Spring 2016 Alpha Phi Quarterly

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INSIDE: The Peace Corps: Then & Now Alumna Shares Survivor Story A Peek Inside the Wisconsin (Iota) Chapter House

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Volunteers of Influence Follow three groups of volunteers on a mission to move Alpha Phi forward

Better Business Duo Two alumnae join forces to create a conference for conscious companies

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Amongst the Ivy General Fraternity and Greek-letter news and announcements

Photo and cover photo by Chrissi Hernandez (Gamma Alpha–San Diego State)

From the Quad

Accomplishments from our undergraduate members and chapters

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Editorial Policy

Silent Chapter Honoring our sisters’ passings

26 Where We Live

A peek inside Wisconsin's (Iota) chapter house

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Editorial Advisory Board

Always Alpha Phi

Noteworthy news from our alumnae members and chapters

37 Trending Our staff’s top product picks

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Ask Martha

What’s On Your Plate?

Relevant, real-world advice from one of the best

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Alumna shares recipe from spring-inspired cookbook

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Now & Then

Sisters reflect on power of Peace Corps

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Feature

Better Business Duo Alumnae Gail Cayetano Classick (Eta-Boston) and Megan Sette (Theta Iota-James Madison) join forces to create The Heart Series, a conference for conscious companies.

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Collegian Carly Tse (Zeta Beta-Loyola Marymount) provides dental care to underserved communities in Guatemala.

Volunteers of Influence Follow three groups of Alpha Phi volunteers on a mission to move the Fraternity forward.

28 Alumna Named to Prestigious Fellows Program, Proposes Senate Bill

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Amanda Nguyen (Iota Tau-Harvard) joins the 2016 TED Fellows program and proposes a Senate bill that would change how the U.S. handles sexual assault.

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A Message from the International President

DEAR SISTERS,

International Executive Board

Deana Koonsman Gage, President Laura Jen Kin Berger Susan Bevan Tobi Board Nieland Jacqueline Schools Coree Smith Jennifer Holsman Tetreault Rebecca Andrew Zanatta Ex-officio: Sally McCall Grant, NPC Delegate Ex-officio: Linda Wells Kahangi, Executive Director Ex-officio: Diane Spry Straker, Foundation Chair Foundation Directors

Diane Spry Straker, Chair Mary Beth Cooleen Tully, Vice Chair Judy Ethell, Treasurer Colleen Sirhal, Secretary Gretchen Wilson Alarcon Kim Brown Brannon Jean Creamer Hodges Karen McChesney Howe Nancy Salisbury Trillo Ex-officio: Susan Stevenson Zabriskie, Interim Executive Director Ex-officio: Deana Koonsman Gage, International President Executive Office

Executive Director: Linda Wells Kahangi 1930 Sherman Ave., Evanston, IL 60201 (847) 475-0663 fraternity@alphaphi.org www.alphaphi.org Foundation Office

Interim Executive Director: Susan Stevenson Zabriskie 1930 Sherman Ave., Evanston, IL 60201 (847) 475-4532 foundation@alphaphi.org www.alphaphifoundation.org

The first time someone asked me, “How did you become the International President of Alpha Phi?” I had to stop and think. As a collegiate member, I was curious about the woman behind the signature on my membership certificate, but I didn’t have aspirations of becoming another generation’s Betty Mullins Jones (Gamma-DePauw). I was actively involved in my chapter, but I never held a major office nor did I serve on my chapter’s executive council.

My first job after college was teaching in Arlington, Texas. At the time, it wasn’t as easy to connect with my friends in Dallas, so I sought out the local alumnae chapter.

I was immediately embraced by a group of women, most several years my senior, many of whom became my lifelong friends and mentors. I showed up to serve refreshments for recruitment at the local collegiate chapter and before I knew it, I was serving as an advisor. That was the beginning of many years of service with Alpha Phi. Many of the responsibilities I’ve fulfilled have not involved an official title; rather, they could be considered “supporting roles.” I’ve served as a dishwasher, plumber, painter, seamstress, trash lady, prop builder, flower arranger, hairdresser, cook and many more. I’ve honed skills in Alpha Phi that I put to use in my professional life and other organizations, and I’ve acquired knowledge from other volunteer roles that I’ve applied to my Alpha Phi experience.

At this time, almost 2,000 Alpha Phis are volunteering in roles with a title (you can read about a handful of these women on page 28), but there are countless others in supporting roles that make such a difference in our organization. It’s the unsung heroes of our organization that fill the gaps staff and titled volunteers cannot cover. These women may do what some would consider less than glamorous jobs but they make them fun, share laughter – and sometimes frustration – and ultimately take more away from the experience than they feel they give.

Next time you get an email or a call highlighting volunteer opportunities, answer. Take the chance to gain new experiences, build new relationships and broaden your horizons. You’ll be glad you did.

Loyally,

National Panhellenic Conference

Alpha Phi Delegate: Sally McCall Grant First Alternate Delegate: Laura Malley-Schmitt Second Alternate Delegate: Ruth Gallagher Nelson Third Alternate Delegate: Laura Lynn Davidson Ellett

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Deana Koonsman Gage (Gamma Iota-Texas Tech) International President

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Quotable

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There is so much pressure to be competitive with one another.

The real beauty is in supporting one another.

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Allisa Villani Miller (Eta Lambda-George Mason) on women empowering women.

Read more about Allisa in “One of Us” on page 9.

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Alumna Recognized with Kappa Delta’s Order of the Diamond ALUMNA LAURA MALLEY-SCHMITT

(Zeta Phi-MIT) was honored with Kappa Delta’s prestigious Order of the Diamond alongside National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) sisters Jean Mermoud Mrasek (Chi Omega) and Julie Landgren Johnson (Kappa Delta). In its 30-year history, the Order of the Diamond has recognized a select group of individuals who have made extraordinary contributions to the women’s fraternal movement and have demonstrated the true spirit of Panhellenism.

Laura, former International President of Alpha Phi and current first alternate delegate to NPC, is credited with creating Release Figure Methodology (RFM), a mathematical formula used during recruitment. According to Julie Johnson, RFM, which was piloted in 2002, “has been one of the largest, if not the largest, precipitating factor in the doubledigit membership growth NPC has experienced in recent years – placing thousands of women in chapters where they had the greatest chance of being matched, as well as fortifying and saving many struggling chapters.”

The award was presented to Laura, Jean and Julie in October at NPC’s annual meeting in Irving, Texas.  4

Alpha Phi Cares Alpha Phi has developed a new program — Alpha Phi Cares — in honor of one of our six core values: service.

Alpha Phi Cares includes four branches: heart health awareness, the Ivy Green Initiative, Frances E. Willard Day of Service and community support. We encourage our chapters to give back by participating in community service opportunities, which vary based upon the needs of the local community and the interests and passions of chapter members. Activities can range from volunteering at a hospital and participating in a beach cleanup, to serving a meal at a women’s shelter and spending time with residents of a nursing home.

In the 2014-15 academic year, our chapters fulfilled their commitment to service and completed more than 164,000 hours of community service. We take immense pride in being thoughtful and generous members of our communities. Alpha Phi’s collegiate and alumnae members continue to donate their time and efforts to show how much they care about making a difference in their communities and the world through Alpha Phi Cares.

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71st Biennial Convention June 22-26, 2016 The Iconic Renaissance Cleveland Hotel Cleveland, Ohio

The Platinum Experience

Tentative Schedule

Platinum signifies endurance, determination and grit.

Like Alpha Phi, it is also a symbol of prestige. This summer, you’re invited to join Alpha Phis from around the world to celebrate The Platinum Experience at Convention 2016.

WEDNESDAY, JUNE 22: • Registration opens • Welcome dinner • Delegate orientation • Alumnae reception • Collegiate party

The City

• Midnight Madness sale THURSDAY, JUNE 23: • Opening Convention ceremonies • Convention assembled • Order of the Lamp luncheon • Meet the candidates • Initiation • Special evening at the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and Museum FRIDAY, JUNE 24: • Convention assembled • Awards luncheon • Educational programming • Foundation's 60th birthday celebration dinner • Receptions

Situated on the shores of Lake Erie, Cleveland is a dynamic city filled with world-class attractions like the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and Museum and renowned facilities like the Cleveland Clinic. Over four days, sisters will experience what this great city has to offer [see sidebar] while renewing old bonds, forming new friendships, strengthening the Alpha Phi network and sharing ideas that will make an impact on the future of our Fraternity.

The Hotel Like Alpha Phi, the Renaissance Cleveland Hotel is rich in history and tradition. A city landmark, the iconic hotel was built in 1918 and has hosted some of the country’s most famous figures. Its vaulted ceilings, high-arched windows and beautiful marble fountain reflect Cleveland’s rich history, and its prime location offers access to Tower City Center’s exclusive boutiques, restaurants and cinema. 

SATURDAY, JUNE 25: • Convention assembled • Individual alumnae awards luncheon • Educational programming • C andlelight banquet

Don’t miss this platinum opportunity! For more information, visit alphaphi.org (keyword: Convention 2016).

Local Attractions

• Early Bird Rate: March 15, 2016 • Standard Rate: March 16-June 10, 2016

Frequently Asked Questions Q: Who may attend Convention?

All members, their families and friends are invited! Those eligible to vote during Convention include collegiate chapter presidents (collegiate chapter delegates), chapter advisors and alumnae chapter presidents (alumnae chapter delegates), International Executive Board directors, Foundation Board directors, the National Panhellenic Conference delegate, alumnae engagement managers (AEMs) and collegiate chapter managers (CCMs).

Q: How much does it cost to attend?

The all-inclusive Convention early bird package is $1,175. It includes attendee’s registration fee, four room nights, taxes and tariffs, housekeeping gratuities, roundtrip airport transfers, four buffet breakfasts, three lunches, four dinners, meal taxes and gratuities (based on double-occupancy). Package does not include airfare. A special weekend rate of $775 is also available.

Q: How do I make flight arrangements?

Flight arrangements must be secured early and finalized by June 1, 2016, to take advantage of the group ground transportation arrangements. Ground transportation instructions will be detailed online.

• Progressive Field – Home of Cleveland Indians Baseball • Quicken Loans Arena – Home of Cleveland Cavaliers Basketball and Lake Erie Monsters Hockey • The Historic Warehouse District • The Avenue of Tower City Center shopping • Cleveland Metroparks Zoo and Rainforest • Severence Hall • Cleveland Botanical Gardens • The Children’s Museum of Cleveland S PR I N G 2016

Registration Deadlines

Q: Will there be any time to sightsee?

Travel early or extend your stay to take advantage of sightseeing.

LEFT: thisiscleveland.com RIGHT: thisiscleveland.com (Cody York)

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Alpha Phi Fraternity

2015 Annual Report 1,945 MEMBERS TRAINED through leadership programs 195

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EMERGING LEADERSHIP LEADERS INSTITUTE FELLOWS GRADUATES

1,720

1,980 VOLUNTEERS

126

LEADERSHIP CONFERENCE ATTENDEES

AVERAGE CHAPTER SIZE

Installed Chapters on

233,907 Initiated Members

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Three Campuses

8,047 New Members

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TWITTER FOLLOWERS

18,344 FACEBOOK “LIKES”

30,746

LINKEDIN GROUP MEMBERS

$2.3 Million 3.23

10,186

AVERAGE GPA

WEBSITE VISITS

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COMPLETED CHAPTER FACILITY PROJECTS

QUARTERLY MAGAZINES MAILED

IN SUPPORT OF ALPHA PHI FOUNDATION

17,626 INSTAGRAM FOLLOWERS

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Collegiate Chapters

133 Alumnae Chapters

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To read a comprehensive report, please visit alphaphi.org (keyword: annual report).

Data reflects fiscal year 2015: July 1, 2014– June 30, 2015. 

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NEWSFEED

HUFFINGTONPOST.COM

Alpha Phi Executive Office www.huffingtonpost.com

Alpha Phi Takes a Stand on Safe Campus Act “We believe in our principle of Watchcare, which provides unconditional support for our sisters at all times, including those who are survivors of sexual assault.

We accept any social consequences that may be implied by others as we stand beside our sisters and support them if they choose to report the crime.”

FACEBOOK

INSTAGRAM

BOSTON GLOBE

FACEBOOK

Tufts (Zeta Theta) Yale (Iota Chi) “We’re so proud of our sister Gabrielle Fong for her service in Yale Naval Reserve Officers Training Corps (NROTC). Not only was she the first woman to join the NROTC at Yale, but she was also the first woman to be appointed as battalion commander, an honor she received this winter.

Congrats, Gabby!”

Read more about Gabby at yalealumnimagazine.com.

Jordan Younger (Zeta Beta-Loyola Marymount) @thebalancedblonde

“2016 just keeps getting better.

Honored to be on @greatist’s list of the 100 Most Influential People in Health and Fitness!

What a dream.”

Read more about Jordan in the Summer 2015 Quarterly.

www.bostonglobe.com

Collegiate member Hannah Steinberg is profiled in the Boston Globe for “couponing with a conscience.” Her federally recognized nonprofit Our Coupons Care solicits donations, utilizes coupons and purchases goods to donate to charity.

Read more about Hannah at bostonglobe.com (keyword: extreme couponing).

“Do we have any ‘Orange is the New Black’ fans? Be sure and watch for alumna Gabrielle Ruiz (‘07) in Season 4, coming out sometime in 2016!”

Read more about Gabrielle (Delta Delta-Oklahoma City) in our Winter 2016 issue.

Let’s Chat!

Alpha Phi International (Executive Office) @AlphaPhiIntl @AlphaPhiIntl

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Oklahoma City University Alumni & Friends

Alpha Phi Foundation @AlphaPhiFoundation @APhiFoundation

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ONE OF US What was it like to hear those words: “You have cancer”?

Absolutely terrifying. It’s like joining an exclusive club with the most wonderful members, but it’s a club no one wants to be a part of. For a while I kept thinking, “Why me?” After deep personal reflection I realized, “Why not me?” Days after being diagnosed, I read Fran Drescher’s book, “Cancer Schmancer” and watched an interview with her. She said after her cancer diagnosis she wanted to turn her “pain into a purpose.” I hung onto those words, and I was determined to do the same. I wanted to be able to confront cancer with strength and grace, and hopefully my cancer journey would serve to inspire others.

Your daughter was 2 years old at the time of your diagnosis. How did that affect the way you processed the news?

I didn’t want what was going on with my health to affect her sweet spirit and kind heart. In the weeks after, I made three very important phone calls to my sister and my two best friends.

I made them promise they would take care of my daughter alongside my husband. That they would be there for her.

Be in the front row. Get her ready for prom. Nurse her first broken heart. It was the hardest three conversations I’d ever had, but I had do it so I could be at peace knowing that she would be taken care of.

Pain Into Purpose In this edition of “One of Us” we feature a Q&A with alumna Allisa Villani Miller (Eta Lambda-George Mason): former collegiate chapter president, a past recruitment advisor for CSU San Bernardino (Eta Beta) and an alumnae dues-paying member. At just 29 years old, Allisa received news that would rock the foundation of her world: She had ovarian cancer. With her husband, daughter and friends by her side, Allisa underwent treatment at City of Hope in California, and in November, she delivered the “Walk for Hope” Survivor’s Speech in front of more than 8,000 people.

What was it like to give the Survivor’s Speech at “Walk for Hope”?

It was a beautiful day honoring the survivors, supporting those still fighting and remembering those we’ve lost. There’s a 5K walk through the hospital grounds. You can see the patients in their windows looking down at the walk. Not too long ago, I was peering out the same windows. So during the walk, I like to look up at them, wave and remind them that they are not forgotten. We are taking the steps that they may or may not be able to take for themselves.

What health-related advice would you give to women?

You are your own best advocate. If something doesn’t seem right, go to the doctor. I’ve heard from countless women they are “too embarrassed” to bring something up to their doctor. Don’t be.

Talk about it with a medical professional. Press for answers. Get a second opinion. In many cancers, early detection is the key to survival.

Why is it important to empower other women?

There is so much pressure to be competitive with one another. The real beauty is in supporting one another. It’s really empowering when women recognize each other’s successes and complement one another. Try it. Next time you’re in Target, complement the mom who has a cart full of kids. Tell her she’s doing a great job. Then watch her feel empowered.  Learn more about Allisa and her journey at cityofhope.org (keyword: Allisa Miller).

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RETROSPECTIVE

After Graduation – What?

Below is an excerpt from the Fall 1967 Quarterly titled “After Graduation – What?” In this introduction to a series of post-collegiate articles, alumna JoAnn Huml MacRaild (Delta Eta-Adrian) writes about the uncertainty immediately following graduation, the same feeling our youngest alumnae experience today – nearly five decades later.

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COMMENCEMENT: CAPS, GOWNS, OPEN HOUSES

and a mad burst of farewell parties mixed in with the best wishes, tears, and parting gifts of friends, the pride of relatives and the promise of the Big World at last! All this hits each and every graduate as graduation day comes and goes at colleges across the country each year. ​To the sorority woman, graduation day is as sad as it is happy. It puts an end to the whirl of social activities, sisterhood and pride that every Greek woman shares with her sisters. It is a time of sadness – never again to work together on a homecoming float, or take the best new members, or know the delicious feeling that comes when your chapter recruits well. It’s a beginning, but it’s also an end.

That big black period looms before you

and marks “finished” to one of the greatest eras of your life. And you find yourself asking: “After graduation – what?” ​Marriage, a career, a family, success?

No matter what the final choice, there is an unfilled – and often painful – void left once the thrill of being “out” has worn off. Friendships – close ones – have been torn apart and never again, one feels, can that feeling of absolute belonging and togetherness be experienced.

Somehow all the people you meet pall into nothingness – they can’t compare with the sisters you’ve left behind – once a Greek, always a Greek!

“After graduation, what?” Probing the many aspects of sorority life other than collegiate, I hope to give graduates a chance to see that after graduation,

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Words that Matter Fact vs.

Fiction Sisters join Alpha Phi’s alumni network following graduation.

FICTION: While Alpha Phi will certainly remain a part of sisters’ lives post-grad, the above statement is false – technically speaking, that is.

Graduates don’t join Alpha Phi’s alumni network; they join Alpha Phi’s alumnae network. Yes, we promise “alumnae” is a word – and so is “alumna!” Latin, like many other languages, uses different words depending on the subject’s gender, and these words have slightly different pronunciations. ›› A n alumna is one female graduate (ah-lum-nuh). ›› Alumnae are more than one female graduate (ah-lum-nee). ›› A n alumnus is one male graduate (ah-lum-nuss).

Alpha Phi – and sorority life – does not end. There is no need for that big black period; a comma will do. Alpha Phi IS forever. So many aspects of sorority work are open to each and every one of us – so many new sisters to meet and work with and love – so many memories to share and new ones to create. Each one of us is, indeed, a link in the Ivy Chain, and like that chain, we too can grow with our sorority, become stronger and develop to our fullest. Soon you’ll be able to answer: “After graduation – Alpha Phi.” 

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›› Alumni are more than one male or a mixed group of graduates (ah-lum-neye).

You would use the term “alumni” when talking about all graduates from your college or university.

However, you are NEVER an alumni of Alpha Phi. You are a proud alumna!

In this recurring section, we’ll explore commonly misused words or phrases to help you say what you actually mean.

Alpha Phis vs.

Alpha Phi’s There’s a very important distinction between “Alpha Phis” and “Alpha Phi’s,” and it all comes down to one little piece of punctuation: the apostrophe. The apostrophe has two purposes in the English language: 1. To indicate that one or more letters were dropped in a contraction (e.g. we are, we’re, does not, doesn’t) 2. To indicate possession (e.g. Caroline’s idea, the idea belongs to Caroline) The apostrophe should never be used when talking about something that is plural with no possession. “Alpha Phis” is the plural of “Alpha Phi,” and it doesn’t indicate possession.

CORRECT: The Alpha Phis welcomed new members during recruitment.

INCORRECT: The Alpha Phi’s welcomed new members during recruitment.

Here is an example of proper apostrophe use: CORRECT: Alpha Phi’s new members were excited to join the sisterhood.

INCORRECT: Alpha Phis new members were excited to join the sisterhood.

The first phrase is correct because “Alpha Phi’s” is referring to the organization of Alpha Phi. These new members belong to the organization, indicating the organization’s possession, hence the apostrophe.

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The Alpha Phi Foundation Board of Directors and staff thank the 2015-16 Clara’s Circle Leadership Council members for their outstanding service this year. The Leadership Council is comprised of collegians who work to build an active tradition of individual philanthropy among their peers. We are grateful for your lasting contributions as philanthropic leaders!

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• Madeleine Barker (Gamma Phi-Florida State) • Marina Barnett (Theta Xi-Shippensburg)

• Morgan Hammes (Upsilon-Washburn) • Sarah Mader (Zeta Delta-Iowa State)

• Stephanie Bianco (Xi-Toronto)

• Megan Phelps (Iota Gamma-University of the Pacific)

• Emily Brecher (Iota Omicron-WPI)

• Bree Pitkin (Theta Sigma-Southern Utah)

• Alana Brogan (Beta Psi-San Jose State)

• Anneke Rood (Omega-Texas)

• Kristen Cates (Iota Phi-St. Francis)

• Emily Sadecki (Gamma Omicron-Drake)

• Emily Conlin (Theta Psi-SUNY Plattsburgh) • Julie Croak (Phi-Oklahoma)

• Stephanie Scholl (Gamma Epsilon-Lake Forest)

• Pi’ikea (Kea) Finnegan (Epsilon-Minnesota)

• Julianne Skrivan (Beta Sigma-Utah) • Jini Valence (Beta Phi-Whitman)

• Haley Freck (Delta Rho-Ball State)

• Kelsey Warner (Zeta Delta-Iowa State)

• Cassandra Goodby (Iota Zeta-Colorado School of Mines)

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TALKING POINTS

Alpha Phi Foundation Turns 60!

On April 15, 1956, Alpha Phi Foundation received its nonprofit designation, and Alpha Phi became one of the first women’s fraternities to establish a foundation. In honor of the Foundation’s 60th birthday, we invite you to celebrate the many accomplishments made possible by the loyal and generous support of Foundation donors.

FORGET ME NOT

MISSION STATEMENT: Advancing women’s lives through the power of philanthropy

The Forget Me Not Fund provides emergency assistance to alumnae and collegiate members in need. Last year the Foundation supported 100 members with Forget Me Not Grants totaling $138,414.

HERITAGE At the 1922 Convention, Martha Foote Crow paid it forward by donating her diamond engagement ring to boost Alpha Phi’s Endowment Fund.

Legacy Society Donors

Lily of the Valley Society Donors

(10+ YEARS OF GIVING):

(25+ YEARS OF GIVING)

1872 Society Donors

Clara Bradley Burdette Society Donors

($1,872+ IN LIFETIME)

(PLANNED GIVING)

Youngest Donor

Average First Gift to the Foundation

4,657 1,003

To date the Foundation has invested more than $950,000 in partnership with 26 organizations to support advancements in women’s heart health.

SCHOLARSHIP The first Foundation scholarships were awarded to Alpha Phi members in 1959.

Last year, more than $208,000 was awarded to 66 deserving Alpha Phis.

LEADERSHIP Members of Alpha Phi have been recipients of leadership training funded by the Foundation for years. Most recently 225 women participated in the Emerging Leaders Institute and Leadership Fellows Programs.

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HEART TO HEART GRANT

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Top 10 All-Star Moments: LEADERSHIP CONFERENCES 2016

Throughout February, chapter officers attended intensive leadership training programs in four cities across the country. These programs, Alpha Phi’s annual Leadership Conferences, encourage collegians to network with officers from other chapters and learn from talented alumnae who are willing to share their professional and volunteer-based insight. These networking opportunities allow attendees to build strong professional foundations and serve as each other’s support systems following graduation and beyond. Above all, the women in attendance learn to be mission-driven, resultsoriented all-stars, prepared to lead their home teams to successful seasons in the coming year.

Read more about the events with this Leadership Conference recap!

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More than 1,800 women attended the conferences

in four cities across the country: Irvine, Calif.; Chicago, Ill.; Newark, N.J.; and Grapevine, Texas.

New and updated

educational sessions met the changing needs and interests of the participants.

5 Alpha Phi Foundation announced their

Excellence in Philanthropy award winners at a joint Fraternity-

Foundation dinner. See page 15 for a list of all winners.

New programming included: • Specific tracks for director of continuous open bidding and director of new member education.

• “Great Ideas and Best Practices” sessions, which allowed officers to share strategies and ask questions.

• A two-hour proactive risk management session with vice presidents of risk management and chapter advisors.

• A two-hour joint session with chapter advisors, collegiate chapter administrators, international governors and extension team leads on chapter management strategy.

4 Ten chapters in each quadrant were named Order of the

Lamp (OOL) Qualifiers.

2 A total of 169 chapters attended. This was the first conference experience for members at our newest chapters: North Florida, Ole Miss, UC San Diego, UNC Chapel Hill and Yale!

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These are the top collegiate awards in the Fraternity, which are awarded annually based upon the chapter’s accomplishments during the tenure of a specific executive council. The Most Outstanding Collegiate Chapter will be selected from the OOL Qualifiers and presented with an award at Alpha Phi's 71st Biennial Convention in June. Stay tuned!

6 The opening dinner featured the

State of the Fraternity,

an update on the Fraternity’s progress and impact. International Executive Board Directors reviewed 2015 highlights across all areas of the organization.

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Alumnae mixed and mingled at a reception. VIP Alpha Phis greeted alumnae at each reception!

8 Greek licensed vendors sold

jewelry and apparel at each conference. A-List Greek’s marquee letters on display were a big hit!

9 The Foundation booth featured Red Dress Rena, which allowed attendees to purchase hearts in honor of sisters, friends and family.

The total raised across all four conferences was more than $20,000!

10 Collegians wrapped up a full day of educational sessions with a pajama party on Saturday night. Interactive games allowed officers to exchange position ideas in a fun and energetic setting. 

Follow Red Dress Rena on Instagram: @RedDressRena.

Chapters Recognized for Philanthropic Excellence at Leadership Conferences Collegiate chapters honor Alpha Phi Foundation’s mission by hosting Red Dress events each year. In 201415, chapters raised more than $2.3 million in support of the Foundation!

During Alpha Phi International Fraternity’s Leadership Conferences each February, Alpha Phi Foundation announces the “Excellence in Philanthropy” award winners.

These awards are presented to the top five fundraising and the most improved chapters in each quadrant.

We extend our heartfelt thanks and congratulations to the 2016 award winners!

Southern Quadrant

Western Quadrant

TOP CH A PTER DONORS

TOP CH A PTER DONORS

1. Oklahoma (Phi) 2. Texas (Omega) 3. Georgia Tech (Iota Mu) 4. Kentucky (Iota Nu) 5. Texas Tech (Gamma Iota)

1. Santa Clara (Zeta Gamma) 2. Washington (Sigma) 3. Loyola Marymount (Zeta Beta) 4. Arizona (Beta Epsilon) 5. USC (Beta Pi)

MOST IMPROV ED FU NDR A ISER

MOST IMPROV ED FU NDR A ISER

UNC Wilmington (Eta Xi)

Southern Utah (Theta Sigma)

Northern Quadrant

Eastern Quadrant

TOP CH A PTER DONORS

TOP CH A PTER DONORS

1. Creighton (Theta Delta) 2. Minnesota (Epsilon) 3. Kent State (Beta Omega) 4. Nebraska (Nu) 5. Northern Iowa (Epsilon Theta)

1. Villanova (Eta Epsilon) 2. Maryland (Delta Zeta) 3. George Washington (Iota Iota) 4. Cornell (Delta) 5. St. Joseph’s (Theta Theta)

MOST IMPROV ED FU NDR A ISER

MOST IMPROV ED FU NDR A ISER

Northern Illinois (Epsilon Delta)

Lafayette (Eta Sigma)

Giving is reflective of the 2014-15 academic year.

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GAIL CAYETANO CLASSICK (ETA-BOSTON) AND MEGAN SETTE (THETA IOTA-JAMES MADISON) MET IN 2013 at a dinner hosted by the Los Angeles alumnae chapter. They hit it off after discussing their professional marketing backgrounds, Meg attended an event where Gail was the guest speaker and soon after, they met one-on-one.

“I instantaneously felt like I had made a great friend,” Gail STORY BY

Kristen Mitchell (Gamma–DePauw) PHOTOS BY

Chrissi Hernandez (Gamma Alpha– San Diego State)

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says. Megan echoes that sentiment: “From day one Gail was beyond generous with making introductions to people she thought I should know, with no expectations or conditions,” she says. “I was completely impressed.”

Thus, a partnership began, one that would empower both women to better themselves, their businesses and

Bett Busin Duo the world around them.

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ter ness Two alumnae join forces to create a conference for conscious companies.

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BetterBusinessDuo THE DUO Gail is the co-founder and CEO of Cayetano Legacy Collection, Inc., a socially conscious jewelry line based in Southern California.

A first generation Filipino American, Gail saw the opportunity to use sourced materials from the Philippines to create beautiful jewelry and handbags. The company, run by Gail and her two sisters, works with small communities of women artisans to handcraft each piece. The result is job creation and economic growth in a part of the world where it is still much needed.

Megan is also a founder and managing director of M Collaborative, a boutique marketing and communications agency. In her free time, she consults as a strategist for early stage entrepreneurs, startups and nonprofits. Megan initially moved to Los Angeles to run the West Coast office of a nonprofit organization dedicated to educating and mobilizing youth in the political sphere. Now, her agency mobilizes its clients in much the same way, working with companies to cultivate active communities and make a greater social impact – online and off.

The Heart Series brings together socially conscious companies – organizations that put social goodness at the forefront of their business model – in an intimate and retreat-like setting.

Gail Cayetano Classick (Eta-Boston)

As CEO of Cayetano Legacy Collection, Inc., Gail embraces a socially conscious business model, working with communities of women artisans to handcraft jewelry.

FAVORITE PAIRING: Vanilla cream in my coffee!

FAVORITE DYNAMIC DUO: Tina Fey and Amy Poehler. They have been friends for many, many years and after all that time

In 2014, Gail decided she wanted to learn from other companies that made it their mission to help the world through their business models.

Knowing that Megan’s agency was active in the social responsibility space, Gail asked her to recommend industry conferences worth attending.

“After chatting, we realized there wasn’t a conference out there that offered exactly what I was looking for,” Gail says. “So we decided to make one happen.” Gail pitched the idea to Megan and the women pooled their resources, contacts and ideas.

“Both of us had prior experience in event planning,” Megan says, “And we knew that we had a ton of great people that were within 18

they still complement each other so well without competing with one another.

Two smart, witty, well-respected, powerful females = amazing!

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Megan is the chocolate chips to my cookie!

ON WOMEN WORKING TOGETHER: I recently reposted a quote from Amy Poehler’s “Smart Girls” that says, “Her success is not your failure.” It is such a perfect quote that I think every female should make her mantra – say it five times a day, every day!

reach. We put out of a couple of feelers, secured Laura Probst – chief of social goodness at Jessica Alba’s company, Honest Co – made a website and picked a name. I threw a small local panel event on sustainable fashion, alongside a few colleagues, and announced the conference. And then – we suddenly had a conference series!”

Five months later, the women welcomed more than 150 attendees to The Heart Series, a two-day conference designed to build businesses that want to better the world. The event was a success and this past February, Gail and Megan co-produced their second annual conference.

THE CONFERENCE The Heart Series brings together socially conscious companies – organizations that put social goodness at the forefront of their business model – in an intimate and retreat-like setting.

“There are conferences out there that cater to companies that have a corporate social responsibility division, but none that bring together the companies that live by their social responsibility,” Gail says. “We want this to ignite and unite that business community.”

The 2016 conference featured speakers and leaders from game-changing companies: president of The Giving Keys, founder of LA Kitchen, head of values and impact for Etsy, EVP of community for Lululemon, the VP of

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Megan Sette (Theta IotaJames Madison)

And plans are already underway for the 2017 conference. The ultimate goal? Reach as much of the socially good community around the nation as possible.

Megan, founder and managing director of M Collaborative, works with companies to cultivate communities and help them make a social impact.

FAVORITE PAIRING: Wine and cheese.

FAVORITE DYNAMIC DUO: Beyoncé and Jay Z. They are so money, figuratively and literally. They have built such an empire together.

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Gail is the Ben to my Jerry! (Who doesn’t love ice cream? Plus Ben and Jerry happen to be the originators of socially conscious business – which is what The Heart Series is all about.)

ON WOMEN WORKING TOGETHER: I believe collaboration is the new way of business, and the mentality around competition is changing. I’ve found that my biggest successes come from teaming up with women similar to me, like Gail.

communications for Children’s Miracle Network and the SVP of partnerships for DonorsChoose, to name a few.

Megan and Gail brainstorm topics they want to bring to the conference – sustainability, for instance – and discuss which individuals to approach based on that list.

“It’s true what they say: Everyone in the world is only two phone calls away from everyone else in the world. With less than six degrees of separation, we were able to secure several top speakers,” Megan says.

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year-and-a-half means we’re still in startup mode. We rely on our speakers to volunteer their time to travel and speak.”

Thus far, Megan and Gail have been amazed by the turnout, noting that selected speakers care so deeply about building a socially collaborative community that they’re excited to offer their talents at no cost. Megan and Gail hope to cultivate this network of speakers as the conference expands to states outside of California.

“Currently, a large chunk of our attendees come from around California,” Gail says, “But the plan is to host The Heart Series events in various parts of the country. We want to be more accessible.”

THE PARTNERSHIP To plan and execute a conference as a pair is inherently stressful – especially on a tight timeline and an even tighter budget. But Gail and Megan have found a rhythm to their partnership, dividing and conquering to balance the workload.

“Our first year producing The Heart Series we were running around like crazy up until the event – and during!” Gail says. “We booked the venue just two weeks prior to the start of the conference, hired our audiovisual company two days before the event and were calling caterers during the conference to provide food. But Meg’s attitude kept me from losing my mind. She has the ability to think clearly and stay calm even when there are fires happening around us.”

Megan cites Gail’s drive as her greatest strength. “She makes magic happen. That’s the only way to describe it. She has this amazing ability to pick up the phone or send an email and convince a complete stranger to take a chance on a project or idea. They often end up becoming good friends and/or working together in the future.”

This mutual admiration enhances Megan and Gail’s success. Gail notes, however, that trust – not admiration or friendship – is the single most important part of their professional partnership.

“You need to trust that your partner will pull her weight and you won’t get stuck doing all the work. You need to trust that your partner is a great representation of the brand that you’re building because she will be associated with your business just as much as you are,” Gail says. “Megan and I encourage each other, refer resources and open our networks to one another, and we trust that we each have the other’s best interests – and what’s best for the conference – at heart.”

This collaboration is one of the key pillars on which The Heart Series was founded. Megan notes that several companies in attendance at the 2015 conference tamed up on successful campaigns after last year’s conference.

“And we encouraged that,” Megan says.

“Working together is how we’ll grow better, smarter, faster and most importantly, make a bigger impact.” 

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From the Quad

Harvard Collegian Featured in ELLE Magazine

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HARVARD, IOTA TAU COLLEGIATE MEMBER ARCHANA SOMASEGAR

(Iota Tau-Harvard) was featured in ELLE magazine for her inspiring work with girls’ education and empowerment.

Archana works with Circle of Women to build schools for girls in developing countries, organized a fundraiser to build a computer lab and sewing studio for an orphanage in Madurai and served as a teen advisor for the United Nations Foundation campaign “Girl Up.” Led by a community of nearly half a million passionate advocates raising awareness and funds, Girl Up provides financial and other support to the UN through joint programs in Ethiopia, Guatemala, Liberia, Malawi and India.

Since 2010, Girl Up has partnered with the UN to support programs that give girls an equal chance for education, health, social and economic opportunities, and a life free from violence. As a teen advisor, Archana advised the campaign and shaped the projects it undertook. With teen advisor input, the UN Foundation is truly a campaign “by girls for girls.”

In the fall, Archana traveled to Istanbul, Turkey, to attend the 2015 G(irls)20 Summit, a take on the G20

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Summit. The summit emphasizes the impact of empowering girls and women around the world economically, and provides delegates with skills, coaching and access to global experts.

Archana says the G(irls)20 summit was an incredible experience. “It was surreal to be able to meet girls from all over the world. I had never been in an environment with people who were so different from me but somehow shared my drive and passion for promoting global economic growth and increasing female labor force participation.”

Since 2010, Girl Up has partnered with the UN to support programs that give girls an equal chance for education, health, social and

NEBRASKA, NU

Collegian Promoted to Specialist Ranking Collegian Danielle Martin (Nu-Nebraska) was promoted to specialist ranking in the U.S. Army. Danielle, who has served in the Army for two years, hopes to be promoted to sergeant following the completion of online classes, in-person courses and the opening of an E-5 leadership slot.

economic opportunities, and a life free from violence.

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MINNESOTA, EPSILON

Collegian’s Experience Kickstarts Campaign for Girls

UNC CHAPEL HILL, KAPPA ALPHA

Sisters Deliver Heart-shaped Pillows to Children Sisters from UNC Chapel Hill (Kappa Alpha) delivered homemade heart-shaped pillows to North Carolina Children’s Hospital. The pillows provided a source of comfort and relief for children undergoing heart surgery. Pictured are (from left): Juliette Sweeney, Billie Patterson, Ali Wickman and Jenni Ciesielski (all Kappa Alpha–UNC Chapel Hill).

Collegiate member Ali Miller (Epsilon-Minnesota) is a campaign soldier for the company “Be” (bebangles.co). Be is an Australian jewelry company on a mission to help women and girls overcome anxiety, depression, eating disorders and other hardships, and inspire them to believe in themselves again. They also work directly with One Girl in Uganda and Sierra Leone, providing a day of education for a girl with each bangle sold.

Ali’s story about her sexual assault and ensuing depression was published on the company’s website to kickstart the campaign. Ali received a Be bangle from her father on her 20th birthday that read, “She Believed She Could So She Did.” Ali says on the website that she embodies this sentiment in the way she lives her life:

​“You are worth more than staying silent and telling no one about the pain you feel,” she says. “Yes, you are hurting

ARIZONA STATE, GAMMA PI

Inaugural Teddy Bear Drive Arizona State (Gamma Pi) hosted its inaugural Teddy Bear Drive on campus in the fall. In one day, sisters collected more than 220 brand new stuffed animals, which were packaged and donated to the local Phoenix Children’s Hospital. The chapter hopes to make this an inaugural event.

and no, you shouldn’t feel ashamed. You are worth more than that.”

APPALACHIAN STATE, THETA NU

YALE, IOTA CHI

Collegian Attends Nobel Peace Laureate World Summit Collegiate member Lelina Chang (Iota ChiYale) attended the World Summit of Nobel Peace Laureates this fall in Barcelona, Spain.

She attended lectures and workshops lead

by Nobel Peace Laureates as part of the summit’s youth leadership program.

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Chapter Receives Highest Honor for Third Year in a Row The Theta Nu chapter at Appalachian State received the Black and Gold award, the highest standard of excellence award for a Greek organization on campus. This is the chapter’s third consecutive year receiving the award.

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MARYLAND, DELTA ZETA

Most Valuable Member Molly Dana (Delta ZetaMaryland) received the Most Valuable Member award on behalf of Maryland’s Order of Omega chapter, a leadership honor society for fraternity and sorority members.

Molly is co-president of the university’s anti-human trafficking club and Students Ending Slavery. She is studying abroad in Australia, volunteering with a shelter for women and children affected by domestic violence and sexual assault.

LOYOLA MARYMOUNT, ZETA BETA

Sister Serves on Mission Trip to Guatemala Collegian Carly Tse (Zeta Beta-Loyola Marymount) served on a mission to Guatemala through Open Wide Foundation, a nonprofit organization focused on providing oral healthcare to underserved communities. Carly explored her passion for dentistry while serving hundreds of patients. She continues her passion for service as vice president of campus affairs for the Zeta Beta chapter.

BRITISH COLUMBIA, BETA THETA

Collegian Starts First Canadian Chapter of Service Organization Sister Nika Moeini (Beta Theta-British Columbia) started the first Alpha Phi Omega chapter in Canada and now serves as its president. Alpha Phi Omega is a national service organization that inspires leadership, friendship and service. Nika is dedicated to growing and strengthening the first Canadian chapter by reaching out to community organizations within and outside of the university to provide volunteers. She hopes that once area connections are solidified, other Canadian schools will be inspired to start their own chapters.

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Sister’s Patagonia Adventures

JOHNS HOPKINS, ZETA OMICRON

Sister Named to 2015 Good Works Teams Sister Katie Clark (Zeta Omicron-Johns Hopkins) was one of five undergraduates named to the 2015 Allstate Women’s Basketball Coaches Association (WBCA) and the National Association of Basketball Coaches (NABC) Good Works Teams®.

The Allstate WBCA and NABC Good Works Teams® award recognizes players at all levels of college basketball who have made outstanding contributions in the areas of volunteerism and civic involvement. Katie will attend Johns Hopkins Medical School in the fall, one of the top medical schools in the nation.

Katherine Moser (Beta SigmaUtah) spent three months in the Patagonia region of Chile with the National Outdoor Leadership School. In 80 days, she kayaked 244 miles from Isla Magdalena to Puerto Aysén and mountaineered across the Northern Patagonian Ice Field. She traversed the Cordón Soler mountain range, crossed chin-deep glacial rivers, ice climbed on the Cacho Glacier and summited untraveled peaks. The last two weeks of her journey were spent on an independent backpacking trip with only a map and compass, exploring unmapped terrain.  To see more “From the Quad” submissions, visit alphaphi.org (keyword: web extra).

CORNELL, DELTA

Sister Campaigns for Sustainability

Collegian Rachel Geiger (Delta-Cornell) is the co-founder of a student nonprofit solar energy organization, Energizing Impact, which hopes to install a solar energy system and an exhibit in Sciencenter, an Ithaca museum.

Within one week of its launch, the project raised $17,000, nearly one third of the total costs necessary.

The system, called a 14.3 kW photovoltaic (PV) solar energy system, would save the Sciencenter more than $1,600 annually and offset 15,000 pounds of carbon dioxide.

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Extension Alpha Phi became the 11th National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) sorority at UC San Diego during Winter Quarter 2016.

Educational Leadership Consultants Sydney Berger (Beta Epsilon-Arizona) and Katie Dunn (Beta Psi-San Jose State) arrived on campus in early January to introduce the campus to Alpha Phi. Marketing and recruitment events were their focus for the first part of the year. Volunteer team members, led by Extension Team Lead Kate Halfon (Eta Delta-CSU East Bay), participated in recruitment events, interviews and infrastructure development in advance of Alpha Phi at UC San Diego’s first Bid Day on Feb. 19, 2016.  www.ucsdalphaphi.com Alpha Phi at UCSD @ucsdalphaphi @ucsandiegoaphi

UC SAN DIEGO ALPHA PHI FAST FACTS

»» Alpha Phi’s 24th collegiate chapter in California »» Joins the following established NPC sororities on campus: Alpha Chi Omega, Alpha Epsilon Pi, Alpha Omicron Pi, Chi Omega, Tri Delta, Delta Gamma, Kappa Alpha Theta, Kappa Kappa Gamma, Pi Beta Phi and Sigma Kappa. »» Welcomed 55 new members on Bid Day. »» Three new members attended the Western Leadership Conference the day after Bid Day.

UC San Diego Established in 1960 33,735 students

FAST FACTS U.S. News & World Report ranks UC San Diego as the 9th Best Public Institution in the U.S.

Students live and learn in six undergraduate colleges, patterned after the “small college” concept at Cambridge and Oxford

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100 majors in six multi-disciplinary areas: social science, engineering, art, biology, humanities and s cience/ math

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Silent Chapter

“ This is goodnight, but not goodbye.”

Alabama (Beta Mu)

​Illinois (Beta Alpha)

​G race Eliassen Glos (‘38), Oct. 23, 2015.

​Joan Nack Allen (‘47), Oct. 29, 2015.

​Arizona (Beta Epsilon)

​Indiana (Beta Tau)

​Patricia Downey Powles (‘48), Nov. 25, 2015.

​Colleen Boyle Stoppenhagen (‘63), Oct. 27, 2015.

​ aldwin Wallace (Delta B Upsilon)

​Indiana State (Delta Pi)

​Susan Davis Eliser (‘66), Nov. 17, 2015.

Lois Guthrie Becker (‘67), Dec. 30, 2015.

​Boston (Eta)

​Kansas (Gamma Delta)

​Helen Goring (‘35), Aug. 1, 2015.

​Elizabeth Wendt O’Neill (‘53), Dec. 30, 2015. ​Dee Daniels Roshong (‘55), Dec. 10, 2015. ​Sylvia Swogger Sheldon (‘62), Dec. 19, 2015.

​Colorado (Beta Gamma)

​Virginia Clark LaFlare (‘35), Nov. 9, 2015. ​Jean Weingartner Manson (‘49), Jan. 2, 2016.

​Kent State (Beta Omega)

​Marilyn Hershberg Law (‘51), Oct. 29, 2015. ​Jacqueline Duke Marshall (‘48), Dec. 23, 2015.

​Cornell (Delta)

​Joan Auchter Kraft (‘45), Dec. 23, 2015.

​Denison (Beta Kappa)

​Michigan State (Beta Beta)

​Madelyn Lockhart (‘45), Jan. 19, 2015.

​Juli Crary Davis (‘70), Dec. 4, 2015. ​Marjorie Masterson Dietsch (‘41), Nov. 1, 2015. ​Dana Malchie (‘67), Oct. 24, 2015. ​Jane Phillips (‘60), Sept. 22, 2015.

​DePauw (Gamma)

​Frances Abbie Mason Penwell (‘44), Dec. 1, 2015 (also Beta Alpha-Illinois). ​Marian Osborn Porter (‘44), Jan. 2, 2016.

​Drury (Gamma Gamma)

​Minnesota (Epsilon)

​Jane Griffith Schwickrath (‘54), Dec. 22, 2015.

​Ella Hurst Goetschius (‘67), July 4, 2015.

​Patricia John Abbott (‘41), Nov. 11, 2015. ​Jane Samels Lick (‘43), Aug. 13, 2015. ​Teresa Moody Stark (‘82), May 24, 2015.

​Idaho (Beta Zeta)

​Missouri (Omicron)

​Florida State (Gamma Phi)

​Beverly Sly Warnstaff (‘42), July 23, 2015.

​Nadine Comnick Kambitsch (‘45), Aug. 9, 2015.

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​Nebraska (Nu)

​Pamela Simonson Mardock (‘78), Oct. 14, 2015. ​Nancy Chamberlin Weir (‘52), Dec. 13, 2015.

​North Dakota (Pi)

​Esther Grorud McClintock (‘43), Nov. 8, 2015.

​Northwestern (Beta)

​Susan Warner Gustafson (‘46), Oct. 28, 2015.

​Ohio State (Rho)

​Janice McCune Bertram (‘57), Dec. 4, 2015. ​Roselyn Sieber Crooks (‘43), Dec. 13, 2015. ​Anita Smith Wolfe (‘46), Aug. 10, 2015.

​Oklahoma (Phi)

​Nancy Hendricks Culwell (‘71), March 16, 2015. ​Paula Langford Haymon (‘76), Dec. 2, 2015. ​Jane McPherren Whiteside (‘46), Nov. 4, 2015.

​Oregon (Tau)

​Darrylene Bergerson Cokley (‘79), Dec. 5, 2015. ​Nancy Peterson Nash (‘46), Nov. 29, 2015.

​Oregon State (Beta Upsilon)

​Jane Reed Rice (‘58), July 31, 2015.

​Puget Sound (Gamma Zeta)

Kathe Childs Campbell (‘53), Nov. 19, 2015.

San Diego State (Gamma Alpha)

Margaret DeHass Whitson (‘57), June 23, 2015.

Silent Chapter announcements may be submitted at alphaphi.org (keyword: silent chapter) or to quarterly@alphaphi.org.

Please note: year listed in parentheses is year of initiation.

— “Linger”

S​ an Jose State (Beta Psi)

​Jane Moore Houghton (‘48), Dec. 24, 2015. ​G erry Quadros Shelley (‘48), Oct. 12, 2015.

​South Dakota (Psi)

​Teri Axthlem Werner (‘76), Dec. 15, 2015.

​Stanford (Kappa)

​Alice Klauber Miller (‘31), Oct. 16, 2015. ​Mary Mahler Raitt (‘78), Dec. 12, 2015.

​SUNY Cortland (Eta Tau)

​Aimee Dziomba Hayden (‘93), July 8, 2015.

​SUNY Plattsburgh (Theta Psi)

UC Santa Barbara (Gamma Beta)

​Patricia Dillon Bliss (‘64), Dec. 3, 2015.

USC (Beta Pi)

​Bonnie Larson Poulsen (‘45), Dec. 1, 2015.

Washington (Sigma)

​Blanche Sweet Carpenter (‘40), Oct. 26, 2015. ​Meike Foster James (‘90), Oct. 19, 2015.

West Virginia (Beta Iota)

​Mary Huffman Orlidge (‘45), Dec. 2, 2015. ​Ruth Headlee Potter (‘47), Dec. 9, 2015.

​Whitman (Beta Phi)

​Stacey Johnson (‘96), Aug. 16, 2015.

​G ail Dickson Marioni (‘54), Dec. 22, 2015.

​Syracuse (Alpha)

​Wichita State (Gamma Xi)

​Joanne Cottrell Rueckert (‘73), July 2, 2015. ​Mary Knappenberger Ryder (‘41), Nov. 11, 2015.

​Texas (Omega)

​Dorothy Blessing Bates (‘41), June 19, 2015. ​Claudia Poff Gill (‘46), April 15, 2015. ​Shirley Price Stewart Hughes (‘60), Dec. 8, 2015.

T​ exas A&M Commerce (Delta Beta)

​Lois Burrell Hollabaugh (‘58), Oct. 24, 2015.

​Wisconsin (Iota)

​Joyce Prehn Clark (‘46), Jan. 6, 2016. ​Katherine Haas Hinke (‘64), Aug. 3, 2015.

​ isconsin Stout W (Gamma Sigma)

​Deanna Miller Applehans (‘68), Nov. 1, 2015.

​Dorothy Dunn Ingram (‘60), Nov. 11, 2015.

​Toronto (Xi)

​Catherine Charles (‘66), Nov. 9, 2015.

​UC Berkeley (Lambda)

​Margaret Shaw Landon (‘41), Nov. 9, 2015.

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Where We Live

Mapping a Home’s History in Madison

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MADISON, WIS., HOME OF THE BADGERS, BOASTS

four beautiful lakes. The shores of the largest of these, Lake Mendota, provide an unusual site for a city campus. On a spacious lot extending in the rear to the shores of Lake Mendota sits a red brick New England Colonial mansion.

In back, a pergola invites one’s gaze out over the blue waters. A wrought-iron fence encloses the property, enhancing its dignity and charm. This property, later designated “the wish-come true house,” has served as home to Alpha Phi’s Iota chapter at Wisconsin since August 1927. ​In October 1978, alumnae Carolyn Rennebohm Simpson (Iota-Wisconsin) and Judy Gerard Foster (Gamma Sigma-Wisconsin Stout) plunged into several large boxes of files containing musty, old crumbling letters, cards, stock certificates, invitations, carbon copies of letters and newsletters relating to the Iota chapter. ​In honor of the recent renovations at Iota chapter, we’ve revisited the colorful history found in these boxes, following the path of the chapter, property by property, to its current home on the corner of Langdon and Carroll streets, where the legacy of Iota chapter has resided for nearly 90 years.

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1904 1896

The Iota chapter at Wisconsin is founded.

1897

The chapter rents the first women’s fraternity house in Madison at 250 Langdon Street.

After several years, the women move into a duplex at 509 North Henry Street. This property proves to be too far from campus.

The project of buying a lot and building a house is started. Member Frances Staver Twining (Beta-Northwestern and Iota-Wisconsin) aids the chapter with initial financing.

1905

The chapter has enough to buy the lot at 819 Irving Place and purchases it for $4,200. The women move into the home and payments continue.

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PHOTOS COURTESY OF KEE ARCHITECTURE, INC.

The Modern Day Home Today, the Iota chapter house still stands at 28 E. Langdon Street. Most recently, the chapter renovated the basement and first floor. The basement rehab included a reconfiguration of the kitchen, the addition of two bedrooms and a bathroom, new dining room furniture and a new study room. First floor renovations included purchasing new furniture, refinishing the hardwood floors and constructing built-in book shelves.

A fresh coat of paint brightened both spaces. The modernization of the space give this historical home a modern and competitive edge, while maintaining the charm of Colonial Revival architecture: detailed cornice molding, decorative fanlight and a solarium overlooking Lake Mendota. 

1926

The last payment is made on the mortgage of the 819 Irving Place house, and immediately, the chapter sets its sights on the Frank Brown House at 28 Langdon Street, a historical landmark originally owned by Mr. Frank G. Brown, the first vice president of the First National Bank and founder of the French Battery Company, now known as Rayovac. Competition for the property will be fierce!

1927, AUGUST

The fundraising is successful, and Iota chapter officially purchases the property from the Brown family.

1927, JUNE

1927, FALL

The women move into the facility at 28 E. Langdon Street.

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After realizing another organization is pursuing the property, a letter is sent on behalf of the chapter and the finance committee to alumnae, asking for donations. Changing conditions in Madison make it imperative for Alpha Phi to take action regarding a new house.

Excerpts from “History of the Alpha Phi Fraternity: 1872-1951.”

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olunteers V Influence Photos courtesy of Digital Pix

ALPHA PHI VOLUNTEERS offer their time and talents to strengthen our sisterhood and impact the growth of our organization. They may come from many different chapters and serve in a variety of roles, but one thing is clear: they share a passion for the Fraternity and strive to make a better Alpha Phi for future generations.

We saw this passion in motion when we interviewed three groups of Alpha Phi volunteers – a mother and her daughters, two biological sisters and two lifelong friends. Read on to see how the Alpha Phi volunteer experience has enriched these women’s relationships, taught them about their working styles and given new meaning to their membership in the organization.

Three’s Company The Alley women share more than just a name: all three attended universities

Mary Beth Alley

in Ohio, joined Alpha Phi chapters at their respective universities and have remained highly involved with the Fraternity following graduation. Mary Beth initiated into the Beta Omicron chapter in 1979 and joined the local alumnae

(BETA OMICRONBOWLING GREEN)

chapter after leaving college early to get married. Growing up, Mary Beth’s children – Kim, a 2004 initiate, and Caroline, a 2009 initiate – remember their mother

Alpha Phi chapters, and after graduation, they joined their mother in her volunteer

Vice president of programming for Cleveland East alumnae chapter, campus affairs advisor for Baldwin Wallace (Delta Upsilon)

pursuits. What has ensued is a lifelong commitment to the Fraternity that spans

On giving back to Alpha Phi

chapters, roles and generations. As the saying goes, “Like mother, like daughter.”

“Alpha Phi was such an important part of my collegiate career, but the alumnae group was also there for me when I was newly married and away from my college-aged friends.

I’ve been a member of the chapter now for 34 years, and there are women in their late 70s and early 80s who still attend meetings. Even after all these years, Alpha Phi is still important to them.”

attending alumnae chapter meetings, which fostered their interest in Greek life and more specifically, Alpha Phi. Both Kim and Caroline found a second home in

Kim Alley Brundage

(EPSILON ALPHAASHLAND)

(ETA GAMMAAKRON)

Alumnae chapter president for Cleveland East alumnae chapter, marketing advisor for Baldwin Wallace (Delta Upsilon)

Recording secretary for Cleveland East alumnae chapter, programming and education advisor for Akron (Eta Gamma)

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On giving back to Alpha Phi

“Alpha Phi is full of dedicated and talented leaders who want to see their organization grow and prosper. The organization allowed me to learn what kind of leader I am and what kind of leader I want to be. I’ve discovered something new in all of my positions – as a collegiate member and also as an alumna.”

“Alpha Phi has taught me that I am more confident than I thought. I was very shy my first couple years in Alpha Phi, but once I started taking on positions and making friends I became more confident in myself.”

On family working styles “My mom and I are definitely the planners in the family. Caroline is the creative idea generator.

Caroline will come up with the ideas; my mom and I will be the ones to sort out details.”

On continuing the legacy “My grandmother has a picture hanging in her house that says, ‘Mirror, mirror, on the wall, I am my mother after all,’ which I think is very fitting. As I get older, I recognize how much I’m like my mom. And I’m thankful for that! She has shown me what it means to be a leader and how to find humor in any situation.”

Caroline Alley

On working with her daughters “I tend to be the ‘calendarwatcher,’ keeping us on schedule. I can also be a bit high strung, and Kim tends to keep me from getting overly anxious.

Since Caroline is the youngest in our group, she brings a youthful viewpoint to the ideas I have for monthly meetings.

Kim and Caroline are both very dependable and follow through on their commitments. If they say they will do something, you can count on them to do it!”

On family working styles “We listen to each other. No one ever goes unheard. We also always write everything down.

Between the three of us, if one person missed something, it’s more than likely that someone else wrote it down.”

On continuing the legacy

On continuing the legacy “My family has taught me to care for people and to always look at the positive. They have taught me to be strong and speak for myself. But they have also taught me that it’s okay to be funny, and not take everything so seriously.”

“We had our local alumnae chapter meeting recently, and one of the women commented how lucky I was to have both of my daughters follow in my footsteps. I couldn’t agree more.

When they were in school, Girl Scouts was our common bond and we had a lot of good times together. When they left for school, I missed those moments.

Since they both joined Alpha Phi, we have been able to create new memories and new bonds.”

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A Second Family Eleni and Alexandra are biological sisters – just one year apart – but their sisterhood extends beyond blood. When Eleni initiated into Xi chapter in 2006, her older sister Alexandra was already in her third year and welcomed Eleni into the chapter with open arms. Since graduation, the women have served the

Alexandra Makos (XI-TORONTO)

Collegiate chapter administrator (CCA) for Duquesne (Epsilon Iota), Lafayette (Eta Sigma) and Lehigh (Epsilon Psi)

Fraternity in various capacities, volunteering as officers of the Ontario South ivy connection, leadership program facilitators and local chapter advisors. Their continued dedication to the Fraternity has encouraged a bond much bigger than their familial ties, and in 2007, they welcomed their mother, Susan Derikozis Makos, to this special sisterhood through alumna initiation.

Eleni Makos (XI-TORONTO)

Why she volunteers “This is what has kept me involved with Alpha Phi: knowing that there are so many wonderful collegians currently on their Alpha Phi journey that will someday give back to the Fraternity like Eleni and I have. Alpha Phi is an opportunity for lifelong education. The various leadership opportunities provided by the Fraternity serve to reinforce this message. Alpha Phi is where my professional and personal lives intersect and it provides me with a vehicle to inspire and empower other Alpha Phis to be the best individuals they can be.”

On working with Eleni “Knowing each other all our lives is definitely part of the secret. Eleni is a great ‘ideator’ and I am very analytical, so we’re able to achieve elaborate plans.

It also helps that we understand each other’s communication styles. Eleni’s respect and professionalism when interacting with members is really what sets her apart though. She treats everyone with the same respect as she does her own family, which leaves a strong impression on the Alpha Phis she engages with.”

On women working together “When women work together it provides them with more opportunities to grow – if they are open to the experience. To me, the key is to always have an open mind, open ears and an open heart. Regardless of who you work with, remember that everyone has a story. And let’s be honest: working with Alpha Phis is probably one of the most amazing things anyone can do!”

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“Regardless of who you work with, remember that everyone has a story.”

— ALEXANDRA MAKOS (XI–TORONTO)

Chapter advisor for Toronto (Xi)

Why she volunteers “As a collegian, Alpha Phi allowed me to develop a skill set that no university class could ever teach. Alpha Phi has influenced me in becoming the woman and leader that I am today. Giving back to Alpha Phi is not something I have to do.

I choose to do it because it’s a part of my life that has made such a big impact. Volunteers are a vital part of our sisterhood, but I still believe I get more from Alpha Phi than I can ever give back.”

On working with Alexandra

“Giving back to Alpha Phi is not something I have to do.

I choose to do it because it’s a part of my life that has made such a big impact. ” — ELENI MAKOS (XI–TORONTO)

“Being biological sisters, it’s fair to say Alexandra knows how I operate. We’ve really gotten into a rhythm when it comes to Alpha Phi. We’ve figured out our strengths and areas where we may need support from one another. Alexandra is exceptional at managing her time. She has this unique ability to bring balance and organization to any situation.”

On women working together “Being part of this organization gives members the opportunity to work with other strong, intelligent women. It allows us to understand the importance of maintaining a respectful working environment that encourages communication and collaboration.

These experiences as sisters transfer into our daily lives.”

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Lisa Haning Blackburn

Laura Underwood Cook

(DELTA DELTA -OKLAHOMA CITY)

(ZETA NU-TEXAS CHRISTIAN)

Alumnae Panhellenic delegate, Oklahoma City Panhellenic; Oklahoma City alumnae chapter executive council officer

Alumnae Panhellenic delegate, Georgetown Area Panhellenic

How Laura inspires me

How Lisa inspires me

“Laura encourages me to give as my schedule, family and career obligations allow. She leads by example, and she’s so loyal and supportive of Alpha Phi and her local Panhellenic. We share ideas and ideals as we work towards common goals. She listens and often helps me clarify my thinking and define my goals. This is her greatest gift!”

On complementing one another “We share the love of Alpha Phi and desire to see our sisterhood grow in numbers and strength of character as each new chapter is added. Each of us serves as a sounding board for the other. We care deeply about our sisterhood, cherish its rich history and draw strength from one another and our mentors. We do not feel the need to censor ourselves when talking with one another and can be candid because we come to the relationship with an assurance of the unconditional love of the other. We have each repeatedly been a port in the storms of the other for almost 30 years.”

What Alpha Phi has given me “Alpha Phi has been there for me through all stages of my life … as a student, collegiate member, as a young widowed alumna needing to reconnect with her sisters and needing to be needed. As a young advisor leading impressionable women not much younger than me and as district governor representing Alpha Phi International, Alpha Phi accepted me, supported me and taught me to communicate with students, sisters, educators, parents, administrators, International officers and staff.”

“Working with Lisa is easy because we have the same goals, same agendas: to make Alpha Phi better wherever and however we can. ” — L AURA UNDERWOOD COOK (ZETA NU–TEXAS CHRISTIAN)

“We are there for each other, figuring out how to deal with issues that alone would be overwhelming or lead to burn out. Together we are stronger than we are alone. This has been true for the past 30 years.”

On complementing one another “Working with Lisa is easy because we have the same goals, same agendas: to make Alpha Phi better wherever and however we can. We finish each other’s thoughts and sentences, which also makes it easy! No matter what wild idea either one of us comes up with, the other is there to talk sense or help it succeed … Yeah, even the outlandish ideas!”

What Alpha Phi has given me “Alpha Phi has taught me that I am enough. I am not a beauty queen, I don’t belong to Mensa. I am an average person who can do amazing things. Alpha Phi helps me believe in myself.”  International Volunteer Week is April 10-16, 2016.

See how Alpha Phi celebrates our volunteers by visiting alphaphi.org (keyword: volunteer week).

A Dynamic Duo

After nearly 30 years of friendship, Lisa and Laura are as close as any pair of biological sisters. They first met at Alpha Phi’s 1986 Convention in the hotel bar. What has followed is a decades-long relationship more akin to family than friends: Lisa is Godmother to Laura’s youngest son; Laura was the matron of honor at Lisa’s wedding; they’ve seen each other through loss and supported one another in times of great achievement. When Lisa was recognized with Alpha Phi’s prestigious Michaelanean Award at Convention in 2010, Laura was by her side. And when Laura was honored with the award four years later, Lisa returned the favor. Both women serve as Alpha Phi alumnae Panhellenic delegates – Laura on behalf of the Oklahoma City Alumnae Panhellenic and Laura on behalf of the Georgetown Area Panhellenic (Georgetown, Texas). Both women also embody the spirit of service beyond Alpha Phi, donating their time and talents to committees and nonprofits in their local communities, making them a highly dynamic volunteer pair.

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Alumna Establishes Scholarship Fund in Honor of Alpha Phi Sister

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Above: Claudia Lacey McNeil (Tau-Oregon) (in red) enjoys time with her husband Dan and daughters Christy MacColl (left) and Carrie Gross (right). Fellow Tau sister Gretchen Anderson Pilip established a scholarship fund in McNeil’s name.

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Gretchen Anderson Pilip

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PHOTO COURTESY OF HEIDI HIASSEN, UNIVERSITY OF OREGON

GRETCHEN ANDERSON PILIP (TAU-OREGON)

has established a scholarship fund in honor of sister Claudia Lacey McNeil (Tau-Oregon), who was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), commonly known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease, in 2010. ALS is a progressive neurodegenerative disease that affects the brain and spinal cord. It has no cure.

Gretchen and Claudia met on Bid Day at Oregon in 1968. In honor of their nearly 50-year friendship, Gretchen endowed the Claudia Lacey McNeil Scholarship Fund at Oregon through the H.E. Anderson Family Foundation. The undergraduate scholarship will provide tuition support to graduates of underprivileged and minority high schools in the Portland area.

The university’s website published a story about the scholarship and the

women’s enduring friendship. “Since I was diagnosed five years ago, my sorority sisters and other friends from college have been pure saints,” Claudia says in the article. “They have never hesitated to give their kindness to me.” In their decadeslong friendship, Gretchen and Claudia have experienced weddings, births and careers. The scholarship is a tribute to a relationship that would not have been possible without the university or Alpha Phi. “This is to honor Claudia,” Gretchen says. “Her life and her commitment and connection to the University of Oregon.”  Read more about Gretchen and Claudia’s friendship at around.uoregon.edu.

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INDIANAPOLIS, IND.

CENTRAL IOWA, IOWA

Sisters of the Indianapolis

Sisters Complete Service Projects

Sisters Spread Love Across City alumnae chapter enjoyed two annual traditions in February: the collegiate chapter cookie bake and crafting Valentine’s Day cards for the Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital. The chapter delivered cookies to six local collegiate chapters

during final exams, hoping to make contacts that will bring recent graduates to future events. Members also gathered in February to craft dozens of Valentine’s Day cards out of construction paper, stickers and glitter, delivering much-needed warmth and hope to children spending Valentine’s Day in the local hospital.

Members of the Central Iowa alumnae chapter completed service projects this winter to honor the Founders’ “spirit of love and charity.” Sisters created food baskets for families serviced by the Polk County Community Family & Youth Services in Des Moines, Iowa.

Sisters also supported Central Iowa Alumnae Panhellenic Association’s donation efforts at The Career Closet, which assists women in need by providing professional wardrobes for job interviews.

Many of the women benefiting from The Career Closet have been homeless, in shelters or recently released from prison.

The center was running low when they received the alumnae donations, and organizers called contributors their “angels.”

LONG BEACH, CALIF.

Alumnae Chapter Sews for Good Alumna Norma Kolb (Gamma Kappa-CSU Long Beach) and the Long Beach alumnae chapter sewing group delivered more than 100 hand-sewn pillows to Miller’s Children’s and Women’s Hospital in Long Beach, Calif.

The brightly patterned pillows brought physical comfort and cheer to cardiac patients in need of relief during the holidays, a difficult time of year to spend in the hospital.

SAN MATEO, CALIF.

Alumna Releases Book for Teen Girls

DENTON, TEXAS

Leadership Runs in the Family Alumna Carolyn Dean Runyan (Zeta Nu-Texas Christian) joined daughter Madison Runyan (Gamma Eta-North Texas) at the collegiate chapter’s officer installation.

Madison is the Gamma Eta chapter president, and her mother served Zeta Nu in the same role nearly 30 years ago.

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Dr. Lucie Thole Hemmen (Beta Psi-San Jose State) has released her second book titled “The Teen Girl’s Survival Guide: Ten Tips for Making Friends, Avoiding Drama and Coping with Social Stress” (Instant Help, 2015. ISBN: 1626253064). The guide, grounded in evidence-based cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), is aimed at girls who identify social stress as a top concern. Dr. Hemmen is a licensed clinical psychologist who has worked for more than 20 years to strengthen communication between teens and parents.

To see more “Always Alpha Phi” submissions, visit alphaphi.org (keyword: web extra).

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DALLAS, TEXAS

Ivy Twines for Alumnae Initiates Beverly Ivy (Alpha Lambda-Alumna Initiate), a member of the Dallas and Suburban alumnae chapter, became the 10th woman in her family to initiate as an Alpha Phi. Beverly (center) celebrated her initiation with her Alpha Phi family over Founders’ Day weekend.

She was sponsored by alumna Rosemary Rowland Mach (Delta Beta-Texas A&M Commerce). Sarah Dill (Alpha Lambda-Alumna Initiate), sponsored by Julissa Medrano (Theta Kappa-Rochester), was also welcomed by the Dallas and Suburban alumnae chapter over the same weekend.

TAMPA BAY, FLA.

Alumna Travels to 18 Cities in One Month Krystal Rizzo Ausbrooks (Delta Rho-Ball State), a member of the Tampa Bay alumnae chapter, traveled to more than 18 cities during one month on behalf of Hyundai’s nonprofit organization.

A videographer and photographer, Krystal visited various children’s hospitals to shoot footage for Hyundai Hope On Wheels and the Handprint Ceremony. Hyundai Hope On Wheels is dedicated to finding a cure for pediatric cancer, and the Handprint Ceremony commemorates affected patients by having them place colorful handprints on a white Hyundai vehicle.

Alumna Publishes Children’s Book Alumna Eileen Rajala Meyer (Beta Alpha-Illinois) has released her third children’s book, “Sweet Dreams, Wild Animals! A Story of Sleep” (Mountain Press Publishing, 2015. ISBN: 087842637X). This lyrical bedtime story explains the sleeping patterns of 14 animals, including a koala, an anteater and an owl. Watercolor illustrations by Laurie Caple accompany Eileen’s words.

To learn more about Eileen and her writing, visit eileenmeyerbooks.com.

Alumnae Celebrate Alpha Phi Membership on Wedding Day ABOVE: Jordan Pennington (Gamma KappaCSU Long Beach) incorporated Alpha Phi into her Orange County, Calif., wedding in October. Not only was bridesmaid Dylann Castro (Gamma Kappa-CSU Long Beach) by her side, but alumna Angela Mae Cortez Smith (Gamma Kappa-CSU Long Beach) was behind the camera on behalf of her company, Angela Mae Photography. Jordan also fastened her badge and alumnae pin to her bouquet, a reminder of her enduring connection to Alpha Phi on her special day.

BELOW: Six Wisconsin (Iota) Alpha Phis traveled from five different states to reunite as bridesmaids in Colleen Koeble Johnson’s (Iota-Wisconsin) wedding in Milwaukee, Wis., last summer. Pictured are (from left): Alyssa Connolly, Karen Koeble, Colleen, Amanda Brooker, Carolyn Talaske and Maggie Thoreson.

Learn more at hyundaihopeonwheels.org.

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DALLAS, TEXAS

Member Assists Foundation in Mexico Michele Hurley Quiroga (Phi-Oklahoma), a member of the Dallas and Suburban alumnae chapter, joined the Starkey Hearing Foundation to bring the gift of hearing to the people of Toluca, Mexico. Michele assisted the Foundation on its mission to provide hearing aids and change the lives of many through better hearing. She has joined the Starkey Hearing Foundation on numerous missions, including the 2015 Special Olympics World Games in Los Angeles and international missions in China, Peru, Mexico and the Dominican Republic.

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AMANDA NGUYEN (IOTA TAU-HARVARD) HAS BEEN NAMED A 2016 TED

Fellow. The TED Fellows program is a global network of innovators and trailblazers from various disciplines. Each year, TED welcomes additional change-makers through a competitive application process.

Amanda will join a network of 300 Fellows who have gone on to win MacArthur “genius grants” and make an impact in their chosen fields.

Amanda is a 2013 Harvard graduate and the White House’s deputy liaison at the State Department. She is also the founder and president of Rise, Inc., a national nonprofit working with multiple state legislatures to implement a Sexual Assault Survivor Bill of Rights.

Rise’s advocacy group is comprised of professionals from legal, health, business and academic sectors who have worked together to attract support for the bill.

Alumna Named 2016 TED Fellow, Proposes Senate Bill S PR I N G 2016

In February, Democrats in the Senate introduced the bill driven by Amanda, which is the first national proposal to focus on securing and standardizing rights for victims of sexual assault. The bill would create a tracking system for rape kits, allow sexual assault victims to access comprehensive information about them and prohibit law enforcement from destroying the kits before taking a series of designated steps.

Learn more about Amanda’s nonprofit and the Senate bill at risenow.us.

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Reunions

WASHBURN (UPSILON)

Fifteen Washington (Sigma) sisters gather in Seattle to celebrate the class of 1965’s 50-year reunion.

More than 40 Maryland (Delta Zeta) alumnae celebrate their 30-year reunion.

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Sisters from Washington State (Beta Rho) celebrate their 50-year reunion with a visit to the university’s Martin Stadium. Pictured are (from left): Judy Jaeger Gross and her husband Bob; Brooke Colwell Rollins, Cathey Sheehan Burkett, Missy Martine Day and Marlys Dalbotten McDermott and her husband Mike.

Calling All Washburn Alumnae

On Sept. 15, 2016, the Upsilon chapter will celebrate 100 years on campus.

Plans are currently underway for a milestone celebration. To confirm or update your contact information, please visit topekaaphialumnae. weebly.com and click on the “Update Your Contact Information” tab. You can also update your information via telephone by contacting Amy Hischke Birch (Upsilon-Washburn) at (785) 633-8629. 

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Trending Pizza Party “I send Lou Malnati’s pizzas to out-of-town people. It’s my way of saying, ‘You had a baby!’, ‘Happy Birthday!’ or ‘Thanks for letting me crash on your couch!’ I’m Italian. I show love with food.”

Executive Office staff members share how they send good vibes into the world.

— STEFANIA RUDD, PROGRAM MANAGER OF MEMBER DEVELOPMENT

Starbucks-itForward “My favorite way to ‘pay it forward’ to the universe is to pay for the person behind me at the Starbucks’ drivethru. I like knowing that people experience kindness from a stranger. It hopefully means that they’ll be more kind to others throughout their day.”

— JENNIFER FROBISH, PROGRAM MANAGER OF VOLUNTEER DEVELOPMENT

One for One “I like the ‘one for one’ model used by companies like TOMS and Warby Parker. If you buy a pair of shoes or a pair of glasses, they donate a pair to someone in need.”

— MELISSA KISER, DIRECTOR OF MEMBER ENGAGEMENT AND MARKETING

Createthegood.org “Createthegood.org is a website that connects you with volunteer opportunities based on your life experiences, skills and passions!”

— BECKIE MADAY, PROGRAM COORDINATOR OF MEMBERSHIP SERVICES

Yoga “Taking time for yourself affects how you treat others. I practice yoga to make sure I’m spreading positivity.”

— SARAH JONATHAN, PROGRAM MANAGER OF ALUMNAE CHAPTER DEVELOPMENT

Snail Mail Casual for a Cause “The Executive Office has a great program called ‘Casual for a Cause.’ On the days you dress down, you pay a dollar.

At the end of the month, we donate the collected funds to a cause selected by a staff member. I always choose a local animal shelter.”

“A handwritten note has more sentimental value than an email.

Who doesn’t love getting snail mail?”

— J.D. LOUK, DIRECTOR OF OPERATIONS

— KRISTEN MITCHELL, QUARTERLY EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

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Ask Martha

Dear Martha,

I’m an alumna and I’m drowning in Alpha Phi T-shirts from college!

I know I shouldn’t drop them at a donation center, but I no longer have room for them in my studio apartment.

Any advice?

— Spring Cleaning in Colorado Consider donating them to local collegiate sisters. Find chapters in your area by visiting alphaphi.org (keyword: chapter locator). You can also inquire about the chapter’s interest through the Executive Office. I’ve also seen women re-purpose their T-shirts as quilts. You can find a step-by-step tutorial by typing “T-shirt quilt instructions” into Google. Now you’ve turned a pile of unworn clothes into a practical (and sentimental) piece for your apartment!

— Martha

NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION One of my New Year’s resolutions was to stop saying “yes” so much. I’m failing miserably. What is a tactful way to say “no” to requests for my time or money? I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.

— Saying Yes in South Dakota As a sister of Alpha Phi, you’re used to putting time and energy into others. But when that “yes” mentality starts to weigh on your personal happiness or you begin to resent those you’re helping, it’s time to take a step back. Is it guilt or fear of sounding rude that compels you to say “yes”? If so, the first step is realizing that declining doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. Overcome that emotional guilt by practicing. It’s 3 8

Martha Emily Foote Crow The first National President of Alpha Phi International, Martha was also an education administrator and the fourth Alpha Phi to serve as dean of women at Northwestern University.

a good idea to have a collection of pre-rehearsed statements when you wish to turn down an offer: What would you say to the person petitioning on the street with a clipboard, the friend asking for money or the PTA president who wants you to volunteer at school?

When they do ask, you won’t feel so tongue tied, and you’ll be less likely to fall into old patterns.

— Martha

TOO MANY TEXTS I have a friend who constantly texts me.

If I don’t respond, she continues to message me.

I’m irritated with her communication style.

How do I make sure she gets the memo?

— Tired of Texts in Texas

Many of us are getting increasingly overwhelmed with information via text. It can be distracting, frustrating and we end up losing a lot of time in the process. In this instance, it’s best to be concrete and direct. You can either discuss the issue in person or respond to one of her recent binges: “Would you mind texting me less frequently?

I love hearing from you, but my phone’s plan is limited, and I want to make sure I have data for when we exchange more personal texts.”

A less candid method? Put her on “Do Not Disturb” mode and check her texts at your convenience. Her incessant communication won’t show up on your screen and you can answer her when you’re not feeling so frustrated or overwhelmed.

— Martha

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What’s On Your Plate?

Revised & Expanded

Edition

A Kitchen Companion Revised & Expanded

A Kitchen Companion

with Recipes

Edition

with Recipes

Kitty Morse INGREDIENTS:

3 tablespoons fresh or dried lavender blossoms, divided use 1 cup warm milk 3 tablespoons butter 2 ½ to 3 cups fresh or frozen Bing cherries, pitted

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eet alumna Kitty Chandler Morse (Gamma Upsilon-Wisconsin Milwaukee), acclaimed writer and cookbook author.

Kitty recently published her 11th book, “Edible Flowers: A Kitchen Companion” (Chefs Press, Second Edition, 2015.

ISBN: 1939664020), a spring-inspired cookbook featuring more than three dozen recipes. Each recipe teaches readers how to incorporate edible blossoms into their cooking – both sweet and savory. Sample dishes include arugula bisque, baked salmon with borage raita, lavender shortbread and rose petal sorbet.

Here, Kitty shares with us one of her favorite recipes from the book: the cherry clafoutis, a rustic dessert from the Limousin region of France featuring cherries suspended in a thick pancake-like batter. 

1/3 cup plus 2 tablespoons granulated sugar 3 eggs 1/2 teaspoon pure almond extract 1/4 cup all-purpose flour 2 tablespoons almond meal Fresh or dried lavender blossoms for garnish Whipped cream

DIRECTIONS: hh If using fresh blossoms, strip them off the stems. Place 2½ tablespoons of the fresh or dried blossoms in a small sachet or tea infuser and place in the warm milk.

Cover and infuse for 30 minutes. hh Discard sachet and set aside. hh Preheat the oven to 375 degrees Fahrenheit. Grease an 8x8-inch baking dish or 4 individual dishes and dot the bottom(s) with the butter and cherries. hh In a bowl, whisk the infused milk, sugar, eggs, almond extract, flour, almond meal, and remaining lavender blossoms. Pour the mixture over the cherries. Set the baking dish or dishes inside a larger pan filled with enough warm water to reach halfway up the dish sides. hh Bake for 55 to 60 minutes, or until set.

Serve warm. hh Garnish with lavender blossoms and a dollop of whipped cream, if desired.

Learn more about Kitty and her recipes at kittymorse.com.

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A Passion for Peace Meet two Alpha Phi sisters who served as Peace Corps Volunteers (PVCs) in West Africa during very different decades. Colleen Kennedy Roberts, a 1974 graduate of Minnesota State Moorhead (Delta Omega), originally joined the Peace Corps in 1974 after completing her undergraduate degree in social work. Page Lapen, a 2004 graduate of Missouri (Omicron), was a magazine journalism major hoping to work for National Geographic. When she attended a presentation by a staff member, he said magazines valued “life experiences like Peace Corps over degrees.” She immediately applied and left for Africa in September 2004.

Since its founding in 1960, more than 187,000 PCVs have been invited by 139 host countries to work on issues ranging from AIDS education to information technology and environmental preservation. Read about each woman’s experience below and learn more about the program at peacecorps.gov.

Page Lapen

Name

(OMICRONMISSOURI)

Togo, West Africa – I lived in a small town called Pimini.

A little more than two years, 2004-06

Community Health and HIV/AIDS Prevention (CHAP) A headlamp, T-shirts, long skirts, capris, tough sandals, running shoes, a photo album of friends and family and a portable DVD player and speakers.

We took a bus from the airport to our training area and I was shocked by the extreme poverty in the streets of Lome. Later I would visit Lome after having lived in my village for a few months and it seemed like a rich and fabulous city compared to where I was living.

The hardest part was having very few friends and family who understood what I’d gone through. I think many of them expected me to come back after two years abroad and pick up where I’d left off, but I wasn’t the same person anymore.

I was forever changed by my experiences.

Language. Almost everyone in Togo speaks a local language as their first language. In Togo, French is merely the “business language.” That meant each of us was speaking in our second or third language when we communicated.

When I realized I had made true friends, not just with volunteers, but with people in my village.

Rewarding beyond measure.

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Colleen Kennedy Roberts

(DELTA OMEGAMINNESOTA STATE MOORHEAD)

Location

Liberia, West Africa

Years of Ser vice

Three years, 1974-77

Type of Ser vice In My Suitcase

First Impressions

Retur ning Home

A high school teacher We were limited to 60 pounds, so I packed basic summer clothes. We didn’t have cell phones, so I packed photo albums. I had a stash of batteries, a flashlight and a basic radio.

Waking at sunrise to the sound of goats beneath my window. There was also always a rooster crowing and mortar pounding for the daily corn meal.

You become acculturated to the country and the people that you’re living with. They take you in and make you feel like one of their own. When I was nearing the completion of my three years, I wasn’t ready to come home, but by then I knew that I needed to come back.

I felt myself fitting in too much.

Biggest Challenge

Peace Corps is the toughest job you’ll ever love.

Progress in West Africa is slow and you have to be okay with not accomplishing a zillion project goals, but I felt so much satisfaction from the love of the people I worked with.

Biggest Reward

My time as a volunteer didn’t end when I returned home. My service continues to enrich my life both personally and professionally.

Peace Corps in Three Words

Memories helping others.

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District 5 alumnae attend the 1930 Convention in Mt. Baker, Wash.

Attend Alpha Phi’s 2016 Biennial Convention in Cleveland, Ohio, this summer! Visit alphaphi.org (keyword: Convention) for more information.

Save this portion of your Quarterly! You will need your membership number (first seven numbers found at right) to help identify yourself if you contact the Executive Office.

POSTMASTER: Please send changes to Alpha Phi, 1930 Sherman Ave., Evanston, IL 60201

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ALPHA PHI VOLUNTEERS offer their time and talents to strengthen our sisterhood and impact the growth of our organization. They may come from many different chapters and serve in a variety of roles, but one thing is clear: they share a passion for the Fraternity and strive to make a better Alpha Phi for future generations.

Read about seven of these extraordinary women on page 28.