A-Desiflava Magazine May-June 2024 Issue

From the EDITOR

Defining Relationships. Mother or Wife? every son wants to have both, but is it really possible in today's world? Defining a relationship can involve drawing its precise boundaries, or recognizing, rejecting, or creating it in the first place. My Cover Story this time is for all the men who feel they've become a sandwich between the mother and wife. Both relations are equally important and precious for a man. One side is the woman who has raised, cuddled, fed, and made you the man you are today; on the other is your better half. Can you imagine yourself in a COVID lockdown for 14 days in hotel isolation with just your mother and wife with you? I start getting goosebumps already. The COVER STORY is a real story narrated by one of my very close friends, who has finally managed to sail steady on a boat with the two most important women in his life. Defining a relationship can also mean establishing the nature of a tieintimacy or solidarity, dependency or equality, enmity or alliance. Please read the entire 8-page story to understand how my friend Dinesh handles his familial relationships. I told him in Hindi, Bhai tu mahaan hai, charan kaha hai tere!!!

Technology and Kids, we all can endlessly talk about how technology is taking away our kid's childhood. We would love our kids to play outdoors and make friends in the real world rather than be stuck on digital screens. In our FEATURED COLUMN, Eight kids from the Writer's Club run in Tung Chung by our very talented, aspiring and inspiring columnist Ritu Churiwala, share their experience of how they use their screen-time productively.

COMMUNITY CORNER is a new column. In this column, I'll showcase our community events and gatherings. Top Guns of Mavericks, is not basketball of Dallas but is a badminton club of Tung Chung. Recently, Mavericks Badminton Club hosted a tournament among various clubs. 16 teams battled it out in a thrilling competition and we've covered a snippet of this entire tournament. This column also covers EOC's Racial Diversity & Inclusion Sports Day 2024 celebrating the 15th Anniversary of the Race Discrimination Ordinance.

Touch the Light is a value-based Holistic Leadership Development Program for children by the Brahma Kumaris Centre in Hong Kong. Get to know more about this initiative in the SPIRITUALITY section.

Sunday Market Day is around the corner, an inspiring article by our talented consultant & writer Tidi & Expert Q&A by another talented Healing Practitioner and columnist Anisa Tan is surely a must-read.

Enjoy my regular doses of Aunty MVP, South Asian faces of HK & Astrology. Wait! there's something new, by our local HK numerology specialist Abhishek Kinger. Make sure you add up your numbers right and check your numerological predictions in this section.

Enjoy ready this yet another thoughtfully curated issue of A-Desiflava.

Raves and rants are always welcome.

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BALANCING ACTS

Navigating the Complexities of Marriage and Motherhood

In the bustling city of Hong Kong , Dinesh who came from Mumbai, India almost 15 years ago, found himself in the unenviable position of being caught between two worlds – his beloved wife, Shubina a local Hong Kong born permanent resident, and his doting mother, Savita a 69 year old typical Maharashtrian lady . Despite their shared love for him, they couldn't be more different. Shubina , a modern woman in her late thirties, was ambitious, career-driven, and always on the move. She valued independence and selfreliance, traits she attributed to her upbringing in a fastpaced urban environment. On the other hand, Savita , was a traditional homemaker who hailed from a small town in Maharashtra, India.

She cherished family values, Hindu religious cultures and beliefs, community ties, and the simple joys of life. To her, happiness meant taking care of all the household chores, cook good food and take care of the families all homely needs and gather around the dinner table with loved ones and sharing stories.

As Dinesh navigated his way through the complexities of married life, he often found himself torn between the expectations of his wife and the desires of his mother. Shubina yearned for the finer things in life – expensive dinners, lavish vacations, and designer clothes – while Savita longed for the warmth of family gatherings and the comfort of familiar routines. Caught in the middle, Dinesh struggled to reconcile the conflicting demands of his

wife and mother. He wanted nothing more than to make them both happy, but it seemed like an impossible task. No matter what he did, someone always ended up feeling neglected or unappreciated. Despite his best efforts, tensions began to rise, and Dinesh found himself at a loss for how to bridge the gap between his two worlds. He felt like a failure as a husband and a son, unable to meet the expectations of the two most important women in his life. But amidst the chaos, Dinesh discovered that the key to harmony lay not in trying to please everyone, but in fostering open communication and understanding. He realized that both Shubina and Savita had their unique perspectives and experiences

and that by embracing their differences, he could create a more inclusive and loving environment for all.

With this newfound insight, Dinesh embarked on a journey of self-discovery, learning to appreciate the richness of his dual heritage and the strength that came from embracing diversity. As he grew as a husband, a son, and a man, he found that the love and acceptance of his family were the true treasures in life.

Dinesh discovered that the key to harmony lay not in trying to please everyone, but in fostering open communication and understanding.

Conflicting Opinions on Household Chores and Responsibilities

In the bustling city of Hong Kong, where time never seemed to slow down and the demands of daily life were ever-present, Dinesh found himself confronted with the age-old dilemma of household chores and responsibilities. As he navigated the complexities of married life with Shubina and the enduring bonds of family with Savita, he soon realized that their differing opinions on these matters were a source of tension and discord.

For Shubina, a modern woman with a demanding career in finance, efficiency and pragmatism were paramount. She believed in dividing household chores based on convenience and necessity, often opting for quick fixes and shortcuts to save time. To her, the domestic helper and materialistic things like a dishwasher was a godsend, and takeout dinners were a lifesaver after a long day at the office. On the other hand, Savita, a traditional homemaker who took pride in her role as the heart of the family, had a more old-fashioned approach to household chores. She believed in the importance of hands-on care and attention to detail, preferring to wash dishes by hand and cook meals from scratch using time-honored family recipes. As Dinesh found himself caught in the crossfire of conflicting opinions, he struggled to find a middle ground that would satisfy both women in his life. Shubina resented what she saw as Savita's interference in their married life, while Savita felt sidelined and

undervalued by Shubina's dismissive attitude towards her contributions to the household. The tension came to a head one evening when Shubina returned home from work to find Savita rearranging the kitchen cabinets and reorganizing the pantry. Frustrated by what she perceived as meddling, Shubina confronted Savita, accusing her of overstepping boundaries and undermining her authority as the lady of

between his wife's demands for independence and his mother's desire for inclusion, Dinesh struggled to find his voice in the midst of the conflict. He wanted nothing more than to keep the peace and make both women happy, but it seemed like an impossible task.

As the argument escalated, Dinesh realized that the key to resolving the conflict lay not in taking sides, but

He knew that while conflicts would inevitably arise in the future, as long as they faced them together with love and compassion, they could overcome any obstacle that stood in their way.

the house. Shubina, taken aback by Shubina's hostility, defended her actions, explaining that she was only trying to help and that she meant no disrespect. She reminded Shubina of the importance of a wellorganized kitchen and the joy that came from nurturing a home cooked meal. Caught

gratitude wash over him. He knew that while conflicts would inevitably arise in the future, as long as they faced them together with love and compassion, they could overcome any obstacle that stood in their way.

Disagreements Over Parenting Styles and Disciplinary Measures

As the days turned into weeks and the weeks into months, Dinesh found himself facing another challenge that tested the limits of his patience and diplomacy: disagreements over parenting styles and disciplinary measures. With a young daughter, Aditi, to care for and nurture, the stakes were higher than ever, and the clash of ideologies between Shubina and Savita threatened to unravel the delicate balance of their family dynamic.

in fostering empathy and understanding between Shubina and Savita. He urged them to see things from each other's perspective, to recognize the value of their contributions, and to find common ground in their shared love for him. Slowly but surely, tensions began to ease as Shubina and Savita learned to appreciate each other's strengths and weaknesses. They discovered that while they may have different approaches to household chores, they shared a common goal of creating a warm and loving home for their family. And as Dinesh watched his wife and mother come together in mutual respect and understanding, he felt a sense of relief and

For Shubina, a staunch advocate of modern parenting techniques rooted in psychology and child development research, discipline was a matter of consistency and positive reinforcement. She believed in setting clear boundaries and enforcing them with empathy and understanding, using time-outs and logical consequences to teach Aditi the importance of responsibility and respect.

He understood that although disagreements would unavoidably occur in the future, they could get past any barrier as long as they dealt with each other's problems with love and compassion.

Savita, on the other hand, favored a more traditional approach to parenting, drawing on her own experiences raising Dinesh and his siblings with a firm but loving hand. She believed in the power of authority and obedience, advocating for strict rules and swift consequences to instill discipline and instigate obedience. As Dinesh found himself caught in the crossfire of conflicting opinions once again, he struggled to find a middle ground that would satisfy both women in his life.

Shubina resented what she saw as Savita's outdated methods of parenting, while Savita felt marginalized and disrespected by Shubina's refusal to acknowledge her authority as Aditi's grandmother.

The tension came to a head one afternoon when Aditi threw a tantrum in the grocery store, refusing to sit still in the shopping cart and demanding a candy bar with increasing intensity.

Shubina, determined to stick to her principles of positive reinforcement, attempted to reason with Aditi and offer her a healthier alternative, but to no avail. Savita, witnessing the scene unfold, stepped in with a stern reprimand and a promise of consequences if Aditi continued to misbehave. Shubina, feeling undermined and frustrated, snapped at Savita, accusing her of overstepping her boundaries and interfering in their parenting decisions. Savita, taken aback by Shubina's hostility, defended her actions, reminding her of the importance of discipline and obedience in raising a well-behaved child. She urged Shubina to consider the long-term consequences of indulging 's demands and the impact it would have on her behavior in the future. Caught between his wife's progressive ideals and his mother's traditional values, Dinesh struggled to find his voice amid the conflict. As the argument escalated, Dinesh realized that the

key to resolving the conflict lay not in taking sides, but in fostering empathy and understanding between Shubina and Savita. He urged them to see things from each other's perspective, to recognize the value of their contributions, and to find common ground in their shared love for Aditi. Tensions gradually subsided as Shubina and Savita came to respect each other's advantages and disadvantages, and they realized that despite their divergent parenting styles, they had the same ultimate objective in mind: raising a child who is happy, healthy, and well-adjusted. And Dinesh had a wave of thankfulness and relief as he witnessed his mother and wife come to terms in harmony. He understood that although disagreements would unavoidably occur in the future, they could get past any barrier as long as they dealt with each other's problems with love and compassion.

Differences in Cultural or Religious Beliefs and Practices

Just when Dinesh thought he had navigated the stormy waters of conflicting opinions on household chores and parenting styles, another challenge emerged, threatening to test the very fabric of his family: differences in cultural or religious beliefs and practices.

Growing up in a household where festivals like Diwali, Ganpati, Holi & Gudi Padwa was celebrated with all the trimmings and rituals, family gatherings and delicious food, Dinesh had always taken for granted the traditions and rituals that had shaped his childhood. But when he married Shubina, whose

Conflict between them gradually decreased as Shubina and Savita came to respect one another's religious and cultural backgrounds.

family observed Islamic traditions and celebrated all Muslim festivals instead, he was forced to confront the cultural divide that separated them. For Shubina, the holidays were a time of reflection and remembrance, a chance to honor her Islamic heritage and reconnect with her family's roots. She cherished the rituals of Eid, and sharing special meals with loved ones, and she wanted to pass these traditions down to their daughter, Aditi. But for Savita, who had grown up in a typical Indian household steeped in tradition and ritual, the idea of embracing Shubina's Islamic customs was met with skepticism and resistance. She struggled to understand the significance of Eid and felt uncomfortable participating in rituals that were foreign to her upbringing.

As these religious festivals approached, Shubina and Savita clashed over how best to celebrate. Shubina wanted to host a traditional Eid dinner with delicious biryani, kheer and home-cooked sweets, while Savita insisted on staying out of home during this festival as she didn’t feel like getting involved with the rituals, family and relatives of Shubina. Dinesh found himself torn between his wife's desire to honor her heritage and his mother's attachment to their family's traditions. He wanted to please both women, but it appeared unattainable because they would not budge from their convictions or customs. The situation came to a head one evening when Shubina announced her intention to enroll Aditi in an Islamic preschool, where

she would learn participate in Islamic rituals and traditions. Savita, taken aback by the suggestion, expressed her concerns about Aditi feeling excluded from her Hindu heritage and questioned whether it was fair to impose Shubina's beliefs on their daughter. Shubina, hurt by Savita's lack of support, defended her decision, arguing that exposing Aditi to different cultures and religions would broaden her horizons and foster tolerance and understanding. She urged Savita to embrace diversity and celebrate the richness of their multicultural family, rather than clinging to outdated notions of cultural homogeneity. Dinesh realized that the key to resolving the conflict lay not in choosing one tradition over another, but in finding a way to honor and respect both. He urged Shubina and Savita to focus on the values they shared – love, compassion, and acceptance – and to find common ground in their commitment to raising Aditi in a nurturing and inclusive environment.

Conflict between them gradually decreased as Shubina and Savita came to respect one another's religious and cultural backgrounds. They found that although they may have expressed their faith in different ways, they were united in their desire to inculcate moral ideas and values in Aditi and Dinesh experienced a wave of pride and thankfulness as he saw his mother and wife begin to understand and respect one another. He understood that although disagreements will unavoidably occur in the future, they could get

past any barrier as long as they dealt with each other's problems with love and compassion.

Financial Disagreements, such as Spending Habits or Budgeting Priorities

Just when Dinesh thought the waters were beginning to calm in his household, another storm brewed on the horizon – this time, in the form of financial disagreements. As the breadwinner of the

household where every penny was stretched to its limit, She learned the value of saving and budgeting from a young age. She was meticulous about tracking expenses and planning for the future, determined to provide and be a good support to her husband and family. Shubina, on the other hand, had a more relaxed attitude towards money, viewing it as a means to enjoy life and indulge in little luxuries. She didn't see

family, Dinesh took his responsibilities seriously, but navigating the choppy waters of budgeting and spending habits proved to be more challenging than he anticipated. From the outset, Shubina and Savita had different approaches to money management. Savita who grew up in a frugal

They learned to appreciate each other's perspectives and to compromise where necessary, knowing that their love and commitment to each other would see them through even the toughest of times.

the harm in splurging on a fancy dinner or treating themselves to a weekend getaway every once in a while, even if it meant dipping into their savings.

At first, Savita admired Shubina's carefree approach to life, but as the financial responsibilities of Shubina and Dinesh grew – from mortgage payments to childcare expenses – Savita began to feel the strain of Shubina’s spending habits. She worried about their long-term financial security and the impact Shubina's impulsiveness could have on her sons’s future. There came one evening when Dinesh discovered a credit card bill that had ballooned far beyond

their budget. He confronted Shubina about her excessive spending, expressing his concerns about their financial stability and the need to reign in their expenses. Not quiet long, Savita took sides in support of her son which Shubina was not happy with. Shubina, feeling defensive, lashed out at Dinesh and her mother, accusing them of being controlling and overly strict with money. She argued that life was too short to worry about every penny and that they deserved to enjoy the fruits of their labor.

Caught in the middle once again, Dinesh struggled to find a compromise that would satisfy his wife’s desire for financial security and Shubina's need for spontaneity and enjoyment. He suggested setting a monthly budget and sticking to it, with a portion allocated for discretionary spending which was the advice from Savita, but Shubina bristled at the idea of being restricted. As the argument escalated, Dinesh realized that the key to resolving their financial disagreements lay not in imposing strict rules or limitations, but in fostering open and honest communication. He urged Shubina to be more transparent about her spending habits and to involve him in financial decisions, rather than making unilateral choices that affected them both. Shubina, taken aback by Dinesh's sincerity and Savita’s advice, agreed to sit down and create a budget together, where they could outline their financial goals and priorities as a couple and family. They discussed their long-term aspirations – from saving for

their daughter's education to planning for retirement – and mapped out a plan to achieve them together. The family found common ground in their shared vision for the future. They learned to appreciate each other's perspectives and to compromise where necessary, knowing that their love and commitment to each other would see them through even the toughest of times.

And as they looked towards the horizon, Dinesh, and Shubina felt a renewed sense of hope and optimism, knowing that no matter what challenges lay ahead, they would face them together as a family, united in love and mutual respect.

Tensions Arising from Personality Conflicts or Communication Issues

Dinesh sat at the dining table, his head in his hands, feeling utterly exhausted and defeated. The constant clashes between his wife Shubina and his mother

He knew that it would require patience, understanding, and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths

Savita had taken their toll on him, leaving him caught in the crossfire of their simmering and unresolved conflicts. As much as he tried to play the peacemaker and bridge the gap between them, it seemed like every attempt ended in frustration and disappointment. The root of the problem, Dinesh realized, lay in the fundamental differences in personality and communication styles between Shubina and Savita. While Shubina was outgoing,

assertive, and direct in her approach, Savita was more reserved, traditional, and set in her ways. Their contrasting temperaments clashed at every turn, leading to misunderstandings, arguments, and hurt feelings.

Communication breakdowns were commonplace in their household, with Shubina and Savita often talking past each other instead of truly

resentment and animosity, unable or unwilling to see eye to eye or find common ground. It pained Dinesh to see the two most important women in his life at odds with each other, knowing that their strained relationship was taking a toll on him as well.

As he pondered their predicament, Dinesh realized that the key to resolving their differences lay not in

listening and understanding. What started as a simple disagreement over dinner plans or household chores would quickly escalate into a full-blown confrontation, with accusations flying and tempers flaring. Dinesh struggled to navigate the delicate balance between supporting his wife and honoring his mother, put between his loyalty to his spouse and his sense of duty to his family. He found himself walking on eggshells around both women, afraid to say or do anything that might reignite the flames of conflict. Despite his best efforts to mediate and facilitate open dialogue, Dinesh often felt like he was fighting a losing battle. Shubina and Savita seemed locked in a cycle of

changing their personalities or communication styles, but in fostering empathy, compassion, and mutual respect. He knew that it would require patience, understanding, and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths, but he was determined to do whatever it took to heal the rift between his wife and his mother. With that resolve in mind, Dinesh took a deep breath and prepared to embark on the challenging journey ahead, knowing that the road to reconciliation would be long and arduous, but believing wholeheartedly that it was worth the effort. As he rose from the table and squared his shoulders, ready to face whatever obstacles lay ahead, Dinesh felt a

glimmer of hope flicker in his heart, knowing that with love, patience, and perseverance, anything was possible.

Competition for the Son's Attention and Affection

Shubina and Savita's relationship had always been strained, but since Dinesh's marriage, the matter seemed to escalate. Each vied for Dinesh's attention, leaving him feeling disturbed and conflicted. Dinesh found himself caught in the middle of their competing demands. Shubina wanted him to prioritize their marriage and

he could love and support both women in their unique ways, embracing the richness of their differences and the depth of their bond as a family.

build a life together, while Savita longed for the son she felt she was losing to another woman. At family gatherings, Dinesh felt the weight of their unspoken expectations. Shubina would shoot disapproving glances at Savita's traditional cooking,

while Savita would criticize Shubina's modern lifestyle choices. Dinesh struggled to balance his loyalty to both women. He wanted to make Shubina happy, but he also didn't want to disappoint his mother. He felt guilty for wanting to spend time with Shubina, fearing it would hurt Savita. As tensions mounted, Dinesh found himself withdrawing from both women, unable to bear the constant pressure. He longed for a sense of peace and harmony in his home but didn't know how to achieve it. Seeking guidance, Dinesh turned to a trusted friend for advice. They encouraged him to set boundaries with both Shubina and Savita, clearly communicating his needs and priorities. They suggested he schedule dedicated time for each woman, allowing him to nurture both relationships without neglecting either.

With newfound clarity, Dinesh approached Shubina and Savita separately, expressing his love and appreciation for each of them. He explained his desire to maintain a healthy balance between his wife and mother, assuring them that his love for them was unwavering. Shubina recognized Dinesh's efforts

to navigate their complicated relationship. They began to communicate more openly, finding common ground and mutual respect.

In the end, Dinesh realized that he didn't have to over stress himself. Instead, he could love and support both women in their unique ways, embracing the richness of their differences and the depth of their bond as a family.

Disputes over the Division of Time Between the Son's Family and His Parents

One of the most challenging aspects of managing relationships between a son, his wife, and his mother is the division of time. As Dinesh tried to balance his responsibilities to both Shubina and Savita, disputes over how he allocated his time became a frequent source of tension. Shubina wanted Dinesh to prioritize their nuclear family, spending more time together and building their life as a couple. She felt that Savita's constant presence intruded on their private time and prevented them from fostering their traditions and routines. On the other hand, Savita struggled with the idea

of losing her son to his new family. She cherished their time together and felt hurt when Dinesh couldn't spend as much time with her as he used to. She feared being pushed aside and resented Shubina for coming between her and her son.

They realized that by prioritizing open dialogue and mutual respect, they could create a harmonious balance that allowed them to nurture their relationships without sacrificing their individual needs.

Caught in the middle, Dinesh felt overwhelmed by the conflicting demands on his time. He wanted to make both Shubina and Savita happy, but he also needed to set boundaries to protect his sanity and well-being. Dinesh found himself dreading family gatherings and avoiding spending time with either Shubina or Savita. He felt trapped in a never-ending cycle of guilt and obligation, unsure of how to break free. Seeking guidance, Dinesh turned to a therapist for help. They encouraged him to have open and honest conversations with both Shubina and Savita, expressing his feelings and setting clear expectations for how he would divide his time between them. With the therapist's support, Dinesh and Shubina began to establish boundaries around their time together, carving out dedicated moments for just the two of them. They also made an effort to include Savita in their plans, finding ways to

involve her in their activities without overwhelming their relationship. Similarly, Dinesh and Savita worked together to find a balance between spending time with each other and with Shubina. They set up regular visits and outings, creating opportunities for quality time as a family while also respecting Dinesh 's commitments to his wife.

Over time, the disputes over the division of time began to subside as Dinesh, Shubina, and Savita learned to communicate more effectively and compromise where necessary. They realized that by prioritizing open dialogue and mutual respect, they could create a harmonious balance that allowed them to nurture their relationships without sacrificing their individual needs.

Disagreements about Career Choices or Professional Aspirations

In the intricate web of managing relationships between a son, his wife, and his mother, career choices and professional aspirations often emerge as contentious issues. Dinesh 's career aspirations clashed with both Shubina's and Savita's expectations, adding another layer of complexity to their already strained dynamic. Shubina, ambitious and career-oriented herself, envisioned a future where Dinesh would prioritize his professional growth and financial stability. She encouraged him to pursue promotions and opportunities for advancement, believing that success in his career would benefit their family in the long run. However, Savita held different values,

shaped by a generation where traditional gender roles prevailed. She hoped Dinesh would prioritize stability and security over ambition, favoring a steady job with regular hours and benefits over the uncertainty of climbing the corporate ladder. Caught between his wife's aspirations and his mother's expectations, Dinesh felt terrible. He struggled to reconcile his ambitions with the conflicting desires of the two most important women in his life.

They learned to communicate more effectively, compromise where necessary, and support each other's dreams and ambitions, recognizing that true fulfillment comes from pursuing one's passions and staying true to oneself.

Dinesh found himself questioning his career choices and feeling torn between his aspirations and the expectations placed upon him by Shubina and Savita. He feared disappointing either of them and felt overwhelmed by the weight of their conflicting demands. Dinesh turned to a career counselor for guidance. Through introspection and reflection, he began to identify his values and priorities, separate from those of his wife and mother. He realized that while he valued financial stability and career advancement, he also yearned for a sense of fulfillment and purpose in his work. Armed with this newfound self-awareness, Dinesh initiated open and

honest conversations with both Shubina and Savita, expressing his desires and fears about his career path. He acknowledged their concerns and aspirations while also asserting his autonomy and agency in making decisions about his professional future.

Together, Dinesh, Shubina, and Savita navigated the complexities of balancing career aspirations with familial expectations. They learned to communicate more effectively, compromise where necessary, and support each other's dreams and ambitions, recognizing that true fulfillment comes from pursuing one's passions and staying true to oneself.

Struggles with BoundarySetting and Establishing Independence within the Family Dynamic

As Dinesh grappled with the competing demands of his wife and mother, he found himself facing another significant challenge: setting boundaries and asserting his independence within the family dynamic. Both Shubina and Savita had strong personalities and firm opinions, often encroaching on Dinesh 's autonomy and decision-making authority. Shubina, driven by her desire

They learned to give him the space and freedom to make his own decisions, while still offering their love, support, and guidance when needed.

for a close-knit family unit, tended to involve herself in every aspect of Dinesh's life, from his career choices to their household decisions. While well-intentioned, her constant presence and interference sometimes left Dinesh feeling suffocated and deprived of the freedom to make his own choices. Savita, rooted in tradition and maternal instincts, struggled to relinquish control over her son's life, clinging to the role of primary caregiver and decision-maker even as Dinesh grew into adulthood. Her well-meaning advice and interventions often felt intrusive and overbearing, hindering Dinesh's efforts to assert his independence and establish himself as the head of his household. Being in the middle of these conflicting dynamics, Dinesh felt heartbroken between his loyalty to his wife and his sense of duty towards his mother. He yearned to establish clear boundaries and assert his independence

within the family, but he feared upsetting either Shubina or Savita in the process.

Looking forward, Dinesh turned to therapy, where he learned valuable strategies for setting healthy boundaries and communicating assertively with his loved ones. He practiced assertiveness techniques and role-played difficult conversations, gradually gaining confidence in asserting his needs and priorities within the family dynamic. Armed with newfound communication skills and a deeper understanding of his boundaries, Dinesh verbalized honest and transparent conversations with both Shubina and Savita, expressing his heart's desire for mutual respect, autonomy, and independence within their relationships. He articulated his need for space and autonomy while reaffirming his love and commitment to both women. Shubina and Savita, initially resistant to change, eventually recognized the importance of respecting Dinesh's autonomy and boundaries. They learned to give him the space and freedom to make his own decisions, while still offering their love, support, and guidance when needed.

Through open communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to compromise, Dinesh, Shubina, and Savita navigated the complexities of boundarysetting and independence within their family dynamic, forging stronger, healthier relationships built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding.

A Beautiful Happy Ending

As the days turned into weeks and the weeks into months, Dinesh's efforts to navigate the intricate dynamics between his wife and mother bore fruit, leading to a beautiful, heartwarming transformation within their family.

With new communication skills and a deeper sense of understanding of each other's perspectives, Dinesh, Shubina, and Savita embarked on a journey of growth, healing, and reconciliation. Gone were the days of tension and conflict as Dinesh learned to balance the needs and expectations of his wife and mother with grace and compassion. He became a pillar of strength and support for both women, offering his unwavering love, understanding, and guidance. Shubina, recognizing Dinesh 's efforts to prioritize their relationship and establish healthy boundaries, embraced her husband's newfound assertiveness and autonomy. She learned to trust in Dinesh's decisionmaking abilities and respect his need for independence, fostering a deeper sense of trust and intimacy within their marriage. Savita, too, underwent a profound transformation, relinquishing her grip on the role of primary

For in the end, it was love that conquered all—a love that transcended differences, bridged divides, and illuminated the path toward a brighter, more beautiful tomorrow.

caregiver and embracing Dinesh's journey toward independence. She took pride in her son's growth and maturity, celebrating his achievements and supporting his endeavors with unwavering love and encouragement.

Together, as a united family, Dinesh, Shubina, and Savita are navigating through life's ups and downs with resilience, grace, and unwavering love. They share laughter and tears, triumphs and challenges, forging a bond that transcended time and distance. Now as they gathered around the dinner table, sharing stories and memories, Dinesh couldn't help but marvel at the beauty of their journey—a journey marked by love, forgiveness, and the enduring strength of family.

With his wife by his side and his mother's love in his heart, Dinesh knows that no matter what the future held, they will face it together, united in love and bound by the unbreakable bonds of family.

And as they looked towards the horizon, they embraced the promise of tomorrow, knowing that their love would guide them through whatever challenges lay ahead.

For in the end, it was love that conquered all—a love that transcended differences, bridged divides, and illuminated the path toward a brighter, more beautiful tomorrow. As they basked in the warmth of each other's embrace, Dinesh, Shubina, and Savita realized that their journey was just beginning—a journey filled with endless possibilities, boundless joy, and the infinite power of love.

Article by:

A real story from a family living in Hong Kong, narrated by Dinesh (name changed on request) to Gaurav Pardeshi (Gary) Editor, A-Desiflava Magazine and produced and written by Kay Rean, a freelance writer from Australia. Re-edits by Gaurav Pardeshi (Gary).

TECHNOLOGY AND KIDS TODAY

We all can endlessly talk about how technology is taking away our kids’ childhood. We would love our kids to play outdoor, make friends in the real world, be one with nature and live a carefree childhood! However, we also want them to learn and become a wholesome individual. We are also afraid that they might get left behind, and want them to develop necessary skills beyond the four-walls of the classroom. But after long school hours, the essential playground time after school, how do we squeeze in after school classes? Here comes technology.

Let’s read through what gen alpha has to say in this context. Eight kids from Writer’s Club, a creative writing class conducted in Tung Chung. share their experience of how they use their screen-time productively.

Learn Chess at Your Own Pace and Race Ahead

By: Samraj Singh

Age: 10 years

Have you ever thought of life without talent? What happens when suddenly you get hold of a magic wand that no one can take away from you? I barely had any talent when I was five but one fine day I stumbled upon a magic wand which helped

me build my own talent. The magic wand I am referring to is none other than an app called CHESSKID and it helps me build my talent in Chess. CHESSKID is an app started by Fun Master Mike which has innumerable funny videos and teaches the basics of Chess in an easy way. I learnt how each piece moved and soon moved to the advanced tactics of Chess. CHESSKID has 200-350 levels and infinite puzzles. Not only does CHESSKID let you play chess games online with people all around the world but also lets you analyse the game played. With the analysis provided by CHESSKID, anyone can learn from mistakes or the good moves made during the game. The more you play, the more

you learn. When you learn more, you play better and you win. When you win you get stars. This is 'Domino effect'. I currently have 9000 stars in CHESSKID and I did this all in 4 years. Well! Afterall, Chess is a game of patience, strategy and resilience. Let's talk about what is the next best thing about this app. I personally adore it's videos, especially because of the animation they use to explain a particular strategy. For instance, CHESSKID explained a very complicated strategy called PAWN STORM in an easy way that even a beginner would be able to comprehend. Moreover, the videos also explain the history of Chess like how it originated in India, moved to China and

later to Persia, Arab, Europe and finally, US. Did you know that one out of nine people play Chess on Earth today?

And I am proudly one of them! Did you know there are only 2000 Chess grandmasters in the world? Needless to say, I will be one soon and all this because I have my wand called CHESSKID. I do enjoy playing chess with a peer but arranging chess playdates was difficult, time coordination was our biggest challenge. Thanks to the convenience of an app I could follow my interest without being dependant on anyone!

Zoom in to the Space and Human Body with Dr. Binocs.

By: Paarth solanki Age: 9 years old

If you are a general knowledge buff like me, you should definitely follow Dr. Binocs on YouTube. I like Dr Binocs because I get a lot

By: Anishka Parihar

Age: 11 years old

I follow Nashvibes_art on Instagram which helped me academically and with my hobby too. When I was 8 years old, my mom encouraged me to enter an art competition to create a poster about the 3 R’s. I won first place in the competition with my mum's guidance. One day, my mum introduced me to an Instagram account called Nashvibes_art and I started watching his posts and reels regularly. It gave

of information about space and the human body and learn many fascinating facts about them, too. When I started to watch Dr Binocs, I told my parents about my newfound obsession to know more and more about everything around me and about me. Guess what? Instead of being mad at me for watching the screen, my parents were proud of me. The best part is that the videos are short, and you can remember the content for a long time. I still remember a piece of very interesting information about one of the largest stars and one of the me awesome ideas like making one of my characters in different forms. An example can be, making them glitchy, colouring them in neon colours and customising random objects like plant pots and T-shirts. This account also helped me in art classes. In my art assessment, I had to make a coral decorative piece out of clay. My teacher said my colour theory was on point and outstanding, which helped me get an amazing grade. During this process, I also happened to pick up some much-needed editing skills. I was great at it and was always chosen as a designer in every group work or presentation I did. Using an Instagram account was more beneficial for me since I had no time to attend Art class as I progressed to middle school because of the regular assessments I had.

largest black holes in the universe that I watched on this channel. About 3 years ago, while scrolling through YouTube, I suddenly found this channel, and I couldn’t have been more thankful. Last year, in 2nd grade, there was a talent show. I recited a speech about space, and it was excellent. I told my classmates about this channel, and they started watching it, and got hooked on it, like me. I soon learnt about the human body and understood that drinking too much Coca-Cola or eating too many candies will harm us. And so I voluntarily

stopped consuming them. My baby brother and I watch the channel and enjoy telling my parents fascinating facts over dinner. This channel is relevant for all age-groups and I suggest kids needing help with their general knowledge should definitely watch Dr. Binocs.

How Did I Become an Artsy Person With Nashvibes_art

Art is an important part of my life because when I was 8-9 years old, I was in India while my dad was in another part of the country, so the only communication I had with him other than calling was to make cards for him and then click pictures and send it to him through WhatsApp. This bridged the distance between us. Nashvibe_art allowed my sense of art to expand and helped me find newer horizons to express myself through art . His drawing style helped me personalise my own art. His

most significant achievement was to make custom i-phones cases. He made thousands of iPhone covers. This impacted his style and he moved from caricatures to cartoon characters. He now creates amazing doodles too. I was amazed at how much one could learn through technology. Not just art, I could come up with some unique business ideas too through this account.. He collaborated with ZHC Crafts (one of my favourite YouTube channels) too. Now I can express myself however I want to through art… happy or sad. Only a few years ago my teachers used to say that I needed to improve my art skills but now they compliment me on my ideas and drawing. Overall, I am grateful that I found Nahshvibes_art, I can now whizz up any art project by referring to it anytime.

Presenting My Amazing Videos With …Flipgrid!

By: Myrah Agrawal Age:10 years

I came across Flipgrid in year 4 when my teacher told my class we were using Flipgrid. Flipgrid is a free website. Flipgrid can be used for learning and educators can create classrooms for students to join and post their videos. My first video was when I had to introduce myself. It was really fun because I could add affects like GIFs, backgrounds, draw, use filters, or if I had a script, I could write my script on the note box. It was super easy! In year 5 me and the rest of year 5s went to camp. After we came back we made a flipgrid video about our camp

reflection. It would help other kids with their video editing skills and people can learn in a different way. Instead of writing a boring essay, I could present my work in a fun video! The best part was that it was a collaborative effort. I could comment on other people’s videos to tell them what to improve and what they did well (we referred to it as glows and grows). Flipgrid enables students to use their imagination to make short clips about certain topics that their educators have assigned them, or just for fun! Students can also add

sounds or music to their video to make it more interesting and entertaining. Now, I want to use it for documenting my travel stories and showing them to my friends and family back home!

The answers about the universe can be found at Kurzgesagt

By: Ridhaan Advirkar Age:10 years

Do you want to know how a YouTube channel enhanced my learning experience? While scrolling through YouTube shorts, a video caught my attention and it read "What's the Smallest Possible Black Hole," shared by channel known as ‘Kurzgesagt in a Nutshell’. Interested in Kurzgesagt's content I clicked on this channel and found myself watching every video on their handle. After researching about them I landed on their website. Kurzgesagt explains stories about science and the world. They create videos about topics like space, technology, biology and society. Also, they develop fun experiences through apps and video games. Now, you might be wondering how Kurzgesagt was established. So, it all started on 10 July 2013. Phillip Demeter had a passion project to make an

educational YouTube channel that is not boring. He also published a book called Immune in 2021. The book is about our Immune system and viruses so basically everything about the human body. He also has a Website ‘philippdettmer.net’ if you want to know his stories. One of the best things about this channel is it’s theories. It’s content is made for kids 8 years and above. Learning about how the universe works gave me the knowledge I never had. Their interactive games are informative too. Kurzgesagt helps me to learn about nature and science. Watching the videos from this channel sparks my curiosity. The more and more I watched these videos the more interest I gained in science. It also helps me to remember complex scientific concepts because of their simplified explanations. To sum up,

watching science videos on YouTube is entertaining and educational. It can teach you new ideas and information. It can improve your knowledge and understanding of the world. Applying and practising what you learn can further improve your understanding and arm you with skills. However, do setup a timer when you start watching to avoid spending too much time and straining your eyes. Watching the screen for a longer time can trigger health issues so maintain good posture, ensure the room is lit adequately and stick to time limits! This way we can use technology to our advantage and stay away from its illeffects.

By: Nimai Tulseja

Enter The World of Design With CANVA

I was first introduced to Canva in my school and I liked it because it seemed like a fun app. The next time I used Canva I got a little used to it and now I'm practically a pro. Canva is a designing app which has many tools and can be used for almost anything like presentations, timelines, templates, and much more! Earlier I mostly used canva for school work but now I try to use it more. One of my best creations on Canva is a comic I created for my writing class. It took 3 hours and it was about a character called Poppy Playtime against a robloxian.

The main part is that they keep turning into ghosts to dead ghosts which keeps going on and on and on. Canva helped me in this by giving me the right pictures and the app has a lot of features that could be very useful for the project. Without this app I had no idea how else I could do that project digitally. Having mastered Canva, now I want to learn graphic designing apps and use them to expand my creative skills. Another interesting project I did using Canva was in my school, when I did a space timeline about the space race. It was

actually pretty easy because I just had to go to the uploads and upload a picture and research the date and what the person did. My projects are fun, my editing skills have improved over time and I know how to channelize my creativity!

If you are a kid and use Google, choose Kidrex instead

By: Vihaan Manoj Age:10 years

I got to know about Kidrex from my school Principal. Kidrex is a kid-safe search engine, with interesting kid-friendly features, where you can find interesting information about different topics like science and other subjects. It’s very easy to search different topics on it. For example, if I search for wildlife, it takes me to various sites that has information on wildlife which are appropriate for kids. Kidrex is very helpful for my classmates and myself daily. Whenever we have class projects in project based learning, we use this tool to collect information. Additionally, it also helps us in guided reading. Guided reading is when we have to answer questions from a text that Google is unable to do.

The teachers usually ask our class to do guided reading and recommend us to use

Kidrex to find answers to the questions they ask us. I chose Kidrex during one of the guided reading classes and was able to find answers quickly. Because of its safe features parents and our teachers allow us to use it without any concern. To elaborate on the safety feature, one example is when you search for any topic like

‘spider’ it will point you to relevant websites and not show images directly. If you are parent spkeptical about allowing young children to explore google, you can guide them to use Kidrex instead and let them research the answers to all the various questions they keep popping to you!

Age:10 years

By: Myra Paul Kapoor

Age: 9 years old

Spelling used to be boring and I hated doing it, especially writing articles and essays.

Then came Spelling Shed, and rescued me like a super hero.

Now you might ask what Spelling Shed is… Well the very word holds the secret… Spelling Shed helps you shed

The verdict:

Spelling became easy with Spelling Shed!

all your fears and tears about spellings.

Spelling Shed is a straightforward, exciting webgame that is accessible for children and teenagers willing to learn how to spell.

I learnt about Spelling Shed in school. I found some words hard to spell, for example, the word “differently”. I would keep mixing up the letter E with the letter A but with the help of Spelling Shed I now remember how to spell them with lots of practice.

Spelling Shed has a lot of different game modes, for example: Squirrel scurry, you can either play against a bot or just play by yourself. There is also a setting, where you can play endless mode or

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Since there is no way of escaping from the clutches of technology in today’s fast paced world, let us embrace it and find a way to maintain balance between using it for learning and entertainment.

Do let us know if the kids at the Writer’s Club were able to inspire other kids to use technology ‘mindfully’ and not ‘mindlessly’. Every kid, especially above 8 years would exhibit some distinct skill or inclination and if we can encourage those with some help from the world of apps and sites, then why not?

If you are a kid, and this article inspired you to share your ‘productive screen-time story’ do write to adesiflava@gmail.com. We will be happy to read your experience and print your responses in the next issue!

you can just complete all the words that you have set for yourself or that your school teachers have set for you. Your spelling mistakes will be scurrying away soon!

This web-game has levels too: Easy, medium, hard and finally extreme but these levels don’t affect the words you are trying to spell. If you choose the easy mode only the letters that are needed to spell a certain word pops up and you can simply arrange the letters and spell words. The medium mode is a tiny bit harder. Other letters that are not included in the word pops up and you have to try to put the correct letters in the correct place. Hard mode is not much harder there are just more letters. Extreme

WRITER’S CLUB:

We are not a traditional English teaching/learning class. At Writer’s Club, kids 7 years and up don’t ‘learn to write’, they discover how best they can word their thoughts, experiences and emotions. We take up new writing topics each class, engage in hearty discussions, get down to penning it, read out loud to peers what we wrote and then welcome feedback to evolve into better writers, over time. While we engage in this way of learning, we pick up spellings, punctuation nuances, grammar, compete in fun word-games and practice public speaking. If you know a kid who will enjoy or benefit from this way of learning, do get in touch!

mode is a lot more hard, all the letters of the alphabet are there and you can only listen to the word, you might get confused with a few letters, but trust me this is worth it.

Spelling shed is unique for the simple reason, you can play with your friends, classmates and family by just simply creating a Hive game. A Hive game is basically designed to let players go against their friends. Do give it a try, you can thank me later!

Ritu is currently working with a marketing agency, and as a freelance writer for locally based businesses in Hong Kong. She is also running a Writer’s Club, teaching creative writing skills to kids 7 years and above. Her work can be seen at her Instagram handle @Thewonderfulworldof_ stories. With a background in corporate communication and journalism, Ritu finds teaching young learners what she has learnt professionally, extremely fulfilling. She can be reached at churiwalaritu@gmail.com

Article by: Ritu Churiwala and 8 students from her Writer’s Club

TOP GUNS OF MAVERICKS!

Badminton is known for its fast-paced and exciting gameplay. It is a popular sport & Indian Badminton Community has a strong presence & passionate player base in Hong Kong. One such club is Mavericks Badminton Club. From Love All to Game Point!

Mavericks Badminton Club was established in 2018 by a bunch of young Badminton enthusiasts. Today, the club boasts with close to 35 members. Members vary from different parts of the world, predominantly Indians, and from Australia, France, and Malaysia.

This is a structured club where members are defined. The club's captain is Mr. Kuldeepak Sethi (KD),

Vice-Captain Mr. Abhishek Rai, Chairman Mr. Anuj Malik, and CFO is Mr. John Yu. As Mavericks move forward, a new generation of players are emerging within the club, bringing pride to it. Mr. Santhosh is at the forefront, spearheading the club's growth efforts and has successfully carried the baton and taken club to different heights & bringing community together.

Vice-Captain:

Recently, Mavericks Badminton Club hosted a tournament among various clubs on 13th April, Saturday at Cheung Chau Sports Centre. We are thrilled to share the incredible success of this mega tournament. The tournament format consisted of 16 teams divided into 4 groups. Each group plays a round robin; the top 2 teams further proceed to the Quarter-Finals. From that point on, it will be a knockout format.

The winner of the QuarterFinals will play in the SemiFinals. The winner of the Semi-Finals will advance to the Finals, while the losers will compete for 3rd and 4th place.

From Round Robin stage itself, it was best-of-3 format, that was really challenging to all participants. It was a test for physical endurance.

The below 16 teams battled it out in a thrilling competition, showcasing their skills and determination.

KD / Abhishek (Mavericks)

John / Ritesh (Mavericks)

Vikas / Akshay (Mavericks)

Sumeet / Ajinkya (Mavericks)

Satvir / Karthik (Mavericks)

Guru / Mahendra (Mavericks)

Ganesh / Friedrich (Mavericks)

Santhosh / Chandra (Mavericks)

Setu / Arya (India Club)

Pankaj / Arshath (India Club)

Devesh / Pushpendra (Sky Warriors)

Keyur / Vishal (Sky Warriors)

Deepak Challu / Anurag (Laguna City Shuttlers)

Prabhat / Raju (TC Tigers)

Brian / Kuldeep Verma (TC Tigers)

Rahul Pai / Shalender (Lohas Lions)

Captain: Mr. Kuldeepak Sethi (KD)

Mr. Abhishek Rai

Chairman:

Mr. Anuj Malik

CFO: Mr. John Yu

After an exhilarating and exhausting round robin stage, 8 teams qualified for the Quarter-Finals

First Quarter-Final:

Santhosh / Chandra vs KD / Abhishek

Second Quarter-Final:

Ganesh / Friedrich vs Vikas / Akshay

Third Quarter-Final:

Sumeet / Ajinkya vs Prabhat / Raju

Fourth Quarter-Final:

Setu / Arya vs Rahul Pai / Shalender

Following the intense quarterfinal matches, the dust had finally settled, and we had our four deserving semi-finalists. These teams had showcased exceptional skill, determination, and teamwork throughout the tournament, and now they stood just one step away from reaching the ultimate glory.

First Semi-Final:

Setu / Arya vs Vikas / Akshay

Second Semi-Final:

Sumeet / Ajinkya vs Santhosh / Chandra

In the fiercely contested Semi-Finals, the players fought tooth and nail, leaving no stone unturned in their pursuit of victory. The competition was intense, every player poured their heart and soul into the game, displaying incredible athleticism and tactical brilliance. Eventually, after a grueling battle, Setu / Arya & Santhosh / Chandra emerged as the deserving winners, having triumphed over their formidable opponents.

The competition for 3rd and 4th spots was in between Sumeet / Ajinkya & Vikas

/ Akshay. Both sides were evenly matched, and neither was willing to concede an inch. The intensity of the competition was palpable as the athletes pushed themselves to their limits, leaving no room for complacency. In the end, after an arduous and wellfought contest, Sumeet / Ajinkya emerged victorious, securing the 3rd spot finish. The Final Scores 19/21, 21/17, 21/16.

2nd Runner:

Mr. Sumeet / Mr. Ajinkya

(Mr. Ajinkya (left)

Mr. Mohan Anna (middle)

Mr. Sumeet (right)

3rd Runner:

Mr. Akshay / Mr. Vikas

(Mr. Akshay (left)

Mr. Vikas (middle)

Mr. Tamil Selvan (right)

The Finals in between Setu / Arya & Santhosh / Chandra were a thrilling display of fair play and competition. It was a see-saw battle that pushed both the team to their limits. The match went to three intense sets, with each team showing their prowess

and refusing to back down. It was a contest where both sides looked like winners. The energy was perceptible, and the tension was draining as the players engaged in long rallies, demonstrating their endurance and determination. In the end, it was the pair Santhosh / Chandra who displayed unwavering resolve and a never-give-up attitude that emerged as the deserving winners. The Final scores 16/21, 21/18, 21/18.

Winner:

Mr. Santhosh / Mr. Chandra

(Mr. Santhosh (left)

Mr. Ravi (middle)

Mr. Chandra (right)

Winner:

Mr. Santhosh / Mr. Chandra

(Mr. Santhosh (left)

Mr. Sandip Gupta (middle)

Mr. Chandra (right)

Winner:

Mr. Santhosh / Mr. Chandra

(Mr. Santhosh (left)

Mr. Kamal Sachar (middle)

Mr. Chandra (right)

Runner:

Mr. Arya / Mr. Setu (Mr. Arya (left)

Mr. Sandip Gupta (middle)

Mr. Setu (right)

Runner: Mr. Arya

(Mr. Arya (left)

Mr. Sandip Gupta (right)

Runner: Mr. Setu

(Mr. Sandip (left)

Mr. Setu (right)

Despite the fierce nature of the event, fairness prevailed. Both sides displayed strength & pushing their limits. However, amidst their strength, they also demonstrated a commitment to correctness, adhering to the principles of fair play and sportsmanship. Ultimately, both opponents proved themselves to be worthy adversaries, showcasing their abilities and making the competition a thrilling and memorable experience. Their unwavering spirit and dedication serve as a testament to the indomitable human spirit in the face of adversity.

A new addition to the Awards, brought much more excitement to the tournament. The Fair Play Award is a prestigious honor bestowed upon individuals who exemplify the highest standards of sportsmanship and fair play. Sumeet / Ajinkya won this Award. Throughout their respective games, demonstrated unwavering commitment to these principles. Their actions serve as a testament to their character and their decision to upholding the spirit of fair play in sports. Their commitment to fairness & sportsmanship sets an inspiring example for athletes around the community.

This monumental competition, which has left the spectators on the edge of their seats, would not have been possible without the invaluable contributions of our esteemed sponsors. We extend our deepest gratitude to our sponsors, whose unwavering support and generous contributions made this extraordinary event, a reality.

The tournament showcased exceptional fairness, transparency and competitiveness throughout its duration. Governed by a dedicated tournament committee, this event aimed to create an inclusive and engaging experience for all participants. The club is duly indebted to the tournament committee consisting of below members.

Mr. Mohan Anna (Tournament Director)

Mr. Senthil Kumar (Tournament Co-Ordinator)

Mr. Tamil Selvan (Tournament Co-Ordinator)

Mr. Kesu Nair (Tournament Co-Ordinator)

Mr. Mahesh Gangwani (Umpire)

Mr. Ravi (Umpire)

Mr. Kamal Sachar (Umpire)

Mr. Brijendra Singh Jasrotia (aka) Bunny (Umpire)

Mr. Vijay Sivaprakasam (Digital Coverage Specialist)

At the end of the day’s competition, Badminton Won and Friendship prevailed. Going back from

GAME POINT TO LOVE ALL

Article by: Santhosh

A Maverick & a passionate Badminton player

Enthusiastic Participants

Mavericks Badminton Club (Homepage): https://www.wearemavericks.org/ Tournament Page: https://www.wearemavericks.org/tournament Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/Mavericks162021

The club members play regularly on all weekends from 7 am to 9 am in the vicinity of Tseung Kwan O. Any person who wishes to join the club can contact Mr. Kuldeepak Sethi (KD) at 98591160.

Tournament Jersey

EOC Stages Racial Diversity & Inclusion

SPORTS DAY 2024

15th Anniversary of the Race Discrimination Ordinance

With 2024 marking the 15th anniversary of the coming into force of the Race Discrimination Ordinance, the Equal Opportunities Commission (EOC) kicked off celebrations for this milestone by successfully organising the Racial Diversity & Inclusion Sports Day 2024 today on the campus of the Event Partner The Hang Seng University of Hong Kong. Officiating at the ceremony were Mr Cheuk Wing-hing, GBS, JP, Deputy Chief Secretary for Administration of the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region (HKSAR) Government, Ms Linda Lam Mei-sau, SBS, Chairperson of the EOC, and EOC Members.

Showcasing the power of sports, the Sports Day aimed to promote the values of racial integration, mutual respect and collaboration among people of diverse races, making Hong Kong a more inclusive and harmonious society. Teams including celebrities and multi-racial representatives from the disciplinary forces played an invitational dodgeball game at the start of the day, followed by schools and corporates teams participating in various sports activities, including 3-on-3 basketball and 6-on6 dodgeball competitions.

The event also featured booths and games related to fundamental movement skills, allowing participants of all abilities to take part in the event and further promoting a healthier lifestyle.

Speaking at the ceremony, Mr Cheuk Wing-hing, GBS, JP, Deputy Chief Secretary for Administration of the HKSAR Government said:

“The Government has been committed to promoting equal opportunities in accessing public services by citizens regardless of their races, and fostering the integration of people from different ethnic groups to build a caring and inclusive society. Promulgating racial

inclusion and creating a harmonious society calls for the collaboration and support of the entire society. The Racial Diversity and Inclusion Sports Day allows participants of different ethnicities, backgrounds, ages, and professions to make friends through sports and enable communication through games and competition. I am very delighted to see members of the public from the sports, education and corporate sectors, community organsations and my fellow colleagues from Government Departments taking part in the Racial Diversity and Inclusion Sports Day, joining hands in building a more

diverse and inclusive society through practical actions.”

Ms Linda Lam Mei-sau, Chairperson of the EOC welcomed all the guests, participants and audience to the ceremony. She stated: “This is truly a special occasion – not only because

Sports Day aimed to promote the values of racial integration, mutual respect and collaboration

Mr Cheuk Wing-hing, GBS, JP, Deputy Chief Secretary for Administration of the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region (HKSAR) Government (fourth from left), Ms Linda Lam Mei-sau, SBS, Chairperson of the EOC (third from right) perform the opening ceremony along with other guests.

this is my first participation in racial diversity and inclusion event since taking up the position as the Chairperson of the EOC 10 days ago, but also this is the first time we are promoting the message of diversity, equality and inclusion through a sporting event. What’s more, today’s event marks the official start of our celebrations to commemorate the 15th anniversary of the entry into force of the Race Discrimination Ordinance, a seminal piece of law that has changed the racial equality landscape in Hong Kong.”

The Sports Day received strong support from various sectors. Sixteen primary and secondary schools participated in the 6-on-6 dodgeball competition. After multiple rounds of intense competition, the Secondary division championship was claimed by the team from Delia Memorial School (Glee Path), while Tsing Yi Trade Association Primary School came out on top in the Primary division. Ten corporates also took part in the 3-on-3 basketball tournament, with EY emerging as the champion.

Mr Cheuk Wing-hing, GBS, JP, Deputy Chief Secretary for Administration of the HKSAR Government is delighted to see members of different sector taking part in the Racial Diversity and Inclusion Sports Day, joining hands in building a more diverse and inclusive society through practical actions.

Participants of the sports day show enthusiasm and fully enjoy the

A public body in Hong Kong that enforces anti-discrimination laws and promotes equality. It was created in 1996 as the city's first semigovernmental body focused on anti-discrimination. For media enquiries, please contact: Sam Ho, Tel: 2106 2187, Email: samho@eoc. org.hk

Ms Linda Lam Mei-sau, SBS, Chairperson of the EOC gives a speech at the opening ceremony.

Ms Linda Lam Mei-sau, SBS, Chairperson of the EOC (ninth from right), Professor FU Ho Ying, Jeanne, Vice President of The Hang Seng University of Hong Kong (Learning and Student Experience) (seventh from left) in a group photo with invitational tournament guests.

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TOUCH LIGHT The

A Value-based Holistic Leadership Development Program for Children by the Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Centre in Hong Kong.

Children are the saplings of society. Better nurtured the saplings, stronger the societal tree. Combining this fact with the concept of “World Transformation Through Self-transformation” resulted in a unique Children’s Holistic Leadership Development Program called “Touch The Light”.

So, what is it about “Light” in this program? And why do we need to “Touch” the Light?

Light is symbolic of energy, in this case our inner energy source – the Soul. Everything we do in life is done by the Soul. Everything else, including our body, are accessories or tools to the Soul. Each one is a Soul. Loss of this knowledge from individuals and society has led to deterioration on Values. We have made the Soul dormant and treat our identity as a body. Touching of the Light means to revive the memory that we are a Soul. Once this memory is revived, it brings to the fore all virtues of the Soul. In fact, virtues are already embedded in the Soul, but they are dormant. It is required to revive those virtues and live life based on them.

What our society needs more of is Value-based Leaders who can steer the world to more inspiring directions. What better time than to “catch them young”, thus the focus of “Touch The Light” is children.

The foundational concept of Touch The Light (also the concept of Brahma Kumaris Raja Yoga Centre) – “World Transformation Through Self-transformation” is implemented keeping the following key principles in mind:

Children are like SAPLINGS Given the right environment, they grow into Giant Trees, serving the society & the world.

A Journey of 1000 miles starts with that ONE, single, humble step

• Excellence is not a revolution but an EVOLUTION. An inch improved everyday soon becomes a Transformation before we know it.

Some Leaders are born, but the majority are DEVELOPED. The ones developed know the secrets of Success and hence are able to groom other leaders.

These and similar guiding principles form the basis of all material and methods of conducting the sessions of “Touch The Light”.

Touching Inner Divinity

The “Touch The Light” program is the channelization of children’s energy in developing their core values like Peace, Love, Contentment, Happiness, etc.

In simple terms, “Touching their Inner Divinity”.

The key concept here is that every human Soul has the potential to be divine, since the virtues that make-up divinity are already embedded in the soul, lying dormant there, waiting for us to realize and activate them.

This concept is implemented in “Touch The Light” via a simple and practical “5E Framework” illustrated below.

The Holistic Leader

We believe that a holistic leader is one who balances and takes care of all three aspects of the personality framework – One’s own Self, One’s Relationships and the Universe. Across the

three Terms of the “Touch The Light” program, children evolve each of these aspects of their personality through a systematic approach illustrated below.

A peek into the “Touch The Light” Weekly Session

The principles and frameworks described in the prior sections are bundled in and brought to the children in the weekly “Touch The Light” sessions.

Each session is conducted by a “Touch The Light” Mentor who is usually a long-term practitioner of the Raja Yoga Spiritual Lifestyle and the “Touch The Light” framework.

To customize the approach as per the age of the child, the children are divided into two batches – age group 5 to 9 years called “The Enlightened Souls” and age group 1015 years called “The Flying Angels”.

Brahma Kumaris teacher Ms. Deepa Budhdev doing group meditation with Children at the Bra Centre in Tung Chung

Each weekly session has the following structure:

• Icebreaker: usually a sharing by children what happened in their life over the last week

• Pre-session Meditation: To bring the focus to the session, the children participate in a thematic group Meditation, usually led with a commentary by the Mentor.

• Theme of the Week: A main theme of the week is the central piece of the session. Each theme is derived from the principles and frameworks of “Touch The Light”.

• Activity Time: Based on the age group, activities can involve story time, book reading, moral-based puzzles & games, creating crafts based on the theme, our festivals, important personalities, etc.

• Post-session Meditation: When the clock strikes, the session is completed with a group Meditation.

• Wind-up: We make it a point that the children participate

in the wind-up activities of putting the classroom back in order – learning to take responsibility.

• Toli & Drishti: Toli is a spiritually prepared snack. At the end of each session, children receive a Toli as they make their way out. A very important concept in Raja Yoga is the “Drishti” or divine vision, which is an exchange of energy through eyes while remaining in Soul Consciousness. The Soul sends out and receives energy through the eyes and hence children receive the Toli from the Mentor through an exchange of Dristi between the child and the Mentor.

• Homework and Activity for Parents: With each session, children take back a relevant homework with them. Through a “session report” that goes to the children and parents, the latter are informed about what they can do with the child to know more about the week’s session or to jointly work on the homework.

This is how each “Touch The

Light” session is conducted. It goes without saying that children like these sessions which is seen from their high level of interaction and excitement. In fact, a regular feedback from parents is that their child does not allow any other activities to come in the way of the “Touch The Light” sessions and if something tries to creep in disrupting the session, children voluntarily talk to their teacher or coach to see if that other activity can be rescheduled.

With Cooperation From Members of the Society

As the great Mahatma Gandhi said – “Be the Change that you would like to see in the world”. Children are in the mouldable stage of life and hence their minds and intellects if equipped with the right tools, can empower them to become the change catalysts of society. As adults and mentors in the society, we have the daunting challenge of developing Next Generation Leaders, One Child At A Time. The Touch the Light program has accepted this challenge and aims to develop these leaders with the cooperation of all members of the society. We take this opportunity to express our gratitude to the members for supporting this program by nominating their children to participate. We would like to seek such continued cooperation from the society.

May the Light Shine Forth.

The “Touch The Light” program is conducted at the following Raja Yoga Centres:

Tung Chung:“Lighthouse”, Flat 19G, Tower-15, Caribbean Coast, 1 Kin Tung Road, Tung Chung.

Contact: 6195-2404.

Kowloon: “Mighthouse”, Flat 23A, 5th Floor, Ocean View Court, 21-23 Chatham Road South, Tsim Sha Tsui.

Contact: 2368-4693.

https://rajayogahk.com

Article by:

Ms. Deepa Budhdev

The Mentor - Ms. Deepa Budhdev - has been a Children's Value Education practitioner for more than 15 years. She is also a Senior Raja Yoga Teacher of the Brahma Kumaris, for nearly 2 decades now. In the past, Ms. Deepa has been a certified and award-winning Montessori Teacher, thus possessing the required acumen to mentor and nurture children.

Sunday Market Day is around the corner!!

Speak up for your jewelry and stand out!

Nowadays, it takes a certain amount of creativity and thinking out of the box to stand out and provide your clients with a product they can trust and ultimately achieve 'brand loyalty.' The Psychology of Social PR lies in successfully executing a brand activation that can be repurposed on multiple onsite and digital platforms. The term Social PR simply means the combination of Public Relations and Social Media Marketing. The skill of enhancing it lies in finding ways to use strategic communications on your owned platforms and building focus and traffic onto your platforms. As I often say to small business owners, the only way to find creative ways of looking at public relations is to understand that every point of your business related to the public can be used as a driver of your social PR.

At the beginning of my career as a Public Relations practitioner, I remember how relying on events and activations was a tool to turn traditional PR into Social PR. This may seem confusing because we often see PR and eventing as separate entities that work separately but eventually align to get your name out there. I spent many years researching and executing creative events to align key communication goals that assist clients in

reaching their communication goals and converting their efforts into a brand enhancement exercise. Using those tools for smaller brands and witnessing the impact it has is enough proof that the communication industry is evolving and innovative.

How do we connect your Sunday Market Day jewelry stall to Social PR?

Having a mindset that all

your connected conversation starters with your clients are a form of strategic communication can create consistency in solidifying your brand's core values. Let's make a customer journey to help you figure out how to improve your communication goals.

Imagine that Maggie, 'the laid-back and fun fashionista,' is coming to town and excited to enjoy a day at a Sunday Market. As usual,

she is wearing her sequence dress and pairing it with bold earrings and a sophisticated bracelet that compliments the colors on her dress. She loves unique pieces of jewelry and is looking forward to finding something special. She plans to enjoy a relaxed and beautiful day out in the sun and out of the house.

Maggie has been to numerous of these Sunday Markets and enjoys returning home with handmade or

bespoke items that she can add to her unique collection. This has become part of her ''downtime and helps her create a relaxed and proactive time for her busy schedule. Like most of us, Maggie must be intentional with her purchases, even with all the options and ideas presented at every sale, shop, or marketplace.

1. Lead Maggie every step of the way!

Upon deciding to go to the market, Maggie most likely visited her WhatsApp groups to see if any other ladies were attending a similar event. She would have at least seen one or two social media posts before the Sunday Market. By now, she is most likely following or aware of some of the displayed products. Remember, this is a personal experience she values; helping her achieve this will make your brand go to extraordinary lengths.

2. Explore and expand on your thoughts around fashion and jewelry!

To catch her attention, plan your content and preview it on your social media space and your website. Applying more effort to creating small write-ups and videos on critical pieces on your online platforms could keep her interested. Remember, she is a lady looking for a good fashion experience. As part of building your content, include some style tips to inspire her and keep her excited about the value she is getting by affiliating with your brand. Capture the fun moments and connect the vibes she seeks by creating further personal stories about your brand. Maggie is already

following a few jewelry pages and often spends some time following how they engage and are interested in other types of information around jewelry; try to expand your conversations on your platforms to talk about sustainability, the history of your pieces, and some valuable information about how you hand make or source them.

3. Create a vibe for Maggies!

Compliment her style and asses her taste. Make sure you start a good conversation about her choice of style and patterns and lead her into looking at pieces that transcend her fashion sense. Personalize your conversations and give examples of how each piece has the power to transform her style. Take her through a daily routine of special events and let her focus on her style and how your unique jewelry is just what she needs for her next girls' night out, dinner date, or holiday destination. Maggie needs you to step into her fashion world a little and get her excited about your pieces. She also appreciates the background and history of your brand.

Maggie always looks for a vibe with her fashion and ideas to express her personality. She is always looking for ways to express herself, and if your brand resonates with her and allows her to become more creative, she will surely spread the word and have a lot of fun with your unique pieces.

4. Let her know that you care!

To finalize the consistent conversations with Maggie, send her a 'Thank you message to create a more personal relationship with her. Open yourself to a diverse conversation and look towards a morning coffee with some of your best clients to share your ideas and solidify your brand.

While these tips can be fun and easy to execute, it's important to remember that a solid and straightforward strategic communication and brand enhancement plan is the key to taking your brand to the next level. Such a plan can provide a long-term approach to brand building, supporting you in expanding your story and creatively showcasing your brand to your clients.

Ultimately, the most essential thing is to find your voice and creative personality for your brand.

Article by:

Tidimalo Shabalala

Tidi is a Communication Specialist with over 12 years of working experience and the Founder of Tidi Consulting Limited based in Hong Kong. Her passion lies in supporting start-ups and infl uencers by enhancing their brands using creative ways to expand their share of voice. She has worked for global agencies as a communications manager and lead at TBWA network affi liates Magna Carta, Ogilvy South Africa, and Fleishman Hillard South Africa.

Founder of Tidi Consulting Limited – Strategic Communication and Brand Enhancement)

Email : tidimalo. manamela@gmail.com

What Really Happens to the Soul?

How to Overcome Mental Blocks, Use Energy Healing to Release Negative Patterns.

Answering your burning questions about spirituality in everyday life.

This is Shanti from Lohas Park, I’ve recently started meditating but every time I do it, I feel so distracted and can’t seem to sit down for more than 10 minutes. How can I overcome this?

Dear Shanti, I understand it is difficult to be able to bring the mind and body to a state of stillness and spend time deepening the connection with our spiritual energy.

This is quite common when we have busy schedules and lifestyles, and we are in an environment that is fast paced.

My name is Nitesh from Kowloon, I tried an energy healing session, but I could not really feel a big difference. I know people who have had good results with it, how can I make it work for me? I am experiencing a lot of pain which makes it hard for me to sleep or work.

Dear Nitesh, it is great that you are exploring alternative healing.

It helps to release any resistance to going deeper into your meridians and life patterns.

Our mind gets used to having to think very fast and will continue even when we are not engaged in something. We may be constantly thinking of the past and future.

“This leaves volatile energy in the body and can sometimes manifest into longer term mental challenges.”

If the emotional and physical conditions have been there for a long time, then they do create deep patterns which can take some time and awareness to shift but it is not impossible.

It would be healthier to set the expectation for gentle and long-term recovery where you are able to talk to

“Imagine an onion with many layers, the core of the onion is your true self which is free. The many layers are things which we have accumulated, and they can turn into blockages.”

The best approach is to not force yourself, but to listen to your mind and help meet its needs so it can calm down a bit.

If your mind is very busy, you can stop and talk about what is going through your mind or journal those thoughts.

Once you have allowed your mental space to empty out, then you can say “thank you, now I am ready with an empty mind to meditate”.

As you progress you will learn to be an observer of thoughts and will allow them to pass through while you gently bring yourself back to your center and remain connected in the meditation sessions.

your practitioner about how you are feeling and work through the energy healing treatments.

These become chronic and can interfere with many areas of life. It takes time to peel back those layers and return to your core.

It helps to spend time sharing your personal history, talking through each session, and having clear intentions of what to clear before the energy session.

These three things combined with patience and faith will help you see great results in your body and your mind over time.

My name is Nisha from Tung Chung. Recently I have been feeling very jealous and I believe in karma and the law of attraction. I really want to stop feeling this way because I am sure it’s not good. How can I stop?

Dear Nisha, thank you for being brave enough to say this. It takes great selfawareness to break our negative patterns.

Every emotion has a polar opposite, so try to understand what jealousy is saying about your own inner needs.

Take some time to sit in the observer seat. You may be feeling disappointment or shame for feeling this way, but just for a moment, try to look at it from a third person perspective.

Spend some time journaling and asking yourself ‘what is it

about this person or situation that is causing me to feel jealous.

Keep asking why at least five times to go as deep as possible.

In the end, you may find that there is an unmet need that you would like to work on, and this can help you focus on your own inner journey.

Remember, the more we celebrate others, the more positive energy we emit which helps us on our own journey too.

My name is Lisa from Discovery Bay, I know we are a spirit in a body, and I would like to know what happens to our spirit after we pass from this Earth plane?

Dear Lisa, our time on Earth and beyond are all connected.

The quality of the spiritual energy we channel through our minds and bodies will reflect in our reality, health, mindset, relationships, abundance, healing abilities and manifestations.

Based on research on near death experiences (NDE), I’ve learned that people who haven’t been ‘living their best values here’, and haven’t resolved certain soul lessons, spend more time working through density on an energetic plane until they can review life and their lessons.

“When

the physical body decomposes, our spirit or our individual soul, has a mission to return back to source, the creator.”

Their soul may take some time, a more difficult passage back to source, but nonetheless, it does return.

“You can also see other people as reflections and teachers, which can help you feel more positive towards them.”

While on Earth, we are on this journey back to unconditional love, we try to express it through our relationships, our work, our children, our pets. We keep learning and relearning these lessons in preparation to return to source.

Article by: Anisa Tan,

Anisa is a South AfricanAustralian Healing Practitioner living in Hong Kong. She is passionate about exploring energy healing in the modern world and teaching people how to fi nd simple, practical solutions to embrace their journeys. She runs an online holistic healing platform called Higher Heart Holistic.

If you would like to connect, then please send an email to: higherheartglobal@ gmail.com Whatsapp: +85253377640 www. higherheartholistic.com

AUNTY MVP

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Hello Mrs. Mehta, I know you personally but would prefer to remain anonymous and ask you my question through A-Desi flava. I'm going through depression and anxiety because of my son's recent lifestyle changes. He does not listen to anything we say as parents, and just feels that his parents are dumb and don't know anything. He prefers to go with the advice given to him by strangers and his friends and their parents, rather than listening to us. He is in his early teens, and I'm really worried that he might get into some wrong things in life, for which he may never be able to take a U turn. He's our only child and I really don't know how to communicate with him, to understand from him, what he wants to do in life, what he wants to pursue after he finishes his Uni and a lot many things. I don't mind discussing with him, even his personal life. I just want to feel more closer to him like he was when he was a kid.

Please share some honest advice.

Dear concerned mother,

It may seem surprising that young children can be incredibly challenging from a parent's perspective. They can be stubborn in their attempts to establish their independence and individuality. However, your role as a parent is crucial. By listening to your son, validating his feelings, and acknowledging his individuality, you are providing a safe space for him to grow. As children grow, they are unhappy with how much their parents listen to them at home, and their feeling of being listened to is associated with overall happiness.

"A mother's love is endless, her worries ceaseless."

Adolescents feeling unhappy at school or home need sympathetic adults who recognize their challenges, offer special support, and are willing to walk alongside them. As parents, you have the power to make a difference. Instead of blaming your son for his behaviour, offer understanding and support. This approach can prevent him from becoming more stubborn and rebellious, and may result in potential crises.

As a mother, you have to be aware that your son's behaviour is not to upset you. It is usual for young children to be anti-social, rebellious, defiant and

at times even verbally aggressive.

Furthermore, it is the law of nature that hormones work slowly over time and affect many different processes in children's growth and development.

"A mother's love is endless, her worries ceaseless."

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Namaste Aunty MVP, my name is Vinod and I've recently moved back to India. I've lived in Hong Kong for over 10 years and finally we decided to move back to India for good. My family and I are not able to cope up with the lifestyle of living in Chennai compared to living in HK. We enjoyed our stay in HK and made some very good friends. We feel like coming back to HK, but as everyone knows the future of HK is not stable and very indecisive, what is your advise with my situation?

Dear Vinod, It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves."

I understand you are missing out on lifestyle and good friends. Well! in my opinion there is no guarantee of what future holds for anyone of us.

Unlike our experiences as kids, we relearn how to do everything with a lifetime of experience and present understanding at our disposal. This is either where people sink or swim when faced with difficult situations. Keep the

"You can't move to the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one."

balance with positive thinking. When you strike that balance, the world truly opens up, and you can see the possibilities as never before. Trust in yourself and the Almighty.

"You can't move to the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one."

Since you and your family have made a conscious decision, all you have to do is change your mindset. The transition takes time. Soon, you will be able to find new friends and settle into your routine. Best Wishes!

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Hi Aunty, I’m Sachin from Tai Koo. I've recently lost my job and its been over 4 months. I am trying to stay as calm, stable and relaxed as much as possible, but the fear of being jobless for such a long period has never happened in my entire life. Now slowly boredom is taking a toll over me, and i've started feeling anxious and bit scared. I've been trying to apply for Jobs almost every day and also interviews are happening, but nothing is working out. Maybe its just the sad phase of my life or my stars are not in favour. What do you suggest i do to keep myself occupied and busy? I'm not the business types person, because my entire life i've only worked as a professional. Your help will be very much appreciated.

Dear Sachin,

Firstly, recognize it's not your fault.

Losing your job and adjusting to unemployment can take time. Go easy on yourself, and don't attempt to hide your feelings. If you allow yourself to feel what you feel, even the most unpleasant, negative feelings will pass.

Poonam V Mehta

Stay interested in your social life; attend seminars and increase your network.

"If you believe in yourself, are dedicated, take pride in your work, and never quit, you'll be a winner."

You are not the only one in this situation; you rightly said to keep yourself occupied. Learn new skills or go online, take some courses simultaneously, keep applying, and never quit.

"If you believe in yourself, are dedicated, take pride in your work, and never quit, you'll be a winner."

but i think he fears of sharing his property and wealth with wife and children, hence he does not want to take the decision. Do you suggest i get out of this relationship and end this forever?

Dear Anonymous Reader,

I appreciate your kind words.

Please look into your future; five years is a long time for him to consider since he fears his assets, which clearly shows his insecurities. What rightly belongs to his wife and children, he should deal with it first. He cannot deprive his family. It appears he is using you as a companion to satisfy his needs.

him and go for some casual relationship with other men. Please help!

Dear Shani,

Please note that it is common for the couple to be away from each other. You suspect that his behaviour suggests he is in a relationship.

Hold on to your integrity. Take care.

"If you believe in yourself, are dedicated, take pride in your work, and never quit, you'll be a winner."

job, she will be in a very difficult situation. The helper is very honest, extremely good with cleaning and other household chores, but the main thing we need is good food, and she is worst at this thing. What do you suggest i do with her?

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Hello Aunty MVP, i prefer to keep myself anonymous, thanks to A-Desiflava for this wonderful column. Your column is the first thing i read whenever i get a copy of A-Desiflava. Aunty, I've separated with my husband for over 10 years now. Now, I'm in a relationship with a married man who is 15 years older to me. He keeps telling me he wants to stay with me always and also get married to me, but this story has been going on for over 5 years now. He for sure also does not live with his wife and children due to personal family issues at his side. I've been pushing him to finish his other side family story and then get married to me,

Wakeup and face reality, you deserve much more.

His words mean nothing when his actions are just the opposite. A relationship built upon fake promises will crumble at any given time. Please rethink about yourself and your future.

Wakeup and face reality, you deserve much more.

Hello Maam, I'm Shani from Sri Lanka. I'm working as a helper in Hong Kong from the past 12 years now. My husband is also working in HK as a driver. We only meet on Sunday's and spend time together. He lives alone and i live with my employer. My husband is not the same every time i meet him, and i think he is in casual relationships with some other girls in HK. He's a smart guy and its very easy for him to engage with other girls. I don't know how to confront him and ask him, or how shall i make sure he is honest and not cheating on me? he always has his mobile locked and does not let me touch it even. Sometimes i feel that i should also do the same with

Find time to go out with him, share your feelings, and attempt to understand each other. Let him know you have been missing him. Show empathy and ask him why he is quite concerned. It may be a temporary phase, so stay calm. Confrontation does not help. Besides, avoid falling into his steps.

Hold on to your integrity. Take care.

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Hi, I'm Reena from TST. I need some serious help with my Nepali helper. She was hired based on checking her cooking skills on a video call before we hired her. After she came to HK, I found that she's not at all good at cooking. After detailed discussion with her, she admitted that she was working in a restaurant in Nepal and she would always show us the video from the restaurant where she used to work. I feel cheated, but every time I discuss with her, she keeps crying and saying that she is very poor and the only financial support for her family back in Nepal. If she is removed from this

Dear Reena, You appear compassionate and caring. Although initially she lied, perhaps she was desperate to get the job to meet her family's needs. Appreciate her skills in other areas. Thankfully, she is clean and honest in performing household chores.

Find time to teach her basic cooking, download some recipes of your choice, and let her try under your guidance. No one is perfect! Good Luck!

If you ever need any advice come to Aunty for help. Please send us your questions by email to adesiflava@gmail.com with subject line : Aunty MVP

In Love, Light & Healing

Article by: Poonam V Mehta President (M. Ed. Guidance &

Counselling) Educator & Counsellor

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UNLOCKING THE SECRETS OF NUMBERS

Have you ever found yourself gazing at the clock at exactly 11:11? Spotting repeating numbers unexpectedly, or even winning with specific numbers in Macao casinos. Yep, you guessed it- Numerology is all about how numbers influence our lives.

Where does it originate from and what can it offer?

Numerology, with roots in ancient Egyptian and Babylonian cultures, also appeared in ancient Rome, China, Greece, and Japan. It is widely believed that Pythagoras developed a structured system. Today, Numerology draws from these historical roots and has become mainstream, influencing major decisions relating to personal and professional events through the deeper meanings and vibrations of numbers tied to personal details like birthdays and names. This practice offers insights into personal traits, future events, and life purpose, often guiding important life decisions based on numbers perceived as lucky.

Numerology 101:

Numerology relies on the single digits 1-9, as they form the base of all other numbers. Any number can be simplified to a single digit by summing its components (e.g., 15 becomes 6; 531 becomes 9). To apply this, start by noting your birthdate in digits, for e.g., if born on March 18, 1989, the root number, derived from the day alone (1+8=9), captures your core traits and mindset. The destiny number, obtained by adding all date digits together (1+8+3+1+9+8+9=39, then 3+9=12, finally 1+2=3), reflects your path in life, including career and personal aspirations. Use these calculations to further explore your personality and life goals by filling up your date of birth in below grid.

symbolizing peak potential. Recharge with at least 10 minutes of sunlight daily.

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Amber, Citrine, Carnelian, Ruby

Root Number 2 (Born on 2, 11, 20 or 29 of any month)

Planet: Moon

Leads with heart, emotional, loving, diplomatic, and intuitive. Powered by emotional energy to reach goals. People like to be around you as you are excellent listener and naturally caring, making you a well-liked natural healer.

Tips: Avoid being too sensitive. Recharge daily with at least 10 minutes of moon energy.

Lucky gemstones/ Crystals: Moonstone, Pearl, Aquamarine, Selenite

Root Number 3 (Born on 3, 12, 21 or 30 of any month)

Planet: Jupiter

Creative, unconventional thinkers who are passionate about learning and sharing knowledge, making excellent mentors and counselors. However, their complex personalities can be hard to comprehend at times.

Tips: Take breaks from work and manage your ego.

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Amethyst, Citrine, Green Aventurine, Ametrine, Yellow sapphire

Root Number 4 (Born on 4, 13, 22 or 31 of any month)

Planet: Uranus (Rahu)

Principled and practical with a no-nonsense attitude, these highly organized and

Root Number 1(Born on 1, 10, 19 or 28 of any month)

Planet: Sun

Possess excellent leadership and communication abilities, along with intelligence, creativity, and ambition. Naturally stands out and thrives in leadership roles.

Ambitious and zeal to prosper. Usually the center of attraction and do well in positions of authority. Very punctual and commitment to success. Protectors of their own community/people.

Tips: Control impatience and ego, work diligently, and be patient. The sun is brightest at midday,

original thinkers thrive on challenges and revolutionary ideas, often excelling in strategic and planningintensive roles. However, their restlessness may lead them to solitude.

Tips: Good at organizing and strategy but to enhance execution, focus on shortterm goals.

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Smoky quartz, Hematite, Black tourmaline

Root Number 5 (Born on 5, 14 or 23 of any month)

Planet: Mercury

Dynamic and adventurous, these individuals are intelligent, dislike routine, and excel in fields like business, writing, and marketing due to their quick thinking. They are eloquent, humble, and value family, boasting a charming personality. Always seeking

novelty, they thrive on change.

Tips: Practice meditation to manage routine frustration and moderate your diet to prevent health issues.

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Aquamarine, Citrine, Garnet, Green Emerald, Amethyst

Root Number 6 (Born on 6, 15 or 24 of any month)

Planet: Venus

Peacemaker, charming, and loyal, they enjoy a luxurious lifestyle and are highly intelligent. Known for their warmth and loving dedication to family, they excel in keeping unity. Their artistic and fashion prowess makes them ideal for careers in fashion and beauty.

Tips: While always eager to help others, you sometimes face deceit in return.

Root Number 7 (Born on 7, 16 or 25 of any month)

Planet: Neptune (Ketu)

Wisdom, analytical skills, and spiritual depth characterize individuals who excel in seeing beyond the ordinary. Ideally suited for researchoriented careers, they thrive in fields requiring profound knowledge such as occult sciences, philosophy, healing, and astrology.

Tips: Avoid overthinking to achieve clarity.

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Clear quartz, Selenite, Cat’s eye, Lapis Lazuli

Root Number 8 (Born on 8, 17 or 26 of any month)

Planet: Saturn

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Moonstone, Rhodonite, Rose quartz

Ambitious, skilled, and practical with excellent business acumen and a humble attitude. Success comes from hard work rather than shortcuts. Ideal careers include manufacturing, engineering, or technical fields.

Tips: Persistence and perseverance are key to achieving goals.

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Hematite, Garnet, Pyrite, Blue Sapphire

Root Number 9 (Born on 9, 18 or 27 of any month)

Planet: Mars

Enthusiastic and creative, they possess wisdom and stamina, driven by a desire to solve global issues. With a commanding presence and determination, they lead courageously and are passionate about charity, striving to improve the world.

Tips: Misdirected energy can cause frustration. Redirect anger into ambition through controlled aggression.

Lucky gemstones/Crystals: Turquoise, Citrine, Amethyst, Ametrine next month this section will delve into the predictions for the year 2024 based on the individual Root Numbers, providing valuable insights and guidance for the year.

Article by:

Abhishek Kinger

Abhishek is a Product Manager at Target, plays tennis for fitness, stock market investments on the side and is a Numerology enthusiast. He enjoys listening to good music and loves using AI to mix some beats as a hobby. Feel free to connect via Instagram @abhishekkinger or Linkedin.

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Aries

Ganesha says people with Aries zodiac signs can get many types of good news. Married people will experience happiness in their domestic life. There will be new energy in relationships. Although there may be distance for some time in the relationship of people living a love life, this will improve your chemistry. Romance will increase in the relationship and you will also feel attraction towards your partner. This month the movement of planets is in your favor, due to which you can buy a big property. This month you may get a chance to buy a new car. You can do the work of decoration and interior designing of your home. This month you may have to spend a little more, but your income will increase. For this, you will also work very hard. The work of those employed will be strengthened. Your tuning with seniors will be better. Your name will be in the office and your position and prestige will increase. If you do any business you will get good results. People associated with the creative field are also hopeful of success this month. Talking about students, they may

have to face some problems in their studies. From a health point of view, you will need to take care of your health right now. By paying attention to small problems, you can avoid big problems. Stomachrelated problems can cause more trouble this month.

Taurus

Ganesha says people with the Taurus zodiac sign will look very romantic this month. You will have some problems, but the good thing is that you will be successful in maintaining better harmony in your relationship. This month can be a bit troublesome for married couples. You will be worried about your spouse's job. This month you may get some new opportunities, but to keep yourself in the right position, you will have to work hard in your career. Employed people will have to face problems. You will feel uncomfortable even maintaining your position. You will have to work hard to remain in the job. You may also face problems from colleagues in the office. There may also be a fight with them. You also need to maintain good coordination with your superiors, because at this time they will support you less, which will cause you problems. People doing business can get support from their father. It will be beneficial for you to deal with some new people for business. Your income will also be better this month, due

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to which your confidence will also remain high. With this all your work will be done. Talking about students, their performance in studies will be better now. Due to planetary influences, you will be able to perform well in some nontraditional courses. From a health point of view, you will need to take care of your health right now. You will have to pay more attention in the second phase of the month. There may be businessrelated trips this month.

Gemini

Ganesha says this month will add charm to your life. In many cases, you will get good results. However, married people may face problems in domestic life due to their behavior. Well, your spouse will support you. This month will be good for your love life. You can attend some special party. Your mutual coordination will be better. There will be chances for employed people to get a promotion. For this, you should express gratitude to your seniors. If you are in a government job then you can get even better benefits. Along with getting benefits from the government sector, businessmen will also see improvement in their business. Your income will also increase. You may get financial benefits from investments made earlier. You can also get your pending money back. Talking about students, you will need some

more time to study. A lot of your time may be wasted on here and there activities. From a health point of view, you will have to take care of your health now. You may have to face some problems by showing unnecessary anger and immature behavior. Due to this, your health will remain weak. We can expect some good improvements in the second phase of the month. The second and fourth weeks of the month will be good for travel.

Cancer

Ganesha says the month is going to bring many good news for you. There will be happiness in family life. You will also feel happy at the sound of someone coming into the house. However, married people will feel some tension in their domestic life. Instead of fighting repeatedly with your spouse on this issue, it would be better if you talk to them and try to find a solution to the matter. In your love life, the distance from your beloved may increase for some time. They may have to go out for some work. In such a situation, you will be worried about them. Employed people will benefit from good relations with their superiors. You will get support from your colleagues, due to which you will concentrate fully on your work. Your performance will also improve. People doing business will get good results this month. Business deals that were stuck for a long

time will now start getting completed. You will come out of problems. Talking about students, this time will be somewhat weak for them. You will need to work hard in your studies. If you want to go out, you can get succeed if you try this month. From a health point of view, there is no major problem at present, but you will have to pay attention to your eating habits.

Leo

Ganesha says this month may prove to be better for people with the Leo zodiac sign. However, some problems will arise at the beginning of the month. There will be progress in the domestic life of married people. You may think about expanding your family with your spouse. You will also give full respect to each other's family members, which will further improve your relationship. This month is also good for love life. You should give some time to your beloved so that the problems between you can be resolved. This month, some of your biggest wishes will be fulfilled, which will increase your confidence. Employed people may get a job transfer. If you want to change jobs or are unemployed then you may have to wait. People doing business should expect success. There may be some new expansion in your business. If you want to invest in the stock market, then this month is likely to be good for that too. Talking about students, they will get good results in their studies. Students appearing for

competitive exams will have to concentrate more. From a health point of view, your health may remain weak right now. You may have to face the problem of high fever, headache, and high blood pressure, but the second phase of the month will be good.

Virgo

Ganesha says there may be tension in the domestic life of married

people. You will also be worried about your spouse's health. This month will be good for your love life. You may get a chance to go on a long journey with your beloved. Employed people need to avoid too much hustle and bustle this month and keep themselves calm. This month is going to be favorable for people associated with business. You can also get some good benefits from the government sector. If we talk about students, they will feel hindered in their studies right now. You will have to work hard to get the desired results. From a health point of view, you will have to take care of your health now. This month your immunity will also be weak and you may soon fall prey to disease. You will feel uncomfortable due to the infection. You will get relief by exercising and meditating. The second and third weeks of the month will be good for travel.

Ganesha says this month is going to be moderate for you. Married people will be troubled by tension in domestic life, but your life partner will try his best to support you, which will help in solving mutual problems. You can also propose marriage to your beloved. However, they may get angry with you for something you say. It would be good to maintain a light atmosphere among ourselves. You will have to work very hard. The more effort you put in, the more benefits you will get. You have to believe in yourself. Challenges will come and go, but you can overcome them with your ability. Employed people will have to face some difficulties at work. This may affect your performance, so try to do your best. Those doing business will have to face many challenges simultaneously, but in the second phase of the month you will be able to perform better and business will improve. Talking about students, time will be good for them. You will be happy after getting good results in your studies. This month is weak from a health point of view. take care of your health. Take a walk every morning and evening. Can also do yoga. Mental stress will also increase.

Scorpio

Ganesha says this month may be filled with ups and downs for you. There may be some problems in family life. Married people will enjoy their domestic life, but family issues may affect your personal life also. Consider this seriously. This month is good for loved life. You will try to keep your beloved away from the problems of your personal life and will be successful to some extent, due to which you will be able to enjoy your love life to the fullest. You will be happy if your loved one gets some good achievement. On the other hand, you may be worried about the deteriorating health of an elderly member of the family, which may increase tension in the family. There is a possibility of tension in financial matters also. Employed people also need to pay attention, because it can affect your family life. Mental stress can also affect your work. People doing business will get good results. You can also be successful in taking the family business forward. If we talk about students, they will get full time for studies. Your planning will be good, due to which your hard work will be successful. You may be successful in competitive examinations.

Libra

Sagittarius

Ganesha says this month is going to be better for Sagittarius people. You will be successful in achieving your goal. This month you can work as much as you want. The domestic life of married people will be full of happiness. Your spouse's heart will be full of love and there will be loving discussions between you two. This will increase your love. The atmosphere of the family will also be light. Time is good for a love life. You will help your beloved in many matters. By helping them with some important tasks, they will also support you in every way. Your relationship will become even more beautiful. This month is good for employed people. You will maintain better relations with your colleagues, which will further strengthen your position in the job. You will have to avoid arguing with anyone. Time is favorable for business people. This month you will finalize a new deal in business, due to which you will feel very confident. If we talk about students, they will be short of

time right now. In such a situation, you will have to take out time for studies. Ignore other things and concentrate on your studies. Time is also good from a health point of view.

Capricorn

Ganesha says there are going to be ups and downs in your life this month.

However, married people will experience good times in their domestic life. Your personal life will improve. You will get some new and decisive things from your spouse, which will be beneficial for the house. Time is challenging for a love life. At this time, you may see anger in your beloved, which may increase the tension between you. This month will be good from a financial point of view. Your shortcomings will be removed. There will be no worries about money and your financial condition will improve. There will also be chances of an increase in bank balance. You will get full support from brothers in the family. Your confidence will increase with the support of family members. This

employed people. You need to try to improve your work further. People doing business will have to face some challenges. Right now your understanding will also be a little weak. You may benefit from adding some new people with caution. Talking about students, it will be very important for them to concentrate on their studies, otherwise, they may have to face problems. From a health point of view, mental worries may bother you at this time. You will also have to take some care of your health. You may suffer from mental stress and it may also hurt your stomach.

Aquarius

Ganesha says this month is going to prove important for the people of the Aquarius zodiac sign. Married people may face some problems in their domestic life. Some things may happen with your spouse, due to which problems will arise between you. This month will be good for your love life. Some good news may come to your house. Family life will be happy. This month you will get a chance to look within yourself. This will be a time to learn from the mistakes you have made in the past. You will realize what you have done wrong and there is no need to repeat it. This will remove the burden from your mind. You will get relief from mental stress. Employed people will get better results. Your position in the job

will also become stronger. Business people can get benefits from the government sector. This time will also be beneficial for you due to any business plan. Talking about students, at this time they will be very positive about their studies and will pay a lot of attention to it.

Pisces

Ganesha says this month will be moderately fruitful for you. Married people will find happiness in family life. Will also do shopping for the family. This will be a time of progress for your children also. This month is weak for love life, so avoid taking any big steps. Do not propose your beloved for marriage right now. You will have to be careful in financial matters, because at this time your expenses may go out of control, which may worsen your financial condition. In such a situation, this month you will have to pay attention to money management. There will be work pressure on you at this time. You may be given more work in the office, which will cause you some trouble, but you will complete it to the best of your ability. Avoid being too emotional and do not think too much about anything, otherwise, you may fall ill. In business matters, work with your mind and not with your heart, only then you will be successful, otherwise, a big deal may get stuck. Talking about students, this time will be good for them. You can go abroad for studies, due to which your dream of going abroad can be fulfilled.

Aries

Ganesha says the month will be very auspicious and positive for Aries people. This month you will get a chance to live one of the most memorable days of your life. Any of your unfulfilled wishes may be fulfilled and your mind will be very happy. This will also have a positive effect on your health. This month you will be very busy with some projects and will achieve success in your work. Students will be successful in their favorite subjects this month and their studies will also progress. This month your respect and honor will increase and people will talk to you with more respect. This will be a very auspicious time for you when you will be able to accomplish your goals and realize your dreams. This month you will get a chance to create new and romantic relationships in your life. This month your love life will be very strong and you will have very pleasant and happy moments with your partner.

Taurus

Ganesha says this month will bring very good results for the Taurus people. Your day will generally be very good and you will achieve success in all areas of your life. You will be successful in impressing your superiors with your work as well as

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your working style. Your boss may praise your work and you will be motivated to work harder in your work. This month, great times are going to come in your relationships also. You will get a chance to spend more time with your family and friends and will be able to share your heart's feelings with them. This month, there can be a beautiful beginning of love in your friendship and you will be able to spend very happy and fun-filled moments with your friends. There will be no major problems regarding your health this month. You will take care of your health and remain healthy.

Gemini

Ganesha says for Gemini people, the month will be a bit unhealthy and restless from the beginning. In the beginning, you may have to face some healthrelated problems. Therefore, pay attention to your eating habits and stay healthy. People associated with business and jobs may have to work a little harder this month. You will have to work a little harder to complete your work. You may get a good opportunity to start new plans in your business. Therefore, promote your business this month and do new work. This month you may need to communicate more with your relatives. You will have to cooperate and help your relatives. This month you will have to pay a

little more attention to your speech. You will have to control your speech and not quarrel with anyone unnecessarily.

Cancer

Ganesha says this month is generally expected to be very good for Cancer people. This month you can get a lot of success in your work and you can also get the fruits of your hard work. In this month you need to pay more attention to your work and try to complete your work in a certain manner. There is a possibility of very good performance in your business this month. In this month, you may get a golden opportunity to start new dimensions and new projects in your business. You need to take care of your health this month. You should take care of your eating habits and include yoga and exercise in your daily routine. This will help in keeping both your body and mind healthy and strong. In this month you should also take care of spending time with your family.

Leo

Ganesha says this month may be challenging for you. Ordinary days may be difficult for you. You may have to remain more busy

with your work. Be careful in terms of health, because there is a danger of you becoming unwell this month. You may get a special gift from relatives which will make you happy. The sweet juice of love will rain in married life. Employed people will be very busy in their work and you will also get a lot of praise for your work. Those preparing for government jobs may get good news this month. You need to control your expenses, otherwise you may face problems later. Do not do any work with excessive enthusiasm, because you may be misunderstood. Complete your important tasks on time and maintain a budget for your income and expenses.

Virgo

Ganesha says this month is going to be very special for Virgo people. This month is going to be full of lots of success and happiness for you. You will get a very good start in the first week where you will get a lot of success in your work. In the second week, you will be successful in your work and you will be able to complete your work completely. This month will also be very good for you from a financial point of view where you can earn a lot of money in your business. In the third week, you will feel very happy with your spouse and you will be able to enjoy romantic moments with your lover. In the fourth week, you

will get a chance to spend a lot of time with your family and you will be able to share happiness with your family.

Libra

Ganesha says this month will be full of ups and downs for Libra people. You may have to face many challenges this month. You will need to pay attention to your thinking and way of working. This month you will have to understand your personality and try to improve your outlook. This may be a little difficult for you. You may have to work hard to complete your work on time. At this time you will need to spend more time with your friends and family. You will also have to take care of your health. You have to take time to keep your diet and exercise healthy. Could be good for you. At this time you may get success in your work. You may get a chance to spend time with your friends and family.

Scorpio

Ganesha says this month can be quite challenging for Scorpio people and most of the days can be painful for you. You will need to conduct your thinking and actions correctly from time to time. In this month you will have to try to give time to your family and loved ones also. Due to work pressure, you may be away from people

who may be very important to you. Therefore, organize your time wisely to maintain relationships with your loved ones. This month may also bring some challenges for your career. You may need to work harder in your work and you will have to humbly accept your struggles to complete your work on time. This month you may also need to pay attention to your business.

Sagittarius

Ganesha says this month is going to be very auspicious for you. This month you will get a good opportunity to achieve your goals and you will be able to do your work better. This month will be very favorable for you from the beginning and after the hustle and bustle of the day, you will also get a chance to spend time with your family. Financially, this month can prove to be very beneficial for you and you will get a chance to improve your financial situation. This month your passion for work will be very high and you will work very hard in your work. You will be successful in your work and you will be very excited about your work. This month will be very good for you in terms of business also and you will get new opportunities in business. You will get success in your business and you can also start new plans to expand your business.

Capricorn

Ganesha says the month will be very good for Capricorn people. This month will be very auspicious and successful for you. Your hard work and dedication will bring you many benefits and take you to the heights of success. You will get a chance to work with great zeal and enthusiasm in your workplace. This month you may get a chance to take responsibility for a new project and you can participate in it with enthusiasm. This will give you a good new experience and your work will also give you maximum benefits. Those working in the stock market will also get a chance to earn good profits in their investments this month. So pay attention to your investments and invest carefully. This month you will find many ways to earn money in business. You will get a chance to come up with new ideas and new methods in your business which will give you maximum profits.

Aquarius

Ganesha says the month will be full of difficulties for Aquarius people from the beginning. You may have to face stress and confusion in your work. You need to pass this month with patience and tolerance. This month can be a great time for you to start something new and good. You may get a chance to spend time with your friends and family. You will have to

take care of your health and pay special attention to your eating habits. This month you may get success in your work and get new opportunities. You should be careful in making new projects and investments in your business. You must manage your time and invest carefully for financial gain. You have to keep your financial condition in mind and control your expenses. This month you should focus on your family and family relationships.

Pisces

Ganesha says the month can be a bit challenging for Pisces people from the beginning. You may need to concentrate on your work and you will have to complete your work on time. You have to take care of your health, otherwise, you may feel tired. You will have to be careful in your business also, otherwise you may suffer losses. This month you may need to understand your relationships. You should communicate and interact with your partner intelligently. Communicating and interacting intelligently with your friends and family can also prove beneficial for you. This month you will have to pay attention to your financial situation. You have to understand and manage your expenses. You also have to understand your financial plans and plan them well.

Article by: Astrologer Chirag Bejan Daruwalla

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