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place in my heart. She found her way there when I was in high school and I heard her belting out “If It Makes You Happy” from the car radio for the first time. She had a huge hit in “All I Wanna Do” two years prior but that song did not have the same punch the first single from her second album had on me. I was living in Plant City, Florida at the time. I was a shy, overweight gay kid, living deep in the closet and afraid of the sound of my own voice. No matter how hard I fought who I was I felt that everyone knew I was gay and that the judgment of small-town living was bearing down on me. Then she started singing and that first line of “If It Makes You Happy” hooked me in. “I belong, a long way from here.” Yeah I do. I dreamed of being in a big city, ironically at the time, not because I could

be who I am but because it would be easier to hide in a city with millions of people too concerned with themselves to pay attention to me. Then the chorus, “If it makes you happy / It can’t be that bad / If it makes you happy / Then why the hell are you so sad?” This chorus became my mantra. I repeated it over and over in my head, and not just on that car ride listening to it the first time. More than 20 years later, I still sing this chorus in my head when I doubt myself. It is forever engrained in me as the way I live my life. When I got home, I got out my boom box, a blank cassette tape and switched the radio on to Q105 and got ready at the record

button. For those of you too young to have experienced this process, this is how we got the latest hit single onto a tape. I was not in a financial situation where I could just run out to the music store and buy the CD. After a couple of hours of listening to the radio the DJ announced that the song was going to play and that it was from an artist named Sheryl Crow. I got the song on tape but I needed more. Sheryl had to have other words of wisdom and lyrical life lessons for me to learn. Not long after recording “If It Makes You Happy” I found my way to more Sheryl Crow — Columbia House! I don’t recall which magazine it was, one of Mama’s US Weeklys or Home & Gardens but I came across an ad for Columbia House offering eight CDs for a penny, and in the ad was a picture of Sheryl Crow’s album. I ordered both her two albums that were out at the time, along with albums by TLC, Alanis Morissette, Celine Dion and Melissa Etheridge. When I got the package, I ripped it open and listened to Sheryl Crow on repeat and it felt like she was speaking to me. After listening to her two things became certain to me; first, it wasn’t about whether I would or wouldn’t come out, but how I would decide to do it. The other thing that was certain was that I was going to experience my first run in with a collection agency because in order to get eight CDs for a penny you had to agree to buy a bunch more at full price and that certainly wasn’t happening. If it was her first two albums that brought me to her, it was her third album that solidified Sheryl Crow as my Dalai Lama. “The

Globe Sessions” may be the most perfect album ever recorded and to this day it is still something I listen at least once a week in its entirety. All this talk about Sheryl Crow popped up in my head recently because she released a new album —her eleventh and what she recently said would be her last. The events of my adult life have been filled with the sounds of Sheryl Crow and, while I have many musical loves, she is without a doubt the writer to the soundtrack of my coming out and for that I will forever be grateful. In this issue, we look at 10

[Sheryl Crow] is without a doubt the writer to the soundtrack of my coming out. LGBTQ youth who are making a change in their communities, and I think we can agree a change would do us all good. In A&E, we preview the Fabulous Independent Film Festival in Sarasota and check out Jorge Estevez’s new LGBTQ-themed podcast. In Central Florida news, the Men’s Sauna Association is bringing its annual convention to Orlando, Orlando Mayor earns an LGBTQ endorsement and Hope & Help head to a new home. In Tampa Bay news, EPIC announces it is getting into the 5K run game and Tampa Bay-area lawmakers take the lead pushing for LGBTQ protections.

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our friends on the weekend and I happen to partake in enough libations to get a bit tipsy, I tend to find myself grappling with one of three levels of intoxication. Thankfully it doesn’t happen too often, but the first is “Disney drunk” when it does. It leads to a whole new world of one-man productions featuring every animated classic under the sea. The second is “drive-thru drunk,” in which I spend ridiculous amounts of money on food that goes straight to my hips. The final level is “Democrat drunk,” in which I turn my eye to the political sphere in an effort to detail why it’s necessary to defeat the current president in 2020. Sometimes it’s a combination thereof—and as my husband would probably attest, they’re all as annoying as they sound. “Democrat drunk” tends to culminate in our Lyft ride home with our innocent and

unsuspecting drivers, all of whom have graciously been receptive. As far as I know, my passenger rating also hasn’t dropped, most likely because my husband is there to remind them that I mean well. My discussions stem from the fact that I’m passionate about politics, and while I recognize no political party is perfect, I believe in my party’s platform. It advocates for cooperation rather than conflict, unity instead of division, empowerment in lieu of resentment and stresses that it’s better to construct bridges than it is to build walls. “Every American, no matter their race, sex, ethnicity or national origin, language, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, age, or

disability, is equal, and Democrats are fighting for them,” the party’s platform reads. I believe that. I also believe every Democrat running for president does as well, which is why I find the level of infighting amongst the party ahead of 2020 to be so problematic. As several of my Lyft drivers can confirm, I take no issue with a healthy debate—after all, a primary is supposed to inspire them. I only take issue with voters who publicly tear down candidates who aren’t their first choice. We have many great choices, too, with candidates like former Vice President Joe Biden, Sen. Elizabeth Warren, Sen. Kamala Harris, former housing secretary Julian Castro and Mayor Pete Buttigieg. It’s a wonderful and historically diverse field. While I don’t agree with every would-be nominee’s policy position or every vote they’ve cast over the entirety of their political career, they all share one characteristic I value in a leader more than any other. They’re not Donald Trump. The LGBTQ community’s fight for civil rights is at a crossroads. On Oct. 8, the Supreme Court will hear arguments in three cases involving LGBTQ discrimination in the workplace—weighing if anti-LGBTQ discrimination is a form of sex discrimination, protected under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Just last month, the Trump administration submitted a 34-page brief to the Supreme Court arguing we shouldn’t be protected. We need leaders who support us, and Donald Trump—who appointed two of the justices sitting on the court—does not. While the current administration is deeply rooted in discrimination, of the LGBTQ community and of so many other

marginalized communities of which we are a part, the Democratic candidates for president are not. As we look ahead to 2020 and to one of the most critical legal battles the LGBTQ community has ever faced, it’s important to remember that. We look to the future in other ways as we introduce you to Tomorrow’s Leaders Today in this issue. We showcase 10 LGBTQ youth under 30 who are making a difference in their communities throughout Tampa Bay and Central Florida. Tampa Bay news also turns to 2020, as Equality Florida announces that lawmakers from St. Petersburg and Tampa are

The LGBTQ community’s fight for civil rights is at a crossroads. leading the fight to pass the Florida Competitive Workforce Act next year. We check in with Empath Partners in Care as well, which raised $17,000 with Balance Tampa Bay and will soon benefit from the Great Gay 5K to fight against HIV/AIDS. In Central Florida news, the North American Bathhouse Association heads to Orlando and Mayor Buddy Dyer’s re-election efforts receive Equality Florida’s support. In Arts and Entertainment, the Harvey Milk Festival dazzles audiences with the ninth annual Fabulous Independent Film Festival on Sarasota screens. We also tune into Central Florida news anchor Jorge Estevez’s new LGBTQ podcast. Watermark strives to bring you a variety of stories, your stories. I hope you enjoy this latest issue.

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RLANDO | Equality Florida Action PAC endorsed the re-election of Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer in a Facebook post Aug. 22. “Equality Florida Action PAC is proud to endorse Mayor Buddy Dyer—a champion for our LGBTQ community,” the organization posted. Dyer has been mayor of Orlando since 2003. “During his tenure, the Orlando City Commission created transgender nondiscrimination protections, designated City Hall as the first government building in Florida with ‘all-user’ bathrooms and created a citywide domestic partnership registry before marriage equality was the law of the land. In the months following the tragedy at Pulse, Mayor Dyer led Orlando and the LGBTQ community through an emotional and traumatic recovery, including helping to raise millions of dollars for Pulse families and survivors,” the post continued. Equality Florida Action PAC is the largest organization in Florida devoted to electing pro-equality candidates to all levels of government, according to its website. Last month the organization endorsed Florida Rep. Shevrin Jones for the state’s District 35 Senate seat in the 2020 election.

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RLANDO | The Hope & Help Center of Central Florida will be moving to a new location in Winter Park, the health organization announced in a press release Aug. 28. “Due to increased demand of HIV-related services, the company is relocating to a larger facility,” the release reads. The new facility is located at 4122 Metric Drive, #800 in Winter Park. Hope & Help moved into their previous facility at 707 Mendham Blvd. in Orlando two years ago. “We’ve finally found a location that we believe is home not only for our staff, but for the many people affected by HIV who we serve,” said Lisa Barr, Hope & Help’s executive director, in the press release. “Our new home offers a space exclusively for support groups, a much larger community events room and more offices and exam rooms for our medical clinic. The new location allows us to see more people and better meet their health and wellness needs.” Hope & Help is a not-for-profit health center that specializes in the prevention and treatment of HIV and STDs through testing and treatment in the Central Florida area. For more information, visit HopeAndHelp.org.

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RLANDO | The world of men’s saunas will make its way to Orlando this fall when the North American Bathhouse Association (NABA) holds its annual convention at the Embassy Suites by Hilton on International Drive Sept. 23-25. Equipped with pools, steam rooms, hot tubs, video rooms and more, men’s saunas are a place for gay and bisexual men to meet other men. This year’s convention theme is “Building Magic,” as NABA begins to place focus on remodeling and rebuilding their member’s saunas. Club Orlando, a men’s sauna located in downtown Orlando and NABA member, recently finished a multi-million-dollar renovation and will serve as a model for other men’s saunas around the world. Convention attendees will be touring the newly remodeled Club Orlando, something NABA Executive Director Tom Nibbio says he is excited for everyone to see. “It’s another way to share ideas about building them and

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we encourage all of our members to be constantly remodeling and cleaning their establishments and make them very attractive to every age group,” Nibbio says. “The attendees are going to be coming in and checking out all of the great things that Club Orlando did to remodel and make it one of the premier clubs in the U.S.” The NABA convention will be celebrating its seventh annual convention. “The association started because some of the owners said it seemed like we were treating each other like competitors even though one could be in New York and one in L.A.,” Nibbio says. “We’re not competitors, so we need to feed off of each other and create support amongst ourselves.” That need for support led to the creation of NABA and the annual convention. The convention has been hosted in cities across the U.S. — from Washington, D.C. to Dallas to last year’s location in Denver, which had the highest attendance of any of its previous conventions. With attendance growing, Nibbio and other NABA members are ready to shed the name. NABA

is rebranding to “Men’s Sauna Association.” This is both because the association recently admitted members from Amsterdam and Budapest— marking its first European members —and to distance themselves from the term “bathhouse” which carries a negative stigma associated with it. “One of the old thoughts that the younger generation thinks of when they hear ‘bathhouse’ is an old, dark, seedy place and it’s not,” Nibbio says. “It’s a men’s resort.” The three-day convention will consist of several seminars and panels discussing an array of topics including remodel construction, transgender inclusiveness, marketing, media and more. The event will also feature nightly cocktail networking receptions, business luncheons and the Bathhouse Advertising & Marketing (BAM) awards presentation. Nibbio says that NABA will also discuss its new safety initiative #WeCanHost, a hashtag meant to assist men in finding the nearest men’s sauna with the knowledge that it is a safe place to meet up. “You’re protected there,” Nibbio says. “It’s better than meeting somewhere not safe. That’s a large part of everyone’s business and duty—to promote safe sex.” NABA’s 2019 annual convention will be hosted at the Embassy Suites by Hilton Orlando from Sept. 23-25. For more information, visit GayBathhouseSauna.com.

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AMPA | Balance Tampa Bay (BTB) and Empath Partners in Care (EPIC) announced Aug. 29 that their annual masquerade ball raised $17,000 for the latter organization’s fight against HIV/AIDS. The gathering raised $16,000 last year and has raised more than $80,000 for the nonprofit’s essential services since its inception. The fifth annual event, “Fearless: An Unmasquerade,” was held July 27 at the Tampa River Center. “I think this was one of the most organized years we have had,” EPIC Executive Director Joy Winheim says. “EPIC is so grateful to Balance Tampa Bay for all of their hard work and for the continued support that they have given to us. We value what they do for us and for the rest of the community. They are truly and amazing group of individuals.” While EPIC played a more direct role in the masquerade’s planning than it had in previous years, BTB retained creative control over this year’s fundraiser. “This was by far one of the best years for Masquerade and it’s only getting better,” Event Chair Ryan Young says. “This partnership has helped take the event to the next level and we are so excited to see what the future holds.” EPIC Special Events Coordinator Molly Robison agrees, noting to expect details about the sixth annual event soon. Ahead of that, however, the organization will cultivate a new partnership with Tampa Bay’s Great Gay 5K. The 5K was launched in 2017 by directors R.J. Huebert and Claire Selius, who led The Great Mother’s Day Race and The Great Father’s Day Race in Tampa and Sarasota in 2012. It exists for the LGBTQ community, its allies and “those who love to exercise,” and a portion of its net proceeds will benefit EPIC with its third outing on Pass-A-Grille Beach Sept. 14. “The Great Gay 5K is a welcoming experience that celebrates the LGBTQ+ community,” Selius said in a statement. “It’s inclusive, and more importantly, a super fun event! There will be music, food, epic race medals, awards and prizes, and a unique tank top for all supporters. If you want to show your support for this community, come on out to Pass-a-Grille Beach.” “I love the concept of a fun, open, celebratory event welcoming everyone in an amazing location,” Robison says. “I encourage everyone—runners, walkers and early morning beach strollers—to join us.” The Great Gay 5K will be held Sept. 14 from 7-10 a.m. For registration details and more information, visit GreatGay5K.com. To learn more about EPIC and BTB, visit MyEpic.org and BalanceTampaBay.org.

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2020 Vision Tampa Bay lawmakers lead fight for statewide LGBTQ protections Ryan Williams-Jent

T. PETERSBURG | Equality Florida announced Aug. 28 that Tampa Bay lawmakers intend to pass the Florida Competitive Workforce Act (FCWA) with bipartisan support in 2020, extending statewide civil rights protections to the LGBTQ community. The FCWA prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity or expression in employment, housing and public accommodations. It would amend the Florida statute currently prohibiting discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex national origin, age, handicap and marital status. In its current form, the FCWA was first introduced in 2009. In 2019, it received record breaking bipartisan support, with sponsorship or cosponsorship from 74 Democratic and Republican lawmakers. Equality Florida secured 57 cosponsors with a dozen more pledging a vote in support in the Florida House, where 61 votes are needed to pass legislation—and 17 cosponsors in the Senate, where 21 are needed to pass.

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Rep. Jackie Toledo (R-Tampa), who serves as the majority deputy whip, will lead as the FCWA’s primary sponsor in the legislature next session. The sponsorship comes during what Equality Florida calls “a moment when legislation adding LGBTQ protections in housing, employment, and public accommodations has earned unprecedented support.” Rep. Jennifer Webb (D-St. Petersburg), the Democratic deputy whip and first openly LGBTQ woman elected to the Florida Legislature, will serve as lead cosponsor. Supporting them is Rep. Holly Raschein (R-Key West), chair of the Agriculture and Natural Resource Appropriations subcommittee, who once served as the bill’s lead sponsor. Sen. Darryl Rouson (D-St. Petersburg), vice chair of banking and insurance, leads the effort to pass the FCWA in the Florida Senate. “This year we have some of the most powerful and effective representatives in the Florida House leading the charge,” Equality Florida Deputy Director Stratton Pollitzer said in a statement. “When our community is focused and united, we win. This is the year we can win comprehensive protections for our

community in housing, employment, and public accommodations.” “Last session fifteen of our Republican colleagues cosponsored the Florida Competitive Workforce Act,” Rep. Raschein said. I am hopeful 2020 is the year to get this done.” “LGBTQ Floridians need protection in housing, employment and public accommodations,” Rep. Toledo noted. “I’m honored to introduce this important legislation with a team of the most effective lawmakers in the process. Together we’re going to make Florida more competitive for top talent and business. And we’re going to ensure that no family is denied an opportunity because of who they are or who they love.” “Women know how to get it done,” Rep. Webb added, pointing toward her efforts with Reps. Toledo and Raschein. “We’re walking into session with 2020 vision. 2020 is the year we get this popular and common sense legislation across the finish line and move our state and our LGBTQ community forward.” “This is the civil rights issue of our time,” Sen. Rouson also shared. “I’m excited to work with this team of dynamic State House leaders to ensure Florida recognizes the full equality of its citizens.” The FCWA has received public support from major Florida employers including Disney and Tech Data. According to Equality Florida, local comprehensive non-discrimination protections that include gender identity and sexual orientation cover 60 percent of Florida’s population.

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Serial killer who preyed on gay men executed in Florida Wire Report

TARKE, Fla. | Gary Ray Bowles, a serial killer who preyed on older gay men during an eight-month spree that left six dead, was executed by lethal injection Aug. 22 at Florida State Prison. The sentence was carried out at 10:58 p.m., according to the office of Gov. Ron DeSantis. Bowles received the death penalty for the November 1994 murder of Walter Hinton in Jacksonville Beach. Hinton was Bowles’ sixth and final known victim in a series of killings in an eight-month span in 1994 that terrorized the Interstate 95 corridor and won him the nickname the “I-95 killer.” It began in Daytona Beach with the murder of John Hardy Roberts. In between, there were victims in Rockville, Maryland; Savannah, Georgia; Atlanta; and

Nassau County, Florida. In each case, Bowles had a signature: He stuffed the victims’ throats with objects — towels, rags, toilet paper, dirt, leaves and even a sex toy. Bowles did not say anything before his execution, but said in a handwritten statement dated Thursday that he was sorry for his actions. “I’m sorry for all the pain and suffering I have caused. I hope my death eases your pain,” Bowles wrote. “I want to tell my mother that I am also sorry for my actions. Having to deal with your son being called a monster is terrible. I’m so very sorry. I never wanted this to be my life. You don’t wake up one day and decide to become a serial killer.” The execution itself proceeded with nothing unusual happening, other than Bowles speaking to himself perhaps in prayer before the procedure was carried out. Investigators say if he hadn’t been caught, he would have kept on killing.

“He probably enjoyed it after a while,” said Thomas Youngman, a Daytona Beach detective assigned to the Roberts murder. “Why do you kill people after the first one? The first one could be a mistake, maybe. But then the second, all right, I’ll maybe give you that. But the third, fourth fifth and sixth? When do you stop?” It wasn’t hard for Daytona Beach police to figure out who killed Roberts, the first victim in March 1994: Bowles left a probation document at the scene and also was caught on an ATM camera trying to withdraw money from Roberts’ account. What proved more difficult was capturing him, something they were unable to do until after five other men in three states had been slain. Bowles, 57, was raised in West Virginia, where he experienced drugs and violence at a young age. His father was a coal miner who died of black lung before he was born. His mother remarried

multiple times, and his first two stepfathers were abusive, according to court records. His mother and brother testified that Bowles began drinking, smoking marijuana and huffing glue when he was 11 years old. When he was 13, he fought back against his second stepfather, smashing a rock in his head and nearly killing him, according to court records. That’s when Bowles left home. Investigators say Bowles survived by letting gay men perform sex acts on him for money, though he has maintained he is straight, “I had a question about him being gay. He told me he was not, and I said, ‘What do you describe yourself as?’ He said, ‘A hustler,’” Youngman said. “He’d befriend these old guys and have sexual relations with them, but I think they performed on him. He said he did not perform on them.” He also had a history of violence against women.

He was convicted of beating and raping his girlfriend while living in Tampa in 1982 and sentenced to eight years in prison. The victim had severe injuries, including tears on her vagina and anus. Former Savannah detective John Best remembers hearing details of the crime as he investigated the murder of 72-year-old World War II veteran Milton Bradley. “The Tampa detective, I remember her exact quote, ‘I’ve seen better looking bodies in an autopsy,’” Best said. Best still suspects that Bowles is bisexual and also believes he might have killed women. He said during an interview with detectives, Bowles freely admitted to killing his male victims, almost in a boastful manner, but when asked if there were female victims, he hemmed and hawed. “He never gave us a yes or no answer,” Best said. “It was, ‘Let’s change the subject.’”

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Gay State Dept. official oversees sale of military tech to allies Chris Johnson of The Washington Blade, Courtesy of The National LGBT Media Association

f you hear about the United States announcing the sale of military technology to a foreign ally, R. Clarke Cooper was involved. As assistant secretary for political-military affairs at the State Dept., Cooper is charged with coordinating with allied and partner nations the sale of U.S. conventional weapons, such as F-35 aircraft, bombs, missiles and firearms. Each year, his bureau facilitates more than $190 billion in U.S. defense transfers. Among the recipients are democracies like the United Kingdom, Italy and Japan—although others, such as Saudi Arabia

and United Arab Emirates, have repressive governments notorious for criminalizing gay relationships. As a gay combat veteran, Cooper said he’s aware the United States supplies weapons to countries with less than stellar—even abysmal— records on human and civil rights. “I’ve probably spent a good chunk of my life serving in places where one’s orientation like mine, would be either defined as criminal or even under the threat of a death sentence,” Cooper said. “But it doesn’t preclude us from presenting our people forward into these places, and it certainly doesn’t suspend our bilateral relationships.” Although Cooper is a Trump appointee (making him one of the handful of openly gay officials in the administration), the sale of weapons to these countries spans both Democratic and Republican administrations, including those

of Trump, Obama, Clinton and both Bushes. “There are a number of countries that have been challenging either statutes or policies on women and the LGBT community, who are significant troop contributors to U.N. peacekeeping operations,” Cooper said. “That does provide us a point of entre as a department to advocate for those communities.” Weapons sales are but one part of the job of managing the Bureau of Political-Military Affairs. The responsibilities also include helping coordinate diplomacy and defense policy, assisting countries with clearing explosive hazards and building a capable and accountable staff of political-military practitioners.

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glass-half-full kinda guy. But these days it’s getting tougher to see that glass of [insert your beverage of choice] as being half-full versus half-flippin’empty. There’s so much negativity in our world today, so much polarization, too many 24/7 news outlets needing to pull in our eyeballs and get our clicks. It gets exhausting looking at your Twitter feed, Facebook wall, your Instagram pics or tuning into the evening news and seeing or hearing so much “downer fodder.”

There’s a heap of studies out in the world that tell us that negativity—specifically negative thoughts—can greatly impact your physical and mental well-being. From lowering your immune system to impacting your ability to focus to creating severe depression, chronic negativity can be a disaster for us humans. I see this in the “resilience to change” workshops I do. Studies show time and again that those who have a more positive view of the world tend to be more resilient or “bounce back” in the face of changing times, especially negative times. Even in those more “terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days”; if we force ourselves to see the good things that happened we tend to see the broader world in a more “silver lining” kind of way. It’s not to say we all should put on our rose-colored (or for the wine drinkers, rosé-colored) glasses but we should acknowledge that yes: adulting is sometimes hard, the world sometimes sucks and our increasingly

divided world often feels broken. But overall there are a lot of great things happening and there’s a lot of love if we open ourselves up to seeing and receive it. Here are five ideas you can apply today to help shape your view of the world and be a bit more positive. 1. Keep a “what-went-well” journal. At the end of your day, identify five things that went well for you during that day and why. This could be things big or small, but force yourself to think of five. Why? On some days it’s pretty easy to find the things that went well, but when we force ourselves to find five good things after that rough day, that’s when the magic happens. Neuroscientists have found that by doing this exercise for 2-3 months you actually begin to rewire your brain to see things more positively. Try it and see if it works for you. 2. Notice the negative and positive people in your life. Be aware of the types of energy people around you tend to emit. Sure we all have those “off days” where we’re teetering on the more negative side, but for most folks their true disposition is pretty consistent. Listen to what people say, watch what they do, see what they post on social media. Then, try to hang with those who are more sunny. Emotions are contagious; choose your company wisely so you’re catching the good rays. 3. Limit your daily exposure to social media and news. Reflect on how much social media you’re being exposed to and what types. Also be aware of the news stations and programs you tend to listen to or watch. Understand their own bias level or level of objectivity. I’m looking at you CNN and Fox News! Have an addiction to social media? Look for apps or built-in smartphone features that limit the number of minutes you can socialize online. See? There’s an app for that!

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4. Understand control vs. influence vs. no control. In any situation, think about the actions you can control, what you can’t directly control but can influence and those things where you have zero control or influence over. It’s like a three-ring bullseye: the center is your control area, the

is to pull an Elsa and “let it go,” which is easier said than done for some but much more helpful to our physical and mental health in the long run. 5. When I worked for Disney Cruise Line eons ago, I was a little stress ball. Everything I did had to be perfect. A wonderful friend/

Being positive takes practice for many folks, and yes, acknowledge that things can get crummy at times. I challenge you to be that glass-half-full kinda person (and not a half-fool), and help others be a little more half-full, too. #OrlandoUnited

We should acknowledge that yes: adulting is sometimes hard ... But overall there are a lot of great things happening and there’s a lot of love if we open ourselves up to seeing and receive it. outer ring is what you have no control over and the middle is the influence part. Where are you spending the vast amount of your energy? The middle? The outer ring? I see too many people dump their energy into that center ring when they really have no control, thus wasting their time and energy. Sometimes the best thing we can do to stay positive

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aylor Swift opened MTV’s 2019 Video Music Awards Aug. 26 with a performance of her pro-LGBTQ anthem “You Need to Calm Down,” calling for the passage of the Equality Act. It won Video of the Year, the biggest award of the night, after she performed it beside openly LGBTQ performer Todrick Hall and a number of drag performers from “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” One of the queens, Jade Jolie, nearly received Swift’s award when presenter John Travolta seemingly mistook her for the pop star. Notably, out rapper Lil Nas X and Billy Ray Cyrus won Song of the Year for their hit single “Old Town Road (Remix),” making Lil Nas X the first LGBTQ musician to receive the honor. “I want to say thank you to this man for helping me take my career to the next level,” he said of Cyrus.

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Showtime releases first ‘L Word’ trailer

howtime has released the first trailer for “The L Word: Generation Q,” the sequel to the network’s groundbreaking LGBTQ series that ran for six seasons until 2009. The original premiered in 2004 and followed a group of friends in Los Angeles. It was the first dramatic series exclusively about lesbian characters. Its sequel will run for eight episodes beginning Dec. 8 and is currently in production. Original stars Jennifer Beals, Leisha Hailey and Katherine Moennig will return, joining newcomers Arienne Mandi, Leo Sheng, Jacqueline Toboni, Rosanny Zayas and Sepideh Moafi, all of whom appear in the trailer. The series will follow the “group of diverse, self-possessed LGBTQIA+ characters experiencing love, heartbreak, sex, setbacks and success in LA.” Watch at WatermarkOnline.com.

Marvel’s ‘The Eternals’ features openly LGBTQ hero

arvel Studios President Kevin Feige confirmed that the Marvel Cinematic Universe’s first major openly LGBTQ character will appear in “The Eternals.” Feige detailed the character on “Good Morning America” at the D23 expo in California. “He’s married, he’s got a family and that is just part of who he is,” he said. It was previously suspected that Tessa Thompson’s Valkyrie would be the first major LGBTQ character in 2021’s “Thor: Love and Thunder.” Possible actors portraying the character are Kit Harington as Black Knight, Richard Madden as Ikaris, Kumail Nanjiani as Kingo, Barry Keoghan as Druig, Brian Tyree Henry as Phastos or and Dong-seok Ma as Gilgamesh. The film will also include Marvel’s first deaf character and opens Nov. 6, 2020.

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He was homeschooled by his parents and raised in the church. When he finally decided to ask about “the gay thing,” Brandon and his family’s path changed forever. “[The church] tried to pull me into reparative therapy,” Brandon says. “Since I was a minor at the time they pulled my parents into it and tried to get them to be on their side. When they brought my parents in and said your daughter feels like she should have been born a boy, my dad was like ‘This makes perfect sense.’” Brandon’s family came together and stepped away from the church, the only community they had known. That is when Brandon’s family found PFLAG. “When we came to PFLAG we were kind of broken,” Brandon says of his family. “All we had known were the people in church. We went to PFLAG and met some great people and they said to me ‘You should really go to this place called Orlando Youth Alliance,’ they told me it was a youth group and my first thought was ‘Great, I just got kicked out of a youth group.’” From the first visit to OYA Brandon knew he was home. “I absolutely fell in love with it,” he says. “OYA was the most instrumental thing to happen to me in my transition. That was the first place I went where I was able to be respected for who I am and have my proper pronouns used.” Brandon has been involved with OYA for eight years and now serves as a support group facilitator for the organization. OYA CEO Michael Slaymaker even called Brandon the “poster child” for OYA. He was also a speaker at the Orlando Youth Empowerment Summit, an event presented by the City of Orlando in collaboration with local governments and LGBTQ community organizations to empower Central Florida’s LGBTQ youth. “Because I am an outspoken individual when it comes to my story, I’ve done a lot of speaking engagements for OYA and been a mentor to so many of these kids who have come through,” Brandon says. “To see kids starting T [testosterone shots] for the first time or going through their name change, it is almost like transitioning over again and that excitement of getting to be who you are. It’s so inspiring for me.”

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or sea, St. Petersburg native Elliott Darrow is dedicated to making a difference.

As an educator at The Florida Aquarium, the University of South Florida student teaches children about conservation, ecology and animal welfare. He also volunteers with the Foundation for Sustainable Families, where for years he’s advocated for the LGBTQ community and focused on providing resources to all communities in need. The organization utilizes expertise from individuals like Darrow who specialize in the arts, education, social work, medicine and more to foster sustainability. By enriching and supporting public health, child welfare, equality and human rights, they aim to reverse cycles of abuse, dysfunction and neglect. “The foundation provides services for all different types of families,” Darrow explains. “We work with a lot of transgender and questioning children, offering them events and support, and then also with parents who are transgender who have young children. Just having a place where people can go to feel comfortable and safe is so important.” From providing meals to the food insecure at the foundation’s farm to assisting with educational field trips, Darrow has worked tirelessly with the organization—advocating for them in school and during a professional development conference earlier this year. “I served as one of their panelists,” he says, “and was able to educate people on ways they can serve the local LGBTQ community.” Increasing visibility for the LGBTQ community is of particular importance to Darrow. In June, he designed the commemorative T-shirt provided to the first 1,000 registrants of the third annual TransPride March, which kicked off the 17th annual St Pete Pride parade. The design depicted the word “trans” in the shape of a heart, presented in the colors of the transgender pride flag. “There needs to be more love within our community,” Darrow said at the time. “I hope the love we show this summer at Pride for trans individuals will continue on through acts of allyship in everyday life.” Darrow is also a proud participant in the inaugural class of Equality Florida’s TransAction Leadership Academy. On a monthly basis, the organization trains and develops the next generation of transgender or gender nonbinary leaders in the areas of advocacy. “I come from a place where people have a lot of fear,” Darrow says. “To me, fear is the opposite of love and education is what helps cure that fear. Being able to raise awareness about who we are will lead to the most impact I can have.”

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ON VIEW SEPTEMBER 20, 2019 THROUGH JANUARY 12, 2020 ORLANDO MUSEUM OF ART & MENNELLO MUSEUM OF AMERICAN ART In a co-organized exhibition, the Orlando Museum of Art and the Mennello Museum of American Art proudly present Edward Steichen: In Exaltation of Flowers. Steichen captured his world through fashion and ﬂowers - 20 intimate black and white photographs and seven stunning gold-leaf mural paintings that previously had not been seen for 100 years. Experience and explore the luminaries of the roaring 1920s as seen through the eyes of Edward Steichen. The murals tell the story of philanthropists Agnes Ernst Meyer, Eugene Meyer, Jr. Charles Lang Freer (Smithsonian Institution’s Freer Gallery of Art), the mezzo soprano and dancer Mercedes de Cordoba, the artists Katharine Rhoades and Marion Beckett, and the dancer Isadora Duncan, along with their ﬂoral counterparts, inspired in part by the Symbolist writer Maurice Maeterlinck’s 1907 book The Intelligence of Flowers. The photographs feature the same friends along with multiple images of Steichen’s wife, his most beloved muse, Dana Steichen. Edward Steichen: In Exaltation of Flowers shares multiple facets of Steichen’s early work as a photographer and painter while also sharing a symbolic narrative about his circle of friends in both intimate and grand iterations. The exhibition seeks to celebrate Steichen’s genius in both mediums. TOP: Edward Steichen, In Exaltation of Flowers: Clivia, Fuchsia, Hilium-Henryi, 1910-1913, Tempera and gold leaf on canvas, 120 x 100 in. Art Bridges. © 2019 The Estate of Edward Steichen / Artists Rights Society (ARS), New York. Photo: Art Bridges; BOTTOM: Edward Steichen, Gloria Swanson, 1924, Gelatin silver print, 9 7/16 x 7 1/2 in. On loan from The Metropolitan Museum of Art. Gift of Grace M. Mayer. 1989 (1989.1056) © 2019 The Estate of Edward Steichen / Artists Rights Society (ARS). New York. Photo: Art Resource.

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Gabriell Rush

27 | Transgender, Queer | He/Him/His

24 | Bisexual | She/Her/Hers abriell experienced

homelessness at the age of 20. She was involved in a domestic violence situation and even though she had nowhere to go she knew she couldn’t stay there.

“I was in a transitional housing program with another youth-related homeless group but I aged out when I turned 21,” Gabriell says. “By that time I wasn’t getting anymore services and I was not ready to be out on my own, I didn’t have any money, I didn’t have a stable job. I was dealing with depression, so someone told me to go to Zebra Coalition.” Gabriell went to Zebra in 2017, where she was able to get her GED. She had been forced to drop out of school at age 14, and was able to live openly and authentically. The help she received from Zebra Coalition led her to start advocating for the youth organization herself. “I realized early on in my homelessness that I didn’t want to see someone like myself have to go through that,” Gabriell says. “Homelessness is something that is 100% avoidable and I just wanted to get out there and advocate for Zebra. They helped me so much and I want to jump at any opportunity to talk about what they do in the community and the experience of what it is like to be LGBTQ and homeless and having this stigma on you.” Gabriell works on a board called the Youth Action Society as a peer mentor. It’s in that capacity that she advises LGBTQ youth who have been through similar situations that she has on services and programs available to them through the Zebra Coalition. She is also a Public Ally through the Orlando chapter of AmeriCorps. AmeriCorps’ Public Ally program identifies diverse young adults and prepares them for leadership roles with nonprofit apprenticeships, mentoring, coaching and continual self-reflection. Gabriell is a Public Ally for Embrace Families, a Central Florida child welfare organization supporting the health and well-being of children through foster care, adoption and mentoring. Along with giving back to the community that helped her when she needed it, she is also discovering new passions like art and painting, but her real passion is the work she gets to do now. “I get to give a voice to someone who is going through what I went through and help give them access to what I didn’t have,” Gabriell says. “There is hope and there are resources. Live in your truth and focus on finding a space for yourself where you don’t have to just survive.”

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Manager at Metro Inclusive Health, Lucas Wehle fights for the LGBTQ community daily.

Through the health care organization’s many services, he and his team of peers connect members of the transgender community to essential resources. His role with the company began four years ago, when he was hired to expand Metro’s transgender and youth programming. Wehle served as coordinator for their youth program for more than a year until the organization identified a need for a more comprehensive approach. He became their transgender care navigator, bridging the gap between clients and services. In June 2018, Wehle saw a need to expand Metro’s offerings again. “I went to upper management to discuss what I felt was a huge need for having a specific department focused on the needs of the trans community,” he recalls. “So we developed the Trans Services Division and I became the manager.” Metro revolutionized its transgender health care with the division, streamlining their approach to offer letters of recommendation for patients seeking Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), group and individual counseling, transgender-focused primary care, pharmacy and prescription services and lab work. They also expanded their medical directory and referral services, centralizing the organization’s approach to meeting medical, social and legal needs. Wehle and his team have seen a tremendous response to Metro’s expansion of services from Tampa Bay’s transgender community. “In 2016, we had 64 HRT clients,” he says. “In almost exactly three years, we now have over 950, and that’s just HRT care alone—not counting those who are in primary care or partaking in our other services.” In addition to Wehle’s work with Metro, where he also provides inclusivity training to physical education departments throughout Tampa Bay’s schools, he also helped found the St. Petersburg chapter of PFLAG in 2017. He says the organization—which exists to support members of the LGBTQ community, their families and their allies—gave him early purpose. He proudly remains involved today. “I’m very fortunate,” Wehle says. “I get to come to work and help other people—it’s all that I ever wanted to do. I’m so grateful to have found my place and to meet what I feel is my calling. Helping other people helps me as well.”

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Ian Siljestrom

24 | Queer, Genderqueer, Transgender | They/Them/Theirs

27 | Gay | He/Him/His an has made his way around

Florida. Born in Cocoa Beach, he left for the University of Florida and then settled in Jacksonville where he was a science and health teacher for fifth graders.

“So I didn’t ever want to [work in the LGBTQ community]. It wasn’t ever of interest to me. I was all science everything,” Ian says. “I intended to be an elementary school teacher to get my kid excited about science.” While Ian came out in college, he started living back in the closet when he became a teacher for fear that it would impact his career. That all changed when he was outed by another teacher in his second year of teaching. While he still maintained that he was not gay for several months, Ian started to become jaded about his career and finally opened up to his principal. “I went to him and said ‘Here’s my keys. I’m walking out today or you’re going to support me because I can’t do this anymore,’” Ian recalls. “He told me ‘No, we have your back. We know you’re here to do what’s right for the kids so absolutely you have a place at our school.’” That was the catalyst that got Ian thinking that he needed to do more to support the LGBTQ community. “It started as an internship at the district office while I was still teaching. Through that opportunity, I found this role with Equality Florida (EQFL) and decided to take a jump,” Ian says. Ian’s new direction brought him to Central Florida where he is now the organization’s Safe and Healthy Schools Associate Director. “I support 20 school districts from Manatee County northeast to Duval County,” he says. “When I took the job it was specifically the tri-county area—Orange, Osceola, Seminole. It then expanded to 10 districts and now it’s expanded to 20 districts. So it’s just taking on more districts to help them.” Through his role at EQFL, Ian has built relationships with school districts to create a culture of inclusion, trained over 14,000 educators on D&I and is spearheading the GSA committee at Zebra Coalition. With all of this work, Ian says his main goal at EQFL hasn’t changed from the one that made him want to be a teacher. “I want to do right by our kids,” he says. “It’s how do we shift our public schools to make sure they understand that any child that walks in their school building, they’re going to be affirmed and are going to be supported.”

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environmental justice and creating safe spaces for the LGBTQ community, marrying the two whenever possible.

It’s one of the reasons they started Outside the Binary in 2016, a nonbinary peer support group that operates in Tampa twice per month and in St. Petersburg monthly. The group exists for the benefit of nonbinary individuals and Ocea formed it to fill a void. “I had been to trans support groups and I couldn’t relate to a lot of experiences of binary trans people as a nonbinary person,” they recalls. “I wanted a space to be able to talk about the issues I was having and have a community that understood what I was talking about.” They meet in neutral spaces like Metro’s LGBTQ Welcome Center and hold monthly social and volunteer events as well. “Our most popular is a beach cleanup followed by a vegan and sustainable cookout where we compost our food scraps,” Ocea adds. It’s a practice they cultivate with the Sustainable Living Project, an urban farm and education center in Tampa where Ocea volunteers as a compost coordinator. It’s there that they educate the community on the importance of composting food waste. “It’s one of the most important ways we as individuals can combat climate change,” Ocea explains. “I help to manage the soil production for the garden, and we make this soil by collecting food scraps from the community and composting it in large, hot piles. By diverting food scraps from landfills, we are reducing the amount of methane gas, one of the most harmful greenhouse gasses that are pumped into our atmosphere.” Before graduating from USF, Ocea worked diligently to make the college more inclusive. “The accomplishment I’m most proud of is the development of USF’s first LGBTQ+ Living Learning Community, a space in the residential halls that is now known as Stonewall Suites,” they says. It exists to provide supportive and inclusive housing for members of the LGBTQ community, particularly transgender and nonbinary students, which they struggled with while living on campus. As a part time employee for Equality Florida, Ocea also assisted in developing the organization’s TransAction Leadership Academy. “My purpose in life is just to try to make the world a better place,” they says, “even if that is just for one person’s world.”

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Kristian “Kris” Aponto 19 | Transgender Male | He/Him/His

ris has known two truths

about himself since a very young age — that he wanted to join the Navy when he was older and that he was transgender.

“I was 14 when I came out,” Kris says. “My parents sat me down and asked if I was transgender.” Kris says at the time he was pretty tomboyish and had already come out as lesbian, so when they sat him down and asked he said it just hit him and he answered “Yes, I am.” “They were pretty accepting and said no matter what we are going to love you,” Kris says. Kris’ mom found the Zebra Coalition. After attending, Kris started to find understanding and acceptance at Zebra and it seemed like everything was starting to come together for him. Kris was enrolled in the Junior Reserve Officers’ Training Corps (JROTC) program at his high school and was preparing himself for a life in the U.S. military. “Growing up I always liked structure; I like the discipline of the military, the organization of it,” Kris says. “I talked to recruiters and I was planning to do JROTC all four years of high school, so I was getting myself ready.” That is until July 2017 when Kris and the rest of the world saw Trump’s tweet banning trans people from joining the military. “Going into my senior year, Trump made that tweet and I had no plan for myself outside of the military. That was going to be my entire life. I was an emotional mess,” Kris recalls. Kris took that emotion and channeled it into something positive. He began to share his story. With the help of the Zebra Coalition, Kris started to put a face to the trans military ban and speak out about its discriminatory nature. He shared his story from small groups at community events to massive crowds like the “Win With Love” rally at Lake Eola. “I have this platform right now and an amazing support structure so I want to share that with people and let them know they are not alone,” Kris says. “I need to advocate for my community.”

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18 | Bisexual | He/Him/His arasota native Miguel Jasso-

Ruiz is “annoying positive,” he muses. He believes optimism is the key to happiness, an outlook that he says has served him well throughout each of his endeavors.

His passion for serving the community began in high school, where he became vice president for his local chapter of UnidosNow. The organization’s high school program seeks to elevate the quality of life for the growing Hispanic/Latino community. It does so by inspiring participants to become agents of change through college preparation, leadership training and meaningful community service. “Basically we connected minority groups to resources,” Jasso-Ruiz explains, including those in the LGBTQ community. “I absolutely love giving back.” In part, it’s what helped lead him to ALSO Youth in 2016. The Sarasota organization provides peer support services, educational programs, advocacy and referrals for LGBTQ and ally youth ages 13 to 21. “ALSO Youth has been an amazing organization that has played a huge part in my life as I transitioned from being a kid to a young adult,” he says. “Prior to being connected with their resources I was in the dark trying to navigate the tricky trials of sexual identity with my limited knowledge.” He soon began volunteering with ALSO at numerous social events, leading to his position as a youth ambassador to ensure everyone at its center felt at ease. Most recently, Jasso-Ruiz served as co-president and board liaison for the ALSO’s Youth Advisory Panel. It’s in that position that he advocated for the inclusion of gender identity protections for students in Sarasota and relayed questions and concerns from youth to ALSO’s leadership. His term led to the organization naming him one of two “Outstanding Youth of the Year” recipients for 2019. “It can be difficult to get connected with people that are like you in Sarasota,” he explains. “I’m just grateful because it’s so important to have a space like ALSO where people can progress through their adolescence with the proper resources to make decisions.” Although he’s now a freshman at the University of Central Florida, Jasso-Ruiz retains his status as an ALSO Youth ambassador. He hopes to find new organizations to continue focusing on advocacy in Orlando as he maintains his Sarasota connections. “I plan to do it all with an upbeat demeanor and genuine smile,” he adds.

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Yasmin Flasterstein

25 | Bisexual | She/Her/Hers asmin, who was born in Israel, came to Orlando to study psychology at the University of Central Florida.

Her initial involvement in Orlando’s LGBTQ community came by working at Mental Health Association of Central Florida when they created the Orlando United Counseling program in response to the Pulse tragedy. That is also the time that she came out. “I was inspired to come out by the overwhelming feeling of anger I had after Pulse,” she says. “I felt so much anger by what happened and then I self-reflected on that. It encouraged me to come out and be my authentic self.” Yasmin was named the program director of Mental Health Association of Central Florida’s Orlando United Counseling program. As she helped to get long-term counseling to those affected by the Pulse tragedy, Yasmin also wanted to take the opportunity to tackle the stigma of mental health that existed for LGBTQ+, Latinx, black and immigrant communities. “From that I created a series of workshops and panels that tackled the mental health stigma within those communities,” she says. Inspired by the group Butterfly Talks, a support group for questioning, lesbian, multiple-gender loving, queer woman and all transgender individuals she led, Yasmin launched Peer Support Space in Jan. 2019. “While the focus is providing mental health services for communities that are underserved and the most impacted by suicide, a large focus is on LGBTQ+ communities,” Yasmin says. “It is creating that sense of chosen family that is really understood by the LGBTQ+ community.” Yasmin became a part of the One Orlando Alliance (OOA), first representing Mental Health Association of Central Florida and then as a representative of Peer Support Space. “I have been OOA’s Community Engagement Chair for over a year. I organize their volunteers, their panels and their events,” Yasmin says. “I played a big role in the #ActGiveLove movement, Orlando United Day of Love and Kindness, so I’ve been highly involved with the OOA.” Yasmin was recently elected to the board of the OOA as a membership representative. “I feel grateful to be given a seat at the table being so young to have my ideas heard and hopefully it helps to bring about some change,” she says.

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28 | Gay | He/Him/His lorida’s 13th congressional district covers Pinellas County from Clearwater through St. Petersburg.

Nearly 730,000 Floridians call the area home, as does St Pete Pride— Florida’s largest LGBTQ Pride celebration and one of the largest in the country. It’s no surprise then that Rep. Charlie Crist, an LGBTQ ally who represents the district, sought out Michael G. Batista. Batista serves as Crist’s LGBTQ liaison and the district’s senior constituent advocate. Working primarily from three offices, he explains, “I cut through the bureaucratic red tape for the constituents and help them resolve their issues with federal agencies.” Batista handles concerns ranging from passport requests to returning Social Security back pay. “There’s nothing more important to my boss than making sure government works for the people,” he says, “and I’m honored to help make that happen.” He always knew he wanted to work as a public servant, but his foray into politics began as a student ahead of President Obama’s election. “I wanted to do everything I could to push our country forward,” he recalls. “I moved up in volunteering with his campaign and then lobbied for a nonprofit in D.C.” After lobbying Rep. Kathy Castor, he was offered an internship and joined the Florida Democratic Party. He subsequently worked for former Sec. of State Hillary Clinton’s 2016 presidential campaign. “After the election of our current president, I wanted to stay in politics to work toward the positive direction that our country had been going in,” Batista says. “I wanted to protect the values of what I believe is a true America; where we provide opportunities for all individuals.” That’s when Rep. Crist sought him out. “I’m tasked with being the eyes and ears of the district,” Batista says. “One of the biggest joys of my job has been my ability to amplify the incredible work of our LGBTQ community on a national level. This year, our office helped to secure national recognition of the Gulfport Library LGBTQ Resource Center, and in my first year on the job I helped bring St Pete Pride to the Capitol Floor in a proclamation by the Congressman in front of the entire House of Representatives.” Batista says he’ll continue shining that national spotlight on Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ community and its many accomplishments, not only during Pride but year-round. “I want you to know that I am your advocate,” he says, “whether you need federal assistance or just a listening ear.”

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Podcast

The Rainbow Connection WFTV’s Jorge Estevez tackles LGBTQ issues in new podcast ‘Under The Rainbow’

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WFTV’s Jorge Estevez talks LGBTQ issues in his new podcast, “Under The Rainbow.” Photo courtesy Jorge Estevez

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odcasts are fast becoming a

primary medium for people to get their news. A CBS News poll conducted earlier this year found that nearly two-thirds of Americans listen to podcasts at least occasionally, with nearly a quarter of the people polled saying they listen several times a week.

With numbers like those, Central Florida’s WFTV Channel 9 knew they needed to get into the podcast business. “Katy Camp oversees everything at WFTV with a ‘www dot’ and she was a big fan of getting out a podcast—she pushed and pushed to get us on,” says WFTV newscaster Jorge Estevez. Estevez hosts one of four podcasts currently being produced by WFTV. The first one, “Colorblind: Race Across Generations” with host Vanessa Echols, launched in April 2018. It takes different generations

and talks race in an “open, honest, sometime controversial” discussion. “Colorblind” was followed by the politics-focused “Battleground Florida with Christopher Heath” and the all-sports podcast aptly named “Sports Brothers.” When they approached Estevez to host a podcast he knew exactly what he wanted its focus to be. “Podcasts to me are like writing a book, you have to write about what you know, and if you are going to host a podcast you have to host a podcast about a topic you know,” Estevez says, “and what do I know?

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I know the LGBTQ+ community. More importantly, I know people in the LGBTQ+ community who can come on as experts, as well as those with first-hand stories that can reach a global audience.” A global audience to speak to and a show he knew he would be able to have creative control over was a recipe Estevez says he definitely wanted to get in on. “I saw the opportunity for another medium to get my message out, the message of my community out. Educate people in a simple, easy and fast way,” he says. “And it’s a very simple medium. It’s so fascinatingly simple to get your message out these days.” Estevez had his medium and message but needed a name. He consulted with the man he calls his “secret Millennial weapon,” podcast producer William Folkes. “We had a few names that we liked but they were already taken or too identifiable with other things because everyone has a podcast these days,” Estevez says. “Then I was with Greg Warmoth in the greenroom before a newscast while William and I were coming up with names and Greg said ‘You have to include the rainbow in there somewhere, something like under the rainbow.’” The name clicked and instantly made sense to Estevez. “Obviously the rainbow is a symbol of the LGBTQ+ community but we are ALL under the rainbow,” he says. “We are all there as one community and we should all exist to learn about each other.” “Under The Rainbow” is a “talk show in your ear” that will focus on one LGBTQ+ topic per episode. “It’s picking a topic and sticking to that topic. Having an expert, having someone who experienced that topic you’re discussing and someone who is going to put it into perspective,” Estevez says. “And it is a beautiful format. It is freewheeling, no commercial breaks and we can go as long as we want. We can talk for 30 minutes, 40, 45 if we want. It just depends on the topic.”

Estevez says he will record “Under The Rainbow” on a bi-weekly basis and build up a library of content before hopefully moving to a weekly series. The first episode was released on Aug. 27 with the inaugural panel of The LGBT+ Center’s George Wallace and Equality Florida’s Gina Duncan and Esmé Rodríguez, and focused on the topic of labels. “Do we need them? What are they for? I wanted to tackle that first,” Estevez says. “The goal of this is to approach the podcast from a prospective of I may know a thing or two about the LGBTQ+ community, and I want this to be about them and us, but also for people on the outside … I want them to listen too. I want it to be about topics that we need to learn more about.” The first episode not only allowed listeners to learn about LGBTQ labels, but also afforded Estevez to learn a few new things. “I learned that it is OK to make a mistake. To call a he a she, or a she a they, or a they a him; because as long as you do it while asking a legitimate question and come from a place of no malice no one is offended,” he says. “I also learned that there are so many things I don’t know and that’s a secret for my desire to do this, I want to learn more. There’s so much about the LGBTQ+ community I don’t even know.” Topics being prepped for future shows include discussions on conversion therapy which will include someone who has been through the discredited practice as well as talking about what it is like to come out at work when your career is traditionally seen as unaccepting. But the conversations won’t always cover a heavy subject matter. “I want to talk about open relationships within the LGBTQ+ community. I would like to discuss dating in the LGBTQ+ community versus dating outside of that. Dating apps: how they work, check in with the Grindrs, Hers and Scruffs of the world,” Estevez says. “I want to take a fun look at that stuff because why not. These are topics we all know exist, but I want to give them a little spin and go more in depth and you can do that with this format.” “Under The Rainbow” with Jorge Estevez premieres new episodes every other Wednesday, with the first episode now available. You can listen at WFTV.com/Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts including Stitcher, iTunes and Google Play.

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Film The Ninth Annual Fabulous IFF lineup includes:

Screentime in Sarasota Fabulous Independent Film Festival returns for ninth outing

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screening of “Family in Transition” ahead of the festival Sept. 25. The collaboration is “an exciting move for our organization,” Fortner explains. “They have supported us over the years and we look forward to bringing the community together to explore cinema, which has had such an impact in society offering a perspective and view through others eyes.” The Fabulous IFF’s opening reception will follow Sept. 26. While the location is to be determined, Fortner says that it will provide a platform for

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members in the community to learn more about the organization. Board opportunities and other volunteer needs will be addressed, she adds. Five of this year’s seven films have been solidified, including the aforementioned “Family in Transition.” Opening night will be held Sept. 27 and will feature one film, three will screen on Sept. 28 and two will follow Sept. 29. The Fabulous IFF’s ninth annual outing will once again return to Burns Court Cinema in Sarasota for its three-day stretch. Moving forward, Fortner expects that the Fabulous IFF’s programming will include quarterly events, panels and showcases. Utilizing the HMF’s #WESUPPORT campaign, she hopes to inspire, educate and entertain Sarasota’s expanding LGBTQ community in more ways than ever. “We’re going to focus on the fact that we are the only LGBTQ+ film festival in Sarasota and expand with events and more partnerships,” she says. “That will allow us to screen films throughout the year, do more Q&A’s and focus on accepting submissions for feature films and shorts.” The ninth annual Fabulous IFF will be held Sept. 27-29 at Burns Court Cinema in Sarasota, located at 506 Burns Ct. The Sept. 25 screening of “Family in Transition” will be held at The Beatrice Friedman Theater on the Larry Greenspon Family Campus for Jewish Life, located at 582 McIntosh Rd. For more information about the opening reception and the film screenings, visit HarveyMilkFestival.org/Fabulous-Indepen dent-Film-Fest.

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The story of a family in Nahariya, a small traditional town in Israel, whose lives change completely after their father finally decides to tell his family that he is a transgender woman. Their mother chooses to stay with her spouse through the whole process, but just as it seems that life is back to normal, she takes a sharp turn and shakes everything up again.

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This dynamic documentary takes us into the lives of three high school athletes—all at different stages of their athletic seasons, personal lives, and unique paths as transgender teens. Their stories span across the U.S.—from Sarah, a skier and teen policymaker in New Hampshire, to Andraya, a track star in Connecticut openly transitioning into her authentic self. The film centers on Mack Beggs, who made headlines when he became the Texas State Champion in wrestling and was heralded as a hero by some while receiving hate and threats from others.

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athan Bruemmer, JD has resigned as the executive director of ALSO Youth effective Aug. 31, the organization shared Aug. 29. ALSO Youth was founded in 1992 and exists to empower LGBTQ youth and their allies by creating inclusive communities. Bruemmer has served as executive director for two years. “As family demands require me to step away, I am proud of the hard work and great strides we have taken over the past years to meet the growing and evolving needs of the youth,” Bruemmer said in a press release. “I am incredibly humbled by the courage our kids have shown by raising their voices to express their needs. It has been my honor to serve them.” “We appreciate Nathan’s leadership during a crucial time in ALSO Youth’s history and look forward to further growth and deepening of the work spearheaded during his tenure,” Board of Directors President Lana Bruce added. ALSO Youth’s former executive director Donna Hanley, MA, LMHC, will serve as interim director effective Sept. 3. The organization’s fall festival brunch will follow at the Hyatt Regency Sarasota as planned Sept. 8, featuring Olympic figure skater and LGBTQ advocate Randy Gardner. For tickets and for more information, visit ALSOYouth.org.

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etro Inclusive Health has announced the keynote speaker and roster of participating companies for the organization’s second annual Metro LGBTQ+ Career Fair. Metro held its inaugural gathering in 2018, after recognizing a need for an LGBTQ-inclusive career fair in Tampa Bay. Hundreds attended to seek advice, career opportunities and expertise from leading employers from throughout the area. Organizers note that due to that high demand, the fair will include a keynote from Cal Jackson, Tech Data’s director of diversity. The company is intrinsically tied to Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ community and in 2019 received a perfect score on the Human Rights Campaign’s Corporate Equality Index for the 14th consecutive year. “As a member of the LGBTQ+ community with friends and family alike, I found it important to offer a safer space where members of the community can come without hesitation and fear to seek career opportunities,” Metro Division Director of Community Initiatives says. “Working in this community for over 10 years, I often heard stories around not being accepted, judged and/or treated differently because of gender identity and sexual orientation.” This year’s fair welcomes some of the Tampa Bay’s most recognizable companies. Included are Bayfront Health, Franklin Templeton, Nielsen, Publix, Regions, Walgreens and more. The gathering will be held Sept. 18 from 10 a.m.-4 p.m., with the keynote scheduled for noon. For more information, contact NateT@ MetroTampaBay.org or visit MetroTampaBay.org.

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f you are someone who appreciates a good dive bar, then the team behind Southern Nights Orlando and Southern Craft has something right up your alley. District Dive is opening in Orlando’s Milk District at 2401 E. South St. and is nestled in between your two favorite Southern establishments. “Can’t wait for the new hangout spot! I’ll be tending twice a week to talk sport stuff,” wrote artist and bartender Nick Smith on Facebook. “You can throw darts, play pool and tell me stories about football that I’ll nod and act like I understand.” District Dive is scheduled to have its soft opening on Sept. 5. Doors open at 6 p.m. at the 21 and up establishment. For more details visit District Dive’s Facebook page.

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usbands Joey Conicella and Alex Marin, the dynamic duo behind Yum Yum Cupcake Truck, are bringing a new restaurant to the SODO area of Orlando. Hungry Pants will be located at 3421 S. Orange Ave. and feature food inspired by the way Conicella and Marin eat in their everyday lives. A type of eating they have named “plant-curious.” “Think experimenting with lots of veggies and whole foods, but not totally giving up on the comfort foods and flavors you love. In other words, we’re 100% plant-based 80% of the time,” Conicella said in an email. “Hungry Pants is meant to be that rare combination of between healthy and approachable.” Conicella calls Hungry Pants a “fast-fine setting” inspired by popular eateries like Souvla in San Francisco and Dig Inn in New York City. Hungry Pants is scheduled to open in late October. For more information, visit EatHungryPants.com.

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he National LGBT Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) hosted its annual conference in Tampa Aug. 13-16, which was attended by The Pride Chamber of Greater Orlando (formerly known as MBA Orlando). During the conference’s closing ceremonies on Aug. 16, the NGLCC presents a series of honors and awards in a handful of categories. One of those categories, Affiliate Chamber Staff Member of the Year, was bestowed to The Pride Chamber’s Executive Director Kellie Parkin. The Affiliate Chamber Staff Member of the Year Award recognizes the commitment and dedication of a professional staff member of an Affiliate Chamber who exemplifies excellence in the Chamber industry and has a proven track record in growing the national and local LGBTQ business community. Parkin beat out finalists Marquita Thomas of the LA Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce and Zach Wilcha of the Independence Business Alliance of Philadelphia.

Proclaim It: (L-R) Watermark founder Tom Dyer, Orange county Mayor Jerry Demings, Orlando City Commissioner Patty Sheehan and Watermark owner Rick Claggett show off the county and city proclamations presented at Watermark’s 25th Anniversary party at the Orlando Museum of Art Aug. 23. Photo by Dylan Todd

Gay Day Saturday: Kevin Cichon (L) and Jeff Earley enjoy Gay Days weekend at the Parliament House Aug. 17. Photo by Danny Garcia

Tasty Bear: Bearonce Bear (aka Anthony Chiocchi) samples food and drink at Taste of GayDayS in Orlando Aug. 15. Photo by Kathleen Sadler

Mixologist: Doug Ba’aser mixes up a cocktail during trivia at the Parliament House in Orlando Aug. 13. Photo by Jeremy Williams

New Queen: Twila Holiday sports her new crown as she was named Miss GayDayS 2019 in Orlando Aug. 17.

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Meeting Up: The Orlando Bisexual Alliance gets together for their August meeting at The LGBT+ Center in Orlando Aug. 22. Photo courtesy Kassanndra Santiago

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An Animal Affair Fundraiser, Sept. 14, The Gallery at Mills Park, Orlando. 407-730-6935; TheGalleryAtMillsPark.com

Asolo Rep social media coordinator David Valdez, TIGLFF husband Erik Carroll, Tampa pharmacist Brian Wehling, Hotspots central publisher Peter Clark, St. Pete software genius David Palio, Gulfport party host Ed Dunn, Tampa Bay entertainer Kenneth Lawson – aka Juno Vibranz (Sept. 5); Rollins College honcho A. Eddie Mehnert, Sarasota teacher Steve Eller, Reiki practitioner Lauren Lansrud (Sept. 6); Bliss CARES’ Maggie Smith, St. Pete retiree Jerry Rechek, Balance Tampa Bay’s Ryan Young, Memphis BBQ master Shane Jeffers (Sept. 7); Parliament House Entertainment Director Darcel Stevens, Tampa’s Colombia transplant Ricardo Mendez, HSN bigwig Darryl Blaker, Tampa bear Mike Scott, Disney entertainment tech Charles Cantrell, Sarasota hottie Angel Perez, Tampa athlete Marty Walsh, St. Pete socialite Clinton Nickels (Sept. 8); St. Pete-based big bear David Reynolds, St. Pete chiropractor Karen Reese, Les Vixens dancer Christine Machado, Straz marketing manager Max Bolton, Tampa Bay entertainer Bryan Wayne – aka Brianna Summers, Stylin’ server Raymond Jamison (Sept. 9); President of Falk Research Associates Thor Falk, Owner of Lee Forrest Designs Lee Forrest (Sept. 10); City of Altamonte designer Deanndra Meno, Orlando-based international drag performer Joshua Eads-Brown aka Ginger Minj, political activist Wes Hodge, St. Pete fundraiser Jonathan Soots, Tampa animal lover Greg Burton, Tampa Bay entertainer Anastasia B. Childs – aka Alan Heflin, Tampa Gallery curator Albert Burruezo, The News Junkie co-host and ally Chris Lane (Sept. 11); owner of A Comic Shop Aaron Haaland (Sept. 12); Pride Chamber president Tom Yaegers, Moments of Clarity host Tiffany Werhner, Diversity Health Center of Tampa Bay’s David Lyter, Straight ally Dee Richter (Sept. 14); Orlando Derby girl Jill Powers (Sept. 15); Stonewall Bar DJ JB Burgos (Sept. 16); Goat daddy Mark Francen, Hamburger Mary’s performer Jimmi Rossi, St. Pete artist Barry Rothstein (Sept. 17); Glamorous socialite Bill Jansen, CAN’s communications manager Rogelio Capote, Owner of David Vargas-State Farm Insurance David Vargas, Magruder Laser Vision CMO Justice Mitchell, Priority One Financial’s Steven C. Lewis Jr. (Sept. 18).

TAMPA BAY Victoria Works Central, Sept. 7, Punky’s Bar and Grill, St. Petersburg. 727-201-4712; PunkysBar.com HCBA Diversity & Inclusion Networking Social, Sept. 7, Chester Ferguson Law Center, Tampa. 813-221-7777; HillsBar.com

Drag Queen Story Time, Sept. 8, Venue Salon, Lakeland. 863-644-0102; RoseDynastyFoundation.org Pride Skate, Sept. 9, United Skates of America, Tampa. 813-876-5826; UnitedSkates.com TIGLFF Launch Party, Sept. 12, Rialto Theatre, Tampa. 813-221-8808; TIGLFF.com Drunken Disney, Sept. 13, Iberian Rooster, St. Petersburg. 727-258-8753; IberianRooster.com Drag Queen Story Hour, Sept. 14, Community Cafe, St. Petersburg. 727-222-6979; Facebook.com/ DragQueenStroyHourTampaBay 2019 Great Gay 5K, Sept.14, Pass-A-Grille Beach, St. Petersburg. 727-328-3260; MyEpic.org. Paw Proud Fashion Show, Sept. 14, Dog Bar, St. Petersburg. 727-317-4968; ComeOutStPete.org

Trinity K. Bonet, Sept. 14, Hamburger Mary’s, Clearwater. 727-400-6996; HamburgerMarys.com/ Clearwater Farrah Moan, Sept. 14, Southern Nights, Tampa. 813-559-8625; Facebook.com/ SouthernNightsTampa LGBTQ Career Fair, Sept. 18, Metro Inclusive Health, St. Petersburg. 727-321-3854; MetroTampaBay.org Watermark Wednesday Sept. 18, Sirata Beach Resort, St. Petersburg. 813-655-9890; Facebook.com/WatermarkFL Banned Books Are a Drag, Sept. 19, St. Pete Shuffle, St. Petersburg. 727-822-2083; WordierThanThou.com

80s Dance Party, Sept. 13, Oasis, Sarasota. 941-217-5009; Facebook.com/OasisSarasota

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