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...by working together, we become better women, better sisters, better chapters and a better Fraternity.
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Jackie Brannon Stutts International President
Leadership Conference 2013 this past June primarily focused on risk management and explanation of changes made to the policies and procedures surrounding the topic. This fall, several difficult situations were made known to International Council and staff members by advisors and collegiate women from a few different chapters. They appropriately reached out to International Headquarters for help in mitigating their complicated circumstances. You can be proud of the leadership exhibited by these collegiate officers and advisors as they have led their chapters through these challenging situations. While inappropriate to discuss most of these, there is one situation that merits mentioning. As you may have heard, in September, the University of Alabama’s student newspaper published an article alleging discrimination in the Formal Recruitment process of the NPC organizations on campus, including Alpha Gamma Delta. Understandably, these allegations left many of you struggling with the information presented in the article. Alpha Gamma Delta has a clear, strong policy against discrimination. We expect our chapters everywhere to provide a home where women from all backgrounds are welcomed as sisters. By partnering with the university’s administration to increase chapter total and allow for Continuous Open Recruitment (COR), our members took a lead in building an inclusive chapter at the University of Alabama. From a difficult situation came an incredible opportunity to lead change among all of the NPC groups. Moving forward, Alpha Gamma Delta will continue to work with Psi Chapter collegians and alumnae to maintain an inclusive environment. As one Psi Chapter alumna stated in a recent message to me, “I am praying for unity as we move forward. Moving forward, much emphasis needs
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to be placed on sisterhood. Further emphasis needs to be placed on working together as one body.” By keeping a positive outlook in challenging times, we exhibit leadership. Additionally, by working together, we become better women, better sisters, better chapters and a better Fraternity. We’ve accomplished a lot in the past year by working together. Our chapters have had very successful Formal Recruitment results, with both the quantity and quality of new members. We’ve added two chapters to our chapter roll (Theta Omega-University of South Carolina and Lambda Gamma-Villanova University). With these efforts, we reached the largest number of collegiate members in our history. With the launch of the Learning Center, our new online training system, and a revamp of the Delta Experience, the Fraternity is continually evolving to better educate and inspire members. The Fraternity Housing Corporation (FHC) currently oversees the management of 14 properties, which is more than twice the original FHC growth projections. Be sure to find out more about the FHC on page 9. We are thriving financially, which allows us to continue growing. You can check out more highlights from the past fiscal year on page 5. These accomplishments are possible because of the partnership and collaboration of many, many Alpha Gams. Together, we can consistently push beyond the status quo to ensure that Alpha Gamma Delta is always an inspirational, impactful and Purposeful sisterhood. The holiday season is just around the corner. Enjoy these special times with your family and friends! Loyally,
Jackie Brannon Stutts International President
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Dear Editor (via the Fraternity’s Facebook Fan Page),
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I was disappointed with your health information in the [Summer 2013] Quarterly. New research shows that the more mammograms [women] have, the higher the incidence of breast cancer. Nothing was mentioned that you could have a blood test instead of the colonoscopy if you prefer, and it's $40. Then the colonoscopy if cancer is suspected. I did not see healthy diet mentioned. Articles abound on the internet that all major diseases can be cured with a healthy diet! That means cut the sugar, red meat, chemicals and do not eat GMO (genetically modified) food. (My husband and I) do not take vaccines and have never had the flu. As informed consumers, we have to be curious and take charge of our lives. That means doing research and stepping out of our comfort zone. As an educated populace, we have the ability to change lives. Why not report the new research instead of following blindly what does not work health wise? –Mariann Kaye, Epsilon Iota-University of Northern Colorado (Facebook message condensed due to space constraints. Visit our Facebook Fan Page at facebook.com/alphagammadelta for the complete message.)
Mariann, We're sorry you were disappointed. Due to the broad topic of the Summer 2013 Quarterly feature, we were unfortunately not able to cover everything in detail. There are definitely many ways to lead a healthy lifestyle, and we appreciate your perspective! Most importantly, we encourage all of our sisters to take control of their health, evaluate current research and health trends and make their own decisions about healthcare. Thank you for sharing your insight! Sincerely, Jill Lewman Harter Quarterly Editor
Thank you to the sisters who sent us feedback on Facebook or Twitter. Your comments are below: Scrolling through the @alphagammadelta Quarterly, who do I see? @lindsaymeleea! Alpha Gam is better because of you! –Ashley Pembleton, Gamma ZetaUniversity of Memphis
The “Be Your Best Self” article is fantastic! –Tera Barnhill, Epsilon Lambda-University of Central Missouri Our Most Popular Post
Look at @NovaAlphaGam being represented in the @alphagammadelta Summer Quarterly! Love my sisters! –Katherine Brindley, Lambda GammaVillanova University Love seeing how Maddy is still making an impact on others. Thanks to @alphagammadelta for recognizing her in the Summer Quarterly again. –Whitney Hicks, Epsilon Nu-University of Central Oklahoma @alphagammadelta Reading the latest issue of the #Quarterly! I love the “Be Your Best Self” feature! :) #AGDLove –Alicia Pilmore, Zeta Alpha-Eastern Michigan University 2 quarterly
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Over 979 of Alpha Gam’s Facebook fans liked this “Throwback Thursday” photo of Alpha-Syracuse University in 1905, making it our most popular Facebook post over the past few months! Not familiar with “Throwback Thursday?” It’s a social media trend of “throwing” it back to the past by sharing older photos. Check facebook.com/alphagammadelta for more “Throwback Thursdays,” recruitment photos and other fun information from the Fraternity!
Submit your feedback on the Quarterly! Thank you to all sisters who submitted feedback on this issue of the Quarterly. Remember, the Quarterly is for YOU! We want to hear what you think about your magazine! Send your comments on this issue of the Quarterly by January 1: •
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fraternity news updates Volunteer Service Team Structure Recap alumnae have paid their 2013-2014 Alumnae Dues!
The Summer 2013 Quarterly outlined changes to the Volunteer Service Team structure. (Read it online by searching “Summer 2013 Q” at alphagammdelta.org.) As a reminder, in addition to adjustments made to the VST structure, all VST members received new email addresses. To find updated contact information for a VST member, use the Volunteer Search within myAlphaGam or check out the VST Directory document in the Resource Center of myAlphaGam under General Fraternity Materials.
Changes to myAlphaGam Privacy Settings When Alpha Gamma Delta switched from Member Services to myAlphaGam (the members-only section of the website), the Fraternity was unable to retain members’ privacy settings that had been selected previously within Member Services. In an effort to maintain privacy, the Fraternity elected to default all members’ settings to not share any contact information within the Sister Search function of myAlphaGam, until adjusted by the member on her myAlphaGam dashboard. However, this created more issues than anticipated. Members who searched for chapter sisters or Alpha Gams in their area were able to find a list of sisters’ names but had no way of reaching out to any of them. To make it easier for members to connect with each other, Alpha Gamma Delta switched all members who had not previously designated privacy preferences within myAlphaGam to share contact information such as mailing address and email address. (Please note: Because the Sister Search is located in myAlphaGam, our members-only portal, this information is only viewable to initiated sisters.) If you do not want to share this information with sisters, please follow these steps: 1
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Have you? Help us meet our goal of over 950 contributions to the Alumnae Dues program by January 1, 2014! Pay online now by searching for “Alumnae Dues” at alphagammadelta.org or mail your payment to 8710 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260. Your $40 or greater voluntary contribution makes a true impact, providing the Fraternity with the sustainability to extend our reach and the means to exceed our Purpose.
new members joined Alpha Gamma Delta this fall recruitment season. Welcome, sisters!
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At International Convention 2014, sisters will be traveling to the Circle City—home of Alpha Gamma Delta International Headquarters! Join us as we gather together to celebrate sisterhood and move the Fraternity forward. In addition to traditional events like the Feast of Roses and Honors of Epsilon Pi banquets, attendees will receive valuable training opportunities. Attendees will even get a special tour of International Headquarters and have the opportunity to purchase Alpha Gam merchandise. You won’t want to miss out on this event! Online registration will be available in early 2014.
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See you in Indianapolis!
Alpha Gamma Delta has had a successful year! Thank you to all of the volunteers, collegians, alumnae and staff members who have worked together to make this year one to remember. Let's celebrate a few of the many accomplishments from this past fiscal year.* The Delta Experience The collegiate member development program, the Alpha Gamma Delta Experience, became complete with the Delta Experience! Curriculum launched in fall 2012 and a Delta Experience magazine was sent to all graduating seniors in spring 2013.
Leadership Consultant Visits All collegiate chapters received at least one Leadership Consultant visit.
Successful Colonizations Alpha Gamma Delta colonized successful chapters at Theta Omega-University of South Carolina and Lambda Gamma-Villanova University. Welcome to our sisterhood!
The Learning Center Alpha Gamma Delta launched Executive Council officer and alumnae initiate training through an online learning system called the Learning Center. Learn more in the Applications section of myAlphaGam. New Volunteer Service Team Application and Evaluation Process The Fraternity implemented a new process and standards for recruiting, interviewing and placing volunteers.
Future Growth Opportunities Alpha Gamma Delta was invited to recolonize chapters at: 1
Delta Alpha-University of Southern California
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Delta Eta-San Diego State University
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University of Tennessee at Chattanooga
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Collegiate Membership Alpha Gamma Delta’s total collegiate membership exceeded
Regional Recruitment Trainings women from chapters participated in recruitment trainings.
*Alpha Gamma Delta’s fiscal year runs from June 1 to May 31. alphagammadelta.org
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Shape the Future of Alpha Gamma Delta! The
International Council elections process is underway, and we need member participation! International Council members are the leaders of our Fraternity, encouraging all sisters to Live with Purpose. While serving on International Council, officers maintain awareness of current Fraternity issues, participate in carrying out our strategic plan and ensure financial health of the organization. In addition, officers must understand the current nature of the fraternal movement and be willing to travel as necessary to represent the Fraternity.
The structure of our Fraternity enables International Council to concentrate on long-term issues for our success while empowering our Volunteer Service Team to work hands-on with our membership to provide guidance and expertise on a daily basis. In addition to working with volunteers, International Council works with International Headquarters staff to oversee Fraternity operations. Please help us select the next group of Fraternity leaders by participating in the elections process.
Officers to be elected: • International President • International Vice President-Alumnae • International Vice PresidentCollegians • International Vice PresidentMembership • International Vice PresidentExtension • International Vice President-Finance • International Vice PresidentPanhellenic Affairs Job descriptions of International Council members are available by searching “elections” on the Fraternity website.
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Who is eligible to serve on International Council? To be eligible for International Council service, a member must: • Be an alumna in Good Standing. • Have served a minimum of two years in a Volunteer Service Team position. • Be current in paying yearly Alumnae Dues to International Headquarters.
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What qualifications are necessary for International Council? International Council members must: • Possess high ideals and attain somewhat unto them. • Serve as both internal and external ambassadors of the Fraternity. • Demonstrate knowledge and understanding of the Fraternity organization and programs. • Be able to communicate effectively to all entities of Alpha Gamma Delta and the community. • Be willing and able to fulfill all the specific duties of the office. • Be able to travel and to represent the Fraternity. • Accept the responsibility of conducting business for the good of the entire Fraternity. • Financially support the Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation.
How do I make a recommendation? Individual members, chapter and clubs submit recommendations to the Elections Committee. Forms may be requested from the Executive Director at International Headquarters or secured from the Fraternity website by searching “elections” at alphagammadelta.org. A member requires two recommendations to be considered for the ballot. A member who recommends herself must receive two additional recommendations. Recommendations must be made for a specific office; however, the Elections Committee has the final responsibility to determine the best qualified slate to be presented for elections. Ballot placement for all offices will be limited to two candidates. Recommendations are due to International Headquarters by December 10, 2013.
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What happens after recommendations are made? The Elections Committee will review all recommendations for eligibility. Those eligible will be asked if they are willing to serve and if so, will be asked to complete biographical information. After interviewing via conference call those who most closely match the qualifications for each office, a ballot will be determined.
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Who can vote in the election? Voting members of the Fraternity include current and former Grand/International Council officers, current members of the Volunteer Service Team, each collegiate and alumnae chapter or club in Good Standing, each incorporated house association and each Chapter Advisor.
Please exercise your right to participate in the elections process! Elections committee Tricia Barber Elections Committee Chairman ecc@alphagammadelta.org Elections Committee Members: Pat O'Connor Vreeland AGDRC1@outlook.com
Robin Belcher Liesfeld AGDACH@outlook.com
Hanna Lockwood Dobberstine hdobbe2@kc.rr.com
Katherine Martin Farris
kathy.farris@jonesboroschools.net More information about the election process is available on the Fraternity website by searching “elections.”
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Hi, I’m Kristine, and I’m an alumna from Theta Nu Chapter at Virginia Commonwealth University. Alpha Gamma Delta holds a special place in my heart. I was so inspired by my collegiate experience that I decided to become a Chapter Advisor for Theta Zeta-Randolph-Macon College. This is just one of the ways I pay it forward, since the Fraternity has done more for me than I have done for it. The Alumnae Dues program is another way that I give back. I am a better coworker, neighbor, wife and mother because of my Fraternity experience, and our Alumnae Dues help the Fraternity continue to share our experiences and values with new members every semester. For less than $4 a month, every sister who pays Alumnae Dues can make a difference to another member. It is not a huge financial commitment to an individual, yet collectively we provide an impact for many. I hope that you will join me in giving back to Alpha Gamma Delta!
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Support the Fraternity Your Alumnae Dues payment supports many Fraternity initiatives, from collegiate chapter development and extension opportunities to volunteer training and alumnae programming. By combining your contribution with that of 80,000 alumnae sisters, the Alumnae Dues program will help support: 1
The Learning Center, a new online learning management system that helps train volunteers, provides alumnae with online programming and welcomes alumnae initiates to the Fraternity.
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Extension and recolonization opportunities, including the recolonization of Delta Alpha-University of Southern California, Delta Epsilon-University of California, Los Angeles and Delta Eta-San Diego State University.
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International Convention 2014 in Indianapolis, Indiana.
Your $40 or greater voluntary contribution makes a true impact, providing the Fraternity with the sustainability to extend our reach and the means to exceed our Purpose.
Pay online now! Search for “Alumnae Dues” at alphagammadelta.org. Get a free Alpha Gamma Delta computer, iPad or iPhone background with your $40 contribution! You can also mail your payment to 8710 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, IN 46260.
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Fraternity Housing Corporation Update
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in 2011, the Alpha Gamma Delta Fraternity Housing Corporation (FHC) is continuing to elevate the value of Alpha Gamma Delta membership by developing and maintaining safe, competitive and attractive housing for collegiate members. The FHC Board of Directors is led by Katie Jolley Abernathy, Delta Theta-University of Idaho. FHC board members are appointed by International Council to serve two-year terms. According to the FHC bylaws,
a member of International Council serves as a member of the board. As a governing board, the Board of Directors focuses on high level strategy for the FHC, which empowers the staff to manage all operational aspects of the corporation. The staff team is led by Stephannie Sack Bailey, who is the Executive Director of both the Fraternity and the FHC. Currently, the FHC is following dozens of leads for potential Alpha Gamma Delta properties. Additionally, major renovations
are underway at two of our FHC PROPERTIES: recolonized chapters: Delta Alpha-Syracuse University Alpha-University of Southern Alpha Lambda-Ohio State University Beta Delta-Indiana University California and Delta EpsilonBeta Tau-Ball State University University of California, Los Chi-Michigan State University* Angeles. Renovations to these properties will be completed in Delta Alpha-University of Southern California Delta Epsilon-University of California, January. In the spring semester, Los Angeles both chapters will be able to Delta Eta-San Diego State University use the chapter houses for Epsilon Beta-University of Kansas activities, meals and events. In Epsilon Gamma-University of Denver* the fall, members will be able to Epsilon Zeta-Arkansas State University reside in the chapter facilities. Theta Psi-Austin Peay State University Photos of these properties Theta Omega-University of South Carolina will be shared in an upcoming Zeta Alpha-Eastern Michigan University Quarterly issue. *Denotes resolved chapter
Learn more about each FHC board member:
Katie Jolley Abernathy
Gail Calkins Duree
Delta Theta-University of Idaho President
Epsilon Gamma-University of Denver Director
Katie is the Director of Business Development for the Butler Business Consulting Group at Butler University in Indianapolis. Katie is excited that because of the FHC, Alpha Gamma Delta has the staff and structure in place to make a significant difference to the future health and vitality of our chapters. “My goal as a board member of the FHC is to ensure that Alpha Gamma Delta housing is safe, comfortable and competitive with the other housing options,” Katie said. “We want to provide facilities that our collegiate and alumnae members can feel proud to call home.”
Gail has had a wealth of experience in the financial world, where she recently served as the Independent Chair of the Board for New Covenant Mutual Funds. With an MBA in finance and experience serving on the Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation Board of Directors, Gail understands the importance of the FHC. “I believe that providing proper housing influences recruitment success and is our ethical responsibility to our sisters,” Gail said. “By having the FHC, Alpha Gamma Delta has the structure in place to improve collegiate housing.”
Amy Holthouse Blessing Kappa Beta-Missouri Western State University Director
With an MBA from Indiana University, Amy currently works in consumer insights and strategy for Procter & Gamble. Amy joined the FHC board because she was “inspired by the vision of the FHC and the benefits the women should receive.” A former Alpha Gamma Delta Leadership Consultant, Amy says, “The FHC vision enables safe and attractive housing that can improve the overall [collegiate membership] experience.”
Bobette Sandifer Thompson
Gamma Zeta-University of Memphis Director, Fraternity Housing Corporation and International Vice President-Finance
As the current International Vice President-Finance for Alpha Gamma Delta Fraternity, Bobette brings her Fraternity knowledge and expertise to her role on the FHC Board of Directors. Bobette is also the President and CEO of THE Children’s Academy and is a board member for the Association for Early Learning Leaders (formerly the National Association of Child Care Professionals, NAACP). “Serving on both International Council and the Fraternity Housing Corporation Board allows me to bring a valuable perspective to the FHC,” Bobette said. “I believe the FHC is important to the financial health of Alpha Gamma Delta and to successful recruitment on our college campuses.” alphagammadelta.org
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Robert Frost taught us about taking the road “less traveled,” but he forgot to mention how difficult that can be. Think about this: When faced with a major life decision, have you let fear take over? Have you played the “what-if” game until you’ve talked yourself out of reaching for your dreams? Perhaps it was the fear of failure that won the battle in the end? We’d like you to meet five Alpha Gams who put aside their fears of failure, of new places, of all the “what ifs” and simply leaped, believing that no matter where they might land, the journey itself would be worth all the risk. They couldn’t have been more right.
“Don’t fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of life contains three descriptions: could have, might have and should have." Louis E. Boone 10 quarterly
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Pam Perry, Iota-University of Washington
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June 2007, my life as I knew it began to crumble. My boyfriend and I broke up after two years together, and I realized that at 37 years old, I was unlikely to pursue having kids any longer. Heartbreaking. Then three days later, I went in for my annual exam, and my doctor found a lump in my breast that alarmed her. She wanted further testing. While waiting to get into the doctor for my appointment (all the while imagining that I could be dying), I went to my 20-year class reunion. With a broken heart and possible cancer in my body, the sight of 250 happy people with 2.5 kids (and white picket fences, I am sure) made me cringe. I’ve never felt so lonely as I did at that reunion. My public relations job was really wearing me down, too. Now that I was single, I wasn’t sure why I was working so hard, or even what the meaning of life was. That statement got my wheels turning, allowing me to hypothetically imagine what I would
do if money was no object. I couldn’t help but think that my long time passion had been traveling.
India, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, Poland, Germany, Holland, Guatemala and Costa Rica.
A friend told me about the book “Eat, Pray, Love” and said that I would love it. The author’s, Elizabeth Gilbert, story was so much like my own—a failed marriage, a feeling of disconnectedness from the world and questioning the meaning of life. When I finished the book, I was in a hotel room with my business partner (who was also my best friend). She had read the book and knew me well enough to know that the author’s dream of leaving everything behind to travel the world was also my own. She told me I had to go.
When I returned to the United States in July 2009, I was unemployed and broke but full of optimism! A man that I had met in Nepal (a friend of a friend), and then ran into again in India while he was scouting for his new U.S.-based travel company, got back in touch with me. He asked if I would like to help him start his new business. That’s when Grand Asian Journeys was born.
The next week I had my biopsy. The results were in. I did not have cancer! That day, September 14, 2007, I made my decision to follow my dreams, let go of my successful career and throw caution to the wind. The next fall, I embarked on a 10-month journey that would take me to Nepal,
For nearly four years now, I’ve been building this successful tour company. As a part of my job, I get to lead trips to fabulous locations around Asia including women’s only treks in Nepal, culinary trips in India and cultural explorations in Bhutan. I work at home, walk my dog and have lunch with my sweetheart. I can honestly say, I’ve never, ever been happier!
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I graduated from Nebraska Wesleyan, I went back to school to get my Master of Fine Arts (MFA) in Creative Writing. It was a great experience, and I loved my MFA years, but when I finished it, I realized that I had done a lot to enrich myself but not a whole lot to enrich the community around me. I started looking for ways that I could utilize the skills I had gained, both from my undergraduate degree and my MFA. I was looking for jobs that would have me doing some form of writing. I came across an opportunity to travel to India to work with the Nanubhai Education Foundation. It was a chance to go someplace that I had always wanted to go and do something kind of unimaginable. It would give me a chance to give back and create something that was bigger than myself. I was excited about the job opportunity, but I applied thinking I would never in a million years get hired. I had never even traveled internationally before, let alone by myself for several months at a time. When I received the email asking for an interview, I started to realize just how much I wanted
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it. I ultimately realized that opportunities like this don’t come around every day, and if you don’t take it when presented, it may not present itself again. My original contract was for six months, and six months seemed doable. I arrived in India on October 16, 2012, and now I’m on my second contract and about to start my third one. Here in India, I manage and coordinate volunteer teachers for two very rural schools. One school is a government-run boarding school that provides students with three meals a day, uniforms, books, social support and medical care. The other school is a private boarding school for more lower to middle-class students. The other big part of my job is social media and online communications. I write newsletters and fundraising solicitations. I’m also the point person between everyone here on the ground in India and everyone who works with us stateside. Sometimes I tend to be a pseudo-counselor for the volunteers I recruit. I hold their hands when they sit there and say, “What did I do to myself?” I assure them that everyone goes through it, and it will get better. Generally, everyone
loves their experience after they get over the initial shock of finding themselves in very rural India. I went through that shock, too. I live in a village, in everyday India. I take the bus, just like everyone else does, and that in itself is a very unique experience. The language barrier has been a challenge, but not as much as I thought it would be. I thought I would learn it better than I have, but I get by somehow! There is a lot of gesturing in my life. Other than that, there are some foods that I miss, but you get resourceful. Getting to see so many different people, lives and perspectives has made all of the challenges worth it. It makes you re-evaluate the difference between what you need, what you want and what is enough. I’m really looking forward to the rest of my time here, knowing that in April, I might be moving on somewhere else. I think I want to stay in the non-governmental organization field. I go back and forth between whether I want to stay abroad or come back to the United States. There are very good arguments for both sides. I’ll just have to see what kind of opportunity comes up next!
You can learn more about the Nanubhai Education Foundation at nanubhai.org.
Commerce. They were looking for a new CEO. I was familiar with the area because some of my family lives there, and when I looked at the job description, I thought I had everything they were looking for. I am young, but I thought I had the know-how and the personal characteristics that would help me succeed. It took a huge leap of faith to even apply for the CEO position, but I quickly heard back from the organization. When they called me and said they wanted to bring me in for an interview, I remember asking if they had read my graduation date! By November 2011, I was their new CEO.
Jennifer Daly, Epsilon Beta-University of Kansas
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graduating from the University of Kansas in 2011, I had not yet received a job offer so I decided to return home to Bellevue, Nebraska, and intern with the Bellevue Chamber of Commerce. I originally thought I wanted to be an event planner, but through my work at the Bellevue Chamber, I soon realized that the nonprofit industry, specifically the chamber industry, was where I belonged. The CEO of the Bellevue Chamber began to mentor me on the industry and talked to me about fundraising, nonprofit management, strategic planning, program development and volunteer management. She also put me in contact with a woman in Kansas City who was, at the time, working at Truman Medical Center. She recommended some resources I could use to network and job hunt, and one of them was Nonprofit Connect (npconnect.org), which is a nonprofit job posting website for the Kansas City metropolitan area. When browsing the site one day, I saw a posting for an opening at the Leavenworth-Lansing Area Chamber of
You can imagine the shock of the community when the Board of Directors hired a 22-year-old CEO, but in the last 19 months, the Leavenworth-Lansing Chamber of Commerce has been completely revitalized. My leadership is putting the chamber back on the business map: new marketing, personal engagement across the civil and military communities and speaking engagements at every opportunity. All of these resulted in positive public relations for both cities represented and Fort Leavenworth. Within the first 10 months, non-dues revenues skyrocketed from $800 to over $4,500 through implementation of new events that provided tangible results to our members. We have been leading efforts to rebrand the chamber with innovative information brochures and a new creative logo. I’ve also helped reinforce the chamber’s technology infrastructure to better serve clients and the community by upgrading the office server, improving the website, overhauling the online business directory and exploiting the marketing opportunities of social media. Needless to say, it has been an exciting ride!
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college, I ran track as a sprinter, but after I graduated, I struggled with how to maintain the active lifestyle I once had. I always wanted to start running again, but there were all kinds of excuses I created—I was too tired, too busy, too this and too that. But then I heard about the Disney Princess Half Marathon and thought, what could be a better opportunity? People run half marathons and full marathons all of the time, but because I was used to sprinting, this was a huge endeavor for me. I started out slow, making small goals for myself so I wouldn’t be discouraged. Sure enough, I finally found my groove and could kick all of my excuses to the side. By February, I was ready. One of the best parts is that everyone is encouraged to dress up, and I chose to be an Alpha Gam princess! I went all out with a red, buff and green tutu and had a custom shirt made by Nike. I actually ran into another Alpha Gam alumna who loved my costume! Finishing the race was a huge accomplishment for me, and I was hooked. So what is my next adventure now that I have a half marathon under my belt? None other than Disney’s new test, the Dopey Challenge, in January. In four days, I will run a 5K, 10K, half marathon and full marathon. Yes, that’s over 46 miles in four days! Training for this has been different than training for the Princess Half Marathon, but I’ve made it work. I have to juggle my career, my family and my training which can get really interesting. But my flexible work schedule helps, and on some weekdays, I even run from work to my daughter’s day care, where my husband picks us both up. Just signing up for this challenge was another leap of faith, and then to make things a little more interesting, I found out I was pregnant! So, by race time, I’ll be about five and half months pregnant with our second child. I spoke frankly with my doctor about the upcoming race and was given the green light since I had already been putting in the miles prior to my pregnancy. It will certainly be an experience to remember. Disney allows runners to partner with a participating charity if we wish, so I chose St. Jude's Research Hospital. I get to challenge my health and vigor beyond my limits to raise money for children challenging theirs! I am so thrilled that not only will I be able to put our Purpose to the test, but also I will be a role model for my daughter. I want her to always reach for unthinkable goals and make them attainable. Additionally, I want people of all ages to know that health and wellness starts by taking the first step, literally and figuratively!
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and Thursday on my way to school for about 25 minutes. I developed a close relationship with her family, and she even helped me achieve one of my biggest dreams. I am a huge University of Michigan football fan. She took me to a football game, and we got to walk out of the tunnel and onto the field. To be able to do this and share these memories with her was probably the greatest and most memorable experience of my life.
Megan Maiani, Alpha Upsilon-Central Michigan University
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I was a collegian at Central Michigan University, my roommate was an active volunteer with a muscular dystrophy camp. I thought it was really interesting and wanted to get involved myself. When I inquired about volunteering there, they had already fulfilled their staffing needs. So I decided to search for other camps for children with disabilities and stumbled upon Camp Quality, which is a camp for children with cancer. I did not know what I was getting myself into, but I was hooked after my first year. I loved my time there, but camp did not mean as much to me until I met Payton, my leap of faith. Payton was my camper during my second year, and she had been diagnosed with Ewing’s sarcoma, a cancerous bone tumor. In her case, the cancer was in her pelvic bone. The entire week, we were inseparable. As a volunteer, I did not let her out of my sight. I even slept on the bunk above her. On the last night, she was starting to feel homesick and in a bit of pain. As I was carrying her to the nurse, she looked at me and said, “I hope your headaches aren’t cancer because you are too nice to ever have to deal with cancer. People need you to help them.” I tried to hide my tears from her so she would not see I was upset. After I returned home from camp, I talked to Payton every Tuesday
In November 2008, Payton took a turn for the worse, and I went to visit her at the hospital. When her parents walked through the door after meeting with her doctors, we both knew what they had talked about. They allowed us to enjoy our time together, and that is when she looked at me right before I left and said, “Megan, if you really want to be a nurse, get out there and become one to help more kids like me. They need you. If I can beat cancer, you can pass those science classes.” What do you do at that point? That was all the motivation I needed. Next, I had the dreaded walk to the elevator with her father. He hugged me and told me, “Megan, this is it. There is nothing more they can do for her.” I got out to my car and cried. I had thought about becoming a nurse when I was a junior in high school, but I did not excel in science classes, so I was afraid I would not succeed. I chose to major in education instead. But on that day in November 2008 while driving down the interstate, I decided that I was going to finish out that semester and switch to nursing. Sadly, Payton passed away on December 6, 2008. In fall 2010, I began the nursing program at Mercy College of Northwest Ohio. It was a rough two years. I wanted to quit a handful of times, but I knew Payton never gave up and her fight was so much harder than mine. I kept a glass block filled with lights in my room that had her picture on one side and the words “believe” and “faith” on the other side. Many nights I stared at that knowing that that was my hope and inspiration. I graduated with the Helen Mae Dickman Clinical Excellence Award, which is given to the graduating nursing student that displayed the most clinical excellence. I dedicated that award to Payton because she taught me to care for everyone and give my heart to those in need. Ironically, my first nursing job is on an adult oncology floor, but my goal is to work at St. Jude’s in pediatric oncology. Each summer, I return to Camp Quality. Over the years, I’ve served in numerous roles, but now I am the Healthcare Director. I’m responsible for taking care of all the medical needs of our campers for the week. I really hope to be able to visit all of camps in the United States over the next few years, and I’m making it my mission to help start a camp in a state that doesn’t currently have one.
You can learn more about Camp Quality at campqualityusa.org.
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collegiate news
For the Fall 2013 Quarterly, collegiate chapters were asked to share what “to possess high ideals and attain somewhat unto them” means to their chapter. Read more collegiate chapter reports on the Fraternity website by searching “collegiate chapter reports.”
Zeta Pi–St. Joseph's University
Following recruitment, our chapter received 47 new members. Through our events like the sisterhood retreat, sisterhood potluck and sister-mother/daughter reveal, our new members were able to learn about the meaning of our Purpose and how to live up to our high ideals. At the end of last fall semester, our chapter received an award of having the highest sorority GPA on campus. Our chapter believes in the balance between education and sorority events. We are excited to uphold our GPA status and to continue living the Alpha Gamma Delta Purpose to the fullest! –Stacey Rocque
Zeta Kappa–University of Pittsburgh at Johnstown
Our chapter tries hard to live up to the high standards that we set for our members. We have stressed the Code of Standards a lot in this last year and our Vice President Member Development has been emphasizing different parts of it at meetings, encouraging us to always think about what is important to us as Alpha Gams. Many of our members are leaders in other organizations on campus, involved with service in their communities and have been chosen as mentors for incoming freshmen. Our chapter is known for our high ideals, and we show it in our emphasis on scholarship and our continuous commitments to monthly service projects.
Kappa Gamma–Texas A&M University Corpus Christi
Sisters in our chapter uphold the greatest ideals that were based on our Founders. Our chapter is made of strong, loyal and hardworking women. We do exercises to talk about the characteristics we want our chapter to be known for to the public. We also understand that we need to uphold ourselves to the highest respect possible, but if we mess up, we have sisters to hold us up and remind us of our morals and values. Our chapter recites our Purpose at every meeting to keep the ideals in our heart of who we are, the women that we represent and what each line means in our lives. –Marisa Soza
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Theta Tau–Belmont University
As a chapter and as individuals, Theta Tau Chapter possesses high ideals. We try our best to stay true to our Purpose by loving our sisters, our campus and our entire community and helping each other out the best we can. Our intramural team, the “Alpha Champs,” competes regularly in intramural competitions. Through these competitions, we aim to do the best we can and work to constantly encourage each other, either by playing in the games or just coming out to cheer on other sisters. We work hard and play strong, but we never forget to have fun. Even if we lose, we are still a team and still have each other. That gives us motivation to try harder next time. We apply these ideals within not just our intramurals but also other events such as Greek Sing and Greek Week. Through these ideals, we were able to achieve second place in our Greek Sing competition two years ago and get recognized for our sportsmanship in Belmont’s Greek community. We are currently in first place for the Bruin Cup, Belmont’s overall intramurals ranking. –Jonny Lim
Gamma Zeta–University of Memphis
Our chapter takes pride in our high standards. As Alpha Gams, we aim to be the best we can be as a chapter and as individuals. Our chapter is known for our hard work ethic and faithful dedication in all that we do. Whether it is winning Homecoming or putting forth our best efforts toward other organizations’ philanthropic events, we are always trying our best and doing it with class and style. By holding each other accountable in every aspect from social life to school work, we have become reliant on one another to maintain our standards and remain the respectable, honorable women that we are known to be. –Emee Robinson
Alpha Omega–Duquesne University
Living by the Alpha Gamma Delta Purpose helps every Alpha Gam to possess high ideals. Each line is imbued with morals and values that every woman should try to attain. Programs such as the Gamma Experience and Delta Experience break down the messages within each line of the Purpose and give sisters the opportunity to share with one another how they may have exemplified one of these values. These programs help come up with ideas as to how individual sisters and the chapter as a whole can exemplify these ideals within the community. Alpha Gams are constantly trying to better their communities by living by the Purpose. –Kate Schankweiler
Theta Mu–University of North Carolina Wilmington
Our chapter uses the Alpha Gamma Delta Purpose to remind us of the ideals we were founded upon as well as the characteristics we as a chapter strive for. During our daily lives, we are respectful and courteous and try to live up to the Alpha Gam name. As a chapter, we try to attain our high ideals through philanthropy, academics and just uniting as a chapter. –Meagan Weitzel
The Quarterly Report Form can be found in the Resource Center of myAlphaGam under Operations Team Forms. For Alabama through Michigan chapters, this report is always due on December 15. For Minnesota through Wyoming Chapters and Canadian chapters, the report is due on March 15.
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collegiate profile Colleen was born with dilated cardiomyopathy, a genetic disease that weakens and enlarges the heart to the point that it can’t pump blood efficiently. Because several people on her mom’s side of the family have this disease, her parents knew all too well the possibility of passing it on to their children. When Colleen was born with heart failure, it was painfully obvious she had dilated cardiomyopathy and would definitely need a transplant. However, the doctors needed her to grow as much as possible before they operated. With the help of dozens of medications, she made it to age 3 before becoming so sick that her team of doctors couldn’t wait any longer. Her transplant was successful, and Colleen’s prognosis was more than positive. Deemed a “model patient” by her doctors, she defied the odds of rejection. Best case scenario— this new heart would last her 12 to 15 years. It held out for 17. Even though she always knew it would come, the words “you need another transplant” still sent shock waves through her mind.
Living for Today Last
October, Colleen Gleason, Xi-Illinois Wesleyan University, knew something just wasn’t right.
She’d caught the flu like a few other Xi Chapter members at the beginning of the school year, but they had all bounced back to normal by then. Colleen had not. She was always so tired, but she pushed on. Until one day, while trying to walk to class, she realized it was becoming increasingly painful for her to breathe. It was impossible for her to take more than a few steps before needing to sit and catch her breath. This couldn’t be just a typical cold. So, she jumped in the car and rushed 130 miles to meet with a cardiologist. There, the severity of the situation was exceedingly clear. Her heart was failing, and a heart transplant was her only option. A second heart transplant. 18 quarterly
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“I had an out-of-body experience,” she said. “They always tell you, ‘Oh, this might happen, and this might happen,’ but for me, they said that about a lot of things, and I never had to deal with any of it. It was definitely a lot of disbelief that it was actually happening.” It’s not like Colleen to be down for too long, though. “Once they told me, and I started to process it, I was like, ‘Alright, let’s do this! What do we have to do to get on the list? Let’s get this thing done!’” she said. The news wasn’t great. Her doctors initially estimated Colleen would have to wait a year to a year and a half for a new heart. This meant she would be facing a very long hospital stay, instead of enjoying her sophomore year at Illinois Wesleyan. “It was really rough watching everything happening and all of these things I was really excited for but couldn’t go to,” she said. “I just had to make do with what I could. During our philanthropy night, I had my mom go out and get me different articles of clothes so I would match everyone on the different nights of recruitment. It was awesome because [my sisters] would send me pictures, too.”
Top left, from left to right: Nikki Soni, Izzy Moon, Colleen Gleason and Stephanie Pierson. Top right, from left to right: Allie Perlongo, Colleen Gleason and Lizzie Specht. All sisters pictured are from Xi Chapter-Illinois Wesleyan University.
faces were amazing, and I’m pretty sure out of her hospital bed and on her way to In December, she hoped to be able to go there were some tears,” she said. home to spend the holidays with her family. resuming her normal life. And it’s lucky she did. In the process of Now officially declared “recovered,” “Getting up into a chair was a huge event. clearing her to leave the hospital, her Colleen is back on Illinois Wesleyan’s It required five nurses and my mom and doctors realized that despite looking and campus, working diligently to catch up. my dad to help me move,” she said. “The feeling well, her heart wasn’t holding up first two steps were the two most important It’s extremely important to her to be able as well as they had thought. They quickly to graduate with her new member class, steps I have ever remembered taking in my inserted a catheter into her chest to monitor life. That perspective was pretty cool. There just like she normally would have. She her heart around the clock. This meant wants to study law, and she has an amazing were so many things that I had taken for she’d spend the holidays at the hospital, internship this fall. (Ironically enough, the granted up until this point.” but it was a blessing in disguise. Needing volunteer who came around each week the catheter moved her up on the to deliver Holy Communion was wait list, and within just three short I had an out-of-body experience,” she said. “They always a judge. Since then, she’s been a months, Colleen was ready for her tell you, ‘Oh, this might happen, and this might happen,’ mentor of sorts to Colleen, pointing transplant. but for me, they said that about a lot of things, and I her to the right courses and lining never had to deal with any of it. It was definitely a lot of up this internship.) “I was more anxious than scared. disbelief that it was actually happening. There are always going to be those Besides wearing a heart monitor, – Colleen Gleason, Xi-Illinois Wesleyan University risks, but I felt like the greatest you’d never know Colleen has had risk was me not going in and not her heart replaced once, let alone getting this heart,” she said. twice. Even facing the distinct likelihood The second semester was already well Her surgery went as well as possible, though recovery proved much harder than Colleen had imagined. It was excruciating to sit up (they sawed through her ribs, after all), and she had to maneuver around the three chest tubes and countless wires going into her chest. But cards, gifts and visits from her chapter sisters, and also from Alpha Gams from Rho-Iowa State University and Sigma-University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, kept her spirits high.
underway by the time Colleen was released from the hospital. She wasn’t quite ready to return to school full-time anyway, but she did need one thing: to spend a little time catching up with her Alpha Gam sisters. On a Friday afternoon, she convinced her dad to drive her down to campus. (She wasn’t allowed to drive for two months posttransplant.) No one knew she was coming. She knew everyone would be gathering in the kitchen to eat, and when she walked in, everyone was shocked.
A few days later, a routine X-ray revealed a massive air bubble in her chest, setting her back even further, physically. Mentally, she was more determined than ever to get
“Some of them looked at me like, ‘Oh, yeah, Colleen is in the house.’ Then all of a sudden they looked backed up like, ‘Wait, Colleen is in the house!’ The looks on their
of yet another transplant (heart and/or maybe even kidney, due to the effects of the medicine she takes) in the upcoming years doesn’t faze her. “If I accept it now, it’ll be easier for me later. But I don’t let it affect me. If I had been worried about needing the second transplant once I reached that 12-year mark, I would have wasted all that time worrying about something that wasn’t going to happen until I was 17 years out,” she said. “With this new one, I plan on breaking through that 10 to 12 year limit.” With Colleen’s positive outlook and bright spirit, anything is truly possible. alphagammadelta.org 19
alumnae profile
Carrying a Tradition, Impacting the Future By Caitlin Tejeda Hollopeter, Assistant Director of Fraternity Services-Chapter Development
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1919, Alpha Gamma Delta established an international philanthropy project when Convention delegates voted to create a summer camp for underprivileged children. Although the organization’s philanthropic focus has changed throughout the years, one fact has remained—Alpha Gamma Deltas are still passionate about helping others. Today, many of our collegiate and alumnae chapters continue to volunteer at children’s camps in their local communities. Some groups even support camps specifically related to our current philanthropic focus— diabetes awareness and education. One of those groups is the Greater Portland Area Alumnae Club (GPAAC). For several years, members of the GPAAC have volunteered for Gales Creek Camp, a summer camp dedicated to supporting children and teens with diabetes. Located in Portland, Oregon, the camp’s mission is to help their campers learn that they can still live active, satisfying lives with diabetes. Open to kindergartners and high school students alike, Gales Creek offers week-long camp sessions geared toward families and specific age groups. During their time at camp, students learn how to test their insulin levels and give injections. They also learn how food, exercise, illness and stress affect diabetes. According to Alumnae Club President Jean White Steffeck, Alpha Sigma-Indiana University of Pennsylvania, Gales Creek isn’t just about giving children the skills they need to manage diabetes. It’s also about giving them the opportunity to meet friends with similar conditions. “It’s important for them to get to be with other campers and children that have similar struggles,” Jean said. In support of the Gales Creek mission, GPAAC members began volunteering as greeters at camp registration, providing directions around the grounds and introducing campers to their camp counselors. According to Jean, the women’s work at Gales Creek motivates them to Live with Purpose. “The campers are so energetic and happy,” Jean said. “To interact with them is so rewarding; I think it makes us more driven.”
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Recognizing the positive relationship between Gales Creek and Alpha Gamma Delta, Cheryl Miller Sheppard, Gales Creek Director, reached out to the GPAAC in 2011 to see if the club would be interested in offering additional support to the organization. The year before, Cheryl had applied and was awarded permission to host an American Girl Fashion Show. As plans for the inaugural show came underway, Cheryl sought the help of Alpha Gamma Delta members whose time and talents could help make the event successful. American Girl Fashion Shows are hosted by individual nonprofit organizations nationwide. In association with the American Girl franchise, host organizations have the opportunity to raise money for a children’s cause of their choice. The shows feature historical and contemporary fashions for event attendees and their dolls, hoping to instill confidence in young girls by showing them that they can embrace and express their unique personalities through their own sense of style. For that first American Girl Fashion Show benefitting Gales Creek Camp, Alpha Gamma Delta members agreed to help manage event logistics. While most of the show’s proceeds would cover the cost of camper registration at Gales Creek, a portion of the proceeds would be given to the GPAAC, so they could make a subsequent donation to the Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation. “It was an opportunity to help
our philanthropy, support the Foundation and directly help the campers,” Jean said. “The show is great for helping little girls and little boys who may not be able to afford [the camp] experience.” Since the first show in 2011, the GPAAC has continued to volunteer at and support the show as needed. While GPAAC members have helped manage event stations, like raffle and door prize giveaways, souvenir sales and photography, collegiate members of Phi-Oregon State University have served in the Doll Salon, where event attendees can bring their American Girl dolls for fun, fancy hairdos. Working with Cheryl to coordinate their volunteer efforts, the alumnae club members came to know her well and soon recognized her as a friend and woman who lives with Purpose. In February 2012, they invited Cheryl to join our sisterhood, and she became an initiate of Phi Chapter through the Alumnae Initiate program. Through their involvement with Gales Creek Camp and the American Girl Fashion Show, the GPAAC has been able to positively impact the lives of hundreds of children with diabetes. They’ve grown our sisterhood, shared Alpha Gamma Delta’s values with others in their community, paid homage to the tradition sparked by the Alpha Gamma Delta Camp program and, most importantly, carried on an even longer-standing Alpha Gam tradition—to simply Live with Purpose.
alumnae news Alumnae Chapter/Club Recaps for the Winter 2014 Quarterly are due December 15. Fill out the form online by searching “recap form” at alphagammadelta.org, or email your report to quarterly@alphagammadelta.org. Read more Alumnae Chapter/Club Recaps on the Fraternity website by searching “alumnae recaps.” Nashville Area Alumnae Chapter Orange County Alumnae Chapter
Orange County Alumnae Chapter The Orange County Alumnae Chapter (OCAC) has been busy this fall supporting Delta Tau-Chapman University. OCAC has held movie nights, book club meetings, hikes and attended mock recruitment activities at Chapman University. –Brittany Conrad
Greater Cleveland Alumnae Chapter The Greater Cleveland Alumnae Chapter had a fabulous year full of sisterhood and fun. We spent time with Alpha Iota–Baldwin Wallace University helping with mock recruitment, enjoyed our annual Valentine’s Day luncheon and celebrated International Reunion Day (IRD). We also had a lot of fun connecting with our newest Alpha Gams through our “alum chum” program. Each new member of Alpha Iota Chapter was paired with an alumna member who provided friendship and support during the new member period to show that our sisterhood truly lasts beyond our college years. Our chapter also enjoyed time together in various places around Cleveland, including an afternoon at the West Side Market, dinner at local restaurants and working on community service and fundraising projects. This year, we donated 43 gift bags to Edna House through the Shoebox Ministry. We are looking forward to our many events coming up, including a Pinterest night, a “Shop for a Cause” fundraiser for the Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation and a 100th birthday celebration for Norma Dolezal, one of our amazing alumnae and a founding member of Alpha Iota Chapter. –Jaime Winer
Over the past couple of months, the Nashville Area Alumnae Chapter has been very busy. In May, we held an officer training and brainstorm session. In July, we had our monthly sisterhood dinner at the Melting Pot and also volunteered at the Ronald McDonald House in Nashville. In August, we had a sisterhood dinner at Taco Mamacita and Granite City for the September sisterhood dinner. –Shannon Wellock Gardner
Los Angeles Area Alumnae Chapter Things are exciting here in Los Angeles. Three chapters are recolonizing on California campuses this fall, and alumnae are coming out of the woodwork to be involved. In June, we held an Envison LA event to help us chart the future of the Los Angeles Area Alumnae Chapter; to identify and resolve stumbling blocks to alumnae being involved and to determine what types of events will bring alumnae out. We are focusing on regional events and providing more notice to our members in advance of events. In August, several of our members spent a day at Del Mar Racetrack enjoying sun and sisterhood. The Delta Alpha-University of Southern California new member classes of the 60s held a reunion near the USC campus which was well attended. We are currently working to archive our old scrapbooks while the chapter houses are being renovated and finding so many great memories from over the years. We have lots of fall activities planned with details found both on our Facebook page (facebook.com/AGDLAAAC) and our website (laaacalphagam.com). –Marijayne Wallace Stegman
Beta Iota Alumnae Chapter This small but mighty alumnae chapter of seven works closely with the collegians, which builds a strong bond. Alumnae wear several hats to help support Beta Iota Chapter at Eastern Illinois University. We worked together on Formal Recruitment and Bid Day. We celebrated our 53rd birthday on September 24 with an annual birthday party with the collegians, which included cake, candles and all the trimmings. Alpha Gam Always will be a holiday treat at brunch and a live theatre performance. –Mary Dawson Droste Los Angeles Area Alumnae Chapter alphagammadelta.org 21
foundation
DEFINING
Characteristics
Hillary Herr was upset. The High Point University senior was so looking forward to studying abroad last spring, but it meant sacrificing an officer role at her Gamma Eta Chapter. Hillary had always equated “leadership” with holding a position or title. The opportunity to be a leader might never be hers again. But one night at this summer’s LeaderShape Institute we were discussing how one becomes a leader, and I had an epiphany. Our group helped me realize it’s not about holding a position or title. Leadership is the characteristics, qualities and beliefs of an individual and how that person is able to gain a following based on honesty, integrity and others’ best interest. I Live with Purpose and I can lead by example. -Hillary Herr 22 quarterly
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This year Hillary and 36 other sisters learned to be every day leaders at premiere leadership academies such as LeaderShape thanks to generous alumnae donations to the Annual Fund. Hillary says her trip to the week-long conference, where she learned to lead with integrity and disregard the impossible, would not have been possible without a scholarship from the Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation. “This experience was so powerful ... a thank-you note can only do so much to tell our alumnae what kind of impact
their donations made on me. It would be incredible if my entire chapter could experience what I did ... ” Hillary’s transformational experience not only impacts her own life, but the lives of her chapter sisters and all those who will one day be touched by her example of living and leading with Purpose. She has Alpha Gamma Delta, and you, to thank.
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• Gamma Experience, a personal development program based on the Alpha Gamma Delta Purpose, utilized by over 3,000 second and third year members.
• Scholarships to attend premier leadership academies including LeaderShape.
• Funding for TLC keynote speakers covering topics from sexual violence on college campuses and survivor support to becoming agents of change • Delta Experience, a guide for transition within the current campus culture, to into life after college utilized by over living your values. 2,000 graduating members each year.
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sister spotlight
Meet Annie
By Clara Mitcham, Assistant Director of Fraternity Services-Membership
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time three years ago, Annie Raeder, Beta Delta-Indiana University, was starting a new leg of her Alpha Gamma Delta journey as a Leadership Consultant for the Fraternity. While her travels took her to all corners of the United States and Canada, Annie played an integral, ongoing role in the establishment of Delta Upsilon Chapter at Boise State University. As a Leadership Consultant with an extension focus, Annie not only fell in love with Boise, Idaho, but also with the experience of women joining new chapters and colonies. “The women you meet during any colonization are involved in amazing things,” Annie said. “We have recruited student body presidents, a woman who started her own nonprofit organization, a number of student athletes and many women leading major campus fundraising and service efforts.” Annie, who served as an Extension Specialist before assuming the role of Assistant Director of Fraternity Services–Extension at International Headquarters, is now responsible for overseeing the multifaceted extension and colonization process, from the time Alpha Gamma Delta expresses interest in a campus through the installation of the new chapter. Annie said, “The Alpha Gamma Delta colonization process is based heavily on building relationships in order to find women who share our values and Live with Purpose.” Annie finds the culmination of the new chapter experience during installation as one of the most rewarding aspects of her job. “The whole semester is dedicated to starting a new organization, forging new friendships and a lot of hard work,” Annie said. “I like seeing the milestones of these new members realized during installation.” Annie, her team of two Extension Specialists and countless volunteers had a busy fall as they directed the recolonization of Delta Alpha-University of Southern California, Delta EpsilonUniversity of California, Los Angeles and Delta Eta-San Diego State University. As the Fraternity planned for these consecutive efforts, Annie was constantly reminded of what a truly momentous occasion it was for the Fraternity to recolonize these three chapters in one semester. Between extension presentations, marketing research visits, colonization recruitment efforts and installations, Annie has put in many miles for the Fraternity. Since January, Annie has accumulated over 35,000 frequent flyer miles. When she isn’t traveling, she enjoys spending time with friends in Indianapolis and catching the latest episode of the TV show “Scandal.” She is an avid runner with three half marathons (and counting!) under her belt. When asked to describe herself, Annie said the word growth comes to mind. Not only is growth representative of Annie’s role in the Fraternity, but growth also represents her personal efforts to develop as a person. “For me, growth is what life, personally and professionally, is all about, continually changing, developing, learning, building,” Annie said. “If I’m the same today as I was yesterday, I wasted yesterday.”
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pearls of wisdom
A LOOK BACK
The Syracuse Triad We
all know Alpha Gamma Delta was founded in 1904 at Syracuse University. But did you know that two other international sororities were also born on Syracuse’s campus? Alpha Phi came first in 1872 and was quickly followed by Gamma Phi Beta in 1874. Because these organizations share such a rich history, they are known as the Syracuse Triad.
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status. Dr. Coddington suggested they “fraternities?” incorporate The fall of 1872 marked Gamma Phi Beta actually coined under New Syracuse’s first academic year the term “sorority” when the York law, and when they to admit women. Although organization was founded. While did, he signed on to be women were now permitted it’s not clear why Alpha Gamma their “director” for the to attend the university, they Delta chose to be a women’s first year. Additionally, were not welcomed warmly fraternity, one could assume it he helped Alpha Phi’s by many faculty members. was the more popular choice, as founders draft their public In a letter written by Alpha most older Greek-letter women’s motto and encouraged Phi co-founder Martha organizations are referred to as them to eventually build Foote Crow, she stated, “We women’s fraternities. a chapter house, which he had no chance to blossom helped lay the cornerstone forth in a free atmosphere of for in 1886. (It was the first sorority house encouragement and approval.” built in America!) Feeling a need for a support system, 14 of Dr. Coddington also played a major role in the 19 female students met on September the founding of Alpha Gamma Delta. He was 18, 1872, to form Alpha Phi. However, three the one to suggest to Marguerite Shepard of the original 14 ultimately decided not to the need for another sorority at Syracuse. pledge their membership, one of them being Our Founders met at his home for several of Helen Dodge. their earliest meetings, including the official Two years later, Syracuse had a new founding meeting. Dr. Coddington presided chancellor, Dr. Eratus Haven. His daughter, over the founding meeting, helping the Frances, joined him, entering Syracuse Founders elect officers, write a ritual, adopt a University as a junior. She was quickly constitution and choose the Fraternity colors invited to join Alpha Phi, but after much and the Greek-letter name Alpha Gamma consideration, she politely declined. Delta. When the Founders were invited to join another national fraternity, it was Dr. After a few weeks into the semester, Coddington who pushed them to maintain Frances befriended several unaffiliated their own organization, even writing to women, including Helen Dodge. With the his friends at the universities of Wisconsin, encouragement of her father (who was a Minnesota, DePauw and Northwestern member of Phi Nu Theta), Frances, Helen about the possibility of extending Alpha and two others formed Gamma Phi Beta on Gamma Delta there. (All four of which November 11, 1874. opened their doors to Alpha Gamma Delta During these early years, both groups within the next few years.) sought out help and advice from different resources on campus. In particular, the founders of Alpha Phi reached out to Dr. Wellesley P. Coddington, who had been a professor of Greek language and literature at Syracuse since the university was founded in 1871. They were having trouble finding an adequate space to call their own, which brought up the question of the group’s legal
Today, Alpha Phi, Gamma Phi Beta and Alpha Gamma Delta maintain a special bond because of their historic connection. From the Syracuse Triad sprung three strong, international organizations that continue to motivate women across North America to be scholars and leaders.
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Members of the Alpha Chapter of Alpha Gamma Delta at Syrcause University, circa 1905. Founders of the Alpha Chapter of Gamma Phi Beta: Mary A. Bingham, E. Adeline Curtis, Frances E. Haven and Helen M. Dodge. (Photo courtesy of Gamma Phi Beta International Headquarters)
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Alpha – Syracuse University Janet Lemp Mannara ’52 Beta – University of Wisconsin– Madison Mary Stubenrauch ’48 Delta – University of Minnesota Frances Alford Chandler ’42
Phi – Oregon State University Ruth Abramson Bechtel ’36 Maurine Leander Noble ’51
Alpha Omicron – West Virginia Wesleyan College Sally Anderson Gentry ’48
Chi – Michigan State University Jane Malicki McCosky ’43
Alpha Xi – University of Maryland Lala Huebner Garritty ’52
Psi – University of Alabama Ruby Maxwell Palmer ’52 Sue Miller Park ’52 Mary Wood Parks ’37
Beta Alpha – Nebraska Wesleyan University Stellarose Lampshire McKenzie ’47 Joyce Uphoff Smith ’50 Ruth Norton Vaughan ’41
Epsilon – University of Kentucky Omega – Ada Laura Howard ’88 Polly Thompson Weinfurtner University of Akron Ann Aquarone Halfen ’47 ’44 Mary Estes Harpley ’45 Pauline Romig Thompson Eta – ’38 DePauw University Marian Smith Carter ’46 Alpha Alpha – Janet Spence Teetor ’46 University at Buffalo Lenore Haynes Banks ’51 Kappa – Winifred Haas Morrison ’60 Allegheny College Barbara Maitland Vossler Betty Ann Hubbell ’42 Richmond ’49 Omicron – University of California, Berkeley Joyce Kislitzin Kallgren ’51 Olive Premo Shaner ’44 Rho – Iowa State University Evelyn Ross Anderson ’42 Edith Marks Widstrom ’41 Sigma – University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign Leona Youngquist Carlson ’45 Sandra Gunn ’68 Upsilon – University of Oklahoma Jasmine Turner Ledbetter ’46 Mary Cape Tiernan ’53
Alpha Beta – University of Michigan Jean Emmons Wehling ’48 Alpha Delta – Ohio Wesleyan University Mary Coulter Brower ’49 Carol Armstrong Schoenhard ’41 Alpha Gamma – University of Cincinnati Aurelia Ehrmantraut Pears ’32 Alpha Kappa – Bowling Green State University Kathy Lagana Kayle ’75 Alpha Nu – Kent State University Thelma Gilliss Ligette ’48
Gamma Alpha – University of Georgia Gloria Wadsworth Branyon ’56 Jeanne Hanson Grotheer ’47 Martha Bledsoe Sanders ’41 Gamma Delta – Auburn University Louise Stone Batson ’44 Nancy Reinsmith Stodghill ’44 Ida Torrans ’61 Catherine Bradley Walker ’44 Gamma Eta – High Point University Lillian Creech Kelsey ’60 Gamma Omega – University of Alabama at Birmingham Gina Miller ’82 Gamma Zeta – University of Memphis Betty Steward Tribble ’49
Delta Delta – University of Oregon Norma Johanson ’39 Delta Epsilon – University of California, Los Angeles Mary Thompson Walt ’46 Delta Gamma – Montana State University Shirley Collins Holje ’48 Barbara Sekora Stuver ’62 Delta Upsilon – Boise State University Brooklyne Williams 2011 Epsilon Epsilon – William Jewell College Martha Shawhan Schooley ’55 Epsilon Gamma – University of Denver Charlotte Schroeder Estlow ’42 Epsilon RhoTexas A&M University Virginia Chestnut Mays ’80 Epsilon Zeta – Arkansas State University Virginia Robinson Baker ’57 Zeta Xi – Cornell University Randi Rimmerman ’87 Theta Alpha – Louisiana State University Monica Summers ’83
Delta Alpha – University of Southern California Charlotte Carter Lobb ’53
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Three generations of Alpha Gams! Amy Woodall Carroll, Gamma Delta-Auburn University; Dee Ann Elliott Woodall, UpsilonUniversity of Oklahoma; and Emily Anne Carroll, Gamma Delta-Auburn University hold their favorite stuffed squirrels while on Squirrel Lane.
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Please complete the crossword below, which contains clues from this issue of the magazine! Answers can be found on the Fraternity website by searching for "crossword."
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15. Pam Perry’s, Iota-University of Washington, travel company: _____ Asian Journeys.
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