Watermark Issue 31.19: NurseCon Orlando, Not Broken
PRIDE ABROAD:
Journalism matters. Journalism provides information. Information is knowledge and knowledge is power.
Watermark matters. Our mission is to advance LGBTQ+ interests. We do that by connecting community, informing you of what is happening around you that might not be on your radar. We celebrate our triumphs and, at times, we question our missteps. We uplift those fighting the good fight and hold those accountable who seek to silence you.
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DESK EDITOR’S
IWAS 15 YEARS OLD WHEN
Watermark published the very first issue of what would become a bi-weekly staple for the LGBTQ+ community in Central and Tampa Bay.
It was August 1994, and I had just moved with my family from St. Petersburg to Plant City. A move that took us less than an hour away but for anyone who has been to both cities, it felt like moving into a completely different world.
The high school I would enter that year did not have a Gay-Straight Alliance, it did not have “Safe Space” stickers placed in the corner of the doors and it did not have stories in the school newspaper that would make a closeted gay kid like myself feel seen or heard.
It amazes me to think that just a short drive up I-4, a team of queer leaders, led by Watermark founder Tom Dyer, were assembling a publication that over the next few decades would
make all the things I didn’t have as a kid much more attainable and achievable for other kids.
Watermark is in the midst of celebrating its 30th anniversary, something that has been spotlighted with an exhibit at the Orange County Regional History Center in Orlando — running through Dec. 15 — and something we focused on in the previous issue of this publication. If you haven’t seen it yet, I encourage you to read through our last issue as we started something that we plan to carry through each issue until the end of 2024.
In the issue, our current owner and publisher, Rick Todd, wrote about how he came to work here and his time in the community since doing so. We also reached out to several of
Watermark’s previous editors, as well as its founder, and asked them to look back and reflect on some of the headlines, stories and moments that defined their time at Watermark. Each one of them added stitches to the larger tapestry that is the history of Central Florida and Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ+ community, and we will continue adding to that tapestry with each of the next eight issues. We will be reaching out to former Watermark contributors and asking them to share their favorite headlines and moments from their time with this publication and feature them in the newspaper. Starting with this issue, myself and Watermark’s Managing Editor Ryan Williams-Jent in his Editor’s Desk will share some of our moments. While I wasn’t far from where the first issue of Watermark was created, I didn’t learn of the publication or even read an issue until 14 years later. I moved to Orlando in 2008 and discovered my first issue of Watermark at the end of the bar at Savoy Orlando. As someone who wanted to be a journalist when I was in high school, this newspaper became my favorite thing to read.
Five years later, I was working at Watermark. First, as an account manager selling ads but my sights were always set on being a part of the editorial team. Roughly two years — and a five-month exile to North Dakota — later and I was a part of that team, writing news for a living. In March 2025, it will be 10 years that I have been covering the news and sharing the stories of our community. Over that decade, the world has changed a lot and I have had the great honor to cover life-changing events and interview some of my personal heroes.
One of the first stories I got to cover was an announcement from this inspiring activist
who was running for political office for the first time. Carlos Guillermo Smith met with me at a Panera’s where we had lunch and I learned why he was running for Florida’s House Representatives. I remember being in awe of his passion and his love for this city and community.
It wasn’t but a few weeks later that another historical moment happened as the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that marriage equality was the law of the land. I remember gathering with the Watermark team in the Orlando office and toasting with
Cheers to everyone who has made Watermark what it is today.
champagne as we heard the news.
A year later, in the very same room, I remember gathering with the team again but this time to shed tears and share pain as we worked to piece together the issue of Watermark that covered the Pulse tragedy.
I’ve had the chance to chat with celebrities that I’ve admired through TV and movie screeens and over radio airwaves. Some standouts include Leslie Jordan, Melissa Etheridge, John Waters and Dolly Parton.
The last 10 years break up in my mind into two-week chunks, moments designated with an issue and page number, but those moments piece together one of the best and most important times of my life and I have Watermark to thank for that.
Cheers to everyone who has made Watermark what it is today, and I can’t wait to see what the tapestry looks like 30 years from now.
DR. STEVE YACOVELLI is owner of TopDog Learning Group, a learning and development, change management and diversity consulting practice based in Orlando. He’s also the Chief Inclusion Officer of LGBTInclusivity. com. Page 17
GREG STEMM lives in Gulfport and has worked as a freelance writer for several local publications. He is a founding member of St Pete Pride and active politically in Tampa Bay. Page 19
KAPHERR ALEJOS, SABRINA AMBRA, ABBY BAKER, STEVE BLANCHARD, DEBORAH BOSTOCKKELLEY, JOHNNY BOYKINS, BIANCA GOOLSBY, JAKOB HERO-SHAW, LORA KORPAR, JASON LECLERC, JERICK MEDIAVILLA, MELODY MAIA MONET, NICHOLAS MACHUCA, TIFFANY RAZZANO, SISTER JUANA REACTION, MOMMA ASHLEY ROSE, GREG STEMM, SYLVIE TREVENA, MICHAEL WANZIE, DR. STEVE YACOVELLI
BRIAN BECNEL, NICK CARDELLO, J.D. CASTO, BRUCE HARDIN, JAMARCUS MOSLEY, CHRIS STEPHENSON, LEE VANDERGRIFT PHOTOGRAPHY
DESK EDITOR’S
WATERMARK PUBLISHED OUR
30th anniversary issue last month, looking back on three decades of work.
The night it was released, the staff attended an anniversary event at Orlando’s Orange County Regional History Center. The museum is hosting the incredible “Cover Story: Celebrating Watermark’s 30 Years” through Dec. 15, which includes 30 Watermark covers, other photos and a timeline of key events.
I was only in the fifth grade when Watermark was founded in 1994, but I was proud to see my name on the wall under 2017.
That’s when I officially joined the Watermark staff as Tampa Bay Bureau Chief. Another bullet point followed in 2021, when I became Managing Editor. I’m so thankful to be a small part of such an enduring legacy.
If you missed the anniversary issue, you can check out the digital edition
at WatermarkOnline.com. I’d also recommend visiting the exhibit, but I’m partial and a big museum nerd.
Our 30th anniversary celebration isn’t over yet. We’re asking Watermark writers to reflect on headlines that impacted them from now until the end of the year, and Editor-in-Chief Jeremy Williams and I share our thoughts this issue.
It’s a process that began for me on our website. I was proud to see that I’ve written Tampa Bay news for over 100 archived pages now.
A lot of celebrity interviews stand out to me — from personal heroes like “Star Trek” legend George Takei, who shared a personal “Oh Myyyyy” on our call to Jodi Benson, the original speaking and singing voice of
“The Little Mermaid.” I’ll cherish both experiences forever.
I’ve also been fortunate enough to cover events led by Pete Buttigieg. The first was when he stumped for President Biden in St. Petersburg as Mayor Pete, and the second was when he kicked off a multi-state tour in Tampa as the U.S. Secretary of Transportation.
Buttigieg was there to highlight a $12.6 million federal grant awarded to Port Tampa Bay from the Biden-Harris administration. Both further cemented my belief that he should be president one day — after Vice President Harris.
What stands out most in my time at Watermark, however, is covering local heroes. In 2017, after Enigma bartender Ryan Stroehlein lost his life in a motorcycle accident, the bar and 16 drag entertainers raised $8,000 for his surviving passenger. It was a move befitting royalty.
In 2018, I met the late Dr. Jean Batronie and wife Arleen. The couple reached out to Watermark after St. Petersburg’s Catholic Diocese directed the former, who was transgender, not to attend a mass for their 50-year anniversary because of it.
That same year I spoke with Toni Gott, a breast cancer survivor who underwent a double mastectomy, after she was confronted by a Tampa Sports Authority worker for using a female restroom at a Tampa Bay Bucs game. All three spoke out courageously against discrimination and it was an honor to help them do it.
It’s also been a privilege to cover LGBTQ+ joy, like the election of Tampa Mayor Jane Castor. I’ll always remember sharing a coffee with her in Ybor as she outlined her plans to launch a campaign and later
visiting her home to profile her victory as the city’s first openly LGBTQ+ mayor.
Covering St Pete Pride stands out as well. Watermark was a founding sponsor in 2003, but I’ve been fortunate enough to cover some of its other major milestones. In 2020, when COVID-19 kept festivities at bay, the organization launched a fundraiser to install and maintain St. Petersburg’s Progressive Pride Street mural. I’m proud to have been among those who helped paint it.
What stands out most in my time at Watermark, however, is covering local heroes.
For St Pete Pride’s 20th anniversary in 2022, Watermark also convened its founders and current leaders to reflect on the milestone, and just this year we completed the official guide. Both were amazing experiences that showcased why we’re lucky to have Florida’s largest LGBTQ+ celebration right in our back yard.
I’m so thrilled to keep playing a part in connecting our community. In this issue we introduce a new LGBTQ+ event coming to St. Petersburg next year, feature a special travel section highlighting Pride abroad and rock out with Melissa Etheridge.
Watermark is proud to be celebrating 30 years as your LGBTQ+ news source, so thanks for reading and supporting our advertisers. Please stay safe, stay informed and enjoy this latest issue.
DR. STEVE YACOVELLI is owner of TopDog Learning Group, a learning and development, change management and diversity consulting practice based in Orlando. He’s also the Chief Inclusion Officer of LGBTInclusivity. com. Page 17
GREG STEMM lives in Gulfport and has worked as a freelance writer for several local publications. He is a founding member of St Pete Pride and active politically in Tampa Bay. Page 19
KAPHERR ALEJOS, SABRINA AMBRA, ABBY BAKER, STEVE BLANCHARD, DEBORAH BOSTOCKKELLEY, JOHNNY BOYKINS, BIANCA GOOLSBY, JAKOB HERO-SHAW, LORA KORPAR, JASON LECLERC, JERICK MEDIAVILLA, MELODY MAIA MONET, NICHOLAS MACHUCA, TIFFANY RAZZANO, SISTER JUANA REACTION, MOMMA ASHLEY ROSE, GREG STEMM, SYLVIE TREVENA, MICHAEL WANZIE, DR. STEVE YACOVELLI
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Triple Threat
Orlando Fringe names new leadership team
Jeremy Williams
ORLANDO | Orlando Fringe, the longest-running Fringe Festival in the U.S. which wrapped its 33rd season in May, announced in a press release Sept. 3 that it is moving forward with a new leadership team.
Instead of naming one permanent executive director, Orlando Fringe is implementing a tri-directorate model, dividing the responsibilities among three positions: director of experience, artistic director and managing director.
“The board has decided to move forward with hiring within the organization by emboldening staff members to take the helm of leadership with regards to the executive director role. We will no longer have one singular director reporting to the board. Instead, we will have a triad leadership,” said Board President Marcus Williams in the release.
The organization has named current Creative Learning Producer Genevieve Bernard as its new director of experience,
Festival Producer Tempestt Halstead will become the new artistic director and former Operations Director Melissa E. Fritzinger will return to Fringe as the managing director.
Bernard, in her role as director of experience, will oversee the education, development and marketing departments of Orlando Fringe.
According to the press release, the director of experience will ensure the organization’s “story and mission are effectively communicated to the public, donors and stakeholders,” calling Bernard “the primary storyteller and story keeper for the organization, maintaining the continuity of our messaging and ensuring that education efforts are at the forefront of everything we do.”
“I am passionate about Fringe and am honored to be a caretaker of an organization so deeply rooted in our community,” said Bernard. “I am thrilled to work with this team to enhance the Fringe experience for the artists, the audience and the community.”
Halstead, as artistic director, will lead the creative vision for both Fringe ArtSpace and all of Orlando Fringe’s year-round festival activations. In her role, she will oversee the artistic programming and technical elements for Fringe festivals and productions, ensuring that they continue to resonate with and inspire the community.
“I’m thrilled to elevate my role at such a pivotal time in our organization,” said Halstead. “I look forward to working with this incredible team to continue to push the boundaries of what’s possible in the arts.”
As the new managing director, Fritzinger will oversee operations for the Orlando Fringe festival and Fringe ArtSpace, while also managing the organization’s finances, strategy and administrative procedures. In this role she will be responsible for streamlining organizational processes, enhancing operational efficiencies and, with the tri-directorate team, helping ensure both the Orlando Fringe festival and Fringe ArtSpace continue to thrive in the community.
“I’m honored to be returning to the Fringe in this role,” said Fritzinger. “I’m excited to continue working with such a talented staff to bring extraordinary, Fringe-y experiences to the community!”
For more information on Orlando Fringe and Fringe ArtSpace, visit OrlandoFringe.org.
THE HAMMERED LAMB BATTLES TO STAY AFLOAT AMID CONSTRUCTION CHALLENGES
Camila Escobar
ORLANDO | The Hammered Lamb has been forced to close twice a week due to the impact that the ongoing pipeline construction along N. Orange Ave. has had on its business.
The Ivanhoe Village website states that the City of Orlando Public Works Department began their sanitary sewage project in September 2023. The project is being broken up into five phases over 15 months.
Jason Lambert, owner of The Hammered Lamb, says the construction has severely hindered his business.
“2023 was the best year we were ever having, we were setting record numbers the first nine months of the year. And as soon as construction started, like the day they started shutting the street down, our sales just started plummeting,” Lambert says. We’ve been down anywhere from 30 to 50% a week, every week, for almost a year now.”
Lambert posted on Facebook Sept. 3 about how the construction and slow business has caused the restaurant to now close on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.
“Those are two slowest days, and we’re just losing more money. I mean, the staff just stands around because we just don’t get anybody out,” says Lambert.
The Hammered Lamb is not the only business to have been affected. Multiple establishments along Orange Ave. have also lost costumers due to the construction.
The business’ biggest challenge is the lack of customers, largely driven by parking difficulties.
Although the city warned local business owners about the construction project, Lambert says they did not expect the huge impact and lack of city support.
“The worst is it just doesn’t seem like really anyone at the city even cares,” Lambert says. “You know, that’s one of the big things that they’ve preached about for years is ‘pro small business.’ You want to help small businesses and when most of the businesses around here have supported most of the people that are in office right now too, and it’s just kind of a punch in the face, you know.”
Lambert is hoping, through a social media campaign and hosting planned fundraising events, to let people know that The Hammered Lamb is still open even if it may not look like it when you pass by.
The eatery hosts several specialty events to drive the customers in including weekend drag brunches, Thursdays Trivia, occasional Bingo nights and more.
“None of us are the kind of people that like begging for handouts but we’re just trying to keep our doors open,” he says. “It’s tough because we’re just trying to keep all of our employees working.”
The Hammered Lamb is located at 1235 N. Orange Ave. in Orlando. It is open Sundays, Mondays and Thursdays from 11 a.m.-12 a.m. and Fridays and Saturdays from 10 a.m.-2 a.m.
TEAM PLAYERS: Orlando Fringe’s new leadership team: (L-R) Genevieve Bernard, Tempestt Halstead and Melissa E. Fritzinger PHOTOS COURTESY ORLANDO FRINGE
JEFF KLEIN’S ‘FATTY GAY’ RECORDS IN TAMPA
Ryan Williams-Jent
TAMPA | Jeff Klein is recording his comedy special “Fatty Gay” at The Commodore, a first for the fan favorite comedian.
The Florida native has entertained audiences at major LGBTQ+ events, created LGBTQ+-focused shows and can regularly be seen at Side Splitters Comedy Club. The special’s first recording session was held Sept. 8 and a second performance is set for Sept. 15 from 7-9 p.m.
Klein, who is gay, sees his brand as both observational and self-deprecating.
“I talk about not fitting into my community or my clothes,’” he says. “I take stereotypes and talk about them. I am who I am on and off the stage, so I talk about that and my life experiences.”
One such experience inspired Klein’s special, which he plans to premiere on Prime Video after editing the performances together. He drew inspiration from a friend’s young daughter who was learning to speak French.
“She had just learned to say she was tired,” he says — a phrase which includes the French word “fatigué” — “and she was hitting it real hard as ‘fatty gay.’ We were having her say it over and over again and immediately I knew it was going to be a bit.
“The more I worked on it, the more it started shaping what my first special would be,” Klein continues. “It’s a great word and there’s a whimsicalness to it, but it also breaks down the two sections of the special.”
The first part tackles Klein’s “being out of shape, going to the doctor and all of the things guys with a couple of extra pounds deal with in life,” he says. The second half addresses “dating a guy from the South, my boyfriend Matt, some stuff about my ex and gay lions … it’s real thoughtful, as most of my comedy is.”
Klein says The Commodore, billed as “Tampa Bay’s home for improv, sketch and alternative comedy,” was the perfect fit to record the special.
“It feels like a smaller community style theater,” he notes. “I’m not a flashy guy, so a flashy space wouldn’t be right for me. I like staying true to who I am and they’ve been great to work with.”
Doors open at 6:30 p.m. Sept. 15. The evening will also feature opening acts, other comedians Klein has worked with over the years.
“A lot of the jokes that I’ve put into this set are ones that people have continued to talk about,” Klein notes. “My hope is that after you see it, it will become a part of an inside joke with you and your friends for weeks to come. That’s the biggest compliment I can get.”
“Fatty Gay” tapes Sept. 15 at The Commodore, located at 811 E. 7th Ave. in Tampa. Tickets are $15 at CommodoreComedy.com. For more information about Jeff Klein, visit JeffKleinComedy.com.
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Winter is Coming
Winter Pride seeks support
Ryan Williams-Jent
ST. PETERSBURG | Winter
Pride organizers unveiled key details Sept. 3, seeking support for the inaugural event coming to the Grand Central District Feb. 16-23, 2025.
Planning for Winter Pride began last February. Presenting sponsors include the LGBTQ+ bar Cocktail and the nonprofit Grand Central District Association, which represents businesses in St. Petersburg’s traditional “gayborhood,” also the birthplace of the unaffiliated St Pete Pride.
Representatives from Cocktail and the GCDA are among Winter Pride’s eight-person planning committee. It includes David Fischer, owner of Cocktail, The Saint, The Wet Spot and ZaZoo’d and Chris Arnold, the latter’s executive director.
Arnold says the district is eager to host it. He notes Fischer and his team approached the GCDA “as an option for us to add another large, community-based festival to our annual event lineup, which is great for our local businesses.”
“Additionally, the event committee is looking at ways we can include other local nonprofits
to further promote economic vitality and maximize the positive economic impact a festival of this size can have locally,” he adds.
The two are joined by Gabe Alves, Evelyn Long, Kaycee Smith, Rob Hall, Aron Alves-Tomko and Frank Clemente. The group has planned 11 signature events so far.
Festivities are scheduled to begin at The Wet Spot, which will host an opening street party and tea dance Feb. 16 and a Winter Pride dive-in movie Feb. 17.
Locations for evening events Feb. 18-21 are yet to be determine but include Trans-n-Dance, “a night of liberating dance for the trans community” Feb. 18; One Love, “a vibrant celebration of the diverse cultures within the LGBTQIA+ community” Feb. 19 and two events on Feb. 20. The first is Snow Bunnies, which invites “queer women to step back in time” and the second is Pride in Plaid, “a blowout party for Bears & beyond.”
Weekend events will begin Feb. 21 with the Pelican Ball, “an evening of opulence” and continue with two events Feb. 22. The first is an afternoon Drag Race, when Central Ave. will become “a thrilling racetrack for creative teams to put their box cars to the
test.” A Dripping in Diamonds circuit party will follow that night.
Winter Pride will close with a street festival in the Grand Central District’s 2200-2600 blocks Feb. 23 during the day, expected to feature headlining entertainment and local vendors. A closing tea dance will subsequently be featured.
Organizers say they are excited to hold more LGBTQ+ events in the region, particularly when it’s cooler. Fischer also notes that it’s not their intent to detract from St Pete Pride; the nonprofit raised concerns last month about the potential for confusion given the event’s name and location.
“First and foremost, we hope that the event provides a safe space for people to celebrate their true selves and motivates people to continue fighting for their rights,” Fischer explains. “Secondly, that the event is a great success, showcases and benefits the city and its businesses and becomes an annual tradition that draws more LGBTQ+ people to enjoy this great place we live.”
To make that happen, organizers are seeking support. Tax deductible sponsorships are available through the GCDA and Fischer says people can “get involved through spreading the word, offering to host events, volunteering during the events and most importantly, donating or sponsoring the event so it can become a tradition.”
Learn more at WinterPrideSaintPete.com.
PRELUDE: St Pete
Pride crowds gather in front of Cocktail in June, the future site of Winter Pride 2025. PHOTO BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT
VISIT FLORIDA, DESANTIS ADDRESS REMOVAL OF LGBTQ+ CONTENT
Ryan Williams-Jent
TAMPA | Visit Florida CEO Dana Young and Governor Ron DeSantis have each addressed the removal of LGBTQ+ content from the state-backed tourism organization’s website.
Young read a prepared statement on the matter Aug. 28 during a board of directors meeting in Tampa, while DeSantis independently weighed in during a press conference in Polk County. Each advised that Florida is open to all despite the recent changes, made in the last four months but first reported Aug. 19.
“It’s fairly simple,” Young shared. “Visit Florida is a taxpayer-funded organization and as such, Visit Florida, our marketing strategy, our materials and our content must align with the state. Florida has always been and will continue to be a very, very welcoming state.”
Young cited “the incredible tourism numbers that we presented last week and at this board meeting” as evidence, 10 Tampa Bay reported. She added that the organization “is committed to continue that message of being welcome to everyone forward as we move through the next year and through the next many years in our partnership with the state of Florida.”
Young declined to elaborate when pressed further.
DeSantis, who has championed anti-LGBTQ+ laws throughout his two terms, told reporters he was made aware of the LGBTQ+ content’s removal “after the fact.”
“Our view as a state is we’re the best place to visit, we’re open to all, but we’re not going to be segregating people by these different characteristics,” DeSantis said. “That’s not how we’ve done business in any of the things that we’ve done and that’s just now how we’re operating.
“We have people from all walks of life who come… I’m not sure how any of that stuff started, or this; I am aware of it now, but I think nothing really changes in the fact that Florida’s gonna remain a great place to be,” he added.
The governor also mocked LGBTQ+ travel advisories issued by groups like Equality Florida last year, advising the state “has continued to set tourism records.”
Equality Florida responded to Young’s commentary Aug. 29. The organization shared video of her statement and launched a “Sunshine for All” campaign to speak out against the content’s removal by contacting Visit Florida’s board.
“Ron DeSantis is making it clear: If you’re LGBTQ, you’re not welcome in Florida,” the organization’s campaign reads. “VisitFlorida.com … [has sent] a stark message to all LGBTQ travelers: ‘Stay out.’ This isn’t just a petty move — it’s part of a calculated campaign to push LGBTQ people out of public life in Florida.”
Watermark has reached out to Visit Florida but did not hear back in time for press.
PROVIDERS HALT SERVICES AFTER COURT ALLOWS FLORIDA TO ENFORCE BAN ON TRANS CARE
Wire Report
TALLAHASSEE, FLA. |
Advocates say transgender patients are facing barriers to “potentially life-saving health care” after a federal appeals court ruled that a Florida law banning gender-affirming care can be enforced while a legal challenge plays out.
The decision handed down by the 11th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals in Atlanta Aug. 26 cleared the way for Florida to prohibit transgender minors from being prescribed puberty blockers and hormonal treatments, even with their parents’ permission. The law also requires that transgender adults only receive treatment from a doctor and not from a registered nurse or other qualified provider.
Jon Harris Maurer, the public policy director for LGBTQ+ rights group Equality Florida, characterized the law as government intrusion into “vital health care.”
“We have parents, understandably very concerned about their children’s wellbeing, who want to make sure that they have the right to make the best
decisions for their kids,” Maurer said. “This ruling puts back in place a law that interferes with that. And it puts their kids and their families at risk.”
Enforcement of the Florida law had been on hold since June, after U.S. District Judge Robert Hinkle struck down the ban as unconstitutional.
Gov. Ron DeSantis, who signed the law in May of 2023, has made anti-LGBTQ+ legislation a large part of his agenda and his national political profile.
For nurse practitioner Joseph Knoll, the 2-1 ruling handed down Aug. 26 was a disappointment but not a surprise.
While the law has been on hold for the past two months, Knoll and other providers at Spektrum Health in Orlando have been racing the clock to work through a backlog of patients who had been denied care under the provision.
Spektrum specializes in LGBTQ+ primary care and the majority of its 5,000 patients come to the clinic for gender-affirming care and medical transition services, according to Knoll, who is also Spektrum’s CEO.
“During this little freedom period as I call it … we made good
use of that time to make sure all of our patients were well supplied with medication,” Knoll told The Associated Press. “Although I had hoped that it wouldn’t have been necessary, at least now we can say, I’m glad we did all the things that we did.”
As recently as last week, the clinic was onboarding new patients and scheduling them for their appointments. The ruling this week changed that.
“Now it’s telling them that we can’t book them for that appointment. Or we can do a consultation appointment, but we won’t be able to prescribe anything at this time,” Knoll said.
Knoll said he hopes the legwork the clinic did writing prescription refills over the last few months is enough to carry patients through the next phase of the legal fight. But he’s worried that state lawmakers intent on banning procedures they deem harmful, even contrary to medical best practices, may not stop with gender-affirming care.
“If they use this technique to limit health care that they don’t like or they don’t agree with, where does that stop?” said Knoll. “What are they going to do next?”
BOOK PUBLISHERS FILE LAWSUIT, SAY BOOK BAN LAW IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL
Jay Waagmeester, Courtesy of The Florida Phoenix
Acohort of book publishers and award-winning authors have filed a legal challenge to the 2023 Florida law that enables challenges to books in school libraries.
The lawsuit alleges that the process of removing books from school libraries spelled out in HB 1069 is overbroad and has caused a chilling effect.
The action names members of the Florida Board of Education and
Orange and Volusia County school board members as defendants.
HB 1069 has enabled parents to seek removal of materials from schools if school boards deem them to be pornographic or contain sexual content, in line with Gov. Ron DeSantis’ “parental rights” agenda.
The publishers and authors are asking the court to deem the state’s interpretation of “pornographic” and content that “describes sexual conduct” unconstitutional.
The plaintiffs are Penguin Random House, Hachette Book Group, HarperCollins Publishers, Macmillan Publishing Group,
Simon & Schuster, Sourcebooks, and the Authors Guild, plus authors Julia Alvarez, John Green, Laurie Halse Anderson, Jodi Picoult, and Angie Thomas.
Two parents joined the suit arguing for their children to be able to check out books that have been removed by challenges permitted by the law.
Florida Phoenix is a nonprofit news site, free of advertising and free to readers, covering state government and politics with a staff of five journalists located at the Florida Press Center in downtown Tallahassee. Florida Phoenix is part of States Newsroom, the nation’s largest state-focused nonprofit news organization.
WALZ SAYS HARRIS WILL ADVANCE LGBTQ+ RIGHTS
Wire Report
Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz touted Vice President Kamala Harris’ record of defending LGBTQ+ rights Sept. 7, pledging she will advance their cause if elected president.
Walz, the Democratic vice presidential nominee, headlined the national dinner for the Human Rights Campaign, which he praised as “the best party in the nation.” He entered the sprawling ballroom of 3,500 attendees to John Mellencamp’s “Small Town” and a boisterous standing ovation from members of the nation’s largest LGBTQ+ organization.
He noted how Harris worked alongside President Joe Biden to issue executive orders protecting the rights of LGBTQ+ people in health care, the military and education.
“And the reason she did it was pretty simple. Kamala Harris believes in equal justice under law, and that means proper, complicated, equal justice under
law. It is not to be debated,” Walz said. “It’s not that difficult.”
Transgender youth and adults are facing growing restrictions in red states. Last year, HRC declared an emergency for LGBTQ+ people in the United States because of the proliferation of state laws restricting their rights. If elected, Republican Donald Trump has said he would replicate some of those restrictions at the federal level.
Not long after Biden dropped out of the 2024 race and endorsed Harris for president, HRC announced that it, too, would back her. The organization also applauded her selection of Walz as her running mate, citing his own long record of supporting LGBTQ+ youth and backing same-sex marriage.
Walz recounted how he taught social studies and coached football at a Minnesota high school in the 1990’s — and was unexpectedly approached by a student asking him to serve as the faculty adviser of the Gay-Straight Alliance. He also outlined a litany of Harris’s achievements on LGBTQ+
issues, recalling an episode in when, as attorney general of California, she had to personally call a Los Angeles clerk who was declining to issue marriage license to same-sex couples.
“‘You must start the marriages immediately,’” Harris told the clerk, according to Walz. “She had the best line then. She told the clerk, ‘Have a good day. It’s going to be a fun one.’”
He urged the crowd to work to help elect Harris, outlining what could happen if Trump got a second term in the White House. Trump’s policy proposals would “restrict freedom, bully this community, demonize vulnerable children,” Walz said.
Trump has made attacks on transgender people a mainstay of his campaign rhetoric as he seeks his second term in office. If reelected, he has pledged in his policy platform to stop public schools “from promoting gender transition” and to revoke federal funding from any school that teaches what he calls “radical gender ideology.”
RESOURCES FOR LGBTQ+ TRAVELERS ABOUND
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Do LGBTQ+ tourists have a green book-like system for staying safe while traveling in these politically precarious times? They have many.
In recent years, there’s been an outpouring of blogs and booking sites for accommodations. There are also watchdog groups with eyes on laws and customs of the world.
“People are concerned because we realize that our rights are under attack in some cases,” said Mark Chesnut, a New York-based travel writer and speaker. “People aren’t going to stop traveling. They’re just more careful and taking precautions.”
Read reviews. Network with locals. Know the laws and customs of a destination, Chesnut and other seasoned LGBTQ+ travelers suggest. Is it illegal there to be gay? Is it a taboo that can get you killed? Is PDA safe? What are the ramifications for HIV-positive
travelers? How about misaligned documents and security scans for trans people?
The potential pitfalls are many for LGBTQ+ travelers, especially couples looking to express their authentic selves. But the possible dangers should be weighed against the joys of discovering new places, said Stefan Arestis and Sebastien Chaneac, the globetrotting couple behind the travel blog the Nomadic Boys.
They turned more than a decade of extended travel into a detail-rich website and, this year, a handbook for LGBTQ+ travelers, “Out in the World: The Gay Guide to Travelling with Pride.” Arestis has visited 97 countries of all sorts. Chaneac doesn’t count but does have places he wouldn’t go out of safety concerns, including Kuwait and Saudi Arabia. On their site and in their book, the Nomadic Boys tell it like they see it, with practical tips and a feel for political and cultural landscapes.
Some LGBTQ+ travelers prefer to stick to accepting locales, for comfort and as a boycott of sorts against hostile destinations. Others travel out of their comfort zones for adventure and to support local and often suppressed gay communities.
Traveling can be particularly fraught for trans people. Gabrielle Claiborne in Atlanta is co-founder and CEO of Transformation Journeys Worldwide, a training and consulting firm. She’s also the chair of the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association Foundation’s Transgender Advisory Group.
Claiborne is a trans woman who frequently travels globally. She notes some trans people have documents with photos and gender markers that don’t align and going through security scanners can be troubling. Claiborne doesn’t support boycotts of unfriendly destinations.
“We have a long way to go, yet I’m optimistic about the progress that is being made,” she said.
IN OTHER NEWS
US CENSUS RELEASES DATA ON SAME-SEX COUPLES
Gay male couples tend to gravitate toward big cities on the U.S. coasts, while lesbian couples tend to prefer smaller cities or towns, according to 2020 census figures released last month. Counties with the highest concentrations of male couples were those that include San Francisco, Manhattan, Boston and Washington, D.C. Some of the highest concentrations of female same-sex couples were in the Berkshires, a rural region of western Massachusetts that is home to several colleges, art museums and theaters. Also in the count were counties that are home to Portland, Oregon; Asheville, North Carolina; and Ithaca, New York.
NATIONAL TRANS VISIBILITY MARCH RETURNS TO DC
LGBTQ+ advocates held the National Trans Visibility March Aug. 24, the first time the march returned to D.C. since its inaugural event in 2019. About 400 people attended, which began with a rally at the Human Rights Campaign headquarters. It took place against the backdrop of continued legislative attacks against transgender Americans; a record-breaking 642 anti-trans bills were considered across 42 states this year. Anti-trans legislation has also been introduced federally, and Donald Trump has promised to revoke LGBTQ+ protections and enforce discrimination through federal law if reelected.
SERBIAN PRIDE MARCH HELD UNDER POLICE PROTECTION
A Pride march on Sept. 7 in Serbia’s capital pressed for the demand that the populist government improve the rights of the LGBTQ+ community in the highly conservative Balkan country. The march in central Belgrade was held under heavy police protection because of possible attacks from right-wing extremists. Serbia’s LGBTQ+ community is demanding that authorities pass a law allowing same-sex partnerships and boosting other rights. The event was held under the slogan “Pride are people.” It also included a concert and a party after the march.
GAY MAN CHALLENGES INDIA’S BLOOD DONATION RULES
A guideline from India’s National Blood Transfusion Council and the National AIDS Control Organization under the Health and Family Welfare Ministry permanently prohibits men who have sex with men from donating blood. This prohibition, however, may change with the Supreme Court reviewing a challenge to the constitutionality to the 2017 blood donor rule. The Supreme Court has agreed to hear the challenge that a gay man from Delhi — Shariff D. Rangnekar, director of the Rainbow Literature Festival — brought. The rule also applies to transgender people, female sex workers, and LGBTQ people.
Dr. Steve Yacovelli
YOUR QUEER CAREER: WORK ADVICE FROM THE GAY LEADERSHIP DUDE
Is DEI dead in the workplace?
IN HIS LATEST COLUMN,
DR.
Steve Yacovelli, (a.k.a. “The Gay Leadership Dude”) shares his expertise on submitted workplace questions from members of the LGBTQ+ Community. Have a question? See below!
HEY THERE “GAY LEADERSHIP DUDE”! THERE’S A LOT OF TALK LATELY ABOUT ORGANIZATIONS CUTTING BACK ON DIVERSITY, EQUITY AND INCLUSION EFFORTS. WHILE MY COMPANY (A LARGE FORTUNE 500) HASN’T CHANGED ANYTHING YET, I KNOW SOME BIG COMPANIES LIKE MICROSOFT HAVE. SHOULD I BE WORRIED THAT THE FOCUS ON DEI EFFORTS IS GOING AWAY, ESPECIALLY AS A QUEER FEMALE EMPLOYEE? ~DEI-DIE?
This is an insanely timely and important question, DEI-DIE?, as it’s not just about those of us who focus on creating more inclusive workplaces for a living, but also those of us from underrepresented minority groups who work IN those same workplaces (like you). To some it seems like every business is too “woke.” This year alone, many organizations have adjusted their focus on DEI initiatives.
Zoom cut its internal DEI team and Snap axed employees who focused on retention and engagement efforts for underrepresented groups. Tesla, X, Lyft, DoorDash, Wayfair and Home Depot all cut their DEI teams by at least half. Microsoft laid off its DEI team, citing “changing business needs.” John Deere recently announced it will eliminate almost all its DEI policies in favor of a “quality-based workplace.” Tractor Supply completely eliminated all of its DEI goals and positions after being targeted on social media by a conservative influencer. Eli Lilly
removed “DEI” from its annual proxy statement while emphasizing workforce diversity. Molson Coors eliminated the “DEI” acronym and replaced environmental, social and governance goals with “People & Planet” metrics.
Why all the about face, DEI-DIE?? The term “DEI” has taken on a negative connotation due to legal, social and political backlash, and some conservatives consider it to be too “woke.”
In 2023 the Supreme Court of the U.S. struck down affirmative action and some business leaders took that as a reason to abandon their DEI efforts. Politicians like the Florida governor made attacking DEI one of his strategies (and got the Stop WOKE Act passed), and many others followed suit. The current GOP nominee recently said Democratic nominee Kamala Harris could be a diversity hire (!).
Why does this matter? To those of us in underrepresented minorities, having an inclusive workplace is a key indicator for our own personal growth. But it also makes good business sense. When organizations focus on creating inclusive workplaces they receive:
1. Improved Employee Satisfaction. When employees feel they are treated equitably and have a sense of belonging, job satisfaction naturally increases.
2. Enhanced Innovation. Inclusive workplaces encourage diverse perspectives, which drives innovation. When everyone, regardless of their background, has an equal opportunity to contribute ideas and isn’t afraid to share them, companies benefit from a broader range of solutions and creativity.
3. Financial Performance. There’s a direct correlation between equity and inclusion in the workplace and financial performance. “But if DEI and creating an inclusive workplace is so
important, Steve, why is it going away?” you may be asking yourself, DEI-DIE?. Great question! I was recently at the National LGBTQ+ Chamber of Commerce Conference and this was a topic among many of us DEI Consultants: is our profession “going away?”
many organizations are “doubling down” on their focus on creating inclusive workplaces. Folks like Johnson & Johnson, American Express, Intel, Sodexo, The Walt Disney Company, TD Bank, Salesforce, Delta, Marriott and Lockheed Martin
areas of importance in their workplace. One study found that 75% of Gen Zs would reconsider applying for a role due to poor DEI efforts of the company. DEI isn’t going to D-I-E. However, it may undergo some rebranding at your workplace. But I think we’ll
DEI isn’t going to D-I-E. However, it may undergo some rebranding at your workplace.
And we concluded that, no: the work of DEI programs isn’t going away but perhaps shifting. While sure, some organizations have either eliminated the DEI function, and some are “rebranding” their DEI initiatives with broader concepts, at its core it’s the same work and same outcome: creating that sense of belonging for all employees.
But even more good news is that fact that
(among many others) have reinforced their commitments to inclusive workplaces in light of the DEI “too woke” message. And these are smart organizations, as I feel the trend actually will reverse itself in the near future. In a recent study, it noted Gen Z is expected to make up 30% of the total U.S. workforce by 2030. In addition, Gen Zers view diversity and inclusion as non-negotiable
still be trying to find ways for us queer and other marginalized employees to feel that sense of belonging where we work.
HAVE A QUESTION FOR “THE GAY LEADERSHIP DUDE”? Submit @ YourQueerCareer.com. Please note the advice shared is for informational use only, it is not intended to replace or substitute any mental, financial, medical, legal or other professional advice. Full disclosure can be found at the website listed above.
Greg Stemm
POSITIVE LIVING
Growing Older Gracefully
IMADE THE MISTAKE
recently of telling my therapist that while I had always hoped to grow older gracefully, I didn’t think I was fully living up to those expectations.
He did what any good therapist would do and gave me the homework of describing what I actually meant by that, which I’d like to share here.
There was a season of my life after my HIV diagnosis in March 1992 when the concept of “growing older” didn’t seem to be in the cards. When I was 31, I had a doctor tell me that it was unlikely that I’d live to see 40.
Now at 63, I’m a proud long-term survivor and a walking talking miracle of modern medicine and personal treatment compliance. My HIV specialist recently said to me, “you realize the health issues you face now have nothing to do with HIV and everything to do with that fact that you are old.” Thanks, doc.
My long-term survival, while truly remarkable, has put me in a situation where many people my age are doing things that seem inappropriate to where we are. Things like planning for end-of-life strategies which is something I already did… 30 years ago, when I thought death might be imminent.
It’s hard for me to accept that I’m getting older when I escaped a death sentence earlier in life. My former HIV-positive partner and I spent enormous amounts of money traveling to exotic locations in in our late 30s in what we thought was going to be our
retirement. I feel like life’s normal progression is out of whack and honestly I’ve struggled with it. I suspect many other long-term survivors feel the same way. It occurs to me that there two main areas of concern when we focus on aging gracefully, the physical and mental.
Many of those who know me know I like to be in control. I like to think I don’t cross into becoming a “control freak” but I’d be lying if I told you I was always successful. That’s what makes the physical concern such a challenge. I have little or no control over the seemingly endless barrage of physical changes which all seem to be contriving to remind me of advancing age.
Some are gradual and leave time to adapt, like how I’ve started occasionally using a cane when my balance isn’t as good as it used to be. Some are rather sudden. I was 30 years old before I had my first tooth cavity but when they went bad in my 50s it was abrupt and complete. As a result I had to adapt to dentures suddenly and with very little time to incorporate what that meant to me. I felt like I went from middle to old age in a week. I’m pretty sure this was me not aging gracefully.
As with many other physical changes I’ve had to listen to an AA message that says acceptance is the key to all my issues.
Accept some things yes, but the Serenity Prayer also says to have the courage to change the things we can. There are some things I can do to at least mitigate the changes. For instance, my new Medicare Advantage plan includes membership to a nearby gym. I need to take advantage of that. This past year I struggled to march the entire Pride Promenade, so I’ve already started training for next year.
There are a number of seminars and programs held by the Gulfport Senior
Center, like regular sessions that help with balance. I need to avail myself of these. Also, there are a number of great exercise YouTube videos. I don’t have to sit around and watch my body fall apart, I do have at least some control here.
The mental side, while
on the back of his electric wheelchair. I need to realize that while my body is changing my values and my beliefs are not. As I get older, I would love to be known as the “quirky old Quaker guy” at protest rallies and political gatherings. Regardless of
After my HIV diagnosis in March 1992 … the concept of ‘growing older’ didn’t seem to be in the cards.
it can be tricky, is where I feel I have more of that all-important control. Here I have role models I can follow. My dear activist friend Winnie Foster was showing up to Occupy and other political demonstrations well into her late 90s. Another member of the “Occupy Elders” was a 90-something man who would show up with a “We are the 99%” bumper sticker
my age I plan to continue to be part of all sorts of progressive movements. I have a fire that burns brightly for social activism and I have no intention of letting age get in the way of that.
One last thought, because I read entirely too much science fiction. With the blazing speed of innovation in AI, Quantum Computing and Bioscience there is actually a real chance
that aging may be halted before I die. Other forms of immortality may be just around the corner in computer-biology interfaces. Personally, I’m striving to live long enough for my consciousness to be uploaded to a virtual utopia of my own choosing. Why not? It wouldn’t be the first miracle I’ve seen in my life. Maybe I’ll see you in an ageless future!
Greg Stemm is a longtime resident of Pinellas County and a founder of St Pete Pride. He is an outspoken activist on many issues, including HIV/AIDS education.
I got the impression that dozens of friends wanted to come and say hello that, actually, they wanted to say goodbye. They thought I was on the way out. So I very determinedly always open the front door and run up the stairs and show that I’m not going anywhere!
—ACTOR IAN MCKELLEN, AFTER HE FELL OFF THE STAGE DURING A JUNE PERFORMANCE OF “PLAYER KINGS,” IN AN INTERVIEW WITH THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
MILEY CYRUS LET THE TEARS FLOW AND SEVERAL STARS GOT EMOTIONAL AS THEY ACCEPTED THE PRESTIGIOUS DISNEY LEGENDS HONOR Aug. 11. The company bestowed Legends status on 14 artists it says have had a “significant impact” on Disney’s legacy, including actors Harrison Ford, Angela Bassett and Jamie Lee Curtis, director James Cameron, film composer John Williams and talk show host Kelly Ripa, among several others. This year’s class of Disney Legends was inducted into the company’s version of the hall of fame in a ceremony at The Honda Center in Anaheim, California, as a part of the D23 fan convention. “Legends get scared, too. I’m scared right now, but the difference is we do it anyway. All of you can do that every single day. It’s legendary to be afraid and do it anyway,” Cyrus said. “There’s no such thing as failure when you try.”
‘SAME LOVE’ RAPPER CANCELS DUBAI SHOW OVER UAE ARMING SUDAN FORCES
AMERICAN RAPPER MACKLEMORE SAID HE CANCELED AN UPCOMING OCTOBER CONCERT IN DUBAI over the United Arab Emirates’ role “in the ongoing genocide and humanitarian crisis” in Sudan through its reported support of the paramilitary force that’s been fighting government troops there. The announcement reignited attention to the UAE’s role in the war gripping the African nation. While the UAE has denied arming the Rapid Support Forces, United Nations experts reported “credible” evidence in January that the Emirates sent weapons to the RSF several times a week from northern Chad.
JUSSIE SMOLLETT ASSERTS INNOCENCE WHILE PROMOTING NEW FILM
JUSSIE
SMOLLETT, THE ACTOR AND MUSICIAN WHO WAS CONVICTED OF LYING TO THE POLICE about being the victim of a homophobic and racist hate crime that he staged in 2019, attended a screening of his latest film “The Lost Holliday” in a packed auditorium of the Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library in Washington, D.C. Aug. 28. In an interview before the screening, he continued to assert his innocence and responded to concerns within the LGBTQ+ community that his case has discouraged real victims from reporting hate crimes. The former “Empire” star wrote, produced and directed “The Lost Holliday,” his second feature film to direct following 2021’s “B-Boy Blues.”
KENYA LGBTQ+ GROUP PARTNERS WITH GRINDR
KENYA’S LARGEST UMBRELLA LGBTQ+ ORGANIZATION HAS PARTNERED WITH GRINDR to allow their members to access vital information about their rights. GALCK+, which is a coalition of 16 LGBTQ+ rights groups, announced its partnership with the gay hookup app under the Grindr for Equality initiative. GALCK+ is the second LGBTQ+ rights group in Africa to enter into such a collaboration with Grindr. Grindr on July 11 announced the partnership with IntraHealth Namibia, a nonprofit health care provider in Windhoek, the country’s capital. IntraHealth Namibia is the first African organization to provide Grindr users with essential information on sexual and mental health and safety.
46% OF LGBTQ+ EMPLOYEES ARE NOT OUT TO THEIR CURRENT SUPERVISOR AND 21% ARE NOT OUT TO ANY CO-WORKER. —Williams Institute’s “LGBTQ People’s Experiences of Workplace Discrimination and Harassment” report
MILEY CYRUS HONORED AS DISNEY LEGEND
Visiting LGBTQ+ Berlin and Prague
Ryan Williams-Jent
IT MAY BE A SMALL WORLD AFTER all, but outside of Orlando theme parks it’s one this Floridian is relatively new at seeing.
If someone told me just five years ago that I’d visit any of the countries that inspired Epcot’s pavilions one day, I’d have thought they’d spent too much time drinking around the park. Traveling abroad was always a dream of mine but at nearly 40 didn’t seem to be in the postcards. That changed in 2022, when my husband and I joined our friends on a Mediterranean Cruise, something I recommend for your first time abroad (or in general). I thought that might be an end to my world travels but I’m happy to report it wasn’t.
In early August, thanks to many of those same friends, some frugality and an accommodating staff at Watermark, my husband and I set out to see LGBTQ+ Amsterdam, Berlin and Prague.
HEADING OUT
Our trip began by enrolling in the State Department’s Smart Traveler Enrollment Program at Travel.State.gov, a free service that provides real-time regional updates from local U.S. embassies overseas. It also provides specific
information for LGBTQ+ travelers, explaining cultural norms and more tourist-centric cities. Amsterdam, Berlin and Prague, as we knew before deciding to visit, are inclusive and safe — but unfortunately, we only visited two of the three.
Our trip began for most of our friends a week prior, allowing them to attend Amsterdam Pride in late July. We planned to meet them for its final day for a marathon overnight stay before taking a train to Berlin.
After a storm delay that would have made our U.S. layover uncomfortably tight, however, we learned that our plane’s windshield wipers weren’t working. The airline had passengers deboard while it was fixed but we missed our connection. The only option was to spend one more night at home in
Tampa Bay and miss Amsterdam (almost) entirely. The photos our friends took were beautiful and their stories were enviable, and I mention ours only as a cautionary tale. We’re still fighting to have our prepaid Amsterdam room refunded by the airline, so please: purchase the travelers’ insurance.
HEADING OUT (REALLY!)
After a bonus night with our dogs and 16 hours of travel, my husband and I made it to Amsterdam’s primary airport. We collected our luggage and followed English announcements and signs to the terminal’s train station, located directly beneath it.
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We purchased a ticket for around $5 and boarded a train to Amsterdam Centraal, which connects to a number of international cities. It was a relatively easy process for two sleep-deprived Americans.
The ride was around 15 minutes and we met up with our friends to head to Berlin. Thankfully we’d purchased those tickets in advance, a transparent process from RailEurope.com. The ride was around six hours, and we were delirious for most of it, but the seats were comfortable enough, there were refreshments for purchase and best of all, it had beautiful views of the countryside. Taking it all in via train was something I’ll never forget.
LGBTQ+ BERLIN
Germany’s capital has captivated me for years. It’s known as a city of artists and museums, but Berlin is also known for its unique role in LGBTQ+ history.
“Back in the 1920s, Berlin had already become a haven and refuge for gays and lesbians from all over the world,” Visit Berlin’s website reads. “There were 170 clubs, bars and pubs for gays and lesbians, as well as riotous nightlife and a gay neighborhood. But parties weren’t the only thing being organized — several political associations were founded in Berlin to fight for equal rights.”
The Scientific-Humanitarian Committee was among them, the first known LGBTQ+ rights organization founded in 1897. Berlin was also home to the first known LGBTQ+ publication, Der Eigene, which ran for 36 years starting in 1896. It ceased publication in 1932 when the Nazis rose to power, which Visit Berlin calls “the death knell for this diversity.”
Thankfully, Berlin has once again become a safe space for LGBTQ+ travelers. The city has recognized Stonewall with its Berlin Pride Celebration since 1979, and now holds a month of festivities culminating at the end of July.
We arrived at the beginning of August at Berlin Central Station, which welcomes over 150 million passengers annually. It was bustling with energy and travelers.
While waiting for an Uber to our hotel, I saw my first sign of Berlin’s commitment to LGBTQ+ residents and visitors. Likely a holdover from
the month prior, massive Pride flags flew in front of the station’s entrances, just the warm welcome I was hoping for.
MUST-SEE HISTORY
As a history buff, LGBTQ+ and otherwise, I quickly discovered how much Berlin has to offer. We used Sightseeing City Berlin’s Hop-On, Hop-Off service to see as much of it as possible. The open-top bus tours can be found in major tourist destinations around the world and we purchased a relatively inexpensive multi-day pass to get a feel for the city with guided English audio. The bus had over 20 stops along two routes, all of which we could experience at our own pace, and our first major sight was the Brandenburg Gate.
“The Brandenburg Gate used to be a memorial of division — after the construction of the Berlin Wall, it was located in the restricted area and could not be visited by East or West Germans,” Berlin’s official website reads. “After the fall of the Wall, the gate became a symbol of German unity.”
It felt like one. We were surrounded by hundreds of people and while most of us spoke different languages, we all seemed to marvel at the ancient architecture’s historical significance in the same way.
The gate is just one part of Berlin’s story, which is evident in structures large and small across a city where World War II still looms
large. One of its final battles was waged there in 1945, resulting in significant destruction and a skyline that is now just as contemporary as it is antique.
Berlin also looks back at the era through monuments and memorials citywide, many within walking distance of one another and Museum Island, five extravagant buildings home to definitive works of art. We visited Berlin’s Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe first, designed as “a place of remembrance and commemoration for the up to six million Jewish victims of the Holocaust.” The 4.7-acre, outdoor site consists of over 2,700 concrete slabs on a sloping grid.
While interpretations of the memorial’s meaning vary, it was as moving as it was massive. We found the Memorial to the Persecuted Homosexuals under the National Socialist Regime next, a large concrete cube with a single glass window. Inside, a black-and-white video of same-sex couples kissing plays on repeat.
A nearby sign explains that after the Nazis took power “homosexuals were persecuted to a degree unprecedented in history.”
“There were over 50,000 convictions. Several thousands of gay men were deported to concentration camps; many of them perished there,” it reads. “Lesbian women, too, were forced to conceal their sexuality. For decades, gays continued to be prosecuted in both German post-war states and the
flag behind its name. Rates varied but tickets were available by the number of trips you wanted to buy or different periods of time.
The subway took us to Berlin’s gayborhood of Schöneberg several times. The town is well known for its Regenbogenkiez, or Rainbow District, and it was easy to see why.
Schöneberg had an extensive variety of LGBTQ+ spaces and an impressive amount of foot traffic day and night. Ever the journalist, I was happy to find LGBTQ+ news sources available at no cost in most storefronts, many in English.
One such product was the Friends Navigaytor, a map that guided visitors through LGBTQ+ Berlin.
“Probably no city in the world has changed as much in recent decades as the German capital,” it reads. “Berlin is multicultural and associates freedom, cosmopolitanism, creativity and historical commitment.
homosexual victims of National Socialism were excluded from the culture of remembrance.”
Visit Berlin says it stands as “a symbol against intolerance, discrimination and persecution of homosexuals all over the world.”
The Empty Library was another poignant visit, commemorating the 1933 burning of 20,000 books the Nazis saw as “un-German” in the middle of a large public square. At its center, a small glass plate among paving stones showcases an empty, underground library. A plaque nearby reads “That was but a prelude; where they burn books, they will ultimately burn people as well,” a quote from a play written in 1817.
Remnants of the Berlin Wall also line the city. In addition to an East Side Gallery, the decorated and longest-remaining section stretching nearly a mile, replicas and plaques designating former locations can be seen throughout Berlin. The Berlin Wall Memorial, another open-air exhibition showcasing how devastating the structure was for locals, was a particularly moving experience.
MODERN FAMILY
As powerful as it was, we didn’t spend all of our time in Berlin looking back. We also connected with the city’s LGBTQ+ community to look forward.
Berlin’s 10-line subway system featuring 173 stations had at least one with a permanent rainbow
“From architectural swank and glamor to the gray prefabricated buildings from [German Democratic Republic] times, from countless cultural delights to exciting sights, from taste experiences of international restaurants to celebrations and parties where (almost) anything is possible — Berlin has it!” it continues.
One of our favorite bars was WOOF, which has served the community “in a friendly and sexy atmosphere” since 2006. In addition to playing “The Golden Girls” on repeat, in English, the venue accepted cards while many others were cash only.
Another was a speakeasy called Pussy Cat, the area’s oldest bar, and Prinzknecht — located beside ART Hotel Connection, Berlin’s “‘hetero-friendly’ LGBT hotel.” It was there that we saw a pamphlet for a drag queen-led Queer Berlin Tour.
The tour currently takes place on Thursdays, when a local told us “the weekend really starts.” Unfortunately, we left on Wednesday, but the scene was no less captivating — or safe. In most spaces, window stickers and pamphlets from MANEO, an anti-violence organization dedicated to protecting LGBTQ+ residents and visitors, were regularly featured.
MUST-SEE MAGIC
We said “auf wiedersehen” to Germany by returning to Berlin Central Station, having pre-purchased train tickets to Prague.
BERLIN SIGHTS: 1.) The Memorial to the Persecuted Homosexuals. 2.) Pussy Cat, Berlin’s oldest LGBTQ+ bar. 3.) The courtyard surrounding The Empty Library. 4.) A rainbow sign to Berlin’s subway. PHOTOS BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT
The ride was shorter, around four hours this time, and we were captivated by the European countryside for most of it. I knew far less about the Czech Republic’s capital than I did Berlin but was excited to see what it had to offer — especially during Prague Pride.
One thing I did know was currency would differ. Unlike Berlin, which utilizes the euro, Prague uses the Czech Crown. One euro was essentially worth one dollar while our dollar was worth 22.5 of Prague’s.
It made goods and services very inexpensive for us — and while the euro and U.S. dollar were also widely accepted, it was at a significant cost. Thankfully most merchants accepted cards, resulting in one of the most cost-effective trips (and Prides) of my life.
We arrived at Prague’s main railway station, found a designated area for ride share services, and made our way to the Airbnb my husband, our friends and I had already booked. Given the conversion rate, I came to understand why the massive, renovated building from the 17th century was so affordable.
We fell in love with Prague right away, a magical city affectionately known as the City of a Hundred Spires, the Golden City and the Heart of Europe.
“Anyone who has briefly visited Prague regrets not staying longer,” its official tourism website reads. “Prague is not only a beautiful architectural gem, but also one of the most cultural cities in the world.
“You will experience the authentic Bohemian spirit of Prague at every turn,” it continues.
“Whether in cafés, jazz clubs or opera houses, you’ll find your passion everywhere — traditional, new or completely experimental.”
Prague’s Old Town Square was our first must-see. It was founded in the 12th century and features breathtaking structures like the city’s Old Town Hall and its Astronomical Clock, first completed in the 1400s.
The marvel is the oldest functioning astronomical clock in the world. It has a dial that represents the position of the sun and moon, displays multiple European times and features intricate statues and moving figures.
We also visited Prague Castle, founded around 880 and according to the Guiness Book
of World Records, the largest coherent castle complex in the world. The site “consists of a large-scale composition of palaces and ecclesiastical buildings of various architectural styles, from the remains of Romanesque-style buildings from the 10th century through Gothic modifications of the 14th century,” its website reads.
We purchased tickets to enter several of them — from the Old Royal Palace from the 14th century to St. George’s Basilica, founded
people to its week-long festival. With the currency conversion rate, we paid four U.S. cents each for 24-hour bus tickets.
Prague Pride was formed in 2011 and is held in early August as to not compete with other European LGBTQ+ celebrations. It’s advertised as “a party that paints the city in rainbow colors and attracts travelers from across the country and beyond.”
I can attest that at least nine Americans were in attendance and
to our festival and we can talk about them together.”
I’m so happy we did. We participated in two main events, the first of which was a family picnic in its Pride Village. The event took place on Střelecký Island under the city’s beautiful Legion Bridge along the Vltava River, an open-air festival with local vendors, entertainment, food and drink.
It was a sight to behold, especially after nightfall. Drag entertainers lip synced to
LGBTQ+ Berlin and LGBTQ+ Prague were undoubtedly different, but our trip showcased how much they — and our community — have in common.
around 920. Even as someone who isn’t religious, the church was breathtaking. The entire city was.
LGBTQ+ PRAGUE
It was clear from the beginning of our trip that Prague celebrates the LGBTQ+ community.
Progressive Pride flags flew from ancient buildings, lined medieval bridges and were attached to public transport.
We utilized Prague’s rapid transport to attend the final events of Prague Pride 2024, which welcomed more than 100,000
had a blast. The theme for this year was family, something that would’ve been obvious from the start.
“We all know that word,” Prague Pride explained its choice. “Those of us who have a family know it, and even those of us who don’t have a family know it. The word family is a weapon, a disciplinary element, a tool to maintain structure and order.
“It represents hope — hope for an end to loneliness, for new beginnings, for care and for a future,” they continued. “A family is a community of people who consider themselves to be one. There have always been queer families … Come
they had an affinity for Britney Spears and other pop music.
Prague Pride’s main event, its parade, kicked off the next day with their “March for Every Family.”
“Bring your loved ones and come enjoy the parade together — whether they are your blood relatives or members of your chosen family who provide you with support and unconditional acceptance,” it was billed. “All families are welcome, no matter what they look like!”
The route was nearly two miles and wound through the city’s Old Town Square, a remarkable juxtaposition of the past and future. The parade included no motorized vehicles in favor of sustainability and consisted of marchers carrying parade entry numbers and personalized signs.
Crowds filled Prague’s streets for the march, which maintained an unforgettable grassroots feel even with major participating corporate partners and private foundations. It was also open for anyone attending Pride to join in the processional, which we did.
The route took us through Prague’s streets and across one of the city’s massive bridges, all of which was closed to traffic. It ended at the base of Letná Park overlooking the Vltava River and city.
It was a hike, one with more stairs than I was ready for, but the journey was worth it. We eventually found ourselves in what organizers had repurposed into Pride Park, “an oasis that appears like a mirage from the mist of sweat and tears as you climb the grueling stairs from Čech Bridge.” Aptly put.
music accompanied by live instrumentation as the masses danced, queer couples and families walked hand-in-hand and dogs roamed between participants seated on blankets. It was all as beautiful as the park itself.
Afterwards we enjoyed some of the region’s LGBTQ+ nightlife. One favorite bar was Café Bar Flirt, nestled in Prague’s historical center across from a church built in the 1100s. Patrons could enjoy the open air in a courtyard between the two, sit inside on its first level or head downstairs into its brick cellar for a cooler space. Notably for this fan,
There were six main music stages, which I’ll note were preceded by freestanding DJ stations along the entire parade route, and they were full of drag, live music and other forms of entertainment. There was a beauty zone, where companies like Nivea provided free sunscreen, an area for nonprofit and informational booths where I was happy to see the U.S. embassy and so much more.
LGBTQ+ Berlin and LGBTQ+ Prague were undoubtedly different, but our trip showcased how much they — and our community — have in common. The fight for civil rights knows no language and crosses all borders, something I was proud to experience firsthand. I would encourage anyone to do the same.
Learn more about LGBTQ+ Berlin at visitBerlin.de and Prague Pride at Festival. PraguePride.com.
PRAGUE SIGHTS: 1.) Prague Pride’s picnic. 2.) Prague’s Astronomical Clock. 3.) Various LGBTQ+ flags hang between buildings on Prague Pride’s parade route. 4. Prague Pride’s parade participants fill the city’s streets. PHOTOS BY RYAN WILLIAMS-JENT
Jeremy Williams
BLAKE LYNCH, KNOWN TO
his millions of fans across the globe as Nurse Blake, is an Orlando native and nursing graduate from the University of Central Florida who has amassed a huge online following thanks to his light-hearted, comical look at being a nurse in the U.S. health care industry.
In less than a decade, Lynch has gone from 12-hour nursing shifts to being an online comedian who has accumulated 1 million followers each on TikTok and Instagram, 204,000 on YouTube and 1.8 million on Facebook.
His journey from ICU nurse to social media influencer began in 2017 when Lynch found himself needing an outlet.
“I was stressed out, burnt out and I started developing a lot of anxiety, and I had one of my very first panic attacks driving home from work,” Lynch
says. “I was about four years into my career and I needed a way to share my story, to let me laugh and vent. So, I started creating videos on Facebook.”
Lynch started getting attention for his videos almost immediately, first with family and friends and then from other nurses.
“We connected and they understood what I was going through,” he says. “It made me realize I wasn’t alone and it helped me, and continues to help me, so I continue to do them.”
Lynch’s first viral video, an infomercial parody for a product he calls a Scrub
Nurse Blake returns to Central Florida with a new kind of nursing conference
Romper, was published on Facebook on May 19, 2017 and has more than 3.7 million views.
“There was this viral story where these guys, like these frat boys, created a male onesie, like a male romper,” Lynch recalls. “I was like ‘shit, that looks so comfortable,’ so I ran to my closet and literally got scissors and pins and cut up an old pair of scrubs and made a onesie, everyone calls it a ‘scrumper,’ and I danced ridiculously in the video.”
The video attracted so much attention that local news outlets started to reach out to Lynch.
“I didn’t realize what going viral meant until that happened,” he says. “It was so cool to see the response from nurses watching it in breakrooms and professors showing it to their classes.”
Lynch’s online persona has allowed him to create a successful brand that has become a full-time business with more than a dozen staff
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members. It has taken him on the road with two worldwide tours — 2022’s “PTO Comedy Tour” and the “Shock Advised Comedy Tour,” which he is still currently on with dates scheduled through the end of the year, including local stops at the King Center in Melbourne Dec. 3 and Ruth Eckerd Hall in Clearwater Dec.5.
“What’s so cool is whenever I do a show in a city, just seeing the diversity and nurses and specialty backgrounds all together, and they come in big groups of 20 or 30 people,” he says. “Seeing that keeps me going and giving nurses a night out to just come and drink and have a good time, which they absolutely deserve.”
His Nurse Blake persona has also opened doors for Lynch to author a children’s book, publish a quarterly magazine, build a popular line of merchandise and create NurseCon at Sea, something Lynch pursued because of his past experiences with nursing conferences.
“I realized while in nursing school that nursing conferences suck; they are so boring, so bland and so stale,” Lynch says. “I wanted to create a conference that is about giving nurses a better education experience, letting them find a balance between fun and professionalism.”
NurseCon at Sea, the ultimate nursing conference aboard a cruise ship, is now in its third year. The annual event takes about 3,500 nurses on the open water to attend educational courses all while celebrating with theme nights and parties.
Lynch is now taking what he learned creating NurseCon at Sea and is expanding it to a five-day, four-night landlocked Nursing Conference that will premiere at the Loews Sapphire Falls Resort at Universal Orlando Sept. 22-26. While the initial conference will be in Orlando, it will move to a new city each year.
“I think NurseCon Orlando hits a different audience,” Lynch says. “Not everyone has a passport or likes to go on cruises, so we are reaching a different audience with this one. People can also bring their families if they want. They can’t participate in the conference but they can be there at the resort and go to the parks.”
Lynch adds that there will be a heavier focus on education at NurseCon Orlando.
“We are offering a lot more workshops and hands-on experiences than we can on a cruise ship just because of space,” he says. “For the first time we are
practice and more, as well as training-focused escape rooms and simulations.
“Any health care professional is welcome to attend but mostly it’s for all nurses,” Lynch says. “What we found is that so many nursing conferences are so specific, they
“Nurse Feud!” and “Password,” a Disco Rodeo Party (think Beyonce’s “Cowboy Carter”), a Night at the Carnival, a drag show featuring “RuPaul’s Drag Race” queens Nina West and Coco Montrese, and, of course, a live performance of Nurse Blake Live!
I don’t know where Nurse Blake is going to be two years from now, I don’t know where NurseCon is going to be five years from now. But right now, I am having fun and I’m enjoying it.
— NURSE BLAKE
having an expo hall and having exhibitors. While you are going to get similar things that you do at NurseCon at Sea, this is going to be a more unique experience.”
NurseCon Orlando will offer more than 40 CNE hours taught by 13 instructors, and will include courses in pharmacy, pediatrics, mental health, nursing
segment nurses and put them into silos. At NurseCon we believe that no matter how long you have been a nurse or what specialty you’re in, we can all learn from each other. Our audience is so loving and so diverse.”
The conference is also bringing plenty of fun and parties to the week with live game shows like
excitement and energy. Earlier this summer, Lynch posted to his social media accounts that he was taking a month away to work on his mental wellbeing.
“I’m 33 now,” Lynch says. “When I was 15-18, my parents put me through conversion therapy, and I didn’t realize that that trauma would affect me later in life, in my 30’s. I’ve been able to joke about it but it really hit my mental health in a way that it has never impacted me before a few years ago.”
Lynch checked himself into the Beachway Therapy Center in West Palm Beach in July, taking 30 days away from social media and touring to work on his mental health.
“I have such a great team around me now,” he says, “that I finally trust everyone to keep this train moving while I stepped away because my own train was off the tracks and I needed to get realigned. … I was receiving counseling every day, all day. I was having 7–8-hour group sessions, individual sessions; it was the best thing for me because I have been so addicted to working that I was in just a very dark place and just those 30 days disconnecting I was able to realize who I am and what I want. Taking those 30 days off was the best thing I could have done.”
Whether it is through his nursing conferences, the tours or his viral videos, Lynch says that his goal isn’t to be at a certain point in life five or 10 years from now, rather it is to help nurses and nursing students throughout their nursing journey for however long this ride continues.
“I don’t know where Nurse Blake is going to be two years from now, I don’t know where NurseCon is going to be five years from now. But right now, I am having fun and I’m enjoying it,” Lynch says. “Those who interact with Nurse Blake and attend NurseCon seem to be enjoying it, so as long as I’m enjoying it and they’re enjoying it, I’ll keep doing it.”
featuring Lynch.
“We will have DJs and dancers, it’s all very interactive,” Lynch says. “If you want to come just for the parties, then come for the parties; if you just want to come for the education, just come for the education. It’s all up to you.”
Lynch is approaching the conference with a renewed
NurseCon Orlando will be held at the Loews Sapphire Falls Resort at universal Orlando Sept. 22-26. For pricing, course listings, schedules and to register, go to NurseConEvents.com.
Nurse Blake is bringing “The Shock Advised Tour” to the King Center for the Performing Arts in Melbourne Dec. 3 and Ruth Eckerd Hall in Clearwater Dec. 5. Tickets are available at NurseBlake.com.
HELLO NURSE: Nurse Blake is bringing a new kind of nursing convention to Central Florida with his first-ever NurseCon at Universal Orlando’s Loews Sapphire Falls Resort Sept. 22-26. PHOTO BY ROWAN DALY; COURTESY FULL SCOPE PR
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Jeremy Williams
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MUSIC
Not Broken
Melissa Etheridge rocks out in her docuseries, music and tour
Ryan Williams-Jent
(ABOVE)
LIVING LEGEND: Melissa Etheridge brings her latest tour to Clearwater this month.
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RUTH ECKERD HALL
ROCK ICON MELISSA ETHERIDGE ISN’T
just an Academy and Grammy award-winning singer and songwriter. She’s a living legend.
The LGBTQ+ entertainer skyrocketed to fame in 1988 with the release of her debut and publicly came out just five years later, pioneering representation in mainstream music. She’s been playing hit music worldwide ever since, expanding her catalogue to nearly 20 studio albums.
Offstage, Etheridge has used her voice as an advocate for cannabis, LGBTQ+ rights and other causes. Her philanthropy has extended to Libby’s Legacy Breast Cancer Foundation in Orlando — where she co-founded its Pink Ribbon Garden Project — and the Etheridge Foundation formed in 2021 after the loss of her son, who died from causes related to opioid addition at 21.
In recent years she also released her memoir “Talking to my Angels,” had a celebrated run on Broadway for her autobiographical show “My
Window” and filmed her two-part docuseries “I’m Not Broken,” now streaming on Paramount+. In it, Etheridge performs a concert for incarcerated women.
Her love for music has also kept her on the road this year, co-headlining tours with the Indigo Girls and Jewel. Etheridge and the latter will visit The BayCare Sound at Coachman Park in Clearwater Sept. 26 as a part of their summer tour, which Watermark discussed with her ahead of time.
WATERMARK: YOU’VE RECENTLY PERFORMED ON BROADWAY, RELEASED A DOCUSERIES AND MEMOIR. WHAT COMES MOST NATURALLY FOR YOU?
Melissa Etheridge: Oh, none of them. (Laughs.) It’s incredibly outside of my comfort zone and I think it’s
years later I actually went into those prisons and brought music in with different programs.
made me stronger, because I’m back out on tour and I’m like, “This is so fun and easy!” (Laughs.) I’m really enjoying just singing songs with people because I’ve dug so deep. The Broadway show was so intimate and so draining and the book was that same thing, just longer.
Pulling everything out of yourself, you just want to go, “Okay, I did that. It’s outside of me. I love myself. Let’s go do what I love. Let’s go have some joy.” I loved every single one of those, but wow, it was a big 1-2-3 for me. I’ve really been shedding a lot of skin.
WHY DO YOU THINK NOW WAS THE RIGHT TIME FOR THAT?
I think the last couple years — losing my son four years ago — really set my feet on the ground to want to enjoy life. I want to enjoy everything that’s in my life and just fall into bed every day and go, “wow, what a great day.” I know that’s not possible every single day, but I want to do it as much as I can.
YOU’VE SPOKEN OPENLY ABOUT YOUR LOSS; IT MUST BE DIFFICULT TO SHARE. Yeah. Yeah, it is. I don’t want to. It’s not natural. It’s really difficult — yet I also didn’t want to ignore it. I didn’t want guilt or shame to build up, because that’s the first place you go as a parent. It’s just awful, and I know that there’s hundreds of thousands of parents out there right now who feel that way, and it’s just so harmful to ourselves and our children would never want us to hurt ourselves over them not understanding life, not being able to find joy in it and being addicted. So yes, it’s hard, but the hard things make really beautiful things later. I really think I’m a better human being now. I’m a better joy farmer. I’m really just seizing every day.
THAT WAS EVIDENT IN THE DOCUSERIES. HOW DID IT COME TO BE?
I grew up in Leavenworth, Kansas and the federal penitentiary has got all these prisons around it, and at seven years old, Johnny Cash came and played. We didn’t get to see him, but he played there, which made me think that prisons were a great place of entertainment, and then a few
The response I got, seeing how much joy it brought to people who there’s not a whole in their everyday life … it’s always been something that I wanted to do. It took a few years to finally connect with the penitentiary, and the new warden was very supportive of it, so it opened up. When my son died, I felt more of a connection with this, and the documentary and the crew really got in there and were very gentle and kind with me and able to sort of put it all together.
WHAT’S TOURING BEEN LIKE SO FAR?
So much fun. It’s been like a ‘90s party, we all sing the crowd’s favorite songs and people are turning out by the thousands. It’s really astounding what’s happening, I think the ‘90s nostalgia is right there now; it’s good to hear women with guitars getting up there singing. People are really loving it and I’m having a blast.
THIS WILL BE YOUR FIRST STOP AT THE BAYCARE SOUND. ARE YOU EXCITED ABOUT THE NEW VENUE?
I was just at Ruth Eckerd Hall and someone told me there was a new outside part, and I love that I’m able to come right out again this year with Jewel and perform there for the first time. That’s exciting — you guys love your music so much. You’re just rockers. All of you in Florida, Rock ‘n Roll will never die because of Florida. WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON LGBTQ+ REPRESENTATION IN MUSIC NOW?
There was no such thing as representation when I came out ... but because I’d been in Hollywood long enough, I certainly knew there were a whole lot of gay people; it was literally “don’t ask, don’t tell.”
Compared to today, oh my word. I was just listening to “Good Luck, Babe” from Chappell Roan and I was like, “That’s a song that I would have said, “Man, I really wish I could sing this” in the early 90s. To hear a woman with those lyrics and everyone is singing along — this is my dream. Thirty years ago, some people would ask me, “what do you think the future’s going to look like?” and I said, “Well, someday an artist is going to come out and sing about women and nobody’s going to care, it’s just going to be good music.” Here it is, I love it.
Melissa Etheridge and Jewel will make their BayCare Sound debut Sept. 26 in Clearwater. Learn more at RuthEckerdHall.com. Read our extended interview at WatermarkOnline.com.
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Out & Proud
Orlando Fringe presents first-ever Orlando Out Fest
Camila Escobar
QUEER SHOWING:
P. Sparkle entertains the crowd during the Orlando Fringe Festival’s Teaser Show in May.
PHOTO BY LUIS XAVIER DE PEÑA
ORLANDO FRINGE’S
OUT FEST, AN ALLnew LGBTQ+-focused mini-fest, was scheduled to take place at the Fringe ArtSpace, located at 54 W. Church St. in downtown Orlando, June 27-30; however, it was postponed after a flood resulted in extensive water damage to the theatre.
Orlando Fringe announced the news in an email, saying the organization was “incredibly disappointed” but that they would be “making all efforts to reschedule the festival for another date.”
Well, that date has arrived.
Orlando Fringe’s Out Fest will now be taking place at Fringe ArtSpace on Sept. 20-22.
Orlando Fringe began in 1992 and has become a staple in Central Florida. Celebrating its 33rd season this past May, it is the longest running Fringe Festival in the U.S. Along with the annual theatre festival, Orlando Fringe has worked to create year-round entertainment with productions at its Fringe ArtSpace theatre and produced mini-fests such as FESTN4 and now Out Fest.
Orlando Out Fest differs in several ways from the annual Orlando International Fringe Theatre Festival.
For Out Fest, there’s no need to buy a button; tickets are priced at $15 per show. Additionally, all performances will be held on the mainstage at Fringe ArtSpace in downtown Orlando.
Ciara Hannon, Orlando Fringe’s special events producer, first got involved with Fringe in 2019.
“My association with Fringe started when I produced my own little gay show, and I was immediately hooked,” says Hannon.
After a brief conversation with Hannon’s mentor, Tempestt Halstead, Fringe’s newly named artistic director, the idea of an all LGBTQ+ festival was born.
“We were just talking, and I was like it’d be crazy if there was an all-LGBTQ festival,” Hannon says. “Then we just had that look of like, oh, this sounds like a really good idea.”
Hannon stresses that this festival is nothing new for the Orlando
community, it is simply one that highlights the rich LGBTQ+ history that already lies within the Orlando Fringe Festival and the new artists who are taking their first swing at it.
The festival offers a plethora of entertainment from a one-man show by queer icon Billy Mick to a Big Gay Variety Show to an “Alphabet Soup” show that gives the audience a guide to the LGBTQ+ community. This festival will provide an environment of fun for all ages.
“What you can expect is some fringe favorites, and also some new faces who this is their first time doing anything with the festival,” says Hannon. “So, it’s very supportive in that way. So truly, what audiences can expect is a supportive environment for queer artists to shine.”
The new festival will run the gamut of themes and topics, letting the audience indulge in “real fringe craziness” including a family friendly LGBTQ+ puppet show, a horror drag burlesque show and other productions highlighting religion and LGBTQ+ relations.
“It’s also fantastic LGBTQ artists just doing their thing at the end of the day, so I love that,” says Hannon.
Although the date change has caused there to be fewer productions for the inaugural mini-fest than initially planned, the seven shows that will be presented offer a lot of exciting entertainment.
“We do have a little bit of fewer shows, but I do believe that it is an opportunity to highlight some of these incredibly talented artists,” says Hannon.
The mini-fest will kick off a little differently than the main festival with a 90-miunte “Truth-or-Dare Game Show” hosted by P. Sparkle at Fringe ArtSpace on Sept. 19, starting at 7:30 p.m.
“So instead of doing a typical teaser show, we get to — in true LGBTQ fashion — watch a bunch of queer people battle each other on stage,” says Hannon.
Another way Orlando Out Fest will spotlight Central Florida’s diverse queer artists is with its “Out Fest Wall,” a display of photographs of LGBTQ+ artists both within the festival and
those who are associated with Fringe in general. There will be QR codes throughout which people can use to access the artists’ socials and acts as a medium to introducing them as well.
As a younger queer person, Hannon understands that in producing this festival she is celebrating all the queer artists who have paved the way before her.
“I even have a tattoo of a little Keith Haring guy holding up another guy,” Hannon says. “It’s this quote that I really, really latch onto of ‘Our shoulders are only as strong as the ones that we stand on.’”
For more information, visit OrlandoFringe.org and check out information for each show below.
Whiskey Theatre Factory tells stories of the most often left out letter. Get ready for an exploration and celebration of bisexual and pansexual perspectives.
“THE CENTER ORLANDO PRESENTS: A BIG GAY VARIETY SHOW”
18 & UP | 60 MINUTES | SEPT. 20, 10:30 P.M.
From stand-up comedy to singing and dancing, some of Orlando’s best queer entertainers perform.
“DRAG QUEEN STORY HOUR: AFTER DARK”
18 & UP | 60 MINUTES | SEPT. 21, 10:30 P.M.
An 18-and-up only Drag Queen Story Hour, hosted by Addison Taylor.
When a latiné student joins St. Dymphna’s School for Girls, her classmates and teachers are forced to confront their own biases and acknowledge their past of harm for marginalized individuals.
- Helen R. Murray, Producing Artistic Director
overheard TAMPA BAY OUT+ABOUT
CONGRATULATIONS
Blaue/Out Magazine celebrated four years Aug. 31.
Mr. D’z Men’s Emporium celebrated its one-year anniversary in Tampa Sept. 1. Johnsons Tampa celebrated two years in Tampa Sept. 8.
LOCAL BIRTHDAYS
Seminole painting expert Karen Santos, Studio@620 founder Bob Devin Jones, Sarasota entertainer Hunter Vance, PrimeTimers Sarasota’s Stephen Horowitz, PR pro Joey Panek (Aug. 29); Tampa Bay barber Tyler Cochran (Aug. 30); Fan connoisseur Ed Adams, St. Petersburg Swiftie Ricky Celaya-Renaud, Tampa Bay theatre pro Dan Kelley (Aug. 31); Tampa Bay stylist Nicholas Grawey, Habitat for Humanity handyman Rick Vail, Florida Studio Theatre’s Becca Jennings, Disney lover Dave Reynolds-Steele, Naked Boys Reading Tampa Bay director Nathan Truly (Sept. 1); Creative Pinellas Marketing and Communications Manager Roman Black, Activist Jessica Bond, Tampa actor Troy LaFon (Sept. 3); Asolo Rep social media coordinator David Valdez, Bluegreen Vacations’ Erik Carroll, Tampa pharmacist Brian Wehling, St. Pete software genius David Palio, Gulfport party host Ed Dunn, Tampa Bay entertainer Kenneth Lawson aka Juno Vibranz, (Sept. 5); Sarasota teacher Steve Eller, Reiki practitioner Lauren Lansrud (Sept. 6); St. Pete retiree Jerry Rechek, Tampa Bay activist Ryan Young, St. Petersburg grillmaster Shane Jeffers, Hustle & Heart Group realtor Wendi Johnson (Sept. 7); Tampa’s Colombia transplant Ricardo Mendez, HSN bigwig Darryl Blaker, Tampa bear Mike Scott, Tampa athlete Marty Walsh, St. Pete socialite Clinton Nickels (Sept. 8); St. Pete big bear David Reynolds, St. Pete chiropractor Karen Reese, Tampa Bay entertainer Brianna Summers, Publix pro Raymond Jamison (Sept. 9); Ybor favorite Cassandra Hair (Sept. 10); St. Pete fundraiser Jonathan Soots, Tampa animal lover Greg Burton, St. Pete staple Alan Heflin, Tampa Gallery curator Albert Burruezo (Sept. 11); Diversity Health Center of Tampa Bay Founder Dr. David Lyter, Moments of Clarity host Tiffany Werhner, Rising Tide Innovation Center Co-Founder Leigh Kellett Fletcher, St. Petersburg realtor Pete McGahan, Mortgage banker Stan Kutz (Sept. 14); Tampa Bay author Sheree Greer, RemedyOne Executive Vice President Mark Francen, Pinellas County School Board ally Caprice Edmond, St. Petersburg artist Barry Rothstein, Tampa Bay family man
Victor M. Gimenez (Sept. 17); Sarasota staple Rogelio
Capote, Owner of David Vargas-State Farm Insurance
David Vargas (Sept. 18); Keller Williams St. Pete realtor Mauricio Moreno, St. Petersburg comedian Jeff Klein, Parc Center for Disabilities AVP Brian Rothey (Sept. 19); Cosplay captain Leif Thomas, Black/Out Magazine
Managing Editor Tamara Leigh (Sept. 20); Country club aficionado John Pozo-George, Tampa socialite Neil Parker (Sept. 21); Parri Law Firm owner Dan Parri, Lead Pastor of The Edge Community Church Ricc Rollins (Sept. 22); Tampa Bay chef Darlene Herrick (Sept. 23); Tampa Bay fashion designer Ivanka Ska, Shelter Strong Director Nick Caraccia, Allstate adjuster Mark Celaya-Renaud (Sept. 24); Tampa Bay caregiver R.J. Walker, Florida state Rep. Michele Rayner (Sept. 25).
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MAKE IT BLUE: Florida Delegate Jennifer Webb proudly attends the 2024 DNC in Chicago Aug. 22.
PHOTO FROM JENNIFER WEBB FOR FLORIDA’S FACEBOOK
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ONE DOWN: The Tampa Bay Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence bless Mr. D’z Men’s Emporium Aug. 31 in honor of their first anniversary. PHOTO FROM THE TAMPA BAY SISTERS’ FACEBOOK
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FINAL BOW: Mr. Come OUT St. Pete 2024 Silver Foxx (L) and Miss COSP 2024 Veronica Vixen share another moment at the 2025 Royal Court pageant at Enigma Aug. 31.
PHOTO FROM COSP’S FACEBOOK
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WINTER CREW: Winter Pride planning committee members and supporters attend a preview party at Savant on Second Sept. 3.
PHOTO FROM FRANKLYNN VISUAL MARKETING’S FACEBOOK
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PAYING IT FORWARD: Metro Inclusive Health accepts funds from Kahwa Coffee, wrapping up its Prideraisers season Aug. 26.
PHOTO FROM METRO’S FACEBOOK
6 SCHOOL PRIDE: Local entertainers and members of the USF Pride Alliance enjoy St Pete Pride’s Back to School Block Party Sept. 7 in front of the organization’s office. PHOTO FROM THE PRIDE ALLIANCE’S INSTRAGRAM
7 THE BRICK IS BACK: Tampa leaders including Mayor Jane Castor (2nd from L) stand along 7th Ave. to celebrate the return of its brick road after more than six decades. PHOTO FROM MAYOR CASTOR’S FACEBOOK
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COMMUNITY SUPPORT: The First Horizon Foundation donates $20,000 to CAN Community Health Sept. 5 at their headquarters in Ybor.
PHOTO FROM CAN COMMUNITY HEALTHS’ FACEBOOK
announcements CENTRAL FLORIDA OUT+ABOUT
CONGRATULATIONS
Orlando Youth Alliance raised more than $110,000 for LGBTQ+ youth services at its Celebrity Server event in Orlando Aug. 26. Will’s Pub celebrated its 28th anniversary on Sept. 1.
LOCAL BIRTHDAYS
Orlando Miller’s Ale House kitchen coach Nicole Phillips, IT guru Jeff Kern, Orlando artist and photographer Lee Vandergrift (Aug. 29); GayDayS owner Joseph Clark, Human Rights Campaign’s Xavier Persad (Aug. 31); Central Florida performer Philip Ancheta, Central Florida performer and FrogPig creator Joel Swanson (Sept. 1); Former LGBT+ Center board president Jeffrey Buak, LGBTQ+ activist Heather Lea Soersdal (Sept. 2); Central Florida LGBTQ+ super ally Jennifer Kunsch, Orlando realtor Kate Maini (Sept. 3); Watermark’s Remarkable People cover model Joan Rodriguez (Sept. 4); Former Watermark intern Alexis Bell (Sept. 5); Rollins College honcho A. Eddie Mehnert, Orlando Gay Chorus member Andrew Lemin, ex-intern and former Watermark cover model Randa Griffin (Sept. 6); Anthony Bella Capelli Studio owner Steven Dorsagno, Gods and Monsters owner Anna Maiya Young (Sept. 7); Central Florida entertainer Darcel Stevens, Disney entertainment tech Charles Cantrell (Sept. 8); Les Vixens dancer Christine Machado (Sept. 9); President of Falk Research Associates Thor Falk, Crew Health CEO Chadwick Thomas, LGBT+ Center board member and Edward Jones financial adviser Veronica Woodard, Green House Realty owner Joshua Cooper, Owner of Lee Forrest Designs Lee Forrest (Sept. 10); Former Watermark Creative Designer Deanndra Meno, Orlando-based international drag performer Joshua Eads-Brown a.k.a. Ginger Minj, political activist Wes Hodge, The News Junkie co-host and ally Chris Lane (Sept. 11); owner of A Comic Shop Aaron Haaland (Sept. 12); Former Pride Chamber president Tom Yaegers, Straight ally Dee Richter (Sept. 14); Orlando Derby girl Jill Powers (Sept. 15); Central Florida’s DJ JB Burgos (Sept. 16); Glamorous socialite Bill Jansen, Favorite ally Justice Mitchell, Priority One Financial’s Steven C. Lewis Jr. (Sept. 18); Flight of Ideas’ Bob Kodzis (Sept. 19); Disney manager of corporate alliances Jason Dobbins, Dr. David Rice at Eola Eyes, “DJ Trypsin” Gabe Medina (Sept. 20); Old Town Kissimmee general manager Thearon Scurlock, Hogwarts student Heather Murphy, Walt Disney Port Orleans Resort lobby concierge Gerry D. Evans, Animal advocate Ziggy Shockley, Orlando artist and comedian Angela Ramos, JLD Communications founder Jose Luis Dieppa (Sept. 21); Orlando sister “Isadora Knocking” Morris Beverly (Sept. 22); Former board president of The Pride Chamber Lu Mueller-Kaul, former Watermark art director Charlie Carballo (Sept. 23); Former President at Florida Theatrical Association Ron Legler, Orlando photographer Angie Folks (Sept. 24); Southern Nights Orlando’s Christopher Bishop, Orlando chef Nathan Shifflett, Project Manager at Disney Kevin Thornton (Sept. 25).
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FROM THE BEGINNING: Scott Jackson Smith (L) and Keith Peterson, some of the original staff of Watermark, attend the newspaper’s 30th Anniversary celebration at the Orange County Regional History Center in Orlando Aug. 29. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS
2 PARTY EXHIBITORS: (L-R) Ethan Suarez, Nikole Parker and Andres Acosta Ardila check out the new Watermark exhibit at the Orange County Regional History Center in Orlando Aug. 29. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS
3 FESTIVAL GOERS: Rick Todd (L) and Jeremy Williams attend the opening day of Epcot’s Food & Wine Festival at Walt Disney World in Orlando Aug. 29. PHOTO BY DYLAN TODD
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JOY IN THE PARK: (L-R) Tatiana Quiroga, Kristian Bighom and state Rep. Anna V. Eskamani attend the 2024 Blk Joy Festival at Lorna Doone Park in Orlando Aug. 24. PHOTO BY DANNY GARCIA
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SAYING ‘I DO’: Scott Benson (L) and Arturo Benson celebrate their marriage in Lake Eola Park in Orlando Aug. 20. PHOTO COURTESY SCOTT BENSON
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‘PHINS VS. JAGS: CeCe Teneal is ready for some football at Hard Rock Stadium in Miami Sept. 8 as the Miami Dolphins take on the Jacksonville Jaguars. PHOTO FROM CECE TENEAL’S FACEBOOK
7 FUNDRAISING CHAMPIONS: Michael Slaymaker (C), with Jim Merritt and Albert Knight Leach, celebrates Orlando Youth Alliance’s Celebrity Server event in Orlando Aug. 26. PHOTO FROM MICHAEL SLAYMAKER’S FACEBOOK
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CLASSY HOSTS: Magic 107.7’s morning show hosts, Leslye Gale (L) and Chad Pitt host Rosen Centre’s “Sip & Savor” at Harry’s Poolside Bar & Grill in Orlando Aug. 17. PHOTO FROM CHAD PITT’S FACEBOOK
CENTRAL FLORIDA
“Cover Story: Celebrating Watermark’s 30 Years”
NOW THROUGH SUNDAY, DEC. 15 ORANGE COUNTY REGIONAL HISTORY CENTER, ORLANDO
The Orange County Regional History Center in downtown Orlando created an exhibit to showcase some of Watermark’s most memorable moments and important stories within the local LGBTQ+ community over the last three decades. The exhibit is located on the fourth floor of The History Center. General admission into The History Center is $8. For more information, visit TheHistoryCenter.org.
OMAR LIVE community calendar
Pride in Business Awards and Gala
SATURDAY, SEPT. 21, 7-10 P.M. HARD ROCK CAFÉ, ORLANDO
The Pride Chamber hosts its annual Pride in Business Awards & Gala on Sept. 21, from 7-10 p.m., with a VIP Reception beginning at 6 p.m., at the Hard Rock Café at Universal’s CityWalk. Gala tickets are $250 for members and $300 for non-members. For tickets and information, go to ThePrideChamber.org.
TAMPA BAY
The Sugar Party
SUNDAY, SEPT. 15, 6-10 P.M. THE ITALIAN CLUB, TAMPA
Join the GaYBOR District Coalition for a night of opulence, extravagance and, of course, sugar! Get ready to tantalize your taste buds with an array of mouthwatering desserts, sip on crafted cocktails and immerse yourself in unforgettable entertainment. Tickets begin at $40 with access to a sampling of desserts and more. Visit Facebook.com/ GaYborDistrictCoalition for more details.
Mr. & Miss Tampa Pride Pageant
SUNDAY, SEPT. 22, 6 P.M. SOUTHERN NIGHTS, TAMPA
Tampa Pride will be hosting the Mr. & Miss Tampa Pride Pageant featuring emcee Esme Russell, the esteemed first Miss Tampa Pride. Performances include 2024 representatives Charlotte Diamond Star and Dante Valentino. Tickets are $15 in advance and $20 at the door. Learn more at TampaPride.org.
EVENT PLANNER
CENTRAL FLORIDA
“Pippin,” Through Sept. 16, Garden Theatre, Winter Garden. 407-877-4736; GardenTheatre.org
Drag Queen Brunch, Sept. 15, Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino, Tampa. 866-388-4263; Casino. HardRock.com/Tampa
“Far Far Away: Les Vixens’ ‘Shrek’-inspired Burlesque Show,” Sept. 19, Southern Nights, Tampa. 813-559-8625; Facebook.com/ SouthernNightsTampa
HIDE Leather Night, Sept. 20, Cocktail, St. Petersburg. 727-592-1914; CocktailStPete.com
Celebrate the Power of the Arts Fundraiser, Sept. 20-21, New Tampa Performing Arts Theater, Tampa. Powerstories.com/ArtsCelebration-2024
H2O Pool Party with The Cheaters, Sept. 22, Hollander Hotel, St. Petersburg. 727-873-7900; Facebook.com/ TheCheatersMusic
“Bohemian Rhapsody” Sing-Along, Sept. 22, Tampa Theatre, Tampa. 813-274-8981; TampaTheatre.org
SARASOTA
Project Pride’s September Disco Brunch, Sept. 15, Embassy Suites by Hilton, Sarasota. PPSRQ.org
To submit your upcoming event, concert, performance, or fundraiser visit watermarkonline.com.
Omar Apollo brings his “God Said No World Tour” to the Orlando Amphitheater at the Central Florida Fairgrounds Sept. 17. PHOTO FROM OMARAPOLLO.COM
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