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etween stories about retiring overseas and our looking at Irish from several different views, you may think this is our annual Travel Issue. But that’s far from the case. The Irish we talked to are firmly entrenched in the area, but many relive their memories – and those of prior generations at the Ancient Order of Hibernians clubhouse in New Britain. They may be several generations away from their immigrant relatives, but a piece of their heart remains in the old country. Eric Schmitt gives us a flavor of what goes on when you enter this home-away-from-home. But they always go back to Bristol, Newington, Wethersfield – the places their heritage has transformed for many years. Erica also talks about her Irish culture growing up, and what remains generations later. I wonder what that first Irish soda bread tasted like in those early St. Patrick’s Day celebrations. I’m a third-generation Irishman (although it might be tough to pass the Hibernians’ test of “Irishness,” as I am an IrishGerman-Welsh mutt), and my grandfather certainly would never be seen without the wearing of the green on the special day, nor have anything by corned beef and cabbage on his plate, and mine, too.

But for those that are ready to dramatically change their lives, a move overseas is an option. But not surprisingly, that takes a lot of thought and planning, and we give you an idea of some couples have done it. I can’t imagine going to this extreme – I had a hard time moving here from Long Island a few years back – but economical living in a beautiful place can lead to a peaceful, tranquil life. Belize has turned out to be a good fit for many, and Erica talks to the folks at Elite Tours Abroad about the first steps. And it’s always lovely to read a love story, and the newly married Cheryl and Jim Grant certainly have one to tell. They remember their meeting at the Village Gate retirement community in Farmington, with lots in common and an open space in their hearts. We should all be encouraged about the possibilities well into the second half of life, and how a special person can make those years some of our best. Here’s hoping we should all have the luck of the Irish in finding the people that make life a special place – here or around the globe. Have a great month.

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Retiring overseas

This river in Belize is just one of many of the locations Elite Tours Abroad takes people interest in relocating to Central America.

Elite Tours Abroad helps seniors relocate to exotic locations

By Erica Schmitt

ow would you like to open your back door to the ocean, eat fresh food every day and have help with housework, at a cost of living that’s less than here? It’s possible, says Ben Hefflinger, founder of Elite Tours Abroad, a company that provides people with trustworthy information and resources to relocate abroad. Hefflinger, who has family in Farmington, was a law school student travelling in China when the idea first came to him. “My parents were considering snow-birding to a warmer location as part of their retirement plans,” he remembered. “While they had diligently saved their whole lives, the recent fluctuations of the market had them looking for ways to stretch their savings and still have the quality of life they worked so hard to achieve. My dad had heard about ‘living like a king on a pension in Central America’ and was interested but didn’t know where to start.” Hefflinger, now a licensed U.S. attorney with

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a focus on international trade and business law, founded Elite Tours Abroad six months ago. He has helped numerous retirees move to Central America, particularly the country of Belize — which is just south of Cancun, Mexico.

air and ground transportation, all hotel stays, educational seminars, seven meals, and entry into two national parks. Seminars consist of meeting with professionals one might work with in the relocation process.

nicest resorts, travel by plane to avoid long car rides and when we do use a vehicle it is air-conditioned and comfortable,” Hefflinger said. After embarking on a tour with ETA, Pamela Gentry and her husband recently purchased a two-bedroom condo on an island in Belize for $150,000. “The reality was, we have grown sick of the cold and are approaching retirement,” Gentry explained. “Our intentions were always to spend our ‘golden years’ in a warmer climate and take a step out of the fastlane. We opted for a full service tour service that introduced us to a country that we didn’t have a whole lot of experience with,” she continued. “We were introduced “Our goal is to educate people on All attorneys, bankers, insurance to the professionals that Ben trusts how to relocate to Central America agents, medical representatives, and have used each one of them for the right way,” he explained. “There immigration officials and real estate our relocation. Elite Tours Abroad are a lot of processes and procedures professionals are pre-screened, made the first steps in relocating that can bog down the experiweeding out the scam-artists or abroad possible in the nicest of ence and unfortunately, always pirates that sometimes target ways, and I wouldn’t do it any other unscrupulous people who will take American travelers. way if I had to do it over again.” advantage of other’s ignorance,” he In between workshops, people Tours go to five different continued. “Elite Tours is an answer do have opportunities to enjoy regions of Belize where to each stage in the process and themselves and experience there are focuses mainly on the discovery and the life they might introductory aspects of relocating have in Central overseas.” America. Plus, all Lots of older adults are all too accommodations familiar with a time-share sales are top-notch. pitch — this is not that. “We stay ETA professionals have no at the interest in whether a person actually purchases anything on their tours, so they are able to provide a no-pressure atmosphere that is purely learning-based. An eight-day tour costs $2,600 per person or $2,250 for a couple. This includes intercountry

communities of “ex-patriots” — Americans living overseas. They have homes and businesses built to American standards. There are options to rent and buy, and the cost of living is significantly less than it is here. “The tour covered most of the hot spots for relocators,” Gentry remembered. “Each hotel we stayed in was a pleasant surprise — all were comfortable and unique. The food in Belize is great and Ben directed us where to go for the best local food.” Hefflinger estimated the cost of living in Belize to be between $1,500 and $2,500 monthly, but homes and condos run the gamet in pricing. “A lot of people don’t have the money to live the quality of life they want to here or are just sick of the rat race or cold,” he said. “It’s a more laid back lifestyle there and everything costs less. The dollar goes further.” In addition to Belize, there will soon be tours offered in Costa Rica, Panama, Ecuador and Nicaragua. For more information about Elite Tours Abroad visit EliteToursAbroad.com or call (887) 805-0502.

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DID NOT MISSPELL “aunt”. As everyone in Connecticut knows, many of us pronounce “aunt” as “ant”. So STEPHEN here is an ALLAIRE elder planning version of the grasshopper and the ant. As with Aesop’s Fables, it applies to many situations we humans face, and you are free to substitute your uncle, your father or mother, your grandfather or grandmother, or even yourself, in place of aunt.

We all know the fable rewards the ant, who works throughout the summer to prepare for winter by storing up food, while the grasshopper sings away, strumming on his musical legs, without a care in the world, and without any thought or plan for the future. Humans aren’t so different. Everyone knows that with advanced age, there is an increased probability that there will be a need for care, for help at home, for a safe living environment, for someone else to manage finances or to make medical decisions. But the summer of life is long, and so the months and years roll

by, and we often don’t take notice that summer will come to an end someday, and winter will then arrive. That may be in the form of a sudden stroke, or breaking a hip, or Alzheimer’s, or simply losing mobility. Regardless, the arrival of that need for help is much more difficult if certain preparations have not been made. At a minimum, the prudent aunt (or you for that matter) should have a durable power of attorney. If you cannot sign for yourself, a trusted family member needs to have a power of attorney in place. It is too late if you suffer

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a sudden stroke or other debilitating injury. Those who plan ahead and have a properly drawn durable power of attorney can have their financial and legal affairs handled by a spouse or perhaps a child. It avoids the necessity of the cost, time, and burdens of a court supervised conservator. Do you prefer to have your family making decisions for you? Or are you willing to take the chance that a court will decide who can handle your finances? If you become unconscious, or are otherwise unable to make medical decisions for yourself, do you want your closest family

to make that decision or do you want to take the chance on who the court will decide to make medical decisions? The Terry Schiavo case in Florida several years ago is a prime example of what could happen if you do not have a living will. With a properly drawn living will, the person you choose will carry out your end of life decisions, in accordance with your wishes. Likewise, if you do not have a will, or living trust, your life savings may not go to those you want to receive them. Just like the grasshopper, it is easy to ignore the fact that someday, Continued on Page 23

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Never too late for love... Jim and Cheryl Grant, two residents at Village Gate, in Farmington, met at ‘Glee Club’ and were married Valentine’s Day weekend.

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was depressed upon first arriving at Village Gate. “I had hit an emotional low spot,” HEN CHERYL he explains. “I wasn’t sure if I’d ever FENNER and Jim be married again. Then two to three Grant came to the Village Gate retirement community, years later I really wanted a lifetime companion, someone to share expethey had no plans to meet the love riences with.” of their lives. His son Dan, a Farmington resiCheryl, 58, had never been mardent, suggested he consider moving ried, and Jim, 69, had lost his wife into Village Gate — a step that several years back. But they both would change his life forever. happened to join the community’s Cheryl was diagnosed with multiGlee Club, a singing group. ple sclerosis at age 39 and navigates the world on a scooter. “It’s wonderful. “She gives it hell every day and He’s the kindest man never complains,” Jim says of his wife. I have ever met.” She admitted to never having CHERYL FENNER been in love before. Jim was a welcome surprise. “It’s wonderful,” she said. “He is When Cheryl’s mother passed the kindest man I have ever met; he away last January, Jim sensed she does a lot for people in this place.” could use a friend. She calls him “Gentleman Jim”, On Valentine’s Day this year, they while he picked out “Angel Baby” were married. for her. “This sweet man just knew that Since Jim is still driving, they go after supper I was probably just on dates whenever they can. The going up to my apartment to watch Main Street Diner in Plainville television and asked if I wanted some company,” Cheryl remembers. is a favorite, and they enjoyed a summertime outing at the Talcott “And we just fell in love with each Mountain Music Festival. other.” The newlyweds will be waiting a They discovered they had a lot in bit to honeymoon, however. common — both retired business “We want to hold off until this writers who studied English in colweather gets better,” says Cheryl, lege. who hopes to go up north to “We had similar backgrounds, Vermont or New Hampshire in the which I think helped move the relationship forward,” said Jim, who springtime.

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Village Gate is owned by Holiday Retirement, which operates 300 senior living communities across the country. Residents have the option of vacationing at any of these other locations at no additional charge, and Jim and Cheryl plan on taking them up on this generous offer. “The management here is spectacular,” Jim says. “They nurture a friendliness that money cannot buy.” Their wedding ceremony was hosted by Village Gate, so all their neighbors attended along with family and friends. A justice of the peace led the vows and as a nod to the holiday, added in a special prayer for St. Valentine. Although the couple was unable to hold their ceremony in a church as they had wished, their union will be blessed by a priest later this year. But according to Jim, they already have it all. “I feel that God has blessed us by bringing us together,” he says.

Jim and Cheryl Grant met at Village Gate retirement community in Farmington and were married on Valentine’s Day.

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and civic one it holds today. Since St. Patrick’s Day is celebratEW BRITAIN’S Irish ed in March, we thought we’d take a club has a colorful story journey back into the history of the that goes back to the Ancient Order of Hibernians. 19th century, when its aim was Thomas Joseph Higgins was one far deeper than the social of the New Britain group’s founding fathers and happens to be the great-grandfather of current club historian Tom Higgins. Higgins, a Berlin resident, said the unit formed at St. Mary Parish in 1874, Tom Higgins, Irish Nigh chairman. when the city’s Irish

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population was much larger than it is today. So large, in fact, that membership exploded and another chapter formed in 1902 at St. Joseph Church. “At the end of the 19th century we comprised 12 to 13 percent of New Britain,” Higgins said of the Irish. The late Bob Roche, past president, could recall the city’s Irish neighborhoods where much of the old membership resided. “A section of streets off of North Street were known as Dublin Hill,” Roche said at the club’s St. Patty’s

Day dinner a few years back. “The Irish were a major force in New Britain at one time.” The club dissolved when members went off to fight in World War II, but was re-chartered in 1971. The AOH was founded in New York City around 1836. Anti-Catholic bigotry was strong among reform groups at the time, resulting in hiring discrimination and violent gang attacks on the Irish. “The most influential leaders in the country didn’t like the Irish coming in and taking over things,” explained Higgins, adding that the Irish controlled the shipping docks on the East River. The AOH formed in secret to protect Catholic priests, defend church property and provide social welfare benefits to Irish families. It was, in a sense, an around-the-clock militia. As more Irish moved here to escape the potato famine, clubs began pop-

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ping up across America. Nowadays, the AOH is more than a million members-strong in this country alone. While it still operates on its founding principles of friendship, unity and christian charity, club leaders no longer have to keep nightly vigil over their churches. “We try to promote familial things; we do a

lot of charity work and we reconnect with our Irish heritage,” Higgins said. Local members gather regularly at the hall on South Street to share in food and drink, discuss the Ireland of days past, genealogy and current news. Some Sunday afternoons are dedicated to promoting Irish musicians at open mic gatherings. They also hold

benefits for local causes, collecting clothes, food and funds for the needy. “Everything we do has a charitable function to it,” Higgins said. The St. Patrick’s Day Dinner on March 17, their biggest annual fundraiser, will go to benefit a local cause yet to be determined. President Mark Clemens and his crew are known to Tom Higgins, Irish Nigh chairman, talks with Mallorie and Marnie Aucoin.

crank out over 250 pounds of corned beef and cabbage for the occasion — enough to feed a few hundred Irish. There are currently around 75 men in the club, another 50 women in its very active ladies’ auxiliary and around 50 additional “social” members who don’t have enough Irish ancestry to be official. However, three-quarters of members are now reaching their golden years. They’re hoping some young Irish folks out there will be willing to carry the club far into the future. “At all times we’re looking to recruit and promote,” Higgins said. To qualify, potential members must have blood that’s at least 45 percent Irish and be a practicing Catholic. Anyone interested can fill out an application at the hall, located at 39 South St. in New Britain. The luck of the Irish will determine acceptance.

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HERE ARE MANY myths about Alzheimer’s which people accept as common knowledge. However, many of these so-called DANIEL O. “facts” TULLY couldn’t be further from the truth. For instance, the Alzheimer’s Association lists 8 myths associated with the disease. They are:

find their way home from familiar locations and eventually forgetting how to swallow in the final stages of the disease. Alzheimer’s is the cause of 70-80% of dementia cases, according to Dr. Robert Stern. Other causes of dementia, such as certain thyroid conditions or vitamin deficiencies, are reversible, but Alzheimer’s is not.

Alzheimer’s. Unfortunately, it is not the case that only older people get Alzheimer’s. People in their 30s, 40s, and 50s have been affected, representing about 4% of the people who develop Alzheimer’s. This is called younger-onset Alzheimer’s.

artificial sweeteners caused Alzheimer’s. Myth #6

Flu shots increase the risk of Alzheimer’s. The chief proponent of this theory was a doctor in South Carolina whose license has now been suspended. In fact, other Myth #4 studies report just the oppoDrinking out of alumisite. Older adults who have num cans or cooking in vaccinations for diphtheria aluminum pots and pans can or tetanus, polio, and influMyth #2 lead to Alzheimer’s. During enza have a lower risk of Alzheimer’s is not fatal. the 1960s and 1970s, a pop- developing Alzheimer’s. Alzheimer’s is a fatal disease. ular notion was that trace Myth #7 In the final stages, patients elements from using alumiSilver dental fillcan no longer speak, talk, num products was a cause of ings increase the risk of walk, and even swallow. Its Alzheimer’s. This theory has Alzheimer’s. Once again, Myth #1 victims cannot remember been debunked. this theory has been discredMemory loss is part of the steps to perform many Myth #5 ited. the aging process. While physical acts. While some Aspertame causes memSilver fillings do contain some memory lapses happen may die of other conditions ory loss. This is another mercury, which in certain to all of us, Alzheimer’s is before the final stages devel- notion that was in vogue forms can be toxic to the a disease in which cells of op, many die of the disease for a time, but it, too, has brain. However, fillings the brain are affected and itself. been disproven. In May of contain other substances, eventually cease to funcMyth #3 2006, the FDA said that which together do not pose tion. Alzheimer’s patients Only older people get it had no evidence that a threat, according to many begin by forgetting how to

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3 | Tuesday Blood pressure screenings Central Connecticut Senior Health Services will offer free blood pressure screenings at the following locations during March: ∎ Tuesday, March 3, 9:30 to 10:30 a.m., Southington YMCA, 29 High St., Southington; ∎ Thursday, March 5, 11 a.m. to noon, Calendar House, 388 Pleasant St., Southington; ∎ Tuesday, March 10, 11 a.m. to noon, ShopRite, 750 Queen St., Southington; Thursday, March 12, 1 to 2 p.m., ∎ Plainville Senior Center, 200 East St., Plainville; Tuesday, March 24, 10 to 11 a.m., Calendar House, 388 Pleasant St., Southington; ∎ Tuesday, March 24, noon to 1 p.m., Cheshire YMCA, 967 S. Main St., Cheshire. Jefferson House program Dr. Lauren Burke, of the Hartford Hospital Bone and Joint Institute, will present a program about managing back pain Tuesday, March 3, noon to 1 p.m., at Jefferson House, 1 John H. Stewart Drive. Burke will provide an overview of conservative treatments and surgical care options. A complimentary lunch will 20

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information or to RSVP, call Edesa Ciscar, (860) 6285656. Open house An open house at Cedar Mountain Commons, a not for profit independent and assisted living community, will be held from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Marie Pugliese, retirement counselor, will facilitate the event. Refreshments will be served. Cedar Mountain Commons is located at 3 John H. Stewart Drive. For more information or to RSVP, call Marie Pugliese, (860) 6657901

9 | Monday Tai Chi Tai Chi and Qi Gong, Mondays, March 9–June 1, 6:30 to 7:30 p.m., $80. To register or for more information, visit: www.bristolhospital.org/events. Joint health discussion Free discussion on joint health, March 9, 5:30 p.m. To register or for more

information, call (860) 5848306.

10 | Tuesday Crime prevention class Crime Prevention: Protect yourself and your family from today’s criminal, Tuesday, March 10 and Thursday, March 12, 6 to 8 p.m., $30. To register or for more information, visit: www.bristolhospital.org/events.

Senior Primary Care at Duncaster. Complimentary lunch will be served RSVP, (860) 229-3707. Seating is limited.

Dinner with a doc Dr. Ryan Dorin, urologist with Hartford HealthCare, will present a Dinner with a Doc program, “Urology and You: Pelvic Health” 5 to 7 p.m., at Southington Care Center, 45 Meriden Ave. Dorin will discuss pelvic health and incontinence as well as the Support group reasons why a person should Cancer caregivers support visit a urologist. group, March 10, 6 p.m., Southington Care Center Bristol Hospital Cancer Care staff will also be on hand Center conference room, to discuss therapy options Free. For more information, with the new pelvic health call (860) 585-3356. treatment therapist. A complimentary dinner will be served. Seating is limited Wednesday and RSVPs are requested. To RSVP, call (860) 621-9559. Dine with a doc Arrive no earlier than 4:45 Dine with a Doc Luncheon: p.m. for the dinner Falls by the Elderly: Wednesday, March 11, noon to 1 p.m. Join Dr. Sowmya Kurtakoti for an educational presentation on falls in the elderly. Kurtakoti is a physician at Hartford Hospital

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The path to wellness Mark Colello, exercise physiologist at Southington Care Center, will present a third program, “The Path to Wellness,” Wednesday, March 11, from 10 to 11 a.m., at the Southington Library. The presentation, which details the “stepping stones” to take on the journey to wellness and a happier, healthier life, will be held at the Southington Library, 255 Main St. To register, call the library at (860) 628-0947.

Brewster Road, Bristol To register for a weight loss informational seminar, call (860) 585-3339. Yoga Prenatal yoga, Wednesdays, March 11-April 15, 7:15 to 8:15 p.m., $65. For more information or to register, visit www.bristolhospital.org/events.

12 | Thursday

Lunch & Learn A Lunch & Learn preInformational seminar sentation about “The Free bariatric weight Silent Cancer” will be held loss surgery Informational Thursday, March 12, noon Seminars from 6:30 p.m. to 1 p.m., at The Hospital Litchfield Community Center, of Central Connecticut, 421 Bantam Road, Litchfield; New Britain campus, 100 March 25, 6:30 p.m. Grand St. Dr. Christine Farmington Marriott, 15 Farm Bartus, colorectal surgeon, Springs Road, Farmington; will lead the program, March 9, 6 pm. Bristol being held in recognition of Hospital Hughes Auditorium, National Colorectal Cancer

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Hartford Hospital Senior Primary Care at Duncaster has named Sowmya Kurtakoti, MD as its director, Duncaster Retirement Community Medical Services. Kurtakoti will see residents of Duncaster as well as nonresidents and is accepting new patients to the practice.

24 | Tuesday

Support group Free bariatric weight loss surgery support groupMarch 24, 5:30 p.m., Bristol Hospital Hughes Auditorium. $150. To register or for more For more information, call information, visit: www.bris- Cassandra at (860) 585tolhospital.org/events. 3339.

26 | Thursday Blood pressure screening A free blood pressure screening will be held Thursday, March 26, from 12:30 to 1:30 p.m., at the Wethersfield Senior Center (Pitkin Community Center), 30 Greenfield St., Wethersfield.

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“It can happen to anyone,” she said. “If this happens to you, we’ll work ITY SENIORS got a crash course with you to untangle the mess.” in identity theft “It’s okay to ask questions and fraud schemes Tuesday at the New Britain Senior over the phone if the callCenter. A workshop host- er asks personal questions ed by U.S. Rep. Democrat about your birth date or your social security numElizabeth Esty identified ber,” said Anderson. “It’s theft and fraud schemes also okay to tell the person and gave those 20 retirees ‘no.’” in attendance resources Zang urged those in to protect themselves and attendance to spread the their families. word about fraud and theft Esty was joined by Jonathan Harris, commis- identification to friends and families. He warned seniors sioner of the Connecticut Department of Consumer about phony miracle medical cures, and medical Protection; Caitlin discount cards marketed to Anderson, staff attorney older people. Another risk of the Connecticut DCP; is identity theft when the Ted Zang, senior attorscammer pretends to be ney for the Federal Trade looking for romance on the Commission, Northeast Region, and Joe McCarthy web or money to be sent to a so-called relative stranded of the Hartford office in Europe. of the Internal Revenue McCarthy said nationally Service; McCarthy works identity theft has grown mainly with accountants. from 54,000 incidents Esty confessed that in 2011 to 1.2 million in she had been a victim of 2014. identity theft when false “Last year, we were able charges started showing up to close 963,000 ID cases,” online and on her monthly he said. credit card statement.

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