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“Our mission is and always has been equality for all. This is a remarkable moment in the fight for LGBTQ equality. Every American deserves to be treated with dignity and respect regardless of who they are or who they love.”

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i! My name is Rick and I am queer.

How does that make you feel? Does the word queer invoke anger or fear? Or is it something you embrace? Is this a generational question?

I understand and respect completely that the word queer is a trigger for some. I vividly remember being asked if I was queer when I was younger. It was usually accompanied by some snarl-faced look that let me know being queer was not a good thing in their eyes. Not knowing what queer meant, I would answer “no,” which would result in my gender being questioned or chased around the playground. By the time I was called “as queer as a three dollar bill,” I knew what they were saying.

It was more than 30 years ago so my memories might be a little hazy, but I don’t remember being crushed by the word. I have definitely been called worse. Let’s be real, my last name is Claggett, pronounced kla-git. Now go ahead and sing it in

the “Name Game.” My brothers and I are certainly no strangers to being called the “F” word.

For me it was different, obviously, as I am gay. Yet again, I don’t remember it bothering me so much. In fact, I got to the point where someone would yell “faggot” and I would retort, “Yeah, so what?” That usually shut them up.

Although, I realize it wasn’t as easy for others so I’ll just refer to it as the “F” word from now on.

Watermark Film Company is currently working on the documentary, “Greetings From Queertown: Orlando.” The goal is to follow the path of Central Florida’s LGBTQ history. We will detail the evolution of LGBTQ rights through politics, HIV/AIDS, Pride and entertainment; highlighting the

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struggles and heroes who built our community and made it possible for us to weather unthinkable tragedy. We have to talk about how bad it was to understand how good it is. That is how I feel about the word queer.

When I was in school in the 80s and 90s, queer was a derogatory term. What made it derogatory was the intent of the user. Much like how acceptance of the LGBTQ community has evolved, so has acceptance of the word queer by the LGBTQ community. It seems fitting to use queer in the title of the upcoming documentary because, like the community, the word queer started out as a negative connotation and transformed into something that is representative of a diverse and inclusive world.

In my last column of 2018, I asked for the conversation to begin for us to change how we refer to our community. Too many people in our community do not identify with L, G, B or T. I used to jokingly say that we added Q to stand for Queverybody, but the truth is everybody is not represented by LGBTQ. The only way to make sure our alphabet soup is all inclusive is to make it 26 letters.

I recently attended the annual Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast put on by The LGBT+ Center. A prominent ally mentioned— and I am paraphrasing—that she always felt the word “ally” described someone who was not part of a group, but supported the members from the outside.

It made me take a step back and think. Our allies shouldn’t feel like they are not 100% members of our community, and they should be able to claim name to our existence. My roommate just bought a rainbow magic band, rainbow T-shirt and a string of rainbow lights to wear at RED Shirt Pride Day at the Magic Kingdom. That cisgender, heterosexual ally is completely part of this queer community.

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This is my official pitch that we adopt the word queer and an all-inclusive way to join our cisgender, nonbinary, allied, L, G , B and T family. The word is weathered, tested, evolved and strong. It speaks to how our community fought and how we were defined to become what we are today. It speaks to the strength and love we have for each other and it speaks to our diversity.

Still don’t like queer? Then start a conversation about another word.

Let’s cut ourselves a break from having to stumble through the words “LGBTQ community” when speaking in public.

Let’s cut ourselves a break from having to stumble through the words ‘LGBTQ community’ when speaking in public.

In this issue of Watermark we reflect on the 2016 Pulse tragedy through the eyes of the 3 Wise Guys and outline how the One Orlando Alliance is asking you to Act, Love and Give. We celebrate a new take on an old tradition with the launch of Red Shirt Pride Days and highlight some of the entertainment coming for Orlando’s big gay weekend. In news, St. Pete aims to recognize LGBTQ-owned businesses for government contracts and State Rep. Carlos Guillermo Smith chimes in on the past legislative session.

We strive to bring you a variety of stories, your stories. I hope you enjoy this latest issue.

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Orlando to remember Pulse tragedy on June 12 Jeremy Williams

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RLANDO | June 12, 2019 will mark three years since a gunman walked into the Pulse nightclub, killing 49 people and injuring dozens more.

Several organizations will hold vigils, memorials and events to honor the victims leading up to and on June 12. We have gathered information on a few and provided it below.

WINNING: Rep. Carlos Guillermo Smith with fiancé Jerick Mediavilla (R) on stage with Gina Duncan and Jeff Prystajko minutes after the proposal at the Come Out With Pride Rally in 2018.

2019 CommUNITY Rainbow Run Saturday, June 8, 7-10:30 a.m.

Wadeview Park, Orlando

Hosted by the onePULSE Foundation, the third annual CommUNITY Rainbow Run is a 4.9K run/walk to celebrate diversity while honoring those lives that were taken in the Pulse tragedy. Registration is $49 if done by June 7, $60 the day of. Proceeds raised benefit the onePULSE Foundation. Register at CommUNITYRainbowRun.com.

The 49 Fund 2019 Scholarship Recipients Saturday, June 8, 3-4:30 p.m.

City Hall, Orlando Join Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer, Orange County Mayor Jerry Demings, City Commissioner Patty Sheehan and The 49 Fund founder Barry Miller, Esq. as they announce the 10 recipients of The 49 Fund’s 2019 college scholarships in the amount of $4,900 each. For more information of The 49 Fund scholarship program, visit The49Fund.org.

Love and Kindness on the Lawn Sunday, June 9, 12:30-2 p.m.

Dr. Phillips Center for the Performing Arts, Orlando Join the One Orlando Alliance at Seneff Plaza in downtown Orlando to honor the spirit of #OrlandoUnited! This free event will feature local music and food trucks. Event organizers will be taking a “giant heart” photo with attendees at 1:30 p.m. and Puja Madan will lead a group meditation at the event’s conclusion. Love and Kindness on the Lawn is part of Orlando United: Acts of Love and Kindness currently going on.

Visit ActLoveGive.org for more information.

Annual Pulse Remembrance Ceremony Wednesday, June 12, 7-8 p.m.

Pulse Interim Memorial, Orlando Join the onePULSE Foundation at the Pulse Interim Memorial in an hour of remembrance and tribute to the 49 lives taken. The event is open to the community. The Annual Remembrance Ceremony will bring together Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer, Orange County Mayor Jerry Demings and include reflections from local spiritual leaders and community leaders as well as songs and programming to honor the victims, survivors and first responders. For more information, visit onePULSEFoundation.org.

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Wins & Losses State Rep. Carlos Guillermo Smith talks about the 2019 legislative session Jeremy Williams

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RLANDO | Florida’s 2019 legislative session wrapped with a $91 billion budget and with less than 200 of the more than 1,800 bills filed surviving on May 4.

“For all intents and purposes, this legislative session was a disaster for Floridians. But the budget was decent,” says State Rep. Carlos Guillermo Smith. “That is my assessment. The budget was just ok and [the Republican House majority] destroyed everything else.”

Smith points to bills passed that negatively impact felon voting rights, immigration, public schools and gun control as key points this session that voters should be troubled by.

“Just a year after Parkland; after teachers, students, parents and pretty much everyone else begged Tallahassee not to do this, they passed a law to arm teachers in our public school classrooms,” Smith says.

The House approved the measure allowing teachers to carry guns on campus May 1 with a vote of 65-47.

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“Floridians voted to restore voting rights for returning citizens and ex-felons by more votes than they voted for any candidate on the ballot statewide,” Smith says. “Republicans then decided that they were going to undo Amendment 4.”

Amendment 4, which restored the voting rights of Floridians with felony convictions after they complete all terms of their sentence including parole or probation, passed in 2018 with nearly 65% of the vote.

Lawmakers then passed a measure requiring repayment of financial obligations before voting rights could be restored.

Another bill—or rather bills— that received no movement in the legislative session this year was the addition of sexual orientation and gender identity to the Florida Civil Rights Act of 1992. The Florida Competitive Workforce Act (FCWA) would make it illegal to terminate a person from their employment, force them to leave a business or evict them from their home simply for being LGBTQ. The bill has been introduced in some form since 2007.

This year, the Florida Inclusive Workforce Act (FIWA) was

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introduced one day after the FCWA and only focused on workplace protections. Smith supports the FCWA and believes that if the current leadership in Tallahassee would hear the bill that it would easily pass.

“The FCWA had over 70 co-sponsors in this last session,” Smith says. “We have the votes we need to pass this in the House and the Senate, it’s time that Tallahassee moves forward with it so we can finally pass that into law.”

While things didn’t go exactly according to plan, Smith admits that the start of his second term wasn’t all disastrous.

“Coming back, I think everyone fully understood what I stood for and what my policy goals were,” Smith says. “I think a huge difference that I saw this year was we had so many more new lawmakers that really stepped up to be fierce and authentic champions alongside me.

Having people serving in the Florida House like Rep. Anna Eskamani, Rep. Cindy Polo, Rep. Fentrice Driskell, Rep. Margaret Good; notice they’re all women.”

Smith and colleagues were able to allocate $500,000 in state funds for the Pulse memorial and museum, as well as increase spending from $2.7 million in 2018 to $21.25 million for arts and cultural programs statewide.

“We really elevated that issue this year and created more awareness of arts funding to our economy as well as the character and culture of Florida and once again we were successful,” Smith says.

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Polk Pride rises up for fifth annual celebration Ryan Williams-Jent

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AKELAND, Fla. | Polk Pride will hold its fifth annual celebration June 8-15, rising up to honor the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall riots.

“Polk Pride’s fifth year promises to be bigger and better than ever,” Polk Pride President Scott Guira says. “Events are planned to reach every member of the community, inclusive of all backgrounds, and will surely be a great time no matter if this is someone’s first Pride or fiftieth Pride.”

The celebration is an event of the Lakeland Youth Alliance, the 501(c)(3) which provides a safe space for LGBTQ youth and PFLAG of Polk County, an LGBTQ support group. They aspire to be the premier platform for education and entertainment for the local LGBTQ community.

It was formed to create a larger LGBTQ presence in Polk County, Executive Board Member Dustin Shay recalls, and founded to promote activism, celebration and visibility.

“Those principles are still holding true,” Shay says.

“We’re not Tampa and we’re not Orlando—there’s still a heavy need in the Polk County area to provide a safe space and opportunities for activism and celebration.” This year’s theme is “Rise UP,” he adds, commemorating the organization’s guiding principles and Stonewall.

Ahead of this year’s festivities, which begin with a launch party at Lakeland Pulse June 8 from 9 p.m.-2 a.m., advocates are invited to attend Pride proclamation readings throughout the county June 3-4. “We’ve received proclamations from just about every major city or municipality in Polk,” Shay notes. “We’re not just throwing a big party, this is activism; the visibility is important.”

The celebration will offer a wide array of events. Drag Queen Brunch will be held June 9 at 11:30 a.m. and Miss Polk Gay Pride/Miss Polk Gay Pride Newcomer 2019 will be held June 10 at 6 p.m., each at Masons Live.

Pride for Youth and Pride in Faith gatherings will follow.

LGBTQ youth and allies ages 13-20 will celebrate the former June 12 from 7-9 p.m. at Skate World Lakeland. The latter’s interfaith worship service will be held at Beacon Hill Fellowship June 13 from 7-9 p.m.

Pride Kickoff, a reception and cocktail party, will be held June 14 from 7-10 p.m. at the Peggy Brown Building, gearing up for Pride in the Park June 15. The main event, held at Munn Park from 10 a.m.-3 p.m., will feature 100 vendors and entertainment running for the event’s entirety.

Emcee Trishelle Michaels will welcome fellow drag entertainers Allegra Williams, Crystle Chambers, Ja’Staria Sherrington, Japonica Werk and the newly-crowned Miss Polk Gay Pride and Miss Polk Gay Pride Newcomer to the main stage. The Central Florida Sounds of Freedom Band & Color Guard and Tampa Bay favorites Halcyon will also perform. Pride After Dark will close out Polk Pride 2019 from 9 p.m. until midnight at Lkld Live.

“We encourage people to come out, not just to Pride in the Park but to all of our events over the course of the week,” Shay says. “In our current political climate it’s important that we all have a place where we can express ourselves and come together as a community.”

For more information about Polk Pride 2019, visit PolkPrideFL.com.

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Economic Equality City of St. Petersburg seeks to recognize LGBTQ-owned businesses Ryan Williams-Jent

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T. PETERSBURG | The City Council will vote on a resolution June 6 to recognize LGBTQ-owned businesses in the city’s small business enterprise (SBE) program to promote a more inclusive economy.

The effort was led by St. Petersburg City Councilmember Gina Driscoll, an advocate for affordable housing and the city’s reduction of single use plastics. If passed, the resolution will recognize businesses which are at least 51% owned and operated by LGBTQ individuals and monitor the usage of LGBTQ-owned businesses in St. Petersburg’s procurement of goods and services.

St. Petersburg’s SBE program currently certifies SBEs for contracting opportunities in construction, professional services, goods and supplies. Working in conjunction with The Greenhouse, the city’s facility for starting and growing local business, SBEs are provided business counseling, networking and specialized

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assistance with access to capital and credit for startups.

Once included in the program, St. Petersburg will provide LGBTQ-owned businesses with training to ensure they are familiar with how to conduct business with the city and that they are informed about procurement opportunities.

The resolution will become effective immediately once passed.

The measure follows a similar initiative passed in Orlando last April, by design. “I saw the Watermark article on the Orlando announcement, that they were going to establish this category within the city for LGBTQ businesses, and it caught my eye,” Driscoll recalls. “St. Petersburg has a strong commitment to the LGBTQ community and to celebrating the diversity and inclusiveness that we all enjoy here—it sounded like it would be a great fit for our city.”

Driscoll researched the initiative and collaborated with city staff to begin work on the resolution. “In addition to standing up and saying that I’m an ally and I support the LGBTQ community, this resolution gives me an opportunity to actually do something that can help,” she says.

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Mayor Rick Kriseman joined in Driscoll’s excitement. “His response was just as I expected it to be, which was enthusiastic and encouraging,” Driscoll says. “He was fully on board.

“It means that he’s going to stand with me to make sure that we implement these practices,” she continues. “It was an affirmation that he stands with me, with both of us as allies, to really do more to create a more inclusive economy for St. Petersburg.”

“The city of St. Petersburg is committed to providing all business owners, including historically-underrepresented business owners, with equal opportunities to compete and succeed,” St. Petersburg LGBTQ Liaison Jim Nixon adds from the mayor’s office. “We are committed to providing small businesses, including LGBTQ-owned small businesses, with training programs and services to ensure businesses are familiar with how to do business with the City of St. Petersburg and are informed about procurement opportunities.

Monitoring usage of LGBTQ-owned businesses in the procurement of goods and services for the City of St. Petersburg is an important part of that commitment.”

“I would encourage anyone who supports this to please come and let us know,” Driscoll says of the June 6 council meeting. “Our vote is going to reflect your voice.”

City Council will vote on the measure in City Hall’s Council Chamber June 6 at 8:30 a.m. For more information, visit StPete.org.

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ORT LAUDERDALE, Fla. | Planned Parenthood is now offering hormone therapy and other services for transgender patients in Florida, starting with two health centers in Miami this week. It plans to expand statewide within the year.

Hormone therapy is utilized within the transgender and gender nonconfirming communities for the purpose of allowing individuals to more closely align their sexual characteristics with their gender identity. Oral, topical and injectable hormones would address issues like facial hair, redistribution of fat and muscle and thicker vocal chords. The prescriptions are written after extensive medical and blood tests

and are only available for patients 18 and older.

The cost varies based on insurance and ranges from roughly $250 to $350 if paying out of pocket.

Planned Parenthood is also training staff on how to better serve the transgender population, including helping them manage routine reproductive check-ups and screenings that may be emotionally uncomfortable.

That could include cancer screenings and annual gynecological exams for those who may have trouble finding a provider or have lost health care because of discrimination.

“We were hearing from our allies and witnessing the kind of barriers that transgender people

experience trying to secure healthcare and that is from just walking into a health facility and being treated with judgment and discrimination,” said Lillian Tamayo, president of Planned Parenthood Florida.

The organization started offering appointments at two locations in Miami May 13 and plans to provide services to 11 counties where they currently provide health care within the year from the Florida Keys up to Jacksonville and over to Tallahassee.

They join about 200 Planned Parenthood affiliates already providing hormone therapy in several other states including California, New York and Virginia.

That’s a 150% increase from

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2016. Almost half of all the Planned Parenthood affiliates nationwide now provide hormone therapy to transgender patients, said Tamayo.

She noted that Planned Parenthood’s services are not just for women and that the organization has offered services for men for years. Those services include testing and treatment for sexually transmitted diseases, working with couples and providing birth control for family planning, HIV testing and referrals and abortion counseling and procedures.

Conservatives were quick to criticize the organization, saying the services are a waste of taxpayer funds and are harmful to transgender patients.

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“Like abortion, these services are not health care. I believe that they’re abusive to the person taking them and create more problems than they solve,” said John Stemberger, president of Florida Family Policy Council.

“Gender dysphoria is a legitimate mental disorder … these people need help and counseling,” he said. “The fact that so many are plunged into suicide and depression has nothing to do with external forces and has more to do with they’re not aligning themselves with reality.”

Planned Parenthood has faced numerous attacks from conservative lawmakers in recent years and attempts to withdraw state and federal funding, but Tamayo said that will not change their mission.

“People deserve access to high quality, compassionate health care. Your health care decisions should be between you and your doctor and not with a politician,” she said. “Our view is to lead with those values.”

For more information, visit PlannedParenthood.org.

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US House passes Equality Act Jeremy Williams

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he Democratic-controlled U.S. House of Representatives passed the Equality Act by a vote of 236-173 on May 17.

“The American people think it’s time to protect the LGBTQ community.

There is nothing more central to the idea of America than the guarantee of equal protection under the law for every single American,” said Rep. David Cicilline (D-R.I.).

Cicilline is the chief sponsor of the Equality Act and the senior most member of Congress who openly identifies as gay.

The Equality Act would amend the Civil Rights Act of 1964 to extend protections to LGBTQ people in the areas of employment, housing, public accommodations and more. A similar bill is in the Senate but faces an uphill fight as the chamber still is under Republican control.

LGBTQ rights organizations praised the House vote on social media shortly after the bill passed.

“It’s the first time a chamber of Congress has approved a comprehensive LGBTQ civil rights bill that would finally provide clear, nationwide protections for LGBTQ people throughout daily life,” wrote the Human Rights Campaign on Twitter.

In a statement, HRC president Chad Griffin called the bill’s passage “a major milestone.”

“No one’s rights should depend on which side of a state or city line they live on, and today we took a giant step forward in our journey toward full equality. This historic victory would not have been possible without the millions of LGBTQ people and our allies who organized, mobilized and turned out to elect a pro-equality majority in 2018. Now, we will take our fight to the U.S. Senate and turn up the pressure on Leader McConnell to allow a vote on this crucial legislation,” Griffin said.

Equality Florida praised the House’s passing of the legislation and called for Florida’s two Republican U.S. senators to pick up the Senate bill and march it through for LGBTQ equality.

“Our mission is and always has been equality for all,” said Nadine Smith, Executive Director of Equality Florida, in a press release. “This is a remarkable moment in the fight for LGBTQ equality. Every American deserves to be treated with dignity and respect regardless of who they are or who they love.

We are grateful to the bipartisan coalition of lawmakers in the Florida congressional delegation who’ve lent their support and votes to this historic measure. And now we turn our eyes to Sen. Rick Scott and Sen. Marco Rubio who can call right now for this bill to be brought to the U.S. Senate floor. History will remember us by the way we protect our most vulnerable communities.”

According to Equality Florida, the Equality Act is supported by over 70% of Americans, 200+ major businesses and 700+ faith organizations.

SERVE Act seeks to aid trans troops discharged under Trump ban Chris Johnson of The Washington Blade, Courtesy of the National LGBT Media Association

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n the wake of the Trump administration implementing its ban on transgender military service, Rep. Chris Pappas has introduced legislation in the U.S. House that seeks to ensure service members discharged under the policy are eligible for care from the Department of Veterans Affairs.

The Securing the Rights our Veterans Earned Act, or SERVE Act, requires the VA to provide health benefits to these troops if they obtain an “Other Than Honorable” or “Entry-Level Separation” discharge because of their gender identity.

Further, the legislation ensures coverage to gay veterans expelled under the now defunct policy of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) who haven’t had their discharge papers corrected.

Pappas, who’s gay and co-chair of the LGBT Equality Caucus, said in a statement the legislation would aid LGBT veterans as LGBT

advocates continue the fight to lift the transgender ban and expedite the process for upgrading the papers for discharges under DADT. “As we work to improve care for veterans and combat the national crisis of veteran suicide, we cannot forget the more than 15,000 transgender service members and veterans whose benefits may be at risk because of this administration’s discriminatory transgender ban and those left behind by [DADT] in years past.” Pappas said. “As we fight to reverse this Administration’s backwards ban, I am proud to introduce legislation that will help protect our LGBTQ veterans and ensure they are able to access the care they need. It’s the least we can do given their selfless service to our country.”

The original co-sponsors of the bill are Rep. Joseph Kennedy III, chair or the Congressional Transgender Task Force, Rep. Jackie Speier, Rep. Gil Cisneros, Rep. Anthony Brown, Rep. Kathleen Rice and Rep. Mike Levin.

“The bias and bigotry of this president should not be used to deny health care to any LGBTQ veteran who has served this nation,” Kennedy said in a statement. “By passing

the SERVE Act, we will protect transgender veterans until the day we overturn this cruel, misguided ban on transgender troops.”

The Department of Veterans Affairs currently has a policy against payment for gender reassignment surgery.

A Democratic aide said the SERVE Act wouldn’t change the care VA currently offers, but instead simply extend those benefits to those being denied that care because of their discharge status.

Andy Blevins, executive director of the newly formed Modern Military Association of America, commended lawmakers for introducing the SERVE Act in a statement.

“Introduction of this Act signals to our nation’s LGBTQ veteran community that our nation’s Congressional leadership stands alongside them and their honorable service,” Blevins said.

“We applaud Congressman Pappas and the cohort of leaders that signed on to co-sponsor this tremendous piece of legislation,” he continued. “We look forward to working alongside each of them.”

A Senate companion to the legislation isn’t yet introduced.

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in other news DC Catholic school to Recognize LGBTQ alumnae couples A 220-year-old Catholic girls’ school in Washington, D.C. will now allow news about same-sex unions in its alumnae magazine. The president emerita of Georgetown Visitation Preparatory School announced the change in early May. She says she was asked to reflect on what it means to “Live Jesus” when it comes to LGBTQ alumnae and the policy change follows “the Gospel commandment of love.” She says the church is clear about its stance on same-sex marriage, but it’s equally clear in teaching that all people are children of God. An Archdiocese of Washington statement expresses disappointment that the school didn’t consult the diocese on a matter involving Catholic identity.

Proposed LGBTQ health organization clears Connecticut House Legislation aimed at better matching members of Connecticut’s LGBTQ community with health and other services has cleared a key vote. The House of Representatives voted 130-6 May 20 in favor of a bill that creates a new organization to recommend to state officials ways to build a safer and healthier environment for the LGBTQ community. The Department of Public Health would provide funds to help the network develop a statewide needs assessment and ultimately help coordinate care with nonprofit agencies. The bill awaits Senate action.

Court: Adoption agency can’t reject same-sex couples A federal court says New York officials weren’t infringing on a Christian adoption agency’s religious freedom by requiring it to serve same-sex couples. A lawsuit filed in U.S. District Court in Albany in December sought to stop the state Office of Children and Family Services from shutting down New Hope Family Services in Syracuse because of its “discriminatory” policy regarding child placements. In dismissing the lawsuit, the court said it found no anti-religious bias in the state’s nondiscrimination policies.

Taiwan lawmakers approve same-sex marriage bill Taiwan became the first country in Asia to allow same-sex couples to marry May 24 after lawmakers approved a bill that extends marriage rights to same-sex couples on May 17. The vote took place less than seven months after a referendum on whether to extend marriage rights to same-sex couples failed. Taiwan’s Constitutional Court in May 2017 ruled the provision of the island’s civil code that does not allow same-sex unions is unconstitutional. The landmark ruling also said same-sex couples could legally marry within two years if Taiwanese lawmakers fail to “amend or enact relevant laws” that allow them to do so.

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e live in a weird

time. That may be the understatement of the year if I were talking about the political world here and abroad or even the amazing technological advances that seem to make it into the headlines almost every day.

I’m talking about the odd social world that permeates our everyday lives, either in person or through our computer and cell phone screens. This new (or maybe not so new) elitist trend of making a public point of sharing our dislike of popular things and making a big deal about it has got to stop. It’s exhausting and a waste of energy.

One case in point: HBO’s “Game of Thrones.”

I’ve overheard numerous people proudly say or post on social media about how the have never seen “not even one episode. Not. One. Ever.” It’s a statement people applaud or high-five over.

Well, okay. Good for you, I guess?

This elitist take on something others enjoy is pointless and just ridiculous. I’m not saying we shouldn’t share that we’re not invested like others are or that we have a different opinion on something. That’s how conversation works. But to do so in a way to disparage or insult someone with a passion is just, well, stupid.

Other easy targets seem to be the Marvel Universe or any popular musician who’s in town for a concert.

People talk or post about how they are the “only LGBTQ person” not at a concert or in a movie theater during a big premiere.

Here’s a secret: no one cares! There is a point of pride of being in that minority or the apparent victim of some self-proclaimed loneliness.

I can only assume there is some kind of twisted joy in making that announcement—otherwise, why even

make statements like these?

But it’s something I just don’t understand. Maybe my perspective has changed with age, or maybe it has something to do with my non-combative personality.

Pop culture is an odd animal. Often, a phenomenon will enter into our culture and have a fan base that lasts years or even decades. On the other side of the spectrum, things that gain popularity are sometimes looked back on years later as a kind of comic relief. Pet rocks come to mind. So do the Milli Vanilli cassette tapes I used to own.

Okay, if I’m being honest, I probably still have them in a box somewhere.

The lip-synching pop duo is comical today, yes, but it was music I enjoyed as a teen that will still transport me to specific time and place in my life. Pet rocks were admittedly before my time, but I’m sure they were popular for a reason and are a cherished memory for those who owned one.

My point is we shouldn’t mock others for enjoying something that we simply aren’t interested in. It doesn’t hurt me when someone is into the new “Star Wars” film or the film franchise’s upcoming expansive exhibit at Disney World, for example.

Staying in that same vein, my nerdy excitement over the renewal of “Star Trek: Discovery” or Fox’s “The Orville” has zero impact on someone who is more excited about new season of “The Bachelorette” or the next boy band appearing on late night television.

Elitism is a strange human behavior that is only exacerbated by social media. Placing oneself on a pedestal simply because of a lack of supposed conformity is obnoxious— and if we’re being honest, it’s anti-diversity.

From my perspective, the LGBTQ community is surprisingly and extremely guilty of this. Being proud of one’s individuality is respectable. We are all unique, after all. But attacking

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or belittling others, whether they are in the community or not, is a waste of energy and really goes against what the whole equality movement is about.

Using myself in the following scenario, let me ask this: How can I be an outspoken, proud supporter

One is a basic battle for fundamental rights of our fellow neighbors. The other is strictly about a hobby or a preference of entertainment.

But the diverting actions from the same individual are confusing and only lessen any arguments I may have as a supporter of, well,

Dance along with all the other music lovers during that concert that others may not be interested in. And for God’s sake, if you’re just not interested in something, don’t try to make yourself some kind of weird martyr.

Just let people enjoy what they want to enjoy.

of transgender rights and equality and promote myself as an open-minded ally who supports discussion, when at the same time I shame someone else for enjoying a form of entertainment that happens to feature dragons, dwarves and characters with difficult-to-spell names?

I understand that on the surface, the two positions are very different socially.

anything really.

Doesn’t diversity come in all different forms? True, we typically think of race, sexuality or gender identity when that term is used. But it can—and should—embrace so much more.

So go and enjoy your “Game of Thrones” viewing parties and discuss whether the end of the series was amazing or disappointing.

Your disinterest in what others enjoy or have a passion about is way more uninteresting than you might expect.

Elitism is a strange human behavior that is only exacerbated by social media.

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Steve Blanchard is the former editor of Watermark and currently works in Public Relations. He lives in Tampa with his husband and their two dogs.

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The Evolution of Us The top 6 leadership competencies every LGBTQ+ leader (yes: that’s you!) should know and grow

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e’ve all seen them

in the breakroom or on some cool workplace swag: somewhere in your workplace there’s a list of your employer’s “core values” that anyone within the workplace should embody.

You’ll likely see things like “integrity,” “team work” and “customer focus” listed. This is the social contract that anyone working for your organization should abide by.

Regardless of what those values are, it’s showing time again—especially in today’s modern workplace—that there really are six fundamental competencies that any LGBTQ+ Leader—regardless of workplace, profession, level within the business or role—should focus their energy on if they want to not just survive but thrive in today’s workplace. And the best part, as a member of the LGBTQ+ Community, you probably already have an awesome handle on most of them.

You may be thinking, “Wait a minute, Steve: you say ‘leader,’ but I’m not a leader.” Shenanigans! A leader really is anyone who needs to influence and lead within the organization. That could be a department head leading a corporate function, a project manager leading a team to accomplish a goal, an individual contributor with no formal leadership authority but still needs to get their stuff done; everyone within today’s workplace is indeed a leader one way or another.

In short, if you’re in a work situation where you need to interact with co-workers, bosses, direct reports or customers, then guess what, friend?

Congrats, you’re a leader! WOOHOO! Why these six competencies?

There’s been a lot of conversation about what are “the right” competencies that someone serious about their own leadership development should focus on. But when you look at the field, the latest books on the topic and what experts “out there” are focusing their energy on, it’s really these six: Being Authentic, Having Leadership Courage, Leveraging Empathy, Using Inclusive Communication, Building Relationships and Shaping Culture.

1. Being Authentic. A smart LGBTQ+ leader is one who’s authentic. They conduct business as their true selves. Nothing erodes trust by being insincere and fake. Authentic leaders are genuine.

2. Having Leadership Courage. Leadership courage isn’t that action hero kind of courage, but it’s being brave enough to do the right thing, even if it’s against the majority. Having courage allows us to not get stuck in a rut, but to try new things, be innovative, have those more challenging conversations, ask “why are we doing it this way?” and be able to speak up and put themselves out there.

3. Leveraging Empathy.

A leader who leverages empathy puts themselves in other people’s shoes. They think about situations from not just their own position but that of the other person.

4. Inclusive Communication. So much can be said about effective communication leading to leadership success, but let’s focus on just one aspect: effective listening.

Smart LGBTQ+ leaders who engage in effective listening show respect and that they are paying attention

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to the person speaking.

5. Building Relationships.

Psst. Here’s a big, giant, crazy secret: Building relationships leads to leadership success. It’s not to say the other leadership competencies aren’t important, but if you focus on building relationships

executive sponsor (that could be you!), (2) dedicate someone(s) to manage the change process, (3) apply a structured approach and process to the change, (4) engage with team members and encourage their participation, (5) communicate frequently and

but you’ll also improve the performance of those around you and your organization. And—added bonus! —that makes the workplace just a little more enjoyable for everyone. Now that you know, go grow!

using some of the other competencies here, you can accomplish anything.

6. Shaping Culture. As a smart LGBTQ+ leader, you’ll want to shape and influence your organizational culture for the better. How can you do this? Through ensuring the six parts of a true change management program are in place: (1) mobilize an active and visible

openly, and (6) integrate and engage with effective project management best practices.

Being a smart and effective LGBTQ+ Leader isn’t easy, and there’s so much you can do to either start or continue to grow as a leader. But, by focusing on these six competencies as a starting point, you will not only “amp up” your own leadership effectiveness,

Dr. Steve Yacovelli (“The Gay Leadership

If you’re in a work situation where you need to interact with co-workers, bosses, direct reports or customers, then guess what, friend? Congrats, you’re a leader! WOOHOO!

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Representatives

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Equality

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talking points The fact that I am a nonbinary actor playing a nonbinary character on a major television show is humbling and gratifying … When I was a young person it would have meant a great deal to me if I had seen a nonbinary character on television.

— Actor Asia Kate Dillon discussing Showtime’s “Billions”

‘Arthur’ character Mr. Ratburn comes out, gets married

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he PBS cartoon “Arthur,” focusing on the titular aardvark, his animal friends and their elementary school adventures, kicked off its 22nd season by revealing that one of its lead characters is gay. In “Mr. Ratburn and the Special Someone,” Arthur and his friends Buster, Muffy and Francine assume that their teacher Mr. Ratburn is marrying a woman named Patty, voiced by openly LGBTQ actress Jane Lynch. They soon learn that he is marrying her brother instead: an aardvark and local business owner named Patrick. Alabama Public Television opted not to air the episode. In a statement to PEOPLE, PBS said that “PBS KIDS programs are designed to reflect the diversity of communities across the nation. We believe it is important to represent the wide array of adults in the lives of children who look to PBS KIDS every day.”

to

protect LGBTQ Americans in May 2019 — 228 Democrats and 8 Republicans.

173 Republicans

voted

against it.

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Jazz Jennings heads to Harvard

“I

Am Jazz” star and LGBTQ activist Jazz Jennings has been accepted to Harvard University and will attend the Ivy League in the fall. The 18-year-old posted a photo of herself wearing a Harvard sweatshirt captioned with the hashtag “#Harvard2020” on May 15. “I am so stoked for this next chapter of my life! Feeling so blessed and grateful right now,” she wrote. “Thank you so much to my incredible family for your unconditional love and support; none of this would be possible without all of you. I can’t wait for what’s to come.” TLC’s “I Am Jazz” recently wrapped its highest-rated season, averaging 1.4 million total viewers per episode. Its sixth season will air in 2020.

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Barry Manilow dishes on closeted decades

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inger Barry Manilow, responsible for hits like “Mandy,” has opened up about his decades in the closet. The 75 year old, who came out in 2017, told the Daily Mail that coming out earlier would have hurt his career. “I went through many, many years when I couldn’t do that,” Manilow shared. “It was stupid then but it was true. Everybody knew it; we had to watch out for making a mistake. Not that everybody didn’t know, people are very smart.

When I started, I knew I was gay, I had a hit record and I was on the cover of Teen Beat magazine.

Now what do I do?” Manilow’s Las Vegas residency plays now through October.

CW releases first ‘Batwoman’ trailer

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he CW has released the full trailer for its Ruby Rose-starring series “Batwoman.” Rose, who identifies as a lesbian and genderfluid, plays Kate Kane—the cousin of Bruce Wayne/Batman.

In the trailer, Kate learns her love interest Sophie (Megan Tandy) is kidnapped. She finds Wayne’s secret lair and decides to utilize his batsuit to rescue Sophie and save Gotham City as Batwoman.

“I need you to fix his suit,” Kane tells Wayne’s assistant. “The suit is literal perfection,” he replies. “It will be,” she corrects him, “when it fits a woman.” The CW’s “Batwoman” is the first television series to feature a lesbian superhero as its lead and will air Sundays at 8 p.m. this fall.

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Friends Talking Pulse NPR’s The 3 Wise Guys reflect on the three-year mark of the Pulse shooting

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he 3 Wise Guys” radio show

brings together the voices of three religious leaders of seemingly disparate faiths—Imam Muhammad Musri, Rabbi Steven Engel and Reverend Bryan Fulwider—and finds common ground. The show has aired in Central Florida on 90.7 WMFE since 2012.

In the weeks following the Pulse shooting, in several episodes, The 3 Wise Guys tried to help us make sense of this senseless tragedy, providing comfort for many in the process.

Watermark sat down with the trio to

look at where we are now three years later. What follows is a shortened version of that conversation. An extended version will air on WMFE on June 11.

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When the Pulse shooting happened, I think a majority of us said a prayer—no matter our faith or our background— that we hoped this atrocity would be the one that wakes everyone up and things would change. Since then, there have been other mass shootings, including one in Las Vegas where the body count was even higher. What can be done?

THE REV: For us in Central Florida what happened on the early morning of June 12 was such a traumatic event.

I think partly because no matter where you live, no matter who you are, you believe this is not going to

happen in my world; it’s not going to happen in my neighborhood. We think we’re immune. The sheer amount of disbelief in the beginning that this could be happening here was part of those early moments. Then we began to check to see if people we knew had been at the club that night. We began to text around and talk to people that we knew might have been there and then we began to get the more official calls.

We talked to filmmaker Dan Karslake who happened to be in Orlando a week after Pulse promoting a new

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documentary and he said one of the most difficult things about this is how it has religion running all through it. The young people at the club, a lot of them, would not have been welcomed in churches the Sunday morning after this happened because they’re gay or lesbian, because they’re transgender, because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. There was the part of it where it was a person of a Muslim faith who had been identified as the shooter.

I think it’s important we talk about where religion has been, where it is and where it needs to go in terms of acceptance and welcoming the LGBTQ community because we still have a long way to go.

THE RABBI: I think that there is another level to this also and that is the level of violence that is part of our culture.

I think that certainly the LGBTQ community is no stranger to violence in general, but this level of violent taking of life in such a heinous way was a wakeup call to some who had not realized they had been sitting on the sidelines. I’m not saying this person wasn’t responsible, but when you say things in your religious institutions that are not friendly and not welcoming to people who are different from you and those people are attacked you need to take some responsibility.

You’re asking what the answer is? I’m not saying there is an answer, but before you find it you have to really define what the problem is. I think one of the problems is an acceptance of violence as a means to express our dissatisfaction, that we find violence to be an acceptable means [of communication].

Not only physical violence; but violence with words, violence through intent, the violence about what we say about other people. Those are all forms of violence which ultimately lead to death.

THE IMAM: We were all taken off guard with what happened on the morning of June 12 and especially for us and the Muslim community. We were, as we are now, in the month of Ramadan, a month of fasting

where the focus is on prayer and on seeking God’s forgiveness.

When I was awakened by a call from law enforcement to come to the scene, I learned quickly that the attacker or the murderer had gone and cased several locations where he found a police presence and so he did not carry out his murder elsewhere and found this an easy target. On one hand you look at the randomness of violence that some people carry out these heinous crimes and kill a lot of people without real reason.

Out of that discussion presumably there would be a change in laws; is that something you feel is needed? How are they tied together?

THE REV: Since Pulse, the League of Women Voters helped to pull together a statewide coalition that now has I think 130 to 150 organizations involved in what is called the Florida Coalition to Prevent Gun Violence. That group had two basic pieces of legislation that they put before the state

What’s so frustrating is I have good friends who are active gun enthusiasts. They love you to have guns and shoot guns, they’re very responsible gun owners. I said to one of them you know you’re not going to agree with me on this, but I really think we need to get rid of the long guns. This friend of mine said, “No, I actually agree with you. I have one, but I don’t need it and that [could] help stop this kind of craziness of the mass shootings.” Since Sandy Hook, every single long gun that’s been used in a mass shooting

The choice that the Orange County School District made not to arm teachers is a message to Tallahassee that wherever and whenever we can defy the spread of guns and gun violence we’re going to do that.

— Imam Muhammad Musri

We saw that with the Las Vegas shooting. As the rabbi said, the culture of violence is being promoted in movies and people feel like everybody should get a gun and go out and act on their fears. And so the question that you posed about what could come out of this is a serious discussion in our country about the place of guns, about mental illness, about how we treat each other, because it seems like every time something like this happens our politicians say it’s not the time to talk about this. Then we are hit a week or two weeks later with another mass tragedy.

legislature now three years running with absolutely no response on these two particular pieces. One is universal background checks. It’s the simplest thing in the world and 90% of Americans say, “Yes, we should have universal background checks and everyone should be registered.”

It should be a no-brainer and we can’t get the legislature either in the state or nationally to enact that.

The second piece is on long guns—AR-15s, AK-47s, that kind of gun—that we no longer sell them. You can’t even begin to get an entertainment on that or large capacity magazines, it doesn’t even get to committee.

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has been purchased just days, or weeks at most, before the act of violence. Can you say it wouldn’t have happened if you didn’t sell it? Maybe not, but it sure would make it more difficult.

THE RABBI: How do you move people to action? I think if we look at our history and our country there are two ways that people are moved to action and both, in a way, represent the division in our country. One is that a person feels collective responsibility. In other words: what happens to everyone is my responsibility. The other is a camp that says I’m not going to

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do anything until it affects me personally.

I think we’re missing an opportunity for some amount of dialogue to bring those two groups of people together and it’s not just political parties. If you bring these two together, I think that we may be able … to force legislators to do what we want to do. The voices just haven’t been loud enough. Look at the Parkland kids. That’s a great example of people that don’t usually have power who garnered power because they brought people together who felt a collective responsibility in their town no matter what their political persuasion and they made some difference. Now it’s not all the way, but look, a group of high school kids—it’s almost an embarrassment that they did what they did and then we as adults sit on the sideline and we can’t get anything done.

Do you think there is more our local government could be doing?

THE RABBI: It raises a larger issue of what rights does a city or county have versus what a state or the federal government has. In some cases that local government is tied by what happens up in Tallahassee. They’ve already enacted some legislation, for instance, that sanctuary cities will not be permitted in Florida.

Sometimes I think that a city may have to exhibit some form of civil disobedience toward the state government or federal government if they think the issue is wrong.

THE REV: That’s where it’s going to take a great deal of creativity, thoughtfulness and community involvement to push the boundaries. As the rabbi said you may have to step into civil disobedience as a community and say we’re going to have more strict or careful laws around this and we’re going to go ahead and take the court system. We don’t want to, in any way, indicate they’re not great leaders. Their hands are tied in a lot of ways. There are decisions that have to be made by all of us, together.

THE IMAM: The choice that the Orange County School District made not to arm teachers is a message to Tallahassee that wherever and

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whenever we can defy the spread of guns and gun violence we’re going to do that. The teachers went to Tallahassee and said, “We don’t want this.

You are choosing it for us, but we don’t want this, we are not asking for it.” We see that Tallahassee, instead of going with the direction of the people, it’s going the opposite direction.

The students from Parkland went to ask for something and they were given something else and that is a sad state of affairs. We as the voters have to remember this. When you vote you have to know that there are consequences for voting. Each and every one of us indirectly is responsible for the state of affairs we are living through. If we want change to happen every person who can vote should go out and vote their conscience and bring us the change we aspire to.

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The Australian pop duo talk love, music and body glitter ahead of Girls In Wonderland Kirk Hartlage

F or better or worse,

Australian identical twin sisters Jessica and Lisa Origliasso— aka progressive pop act The Veronicas—give new meaning to the idea of exposure.

They were the first Australian artists ever to have a single be certified Platinum in the U.S. with over 1 million paid downloads of their 2007 single “Untouched.” Their relationships—with their partners and with each other—not only frequently fuel tabloids across the globe, they’ll likely be on display on their upcoming MTV reality series. And then there was that time they played a nationallybroadcast awards show topless.

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But it’s been a few tumultuous years—five, to be exact—since the duo have exposed any new music. During that time Jessica experienced a very public breakup with her former girlfriend, and she-who-would-becomeBatwoman, actress Ruby Rose; meanwhile Lisa married her longtime boyfriend actor Logan Huffman. But with the recent debut of their new single “Think of Me,” The Veronicas are back from hiatus on a creative high and with an LGBTQ-focused approach of exposing fans both new and old to their art.

To celebrate their return to music, the twins are embarking on a three-city tour of the U.S. this June, helping LGBTQ fans celebrate Pride month. The first appearance will be during Orlando’s Big Gay Weekend at the Girls in Wonderland’s Signature Event on June 1 at BB King’s at Pointe Orlando. The Veronicas will also headline Pride concerts in Chicago and New York later in the month.

“We’ve played Orlando several times and the community there is just beautiful,” Jessica says.

“We’re excited to come during Pride month and just celebrate the community there. It’s been

quite a few years since we’ve played shows in the U.S.” In addition to playing their signature sound of progressive pop, music that has seen three of their 10 Top 10 hits reach no.

movie “Heathers,” someone they saw as a cool, unique chick with an attitude and a good representation of the music they were looking to make.

“It’s pretty crazy that quote

and more self-aware and independently minded.”

With early hits such as “4ever” and “Untouched,” The Veronicas established themselves as pop progressives,

This was the second song written for the album. We just drew from experiences of having those very vulnerable feelings you have after a breakup, reflecting on the relationship.

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1 in their Australian homeland, The Veronicas also hope to also play tourists when here.

“Lisa’s never been to Disney World but I have,” Jessica says, dispelling the myth that twins spend all of their time together.

Referring to the Pacific Ocean, she adds that “we live just over the pond in Los Angeles most of the time … but it just doesn’t compare to Disney World.”

When they first appeared on the music scene the girls were asked about the origin of their band’s name. They credited Winona Ryder’s character Veronica from the

lives on!” Jessica says.

“That character embodied a lot of independence and rebel spirit,” Lisa adds.

But that was 15 years ago—and certainly a Veronica can evolve, no?

“I think we’ve become stronger in this industry, as sisters, as songwriters,” Lisa says. “In every way, really. Going through life, navigating your own identity. Being twin sisters is an interesting journey. You’re possibly being influenced by each other, by peers … I think, if anything, we’ve become stronger

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unafraid to combine orchestral strings, rock guitars and edgy lyrics, frequently adorned in classic punk stylings of black and white. The girls’ latest, “Think of Me,” shows the continued evolution of the band’s look and sound and provides a creditable and believable next chapter in the Veronicas’ journey. The song acknowledges the bitter acceptance of the end of a relationship, while the video’s bright colors and gorgeously-filmed panoramic shots sarcastically reflect better and brighter days gone by and perhaps of those yet to come.

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“As we went into the studio to create this album I was coming out of the backend of a bit of a breakup while Lisa was coming in to getting married,” Jessica says. “This was the second song written for the album. We just drew from experiences of having those very vulnerable feelings you have after a breakup, reflecting on the relationship.”

If there’s any reflection in “Think of Me” that’s sure to gain attention, it’s in the song’s refrain, where the girls ask a not-oft-heard musical question: “Do you miss me in your sheets?

Do you miss me in your bed?

The way we talked all night, the way I gave you head?”

“Ha!” Jessica laughs. “You know what? People have really embraced that! When we wrote that lyric it was meant to be a very raw thought. It was a very vulnerable thought. There’s an idea that after a relationship there are certain things you consider to be sacred between the two of you, and that’s one of those things.”

But the relationship that likely affects their songwriting the most is their own as identical twin sisters.

“I think there’s a terrific understanding and a confidence in the room, that you have someone who understands the way you work so well,” Lisa says. “You’re usually on the

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same page. Then there’s the element of harmony, and when you’re recording, that you’re able to create something a bit different. It makes for a unique experience.”

As for notable differences, Jessica says that while she likes to start with lyrics first, her sister prefers to start with a song’s melody when crafting a new tune.

The Veronicas have also made a name for themselves with their edgy live performances. At the 2006 ARIAs, the Australian equivalent of the Grammys, the duo performed their latest single “In My Blood” topless. They wore nothing above the waist bud red glitter body paint, no doubt living their breast life.

“I don’t know how we got away with it, honestly,” Jessica says, laughing. “I think they thought we were more courageous than we were.”

“When you wear something with confidence, you know, no one questions it,” Lisa says.

“Confidence can sell anything,” Jessica adds.

So, should the Orlando audience expect a repeat of that glitter-topped performance?

“Maybe,” Jessica says with a laugh. “If there’s any place to bring it back, it would definitely be there. The meet-and-greet after would be really fun.”

For fans looking for even more exposure from The Veronicas, they won’t have long to wait. MTV Australia has commissioned a new reality show featuring the Origliasso siblings. The series is currently in production and will premiere across MTV global linear and digital platforms in 2019.

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KindRED Pride Foundation combines multiple genres for its inaugural ‘We Are One’ concert

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biggest goal when they decided to launch an annual benefit concert during the newly-named RED Shirt Pride Days was to unify one voice at one time in one location. An event like that could only be called one thing—We Are One. “We Are One: An Extravaganza for Diversity & Inclusion” is “a star-studded fundraiser and benefit concert” bringing together different forms of entertainment and genres to support the nonprofits that support our community.

The concert will take place at the House of Blues at Disney Springs on May 30 starting at 7 p.m. with tickets starting at $40.

Below we highlight some of the amazing talent coming to this inaugural event. For more information and for a full entertainment list, visit KindREDPride.org.

Shangela burst onto the national stage as a contestant on the second season of “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” Along

with competing in season three and “All-Stars” season three, she would go on to be the only queen to appear on three separate seasons as a competitor.

The Texas-native—who is responsible for “Halleloo,” one of “Drag Race’s” most utilized catchphrases— is also an accomplished actor who shared the screen with Mother Monster herself, Lady Gaga, in last year’s massive hit “A Star Is Born.”

Shangela made headlines this year when she performed a Beyonce medley at the GLAAD Awards right in front of the Grammy-winning superstar, receiving a standing ovation from Queen Bey in the process.

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Ty Herndon has been making country music for nearly 25 years. He signed with a major record label in 1995 and within two years released a pair of albums that featured two no.

1 hit singles: “What Mattered Most” and “Living In a Moment.”

In 2014, Herndon did something that was considered risky in the world of country music. He came out as gay and revealed he had been in a relationship with his partner for several years. The announcement made Herndon the first major male country artist to come out publicly and led him into a world of LGBTQ philanthropy, working with organizations like the Trevor Project, GLAAD and Human Rights Campaign.

Herndon has charted on the Billboard 100 with more than 20 songs, has four no. 1 hit singles and has sold over 5 million albums in his country music career.

What seemed taboo only a few years ago in country music is becoming more accepting.

Along with Herndon, the typically conservative music genre can now credit to its roster LGBTQ artists like Brandi Carlile, Billy Gilman, Shane McAnally, Brandy Clark and “We Are One” performer Brandon Stansell.

Born in Tennessee, Stansell was raised on country music but ironically didn’t start to develop his homegrown sound until he moved to Los Angeles. Stansell caught the world’s attention with his brand of “California Country” with the release of his 2016 music video for “Slow Down,” which has more than 1 million views, and his first album of the same name in 2017.

In late 2018, Stansell released the music video for “Hometown,” which depicted a young gay man coming out to his mother, on the CMT network. The video was named one of Rolling Stone’s Top 10 Country Music Videos of the year.

Menudo was at one time the most popular Latin American boy band in the world. The original group of boys (literally boys; they ranged in age from 9 to 13 years old) saw moderate success in the late 1970s and

were launched into superstardom in the 1980s.

The band was as known for their changing lineup as they were for their music. Past members include Grammy-winning artist Draco Rosa and international superstar Ricky Martin.

Menudo seemed to be everywhere in the 80s, releasing hit records and appearing in films, commercials and even on Saturday morning cartoon blocs. In the 90s, Menudo creator Edgardo Diaz sold the name of Menudo and the remaining members formed Latin pop band MDO. After several lineup changes and a break from performing, MDO released a new single and announced a comeback tour in 2018 with members Abel Talamantez, Alexis Grullon, Didier Hernández and Pablo Portillo.

Erin Foley is a comedic triple threat. She writes funny, she acts funny and she stands up funny—well, she does really funny stand-up comedy.

Foley’s sharp wit and rapid-fire delivery have made her a favorite among the late night crowd including Conan O’Brian, Arsenio Hall and Chelsea Handler.

When she isn’t performing stand-up, Foley can be heard on her critically-acclaimed podcast “Sports Without Balls.”

On top of all that, Foley is not only performing at “We Are One,” but she will be co-hosting with Central Florida newscaster Jorge Estevez. She will also headline Girls In Wonderland’s “Out For Laughs Comedy Show” the same weekend.

After Brody Ray finished his audition on the NBC reality competition show “America’s Got Talent,” one thing was known by the entire audience—this performer was going to be a star.

Ray is a transgender singer-songwriter who was born in Nebraska and moved to Nashville to follow his dream to become a country music superstar.

During his “America’s Got Talent” audition, Ray explained that he would be singing Jordan Smith’s “Stand in the Light” because he felt the lyrics mirrored his own life. “This is who I am inside, this is who I am and I’m not going to hide,” he sang to a standing ovation.

While he didn’t make it t the season’s live episodes, Ray utilized the show’s national platform to introduce himself and release three new singles. He launches a 12-city national tour that begins in Orlando with the “We Are One” concert.

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Gulfport Community Players proudly present ‘Next Fall’

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Community Players are known for dazzling their audiences, producing Tampa Bay’s longestrunning, one-act theatrical competition since 2000 and four shows per season since 1980. Now, the nonprofit is ready to celebrate Pride with the LGBTQ-centric “Next Fall.”

“We don’t traditionally do a show in June; our season ends in April and then we come back with the Summer One Acts,” Gulfport Community Players President Eileen Navarro says. “But about two years ago, director Patrick Brafford said he’d really like to do ‘Next Fall.’ Our seasons are planned almost two years out and it got away from us—but about six months ago, we decided to revisit the idea to tie into St Pete Pride month.”

The Geoffrey Nauffts-penned play was originally produced by

megastar Elton John for Broadway and nominated for a Tony Award for Best Play in 2010. “Next Fall” introduces audiences to Luke, who believes in God, and Adam, who believes in everything else, chronicling their unlikely five-year relationship through triumph and tragedy.

“The play centers around the two men and how people react when an unexpected event brings their family and friends together,” Brafford explains. “It has been described as a dark comedy and while the

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darkness overshadows the play, the use of humor allows the audience to experience how a family comes to life.

It truly offers a very contemporary look at life between two very opposite men.”

Brafford is a current board member of Theatre Tampa Bay and has directed several productions for the Players.

He’s been involved in the theatre as a director, writer, designer and stage manager for over 40 years and says that seeing “Next Fall” in New York had such a profound effect on him that he knew he had to direct it.

“I think this play has a universal appeal but is also directly related to the LGBTQ community because it speaks to the truth and doesn’t sugarcoat how difficult relationships can be,” he says. “The author allows an audience to see the love between two men as well as the growth that must take place if a relationship is to survive. It explores religion, coming out to family, losing friends, surviving jobs and trying to discover how we fit in each other’s lives while continuing to remain honest to ourselves.”

As an openly gay man, Brafford says that being able to produce “Next Fall” for audiences has been a delight.

“I am passionate about Pride, what it stands for and how each of us can bring our talents to represent the LGBTQ community in a positive and fulfilling way,” he explains. “I am of an age where I went through being in the closet for too long, being made fun of, being afraid and losing my loved one to AIDS. This deeply moving play allows me the opportunity to bring some of that history to an audience.”

Bringing the production to life are Tampa Bay performers Daniel J. Harris and Taylor X. Taylor, who respectively play Adam and Luke.

Harris, who is also the bar manager for St. Petersburg’s LGBTQ Lucky Star Lounge, has performed nationally and internationally and directed “Gulfport: The Musical,” the Players’ original production celebrating the city’s centennial. “Next Fall” is Taylor’s sixth play and second production under the direction of Brafford.

“I was moved by the storyline and the incredible script,” Harris

says of joining the production. “It felt very important for me to do this show, especially for Pride. In my almost 50 years on this planet, I have personally experienced the feelings of chastisement from the religious community—and especially in our current political climate, I feel like it’s more important than ever to make sure our stories are still being told so we don’t forget how far we’ve come and how far we still need to go.”

“Daniel is just an ace when it comes to the comedy and the energy he brings is just thrilling,” Navarro says.

“It’s fabulous.”

It was during the audition period that Brafford began to see each character through the actors’ delivery of the lines. “The passion and deep-felt honesty they are bringing to their roles is so specific and spot on that I couldn’t imagine doing the play with anyone else at this stage,” he says.

Brafford adds that the cast—which also includes Philip Belcastro, Dan Franke, Elizabeth Bell and Kara Fokianos—has developed into a cohesive and trusting ensemble as they’ve prepared. “Each night at rehearsal we discover something new that can be explored and used,” the director says.

Navarro believes “Next Fall” is a perfect fit for both the Players and the city itself, citing Gulfport’s intrinsic ties to the LGBTQ community with its public library, LGBTQ Resource Center and more. “Gulfport has just a great identity with the LGBTQ community— we don’t have to stretch to say that we’re inclusive,” she muses. “I think we’ve met that challenge and met the mark many times over. We’ve set the standard in many ways; it’s just a great fit.”

It’s her hope that a Pride production will follow annually.

“I would like the June time slot to become a tradition now for the Gulfport Community Players,” Navarro says, with “Next Fall” paving the way.

“I think when people see this play they’re going to be blown away by the fact that it is so comical, so witty and yet deals so successfully with the theme. It’s timeless.”

“Next Fall” plays Thursdays-Saturdays at 8 p.m. and Sundays at 2 p.m. June 6-16 at the Catherine Hickman Theater in Gulfport.

A preview night benefiting Metro Inclusive Health will be held June 5 and $10 tickets are available at MetroTampaBay.org. Regular tickets are $18 online or $20 (cash only) in the lobby before showtime. Watermark readers may utilize the code “PRIDE2019” when purchasing online for a special discount. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit GulfportCommunityPlayers.org or call 727-322-0316.

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Comedy Night with Jeff Jones, May 31, Bloodhound Brew, Orlando. 407-578-5711; BloodhoundBrew.com

Monday, June 3, 6:30-8:30 p.m.

Whippoorwill Beer House & Package Store, Orlando

Orlando’s Big Gay Weekend, May 31-June 2, Parliament House, Orlando. 407-425-7571; ParliamentHouse.com Tidal Wave Party, May 30-June 2, DoubleTree Suites Disney Springs, Orlando. 704-756-5731; TidalWaveParty.com Girls in Wonderland, May 31-June 2, The Grand Orlando Resort, Orlando. 407-396-7000; GirlsInWonderland.com One Magical Weekend, May 31-June 2, Sheraton Orlando Lake Buena Vista Resort, Orlando. 954-448-6831; OneMagicalWeekend.com

Mingle with Equality Florida staff, sponsors and supporters from the Greater Orlando area to learn about the work the organization does in securing statewide LGBTQ equality. Staff will provide updates on the Honor Them With Action Campaign and more at this free event.

Light bites will be provided by Stassio’s Italian Deli, featuring a cash bar. Visit EQFL.org for more information.

Malibu Mayhem Actor Chris Crawford transports audiences to Barbara Streisand’s Malibu mansion mall for freeFall Theatre’s “Buyer & Cellar,” running now through June 9. PHOTO COURTESY THEE PHOTO NINJA

Pentatonix: The World Tour, June 1, Amway Center, Orlando. 407-440-7900; AmwayCenter.com

Love and Kindness on the Lawn, June 9, Dr. Phillips Center, Orlando. 844-513-2014; DrPhillipsCenter.org

Gayme Night Happy Hour, June 4, Stonewall Bar, Orlando. 407-373-0888; StonewallOrlando.com

Weird Al Yankovic, June 10, Hard Rock Live, Orlando. 407-351-5483; HardRock.com

Art Exhibit Featuring Nick Smith, June 5, Southern Craft, Orlando. 407-412-5039; Facebook.com/SouthernCraftBar

Annual Pulse Remembrance Ceremony, June 12, Pulse Interim Memorial, Orlando.

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Pride of Osceola Professional Alliance Happy Hour, June 5, Matador Tacos & Tapas Bar, Kissimmee. 407-963-7710; MadatorTandT.com Florence + the Machine, June 8, Amway Center, Orlando. 407-440-7900; AmwayCenter.com Transpire 2019, June 8, Holiday Inn Orlando East, Orlando. 321-430-5590; TranspireFlorida.com PrideFest Kissimmee, June 8, Lakefront Park, Kissimmee. 407-518-2501; Kissimmee.org

FREAK SHOW, June 11, The Abbey, Orlando. 407-704-6103; AbbeyOrlando.com

TAMPA BAY “Buyer & Cellar,” May 31-June 9, freeFall Theatre, St. Petersburg. 727-498-5205; freeFallTheatre.com Pride Drag Queen Story Hour Extravaganza, June 1, Community Cafe, St. Petersburg. 727-222-6979; CommunityCafeStPete.com

Auction for a Night Out with a Community Leader, June 1, Metro Inclusive Health, St. Petersburg. 727-321-3854; MetroTampaBay.org Evolution of Drag: Drag Through the Decades, June 1, The Palladium, St. Petersburg. 727-822-3590; TIGLFF.com Suncoast Softball League Closing Party, June 2, Tequilas, Tampa. 813-241-9555; TequilasYbor.com Rep. Jennifer Webb on LGBTQ Issues, June 6, Gulfport Public Library, Gulfport.

727-893-1074; MyGulfport.us/ LGBTQ-Resources “Next Fall,” June 6-16, Catherine Hickman Theater, Gulfport. 727-322-0316; GulfportCommunityPlayers.org St. Pete Pride Bowl benefiting BBBS, June 8, Ten Pen Lanes, St. Petersburg. 813-769-3600; BBBSTampaBay.org

Polk Pride Launch Party, June 8, Lakeland Pulse, Lakeland. 863-370-9146; PolkPrideFL.com Miss Polk Gay Pride & Miss Polk Gay Pride Newcomer 2019, June 10, Masons Live, Lakeland. 863-333-0096; MasonsLive.com Pride Skate, June 10, United Skates of America, Tampa. 813-876-5826; UnitedSkates.com Pride in Faith, June 13, Beacon Hill Fellowship, Lakeland.

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“Pride Leadership” Book Coming Out Party Wednesday, June 5, 6–8 p.m.

Shakespeare Theatre, Orlando Join the Metropolitan Business Association (MBA Orlando) for the launch of Steve Yacovelli’s new book, “Pride Leadership: Strategies for the LGBTQ+ Professional to be the Big or Queen of their Jungle” at the monthly MBA Business Mixer. Light bites and first drink provided.

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City Hall, St. Petersburg LGBTQ community advocates and allies will gather at St. Petersburg City Hall as Mayor Rick Kriseman raises the city’s Pride flag to signify the kickoff of Pride month and the upcoming 17th annual St Pete Pride. This year commemorates the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall uprising and will feature guest speaker Jay Chetney, activist and veteran of the Stonewall riots.

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Centre Club, Tampa Join the Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber of Commerce for their annual luncheon, featuring a marketplace expo and Tampa Mayor Jane Castor. This unique opportunity will allow around 150 guests to network with professionals and listen to the mayor speak about the city’s upcoming initiatives and their impact on the LGBTQ community. $45 for members, $55 for not-yet members. For tickets and additional information, visit DiversityTampaBay.org.

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he Rainbow Housing Coalition of Pinellas, committed to developing and providing affordable housing for the disadvantaged, is seeking responses to an online LGBTQ+ Housing Needs Assessment.

“LGBTQ+ people and disabled persons are challenged by the search for welcoming and inclusive housing options,” the organization has shared.

“These individuals face discrimination and even abuse when looking for retirement communities, assisted living, and/or long-term care options.

We aim to enhance the overall quality of life for LGBTQ people by connecting them with safe and friendly housing.”

The coalition exists as a part of Two Spirit Charitable Foundation, Inc., a 501 (c)(3) organization. They have compiled their confidential, 19-question assessment to determine “the actual housing needs of our community and how we might find ways to assist our families,” they shared, “not only the elderly or the disabled, but others who have faced discrimination all their lives because of who they love or how they identify.”​ The coalition adds that the assessment “will take less than two minutes, but your efforts could help someone in our community find affordable housing in a safe and secured environment.” It can be accessed at SurveyMonkey.com/R/7TTPGB9.

For more information about the coalition or to make a donation, call 727-228-2075 or visit RainbowHousingCoalition.com.

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he LGBTQ-owned and operated Bambu the Eco Salon is hosting a two-part experience to educate, entertain and raise money for St. Petersburg’s VFW Post No. 39 beginning June 7.

The salon will present the 1990 documentary “Paris Is Burning” beginning at 7 p.m. The must-see film chronicles New York City’s 1980s ball culture and the African American, Latino and LGBTQ communities involved in its rise. During a brief intermission, performers will provide a history of the ball scene and demonstrate fabulous and fierce voguing techniques.

“We’re trying to fundraise enough to refurbish the VFW’s upstairs theater,” Bambu shared. The salon hopes to update its full stage with air conditioning, new paint, handicapable access and more to allow the facility to host more community events. “They give so much love and we are thrilled to show our gratitude by giving much love right back.”

Organizers are still seeking queens, kings, dancers, performers, drag and voguing enthusiasts to join in on the fun. Participants will be eligible to receive trophies or other prizes. The evening will also feature a full bar, snacks and information about Come OUT St. Pete’s upcoming competitive ball scheduled for October.

The VFW is located at 2599 Central Ave. in St. Petersburg. For more information about the benefit and future fundraising opportunities, call 502-594-6719 or visit BambuTheEcoSalon.com.

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isney released a new series of LGBTQ-themed items ahead of Pride month this June. The items—collectively called the Rainbow Disney Collection—include T-shirts, hats, pins, jewelry, dolls and more, featuring rainbow colors along with Disney mascot Mickey Mouse. The items range in price from $6.95 for a Mickey Mouse button set to $150 for a Fantasyland Castle necklace by CRISLU. The entire collection features more than 30 items. Disney announced that 10% from all Rainbow Disney Collection purchases made from now until June 30 will be donated to GLSEN. Disney first announced a Rainbow Disney Collection in May 2018 that included T-shirts, hats, sunglasses, water bottles, pins and a fanny pack.

Disney’s entire 2019 Rainbow Disney Collection is available for purchase within each of the Disney theme parks and at ShopDisney.com.

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entral Florida Community Arts Director of Theatre Donald Rupe is no stranger to Orlando Fringe, bringing fan favorites “Gorgeous” and “Bitch, Perfect” to the festival in 2018 and 2017, respectively. But he managed to make a big splash with his latest Fringe musical, “From Here.” The new musical and gay love story about an Orlando native who is just trying his best to balance love, his difficult mother and all the things life throws at him along with his tight knit group of friends swept Watermark’s third annual Splash Awards. The Watermark Splash Awards (or “Splashies”) allow our readers to vote on their favorite LGBTQ and LGBTQ-themed shows from the year’s Fringe festival in five categories: Favorite LGBTQ Show, Favorite LGBTQ Director, Favorite LGBTQ Writer, Favorite LGBTQ Lead Performer and Favorite LGBTQ Supporting Performer. “From Here” took home the Splashy for Favorite LGBTQ Show, Donald Rupe won for Favorite LGBTQ Director and Favorite LGBTQ Writer, and Blake Auburn picked up Favorite LGBTQ Lead Performer. A clean-sweep evening by “From Here” was stopped by Rose Helsinger, who won Favorite LGBTQ Supporting Performer for her role in “Leviticus.”

Love speaks through art

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he Orange County Regional History Center is remembering the Pulse tragedy’s three-year mark with an exhibit titled “Love Speaks: Artistic Responses to the Pulse Nightclub Tragedy.” The new exhibit will feature a wide range of media and styles that includes works from across the nation that have never been exhibited in Central Florida. “Love Speaks” is completely bilingual with each piece’s text in both English and Spanish. The exhibit opens June 1 and continues through Sept.

22, with no admission charges from June 8-16.

To learn more about “Love Speaks” as well as the History Center’s permanent Pulse exhibit, visit TheHistoryCenter.org.

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“It was over the whole course of that first weekend we spent together,” Angie says. “Every second was like a too-good-to-be-true moment; I just knew she was definitely my better half that had been missing.”

Angie, who hails from Joplin, Mo., and Harmony, from Tulsa, Okla., made the move to Gulfport together. They both work as assistant managers.

The two first met after Harmony’s daughter Kylie and son Damion put together a profile for her on the dating app Plenty of Fish—without her knowledge.

Reluctantly, Harmony went along with it when a notification caught her eye.

“I opened the message from Angie and began to read her

profile. She seemed so nice and very good looking,” Harmony says. “She was from a small town just up the street from me, less than two hours. I responded later that day and the conversation started with 50 questions, very basic. She nailed every answer.

My heart palpitated. I was so nervous and excited that this could be someone special.”

“I only got a few profiles in and I saw this beautiful smile!” Angie says. “Harmony, now that’s not an average name, and with such an amazing smile I thought, why not? She seemed very sweet, had listed some of the same things we liked in common, so I just sent her a message. Next day I got a reply!”

They clicked when they met.

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(with Kylie’s help) and Harmony said yes. Unfortunately, when they married in Tulsa, Okla., it was not legal. “Angie’s brother is a Presbyterian Pastor in Wisconsin, and due to the laws, he was unable to perform the ceremony for us and our mothers were not in the best conditions to join us on that day.”

But their story has a happy ending—the two will get the chance to renew their vows later this summer on Pass-a-Grille Beach, with Angie’s brother presiding and their mothers there to walk them down the aisle.

“And rest assured, Kylie will be there holding both our hands just like she did five years ago,” Harmony shares.

“We have been living our dreams now, and we are very blessed that our family can take the journey to us this time to be with us and share with us in renewing our vows,” Angie says.

“Angie and I have journeyed 1,500 miles to make this town our home,” Harmony adds about their new, happier life in Florida.

“Life is a journey and the path you choose isn’t always the easiest, but it is always worth it.”

—Aaron Drake

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