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publisher’s corner
Welcome to The Wedding Day Sourcebook: Your Ultimate Guide to New England Weddings. As the excitement of planning your wedding begins, it’s natural to want every detail to be perfect. After all, your wedding day is one of the most special days of your life. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate celebration or a grand affair, one thing is certain: you need trusted professionals by your side. That’s where The Wedding Day Sourcebook comes in — your ultimate resource for all things weddings in Western New England.
At The Wedding Day Sourcebook, we are proud to spotlight the talented professionals and businesses who make every New England wedding a seamless success. From stunning venues to award-winning photographers, from delicious creative food to bands and entertainment and everything in between, our directory is designed to help you find the right match for your style, vision, and budget.
Are you looking for inspiration? Look no further than the Real New England Weddings featured in every edition. These are real local couples that have shared their amazing wedding day with the magazine. They shared their special moments, selections, details and their wedding style, submitted by their wedding photographers, along with some details or a short story. We’re sure you’ll enjoy our featured couples in this issue.
As we enter a new year, wedding trends are evolving with exciting and creative ideas that celebrate both individuality and tradition. In 2025, personalization continues to be key. Couples are choosing some non-traditional venues, from breweries or wineries for their nuptials. Micro-weddings or smaller weddings are still happening with the focus on less guests and more guest experiences, allowing couples to create deeply intimate and unique experiences with a close-knit group of loved ones.
Pantone announced the color for weddings in 2025 as Mocha Mousse, a neutral color that allows complimenting palettes of soft pastels, creams and textures in unexpected combinations. We’re looking forward to seeing some real weddings in those tones!
Finally, this year we will be sponsoring a number of events. These events and shows are the perfect opportunity to meet vendors, see the latest trends, and gather inspiration for your big day. Whether you’re just starting to plan or in the final stages, these events offer helpful resources and valuable advice.
At The Wedding Day Sourcebook, we’re here to support you every step of the way as you plan your New England wedding. Let us help you turn your dreams into reality — one beautiful detail at a time.
Happy planning!
Jim and Lisa Powers Publishers, The Wedding Day Sourcebook
Upcoming Bridal Events
Attend the 21st Annual Western New England Fall Bridal Show
Celebrate with Us at The Annual Western New England Fall Bridal Show!
Congratulations on your engagement! In 2024 CJC Events celebrated the 20th edition of the Western New England Fall Bridal Show at the MassMutual Center in Springfield, MA and the Wedding Day Sourcebook was a proud sponsor. We’re thrilled to say through it all, even Covid….we are STILL here and always ready to help engaged couples plan their most amazing, memorable wedding. For 2025, mark your calendar for November 2, 2025. This show is once again returning to the MassMutual Center…and we can’t wait!
This wedding show is different from others with its state of the art building, clean, bright event space and a curated selection of top wedding professionals from across Western New England. It has always been your chance to meet face-to-face with talented vendors including photographers, florists, cake designers, and more. By interacting with these experts, you can find the perfect match for your vision and budget, all in one place.
From bridal gowns to venue decorations, rental equipment, tents and catering options, food trucks and the latest local new wedding trends, this show features a diverse array of services and products. You can explore compare offerings and gather ideas that might just inspire your dream wedding. It’s a fantastic opportunity to see, touch, and especially taste what’s out there before making any commitments.
Many vendors usually do offer special promotions and discounts exclusively for bridal show attendees. By participating, you can take advantage of these deals, which might include discounted services,
special packages, or complimentary add-ons. It’s a great way to save money while securing high-quality services. Be ready to leave your information and book an appointment as desired wedding professionals will book up quickly.
This wedding event is a fun, enjoyable experience. Bring your wedding party! Enjoy the lively atmosphere and get excited about the journey ahead. Save The Date!
Don’t miss out on this opportunity to jumpstart your wedding planning in a vibrant and engaging setting. Join us at the 21st Annual Western New England Fall Bridal Show on November 2nd at the MassMutual Center, Springfield, MA and immerse yourself in a day of inspiration! See you there, and here’s to a beautiful journey ahead!
Produced by CJC Events, the event is sponsored by The Wedding Day Sourcebook.
Media sponsors include MassAppeal and WWLP TV22. For Information: www.cjcevents Contact: lisa@cjcevents.com - Phone: (413) 737-7555
Bridal Show Planning Tips!
Are you planning on attending a bridal show?
Looking for some inspiration and information? Lets get you prepared for a day of fun and inspiration!
Create a Wedding Email Address
This gets you organized, keeping all your wedding planning information together in one account. It helps you keep conversations with vendors and businesses organized and out of your daily email box.
Get Advance Tickets!
Some shows offer free or advance discount tickets if you register in advance of the event. This will save you time getting into the show.
Don’t Forget the Wedding Party!
Brides, grooms, attendants, family, anyone helping to plan this wedding could attend! A recommendation to consider: as much as you may like to bring little ones, especially flower girls, to this event, it can be overwhelming for them and a distraction for you.
Bring Labels!
One of the easiest ways to leave your information with a wedding professional that you’re interested in is to have a pre-printed label with your name, wedding date and contact info. You can also enter to win show specials or giveaways by just sticking a label on their signup slip.
Wear Comfortable Shoes!
You’ll be walking a bit, looking through displays, standing while speaking with wedding professionals. Make sure you have comfortable shoes on your feet as you’ll be covering a lot of ground.
Make Sure That You Eat!
There’s sure to be concession stands, food samples and delicious cake to taste. Make sure you eat and stay hydrated as all the goodies come your way.
Take Notes and Information!
If you find a wedding professional or business you want to work with, make an appointment. Be sure to pick up a business card or flyer and mark it so you know you liked them and why. Don’t be afraid to take some information on a wedding professional or business you may not be ready to even talk to yet. You can use it after the show to look up their website, social media and connect with them after the show.
Have Fun!
Enjoy the show! Wedding professionals and businesses are there to help you with your wedding plans, to assist you with finding your style, wedding inspiration and point you in the right direction to all those things you may need to have an amazing celebration. Take time to have fun in photo booths, sample food, talk to the experts and taste the cake! It’s time to celebrate!
The Dos and Don’ts of Being a Good Wedding Guest
Attending a wedding is a wonderful way to celebrate the love and commitment of two people. As a guest, your role is not just to enjoy the event, but also to be considerate and respectful of the couple’s special day. Understanding the dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette can help ensure that you make the day even more memorable—for both the couple and your fellow guests.
The Dos of Being a Wedding Guest
Do RSVP Promptly
Responding to the wedding invitation on time is one of the most important things you can do as a guest. Your RSVP helps the couple finalize guest lists, catering, and seating arrangements. If you are unable to attend, make sure to notify them as soon as possible. It’s a simple way to show respect for the couple’s planning efforts.
Do Follow the Dress Code
Many couples have specific dress codes or themes for their wedding day, whether it’s formal, semi-formal, casual, or a particular color scheme. Always take care to follow the dress code provided on the invitation. This shows that you respect the couple’s vision for their wedding and helps maintain a cohesive atmosphere for the event.
Do Be On Time
Arriving on time is a must. Being punctual ensures you don’t disrupt the ceremony or special moments of the event. If you do arrive late, wait until a suitable moment (such as a transition between segments of the ceremony) to take your seat quietly. Being on time ensures you don’t miss any key moments and shows your respect for the couple and their guests.
Do Mind Your Phone Use
While weddings are full of moments you’ll want to capture, it’s important to respect the couple’s wishes and the work of professional photographers. Put your phone away and be present during the ceremony, and avoid posting any photos of the bride before the ceremony, especially her dress. Always check with the couple before sharing pictures on social media to avoid spoiling any surprises. If you’re unsure, it’s best to ask them first.
Do Be Considerate of the Couple’s Time
Weddings are a busy time for the couple, and they might not have the opportunity to talk to every guest for long. Be patient and understanding if the couple doesn’t have time to engage with you indepth. Instead of monopolizing their attention, take the time to interact with other guests, share in the joy of the day, and respect their need to move through the event.
Final Thoughts
The Don’ts of Being a Wedding Guest
Don’t Show Up Uninvited
If you haven’t received an invitation, don’t show up to the wedding. If you received an invite with out a plus-one or “and guest” don’t bring one. This can cause unnecessary stress for the couple and their planners, especially when it comes to catering and seating arrangements. If you’re not sure whether you’re invited, don’t hesitate to ask the couple directly—but never assume you can attend without an invitation.
Don’t Post Social Media Updates During the Ceremony
While weddings are often shared on social media, it’s important to be mindful of the timing. Don’t post anything during the ceremony, especially pictures of the bride or groom before they have a chance to experience the day privately. Wait until after the ceremony, or until the couple has posted photos themselves, to share any images. This ensures you respect the couple’s privacy and their moments of anticipation.
Don’t Disrupt the Photographer’s Work
Professional photographers are hired to capture the most important moments of the day. As a guest, don’t get in their way. Avoid standing in the aisles or blocking their shot with your phone or camera. Put your phone away for the ceremony. If you are given an opportunity to take photos, be discreet and allow the photographer to do their job without interference. This ensures the couple has beautiful, uninterrupted memories of their big day.
Don’t Overindulge
While it’s tempting to enjoy the food, drinks, and festivities, don’t overindulge. Stay mindful of your behavior and drinking habits. Weddings are celebratory events, but getting too intoxicated can make you a disruptive guest, and no one wants that. Remember to enjoy the day in moderation.
Don’t Complain About the Event
Weddings are a time of celebration, and complaining about the food, venue, or even the seating arrangements is not appropriate. If something isn’t to your liking, keep it to yourself. The focus should always be on the couple’s happiness and their special day, not on minor inconveniences. Being a gracious guest means maintaining a positive attitude throughout the event.
Being a good wedding guest involves thoughtfulness, respect, and a little bit of mindfulness. By following these dos and don’ts, you help create a positive and celebratory atmosphere for everyone involved. Remember that your role is to support the couple, make them feel loved, and enjoy their special day without causing any undue stress. With just a few simple gestures, you’ll ensure that you’re remembered as the kind of guest everyone wants to have at their wedding!
New England's LARGEST & Most Complete Wedding Shows with Exhibits, Live Entertainment, & Dazzling Fashion Shows
36th Annual
DALEDESMARAIS
Fall Wedding and Bridal Expo
CONNECTICUT BRIDAL EXPO
November 17, 2024
January 8-9, 2022
CT Convention Center 100 Columbus Blvd, Hartford CT 06103
Aqua Turf Club
32nd Annual
556 Mulberry St, Plantsville, CT 06479
SPRINGFIELD WEDDING & BRIDAL EXPO
January 15 & 16, 2022
Better Living Center "Home of the BIG E"
Springfield Wedding and Bridal Expo
1305 Memorial Ave, West Springfield, MA 01089
January 11, 2025 - January 12, 2025
15th Annual
Better Living Center
WORCESTER BRIDAL EXPO
January 22-23, 2022
1305 Memorial Ave, West Springfield, MA 01089
DCU Center 50 Foster Street, Worcester, MA 01608
8th Annual
Worcester Wedding and Bridal Expo
KC101 BRIDAL EXPO
January 29, 2022
January 19, 2025
Oakdale Theatre 95 S Turnpike Rd Wallingford, CT 06492
DCU Center
50 Foster Street Worcester, Massachusetts 01608
21st Annual
WESTCHESTER COUNTY BRIDAL EXPO
January 30, 2022
Westchester Marriott Hotel Grand Ballroom 660 White Plains Rd, Tarrytown, NY 10591
Connecticut Wedding and Bridal Expo
February 08, 2025 - February 09, 2025
19th Annual
Connecticut Convention Center 100 Columbus Boulevard Hartford, CT. 06103
KISS 95.7 HARTFORD BRIDAL EXPO
March 6, 2022
Hartford XL Center 1 Civic Center Plaza, Hartford, CT 06103
Trending Trends
Wedding Dress Codes
Black tie might be timeless, but weddings are embracing a new era of style. From vintage pieces and bold patterns to a fun mix of formal and casual, couples are creating attire requirements or storyboards to set the vibe—inviting guests to craft their own look that fits right into the narrative.
Boutonnieres
I am happy to see a great trend for boutonnieres…the pocket square! This boutonniere is designed specifically to fit in the pocket square of suits. Easy for men to drop right in, no fussing or stabbing yourself with a pin trying to get it just right.
Let Them Eat Cake
The traditional wedding cake is timeless, always evolving to reflect modern tastes. Smaller cakes, often adorned with bold, colorful edible accents or vibrant fresh flowers, are gaining popularity for the cake-cutting moment. There’s something universally cherished about a beautifully crafted wedding cake. Each layer, with its distinct flavors, symbolizes the couple’s unique preferences. Whether served during the reception or increasingly in trendy “to-go” boxes for a late-night treat, wedding cake will always remain a beloved part of the celebration.
Painted Wedding Gowns
While having a live wedding painter capture your special day is a mesmerizing experience, why not elevate the concept with a custom hand-painted wedding gown? Adorned with delicate florals or intricate designs, a hand-painted gown offers a truly personal and one-of-a-kind expression of your style. It’s a stunning, wearable work of art that transforms your wedding day into an unforgettable celebration of individuality and creativity.
Black and White Images
Having some black and white images from your wedding is trending even more. Romantic moments, timeless images suitable for framing is where it’s at. Discuss your desire to incorporate a few black and white images with your professional photographer.
Nostalgia Is Back
Disposable cameras! Place a couple of cameras on each table and invite your guests to snap away. Unlike the digital elements available to use and share with others immediately, disposable cameras have a fun, yet mysterious way of capturing your wedding day festivities. We suggest getting them developed and have a “reveal” party!
Bunnell Photography
Bunnell Photography
Ciara & Lukas
Sourcebook
Ciara and Lukas’ Wedding Team
Photographer Seth Kaye Photography
Bridal Shop Etsy
Ceremony and Reception Venue Hotel Northampton
Officiant Dale Desmarais
Videographer Beige Video
Florist Durocher Florist
DJ/Band
DJ All Star Weddings
Hair
Herdis Salon
Makeup
Fabeha Artistry
Cake/Dessert
Greggory’s
You Could Win the Honeymoon of a Lifetime!
We’re beyond excited to announce a spectacular Honeymoon Giveaway from Kristi Upton of AdventurUS Travel, and you could be the lucky winner!
Imagine winning 4 nights at the luxurious Sandals Ochi Beach Resort in Jamaica, all-inclusive! Kristi shares, “This year, I became 100% owner of AdventurUS Travel, and I want to give back for all the support that has made us the #1 Sandals agency in CT and RI, and #2 in all of New England!”
This is the ultimate honeymoon destination, offering romance, adventure, and luxury in one unforgettable package.
The lucky couple will enjoy:
•4 nights at Sandals Ochi Beach Resort DL Room Category (all-inclusive) or Sandals South Coast IGB Room Category (all-inclusive).
• Transfers to and from the resort
• Travel insurance for peace of mind
• A romantic candlelight dinner upgrade
With a value of over $2,000, this is your chance to experience paradise. Kristi adds, “I want to share this incredible opportunity with someone who may not otherwise get the chance to explore the world—what better way than with a honeymoon!”
Airfare is not included. Submit your story, your dreams and desires for an unforgettable romantic escape. Don’t miss out—this could be the honeymoon of your dreams!
Here’s some highlights of the rules. Go to the link, read all the rules and submit your chance to win!
https://form.jotform.com/250065229446052
A letter (500 words max) explaining why the couple deserves the honeymoon. • Contact information for the couple and the person submitting the letter. • Only one entry per couple will be accepted. Selection Process • A panel of Sponsor’s agents will review all eligible submissions and select one winner based on the content of the letter. Decisions of the panel are final and binding.
Prize Details The selected couple will receive the following: • 4 nights at Sandals Ochi Beach Resort DL Room Category (all-inclusive) or Sandals South Coast IGB Room Category (all-inclusive). • Roundtrip ground transfers to and from the resort. • Travel insurance for the duration of the stay. • Candlelight dinner upgrade at the resort. • Flights are not included. The couple is responsible for arranging their own airfare to and from the destination.
Prize Conditions • The honeymoon must be redeemed between specific travel dates and valid for travel through December 31, 2025, with a maximum value of $2,000. • The prize is non-transferable and cannot be redeemed for cash or substituted for other goods or services. • The Sponsor is not responsible for any additional costs incurred, including but not limited to airfare, personal expenses, or additional upgrades.
Collaboration with Vendors • Wedding vendors may partner with the Sponsor for promotional purposes including allowing their story to be shared for print and media materials. *Note: the winning couples will be shared with The Wedding Day Sourcebook.
Make Your UnforgettableWedding with The O-Tones
Let The O-Tones create a truly memorable day for you and your guests with their dynamic mix of music! Since 1993, they have been bringing their unique sound to weddings across New England, adding a personal touch to every celebration. With their versatile music and engaging performances, The O-Tones ensure that your wedding will be an event to remember.
Their broad range of styles appeals to all ages, making them the perfect choice for any part of your celebration — from the ceremony to cocktails, dinner, and dancing. Their flexibility and talented instrumentation allow them to easily accommodate special song requests, because they know that live music makes the party! Featuring several talented singers, The O-Tones move effortlessly between genres including jazz, soul, blues, Motown, Latin, rock & roll, oldies, NOLA, and funky music. Whether you’re planning a relaxed cocktail hour or an energetic dance party, they can tailor the music to suit the mood.
The O-Tones pay tribute to iconic jazz artists such as Ella Fitzgerald, Tony Bennett, Etta James, Frank Sinatra, Dinah Washington, and Nat King Cole. Their soulful Motown and R&B performances will get the dance floor packed with favorites from The Temptations, Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, The Supremes, Marvin Gaye, Al Green, and more. For blues lovers, they bring tunes from legends like B.B. King, Ruth Brown, and Koko Taylor. And for fans of oldies, they cover the timeless hits of Elvis Presley, Chuck Berry, and The Beatles.
Throughout the years, The O-Tones have played a variety of unforgettable first dance songs, including Etta James’ “At Last”, John Legend’s “All of Me”, Adele’s “Make You Feel My Love”, and classics like “Stand by Me” and “Can’t Help Falling in Love”. Whether you prefer a timeless ballad or an upbeat love song, their extensive repertoire has something for everyone.
The O-Tones are also happy to learn special requests, and over the years, they’ve performed a wide range of songs from genres such as folk, rock, Brazilian, and NOLA. From the ceremony to family dances, they can customize the music to match your vision — whether it’s a first dance, father-daughter, or mother-son dance, or any other moment that’s meaningful to you.
With a talented lineup of female and male vocalists and skilled musicians on guitar, piano, saxophone, bass,
and drums, The O-Tones bring a unique flavor to every performance. Their musicianship shines through with sizzling guitar solos, funky piano riffs, and soulful sax melodies, all backed by a strong rhythm section that keeps the dance floor alive. Their ability to blend well-known songs with hidden gems ensures your guests will have an unforgettable time.
For the ceremony, The O-Tones offer a variety of options, with any combination of vocals and instruments to create the perfect atmosphere. Jazzy and bluesy tunes provide a fun backdrop for cocktail hour, while dinner music sets the stage for meaningful conversations without overpowering the ambiance.
When it’s time to hit the dance floor, The O-Tones will get everyone moving, no matter their age. They’re also LGBTQ+ friendly and experienced in performing at Jewish weddings. The band can even play break music between sets if you wish. Clients consistently praise how much the band members love the music they perform, which is evident in every note they play.
Ready to make your wedding day extraordinary? Get in touch with The O-Tones today to learn more and book your celebration. Visit www.theotones.com for details and to inquire about availability.
Brenda & Anthony
Sourcebook
Brenda and Anthony’s Wedding Team
Photographer
Ron Lemelin of Lemelin Photography
Bridal Shop
David’s Bridal
Formalwear
Formal Affair Men’s Suits and Tuxedos
Ceremony and Reception Venue
Delaney House Holyoke, MA
DJ
TC’s Disc Jockey Service
Hair
Carmen Luz of Serenity Salon
Makeup
Heather of Flawless Finish Makeup
A Journey of Love, Fate, and Resilience
This story was shared by the bride!
Anthony and I have known each other for 23 years, but fate kept us apart until 2019. Both of us were nearing the end of long-term relationships, and by a twist of destiny, we reconnected under remarkably similar circumstances. It felt like the universe was bringing us back together. Slowly, we began to rebuild our bond, navigating the aftermath of our past relationships, and learning to enjoy each other’s company once again.
Fast forward to a significant moment in our story. We moved into a house Anthony had bought, which, quite literally, was in shambles (that’s a story for another time!).
In June 2023, I discovered a lump in my left breast. By July 10th, I had the diagnosis: Invasive Lobular Carcinoma, Stage 2. The whirlwind of emotions that followed shook our family to its core. Between doctor’s appointments, tests, and treatments, it was hard to keep up. Through it all, Anthony stood by me as my unwavering rock — always there to offer a shoulder to cry on, and there were many tears. I underwent four rounds of chemotherapy and, in September 2023, a double mastectomy. Mentally and emotionally, it was overwhelming; I felt like a shell of my former self.
Amidst these challenges, I made an unexpected decision: to get engaged and plan our wedding during my leave of absence from work. In a beautiful moment, Anthony, my best friend and life partner, simply told me, “Pick a date.” So, we chose June 12, 2024 — a date full of significance: all multiples of two, symbolizing our second marriage and second chance at love and redemption.
Despite everything I was going through, I dove headfirst into planning our wedding. Neither of us had had a traditional wedding before — we’d each married through a simple courthouse ceremony with only a few people in attendance. Now, with very little experience, I was navigating the world of wedding planning, and honestly, it was overwhelming.
But then, fate intervened again. The first venue I visited introduced me to a wonderful woman who had gone through a very similar medical journey to mine, just months ahead of me. (I won’t share her name, as that’s her story to tell.) Her kindness and support made everything feel more manageable. The venue also helped reduce my stress by offering decorations, catering, and full setup and breakdown services. This support was a true lifeline during such a difficult time.
My photographer, Ron, came highly recommended by the venue. After several phone interviews with photographers, Ron’s warmth and personality won me over. Through his recommendation, I found the perfect DJ, and my wedding planning began to fall into place.
I took on the task of designing my invitations, and after some online research, I was thrilled with how they turned out. The venue team assisted with seating arrangements, and Ron and our DJ, TC, worked together to plan the entire wedding schedule — truly lifesavers throughout the process.
Wedding dress shopping with my mother, aunt, and bridesmaids was an unforgettable day. I still tear up thinking about it. On that special day, my mother and aunt gave me the gift of paying for my wedding dress, a gesture I will cherish forever.
Just when things seemed to be falling into place, we faced another heartbreaking blow. On March 17, 2024, my mother passed away peacefully in her sleep, just a few months before my wedding. I was devastated. The pain of not having her there on the most important day of my life was a deep sorrow, but I carried her memory with me as I walked down the aisle.
Despite the loss, our wedding day was beautiful and nearly perfect. From the ceremony to the reception, it was an unforgettable celebration of love. It felt like a dream — a day of joy after a series of life-changing, difficult circumstances.
I am still living in the afterglow of that incredible day, filled with gratitude for the people who helped make it possible and for the love that has carried us through.
Thank you for allowing me to share our story.
Erica & Brandon
Erica and Brandon’s Wedding Team
Photographer
Bunnell Photography
Ceremony and Reception Venue
The Ranch Golf Club Southwick MA
Bridal Shop
Alexandra’s Bridal Boutique- Fall River MA
Formalwear
DXL & Men’s Wearhouse
Wedding Planner/Coordinator
Angelica Then-Geas
Invitations
Designed by bride on Canva
DJ
SDS Productions- Rob Banspach
Hair
Tara Pashko, Vibe Hair Company in Feeding Hills
Makeup
Becca Moylan, Lucent Beauty
Cake/Dessert
Cupcakes by Kaydazzle
Rings
JC Penney Fine Jewelry & Manly Bands
Sourcebook
Brandon and Erika met online amidst the pandemic. On the surface, the couple could not have been more different. He was a country boy from upstate New York, who loves hunting, fishing, and playing sports every day. She was as girly and city-loving as you could get; a hairdresser with little to no survival skills and deathly afraid of taking a fish off a hook. Needless to say, after a few visits, they learned to love each others’ hobbies.
Instead of a bouquet toss, Erika decided to dedicate her bridal bouquet to her mom. “She has always been my best friend and was the most important and helpful part of the wedding planning process, so though moms never get the recognition they deserve at their daughter’s wedding, I felt that the least I could do was dedicate my bouquet to her.”
Erika also honored her dad. In the afternoon, while getting ready, she gave her Dad a sweet, personal note expressing her gratitude for him. “He has always done so much for me, and continues to do so much for us as a couple. So, I gifted him that and his ‘father of the bride’ cigar holder. He teared up as he read the note!”
A winter wedding was always Erika’s dream. However, as the day approached, lots of people in her life began to express some reservations about an outdoor ceremony in the winter. When they toured The Ranch and saw the patio’s breathtaking views the outdoor ceremony was a must-do. To try to keep their wedding guests as comfortable as possible, they prepared well! The invitation told guests to dress for an outdoor ceremony. The couple provided baskets of blankets, “To have and to hold in case you get cold”. The Ranch’s coordinator Angie set up heaters and also outdoor fire pits. They also made sure that the ceremony was short!
As guests arrived for the ceremony, The Ranch ushered guests into their beautiful, HEATED pub adjacent to the ceremony patio, keeping them warm and comfy until the ceremony was ready to start. Immediately after the ceremony, the staff ushered guests right back in there for cocktail hour. The weather was relatively mild for December; about 38 degrees, little to now wind, plus the lucky addition of a little snow on the ground from a few days prior, making for some beautiful photos!
Another special detail was their officiant, Maria. Erika says, “When Brandon and I first met online, it seemed that all odds were stacked against us actually arranging to meet in person. The hardest part was that I was young, so my parents would not let me drive all the way to New York to meet a boy from the internet. So, my coworker and friend, Maria, decided it was urgent that Brandon and I finally get the chance to meet and she got in her car and drove me to New York to ease my parents’ minds. Needless to say, things worked out, and when we decided we wanted someone very closely important to our relationship to be the one to marry us, there was no better person than Maria.”
Kyle and Roger celebrated their love in the heart of Downtown Hartford, where they shared their very first date. They envisioned a simple yet elegant ceremony, surrounded by their closest family and friends. The couple captured special moments in the theatre where they had sat together on that memorable first date, taking photos in the iconic seats.
They also posed with family and friends in the lobby of The Hartford Stage, with a stunning backdrop featuring portraits of the talented actors and actresses who have graced the stage. The day was filled with laughter, love, and joy as the couple shared this unforgettable moment.
Afterward, they enjoyed a fun photo session in the streets of downtown Hartford, with a striking building across the way adding a modern touch to their beautiful memories.
What Your Photographer Wants You To Know!
By Kathryn Bunnell, Bunnell Photography
I’ve photographed hundreds of weddings in my career. Want to benefit from my experience? Here are my top suggestions on getting the best images of your wedding day.
Don’t Rush- Wedding timelines tend to go off the rails sometimes. Try to allow a minimum of 1 hour for bridal party, family, and newlywed photos. Build in some extra time so you can get amazing images without feeling rushed. If you end up ahead of schedule, take a bit of time to take some romantic candids of just the two of you, or refresh in the bridal suite for a bit.
Share Your Timeline- THE most important factor in making sure your posed wedding photos go efficiently is that everyone is where they need to be, on time and attentive.
Share your timeline with all immediate family members and others you want to incorporate into posed photos. If even one immediate family member is missing, it can be hard to get the group back on track. Got extra groups or a large extended family? Consider taking those photos quickly between courses at your reception. Consider a First Look- Seeing each other before the ceremony can help settle nerves, gives you amazing candids as you see each other, and frees you up to spend most of your cocktail hour with your guests. Not down with seeing each other before the wedding? Consider a first look with your father, special family member, or your bridal party.
Light is everything! Consider the time of day and the sunlight in your timeline. If you’re getting married in a field with no shade, try not to plan most of your photos in the middle of the day when the sun is directly overhead. A pro will do their best to compensate but consider doing your couple photos earlier or later in the day. Or find some shade at your location.
Express yourself! Consider incorporating a hobby, a special interest you share, or something else that celebrates you both as a couple into your wedding or engagement photos. It’s your day, let your personalities show through!
Print your photos- So many of our day-to-day images live online only. But wedding photos deserve the permanence of printed images! If a full bridal album isn’t in your budget, plan to make your own or get some prints and enlargements to decorate your walls. This way your images can be shared for generations to come!
Go unplugged- Any smartphone (or, even worse, a tablet!) held up to record the ceremony has a chance to appear in your photos. It also disconnects guests from experiencing the ceremony, ruining shots where we try to get sweet reactions from loved ones. I always try to get photos of parents watching their “kids” get married.
Sometimes I see parents of the couple watch the entire ceremony from behind their phones, eliminating those emotional candid opportunities. Have your officiant make an announcement at the start of the ceremony. Enjoy the day! I like to say that a little something seems to go wrong at most weddings.
Try to roll with the stresses, and remember what is really important; having an amazing day with your new spouse.
A Tent For Your Wedding Expert Advice On Planning
Your Tented Wedding
If there is anything we’ve learned from the past few challenging years of change and weddings, it’s new opportunities to be creative. More and more couples are opting for hosting a “tent wedding” with an opportunity for versatile space, comfort, enjoyment of the outside and creating a unique space all their own. Hosting a wedding in a tent is essentially building a space from scratch. In a backyard, open field, rented plot of land or an addition to a permanent structure, a tent defines the space and helps create a sense of excitement; it provides the bones to create an extraordinary event.
“A tent is a blank canvas that sets the stage for imagination and can be one of the most exciting, creative options for weddings,” says Lisa Powers of the Wedding Day Sourcebook. “So many of our local couples have selected tent weddings to showcase their creativity, for their guests’ comfort and flexibility and the option of bringing in those unique items that define their style. With a tent, you can create any world that you want within the walls; from adding chandeliers, hanging installations, walls and windows, bistro lighting and dance floors that fit the aesthetic of the event. Plus let’s not forget the variety of table and chair options, to tabletop designs and florals, soft seating lounges, bars, and more.”
To give you more information about tents for weddings, we asked Nicole Evans from Michael’s Party Rentals to share some information and answers to those questions for planning a tent wedding.
How early do you recommend your clients to reserve a tent for their wedding?
The earlier the better! We prefer a 6-12 month lead time, but based on availability we are able to accommodate weddings in a shorter time frame.
What information do you need to select/reserve a tent? We like to start with the basics. What is your event date, location and expected guest count. We then want to know what will be going under the tent, tables, chairs, dance floor, band etc. From here we have formulas that help choose the appropriate size and style tent.
Do you do site visits to determine location? Yes!
We require a site visit on all tents larger than 800 square feet or if the tent will be installed over a deck or driveway. During site visits we are looking for more than just if the tent will fit. We check for any delivery and install obstacles such as low power lines or no vehicle access. Once on site, we look if there are any underground utilities or a septic system we need are concerned of.
What do I need to do to prepare to have a tented event?
We advise that the lawn is mowed and that your sprinkler system is turned off prior to install. Don’t worry if you have a sprinkler system. If we hit a line, notify us after the teardown and we’ll come out to repair it. We also ask that the space in which tent will be going is free and clear of any obstacles before our arrival.
What do you recommend for your wedding clients?
Nicole from Michael’s Party Rentals says, “Our Century Tent is our most popular style for weddings. Its elegant swoops and peaks give it that dreamy appearance. The Century Tent comes in a number of sizes to comfortably accommodate events of any size. It is also one of our most budget friendly tents. Other beautiful styles include the Clear Top Tent and Sailcloth Tent.”
Are permits needed? Insurance requirements?
Most towns require a tent permit on tents that are larger than 600 square feet. We offer the service to our clients of handling pulling tent permits.
Why do you love tent weddings?
We love tented weddings! No two are the same and they’re extremely personal. It is like building your own wedding ven-
ue tailored to your exact vision. With a tented wedding, there are no rules and no time restrictions. You have the luxury of having the tent all weekend long to host your rehearsal dinner, wedding and brunch for no extra cost. We love getting the chance to transform someone’s backyard into their dream venue.
What additional thoughts do you have?
Mother Nature is unpredictable. We always recommend that you have a backup plan for inclement weather. If you’re planning on having your ceremony in a field, make sure you either have a second tent on a rain hold or plan to have adequate space under the reception tent for the ceremony.
There are a lot of moving parts when it comes to a backyard tented wedding. From catering to portable restrooms to lighting and flowers, we know all the coordinating can be overwhelming. We want to make this a stress-free experience for our couples. Let us help with professional vendor recommendations or getting you in touch with a wedding planner.
For more information on tent and party rentals, visit www. michaelspartyrentals.com or get in touch with Nicole Evans at Michael’s Party Rentals at 413-589-7368.
You can also see some images of tents and rentals on their Facebook and Instagram pages!
Things To Do - A Bridal Checklist
12 to 24 Months Ahead
• Subscribe to the Wedding Day Sourcebook
• Attend every Bridal Show you can! Check www.weddingsourcebook.com
• Announce your engagement
• Decide on the atmosphere you’d like at your wedding
• Talk to family & fiancé about budget
• Decide the size of your wedding
• Talk to clergy or J.P. and arrange ceremony location & date
• Find a reception location available on your date
• Plan wedding theme and colors
• Choose your wedding party
• Compile your guest lists and set up a system to track RSVP’s.
• Select all your formalwear
• Select bridesmaids dresses
• Select tuxes and accessories
• Set up a wedding registry
• Choose a wedding planner
• Choose a photographer
• Choose a videographer
• Choose a cake
• Choose musicians for ceremony
• Choose musicians /DJ for reception
• Choose a florist
• Choose lighting and decor
• Reserve any rental equipment needed
• Send deposits to all your vendors, keep all your contracts with your payment schedules.
• Arrange transportation from your house to the ceremony, from the ceremony to the formal photography location, from there to the reception, and from the reception to the honeymoon night location.
4 to 6 Months Ahead
• Reserve accommodations for your out-of-town guests
• Select and order your invitations and thank- you cards
• Arrange your honeymoon travel
• Order rings and engraving
• Have a menu tasting and finalize food selections
2 to 4 Months Ahead
• Address and assemble wedding invitations
• Buy enough postage for invitations and RSVP envelopes
• Mail invitations
• Make hair and makeup appointments including a trial 1 to 2 Months Ahead
•Finalize all arrangements with all vendors
• Have final dress fittings
• Attend showers and send thank-yous
• Plan a get-together with your bridesmaids
• Marriage license (fewer than 30 days before the ceremony)
•Finalize meal counts with venue or caterer
2 Weeks Ahead
• Plan to change your name on your Social Security info, driver’s license, credit cards, & bank accounts -- you will need a certified copy of your wedding certificate.
• Make a seating plan for the reception; write placecards 1 Week Ahead
• Pack for honeymoon
• Pack an emergency kit for the wedding day containing a sewing kit, comfortable shoes, hairspray, touch up kit, bobby pins, kleenex, Pepto Bismol, etc.
