Walk the Talk: Refining Your Same-Sex Skill Set

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Your ‘Coffee Table’ What kind of first impression are you making with LGBTQ couples?


GayWeddings & WeddingWire Survey:

Same-­‐Sex Couples Who Wed in 2012


Referencing only a “Bride” Using only pictures of a bride & groom Having language presuming bride & groom in your contracts, etc


MarkeTng materials use neutral language Bride & groom references abound LisTngs on LGBTQ wedding sites, but experience / comfort is unclear

Authen'c Eye Photography


Using inclusive & specific language Examples of same-­‐sex weddings in porWolio Reference books available in studio Kris'n Chalmers Photography


PosiTve reviews and references by LGBTQ couples

Ve[ed reference list available

Kris'na Hill Photography

Inclusive contracts


Everyone is Asking

“Same-­‐sex couples say they think of their weddings as ‘weddings’ not ‘gay weddings.’ Isn’t it off-­‐ puFng to use that term to describe it?”


THE TALK LGBT

LGBTQ

Weddings To The People

Same-­‐Sex

Lesbian Transgender Gay Bisexual Genderqueer Queer


Everyone is Asking •  “If I can’t say bride or bride & groom or bridal party, what am I supposed to say?” •  “On forms, we have always asked for contact informa'on for Bride and Groom. What is the best way to indicate Spouse 1 & Spouse 2 without sounding awkward or overly PC?”



Establishing Trust How do your acTons and words convey credibility and experTse?


From Gay-­‐Friendly to Gay Wedding Competent •  Understand who the LGBTQ community is •  Understand what LGBTQ couples need •  Understand how our experiences & legal opTons shape our choices


Everyone is Asking “I have a LGBTQ couple next year who are already married but are now planning the wedding. Is there a specific way I should handle an already wed same-­‐sex couple?”


Being EffecTve …Now what?


THE WALK •  Update your websites, markeTng materials, conversaTons, presentaTons, blogs, etc. •  Update your bookshelves, porWolios, contracts, etc. •  Get & share reviews Jimmy Ho Photography

•  Update your ad campaigns, lisTngs


THE WALK •  Educate yourself further •  Check your referral list •  Let other local pros know of your service to LGBTQ couples •  Develop meaningful package offerings for same-­‐sex couples

Jimmy Ho Photography

•  Embrace our relaTonships, not a percepTon of our pocketbooks


AddiTonal Qs & The New Art of Capturing Love Book signing, informal conversa'ons, addi'onal ques'ons at the conference recep'on


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