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SIX LIES That Porn Tells Girls BY STEVE GALLAGHER Founder and President of Pure Life Ministries
There is no question that pornography has become mainstream in our culture, with its foul odor detected nearly everywhere. It should go without saying that pornography is one of the deceptive concoctions proffered by Satan, the “father of all lies.” Girls who subject themselves to it are allowing their perspectives and their hearts to be shaped and influenced by at least a half-dozen false premises conveyed through porn. Lie #1: “My value as a person is determined by my sexiness.” The more a young lady views pornography, the more this falsehood will become entrenched in her thinking. She will constantly be comparing herself to others. If she is skinny, she will lament the fact that she isn’t more buxom. If she has a full figure, then she will wish she were slender. Devils use this lie to relentlessly torment girls. The mentality that this perpetuates is what is driving the current cosmetic surgery fad in our country. The truth is that a woman’s value is in her life with God— not her body. Lie #2: “Sex is the most important thing in life.” This is the predominant theme woven through every script of adult entertainment films. Storylines revolve around characters that are enjoying one perfect sexual scenario after another. Women who buy into this lie eventually discover that the fulfillment these movies promise is all a fantasy. The truth is that sex—in its proper place—is a wonderful addition to life, but sex in itself can never provide lasting satisfaction. Lie #3: “The girls in the porn industry are having the time of their lives.” No, those girls are there because they see it as a ticket to fleeting fame or the money needed to support a drug habit. Any girl who thinks porn models and actresses are enjoying themselves would be
well-advised to consider the fact that the adult entertainment industry is full of empty and miserable people trying to figure out where they went wrong in life. Lie #4: “There is nothing sacred about sex.” God created sexuality as a means for a husband and his wife to physically express their deepest devotion to each other. The adult entertainment industry has done its utmost to devalue it into purely animalistic behavior. Or, as Kathleen Parker (Washington Post) describes it, “…over-endowed adults consorting like a troop of deranged baboons…” Lie #5: “Indulging my sexual desires is liberating.” The image conveyed is one of carefree women reclaiming their freedom to fully experience life’s grandest pleasure. They don’t want outdated, puritanical morals being forced upon them, and what could be more liberating than to enjoy sexual pleasure? The truth is that sin always brings one into terrible bondage. Millions who have bought into this lie live in perpetual slavery. The “passing pleasures of sin” have long-since gone; all that remains are the ever-present demands of a relentless addiction. Lie #6: “Illicit sex has no consequences.” The images of delicious smiles and thrilling moments of ecstasy betray the truth of what comes later: shame, guilt, loss of self-respect, STD’s and perhaps worst of all: the corruption of the human soul. Pornography warps a person’s perspectives on sexuality, pollutes the mind, sears the conscience, hardens the heart and fills the inner life with perversion. Pornography promises enormous satisfaction but leaves its user in utter misery. That’s the truth that the pornographers will never tell the girls who succumb to its enticements.
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Twenty years ago, I failed to be on “affair-alert” and Satan took advantage of my naiveté. I had been raised in an evangelical church, attended a Christian college, married a minister and was serving God, church, and community for twenty-plus years when I was blindsided by Satan’s schemes. I had naively believed that my position in ministry gave me special protection. Increasing my vulnerability was my view that adultery was a gross sin that I knew I was incapable of committing. Yet during a dry season where love waxed cold and numerous senseless tragedies occurred which led me to question and doubt the goodness of God, I let my guard down. Finding my marriage empty of comfort, I allowed a male friend to become more than “just friends.” The lies of Satan that I once rejected outright now became possibilities I not only entertained but ultimately engaged in. Eighteen months later I was on my
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I was being repeatedly warned in God’s Word that if I continued down my rebellious path, my life would further diminish. Likewise, I knew that if I turned from my sin and trusted God that the reverse would happen: The ruins shall be rebuilt…and I will make you prosper more than before. Then you will know that I am the Lord… On the day I cleanse you from all your sins… the ruins shall be rebuilt… then the nations around you will know that I the Lord have rebuilt what was destroyed, and have replanted what was desolate (EZEKIEL 36:12, 33, 36 emphasis added). This is prosperity! As I surveyed my own ruin, I came to the decision that I wanted God’s prosperity in my life more than I wanted my sin. It all turned around when I dropped to my knees with God’s Word ringing in my ears: “On the day I cleanse you from all your sins...” There must be in our life an “On the day” moment we can point to! For everything that follows hereafter hinges, “On the Day.” And it was momentous for me. Even though I had been raised in an evangelical church and knelt at the altar many times seeking forgiveness, I felt that with this deep confession I was converted for the very first time. What made the difference? I had nothing more to lose, and I desperately beseeched God with godly remorse and repentance. With gut-wrenching realness my confession poured out and it wasn’t pretty: I was a sinner. I was an adulterer. My entire life was a sham…and the pain that now engulfed me was my fault and exactly what I deserved. I saw clearly that because I “had made lies my refuge and in falsehood I had taken shelter” (ISAIAH 28:15), my life was in shambles. I broke before God, crying out: Have mercy upon me, O God…. For I acknowledge my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against You, You only have I sinned, and done this evil in your sight… (PSALM 51:3-4) Either God would bestow mercy, in spite of the ugly, naked truth that vomited out of me, or He would find me so repulsive that He would strike me dead and put me out of my misery. Either way it mattered not, for the load of guilt, shame, and deceit was crushing me. Today, my greatest love affair is with
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the One who did show mercy even though I deserved to be banished for all eternity. Supreme brokenness over what I had done, who I had become, and the consequences I faced was the wake-up call I needed to help me see that I needed a Savior! A Savior who could rescue me from sin’s bondage, renew my soul, and rebuild the ruins of my life. On The Day the Lord cleansed me from all my sins, circumstances began to change, eventually leading to the fulfillment of His promise that the ruins shall be rebuilt. Three years later, a marriage that was completely dead was raised from its grave and completely restored— to the glory of God! David and I have now been re-married for 16 years. God has redeemed my life, restored a shattered heart to wholeness, and reconciled broken relationships. As much as I would like to, I cannot delete the experience of adultery out of my heart and life. So I have dedicated it to God, asking him to use my worst defeat for His glory. Little did I dream of what He would call me to do. One day, several years ago, I sat at my desk as a very perplexed woman. I was torn over what I felt God was calling me to do: write a book about my story of adultery. Anxiety filled me. “Is this what you really want God? You want me to devote several hours a day to writing about this?” I had always dreamed of being an author— but this topic was not at all what I had fancied writing about! But I had been in turmoil over it for months, and I needed an answer. One day as I pounded my defense before God in prayer, I heard the Holy Spirit say, “It is not your story I am asking you to tell; it is My story of redemption, restoration, and reconciliation that I have written upon a broken and ruined life!” Immediately, I capitulated. For I knew He was right, and all the fears and concerns I had over its telling slipped away. To tell the story of my descent into adultery and my ascent out of its ruin is a story I now love to tell—for it tells a story of a powerful love made visible in God’s marvelous story of redemption, restoration, and reconciliation. My pitiful story is an example of utter failure and abomination before God. When it was touched by God’s Story however, I witnessed a miracle that moved me from utter despair to undying devotion of Jesus Christ. It is a
story I am compelled to tell to others—to strengthen those who have lost their way. Thus, my first book, Confessions of an Adulterous Christian Woman was published and, based upon the feedback I have received—from not only readers in America but from several other countries around the world—it’s apparent that it hit a nerve within the Christian Church. The Lord led me to do a follow up book that will be published soon through Pure Life Ministries called Adultery’s Kiss of Death: How something that feels so right can be so wrong. The message in both books can be summed up simply like this: Christians at an alarming rate are deserting their first love: Jesus Christ. And it is causing untold grief, regret, and ruin in the Kingdom of God. I sit and weep at the stories I receive, and I realize why God has led me to write these books regarding such a delicate topic. I totally understand how we can be deceived and reach for adultery as a “way out” of whatever is making us unhappy; yet I cannot understand how its kiss of death does not drive adulterers to fall before the Savior in complete contrition, for He is waiting with open arms to show mercy and rebuild the ruins of their lives—as He has mine. That is the Story I am compelled to share. To urge the fallen to fall before the One who can do the unthinkable in our lives after we have committed the unthinkable. Because of Jesus Christ—He can re-story our pitiful stories, for He never leaves us where He finds us. Let Him be the Author of your story and, in doing so, you will score a great victory by defeating Satan from having the last word. Lyndell Hetrick Holtz is an author and speaker regarding adultery’s devastation upon Church and Family but also of the powerful, healing love of God that can redeem, restore, and rebuild shattered lives in miraculous ways. Her first book, “Confessions of an Adulterous Christian Woman,” can be purchased on Amazon. Her latest book, “Adultery’s Kiss of Death” can be purchased on Amazon or through Pure Life Ministries. David and Lyndell reside in Brookville, PA and have 4 children and 10 grandchildren. She can be contacted via email at lyndellholtz@gmail.com.
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So vividly does Lyndell Holtz describe the battle she experienced through her own affair that one can almost feel the intensity of the conflict, smell the burning gunpowder and sense the anguish of war. She writes as one who has experienced it all: the early days of the affair with all its intoxicating thrills, the grinding down of the bliss-filled fantasy and the devastation of its aftermath. However, the story doesn’t end there. She came through this terrific battle not only as a victorious survivor but as a godly woman. She faced the enemy and defeated him! And now she has the expertise and the authority to help others. “I highly recommend Adultery’s Kiss of Death. If you have been tempted to or have actually experienced adultery, this book covers everything that is needed for you to emerge victoriously. I write that in all sincerity as one who has devoted his life to helping people come out of habitual sexual sin. Adultery’s Kiss of Death puts into eloquent prose exactly what you are experiencing, the practical steps needed to overcome and the tremendous rewards of putting this appalling experience behind you. This is the book you need and I encourage you to buy it.” — STEVE GALLAGHER
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B Y S T E V E & K AT H Y G A L L A G H E R Immorality has always been there, of course, simmering just under the surface of society’s accepted norms. But Satan envisioned an America free from all moral restraints. Using select individuals, like Alfred Kinsey and Hugh Hefner among others, he has successfully transformed the moral landscape of the U.S. into a sexual playland where practically the only behavior frowned upon is abstinence. This is the thoroughly sexualized culture the average 25-year-old Christian girl has been raised in. Consider this: By the time she entered puberty, Playboy magazine had already celebrated its 50th birthday, the marriage of the adult entertainment industry to America was enjoying its Silver Anniversary and a
new generation of pornographers were already entrenching themselves in the shadowy realm of the world-wide-web. Unquestionably, the mainstreaming of pornography has warped the thinking of today’s young people. However, it would be wrong to give the pornographers all of the credit for the new morality of our day. For instance, feminism has told young women to go after what they want and to live for themselves. The media has been conditioning girls—from a very early age—to the lie that their value is in their sexiness. Even our culture of prosperity has taught young women that it is their right to indulge every desire and to experiment with every curiosity—“I wonder what it would be like to…” The moral climate of today’s young people is much different even than that of the Baby Boomer generation. It is true, we Baby Boomers rebelled against the morality of preceding generations, but at least this moral mindset was in place to reject. Although we challenged it, we grew up in a day when there was a basic understanding of right and wrong behavior. Once we experienced the season of pleasure that comes with sin, many of us came to the Lord and returned to the morality of our forefathers. But today’s young woman must navigate her way through a plethora of enticements without the moral foundation most of us Baby Boomers take for granted. Of course, many Christian girls have avoided these traps and are faithfully following the Lord. Nevertheless, many others are falling prey to these sensuous allurements—apparently a frightening number of them. Desiring to get a sense of exactly what these girls are struggling with, in 2007 we conducted a survey through the Pure
Life Ministries website in which nearly 500 women (who acknowledged having struggled with sexual sin) participated. The results—which are included in our book for struggling women, Create in Me a Pure Heart—shocked even us. (Please see a partial list of these results on the following page.) FOUNDATIONAL FACTORS As we conducted our research, we narrowed the problem of sexual sin down to three primary, underlying motives. The desire for the attention of men has lurked within the hearts of women from time immemorial. From the earliest age, girls inherently understand that, to a large degree, their beauty establishes their value as a person in our society. In the past, a woman who wanted to be noticed might consider wearing a low-cut blouse or perhaps a clinging skirt. Today’s young women are operating on an entirely different level. They have been raised on the Internet—a world with its own activities, culture and value system. For instance, female exhibitionism (via webcam) is becoming an increasingly common practice. Even churched girls are privately admitting to posting provocative photos of themselves online. The longing for intimacy is another avenue into promiscuity. The willingness of girls to give up their virginity because they believe their boyfriends love them is nothing new—although the high percentages might be. What certainly is new is the number of girls who are willing to step outside of conventional expressions of sexuality in search of that intimacy. Judy was one such person. “I just wanted to be held… to be loved,” she recalls. She soon discovered that guys were more than willing to hold her but offering true love was CONTINUED ON PAGE 12 >>
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another matter. In her desire to connect emotionally, Judy eventually turned to other women—a phenomenon which is escalating among young girls. In the 1970’s and 1980’s, a girl might rebel against the norms of society and opt for the lesbian lifestyle. But she understood that her decision would very likely mark her behavior as being aberrant. However, in our current MTV-anything-goes culture, girls who opt for sexual relationships with each other are considered chic; they are venerated as trendsetters. There is one other factor that is affecting the sexual morality of this generation of young women: the Internet. Unquestionably, pornography dominates the landscape of the Internet, boasting upwards of 5 million websites. And according to one source, 28% of visitors to adult websites are female.1 This is not limited to the unchurched, either: a poll conducted by Today's Christian Woman's online newsletter found that 34% of its readers admitted to intentionally accessing online pornography.2 Nor is this all. Many women are becoming involved in chatrooms; in fact, women are twice as likely as men to visit chatrooms.3 Here, too, exists an entire culture unto itself. There are chatrooms that revolve around all kinds of innocuous interests, but the most popular are those which focus
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Online Survey of Struggling Women The following is a portion of the results from an online survey we conducted in 2007. Please keep in mind that the respondents are women who had acknowledged struggling with sexual sin and, consequently, these results should not be applied to the female Christian population at large. Complete survey results may be found in the most recent book published by Pure Life Ministries, Create in Me a Pure Heart: Answers for Struggling Women.
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on romance and sex. Basically, people meet in chatrooms and then check out to carry on their private conversations via instant messaging. Some women are attracted to (and often become addicted to) this kind of romance because it is strictly anonymous and they don’t have to concern themselves with messy breakups, STD’s or an unwanted pregnancy. One pastor’s daughter who valued her virginity gave the following as an added benefit to her online romance: “It was beautiful for me, because I didn’t have to give him my body in return.” The most surprising fact to emerge from current statistics about cyber-sex is that the percentages of churched and unchurched people involved appear to be about the same. This seems to indicate that the lifestyles of multitudes of evangelicals are not much different than those of flagrant unbelievers. One thing has become abundantly clear: sexual sin is not just a man’s issue anymore. Pastors, Christian counselors and women’s ministry leaders are going to have to equip themselves to respond much more effectively to the rising challenges facing Christian women in a post-porn culture. 1 www.toptenreviews.com. 2 Scott Covington and Curt Swindoll, Pornography: No Longer a Dirty Little Secret, www.NetAccountability.com. 3 www.toptenreviews.com.
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Which of the following types of behavior have you been involved in? Select all that apply. Self-gratification: Reading pornographic stories: Viewing adult movies alone: Promiscuity/fornication with other singles: On-line sexual conversations: Viewing adult movies with another person: Regularly viewing magazines/Internet porn: Straight but having bisexual experiences: Involved in the adult entertainment industry:
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Such were the blasphemous words of a “Christian” therapist who went on to assert that the only real hope for sexual addiction is found through psychotherapy. There is no mistaking the inference here: God is not trustworthy. You can cry out to Him until you’re blue in the face and nothing is going to happen. Such sentiments are extremely poisonous to one’s faith and paralyze the hungry soul from believing God for deliverance. How contrary such thinking is to the truths found in Scripture! The writer of Hebrews directly addressed this very issue when he wrote: “For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin.
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Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” (4:15-16) When a beggar comes to the door of a rich man known for his benevolence, he comes forward with a certain degree of confident expectation. He is driven, not by arrogant presumption, but by need. It is this sense of desperation to which the wealthy man responds. A sense of one’s need coupled with a belief that the other person is willing to meet that need is the basis of all believing prayer. God delights to see people come to Him with this kind of trust and faith. Consider the story of the woman with the issue of blood. (MARK 5:24-34) Though driven to Jesus primarily by physical need, her situation is very comparable to the person who struggles with habitual sexual sin. In the Jewish culture of Jesus’ time, this woman was considered unclean. In fact, anyone who touched her would have to undergo an elaborate ceremonial cleansing. For twelve long years, she suffered with her affliction. Having already visited all the
“professionals,” she had tried every remedy offered by man. Her story closely resembles those of sexual addicts who typically exhaust man’s wisdom before finally turning in desperation to God. One day, she heard that the Healer was in town. It should be noted here that her day undoubtedly began the same way as hundreds before it. She would have long since lost any hope—destined to remain unclean the rest of her life. She had no indication that anything would be different this day. I was there once myself: unclean with no hope that anything could ever change. I too tried the “experts” with letters behind their names—all to no avail. Once my uncleanness became real to me and I realized man could not change me, there was nothing I could do but throw myself on the mercy of God. It was then, in my spiritually weakened condition, that I reached out and took hold of His garment. As she approached, she saw a vast throng of people surrounding the Savior. In her weakened condition it must have seemed
impossible to reach this Man. Imagine if, in the process, this poor woman would have come across someone like the faithless therapist mentioned above. She probably would have been told, “There’s no sense in going to this Jesus. He can’t help you!” Perhaps these words of empty counsel would have provided just enough discouragement to paralyze her. Isn’t that exactly what the devil would want? But she had heard the reports about Jesus and she believed. Having tried all the selfappointed specialists, she instinctively knew that only God could help her. A singular thought compelled her: “If I can just touch His garment, I will be healed.” It was faith that drove her to the Redeemer, something this therapist apparently does not understand. Desperate people like this woman learn not to be denied. She was determined to persist, regardless of the obstacles. It’s very possible that the prayer of the Psalmist energized her that day: “I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.” (PSALM 27:13) This is the kind of determination that men in habitual sexual sin need in order to find their deliverance. By simply refusing to be denied, this woman both learned and demonstrated the secret of tapping into the power of God: faith. The truth is that this woman was too frail to press through that mob, but there was an unseen Hand which made a path for her—the same Hand which will always help the sincere prodigal find his way home. It was her faith that caused her to hold onto that Hand. Finally, she miraculously made her way through the vast throng of people to the Savior. She had one chance. One second longer and He would be gone—along with all her hopes. But she seized her opportunity. The quivering hand reached out and touched His garment. Instantly, she felt the warm flow of God’s power rush through her body. It wasn’t a mere superficial remedy, either. The Lord’s healing power went right to the root of the problem. Perhaps your soul has uncleanness clinging to it, just like this woman’s body. Following her example of perseverance, you too must press through the obstacles to lay hold of the Master’s robe. Your healing will most likely take place over time—as you hold onto His garment. The secret is persistent, believing faith. Keep crying out to Him for your deliverance! Look upon that Face which radiates the intense love of God and listen to that Voice brimming with compassion.
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