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Women Building a Better Oklahoma City
President’s Letter Dear friends,
Sara Williams Sweet
MISSION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. is an organization of women committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women and improving the community through effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. Its purpose is exclusively educational and charitable.
One of my personal highlights this year was attending the beautiful Legacy & Legends reception. I was so inspired by the women whose lives and community contributions were celebrated on that special evening. It is truly humbling to think of their work, as well as the work of hundreds of women who have served the League and our community before me. Our Sustainer of the Year, Beth Kerr, spoke about how her League membership opened her heart to volunteering when she was a young adult. She said that watching the passion behind the League’s work is like looking through a crystal ball to see our community’s future and the benefits our work will bring it. Passion drives contribution, and contribution effects positive change. Barbara Eskridge, Mary Baker Rumsey Lifetime Achievement honoree, spoke about how her training in the Junior League has been the guiding force in her contributions to our community. It is this training that drives our Mission and makes us special. Our President’s Spirit of Commitment honoree, Polly Nichols, has always observed areas of the community going through change and actively chosen to help facilitate those changes for the better. Polly stated, “Change provides leadership opportunities,” and she talked about how important it has become to change our perspective from working FOR the community to working WITH the community. Polly spoke about how Junior League members take their training to heart and because of that, the community-at-large now recognizes the value of trained volunteers. During her introduction and remarks, it was discussed how Polly was injured in the Oklahoma City Bombing. Justice Stephen Taylor, a lifelong friend of Polly’s, introduced her and in his remarks observed that the grace given to her caused Polly to shoulder a great debt. I share those feelings of being in debt to the community of Oklahoma City. I was also profoundly impacted by the bombing on April 19, 1995, as my dad lost his life that day. Finding a “new normal” has been a difficult path, and choosing forgiveness is a battle that I’m proud to have won. I will never have the words to fully show my appreciation to fellow Oklahomans for the kindness, love, and support shown to me and my family after my dad was killed, and I know I am not unique when it comes to grieving someone who should still be here. One of the reasons I’ve always loved the League is that through my membership I’ve found a way to attempt to repay the debt I owe those who buoyed me through the worst time of my life. Friends, and fellow members, Anne Frank is credited with the sentiment, “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” Aren’t we fortunate that we have this incredible organization of women at our disposal that allows us to do just that? With much respect and admiration,
VISION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. will empower volunteers to impact our community and enrich lives.
FOCUS Women Building a Better Oklahoma City
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Sara Williams Sweet President, Junior League of Oklahoma City 2016-17
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To inform members and increase awareness of Junior League of Oklahoma City projects and events. EDITOR Ilana Sharpe ASSISTANT EDITOR & BUSINESS MANAGER Fareshteh Hamidi COMMITTEE MEMBERS Elizabeth Armstrong, Sheena
Karami, Leah Jackson, Markie Martin, Sadie Newell, Whitney Tatum
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PRESIDENT-ELECT Tracey Frederick
COMMUNICATIONS VP Sheena Karami COMMUNITY VP Sabrina Froehlich FINANCE VP Summer DeFehr FUNDRAISING VP Alexis Lux MEMBERSHIP VP Kathy Swift NOMINATING CHAIR Mandy Heaps SUSTAINING ADVISOR Sue Ann Hyde
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James Farris, Nicole Dobbins, Debbie Forshee, Clytie Bunyan, Mary Melon, Mel Martin, Lindsay Parks, Jackie Shawnee, Beth Shortt, Brenda Bennett, Brooke Haneborg, Patricia Rogers, David Lewis, Kyle Golding, Debby Hampton, Dr. Terry Cline, Dr. Noel Williams, Annette White-Klososky, Molly Ross, Lillie-Beth Brinkman, Alex Cameron, Jim Gebhart COMMUNITY PROJECTS/PROJECT MANAGERS ELEMENTARY HEALTH Lindsey Truelove FAMILY FITNESS NIGHTS Sally Kernke FOOD AND FUN AT FAMILY JUNCTION Rachel Petty HEALTHY PETS/HEALTHY HOMES Shannon Stiger KITK/TOP CHEF Kelsey Gray and Daniella Knighten PARENTS NIGHT OUT Hayley Moore HEALTHY PRACTICES FOR SURVIVORS OF DOMESTIC ABUSE
Krystal Murer and Britnee Bryles KIDS ON TRACK Bria Hanlon PROM NIGHT Whitney Tatum
TLDC Event Coverage: Formal Table Setting
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Spotlight on Sustainer Suzanne Bockus Meet Your League Link Committee Girls On The Block
CHIEF OF STAFF Leslie Coale-Mossman COMMUNITY ADVISORY BOARD
General Meeting Recap
Membership Report
PRESIDENT Sara Sweet
BYLAWS CHAIR Katherine Hager
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Ladies of Legacy & Legends
2016-17 BOARD OF DIRECTORS
ADMINISTRATIVE VP Kelly Brown
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Healthy You Parents’ Night Out Placement Season’s Eatings!
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2016—2017 Community Summary What’s in Your Queue? Letters to the League
RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE GUEST CHEFS Becca Sullivan SAFE KIDS CAR SEAT SAFETY CHECKS Tina Izadi SINGLE PARENT SUPPORT GROUP Melissa Frost WELLNESS FOR LIFE Rachel Talasaz OPEN STREETS Tori Raines FAMILY FUN NIGHTS Katie Davis and Laura Winkler VARIETY PACK Leslie Buford
League Link is published five times a year by the Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. HEADQUARTERS
The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. 1001 NW Grand Blvd. Oklahoma City, OK 73118 Phone (405) 843-5668 Fax (405) 843-0994 www.jloc.org
ON THE COVER: “An Elegant Picnic” photo courtesy of Beth Armstrong.
FUNDRAISERS
Mistletoe Market Speaker in the City Annual Campaign
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General Meeting Recap February General Meeting
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r. Jeff Sparling, Interventional Cardiologist with INTEGRIS Health, spoke on the importance of Women’s Heart Health at the February 21 General Meeting. Dr. Sparling shared symptoms and statistics associated with both male and female cardiac patients along with preventative measures. He noted that women are less likely than men to exhibit typical cardiac symptoms such as chest pain and are
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thus treated less aggressively by emergency medical providers. Shortness of breath is the most common symptom in women, and is often overlooked as a cardiovascular disease indicator because it is associated with so many other issues, namely respiratory issues. Other symptoms for cardiovascular disease include dizziness, jaw pain, fatigue, indigestion, diaphoresis (cold sweats), nausea, and vomiting. Dr. Sparling followed his presentation with a Q&A session where he
answered questions relating to family history and cardiac screencings, among other things. During the business meeting, the Nominating Slate was voted on by Active members, and the ABC and STAR Award winners were announced. Project Managers were recognized by Community Council, and all members were asked to wear foam clown noses for a group photo in recognition of Women’s Heart Health month. Members were also updated on the final dollar amount raised by the most recent Mistletoe Market fundraiser, totaling $153,834.
TLDC Event Coverage: Formal Table Setting By Beth Armstrong
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ctive member and professional event planner, Whitney Tatum, hosted a Formal Table Setting event on February 28 at Eventures, Inc. At the event, members learned how to fold napkins like the pros, brushed up on how to set the table for informal and formal gatherings, and enjoyed tips of the trade from Eventures owner Mary Ellen Alexander. Whitney taught the group valuable tidbits to remember when setting the table for guests: • Plates and chargers should be set 1 inch from the edge of the table • Silverware should be lined up along the edge of the table, 1 inch from the edge • Bread plate goes on the left, drink glass(es) on the right • Don’t be afraid to be creative! Whitney and Mary Ellen both stressed the importance of being willing to think outside the box and get creative with table setting. While there are rules and guidelines, creating the perfect tablescape is about what makes
your guests the most comfortable. Owner Mary Ellen said, “Entertaining, table setting, and event planning is all about comfort for your guests. Just comfortably do what you’re going to do; you don’t have to follow the ‘rules.’” Working at Eventures has inspired Whitney to serve the League in many ways. “This business is all about relationships—whether you are the client or the planner, events help us live explosively. I wanted to use my talents to give back to the community personally. I figured I might as well do this full force and give it all I’ve got, playing off my strengths to change lives,” she said. The TLDC Committee plans a myriad of events throughout the year. Committee member Brittany Attaway explains, “The TLDC committee is an awesome part of Junior League because we plan educational
and fun learning opportunities to our members. From self-defense classes to paddle boarding to the formal table setting class, there is something for everyone!”
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A special thank you to Camden Chitwood at Emerson Events for donating all of the flowers gracing our tables at Legacy & Legends. They were absolutely beautiful!
The Ladies of Legacy & Legends By Leah Jackson
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n March 23, some of Oklahoma City’s legends gathered at Vast located in Devon Tower for a reception in their honor. The tireless efforts of the Legacy & Legends committee were brightly displayed through every detail of the presentation and atmosphere. The room had beautiful decorations of black and gold and the view from the 50th floor of Oklahoma City was absolutely breathtaking. The ABC and STAR Award recipients from the past year were recognized at the start of the event. Our two Community Enrichment grant recipients—Heartline, Inc. and Children’s Hospital Foundation—were also in attendance for their check presentation from JLOC. Members of the Community Advisory Board also joined for this event. The true stars of Legacy & Legends were our well-deserving award recipients: Polly Nichols—President’s Spirt of Commitment Award, Beth Kerr—Sustainer of the Year, and Barbara Eskridge—Mary Bakers Rumsey Lifetime Achievement Award. Legacy & Legends Co-Chairs, Jamie Manoles and Heather Coyle, not only played a major role in the planning of this event all year, but acted as Emcees to ensure the program ran smoothly. Marnie Taylor
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introduced Mrs. Kerr by reading her a heartfelt letter she wrote about their friendship. Mrs. Kerr was presented with her award, along with a $1,000 check from JLOC to the Edmond Historical Society & Museum on her behalf. Samara Terrill introduced Mrs. Eskridge and told the crowd about Barbara’s servant heart and passion to service the community. Mrs. Eskridge was presented her award and a $1,000 check from JLOC to the Oklahoma United Methodist Circle of Care in her honor. Lastly, Justice Steven Taylor introduced Mrs. Nichols with stories of their lifelong friendship. Mrs. Nichols was presented her award alongside Kari Watkins, Executive Director of the Oklahoma City National Memorial Foundation, who accepted a $1,000 check from JLOC in honor of Mrs. Nichols. All of the award recipients have dedicated much of their time, life, and resources to the
worthy causes they represent, and have undoubtedly created legacies of which they should be proud. The Junior League of Oklahoma City is honored to call these women members, community partners, and friends.
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Membership LEAVE OF ABSENCE
MARRIAGES & ENGAGEMENTS
Joanna Borelli Amber Brock Melauna Wescott Colleen Hatfield
Brandi Davison Bowers – Marriage
EMERGENCY LEAVE Kimberly Swan Katie Jones Jamie Bradley
TRANSFER IN Jessica Scott Kimberly Cookson Allison Helms Keisha Landry Jennifer Kalil Lauren Watts
TRANSFER OUT Virginia Wallingford Kelsi Lee Karen Lynn Allison Summers
REINSTATEMENT Lorrie Tharp Staci Aduddell Cindy Derryberry Kerri Beasley
BIRTHS Becky Taylor – Baby Girl Briana Stone – Baby Girl Daniella Knighten – Baby Girl Danielle Deen – Baby Boy Jenifer Cefalo – Baby Boy Laura Scott – Baby Girl Moira McCarthy- Parham – Baby Girl
CONDOLENCES Katie Stuewe – Passing of Grandfather Kim Swan – Passing of Boyfriend Hyla Glover – Passed Away Jordan Ashley Smith – Passing of Father Leslie Baumert – Passing of Husband Leah Sullivan-Passing of Grandfather Lydia Sullivan-Benham-Passing of Grandfather Jordon Ashley Smith-Passing of Father Kristen Brown-Passing of Grandmother in law Leslie Baumert-Passing of Husband
CARE & CONCERN Whitney Porch-VanHeuvelen Cherry Kay Clifford Deidre Bales-Poirot
RESIGNATION Jennifer Thurman Jordon Cartmell Rachel Stuart Leslie Tommerup Kate O’Rourke Ann Salyer Cox Erin Hulsey Lori McConnell
Courtesy & Recognition Report CELEBRATION! Mary Ruth Ferguson – 107th Birthday!!! Mary Nichols – Celebrated her 100th Birthday in November!!!
CONGRATULATIONS Laura Steen – New Job Sheena Karami – New Job
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MEMBER NUMBERS AC TI V E 4 3 2 PROV I SI O N A L 1 0 3 SU STA I N I N G 85 7 TOTA L 1 3 9 2
Adorn helps businesses and residential clients create amazing first impressions with custom container gardens and outdoor décor. ELIZ ABE TH RICHARDSON
elizabeth@adornokc.com 405.255.1730 www.adornokc.com
SUSTAINERS’ TAKE TO THE OSCARS Sustainers enjoyed an informative “Lunch and Learn” on Wednesday, February 22, featuring Oklahoma City Film Historian, Elizabeth Anthony. Elizabeth shared her experience working as a member of the production staff for the 75th Annual Academy Awards in March 2003. Elizabeth was responsible for consulting on the “Previous Oscar Winners Reunion” segment of the telecast, and she shared her experience of meeting several of the movie stars who participated in the tribute, including Julie Andrews, Olivia de Haviland, Julia Roberts and Denzel Washington. Elizabeth also shared some interesting insights into the production of the Oscars. Sustainers had a wonderful time lunching, learning, and vicariously enjoying the glamour of the Oscars.
The League Link Committee’s
FAVORITE PATIOS IN OKC In no particular order, here are the League Link committee’s favorite patios to frequent!
Barrios Cultivar Empire Slice House Fassler Hall Museum Café
Packard’s RePUBlic Sidecar The Pump West
ACTIVE EMERALD STANLEY NAMED MRS. OKLAHOMA Emerald Stanley, Mrs. Oklahoma 2017, a stay-at-home mother – and self-proclaimed “C.E.O. of the Stanley Household” – was born in Oklahoma City, but grew up near New Orleans, Louisiana, where she developed her love of dance, soccer, country music and down-home Cajun cooking. She has
been an Active member of the Junior League of Oklahoma City for over a decade, and is currently volunteering for Elementary Health. The Junior League would like to thank Emerald for all her wonderful service in the community and congratulate her on this wonderful honor.
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Spotlight on Sustainer Suzanne Bockus
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uzanne was 32 years old when she became a Provisional member of the Junior League of Oklahoma City and has since served the League in many capacities. Now a Sustaining member, Suzanne remains an active part of the community and has been named Woman of the Year for the Oklahoma City Alumnae chapter of Kappa Alpha Theta. Suzanne graduated from high school in Tulsa in 1975 and attended the University of
Oklahoma, studying Clinical Nutrition. She married her college sweetheart, Bruce, and the pair have two grown children, Amy and Lee, and two granddaughters, Lilly and Suzanne. Service and leadership has been a mainstay in Suzanne’s life, evidenced by her commitment to JLOC. After her Provisional year, Suzanne served on the Remarkable
LITTLE LEAGUERS
Tennyson Reagan Elizabeth Stuewe Born March 7, 2017 Parents are Katie & Chad Stuewe
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Shop board, served as PAT Chairman, and loved her children’s theater placement. She has served on the OKC Beautiful board for nine years and is a member of the twenty-fifth class of Leadership Oklahoma City. What’s more, she has also been active in the Oklahoma City
"The littlest feet make the biggest footprints in our hearts." —UNKNOWN
Nellie (“Ellie”) Grace Walsh
Madeline Louise Steen
Weston James Deen
Born August 31, 2016 Parents are Kelli & Conor Walsh
Born August 22, 2016 Parents are Laura & Conner Steen
Born January 11, 2017 Parents are Danielle & Toby Deen
Kappa Alpha Theta Alumnae Chapter, serving in numerous positions such as President, Flaming Festival Chairman, and Chapter Delegate to the Greater Oklahoma City Alumnae Panhellenic Association. Suzanne has been named the 2017 Oklahoma City Kappa Alpha Theta Woman of the Year and was honored at the OKC Panhellenic Women of the Year Luncheon on April 5. A Master Gardener and avid traveler, Suzanne loves the great outdoors. It was a goal of hers and Bruce’s to take their children to all 50 states before they finished high school and they did. They have also enjoyed trips to Israel, Greece, missions in Honduras, Africa, and Peru, among others. When asked why she joined JLOC, Suzanne said, “I joined Junior League to meet other women, to network and to serve together. I wanted to give back to my community with women I could connect with.”
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GIRLS ON THE BLOCK Mallory McDaniels PROVISIONAL What would your ideal summer block party look like? Pool party in my backyard! All of my friends and family cooling off in the pool in the extreme Oklahoma heat!
What food would you serve? Grilled Fajitas, Chips, Guacamole and Margaritas.
What would be on your playlist? Katy Perry, Taylor Swift, and of course Britney Spears.
Kelli Hilgenfeld ACTIVE What would your ideal summer block party look like? I love to host friends and family at my house. I think a fiesta theme is fun because it gets people in the mood for summer.
What food would you serve? A taco bar is great because it provides many options. Chick-Fil-A nuggets are also a must!
What would be on your playlist? Classic pop hits from the late 1990s/early 2000s to get the dance party started.
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Alexis Lux BOARD MEMBER What would your ideal summer block party look like? My ideal summer is spent in my backyard pool deemed the "Lux Club" surrounded by my friends.
What food would you serve? Lux Club Specials, hummus & veggies, coconut popcorn and grilled pizza.
What would be on your playlist? I love Classic Rock so Billy Joel, the Eagles, Aerosmith and feel good songs from my childhood.
Amy Bankhead SUSTAINER What would your ideal summer block party look like? My ideal summer block party would be a Mexican theme fiesta held in the early evening as it begins to cool down.
What food would you serve? The party would include the three T's. Tacos, Tunes and Tequila.
What would be on your playlist? Guests would be dancing to the music of a live, large and festive Mariachi Band.
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Meet Your League What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? As a new member, I haven't gotten to write a lot of pieces for League Link yet; however, I have greatly enjoyed contributing seasonal recipes for each issue. Why did you join the League Link Committee? I hopped on the League Link committee because it mirrors what I do on the news! We have the chance to tell our viewers and readers what's happening within the organization, what they can look forward to, AND we get to highlight some pretty fantastic women while we're at it :)
Why did you join the League Link Committee? I'm constantly blown away by the talent on the League Link Committee this year. These women are the best-of-the-best! They come up with unique and creative ways to feature diverse aspects of our organization, providing compelling articles and images to highlight JLOC's work to our general membership, community partners, and stakeholders. I highly recommend everyone serve on this committee at least once during their League career! I promise you'll learn a lot about JLOC and won't be disappointed!!!
BETH ARMSTRONG
Active Tell the readers a little about yourself. I am the Director of Welcoming Ministry at St. Luke’s United Methodist Church. My hobbies include cooking, running, reading, and music. I am married with two fur babies, Sadie my cat and Violet my corgi. What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? Sustainer Spotlight: Suzanne Bockus. Why did you join the League Link Committee? I joined because I earned a degree in journalism and I love to write! Writing for the League means I get to meet lots of Leaguers and talk to them about what they love to do.
FARESHTEH HAMIDI
Assistant Editor League Link SHEENA KARAMI
Communications V.P. Tell the readers a little about yourself. I'm the Director of Corporate Communications and Public Relations for Express Employment Professionals (International HQ). My hobbies include JLOC, JLOC, and more JLOC... sprinkled in with cycling, other community and civic volunteerism, and spending time with friends/family. I have one fur-baby, Lilly the Shih-Tzu, who just celebrated her 11th birthday on April 17!
MARKIE MARTIN
Provisional Member Tell the readers a little about yourself. Hey everyone, Markie Martin here! I'm a provisional member, and the morning news anchor over at KOCO 5. I'm a lover of all things travel, cooking and fitness.
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What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? Unlike other members of the committee, I don't write pieces for the League Link. As Communications VP, I'm responsible for restructuring and editing pieces, as needed, to ensure the publication flows and has a consistent "voice". With that being said, the 2016-17 committee has made my job so incredibly easy, due in part to their amazing skills! Hats off to them for submitting solid and well-written content for each-and-every issue!
Tell the readers a little about yourself. I am an Emergency Department Scribe. My hobbies include working out and painting. I am not married and have no children but I will be starting law school in the fall! What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? The Legacy & Legends articles in 2015 & 2016. Why did you join the League Link Committee? I find writing in a non-academic setting to be refreshing and relaxing.
Link Committee spotlights - they are fun and I get to know more women around the league! Why did you join the league link committee? I joined LL because I missed writing. As a former writer and voracious reader, I knew I wanted to be on the committee that dispersed information to women around the metro.
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LEAH JACKSON
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Tell the readers a little about yourself. I am the President of Eventures, Inc. (I have the best job in the world because I am able to work with the most fantastic clients to create unimaginable experiences!) My husband of 8 years, Ryan is the Controller of a Fire and Water Restoration company. Between both of our careers, we haven’t made time for kiddos, but we do make time for our two Bengal Cats, Zoe and Kirbe!
Tell the readers a little about yourself. I am a homemaker who enjoys cooking, cars and traveling. I am married with two kids.
What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? My favorite piece I’ve written is the Health Spotlight in the very first issue this year. It focused on the Junior League’s involvement with The Children’s Hospital at OU Medical Center, and the great work that they are doing to provide healthcare for Oklahoma’s children. It’s easy to think of our health focus as eating right and staying active, but for so many Oklahomans, health is something valuable that they cherish every day! Why did you join the League Link Committee? I volunteered to sign up for the League Link Committee because after taking a break from JLOC for a few years, I wanted to be a part of elements of the League that would play to my strengths and talents. Having experience in being Communications Director for a large local non-profit, as well as much news writing experience, it seemed like a logical way to utilize my talents to help the League!
What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? I haven’t written anything this year, but I have enjoyed taking pictures as league photographer. ILANA SHARPE Why did you join the league link committee? I joined the league link committee because I wanted to learn the ends and outs of magazine publishing.
SADIE NEWELL
Active Tell the readers a little about yourself. I am a realtor who loves yoga, playing with my dog Gus, book club and drinking a nice glass of red wine. I’m engaged to be married! What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? I love doing the
League Link Editor Tell the readers a little about yourself. I’m an attorney practicing primarily in the areas of Estate Planning, Probate, Oil and Gas Law, and corporate planning at the law firm of Robertson & Williams. I love to read a good book and travel – doesn’t matter where, I’m packed and ready to go. I also enjoy hanging out with friends and family, and of course my various community involvement. I have been married for the past 5 ½ years and my husband Dan and I have two adorable kiddos, Lorelei (age 3) and Gabriel (age 22 months). What has been your favorite piece you have written for the league link? As Editor, I have had the privilege of writing several pieces this year. Far and away my favorite pieces have been the Spotlight on Sustainer pieces. I have enjoyed speaking with some truly wonderful woman and having them share their stories with me. Why did you join the league link committee? I joined the committee when I was asked to be Assistant Editor. It has been a wonderful 2-year experience and I have really enjoyed getting to know the wonderful ladies of this committee.
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Find the Hidden Heart!
CONGRATULATIONS
Leanne Waddell!
She found the hidden heart in the previous issue and won!
The heart was hiding on page 11 in the March 2017 issue!
Email Jenn Tupps (jenntupps@hotmail.com) if you spot the heart. Those who find it will be entered into a drawing for a prize! 16 MAY 2017
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Healthy You Parents’ Night Out Placement
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t was the first Tuesday in December and time for our monthly JLOC placement. We host activities and dinner for families at OU Children’s Hospital in The Zone. On this cold evening, 7-year-old *Jacob and his mom came to visit our placement. He saw a train and car set in the corner, and his eyes lit up. He played with the train and cars for the whole evening while his mom ate dinner and enjoyed some peaceful time to herself. Jacob had limited use of his right arm but that did not limit Jacob or his fun.
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Before the families leave for the night, they draw to win a prize to take with them to their hospital room. On this night, Jacob won a car set. He jumped up and down, grasped the large box with his left hand and with a heart full of enthusiasm and joy, carried it to his wagon and pulled it out the door. Seeing this moment of pure happiness in Jacob reminded me why I get out on a cold night in December to serve others with my Junior League friends,” said Katy Hawkins, one of the Healthy You Parents’ Night Out placement members.
This is one example of the simple differences we make in the lives of families who are faced with the gut-wrenching reality of having a child with an illness. The families we serve at Parents’ Night Out are often facing difficult diagnoses and have had long, exhausting days cooped up in hospital rooms. Parents’ Night Out offers a reprieve from the stresses of a family’s day in the hospital. Some of the parents simply enjoy having somebody to listen to their challenges. Others want to quietly paint or color and enjoy some silence to process their day while their kids play. One of my most memorable moments was meeting a young girl who had been undergoing extensive treatment. During our very first class, she painted a gorgeous canvas while her father painted next to her. They were creating memories together right in front of us during one of the most difficult times they will probably ever face. It was timeless and heartfelt. Member Deemah Ramadan said, “At Parents’ Night Out, the patients and their families are able to smile and forget their burdens for a moment. We get to see their stresses relieved and be a part of that. When my sister was undergoing treatment, I spent a lot of time in the hospital with her, and I understand the stresses and pain these families feel. We are able to provide priceless time for them to enjoy moments of normalcy and slow down the clock. I am so grateful to JLOC for this opportunity to serve my community in a way that I could have never done on my own.” At Parents’ Night Out, we often see the same families at The Zone and get to follow how they are doing and celebrate
their victories with them. Each session is a reminder that our challenging work days and kids are a blessing that we should count every single day. “As the months went on, we were able to see a lot of the same families come to The Zone, but it was even better when we found out a patient was finally able to go home! Parents’ Night Out provides such a bright light in the days of the families. Everyone always left with a smile on their faces,” said member Brooke Jensen. As members of the League, the placement provides an opportunity for us to get to know each other and creates lifelong friendships. The members of Parents’ Night Out enjoyed planning sessions and happy hours outside of our League service that enabled us to get to know each other and our passions. “I have really enjoyed getting to know my fellow JLOC ladies,” said Meg Walsh. “I am a transfer member to JLOC, and the ladies I have gotten to work with and talk to have been lovely and have really made me feel like I am part of the organization. I am transferring again this summer and will definitely miss the friends I have made in this placement.”
For most of us, it’s the combination of those we serve at OU Children’s and the other JLOC members that make this placement so amazing. I have never seen a group of more compassionate women than in this placement. Each month, the commitment of the members to make every single family feel comfortable and welcome amazes me. I am grateful for the opportunity to have gotten to know women in the League who are not only willing to serve others, but do so with the commitment to leave those we serve better than when we met them. It has truly been a life changing experience that I will never forget,” said Hayley Moore, Project Manager. *Name has been changed for privacy purposes.
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Season’s Eatings! refrigerator or at room temperature. If marinated in refrigerator, let sit for 15 minutes to take the chill off before baking. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Bake wings in greased cookie sheet for 35-40 minutes, turning cookie sheet once. Remove from oven and baste with more BBQ sauce and bake another 10 minutes. Garnish with green onion and serve with celery sticks!
Pulled Pork Barbeque TOTAL TIME: 9 HOURS 35 MIN ACTIVE: 20 MIN SERVES: 12
Ingredients DRY RUB
Lavender Lemonade
Caramelized BBQ Chicken Wings
Ingredients 2 cups boiling water 2 cups cold water 1 1/4 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice (about 7 lemons) 1 cup granulated sugar 1 1/2 teaspoon lavender extract
Ingredients 18 chicken wings, split & tips removed 1 cup Sweet Baby Rays BBQ sauce
RECIPE COURTESY OF BETH ARMSTRONG
Directions Dissolve 1 cup sugar into boiling water. Let cool, then add cold water, lemon juice, and lavender extract and stir. Garnish with lemon slice and fresh lavender!
RECIPE COURTESY OF BETH ARMSTRONG
MARINADE
3/4 cup Sweet Baby Ray’s BBQ sauce 1/3 cup apple cider vinegar 1/2 cup honey 1 tablespoon garlic powder 1/2 teaspoon paprika 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon pepper Directions Marinate chicken wings for at least 1 hour in
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3 tablespoons paprika 1 tablespoon garlic powder 1 tablespoon brown sugar 1 tablespoon dry mustard 3 tablespoons coarse sea salt 1 (5-7lb) pork roast, preferably shoulder or Boston butt CIDER-VINEGAR BARBEQUE SAUCE
1 1/2 cups cider vinegar 1 cup yellow or brown mustard 1/2 cup ketchup 1/3 cup packed brown sugar 2 garlic cloves, smashed 1 teaspoon kosher salt 1 teaspoon cayenne 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper Pan drippings from the pork 12 hamburger buns 1 recipe Cole slaw (recipe below) Pickle spears, for serving COLE SLAW
1 head green cabbage, shredded
Summer is upon us! Enjoy some of these delicious recipes, be it a dish to take with you on that romantic picnic or a backyard barbeque or some snacks to munch on by the pool. Get out and enjoy the weather with some of these delicious treats.
2 carrots, grated 1 red onion, thinly sliced 2 green onions (white and green parts), chopped 1 fresh red chile, sliced 1 1/2 cups mayonnaise 1/4 cup Dijon mustard 1 tablespoon cider vinegar 1 lemon, juiced Pinch sugar 1/2 teaspoon celery seed Several dashes hot sauce Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
coated with the sauce. To serve, spoon the pulled pork mixture onto the bottom half of each hamburger bun, and top with some slaw. Serve with pickle spears and the remaining sauce on the side.
Cole Slaw Combine the cabbage, carrots, red onion, green onions, and chile in a large bowl.
In another bowl, stir together the mayonnaise, mustard, vinegar, lemon juice, and sugar. Pour the dressing over the cabbage mixture and toss gently to mix. Season the cole slaw with the celery seed, hot sauce, salt, and black pepper. Chill for 2 hours in the refrigerator before serving.
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Caramelized BBQ Chicken Wings
Directions
Cider-Vinegar Barbecue Sauce Mix the paprika, garlic power, brown sugar, dry mustard, and salt together in a small bowl. Rub the spice blend all over the pork. Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour, or up to overnight. Preheat the oven to 300 degrees F. Put the pork in a roasting pan and roast it for about 6 hours. An instant-read thermometer stuck into the thickest part of the pork should register 170 degrees F, but basically, what you want to do is to roast it until it’s falling apart. While the pork is roasting, make the barbecue sauce. Combine the vinegar, mustard, ketchup, brown sugar, garlic, salt, cayenne, and black pepper in a saucepan over medium heat. Simmer gently, stirring, for 10 minutes until the sugar dissolves. Take it off the heat and let it sit until you’re ready for it. When the pork is done, take it out of the oven and put it on a large platter. Allow the meat to rest for about 10 minutes. While it’s resting, deglaze the pan over medium heat with 3/4 cup water, scraping with a wooden spoon to pick up all of the browned bits. Reduce by about half. Pour that into the saucepan with the sauce and cook 5 minutes. While the pork is still warm, you want to “pull” the meat: Grab 2 forks. Using 1 to steady the meat, use the other to “pull” shreds of meat off the roast. Put the shredded pork in a bowl and pour half of the sauce over. Stir it all up well so that the pork is 21
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Season’s Eatings!
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leaves chopped (about 2 cups) 1/4 cup red wine vinegar 1 clove garlic 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard 1/2 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper 3/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil ANTIPASTO SALAD
Antipasto Salad TOTAL TIME: 35 MINUTES SERVES: 4 TO 6
Ingredients RED WINE VINAIGRETTE
1 bunch fresh basil, stemmed and
1 pound fusilli pasta 1/2 cup hard salami, cut into strips (about 3 oz.) 1/2 cup smoked turkey, cut into strips (about 3 oz.) 1/4 cup provolone cheese, cut into strips 1/4 cup grated Asiago cheese 2 tablespoons green olives, halved and
pitted 2 tablespoons roasted red peppers, cut into strips 1/4 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper Directions
Vinaigrette In a blender, add the basil, vinegar, garlic, mustard, salt and pepper. Blend until the herbs are finely chopped. With the machine running, drizzle in the olive oil until the dressing is smooth. Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil over high heat. Add the pasta and cook until tender but still firm to the bite, stirring occasionally, about 8 to 10 minutes. Drain pasta. In a large bowl, toss together the cooked pasta with the remaining salad ingredients. Drizzle with
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2016—2017 Community Summary BY SABRINA FROEHLICH
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hat a year! As a leader in Community Council the last several years, year after year I’ve said to myself, “there’s no way to top this year.” And then a new year comes along and it’s even better than the one before! To say I’m proud to be a member of the Junior League of Oklahoma City is an understatement and it’s because of the work our members are doing in the local community. This year we have 15 Traditional Placements and six Variety Pack projects, putting approximately 275 of our active members directly back into the Oklahoma City community. Projects range from bagging pet food at the local Pet Food Pantry for pets of veterans, the homeless, and the elderly so that they can keep their furry companion, to leading the kids/teens at the Family Junction Youth Shelter in a variety of activities and experiences to live a healthy life on their own when they turn 18, to playing physically stimulating games with the elementary children at the Boys & Girls Club to remind them that exercise is fun. Our focus is health and in one way or another we are meeting the community population where they are in life, leading them to be physically, mentally, and financially stronger. This year I have been blown away by the creativity our volunteers use in their projects to make the experience incredible for the participant as well as the League member. At Wellness for Life, a group of volunteers thought it would be fun to host a Great
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Gatsby party. Complete with a poker table and dealer, the decorations and props got everyone in the spirit of the 1920s, allowing our League members to transport the residents of Concordia back in time. And what Gold Coast era party would be complete without a little dancing? The volunteers even taught the party goers the Charleston. This was a night that won’t soon be forgotten! Anyone with school-aged children knows how hard it can be to feed and entertain the kids over the their Winter Holiday break. For a single parent who works full-time to make ends meet it is even harder. The volunteers at Single Parents Support Groups recognized an opportunity to take a little stress off the moms during the already stressful holiday season and put together “Holiday Break Survival Baskets.” They filled them with food, games, activities that can be done together as a family, and even a little something special just for mom. One mom cried as she opened it, saying how much it meant to her that our volunteers thought of them in that small way. The women and children at the YWCA Domestic Violence Shelter have been through so much before they move in to the shelter - experiences that no one should have to endure, yet they have found a way to get out of their bad circumstances and are fighting to make a better life for themselves and their children. Our volunteers bring love and compassion each week meeting them where they are. Positive self-image and mental wellness has been a large focus this year. The volunteers introduced the group to a practice
called Zen Doodling where participants intentionally draw shapes as a way to relax, calm, and focus the mind. Zen Doodling has the calming effects of meditation and the soothing effects of drawing and requires no artistic ability or training. The women and children loved the practice and hopefully some are even continuing it on their own. These are just a few of the countless examples of how our volunteers aren’t just showing up but they are present and thinking about new and different ways to make a greater impact on the people of our community to enrich their lives if even in some small way. We have so many women with incredible gifts and I am thankful they choose to apply those gifts as community volunteers with the Junior League of Oklahoma City. Truly #WeAreJLOC.
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What’s in Your Queue? QUESTIONS:
1. What is your favorite summer destination? 2. Walt Disney World or Disney Land and why? 3. During your flight, will you prefer earphones, a book, talking to your neighbor, or sleep?
Rachel Colvin
Susan Edwards
Tracey Frederick
Lauren Rieken-Hobbs
Provisional
Sustainer
Board Member
Active
1. I love to relax on a beach with a book and a cold beverage—I also love going to visit my nieces and nephews, wherever they are. 2. I’ve never been to either—but I REALLY want to go to the Wizarding World of Harry Potter! 3. I typically have on my headphones, and either read a book, watch a movie, or play Candy Crush. Of course, I’ve never met a stranger, so I will always strike up a conversation with someone.
1. Really any place with my family! I prefer warm vacation spots in the summer, so a few of my favorites have been - Mexico, Chicago, Branson, and Eureka Springs! 2. Neither! I’ve never been to either and have no desire to! LOL 3. I get motion sickness trying to read (both on flights and in cars, boo!), so I usually just go to sleep. My husband tells me he is amazed at how quickly I can fall asleep while traveling!
1. The beach, I love the beach! Normally I try to sneak off to Mexico at least once a year. 2. I have been fortunate enough to have had the opportunity to visit both and I loved Walt Disney World. I enjoyed Walt Disney World because it was a surprise trip. :) 3. I prefer to listen to personal development eBooks while I travel, so I would have to say earphones and a book.
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1. Beaver Creek , Colorado. 2. Disney World. I’ve never been to Disney Land, but have wonderful memories of taking our daughters to Disney World when they were 8 and 5. (They are now 37 and 34) 3. Definitely prefer a book.
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Women Building a Better OKC
MISSION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. is an organization of women committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women and improving the community through effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. Its purpose is exclusively educational and charitable.
VISION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. will empower volunteers to impact our community and enrich lives.
FOCUS Women Building a Better Oklahoma City
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