Simply Seniors Winter 2025 by Marlanea McGraw

Marlanea McGraw Owner/Publisher

from the publisher

How has time flown by this fast!? By the time you read this we will be quickly approaching the New Year!

This issue we are spotlighting the Greater Hillsdale Humane Society and the great work they do with the communities support. Take a moment to read through those who sponsored them for this article.

Enjoy some delicious squash recipes and see what was happening in 1938!

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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Elyse Apel

Lori Miller

Laura Loveberry

Shar Ann Smith

Deb Petticrew

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Cover Feature

Greater Hillsdale Humane Society

Legal News EENIE, MEENIE, MINEY, MO…...

Interviewing Your Relatives

Seniors & Dogs What to Consider...

Recipes

Butternut Squash & Carrot Soup

Debbi Petticrew

Maple Syrup By

Cheesy Spaghetti Squash

More Son, Less Sun By

Laura Loveberry

Oh My! Growing Up "Poor" Recycling & Making A Difference

Puzzle Fun! Sudoku Word Search

History & Trivia in 1938

Find this issues hidden object...

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JULIE BAUER

Greater Hillsdale Humane Society

by Elyse Apel

Always Ways to Help

Since 1974, the Greater Hillsdale Humane Society has made it its mission to serve the community by ensuring the welfare and protection of local animals. Julie Bauer is the president of the board of directors at the Humane Society and has been involved there for over a decade.

“I was the owner of Udder Side in Jonesville and became involved through the business because we were asked to sponsor an event,” Julie explains. “After many years of trying to help in any way I could, they asked me to be on the board.”

The Humane Society, which is located in Osseo, receives zero financial support from local or state government, instead solely relying on the local community and donors for support. While Julie says that has been a struggle at times, she is excited about the steps the shelter has been able to take in the past few years to better serve local animals.

“A big win was that we were fortunate enough to be part of a few estates,” Julie says. “Due to that funding, we were able to completely gut the shelter and remodel the building in 2022, which was a really big deal, especially because we don't get any government funding.”

Sources of the shelter’s funding is also the biggest misconception many have about the shelter, Julie says.

“We are constantly trying to get the word out there that we are not funded by any entity,” she explains. “A lot of people think their tax dollars go to fund the shelter, but they actually don’t. So, that is an ongoing obstacle. We are always looking for any way the community can support the shelter.”

Something that helps with sharing about that is the community outreach opportunities the shelter is given. Most recently, Julie was asked to serve as the Grand Marshall at the Hillsdale Christmas Parade for her involvement as director in the Humane Society.

Currently, the shelter has room for 60 cats, 17 dogs, and six puppies. They are almost always at capacity.

“It fluctuates every day. We try to keep a cage or two open for an emergency situation,” Julie says. “We like to have people fill out a surrender form on our website so that we can prepare for the vacancy of a kennel and so that we can take an animal in.”

The surrender form, which is available at www. greaterhillsdalehumanesociety.org, also helps the shelter know if they can even take the animal in.

“We often can’t just take in an animal if somebody shows up at our door or brings in an animal without any notice, because we are generally at capacity,” Julie says.

Julie explains that the overpopulation of pets is the biggest issue the shelter is seeing throughout Hillsdale County.

“The biggest need I see is for spaying and neutering of cats. The cat population is really out of control,” she says. “So, that's why we're trying to participate in spay and neuter clinics. We’ve done that a few times, just gradually trying to address the issue.”

Julie says another misconception is also that the Humane Society has a veterinarian on staff.

“We take all the animals at the shelter to the vet, and so we have a vet bill. It's always a financial struggle, and even though we get really good discounts, we still have to pay for the animals,” she explains. “So, there’s always a need for more financial resources.”

All animals from the shelter must be spayed and neutered, microchipped, and be up-to-date on all their shots before they can be adopted. “That means there is a big expense put into each animal, which is why we have an adoption fee,” Julie says.

While pet adoption and financial gifts are two big ways the community can help the shelter, there are many other opportunities also available.

“We really try to focus on getting the dogs out of the shelter and on a couple walks a day,” Julie says. “So, anyone who can volunteer is always welcome.”

The shelter also recently started a few programs like Happy Hour and a Reading Program to get the community more involved.

“With Happy Hour, you can take a dog out for the day. You can pick a dog up and take him for a dog dish, some ice cream, or even just for a walk outside of the shelter,” Julie explains. “The Reading Program is another way for the community to connect. Through that program, kids can come out here with their parents and just chill with the cats or read to them.”

Julie says that she just wants the community to know that, no matter how much time or resources they have, there are always ways to help.

“A lot of people think that they can’t come out to the shelter because they can't adopt, but they can still help,” she says. “Even if you can just come out for an hour every week and just play with the cats or walk a dog, it's always beneficial to help the animals, even if you can't adopt one.”

For more information about how to volunteer or to see information and photos of the pets currently available for adoption, visit www.greaterhillsdalehumanesociety.org.

The Humane Society’s hours are Tuesday through Saturday, 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. You can also contact the Humane Society by email at greaterhhs@gmail.com or by phone at (517) 523-2308. The address is 3881 S. Tripp Rd. Osseo, Michigan.

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EENIE, MEENIE, MINEY, MO…... How to Choose Which Person Should be Named as my Agent

Lorrie A.S. Miller

Attorney at Law

Lorrie Miller Law, PLC

517.278.2505

lmiller@HillsdaleLaw.com

My son? My daughter? A local bank? I’ve heard from many clients that they delayed their estate planning because they did not know yet who they would appoint to serve in various areas of their estate plan. For example, many young parents do not want to, or perhaps are overwhelmed with needing to, choose a guardian for their minor children if both parents pass away. Others feel conflicted about naming one child over another to serve as power of attorney or Trustee. These thoughts and feelings may cause some to delay, or ignore entirely, the important task of putting an estate plan in place. While the task is difficult, and may require some family discussions, it is important to address these issues while the client is mentally and physically able—delay could lead to a point of inability, and the Court may need to step in and make decisions instead. Therefore, this article will provide some insight as to issues to consider when making these decisions, and hopefully some practical advice for making the process as painless as possible.

Typical positions that must be nominated in estate planning include: Trustee (in a Trust), Personal Representative (in a Will),

a Patient Advocate (in a Medical Power of Attorney), and Power of Attorney for Financial and legal transactions (in a Durable Power of Attorney), as well as a Guardian/Conservator for minor or disabled children and for the person making the documents him/herself, should he/she become incapacitated. Each of these positions serves a different purpose and requires some different abilities.

The Trustee will be required to follow state statutes for the administration of the trust, protect assets for the benefit of beneficiaries of the Trust, as well as make distributions of those assets at appropriate times. Similarly, the Personal Representative will be required to follow statutes for the administration of the Estate through the probate process. When making an estate plan, one should consider whether a person is able to understand and follow through with the necessary procedures, whether he/she is able to physically protect the assets as necessary, and will have the necessary time to commit to this job. If a Trust Settlor (maker) wishes to name two people—perhaps two of their children— to serve, it is also to consider that both

will be required to agree with all actions and to sign all documents. This often can cause a slow down and a hassle for the Co-Trustees. I often encourage clients to consider some factors such as: which person is able to handle finances better? Does one handle stressful situations better? Does one sibling get along with all of the others better? Is one person more ethical and likely to act fairly? Who lives nearest to the assets and will be able to deal with the physical assets more easily?

The powers of attorney have their own issues to consider. For the durable power of attorney for finances, a person may desire to have two children or other people act together. While the law certainly permits this, the same issues may arise as with Trustee and Personal Representative. If you do not want both agents to have to sign all checks, contracts, etc. then it may be better to name one at a time to serve consecutively. While it may cause some concern having one person hold such power, the checks within the power of attorney, namely, having a contingent agent, should help put the initial agent in check regarding abuse of power.

Naming individual agents for a medical power of attorney can hold even more risk, in this author’s opinion, as requiring attendance of two agents to make decisions in the case of a medical emergency may result in medical actions undesired by the Principal (the person making the document) or catastrophic medical results. Additionally, if two agents are named but cannot agree, catastrophe may result from the deadlock. It may be wise to name single agents consecutively after considering numerous issues, including: which person has more medical experience? Who can keep a level head under pressure? Who is more able to emotionally make difficult decisions? Who can get to the hospital more quickly? Who has the time to attend medical appointments with me if it should become necessary? The answers to these may help determine the order

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of naming agents in the medical power of attorney document.

Guardian/Conservator for minor children if their parents should become unable to care for them any longer may be the most difficult and heart wrenching decision. It is important to consider factors such as: who has similar beliefs as me and will raise my children accordingly? Who will keep my children in contact with extended family? Who has the time and patience for additional children? Who can take all of my children and keep them together as a sibling unit? Who can keep my children enrolled in their current school? Will this person be able to responsibly handle the assets left from my estate for the benefit of my children or should a conservator separate from the guardian be named? These may be issues to consider when choosing a potential guardian/ conservator for minors.

While there is no “right or wrong” when naming agents, it is something each person should carefully consider. Clients often feel they should name their children in order of their ages to keep it “simple and fair.” Sometimes “birth order” is appropriate, but not always. One should always consider the implications and the personality/ location of each agent before appointing him/her.

Additionally, it is often helpful to discuss the documents and the named persons with the people nominated. This helps to clear confusion and expectations for all of the family members.

An attorney trained in Estate Planning matters should be able to help you consider these issues for your own particular situation, as every situation is unique. Seeking advice from such an attorney is recommended.

Maple Syrup

By: Deb Petticrew

When I was around 8 years old, my grandpa decided it was time for me to help him make maple syrup. I thought it was as simple as going to the store to buy it! But no, I discovered that Grandpa made his own, from scratch.

It was February and Grandpa had drilled holes in the three large sugar maple trees in our front yard. He said it was best to do this when you had some very cold days, mixed with very warm days. After he drilled a hold in the trees, he “tapped” it. To do this, he placed the pointed end of a spile into the hole and lightly tapped it into place. From this, he hung a metal bucket which would catch the sap as it ran.

Every day, I’d go next door to Grandma and Grandpa’s trailer and he and I would check the buckets. After hanging another bucket so that none was wasted, we'd take the bucket filled with sap into the house and store it in the refrigerator until we had enough to boil down. When we knew we had enough sap, we’d put it into a large pot and bring it to a boil, then reduce to medium until it thickened and dripped slowly from the spoon. Oh, the aromas that came from the kitchen during this process

were amazing!

A gallon of sugar maple sap would give us about 4 ounces of syrup, so it was a long and tedious task. But the whole time, we’d talk about what we’d use our finished product on. Pancakes was always, handsdown, the number one answer! But there were also waffles, biscuits and even ice cream!

After it was the perfect consistency, Grandpa would use a metal funnel to pour the mixture into clean glass bottles and cap them right away. I remember that we had to warm the bottles first so that the hot syrup wouldn’t crack the bottle. Unopened bottles would remain usable for two years, but we never had to worry about that! As soon as they were finished, we’d talk Grandma into making her light, fluffy pancakes and it didn’t take long to empty those bottles.

I don’t think I’ve had such good tasting syrup since then! None of the store brands even compare. Life and “progress” have done away with a lot of the old ways, but oh, I’d give anything to have some of that fresh, tasty syrup for my pancakes again!

LOCAL SERVICES FOR VETERANS

Call the Office of Veterans Affairs (517) 437-3630 to speak with someone concerning the services that are available to you as a veteran. We can assist veterans in filing for all Federal, State and County Veterans benefits. Each VA benefit has its own eligibility requirements.

Transportation- Hillsdale County offers transportation to Ann Arbor Monday through Thursday by appointment only and for VA Clinic or hospital only. Call (517) 437-3630 for availability.

OTHER VETERANS SERVICES MAY INCLUDE:

Disability Compensation - You may be compensated if you are at least 10% disabled as a result of your military service.

Disability Pension – You may be paid a pension if you are a wartime veteran with limited income and are no longer able to work or are age 65 or older.

Educational & Training Benefits - The VA pays benefits to eligible veterans, dependents, reservists and service members while they are in approved training programs.

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Home Loans - The VA offers a number of home loan services to eligible veterans, some military personnel and certain spouses. We can assist you in obtaining a Certificate of Eligibility.

Burial Benefits - The VA offers certain benefits and services to honor our Nation's deceased veterans.

Dependents' & Survivors' Benefits - Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) is payable to survivors of services members who died on active duty, veterans who died from service-related disabilities, and certain veterans who were being paid 100% VA disability compensation at the time of death.

Health Care - VA Civilian Health and Medical Program (CHAMPAVA) shares the cost of medical services for eligible dependents and survivors of certain veterans.

More Son, Less Sun

By Laura Loveberry Elementary School Assembly

Author/Speaker, Inspirational Speaker

Women’s Retreats/ Conferences, Caricature Artist

Our adventures await!

The seawater sparkled diamonds. Gazing out Mom’s window, the Intercoastal, with openings through the mangroves, summoned us. We answered the call, jumped into our kayaks, and paddled beside the diving dolphins. Blue herring and exotic birds lined our winding waterway and soared overhead.

Every day on the water—a unique voyage. Mom and I discovered abandoned vessels. Once we shrieked, splashing through “Shark Alley,” nearly sinking. Our eyebrows raised, spotting meandering manatees, colorful fish, and bobbing sea turtles. Nature surrounded us with birds singing, waves lapping, and salty breezes cooling our faces. Grinning, we praised God, encircled by His wondrous creation.

No cell phones. No radios. No negativity.

Loud laughter and long talks quieted the technology overload on shore. Floating on the water became our happy place in the sun. Sigh. I almost feel the soft sunshine on my face right now, smiling upward with my eyes shut as memories linger.

Bam!

Abruptly, the door swings open at the radiation clinic, slamming shut the flow of delightful memories from the seaside. Reality hits. Mom’s legs pepper with skin

cancer. Yikes! Doctors removed basal cell carcinomas off my legs, but Mom’s legs smother with boatloads of cancer sores. They cut, carve, and radiate Mom’s legs. We learned not to delay treatments or the scabs evolve into grotesque growths. Ugh. Mom moans. I wince.

Should we have protected our exposed skin, reapplying sunscreen? Duh. Probably. Ummm . . . definitely. Eye roll. We deal with multiple doctor visits. Lesson learned. Consequences cut deeply.

Was kayaking in the Florida sun worth it? Who knows? But the sun did damage. Now, we adjust with hats, long sleeves, and reapplied sunscreen. What’s an even better source of refreshing sunshine and warmth?

We choose to soak in more of the S-O-N and a little less of the s-u-n

We rejuvenate with Jesus, the SON of GOD. “. . . Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day,” (2 Cor. 4:16b). The Bible radiates God’s Son. Jesus shines. He restores even better than a kayak float on a sunny day. Ahhh! Daily, we can bask in the SON’s light, revitalizing our days, soaking in Scriptures, renewing our souls. Jesus’s Living Water sparkles, calling us to the deep. Jump in with us, readers.

His adventures await!

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Growing up "poor"

Oh My

By Shar Ann Packard

When you grow up “poor,” you gain a different outlook on life in general. I was the second oldest out of five children. My dad, Herb, worked as a welder and did side jobs, such as, working at the gas station and cutting old cars apart in a junkyard a few miles from our house. He did whatever it took to put food on the table and pay the bills. My mom, Loretta, was a stay-at-home mom… if you will. She was only 16 when she had my older brother, and the rest of us were born two years apart after that. She never knew how to care for children… she was a child herself. In the 50’s this was not uncommon.

My parents bought a piece of land that had a trailer on it. My dad started building a house by himself on a slab of cement. It was a 3 bedroom “open concept” kitchen/living room combined. The bathroom was built several years later when he could afford it. Dad worked hard, never missed a day of work, except for a funeral. Then he would take a half day and leave work to attend. He was a kind man. Maybe too kind, as he would go without to give to others. I often wonder how you go without, when you have nothing to start with? As I think about this, we always had an extra person or two at the supper table… barely had enough food to feed his family of seven but he never turned a person away. If it was supper time, and you were there, then you were asked to sit at the table with us.

I never knew there were sheets for beds… I am not kidding. We each had two blankets, one to lay on and one to cover up with. Then, in the winter, you used both to cover up with. I didn’t know how to make a bed until I started babysitting down the road and the neighbor lady showed me how… and told me that having sheets on the bed is so much nicer because you can wash sheets easier than washing blankets, plus it keeps your bed clean. Oh, I learned so much from Sandy (my stand-in mom) that summer. When school started, we got on the bus in her driveway. She asked me if I wanted to come in and wash up before the bus came… it became a daily thing for years. I had a basket with my name on it containing soap, toothbrush, and personal things. I would stop by every morning and get ready for school. I wonder if she ever knew how much that meant to me, and just how much her kindness would last my lifetime! She treated me like her own until the day she passed. What an amazing lady!

I knew how to cook at the age of eight. I could cook a full meal for seven people. Goulash, spaghetti, and roast were my favorite things to make. I hated washing dishes after! I made a deal with my dad… if I cook, someone else has to do the dishes. He agreed, but it seemed I always had to do dishes before I could cook the next day! My Home-Ec teacher taught me to can… she said if you preserve food, you will always have plenty in the pantry! I had no idea what a pantry was at the time, but my pantry is now overflowing! Again, with plenty to share.

I learned how to wash clothes at that age with a wringer washer. I was taught a valuable lesson too… NEVER try to pull a stuck piece of clothing off a

wringer without turning it off. That thing grabbed my arm, and I was stuck up to my armpit in it before I knew it! I was screaming and remembered to slap the release knob on the top and it let me go. Sore, rug burned, bleeding, and scared… lesson learned. I assure you; it never happened again.

I taught myself how to sew… it was so awesome to make my own dresses! There was an elderly lady who lived up on the hill that raised birds, Mrs. Pickens. She got her seed in these beautifully printed feed bags. I would clean for her weekly; in return, she would save three matching sacks for me, which was a yard and a half. I’d bring them home, wash and iron them, then cut out my dresses. Sewing at the kitchen table at night was one of my favorite things to do. I was so proud, and really no one ever knew they were homemade.

As I look back at these fond memories, I look not only at how much I learned, but why I appreciate the things I have now. I love new sheets, towels, and blankets. I wonder if there is anything nicer than clean sheets and a made bed, or for that matter, can you have too many? I tend to over buy some of these items… my linen closets are full!

I still love to cook, and feel the more sitting at my table, the better. I always make too much, but always have some to share.

I take pride in doing the laundry and enjoy having an empty dirty clothes basket. I appreciate the fact that my washer is not a wringer washer. LOL!

Oh! And I love to sew! John has helped me create the most beautiful sewing room, and I enjoy each minute I can find “being me!” Most of what I make is given away! Quilts are my favorite!

My main lesson I tried so hard to pass on to my children and grandchildren is never make fun of the kids in school that do not have new shoes or show up to school sad and dirty. I was that kid. I was tired most days. I couldn’t concentrate. I was worried someone would notice I had the same dress on three days in a row. I had very low self-esteem. I was THAT kid. Please take time to be kind to that kid. You never know what it will mean to them one day… or their whole life, for that matter!

I appreciate every kind person that has crossed my path, and “OH MY,” I try so hard to be that kind person to others!

Recycling & Making A Difference

One Mat At A Time

There are over 8,000 homeless people in Michigan, with over 200 at any given time in Lenawee County. Winter months are especially difficult, with sometimes entire families going through hard times and doing what they can to survive.

Several years ago, a group of ladies visited a church in Alpena, Michigan to watch a demonstration on making mats out of plastic bags. They were so impressed that they came back and decided they would be the perfect way to bring some warmth and comfort to Lenawee’s homeless.

“With so many people needing help, we decided to see if we could get a group of ladies from our church to help make them,” Teresa Bates said.

“Soon, Tecumseh Nazarene Church joined with Ridgeway Nazarene Church and it just took off!”

“Phyllis Below added, “Everyone uses their own talents on this project. Some cut and tie, some supply the materials, some put it all together on the loom and some help deliver. We found out quite quickly that doing these by hand is not the way to go. So one of our members had a loom made, and it’s made things go much easier.” So many ladies from our local community work together and contribute in so many ways.

It takes approximately 1,200 plastic bags to make a completed set, which includes a mat, a pillow and handles so that they can be rolled up and easily carried. “A few years ago,” Teresa commented, “we went to Herrick Park Middle School to demonstrate to the kids how the mats are made. The children were so excited and encouraged that they made a mat on their own and presented it to the group to be donated to the homeless.”

With the help of coordinator Sharon Weber of the Tecumseh Nazarene Church, the mats are made and distributed throughout the year to those in need. Volunteers are always welcome, as well as names of those who might need some help.

“Many hands make light work,” Phyllis said. “We have people from all over the county who do what they can to help in any way they can. Whether it’s an hour a week or several hours or even days, there are those who give of themselves to help the homeless stay warm and add a little comfort to their lives.”

Some organizations that help with homelessness in Lenawee County include Housing Help of Lenawee, Share the Warmth of Lenawee, Continuum of Care, and Neighbors of Hope. For more information on making the homeless plastic bag mats, please contact Teresa Bates at 517-673-5474.

Far Left: The loom made a huge difference in the ease and timeliness in making the mats.

Top Right: Volunteers are always excited to deliver the mats to those in need

Middle Right: Pastor Jon Livengood of the Tecumseh Nazarene Church and church member Dan Weber, delivering the mats to the Flint Mission.

Bottom Right: Phyllis Below (left) and Teresa Bates (right), Leaders of the Ridgeway Nazarene Church Sewing Bee Club.

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Serving you for 40 years!

Hospice of Hillsdale County provides compassionate, quality end-of-life care and support for patients and families. The care and support we offer brings life and love to situations that can be very difficult and challenging Our staff and volunteers have hearts that are full of hope and kindness, always ready to assist in helping people to live life as fully as possible when a cure is no longer an option or desired

Giving Opportunity Hospice of Hillsdale County Provides...

Patient choices respected, independence encouraged Licensed and certified to bill insurance for reimbursement. Patients accepted regardless of insurance coverage, no billing to patients/families.

Focus on quality of life.

Board of Directors who reside locally.

Physical, emotional, spiritual comfort.

Hospice team that specializes in symptom management.

RN attends all death calls to provide emotional support

Grief support to family and community for 12 months at no charge

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Please consider a donation to Hospice of Hillsdale County, your local independent non-profit hospice In keeping with our mission, we provide hospice care regardless of the possibility of reimbursement. It is through the generosity of our donors that Hospice of Hillsdale County is able to continue to serve Hillsdale for generations to come Donations can be mailed to Hospice of Hillsdale County at any time.

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Whether during the holidays, or any time of year, it’s a great time to ask your relatives family history questions about their life and memories.

Talk to your grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles, and any other older relatives and get those stories while you can.

Here are 31 family history interview questions, with some holiday-themed questions, to get you started!

1. Where were you born? Where did you live as a child?

2. What’s your earliest memory?

3. What was your childhood like?

4. What did you eat when you were a child?

5. What did your first house look like?

6. What was your neighborhood like? Was it mostly the same ethnicity or religion or people from the same place?

7. Did you have a pet?

8. Who was your best friend? What were they like?

9. What were your favorite hobbies growing up?

10. What did you want to be when you grew up?

11. Did you meet your grandparents? If so, what do you remember about them?

12. What did your grandparents look like?

13. Where were they born and where did they live?

14. What did they do for work?

15. Did you visit your extended family often? Did they live near you?

16. What did your parents do for work?

17. How many places did you live in?

18. Who were your family friends?

19. What did your family do in your free time? Did you go on family vacations?

20. How did you meet your spouse?

21. How were birthdays celebrated in your family?

22. What holidays did your family observe?

23. What was your favorite holiday growing up?

24. How did your family celebrate Thanksgiving? What foods did you have?

25. What are your memories of Thanksgiving?

26. How did you celebrate Christmas/Hanukkah/another holiday? Did your family have any traditions?

27. What are your memories of Christmas/Hanukkah/another holiday?

28. What holiday traditions do you still practice?

29. Share a family story or myth and ask for more info. about it

30. Ask the story behind a family heirloom or photograph

31. Ask if they have any family pictures or papers that you can see (and ask questions about them!)

Tips for asking family history interview questions:

• Ask follow-up questions based on what they say and remember. Ask why something was their favorite, etc.

• Bring pictures or family trees to help jog memories

• Try to get them to talk about emotions, not only facts. What did they love, dislike, etc.

• Ask the interviewee if it’s okay to record them, so you don’t miss anything

Seniors & Dogs WHAT TO CONSIDER...

More than 40% of seniors report experiencing loneliness, a staggering statistic that makes caretakers want to take action to prevent their loved ones from feeling lonely. If you are a caregiver to an elderly loved one, you may be willing to try anything to keep your parents or relatives from feeling depressed.

One question caretakers everywhere often wonder is whether they should get their senior a pet. Keep reading to learn whether a dog is a right option for your loved one.

Should An Elderly Person Get a Dog?

We all know that dogs are man’s best friend, but did you know that in addition to providing companionship, dogs may also help us maintain a healthy heart? A study by the Mayo Clinic demonstrates an association between dog ownership and heart health.

Research shows that having pets greatly benefits older adults. In addition to companionship, pets can help ease pain, keep aging adults more active, and make people more sociable.

When we have another living being to care for, it often takes our minds away from our own pain, and that is true for seniors, as well. Pets, especially dogs, give our loved ones routines that keep them active and give them meaningful tasks throughout their day.

While there are many benefits to seniors owning dogs, it’s also important to recognize that adding a dog to the household may not always be the best decision. Dogs can be physically demanding (especially large breeds), they can get costly (especially with vet bills), and sometimes health issues may make it difficult to properly care for a dog.

While there are many physical and emotional health benefits to owning a dog, there are also potential downsides. It is always best to go over the pros and cons of owning a dog before getting one for your elderly loved one.

5 Best Companion Dogs for Seniors

If you’ve decided that getting a dog is best for your loved one, the next step is to find the perfect match! Young puppies are often not ideal for older adults because they require a lot of time and energy. Some breeds may also not be ideal due to their size, strength, or even grooming requirements.

Here

are 5 of the best dog breeds for seniors!

1. Shih Tzu

Shih Tzus are great companion dogs for seniors thanks to their lowto-moderate energy and small size. These happygo-lucky dogs are affectionate and gentle enough to be around children and the elderly. They do well with short walks, which can help keep your loved one more active.

Shih Tzus do have highmaintenance coats that need to be brushed frequently if kept long. Because they have hair rather than fur, they will need trips to the groomer for haircuts. If your older loved one does not have transportation, you might need to be responsible for taking this particular breed to the groomer.

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2. Chihuahua

Chihuahuas are small, spunky little dogs who are known for their playfulness and confidence. Weighing in at 6 pounds or less, these compact dogs are suitable for small apartments. Chihuahuas are more active than Shih Tzus, so it might be best to look for an adult rather than a puppy unless someone else can dedicate the time to training and exercising a younger dog.

Chihuahuas are great lap dogs and make good dogs for older people because they love to be doted upon. They come in shortcoat and long-coat varieties; long-haired chihuahuas require slightly more grooming.

3. Pug

Pugs are one of the best companion dogs for seniors because they were originally bred to be lap dogs. This short-coated breed is a little heavier than both Shih Tzus and Chihuahuas, but they weigh less than 20 pounds, so you should still be able to carry them.

5. Cavalier King Charles Spaniel

Cavalier King Charles Spaniels are a great dog breed for seniors because they are quiet, small, and make great lap dogs. One of their favorite activities is snuggling with their owners, although they are also down for adventures around the neighborhood. They get along well with everyone, including children, adults, and other pets.

Cavaliers are a more active breed compared to some of the dogs on this list, which means they do best in a home with seniors who have a yard. Despite their silky, feathery coat, Cavaliers do not require extensive grooming like Shih Tzus and Havanese.

Frequently Asked Questions About the Best Dog Breeds for Seniors

Pugs are a low-energy breed that will love spending time snuggling with you on the couch. They are a smart, friendly, and relatively calm breed suitable small apartments.

4. Havanese

Havanese are outgoing and intelligent dogs with low-to-medium energy and are a great dog breed for seniors. They are social, trainable dogs that adapt well to most situations. Their one downside is that they can be prone to separation anxiety and don’t like to be left alone. However, this often works out well for seniors who spend most of their time at home.

1. What are the best dog breeds for seniors living in small spaces?

For seniors residing in apartments or smaller living spaces, choosing a dog breed that adapts well to limited space is important. Breeds like the French Bulldog, Pug, and Shih Tzu are excellent choices as they require less exercise and are generally less active indoors. These breeds are also known for their affectionate nature and ability to form strong bonds with their owners, making them perfect companions. Additionally, their smaller size makes them easier to handle, reducing the risk of falls or injuries while walking or caring for the dog.

2. What dog breeds are known for their calm demeanor, suitable for seniors?

Seniors often benefit from having a calm and gentle dog that is less likely to exhibit overexcited behaviors. Breeds like the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Bichon Frise, and the Labrador Retriever are renowned for their serene and friendly temperaments. These dogs are typically easy to train and eager to please, making them great companions for seniors. Their calm demeanor makes them less prone to cause disturbances or require intensive physical activity, which is ideal for seniors looking for a peaceful and manageable pet.

3. How do dog companions influence the health and well-being of seniors?

Having a dog can significantly improve the physical and mental health of seniors. Regular walks and playtime with a dog provide physical exercise, which is crucial for maintaining mobility and cardiovascular health. Psychologically, dogs offer companionship that can reduce feelings of loneliness and depression, common issues among the elderly. The responsibility of caring for a pet also gives seniors a sense of purpose and routine, which can enhance their overall quality of life. Furthermore, the presence of a dog can increase social interactions with other people, providing further mental health benefits.

4. What should seniors consider when choosing a dog for companionship?

While their energy requirements are low, they do have higher grooming needs similar to Shih Tzus. While they do need to be brushed and groomed, they do not shed excessively, which is great if allergies are a concern.

When selecting a dog, seniors should consider their physical capabilities, lifestyle, and housing situation. It’s important to choose a breed whose exercise needs match the senior’s activity level. Smaller, less active breeds are often better suited for seniors who have mobility issues or live in smaller spaces. Additionally, considering the dog’s age is crucial; older dogs may be less demanding and more accustomed to living with adults. Seniors should also think about long-term care for the dog, including who will care for the pet if the senior becomes unable to. Consulting with family members and veterinarians can help make a suitable choice.

LENAWEE SENIOR CENTERS

Addison Senior Center

517-547-5777

117 N. Steer St., Addison, MI 49220 addison@lenaweeseniors.org

Director: Inesa Gillin Cook: Sharon Smith

Adrian Senior Center

517-263-3885

327 Erie St., Adrian, MI 49221

Director: Turi Meining tmeining@lenaweeseniors.org

Asst. Director: Leann Cupp-Brown lcuppbrown@lenaweeseniors.org

Kitchen 517-263-4529

Head Cook: Toni Reinke treinke@lenaweeseniors.org

Home Delivered Meals Coord.: Kira Dickerson routecoord@lenaweeseniors.org

Bliss-Liewert Senior Center

517-486-2397

206 S. Lane St., Blissfield, MI 49228 blissfield@lenaweeseniors.org

Director: Joy Gilbert Cook: Eric Wilkins

Hudson Senior Center

517-448-4605

323 W. Main St., Hudson, MI 49247 hudson@lenaweeseniors.org

thodos@lenaweeseniors.org

Morenci Senior Center

517-260-4912

800 W. Chestnut St. morenci@lenaweeseniors.org

Morenci, MI 49256

Director: Jimmie Garland Cook: Cecil Schoonover

Onsted Senior Center

517-467-6917

333 Conner St., Onsted, MI 49265 onsted@lenaweeseniors.org

Mailing Address: MI 49265

Director: Julie Kulka Cook: Shirley Metternick

Tecumseh Senior Center

517-423-5939

703 E. Chicago Blvd., Tecumseh, MI 49228

Tecumseh@lenaweeseniors.org

Mailing Address: Adrian, MI

Director: Kris Torres Cook: Kathy Chicowsky

For more information please contact the Lenawee County Department on Aging at 517-264-5280

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Butternut Squash & Carrot Soup

Roasted Butternut Squash Carrot Soup is a classic winter soup. Roasting the squash and the carrots brings out the natural sweetness and adds a depth of flavor to the soup.

Ingredients:

1 butternut squash (halved and seeded)

2-3 tablespoons olive oil

4 whole carrots (peeled)

1 medium white onion (peeled and halved)

1 clove garlic (minced)

4 cups chicken broth (or veggie broth or water)

½ teaspoon smoked paprika

¼ teaspoon ground ginger

1 teaspoon salt

½ teaspoon pepper

⅛ teaspoon dried thyme

¼ cup cream or half-n-half (optional) fresh thyme (optional)

Instructions:

Preheat oven to 425°F

1. Place squash on a parchment lined baking sheet skin side down. Drizzle squash with olive oil, rubbing it across all surfaces. Turn squash over so the cut side is down. Place in preheated oven for 30 minutes.

3. Let cool for about 10 minutes until it's cool enough to handle.

Rub onion and carrots with a bit of oil and add them to the baking sheet along with the squash. Return to the oven for another 25-30 minutes until everything is fork tender.

Roughly chop onion and carrots and place in a heavy-duty blender. Scoop squash out, leaving the peal behind. Place squash in the blender.

Add about 1 cup of chicken broth and puree mixture stopping to scrape down sides and adding additional broth if needed.

Heat a large Dutch oven or soup pot over medium heat. Add ½ tablespoon of oil and then add garlic. Stir for about 30 seconds, just until fragrant. Add squash puree, seasonings and remaining chicken broth. Stir until well combined.

7. Heat for about 10-15 on medium low heat just until everything is heated through. Taste soup and adjust seasonings or salt if needed.

8. Serve hot with a bit of cream or milk drizzled over the top.

Cheesy Spaghetti Squash with Spinach

A creamy, cheesy, alfredo-like sauce is mixed with spaghetti squash and baby spinach leaves, then topped with melted cheese to make a hearty and delicious main or side. In short, tasty comfort food!