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ROM THE ONGOING PANDEMIC TO

Russia’s invasion of Ukraine, it’s clear that we live not just in uncertain times but in an uncertain world.

It’s tempting to say that society is worse off than it’s ever been, but the optimist in me can’t help but think the opposite. It’s just louder, the result of 24/7 access to the internet and all of the information (and misinformation) it provides. While every generation has those who look fondly to the past while fearing the future, I’ve rarely been that guy. It can be frustrating for some and I’ve certainly looked naive at times, but “it’s always darkest before dawn” is usually my default. Or basically, I tend to believe the sun’s going to come up and things are going to get better. I’ve been fortunate enough in my life that in most ways, they typically do. Of course I’ve also been on anxiety medication for years, which de�initely helps. My

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doctor and I decided that’s what prioritizing my mental health meant for me, and I encourage everyone to explore what doing so means for them. Especially for the LGBTQ community here in Florida, which in addition to COVID-19 and Vladmir Putin’s power grabs has to deal with our governor and state legislature. The Republican Party has controlled the state for more than two decades, which shows in several horrifying ways, and seems increasingly intent on silencing LGBTQ voices however possible. Most recently that’s taken the form of House Bill 1557, christened “Parental Rights in Education” but more widely known as Florida’s “Don’t Say Gay” bill. Among other reasons, it was initially introduced to prohibit discussion about sexual

orientation or gender identity in classrooms. It’s evolved since then but remains just as irresponsible and dangerous. While Floridians deal with global issues and local concerns like our housing crisis, Tallahassee Republicans are targeting vulnerable LGBTQ youth. It’s maddening, but thankfully our community has its advocates. You can read about many of them in our coverage of the bill, as well as in the results for the 2022 Watermark Awards for Variety and Excellence. We detail your WAVE winners in this issue. Readers responded in record numbers this year, sharing their top picks in more than 50 categories. We highlight your choices throughout our coverage, including on our covers. In Tampa Bay, we welcomed Red Mesa’s Tony Pullaro, representing the group’s four placements including 1st Place Favorite Local Restaurant; Drag Queen Bingo hostess Georgia Moore, who with Punky’s Bar and Grille won 1st Place for Favorite Local Fundraising Event; Enigma Bar and Lounge’s Kerissa Hickey, your 1st Place Favorite Local Bartender and Ace Vedo, your 1st Place for Favorite Local DJ. The photo was captured by Watermark’s talented creative designer Dylan Todd, Tampa Bay’s 1st Place Favorite Local Photographer, at the beautiful Sunken Gardens. It won 1st Place for Favorite Local Wedding Venue. Our congratulations and thanks to them for graciously hosting our photoshoot, and to the winners for joining us. I also want to say thank you to readers for voting me Favorite Local Journalist. It’s my honor to do what I love as Watermark’s managing editor and it wouldn’t be possible without your support, of both the newspaper and our advertisers. Having the privilege of interacting with our community

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is one of the things that keeps me optimistic about our future. Despite our obstacles it still looks bright, something evident in Tampa Bay news. Habitat for Humanity of Pinellas and West Pasco Counties launches their 2022 Pride Build, which had previously been delayed due to the pandemic, and we examine the return of the LGBTQ youth-serving Manatee Pride. St Pete Pride, traditionally the state’s largest LGBTQ celebration, also previews its 20th year scheduled for June. We introduce you to their new executive director and board ahead of the organization’s landmark event. In

Having the privilege of interacting with our community is one of the things that keeps me optimistic about our future.

contrast, the latest updates on the “Don’t Say Gay” bill can be found in State News. Legendary actor and playwright Harvey Fierstein steals the spotlight in our arts and entertainment section. He re�lects on his new memoir “I Was Better Last Night” as only he could. Watermark strives to bring you a variety of stories, your stories, and in addition to another congrats for our WAVE winners I want to add another for the man that makes it all possible. Owner and publisher Rick Todd marked two decades with Watermark Feb. 28 and we couldn’t be more grateful. Thank you for 20 years of your LGBTQ life.

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is a near lifelong resident of the I-4 corridor, currently in South Tampa. He publishes poetry online at PoetEconomist. blogspot.com. His first book, Momentitiousness, was published in 2014. His book, Black Kettle, was published in 2016. Page 23

MICHAEL WANZIE is

an Orlando-based playwright, actor and ordained minister. He is most recognized for his direction of productions in the Orlando area. Page 26

LORA KORPAR was

a journalism student who graduated from the University of Central Florida and is a former Watermark intern. Page 65

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actor Michael Keaton, and this past week my love for him grew as I watched him accept his Screen Actors Guild award, and not just because at the age of 70 he ran and barrel rolled onto the stage, although that was very impressive.

In his acceptance speech, Keaton spoke about how proud he is to be an actor. “I’m so blessed to do what I do, and so fortunate,” he said. “I have a job ... that actually can spawn thought, conversation, actual change. Who gets to have that job?” As I heard him say those words it made me think, I have a job like that. The work we get to do here at Watermark, sharing the stories of our local LGBTQ community that spark thought, conversation and change, makes me feel so fortunate and so inspired by the people in our community. The day before the SAG Awards, I was inspired by some of those very community leaders

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when I attended the Rally for Our Collective Rights outside of Orlando’s City Hall and watched them fight against the homophobic, transphobic, racist and sexist bills making their way through the Florida legislature. Among those is the “Don’t Say Gay” bill that would forbid discussions of sexual orientation and gender identity in school classrooms for certain grade levels. The bill reminded me of a job I had before joining the team here at Watermark. I won’t name the company but it was a pharmacy benefit manager that operates throughout the country, including in Georgia where I first started working for them. The call center

that I worked in was broken into teams that became your work family. Before and after work, during breaks and between calls you would socialize with each other, asking how the family was and what you were planning to do that weekend. I remember one particular conversation back in 2008 where one of our team members was planning to take a cruise. Between calls we talked about where she was going and who on the team had and hadn’t been on a cruise before. When I mentioned that I had never been on one but had always wanted to take a gay cruise, our team lead came storming down the row and informed us that “having conversations like that” could make others feel uncomfortable. When we asked what conversation, she said talking about a gay cruise. The team lead had no issue with the other members of the team talking about going on trips with their opposite sex partners, but the mention of the word gay was too much. When I protested, she had me come to her cubicle to tell me that if I continued she would write me up. In my younger days, I was what my mother would call a “pot stirrer,” so I told my lead to start the paperwork and then marched to my desk and — going full Norma Rae — pulled out a small markerboard we all kept at our desks and wrote the word UNION on it and stood on my chair. Sally Field would have been so proud. The next several weeks turned into what my mother would refer to as a “shit show” for the company as I went full Karen on them and said I would get a lawyer and sue. There were meetings with management, HR and corporate of how to “handle me.” My brother, who worked for the company as well, and several of my friends were brought into the mix and offered bonuses from management

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for their hard work and, as hard-working team players, hoped they could “talk to me” in order to “calm me down.” The ordeal ended with an apology from the site director and a meeting with HR asking me to lead an LGBTQ appreciation day at the call center. I did not take them up on that offer and instead told them I would like a transfer to another one of their call centers. And to my delight, they enthusiastically said yes and I headed down to Orlando, where I was free to say the word gay all I wanted. I have been thinking about this incident a lot over the last couple weeks, imagining what it would have felt like if that situation

[N]ow is the time to awaken your inner Norma Rae. happened to me when I was a kid in school, talking about my guncle. I thought about how terrified I would have been if instead of being my team lead, that lady was my second-grade teacher and told me that all the other kids could talk about their uncles but I had to be quiet because mine happened to be gay. The ones supporting this bill say they are doing it because it should be the parent’s decision whether kids hear the word gay or lesbian or transgender but in many cases leaving those talks solely up to parents is dangerous for that LGBTQ kid. This bill has passed the House and moves to the Senate, so now is the time to awaken your inner Norma Rae and call your state senator and tell them “I’m mad as hell and I’m not gonna take it anymore!” I know that is from “Network” and not “Norma Rae,” but you get the point.

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HEART OF FLORIDA UNITED WAY INVESTS $100K INTO THE CENTER ORLANDO Jeremy Williams

RLANDO | Heart of Florida United Way, whose mission is to “fight for the education, health and financial stability of every person in Central Florida,” announced that the LGBT+ Center Orlando will be an official partner agency of the nonprofit, making an initial investment of $100,000 to the LGBTQ organization. United Way president and CEO Jeff Hayward, vice president of community relations and equity impact Nancy Alvarez, senior vice president of human resources Jonathan Alder and other members of the organization presented the check Feb. 28 to The Center Orlando’s CEO Dr. George Wallace, as well as The Center’s board president Pat Michaels and vice president Danny Garcia. “We wanted to make this investment in The Center because it lives out our legacy of living united,” Hayward says. “This is about one community coming together and working together for the good of everybody. And we say we fight for everyone in this community and I think this epitomizes that.” Heart of Florida United Way shared the news on their social media, saying the investment is to assist with The Center’s mental health counseling services.

NGLCC, GRUBHUB AWARD GRANTS TO ORLANDO LGBTQ-OWNED RESTAURANTS Jeremy Williams

RLANDO | The National LGBT Chamber of Commerce and food delivery service GrubHub presented grant checks to LGBTQ restaurants during a Pride Chamber event in Orlando Feb. 23. The grants were a part of GrubHub’s Donate to Change initiative which allowed customers to round their orders up to the nearest dollar and donate the extra change to the partner organization of their choice. “The whole idea was to help establishments that have been hit most by COVID that are restaurants or bars that serve food that celebrate and serve our community,” said Justin Nelson, NGLCC co-founder and president, during the event. Along with Nelson, NGLCC co-founder and CEO Chance Mitchell and Senior VP Sabrina Kent were also on hand to present the grants.

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Funding Leaders All Black Lives Fund grants awarded during rally at City Hall Jeremy Williams

RLANDO | Contigo Fund announced the recipients of its 2022 All Black Lives Fund grants during a rally and press conference in front of Orlando’s City Hall Feb. 17. This year’s recipients are the Bros in Convo Initiative and Divas in Dialogue, both beneficiaries of this same grant last year, and Peer Support Space for their LGBTQ and Black support groups as well as for their LGBTQ Black facilitators who support the wellness of Central Florida’s Black LGBTQ community. Before Contigo Fund executive director Marco Antonio Quiroga announced this year’s grantees, Orlando City Commissioner Patty Sheehan read aloud a city proclamation on behalf of Mayor Buddy Dyer declaring Feb. 17, 2022 as All Black Lives Day in the city of Orlando. “I’m delighted to be here today. And while I may not understand what it is to be a person of color, I stand with you today, and I’m

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proud to be here with you today,” Sheehan said. “We are so blessed and so thankful to have the support of amazing, elected officials who believe in the fight and the liberation of all Black lives,” said Daniel Downer, executive director of Bros in Convo and co-chair of this year’s All Black Lives Fund steering committee. “I think it’s important that as we talk about this day we recognize that all Black lives, for most of the time, are very much invisible to the larger world, and that includes the work of amazing Black-led organizations here in Central Florida and what the All Black Lives Fund has been able to do is to empower and create leadership within the Central Florida area, but also amplify the voices in the visibility of Black-led organizations that are doing amazing work.” The event featured a collection of powerful speakers including fellow All Black Lives Fund steering committee co-chair Angelica Sanchez, steering committee members and founders of the R.I.S.E. Initiative Yasmine

Prosper and Shea Cutliff, Equality Florida’s press secretary Brandon Wolf and spoken word artist and activist Q. The presentation brought the total amount in grants from the Contigo Fund’s All Black Lives Fund to $200,000 and brings Contigo Fund’s total investment in Central Florida’s Black LGBTQ community to $400,000 since its start in 2016. “Today is evidence of the progress that we collectively made here in our community. I couldn’t be more grateful to be sharing space with these folks, with all of you during this very historic moment,” Quiroga said. “That is what we mean by solidarity. It is not performative, it requires action and in that spirit we hope that the All Black Lives Fund and Central Florida’s commit to our LGBTQ siblings, leaders and communities will live on.” Contigo Fund launched the All Black Lives Fund in June 2020 “inspired by the racial justice uprising in the summer of 2020 and motivated by the often invisiblized and escalating violence perpetuated against our Black, transgender family due to police brutality, white supremacy and transphobia.” “The commitment we made in 2020 continues on today, continues

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THE CENTER ORLANDO ANNOUNCES SCHOLARSHIP NAMED TO HONOR SINGHAUS FAMILY Jeremy Williams

RLANDO | The LGBT+ Center Orlando announced Feb. 25 the creation of a performing arts scholarship to be named after Sam Singhaus, also known as the legendary drag performer Miss Sammy, and his sister-in-law, costume designer Marcy Singhaus. Both Sam and Marcy Singhaus passed away in 2020. The Singhaus Scholarship for the Performing Arts was created by Central Florida businessperson Neil Hamilton and “serves as a tribute to the creative and generous spirit of the Singhaus Family.” “The funds provide financial assistance to elevate young talent in their pursuit of a career in theatre: performance, technical, creative, costume design. This fund is designed to support members of the LGBTQ+ community and their allies and considers candidates whose path includes formal education as well as those who are not receiving a formal education and have a specific financial need such as aid in purchasing a new

sewing machine, vocal coaching, dance training, etc.,” The Center stated in a press release. Florida Theatrical Association pledged the scholarship’s first $5,000 along with funds contributed by Hamilton. To help raise additional funds, FTA, Hamilton and The Center will host The Singhaus Oscar Party at The Abbey in Orlando March 27. The event, hosted by Gidget Galore, will start at 6:30 p.m. with the Academy Awards broadcast beginning at 8 p.m. The evening will include light bites, raffles, a silent auction and a video tribute to The Singhaus’. Individual tickets are $35 or $100 for a table of four. The latter will include a complimentary bottle of champagne. Those interested in applying for the scholarship must be between the ages of 16-24, reside in Central Florida, show active involvement in the LGBTQ community and demonstrate a specific need for financial support that aligns with the goal of a career in the performing arts. Applicants must submit an application and essay and have the option to submit a video as well. The application will

be made available in April and will be reviewed by a panel that will include Steve Singhaus, Mary’s husband and Sam’s brother. “Sam Singhaus was a friend to many,” The Center expressed in its press release. “Whether dazzling on stage in front of a packed (Broadway) house or just sharing a story with a handful of friends, Sam filled any room with light and made you feel special. His quick wit and talent entertained us all and he took every opportunity to encourage creativity in others. In his community, Sam pushed boundaries with kindness yet stood firmly for what he believed was just and right. Sam was eager to lend his time, energy, and fabulousness to help worthy causes over the years and he inspired and helped shape the community that we know and love today. His drag persona, Miss Sammy was one of the most well-known and influential drag performers in Orlando history.” The scholarship will be awarded July 22 during The Center’s annual LGBT+ Diversity Awards. Sam Singhaus was awarded the Lifetime Achievement Award at the same event in 2019.

The event was hosted by Come Out With Pride’s executive director Tatiana Quiroga and Equality Florida press secretary Brandon Wolf and featured politicians, activists and community leaders speaking to the crowd including Sister Ann Kendrick, a catholic nun who has fought for immigration justice for more than 50 years, and Yoseline Rodriguez from the immigrant community service group Hope CommUnity Center in Apopka; Shea Cutliff and Yasmine Prosper, co-founders of the trans-led organization R.I.S.E. Initiative; Lavon Bracy Davis, a local Black leader of faith; Wendy Doromal, president of the Orange County Classroom Teachers Association; and Nattaly Guerra, a member of the political organization Florida Rising.

The crowd also heard from elected officials Johanna Lopez, Representing District 2 for Orange County Public Schools; Orlando City Commissioner for District 4 Patty Sheehan; Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer; and Florida House Rep. Anna V. Eskamani, who represents District 47, and had just drove down from Tallahassee after voting against the “Don’t Say Gay” bill, which was still able to pass the House. The rally also featured entertainment with Blue Star, who opened the rally by getting the crowd dancing, and a closing number by drag legend Darcel Stevens.

CENTRAL FLORIDA LEADERS, ACTIVISTS RALLY IN ORLANDO AGAINST THE DON’T SAY GAY BILL

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RLANDO |Hundreds gathered in front of Orlando’s City Hall Feb. 26 for a rally protesting several proposed bills in the Florida legislature that look to attack the rights of marginalized communities including the “Don’t Say Gay” bill and the “Stop WOKE Act.” The Rally For Our Collective Rights was hosted by a coalition of organizations collectively called Floridians Mobilizing Against Hate and includes Central Florida Jobs with Justice, Come Out with Pride, Contigo Fund, Equality Florida, FLIC, FLIC Votes, Florida Farmworkers Association of Florida, Florida Rising, Hope CommUnity Center, One Orlando Alliance, Impulse Group Orlando and others.

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tomorrow and will continue on for the history of Contigo Fund,” Quiroga said. Speaking about Peer Support Space’s Black LGBTQ+ emotional emancipation initiative, Yasmin Flasterstein, the organization’s co-founder and executive director, said the program “is going to be led for and by Black LGBTQ+ communities to create peer lives support systems for individuals navigating a hard time, as well as to advocate against the oppressive mental health system that continues to leave the same communities behind and is rooted in white supremacy. When systems don’t show up for us, it’s communities that show up for one another.” Mulan Montrese Williams, founder of Divas in Dialogue, spoke about how the organization was able to create a housing program with their first grant last year as well as echoed words spoken by Cutliff earlier in the rally. “Like my sister said, we’re not asking you guys to do the work for us, just support us and watch what we can do,” Williams said. “[Contigo Fund,] thank you for opening the doors for us. Thank you for inviting us to the table so that we don’t have to fight to get to the table and I’m so grateful for you.” Downer also spoke about the importance of the All Black Lives Fund and the work Bros in Convo was able to do with last year’s grant. “Some of the amazing work that we have been able to do would not have been possible without this funding. Thinking about how we were able to provide emotion in mind support, peer support to individuals of color living with HIV. Thinking of how we were able to provide gender-affirming chest binders to genderqueer, gender fluid, nonbinary individuals at no cost to them,” he said. “Thinking about how we were able to recognize that there wasn’t enough data talking about the needs of Black LGBTQ+ folk, and how we could create that data. All of those things would not have been possible without the All Black Lives Fund and so my heart is so full with joy, so grateful.” Go to WatermarkOnline.com to see all the photos from the event.

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“It’s important for us to be here,” Nelson said, “to recognize these restaurants that get up every day, put food on the table, found a way to make it through COVID and that by the grace of everybody in the audience here and your friends and family will stay open hopefully for many years to come.” MX Taco and Savoy Orlando both received a grant of $10,000 each, Se7en Bites received a grant of $15,000 and The Hammered Lamb received a grant of $25,000, the latter of which was presented by Orlando City Commissioner Patty Sheehan. A final grant was presented by NGLCC to The Pride Chamber president and CEO Kellie Parkin in the amount of $15,000. GrubHub’s Donate to Change campaign raised $2.1 million last June for the NGLCC. By the end of this year’s first quarter, the organizations will have given away $1.5 million to LGBTQ and allied establishments.

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ALSO YOUTH PRESENTS 7TH MANATEE PRIDE Ryan Williams-Jent

RADENTON, FLA. | Manatee Pride will return for its seventh celebration March 5 from 12-5 p.m. at the Bradenton Riverwalk, its first event in nearly two years due to COVID-19. Traditionally a fundraiser for Prism Youth Initiative, the gathering will mark the first time Manatee Pride benefits new presenter ALSO Youth. The nonprofits merged in 2020, news they had planned to share during that year’s cancelled celebration. ALSO Youth has worked to create inclusive communities in and around Sarasota for 30 years. The merger allowed the organization to reach more youth than ever before by expanding into Manatee County. “Manatee Pride will be similar and different,” says ALSO Youth Secretary Craig Kaplan, who also chairs the event. “It will fund programming in our Manatee County center as well as ALSO Youth in Sarasota. “We’re trying to expand our reach in Manatee County,” he continues. “Prism Youth always had a following and the pandemic took a toll on a lot of kids. They weren’t able to get out for a long time, so we see Manatee Pride and our mission as more important than ever.” That mission is an ever-expanding one of advocacy, leadership, support and outreach. Traditionally the organization served youth ages 13-24 but launched ALSO, Jr. last year in support of those from 10-12. Programs and services include counseling and much more. Festivities will begin promptly at 12 p.m. with hostess Beneva Fruitville. The fan favorite entertainer will guide attendees through a full day of entertainment, which includes performances from fellow drag performers Rockell Blu, Alexis De La Mer and Evonka Rump as well as more live entertainment from Moxy Stardust, DJ Brianna, The Players Center and ALSO Youth itself. “Having been a part of Manatee Pride since its inception, it’s so wonderful to be back hosting,” Fruitville says. “We’re going to have fabulous friends and the incredible community supporting our youth and celebrating our unity and pride!” In addition to entertainment, attendees will also have access to more than 50 local vendors. Participants include community and faith-based organizations, artisans and businesses, including those offering a variety of food and beverages options. ALSO Youth is grateful to have received community support as Manatee Pride makes its return, Kaplan stresses, including from major sponsors. They include CAN Community Health, Church of the Trinity, Regions Bank, Tropicana, Watermark and more. “This is really all about welcoming friends and supporters for a full day of entertainment, support and positive reinforcement,” Kaplan says. “We’re excited to provide that for the kids and their advocates.”

The 7th annual Manatee Pride will be held March 5 from 12-5 p.m. For more information, visit ALSOYouth.org.

SERVING EVERYONE: Habitat for Humanity at St Pete Pride 2019. PHOTO COURTESY HABITAT FOR HUMANITY

Ownership for All Habitat for Humanity seeking candidates, funds for 2022 Pride Build Ryan Williams-Jent

AMPA BAY | Fundraising efforts and a candidate search are underway for Habitat for Humanity of Pinellas & West Pasco Counties’ 2022 Pride Build, a project designed to benefit potential homeowners with at least one household member who identifies as LGBTQ. The organization is a locally run affiliate of Habitat for Humanity International, the global nonprofit which builds homes for those in need. The chapter has served more than 900 families and individuals since 1985. In building and selling homes at no profit and no interest to those who don’t quality for traditional mortgages, Habitat works to turn beneficiaries into successful homeowners through education and more. They also offer a variety of specialty builds, including a Men’s Build, Women’s Build and Veterans’ Build. Their Pride Build initially launched in 2019 to raise awareness that Habitat can serve as a resource for those in the LGBTQ community but was delayed due

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to COVID-19. The organization is seeking to raise $50,000 to finance the project. “We have such a strong LGBTQ community here,” Habitat CEO Mike Sutton told Watermark when the Pride Build was announced. “We’ve served families in the past where someone in the household identifies as being LGBTQ—and given how strong the community has gotten in St. Petersburg, we want to figure out how we can show people that Habitat can help them achieve their dreams of owning their own home.” Jac Smith and The Jac Smith Group of Keller Williams St. Pete Impact Team are working to make that a reality as one of the Build’s sponsors. They’re doing so because “many of us are fortunate enough to own our own homes and we would like to help everyone achieve the ultimate American Dream of homeownership,” Smith says. “Habitat believes that everyone, regardless of sexual orientation, societal or economic background can own a home,” he continues. “The JGS Group is honored to help with his incredible feat that can be achieved one home at a time.”

Homeowner candidates must earn 30-80% of an area’s median income and demonstrate the need for adequate shelter to be considered for the Pride Build, with an ability to pay back a zero-interest loan. They’re also required to have lived or worked locally for at least one year, have “reasonably good credit” and to invest 350-450 hours of “sweat equity,” working to make homeownership a reality for other Habitat beneficiaries. For those who aren’t in need of affordable housing, sponsorships are also available for the Pride Build. Donations of all sizes are accepted, serving as a way to give back to the LGBTQ community at large. “We are very lucky to live in a place like St. Pete that is so welcoming to us,” Habitat Compliance Officer Val Brinkley explained in 2019. “One more person in affordable, safe housing is a benefit to the community as a whole.” “At Habitat, we believe everyone deserves a safe and affordable place to live,” Sutton stresses. “We wanted to make sure that our affiliate reflects the community in which we serve and that we are also investing in the LGBTQ community.” To learn how you can support Habitat for Humanity’s 2022 Pride Build, contact Habitat Chief Development Officer Jenny Gonzalez-Bohnert at 727-536-4755, ext. 220 or JGonzalez@HabitatPWP.org. For more information and to make a donation, visit HabitatPWP.org/Pride.

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ST PETE PRIDE WELCOMES NEW EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, BOARD FOR 20TH YEAR Ryan Williams-Jent

T. PETERSBURG | St Pete Pride has welcomed a new executive director and expanded its board as the nonprofit prepares for its landmark 20th anniversary this June. Traditionally Florida’s largest LGBTQ Pride celebration, St Pete Pride welcomed more than 265,000 people to St. Petersburg in 2019. At least 275,000 people were projected for the organization’s 2020 celebration, which was ultimately cancelled due to COVID-19. While scaled-back festivities returned in 2021, they were reimagined to protect attendees amidst the pandemic. In lieu of its traditional parade and festival, St Pete Pride held four weeks of events flanked by other outings organized by local partners. PrideFest 2021 began with Outdoor Adventure Week, which featured St Pete Pride’s first-ever 5K. Family Week followed to highlight St. Petersburg’s family-friendly culture. Arts & Music week was held after that – an outing which elevated Juneteenth – and Taste of PrideFest closed out the month, featuring fireworks along the waterfront. An estimated 22,000 people attended events across the city. “Our big takeaway was just how well those events were received, especially considering that we were in a COVID year,” St Pete Pride President Tiffany Freisberg says. “Turnout was incredible. The vibe was incredible. So there are things that we’re going to continue to layer in this year.” Freisberg helped conceptualize PrideFest after joining St Pete Pride’s board in early 2021. She served as vice president before becoming president and acting executive director last September. “St Pete Pride is on the verge of its 20th anniversary, and we’re excited to focus our energies on reinvigorating the organization while simultaneously planning an unforgettable 2022 Pride season,”

she told Watermark at the time. “Our top priority in the months ahead will be to expand the board of directors to be more reflective of the community, recruit a dynamic executive director and actively enlist a broad spectrum of volunteers.” That’s exactly what St Pete Pride did under her leadership. “The very first two things I did were write the board packet to get more board members and write the description for our executive director job,” Freisberg explains. “The search for both started immediately.” St Pete Pride’s last executive director parted ways with the organization in late 2019. The position’s updated description noted the organization was seeking “a passionate, strategic and collaborative Executive Director to help steward the organization through its 20th year and beyond.” “As St Pete Pride sets its sights on leading the transformation of St. Petersburg into one of the nation’s premiere LGBTQ+ destinations, the ED will be responsible for implementing organizational structure and maintaining the financial and operational well-being of the organization,” it also read. Applicants were required to have more than five years of progressive leadership and more than two of for-profit budget management. An “authentic passion for celebrating and promoting diversity, equity and inclusion” was another requirement. “We interviewed a lot of people,” Freisberg recalls. “We wanted to go beyond our immediate market and put the call out nationwide. For us it was about finding the person who was the right fit for where we are as an organization right now.” St Pete Pride hired openly LGBTQ Nicole Berman after the nonprofit’s extensive search, who officially relocated from Washington to St. Petersburg in January. She most recently served as the executive director for a domestic violence and sexual assault services agency, has

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worked extensively with LGBTQ and other youth and obtained her Master’s in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Massachusetts Boston. “For our executive director who’s steering the ship, it was really essential that we find someone who was polished but approachable and who was a member of the queer community or had a personal experience that related to the queer community, so it would be more than just a job,” Freisberg explains. “They also had to have the skillset and the experience to carry off our lofty goals of what Pride will become,” she continues. “We interviewed a lot of really, really talented people, but Nicole suited the vibe that we were going for. I think she’s a perfect fit.” Berman, who is nonbinary and uses she/they pronouns, says she was drawn to St Pete Pride because of its desire to serve all of Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ community before, during and after June. “Tiffany shared that St Pete Pride wanted to be intentionally more inclusive and accessible and to invest in the St. Pete community year around,” Berman explains. “So it wasn’t just about those 300,000 people you’re working to bring in, but really what we do for the core community throughout the year. “I love the party, but the idea of being a cultural institution that benefits the community

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year-round really spoke to me,” she continues. “St Pete Pride isn’t about the board or executive director. It’s not their Pride or my Pride. It’s St. Pete’s Pride.” The nonprofit’s board, comprised of mostly new members, is actively working to make that the case. Joining Freisberg on its executive committee are Treasurer Stanley Solomons, who has served in various capacities since 2008 and Secretary Molly Robison, who officially joined in 2020. Fernando Chonqui, Carey Mears, Gabe Alves-Tomko, Clifford Hobbs, Darius Lightsey, Stephanie Morge and Byron Green round out the board, having each joined this or last year to steer St Pete Pride into its 20th anniversary. Hear more from them at WatermarkOnline.com. “This is the most enthusiastic group of people on the board that I’ve seen in quite a while,” Solomons says. He notes he’s excited to work with all of them, including Berman. “She comes with a lot of experience,” he explains. “She’s a go-getter and a strong, smart person who just dove right in. None of us are doing this for a party, although we do enjoy a party. The only thing you should get out of Pride for yourself is the joy of seeing it happen, and we’re doing it for the right reasons.” Berman thinks so as well. “These folks are dedicated, they’re passionate,” she says. “We have a shared goal and are willing to

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do the work. I don’t want to let the community down and neither do they – it’s our goal to make this the biggest St Pete Pride that we’ve had yet.” “The sincerity and the passion of the people who we’ve assembled is indisputable,” Freisberg adds. Events for St Pete Pride’s 20-year anniversary will officially begin May 22 with the Miss St Pete Pride Pageant at Coastal Creative. A 20th anniversary kick-off party will follow June 1 at Sirata Beach Resort. A month’s worth of activities begin after that, with Queer-EOkee at the Palladium June 11, Family Day June 18 and a celebration of Juneteenth June 19. A concert will be held June 24 ahead of the return of the St Pete Pride Parade in Downtown St. Petersburg. St Pete Pride will subsequently present “Pride in Grand Central” in its birthplace with the Grand Central District on June 26. A wrap-up party will follow June 30, with announcements about entertainment expected soon. “Pride belongs to St. Pete,” Freisberg stresses. “We’re just really, really lucky that right now, in 2022, that we’re entrusted with helping make sure that the 20th anniversary is awesome and there’s a Pride 20 years from now, too.”

For more information about St Pete Pride and upcoming events, visit StPetePride.com.

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IAMI | Miami-Dade County Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation officers degraded, humiliated and abused three transgender people after being arrested at racial justice protests in 2020, a federal lawsuit accuses. The complaint, filed in a U.S. District Court in Miami, claims correctional officers at Turner Guilford Knight Correctional Center “abused and harassed” two trans women and a trans man based on their sex, disability and transgender status after they were arrested on “minor charges” during Black Lives Matter protests in the 2020. All charges were later dropped. The three were subjected to unlawful strip searches, repeated misgendering and intrusive questions about their genitalia from officers in the prison, according to the suit. Correctional staff also used derogatory and humiliating names while removing gender-affirming accessories and isolating them in solitary confinement cells. The plaintiffs – Gabriela Amaya Cruz, Christian Pallidine, and Ángel Jae Torres Bucci – named Miami-Dade County, MDCR director Daniel Junior and several jail employees in their complaint. The three plaintiffs are represented by attorneys from Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund, the Harvard Law School LGBTQ+ Advocacy Clinic and the Southern Poverty Law Center. A spokesperson for the Miami-Dade County Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation declined to comment on the case, citing pending litigation. The lawsuit comes after nearly a year of unsuccessful attempts to resolve the case outside of litigation, according to the SPLC. “I am still haunted by what happened to me at TGK,” said Pallidine, a trans man, in a press release. “I was strip searched by four officers. The only reason they did this to me is because I’m transgender. It’s important to me that what happened to me never happens to anyone else.” Amaya Cruz added that she was “uncomfortable, embarrassed, dehumanized, and fully erased.” Torres Bucci accused officers of trying to rip the hair out of their head “because they thought it was a wig.” Lawyers argue that the county broke numerous other federal and state laws protecting the three trans people from discrimination and harm, including the Americans with Disabilities Act, the Prison Rape Elimination Act and Florida statutes on strip searches. The suit seeks damages for injury suffered in custody and a declaration that the county’s actions violated the law.

‘DON’T SAY GAY’ BILL PASSES THE FLORIDA HOUSE Jeremy Williams and Ryan Williams-Jent

ALLAHASSEE | The Florida House of Representatives passed HB 1557 – Parental Rights in Education, better known as the “Don’t Say Gay” bill, Feb. 24 by a vote of 69-47. The bill saw seven Republican members of the House — Reps. Jim Mooney, Chip LaMarca, Demi Bussata Cabrera, Vance Aloupis, Amber Mariano, Rene “Coach P” Plasencia, and Will Robinson — join every House Democrat in voting against the measure. The House voted to pass the Stop WOKE Act as well. Prior to the vote, an amendment was withdrawn that would force officials to potentially out students to their parents. It would have required principals to inform parents of their children’s LGBTQ status within six weeks of learning how they identified. During an hours-long debate Feb. 22, openly LGBTQ State Reps. Carlos Guillermo Smith of Orlando and Michele Rayner of St. Petersburg condemned the amendment and legislation. Smith noted that the Department of Education, which had previously removed online resources for LGBTQ youth, would be “in charge of making sure that we keep vulnerable LGBTQ youth safe.” “I think what they did is appalling,” Smith said. “I think we need to commit to making sure that we protect all students, and explicitly commit to protecting LGBTQ youth. And I don’t trust the Department of Education to do that.” “LGBTQ people are a normal, healthy part of this world,” Rayner added. “I am normal. I am healthy. And I am part of this world and I am a part of this chamber. “LGBTQ folks are parents, students, teachers,” she continued, addressing the Republican-controlled legislature. “I have been in this place and unfortunately many times in this chamber, I have felt like I have not been wanted or seen … you’re voting against me and Rep. Smith’s humanity and who we are and that’s the message in itself.”

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Equality Florida condemned HB 1557’s passage immediately after it advanced. The bill subsequently went on to the Senate Appropriations Committee Feb. 28. “Despite overwhelming public outrage, polling data underscoring immense unpopularity with voters, and hours of testimony from LGBTQ families, Republican legislators voted to pass the ‘Don’t Say Gay’ bill and ‘Stop WOKE’ Act in the Florida House,” the organization said in a statement. “If signed into law, these bills will have disastrous impacts on classrooms and workplaces. They will turn Florida into a surveillance state and give the government broad license to censor conversations about American history, the origins of racism and injustice, and the existence of LGBTQ people.” “The Florida Senate should choose not to take up this extreme legislation and turn Florida into a censorship and surveillance state,” Equality Florida continued. The bill’s passage in the House was also condemned by the Florida LGBTQ+ Democratic Caucus. “Just when we thought Florida Republicans couldn’t be anymore shameful, their despicable campaign to erase the LGBTQ+ community from public life continues,” Caucus President Stephen Gaskill said in a statement. “House passage of the ‘Don’t Say Gay’ bill is the latest in a series of heinous attacks on vulnerable LGBTQ+ youth. “Republicans don’t seem to care about the harm they are inflicting by using LGBTQ+ youth as political pawns,” he continued. “Our community will hold them accountable for this abuse at the ballot box in November.” Members of the local LGBTQ community have been sharing their own personal stories about coming out to teachers, showing how important it is for LGBTQ youth to be able to confide in them. “The first person I ever told that I was gay was my high school art teacher, Mary Ellen Boudman,” says Dr. George Wallace, the LGBT+ Center Orlando CEO. “To this day, I am thankful that I had a public school teacher that I trusted enough to come out to. Under this dangerous bill, I am fearful that

teachers will no longer be able to talk openly and honestly with their students. Students need a safe space and often, schools are their first or only resource. This legislation will make teachers fearful or providing a safe and inclusive environment, which could be extremely harmful.” Cory Fisher, president of Orlando’s first LGBTQ rugby club, the Orlando Otters RFC, posted an open letter to the team’s Facebook page recounting his coming out story to teachers in high school. “The ‘Don’t Say Gay Bill’ is hateful and discriminatory,” Fisher wrote in his letter. “LGBTQ+ history is a vibrant part of American history and culture. It’s value is endless and helps guide future generations from making the mistakes of the past. Not only should LGBTQ+ history be taught and respected but never should trusted adults and teachers be forced to violate their students’ privacy and share information to their family.” Gov. Ron DeSantis, speaking with reporters at a press conference Feb. 7, showed support for the bill stating that in his view it was “entirely inappropriate” for teachers and school administrators to have conversations with students about their gender identity. The “Don’t Say Gay” bill, sponsored by Republican Rep. Joe Harding, looks to forbid discussions of sexual orientation and gender identity in school classrooms for certain grade levels. The bill states that a parent would be able to sue a school district for violations. The proposal has drawn intense national scrutiny and has served as the one of the latest battlegrounds between the White House and Republican Gov. Ron DeSantis, who is widely considered to be a potential 2024 presidential candidate. In contrast, President Joe Biden has condemned the legislation from the White House.

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TEXAS GOVERNOR ORDER TREATS GENDER-CONFIRMING CARE AS ABUSE Republican-backed restrictions filed in statehouses nationwide. Both Abbott and Paxton are up for reelection this year, and their actions came a week before they are on the ballot for Republican voters in Texas’s first-in-the-nation primary of 2022. “I hereby direct your agency to conduct a prompt and thorough investigation of any reported instances of these abusive procedures in the State of Texas,” Abbott said in a letter to the Department of Family and Protective Services. The uncertainty over the impact is largely due to the fact that attorney general opinions do not carry the weight of law. In Houston, the county office that represents the state in civil child abuse cases said it would not take any actions based on the letter, and Texas’ largest child welfare advocacy group said it was unclear what judges and prosecutors would do with the opinion.

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USTIN, TEXAS | Republican Texas Gov. Greg Abbott has ordered the state’s child welfare agency to investigate reports of gender-confirming care for kids as abuse, a directive that opponents say is a first by any governor over GOP efforts to restrict transgender rights. The immediate impact of the order, which Abbott issued Feb. 22, was unclear and a spokesman for the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services said there were no open cases based on the governor’s directive. Abbott’s letter to state agencies came after Republican Attorney General Ken Paxton released a non-binding legal opinion that labeled certain gender-confirming treatments as “child abuse.” That goes against the nation’s largest medical groups, including the American Medical Association, which have opposed

The opinion by Paxton is directed at treatments that include puberty blockers and hormone therapy. It comes months after Texas Republican legislators— who filed more anti-LGBTQ proposals last year than in any other statehouse — proposed laws banning such treatments but failed to pass them. Arkansas became the first state to pass a law prohibiting gender confirming treatments for minors, and Tennessee approved a similar measure. Numerous states also have enacted laws banning transgender students from competing in scholastic sports on the basis of their gender identity. Cathryn Oakley, state legislative director and senior counsel for the Human Rights Campaign, said no other governor has taken the same action as Abbott, calling it a “lawless interpretation.”

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UBAI, UNITED ARAB EMIRATES | Kuwait’s constitutional court has struck down a contentious law long used to criminalize transgender people by forbidding the “imitation of the opposite sex.” After weeks of deliberation and years of campaigning by human rights groups, the court ruled that the law policing people who dress and behave like the opposite sex was “inconsistent with the constitution’s keenness to ensure and preserve personal freedom” because the law’s terms were far too ambiguous. The article did not define how to determine the “opposite sex,” allowing for “miscalculation” in criminalization, the court said.

The law had set the maximum penalty for cross-dressing at one-year in prison or a fine of $3,300. The decision was hailed as a liberal counterweight to the conservative politics in Kuwait, a Gulf Arab sheikhdom where homosexual relations are criminalized with up to seven years in prison. Amnesty International welcomed the overturning of the penal code’s Article 198 as “a major breakthrough” for the rights of transgender people in the region. Similar laws criminalize transgender expression across the conservative Arabian Peninsula. Throughout the Arab world, LGBTQ people face legal and social discrimination and other formidable obstacles to living their lives openly.

“Article 198 was deeply discriminatory, overly vague and never should have been accepted into law in the first place,” said Lynn Maalouf, deputy director of Amnesty’s Middle East and North Africa division. Kuwaiti authorities “must also immediately halt arbitrary arrests of transgender people and drop all charges and convictions brought against them,” Maalouf added. Transgender woman Maha al-Mutairi, for instance, was sentenced last October to two years in prison for “imitating the opposite sex online,” Human Rights Watch has reported. She remains in detention at Kuwait’s Central Prison for men. Conservative Islamist lawmakers in Kuwait blasted the court ruling Feb. 17 as shameful and vowed to fight it.

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IN OTHER NEWS NY MAN PLEADS GUILTY TO MAILING THREATS TO LGBTQ GROUPS Robert Fehring, a 74-year-old retired teacher who threatened violence against the New York City LGBTQ pride march and numerous other LGBTQ-friendly groups and businesses, pleaded guilty in federal court Feb. 23 to mailing threatening communications through the postal service, federal prosecutors in New York announced. Fehring sent the threatening letters between June 2013 and September 2021. Prosecutors said Fehring warned in one letter that explosive devices would be placed at the 2021 New York City pride march that would “make the 2016 Orlando Pulse Nightclub shooting look like a cakewalk.” Fehring faces up to five years in prison at his sentencing on June 17.

ILLINOIS MAN HELD ON $1M BAIL FOR ANTI-GAY ATTACK Ethan Dickerson, a 19-year-old man from Decatur, Illinois, has been held on $1 million bail after an alleged anti-gay attack that sent the victim to the hospital. Decatur police allege Dickerson restrained and hit the victim repeatedly with a pipe wrench Feb. 17 at a Decatur home. Authorities said Dickerson allegedly threatened to kill the victim in a homophobic rant. Dickerson faced preliminary charges of attempted first-degree murder, aggravated battery, aggravated unlawful restraint, home invasion and a hate crime. Police found the victim in the kitchen with multiple lacerations on the head and a “significant” amount of blood loss. The victim was transported to a local hospital for non-life-threatening injuries that required stitches.

MEXICO ISSUES FIRST NONBINARY BIRTH CERTIFICATE

Fausto Martínez, a Mexican LGBTQ activist who identifies as nonbinary, petitioned their country’s National Electoral Institute in September to list their gender as “NB” on their official documents. Martínez and advocacy group Amicus sought legal recourse, known as an “amparo” in the Mexican judicial system, after the National Electoral Institute denied the request. A judge ruled in favor of Martínez last month and the Guanajuato Civil Registry issued them a birth certificate with a nonbinary gender marker on Feb. 11.

TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO’S 1ST TRANSGENDER SENATOR SWORN IN Jowelle De Souza became the first openly transgender senator in Trinidad and Tobago Feb. 15. De Souza is filling-in for the ailing Sen. Jayanti Lutchmedial, a member the United National Congress, a center-left opposition party. De Souza, who is also an animal rights activist, owns a beauty salon in San Fernando, the country’s second largest city. De Souza in 1993 became the first person to undergo sex-reassignment surgery in Trinidad and Tobago. She unsuccessfully ran for Parliament in 2015.

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Thanksgiving, we flipped on “Jeopardy” and saw her for the first time: a super-plain “Engineering Manager from Oakland, California.”

My spouse and I giggled a little. Our interactions with the “T” of our community have been minimal: the cashier at Publix who we’ve only seen from across the grocery belt a couple times and last year’s super-fun Tampa Pride parade with Watermark. We are active-adjacent members of a community of two. Of course, we have gay friends, but we don’t sit around with them talking about how gay our lives are. LGBTQ is the unspoken background to the foreground of living our best lives. As white gay men in 2022, we exert a privilege that was fought for and won by generations of brave cultural activists dating back to (even before) Oscar Wilde with a throughline including Stonewall uprisers and AIDS martyrs. Like children who don’t remember nine months in the womb, we take our lives—and the sacrifices of our forebears—for granted. We can never thank our mothers enough for what they endured for us; we acknowledge this as a specific privilege. We were the kind of kids who, though slightly socially awkward, were able to “pass as straight,” sports-playing, church-going, good-grade-getting teenagers. Neither, though, were we given the freedom to openly explore our curiosities about sex and gender. Positive imagery and technicolor visibility were for the generation that followed. Despite the trivially superficial—thin straight hair, beady grey-blue eyes, and scoop-necked sateen blouses backgrounding her omnipresent pearl necklace—we were wowed by the vastness of Amy Schneider’s knowledge. Our own minds obsessed on the unfamiliarity. “I don’t think she was born a biological woman,” my spouse, after the fifth episode, verbalized.

Channeling two years’ worth of lockdown-fueled virtual-wokeness: “Let’s take ‘Things that shouldn’t matter’ for 2000.” Intellectually, I knew that it shouldn’t matter – but as a gay white male, I autonomically wondered. The consumptive curiosity manifested like the fascination of seeing a unicorn. It did matter. It DID matter that her experience with her body and gender and sexuality was not as easy as mine. IT DID MATTER that she was standing, as her authentic self, in front of the world. I am of that generation— before Ellen, before “Will & Grace” and a full decade before “Queer Eye” righted Straight Guys’ broke fashion senses— that had to dig hard to find representation in popular media. The 1990s didn’t afford the luxury of explicit heroic imagery to identify with—to validate us, to reject even. Although trailblazing LGBTQs were fighting for us even then, popular media did not give them to us. The fully swinging culture wars of the 80s and 90s didn’t show us victorious images, they showed us hospiced AIDS victims, angry gays shouting down confused Christians, and Jafars and Scars. Eventually, we got Pride, marriage and acceptance. Eventually we, the “G”s in the LGBTQ spectrum, won. And so, it was with adolescent awe that we watched Schneider— transformed in our minds from giggle-worthy novelty to affable winner—win. We religiously tuned in for 39 more days. We invited her into our home and cheered her on. In a world where much of the imagery around the transgender community has been warped—where the images are of bullied and beaten victims, of angry transitioning 20-somethings shouting down confused Christians—a winning face became a human face. Forty days of visibility mattered. It’s mattered to those high school kids— longing to find and love

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their right bodies in a swill of pubescent hormones— who’ve needed to see a victorious image reflected back at them. It’s mattered to me and my spouse, who’ve needed a reminder that there were pioneers who stood in front of the world, proud and brave, to clear a path for our own normalized lives. And, frankly, it’s mattered to those confused Christians who’ve needed more than anger to counteract their judgement and polarization. We thought her unbeatable. She was our unicorn-made-real. Fantastically, she shattered the records of the greatest “Jeopardy” champions of all time, along the way changing the way we talked about people like her. As though touched by a magic signaling buzzer, she transformed before our eyes, owning her

body and her identity and beaming an infectious—dare I say, sexy— smile into our closest quarters. And then, in the most humanizing event of her historic run, she lost. And then, in that moment, she truly became like the rest of us: no longer merely a transgender icon of superhuman intellect: no longer merely a curiosity or unicorn-made-real. She

didn’t matter. And for that, Americans, “Jeopardy” fans, the slightly more open-minded members of my immediate family, and members of the broad LGBTQ community could rejoice. Schneider, a former engineering manager, a citizen of our hearts, whose cash winnings are $1,382,800.00, is more than a timeless “Jeopardy” champion. She is the T in a Thanksgiving season that spanned nearly four months: a momentous, runaway Final Jeopardy round that continues to play out in our nation’s soul.

Forty days of visibility mattered. proved that she needn’t keep winning to make her point, that behind those icy blue eyes and below those pearls on a low-scooped sateen blouse, was the soul of a happy, inspiring, comfortable-in-defeat, very human, human being. The specifics of what was hidden behind that podium

Jason Leclerc (@JLeclercAuthor) is chief economist and partner at Crescent Consulting, a technology consulting firm. He has published two short story collections, “Momentitiousness” and “Black Kettle” and shares poetry at PoetEconomist.Blogspot.com.

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THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF WANZIE Wanzie’s 65th birthday self-examination and a wish for all Watermark readers

’M TURNING 65 YEARS OLD on March 6. That’s like 170 in queer years.

I — very much like one of my heroes, Oscar Wilde — see great beauty in youth. I always have and I imagine I always will. While for the longest time I was drawn to the 18- to 23-year-old set, I find that in my senior years — OMG! I am indeed a senior citizen and I still cannot fathom that this is somehow my reality but alas — I find my tastes have matured along with me and I seem to now be drawn more to those in the age range of 28-32. I am sure — or rather I’m often told — that my life would be so much easier if I were to attempt dating men my own age, but I have no real desire to keep intimate company with people whose constant familiarity might lull me into the routine of “acting my age.” I suffer from, no actually, I delight in my Peter Pan syndrome and make no apologies for it. Conversely, I also make no conscience attempt at clinging to a long faded, youthful appearance. I have no concern with appearing to be as old as I am. I have never toyed with the idea of dyeing my gray hair or Botoxing away my wrinkles. I have no issue with being 65 and I have no problem admitting my age. My problem is the expectations society places on those who are of my age. Even more to the point, I resent being told that I should grow up and act my age. I still enjoy the company of a young man. Why should I endeavor to change that simply because of my age? I don’t think I need to. I still enjoy theme parks, and not simply in the “sit on a bench and people watch” fashion — which admittedly I sometimes do enjoy — but more so in the “ride the biggest and fastest roller coaster while getting tipsy on the vodka you snuck into the park in

your water bottle to save money” fashion. I love adjudicating high school thespian competitions. It is always an absolute joy for me to see boys and girls as they are blossoming into young men of promise and confident young women ready to take the world by storm. I very much like watching younger people dance with an abandon that somehow seems to diminish with age. I especially like to insinuate myself into this situation when I’m rolling on a good hit of ecstasy. Not long ago I asked an old friend, with whom I often rolled back in the day, if he would care to join me in a roll. He said, “I haven’t done that in years and I can’t believe you still do.” I said, “I don’t know, maybe it’s because I was really late coming to the party and I’m making up for lost time, but I still enjoy rolling as much now as when I first did it.” I asked why he no longer indulged and he said, “Because I grew up” going on to say, “Maybe it’s time you did the same.” He added, “I can’t believe you still go to raves at your age.” That really hurt my feelings and, after considerable consideration, my hurt feelings gave way to my feeling sorry for my old friend. I concluded that yes, one needs to grow up at some point to take responsibility for his own life, health and wellbeing, but why the fuck should I give up doing something I dearly enjoy. In fact, I’ve just written an entire Fringe show about my involvement in the rave scene. I see no logic in giving up something that never fails to energize me, lift my spirits and clear my head simply because my ID and the AARP rank me as a senior citizen. I’ve done my bit. I hope to Gawd I’m not delusional in thinking I’ve made some small contribution to making my community a slightly better place in which to reside. I do know

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for certain that through my playwriting I helped a lot of people to engage in a lot of laugher. It’s not as though I’ve done nothing with my life other than partying. So why the hell should anyone ever tell me I need to grow up, act my age and scoff at me for indulging in and still enjoying pursuits that a misguided society

much time being down on myself for not achieving so many of the things that most people equate with success. I scarcely have a pot to piss in by most people’s reckoning but gawd-damn I have lived a life that is overflowing with fabulous experiences, unique encounters, amazing people and cherished memories and

best to have my heart give out while I’m on stage inducing laughter or while dancing high on ecstasy in the middle of a sea of gorgeous young men. My birthday wish for those reading this column is two-fold. If you are young, please be curious. Know your queer history and when you’re ready,

seems to have deemed only appropriate for young people? I flat out reject that notion and I am done beating myself up for the things I haven’t done. At 65 I have finally come to the realization that I have spent far too

I’ll be damned if I’m going to change the way I conduct myself simply because others think my behavior is not becoming of my age. I hope when my time comes to exit this world that it comes without warning and that I go quickly. If I had my druthers, I’d like

contribute in whatever way suits your personality but do contribute. If you are an older person, my wish is that you embrace your age without attempting to conceal it while at the same time making no attempt to act it. Party on!

I see no logic in giving up something that never fails to energize me, lift my spirits and clear my head simply because my ID and the AARP rank me as a senior citizen.

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OSE” STAR MICHAELA JAÉ “MJ” RODRIGUEZ WILL BE HONORED AT THE GLAAD MEDIA AWARDS for her efforts to advance acceptance for LGBTQ people of color. Rodriguez, the first transgender woman to receive a lead actress Emmy nomination, will receive the Stephen F. Kolzak Award given to LGBTQ media professionals who counter anti-LGBTQ bias. Rodriguez, who earned a Golden Globe Award for her role of Blanca on “Pose,” stars in Netflix’s Lin-Manuel Miranda-directed film “tick…tick… BOOM!” and is to appear with Maya Rudolph in the announced Apple TV+ series “Loot.″ She also has an upcoming album release. Rodriguez will be honored at the April 2 awards ceremony in Los Angeles.

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Central Florida, Tampa Bay select their favorites in the Watermark Awards for Variety and Excellence

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AST YEAR, DUE TO THE PANDEMIC,

our typical WAVE celebrations were altered. Instead of two big parties — one in Central Florida and one in Tampa Bay — to honor the winners, we set up a socially distanced, small gathering for them to safely come by, pick up their award and have their picturess taken.

It was great to see everyone, but it just wasn’t the same. So this year we are excited that we were able to bring our celebrations back – which means first, we have to know who won. So here you have it, your 2022 winners for the Watermark Awards for Variety and Excellence, which you know better as the WAVEs.

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We asked you, our loyal readers, to tells us your local LGBTQ favorites in both Central Florida and Tampa Bay in more than 50 categories – including a few new ones this year – and you did not disappoint. We had such a turnout that for the first time ever, our second round of voting consisted of the Top 5 nominees. Then we asked

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you to tell us your absolute favorites in each category in the final round. In the following pages, you will find your Top 3 from both Central Florida and Tampa Bay, as well as a few No. 1 favorites that we chose to highlight. Congratulations to everyone who made it into the Top 5, another congratulations to those who came out in the Top 3 and a big congratulations to all our readers who have made this one of the biggest WAVEs ever. Alright, we’ve held back long enough. To the winners!

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WINNERS FAVORITE LOCAL POLITICIAN First: Tampa Mayor Jane Castor Second: Former St. Petersburg Mayor Rick Kriseman Third: St. Petersburg Mayor Ken Welch

FAVORITE LOCAL ACTIVIST First: Nadine Smith, Equality Florida Second: Jim Nixon, City of St. Petersburg Third: Johnny Boykins, Pinellas County Young Democrats

GREATEST ALLY TO THE LOCAL COMMUNITY First: Former St. Petersburg Mayor Rick Kriseman Second: Carol “Mama” Steen Third: John and Nancy Desmond, PFLAG Tampa

MOST EFFECTIVE LOCAL NONPROFIT ORGANIZATION First: Metro Inclusive Health Second: St Pete Pride Third: Empath Partners in Care (EPIC)

FAVORITE LOCAL TRANS-AFFIRMING ORGANIZATION First: Metro Inclusive Health Second: St Pete Pride

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FAVORITE NON-LOCAL MEGA LGBTQ EVENT

First: Tampa Bay Buccaneers

First: Gay Day at Disney’s Magic Kingdom

Second: Tampa Bay Lightning Third: Tampa Bay Rays

FAVORITE LOCAL WRITER/ JOURNALIST First: Ryan Williams-Jent, Watermark Second: Tiffany Razzano, Watermark Third: Dave Borman, Tampa Bay Gay

Second: Come Out with Pride Third: Stonewall Pride Wilton Manors

FAVORITE LOCAL BUSINESS NOT A BAR/CLUB (OVER ONE YEAR OLD) First: Out of the Closet Thrift Store Second: 6S Boutique

FAVORITE LOCAL WEBSITE

Third: Zazoo’d

First: WatermarkOnline. com

FAVORITE NEW LOCAL BUSINESS (LESS THAN ONE YEAR OLD)

Second: ILoveTheBurg.com Third: StPete.org

FAVORITE LOCAL FUNDRAISING EVENT First: Drag Queen Bingo, Punky’s Bar & Grill Second: Dining Out for Life, Empath Partners in Care Third: Red & Green Party, St Pete Pride

MOST PRIDEFUL LOCAL EVENT First: St Pete Pride Second: Tampa Pride Third: Come OUT St. Pete

First: Cocktail Second: Bulge Apparel & Gifts Third: Zubrick Magic Theatre

FAVORITE LOCAL HEALTH CARE FACILITY First: Metro Inclusive Health Second: Diversity Health Center of Tampa Bay Third: CAN Community Health

FAVORITE LOCAL HAIR SALON / BARBER SHOP First: Tyler’z Barbershop Second: Salon Swank

FAVORITE LOCAL TRANS-AFFIRMING EVENT

Third: Salon West

FAVORITE LOCAL MAKEUP ARTIST

First: St Pete Pride’s TransPride March Second: Metro Inclusive Health’s Outside the Binary Third: Tampa Pride

First: Jaeda Fuentes, Jaeda Fuentes Makeup Second: Ian Glending, Freelance Makeup Artist Third: Taylor Francen,

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has been a Tampa Bay favorite since opening in 1995. Pairing old world classics with new favorites, their dishes explore the seven regions of Mexico – from the “Spanishinfluenced Gulf to the achiote-kissed South” – all with their unique Latin flair.

“A reinterpretation ranging from exquisite refinements to bold new perspectives have resulted in exciting new takes on the classics as well as cross-regional and international fusions of flavors and ingredients,” the restaurant advises. “No hype, just amazing flavors and ingredients prepared with devotion and love.” In the years since, partners Pete Veytia II, Shawn Veytia, Pete Veytia III and Chef Chris Fernandez have expanded the brand in exciting ways. The Red Mesa Restaurant Group began by respectively launching celebrated eateries Red Mesa Cantina and Red Mesa Mercado in 2008 and 2014. Cantina blends Latin and Caribbean kitchen tradition to provide ceviche, tacos and more. Mercado – a fast-paced, outdoor eatery – serves as a go-to for burritos, street tacos and quesadillas. Red Mesa Events followed in 2017. It was transformed from St. Petersburg’s oldest fire station into an elegant event venue with a ballroom, terrace and rooftop for weddings and other gatherings. With Red Mesa Restaurant, Mercado, Cantina and Events all placing in this year’s WAVE Awards, Director of Marketing & Operations Director Tony Pullaro says Red Mesa Restaurant Group is thrilled. “That’s every one of our brands right now and they all seem to have made an impact on the community,” he explains. “It’s really exciting because we try to be involved and beyond open-minded about who our clientele is. It’s a lot of fun.” From drag brunches and much more, that support has long extended to the local LGBTQ community. “Being a part of that community myself, I feel like I see it from the inside out,” Pullaro adds. “Our partners that run the business are the kindest and most open-minded people that I’ve ever met, which is why I want to be here. I hope everyone loves us as much as we love them.” –Ryan Williams-Jent

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FAVORITE LOCAL FITNESS CENTER First: Crunch Fitness St. Petersburg Second: CrossFit St. Pete Third: Planet Fitness Clearwater

FAVORITE LOCAL VETERINARIAN CLINIC First: SPCA Tampa Bay Second: Royal Pets Market & Resort Veterinary Center Third: Northeast Animal Hospital

FAVORITE LOCAL CPA/ACCOUNTANT First: Tax & Accounting By The Bay Second: Kathy K. Cregan, CPA, Cregan & Co. Third: Joel Schmitz, CPA

FAVORITE PLACE TO BUY A CAR First: Tyrone Square Mazda

FAVORITE LOCAL SHOPPING/ ENTERTAINMENT DISTRICT

First: Woof Gang Bakery & Grooming St. Pete

Third: The Edge District

FAVORITE LOCAL REALTOR First: Eric Wilson, The Wilson Group, Keller Williams Realty Second: Amy Storch, The Storch Group, Sellstate Coastal Realty

Third: Apple Blossoms Floral Designs

FAVORITE LOCAL MUSEUM First: The Dali Museum Second: The James Museum of Western & Wildlife Art

FAVORITE LOCAL SPACE TO BUY ART First: MIZE Gallery Second: Studio@620 Third: Morean Arts Center

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FAVORITE LOCAL GEEK SPOT First: Mad Hatter’s Ethnobotanical Tea Bar

First: Hollander Hotel Second: Casa del Merman at GayStPete House Third: Casa Puente Guest House

Second: Emerald City Comics Third: Right Around the Corner Arcade Brewery

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FAVORITE LOCAL TRANS-AFFIRMING SPACE

Third: Caitlin Jones, Jones Home Team, DaltonWade Real Estate Group

First: The Grand Central District

FAVORITE LOCAL ATTORNEY

Third: Bradley’s on 7th

First: Lindsey Sheppy, GBY Law

FAVORITE LOCAL WEDDING VENUE

First: Michael’s St. Petersburg Second: Tyrone Frames & Mirrors Third: Gallery Barbas

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Second: Liz Moneymaker, Ferrari, Butler & Moneymaker, PLLC

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Third: Bobby King, The King Law Firm, PA

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FAVORITE LOCAL ARTIST First: Chad Mize Second: Nelson Perez Third: Painkiller Cam

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FAVORITE PLACE TO PAMPER YOUR PET Third: Royal Pets Market & Resort

First: St Pete Florist Second: Green Bench Flowers

Second: CarMax Clearwater

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Second: Bow Wow Barber

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FAVORITE LOCAL PHOTOGRAPHER First: Dylan Todd Second: Morgan Le Shade

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Third: Robert Castelli

Second: Allendale UMC Third: King of Peace MCC

Drag Queen Bingo at Punky’s Bar and Grille with Georgia Moore Tampa Bay’s 1st Place Favorite Local Fundraising Event Tampa Bay’s 2nd Place Favorite Karaoke/Trivia/Bingo

N JUST OVER TWO YEARS,

Drag Queen Bingo hostess Georgia Moore has raised more than $64,000 for local charities at Punky’s Bar and Grille, Tampa Bay’s 2nd place favorite local restaurant.

It’s a remarkable feat that’s made the weekly game night a St. Petersburg staple. Moore’s passion for helping others predates her drag career, however, which officially began in 2017. The entertainer is also a high school teacher who oversees more than 150 students each day and a preacher, one who believes it’s incumbent upon us all to make the world a better place. “Fundraising is vital for our community, especially with the pandemic,” Moore says. “Everyone needs a little help and assistance to create that unified front that we’re in this together. It didn’t just affect a certain group of people – or even those with only two legs.” Animal shelters and rescues regularly benefit from Drag Queen Bingo, Moore notes, as do LGBTQ-serving nonprofits. She estimates up to 35 different organizations have received financial support during her time as hostess, averaging around $1,000 per evening. Recent events have raised funds for Empath Partners in Care, Diversity Arts, Passion 4 Pits and more. Nonprofits need only reach out to be considered, though beneficiaries are already booked through June. “These organizations we’re working with are not just making this community a better place, they’re making the world a better place,” Moore stresses. “Helping them along is exactly what we’re here to do. “We need to love, show mercy and walk humbly with each other,” she continues. “This is something that I live every day and this is just my way of helping people. I’m so thankful to Punky’s for taking a chance on me to being their Drag Queen Bingo Hostess.” Punky’s is equally as grateful for Moore. “Punky’s is proud to have Georgia Moore host and manage the charity Drag Queen Bingo events,” owners John Burt and Lynn Deibert share. “In 2021 Georgia set her goal for the year at $25,000 but surpassed it to raise $38,000 – the sky is the limit for Georgia! We all look forward to seeing what she will do in 2022!” –Ryan Williams-Jent

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FAVORITE LOCAL TV NEWS PERSONALITY

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First: Alexis De La Mer, Drag Queen Bingo at Quench Lounge

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Second: Punky’s Bar & Grill Third: Noble Crust

Third: Theresa McGivern, Karaoke at Quench Lounge

FAVORITE LOCAL BRUNCH SPOT

FAVORITE LOCAL BARTENDER/SERVER

First: The Hollander Second: Hamburger Mary’s Clearwater Third: Mixers at Old Key West

FAVORITE LOCAL LATE NIGHT DINING First: New York New York Pizza, Ybor

First: Kerissa Hickey, Enigma Bar & Lounge Second: Nikos Daras, Quench Lounge Third: Tim Seward, The Garage on Central Ave.

FAVORITE LOCAL PERFORMER: DRAG

Second: Bodgega St. Pete

First: Veronica Vixen

Third: Red Mesa Cantina

Second: Daphne Ferraro

FAVORITE LOCAL CATERER First: Sonny’s BBQ Second: Red Mesa Mercado Third: Lolita’s Catering + Events

FAVORITE LOCAL LGBTQ BAR/CLUB First: Enigma Bar & Lounge Second: Quench Lounge Third: Cocktail

FAVORITE LOCAL ALLIED BAR/CLUB

FAVORITE LOCAL PERFORMER: STAGE (NON-DRAG) First: Robert Rigsby

FAVORITE LOCAL RADIO SHOW First: The Miguel & Holly Show, Hot 101.5 Second: Josh’s Big Gay Radio Show, 88.5 WMNF Third: The Joe Show, 93.3 FLZ

FAVORITE LOCAL PERFORMING ARTS VENUE First: Straz Center for the Performing Arts Second: Ruth Eckerd Hall Third: Duke Energy Center for the Arts – Mahaffey Theater

FAVORITE LOCAL THEATRICAL SHOW First: Zubrick Magic Theatre Second: “Holiday Sparkle,” St. Petersburg Opera Company

Third: Matthew McGee

Third: “At the Wake of a Dead Drag Queen,” Urbanite Theatre

FAVORITE LOCAL PERFORMER: MUSICIAN

FAVORITE ADULT NOVELTY STORE

Second: Chris and Ryan Zubrick

First: Bulge Apparel & Gifts

First: Jay Miah Second: Divine AF Third: Alyssa

Second: Mixers at Old Key West Third: The Saint Speakeasy

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Third: Leigh Spann, WFLA

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First: The Dog Bar

Second: Trevor Pettiford, Spectrum Bay News 9

Second: XTC Adult Supercenter Third: Todd Couples Superstore

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First: Lucky Star Lounge

Third: DJ Charles Machado

Second: The Chattaway Third: La France Ybor

First: Quench Lounge Second: Enigma Bar & Lounge Third: Cocktail

End of an Era The Miguel & Holly Show, Hot 101.5

Tampa Bay’s 1st Place Favorite Local Radio Show

AMPA BAY’S “THE MIGUEL

& Holly Show” on Hot 101.5 was billed as funny, authentic and real, which was exactly the type of radio co-hosts Miguel Fuller and Holly O’Connor gave listeners for nearly seven years.

The morning show launched in 2015 and ended Feb. 4 when they announced their imminent departure. The two thanked Cox Media Group for allowing them the rare opportunity to directly address the show’s supporters on the matter. “Our dreams and our goals are constantly evolving and much like we always encourage you to do, it’s time for us to leap,” O’Connor said. “We are jumping into our future … hoping against all odds that you know how much we love you.” “We’ve shared so many adventures together,” Fuller followed. “I love this medium and what it can do, but you listening has brought it to life. You let this poor, gay, Black kid from Atlanta, Georgia come here and fulfill his dreams.” The two also helped listeners do the same, regularly supporting initiatives throughout their Tampa Bay tenure. They frequented everything from book drives to LGBTQ events. Fans didn’t have to wait long to learn about their next steps. The duo announced their move to iHeartMedia Charlotte’s 96.1 on Feb. 17, where they made their debut this month. It was a full circle moment for the team, who met during a 2008 radio conference in the city. It’s a tale Tampa Bay listeners can hear them recount from North Carolina on the iHeartMedia app. “We are so thankful for everyone that supported us through the years here in Tampa Bay,” Fuller says. “This will always be a place we call home.” –Ryan Williams-Jent

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ampa Bay’s LGBTQ community continued to feel the impact of COVID-19 throughout 2021, a year that began with a new president, the promise of vaccinations and the hope that things could return to some version of “normal.” In some ways they did. A number of LGBTQ safe spaces reopened at full capacity, from bars to community centers to theaters, and large-scale events made their scaled-back or even full-fledged returns. But as misinformation and new variants of the coronavirus spread, progress slowed. While our community held tight to the triumphs that we could, there were still losses we were forced to carry into 2022. That’s why Watermark asked readers to reflect on the 2021 losses they would miss the most. The answers weren’t drastically different from the year before,

with the loss of life weighing most heavily on readers. They reflected on their late grandparents, parents, siblings, children, partners, lifelong friends and more, citing the loss of chosen and other family members who died in 2021 from COVID-19 and other causes. Beloved pets were also named. Celebrities also made the list, including musical theater titan Stephen Sondheim. The Broadway legend began his career by writing lyrics for “West Side Story” and was known as a perfectionist, genius and icon within the industry. He died in November at 91. Of any national name, Betty White’s came up most frequently. America’s Golden Girl, the beloved performer died just weeks shy of her 100th birthday on Dec. 31. The longtime comedian, animal activist and LGBTQ ally was mourned around the world. Businesses which closed their doors in 2021 were also listed, particularly The Honey Pot in Ybor. Billed as one of Tampa Bay’s

“hottest clubs with the hottest people,” the former LGBTQ club announced it would not reopen due to ongoing COVID-19 closures and concerns last March. Aside from the loss of life, pre-COVID socialization was cited more than anything else, specifically the ability to gather without health concerns. The missed opportunities ranged from private parties with loved ones to St Pete Pride, the WAVE Award-winning gathering that’s traditionally been Florida’s largest LGBTQ celebration. While its 19th year was celebrated in 2021, it was held in a more COVID-conscious manner and without a parade. As of now it’s scheduled to return in 2022, detailed on page 16, which is hopefully a sign of more good things to come. With the number of readers who indicated they miss their “sanity” above all, it sounds like a return to form is exactly what Tampa Bay needs.

Capitol by the outgoing president’s supporters, readers were captivated by the inauguration of his successor. Longtime LGBTQ ally Joe Biden was sworn in as the nation’s 47th president Jan. 20, just two weeks after the attack. “Today, we celebrate the triumph not of

And at this hour, my friends, democracy has prevailed.” Readers also cited the joy of seeing Kamala Harris sworn in. She became the nation’s first female, first Black and first South Asian vice president in U.S. history that day, and in her first speech as such noted that “this moment embodies our character as a nation. It demonstrates who we are, even in dark times. We not only dream—we do.” That’s exactly what defined 2021 for many Tampa Bay readers. A number of you detailed your proudest accomplishments and happiest memories from the year. You reflected on obtaining your college degrees, becoming business owners, landing your dream jobs, buying your first homes and focusing on your mental health. All of those moments and more received a renewed focus in 2021 because as one reader put it, “life is short.” So from all of us at Watermark to you and yours, here’s to a memorable 2022.

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ne of the things we know for sure at Watermark is that the news never stops. That’s why we asked readers to reflect on the defining moments and stories that shaped 2021 as they voted in this year’s WAVE Awards. COVID-19 and its continued impact on Tampa Bay readers was cited most frequently. The world marked one year of its declaration as a global pandemic in March and continued to feel its effects throughout the remainder of 2021. Respondents shared many of their experiences with COVID-19 when asked which losses they would miss the most, detailed above. Here they also cited the death of loved ones – family members, partners, friends, pets and more – as well as contracting the virus themselves. The political arena also dominated headlines in Tampa Bay’s view. In addition to the violent insurrection at the U.S.

a candidate, but of a cause, the cause of democracy,” the president shared. “The will of the people has been heard and the will of the people has been heeded. “We have learned again that democracy is precious,” Biden continued. “Democracy is fragile.

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working for MAC and Chanel, Tampa Bay makeup artist and entertainer Jaeda Fuentes decided to take a leap of faith. She launched her own brand in 2021.

“After being with MAC Cosmetics for a few years the company made some changes I didn’t find myself aligning with,” she explains. “I left MAC for a better opportunity with Chanel, and as much as I love Chanel it just wasn’t the right fit for me.” She made the choice to leave the organization behind as her freelance clientele grew. Fuentes hasn’t looked back since, offering one-on-one makeup applications for events and photoshoots, including weddings, as well as individual and group lessons for those seeking hands-on education. “There have been so many rewarding experiences,” Fuentes reflects, “like executing the perfect look for a bride on her wedding day and seeing her look in the mirror with joyful tears welling up in her eyes. Even though the last thing I want her to do is cry!” Her work has also been featured in international publications. Fuentes also encourages everyone to “take the chance to play in makeup.” “It truly gives anyone – male, female and those in-between the power to express themselves in a creative plane,” the artist stresses. “Once we do that we open our minds to see so much more of the beauty in life.” –Ryan Williams-Jent

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First: State Rep. Anna V. Eskamani Second: U.S. Rep. Val Demings Third: Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer

FAVORITE LOCAL ACTIVIST First: State Rep. Anna V. Eskamani Second: Dr. George Wallace, CEO, LGBT+ Center Orlando Third: Blue Star, owner, HÄOS on Church

GREATEST ALLY TO THE LOCAL COMMUNITY First: State Rep. Anna V. Eskamani Second: Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer Third: U.S. Rep. Val Demings

MOST EFFECTIVE LOCAL NONPROFIT ORGANIZATION First: LGBT+ Center Orlando Second: Zebra Coalition Third: One Orlando Alliance

FAVORITE LOCAL TRANS-AFFIRMING ORGANIZATION First: Bliss Cares Second: Divas in Dialogue Third: RISE Intiative

FAVORITE LOCAL SPORTS LEAGUE/ORGANIZATION First: Orlando Pride Soccer Second: Orlando City Soccer Third: CFL Softball League

FAVORITE LOCAL WRITER/JOURNALIST First: Scott Maxwell, Orlando Sentinel

FAVORITE NON-LOCAL LGBTQ MEGA EVENT First: NYC Pride Second: Southern Decadence in New Orleans Third: Market Days Festival Chicago

FAVORITE LOCAL BUSINESS NOT A BAR/CLUB (OVER ONE YEAR OLD) First: Pom Pom’s Teahouse & Sandwicheria

Second: Tatiana Quiroga, Watermark Third: Jeremy Williams, Watermark

FAVORITE LOCAL WEBSITE First: WatermarkOnline. com Second: Bungalower.com Third: WMFE.org

Second: MojoMan Swimwear & Clothing Third: Eola Pets

FAVORITE NEW LOCAL BUSINESS (LESS THAN ONE YEAR OLD) First: Renaissance Theatre Company

FAVORITE LOCAL FUNDRAISING EVENT First: onePULSE Foundation’s CommUNITY Rainbow Run Second: Pet Alliance of Greater Orlando’s Paws in the Park

Second: Savoy Catering Third: Pineapple Healthcare

FAVORITE LOCAL HEALTH CARE FACILITY First: Harmony Health

Third: Celebrity Bartender Night at SAVOY

Second: Bliss Health

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First: Trans Day of Visibility

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Triple Crown State Rep. Anna V. Eskamani Central Florida’s 1st place in Favorite Local Politician; Favorite Local Activist; Greatest Ally to the Local Community

HETHER IT IS THE HAT

Trick in hockey or getting a Turkey in bowling, accomplishing something three times in one setting is seen as remarkable.

With that said, when a local leader comes in first place in our top three categories, we might just start calling that an Anna in recognition of state Rep. Anna V. Eskamani’s clean sweep in this year’s WAVE Awards. “I am incredibly humbled and honored by this recognition. I am someone who has absolutely no patience for homophobia, transphobia and bigotry. I take a lot of pride in finding common ground with people who are different than me, but when it comes to judging, shaming or trying to erase LGBTQ+ people, folks should know that I won’t stand for it.” Our readers named her their favorite local politician, activist and ally, and while she says she is honored at the recognition, she thinks the last one may need a name change now. “I actually prefer the word ‘accomplice’ over ‘ally’ because I think allyship can feel transactional sometimes,” she says. “Like you’re only gonna show up for the Pride Parade and wear the rainbow tutu when it’s easy and carefree. An accomplice means we’re going to go to jail together if we have to, it means going the extra mile to combat homophobia and transphobia and centering your advocacy on directly impacted people above all else.” Eskamani was elected to serve District 47 in the Florida House in 2018 and since then has stood out as an authentic, passionate and caring leader, qualities she saw lacking in some and which caused her to want to run for office. “At the time I was thinking of running for office, former President Trump was just elected and Orlando was represented by a moderate Republican in the State House who did absolutely nothing after the Pulse nightclub massacre,” she says. “He didn’t champion LBGTQ+ equality or even gun safety solutions. I felt deeply disappointed from that and believe we must honor those no longer with us through action while fighting unapologetically for those who call Florida home.” —Jeremy Williams

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FAVORITE LOCAL FITNESS CENTER First: Rock Hard Fitness Second: Planet Fitness (Fashion Square) Third: Crunch Fitness (Belle Isle)

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Florida have the vocal chops that Heather Abood does, and even fewer support the LGBTQ community as passionately as she does.

“I’m a theatre kid through and through,” she says, “so I have always been surrounded by friends who identified as LGBTQ from a very young age. I have always been loved and accepted by this community, and I am eternally grateful for that!” It is in part due to Abood’s talent that “The Golden Girls Live” and Hamburger Mary’s Sunday Broadway Brunch were this year’s Favorite Local Theatrical Show and Favorite Local Brunch Spot, respectively. “My friend from high school, Tim Thomas, was working with the cast to start [Broadway Brunch’s] first show, and he asked if I wanted to be a guest singer for the second one,” Abood recalls. “It was supposed to be a one-time appearance, and this year will be the 10th anniversary. I guess they liked me.” Abood says that working on “The Golden Gals” has been the “best professional experience of my adult performing career.” “I’m not kidding,” she says. “The cast is so professional, and it’s a true family. I love when we’re all sitting backstage and just kiki-ing like old birds, spilling tea and cackling at YouTube videos. Ginger, Gidget and Chris go above and beyond not just on the sets, costumes and scripts, but they provide a loving, fun and safe space for us to showcase our talents.” Abood continues to wow audiences, during Broadway Brunch at Hamburger Mary’s, as a part of the TV Land Live series and beyond. “Our LGBTQ community has embraced me,” she says. “A straight, Black girl who loves to belt ridiculous songs anywhere she can, and I will always be beyond grateful and humbled for that. And I’m available to sing at your weddings, office events, Drag Race viewing parties, whatever!” —Jeremy Williams

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Savoy Central Florida’s 1st place in Favorite Local LGBTQ Bar/ Club; Favorite Local Happy Hour; Favorite Local Place to Buy Art Central Florida’s 2nd place in Favorite New Local Business (Savoy Catering); Favorite Local Caterer (Savoy Catering) Central Florida’s 3rd place in Favorite Local Fundraising Event (Celebrity Bartender Night)

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hit in March 2020, it impacted everyone and every business, but few were hit as hard as bars, clubs and restaurants.

“The beginning was really tough,” says Savoy owner Brandon Bracale-Llewellyn. “The first six months, having to be closed was a struggle and we’re just starting to finally see some light at the end of the tunnel.” As the pandemic raged on, Bracale-Llewellyn kept focus on staying open any way he could, not just for himself but for his staff and the droves of regulars who have been coming to Savoy for years. That dedication is what led our readers to pick Savoy as their Favorite Local LGBTQ Bar/Club and Favorite Local Happy Hour. “We are very fortunate that we were able to make it through and a big heartfelt thank you all of our loyal customers because if it wasn’t for them we would not have been able to make it through these last two years,” Bracale-Llewellyn says. Something that came about for Savoy because of the pandemic and ended up landing them a second place finish in Favorite Local New Business and Favorite Local Caterer was the creation of Savoy Catering. “During the pandemic we applied to get our restaurant license because a lot of our neighbors were open way before we were able to because restaurants were allowed to open up before the bars were,” Bracale-Llewellyn says. Savoy’s restaurant license didn’t come through until after the bars in Florida were allowed to open back up, but it did allow Savoy to create new added income. “I think people have been quite impressed with what we have been able to do,” Bracale-Llewellyn says. “When we come in, they look at what we have and they’re like ‘Oh wow, this isn’t just bar food.’ We’ve done some corporate lunches and a few dinner parties, social events and it has been a big hit.” —Jeremy Williams

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hile we asked our readers to vote on their favorites in a number of categories for this year’s WAVE Awards, we also asked them a few questions to let us know what 2021 was like for them. One of the questions we asked was what person, place or thing that was lost in 2021 will you miss the most? The answers we received were as varied as the community itself. Many of you wrote in the loved ones you lost during the year. Far too many mothers and fathers, brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles, grandparents were taken from us in 2021. It wasn’t just the human losses that had our community mourning. Many of you wrote about losing your furry family members this past year; dogs, cats, someone even wrote in saying goodbye to their hamster.

The person from our local community who was written in the most, Nazhoni Taylor Foxx. Foxx, whose real name was John Silversmith, passed away at the beginning of 2021 after battling COVID-19. He was 47. Foxx, who was known as the ultimate Orlando Club Kid, was a “natural star” whose performances “commanded people to watch him” as he took the stages of Southern Nights, Firestone, Parliament House and more, said Bob Taylor, Foxx’s close friend and drag father, at the time of his passing. Foxx had two drag mothers — his first was Calvin Fairconeture and later Sierrah Foxx, who Nazhoni Taylor Foxx took his stage name from. Your mourning extended to those in the public eye, both nationally and internationally, including bishop and human rights activist Desmond Tutu, Brazilian singer Marília Mendonça and the person written

in more than anyone or anything else, the legendary Betty White. The Award-winning star of such hits as “The Golden Girls,” “Hot in Cleveland” and “The Mary Tyler Moore Show,” was a longtime LGBTQ ally and was widely referred to as the “First Lady of Television.” White passed away at the age of 99, less than three weeks from her 100th birthday. Orlando staples in the LGBTQ club scene were also among what our readers miss. While the Parliament House closed its doors in November 2020, many of you wrote in how you were still saddened by the loss of the iconic LGBTQ resort. We also saw many of you write in that you will miss Stonewall Bar. The popular downtown LGBTQ club closed its doors on New Year’s Eve with the club’s owner telling Watermark it would not be reopening until it was sold to a new owner.

stormed the Capitol building in Washington, D.C. on Jan. 6 to try and stop Congress from certifying the presidential election. That event set a tone for the rest of the year that seemed to create deeper divides in the U.S. But it wasn’t all bad news.

There were plenty of you who went for more personal moments that defined your year. Dozens and dozens of you marked the year with new jobs and promotions, graduations, the birth of a child, grandchild and even a great grandchild. Some of your defining moments were less celebratory as the year was one filled with job loss, break ups and sickness. Two of the most mentioned moments of 2021 were on opposite sides of each other. The first was celebrating the return of the National Trans Visibility March with the march taking place here in Orlando during Come Out With Pride. The other moment was Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis vetoing funds from the state budget that were intended to support those impacted by the Pulse tragedy and help Central Florida’s LGBTQ homeless youth with supporting Zebra Coalition’s transitional housing project.

Central Florida names the defining moments of 2021

Jeremy Williams As we said goodbye to 2020, many of us looked to 2021 as the year that would be the “light at the end of a long, dark tunnel.” There were several vaccines out to combat COVID-19, and while the rollout was slow, we knew they would be a gamechanger in the pandemic. We also were preparing for the inauguration of the 46th president of the United Staes, Joe Biden, and the country’s first female and first person of color vice president, Kamala Harris. Things were looking up from the year before and then Jan. 6 happened. While asking you to name your favorites in the local LGBTQ community, we also asked you about the moments and stories that would define 2021, and most of you selected an event that happened less than a week into the new year, the insurrection of the U.S. Capitol. The world watched as thousands of conspiracy theorists and Trump supporters

Many of you picked celebratory events as your 2021 defining moment, including the inauguration of Biden and Harris, getting your COVID-19 vaccine and being able to attend a Pride parade and a live theatrical show again.

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OR THIS YEAR’S WAVE

Awards, we introduced two new categories that focused on the advancement of our local transgender community — Favorite Local TransAffirming Organization and Favorite Local Trans-Affirming Space — and the one organization that appeared in the top three for both categories was Bliss Cares.

“I am so honored that Watermark readers and the community recognized us for what we did in the community with our TRANSformation program,” says Juan Rodriguez, executive director of Bliss Cares. Bliss Cares’ TRANSformation is an instructional series that assists the transgender community in providing education on a variety of topics such as safety, discrimination, medical, name changes and more. It was started by Rodriguez in 2016 at a time when there were no other extensive resources like it in Central Florida. “When we started Bliss Cares in that same year, we were trying to look for those underserved populations and those that didn’t have any kind of resources or services,” Rodriguez says. The program began with two sets of classes, individuals transitioning from male-to-female and from female-to-male, and recently added a third set of classes for the nonbinary community. The program’s graduates feature some of the most well-known leaders in Central Florida’s trans community including Mulan Montrese Williams, Shea Cutliff, Ashley Figueroa, Angela Hunt and Jazell Barbie Royale, just to name a few. “To see where we are now and to see what is happening in the community, especially by leaders from TRANSformation, it’s just amazing to see,” Rodriguez says. —Jeremy Williams

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things about reading a memoir by someone with a distinctive voice – both spoken and written – is that you hear them as your read their book. Let’s face it, award-winning writer and actor Harvey Fierstein qualifies as someone who has a distinctive voice and while reading his revelatory memoir, “I Was Better Last Night,” you’d swear he was in the room with you, dishing away.

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Fierstein, who contrary to most online sources says he turns 70 years old this year, was gracious enough to make time for an interview shortly before the book’s release on March 1.

WATERMARK: WHY WAS NOW THE TIME TO WRITE YOUR MEMOIR, “I WAS BETTER LAST NIGHT,” AND DOES HAVING A MILESTONE BIRTHDAY IN 2022 HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT?

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1952. The reason is that when I turned 22, my friend Eric Conklin, who directed the original production of “Torch Song,” said “You should tell everybody you’re turning 21.” I said, “Why?” He said, “Because if you lie when you’re older, nobody believes it. But if you start at 21, who the fuck’s going to care!” That year, I moved my birthday to ‘53. The next year, we decided we’d do it again. But I never took it seriously. Things just get picked up by this one or that one. I think it was in

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New York Magazine that they got the facts wrong and said my parents were Eastern European immigrants. They were actually third-generation Americans. But it got picked up by everyone and everywhere it said I was the son of Eastern European immigrants. My mother was born in Brooklyn and my father was born in the Catskills. So, I wrote the book, and there’s a fact checker, of course. Every time I mentioned my age he sent back a note, “Wikipedia says you were born in ‘54. This one says you were born in ‘54,” I had to keep saying, “Why would I lie and make myself older? I’d only make myself younger!” It’s another one of those examples of why you should never lie. I am indeed as old as the mountains. So, did I write the memoir because of the birthday? No. Like everybody else in the fucking world, this pandemic hit. I was a very good boy. I sat down and did all the work on my desk. At that time, we were supposed to be doing a production of “Bye Bye Birdie” at the Kennedy Center. I finished the rewrites on that. I had rewritten “Funny Girl” which was done in London and then went on tour in England, and we were bringing it to Broadway. I wanted to make some more changes to it, so I got all those changes done. “Kinky Boots” was sold to cruise ships, so I had to do an adaptation, a shortening of the show, as I had already done for “Hairspray” and other shows. That was off my desk and done. I’m working on a new musical with Alan Menken and Jeff Feldman, the guys I wrote “Newsies with.” YES, I READ ABOUT THAT IN THE BOOK.

So, I was all caught up with that. Basically, I was done. Then I sat down and, as I say in the book, I make quilts. I owed a couple of quilts as gifts. I went down to my little sewing room and I made seven quilts in a row [laughs]. Usually, I turn out one a year. Everybody got their birthday quilts, their wedding quilts; whatever it was that was owed. I had cleared my desk and we were still in the pandemic. Then my agent said to me, “Why don’t you write your

THROUGH THE YEARS: The legendary Harvey Fierstein covers 70 years of family, friends and fame in his highly anticipated memoir “I Was Better Last Night.” ALL PHOTOS COURTESY PENGUIN RANDOM HOUSE memoir?” I said, “Because I don’t write sentences.”

YOU WROTE THE CHILDREN’S BOOK. THAT HAS SENTENCES.

But that’s kid sentences. I’ve written op-eds, but for that you just have to get the voice of Edward R. Murrow in your head or something like that. That’s like writing dialogue, as well. All of a sudden you’re Aaron Sorkin. I thought, “What the fuck? I’ve got a computer. Let me try.” I wrote four chapters, and I sent them to my agent. She said, “This is great!” She sent the chapters out to I think nine publishers, and eight of the nine made offers.

THERE ARE NUMEROUS POWERFUL MOMENTS THROUGHOUT THE BOOK. WITHOUT GIVING AWAY TOO MUCH…

Oh, go ahead, give it away! I already know what happens.

BUT I DON’T WANT TO SPOIL IT FOR THE READERS.

That’s right. Goddammit.

CHAPTER 57 CONTAINS ONE OF THE MOST EMOTIONAL SEQUENCES INVOLVING YOUR PARENTS. WOULD IT BE FAIR TO SAY THAT WRITING THE BOOK WAS A CATHARTIC EXPERIENCE?

Yes, the whole thing really is. When I started, I asked Shirley MacLaine — because she’s written 300 books about her 700 different lives — she said, “Write what you remember because your brain has a way of editing, and it will give you what you need for this book.

You’ll remember things for other books and other things but write what you remember and just be true to what comes up.” I said, “Even about other people?” She said, “Yes. When you’re writing about other people, you’re really writing about yourself. Just trust that.” That’s what I did. There were hundreds of stories that I could have told. I just tried to sort of follow a line of thought and let it be.

THAT’S INTERESTING BECAUSE THE CHAPTERS IN “I WAS BETTER LAST NIGHT” ARE PRESENTED IN CHRONOLOGICAL ORDER, BEGINNING IN 1959 AND CONCLUDING IN 2022. IS THAT HOW THEY WERE WRITTEN?

Yes, I wrote it exactly as it is. As you say that particular chapter, I knew was coming because I knew what happened to bring that memory back. I’m trying to say it as you said, to not give it away. What happened between me and my brother, when he sat down to watched the last revival of “Torch Song.” My editor was incredibly gentle with me. Now and then he’d say, add more here or there. But the only real note that I got from him was he wanted to move that story into chronological order since the rest of the book is. I said, “No. That’s in emotional order.”

IT NEEDED TO BE WHERE IT WAS.

Exactly! Most celebrity autobiographies begin “I was a kid and I saw a show and I said, ‘I wanna be a star, too!’” Which is obviously not my story.

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I never wanted to be in show business. I didn’t want to be a writer. I didn’t want to be an actor or a drag performer. It was not my dream at all. That’s why it was so important to do it chronologically. I wanted to show how I lived my life being true to the moment I was in.

IN “I WAS BETTER LAST NIGHT,” YOU TAKE READERS ON A JOURNEY THROUGH MODERN THEATER, FROM THE GALLERY PLAYERS AND LA MAMA TO OFF-BROADWAY AND BROADWAY. WITH THAT IN MIND, WOULD YOU AGREE THAT IN ADDITION TO BEING A MEMOIR, THE BOOK ALSO FUNCTIONS AS A THEATER HISTORY LESSON?

I guess it does. I have certainly been told that by a bunch of people who’ve read the book. When I was talking to Patti LuPone about it, she said, “Geez, I wish I had done what you did. She came through theater school and right into the legitimate, not through the experimental. As I say in the book, I came from an art school, so I always approached it as an art. Theater was part of an art movement and I got involved because I wanted to meet Andy Warhol. Little did I know they would put me in drag. I guess there is a history there. Certainly, when I look around me and I look at the people that I grew up with — Kathleen Chalfant and Obba Babatundé — and, of course, La Mama became something bigger. There were lots of others.

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Meeting Matthew (Broderick) at 18, or Estelle Getty who was a housewife from Bayside, Queens. She wouldn’t even admit she was from Bayside. She told everybody she was from Long Island [big laugh]. I said, “Estelle! Bayside is in Queens. Shut up!” What is history? After all, history is just day after day after day after day. I did start, as a baby, in this experimental theater. I wish that experimental theater still really existed. There were a few of us that I would say destroyed off-off-Broadway. I think greed is what destroyed off-off-Broadway. I think what happened was when people saw Tom O’Horgan make it, when “Hair” became a hit, that had a lot of people going, “Where’s my Hair?”

BUT DON’T YOU THINK THAT EXPERIMENTAL THEATER MIGHT EXIST IN CITIES WHERE IT’S A LITTLE MORE AFFORDABLE TO DO THAT KIND OF THING? SAY, AUSTIN, TEXAS.

There will always be experimental theater. It’s just, how is it looked at? Is the government funding there for it? I hear a lot of people saying, “Let’s not waste money on theater.” “Torch Song Trilogy” wouldn’t have been what it was if not for a government grant. I don’t know if you know this, but I just gave a grant to the New York Public Library at Lincoln Center to build a theater laboratory because rehearsal space is incredibly expensive in New York and almost impossible to find. David Rockwell is designing it and I’m hoping it’ll be open in two years. I tell a story in the book about how (years ago) we were rehearsing up at the YMCA, and the director just disappeared and left us with the bill for the rehearsal room. If I can leave a rehearsal room behind… Lin-Manuel (Miranda) developed “Hamilton” in the basement of the Drama Book Shop. For my shows, I used the basement of La Mama which was this small space but big enough for us to rehearse and develop what we needed to do. I even did a couple of shows down there.

CHAPTERS 19 THROUGH 22 GIVE READERS INSIGHT INTO THE INSPIRATION FOR AND THE WRITING OF “TORCH SONG TRILOGY” AND THEN

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MUCH LATER YOU WRITE ABOUT THE RECENT REVIVAL WITH MICHAEL URIE. WHAT WAS IT LIKE TO REVISIT THE CREATION AND THE REVISION OF “TORCH SONG TRILOGY”?

They’re your children, so they never really leave you. You may not think about them in the same way all the time, but they don’t leave you. You ask a mother about her son when he was six, and she can tell you a story about that time. It doesn’t mean you live with those stories every day. But they’re always there. Unfortunately, as you get older and people die on you, you remember them, or you go back to those stories time and again to remember how you all met and all that. With something like “Torch Song,” which is so much a part of my life, there was no real shock to going back and looking at that stuff again. Seeing Michael do it was not a shock either, because I cast all of my understudies. The show ran on Broadway for five years, but I didn’t play it all five years. There were other Arnolds and I saw all of them. There were

matinee Arnolds, and then we had a bus and truck tour, and a regular tour. I saw all of those guys play it. I saw it in London with Tony Sher, who died a few weeks ago. He won the Olivier for “Torch Song.” Writing a memoir is not a time to blame other people [laughs]. When you’re writing plays, it is.

I’M SO GLAD YOU SAID THAT BECAUSE ONE OF THE THINGS THAT I THINK WILL STRIKE READERS ABOUT “I WAS BETTER LAST NIGHT” IS THE BRUTAL HONESTY WITH WHICH YOU WRITE ABOUT ALCOHOLISM AND SOBRIETY, AS WELL AS YOUR SUICIDE ATTEMPT. WHAT DO YOU HOPE READERS WILL TAKE AWAY FROM THAT?

There’s a certain point when you’re writing something like that, I don’t really care [laughs]. I needed to tell the truth and you hope that the truth will do good. When you’re writing fiction, you care more about how it’s read and what somebody gets out of the fiction. When you’re writing nonfiction, it’s like, “This is what happened, like it or not, Cookie.”

The only hope is that I hope you know I’m telling it the best I can and being truthful. Because the truth does affect people, that I know. When you’re writing drama, you are manipulating an audience and a story and emotions. When I was writing the book, of course, there’s still an art to it, but I’m not turning away from something because it’s not comfortable. I’m going to say it. If somebody thinks I’m an asshole, let them think I’m an asshole. You read the book and thank you very much for doing so. That’s my job! You see in the book that I don’t have an answer for my own gender. Had I been born in 1980, instead of 1952, would I be a woman now? I don’t know. I don’t have those answers. I don’t have the luxury of being born in a different society. The first (transgender) person I knew was Christine Jorgensen, who died owing me money, that bitch [laughs]. When I was writing the book, I was going through photographs. There’s a picture in the book

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of me and Marsha P. Johnson and Jon Jon marching in a Gay Pride march. I put that picture up and somebody wrote to me telling me about Marsha, like you should know who this person was. I was like, “What are you talking about? This was a friend of mine!”

THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING PICTURES. I LIVE FOUR BLOCKS SOUTH OF WILTON MANORS IN FORT LAUDERDALE. IN THE BOOK YOU INCLUDE A PHOTO OF THE WILTONART.COM STREET SIGN THAT FEATURES A QUOTE BY YOU. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO YOU TO BE IMMORTALIZED IN THIS WAY?

While it’s very flattering, another place I looked had it that Walt Whitman said it! With one hand you’re flattered and with the other you’re slapped across the face.

see something like that. I was watching some interview with Billy Porter and as if by accident, they walked down the block where there was a mural on the side of a building of his portrait. As if, “Oh, I didn’t know that was there!” You sort of laugh, like, yeah, right! You brought a film crew because you didn’t know your picture was there on the wall [laughs]. That sort of stuff of celebrity is always funny. Especially when you have friends who are famous and you try to just be human beings together, but then you go out in public and you realize that they mean a whole other thing to the public than to you. “I Was Better Last Night” by Harvey Fierstein is available now wherever books are sold.

AT LEAST THEY GOT THE ATTRIBUTION RIGHT IN WILTON MANORS.

That’s lovely, it really is lovely. It’s a lovely thing to

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“Disney’s Frozen,” Feb. 24-March 6, Dr. Phillips Center, Orlando. 844-513-2014; DrPhillipsCenter.org WAVE Award Party, March 3, Renaissance Theatre Company, Orlando. 407-481-2243; Facebook.com/ WatermarkFL Air Supply, March 5, King Center for the Performing Arts, Melbourne. 321-242-2219; KingCenter.com Siudy Flamenco A Dos, March 5, Dr. Phillips Center, Orlando. 844-513-2014; DrPhillipsCenter.org Love Fest, March 6, Quantum Leap Winery, Orlando. 407-421-9005; Mills50.org LatinX Lineup, March 7, Southern Nights, Orlando. 407-412-5039; Facebook.com/ NocheLatinaSouthernNightsOrlando

Be Kind to Your Mind, March 8, Stafford House, Orlando. 407-532-0070; MiracleOfLoveInc.org The TEN Tenors, March 8, Dr. Phillips Center, Orlando. 844-513-2014; DrPhillipsCenter.org Howie Mandel, March 9, Hard Rock Live, Orlando. 407-351-5483; HardRock.com/Live/Locations/ Orlando “Much Ado About Nothing,” March 9-April 2, Orlando Shakes, Orlando. 407-447-1700; OrlandoShakes.org “The Wedding Singer,” March 11-27, The Henegar Center, Melbourne. 321-723-8698; Heneger.org Sipping and Shopping Pop Up Market, March 12, Nora’s Sugar Shack, Orlando. 407-447-5885; NoraSugarShack.com

FRIDAY, MARCH 4, 12:30-1 P.M. FACEBOOK LIVE, ONLINE The One Orlando Alliance, The Pride Chamber, Equality Florida, Zebra Coalition and Florida Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services host a livestream panel as they look at how Florida’s legislature is attacking the freedoms of the LGBTQ community. The panel will feature EQFL’s Brandon Wolf, FDACS’ Nathan Bruemmer, OOA’s Josh Bell and The Pride Chamber’s Kellie Parkin. This event will be livestreamed on One Orlando Alliance’s Facebook page.

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MUSE 2022, March 4, Morean Center for Clay, St. Petersburg. 727-754-6404; StPeteArtsAlliance.org

“The Pirates of Penzance,” March 11, Straz Center for the Performing Arts, Tampa. 813-229-7827; StrazCenter.org

Billy Joel, March 12, Camping World Stadium, Orlando. 407-440-5700; CampingWorldStadium.com

WAVE Awards Party, March 4, Metro Inclusive Health, St. Petersburg. 813-655-9890; WatermarkOnline.com

Fit City: Glow in the Park 5K + 1-Mile Walk, March 12, North Straub Park, St. Petersburg. 727-893-7441; StPeteParksRec.org

Central Florida Film Slam, March 13, Enzian Theater, Maitland. 407-629-1088; Enzian.org

Pride Skate, March 5, Skate World, Tampa. 813-884-7688; Facebook.com/ PrideSkateTampa

Patty LaBelle, March 17, Dr. Phillips Center, Orlando. 844-513-2014; DrPhillipsCenter.org

Gasparilla Arts Festival, March 5-6, Julian B. Lane Riverfront Park, Tampa. 813-876-1747; GasparillaArts.com

Hollander H2O with The Cheaters, March 13, Hollander Hotel, St. Petersburg. 727-873-7900; HollanderHotel.com

Disney vs. Universal: The Battle for Orlando, March 12, Walt Disney Amphitheatre at Lake Eola Park, Orlando. CFSOF.com

The Premiere Collection, March 17-20, Harriett’s Orlando Ballet Centre, Orlando. 407-426-1733; OrlandoBallet.org

TAMPA BAY “The Hunchback of Notre Dame” March 4-6; 11-13, Skycrest United Methodist Church, Clearwater. 727-446-2218; Skycrest.net/ Arts

INTERWOVEN, March 5, MIZE Gallery, St. Petersburg. 727-251-8529; ChadMize.com JoJo Siwa: “D.R.E.A.M. The Tour,” March 6, Amalie Arena, Tampa. 813-301-6500; AmalieArena.com Come Out St. Pete Monthly T-Dance, March 6, The Garage on Central Ave., St. Petersburg. 727-258-4850; ComeOutStPete.org

Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Passion 4 Pits, March 15, Punky’s Bar and Grill, St. Petersburg. 727-201-4712; PunkysBar.com St. Patty’s Party with The O’Cheaters, March 17, Salty Nun, St. Petersburg. Facebook.com/SaltyNun

SARASOTA Manatee Pride, March 5, Bradenton Riverwalk, Bradenton. 941-951-2576; ALSOYouth.org

TUESDAY, MARCH 15, 5 P.M. HOLDEN HEIGHTS COMMUNITY CENTER, ORLANDO Join the Central Florida HIV Planning Council and Orange County Government for a town hall meeting at the Holden Heights Community Center where attendees are asked to share feedback on barriers and improvements for the HIV system of care. Dinner will be provided at 5:30 p.m. with the meeting starting at 6 p.m. Door prizes and raffles will be available. This is a free event but you must register at OSATownHall.Eventbrite.com.

TAMPA BAY METRO Art & Craft Market SATURDAY, MARCH 12, 12-4 P.M. INCLUSIVITEA, ST. PETERSBURG Support local businesses, art and LGBTQ youth during the return of the Metro Art Market! This event allows young and emerging local artists to display their talents and gain experience vending in a local market, completely free at Inclusivtea. Learn more at MetroTampaBay.org/Events/Metro-Market.

“OK To Say Gay” Rally SATURDAY, MARCH 12, 4-6 P.M. CITY HALL, ST. PETERSBURG Keep Pinellas Blue, Come OUT St. Pete, Allendale UMC, the Stonewall Democrats and more invite supporters of the LGBTQ community to visibily oppose Florida’s “Don’t Say Gay” legislation. Speakers include State Rep. Michele Rayner, Pinellas County School Board Member Caprice Edmond and more. There will be a march following speakers.

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CONGRATULATIONS Trent Brock and Jamil Price were married Feb. 2. The Stonewall Democrats of Pinellas County elected its new board Feb. 17, welcoming President Mhariel Summers, Vice President Bianca Goolsby, Secretary Kat DeNomme and Treasurer Joe Carp. Ceazia Giovanni Kreshé won Tampa Pride’s Ultimate Showdown 2022: Pioneers competition Feb. 20. Tampa Pride announced Feb. 24 that space for its 2022 diversity parade has sold out. Watermark owner and publisher Rick Todd celebrated 20 years with Watermark Feb. 28.

Salty Nun opened March 3 in the Grand Central District. Bradley’s on 7th celebrates 11 years in Ybor March 4.

CANCELLATIONS Big Freedia’s March 17 concert at Crowbar was cancelled due to a scheduling conflict.

LOCAL BIRTHDAYS Tampa photographer Todd Montgomery, Tampa Bay Sister of Perpetual Indulgence DiDi Daytripper, Florida House Rep. and ally Fentrice Driskell, St. Petersburg realtor DJ Soucy, Tampa Pride staple Debbie Wilson Cano Ducko, Off Kilter Artistic Director Derek Baxter (March 3); Tampa Bay songstress Judy B. Goode, Sarasota activist Mark Kidd, Yankees Fan Martin Jeavons, Tampa mama Patty Cannon (Mar. 4); Carnival Cruise Line’s Seth Grunes, St. Pete socialite David Hines, The Pub/Lakeland and Southern Comfort Campground owner Vaughn Howell (March 5); Tampa colorist Chas Stickney, Sarasota Modern agent Hector Esteban (March 6); Tampa Bay fashionista Robert Chmura-Pappadeas, St. Petersburg muralist Dereck Donnelly, Habitat for Humanity Compliance Officer Val Brinkley, Tampa Bay political expert Randy Smith, Tampa Bay bear David Sparks, Ponytail princess Cheryl Prestero (March 7); St. Petersburg realtor Matt Lawrence, Jobsite Theater Producing Artistic Director David Jenkins (March 8); St. Petersburg mail carrier Derek Wilkins, Sarasota woman about town Misty Smeltzer (March 9); Tampa Bay licensed mental health counselor Blake Williamson, Gulfport gal Caitlyn DeWitt, St. Petersburg City Council Chair Gina Driscoll, St. Petersburg artist Tom Amidon, Punky’s bartender Aaron McBeth (March 10); Dunedin dentist Mike Hopkins, SMART Rider Chrys Bundy, Foreign film aficionado Bob Austin (March 11); Burlesque performer Shena Lollar (March 12); Tampa muscle man Danny Watson, Tampa Bay leader Larry Biddle (March 13); Beau n Mo’s bartender Mitch Demmons, Tampa event planner Tim Thompson, Tampa Bay entertainer James Watson aka Josie Jay (March 14); Tampa nutritional biochemist Debra Roche, St. Petersburg realtor Bobby Poth, Sarasota realtor Rob Krasow, United Health’s Paul Bradford, Universal lover Bobby Dixon (March 15); Publix HQ PR man Chris McNally (March 16).

PLAY IT FORWARD: Urbanite Theatre Artistic Directors Brendan Ragan (L) and Summer Wallace (R) present CAN Community Health SVP Marketing and Communications Roger Capote (C) with $3K raised for the organization during “At The Wake of a Dead Drag Queen.” PHOTO COURTESY

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LEGENDARY WIN: Ceazia Giovanni Kreshé wins Tampa Pride’s Ultimate Showdown 2022: Pioneers competition Feb. 20. PHOTO BY DIANE HAYMES, COURTESY TAMPA PRIDE

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EXPO DAY: Rev. Craig Cranston (L) and Rev. Jakob Hero-Shaw represent MCC Tampa during Metro Inclusive Health’s Trans Health and Fashion Expo Feb. 26. PHOTO COURTESY MCC TAMPA

SPEAK THE DREAM: American Stage hosts a reading of “Mountain Top” at Today’s Church Tampa Bay to celebrate Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. PHOTO COURTESY AMERICAN STAGE

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CONGRATULATIONS Bros in Convo Initiative, Divas in Dialogue and Peer Support Space recived $30,000 grants each from the Contigo Fund’s All Black Live Fund Feb. 17. Read more in Central Florida news on page 8. Savoy Orlando, MX Taco, Se7en Bites and The Hammered Lamb received grants from the National LGBT Chamber of Commerce as a part of GrubHub’s Donate to Change initiative Feb. 23. Read more in Central Florida news on page 8.

The LGBT+ Center Orlando received an initial investment of $100,000 from Heart of Florida United Way as a part of the nonprofit’s new partnership. Read more in Central Florida news on page 8. BarCodes Orlando celebrates 13 years on March 5.

COVID TESTING SITES Orange County and the City of Orlando have four COVID-19 testing sites: Barnett Park, located at 4801 W. Colonial Dr.; Econ Soccer Complex, located at 8035 Yates Rd.; South Orange Youth Sports Complex, located at 11800 S. Orange Ave.; and Camping World Stadium, located at 1 Citrus Bowl Place. All four locations are open 7 days a week from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., or until capacity is reached. All locations are all offering Molecular PCR and Rapid Antigen (both nasal) tests at no cost. No appointments are necessary but online pre-registration is required. Go to PatientPortalFL.com to pre-register.

LOCAL BIRTHDAYS Old Town Kissimmee marketing director Jason Saucier, former Watermark intern Tomas Diniz Santos (March 3); Office of Multicultural Affairs’ Inclusion, Diversity & Equity Senior Specialist for the City of Orlando and chair of the One Orlando Alliance Felipe Sousa-Lazaballet, Club Orlando attendant Arthur Adams (Mar. 4); Orlando playwright, actor and Watermark contributor Michael Wanzie, Orlando realtor Rustin Davis, Rollins College theater director Thomas Ouellette, Les Vixens dancer Allyna NiKohl (March 6); WAVE-winning Orlando Sentinel columnist Scott Maxwell, Orlando actor Erik Branch, Co-owner of E.M. & Voss Solutions Event and Wedding Services Eric Muenks (March 8); St. Matthews Tavern bartender Cathy Binkewicz (March 9); Founder and executive director of Gender Advancement Project Ashley Figueroa, Halcyon singer/songwriter Deb Hunseder, Biz Buzz Inc’s Bryant Dannic (March 10); O-Town actor Kevin Kelly, Orlando WAVE-winning activist Margo Dixon, Central Florida artist Terry Hummel, BodyStreet Fitness Center co-owner Steffen Brandt, Former Doggie Door co-owner Jeff Brow (March 11); The Florida/Georgia Gay Rodeo Association’s Todd Garrett (March 12); Orlando Hamburger Mary’s co-owner John Paonessa (March 13); Central Florida softball superstar Mary Johnson (March 14); Central Florida mental health professional Kristy Weick, Brevard-based activist Scott Wall-DeSousa (March 15).

LEADING THE WAY: Angelica Sanchez (L) and Mulan Montrese Williams in front of Orlando’s City Hall for the All Black Lives Fund rally and grant presentation Feb. 17. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS

THEY SAY GAY: Felipe Sousa-Lazaballet (L) and Debo Ofsowitz attend the Rally for Our Collective Rights in front of Orlando’s City Hall Feb. 26. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS

MAGICAL RUN: Angelique Luna runs the Disney Princess half marathon at the Magic Kingdom Feb. 26. PHOTO COURTESY ANGELIQUE LUNA

PUPPY LOVE: Watermark writer Dylan Drobet (right), her fiancée Barrett Gamez and their dog Auggie help raise funds for homeless pets at Paws in the Park on Valentine’s Day.

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PARTNERS IN CARE: Members of Heart of Florida United Way present a check to members of the LGBT+ Center Orlando in Orlando Feb. 28. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS

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Billie Jane Aubertin and Lily Richardson from Orlando, Florida

ENGAGEMENT DATE:

Dec. 26, 2021

WEDDING DATE:

Feb. 09, 2022

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Billie’s backyard

WEDDING SONG/ ARTIST:

” Only Us” from “Dear Evan Hansen”

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Jamie Clinton

Lora Korpar

ILLIE JANE AUBERTIN AND

Lily Richardson’s love story began on opposite sides of the Atlantic Ocean, with Billie in the United States and Lily in England.

The two met in an unexpected place — TikTok. Lily commented on one of Billie’s videos and they started a conversation in the comment thread, eventually expanding to direct messaging, then exchanging Facebook information to continue chatting on Messenger. “Our entire relationship has been anything but ordinary,” Billie says. “Meeting on social media and living 4,000 miles

away from each other has certainly been interesting to say the least, but I truly believe the long-distance aspect of our relationship has made our love even stronger. We have had to adapt and pivot in order to work around a five-hour time difference and find ways to feel connected to each other through a phone screen.” But they didn’t let the distance stop them.

“It’s been so special getting to share parts of our lives with each other in a way that you don’t really get to when you meet someone in your same city,” Billie says. “You have to be really intentional about the things you plan and do to try to give them this little snapshot of what life with you would look like.” “We would have video calls that lasted four or five hours and then having Billie come stay the summer with me in England was the real test,” Lily added. “We were like, okay, let’s see how this works in real life. And it was better than we could have hoped.” Lily decided to propose in December 2021, on the day after Christmas. Billie thought they would propose on Christmas and was surprised when they didn’t.

“Lily is terrible at keeping secrets and I had picked up on some things they let slip, but to my surprise it didn’t [happen on Christmas Day],” Billie says. Instead, Lily decided to pop the question on Boxing Day, when they had a Christmas celebration with Billie’s roommates. “Lily tricked me into thinking that we were taking photos by the tree and then BOOM, they’re down on one knee,” Billie says. Though the couple planned to get married in a courthouse due to Lily living in the U.K., unforeseen circumstances led to Billie suggesting the two get married in Billie’s backyard. Billie said the wedding was “very unconventional.”

“We invited a couple friends, threw some things together and voila,” they continued. “We planned a beautiful ceremony in two days!” In addition to the friends who could come to the reception in person, Lily’s mother also attended virtually. “Having my mum on video call so she could watch our first dance was really special,” Lily says. Now that they are a married couple, Lily and Billie’s next endeavor is figuring out where they will live. “I think regardless if we were in the U.K. or here, we knew that our lives just didn’t feel complete without the other person there,” Billie says. “Now the challenge just lies in how do we live in the same country, you know? We knew that would be a specific challenge to this relationship, but it’s one we are definitely up for.”

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THE LAST PAGE HOMETOWN:

Houston, Texas

IDENTIFIES AS: Gay

David Fischer

PRONOUNS: He/Him/His

OUT YEAR:

2001

CO C K TA I L , T H E S A I N T A N D Z A ZOO ’ D OWNER

PROFESSION:

ZaZoo’d, The Saint and Cocktail business owner, and soon to be owner of The Wet Spot pool and day club and Mari Jean Hotel

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My father.

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individuals who are making a positive impact on the LGBTQ community in Tampa Bay and Central Florida. This issue, we check in with St. Petersburg business owner and multi-WAVE Award winner David Fischer. Fischer is the entrepreneur responsible for Cocktail, which promises “stiff drinks and hard liquor” as Tampa Bay’s 1st Place Favorite New Local Business. It also won 3rd Place Favorite LGBTQ Bar/Club and Favorite Happy Hour. If that weren’t enough, he also runs The Saint, the celebrated speakeasy and Tampa Bay’s 3rd Place Favorite Allied Bar/Club as well as the interior design and retail experience ZaZoo’d, Tampa Bay’s 3rd Place Favorite Local Business Not a Bar/Club. Future St. Petersburg staples are also in the works, which you can read about here. Learn more about Fischer’s businesses at CocktailStPete. com, TheSaintSpeakeasy.com and ZaZood.com and watch this space to learn more about the movers and shakers in your community.

WHAT DO YOU DO PROFESSIONALLY?

Technically, I retired from my career of 25 years as vice president of training at Darden Restaurants six years ago. Two years before retiring I opened my home decor/gift store and interior design firm, ZaZoo’d. I then opened two more businesses – The Saint, a speakeasy and Cocktail, St Pete’s newest gay bar. Now I’m opening The Wet Spot, a pool and day club and Mari Jean Hotel, which will be St Pete’s newest gay hotel.

HOW DO YOU CHAMPION FOR THE LOCAL LGBTQ COMMUNITY?

I am opening safe spaces where the LGBTQ community can come together and feel comfortable being their genuine selves while celebrating what makes the unique, without shame or judgement.

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WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING TO READ IN WATERMARK?

I love the event planner section to keep up with what’s happening and Out and About in Tampa Bay. With four businesses and two more coming, I don’t have much time to read anymore. Right now, it’s all about the pictures! WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LOCAL LGBTQ EVENT?

I love Equality Florida’s St. Pete Gala and St Pete Pride! WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOUR LOCAL LGBTQ COMMUNITY?

We are a diverse community in St. Pete, where we are embraced and celebrated for being ourselves. WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE IMPROVED IN YOUR LOCAL LGBTQ COMMUNITY?

I would like to see our community be less judgmental within. I feel sometimes we are our worst enemies. WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE OUR READERS TO KNOW ABOUT YOU?

I am driven to create and develop safe spaces for the

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community that rival big city experiences. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE YOUR YOUNGER SELF?

Don’t let fear keep you in a place longer than you want to stay. Be your authentic self.

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO HAVE SO MANY PLACEMENTS IN THIS YEAR’S WAVE AWARDS?

Having recognition from the people you serve is always the best type of validation of a job well done.

WHAT HAVE BEEN SOME OF THE MOST REWARDING PARTS OF SERVING TAMPA BAY’S LGBTQ COMMUNITY?

Seeing the smiles on people’s faces as they enjoy the spaces I have created. People express gratitude for the experiences and spaces I have built and created for LGBTQ people to enjoy themselves and celebrate their diversity.

WHAT’S COMING NEXT FOR YOU AND YOUR BUSINESSES?

We are expanding to bring you even more. The Wet Spot and the hotel are in the most immediate future with a May/ June opening, but stay tuned for even more news!

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