THE CREST The Alumnae Newsletter of Alpha Sigma Tau ~ Summer 2011
The Zeta Chapter: 90 Years and Counting! Inside This Issue From the Desk 2 of the Director of Alumnae Officer 3 Academy 2011 The Leadership 4 Institute— Women with Purpose
By Vanessa Florence, Zeta, Editor of THE CREST Just how far would you travel to see your sisters? The Zeta chapter at Lock Haven University of Pennsylvania found out the weekend of April 8th, 2011. Over 135 sisters came from across the nation, including such far away states as California, Nevada, Arizona, and Florida, to celebrate the Zeta chapter’s 90th anniversary. Sisters of six decades were in attendance, including a sister from 1948, Dr. Betty Schantz, Z 344, who spoke to the sisters on how the university, and sorority life, has changed
Defining Alpha 6 Sigma Tau
since she was in school. She told how the university
“AST”onishing Alumna: Chelsea Price, Alpha Lambda
and Alpha Sigma Tau was the sorority
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Dr. Betty Schantz, Zeta’s most seasoned sister, and Kayla Quinn, Zeta’s newest sister at Zeta’s 90th celebration
From the Desk of the National President
A Sister Who 10 Was Taken Too Soon New Do, Great Cause
started with just 900 students (there are over 5,500 today)
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WOW! I think that is the most appropriate word to describe the 2011 Officer Academy (OA). It was an amazing weekend where members discussed the importance of our values in their daily ritual and made some amazing strides in executing a successful recruitment. But OA is more than an event, it is an exceptional sisterhood experience. This was a time where I can definitely say that every sister brought her best to the table.
3 Simple Ways
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A Real Look at Volunteering
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Where Is that Money Tree?
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A Chaplain’s Chat: Ritual
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Anchored for Life
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“Snap-Shot of Sisterhood:
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OA is just one example of the work being done to provide our members with the exceptional sisterhood they want. Every day board members, volunteer leaders and Headquarters staff are working to think big and implement the members’ strategic plan. First and foremost, our members want to be developed as women, followed by being better recruiters/retainers of members. We directly addressed both of these at the 2011 OA and will continue to do so at future events. With a select attendance of collegians and alumnae advisors, Alpha Sigma Tau met our members where they needed our assistance, but that was just the beginning… The Sorority entered into a long-term relationship with The Leadership Institute – Women with Purpose and unveiled a new four-year membership experience for the women of Alpha Sigma Tau, which is based on The LI’s leadership competency model and Alpha Sigma Tau core values. But this was a launch party, and we wanted to kick it up a notch! Our
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From the Desk of the Director of Alumnae I was recently asked to write an article for Madison Magazine, the magazine for my alma mater, James Madison University (JMU). The theme touched on what spurs people to get involved and stay involved in volunteer roles. That article got me thinking about why alumnae volunteer for Alpha Sigma Tau. Although I took my initiation vows almost 16 years ago, I continue to uncover people, places and things that inspire me to stay involved with Alpha Sigma Tau. In April 2010 and 2011, I participated in a very special event at JMU, the annual Bluestone Society Induction, which honors alumni celebrating their 50th class reunion. It is impressive how many women (and men) come back to JMU to visit with their classmates and to see how the institution has transformed since they were students. In 2010, there were almost 20 Alpha Sigma Taus at the reunion, almost a quarter of the total participants. It was easy to spot themthey all arrived at the Bluestone Society banquet with silk yellow roses!
At this year’s reunion, I met a founding member of Psi Chapter, who was initiated in 1944. She mentioned that she was hoping to find a good home for her sorority badge- the same badge that she wore as a founding member of the chapter- and subsequently mailed it to me for safekeeping. I hope that this badge will find a These masked bandits of the Baltimore Alumhome on display in the archives at nae Chapter are working away at Habitat for Humanity, ’s National Service Project the sorority’s National Headquarters one day and while it is under my care, I will be inspired by the attendees left with an action plan leadership and dedication displayed for their individual chapters and by the young women who founded new tools they can use to help inthe Psi Chapter at JMU almost 70 crease their chapter’s growth poyears ago. tential. From the comments on Facebook and Twitter and the phoIt is exciting to see how Alpha tos I’ve seen, there is no doubt that Sigma Tau is providing inspiration all of the participants left Indianapoto our members! The lucky collelis inspired by what Alpha Sigma gians and alumnae who attended Tau is offering to our members! Officer Academy in June went home with lots of ideas, resources, I hope that you will continue to and new connections. I am sure seek and find many sources of inthey were inspired by what they spiration for your involvement with learned about Alpha Sigma Tau’s Alpha Sigma Tau. new Four Year Membership Development Program facilitated by The In sisterhood, Leadership Institute: Women With Purpose. Recruitment Boot Camp Jamie Jones Miller, Psi
Beta Eta Alumnae: Michelle Wirth Davis, Hannah Marks, Kayla Druthoff, Samantha Lyons, Kirsten Reynolds, and Amanda McAllister T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 2
Continued from Page 1: From the Desk of the National President members had some great fun and were energized with
It is always inspiring to be with our members, to share
the Cupid Shuffle. Reminiscent of Oprah, we had an Al-
our vision for the amazing places we plan to go, but this
pha Sigma Tau’s Favorite Things with each of the com-
weekend, Alpha Sigma Tau took a huge leap forward to
petencies introduced and fun gifts associated with each
living our visions and making our dreams reality. We will
competency given away. And just like in Oprah’s shows,
continue to go in the direction our members have
we ended with a huge surprise at the end: an Alpha
shouted they want: excellence, intellect, graciousness,
Sigma Tau service immersion trip to Hawaii! Next May
respect and connections!
several Alpha Sigma Tau members will have the opportunity to soak in the culture and sun of Hawaii all while
In your service, Chris Covington, National President
serving others!
National Event: Officer Academy 2011 By Stacey Daniel Fragile, Gamma Mu, Alumna Guest Writer When you think of Alpha Sigma Tau’s Officers Academy the first thing to cross your mind is that it is for collegiate chapter officers only. However, not only were advisors invited during the weekend of June 17-19 in Indianapolis, Indiana, they were welcomed with open arms. The advisors in attendance participated in various programs designed to help each individual advisor learn about their specific communication and confrontation styles. Advisors were The Delta chapter is all smiles about attending Officer Academy
shown how their “style” affects their ability to interact with
the collegians and other professionals. The programs also provided advisors an insight into how the women we advise view the world and how those views may differ from our own. Advisors in attendance also were there first hand for the launch of Alpha Sigma Tau's partnership with The Leadership Institute-Women with Purpose. This partnership will enable our collegiate members to receive valuable leadership skills during all phases of their college years, which will give them a tremendous advantage when they enter the professional world after college. The training will focus on the eight core competencies of a leader and how each member can work to bring out the leader in her. It is always a fun time when you can spend time with your sisters and Officers Academy was no different. To be in our new “home” of Indianapolis, Indiana made the weekend that much more special. With the close of Officers Academy 2011, it left me counting the days until Convention 2012 when I can again spend time with my sisters and learn even more about this wonderful new partnership with the Leadership Institute. T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 3
Membership Development: The Leadership Institute—Women With Purpose INDIANAPOLIS, IND. – The Leadership
leadership development authors to
tency to the sorority women. In the
Institute – Women with Purpose (The
synthesize themes, traits and behaviors
spirit of Oprah Winfrey’s popular
LI) and Alpha Sigma Tau (AST) Sorority
and compiled a wide range of leader-
“Favorite Things” shows, each compe-
held the 2011 Officer Academy June 17-19, 2011 in Indianapolis, Ind. The
ship competencies for women to priori- tency was accompanied by a related gift. tize. At the end of the research, 81 to-
event unveiled a new partnership be-
tal leadership competencies were inte-
“Everyone loves gifts,” said Erin
tween The LI and AST. In this partner-
grated into a survey where participants
Fischer, The LI’s Director of Training
ship, The LI will write a four-year
ranked competencies from very high to
Services, “but the real gift is life-long
membership program for collegiate
very low, indicating their interest in
opportunities through invaluable lead-
members of AST. This program will be
learning more about each. The final
ership skills.”
based on The LI’s leadership compe-
eight competencies consist of:
tency model and includes a service
immersion opportunity in Hawaii.
Being genuine
a final surprise. Reminiscent of Win-
Communicating effectively
frey’s big Australia announcement,
Officer Academy, held at the Hilton
Possessing expertise
Covington proclaimed AST will con-
Downtown Indianapolis, hosted chap-
Striving for personal life balance
duct a service immersion trip in Ha-
ter presidents and advisors, and re-
Valuing and maintaining relation-
waii in May 2012, the first of its kind
ships
to the AST undergraduate women!
cruitment and assistant recruitment
As the event culminated, AST revealed
directors from 30 chosen chapters.
Contributing to society
The location was selected not only for
The event was in line with AST’s stra-
Being confident
its natural beauty, but its culture, to-
tegic plan that calls for a focus on
Innovating and managing change.
pography and immense opportunities
leadership and member development.
“The LI’s process for creating curricu-
for the women to contribute to soci-
“Working directly with The LI, we are
lum is based on data, trends and re-
ety. The women will spend eight days
helping each member to define her
search, but it has to be relevant, fun
on the island of Oahu at YMCA Camp
future and reach her true leadership
and engaging as well,” said Erin Correa,
Erdman, perform service and learn
potential by launching an innovative
Executive Director of The LI. “We are
curriculum from The LI, titled Project
member engagement program that
thrilled to be partnering with AST to
Impact. Applicants who demonstrate
shares our values of intellect, excel-
provide curriculum for their four-year
the aforementioned eight competen-
lence, graciousness, respect and con-
collegiate member experience.”
cies and are ready to learn and grow
nections and fulfills the mission and vision of Alpha Sigma Tau,” said Chris Covington, National President of Al-
Covington states, “We have a vision that when the women of Alpha Sigma
will be considered for this once-in-alifetime trip.
Tau graduate they will have a comple-
In closing, Covington asserted, “There
ment of academics, leadership devel-
are several ways to get engaged with
The four-year program is based on
opment and experiential opportunities
this new and exciting programming.
eight competencies great women
to give them the lead wherever their
We hope [the women of AST] will be
leaders possess. To determine those
journey takes them.”
ready for some of the most exciting
pha Sigma Tau.
areas, The LI reviewed competencies from 11 different organizations and
To that end, AST and The LI took a creative approach to unveiling each compeT HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 4
times in Alpha Sigma Tau’s history.”
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with the highest academic average—a tradition that continues to this day. The current collegians have earned the highest GPA for three consecutive semesters among sororities, as well as exceeding the overall campus GPA. Dr. Schantz also described how everyone had a strict dress code, how ‘proper’ meals were served, and that the cost for a day student was $100 a semester. The sisters of the early 70’s were one of the highlights of the weekend. “You could tell they were Alpha Sigma Taus right away by their laughter and enthusiasm,” says Linnette Bidelspach, Z 914. Many of these Zeta sisters have not been in contact with each other since they graduated. “Most of us found out that although it was close to 40 years that we have been apart, it took only seconds to feel at home with each other. That sisterhood bond did not go away,” states Deb Burris Fralick, Z 636. Tracy Bond Ciabattoni, Z 927, a past National Council member, spoke on the 1980decade sorority experience. It was during her time that naming of family trees began (mostly named after animals) and the annual Rock-A-Thon for local charities began— which still happens each spring. It was during Tracy’s collegiate time that Amy Dupree Brooks, Alpha Xi, was asked to volunteer with the Zeta chapter. That was 25 years ago and she’s still advising today. The Zetas put together a “Thank You” scrapbook and presented it to her during the luncheon. “One of the things I enjoyed most about attending the 90th reunion was hearing stories from the women who joined the Zeta chapter so many years before I did in 1997,” states Jessica Snyder, Z 1105. “It was exciting to meet the women who started some of the our Zeta traditions.” During the 2000’s the Zeta chapter fell onto hard times, having only four active members. All four of those ladies,
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Above: Beth Fischer Wolford and Tina Burns Macdavitt show of their pledge/new member class paddle from 1990. Right: Sisters of the class of 1971 & 1972 pose for a picture
Defining Alpha Sigma Tau By Stephanie Sanders, Beta Theta, Staff Writer No matter the distance from her home chapter, an alumna would define Alpha Sigma Tau through her instinctive moments of active and lively behavior, reminding her that the qualities of a sorority woman do not fade even after college; rather, they flourish with the cultivation of her beauty and spirit as she ages. Words like ‘obligation’ and ‘allegiance’ do not exist in a Tau’s vocabulary because sisterhood is more than just about duty and devotion. Upon entering the emerald and gold gates of AΣT, we engage in a relationship built on faithfulness and trustworthiness. After collegians from the Beta Theta chapter in San Antonio, Texas asked their local alumnae forum on Facebook what sparked their interests in AΣT, Eliza Vela Martinez, spring 2002 new member class, said, “I felt at home, and the girls really made me feel at home . I made wonderful relationships with my sisters, and I will always be attached to my pledge sister, Sarah.” For alumna Marisela Ramirez, spring 2003 new member class, said, “I wanted to join AΣT and be a sister for life.” For many, an uncanny sense lingers over the thought that choosing AΣT among other sororities proved to be the “right” decision for them; in fact, the sorority continues to reward its members in more ways than one long after they have signed their bid cards. The vivacity to keep the AΣT close to heart strengthens as the years away from college increase. Alumnae do not forget AΣT nor do the alumnae want to be forgotten. There is a driving force among this special group of sisters and it only intensifies after the college years. Glancing upon old composite photos, an alumna could look at her photos and recall every obstacle that she faced at that time. Whether it was that semester of love or of tough course loads, she muses over the role sorority played while undergoing these moments of happiness, sorrow and bittersweet sensation. Sturdy. Unfailing. Thinking back to the first few weeks of the new member period, an alumna reflects on the times that family and friends asked her about the new student organization she had just recently joined at her respective university. As a newly-pinned member, how does one define nearly 100 years, depending on what year you were initiated into the sisterhood? Facts, of course, are easily attainable; the experience cannot yet be put into words. Flash forward a few years and reminisce over the senior year of college. It is the final stretch of months leading up to that last Mother/Daughter Ceremony, that farewell to the Yellow Rose Formal or that surreal moment of Alumnae Initiation. How could one encompass the first years of living and learning into an accurate definition? Now, browsing through her photo albums, she counts the number of sisters standing in her wedding or admires her sisters asking to see new photos of her baby. Being a part of an even greater group of Taus redefines the black and white facts learned during a mere six-week new member period. It puts color and inspiration to the overall picture of what it means to be an Alpha Sigma Tau, a sorority comprised of lovely women and valued friendships. T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 6
“AST”onishing Alumna: Chelsea Price, Alpha Lambda By Chelsea Price, Alpha Lambda,
Upon meeting him, the dermatolo-
ing in front of me, listing the next
Alumna Guest Writer
gist agreed we should remove the
surgeries, introducing me to an
mole “just to be safe.” The derma-
oncologist, discussing possible ra-
tologist stressed that he thought I
diation, and questioning my desire
had nothing to worry about, but
for a family, that is when reality
because I was a beach-loving girl,
struck me. Melanoma is much
who happens to be covered in
more than “just” skin cancer.
moles, I should know the possibility of melanoma. I left the appointment without a worry in the world.
Two weeks after that life changing appointment, praying was all I could do on the operating table as I
Ten days later, I’m on the examin-
watched the doctors prepare to cut
ing table having my stitches re-
me in five separate locations. Be-
moved when the same dermatolo-
cause my melanoma was 1.15 cm
Less than one year ago, I was a firm
gist strolls into the room. He
deep, it was necessary to have a
believer that everyone looked a tad
wastes no time with silly greetings.
wide excision surgery which is
bit prettier with some color on
He reads me the pathology report,
where the surgeon removes addi-
their skin. I am not talking Jersey
but all I hear is “malignant mela-
tional skin surrounding the original
Shore orange, but a minor brown
noma.” I start laughing because I
melanoma site. A sentinel lymph
glow seemed to just add something to a person. Oh, how my opinion
knew it had to be a cruel joke. The
node biopsy was also performed to
dermatologist had told me I had no
see if the cancer has spread to my
changed when my dermatologist
reason to worry! The nurse touches
lymph nodes. To determine which
said two words: “Malignant mela-
my shoulder at the same time my
areas to operate, a dye was in-
noma.”
boyfriend starts rubbing my back
jected. The lymph node basins that
Maybe I should start at the begin-
and says, “He would not joke about
“light up” are the areas where sur-
ning. I am Chelsea, I recently
this, ma’am.” In walks the head
geons operate. Following in the
turned 24, and I was diagnosed
dermatologist
with malignant melanoma in Febru-
to help discuss
ary. It all started innocently
my situation.
enough. After feeling an odd scab
That is when
on my left shoulder, I had my boy-
reality hit me.
friend take a look. He informed me
This malignant
that my mole was scabbed over
melanoma was
and leaking a clear fluid. Although I
no joking mat-
figured I had scratched my back, I
ter. When I had
was talked into scheduling an ap-
two different
pointment with a dermatologist.
medical head honcho’s standT HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 7
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“But everyone looks prettier in a tan,” thought Chelsea prior to her diagnosis. In her blog she shows these pictures after her surgery and states, “Beautiful, huh?
Continued from Page 7: “AST”onishing Alumna: Chelsea Price, Alpha Lambda trend of my recent bad luck, I was
I want the best possible treatment
“glowing” in four different areas:
available. There are limited treat-
both sides of my neck and both
ment options for advanced mela-
armpits. When I asked the radiolo-
noma patients. My next step was
PREVALENCE &
gist if the surgeon would cut me in
another crucial surgery where two
all four lymph node basins, she
surgeons completed a full lymph
kindly replied, “You want him to,
node dissection in my left armpit
ma’am.”
and the right side of my neck. Al-
MORTALITY RATE: Over one million new cases of skin cancer diagnosed each year, outnumbering the total number of other cancers combined 2000% increase in melanoma incidence since 1930 with one in 50 being affected Most common cancer killer of young women, more common than breast cancer in ages 29-34 More than one person dies each hour from melanoma Advanced melanoma has no effective treatment
Although my original melanoma was on the left side of my body, the pathology report showed that the cancer had spread to both sides of my body, in my left armpit, and the right side of my neck. When melanoma is found in your lymph
though this surgery was ugly and incredibly painful, it brought good news. All of my lymph nodes showed no evidence of melanoma! Yes, this is great news, but my fight against melanoma is only beginning.
nodes, it automatically puts you at
Not only does melanoma have a
Stage III. As stage IV is the final
high recurrence rate, it affects
stage, I knew that statistically this
every minute of my life. The emo-
was horrible news. Advanced mela-
tional roller coaster I am on is ex-
noma survival rates are scary. I am
hausting. I went from being a
not going to share the rates be-
cheerful social butterfly to being
cause, quite frankly, they terrify
the girl who cries over a spike in
me. I continue to wonder how I
temperature or a swollen lymph
went from feeling healthy and
node. I can never get in the hot tub
fabulous to being a warrior of an
again. I have to wear gloves to
advanced cancer who may or may
wash dishes. If I get a cut, I have to
not be around in five years. Fright-
rush to the doctor for an antibiotic.
ening, yes?
Manicures? Those are guilty pleas-
Since realizing the melanoma had spread to my lymph nodes, I have established a great relationship with amazing doctors at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York City. Sure, traveling from Virginia is expensive and tiring, but this is my life we are talking about.
ures from my past. I become frustrated easily. I question if I will have babies. And talk about mood swings…wow! They are record breaking. Not only has melanoma attacked my body, it has attacked my soul. Instead of letting melanoma totally ~ Continued on page 9 ~ T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 8
TALKING POINTS ABOUT MELANOMA/SKIN CANCER
THE FORGOTTEN CANCER Melanoma/skin cancer is the most underfunded of all cancers by federal and private agencies Early detection makes melanoma highly curable, but it is the least screened for cancer People find their own melanomas more frequently than doctors do and melanoma detection is not a training requirement for most medical disciplines TO AVOID MELANOMA Seek shade and avoid direct sun during the peak hours of 10AM-4PM Cover up with protective clothing and use sunscreen lotion Protect your children and role model sun safe behaviors Avoid tanning salons: 15 minutes is equal to a whole day’s exposure at the beach Source: www.melanomaintl.org
National Headquarters Undergoing Facelift Besides building an exceptional sisterhood, Alpha Sigma Tau is also remodeling an exceptional headquarters building. Check out of Facebook fan page, Alpha Sigma Tau National Sorority, to keep up to date on all the happenings of our sisterhood.
Continued from Page 8: “AST”onishing Alumna: Chelsea Price, Alpha Lambda depress me, I am determined to
take a few extra minutes to protect
rority sisters since being diagnosed -
embrace this journey with an ener-
yourself by lathering up in a mois-
some of the new ladies and some of
getic spirit. I flirt with my doctors. I
turizer that has sunscreen in it. Say
the fabulous sisters I already know.
write about the good, the bad, and
hello to spray tans instead of tan-
Two of my sorority sisters visited me
the ugly. I post horrible pictures of
ning beds. Become buddies with a
during my recent hospital stay in
myself in the hospital with drains coming out of me. I share my story.
NYC. Some of the women attended the fundraising concert we had back
Why do I put all of my information
in April. They have been some of my
out there? I am determined to
biggest cheerleaders in the last six
make others aware of the serious-
months. I am incredibly grateful for
ness of melanoma. Sure, we all
them. Our chapter advisor has also
want to be beautiful, but had I
been in touch with me. He's such a
been truly informed of melanoma,
nice man. Anyway, between the
maybe I would have worn more
cards, the messages, the chocolate
sunscreen and stayed out of the
pick-me-ups, the sorority has been
tanning beds.
overly supportive. I could never have imagined the support they have
Instead, here I am, only 24 years
given me.
old, fighting for my life. We are lectured on the importance of checking our breasts for lumps, so shouldn’t we start examining our skin as well? With early detection, melanoma can be easily removed. In the advanced stages, the cancer is deadly as the treatment options are limited. Do yourself a favor—
Follow Chelsea’s journey through her dermatologist. Be proud to be pale. Remember that melanoma is so much more than “just” skin cancer. As fashion designer Marc Jacobs says, “Protect the skin you’re in!” I have heard from a lot of the so-
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“Adventures with My Enemy” blog at http://adventurewithmelanoma.blogspot.com/
A Sister Who Was Taken Too Soon By Nicole Gelinas, Gamma Delta, Alumna Guest Writer Kimberly Jacobsen became a member of Alpha Sigma Tau's Gamma Delta Chapter at UMass Dartmouth in the fall of 2003. We were members of the Iota new member class. Kim loved every minute of becoming a sister. Like most of us, she found herself getting excited for philanthropy events, social events, meetings... all of it. Kim went through the years holding many positions, including Secretary. She would always put emphasis on her fellow new members and be sure to distinguish the three of us as her "Iota's." Kim loved the sorority and its impact on her life so much so that you could find a yellow rose tattooed on her back. In early 2009, Kim was getting settled into a career and living her post-college life. She had been having a persistent cough, which she went to the doctors several times for. She was treated with antibiotics, but the cough got worse. She also had night sweats and itching. Kim eventually went for more extensive testing, which revealed that she had Stage IV Hodgkin's Lymphoma. Hodgkin's Lymphoma, also known as Hodgkin's Disease, is a form of lymphoma that has a great survival rate. 90% of people diagnosed live over 10 years. Kim's disease was extremely aggressive. Kim went through extensive chemotherapy regimens and had some of the best doctors in the world at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute and Brigham and Women's Hospital (BWH), both located in Boston. Every last effort was made to get her disease under control and get her a bone marrow or stem cell transplant. Kim was so unbelievably strong during this year of battling her disease. She kept such a sense of humor about her, she even had a "crazy wig" party after her first round of chemo was complete. I am an oncology (cancer) nurse at BWH and was fortunate to be able to go with Kim to a lot of her appointments and see her when she was hospitalized. Kim was so selfless. I would walk into her room and the first thing she'd say, through a coughing or itching fit, is "Hi Iota! How are you?!" in the most enthusiastic way possible. She'd then go on to ask about everyone else, especially sisters, and leave herself out of the conversation. In April of 2010, Kim's disease progressed and some of the chemo she had received as a last effort had really taken a toll on her body. Kim had to have a breathing tube placed because her lungs were failing and she was put on a ventilator. For the days following this horrible turn for the worst we sat and waited and hoped for her recovery. When it became inevitable that she was not making progress in her breathing and would not be able to be without this life support, Kim's family knew she need not suffer anymore. I updated the Gamma Delta chapter through email about Kim's status and urged any visitors to come immediately. As soon as ~ Continued on page 11 ~ T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 1 0
New Do, Great Cause By Vanessa Florence, Zeta, Editor of THE CREST This is Jessica’s second time donating her locks—the first
This past June Jessica Treneer, Ep-
was in August of 2008. “I know how much I love my hair
silon Lambda, donated 12.5 inches
and thinking about losing my hair (due to medical treat-
of hair to Locks of Love—and or-
ments) really upset me. So I decided
ganization that creates wigs for
that I was going to donate.”
patients under the age of 21 that lose their hair due to medical
“Cancer has touched my life through family members and friends. Some
treatments.
have won their fight. Others have lost
“Locks of Love is a great cause and
it. This is my way of giving back just a
it makes my heart smile knowing that someone who is
little.”
having a really hard time is going to be able to pick out
To learn more about Locks for Love,
their hair, decide how they want it styled, and can cut, color, and style to their choosing,” says Jessica.
go to: www.locksforlove.org
Continued from page 10: A Sister Who Was Taken Too Soon this update was sent, sisters came rushing in. At one point we had many sisters in the room at one time. We began to share memories of Kim and her love for Alpha Sigma Tau. We eventually all agreed that it would be nice to recite some of our sorority’s prayers, including "Footpaths to Peace." It was a surreal moment that was filled with grief as well as love and a bond that I feel those who aren't part of an organization like this would understand. Ironically the Relay for Life event was also occurring at UMass Dartmouth that night. The Relay was one of Kim's favorite events. Kim was honored at the Relay that night through a silent lap, many readings and everyone’s thoughts and prayers. On April 18, 2010, around 2:00 am, while the Relay was being shut down due to torrential downpours, Kim passed peacefully with her family and close friends nearby. Kim's one-year anniversary passed with much celebration in her memory. The Relay for Life at UMass Dartmouth was the same weekend as the anniversary of her passing. Again, Kim was honored at this event with a silent lap and readings. The Boston Marathon was the day after her anniversary. I ran the marathon with Leukemia and Lymphoma Society in Kim's memory. I was fortunate to be able to raise over $5,200 for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society through this event. Kim's mother, Deb, led her team "Kim's Angels" in the Relay for Life on June 10, 2011. Kim's battle will never be forgotten and her memory will live on through family, friends and SISTERS. The Gamma Delta chapter recently awarded me with a new award, fittingly called the Kim Jacobsen Award, at their Yellow Rose Ball. This award means the world to me. Knowing that I am compared to a sister who clearly embodied the spirit of Alpha Sigma Tau is incredible. I will continue to carry on her legacy as much as I possibly can. T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 1 1
Three Simple Ways to Remain “Active” within Alpha Sigma Tau By Allison Bressler, Alpha Tau, Alumnae and Volunteer Services Coordinator
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Volunteer with a Collegiate Chapter
Join an Alumnae
2
Chapter or Association
The number one impact
3
Alpha Sigma Tau just
Stay Connected Nationally One of the greatest
alumnae can make with a collegiate
isn’t for college. If you enjoy such
ways you can stay connected and
chapter is by volunteering their
activities as going to the movies,
keep up-to-date is to remit alum-
time to be a part of a Chapter Advi-
volunteeringing for a local philan-
nae dues of $40. In addition, you’ll
sory Board. The Chapter Advisory
thropy, meeting up for dinner with
receive THE ANCHOR, the Sorority
Board consists of five alumnae po-
girlfriends, or having a girl’s night
magazine published twice a year. It
sitions: Chapter Advisor, Assistant
at a friends house, then join (or
also assists with running our head-
Chapter Advisor, New Member Ad-
start up) an alumnae chapter or
quarters and providing programs
visor, Recruitment Advisor, and the
association near you. Alpha Sigma
for both alumnae and collegians.
Collegiate Chapter Consultant.
Tau alumnae chapters and associa-
You can pay your dues by credit
There are additional ways to volun-
tions are regionally based across
card by going to : http://
teer such as assisting with fundrais-
the country from Philadelphia to
store.alphasigmatau.org/alumnae-
ing, supporting philanthropic ef-
Tampa and from Raleigh to Los An-
dues or by sending payment to Al-
forts, or even organizing large
geles. For a complete listing of
pha Sigma Tau headquarters via
events such as homecoming and
alumnae chapters and associations,
check.
reunions. You don’t need to volun-
please visit http://
teer at your chapter as there are
www.alphasigmatau.org/alumnae/
many chapters that are in need of
alumnae-association-directory.
advisory board members.
If you are interested or would like additional information please contact: Allison Bressler at abressler@alphasigmatau.org
A Real Look: Being A Chapter Advisor By Stephanie Beers, Zeta, Alumna Guest Writer Alpha Sigma Tau has many volunteers but a Chapter Advisor is invaluable to its success. These ladies work closely with the collegians to guide them through decision making and ensuring that the values of the organization are upheld.
wasn’t Amy’s first stint at volunteering in AST. In 1981 Amy served as a Resident Counselor in assisting to establish the Beta Pi chapter. From there she moved on to becoming a District President and serving as a Regional Collegiate Coordinator in the1990’s. Amy states, “I volunteer for Alpha Sigma Tau because I
A perfect person to ask about “A Real Look” at volunteering at the chapter level is Amy DuPree Brooks, Alpha Xi. Amy has served as Chapter Advisor for the Zeta Chapter since 1986 and began serving as the Chapter Consultant
took my vows literally. I am a member for life.” She also states that she had excellent advisors who set great standards, inspiring her to continue within Alpha Sigma Tau.
for the Alpha Xi Chapter in the mid 90s. However, this T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 1 2
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Continued from Page 12: A Real Look: Being A Chapter Advisor While she loves Alpha Sigma Tau, she also volunteers
watching the members mature throughout college and
extensively with the Eastern Star, works a full time job at
into their adulthood, careers, and families.
Susquehanna Trailways, and a part-time/fun job of being a Longaberger consultant. “Being an advisor does take time and dedication,” says Amy. “But with some time management and a great
Andrea describes her time as an advisor as a “challenging, joyful, eye-opening, pleasurable experience.” She takes advantage of advisor training opportunities during such events as officer academies
Advisory team, volunteering
and conventions. “Not only do you get to mingle
at the chapter level won’t
with other Alpha Sigma Taus, but you also have
overwhelm your life and
the opportunities to learn from their experiences
definitely enhances it.”
and share yours,” states Andrea.
Amy enjoys being able to
Andrea is not the only Chapter Advisor that be-
teach new members about
lieves that being a Chapter Advisor is a great way
what being an Alpha Sigma
to give back to
Tau member is all about –
Left: Stephanie Beers and Amy Dupree at Zeta’s 90th Anniversary celebration Bottom: Andrea Dougherty (bottom right) with Gamma Tau collegians during a 4-hour stalled traffic jam after the 2011 Officer Academy
and the benefit that she still feels like she’s in college doesn’t hurt. “It’s rewarding to be able to teach new members how to ‘pay it for-
Alpha Sigma Tau as an alumna. Katie McNulty has been the Chapter Advisor for the Beta Mu
ward’ and realize that some
Chapter for four
day they will give back to this
years, in addition
organization by becoming advisors or serving on staff.”
to serving as a District Coordi-
Andrea Dougherty is one of the Zetas influ-
nator, a member
enced by the dedication of Amy and her
of the Awards
teachings of ‘pay it forward’. Andrea cur-
Committee, and
rently serves as the Chapter Advisor for the
President of the
Gamma Tau chapter and was previously
Baltimore Alum-
was a Chapter Consultant for Zeta. “I
nae Chapter.
want to show the women not only how to
As an advisor,
be an Alpha Sigma Tau during college years but after graduation as well,” says Andrea. “Alpha Sigma Tau is more than just your own collegiate chapter, more than just your friends in college, its nationwide – every chapter and friends all over the country.” One of the best things about being an advisor, admits Andrea, is
Katie enjoys assisting the chapter in any way that she can. She states that includes, “whether it be giving advice, acting as a liaison, or making sure they are fulfilling their responsibilities as a chapter.” Katie adds, “I want to be a positive example of fulfilling my ~ Continued on page 15 ~
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Where Is That Money Tree? By Lauren Welch, Delta Psi, Staff Writer Well, this could easily be one of my favorite articles to write, when asked to write about easy ways to save money. I am your sister who has dreams of counting discounts, cutting coupons and the next big deal. Check out this list of 5 easy and fast ways to start saving money. Coupons and Discounts. I highly believe that you should never pay full price for anything. Now, you do not have to be an extreme coupon queen like the TV Show, but when you have a grocery list – look online or in your newspaper to get discounts on the items you already purchase. When it comes to diapers (Amazon/Mom), ink cartridges (123inkjets) or others – ebates.com, retailmenot.com or a simple search on the internet can pull up coupon codes or coupons to print pretty easily. With time, you can find coupons for pretty much anything you purchase online or out in town! Of course, if you have AAA, are a member of the military or another discount group – make sure you ask for discounts on everything. Budget! Also called a “spending plan”. I know it might sound easy, but when every dollar has a name and you tell your money where to go – you have the ability to spend less and save more. Track your spending, check to see exactly where it is going for a few months. When you budget, see where you spend the most and where you can cut down. For those “quick spending items” or other large budgeted items, place the budgeted amount in cash in envelopes. When the cash is gone, it’s gone! This is the biggest, easiest, and sometimes hardest way to save money. Saving more money each month allows you to save for emergencies, pay down bills and save for vacations, pay those alumnae dues, etc. Insurances – At least once a year, look for better deals on all insurance premiums by looking into switching providers or even asking your own provider about what discounts they have. Homeowners or renter’s insurance may have discounts for such things as installing dead bolts, having fire extinguishers or fire alarms. Check all of the services (cable, internet, cell phone) that you pay each month and see if they are offering discounts for loyalty, six month deals, etc. It never hurts to ask! Holidays and Birthdays! A royal pain to your budget, right? Decide on how much you are going to spend in January for the year, so when the holiday (especially ones like Christmas) or birthday comes around the money is in the account and ready to be spent. A good idea that I picked up from a friend (who has seven children!) is to get something they “want, need, wear, read” and that is it. Monsters. Not the ones under your children’s bed, but the drinks. The large ugly canned energy drinks that when bought come from the vending machine, can cost you $90 a month (two a day during the work week), but if you purchase from the grocery store and bring it to work with you it is around $30 dollars, a 66% savings. This is the same with specialty coffee, bringing your lunch to work vs. going out every day, etc. The point is, make it at home, buy in bulk, reuse containers, reuse bags – it all makes a difference. T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 1 4
Continued from Page 13: A Real Look: Being A Chapter Advisor initiation vows after graduation.” These are only three of the many Chapter Advisors that Alpha Sigma Tau has. All Chapter Advisors may have a slight difference in why they have become a Chapter Advisor but the one common reason is to give back and fulfill the vows we all take the day we are initiated. Alpha Sigma Tau does actually mean ‘Always Someone There’ and this is proven by all our volunteers but seen the most
Katie McNulty, fourth from the left, pauses for a picture with the sisters of Beta Mu at the 2010 Convention
through the Chapter Advisors.
Chaplain’s Chat: Ritual By Carole Bicking Keily, Alpha Xi, National Chaplain When we think of “ritual”, we may think of the sorority’s ritual and what it means to us; how we felt hearing those words for the first time, and how we felt watching others as a chapter officer or upperclassman. Or the word “ritual” may conjure up images of a religious service or a wedding. At the heart of any ritual are the promises we make and the consistency of the ritual service. Ritual is not just limited to sorority or religion. We make promises in ritual, at a worship service, at a wedding, at a baptism, even at a funeral. But think of the other rituals in our lives: If you’ve ever been called for jury duty, there is ritual involved. You’re ushered to the jury room and a court official gives you instructions about the ritual to take place in the courtroom. When you’re sworn in, you make promises to show fair and impartial judgment. While there may be slight variations, the basics of jury service are the same everywhere. Maybe the “promises” you make on a flight are nothing more than to sit quietly with your seat belt fastened and to not use your phone until the second the plane touches down! But anywhere you fly, the “ritual” is still the same. Think of the security process at the airport, the boarding, the safety instructions, when the food and drink are served, and the landing. It’s pretty much all the same, no matter where you fly or in what languages the instructions are issued. Our Alpha Sigma Tau ritual is performed by many chapters across this country. We all use the same words, whether we’re in Pennsylvania or Florida or Texas or Colorado. We all live by the same values, no matter where we live. We have a consistent ritual that has lasted through generations. Take time to observe and really pay attention to the “ritual” in your life. It may seem ordinary to you butit is not; the quotidian ways of our lives can indeed be extraordinary! T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 1 5
Are You Anchored for Life? As members, we commit ourselves to the values of Alpha Sigma Tau each day. Anchored for Life. Paying annual dues anchors alumnae to the greater alumnae organization.
Anchored for Life is not just a theme or a motto, it is a mission. Faithfulness to These Ideals. The Creed serves as a reminder to remain faithful to the ideals alumnae promised to uphold during the Initiation Ritual. Alumnae continue to share in the financial responsibility to ensure the success of the Sorority and all of its members.
Think on These Things. Did you know that if the annual dues payment was broken down over a year the amount would be just $3.33/ month? That’s less than a gallon of gasoline! Clipart by Erica Greene, Sigma Collegian Alumnae are able to make annual dues payments through their alumnae chapters/associations. Alumnae can also pay online via credit card at: http://store.alphasigmatau.org or by mailing a check to the Sorority, including the information listed below.
☐Annual dues payment ($40.00) ☐Legacy of 1899 Fund _______ ☐Educational Set-Aside Fund _______ ☐NPC Leadership Reserve Fund _______
Mail this completed form to: Alpha Sigma Tau Sorority 3334 Founders Road Indianapolis, Indiana 46268 ☐Check enclosed
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Member First Name
Middle/Maiden Name
Last Name
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Address
City
State/Province
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*Please note this dues payment and any related donations are payable to Alpha Sigma Tau Sorority, a 501c7 corporation, and therefore not tax-deductible by law. For tax-deductible gift options, please consider the Alpha Sigma Tau Foundation. www.alphasigmataufoundation.org
Thank you for staying Anchored for Life! T HE CRE ST, Su m m er 2 01 1 ~ P a g e 1 6
Continued from Page 5: The Zeta Chapter: 90 Years and Counting !
Above: Sisters of the class of 1972 pose for a picture; Top Left: The Zeta Chapter prepares for the 5K Memorial ; Bottom Left: Zetas Amy Mueller and Beth Fischer-Wolford are ready for the run!
Stephanie Beers (Z 1158), Stephanie Schiebel (Z 1164), Kelly Yanochko (Z 1165), and Lindsay Lechance (Z 1168) joined in the celebration and received a standing ovation. “It is so impressive that those four women were able to turn the entire chapter around,” says Barb Grant Wetherhold, Z 995. “That is dedication.” Between the late night chats and stories, the chapter sponsored a 5K walk/run to raise funds for the Zeta Chapter Dennis Strouse Memorial Scholarship through Alpha Sigma Tau’s National Foundation. The Zeta chapter also silent auctioned off pledge class paddles and scrap books as it became difficult to keep up with 90 years of memoirs. Also on display were family trees, some dating back to the 25th grandlittle.
Our Strength, Our Foundation: The Gift That Keeps On Giving The Alpha Sigma Tau National Foundation is vital to Alpha Sigma Tau Sorority. It has a 27-year record of responsible management of bequests, legacies and memorial gifts to perpetuate the goals and dreams of this Sorority. The Foundation continues to be the steward of your generous contributions.
www.alphasigmataufoundation.org each January. The Alpha Sigma Tau National Foundation does take donations in honor of a sister’s birthday or special accomplishment, in honor of your chapter advisors, your chapter’s founding anniversary, from individuals – members and non-members, collegiate chapters, alum-
In the past year, 2010 – 2011, the Foundation funded
nae chapters, parents and families, a boyfriend, a
$30,400 in scholarships to collegiate and alumnae women. The largest scholarship awarded is now the
graduating senior class, your friends , and of course, you!
O’Dell Scholarship which will pay out approximately $3,325 next year. There are over 61 grants and scholarships that are available not only to collegians, but to alumnae as well. Scholarship information is published at Foundation’s website
Please visit our webpage at www.alphasigmataufoundation.org for information on ways you can give. Also, join the 1000 other sisters who are friends of Alpha Sigma Tau National Foundation on Facebook!
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“Snap-Shot” of Sisterhood
Alpha Sigma Tau N a t i o n a l H e a d q u a rt e rs 3334 Founders Road Indianapolis, IN 46268 Toll Free: 1.877.505.1899 Local: 317.613.7575 E-mail: headquarters@alphasigmatau.org Moved? Name Change? New E-Mail? Please contact HQ to update your information . Looking for an Alumnae Association near you? Want to volunteer? Contact HQs Alumnae and Volunteer Services Coordinator, Allison Bressler, Alpha Tau, abressler@alphasigmatau.org Where to Pay Your Alumnae Dues: www.alphasigmatau.org/alumnae/pay-your-alumnae-dues
THE CREST Staff Editor Vanessa Florence, Zeta vflorence@alphasigmatau.org Staff Writers Joanna Barrett, Epsilon Epsilon
Top Left: Sisters of the Zeta chapter support two of their own who instead of studying, will be deployed with the US Army reserve; Bottom Left: (L-R) Yolanda Bauer, Sailynn Doyle, Cindey Thibault, and Joanna Barret, members of the Boston Alumnae Chapter show off their stylish shoes straight from the bowling alley; Right: Margaret Pollock Small, Alpha, has her final resting place in the mountains of Baja, Arizona.
Kirsten Heck, Gamma Pi Carole Bicking Keily, Alpha Xi Lauren Welch, Delta Psi Steph Sanders, Beta Theta Contributors Christina Covington, National President Jamie Jones Miller, Director of Alumnae Allison Bressler, Alpha Tau Stacey Daniel Fragile, Gamma Mu Nicole Gelinas, Gamma Delta Chelsea Price, Alpha Lambda Stephanie Beers, Zeta Andrea Dougherty, Zeta Jessica Treener Epsilon Lambda Erica Greene, Sigma THE CREST reserves the right to accept/deny submissions and edit for space and clarity.
From the Desk of the Editor: Was/Am a Sister? Confession: I did not pay my alumnae obligations until at least 6 years after I graduated. I had many reason, some more legitimate than others.
month now so you can be on track for next year. Perhaps you could even save a bit more each month and pay this years and have money ready for next year too!
It was so much easier paying my collegiate dues than alumnae ones since I Alpha Sigma Tau needs your support. had less responsibilities to attend to. There is more to being a sister than just saying you are one (notice I didn’t Economically, times are tough. I’ve use the past tense there). been there, especially as a young alumna. Taus Forever! If you cannot pay your obligations right now, consider saving up $3.33 a
~Vanessa Florence Editor of THE CREST