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Instead of talking about it, I will be doing the work to show people they can live their lives. This is my way of honoring my ancestors by being a keeper of my brothers and sisters. — Transgender activist Yasmine Prosper

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of the many mantras for those in a 12-step program. The idea is that no one is perfect; therefore striving for or searching for perfection is futile. One should simply try to do the next right thing, work toward being better one day at a time. It sounds nice on paper, but putting it in practice is much more difficult. It takes tools and time to train your brain to think this way. I can’t say if this is the way things have always been or if I am just opening my eyes to it in the wake of information overload, but our society seems too preoccupied with perfection — giving way to an all or nothing culture. For instance, how dare anyone question Elizabeth Warren’s likeability on a national level, or how Bernie Sanders can get his proposals through Congress and pay for them, or even how Mayor Pete misspoke when lumping all LGBTQ media in one category! The philosophy that a preferred candidate is flawless

is a dangerous path. They are human. It is okay for them to misstep. It gives room for growth and progress, as was the case with Mayor Pete when he was given the opportunity to improve upon his comments. Progress versus perfection reminds me of my relationship with my parents. As a child, I thought my parents were amazing. They gave me food, shelter and clothes, but mainly ice cream! They were perfect, which meant I had to be perfect too — especially since I was inherently flawed in that I was gay. I had to

have the highest GPA in school, be the funniest person in the room and be the leader in everything. I even cut the lawn once with a pair of scissors because the lawn mower wouldn’t work. This way of thinking was neither fair to me or them. As I grew into an angst-y teen years, my parents started to stumble off the pedestal on which I placed them. Most likely because I didn’t always get my way and usually didn’t understand our lack of resources. Basically, I didn’t get to do everything I wanted to do. I spent a lot of time thinking about their poor decision making and how I would do it all so much better. I got my chance when I went away to college. Sadly, I found out that being an adult was hard. Living away from home and navigating life on my own was not as easy as I thought it would be. Luckily I had my parents to turn to for help. From then on, the older I got the more I realized how amazing my parents really were. They were far from the image of perfection I cast on them, and even further from the people my selfish teenage-self made them out to be. They were human. They did the best they could with what they had and they did more than alright by me. Their strength and their love made me the person I am today, not by always getting it right but by always working to do better the next time. My hope is that we can all adopt this way of life, asking ourselves: “How can I make the world better today than it was yesterday?” Is it holding the door open for people who are more than a few steps away from the door? Is it letting the car — that should clearly be behind you — jump the line at Popeye’s drive-thru for the new chicken sandwich (there’s a story there)? Or is it simply telling someone you disagree with that they are validated and try to move

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towards a common ground? They won’t always listen, but why not try ... over and over? The goal is progress, people aren’t perfect. In this issue of Watermark we introduce you to someone who is definitely working to make the world better tomorrow than it is today: Yasmine Prosper. She has an amazing story of struggle that turns to triumph following a life-changing bus ride to the inaugural National Transgender Visibility March in Washington, D.C. I find her past inspiring and her future hopeful. In Central Florida news we pay tribute to retiring LBTQ liaison officer Grace Peek-Harris in Central Florida, as well as look

My hope is that we can all adopt this way of life, asking ourselves: ‘How can I make the world better today than it was yesterday?

into the winning design for the Pulse Museum and Memorial. In Tampa Bay we announce the grand marshals for Tampa Pride, and are honored to report Watermark among them. We also look into Tampa’s appeal on the case of conversion therapy. Statewide, a bill has been introduced to end conversion therapy for Florida. For arts and entertainment we talk to Nick Offerman and Divine Grace about their respective upcoming shows. We strive to bring you a variety of stories, your stories. I hope you enjoy this latest issue.

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Pulse Memorial & Museum winning design selected Jeremy Williams

RLANDO | The onePULSE Foundation announced the winning design team for the Pulse Memorial & Museum at the Dr. Phillips Center in Orlando Oct. 30. The winning design team of Coldefy & Associés with RDAI, Orlando-based HHCP Architects, Xavier Veilhan, dUCKS scéno, Agence TER and Prof. Laila Farah was announced by Mayra Alvear—whose daughter, Amanda Alvear, was killed in the Pulse tragedy— and Pulse survivors Neema Bahrami and Brian Reagan. As the design team took the stage, Alvear hugged each of them with tears in her eyes. The winning design team’s memorial concept includes a fountain, shallow reflecting pool and a garden filled with 49 trees. “Water is the connecting element,” the team states on onePULSE’s website. The reflecting pool, which will encircle the club, will feature “a palette of 49 colors lines the basin and radiates towards the public spaces” in honor of the 49 Angels. As for the Pulse building itself, the design team’s concept has the building split with a corridor allowing visitors to pass through the structure with a crescent moon canopy half-encircling the building. The project’s museum component will be a circular tower with “vertical gardens and public plazas” and “a rooftop promenade.” The final component, the Survivors Walk, will include promenades, bike paths and interactive sculptures. “The National Pulse Memorial & Museum will honor the 49 lives taken and all those affected while also educating visitors and future generations on the profound impact the tragedy had on Orlando, the U.S. and the world,” said Barbara Poma, onePULSE Foundation CEO. “We are excited to work with Coldefy with RDAI | HHCP and the full team, whose next step is to embark on a master plan for the project, which will include robust community engagement.” While the design team’s concept has been presented to the public, onePULSE states that it will serve as “a starting point for discussion and a basis for the design but is not the final, finished memorial and museum.” onePULSE goes on to state that the design team will “work to further refine the designs so they can best reflect community feedback” over the next year. The Pulse Memorial & Museum is expected to be completed in 2022.

Peacekeeper: Sgt. Grace Peek-Harris (center) with members of the OPD and OCSO during the Pulse Remembrance Ceremony on June 12. Photo courtesy Goalcfl

Career in Service OPD LGBTQ liaison announces retirement, will continue as GOALcfl president Lora Korpar

RLANDO | After a career with the Orlando Police Department (OPD) spanning just over 20 years, LGBTQ liaison Sgt. Grace Peek-Harris announced she will be retiring in a Facebook post Oct. 29. “I have spent so many years in service to my community (OPD) and my country (US Navy) that the time has come to enjoy my life with my wife and son,” Peek-Harris wrote. “Not sure what my next chapter will be but I’m looking forward to the adventure. My greatest memories will be my work as an LGBTQ Liaison and the wonderful work we have done along the way. I look forward to working with each of you in a different capacity!!!” Peek-Harris initially got involved in law enforcement after serving in the U.S. Naval Security Forces. After retiring from the Navy, law enforcement seemed like the logical transition to make. After becoming an LGBTQ liaison for OPD, Peek-Harris noticed that she

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and the other liaisons across Central Florida were not very well connected to each other. This inspired her to start GOALcfl, the only chapter in the southern U.S. GOAL’s mission is to address all concerns of LGBTQ law enforcement members and to spread visibility and education throughout the community. “The organization was established basically to ensure LGBTQ law enforcement is given a fair shake, so to speak,” Peek-Harris says. “We don’t have those types of issues in Central Florida simply because we are so diverse and the city and county is so supportive of the LGBTQ community. So we’re kind of gearing ourselves up more for doing things and being involved in the community so that people see that the LGBTQ officers are there for them and that they can turn to them if they have any issues.” Though GOALcfl was just founded this year, the organization has already gotten involved in several projects including LGBTQ diversity training for new officers and a trip to World Pride in New York to do training with GOAL New York, the longest-running

chapter of the organization and the one that GOALcfl models itself after. Peek-Harris says she decided to retire from OPD because she felt like 20 years was a natural stopping point. she also wanted to spend more time with her wife, Elie Peek-Harris, and their 11-year-old son. Though Peek-Harris is retiring from OPD, she will continue as GOALcfl president until the end of her term in a year and a half. She also serves as a board member for the LGBTQ+ Center in Orlando. “As far as my retirement, I don’t plan on going and sitting on the beach all the time,” Peek-Harris says. “I’m really looking forward to being able to spend some more time in the community outside of law enforcement, but still be intertwined [with GOAL].” Peek-Harris was the second LGBTQ liaison at OPD. Her predecessor, Capt. Jim Young passed on the position to her in Oct. 2017. There are now currently four other LGBTQ liaisons at OPD which Peek-Harris was overseeing, all of whom are active in the community as well. “People in the community know who we are,” Peek-Harris says, “and that is probably the most important thing to me — that people know who we are and that they can turn to us.” Peek-Harris’ official retirement date is Jan. 1 with her final full day on the force being Dec. 1.

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Tampa appeals ruling striking down conversion therapy ban Ryan Williams-Jent

AMPA | The city of Tampa has appealed a ruling striking down its ban on the discredited practice of conversion therapy. The practice purports to change a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity and is opposed by the American Medical Association, the American Psychological Association and more. Tampa banned it in 2017 “to protect the physical and psychological well-being of minors.” U.S. District Judge William Jung concluded Oct. 4 that the regulation of psychotherapy is a state concern, not a municipal one. “Tampa has never regulated healthcare substantively in any other way” prior to the ban, he wrote. “Nor does Tampa substantively regulate services similar in nature to healthcare such as massage therapy, acupuncture, optometry, tattoos, piercings, hearing aids, medical labs or funeral services,” he continued. “This contrasts with the State of Florida’s pervasive and all-encompassing regulation in this field.” The ban was challenged by the anti-LGBTQ Liberty Counsel, which filed suit against the city on behalf of two therapists, one of whom did not practice in Florida. The group cited a violation of their First and Fourteenth Amendments. It was defended by the Southern Poverty Law Center, the National Center for Lesbian Rights and the law firm Carlton Fields on behalf of Equality Florida. “Regardless of this decision, experts agree that conversion therapy is a dangerous and sometimes deadly practice, and we know it is still routinely practiced on children and teens in Florida,” Equality Florida’s Director of Public Policy Jon Harris Maurer shared Oct. 4. “We support the city of Tampa’s leadership in protecting minors, and the Florida Legislature can and should also act immediately to protect children from this fraudulent practice.” Tampa filed its notice of appeal to the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Eleventh Circuit Oct. 31, asking a judge to reconsider Jung’s decision. Mayor Jane Castor – who advised Watermark prior to her election that “If portions of any of these ordinances or laws are struck down, then I will champion the equal treatment as a community” – also confirmed the city’s response to the ruling Nov. 2. “We have appealed that,” Castor said to cheers at Pride Zoo-La, a fundraiser at ZooTampa for next year’s Tampa Pride. “Activity like that … is not what Tampa is about.” The city subsequently confirmed to Watermark on Nov. 7 that the appeal had been filed. More than 20 cities, counties and municipalities throughout Florida have enacted bans on conversion therapy. Florida lawmakers are also seeking a statewide ban in 2020. If passed, Florida would join 18 other states, Washington, D.C. and Puerto Rico in banning the practice.

tampa proud: (L-R)Tampa Pride President Carrie West, Mayor Jane Castor, her longtime partner Ana Cruz and Tampa Pride VP Mark Eary welcome guests to Pride Zoo-La Nov. 2. Photo by ryan

Many Voices, One Vision Tampa Pride kicks off 2020 fundraising Ryan Williams-Jent

AMPA | Tampa Pride kicked off its 2020 fundraising Nov. 2 at ZooTampa at Lowry Park, welcoming supporters and unveiling next year’s grand marshals. More than 350 attended Tampa Pride’s “Wild Carnavale,” the organization’s second annual Pride Zoo-La. Guests enjoyed a silent auction, special performances and interactions with zoo animals, including a giraffe feeding. “This is one special event,” Tampa Pride President Carrie West says. “It’s made for everyone. We had a great time and it was a great turnout. We try giving everyone a little treat of what’s going on in our community.” West welcomed Tampa Mayor Jane Castor early in the evening, a two-time Tampa Pride grand marshal. She proudly reflected on the status of Pride throughout Tampa Bay, touting her inclusive accomplishments since taking office. “It really is through a partnership with all of our citizens that we’re able to get so much done and we’re

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able to lift our community up,” Castor said. “I am so excited about our sixth Pride parade.” The sixth annual celebration’s theme will be “Many Voices, One Vision,” something West says was on full display at Pride Zoo-La. “We came together with our many voices,” he reflects. “In 2020, we’ll come together as a community, as a country and as a world.” West and Tampa Pride Vice President Mark Eary also presented Catherine Lowry Straz with the organization’s Community Leader Appreciation Award between performances. The organization cited her environmental activism with ZooTampa’s Catherine Lowry Straz Veterinary Hospital, which provides services to more than 300 species. The duo subsequently unveiled Tampa Pride 2020’s grand marshals. “Usually we don’t reveal them until January,” West says, “but we wanted people to be a part of Pride Zoo-La, so we had our 2019 grand marshals there and our new recipients.” West says the grand marshals were chosen by Tampa Pride’s board, which carefully considered

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their contributions to and longtime support of Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ community at large. The honorees are Renee Cossette, Tampa Bay International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival Director; Bradley Nelson, Bradley’s on 7th owner; Sally Phillips and Ercilia Albistu of the Hillsborough County LGBTA Democratic Caucus; Freddy and Bardha Mamudi, New York New York Pizza owners; Carol “Mama” Steen, Tampa Bay bartender; Angelique Padro, Tampa Bay performer Lady Janet and Jay Chetney, Stonewall veteran. Watermark was also chosen as Tampa Pride 2020’s community organization grand marshal. “I can’t express how excited I am that Watermark has been named a grand marshal,” Watermark owner, publisher and editor Rick Claggett says. “We have been longtime supporters of Tampa Pride and work hard to make sure Tampa is represented as a thriving and inclusive city,” he continues. “It is humbling that the board of Tampa Pride recognizes that and amazing to receive such an honor from them.” “Our grand marshals have done so much for the community,” West says, “and Tampa Pride 2020 is going to be bigger than ever. We have a lot planned.” The sixth annual Tampa Pride will be held March 28, 2020. For more information, including sponsorship opportunities, visit TampaPride.org.

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Florida lawmakers seek a statewide ban on conversion therapy in 2020 Jeremy Williams

quality Florida was joined by state Sen. José Javier Rodríguez (D- Miami) and state Rep. Michael Grieco (D-Miami Beach) in hosting a press conference at the Florida State Capitol in Tallahassee Nov. 5 to discuss legislation that would enact a statewide ban on the widely discredited practice of “conversion therapy” on minors. House Bill (HB) 41 — filed in the Florida House on Aug. 9 by Grieco — and Senate Bill (SB) 180 — filed in the Florida Senate on Aug. 23 by Rodríguez — both seek to prohibit licensed practitioners from performing conversion therapy on minors and leaving any practitioners who do so subject to disciplinary proceedings by the state’s Department of Health and appropriate boards. HB 41 has been co-sponsored by 21 other state representatives and SB

180 was co-introduced by Sen. Linda Stewart (D- Orlando) and Sen. Gary Farmer (D- Fort Lauderdale). This is the second year in a row in which Grieco and Rodríguez have filed joint bills calling for a statewide ban on conversion therapy. “I gave a speech on this exact issue last year and Sen. Rodriguez and I both filed the same bill last year,” Grieco said from the State Capitol Building’s fourth floor rotunda. “I was looking over my words from last year and talking about what is essentially child abuse, state sanctioned child abuse.” Grieco spoke about dropping his child to school in Miami Beach recently and being aware that they walked by the office of an individual who performs conversion therapy. “It sickens me that the state of Florida issues professional licenses to individuals who essentially abuse children. Who pretend to be somehow participating in science when there is no reputable

organization anywhere in the world that can say conversion therapy is anything but child abuse,” Grieco said. The practice of conversion therapy has been discredited by all major medical associations including the American Medical Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Psychological Association with each organization stating it has not only been shown to be ineffective, but actually has a negative impact on youth who experience it. “Conversion therapy is not conversion and it is not therapy,” said Rodríguez during the press conference. “It’s been debunked. What we ought to be doing is affirming LGBTQ youth and again not putting the state’s blessing behind the infliction of trauma.” If passed, a statewide conversion therapy ban would go into effect July 1, 2020.

South Florida housing project for elderly LGBTQ residents breaks ground Jeremy Williams

South Florida nonprofit organization broke ground on a 48-unit apartment building in Wilton Manors, Florida intended to bring affordable housing to LGBTQ senior citizens, according to Multi-Housing News. The Residences at Equality Park will be a four-story building offering housing ranging from studio apartments to two-bedroom units. The project, which was announced in 2018, is being developed by nonprofit Carrfour Supportive Housing. Carrfour will also serve as operator and service coordinator for the property. The Pride Center — a nonprofit organization in South Florida which provides a welcoming, safe space for the LGBTQ community — will provide services to Residences at Equality Park including support groups, cultural events, recreational activities and the annual Active Aging Health Expo. The Residences at Equality Park is expected to be completed in 2020.

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Judges vacate Trump admin’s anti-LGBTQ ‘conscience rule’ for health workers Chris Johnson of The Washington Blade, Courtesy the National LGBT Media Association A federal judge in New York has vacated a Trump administration “conscience rule” allowing health care workers to get out of procedures with which they have religious objections, such as abortion or gender reassignment surgery. In a lengthy 147-page decision against the “conscience rule,” U.S. District Judge Paul Engelmayer concludes the measure was enacted in contravention of the Administrative Procedures Act. “The court’s finding that HHS lacked substantial rule-making authority as to three of the five principal conscience provisions nullifies the heart of the rule as to these statutes,” Engelmayer writes. The Trump administration, Engelmayer concludes, also issued the rule in violation of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the Emergency Medical Treatment & Labor Act with respect to health care employment and emergency contexts. Further, the rule’s assertions about discrimination against health

care workers objecting to certain procedures over religious beliefs doesn’t meet the definition of the term discrimination, Engelmayer writes. Although the Trump administration asserted it implemented the rule in a “significant increase” of complaints by health care agencies unsure of the rules for exemptions, Engelmayer finds that claim “flatly untrue.” HHS cites 358 complaints between Nov. 2016 and the end of fiscal year 2018, but Engelmayer notes the Trump administration has admitted six percent are duplicates, leaving only 343, and “only around 20 complaints implicate any of the conscience provisions.” The Department of Health & Human Services made the conscience rule final in May to the consternation of progressive activists, who objected to the threat to access to abortion and the potential to refuse service to LGBT people, including for gender reassignment surgery and other transition-related care for transgender people. U.S. District Judge Stanley Bastian, an Obama appointee, subsequently ruled against the measure two days after the first ruling in Spokane, Wash. Bastian concluded the administration’s rule was unlawful and granted summary judgment in

favor of Washington State Attorney General Bob Ferguson. “The court agreed that all Washingtonians deserve to receive the full range of health care services,” Ferguson said. “This rule would have disproportionately harmed rural and working poor Washington families, who have no alternatives to their local health care providers, as well as LGBTQ individuals, who already face discrimination when they seek medical care.” Jamie Gliksberg, senior attorney for LGBT group Lambda Legal, said in a statement said the dual rulings against the “conscience rule” underscore the degree to which it is unlawful. “Two judges in two days have recognized the denial of care rule for what it is, an egregious and unconstitutional attack on women, LGBT people and other vulnerable populations,” Gliksberg said. “In his ruling, delivered from the bench, Judge Bastian joins Judge Paul A. Engelmayer of the Southern District of New York in vacating this discriminatory and harmful rule, and in likely saving countless lives.” An HHS spokesperson in response to the ruling pointed out laws protecting religious views enjoyed widespread support.

reality, including new treatments for blindness and certain types of leukemia,” an NIH statement says. “The collaboration between the NIH and the Gates Foundation sets out a bold goal of advancing safe, effective and durable gene-based cures to clinical trials in the United States and relevant countries in sub-Saharan Africa within the next seven to ten years,” the statement says. Dr. Anthony Fauci, Director of the National Institute of Allergies and Infectious Diseases, said the initiative is aimed at taking gene research to a new level that has yet to be developed. According to Fauci, the goal is to develop a means of genetically altering disease fighting cells in the body to enable them to protect against HIV through a single injection.

He noted that the current line of research, which is nearing the stage of clinical trials on humans, involves withdrawing blood from the body, extracting disease fighting T-cells from the blood in a laboratory, genetically changing the cells to enable them to successfully kill HIV and prevent someone from being infected, and then to “reinfuse” the altered cells back into the person’s body. The company’s process involves extracting cells from the body, genetically editing them in a lab and reinfusing them into the person’s body. Although this requires a hospital or clinic visit and isn’t the more advanced process that Fauci says NIH is now working toward, if successful, it would be the first-ever full cure for HIV through gene therapy.

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The National Institutes of Health (NIH) has announced it is launching a $100 million initiative to fund research to develop gene-based cures for HIV and sickle cell disease. The announcement says the initiative will work in collaboration with the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, which will also invest $100 million toward gene research for an HIV and sickle cell disease cure. “Dramatic advances in genetics over the last decade have made effective gene-based treatments a

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in other news German lawmaker introduces conversion therapy ban Openly gay German Health Minister Jens Spahn has introduced a bill that would ban conversion therapy for minors. Reuters reported it would punish anyone who carries “out conversion therapy on under-18s, or coercing, deceiving or threatening anyone older into such treatment” with up to a year in prison. Anyone who advertises or offers or practices it would be fined 30,000 euros ($33,383.70) if the bill were to become law. “Homosexuality is not a disease,” Spahn said. “Therefore, even the term therapy is misleading. This supposed therapy makes you sick and not healthy.”

over 80 LGBTQ candidates win A “rainbow wave” swept across the U.S. Nov. 5 as 81 openly LGBTQ candidates won in political races across the country. LGBTQ Victory Fund, an organization dedicated to ensuring the victories of openly LGBTQ candidates, came out with a report documenting all of the election results. It found that 47 gay men, 20 lesbians, eight bisexuals, seven queer-identifying people and one pansexual were elected. Also, five transgender women and one gender-nonconforming individual were elected. The majority of the election wins were on the local government level, with 73 LGBTQ victories. There were also five state legislature wins, four mayoral wins and one judicial win.

Gay penguins adopt again Australia’s famous gay penguin dads Sphen and Magic are trying for a new baby. The penguins won international attention in 2018 for their adoption of a fertilized egg at the SEA LIFE Sydney Aquarium. Together they hatched a chick, named Sphengic in a “Brangelina”-style mash-up of couple’s two names. Aquarium employees decided to give them a second egg when they noticed the couple making a nest (called a “clutch,” for penguins) right in time for mating season. Penguins are among the most well-documented examples of homosexuality found in the animal kingdom; couples appear to spontaneously mate, bond, take possession of fertilized eggs and rear a chick together.

Oregon updates LGBTQ rights Oregon’s LGBTQ community has updated rights to equal treatment under an executive order signed by Gov. Kate Brown, America’s first openly bisexual governor. Brown updated a 1987 executive order to reflect current law and understandings about sexual orientation and gender identity. The executive order directs state agencies to treat everyone consistent with their gender identity and to modify forms to add a third option—“nonbinary/other”—in addition to “male” and “female.” A state agency must also adopt statewide policies to expand access to appropriate restrooms and to accommodate state employees and the public who are transgender, nonbinary, or gender non-conforming.

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Trans Equality The epidemic of transgender violence in Florida and the missteps that follow

s the State Director

of Transgender Equality at Equality Florida, I have been advocating for transgender civil rights for a decade. As a white, trans woman, I have never felt personally vulnerable, afraid or concerned for my personal safety until these last two years. Recently, I have felt the weight of fear and rapid beating of my heart as I experienced being verbally attacked, intentionally misgendered and physically threatened by hate-filled people gaslighted by our current antitransgender national rhetoric.

In 2018, more than two dozen transgender Americans were reported murdered in the United States. Those were just some of the 369 transgender people murdered around the world in the same year, marking another increase in anti-transgender murders. In fact, a transgender person was murdered on average somewhere on this planet every day. Alarmingly, Florida led the nation with five transgender women of color being murdered across our state. Three transgender women were murdered in Jacksonville, one in Orlando, and one in North Port. This year, two more black transgender women have been murdered in Florida, and a member of the LGBTQ community currently lies in critical condition, having been beaten, tied to the bumper of a truck and dragged for over two blocks before being left for dead on the roadside. This terrifying epidemic of anti-transgender murders in Florida over a short two year period of time has spread fear throughout the transgender community and sewn mistrust with law enforcement agencies. Law enforcement agencies play a critical role in the early stages of these violent crimes and are under tremendous pressure from the families of the victims

to find the murderer of their loved one and from the community to seek justice for one of their own. Misgendering occurs when the victim is incorrectly identified by their “deadname,” the name they used prior to transitioning, and pronouns that do not properly reflect the authentic gender identity the victim is living every day. Improperly identifying the victim to the media can lead to missteps that demean and dishonor the victim. Despite available transgender awareness training and Department of Justice-facilitated transgender cultural competency training, victims are too often misgendered by law enforcement, inaccurate information that is then passed on to the media. Misgendering a transgender murder victim not only disrespects the victim in death but breeds an environment of mistrust between law enforcement and the trans community. The community has watched this happen time and time again across the country. When law enforcement shows a lack of understanding of gender identity and the importance of honoring one’s authentic identity regardless of what ID someone is carrying, they impede their own investigation and deter potential witnesses or community members with relevant information who fear they too will be treated inappropriately. But, the misgendering of transgender victims of violence could be easily avoided by law enforcement being involved and engaged with the local LGBTQ community. Agencies should create LGBTQ Community Liason Teams that become a part of the community, are visible at Pride events and build trust with a community in need of agency support. Law enforcement agencies that have done this critical work are seeing the results - a deeper connection with the LGBTQ community, more access to resources following

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a crime and the relationships necessary to make our streets safer. It is time for action in Florida. We can no longer sit idly by as a marginalized community is slaughtered across our state. This epidemic of anti-transgender violence against transgender

marginalized communities and forcefully reject a hostile Trump Administration bent on erasing the transgender community and stoking the flames of transphobia. While our leaders must act with political courage, we are all called upon to build safe and inclusive

Workforce Act, that will protect all Floridians against discrimination - regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Our leaders on all levels must engage in order to end this cycle of violence. That means Governor DeSantis must take the lead on

people of color not only calls for increased education by law enforcement but demands that our leaders speak up, marshall resources and counter the epidemic. Elected officials on all state and local levels must denounce demeaning rhetoric aimed at the transgender and gender non-conforming community that breeds indifference in the face of discrimination and perpetuates violence. It is time to protect our most

communities for all members of the LGBTQ community. We do this when we refuse to accept that black transgender women are doomed to a cycle of violence due to their race or their gender identity. We must call our elected officials and demand that they address hate crimes statutes in Florida to include gender identity protections and pass a statewide comprehensive nondiscrimination law, the Florida Competitive

protecting a transgender community that is under assault. I want to feel safe again in Florida. I want to be able to travel across this beautiful state without facing discrimination and bigotry or fearing for my life. Our concerns are real. The horrifying statistics are there. Where is the outrage?

Improperly identifying the victim to the media can lead to missteps that demean and dishonor the victim.

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Gina Duncan is Equality Florida’s Director of Transgender Equality.

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Jake and I recently spent a Sunday afternoon at the Florida Aquarium. My youngest was excited to see a tank that would allow him to touch actual stingrays. The field trip was an outing for parents and their children organized by a friend and former co-worker of mine at Metro Inclusive Health. It consists of transgender children ages 12 and under and provides them with fun environments to socialize while their parents get support from others with similarly-identified children. Jake and I cannot always attend regular meetings due to their locations and my hectic schedule, but we go to outings like these as our lives allow. This was the second group trip Jake attended, and on each adventure he has had so much fun. I believe that he should meet as many different people as he can — this has less to do with him being transgender and more with me wanting him to love all people and see diversity and inclusion with his young eyes. Exposure to people, places and things unique from us is something I value regarding all four of my kids. I cannot imagine that anyone at the aquarium that day knew we represented a transgender children’s group, but I can point out a few unique characteristics of our day. A few parents and professionals on our trip were wearing T-shirts

that read, “Black Social Worker’s Lives Matter” and “Protect Trans Kids.” Perhaps we came off like a big group of liberal parents to some; I was too busy chasing after a very excited little dude in a crowded aquarium to notice. The moment we posed for a cheeky photo in front of an informative plaque that read “Sex Change,” which detailed the unique gender qualities of sea life, probably did not stand out to many of the other attendees. When we got the group organized to go into the aquarium, our gang did introductions to make everyone feel comfortable. We discussed pronouns as their icebreaker and this small gesture was a powerful reminder for me that gender is so unique to each individual. The fact that some kids do not want to be forced into a male or female box, so to speak, is equally impactful. Why must we require people in general to choose from two, very distinct options where there are so many other identities out there and in-between? It’s not something I considered very often before I realized my youngest daughter was truly my baby boy. Our family is fiercely protective of Jake, and we worry about him having negative interactions when disclosing his gender identity. I dream of all of my children being happy, healthy adults who enjoy life, and it is my job to get them there the best way I know how to. I genuinely love people and try to see good before I look for bad — and with all my kids, I hope I can raise them to be better than me; bolder, less self-conscious and absolutely more loving of one’s self. I wasted too many years hating myself for reasons that I now see as my unique strengths.

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I’m incredibly social, but in certain settings I’m introverted until I gain the confidence to relax and put myself at ease. Meeting parents can be awkward when there is little to nothing in common other than the

mostly with adults, he was enjoying just being with kids who could know about him and understand it personally. All of us, at any age, crave that feeling of belonging and acceptance when we show someone

with the group. Jake talked about nothing else for days and I know he really enjoyed the experience on many different levels. It even gave me new friends on social media, connecting me with families who have so much

All of us, at any age, crave that feeling of belonging and acceptance when we show someone our true selves. fact that our kids want to hang out. Attending a field trip like the one Jake and I did would normally get my anxiety going pretty full steam, but I realized as I began reflecting on the trip and writing this column that I wasn’t anxious about meeting any of the other parents at all. I did not know any of the other parents yet, but I already liked them. As for Jake, although he was shy and interacted

our true selves. I tell my kids over and over to always be themselves. Naturally they respond with eye rolls or blank stares that make me wonder if my teenagers are really cyborgs, but they all are pretty quirky; this thrills me and makes me proud that they feel supported enough to be themselves. The aquarium day was fantastic and I look forward to more field trips

in common with mine. I now understand that you be your authentic self and belong at the same time — and for that, I am grateful, for my children and for myself.

Sylvie Griffiths is a proud mom of four whose eclectic interests include hairdressing, horror movies, mental health, advocacy, and writing. She holds a BS in Behavioral Healthcare and an MBA.

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activist Harry Potter & the Dark Art of Othering

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meeting for a Harry Potter-focused event and the lead of the meeting thought it would be a fun idea to go around the table and introduce ourselves and say what house we’re in. At this point, I had only managed to get through one chapter of the first book, I had seen the movies and ridden the Orlando rides, but I had not chosen a house (or let a talking hat do it for me) nor did I care. So when it was my turn, my answer to the house question was: “I am none of that.”

You would have thought my nose had fallen off and I had revealed myself to be He Who Must Not Be Named himself. Every drop of oxygen was sucked out of the room and I was immediately transported back to middle school when I had decided to try-out for basketball without knowing how to actually play basketball. How all my friends and classmates appeared to intuitively know how to play is still a mystery to me. I’m confident Mister Rogers would have been proud of me for trying, but as I was dribbling toward the coach, and could clearly see in his eyes that I didn’t know what I was doing, I wanted to be anywhere else. Six feet under would have been a welcome relief. Since that planning meeting, I promised I would read “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” and, as my GoodReads account can attest, I completed the task this year. While I could pick apart the book, I readily admit J.K. Rowling competently strings words together and can tell a tale, which I can’t say of all the authors I read in 2019. This house thing though.

I’m reminded of Jane Elliot, the schoolteacher who conducted an anti-racism experiment with her third grade class the day after Martin Luther King, Jr. was assassinated. The “Blue eyes-Brown eyes” experiment was designed to show children what it felt like to be discriminated against by pretending that a certain eye color made a group superior. Elliott found herself a controversial figure, particularly among her colleagues, for one main reason: the experiment worked. Simply by buying into a story, the students believed they were superior if they were told such and did their level best to make sure their inferiors realized it. Several documentaries have been made, if you’d like to experience the tension secondhand and learn more. Rowling is by no means the first or only author to use this model to create the conflict that ages and ages of storytelling has shown us is necessary. Does the conflict have to be nearly as blatant? In this first book, characters are often referred to as being “stupid” and members of different houses have different characteristics, physically and intellectually. The houses compete against each other to get points for various achievements including prowess at Quidditch – division and “othering” seems to be the biggest lesson the professors impart. Othering is a term coined by cultural theorist Edward W. Said and has traditionally been used to describe an agenda against a minority to keep them in their place. Today the practice of othering has expanded to include finding ways of putting people in their place whether they be a minority or not – the term cisgendered, is one example. The intent of the label feels like saying: There, you’re an other now too. How does that feel? While I’m in full support of us all choosing our pronouns, it worries me that we’ve ventured into a

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territory of self-othering. It makes me wonder if we’re moving toward equality or defining our various houses more thoroughly. Perhaps Rowling’s lesson is in how people behave while acknowledging their otherness. We definitely see that in young Harry trying and

the Lions were losing. Few of us sitting in the section would be able to run from one end of the field to the other without passing out, much less accomplish the physical feats the athletes have trained to do – but they have failed us by losing. There is a transference

embrace the happening of a bunch of people coming together for a time. I would go into how othering has transferred to our politics to the nonsensical point of people denying science or deciding, without qualification, what constitutes journalism, but that is a

trying again to make peace, despite how he is mistreated. How we handle the adversities of life is a known measure of our proximity to enlightenment. Sports, to me, are one illustration of this. I go to Orlando City Soccer games because I find them hella fun and a great way to spend some time with by fellow Orlandoans. More than once I’ve shared a section with fans who were downright vile toward the players because

that happens when going to sporting events through which we live vicariously through the players who symbolically represent our home. We are encouraged to cheer against our other which is not usually kind jibbing. These folks who turn against their own team, consider their avatar on the field to be a failure. Meanwhile, it’s just a game. I’m trying to make peace with the inner me who shied away from sports to

column for a different time. I did follow-up with the leader of that Potter planning meeting after I’d read the book. I declared myself to be “Muggle” (someone who doesn’t have magic), proud to communicate that I understood, but she replied I was “No-Maj,” because that’s what they’re called in the United States. It’s enough to make you want to leave the ball on the court and get ice cream instead.

While I’m in full support of us all choosing our pronouns, it worries me that we’ve ventured into a territory of self-othering.

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“I’ll reverse it on the first day of my presidency ... The only thing that should matter when it comes to allowing military personnel to serve is whether or not they can handle the job.” —Democratic presidential candidate Elizabeth Warren, pledging to roll back a Trump administration policy that bans transgender servicemembers from the military

Rachel Weisz cast as Elizabeth Taylor in biopic centered on her AIDS activism

scar-winning actress Rachel Weisz is stepping into the role of one of Hollywood’s most iconic stars. Weisz will play Elizabeth Taylor in the biopic “A Special Relationship.” The movie will focus on Taylor’s friendship with assistant Roger Wall, a gay man who grew up in the homophobic “Deep South,” and her AIDS activism in the 1980s. The film is being produced by See-Saw Films, the production company behind “The King’s Speech” and “Lion,” along with Barbara Berkowitz, Tim Mendelson and Quinn Tivey — trustees of the Elizabeth Taylor Estate/House of Taylor Trust. “A Special Relationship” is from a script penned by the Oscar-winning writer Simon Beaufoy and will be directed by female film-making duo Bert & Bertie. A release date has yet to be announced.

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Ellen DeGeneres to be honored by Hollywood Foreign Press

he Hollywood Foreign Press Association (HFPA) announced on Nov. 4 Ellen DeGeneres will receive the Carol Burnett Award at the next Golden Globe Awards. DeGeneres, a three-time Golden Globe nominee, is the second recipient to be honored with the accolade; the first was Carol Burnett herself. “From her sitcoms, to stand-up, to becoming a household staple on daytime television, she is a pioneer who has captivated audiences for nearly 25 years with her undeniable charm and wit,” said HFPA President Lorenzo Soria. DeGeneres will accept the honor at the annual Golden Globes presentation Jan. 5. The ceremony will air live coast-to-coast on NBC.

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‘Sherlock’ creators tease new homoerotic ‘Dracula’ series

he BBC released a teaser trailer for their highly anticipated “Dracula” series, starring Danish actor Claes Bang as the iconic count, and this iteration of the classic tale looks to take a more pansexual approach than we’ve seen in the past. In the trailer, Dracula is seen gently caressing the face of a terrified young man as he tells him, “Try and stay calm, you’re doing very well.” The series comes from “Sherlock” writers Mark Gatiss and Steven Moffat and is produced by Hartswood Films. Like “Sherlock,” “Dracula” will consist of three feature-length episodes and air on BBC One in the U.K. and on Netflix in the U.S. No release date has been set.

Sam Smith surprises with cover of Donna Summer classic

am Smith released a new cover of the iconic Donna Summer disco track, “I Feel Love.” Smith’s recent posts on social media have shown them in the studio working on their next album and, at midnight Nov. 1, they dropped the new single online. Smith’s cover of the song reunites them with Guy Lawrence, half of the duo Disclosure, who produced the track. The new version makes no effort to reinvent the original track, rather recreates the original’s hypnotic beat while Smith croons their approximation of Summer’s classic vocals. The new recording is featured as part of a holiday ad campaign for Target. It is now available on streaming services.

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GLAAD says the life expectancy rate for a transgender woman of color is 35 years of age. If you’re a transgender woman of color, living life in your truest form takes courage and living it out of the closet may take even more impetus as the outlook can become bleak. There are tenacious individuals in this community who are compelled to make a change to these statistics and bring forth a new era. One where transgender women of color are respected leaders, visionaries, game-changers and perhaps most importantly, mentors for younger transgender people. Watermark spoke with one such individual who is ready to lead, inspire and fight for other transgender individuals – especially women of color. Yasmine Prosper is a 35 year-old, black transgender woman currently living in Orlando. Like so many others, she has endured intersectional discrimination where sexism, racism and homophobia cross paths, leading to damaging emotional exchanges and violent physical altercations. She started her life in the Virgin Islands, living with a single, overworked, religious mother. Yasmine says her first recollection of knowing she was transgender came around the age of four. “I hated wearing boys clothing,” she explains. Instead of activities like basketball and other sports, Yasmine explains, she enjoyed “hanging out with the girls, playing house and with dolls.” In fact, boys in general made Yasmine feel uncomfortable. “Older boys realized I was a lot more feminine and began bullying me at five years old.” She says they named her Yasmine “as a way to call me a faggot.” The older teenage boys would harass her brother, insulting the way she presented herself and because she enjoyed the company of feminine companions. In the mid-90s, when Yasmine was nine, a category five hurricane destroyed their home and most of the Virgin Islands. During the aftermath, her family packed up and moved to Winter Park, Florida where she would begin her journey on stateside American soil as a closeted

THE ROAD TO ACTIVISM: Yasmine Prosper reflects on her desire to empower her community. Photo by dylan todd transgender child at Winter Park Elementary school. “At first I wasn’t picked on because I was femme, but because I had an accent,” she says, adding that middle school is where harassment for her gender identity began. “I felt extremely femme and in middle school I did not like what I was supposed to be and what I was becoming. I wanted to be a cheerleader and fit in with the girls and not be ostracized.” This did not go over well with her male classmates. “Harassment from the boys traumatized me,” Yasmine says, noting that she persevered through years of playground torture to high school, where she was an outspoken, funny fashionista and enjoyed creative makeup and on-trend hairstyles. She was friends with all of the girls and lived by the motto “learn to read or be read,” yet she still faced harassment and felt she didn’t belong.

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The situation became dire at 16, to the point where she grew scared of going to school. In fact, Yasmine missed so much school that her mother was almost charged for truancy. Afterwards, Yasmine’s mother asked if she would like to move to Washington, D.C. to live with her gay uncle and his partner. Yasmine accepted the offer and moved, along with her 15 year-old cousin who the family also suspected was gay. Within the first few days, Yasmine’s uncles took the teenagers out for dinner and asked both of them if they were gay. Initially, Yasmine said “no,” but her response changed when her uncle said he was sent on a fact finding mission by her mother. That’s when Yasmine said “I am gay,” and officially came out as a member of the LGBTQ community, along with her younger cousin. She did not mention being transgender.

After Yasmine turned 17, she started attending plays, joined a dance team, participated in drama club and developed a deep longing to come out as a transgender teenage girl. “I’m just going to do it,” she told herself, beginning her social transition by wearing more feminine hairstyles and clothing. During this time Yasmine was traveling between D.C. and Florida to visit her mother. She wanted to share the news with her in a soft way, deciding to convey her truth through poetry. She wrote her mother one poem expressing her feelings and vulnerabilities. The response was cold and hurtful, she says. “What if my friends at church find out?” Yasmine’s mother asked. Instead of supporting her, she tried repressing her transgender teenager by threatening exile, advising her “you cannot be a girl in this house.

You either continue to live as a boy or you leave.” Yasmine did not let her mother stop her transition. With support from her boyfriend and friends, she proudly came out to her world and boldly chose Yasmine as the name best representing her to “take power back from the bullies” who traumatized her as a child. “Choosing the name Yasmine helped me reclaim selfrespect,” she says, allowing her to process a devastating childhood where “I felt constant shame for simply existing.” News of Yasmine’s transition came as a culture shock for her mother. This was not a surprise to Yasmine as her mother held her religious convictions tight and was from a small island lacking openly black, transgender people. “She had a hard time finding acceptance for me,” she says, explaining that the Virgin Islands’ only source of transgender visibility at the time was the Jerry Springer talk show of the 90s, which depicted scandalous secrets and raunchy relationships involving over-dramatized couples. The show’s representation of transgender women of color were individuals deemed as drag queens and “not viewed authentically as women by most people watching the show.” After graduating from high school, Yasmine moved back to Florida and in with her boyfriend. At times she felt a sharp confliction regarding how she was supposed to be versus who she was. These feelings led to loneliness, sadness and claustrophobia from her inability to verbalize the flooding emotions. That’s when she began searching for guidance and found her way to the Youth Minority Association (YMA) in Orlando. The program launched to provide a safe space for LGBTQ youth within Central Florida. “YMA is a place where kids could find a blueprint on how to live better lives,” Yasmine says. “YMA brought me to a place where I met others like me who felt lost and how I met my gay parents who adopted me when I was 17 years old. They were my biggest supporters and closest friends. I felt protected, loved and acknowledged as a daughter by them.” During this time, Yasmine earned her college degree in

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psychology and human services. Upon graduation she finally received the validation she had been yearning for her entire life. “Mom felt more comfortable and finally said she was proud of me,” she says. This was a major turning point for her as she felt like a burden most of her life and was now proud college graduate. Yasmine is currently a human services specialist that tackles mental health for a large aeronautical company’s employees. She is still working through demons and childhood episodes of traumatic events, processing transphobic memories and navigating a world where childlike transphobic harassment now comes from adults. “These people want us dead,” a re-traumatized Yasmine FREEDOM FIGHTERs: Yasmine Prosper (L) and Leanza Clute in Washington D.C. photo by maia melody monet says. The bullies of her youth have grown up and are in In an attempt to curtail lengthy process just so she feels immediately put her life and workspaces, governments and moments of discrimination safe going to work or grocery mental health in danger. Not neighborhoods. “My anxiety is and harassment targeting her, shopping. Perpetual fear easily only did they expose her to other forever on 10. Whenever I get Yasmine says she stopped putting turned into a daily paralysis, employees, but they began asking into a Lyft, I immediately bury herself out into the community, where agoraphobia ravaged intrusive questions regarding her my head into my phone. I avoid even though she was passing Yasmine’s mental state, leaving body and the deeply personal face to face contact in most situations and feel uncomfortable shaking hands.” However, her grim reality allowed her to realize exactly what she wants from life. “If I’m going to die today, I want to die a martyr protecting other transgender people,” she explains. This is evident in her adoption of 10 “sons,” beginning shortly after her college graduation. “I felt like something was missing and I knew I needed to be of service,” she explains. “I knew I needed to create a safe space for young boys who had been kicked out of their homes for their sexuality and identity. I became a gay mother to take kids off the street into a home where they were fed, clothed and empowered to finish school.” When asked to detail her experiences existing as a black – Yasmine Prosper transgender woman in the workplace, Yasmine’s description as a cisgender woman. “For topic of her transitional surgeries. her mostly homebound with is oppressive and grim. “There transgender women, the biggest anxiety and using hyper-planning “Some people feel that after they is a certain level of fear residing threat can be from gay men.” strategies like getting ready learn someone is transgender in you. In spaces where there is Although Yasmine is a mother for work three hours early that they are given the right to discomfort the thought – ‘maybe to 10 “gay sons,” she stresses and tactical planning of when, that person’s business.” this is the day that I die’ always the LGBTQ community can be where, and how to show face in “Each day is filled with crosses my mind.” extremely transphobic, especially public. “When a girl gets killed decisions mostly based out of Yasmine, a guardian of her cisgender gay men. “Gay men the agoraphobia heightens. I’m fear,” she continues. “I am just colleague’s mental health on have a habit of breaking us down always triggered because my trying to exist.” Planning and the job, was outed at work on superficial standards. You’re livelihood is at stake.” executing daily tasks turns into a by a fellow co-worker who

This march gave me the opportunity to be a part of change happening to protect trans lives … I felt how Martin Luther King, Jr. and other freedom fighters must have felt marching on Washington.

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‘still a man’ if you have certain parts. I’ve even been outed at a straight bar by a gay man who interrupted a conversation my girlfriend and I were having with someone to say we were guys and inform them of our deadnames.” Trauma and subsequent Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from events such as these left Yasmine feeling depleted. “Every day you have to find a way to feel comfortable in a new space. This makes for a hard life. People must change their way of thinking by being respectful and aware of others existing. Opinions should not have you eradicated. This isn’t the 1960’s anymore.” However, Yasmine says she knew she had arrived in her transition when “men started opening the door for me and calling me by my proper pronouns.” For some transgender individuals, this is a euphoric feeling – one of long awaited acceptance and a newfound confidence emerging from a dysphoric echo chamber of one’s mind. However, the joy of “passing” quickly fades when your transgender siblings are still targeted by hateful speech and slain by acts of violence. “I’ve watched people get harassed and couldn’t defend them because I had to choose my safety first,” Yasmine shares. After witnessing multiple instances of harassment and feeling helpless, she decided it was mandatory for her to become an advocate for other transgender women of color. Yasmine became more compelled to protect transgender adults and teens by providing them with tools of empowerment, opportunity for growth and the help needed to protect them from harmful situations. That led her to the One Orlando Alliance, the 501(c)3 nonprofit and support network founded in the aftermath of the Pulse tragedy that unifies and empowers Central Florida’s LGBTQ organizations. She came onboard to help homeless LGBTQ youth in Orlando. She says her experience with homeless youth and transgender minorities helps her speak to the community about these issues. “I have a non-judgmental spirit,” she says. “There is disparity across areas of resources for people of color, especially black agencies, but One Alliance Orlando is actively engaging

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transgender women. The people agreed and cheered us on.” The march added gas to the passionate fire burning within Yasmine’s activist heart. She says she “left knowing there was more work needing to be done, including protecting homeless transgender youth, and that [she] needed to come out more loudly; to be publicly transgender to help change the world.” She came back to Orlando feeling renewed and uplifted – ready to make her voice heard so that others could do the same. Attending the march changed her life because it made her feel “comfortable being visible,” she says. “You can’t expect to see change if no one stands up. I’m tired of sitting around – now I’m motivated to tell my story.” When Yasmine returned to Florida she was greeted with a request from Come Out with Pride to convey her perspective. Passengers on the bus ride to D.C. also advocated for her to be the change: Central Florida activists convene in Washington D.C. at the inaugural National Transgender Visibility March on Sept. 28. Photo by melody maia monet speak at the celebration, and she gave a speech that paid respect to Marsha P. Johnson and transgender and LGBTQ equality Of the trip’s most impactful wanted to accomplish during with minorities and people of Sylvia Rivera, the transgender movements. Many pro-trans stories, Yasmine recalls one the trip, including enhancing her color to help connect with those women of color who many agree equality political and nonprofit in particular. “During the bus communities cast to the margins.” coping skills for interpersonal launched the LGBTQ equality leaders spoke at the event as well. movement at the Stonewall ride there was a person I knew communication and experiencing After volunteering with the “I got to see a black from the YMA who transitioned. the one-of-a-kind event featuring Alliance, she felt more of service Inn in 1969. transgender woman speak her She opened up her about a multitude of other transgender to the LGBTQ community but was She also echoed “Orange is truth and tell her story while experience with drug abuse. No still yearning for more in terms of and nonbinary individuals, the New Black” star Laverne Cox, Rise Up was playing in the one talks about self-medicating, allies and other LGBTQ personal growth as an activist. saying “It is revolutionary for any background – I felt relieved and especially in those early years of community members. By happenstance, Yasmine’s trans person to choose to be seen the message was heard,” Yasmine transitioning, and then several It was music to her ears best friend reminded her and visible in a world that tells us says. “This march gave me the other similar stories were told and the perfect way for her to about the inaugural National we should not exist.” She spoke opportunity to be part of change including drug and alcohol declare her new-found desire to Transgender Visibility March about the trans murder epidemic happening to protect trans lives. coping mechanisms. become a leader teaching others on Washington D.C., held Sept. and told the crowd “we will not “The experience of marching “I was in awe because these to lead. “If not me, then who?” 28, 2019. It rallied members be erased!” She finished with a for my community was surreal people had it together,” she she asked herself, deciding to of the transgender, gender call to action, asking attendees to and emotional,” she continues. continues. “These were leaders become a resourceful, driven nonconforming and nonbinary stand up and get involved. “I felt how Martin Luther King of vital LGBTQ organizations woman with purpose while communities to take a stand Yasmine plans to continue Jr. and other Freedom Fighters exuding poise and grace reestablishing her truth. against discrimination and hate working with the One Orlando must have felt marching on who’ve survived addiction. It This trip to D.C. was going to in the nation’s capital. Alliance, actively engaging Washington, in my own right. was inspiring.” change her life. The march saw up to 3,000 the community with public I was happy just like when Yasmine and the many Yasmine boarded a packed bus attendees from all across the service. “Instead of talking about President Obama was elected.” with all kinds of people, including others catching the bus to D.C. country, including numerous it, I will be doing the work to She adds that there were proudly showed solidarity for transgender, nonbinary and ambassadors and activists from show people they can live their transgender and nonbinary transgender and nonbinary other LGBTQ Floridians leaving Central Florida and Tampa Bay. lives,” she says. “This is my way people marching with an people of color during the march. from Longwood at 10:00 p.m. the They partnered to call for the of honoring my ancestors by enormous flag, likening the day’s It started after a two-and-aFriday night before the march. passage of the Equality Act, being a keeper of my brothers atmosphere was that of the half hour rally at 11:35 a.m. in “The bus ride was the best part of which includes equal rights, and sisters.” Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Freedom Plaza. the trip,” she says. “There were fair housing, financial equity, She is now organizing Central Activists traveled along “There were a lot of people,” opportunities for camaraderie, healthcare equality and physical Florida’s next bus trip to D.C., Pennsylvania Ave. carrying signs she says, “speakers with fellowship and learning. It was safety, as well as to raise the which she envisions transporting that read “Trans Lives Matters,” music playing, vendors selling like a 15-hour bonfire connecting profile on the murder epidemic 150-200 people to the 2020 and more, eventually ending at transgender and LGBTQ pride with each other.” taking place among transgender Transgender Visibility March to the Capitol. merchandise. The atmosphere During the trip to the women of color. highlight the Sunshine State’s “Tourists and other spectators was jovial.” Capitol, “personal stories were Yasmine knew she had growing transgender and ally wanted to know why we were Speakers included “Pose” told because everyone felt to attend. She was tired of community. there,” she recalls. “I told them and “American Horror Story: comfortable with each other. I’ve boarding herself at home out of that we’re here demanding 1984” actress Angelica been told that I make people feel fear, having done so since she equality and to bring awareness Ross, who highlighted the comfortable opening up about transitioned at 17. surrounding the killings of black need for inclusiveness, unity life but I didn’t have confidence it With her intentions set, she and compassion within the was true until then.” created a list of goals that she

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generally, I feel great about the audience, but there is one thing that I just am never going to stop admonishing people about.

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signed his state’s anti-LGBTQ religious freedom bill into law, Offerman publicly denounced it at an Indiana show in character, a rarity for him, and donated its proceeds to charity. Just last year, he also lent his voice to “Beyond I Do,” a national campaign that raises awareness about LGBTQ discrimination post-marriage equality. Offerman is currently leading his 37-city “All Rise” tour across the country, “an evening of deliberative talking and light dance that will compel you to chuckle.” Watermark spoke with the comedian to talk touring, “Parks and Rec,” being a decent human being and more ahead of his stops at Hard Rock Live in Orlando Dec. 5 and the Straz Center for the Performing Arts in Tampa Dec. 7.

What’s that?

I was recently playing at the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C., and I got to this last favorite song that the audience loves and they went crazy. Two people, six feet in front of me in the front row, whipped up their phones to video the song, and I stopped it. I stopped the song and I said “Can you please put those down? “If I want you to have a movie of this song, I’ll make it and you can get it, but I have worked really hard to prepare hopefully what will be a magical moment for everyone in the audience – and you’ve just ruined this by splashing your ego and your greedy desire to capture part of this live performance for your tiny social media points.” Other than that I have nothing but fantastic interactions with my fans. But I’ll never shut up about it because people seem to keep thinking, “Oh no, it’s okay. We’re young and this is the new way,” but it’s not okay, and it will never be okay.

WATERMARK: You’re an actor, comedian, host, woodworker and writer— which of those comes most naturally for you?

NICK OFFERMAN: Oh gosh, I guess entertainer. First and foremost I’ve always wanted to entertain people and everything else I’ve gotten to do is sort of adjunct to that initial impulse. I love it all. It all comes from the same font of creativity. I’m very grateful I get to do what I do.

It sounds like it needs to be a song in one of your next shows.

You know what, that’s not a bad idea. That’s not a bad idea at all. Do you prefer working with a live audience or working in front of a camera?

What takes the most effort?

Writing books is what springs to mind. When I go to the woodshop, there are people, there’s wood ... the audience is there when I travel and there’s the thrill of that entertainment. But when I’m writing a book, I just have to sit down to do my homework until it’s done; it just feels the most like work. It’s like in a woodworking shop. It’s wonderful to make a table – but like anything, it comes with many hours of sanding and that’s nobody’s favorite thing to do. What’s your writing process like for your tour?

I sit down and I think about what I want to gripe about. I usually work that into a list of topics that become my songs. They tackle things with varying degrees of subtlety, like white supremacy, homophobia, racism

magic mic: Comedian Nick Offerman’s “All Rise” is described as “an evening of deliverative talking and light dance that will compel you to chuckle.” Photo by michael gomez and consumerism, things like that. There’s a song about Brett Kavanaugh called “I Like Beer” that I’m especially proud of. I make sure that I glean all the best jokes and ideas for the songs, and then I back up and write speaking material to lead into the song. I sort of reverse engineer the writing like that. My audience by and large doesn’t need to be told that racism is bad. They get it. But I look at what’s going on in the world around me and I see

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that, to my great surprise, some people still do need to be told that. In general, if we just look at all of us as one big group of people – instead of the red and the blue, or the black and the white – we will always need to keep doing better. So the way I tried to address the writing was to make us laugh about our human foibles. Are there any particular positive or negative fan interactions that stand out to you?

I think that because I have a lot of Ron Swanson fans in the audience, people afford me a sense of authority that I haven’t perhaps legitimately earned. The fans are generally really polite with me. So even if people do heckle me, it’s usually supportive. You know, people aren’t yelling, “you’re a hack.” Instead they’re yelling, “we love you” or “take off your shirt” or you know, “Duke Silver, please play some jazz on your sweet, sweet horn.” So

If I had to choose, I would always choose the live audience. The exchange of medicine between the performer on stage and the audience, to me, is the greatest thing about what I get to do. Whether I’m trying to make them laugh, cry or vomit, they tell you immediately if you’re succeeding or not in your efforts – and for me, there’s nothing that compares with that. I love working on screen, but it’s a different form of perfectionism. I prefer the magic with us doing it live. There’s been a lot of discussion about a “Parks and Rec” reboot. Is there anything that would give you pause about returning

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everybody is getting treated right.” It just seems like what a decent person would do. I can’t believe the deeply evil notions that are walking the hallways of the highest levels of our government here in 2019. It’s astonishing to me that enough people are still colonial enough to want to vote for that. I want to be on the side of decency and use whatever powers I have to help rather than hinder.

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or anything you’d like to see if it were to happen?

Well, for something like that to happen, it would mean that [writer and creator] Mike Schur would have to have an idea that he thought was worth going back to. Frankly, I don’t ever see that happening because we went to all the trouble under his guidance to write, create and travel through 125 episodes of story and wrap it up in a wonderfully loving and satisfying way. We did that on purpose. So it’s done, we ended it as lovingly as we started it. It’s a work of art, I think, to its creator; in the sense that it’s not worth just making more income or flogging the horse any further. I think most of us would rather do new, fresh work. That said, on the other hand, he may well think, “The confluence of what’s going on in the news, what’s going on in the country, I feel like we need to bring ‘Parks and Rec’ back.” As long as he and the writers are behind it, then I have no misgivings whatsoever. I mean, that’s the joy of having brilliant writers: the pressure’s off of me. They’re not going to let me do anything as Ron that isn’t justified, clever and hilarious, because that’s the kind of writing that they create. That was the joy of being handed a script every week. It was Christmas every five days; you’d say, ‘I can’t believe I’m the one that gets to say this stuff.” One of the few times you’ve spoken publicly on Ron’s behalf was for LGBTQ equality in Indiana in 2015. What led to that?

I knew that I wanted to say something. I was actually going to boycott the show, and then I said, “You know what? All of these fans want to come to my show and I don’t want to punish them because the governor is an intolerant jerk. … Instead, let me go do the show and try to make a statement out of this.” I donated the proceeds from the show to I believe ACLU at the time. But the point of what I’m driving towards is I got ahold of Mike Schur and I said, “Hey, I’m doing this thing in Indiana. Would you be able to give me a little bit of what Ron would

You’re in good company with your wife. What’s it like to be married to such an LGBTQ icon? She’s a staple to so many in the community.

music (offer)man: Nick Offerman’s “All Rise” features seven songs inspired by his “gripes.” Photo by michael gomez say about this?” So even that was written by him. I will never weigh in and say, “Here’s what Ron would say.” I’m religious about that because it’s not my business; I don’t own him, I’m not smart enough to tell you what Ron would say. I’m too human, I’ll mess it up because I’m subjective. I don’t have the

holding up a mirror to society, saying, “Here’s what’s to be celebrated about us all, here’s what we need to work on, here’s something that’s funny and here’s some more stuff we should try and improve.” I grew up in a small town and I learned how conservative, racist and homophobic and just

What was that like?

I realized there are these people who are – because of ignorant, old fashioned, societal norms – being made to live in this incredibly tortured away. They were among us everywhere, in this supposedly most advanced society on the planet. So just from the get go

There are forces and people making shows and writing material that is trying to gently help people open their minds … to be a family member, a spouse to a show that has been so massively effective and heroic as ‘Will & Grace’ is just incredible. — Nick Offerman perspective on Ron that his writers do.

You’ve also taken part in a number of other pro-equality campaigns. Why has it been important for you to speak out as an ally?

I grew up feeling I wanted to entertain people. I wanted to get into the business of show, as they say, and so I did. Pretty much immediately in theatre school, you learn that by and large, throughout history the main purpose of theatre is a medicinal one,

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white and conservative it was. So just getting to college, and of course in a theater program, a lot of my friends immediately were the first gay people that I had met. So out of the gate, I’m meeting these peers at 18, 19 years old, and hearing their stories of the trauma of coming out, or the horror; the anxiety that they lived with because they hadn’t yet come out to their families. So just immediately that was kind of the first social issue that landed in my lap.

I said, “This is going to be my business, I’m going to put on shows for people wherever I can.” I just want to be part of the forces for good that say, “Until nobody has anything to complain about, by way of how they’re being treated, we need to keep our focus on this. We need to stay open minded.” If we realize that pronouns are a notion that needs to be exploded and sort of reexamined and rebuilt because of their old fashioned, limited gender categories, I want to be on the side that says, “Okay, let’s do that so that

Well, she certainly is. It’s astonishing in many ways – it’s like, “What is it like to drive the most magnificent automobile ever created by mankind?” It’s almost supernatural to be partnered with Megan because she’s so talented, she’s so smart, she’s so beautiful and so hilarious. It really keeps me on my toes. But specifically to your question, I think being sort of the batboy for the team of “Will & Grace” over the years has been incredible and it relates exactly to what we were just talking about. There are forces and people making shows and writing material that is trying to gently help people open their minds and realize that everybody deserves the same amount of love. Everybody deserves the same set of rights. So to be a family member, a spouse to a show that has been so massively effective and heroic as “Will & Grace” is just incredible. I’m so grateful. I feel like my wife is a repeat Olympic gold medalist. Except in events much more substantial than the pole vault. Thanks to each of you for your work with the LGBTQ community. We need our allies.

Well, the last song in my show is entitled “Us Dipshits Gotta Stick Together.” I couldn’t agree more. Nick Offerman’s “All Rise” plays at the Hard Rock in Orlando Dec. 5 and the Straz Center for the Performing Arts in Tampa Dec. 7. For tickets and more information, visit HardRock.com and StrazCenter.org.

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Divine Grace channels comedic icon Bea Arthur in two upcoming stage shows

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Divine Grace embodies comedy legend Bea Arthur in two different shows at the Parliament House. Photo by Dylan Todd

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ea Arthur is a comedy legend. She

was a fixture on Broadway stages and television screens throughout the back half of the 20th Century, but she is probably best known as the witty, sarcastic Dorothy Zbornak in the groundbreaking 80s sitcom “The Golden Girls.”

That is where Central Florida drag performer and actor Divine Grace delved into the mind of Arthur. “Back when I was a kid we had three channels — NBC, ABC, CBS — then occasionally if the weather was right we’d get PBS,” Grace recalls. “On Saturday nights we always had fast food, it was always the only night we had fast food, and me and my family would park down in front of the TV for ‘The Golden Girls.’” “The Golden Girls” starred Arthur, Betty White, Rue McClanahan and Estelle Getty as Dorothy, Rose, Blanche and Dorothy’s mother Sophia, four

older women living together in Miami and navigating life, love and friendship in their golden years. The series ran on NBC from 1985 to 1992 and earned each of the actresses an Emmy Award for their performance. Since the show’s end, it has continued on in syndication and has become an even bigger hit than its original run, particularly within the LGBTQ community. Earlier this year, fellow Central Florida drag performers Ginger Minj and Gidget Galore came together to create a tribute show to “The Golden Girls.” Titled “The Golden Gals Live!,”

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liberal feminist cousin to Edith Bunker, wife of conservative bigot Archie Bunker. The character of Maude was so popular that CBS gave her a show of her own. “Maude” ran from 1972-78 and tackled topics like race, politics and female reproductive health. “I came out in 1992, and when I think about how much the gay world has changed since I came out of the closet, like huge, huge strides,” Grace says. “But you go back and re-watch ‘Maude’ and you realize there’s a lot of injustice and inequality that has not been addressed yet either. That show is still relevant.” “Maude Redux!” will follow the same blueprint as “The Golden Gals Live!” and recreate two classic episodes of the original. Along with Grace, the show will feature Josh Siniscalco as Maude’s husband, Walter; Grace’s fellow “Golden Gals” co-star Doug Ba’aser as Republican neighbor, Arthur; and Tommy Wooten as Arthur’s wife, Vivian. “[‘Maude Redux!] will be two episodes, hard script with improv,” Grace says. “With ‘Maude’ there’s no reason to change the script. [‘Maude’ creator] Norman Lear is a genius and knew how to make you laugh while you address the elephant in the room.” While she can’t tell us which episodes “Maude Redux!” will tackle, Grace says that with this cast you can’t go wrong no matter which episodes they are doing. “They are all geniuses. I feel like I’m the weakest link in this show,” Grace says. “I’m just going to give you the best Bea Arthur as Maude I can give you.” After a Thanksgiving feast of “Maude,” Grace heads back to 1980s Miami with Minj, Galore, Adrien and Ba’aser for “The Golden Gals Christmas Musical,” which will stir up holiday joy with slight recreations of the only two Christmas-themed episodes “The Golden Girls” did. “Ginger has managed to take out all of the garbage from both of the Christmas episodes, like there was a hostage situation in one of them, but that has been completely omitted,” Grace says. “It’s very light, a lot of fun and it’s been turned into a musical.” “The Golden Gals Christmas Musical” will feature loose interpretations of the show’s holiday episodes with classic Christmas songs and chorography which Graces says will feature “every Broadway cliché in the book.” “Maude Redux!” runs Nov. 22-23. Tickets are $20 for general admission, $35 for VIP. “The Golden Gals Christmas Musical” runs Dec. 19-23. Tickets are $25 for general admission, $50 for VIP. Both shows will play at the Parliament House’s Footlight Theatre in Orlando. For more information and to purchase ti9ckets, visit ParliamentHosue.com.

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Join the Orlando Trans Collective for a community forum centered on the diverse life experiences of transgender, nonbinary and gender nonconforming people who call Central Florida their home. The group discussion will cover various topics. Allies are encouraged to attend to show support and hear the community’s stories. More information can be found at TheCenterOrlando.org.

Pints for Pride Night Friday, Nov. 22, 6-11:30 p.m. Castle Church Brewing, Orlando Castle Church Brewing invites you to join them for a few pints for Pride. Held monthly, Pints for Pride Night gives 15% of all sales to the Zebra Coalition. The event features $5 drafts of the New Beer all night, live music, food specials and glitter beer while supplies last. Wear rainbow and win prizes. For more information, visit Castle Church Brewing’s Facebook page.

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her is coming to Tampa. Live Nation shared Nov. 4 that the LGBTQ advocate will entertain audiences at Amalie Arena on March 26, 2020. The iconic performer has extended her “Here We Go Again Tour” after selling 540,000 tickets in the U.S. alone. The tour is Cher’s seventh solo concert in support of “Dancing Queen,” her 26th studio album which covers pop group ABBA’s greatest hits. Its release followed her appearance in “Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again,” based on the band’s music. The tour began in Sept. 2018 and includes special guests Nile Rodgers and Chic. Tickets are available now at LiveNation.com.

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etro Inclusive Health held its annual Cocktail Party Nov. 9, fundraising for its many services and welcoming recording artist Deborah Cox for a special concert. The organization served more than 27,000 individuals throughout Tampa Bay last year and is on course to increase that number in 2019. Metro detailed its critical work to attendees while also honoring community advocates. This year’s honorees were chosen for their service, commitment and ongoing support of the LGBTQ community. Sabine Niehaus received the Garry Breul Spirit of Metro Volunteer Award. “Metro depends on the support and assistance of volunteers,” the organization shared. “Be it swiping cards at the donation bar or helping to assemble pronoun buttons for Metro‘s health centers, Niehaus has a ‘no job too small’ attitude and makes herself available at every opportunity … Niehaus has become one of the most familiar faces at Metro’s various events and community programs.” Matthew McGee was subsequently honored with the Dr. John Barnett Outstanding Service Award, sharing his gratitude via video message. “As one of the most talented entertainers in Tampa Bay, if not all of Florida, McGee has been no stranger to raising a hand and voice for Metro,” they shared. “From being the face of our Best of the Bay campaign and hosting Metro’s grand opening to lending his talents to numerous fundraising opportunities that support our LGBTQ+ community initiatives, in particular those living with HIV, McGee has always stepped up to support Metro’s mission. This recognition is the least we can do to thank you for years of unwavering support of Metro Inclusive Health and those it serves.” Cox also received the Robert Pope Distinguished Leadership Award. “Throughout history, allies have played such an important part in the fight for acceptance and equality among the LGBTQ+ community,” Metro advised. “Never shying away from using her success as a platform to show support, Deborah Cox has become widely recognized supporter of LGBTQ+ community.” You can view Watermark’s full photo gallery of the evening at WatermarkOnline.com.

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FINAL FOUR: (L-R) “Prince,” “Twisty the Clown,” “Coco” and “Miguel” vie for top prize in Enigma’s Halloween costume contest Oct. 31.

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AFTER THE PARTY: Deborah Cox’s backup dancers Scott Fordham (L) and Alexis “Papito” Vazquez unwind at Enigma after Metro’s annual party Nov. 9. PHOTO BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT

BIRDS AND THE BAT: (L-R) Richard Owen, Corey Peterson and John Chambrone get wild at Tampa Pride’s Pride Zoo-La at ZooTampa Nov. 2. PHOTO BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT

TAPPED IN: (L-R) Will Heath, Indi Sanghera, Dave Gallander and Andrew Velasquez get social at Tamiami Tap for G2H2 Sarasota Nov. 7.

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FUN-DRAISING: (L-R) James Keane, Brian Bailey and Nate Taylor welcome Metro Inclusive Health supporters to the organization’s annual party Nov. 9. PHOTO BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT

QUEENS OF THE NIGHT: Miss City Side winners past and present assemble at City Side Lounge Nov. 9. PHOTO

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OGC is ready to sleigh

he Orlando Gay Chorus (OGC) will be performing their annual holiday performance that they promise will “put the jingle in your bells” on Dec. 14 and 15. Titled “Sleigh Queen,” the concert will feature a variety of holiday music, featuring everything from Christmas classics like “Run, Run, Rudolph” to songs by Sia and Eric Whitacre. There will also be a special guest appearance by “one who knows a thing or two about reindeer games,” according to a press release. “For this year’s holiday concert, we present a story reminiscent of classic Claymation movies we know and love,” artistic director James Rode said in his statement of artistic vision. “How does a misfit become the sleigh queen over all other reindeer?” Celebrating its 30th year this spring, the OGC is a group of over 100 singers dedicated to inspiring people in the Orlando community through their music. The show will take place at the Rosen Event Center, 11184 S. Apopka-Vineland Rd, with performances at 2 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. on Dec. 14 and a performance at 4:30 p.m. on Dec. 15. Tickets are $25 for adults, $10 for children and students and $30 at the door. To purchase tickets, visit OGC’s website.

Cancer fight

erry DeCarlo, the former executive director of the LGBT+ Center in Orlando who headed The Center in the aftermath of the Pulse tragedy, announced that he is battling Stage 4 neck and face cancer. According to the Orlando Sentinel, DeCarlo underwent a 10 and a half-hour surgery Oct. 15 to remove the bulk of a tumor and to rebuild his face and jaw. DeCarlo first saw symptoms in June he went to his dentist because his mouth began to bleed profusely after he brushed. His dentist sent him to a doctor immediately. DeCarlo, who left Orlando in June 2018 to work in South Florida, will undergo radiation and then chemotherapy starting this month. Due to rising healthcare costs, friends of DeCarlo started a GoFundMe page to help with his mounting hospital bills. The GoFundMe page has raised just under $10,000. A fundraiser has also been organized in South Florida to benefit DeCarlo. The event will be held at The Pub in Wilton Manors on Nov. 17. Hosted by Nikki Adams it will feature several entertainers as well as a silent auction. Central Florida’s own #TheRibbonMaker, Ben Johansen is heading the charge to put together an Orlando gift basket for the fundraiser’s silent auction. “Do you know Terry DeCarlo? Do you remember all he helped with here in Orlando? He might not live here anymore, but he left part of his heart behind here,” Johansen wrote. Anyone wanting to contribute can drop donations off at Embellish FX in Orlando by Nov. 15.

Disney Foodies: (L-R) Watermark Sales Director Danny Garcia, MX TACO’s Ryan Manning, TastyChomps Blogger Ricky Ly and Pom Moongauklang of Pom Pom’s Teahouse line up for bubby at the Walt Disney Swan and Dolphin’s Food and Wine Classic Nov. 8. Photo courtesy of Danny Garcia

4 More Years: Newly re-elected Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer (L) and Karen Skyers celebrate with Central Floridians at The Abbey Nov. 5.

Photo courtesy Karen Skyers

Friday Fun: Addison Taylor (L) with adult film star Jack Andy at the Parliament House Orlando for Flesh Friday Nov. 8.

Photo courtesy Bears in the City

Hey Bartender: (L-R) Kate Maini, Nick Smith and Sara Barone sling drinks at The District Dive in orlando Nov. 8.

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U.S.A. Proud: State Rep. Anna V. Eskamani honors military veterans in the Veteran’s Day Parade in Downtown Orlando Nov. 9. Photo by Jeff Nickel

Happy 50: Dave Shane (L) and Scott Dunkle say happy birthday to Sesame Street, which celebrates 50 years this year, at SeaWorld in Orlando Nov. 10.

Photo courtesy Dave Shane

Hulk Smash: Luis Lazaballet (L) and Felipe Sousa-Rodriguez hulk out at Universal’s Islands of Adventure in Orlando Nov. 10.

Photo courtesy Felipe Sousa-Rodriguez

House Royalty: Aubrey Elle Gibaldi (L) and Natalie Nayles are dressed to the nines at Parliament House in Orlando Nov. 10.

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SUNCOAST CELEBRATION

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SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2019 • 6 - 9 PM

Art Ovation Hotel, Autograph Collection • 1255 N Palm Ave, Sarasota, FL 34236 Equality Florida continues to lead in advocating for LGBTQ people in the Sunshine State. Join us at the 2019 Suncoast Celebration to connect with leaders in this movement, and learn what is ahead for us in this work. This year, we will take a look back at the decade in which Equality Florida was founded. Our theme, Come As You Are: A Night of 90’s Music and Freedom of Expression, captures the essence of Equality Florida’s work: creating a space where people are free to live their authentic lives. We will have music and food, and open bars, all at the beautiful Art Ovation in downtown Sarasota. And, we will hear from Equality Florida’s CEO Nadine Smith in addition to honoring individuals who have been leaders in the fight for LGBTQ equality.

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announcements

wedding bells

Christopher and Kahmari Ellis, from Pinellas Park, Florida

Wedding Date:

Sept. 9, 2019

Officiant:

Andy Gillis

Wedding Venue:

Pinellas County Clearwater courthouse

Wedding Party Date:

Sept. 29, 2019

Wedding Party Venue:

The couple’s Pinellas Park home

Caterer:

Publix and some homemade family dishes

s Christopher Ellis waited

for the SkyConnect to take him from Tampa International Airport’s main terminal to the gate of his California-bound flight in Nov. 2018, he paused when he overheard a guy exiting the tram discussing “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” “This piqued my interest. Being an ex-bartender at Flamingo, I know some of the girls,” he says. He joined the conversation, meeting Delta employee – now husband – Kahmari Ellis for the first time. At least, this was the first time they met in person. Unbeknownst to them in the moment, the two actually connected through a dating app in July 2018, but never met. Kahmari, a seasonal employee for the airline, often traveled between Connecticut and Tampa for work, and used the app to meet people in Florida. Their initial contact tapered off and they forgot about their electronic connection. “I got busy with work and stopped replying,” says Christopher, a certified surgical technician at West Chase Surgery

Center. “Life gets busy and then I thought he lost interest because I took so long to respond.” As they exchanged phone numbers, they amazingly discovered they were already saved in each other’s contacts. “What are the odds of that? It was meant to be,” Christopher says. They texted nonstop throughout Christopher’s West Coast trip. When he returned, they began dating, making it “official” on Jan. 19, 2019. From the beginning, the couple found balance in each other. “I think it’s really about our differences,” Kahmari explains. “It’s not so much the things we agree upon, it’s about how we’re different. Some things he has as a fault in are my strength. You

can’t both be chill and laid back or hyper sensitive.” Christopher adds, “We just jive. I’m Italian and loud, and he’s quiet, so it kind of works.” He was also drawn to Kahmari’s drive. “Nobody has goals or dreams anymore, and I was a bartender for many years and I didn’t have a plan until I went to medical school,” Christopher says. “I set a goal and accomplished it. He had a plan and I find that so attractive.” Kahmari, who moved here full-time in Sept., still works seasonally for Delta. He hopes to be hired by the airline as a year-round employee based in Tampa Bay. For months, he traveled between cities, which made it difficult for them to find time together. Christopher also struggled with their age difference – he’s 42, while his husband is 22 – until his friends set him straight. “It’s cliché, but age, it’s a number,” he says. “It’s just one percent of who we are.” In July, while picking up jewelry cleaner for Christopher’s mother at the Gold & Diamond Source, they looked at rings together. “That’s when marriage first came up,” Christopher said. “I asked him, ‘Would you ever want to get married? He said, ‘Yeah, would you?’ And we went to Walmart and got nice bands, a promise to each other … I’d say we asked each other. Nobody ever got down on one knee.” Without telling anyone, they wed at the Pinellas County courthouse in Clearwater Sept. 19. “We got married on 9-9-19 because we started dating on 1-9-19,” Christopher said. They hosted a small celebration at their new home Sept. 29. The couple is also planning a bigger wedding for friends and family.

Condolences

Orlando artist and ally Michal Rozumkiewicz passed Nov. 4. He will be missed.

Local Birthdays

Orlando bear-bartender Christopher Torge, Ritz Ybor Marketing Director Okie Tilo, paper bag mushroom artist Doug Rhodehamel, Tampa-based but world-renowned flutist Joseph Rose, Disney application developer Dan Peters (Nov. 14); Sarasota activist and GAIN member Bart Coyle, Tampa-based Out Q news freelancer Mike Wells, St. Petersburg fox Aleksander Helios, St Pete Pride grand marshal SueZie Hawkes (Nov. 15); Tampa Bay entertainer Chi Chi Lalique, The Closing Agent and The 49 Fund founder Barry Miller (Nov. 16); Ray Sickles, AKA Sarasota diva Angelique Monet, MBA Orlando executive director Kellie Rae Parkin (Nov. 17); Lithia equestrian expert James Meeks, Orlando Gay Chorus tenor and sky hostess Todd Michael Hayes (Nov. 18); Orlando Gay Chorus belter Pattie Noah, Orlando photographer Brian Becnel, Former Venue manager Jackie Lewin, real estate agent Neil Payne, former Watermark intern Valentina Sofia, Stonewall activist Jay Chetney, Tampa Bay entertainer Drew Hawk AKA Lilith Black (Nov. 19); Orlando hair artist Dale Dees, Equality Florida Pinellas Development Director Todd Richardson, make-up artist Timothy Spivey, Honey Pot show director Toby Brees, Punky’s co-owner Lynn Deiber, Boys’ Entrance instrumentalist Bill Ramsey (Nov. 20); Enigma bartender Michael Ackeret, Orlando chef Chris Bean, Tampa concert aficionado Dwayne McFarlane (Nov. 21); Orlando activist Nicki Drumb, Keller-Williams realtor Steve Glose, Tampa swimwear designer La’Daska Mechelle, charity-driven Ybor resident Mike Hammonds, Tampa Hospice’s admissions manager Peter Shute, Pom Pom’s Orlando server Alexis Astolfi, EPIC Special Events Coordinator Molly Robison (Nov. 22); Tampa actress Lauren Clark, Tampa Bay sisters member John Miller, State Rep. Linda Stewart (Nov. 23); Orlando lawyer Ed Blaisdell, drag legend Rich Kuntz, AKA Gidget Galore, Central Florida actor Mickey Lewis (Nov. 24); onePULSE Foundation founder Barbara Poma (Nov. 25); St. Petersburg nurse Ed Briggs, Pandora Events CEO Alison Burgos, USA Today reporter and former Watermark intern Christal Hayes (Nov. 26).

—Tiffany Razzano

Do you have an interesting wedding or engagement story you’d like to share with Watermark readers? If so, email the details to Editor@WatermarkOnline.com for consideration as a future feature on this page.

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the last page Hometown:

Dawn was raised in New Port Richey, Florida and moved to Orlando in 1992. Lisa’s father was in the military and retired here when she was in the third grade and calls Orlando her hometown.

Identifies As: Lesbians

Pronouns:

She, Her, Hers

Lisa Brown & Dawn Kallio

Out Year:

Lisa in 1986, Dawn in 1997

Profession (as in job title):

Co-owners of Bowled Over Promotions

Professional role model:

Barbara Corcoran

Autobiography Title:

“We’ll take vacations and experiences over possessions every time”

Hobbies:

Golf, boating, reading and travel

Recommend People to: Central Florida Bureau Chief Jeremy Williams at: Jeremy@WatermarkOnline.com Tampa Bay Bureau Chief Ryan Williams-Jent at: Ryan@WatermarkOnline.com

Co - O wners | B owle d O ver P romotions

he Last Page is dedicated to

individuals who are making a positive impact on the LGBTQ community in Central Florida and Tampa Bay. This issue, we check in with Bowled Over Promotions owners Lisa Brown and Dawn Kallio from Orlando. Keep an eye on this space to learn more about the movers and shakers of your community. What do you do professionally?

As owners of Bowled Over Promotions we team up with businesses and organizations for all their promotional branding needs. With 13 years of experience in the industry, we understand the value of promotional advertising and the importance of finding the right products and apparel to represent the organizations brand and marketing message.

How do you champion for the local LGBTQ community?

Much of what we have been able to do is through our business. We recently hosted The Pride

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Charity Golf Challenge to raise money for our local nonprofits. Lisa loves to create fun events, so she is always thinking of new ways to engage and bring people together. We have also been able to help raise funds for nonprofit organizations on the fly after things like the marriage equality decision and Pulse. What is your favorite thing to read in Watermark?

Our favorite things to read are that issue’s cover article and the Out & About page. What is your favorite local LGBTQ event?

Come Out with Pride and now the Pride Charity Golf Challenge!

What is your favorite thing about the local LGBTQ community?

Certainly, the diversity of our community is amazing, but the size of it is also great. With such a large LGBTQ community there is no end to opportunities available in sports, arts, organizations, friendships etc. It’s comforting to see how our LGBTQ family supports each other with our various needs and endeavors. What would you like to see improved in the local LGBTQ community?

That’s a tough one since we feel very blessed to be part of a very diverse and supportive community. Perhaps maybe better communication regarding scheduling of events, it’s hard to do everything there is to do. What would you like our readers to know about you?

We both love this city and love the community. Lisa participates in many city related activities to make an impact where she can. We are both actively involved in The Pride Chamber that has played a key role in our business

success. Giving back as much as we can is important to us both. What advice would you give your younger self?

Start saving sooner and learn as much as you can about as many things as you can. What is a reward and a challenge going into business with your spouse?

Working together has been a great experience for us. While it’s not for everyone, we have created the perfect work environment for both of us. We have separate offices so Lisa can listen to music, Dawn can keep tabs on the news. We are very good at communicating with each other so even in difficult situations we can work through them easily. We haven’t experienced too many challenges, though in the early years of the business we did have to set some “off clock” guidelines to ensure that the business didn’t consume too much of our personal time or attention.

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