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DON’T HAVE KIDS. I’M NOT SURE I

ever wanted them. There may have been a time in my late 20’s or early 30’s where I tried to convince my bestie to go halvsies on making one. She wasn’t in the mood, and by the time she was we were both too old to have the energy.

It’s not that I don’t like children. I’m with Whitney, I believe they are the future. At times, I even find them to be inspiring. Recently, at Halloween on Central in St Petersburg, I saw the most remarkable thing. Two friends, they couldn’t have been older than five years each, were surprised to see each other. The young girl reached into her bag of treats and pulled out a little container with orange slime and gave it to the young boy.

“This is for you,” she said. “It’s orange slime. You can have it.”

His face lit up and he hugged her. It was pure and it was innocence. Of course, my initial thought was to lean down and tell them to never watch cable news

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and stay happy forever. Instead I just gave them some candy and said “Happy Halloween.”

There is a downside to kids, though. They can be loud, messy and they cry a lot — like me during the last season of “Ted Lasso.” However, the worst thing about children are the adults who use them as weapons.

I was reminded of this the other day during the keynote address at The Pride Chamber’s Pride in Business Awards. Todd Delmay, LGBTQ+ rights activist and history-making marriage equality plaintiff, reminded us all of orange juice aficionado Anita Bryant and her crusade against LGBTQ+ couples adopting children.

She had to save the children!

From what? Loving parents?

If you think straight parents are better, I encourage you to read Britney Spears’ book “The Woman in Me.” Recently the battle to save the children attacked drag queens.

I have to say, I didn’t see this one coming. Especially since I have been to Drag Queen Story Hour.

It’s awesome. Kids really enjoy it and the kind souls who host it are delightful. I could ask the question, “Have those protesting these events ever been to one?”

I’m sure we know the answer.

The reading materials are light and fun. The book about the two male penguins keeping an egg safe is delightful. It’s not sexual and it doesn’t sexualize children. I’ve always found that those complaining about the sexualization of children are actually the ones sexualizing them. Let’s be real though, the argument was never that children were being groomed or sexualized. It has always been homophobia.

Now we are living through a war on the transgender community. This one I will never understand. The idea of blocking medical treatment for adults is insane to me. I’ve watched “Botched” and seen what people are allowed to do to themselves, but gender-affirming care for yourself being attacked? For what? You guessed it — for the children.

I had the displeasure of watching an episode of “Real Time with Bill Maher” in which he wrongly, in my opinion, talked about gender-neutral, nonbinary and transgender kids. I should confess, I had been a fan of Bill Maher for years. I used to watch “Politically Incorrect” and dream of taking over for him when he retired. I no longer watch his show. I was cognizant of his growing distain for trans rights

but it was his reference to cutting the penis of 8-year-olds that made his show unbearable for me to watch. He was spewing talking points of ignorance, whether it was part of his “comedy” or not, it was wrong. Perpetuating the fallacy that gender reassignment surgery was taking place on 8-year-olds is absurd.

That level of ignorance isn’t something only straight people own. Sadly, it’s common in our own community. That’s why Watermark set out to explain what gender-affirming care is, looking at the myths and explaining the actual benefit children experience from it. I encourage you to read it and educate yourself on

If you are so concerned about the welfare of children, then do something about guns and leave the queer community alone.

what gender-affirming care really means.

To those who support Anita Bryant (who has a legally wed lesbian granddaughter now) and the governor in their quest to protect kids from loving families and the family friendly entertainment of a drag queen reading a book: If you are so concerned about the welfare of children, then do something about guns and leave the queer community alone.

We strive to bring you a variety of stories, your stories. I hope you enjoy this latest issue.

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ONEPULSE NOT MOVING FORWARD WITH MUSEUM Jeremy Williams

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RLANDO | Orange County confirmed that the onePULSE Foundation has notified Mayor Jerry L. Demings that the organization will not move forward with its planned Pulse museum.

Demings was officially notified in a letter from onePULSE’s board of directors and executive director after both sides met for a meeting Oct. 27.

“Earlier today, I met with the onePULSE Foundation to discuss the status of its proposed museum project,” Demings said in a statement. “The Foundation presented a letter from its board, expressing their decision to no longer proceed with the project.

I understand how difficult this decision was for the foundation and the future of the organization is uncertain. The circumstances have taken an emotional toll on the families and survivors of the Pulse tragedy, as we continue to honor the 49 angels. I will be scheduling a Board of County Commission meeting to update the Board and make determinations regarding the next steps for Orange County. We will continue to keep the community informed.”

Orange County’s commissioners unanimously approved up to $10 million in hotel-tax revenue (TDT) to the foundation for a museum on Oct. 30, 2018. The funds were expressly limited to the purchase of the property and design costs for the museum.

According to information sent by Orange County, the foundation did not receive a lump sum of $10 million, rather $3.5 million was paid at the closing for the 1.7 acres of land at 438 W. Kaley St. that was purchased for the museum and $3 million for design services was paid as the design process progressed and the services were invoiced by the foundation from November 2019-March 2023. In the county’s email, they state that aside from providing the funds, Orange County has not played any role in the design of the museum.

The county further states that under its contract with the foundation, the purchased land will be turned over to the county and if sold, the proceeds will be returned to the TDT reserves. The $3 million spent by the foundation on design work cannot be recovered, the county stated. The remaining $3.5 million — unspent from the original grant — remains in the TDT reserves.

“With all of the recent developments, the onePULSE Foundation Board of Trustees is in the process of reevaluating its mission to make sure it aligns with the new realities,” said onePULSE executive director Deborah Bowie in a statement Oct. 27. “We will keep everyone updated as those discussions evolve and decisions are made as to the best way to honor the lives of the 49 Angels and all those impacted by the Pulse tragedy.”

No TDT funds were used towards the attempted development of a Pulse memorial. City commissioners voted unanimously Oct. 23 to purchase the Pulse nightclub property for $2 million making way for a permanent memorial to be built at that location by the City of Orlando.

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HELPING HANDS: Abrigando Corazones distributes clothes and toys to children during a Trunk or Treat event with QLatinx. PHOTO BY ANDRES ACOSTA ARDILA

Community Drive Abrigando Corazones works to bring dignity to all Andres Acosta Ardila

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RLANDO | Clothing has the power to change how we perceive ourselves, and for many individuals in Central Florida it is a necessity that is lacking.

That’s why one local activist has launched a new initiative working to bring dignity to all.

Yosmar Rumbos is a Venezuelan immigrant that is no stranger to losing it all. He had to restart his life with just the belongings in his suitcase after fleeing the dire situation in his homeland. He remembers the struggle of cycling through the same articles of clothing as a way to get by while he rebuilt his life in the U.S. “I felt ashamed and feared the judgmental stares of others,” says Rumbos. “I’m blessed to have been able to rebuild my life and I want to be the one that helps others do the same, starting with the basics.”

This desire to help is what led him to create Abrigando Corazones. The initiative started as a simple clothing drive for newly arriving immigrants in the area.

“It was something small but I saw what a big impact it had on others,” he says.

Soon he started making homecooked meals in his apartment and distributing them to the homeless population around the holidays. He was doing everything out of pocket and with help from friends that would donate to help him cover the costs of the operation.

“It was a lot but I did it with pleasure because I knew I was making a difference,” Rumbos says.

Soon he found himself at capacity with an apartment full of clothes and high energy bills from all the laundry he was doing.

“I knew it was not sustainable but I wanted to keep going,” he says. “I needed help.”

Rumbos started a job at Pineapple Healthcare as a medical assistant. Here he met Jose Aguilar, founder of Aguilar Salud, along with Pineapple Healthcare’s leadership, Ethan and Erick Suarez, who were able to give him the tools necessary to expand his initiative.

“Jose believed in me,” Rumbos says. “He walked me through

the steps I needed to grow my initiative into a program of Aguilar Salud. Ethan and Eric invested in my program, thanks to them I have the basic things I need to continue my work.”

Abrigando Corazones continues to collect clothing for the community and has developed partnerships with the Hispanic Office of Local Assistance, Episcopal Church Jesus of Nazareth and QLatinx to do monthly events where he brings the clothing he personally washes and selects himself.

Rumbos is developing new partnerships to bring more to the community including with Avita Pharmacies to provide hygiene necessities and Pineapple Healthcare and Aguilar Salud to offer low and no cost HIV prevention and services.

He has also partnered with L.O.U.D. Central Florida for the Dignidad Para Todos Clothing and Toy Drive.

“Every time I go out into the community and have toys, parents are excited to receive them and with the holidays coming up I want to be able to give parents with low resources the ability to give their kids some joy,” Rumbos says.

The clothing and toy drive is going on now until Nov. 30. Those looking to contribute can bring new or gently used clothing and toys to Pineapple Healthcare Monday-Friday, 11 a.m.-2 p.m.

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S TRAGIC NIGHT: Ybor’s 7th Ave. in the early hours of Oct. 29.

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AMPA | Detectives charged Tyrell Stephen Phillips, 22, with second degree murder Oct. 29 after two people were killed and 16 others were injured in an Ybor shooting.

Tampa Police Chief Lee Bercaw said during a news conference that at least two shooters opened fire just before 3 a.m. in Ybor, home to LGBTQ+ establishments like Bradley’s on 7th and the site of Tampa Pride’s annual celebration.

Families identified the victims as Elijah Jaquan Wilson, 14, and Harrison Boonstoppel, 20.

Of those injured, 15 were treated for gunshot wounds and one was treated for other serious injuries. The majority were released from the hospital by Oct. 29, when two handguns were in custody as well, one that was stolen and one that was not.

“We make arrests quickly and with a sense of urgency,” Bercaw said. “If you commit a crime in Tampa, you are going to pay for it and you are going to be charged.”

Tampa Mayor Jane Castor joined Bercaw during a press conference Oct. 29, decrying the violence and calling for action.

“Once again, we are confronted with the senseless loss of life as disputes are resolved with firearms,” she also said in a release.

“Lives have been tragically cut short and others irrevocably altered — but to what end?

“The Tampa Police Department had 50 officers deployed in the area at the time, who responded within seconds of the shooting, underscoring that this is not a law enforcement issue,” she continued. “Bad decisions made in a split second, coupled with the widespread availability of guns, are responsible for this tragedy. We can control one half of this equation.”

In response to the shooting, the GaYBOR District Coalition cancelled its Halloween bar crawl scheduled for Oct. 29. They subsequently called on members of the community to “show extra love to all bartenders servers and staff” as businesses in the district began to reopen late Oct. 29. “It’s not easy to return back to work from what occurred last night.”

The Hillsborough County LGBTQ Democratic Caucus, which calls Ybor its “home away from home,” shared their condolences Oct. 29.

“Our hearts go out to the victims, families, and friends impacted by the events that took place last night,” the organization shared via social media. “We are here to provide support to the Ybor community in any way that they need. Please check in on your friends and family, and reach out to us if you need any support.”

Tampa Pride said the organization was “deeply saddened about a tragic event.”

“Our hearts truly go out to the victims and their families during this incredibly tough time,” they shared via social media. “It’s moments like these that remind us about the significance of creating a safe and secure community for all of us.”

On Nov. 2, Tampa City Council heard a proposal to temporarily require Ybor businesses to close at 1 a.m., a measure supported by Castor. LGBTQ+ and ally business leaders and community members called on the governing body to reject the notion, which will not move forward at this time.

The shooting remains an active and ongoing investigation. As of press time, two additional parties are being sought.

Anyone with information that can assist in the investigation is asked to call Tampa PD at 813-231-6130 or contact Crimestoppers of Tampa Bay at 800-873-TIPS. Members of the public can also submit texts, photos or videos that will be routed directly to investigators at FBI.gov/TampaShooting.

T. PETERSBURG | Come OUT St. Pete announced Oct. 28 that their signature Family Day Celebration, originally scheduled for Oct. 14, will now be held Nov. 11 from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. at Seminole Park.

COSP’s seventh annual celebration honoring National Coming Out Day was postponed on Oct. 13. The organization cited “potential uncooperative weather on the horizon” and “lower than expected participation” in a previously scheduled Chili Cook-Off. They advised “we wouldn’t be able to provide the vibrant competition and diverse tasting experience that we know our community loves and deserves.”

The organization also noted via social media that “we’ve made this difficult decision based on several factors that promise to impact the success and enjoyment of our event.”

“This decision was made after careful consideration to the impact of ALL involved in our community, with an ultimate desire for the best possible community experience now and in the future,” COSP Chair Pat Fearns added.

COSP 2023 will no longer feature the cook-off but will include multiple vendors and performances from fan favorite entertainers. Singer Jennifer Real will perform live with additional music provided by DJ Jayson Chancey.

Miss COSP Veronica Vixen and Mr. Silver Foxx will also entertain those in attendance. They were crowned in September.

“This past year’s court was exceptionally productive and did a lot in the community,” Fearns shared at the time. “I’m really looking forward to working with Veronica Vixen and Silver Foxx and seeing the freshness that they can bring to COSP Royal Court experience.”

The duo will be joined by Christina Moore and Mr. Nasir Love, runners-up in this year’s pageant. Those in attendance will also unveil the organization’s 375-foot Progress Pride flag at 2:30 p.m.

“Join local vendors and nonprofit organizations as we continue to celebrate a world unified around a culture of hearts and minds that values acceptance, freedom of expression, love and equality for ALL LGBTQIA+ people!” COSP said in a press release.

Proceeds will benefit the organization’s Longstreth Family Scholarship and other local endeavors.

“We are excited to continue the annual family day celebration again this year,” Fearns says. “It’s sure to be a great time for the entire greater Tampa Bay LGBTQIA+ community.”

COSP 2023 will be held Nov. 11 from 11 a.m.–3 p.m. at Seminole Park, located at 2900 Third Ave. N. in St. Petersburg. Learn more at ComeOutSt.Pete.org and read the official 2023 Come OUT St. Pete Guide published by Watermark at WatermarkOnline.com.

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EQUALITY FLORIDA INVITES LGBTQ+ ADVOCATES TO CAPITOL Austin Hatch

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ALLAHASSEE | Equality Florida has announced their 2024 Pride at the Capitol Kick-Off will be held Jan. 16-17 from 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m. to advocate for LGBTQ+ and other marginalized Floridians.

In an email to supporters Nov. 3, they advised “we’ve already seen the damage [Gov. Ron] DeSantis’ rubber-stamping Republican supermajority can inflict, passing bills that take away our freedoms, censor our voices and infringe on our rights.”

DeSantis signed four explicitly anti-LGBTQ+ bills into law earlier this year, several of which face ongoing legal challenges. They included House Bill 1069, the “Don’t Say Gay or Trans” expansion; Senate Bill 254, a gender-affirming care ban; House Bill 1521, prohibiting trans Floridians from using certain bathrooms that align with their gender identity and House Bill 1423, restricting youth participation at certain “adult live performances,” used to target drag.

Equality Florida is seeking LGBTQ+ and ally Floridians to show their support for the community by providing opportunities to testify at committee hearings, meet with lawmakers, take part in rallies and speak to the media. Attendees are also provided with insider briefing from state lawmakers before breaking into teams for small group meetings.

“We know DeSantis plans to expand his agenda of censorship and government control,” Equality Florida Public Policy Director Jon Harris Maurer shared. “We need to be ready to show up and speak out for our rights and freedoms.

“Join hundreds of Floridians from across the state as we share our stories with lawmakers, work to defeat bills that harm our communities and make it clear to DeSantis that we’re not going anywhere,” he concluded.

You can RSVP for Pride at the Capitol at Equality Florida’s website. Registration is $15 per attendee or $5 for students with ID, which helps cover a portion of the costs for training material and meals. Scholarships are available for those who are facing financial hardship.

Equality Florida also solicited for support Nov. 3 via social media.

“This Fall, hundreds of you ... shared your stories, letting our elected officials know that DeSantis’ agenda of censorship and government control will not stand, and that we will not stop until every child is protected and every family is respected,” they wrote. “Our work isn’t done. We’re heading into the 60 most dangerous days in Florida: Legislative Session. Are you in?”

Pride at the Capitol 2024 will be held Jan. 16-17 from 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m. at the Challenger Learning Center of Tallahassee, located at 200 S. Duval St. in Tallahassee. For information about local hotels, the event and more, visit EQFL.org.

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DESANTIS APPEALS RULING AGAINST DRAG BAN Brody Levesque of The Los Angeles Blade, Courtesy of the National LGBT Media Association

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ALLAHASSEE | Gov. Ron DeSantis’ administration filed an emergency stay motion Oct. 24 to the U.S. Supreme Court in an effort to enforce restrictions on drag shows.

Last month the Atlanta-based 11th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals upheld a lower court ruling that the Protection of Children Act posed a threat to constitutionally-protected free speech and expression and affirmed that the block of the law would stand for the entire state of Florida.

In the 167-page filing to SCOTUS, Florida Solicitor General

Henry Whitaker wrote of the decision upheld by the 11th Circuit: ”As long as the district court’s preliminary injunction remains in place, Florida is powerless to enforce a law its elected representatives have enacted for the protection of its children.”

In June, U.S. District Judge Gregory Presnell in his 24-page ruling noted: “The state claims that this statute seeks to protect children generally from obscene live performances. However, as explained [in court filings], Florida already has statutes that provide such protection.”

The 11th Circuit in its ruling upholding Presnell wrote: “There are also important practical reasons to let the injunction stand pending a full trial on the merits.

First, the potential harms from reversing the injunction outweigh those of leaving it in place by

mistake. Where a prosecution is a likely possibility, yet only an affirmative defense is available, speakers may self-censor rather than risk the perils of trial. There is a potential for extraordinary harm and a serious chill upon protected speech. The harm done from letting the injunction stand pending a trial on the merits, in contrast, will not be extensive.

No prosecutions have yet been undertaken under the law, so none will be disrupted if the injunction stands. Further, if the injunction is upheld, the government in the interim can enforce obscenity laws already on the books.”

The emergency application was submitted to Justice Clarence Thomas, who presides over appeals from the 11th Circuit. As of press time, a response has not been issued.

“Surveillance video captured the moments after the fatal shooting on Oct. 23 outside an apartment on Northwest 93rd Street,” they reported. “A man is seen running from the crime scene with a gun in his hand.”

“London had so many friends and family members who loved her but are now filled with grief following her tragic killing,” HRC Director of Community Engagement for the Transgender Justice Initiative Tori Cooper said in a press release. “We must stop the epidemic of violence targeting transgender and non-binary people and the national crisis of gun violence. This crisis is especially treacherous for Black and Brown transgender women.”

The organization also noted that London is the fifth transgender or gender non-conforming person to be killed in Oct. 2023. Transgender Day of Remembrance, the annual observance honoring lives lost in acts of anti-transgender violence, is Nov. 20; a vigil for Price was held ahead of time at the TDoR Memorial Tree of Pride Park in Miami Beach, organized

by The McKenzie Project and other organizations.

In a press release Oct. 28, the Florida LGBTQ+ Democratic Caucus said Price’s murder is “the type of violence tacitly encouraged” by Gov. Ron DeSantis and the State Legislature.

Florida enacted a number of anti-LGBTQ+ laws this year, many of which specifically targeted trans Floridians.

“Whether anti-transgender violence, gun violence or other expressions of bigotry it must stop,” Florida LBGTQ+ Democratic President Nathan Bruemmer said.

“Our governor constantly attempts to marginalize transgender and non binary Floridians. Our governor and the legislature put together laws that say it’s OK to discriminate, and in their speeches they’ve suggested that we’re not worthy of respect or protection.

“Indeed, they have stood with right wing figures who use religion to call for direct violence,” he continued. “And they’ve passed laws that make guns more available to those who would commit crimes like the murder of London Price.”

ARREST MADE IN TRANS WOMAN’S MURDER Ryan Williams-Jent

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IAMI | Local authorities arrested and charged Anthony Quinn Peyton with second-degree murder Oct. 31 in connection to the murder of London Price, a trans woman who was fatally shot Oct. 23.

According to the Human Rights Campaign, Price’s death is the 25th known violent killing of a transgender or gender nonconforming person in 2023.

The 26-year-old Floridian was described by family as “always beautiful” and someone who would “give you the shirt off her back.”

Equality Florida shared the news Oct. 25, noting that the organization is working with transgender leaders in South Florida to connect with Price’s family. “Our hearts are with London’s family and friends as they grieve and seek justice during this difficult time,” they noted.

According to South Florida ABC affiliate WPLG Local 10, Peyton has been identified as Price’s ex-boyfriend and was arrested in Fort Lauderdale.

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25 YEARS AFTER MATTHEW SHEPARD’S DEATH, ACTIVISTS SAY LGBTQ+ RIGHTS AT RISK Wire Report

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t’s been 25 years since Matthew Shepard, a gay 21-year-old University of Wyoming student, died six days after he was savagely beaten by two young men and tied to a remote fence to meet his fate.

His death has been memorialized as an egregious hate crime that helped fuel the LGBTQ+ rights movement over the ensuing years.

From the perspective of the movement’s activists — some of them on the front lines since the 1960s — progress was often agonizingly slow, but it was steady.

But any perception back then that the long struggle for equality had been won has been belied by events over the past two years.

Five people were killed last year in a mass shooting at an LGBTQ+ nightclub in Colorado. More than 20 Republican-controlled states have enacted an array of anti-LGBTQ+ laws including bans on sports participation and certain medical care for young transgender people, as well as restrictions on how schools can broach LGBTQ+-related topics.

“Undoubtedly we’ve made huge progress, but it’s all at risk,” said Kevin Jennings, the CEO of Lambda Legal, which has been litigating against some of the new anti-LGBTQ+ laws. “Anybody who thinks that once you’ve won rights they’re safe doesn’t understand history. The opponents of equality never give up. They’re like the Terminator — they’re not going to stop coming until they take away your rights.”

Some of the new laws are directed broadly at the entire LGBTQ+ community, such as Florida’s so-called “Don’t Say Gay or Trans” law, which imposes bans and restrictions on lessons in public schools about sexual orientation and gender identity.

But in many of the GOP-governed states — including Florida — the prime target of legislation has been transgender people.

In addition to measures addressing medical treatments and sports participation, some laws restrict using the pronouns trans students use in classrooms.

Rodrigo Heng-Lehtinen, executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equality,

depicted the legislative attacks as “the backlash to our progress.”

“We made so much progress as an LGBTQ movement, at a fast pace compared to other social justice movements,” he said. “You do have a minority who is overwhelmingly upset by it. They are fired up and they are well-resourced.”

Heng-Lehtinen is optimistic for the long term but said that right now, “trans people across the country are really struggling with feeling any kind of hope.”

The key to changing the current dynamic is for more people in GOP-governed states to get to know and understand trans people, said James Esseks, director of the American Civil Liberties Union’s LGBTQ & HIV Project.

“But the efforts of the other side are designed to stop that from happening,” Esseks said. “They want trans people to disappear — no health care, can’t use public restrooms, can’t have a government ID consistent with who you are, and the schools can’t teach about the existence of trans people.”

competition that was first held in San Francisco in 1982.

Following the procession of athletes, a series of performances followed, highlighting Hong Kong’s Chinese culture, but also incorporating modern dance, musical theater and lion dancers.

LGBTQ+ activism is a rare spot that is still making considerable progress in Hong Kong under a government crackdown on its civil society following the 2019 pro-democracy protests.

The city is also moving toward a framework for recognizing same-sex partnerships following a landmark ruling in September.

But the city’s LGBTQ+ development is uneven. There is no law against discrimination based on sexual orientation and same-sex marriage is not recognized. While there is growing social acceptance

for sexual minorities, especially among the younger generation, a portion of the local society remains conservative.

The event has encountered various challenges since the organizers won the bid to host the games six years ago, with limited support from the government.

The COVID-19 pandemic not only forced a year-long delay of the event but also indirectly led to its downsizing. This occurred when Guadalajara in Mexico was named as a co-host for the games.

Concerns about the security law — which has been used to arrest some of Hong Kong’s leading human rights activists — have deterred some LGBTQ+ supporters from visiting Hong Kong.

Hong Kong and Beijing have defended the security law saying it brought back stability to the city.

GAY GAMES 2023 OPEN IN HONG KONG Wire Report

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ONG KONG | Scores of athletes celebrated the opening of the Gay Games in Hong Kong Nov. 4 despite opposition from anti-LGBTQ+ lawmakers, marking the first time the international sporting event is being held in Asia.

Nearly 2,400 participants from about 45 territories, including Britain, the United States and Australia, are competing in a variety of games, from tennis and swimming to culturally rich activities like dragon boat racing and mahjong in the nine-day event.

The games are being held concurrently in the Mexican city of Guadalajara featuring many of the same events, a first for the

IN OTHER NEWS NHL REVERSES BAN ON PRIDE SUPPORT The National Hockey League confirmed on its website Oct. 24 that it has reversed a decision from earlier in the month to prohibit its players from placing tape on their hockey sticks representing social causes, including rainbow-colored Pride tape in support of the LGBTQ+ community. The reversal by the NHL came after a groundswell of opposition surfaced opposing the ban from a wide range of LGBTQ+ and LGBTQ+ supportive sports organizations as well as from some NHL team hockey players. The national LGBTQ advocacy organization GLAAD was among the organizations speaking out against the Pride tape ban.

MPOX VACCINATIONS STILL RECOMMENDED FOR HIGH-RISK MEN Gay and bisexual men at high risk for mpox infection should get vaccinated for the virus even after the current outbreak ends, government health advisers said Oct. 25. The committee’s recommendation now goes to the director to the CDC and — if she signs off on it — is sent out as guidance to U.S. doctors. More than 30,000 U.S. mpox cases were reported last year.

The number dropped dramatically this year, to about 800. But because the virus doesn’t naturally circulate in the U.S., any single case counts as an outbreak, according to the CDC.

BUD LIGHT SALES STILL STRUGGLING IN NORTH AMERICA Anheuser-Busch Inbev said Oct. 31 that revenue growth in most of its global regions was offset by a drop in North American sales, blamed on its partnership earlier this year with trans influencer Dylan Mulvaney. The world’s largest brewer and parent company of Bud Light said adjusted earnings for the latest quarter rose 4.1% to $5.4 billion on revenues that climbed 5% to $15.6 billion. Revenue in the U.S. for the July-September period, however, tumbled 13.5%.

AB InBev, based in Leuven, Belgium, noted that sales to retailers were down “primarily due to the volume decline of Bud Light.”

HUNGARY BANS TEENS FROM WORLD PRESS PHOTO EXHIBIT People under 18 are barred from visiting this year’s World Press Photo exhibition at Hungary’s National Museum in Budapest, after the country’s right-wing populist government said some of its photos violate a contentious law restricting LGBTQ+ content. The country’s cultural ministry found that a set of five photos by Filipino photojournalist Hannah Reyes Morales violates a Hungarian law that prohibits the display of LGBTQ+ content to minors. The prestigious global photo exhibition receives more than 4 million visitors from around the world every year. Now, even with parental consent, those under 18 are no longer allowed to visit the exhibition.

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Coming Out OR MANY YEARS, AS AN

out and proud gay man, I have been asked many things in my life, from the insidious questioning of my “choice” to the more wishful curiosity of coming out stories.

I have been personally privileged to listen to many first-kiss stories from many friends and acquaintances over the years, but the one question I am never able to fully answer is: “Jerick, when did you come out?” The reality is that, as I peruse my memory to find a semblance of a coming out story, I come up with nothing because the truth is, and this is my first official confession into the Waterverse, I never really came out.

Now, I am sure that you may be thinking that this is the ideal scenario for every LGBTQIA+ individual – a world where people don’t even have to come out because we are loved and accepted for who we are, yada, yada – cute, but far from reality. My truth can be a bit murkier than the optimistic desire for this reality to one day be achievable for everyone. For many, coming out serves as a sort of rite of passage, like the famous allegory of a caterpillar getting their wings and flying out as a colorful butterfly. For others, this stage of their lives holds a space of trauma, pain and disillusionment; sometimes even worse than that.

For many, however, coming out is actually a tearful embrace with their true selves, and the communities that support them, although these stories are still very scarce. Coming out stories are all very personal, specific and are by no means set in stone, because like graduating from high school, coming out is just the beginning of the hardest part in life for an LGBTQ+ person.

Let me paint you a little picture about why I don’t have a proper coming out story. I grew up in rural Puerto Rico, the youngest of four siblings. I have always theorized that my expressing more LGBTQ+ characteristics and likes from a very early age was never really met with rejection from my parents because they were already tired from raising my other siblings. I’ve always counted that as a plus on my side.

My community was like any Hispanic community everywhere: Catholic, conservative, keenly informed about everyone’s whereabouts and never afraid to offer uninvited opinions about everything under the scorching sun.

I never had a girlfriend — ever — but I was always surrounded by girls in school and certainly preferred being in their company than having to painfully overcompensate for masculinity with the “cool” guys in the corner — you know, the bullies. I was called maricón (the gay f-word), and pato (queer) plus the numerous childish hand gestures behind my back yet I never experienced being physically threatened for it. Remember, at this point I had never expressed that I was gay. At home, I felt safe, protected and loved and my life was as normal as it comes. Even when I started bringing my “friends” home, my family was always welcoming and inclusive, given that we would behave like friends would. You know, no public displays of affection ever.

But an interesting dynamic would arise when my “friend” and my family would go out in public.

Things were a bit tense, dry and less enthused.

Interestingly enough, this dynamic of coming out is not just an individual process, because there is a communal coming out story as well.

Recently, as I was sitting down with my friend, Angela Martinez, at a Pride event, she educated me on the coming out process for families, a concept I learned right there for the first time, and totally brought together so many nuances of how we try to tie together our identities with our communities (family included) throughout this process. Angela mentioned that for parents of LGBTQ+ kids, there is a long process of understanding what this entails, how to approach questions and stares from

other family and friends.

This process can take a long time, whether the family decides to work it out together or bring a trusted advisor in, and determines the agony or relief that coming out stories are made of. I think that for my parents, it took a

I am estranged from. My relationship with my family is stronger today than it ever was and we have never been emotionally detached, nor absent.

This dichotomy of mine, where I was never really pushed to nor repressed from coming out, is a weird

individual. Yet, the coming out stories I have heard have shaped my view on the absolute need for more visibility, because those are the stories that break the mold, bend the rules and help shape minds into understanding the wonders of safe spaces, those

The one question I am never able to fully answer is: ‘Jerick, when did you come out’? while between their denial period and shock once they realized that there was no daughter-in-law coming from my side any time soon, a period of time where I, without ever touching the chapter on “coming out,” left home and started making a life of my own outside that community. Now, I don’t want you to think about my family as a distant entity

gray space that has always made me wonder what it would have felt like if I ever thought this was needed, useful or transformational.

Even as time passed by and I returned to visit my family and community, it felt less and less of a necessary ritual for me, and I guess that is what people mean when they say that coming out is personal, and very

sorely needed in town and within hearts.

Because I am finally in the safest space I have ever had, it is time for me to finally come out.

Mom, Dad, familia: I am happy!

Jerick Mediavilla is a former journalist from Mexico City, an educator in Central Florida and a human rights activist for the LGBTQ community.

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UNAPOLOGETICALLY ME Our New Chapter

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T HAS BEEN QUITE A YEAR,

one full of challenges, valuable lessons and unexpected blessings, and I’m feeling pretty worn out.

It’s exhausting to witness all the violence, hate and trauma that we humans inflict on one another — but precious moments of joy and genuine connection exist amidst the challenges. I’m grateful for the chance to continue growing and learning, even if that means sacrificing my comfort.

Let’s embark on a transformative adventure that empowers you to live life on your own terms. It’s time for an intentional audit and reset. Through this process we’ll begin to understand who we are at our core and become aware of any limiting beliefs or habits that may be holding us back.

The first step is to fully embrace who you are. It’s time to shed negative core beliefs about ourselves, the judgments of others and to celebrate your uniqueness.

Self-acceptance is the cornerstone of authenticity.

Start by writing down three things that make you authentically you. These could be your quirks, morals, talents or values. Embrace these aspects and let them shine. Reflect on past achievements and celebrate accomplishments large and small.

Next it’s time to learn from the challenges, which are opportunities for growth and change. To make the most of them, you need to reflect on what you’ve learned. To be aware of toxic cycles, you need to face the parts of yourself you avoid or don’t like.

Don’t shy away from the difficult moments.

Identify the most significant challenges you faced and jot down the lessons you learned — these will be your guiding lights in the year ahead and help you chart your course for 2024. Set Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound (SMART) goals to ensure that you have clear objectives that can be realistically achieved.

It’s also important to prioritize self-care, which is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Take note, however, how much of a privilege it is to be able to consistently invest in yourself — on any level-from finding a safe space to sleep to scheduling that long overdue doctor’s appointment. It’s about nourishing your

physical, mental and emotional well-being.

Create a self-care routine that includes activities like meditation, exercise, reading or any other practices that help you relax and recharge. Safety and consistency are key.

In life, having a strong support network is invaluable, so build it.

Surround yourself with people or places who uplift, inspire and understand you. Reach out to those who support and believe in you in healthy, positive, reciprocal ways. Cultivate these relationships by actively being there for them in return.

As you reset your path, it’s also essential to understand that saying “no” when necessary is not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of self-respect and boundary-setting. Practice saying no to commitments or requests that don’t align with your goals or values.

It’s liberating to reclaim your time and energy for what truly matters.

Personal growth is a lifelong journey, so invest in yourself through learning, self-improvement and acquiring new skills. Identify an area of personal growth you’d like to pursue. It could be taking a course, starting mental health therapy or improving a skill that aligns with your goals. Commit to this investment — you are worth it.

You must also protect your peace. Every journey is unique and it’s absolutely fine to create your own version of success. You don’t need to compare yourself to others, and you certainly don’t have to let anyone else’s opinions dictate your choices.

Focus on your own well-being and prioritize your inner peace, staying true to yourself and seeking out the things that truly bring you stillness.

Remember to stay aware of your body and mind with the people, places and things that drain your energy or

bring negativity into your life. Your journey is yours to embrace and navigate, and it’s a beautiful adventure waiting to unfold.

Thoroughly assess your social and professional networks and evaluate your inner circles.

Deliberately curate the

clear goals. These are all essential aspects of this process. Investing in your personal growth, celebrating your community, and rediscovering joy and passion will bring vibrancy and fulfillment to your life.

Remember, this is your year to be unapologetically

empowerment as you take that bold step forward.

Say this affirmation with me: “I am embracing this new chapter with open arms, ready to explore uncharted territories and grow into the best version of myself. I am confident in my ability to navigate

It’s time for an intentional audit and reset. energy you associate with and be intentional with who you seek connection with and reconnect with your hobbies, interests and activities to help you rediscover joy and passion.

Embracing your true self and conducting an intentional audit is a powerful journey. It allows you to chart your path, celebrate your achievements, learn from challenges and set

you. The journey is not about perfection; it’s about growth, self-discovery and embracing your authenticity.

As you navigate this season with intention and purpose, may you find the strength and resilience within you to become the best version of yourself.

Seize the power to forge your own path, fearlessly and unapologetically.

Embrace personal transformation and

challenges, learn from experiences, and create a future filled with happiness, success, and fulfillment. I am the author of my own story, and I am excited to write this new chapter with purpose, passion and unwavering belief in my own potential.”

I love you!

Bianca Goolsby, MBA is a digital strategist and activist. She also empowers and equips families to curate safe social spaces for themselves and their children.

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Visibili-T JIYAH BOLDEN of community leaders and equity advocates from every background … to address themes and find solutions for the social and economic injustices that have marginalized Black communities and led to deep health disparities.”

“It opened my eyes to a lot of things that I just I wasn’t privy to,” Bolden says. “I see health disparities as a Black, trans woman around HIV and AIDS, but this was large scale. There are so many other things, like fibroids, cancer and more that people are not awarded the same treatment for. It opened my mind to something completely new and is exactly what inspired me to launch the network.”

The nonprofit’s programs include educational resources surrounding HIV/AIDS and much more, with services that provide mentorship, job readiness training and other essential support for entrepreneurs. BDN offers resume building, interview preparation, job assessments and business counseling.

“I feel like there’s a huge stigma around entrepreneurship not just for trans people, but people who are not white,” Bolden notes. “I hate to say it like that, but I feel like there’s a stigma that

entrepreneurship should be one way, and that’s not how it works.

“We want to help foster entrepreneurship, we want to help you find employment opportunities that are going to be tailored to your lifestyle, we don’t want people to go to jobs where they’re going to feel uncomfortable,” she continues.

“Guidance is huge for us, because a lot of times you have to create your own lane.”

Services are offered at no charge to those in Tampa Bay and Central Florida, but also well beyond. Bolden says she and BDN’s board of directors — five additional community leaders and subject matter experts — are prepared to serve the community however possible.

Their work is detailed at length at BDNetwork.org.

“We’re ready,” Bolden notes.

“Truly, we’ve been working hard to get this created and we’re finally launching, and we’re finally getting sponsors to help start the process so we can provide resources and just do what we can.”

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transgender members of our community in Central Florida and Tampa Bay, some you know and many you don’t. It is designed to amplify their voices and detail their experiences in life.

In this issue we check in with Jiyah Bolden, a Lakeland resident with a background in cosmetology, healthcare services and more who’s no stranger to helping her community.

Among other accomplishments, she became the first openly transgender person to open a hair salon in Lakeland.

While the space closed in April, she used her entrepreneurial skills to launch a new nonprofit in September. Bolden is the founder of Be Diverse Network, which is committed to empowering transgender, gender non-conforming and non-binary individuals in a myriad of ways.

“Our mission is clear: to break the barriers that hinder

individuals from realizing their potential,” BDN’s website reads. “We’re here to provide equal access to employment opportunities, offer entrepreneurship guidance, and educate our community on HIV and AIDS, all while reducing the stigma associated with these issues.

“We envision a world where everyone, regardless of their background, can thrive, succeed and celebrate their uniqueness,” it continues. “Through advocacy, education and practical support, we are striving to build a more equitable and accepting society.”

Bolden’s personal experiences in the workforce are a key

part of what led her to create the organization.

“Being trans, I’ve dealt with several jobs that don’t typically work out and I’ve been discriminated against,” she explains. “I’m currently going through a lawsuit, actually — because once I closed the salon down, I got a job that didn’t work out well at all.”

Bolden says she was terminated from a position in healthcare recruitment after disclosing she was trans on an unrelated matter. The company cited her attendance.

“I had never been written up and had no corrective actions on file,” she explains. “None of that.

They want to settle because they know they did something wrong.”

A recent experience in Puerto Rico also led Bolden to found BDN. She works as a fellow for the Human Rights Campaign’s GenHERate program, which “was created to empower Black women in sexual and reproductive health topics and other health disparities that disproportionately impact them.”

It was through that partnership that she attended the 2023 State of Black Health Conference earlier this year. The gathering welcomes “hundreds

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The event was emceed by drag performer Mo Heart. The night featured musical performances by Iniko and Noah Cyrus, as well as pansexual actor Wayne Brady performing “I’ll Cover You” from the musical “RENT” with GLSEN Board Chair Wilson Cruz. Comic actresses Fortune Feimster and Sherri Cola and actor Leo Sheng were also on hand to introduce the night’s honorees. Attendees at the gala collectively pledged more than $108,000 toward GLSEN’s work in schools.

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BUSTING What is and isn’t gender-affirming care?

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Emily Dziuban

LARMS ARE LOUD, ATTENTION-

grabbing, dramatic, anxiety-inducing and action-provoking. Raising an alarm is an exceptionally effective tool for motivating people to do what you would like them to do.

The challenge for those of us hearing alarms is to employ enough knowledge and critical-thinking skills to recognize false alarms.

On the social media platform X on May 17, the day Gov. Ron DeSantis signed Florida Senate Bill 254 into law, he wrote that: “With my signature, Florida permanently prohibits genital mutilating surgical procedures and experimental puberty

blockers for minors. Minors given these procedures without their consent will now be able to recover damages for permanent injury or death caused by these medical experiments.”

Alarm! Genital mutilating surgical procedures for minors! Alarm!

Many LGBTQ+ activists and community leaders took to DeSantis’ post to discredit what he wrote and to point out his inaccuracies in it. One medical professional even took the time to post information for the governor on the many health care organizations that oppose his policy of restricting gender-affirming care for transgender youth. That list includes the American Medical Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Academy of Child CONTINUED ON PG. 28 | uu |

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and Adolescent Psychiatry, just to name a few.

Given comments like those from the Florida governor and others in political power, Watermark has decided to look at some of the myths surrounding gender-affirming care by consulting with experts and medical providers to get a clear, clinical and factual answer to the question: What exactly is and isn’t gender-affirming care, and what services are and aren’t being offered to Florida’s youth?

First, let’s look at what exactly SB 254 says and what it does, as well as where the community stands as far as legal challenges to the law. On the website FLSenate.gov, readers can find the full bill text of the now law entitled “Treatments for Sex Reassignment.” The bill is largely concerned with “a child present in this state … subjected to or is threatened with being subjected to sex reassignment prescriptions or procedures.”

A child, in the bill’s definition, is a person under 18 years of age. With defined exceptions, SB 254 prohibits gender-affirming care for children and requires additional steps for adults to receive gender-affirming care.

The ACLU of Florida’s position to oppose FL SB 254 summarizes potential consequences this way: “The bill criminalizes doctors for providing gender-affirming care to minors and allows a non-supportive parent to have the upper hand in child custody disputes in divorce proceedings if the other parent is supportive of their trans child’s health care. It imposes new onerous written consent procedures for gender-affirming care for adults, and requires that all care must be provided by an in-person physician.”

In May, when the bill was passed into law, Equality Florida, the state’s largest LGBTQ+ civil rights group, said in a statement: “The Gender Affirming Care Ban outlaws providing healthcare to transgender minors, including puberty blockers, hormone replacement therapy, and rare surgical interventions, stripping parents’ ability to seek medically-necessary health care for their children. While much of the bill proponents’ rhetoric focused on transgender youth,

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multiple bill provisions impact consenting transgender adults.

The bill bans government entities from offering them gender affirming healthcare insurance, restricts their ability to access TeleHealth for care in the way nearly all other healthcare can be delivered, and denies their ability to receive care from highly trained nurses that provide a large portion of the gender affirming care in the state. It also allows courts–not other state agencies–to exercise jurisdiction in limited cases to modify an existing custody agreement when a parent may seek access to care for their minor child in another state.”

The law is being challenged in Florida’s courts with U.S. District

WHAT IS GENDER AFFIRMATION?

Unlike sex assigned at birth, which is an assignment made to a child’s body based on a range of physical characteristics, gender identity is internal. Gender is how a person understands and experiences themselves. To affirm something is to publicly state it as a fact. So, gender-affirmation is publicly stating and reinforcing as true a person’s understanding of their gender. According to Drs. Kareen M. Matouk and Melina Wald with Columbia University’s Irving Medical Center/Gender Identity Program, “It is the community of people around them saying: you know yourself best and we trust you, we believe you, and we see you.”

For youth who are born

clothing and hairstyles. Legal gender-affirmation might include changes to birth certificates, driver’s licenses and passports.

Medical gender-affirming care is the target of SB 254 and the portion of this discussion that tends to have the most misconceptions. We will look into medical gender-affirming care below.

MYTH: PRIMARY CARE AND GENDER-AFFIRMING CARE ARE ENTIRELY DIFFERENT

According to the office of Population Affairs of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, “Gender-affirming care is a supportive form of healthcare. It consists of an array of services that may include medical, surgical,

Gender-affirming care is a supportive form of healthcare.

It consists of an array of services that may include medical, surgical, mental health, and non-medical services for transgender and nonbinary people.

— U.S. DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES’ POPULATION AFFAIRS Judge Robert Hinkle issuing a very narrow injunction in June that allows those transgender youth who were challenging the ban to access care while the lawsuit continues. In September, the same judge refused to issue a similar injunction for transgender adults in a class action lawsuit, asking “what irreparable harm” plaintiffs would suffer if he did not block the law in the run-up to a trial slated to begin Nov. 13.

transgender, meaning their gender identity does not align with their sex assigned at birth, gender affirmation can be live saving.

MYTH: GENDER-AFFIRMING CARE IS ONLY MEDICAL

Gender-affirming transitions can happen to various degrees in multiple facets of life, including social, legal and medical.

Social gender-affirmation might include name changes, adoption of gender-affirming pronouns and changes to

mental health, and non-medical services for transgender and nonbinary people.”

Interacting with any medical provider that will affirm a youth’s gender identity, even just by using their correct pronouns, regardless of the reason for the medical visit is gender-affirming medical care.

Among Metro Inclusive Health in Tampa Bay’s listing of services for transgender healthcare and support services, clients will find “Inclusive Primary Care.”

Both transgender and cisgender youth — transgender being a person whose gender identity

does not correspond with the sex assigned to them at birth and cisgender being a person whose gender identity does correspond with the sex assigned to them at birth — need medical services for wellbeing not related to gender. A sprained ankle. A skin rash. A slow thyroid. Health and Human Services reports, “for transgender and nonbinary children and adolescents, early gender-affirming care is crucial to overall health and well-being.”

On its website, Central Florida’s Hope & Help has a tagline in the “About Us” section that reads “Hope & Help is the warm hug of health care you need to get tested and treated in a safe, friendly environment.”

MYTH: GENDER-AFFIRMING MEDICAL CARE FOR YOUTH IS SURGICAL

According to Brian Martinez, senior operations director of Hope & Health, “surgical care on minors is basically non-existent.”

Martinez speaks not only from his experience working for an Orlando-based provider of gender-affirming care but also from the research he did for his doctoral dissertation about gender-affirming care for minors.

Often, gender-affirming medical care is discussed along a potential progression that emphasizes individual needs which may or may not begin with puberty blockers, may or may not initiate cross-sex hormones and may or may not include gender-affirming surgeries.

Puberty blockers are medicines used to postpone puberty in children, with the most commonly used puberty blockers being gonadotropin-releasing hormone agonists, which suppress the production of sex hormones. They are the only medical treatment recommended for minors and their effects are 100% reversible.

A common critique of this form of gender-affirming care is that children are not capable of making such medical decisions.

While this critique is not often applied to cisgender children, who are assessed as being fully capable of knowing their gender and for who puberty blockers have been prescribed for various reasons since the 1990s, the reversible nature of puberty blockers weakens the validity of the critique, says Martinez.

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the use of puberty blockers to treat what is called “precocious puberty — marked by breast development before age eight or testes growth before age nine — with hormonal suppressants, also called puberty blockers. With supervision, these reversible drugs safely and effectively delay a child’s development until they’re ready.”

Usually at age 16, with parental/guardian and physician approval, medical care for transgender youth can include gender-affirming hormones.

Those medications typically come as estrogen patches and pills or weekly testosterone injections.

Speaking with The Associated Press in 2022, Dr. Stephanie Roberts, a specialist at Boston Children’s Hospital’s Gender Management Service, said in girls transitioning to boys, testosterone generally leads to permanent voice-lowering, facial hair and protrusion of the Adam’s apple, and for boys transitioning to girls, estrogen-induced breast development is typically permanent.

A Google search for hormone replacement therapy is likely to bring up dozens of articles about its effectiveness in treating menopause in cisgender females.

Cross-sex HRT can lessen symptoms for trans people just as same-sex hormone replacement therapy can lessen symptoms for cis people.

Under the guidance of their physicians, adults — those who are 18 years of age and older — may or may not decide to proceed with gender-affirming surgical procedures, which could include gender-affirming alteration to the face, voice, chest and/ or genitals. According to the World Professional Association for Transgender Health, breast removal surgery is OK for those under 18 who have been on testosterone for at least a year. As stated above, hormone replacement therapy typically does not start in trans youth until age 16.

Overall, there is no completion point or required set of procedures for a trans person. Each of these decisions is personal and individual, and a person’s experience of themselves as transgender is equally valid irrespective of their medical decisions.

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MYTH: GENITAL SURGICAL PROCEDURES ON MINORS IS A NEW PHENOMENON

Since the 1960s, surgical alterations of the genitalia and reproductive organs have regularly been encouraged and performed by the medical establishment on very young intersex children. A joint report published by the Human Rights Campaign and InterACT explains that based on, “unproven recommendations of

SB 254 makes an exception for the alarm DeSantis raised about the “genital mutilation of children” if a physician assesses the “external biological sex characteristics” of a child as “unresolvably ambiguous.” The takeaway of the recent Florida legislation being that surgical procedures on intersex children are acceptable to reinforce the gender binary but unacceptable if perceived to be challenging the gender binary.

conditions that should be treated … that is so for cisgender and transgender patients alike.”

Cisgender people often access non-medically necessary gender-affirming care such as hair transplants, breast augmentation, laser hair removal and steroids for body building.

Elective care to feel better about oneself is frequently about enhancement of a characteristic traditionally associated with a gender, and within Florida’s law, and in similar laws and bills

It is well documented that TGNB [Transgender, NonBinary] adolescents and young adults experience anxiety and depression, as well as suicidal ideation, at a much higher rate than their cisgender peers.

— DRS. KAREEN M. MATOUK AND MELINA WALD WITH COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY’S IRVING MEDICAL CENTER/GENDER IDENTITY PROGRAM a single prominent psychologist some surgeons in the US continue to perform medically unnecessary ‘normalizing’ surgeries on children, often before they are one year of age. These operations include clitoral reduction surgeries — procedures that reduce the size of the clitoris for cosmetic reasons. … Other operations include gonadectomies, or the removal of gonads, which result in the child being sterile and forced onto lifelong hormone replacement therapy.”

MYTH: GENDER-AFFIRMING CARE IS ONLY FOR TRANSGENDER PEOPLE

The medical need for HRT as well as the social desire to more deeply connect to one’s sense of gender is a shared experience between cisgender people and transgender people. In his June 6 injunction on SB 254 regarding transgender minors, Hinkle wrote that, “Testosterone and estrogen are routinely used to treat cisgender patients in appropriate circumstances. The medications are an effective treatment for

through the country, lawmakers never raised any red flags in regards to gender-affirming procedures for cisgender people.

MYTH: GENDER-AFFIRMING CARE FOR YOUTH CAN BE DELAYED WITHOUT CONSEQUENCE

The Columbia School of Psychiatry states that “higher rates of anxiety, depression and suicidal ideation” are found in transgender and nonbinary youth, especially when their gender identity is ignored or rejected by family and friends.

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“It is well documented that TGNB [Transgender, Non-Binary] adolescents and young adults experience anxiety and depression, as well as suicidal ideation, at a much higher rate than their cisgender peers,” Matouk and Wald wrote. “In contrast, numerous research studies have found that gender-affirming care leads to improved mental health among TGNB youth.”

According to The Trevor Project’s 2020 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health, 54% of young people who identified as transgender or nonbinary reported having seriously considered suicide in the last year, and 29% have made an attempt to end their lives.

The World Professional Association for Transgender Health has created Standards of Care guidelines for providers working with trans and nonbinary individuals.

Matouk and Wald write that “Providers following these ethical guidelines are obliged to facilitate and encourage family support and involvement. All medical interventions for any child under the age of 18 require parental consent, as well as the child’s assent. It is recommended that adolescents and their parents be involved in psychological care to help them best understand the benefits, risks, and permanent effects of gender-affirming interventions. Youth undergoing medical interventions are also carefully monitored by a specialized endocrinologist to ensure for their safety and well-being. Moreover, when possible, adolescents are provided with options for fertility preservation.”

Activists and advocates have long exclaimed that gender-affirming care is not something that needs to be determined in Congress and in statehouses across the country.

Medical professionals, who work with those seeking health care, and the acceptance of parents/ legal guardians of LGBTQ+ youth is what should be guiding that care.

For more information and/or transgender services in your area, contact Hope & Help in Central Florida at 407-645-2577 and visit HopeAndHelp.org. In Tampa Bay, you can contact Metro Inclusive Health at 727-321-3854 and visit MetroTampaBay.org.

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genre-defining musicals on Broadway.

America’s cultural decade saw the likes of “Bye Bye Birdie” “Fiddler on the Roof” and “Hello, Dolly!” takes the stages of New York City.

It also saw a living legend and gay icon — Barbra Streisand — star as Fanny Brice in the classic musical “Funny Girl.”

“Funny Girl” is the semi-biographical story of Brice, a comedian, singer and actress who made it famous on radio and Broadway, and later in film.

The musical recounts her rise to fame and her relationship with husband Nick Arnstein through

flashbacks as she awaits Nick’s release from prison.

The original 1964 Broadway production, with a musical score by Jule Styne, lyrics by Bob Merrill and book by Isobel Lennart, was nominated for eight Tony Awards (not winning any

and losing five of them to “Helly, Dolly!”) and went on to become a hit Hollywood film in 1968, getting eight Academy Award nominations (and winning one, for Streisand, for Best Actress for which she tied with Katharine Hepburn for her turn in “The Lion in Winter”).

A revival production of “Funny Girl” hit the Broadway stage in 2022 with a revised book by Harvey Fierstein and starring Beanie Feldstein and Ramin Karimloo as Fanny and Nick. Lea Michele stepped in to play Fanny after Feldstein left the show only a few months in.

The revival closed in September 2023 just as the U.S. national tour hit the road to bring the inspiring story of “Funny Girl”

to audiences across the country.

For the national tour, Fanny is played by Katerina McCrimmon and Nick is played by openly gay actor Stephen Mark Lukas, who also understudied Karimloo in the role while on Broadway.

“Funny Girl,” which opened in Providence, Rhode Island Sept. 9, heads to Florida at the end of this month and includes stops at the Straz Center for the Performing Arts in Tampa Nov. 28-Dec. 3 and the Dr. Phillips Center for the Performing Arts in Orlando Dec. 5-10.

Lukas was gracious enough to speak with Watermark by phone after opening the show in Baltimore and ahead of the show’s Central Florida and Tampa Bay stops.

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WATERMARK: “FUNNY GIRL” JUST RECENTLY HIT THE ROAD FOR ITS NATIONAL TOUR. HOW HAS IT BEEN GOING SO FAR?

Stephen Mark Lukas: We’ve been on the road for about a month. We opened in Providence, Rhode Island, back in the beginning of September and it’s been great. We’re having a really, really fun time. The opening night audience here in Baltimore was fantastic, but we are excited to get to warmer weather in a few weeks in Florida.

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DID YOU LEARN ABOUT THE CHARACTER DURING THAT TIME AND HAS THAT PLAYED INTO HOW YOU CREATED YOUR PERFORMANCE ON THE TOUR.

When you’re an understudy on Broadway you’re always flying by the seat of your pants and it’s equal parts thrilling and nerve wracking, so coming on the road and getting a chance to rehearse it with a new company and to make the role my own — on Broadway I was understudying the brilliant Ramin Karimloo, who was wonderful in the role and I was really grateful to be able to watch him and learn from him — but coming on the tour and building the character from a place that is true to myself, and also getting to do it with a new cast, is really exciting.

FOR THOSE WHO DON’T KNOW THE STORY, WHAT IS “FUNNY GIRL”?

“Funny Girl” is the story of Fanny Brice, who was a comedian in the early 20th century. She was one of the first big Jewish stars of the Ziegfeld Follies. She went on to do Broadway and go on the road with Vaudeville, and ultimately went on to do films in the ‘30s and ‘40s. She was a huge star and our show tracks her humble beginning and her meteoric rise to stardom and her relationship with Nick Arnstein, who was the love of her life. It is based on a true story and is an inspiring story of a woman who ignores all the naysayers and really makes a name for herself in a way that is true to herself.

“FUNNY GIRL” IS ONE OF THOSE BIG, CLASSIC BROADWAY SHOWS WITH LOTS OF SINGING AND DANCING — BOTH OF WHICH YOU DO IN THIS SHOW. DID YOU HAVE A SINGING AND/ OR DANCING BACKGROUND COMING INTO THIS SHOW?

I’ve always been a singer and an actor, first and foremost, and a dancer not so much [laughs].

I do a little dancing in this role, which is fun, but the show is a big, old-fashioned Broadway spectacle.

It has wonderful tapdancing by our hardworking ensemble. It has big, powerhouse ballads that everyone knows — “Don’t Rain on My Parade,” “People,” “The Music That Makes Me Dance” — and it is also a very grown-up story of a woman and her marriage and her career; I think the show really

HEY MR. ARNSTEIN: Stephen Mark Lukas, who understudied Ramin Karimloo’s Nick Arnstein in the Broadway revival, takes over the lead role in the national tour of “Funny Girl.” PHOTO COURTESY DR. PHILLIPS CENTER has something for everyone. I’ve always said about this show that it really has everything that makes people fall in love with Broadway.

Tap dancing and big musical numbers but also some intimate storytelling, so I think it is a very satisfying evening of theater.

YOUR FANNY BRICE IS KATERINA MCCRIMMON. WHAT’S IT LIKE TO PLAY OPPOSITE KATERINA AND SEE HER BELT OUT THOSE CLASSIC SONGS?

She is amazing, she really is a vocal powerhouse. Her voice is next level. I was fortunate enough to play the role on Broadway for about three weeks opposite Lea Michele and Katerina is just as good, she really is just a phenomenal talent. Her big moments that everyone is waiting for certainly do not disappoint.

DID YOU GROW UP IN NEW YORK?

I grew up in Maine actually.

I moved to New York when I was 18 to go to college and I never left.

WAS THEATER AND MUSIC A BIG PART OF YOUR UPBRINGING?

It was. My parents used to bring us to New York every November and we would go and see four or five shows in the span of about three days. My dad would read reviews and look up what shows were playing in the paper and plan six months ahead of time what shows we were going to go see and we would buy the cast albums and we would listen to them in the car getting ready for the trip. We did it every year and that’s really how I fell in

love with Broadway and with musical theater.

YOU PLAYED IN MY ALL-TIME FAVORITE MUSICAL, “BOOK OF MORMON,” AS ELDER PRICE. THAT IS A BIT OF AN EDGY MUSICAL AS FAR AS MUSICALS GO. WHAT WAS THAT EXPERIENCE LIKE?

“Book of Mormon,” it was some years ago that I was in it, and I was in it right at the beginning as it became this huge phenomenon that it ultimately became. Much like being in “Funny Girl” on Broadway, it was really the main event on Broadway, which made the entire experience really exciting. People would buy their tickets months ahead of time and the audience reactions showed that people had been really waiting for this show and they were excited to see it, and they kind of didn’t know what to expect. Plus I mean it is one of the funniest shows ever written and it was really a treat to get to do that show.

I DID A LITTLE BIT OF INSTAGRAM STALKING TO PREPARE FOR OUR INTERVIEW AND DID I SEE YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND CELEBRATED YOUR NINETH ANNIVERSARY A COUPLE MONTHS AGO?

Actually my fiancé, not married yet. We just got engaged last Christmas and have been together for nine years.

WHEN’S THE BIG DAY?

The big day is forthcoming.

Probably when I get off the road so we’ll see, but we aren’t in any rush. We have been together for

a long time but we are excited to finally make that official.

HOW HAS BEING AN OUT PERFORMER CHANGED FROM NOW TO WHEN YOU FIRST GOT INVOLVED WITH BROADWAY?

When I came up in the business, after graduating college and was looking for agent, there really was this unspoken rule of “don’t ask, don’t tell.” People might know that you were out and that you are gay, but you didn’t make too much of it. In fact, my first agent said to me “You want to be out and proud but not so proud that you don’t get the job.” That really stuck with me and that kind of thing really just lives rent-free in your head for a long time.

Thank goodness that the business is changing, and it has changed a lot. That was probably about 15 years ago and in the intervening years it has really changed a lot in terms of being more accepting and not feeling like you have to put on an act just to get a job. You can just let your work speak for itself rather than having to craft this alternate public persona of yourself. So I think it is changing slowly but I think it has already changed a lot, and I’m certainly grateful for that.

WE LOVE THAT THE TOUR IS COMING TO FLORIDA, BUT OUR STATE HASN’T BEEN VERY LGBTQ+ FRIENDLY, POLITICALLY SPEAKING, FOR SEVERAL YEARS. WAS THERE ANY HESITATION ABOUT BRINGING THE TOUR TO FLORIDA GIVEN ITS CURRENT POLITICAL CLIMATE?

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I think the political climate in Florida for LGBTQ folks has been unfortunate and it has been hard to watch it from afar but what I think we as performers intend to do is bring joy to people and to entertain them and we are very excited to do that everywhere in the country.

In addition, I think this show really is about a woman — Fancy Brice — reclaiming her identity and deciding that she is going to be herself no matter what. I think that resonates especially with LGBTQ people, which is why this story has long been a staple with LGBTQ musical theater fans back since Barbra Streisand. Because it really is about embracing your authenticity and being unapologetic in who you are, so in a lot of ways I think this is the perfect story for the political climate right now and for all time.

WHAT’S THE BEST ADVICE YOU’VE EVER GOTTEN?

There is a Steve Martin quote that goes “Be so good that they can’t ignore you.” I think it really does come down to your work and it really does come down to your dedication to your craft. There’s a lot of other things that can sort of get in the way and that people will focus on, but I think that at the end of the day if you are able to be authentic and then hone your craft on top of that, if there is a recipe for success I think that is it.

LOOKING AT SOME OF YOUR PHOTOS ON INSTAGRAM, YOU HAVE A VERY CLARK KENT/SUPERMAN LOOK TO YOU. WOULD YOU BE INTERESTED IN STARRING IN A SUPERMAN MUSICAL IF IT EVER CAME TO BROADWAY?

I am ready, willing and able to play Superman on Broadway if called upon. There are lots of roles out there that I would love to do.

I’m getting a little bit older now and looking at more leading man roles, like Nick Arnstein, so there are a number of roles I would love to do and Superman is certainly one of them [laughs].

“Funny Girl,” starring Katerina McCrimmon and Stephen Mark Lukas, comes to the Straz Center for the Performing Arts in Tampa Nov. 28-Dec. 3 and the Dr. Phillips Center for the Performing Arts in Orlando Dec. 5-10.

Tickets start at $50 for the Tampa shows and are available at StrazCenter.org and tickets start at $45 for the Orlando shows and are available at DrPhillipsCenter.org.

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Rabbit Season

(ABOVE)

FINAL BOW:

Travis Ray will close “White Rabbit Red Rabbit” Nov. 19 PRODUCTION POSTER AND PHOTO COURTESY AMERICAN STAGE

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F YOU’RE NOT FAMILIAR WITH “WHITE

Rabbit Red Rabbit,” you’re not alone. The actors starring in American Stage’s current production haven’t seen (or even read) it either.

At least until they’re in front of a live audience. The one-person show, playing now through Nov. 19 at venues throughout Tampa Bay, is performed by a different entertainer each night.

They present it only once without a rehearsal, set or director.

American Stage calls it “a theatrical journey into the unknown that holds endless possibilities each time you experience it.”

The piece premiered in 2011 and became an Off-Broadway sensation by 2016, welcoming high-profile actors like Nathan Lane, Cynthia Nixon and more. It’s since become one of the most-toured plays in contemporary theatre, with actors and audiences alike sharing very little about its plot.

“White Rabbit Red Rabbit” was written by Iranian playwright Nassim Soleimanpour, who conceived the piece when he was barred from leaving his

country for refusing military service.

His website bills it as “a work about contemporary Iran and of Nassim’s generation born amidst the hardship of the Iran-Iraq war. A generation of computer-literate, well-informed young people who have never known an Iran other than the Islamic Republic.”

The show is the first production in American Stage’s “Beyond the Stage” series, which tasks audiences and actors with stepping “out of the theatre and into their own backyard to engage in new ways of storytelling.”

It was announced earlier this year with “15 actors taking on the wild ride … taking audiences to places like a historic church, university, museum and warehouse.”

“This ingeniously written play charms you with its insight into captivity, conditioning and learned behaviors,” American Stage Producing

Artistic Director Helen R. Murray said.

“It is magical, surprising, and asks us to question how we think even more than what we think.

“And it does it while we are laughing and delighting at an incredibly entertaining piece of theatre,” she added. “I can’t wait to share it with our community, because the way it bonds an audience is unforgettably unique.”

The show opened Nov. 2 at St. Petersburg’s historic Savant on Second, where it also played Nov. 3 with Dylan Barlowe and Gavin Hawk, respectively. The show then moved to Tampa Nov. 4-5 at USF’s Tampa Theatre Centre for three performances starring Mona Lim, David Jenkins and Anthony Gervais.

The remaining productions are scheduled for St. Petersburg. “White Rabbit Red Rabbit” plays Nov. 9-10 at the Historic Bethel African Methodist Episcopal Church with Georgia Mallory Guy and Fanni Green, and then Nov. 11-12 at The Factory with Ivy Sunflower, Tito Mercado and John Millsap.

It will move to the Warehouse Arts District Association’s ArtsXchange from there, starring Beth Gelman Nov. 16 and Lance Markeith Nov. 17. It final three shows are Nov. 18 and 19 at the Woodson African American Museum with Gabriel Ortiz, Andrida Hosey and for its final performance, Travis Ray. The openly gay actor says closing the show is particularly thrilling for him. Unlike a regular run, where previous performances might influence the show’s final curtain call, he’ll be going in with a completely fresh perspective.

“I won’t know what has been done prior,” Ray says. “So the beautiful thing about it is when I go in, I’m going to give it every single thing that I have, without me second guessing myself.

I’m going to explore, fall in love and present whatever happens in the script.

“I’m going to love on it as I go and just have the best possible performance I can,” he continues. “I don’t know how the script will be, but I’ll make sure that I pace myself, because that’s something else for a closing show that everybody gets excited about. I want to make sure that I take my time. Whatever words

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are on the page, whatever actions needs to happen … I’m going to give it everything I have. Go big or go home.”

Ray lives in Bradenton and has performed regionally in productions of “Dearly Departed,” “The Wiz,” “The Exonerated” and other shows. Much of his theater experience also lies behind the scenes; he currently teaches Acting at New College of Florida in Sarasota, where he also serves as Urbanite Theatre’s director of advancement.

“Because I mainly work in theater administration, performance is my fun time,” he says of partnering with American Stage. “It’s neat to reconnect with where I started, because my foundation is in acting and dance.

When I get to perform a one-off thing like this, which I love, it allows me to reconnect to my humble beginnings.”

Ray says while he’d heard of “White Rabbit Red Rabbit,” which Urbanite also produced in 2017, he’d never seen it. As requested, he’ll go in completely blind.

“The audience will experience an artist who doesn’t know anything about the show,” he promises, noting he isn’t even familiar with the venue.

“I don’t even know where I’m going to go when I get into the room. But I think that they should be open to taking and exploring the journey with me — I think that’s going to be the best thing about it.”

The production will also be the theater veteran’s first time leading a one-person show, something else that excites him.

“The audience will get a chance to see something organically manifest into a production with me as a vessel,” Ray explains. “It’s going to be up in the air, but I think that’s great because that’s where magic comes. Because I can create it in the moment, it will be organic, natural and true. That’s the thing that I love about it.”

Ray can’t see any of his fellow actors interpret “White Rabbit Red Rabbit,” but says the show’s unique structure is perfect for audiences who are interested in doing so. “It will have a different flavor each night because it will be a different actor,” he notes, allowing them to see it before he closes on Nov. 19.

“Even the actors don’t know what you’re going to get, which puts the actor and the audience in the same space for once,” Ray says. “I think this is what theater should be moving toward — we should have more pieces like this that are exploratory.”

“White Rabbit Red Rabbit” plays through Nov. 19 at venues throughout Tampa Bay. All performances are $30 General Admission. Learn more and buy tickets at AmericanStage.org.

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CONGRATULATIONS The Drew Marc Gallery held its official ribbon cutting ceremony in St. Petersburg Oct. 27.

Halloween on Central returned for its third LGBTQ+inclusive iteration Oct. 29 from 12-5 p.m., transforming 22 blocks of Central Ave. into a car-free space with an eclectic mix of entertainers, shops, vendors and more. Read more and view our full photo gallery at WatermarkOnline.com.

Dharma Kava Lounge celebrates 9 years in Largo Nov. 10.

CONDOLENCES Quench Lounge shared Nov. 7 that Largo’s Matt Kamm, a regular at the LGBTQ+ bar, has died. “We offer our deepest condolences to his family and friends during this time, as it will be hard for all of us,” they wrote via social media.

EVENT/VENUE UPDATES Cocktail and The Wet Spot are now serving food daily.

Extended stay rentals at The Mari Jean Hotel are also now available. Learn more at CocktailStPete.com.

Come OUT St. Pete announced Oct. 28 that their signature Family Day Celebration, originally scheduled for Oct. 14, will now be held Nov. 11 from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. at Seminole Park. Read more on p. 13.

LOCAL BIRTHDAYS Modern Gents Premier Barbershop & Bar’s Nicholas Medina, Tampa Bay socialite Sterling Powell, CNA Dominic Costelli, Delta flight attendant Colin Hanns (Nov 9); CAN Community Health’s Kiala Santi (Nov. 10); Tampa Bay writer Mike Halterman, Tampa leather bear Brooks Davis, Tampa Bay entertainer Daisy Rae Welch, 9 Colors Initiative Founder Rocky Butler, BULGE Apparel & Gifts owner P.J. Salas (Nov. 11); Sarasota actor Brian Craft, Tampa Bay tangler Justin Geleta, Tampa Bay entertainer Mr. Vyn Suazion (Nov. 12); Dash Creative Group’s Jay Aller, Sarasota opera singer Ron Rispoli, Tampa networking guru Vincent Papaleo (Nov. 13); Ritz Ybor Marketing Director Okie Tilo, Tampa flutist Joseph Rose, Tampa Bay educator Brandon Rader (Nov. 14); Sarasota activist Bart Coyle, Fox enthusiast Aleksander Helios, Tampa Bay activist SueZie Hawkes (Nov. 15); Tampa Bay entertainer Chi Lalique (Nov. 16); Ray Sickles, AKA Sarasota diva Angelique Monet, St. Petersburg activist Randini Meyer (Nov. 17); Tampa Bay hairstylist Frank Piscopo, Stonewall activist Jay Chetney, Tampa Bay entertainer Lilith Black, Marketing extraordinaire Yasmin Marinaro-Basone, Tampa Bay nurse Michael Board (Nov. 19); Equality Florida Pinellas Development Director Todd Richardson, former Punky’s co-owner Lynn Deibert, Boys’ Entrance instrumentalist Bill Ramsey (Nov. 20); Tampa concert aficionado Dwayne McFarlane, St. Petersburg artist Jennifer Dunham (Nov. 21); Tampa swimwear designer La’Daska Mechelle, charity-driven Ybor resident Mike Hammonds, Tampa Hospice manager Peter Shute, St Pete Pride Secretary Molly Robison (Nov. 22).

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CONGRATULATIONS Bryan and Kyle Manley were married at the Brevard Zoo Oct. 29.

The Pride Chamber announced its 2023 Pride in Business Award winners during its gala at the Hard Rock Live in Orlando Nov. 4. The Orlando Youth Alliance was named Non-Profit of the Year, Universal Orlando was named Corporate Ally of the Year, S.K. Burt Law P.A. took home Small Business of the Year and Beyond Home Real Estate won New Small Business of the Year. The chamber also awarded Mimi Flatley of Turner Construction Company with Outstanding DEI Leader of the Year and Tom Christ and Billy Looper of the Kindred Pride Foundation with Business Leader of the Year. The Pride Chamber’s board of directors also gave out two special honors — Volunteer of the Year to Thor Falk and Community Allies of the Year to Hamburger Mary’s owners John Paonessa and Mike Rogier.

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CONDOLENCES Bill Blacklock, a tenor in the Orlando Gay Chorus and a U.S. Army veteran, passed away Nov. 3. He will be missed.

Former Watermark account manager Tammi Jones passed away Nov. 4 at the age of 60. She will be missed.

LOCAL BIRTHDAYS Special F/X master Alan Ostrander (Nov 9); J Meyers Insurance’s Lori Williams, Park Avenue salon owner Gary Lambert (Nov. 10); Central Florida author and Watermark contributor Dr. Steve Yacovelli, Seminole County’s Emergency Manager Alan Harris (Nov. 11); Orlando writer Liz Langley, Orlando piano man Kelly DeWayne, Contigo Fund’s Foundation Manager Joel Morales, Orlando performer Miss Aiysia Black, DJ Joanie Stanco, UCF LGBTQ Services’ student life coordinator Michael Nunes, Orlando softball expert Anthony Andreala (Nov. 13); Former zoo professional Christopher Torge, paper bag mushroom artist Doug Rhodehamel, Disney application developer Dan Peters (Nov. 14); Unseen Images Theatre’s Jamie DeHay, The Closing Agent’s Barry Miller, Come Out With Pride sponsorship director Chris Scocco (Nov. 16); Former Pride Chamber CEO Kellie Rae Parkin (Nov. 17); Lithia equestrian expert James Meeks, Orlando Gay Chorus tenor and sky hostess Todd Michael Hayes (Nov. 18); Orlando Gay Chorus belter Pattie Noah, Orlando photographer Brian Becnel, Blue LaLa Entertainment business manager and partner Jackie Lewin, real estate agent Neil Payne, former Watermark intern Valentina Sofia(Nov. 19); Central Florida vocalist and performer Brandon Martin, 26Health mental health counselor Marge Snider (Nov. 20); Winter Park Playhouse marketing and PR director Lisa Melilli, Orlando foodie Tommy Cardenas, Orlando chef Chris Bean (Nov. 21); Orlando activist Nicki Drumb, Keller-Williams realtor Steve Glose, Former Watermark intern Charolette Skipper, Pom Pom’s Orlando server Alexis Astolfi (Nov. 22).

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STAGE PRESENCE: Congressman Maxwell Alejandro Frost speaks at The Pride Chamber’s 2023 Pride in Business Awards & Gala at the Hard Rock Live in Orlando Nov. 4. PHOTO BY JEREMY WILLIAMS

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GIRL OF SANDWICH: Pom Pom’s Teahouse & Sandwicheria’s Pom Moongauklang is the sandwich queen in Orlando during National Sandwich Day Nov. 3. PHOTO FROM

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EVENT PLANNER

Dharma’s 9th Anniversary Party, Nov. 10, Dharma Kava Lounge, Largo. 727-223-9954; DharmaKavaLounge.com

CENTRAL FLORIDA

Come OUT St. Pete, Nov. 11, Seminole Park, St. Petersburg.

ComeOUTStPete.org

“Bittersweetness” SATURDAY, NOV. 11, 5:30-8:30 P.M. COLLEGE PARK GALLERY, ORLANDO

Wig in Space: SMART Ride 20 Benefit, Nov. 11, Enigma, St. Petersburg. 727-235-0867; EnigmaStPete.com

“Bittersweetness” marks Carlos Carbonell’s inaugural solo exhibition in Orlando. Within this captivating showcase, this emerging artist delves into the intricacies of the human experience, predominantly through the lens of the female perspective.

Admission is complimentary and there will be a selection of fine wines to enhance your experience.

For more information, visit CollegeParkGallery.com.

Turnabout: Savoy vs. The Center TUESDAY, NOV. 14, 7 P.M. SAVOY, ORLANDO Come see your favorite LGBT+ Center Orlando employees and Savoy bartenders and entertainers perform in drag with 100% of all tips benefiting The Center Orlando. The event is hosted by The Center’s CEO, Dr. George Wallace, and Savoy owner Brandon Bracale-Llewellyn. Tickets are $15 for general admission and $25 for VIP, which provides preferred seating and one complimentary drink. For tickets go to The Center Orlando or Savoy Orlando’s Facebook event page.

TAMPA BAY TDoR Tampa MONDAY, NOV. 20, 6 P.M. JOE CHILLURA COURTHOUSE SQUARE, TAMPA Join PFLAG Tampa and MCC Tampa for this year’s Transgender Day of Remembrance vigil, honoring the memory of transgender members of our community who lost their lives in acts of anti-transgender violence. Organizers will honor the lives lost due and look to the future to inspire change in our communities. Learn more at Facebook.com/ PFLAGTampa.

TDoR St. Pete MONDAY, NOV. 20, 6:30-8:30 P.M. CITY HALL, ST. PETERSBURG St. Petersburg TDoR will begin at St. Petersburg’s Sunshine Senior Center for a candlelight processional leading to City Hall. Guests of honor will include members of the transgender and genderexpansive community who reflect on lives lost to transgender violence. Afterwards attendees will walk to The Hollander to connect and reflect. Visit Facebook.com/St.PeteTDoR for more details.

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Joey McIntyre: “Solo Joe,” Nov. 12, The Floridian Social, St. Petersburg. 727-322-4600; TheFloridianSocial.com

SOUTHERN SILK “Drag Race” alum Silky Ganache heads to Southern Nights, in Orlando Nov. 17 and Tampa Nov. 18.

CENTRAL FLORIDA

Drag Brunch, Nov. 12 & 19, Island Time, Orlando. 407-930-2640; IslandTimeOrlando.com

1989: GTP Version – Orlando’s ONLY Queer Women’s Swiftie Party, Nov. 18, Southern Nights, Orlando. 407-412-5039; Linktr. ee/GirlTheParty

William Shatner, Nov. 10, King Center, Melbourne.

321-242-2219; KingCneter.com

Straight No Chasers: Sleighin’ It Tour, Nov. 14, Dr. Phillips Center, Orlando. 407-358-6603; DrPhillipsCenter.org

EDC Orlando, Nov. 1012, Tinker Field, Orlando.

888-512-SHOW; Orlando.

ElectricDaisyCarnival.com

Patti LaBelle, Nov. 16, Peabody Auditorium, Daytona Beach. 386-671-3472; PeabodyAuditorium.org

Festival of Trees, Nov. 10-19, Orlando Museum of Art, Orlando. 407-896-4231; OMArt.org

Anthony Jeselnik, Nov. 16, Hard Rock Live, Orlando.

407-351-5483; HardRock.com/ Orlando

“White Rabbit Red Rabbit,” Through Nov. 19, Multiple Venues, Tampa Bay. 727-877-3621; AmericanStage.org

“A Swingin’ Christmas: The Holiday Music of Tony Bennett,” Nov. 10-Dec. 16, Winter Park Playhouse, Winter Park. 407-645-0145; WinterParkPlayHouse.org

Silky Ganache, Nov. 17, Southern Nights, Orlando.

407-412-5039; Facebook.com/ SouthernNightsOrlando

“The Choir of Man,” Through Dec. 10, Straz Center, Tampa. 813-229-7827; StrazCenter.org

“A Christmas Carol The Musical,” Nov. 17-Dec. 10, The Heneger Center, Melbourne.

321-723-8698; Heneger.org

Equality Florida Tampa Gala, Nov. 10, Shanna & Bryan Glazer JCC, Tampa. EQFL.org/ TampaGala

ICE! featuring “A Charlie Brown Christmas,” Nov. 17Jan. 3, Gaylord Palms Resort, Kissimmee. 407-586-0000; ChristmasAtGaylordPalms.

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EPIC Generations Coffee Hour, Nov. 10, Sunshine Center, St. Petersburg.

727-328-5526; MyEPIC.org

Drag & Drive, Nov. 10, The Center, Orlando. 407-228-8272; TheCenterOrlando.org EDC Official After Party w/ DJ Twisted Dee, Nov. 12, Southern Nights, Orlando.

407-412-5039; Facebook.com/ SouthernNightsOrlando

“Dolly Parton Rockstar: Global First Listen Event,” Nov. 15, Tampa Theatre, Tampa. 813-274-8981; TampaTheatre.org 13th annual Ybor City Tree Lighting, Nov. 15, Ybor City, Tampa. 813-248-3712; Ybor.org

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ARTS+ENTERTAINMENT

“Chicago: The Musical,” Nov. 13-14, Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater. 727-791-7400; RuthEckerdHall.com

P!nk: Trustfall Tour, Nov. 19, Amway Center, Orlando. 407-440-7000; AmwayCenter.com

TAMPA BAY

Silky Ganache, Nov. 18, Southern Nights, Tampa.

813-559-8625; Facebook.com/ SouthernNightsTampa EPIC Generations Coffee Hour, Nov. 10, Dunedin Senior Center, Dunedin. 727-328-5526; MyEPIC.org Thanksgiving Dinner, Nov. 21, Empath Partners in Care, St. Petersburg. 727-328-5526; MyEPIC.org “Acts of Faith,” Nov. 21Dec. 17, American Stage, St. Petersburg. 727-877-3621; AmericanStage.org EPIC Generations Coffee Hour, Nov. 24, Gulfport Senior Center, Gulfport. 727-328-5526; MyEPIC.org

SARASOTA William Shatner, Nov. 11, Van Wezel, Sarasota.

941-263-6799; VanWezel.org Disco Brunch: Funky Beats & Delicious Eats, Nov. 19, Art Ovation Hotel, Sarasota. 941-316-0808; PPSRQ.org

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