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How about yoga, or tai chi, or Zumba? Tap dance? Ballet? It’s inexpensive or free, and literally will add years to your life. If you aren’t quite ready for a class and just want to work on a special area in private? Exercise columnist Kimberly DiBattista goes through a menu of great ways to eliminate what she calls “arm jiggle.” Then there’s our name game. What do you think when someone calls you a “senior.” Or a “retiree”? It’s probably a different feeling than when you hear “old-timer.” Check out what your peers think, then let us know by email or snail mail: Prime Time, One Court St., New Britain, CT 06051 or eschmitt@centralctcommunications.com. You’ll also notice our Datebook is getting bigger and more diverse each month. Help us keep up the momentum by mailing items and activities from your group to primetitme@centralctcommunications.com or Prime Time, One Court St., New Britain, CT 06051. We’d love to see your pictures, too. I hope you have a great month. Enjoy every minute of it!
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ALL IT A HOBBY or a good deed, but gardening outside the Newington Senior & Disabled Center has kept more than 20 local seniors busy all summer. All produce harvested is delivered by the basket-load to the Newington Food Pantry, which serves hundreds of families each month. What used to be a concrete shuffleboard court behind the facility has been transformed into a lush summer garden. A paved walkway accommodates the wheelchair-bound and those with walkers; raised beds offer ledges for perching while tending to plants. And they are many — cucumber, squash, radishes, watermelon, an abundance of cherry tomatoes, herbs, flowers, 6
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string beans and two free-standing potato plants. Recently, students from the Newington Transition Academy helped tend to the garden. The academy offers skills training and volunteer opportunities to highschool graduates ages 18 to 21. “The best thing is it’s all volunteer-driven,” said Dianne Stone, senior center director. “We’re taking a passion people have and applying it to this project.” A pavilion with picnic tables complements the grassy backyard of the senior center. Stone was looking for a way to utilize the remaining outdoor space when the idea for a garden came about. After receiving a $2,000 grant from ACHIEVE, a healthy community program from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the garden seemed feasible. Additional donations from the community helped turn the idea into a reality this past May. Jefferson House matched the grant and bricks for a retaining wall were purchased. The town’s Parks and Recreation Department provided
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Neutral terms - Elderly - Old-timer - Old folks - Golden years
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From a caregiver’s perspective, although they are willing to provide services for free, it is often difficult for them when at the time of their loved one’s passing; the caregiver receives the same inheritance as the other heirs, many who have not been involved in caring for the loved one. On the flip side, if a caregiver is receiving payment and there is no contract in place that defines the care they have been working hard at providing, other heirs may be upset by the additional monies the caregiver received. The bottom line: If you are caring for a loved one or are receiving care from a loved one, a care contract is a good idea for both parties involved, for multiple reasons. Before entering a contract, be sure Continued ON, Page 23
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“Not only was it a way for me to learn history, but New Britain people were writing their own history.” ARLENE PALMER
Arlene and Dan Palmer sit among customers at Leaves and Pages on West Main Street in New Britain.
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Frequent customers and friends were saddened this summer when the couple announced the store would be closing around Thanksgiving, after 14 years at 59 West Main St. Arlene, 65, was curator of the New Britain Public Library’s history room for
22 years and appointed city historian in 1995 when Linda Blogoslawski was mayor. She left the library in 2000 only to go around the corner and open the bookstore, which is bestknown for its eclectic collection of used titles and a King Arthur Room.
That special room, in fact, has been the site of numerous weddings, bridal and baby showers, even high teas. “We started with 750 works and brought in another 500,” Arlene says of this particular collection. She also enjoys 19th-century British literature and with Dan, who turned 69 in August, she shares a fascination with the Civil War. That’s one of the things that makes their future home of Brunswick, Maine, so special to them. It was home to Joshua Chamberlain, a college professor who joined the Union Army and led his 20th Maine Regiment in the Battle of Gettysburg. “We’ve been going up to Maine for about 35 years,” says Dan. “Brunswick has a beautiful college and a brewery.” “It’s almost like going back in time,” Arlene added. “It has a vibrant, charming downtown.” Once they close the store, the Palmers will take some time to ready their Burlington home to put up for sale before heading north. In retirement
they will spend time volunteering, and their book business will move online. “There aren’t a lot of used book dealers now; we’re a dying breed,” explains Dan, who estimated that since they opened Leaves & Pages more than half of storefront dealers closed up shop. Online dealing is more profitable, he added, especially since there are no overhead costs. But not only will the Palmers’ departure leave a void downtown with their store closing, but it will also take a vault of city history in Arlene. For years she guided local school children and adults on bus tours through New Britain. They’d stop at landmarks where she’d share historical anecdotes gathered from her time at the library and as a columnist with the New Britain Herald. She also helped many residents find their ancestors in the history room archives. In her three-and-a-half years at the newspaper, Arlene treasured crafting the “Mystery Photo” feature, which gave readers a chance to identify a place in an old photograph. Their
responses were printed on the next week’s page, and often included memories and tidbits about the locations. “Not only was it a way for me to learn history,” she remembers, “but New Britain people were writing their own history.” She believes Central Connecticut State University will keep instilling a passion for local history in students young
and old. And though she’s no longer a tour guide, Arlene encourages people to explore the city’s past on their own, beginning with library’s history room and culminating with a visit to important landmarks. City Hall is one, she says. But the best way to understand the immigration of different ethnic groups into New Britain is to visit the churches. “Pretend you’re a bird looking down at New
Britain,” Arlene explains. “You can see where these groups settled based on what neighborhoods they built their churches.” Her memoir, “And Now We Go” depicts she and Dan’s colorful view through the store’s windows and characters they’ve met over the years. It is filled with humor and heart, and is being printed at Sir Speedy because the Palmers believe in the collective power of city business.
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and to relieve arthritis pain. Tap dance can increase circulation, flexibility and endurance, while ballet helps with balance and posture. Zumba, a high-energy form of dance, is also offered at the center, along with a slower-paced, easy-to-follow Zumba Gold class. The classes are taught by Joan Baptist Krampitz, one of the center’s new instructors. “In the first class we do over 15 dance routines in an hour; it’s very high-energy,” Krampitz explained. “In the second class, Zumba Gold, we cover seven to
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acid rises up the esophagus, causing a caustic sensation that may be accompanied by a sour or bitter taste. This problem is not a cause for an alarm if it happens infrequently. But if it occurs several times weekly, you may have acid reflux disease or GERD, the more advanced gastroesophageal reflux disease. The problem is not in the food itself or overeating, but the weakening of a ring of muscle or lower esophageal sphincter located at the entrance to the stomach. If this muscle doesn’t entirely close or it malfunctions,
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can conduct diagnostic tests to determine the underlying cause. Change in lifestyle habits, prescription medication and in extreme cases, surgery, may be the key. Sufferers should not just try to live with the discomfort. Untreated GERD can lead to more serious problems such as damage to the lining of the esophagus, bleeding ulcers, and swallowing or even breathing difficulties. Barrett’s esophagus, a change in the lining of the esophagus, can be a precursor to a potentially fatal form of cancer. People with acid reflux disease
don’t have to suffer indefinitely. With prompt and proper diagnosis, treatment and precautions, it is possible to once again enjoy a delicious meal and comfortable sleep. Gastroenterologist Rosalind Van Stolk, M.D., is a member of The Hospital of Central Connecticut medical staff. She practices at 1 Liberty Square, New Britain, (860) 229-9688. For referrals to HOCC physicians, contact the Need-A-Physician referral service by phone at (8000 3216244 or online at thocc.org.
Tips for enjoying outdoors without risk of skin cancer When the weather warms up do you head outdoors? Can’t get enough of hiking, biking, sports, swimming and cookouts? For those W. RICHARD of us living in MCQUEEN JR. climates that reflect the four seasons, soaking up the sun seems like the perfect remedy for chasing away the winter blues and doldrums. To make your fun in the sun memorable, it’s important to take measures to help protect against skin damage, which over time could make you more susceptible to skin cancer, the most common type of cancer in the 16
United States, according to the National Cancer Institute at the National Institutes of Health. Each year, more than 2 million people are diagnosed with various types of the disease. Even on cloudy days and in the winter you can be exposed to harmful ultraviolet radiation, which damages the DNA in our skin cells. Those people who are most at risk include individuals who have one or more risk factors such as: pale skin (however people of all skin colors are susceptible); unprotected and/or excessive exposure to ultraviolet radiation, natural or artificial; a family history; numerous or unusual moles; or severe sunburn in the past. Everyone should periodi-
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cally check their skin or have someone assess those hardto-view areas of the body for signs of skin cancer. The earlier it is detected, the better the outcome. Skin cancer symptoms may include any change of the skin including size or color of a spot, mole or growth; a sore that never heals; oozing, bleeding or scaliness; color that spreads beyond the border of a growth; a new sensation such as tenderness, itching or pain. If you see something that is “not right,” contact a physician immediately. To prevent harmful sun exposure that could lead to skin cancer, the American Academy of Dermatology recommends: ∎ Stay out of the sun when
it is the strongest between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Remember that water, snow and sand reflect and intensify the sun. You can get sunburn during any time of day. ∎ Wear protective clothing including a long-sleeved shirt, pants, wide-brimmed hat and sunglasses. Certain fabrics offer greater protection. and there are garments on the market that are designed to provide greater ultraviolet protection. ∎ Regularly — and generously — slather on a broad-spectrum, water-resistant sunscreen. The ADA recommends a lotion with a sun protection factor of 30 or higher; those labeled “broad-spectrum” block both UVA and UVB rays.
Reapply sunscreen approximately every two hours and after swimming or perspiring. Now that you know the facts, don’t let the fear of sunburn or skin cancer chase you indoors. Just take the right precautions and get out there for fun in the sun. Internist W. Richard McQueen Jr., M.D., is a member of Hartford HealthCare Medical Group and The Hospital of Central Connecticut medical staff. He practices at 98 Main St., Suite 301, Southington, and is accepting new patients at (860) 621-6704. For referrals to HOCC physicians, please contact the hospital’s Need-A-Physician referral service at (800) 321-6244.
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Standing in the same position as the bicep curl, turn the dumbbells to face your thighs. Slowly lift your arms straight out to your sides, pause a second, then back down.
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This work the biceps. Hold dumbbells in each hand with your palms facing forward. Stand with your feet shoulder width apart, toes forward and knees soft. With your elbows staying at your side, slowly curl the dumbbells toward your chest then back down three-quarters, maintaining tension in the bicep. Lateral raise
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This works the shoulders and arms.
This works the chest, shoulders, and triceps. Start on your knees. Place you hands in front of you, shoulder width apart. Tuck in your stomach, and keep your upper body in a straight line. Inhale and lower your chin almost to the floor and then exhale as your push yourself back up. If you are unable to lower yourself all the way down, that’s fine go as far as you can and it will improve with time.
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DATEBOOK 2 | Tuesday Free blood pressure screenings Central Connecticut Senior Health Services is offering free blood pressure screenings on various dates and in convenient locations during September, including 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. at the Southington YMCA, 29 High St., Southington. Circle of hope support group Meets at the Bristol Hospital Hughes Auditorium at 6 p.m.
3 | Wednesday Dental Clinic The Plainville Senior Center, in cooperation with Community Health Center, Inc., will hold a dental clinic, by appointment, Sept. 3 and 4. A registered dental hygienist will provide a dental hygiene exam, dental cleaning, sealants when appropriate and x-rays when appropriate. The program is intended for adults who have not received dental care in the last year and have difficulty accessing dental care in the community. Individuals without dental insurance will be billed a flat rate of $30 for the visit. Dental services will be billed to insurance companies for those who have dental insurance. Help in paying for the dental clinic in the form of scholarships
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6 | Saturday Open house Mulberry Gardens of Southington, an assisted living, adult day and memory care community, will host an open house on, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Marie Terzak, retirement counselor, will facilitate the event. Coffee will be served. Mulberry Gardens of Southington is located at 58 Mulberry St. in the Plantsville section of Southington. For more information or to RSVP, please call (860) 276-1020.
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Open house An open house at Cedar Mountain Commons, a notfor-profit independent and assisted living community, will be held from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Marie Pugliese, retirement counselor, will facilitate the event. Refreshments will be served. Cedar Mountain Commons Tuesday is located at 3 John H. Free blood pressure screenings Stewart Drive, Newington. For more information or Central Connecticut Senior to RSVP, please call (860) Health Services is offering free blood pressure screen- 665-7901. ings on various dates and in convenient locations Monday during September, including 11 a.m. to noon, Calendar Alzheimer’s support group House, 388 Pleasant St.,
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Discussion on joint health A free discussion will be held from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the Bristol Hospital Hughes Auditorium. To RSVP, call (860) 584-8306.
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On the Job: Historic Songs of American Work and Trades with Rick Spencer Bristol Public Library, 5 High St., will host an afternoon music program with internationally known American folk musician, historian and staff musician at Mystic Seaport Rick Spencer, at 2 p.m. The program entitled “On the Job: Historic Songs of American Work and Trades” will also include a presentation on the labor movement in America and the modern use of work songs. There is no charge for this event. Register at BPL or call: (860) 584-7787, Ext. 2023. Made possible by CT At Work: A CT Humanities Initiative.
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Here are answers to some frequently home care program that helps peoasked questions about the program. ple who do not qualify for Medicaid because they have more assets, a highWho is eligible? er income or fewer functional needs. According to the Department of There is a cost share on this part of the program, and you must meet the eliSocial Services, you must be: gibility requirements. The maximum ∎65 years of age or older monthly benefit for the state-funded ∎A Connecticut resident ∎Functionally at risk of nursing program is about $2800 per month. Not sure if you qualify? Concerned home placement ∎Financially eligible based on about your property? A Connecticut elder law attorney can help you underincome and assets stand your options and assist you in What services are provided? Medicaid planning. A wide range of services is available, depending on your needs, including: ∎ Homemaker/companion services ∎ Visiting nurse services ∎ Home health services ∎ Home delivered meals ∎ Adult day care ∎ Emergency response system ∎ Transportation ∎ Accompaniment to medical appointments
Do I need a doctor’s referral? No. Anyone can refer himself or herself or another person by calling the Department of Social Services Alternate Care Unit at 1-800-4455394, or by completing an online form. A geriatric care manager will visit
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to consult someone experienced in drafting such contracts and knowledgeable with respect to their effect on Medicaid qualifications. Also, if you have been caring for your parent for over two years, there is another Medicaid planning method that may be available that allows your parent to transfer the parent’s home to you, without incurring Medicaid transfer penalties. This is not true in all cases, but if you and your parent meet certain
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What kind of
Joint Health program do you build for someone who doesn’t take life sitting down? An extraordinary one.
Center for Orthopedic and Spine Health Advanced level joint care is available right here at Bristol Hospital. Our highly trained team specializes in today’s most progressive shoulder, hip and knee revision and replacement procedures, including Direct Anterior Hip Replacement, which means less pain, faster recovery and increased mobility. Add that to our exceptional patient outcomes and personalized care experience, and we’ll have you back to living an active life as quickly and safely as possible.
For more information, visit BristolHospital.org/GetOutThere
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Connecticut PRIME TIME • September 2014