Early Years Bulletin
Winter 2017 vol 5 no 2
Focus on Pre-K & K editor: Jennifer Baumgartner
Building Self-Esteem in Young Children By Michelle Grantham-Caston, Louisiana State University and Caroline Tolentino, Villa del Rey Elementary
Pre-K students Ericka and Maria are in the art center together. They are about to decorate the masks they created the other day. Ms. Cathy, their teacher, has a variety of gemstones and colorful stickers on the table. Ericka sorts through the gemstones and finds one that is purple and pink. She shows it to Maria, who likes it. Maria looks for another gemstone with that coloration but she cannot find one. She gets frustrated and says, “I give up, my mask will never be as beautiful as I like it to be!” Ericka hands her the purple and pink gemstone and says, “Here, you can have this. I like the one that is plain purple anyway. That is my favorite color!” Maria smiles at Ericka and places the purple and pink stone on her mask. Ericka tells her, “There, your mask is beautiful just like mine,” while showing her the mask she made with a purple gemstone.
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valuating self-worth begins in the early years, as young children figure out who they are and use this information to examine what is going on inside their bodies and minds. As children grow in their ability to identify their unique qualities, this evaluation can be subjective and emotional, leading to judgments that support the components of healthy self-esteem: competence, worth, and control (Marion, 2011). Children can develop either high, healthy self-esteem or low selfesteem. Children with a high, healthy self-esteem are more likely to be engaged and collaborate with others in an appropriate manner because they are secure within themselves. A healthy self-esteem gives children the
confidence to trust judgments when making decisions and involves having self-assurance, knowing that a good decision can be made with beliefs that can be defended even when there is opposition. Ericka shows a high, healthy self-esteem. She is confident that even if she does not have the purple and pink gemstone, her mask will still be beautiful. She makes sure that Maria will feel good about her mask and is willing to give up something she has to make a friend happy. On the other hand, children with low self-esteem are more likely to avoid tasks and challenges or may exhibit negative behavior toward others and themselves (healthychildren.org, 2015; kidshealth.org, 2017). It is likely that low self-esteem evolves over time through feedback that shapes children’s feelings of self-worth, confidence, and the ability to complete tasks. A child’s negative evaluation of himself may lead him to believe that he is incapable of learning and affect the way he behaves at school.
Contents p. 5 - Focus on Infants & Toddlers p. 8 - Activities for the Classroom