Simply Hers — Brides 2023

HELLO TO ALL THE

BRIDES

Hello, brides! We wish you all the best as you and your intended make plans for one of the biggest days of your lives.

With all the decisions to be made and plans to be set, it’s easy to get seriously frazzled by the wedding planning process. We’ve included some tips for how to stay healthy and sane so that you can enjoy your special day fully. And, as always, we have a number of planning guides to help you organize the tasks.

Our cover features a lovely venue available right in downtown Hillsdale: the totally renovated Dawn Theater! Learn about this wedding option and think about whether you might want to add this space to your list of venues to explore.

For those of you whose weddings are scheduled for October 2023 and beyond, a new venue north of Jonesville might be just what you want. Memories on the Hill offers space for larger weddings in a beautiful country setting along the Kalamazoo River.

Whether large or small, formal or simple, we hope your wedding is a wonderful, happy, and very special day!

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All Aboard Travel - 31, 33

Artesian Wells- 43

Barrett’s Nursery & Greenhouse - 35

Becker & Scrivens - 45

Birdie’s and Howell - 21

Black Dog Flower Co. - 30

Blossom Shop - 39

Blush and Ivory - 39

Bras that Fit - 30

British Tea Garden - 14

Canopy R Us - 43

Decker & Sons Insurance Agency - 6

Dejarlais Dermatology - 7

Happily Ever After Wedding & Event Planning - 39

Hillsdale County Fair - 37

Hillsdale Elks Lodge #1575- 41

Hillsdale Hospital - 2

Irish Hills Weddings- 19

I’ve Been Framed! - 23

Jackson County Tower Building - 45

Jonesville Lumber - 47

Lewis Emery Park - 43

Market House - 27

Memories on the Hill - 16

Patty’s Bridal - 48 Perennial Park - 23

Powers Clothing - 45

PRIME Fitness Studio - 5

Rayray’s Sweet Shoppe - 41

River Dell Weddings & Events - 31

R-Starr Parties and Event Center - 45

Sharon’s House Of Pancakes - 41

Smith’s Floral Boutique - 41

State Farm Insurance/Jason Adcock - 37

Stillwell Ford - 3

Sycamore Lane Photography - 15

The Posy Shop - 25

Windy Hill Creations Market - 27

Xpress Sewing - 39

It's exciting and a little overwhelming. You’re doing all the things to ensure you look your best on your Wedding Day. That's where Desjarlais Dermatology & Aesthetic Center comes in. We help you have the best skin of your life, for the biggest day of your life.

You'll begin your skincare journey with a one-on-one consultation with Dr. Desjarlais. Our team will perform a state-of-the-art skin analysis by taking indepth photos of your skin, giving them insight as to what is happening on the surface of your skin as well as underneath With that information and your timeline, you can choose from one of the Desjarlais bridal packages or create a customized treatment plan with the Fairytale Bride package

Your journey can also be shared with the entire bridal party by participating in an exclusive Bridal Party package with discounted pricing on Botox/Dysport and dermal fillers.

Throughout the process, you will begin to see amazing changes in your skin Our Brides are always happy they made the investment in themselves during the stressful process of wedding planning. With each visit, you will feel more confident leading up to your big day, with results that last well past the honeymoon.

It’s official. It's time for radiant skin.

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J o r d a n D i M a t t e o , R N L a s e r T e c h n i c i a n

Hey brides—

Written by Melissa McCance Photos by Jenn Bowers/ Sycamore Lane Photography

When an engaged couple begins planning their wedding, there are many decisions that must be made. One of the most important is . . . where? Where to have the ceremony, and, if not utilizing a single location, where to have the reception. Area couples planning a mid-sized event have an outstanding new option in the renovated Dawn Theater, located in downtown Hillsdale.

Originally a city garage, The Dawn was converted to a theater in 1919 and began as a vaudeville venue. After that, it was the local site for enjoying a movie—first the silents and then the talkies. Eventually the theater closed and remained so until being brought back to life as a beautiful location for hosting events.

Gianna Green, Interim General Manager, provided a recap of The Dawn’s rebirth. “Renovations began in 2018 through the city and the Friends of the Dawn Theater. The interior was basically falling apart, so just the shell was left after the decayed material was removed. They found some hand-painted

a new venue has “dawned” in Hillsdale!

stenciling on the original plaster, which, unfortunately, was too deteriorated to keep. But those designs were replicated in the new interior which makes a nice tie to the theater’s origin.”

A pre-opening gala was held in mid-February 2022 by the Friends of the Dawn with the official ribbon cutting on March 4 of the same year. Since then, The Dawn Theater has had a number of special events held within its walls from musical performances to fundraisers for community organizations.

The interior of the theater is one of understated elegance with an emphasis on clean lines and a neutral palette of white, grays, soft black, and touches of blue-gray. This means that almost any choice of wedding colors will work without any danger of clashing with the venue’s décor. Gianna emphasizes that the open design of The Dawn makes it easy for brides to create the exact layout they want.

The high ceiling not only adds to the spacious feeling but allows for many decorating possibilities. A raised stage at the far end of the main room provides additional options for configuring the layout. It can be used for dancing or as a spectacular location for the head table among other ideas. The venue will comfortably seat 100-130 guests, more if it’s a mingling setting rather than a seated event.

“The space is totally flexible. We can configure it however the couple wants. Location for the dance floor, tables, food, and so forth can be planned to fit precisely the look and flow that the people booking the venue have in mind. We like to describe it as old-school glamour combined with modern accessibility.”

The renovation retained the balcony of the theater which can be used in a multitude of ways. Gianna said one couple had the wedding party announced from the balcony. If your wedding is very small and intimate, it could be possible to hold the ceremony in the balcony and then move to the main floor for the reception.

Pricing packages begin with a base price that includes tables, linens, and black padded chairs with optional add-ons for additional cost. Tables are available in a number of sizes for more flexibility in planning how guests are seated. If the bride wants linens in colors, the staff can help with obtaining them. There are also a variety of bar packages from specialty cocktails, beer and wine, and on through mocktails and soft drinks. Off-site catering is currently allowed.

“Basically, our staff will work to create a wedding event that is uniquely tailored to what the couple wants,” says Gianna. “Our staff’s expertise helps make everything perfect for the couple. If they haven’t yet fully planned their event, we can provide referrals to local vendors we know will do a good job.”

Gianna also encourages people to come see the space, even if they’re not sure they want to book there. “We’ve had people who thought they weren’t really interested in The Dawn step inside and fall in love with it. That’s how striking it is.”

Booking has been lively for 2023 and is moving into 2024, so if you think The Dawn Theater should be on your list of possible venues, it’s advised to contact them soon. You can send email to events@thedawntheater.com which reaches both Gianna and Operations Manager Jack Coker. [Note that the speller is “theater” and not “theatre.” If you use the second spelling, the email will not go through!] The Dawn Theater is located at 110 N. Broad Street in Hillsdale.

Written by James Campbell, PRIME Fitness

Congratulations! You have set the date and your big day is only a few short months away. Not that we are assuming you need to lose a few pounds, but if you have the urge to give it a try, we’ve come up with a few diet and exercise tips to help you along the way. By following these steps, it is possible to look and feel more beautiful on your wedding day.

First, it is important to decide how much weight you would like to lose before the wedding. From there, you can break down weekly and monthly goals to be sure you reach your target weight. And, before you begin any sort of fitness/diet program, we encourage you to consult your doctor or healthcare provider.

SIX MONTHS ‘TIL THE BIG DAY:

We know six months seems like a long way out to start dieting, but it is actually right on schedule if you are planning on losing more than 10 pounds. Start incorporating more green vegetables, beans, low-fat dairy, and nuts into your diet. It is also time to step away from processed carbs, sugary foods, foods containing trans fats, and to be more conscious of portion sizes. Yes, we acknowledge this is easier said than done, but every time you choose the right foods, you take a step in the right direction.

On the exercise front, incorporate three, 45-minute workouts a week with 20 minutes being cardio and the rest strength training. If this is a weak area for you, consider getting in touch with a personal trainer such as PRIME Fitness in Hillsdale. They even offer a Bridal Bootcamp that will have you toned and trim for your wedding day.

THREE MONTHS ‘TIL THE BIG DAY: Time to evaluate your progress and make adjustments accordingly. If you are not meeting your short-term goals, consider cutting a food vice from your diet until the wedding. Think of it as an investment in your big day. If exercising is becoming a chore, try rounding up some of the members of your wedding party; having a support group will make you work even harder!

ONE MONTH ‘TIL THE BIG DAY: Life is going to get very busy. Now is the time to be sure you do not skip meals. With all of the wedding prep going on, it will be very easy to allow yourself to grab a bag of chips or a fast food burger. In just a few short weeks, you can sabotage everything you have worked hard to accomplish. Also, don’t blow off your exercise because things are so hectic. If you can’t find the time for an entire workout, make time for a short yet highintensity workout to keep that toned body.

ONE WEEK ‘TIL THE BIG DAY: Time’s up. You can stop fretting and just enjoy the moment. Resist the urge to fast to try to lose a few more pounds. Drastic fasting can impact your mood severely, making you stressed and unable to enjoy your wedding day. Besides, by now you have had your final fitting and you wouldn’t want your dress to be anything less than a perfect fit. On the flip side of that coin, don’t do any binge eating, either; it is too late for you to have your dress let out!

THE BIG DAY:

Congratulations! Your day has finally arrived. Go and enjoy your healthy new body that you have worked so hard to create. Remember, no matter what, you are beautiful!

80 Years Together:

GEORGE AND NORMA CARPENTER

By Joyce McLain

It was 1943, the middle of World War II. George and Norma were in love. He had graduated high school and was working at a Ford Motor Company bomber plant. Norma was a senior in high school. He was 18 and she was 17. He and Norma wanted to be together, so they were married on February 27, 1943. He left for the service in March. Norma stayed with her parents, graduated high school, and then joined him.

George went into the air corps as a mechanic, but then they chose him to take pilot training. “They were losing 50% of their pilots in training at first,” he says. “Because of that, they started teaching with more detail. I was trained as a night fighter to fly over Japan at the end of the war.”

“I went through 30 months of training, and each training I went to, Norma came and either lived at a hotel or somebody’s home.”

Was she afraid? Norma says, “I wasn’t afraid as long as he was in training. I worked in the hangers washing parts from the planes, as they got real oily. I also worked in the laundries on the bases.

George says, “We lost three pilots I knew while in training. If you quit the training, within 30 days they would have you on the warfront. So, I stayed! We moved eight times, mostly in the west where it was less dense, and the weather consistent. I was on my way for the last training session when the war was declared over.”

“After the war, my dad wanted me to farm with him. I struggled with farming until 1953, when I went to work at General Motors in Michigan. We also farmed 10 acres in Wayne, selling vegetables around Detroit markets.”

Norma says, “We moved to Wayne because of the kids. They weren’t getting the training at church. “

Over the years, the Carpenters added six children to their family: Sharrol Sue (Neil Veydt), Janet (Max Terman), Dwight (Janice), Neil (Karen), Beverly (John Siefken), and Patricia (Marty Bacalia), with lots of grandchildren!

“After living in Manchester for a time, Neil, Karen’s husband, wanted to invest in some woods in Allen, Michigan,” George says. “We invested in 200 acres and kept some property for our store. I was drawn to this good soil. We used 50 acres along with the greenhouse on our home property to raise vegetables.”

George remarked that Norma’s aunts lived to be 100. Norma says, “Yes, but they didn’t have their husbands with them. We never experienced being alone because the Lord has given us each other. How fortunate we are!”

George says, “The first ten verses of John have always been a favorite of ours, describing how God came into the world. Verse twelve has also been an impressive part of our Bible reading.”

Both were raised in Christian homes. “I was saved and baptized in the Maumee River in Ohio,” George says. “I really dedicated my life when I was fourteen. We had a tent meeting, and I thought if he says what I want him to say, I’m going to raise my hand. And sure enough, he did.”

Norma says, “I think I was around six when I got saved and I was baptized soon after.”

When their grandson, miraculously recovered from a lawn mower accident, it increased their faith. George says, “He became a good Christian man. He and his wife went to China as teachers and missionaries.

“In the last five years we have really committed ourselves to study the Bible. We have our breakfast, read the scriptures, and have prayer,” George says. They live a quiet life with lots of family around. What do they like to do? “We have sing-spirations at the breakfast table. We like the old hymns.”

ENGAGED

• Take at least a week without making decisions • Envision your wedding

• Set up a wedding email

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• Book your MC/DJ

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Order wedding bands

Reserve room blocks at several price points

Send out “save the date” cards or notes

Create your registry

Order invitations and paper goods BONUS TIP:

Set

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Finalize your guest list

Reserve rentals (tables, tent, chairs)

Book your caterer

Book your dessert baker

Book your officiant

Book any live musicians

Reserve your decor and game rentals

Order bridal party outfits

Groom choose and reserve his outfit

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MONTHS AHEAD

• Mail out invitations • Have your dress altered to fit you • Make sure passports are in order • Start planning honeymoon • Have bridal shower • Reserve your “day of” transportation

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MONTHS AHEAD

• Plan and order gifts for parents, attendants, and spouse • Do your hair and makeup trial • Make nail and haircut appts for before wedding • Hire a “day of” coordinator if you haven’t yet

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MONTHS AHEAD

• Get marriage license • Have final dress fitting and bustle training if applicable • Final fitting for groom • Draw up final decor plans • Finalize honeymoon plans • Create your emergency kit • Order thank you cards (if non-photo) • Finalize RSVP list and send out final counts to vendors

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Final walkthrough to plan reception layout

Timeline created and sent to vendors for approval

Create family photo grouping list

Final haircuts

WEEKS AHEAD \ \

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FINAL WEEK • Take the week off work

Steam dresses

Pick up any final items needed

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Pick up rental suits

Confirm vendor details and timeline

Write your vows

Have rings cleaned

Have rehearsal and rehearsal dinner

Arrange rental returns/pickup

Memories on the Hill

Meet the area’s newest event venue!

By Melissa McCance

If you’ve been on Mosherville Road north of Jonesville, you might have noticed a striking new building. What you’ve spotted is Memories on the Hill, a beautiful new event venue that will be ready to host your wedding beginning fall of 2023.

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Welcome to Memories on the Hill! A 5000 sq ft event venue on 10 acres on the Kalamazoo river to house weddings/receptions, graduation open houses, retirement parties, cash raffles, baby/bridal showers, etc Our building will be handicap accessible, seats 250 guests with a brides room and Grooms rooms, kitchen, bar area with a kegerator, and all chairs and tables. Please be patient with us as we build, we will keep you updated with the exciting changes and any news as

Sara Cares, owner of Memories on the Hill, says that the building has been in the planning stages for years. The emerging popularity of barn weddings and more rustic venues for events made this seem a natural choice. They broke ground for the building in summer of 2022 and Sara says it will be ready early in October.

The attractive building offers 5,000 square feet of space and features dressing rooms for the bride and groom, kitchen, full bar area with a kegerator, and is completely handicap accessible. Tables and chairs are provided with seating up to 250. If you book Memories on the Hill for your wedding, the price gives you access to the building from noon on Friday through 10 a.m. Sunday—plenty of time to decorate, set up, and then clear away the next day.

Some areas outside are suitable for holding the wedding ceremony, and the venue will provide the chairs. The property is located on 10 acres bordering the Kalamazoo River and there is a beautiful, scenic bridge that offers wonderful photo opportunities or a special setting for a ceremony.

Besides weddings, the venue is suitable for just about anything where people need a comfortable, attractive, well-appointed place to gather. This includes open houses, retirement parties, bridal and baby showers, anniversary celebrations, organizational meetings, proms, and more. Events booked for Sundays will have the venue from noon until 8 p.m.

If you’re interested in finding out more about Memories on the Hill, you can contact Sara through the venue Facebook page.

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Booking now for the 2024 season!

The wedding will be from 12 pm on Fridays (allowing rehearsal and dinner at cost) until 10 am on Sundays. There are several location options for outdoor weddings, including a beautiful bridge. For all other events or questions Contact us for more details!

Few elements can make or break a couple’s wedding day more than entertainment. While factors like the weather are beyond couples’ control, ensuring guests have an opportunity to dance or sing along to some good music is something couples can emphasize as they plan their weddings

When it comes to music, the two main options for weddings are a live band or a disc jockey. Each has its share of advantages and disadvantages. A live band may be more expensive, but it can get the crowd excited. A good bandleader also acts as a master of ceremonies and can pay attention to the vibe of the room, tailoring a playlist around that overall mood. Plus, bands offer live performances which adds an extra special element to the occasion that can’t be replicated at home.

A DJ is a popular choice, and today’s DJs are often artists in their own right. They know just how to select and seamlessly mix music to create the mood and really keep the party going. Couples who prefer to hear original versions of particular songs especially for their first dance song frequently prefer DJs The popular wedding planning resource The Knot also says that it is often no problem for a DJ to find and play a song from an extensive digital library, while bands may not be able to learn and perform a song in time.

Couples who can be flexible with their entertainment budgets may be able to enjoy the best of both worlds There is nothing that says a wedding cannot feature both a live band and a DJ. Such a wedding may just take a little more planning Consider the scenario of bringing in a band for the cocktail hour and perhaps an hour or more during the dinner service of the reception when live music can accompany the meal. After that, a DJ can take over and drive the festivities up another notch with a late-night dance party.

Some music vendors also do a combination of live and prerecorded music. They may have live singers who accompany recorded tracks or digital instruments like keyboards and drum pads that can enhance recorded songs These also are options when selecting wedding music

There is no right or wrong answer when it comes to setting the soundtrack for a wedding. A band, DJ, or combination thereof can make the occasion even more memorable.

Social Media Ways to

Young couples tying the knot today grew up with social media, so it’s no great surprise that so many want to utilize various platforms when planning their weddings. In fact, the Brides 2018 American Wedding Survey found that 87 percent of brides turned to the social media platform Pinterest for inspiration when planning their weddings.

On the surface, modern wedding ceremonies and receptions may look similar to the nuptials of yesteryear. However, engaged couples have increasingly incorporated social media into their weddings, and the following are some fun and creative ways to embrace that trend.

CREATE A SOCIAL MEDIA PHOTO BOOTH

Guests may take more pictures at modern weddings than the photographers do who were hired to document the happy couple’s big day from start to finish. Social media boards are digital screens that display social media walls. Live event social media boards collect and curate content from social media channels and display it on a single digital screen. Users, in this case a couple’s guests, simply use a predetermined hashtag when posting photos and the images are then displayed on digital screens in real time. This can be a fun way to engage guests during the reception.

LIVE STREAM THE WEDDING.

Live streams became very popular during the pandemic when couples getting married had to pare down their guest lists in order

to adhere to social distancing guidelines. But live streams can continue to be used after the pandemic as there will always be guests who can’t make it to the wedding. Facebook Live was a go-to social media platform for live streaming weddings during the pandemic, and it can be utilized to involve loved ones in the festivities even if they can’t be there in person. Live streaming via social media may be especially useful for couples who want to enjoy destination weddings which tend to be small affairs due to travel constraints.

HASHTAG THE WEDDING. A couple-specific hashtag can serve as something akin to a wedding album, only it’s one everyone can easily access via the couple’s chosen social media platform. Encourage guests to hashtag photos from the wedding so everyone can have a good time looking back on the ceremony and reception once the day has come and gone.

PLAN WITH YOUR PARTY. Social media can be as fun, inclusive, and useful when planning the wedding as it can be during the wedding itself. Brides and grooms can create their own private Pinterest boards and share them with the wedding party. Everyone can then use the private board to bounce ideas off each other. Couples can infuse a little fun into the Pinterest board by encouraging their groomsmen and bridesmaids to post outrageous outfit ideas or submit sing-along song requests to be played during the reception.

Social media is a big part of modern couples’ lives, so it makes sense for them to find fun ways to incorporate various platforms into their weddings.

HOW TO AVOID Seating Mistakes

Weddings are great opportunities for people to gather and celebrate the melding of two families into one. Weddings are a melting pot, and, while the ultimate goal is for all guests invited to mingle and have a good time, preexisting relationships may cause some wedding-day interactions to be strained. With careful planning and some best behavior on the parts of all involved, getting hitched can go off without a hitch.

It’s possible for guests who may have tumultuous pasts to keep the peace, but this can also be ensured through careful seating arrangements. This is just one factor couples need to consider when deciding where guests will sit and dine at receptions. It’s important to avoid some common mistakes.

Mistake #1: Not having a seating plan. Let guests sit where they want and chaos may ensue. People might think they’re entitled to certain seats, hop into seats vacated by someone getting up to use the restroom or any number of other scenarios. Seating arrangements also ensure everyone is accounted for across the room.

Mistake #2: Seating family members separately. Unless there are rifts between certain family members, it’s best to seat parents and children at the same tables.

Mistake #3: Trying to force new friendships. Avoid trying to figure out who will get along by creating a potpourri table. A cousin in a band will not necessarily want to sit next to your coworker who plays guitar simply because they have a shared love of music. A wedding is not the time to try creating new friendships. If it’s meant to be, they’ll connect in a more organic way.

Mistake #4: The dreaded kids’ table. Young children can probably get away with sitting at a dedicated kids’ table, although it may mean their parents have to interrupt their experiences by checking on their kids throughout the night. A bigger faux pas is to sit teenagers or twentysomethings at the kids’ table even if they seem like youngsters to you. Set a strict cut-off age for a children’s table.

Mistake #5: Being too strict in seating. It’s one thing to direct couples or singletons to specific tables, quite another to assign specific seats. Do not dictate exactly where at the table a guest should sit S people arrive early, others late, and it is up to to work out how to arrange themselves at th

Mistake #6: Failing to get family feedback. A check with your parents and future in-laws a resources about how to seat certain guests. likely know who will make the best table-ma especially if couples are not familiar with eve on the guest list.

Mistake #7: Not being aware of disabilities o needs. Be conscious of guests’ needs. An eld relative may not be comfortable in front of t table. A person in a wheelchair may need easy access to and from the reception room. It’s important to be mindful of these special needs.

A seating plan for wedding receptions is an important consideration so that every guest can feel comfortable.

All-inclusive resorts are popular vacation spots because variables like entertainment, lodging, food, drinks, and more is all taken care of, leaving vacationers with little to do other than show up and relax Couples can apply that same approach on their wedding day Hosting the ceremony and reception at the same site takes the potentially problematic issue of getting guests to and from out of the equation. Some venues may even provide in-house vendors like photographers and florists. Such vendors' familiarity with the venue reduces the risk of surprises that can derail wedding day schedules

It's easy for couples to feel a little overwhelmed on their wedding day Some simple strategies can take the hectic out of couples' wedding day and help keep their focus on one another and on their loved ones

WEDDING CAKES CAN MAKE A STATEMENT

Brides and grooms may pore over every detail of their weddings, but few components of the festivities may be as fun, especially for foodies, as deciding what the wedding cake will look like. Couples who want to deliver show-stopping visuals often express some measure of their creativity and personalities through statement wedding cakes.

Many couples now eschew the classic three-tiered white cake in favor of a dessert that garners instant attention. Whether the cake is brightly colored or hand-painted, a towering architectural marvel or shimmering in metallics, couples are opting to make a statement with their confections. Apart from clever cake-toppers, here are ways to stand apart when dessert is served.

According to experts, a rising trend in cakes is to cover a white or naked cake with translucent glaze tinted in the couple’s wedding colors. This artistic expression can be especially stunning in boho-chic weddings.

Statement tiers also are popular. The cake may be traditional in nearly every way, but couples then set the cake apart by featuring an elaborate design or a different hue in one tier.

More than just color can be used to make a statement. Lifelike sugar flowers can really set cakes apart. Guests may not be sure if they can consume all aspects of some cakes. But delicate sugar flowers taste as good as they look.

Hand-painted tiles on a cake are another way to add panache. A bride and groom may be inspired by a European vacation or the stained-glass effects of religious windows and want to add that feel to the tiers of the cake.

Sometimes a statement comes by way of texture. Even an all-white cake can be dressed up with interesting textural effects. Ruffles, lace, embossing, and 3-D rosettes are different textural components that can be incorporated in cake designs. Couples also may want to tell their unique stories with cake. Individual tiers designed to reflect various milestone moments from the couple’s relationship can be quite engaging.

Capitalizing on the trend of edgier weddings, couples may opt for darker hues on their cakes - even a black tier - or nontraditional geometric shapes to the cake itself or its design elements.

Statement cakes can speak volumes about the couple getting married. Much like other wedding elements, cakes provide a glimpse into the hearts of the happy couple.

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R O F E S S I O N A L L YD E C O R A T E D C A K E S

Wedding Day Emergency Kits

ESSENTIAL ITEMS

Bug spray (be sure it leaves no spots and smells nice)

Extra flowers (in case of sun wilting)

Handkerchief for dabbing sweat

Sunglasses (pre- and post-ceremony)

JUST IN CASE

Cash ($20 – you never know what you’ll need it for)

Disposable camera

Driver’s license or photo I.D. card

Duct tape (good for any handy repairs)

Extra copies of directions to your reception

Important phone numbers:

party

Wedding vendors

Taxi company

Notebook and pens

Portable flashlight

Roll of quarters

Snacks/bottled water (granola bars, dried fruit, etc.)

FOR THE GROOM

APPEARANCE

socks (a few pairs)

(travel size)

cufflinks

pairs)

JUST IN CASE

1.Cash ($20 – you never know what you’ll need it for)

phone (remember to turn it off before the ceremony)

cameras

license or photo I.D. card

copies of directions to the reception

phone numbers (family, wedding party, vendors, taxi)

BRAS THAT FIT

10 THINGS Every Bride Should Have

1. A TRULY GREAT GOWN!

Take your time choosing and be sure your dress is one that makes you feel beautiful, confident, and— most importantly—like you!

2. A TOUCH OF FANTASY

Whether it’s a breathtaking veil; a gorgeous floral crown; elegant, full-length gloves or some other special touch, find a detail that will lift your ensemble above the ordinary.

3. THE PERFECT SHOE

This might actually end up being two pairs of shoes: one for walking down the aisle and another, more comfortable pair for the reception. Regardless . . . DON’T choose a pair of shoes that make you wince, no matter how gorgeous they are.

4. SOMETHING OLD, SOMETHING NEW, SOMETHING BORROWED AND SOMETHING BLUE

This is a sweet tradition and an easy one to make work. Do some thinking ahead of time, talk to your mother, aunts, grandmothers, future mother-inlaw, friends, etc., and come up with items that are meaningful to you.

5. NATURAL BEAUTY

Don’t try something new or completely not you on your wedding day. Look natural and you’ll be radiating beauty. When you come down the aisle, you want your groom to be stunned by your loveliness and not trying to figure out who’s in that white dress.

6. FUN

Don’t stress every little thing. Sometimes the least-planned detail makes the best memories.

7. JEWELRY

Wedding jewelry doesn’t need to be elaborate or terribly expensive, but do consider the style of your gown, shoes, and flowers and plan something that complements your total look. Often, just an elegant pair of crystal, pearl, or diamond (or a good imitation) earrings is all you need.

8. FLOWERS YOU LOVE

Brides no longer need to be limited to orange blossoms or roses for bridal bouquets. Choose flowers that you love and that will make you happy when you carry them. Colors can be soft or bold, flowers can be real or silk, or bouquets can be a mix of wonderful greenery. After all, this is your wedding, right?

9. TIME TO RELAX

Comfy pajamas and a good book can work wonders for your stress level.

10. CHOCOLATE

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SELF Care

After the big question is popped and loving partners decide to spend their lives together as a married couple, a whirlwind of activity will ensue. Although wedding planning is exciting, some couples may feel overwhelmed with all the decisions that need to be made before they can tie the knot

In this state of increased pressure, stress may build and health could falter According to a Cornell University study, more than 70 percent of brides-to-be have weight loss on the brain, but shedding pounds shouldn’t be the only health factor to consider. Here are some easy ways to stay mentally and physically fit in advance of a happy wedding day

Get daily exercise.

Exercise is important for maintaining a healthy body weight and keeping stress levels in check. Exercise also can boost mood The Department of Health and Human Services recommends getting at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity each week Strength training exercises performed at least twice a week complete a well-balanced exercise regimen.

Small, simple choices can make a huge impact on your big day!

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planning may burn out. Stress can weaken the immune system and make people vulnerable to illness. Schedule some time for date nights with your fiancé and don’t overlook the benefits of hanging out with friends and getting away from wedding planning for a bit

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Eat body-boosting foods.

The foods we eat can impact everything from energy levels to skin radiance. Foods like berries, sweet potatoes, broccoli, greens, green tea, and dark chocolate all contain antioxidants that boost the immune system states The Food Network. Avoid drastic diets that can do more harm

than good. Simply cutting 500 calories a day can help the average person lose a pound per week if weight loss is a goal Simple ways to trim calories are to choose skim milk over whole milk and choose lowcalorie snacks.

than good Simply cutting 500 calories a day can help the average person lose a pound per week if weight loss is a goal. Simple ways to trim calories are to choose skim milk over whole milk and choose lowcalorie snacks

Cut down on alcohol consumption.

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Toasting to the future with a glass of wine may become rote in the months leading up to the wedding, but alcohol is a diuretic and a source of liquid calories. Alcoholic beverages dehydrate the body and cause it to hold onto water. When imbibing, stick to low-calorie cocktails like a vodka spritzer (60 to 80 calories) instead of a calorie-laden frozen margarita (300 calories)

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Cut down on alcohol consumption.

Toasting to the future with a glass of wine may become rote in the months leading up to the wedding, but alcohol is a diuretic and a source of liquid calories Alcoholic beverages dehydrate the body and cause it to hold onto water. When imbibing, stick to low-calorie cocktails like a vodka spritzer (60 to 80 calories) instead of a calorie-laden frozen margarita (300 calories).

Toasting to the future with a glass of wine may become rote in the months leading up to the wedding, but alcohol is a diuretic and a source of liquid calories Alcoholic beverages dehydrate the body and cause it to hold onto water. When imbibing, stick to low-calorie cocktails like a vodka spritzer (60 to 80 calories) instead of a calorie-laden frozen margarita (300 calories)

Imagine SkyPool Suites with private infinity-edge plunge pools on the balcony, Beachfront Walkout Suites with private Tranquility Soaking Tubs™ for two, or unique Swim-up Crystal Lagoon Suites that allow you to float up to your private patio—all with Professional English Guild-Trained Butlers to cater to your every whim. Sandals®, the world’s only five-star Luxury Included® Resorts, has suites that are so exotic, so opulent, so decadently romantic, they could only be named Love Nest Suites®. These dreamy retreats surround you in uncompromising comfort and world-class luxuries like our king-size Tranquility Blissful Beds™ with fine Egyptian cotton linens and feathered down pillow choices to ensure a good night’s sleep. It’s all included, all unlimited, all the time. *Amenities vary by resort. Sandals®

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Wedding Flowers

When planning a wedding, choosing the look of your flower arrangements is an important step. There’s much more to floral wedding planning than selecting a single bouquet or centerpiece; floral elements can welcome guests to your venue, appear during the ceremony, and decorate banquet tables during the reception. Corsages and boutonnieres unify your wedding party and create a sense of joy and belonging.

Partnering with a full-service flower shop lets you obtain your preferred arrangements and get the most value from your floral budget. Look for florists that offer a variety of services and products. They’ll guide you through a decision process that covers all the possibilities for floral décor.

Flowers in a vase can appear near the guest book stand, on the bar and buffet, and even in restrooms. Centerpieces accompany and enliven catering selections. Select décor that goes with a specific theme or the season of your wedding date.

Before your first meeting with a floral designer, begin your flower planning online. Use apps like Pinterest or TikTok to make inspirational mood boards. Track ontrend floral arrangements to create a VIP experience of your own, including a floral-themed photo booth backdrop for your guest reception. Look for plants and flowers that represent a favorite memory or family tradition. Write down any questions you have and share these references with your florist.

Flowers do not only set a memorable atmosphere— they make photos more beautiful. Photographers like to include flowers in shots of the wedding party and guests. A pop of bright color in the center of an arrangement looks great on camera.

The bridal bouquet appears again and again in wedding photography, from close-ups to portraits and group shots. When designing your bouquet, consider colors and shapes that enhance your attire and make you look and feel your best. Accessories like flower crowns and hair clips stand out and make your photographs even more special.

Get creative with building out a floral theme. Preserved and dried plants are a unique option for a bride with Bohemian style. Dried plants come in neutral tones but can accept dye or paint. You can keep preserved plants from your wedding through the honeymoon and beyond as a cherished memento.

Fresh-cut stems of hydrangea and dahlia pair well with the soft tones of carefully dried pieces, lending ruffled elegance to a subtle and naturalistic composition. Popular flowers like roses and orchids are show-stopping but pricier than other options— surround these harder-to-find flowers with greenery, complementary flowers, or even dried plants.

Shops that operate in a garden center or nursery can select from their in-house collection of fullygrown houseplants, outdoor plants, and seasonal outdoor décor, eliminating expenses that would be occurred when working with multiple vendors. Some shops offer access to rent large pieces like decorative arches and ornamental planters that can be customdesigned. Ask if your florist employs delivery drivers on staff to ensure the highest level of care during transport of valuable arrangements.

Set yourself up for success by working with a full-service flower shop that offers a variety of services, custom options, and expert advice.

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WEDDING FAVORS

Wedding favors have changed and in many cases for the better. Favors have evolved from the inexpensive trinkets purchased in bulk to more personalized mementos that guests can cherish.

Today’s couples are interested in customizing their weddings and offering guests something meaningful, or, at the very least, edible, so that favors don’t immediately get relegated to the trash can According to the experts, favors have moved from “goodie bags” toward items that are experimental and fun. Wedding planners from across the country offer these wedding favor trends that couples may want to incorporate into their own celebrations

WELCOME BAGS

Rather than take-home bags, welcome bags have replaced the traditional favor trinket at some weddings Many weddings have become multi-day events that ask guests traveling from out of town to attend a wedding weekend To help greet them and make their experience memorable, couples may fill a gift bag with items guests can use or enjoy during their stay like a bottle of locallysourced maple syrup or some handmade soaps from a nearby shopkeeper

EXPERIENCE GIFTS

Instead of a candle or a monogrammed cake server, think of experiences to offer guests A coupon for free drinks at a nearby brewery, a tour of a local attraction while guests are in town, or a group excursion for guests attending a destination wedding can be fun and will help guests create lasting memories

CHARITABLE DONATIONS

Some couples feel that favors are wasteful and would rather set aside a portion of their wedding budgets toward giving back In such situations, a donation to charity in guests’ names can be the way to go Guests can vote on two favorite charities advertised on a special table at the wedding reception. The one with the most votes will get the proceeds

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ETIQUETTE FOR WEDDING GUESTS

Making a wedding guest list is seldom an easy task Couples often find that many people are worthy of an invitation which can make creating a guest list tricky for those with budgets in mind

According to data from the online wedding resource The Knot, the average wedding catering cost per guest is roughly $70 However, catering costs will vary depending on the reception venue, the number of guests, the foods chosen, and the region of the country where the wedding takes place

When creating their guest lists, couples may wonder if they have to offer all guests the option of bringing a “plus one ” to the occasion. As with other wedding day etiquette questions, the plus one concept is not set in stone. Here are some guidelines:

ANY GUEST WHO IS MARRIED

It’s typically standard to invite a couple as a whole to the wedding even if you ’ ve never met the spouse This often comes up when inviting work friends according to Vogue magazine Even if you have never interacted with a coworker’s spouse, etiquette dictates that all married guests be allowed to bring their spouses

ANY GUEST WHO IS ENGAGED OR IN A SERIOUS LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP

It can be challenging to know the relationship status of everyone who will be invited to the wedding, but chances are you’ll have a good idea of those people closest to you Include a plus one for guests who are engaged or in long-term relationships

CONSIDER GUESTS WHO MAY

NOT KNOW OTHERS

Weddings often are times when childhood friends reconnect or people who haven’t seen each other in a while come together. If there’s a good chance someone who is single and is invited to the wedding may not know anyone else there except the couple, extend a plus one as a courtesy.

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All members of the wedding party should be offered the option of bringing a date to the wedding.

Apart from these guidelines, couples can establish any other rules, such as no plus ones for guests under a certain age or those who are not in serious relationships The Knot also says it is polite to find out who the plus one will be so that wedding reception seating cards include that person ’ s name instead of “and guest ”

1 sheet frozen puff pastry, thawed

SAUCE:

2 shallots

2 tablespoons Dijon mustard

1 tablespoon mayonnaise

1 tablespoon red wine vinegar

1/4 cup olive oil

FINISHING:

1 cup fresh arugula or baby spinach, chopped 4-1/2 ounces smoked salmon or lox, thinly sliced

1/2 cup shaved Asiago cheese

Smoked Salmon Bites

Tangy mayonnaise-Dijon sauce adds zip to flaky pastry and layers of crisp arugula, thinly sliced smoked salmon, and nutty-flavored Asiago cheese.

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Preheat oven to 400°. Unfold puff pastry; cut into 25 squares. Transfer to greased baking sheets. Bake 11-13 minutes or until golden brown.

2. Meanwhile, grate 1 shallot and finely chop the other. In a small bowl, combine shallots, mustard, mayonnaise and vinegar. While whisking, gradually add oil in a steady stream. Spoon a small amount of sauce onto each pastry; layer with arugula and salmon. Drizzle with remaining sauce and sprinkle with cheese.

Mimosa Butter Cookies

You can add many different flavors to butter cookies to make them your own. Try an alternate type of citrus zest or add another liquid to change things up.

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Preheat oven to 350°. In a large bowl, cream first 4 ingredients until light and fluffy, 5-7 minutes. Mix juice and champagne. Add flour to creamed mixture alternately with juice mixture, beating well after each addition.

Cut a small hole in the tip of a pastry bag; insert a #1M star tip. Transfer dough to bag; pipe 2-in. circles 2 in. apart onto parchment-lined baking sheets.

Bake until edges are set, 10-12 minutes. Cool on pan 5 minutes. Remove to wire racks to cool.

1 cup champagne or other sparkling wine

2 pounds semisweet chocolate, chopped 1-1/2 cups heavy whipping cream

1/2 cup unsalted butter, cubed 1 pound dark chocolate candy coating, melted Edible gold paint, glitter or sprinkles

Champagne Truffles

Who can resist champagne truffles? Especially when they are so very easy to make! Serve them in gold foil candy cups for an elegant look.

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In a small saucepan, bring champagne to a boil. Cook until liquid is reduced to 1/3 cup, 15-20 minutes. Cool slightly. Place semisweet chocolate in a small bowl. In another saucepan, heat cream just to a boil. Pour over chocolate; stir until smooth. Stir in butter and cooled champagne. Cool to room temperature, stirring occasionally. Refrigerate until firm, about 3 hours. Shape into 1-in. balls. Place on baking sheets; cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour. Dip truffles in candy coating; allow excess to drip off. Place on waxed paper; let stand until set. Splatter with edible gold paint or sprinkle with glitter or sprinkles. Store in an airtight container in the refrigerator.