world’s most stunning marine paradises. This remote archipelago is a perfect blend of discovery and relaxation. “Up next is this bucket list adventure with my son—outside of my comfort zone and I cannot wait.”

Reaching the summit is an exhilarating moment of the Mount Kilimanjaro hike, which typically takes several days. Climbers experience diverse ecosystems, ranging from lush rainforests to alpine deserts. “I love when clients say, ‘Yes, sign me up,’ and my own motto is, ‘I will do anything once!’”

ADVENTURE ELEVATED

LUXURY IN THE WILD

THE HIGH LIFE

Opposite page, from left: Sheri with her son Jake in Copenhagen, July 2024. Right; Sheri in the Canadian Rockies, August 2022. This page, from left: Sheri with her daughter Arden in Paris, May 2024. Right: Sheri in the Lofoten Islands, July 2023.

Acting Out

The stage at Millburn High School is more than just a performance space; meet the new generation of rising stars setting their sights on a future in the spotlight.

BY EVE GOLDEN

As they prepare to graduate and leave the halls of high school behind, these five MHS seniors carry with them a wealth of experiences that have enriched their lives in ways they never expected. It’s hard not to reflect on how far they’ve come. By devoting themselves to the world of theater, the stage has not only been a place to shine but also a canvas for creativity and self-discovery, and they’re ready to see where the next act will take them.

Ben Levine

The way into the world of theater often begins with a spark of inspiration, and for one aspiring actor, it all began close to home. “I first got started in theater by taking acting classes and voice lessons at the Paper Mill Playhouse,” Ben shares. “I remember being inspired to act just by watching TV and seeing my brother perform in his show at the Deerfield school.”

With his sights set on a career in the performing arts, Ben is currently auditioning for Bachelor of Fine Arts acting programs. “Acting has allowed me

to express myself artistically and discover new shades of myself,” he explains. “I have already participated in some professional productions outside of school that have furthered my desire to pursue this as a career.” Interestingly, many of Ben’s roles often involve playing villainous characters, a typecasting due to his look, he says. “Having to change my personality and embrace more evil tendencies often involves playing people I can’t relate to offstage,” he says.

Balancing schoolwork, theater and other activities is no easy feat. Yet, as showtime approaches and rehearsals

intensify, Ben has managed to excel academically.

“The biggest aid to this has been my teachers, as many of them help accommodate and work with me so that I can still succeed in their classes while also allowing me to devote myself to my craft,” he says.

Theater has also played a crucial role in personal growth. “Even after entering high school, having done theater prior, I found myself to be a shy and relatively quiet person,” Ben says. However, the supportive and creative community has helped Ben gain confidence and embrace new challenges. “They are some of the kindest and most creative people who really motivate me to try new things and push myself beyond

my comfort zone, and I’m extremely grateful for that.”

What makes Millburn and Short Hills stand out?

One of my favorite things is to go hiking in the reservation and around town or go see shows at The Paper Mill Playhouse.

How do you get into the headspace of a role you’re about to play?

I attempt to make a journal of the character’s experiences, documenting how they may have felt at certain moments in their life. This method allows me not only to get into the head of the character but also to find their motivations, feelings and the experiences t hat led them to become who they are.

A Night in Neverland: Ben starring in the MHS 2024 production of “Peter and the Starcatcher.”

Sammy Freundlich Sammy’s love for acting began in the bustling heart of NYC, surrounded by the magic of Broadway, living just blocks away from the iconic theaters.

“My brother was a theater kid in school too, and after seeing him perform in shows, I knew that I had to pursue this passion further,” she says. After her move to Short Hills, Sammy began her creative journey with voice lessons at PeachCraft Studios in Summit and acting classes at Performers Theater Workshop in Millburn.

A transformative summer course at UCLA with Emmynominated casting director Wendy Kurtzman shifted Sammy’s focus from musical theater to acting, a path further set by a six-week acting intensive at Carnegie Mellon University.

Acting became a lifeline during a challenging freshman year. “Being a part of the theater program at Millburn High School had an extremely positive impact on me,” Sammy shares. “I came into freshman year with anxiety and not having many friends—likely as a result of online school for the prior two years.” Playing Mrs. Bumbrake in the school production of “Peter and the Starcatcher” was a revelation for Sammy. The role’s perfect blend of humor and drama allowed Sammy to explore both her comedic and dramatic acting skills. “I loved being able to play such a carefree, loving and confident role.” For Sammy, a career in the performing arts is non-negotiable. She says, “I could not see myself doing anything else! Nothing brings me more joy than being onstage, and I think it is most important to choose a career that brings you happiness.”

What advice would you give your younger self before your first audition?

Pretend that nobody is watching and just go all out with my acting choices. Confidence and doing something different is what makes you stand out.

What message would you share with future theater students?

Don’t let what one director says get you down. Tell stories with important messages.

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A Journey through the Stars: Sammy playing Mrs. Bumbrake in the MHS 2024 production of “Peter and the Starcatcher.”

John Allyn

“When I was 5 years old, I went to see “Mary Poppins” on Broadway. Halfway through the show, I whispered in my mom’s ear, ‘I want to be an actor.’”

From that moment, the dream of pursuing a career in theater arts transformed John’s future path. He quickly realized the liberating power of the stage and the theater community.

“It has taught me to live on the edge and to be my authentic self; live my life the way I want to, as long as it makes me happy.”

With a heart full of enthusiasm, John urges other aspiring actors to embrace the art of theater. He says, “Keep singing and acting and do what you love!”

For John, theater represents pure happiness and is a sanctuary where his talent takes flight. “Breathe and have fun,” he says. This mantra serves as a reminder that authenticity is key when auditioning or performing.

“Being yourself is better than being nervous and trying to be someone else; your performance will shine through.”

Looking ahead, John clearly envisions himself living in NYC and auditioning for Broadway shows. “The ideal goal is to be on Broadway in five years,” he says. “I also see myself working incredibly hard to get there.”

For now, theater and school are a balancing act. “Theater is my biggest passion; it is all I do, and it is what I love the most,” he says. “But I also know that school is important. Just like athletes, I have to keep a mix of both.”

John recognizes that a successful acting career requires a wellrounded perspective of the world to achieve character authenticity. By taking both his education and passion for acting seriously, he is preparing himself for a future on the stage. “I know in the end school will be helpful to make me a better actor.”

What is your warm-up preshow ritual that helps get you in the zone?

I leave all my life issues in the back of my mind and bring my character to the front. After clearing my mind, I create a mind map of everything my character believes and values to get myself into their headspace.

What makes Millburn and Short Hills stand out?

I love it here because we are such a close-knit community that cares so much for each other.

Rising Star: John stealing the spotlight in the MHS 2023 production of “The Prom.”

Maddie Tofias

Growing up in a vibrant musical theater family where holiday get-togethers resonated with the sounds of the “Annie” soundtrack, Maddie was immersed in performing from a young age. “Theater was always encouraged in my family and viewed as a super important part of our world,” she says.

With this supportive foundation, Maddie dove into the performing arts without hesitation. She began dancing, followed by singing and finally took the leap into acting almost a decade ago. Being part of a theater program at Millburn High School has been transformative for Maddie.

“I’ve learned so many people skills,” she explains. “Performing in front of large audiences has made me more outgoing and not as shy as I once was.”

As any seasoned performer knows, pre-show nerves can be a constant companion. Maddie channels that energy into dance party sessions with

her castmates. “No matter how many times I perform, the nerves never disappear,” she admits. “But singing along to our favorite Disney songs helps me get in the zone.”

Looking ahead, Maddie sees a bright future intertwined with theater. “I cannot imagine a world where I do not carry that love with me after high school,” she says. While acting remains her passion, Maddie is excited to explore the multifaceted nature of the performing arts.

“While theater is one of my favorite things to do in the entire world, there are so many opportunities in casting, producing and literary criticism.”

Maddie’s creative path is a reminder that the stage is not just a platform for performance, but a space for growth, connection and endless possibilities. “Many people think theater kids are all super competitive and cutthroat,” she says. “What they don’t realize is how loving we are.

When you do a show with someone, even for a short time, you build a family-like bond. Theater kids can be some of the most supportive people out there.”

How does your personality change onstage versus offstage?

When I am onstage, it is like I transform into Superwoman. I become the outgoing, fear-free version of myself that some may not get to see offstage. It is a creative and emotional outlet where I can be whoever I want to be.

When in doubt, what does your inner dialogue say?

Trust yourself. You’ve put in the hard work, so believe in your abilities.

What makes Millburn and Short Hills stand out?

The amazing theater community that we have, especially with our proximity to The Paper Mill Playhouse.

Larger than Life: Maddie starring as Madame de la Grande Bouche in the MHS 2024 production of “Beauty and the Beast.”

Ben Seifer

Inspired by his family tree rooted in music, the stage was set for Ben’s passion for performance. “Both of my parents were involved in music all throughout their school years; however, it was my sister who was the most influential in my love of theater,” he says. “Growing up as theater kids together allowed us to strive and support each other through our shows.”

Preparation for a role extends beyond mere memorization. Upon the announcement of a new show, Ben immerses himself in research, studying videos and performances to grasp the essence of the character. “During the audition process, I learn the music and try to understand the character through their songs and scene work,” he says. “Taking on diverse characters allows me to understand and empathize with various perspectives and experiences.”

The unpredictable nature of live theater—a forgotten line, an unexpected prop malfunction or a miscommunication with fellow actors— has taught Ben about creative problemsolving in the face of adversity.

Among the many lessons learned, the importance of embracing missteps is a concept that has become a foundation of Ben’s theatrical philosophy.

“The pressure to deliver a flawless performance can be immense; this is where I learned to welcome mistakes and embrace failure as a learning tool,” Ben shares. “I have found myself faced with two choices: Dwell on the mistakes or learn from them. By choosing the latter, I discovered valuable lessons about resilience and adaptability.”

Balancing the rigors of schoolwork and the demands of theater productions presents a challenge for Ben. “It can be difficult to keep up with schoolwork while participating in an activity that demands so much rehearsal and production time,” Ben says. “Teachers and other students have been helpful and supportive—I always find a way to get it all done because I believe in the process, and I love what I’m doing.”

What makes Millburn and Short Hills stand out?

How lucky I am to have had so many amazing teachers throughout my school career who supported my learning and growth. I have been provided with opportunities through school and our community that I don’t take for granted.

What is your warm-up pre-show ritual that helps get you in the zone?

“Lose Yourself” by Eminem is an awesome hype song that never fails to pump me up and get me ready to perform. The lyrics are incredibly motivating: “Look, if you had one shot or one opportunity to seize everything you ever wanted in one moment, would you capture it…?”

CATCH THIS AMAZING GROUP OF TALENT IN THE MILLBURN HIGH SCHOOL SPRING MUSICAL “BIG FISH” ON MARCH 14TH, 15TH AND 16TH!

The Rise of Hook: Ben starring in the MHS 2024 production of “Peter and the Starcatcher.”

Ink and Inspiration

At the intersection of storytelling and mentorship, local author Jon Michaud guides writers through the intricacies of their craft.

BY EVE GOLDEN

Catalyst for Creativity

The Writers Salon stands out as a beacon of the creative community. Created and hosted by Jon Michaud, the Head of Collections at the Millburn Library and a published author himself, this monthly forum is a unique gathering that has become a lifeline for aspiring and established authors alike, offering support and inspiration to writers at all stages of their careers. The Writers Salon provides a nurturing environment where participants can share their work, exchange ideas and receive valuable feedback, fostering growth and connection within the literary community. The Writers Salon emerged from a National Novel Writing Month program Jon ran at the library. When participants asked, “So, what now?” following the month-long writing

marathon, the Writers Salon emerged. It has since evolved into a vital resource for the local writing community, embodying Michaud’s vision of making the Millburn Library a home not just for readers but for writers as well.

Jon brings a wealth of experience to the Salon, drawing from his unique background and accomplished career, having spent his formative years in diverse locations including Iran, India and Northern Ireland. This global perspective informs his approach to writing and mentoring.

“I wrote my first short story for a middle school English class, enjoyed everything about it—from composition to reader response—and have been writing ever since,” Jon says. “I was a shy, introverted kid and the solitude of writing suited me. Oddly, I wasn’t much of a reader until I

turned 13, and then I made up for lost time, reading rapaciously through my teens and twenties.”

Words in Motion

As a published author, Michaud’s credentials are impressive. His books, “When Tito Loved Clara” (2011) and “Last Call at Coogan’s” (2023), showcase his unique storytelling. Jon’s professional experience spans two decades, including positions at Time Inc., the US Environmental Protection Agency and The New Yorker magazine libraries. Additionally, for the past decade, he has been a regular contributor of essays and book reviews to prestigious publications, The New Yorker and The Washington Post. This extensive background in literary accomplishments lends significant

credibility as a mentor at the Writers Salon. “I came to the Millburn Library in 2017 after nearly two decades of working in corporate and government libraries,” Jon says. “I wanted a job closer to home that would allow me to spend more time with my family, and Millburn fit the bill; it was the right decision. I love the community service aspect of public library work.”

Jon began as a part-time children’s l ibrarian, but since 2020, he has been the Head of Collections, overseeing the acquisition of new books and the maintenance of the library’s print collection. “Like all librarians at the Millburn Library, I also do programming, including the bi-weekly Virtual Book Chat (a bring your own book discussion group), the monthly Writers Salon and regular local author readings,” Jon says.

The most rewarding aspect of hosting the Writers Salon is watching the progress of its members. At its core, the Salon is a support group for writers and authors at various stages of their careers, providing them with the opportunity to meet and discuss their struggles, celebrate their triumphs and share their day-to-day experiences of the writing life. This inclusive approach creates a unique dynamic where novices and veterans can learn from each other.

“We maintain a spirit of egalitarianism, open-mindedness and collaboration,” Jon says. “The mix of experience in the group leads to excellent opportunities for mentoring, and the more established writers are reminded of what it was like to be new and hungry. This is the quotidian saga that most writers go through.”

Beyond the Book

The Writers Salon addresses both the creative and practical aspects of writing. Discussions range from overcoming writer’s block to navigating the complex world of publishing. Drawing from his own experiences and observations, Jon offers insights into the changing landscape

of the industry. He expertly acknowledges the challenges, such as the dwindling outlets for short stories and book reviews, and the increasing difficulty in securing traditional publishing deals. However, he also leads engaging discussions on new opportunities, including the rise of self-publishing and the industry’s growing embrace of underrepresented voices. Topics such as agent relationships, contract negotiations and marketing strategies are regularly addressed, providing valuable, practical knowledge for both new and seasoned authors. This holistic approach ensures that participants are equipped not only to write but also to navigate the often-complex world of publishing.

Currently working on the first draft of a new piece of fiction, Jon firmly believes that many writing problems get solved in the subconscious, and this philosophy shapes his approach to his craft. “Sometimes that means re-reading a troublesome passage a couple of times and doing nothing more,” Jon explains. “The daily contact feeds the subconscious and ultimately leads to insights and breakthroughs.” Jon’s relationship with the writing process is complex. He admits, “I loathe the first draft, but love revision.”

His work explores a range of themes, including “community, migration, gentrification, family, race relations, what it means to be an American and the inescapable passage of time.” The most significant daily challenge is managing the balance among work, writing and family. Jon shares, “There’s a Kenneth Koch poem called, ‘You Want a Social Life, with Friends,’ and the opening of it goes like this:”

You want a social life, with friends, A passionate love life and as well To work hard every day. What’s true Is of these three you may have two

Jon has accumulated a wealth of insights from his experiences working with writers across the board, from ambitious newcomers to established wordsmiths. His journey has not only shaped his own

writing but has also given him perspective on the creative process. When discussing his go-to resources for understanding creativity, Jon shares, “‘Rick Rubin’s ‘The Creative Act: A Way of Being,’ is a gamechanger.” Jon also refers to W. Timothy Gallwey’s “The Inner Game of Tennis,” as “an excellent primer on getting out of your own way.” Reflecting on advice he would offer his younger self, “Sheer obstinacy and determination, coupled with a love of reading and revision. The novelist Matt Bell captured this in the title of his book on writing, ‘Refuse to Be Done.’ It’s sound advice.”

Opposite page: The launch of Jon Michaud’s book “Last Call at Coogan’s” alongside Coogan’s owner, Peter Walsh. (Jon is shown with book in hand). This page, top: Jimmy Fallon featured Jon’s book “Last Call at Coogan’s” on his Instagram feed. Bottom: Jon’s novel “When Tito Loved Clara.”

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Love, The Knicks and Life Lessons

Short Hills couple Debra and David Horowitz open up about what makes them an unstoppable pair, sharing the simple but impactful everyday rituals that contribute to their lasting love story.

BY EVE GOLDEN

INTERVIEW WITH DEBRA HOROWITZ

How did you first connect and what sparked your interest in one another?

David and I first met at the University of Michigan, sharing the same dorm and circle of friends. At the time, we were both in relationships—my boyfriend was in David’s fraternity, and his girlfriend coincidentally was my summer roommate during an internship in D.C. The four of us frequently spent time together as couples. Fast forward two years after graduation, I ran into David at a party in NYC. Both of us were newly single and working in the Financial District, and we reconnected. Although David initially left the party, a friend urged him to return for my number. Our first date was a lunch at Pizzeria Uno at the South Street Seaport in October 1992, followed by an unforgettable second date at the Knicks opening night. That’s when I knew he was a keeper. We shared a love for the Knicks, Giants, Yankees and, of course, Michigan. He was funny, smart and so easy to be with.

How have your views on marriage and love evolved since you first got married?

We’ve learned that life is full of unpredictable twists. You can’t foresee the future, but you can face it together, ready to adapt and support each other.

What do you hope your marriage will teach your children or future generations about love and commitment?

The most important advice for our kids as they navigate future relationships is to understand that love and commitment takes two. Our marriage is a true partnership that requires daily attention and nurturing, and our dedication has inspired our kids to seek similar relationships. It’s important to enjoy each other’s company during the mundane moments, since it’s really about everything that comes after the wedding day! Marriage is work, and it is essential to stand by each other through the highs, lows and everything in between.

What advice would you give your younger self about marriage, knowing what you know now?

Enjoy each moment and don’t worry too much about the future. In my twenties, I was anxious about what lay ahead for David and me. I wish I’d savored the journey more.

Looking ahead, what are you most excited about for your future together?

We’re excited about growing old together. Embracing empty nesting, hopefully a growing family, attending more sports events together, visiting LBI, traveling and enjoying low key nights watching TV.

What is something you’ve learned to appreciate about David that you might have overlooked in the early years?

David reminds me so much of my dad— intelligent, kind, social and a devoted sports fan. Realizing this over the years, especially since my dad passed, warms my heart.

Opposite page, top: Debra and David at the “Big House” football stadium in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Bottom: Debra and David circa 1994. This page, clockwise from top right: Debra and David at Yellowstone National Park summer 2018. Debra and David with their son LJ (27) and Andie (24). At their happy place: Giants Tailgate. Wedding day June 10, 1995.

Culture Club

The scent of candles, incense and cigar smoke transports those who remember back to a time when House of Bernard was a portal to another world, an eclectic haven that became a cherished downtown Millburn landmark for those growing up in the 60s and 70s.

BY EVE GOLDEN

From the moment curious customers stepped inside, they were enveloped in a kaleidoscope of eccentricity. The shop was a celebration of the unique and sometimes bizarre—a place where small tchotchke boxes adorned the shelves alongside puzzle rings and bespoke turquoise and sterling silver jewelry shared real estate with soapstone boxes and groovy mobiles. It was here that the peace-loving youth of the era could lose themselves for a while.

At the heart of this wonderland was Berry Bernard, a character straight out of a vivid dream. Some call him a hippie, while others say he was a hipster, but what unites everyone is a shared admiration for his warmth, eccentricity and welcoming spirit. With his white pageboy haircut, thick black glasses and ever-present Nehru jacket, some commented that he was a striking, mature version of Andy Warhol. With a cigar perpetually perched between his fingers, Berry held court from behind a desk adorned with a fuchsia and black phone, sharing stories with customers that kept them

coming back for more. Shirley, his wife and partner in all things extraordinary, towered over Berry in height and matched him in presence, evoking comparisons to Bea Arthur’s iconic “Maude” character with her long vests and bohemian spirit.

House of Bernard was a rite of passage. After-school trips became a ritual for the youth, with babysitting money burning holes in their pockets. Hours could be lost wandering, with each visit bringing fresh discoveries. Even those who rarely made purchases found themselves drawn to the shop’s magnetic atmosphere.

The House of Bernard may have closed its doors, but the spirit of its legacy remains alive and well. Berry would undoubtedly be flattered; decades later, the stories continue to be shared, and the warmth of his presence is felt. Berry Bernard built what most small local businesses strive to be—he created a shared experience that continues to bond a community long after the incense has faded, and the last puzzle ring has been solved.

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